Pearl - Myron Gaines and Steven Crowder Debate The Redpill

00:00:00.000 the church that's what i'm like how can this be right if the church is always trying to cuck men

00:00:05.920 what up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we are reacting to steven crowder and myron

00:00:10.960 debating monogamy so steven crowder was a big proponent of waiting till marriage to the point

00:00:15.680 that he actually had an article written about him and his now ex-wife talking about the benefits of

00:00:20.240 waiting till marriage now the problem is when you get your reality from studies and not from real

00:00:25.600 life sometimes real life does not match what you see on social media what the church teaches you

00:00:30.400 and what reality actually is so myron or not myron crowder had a very rude awakening when his ex-wife

00:00:36.240 divorced him and called him an abuser one of his former co-workers candace owens actually pushed

00:00:42.480 the narrative and broke the story on her show even though she pretends she didn't now now myron um

00:00:49.280 and steven crowder are now debating monogamy now what happens a lot of the time is conservative

00:00:55.120 men tend to sell what they're doing as monogamy which maybe their virgins and their wives weren't 1.00

00:01:00.480 or um they had sex with someone before marriage and now for the period that they're with their

00:01:05.680 wife they're monogamous but monogamy really is one person for your entire life so when we look

00:01:11.200 at reality what's actually happening um i'm not monogamous neither are you guys because

00:01:16.240 most likely you are not you have not only been with one person for life um that's just not what

00:01:20.720 it is but a lot of times people like to virtue signal as if they are in a monogamous situation

00:01:26.240 when they tend to not be so um i don't know if they do it intentionally but we're going to watch

00:01:30.480 part two of the myron and stephen crowder debate you're muslim i'm going to talk to jay dyer here

00:01:35.200 in the next couple of days he's the halloween three of the yeah yeah but that's one of the

00:01:39.440 failures like putting kind of inverting everything you described about women just a second ago about

00:01:45.120 kind of the role and that partnership we're gonna when you cut it in we're gonna start it here yeah

00:01:51.520 yeah okay sure so okay so i've noticed what women like that they're just getting without you having 1.00

00:01:55.360 telling them anything nine out of ten times strong father or a strong brother or uncle or somebody

00:02:00.480 in their life like put these values in them like here's the problem when women are very feminine 1.00

00:02:04.800 there's a long line of men that want to be with them so a lot of times what happens is women um

00:02:11.520 that really do just get it they still get passed around because there's just such a line they're

00:02:16.240 like i want a girl that just gets it and then she just gets it with him and him and him like think

00:02:21.120 about it if a woman has access to a-level celebrities why would she stop at one why not 0.99

00:02:25.520 two or three why not bang a few until she finds her favorite yo you do not do this type of and

00:02:30.480 she was a woman of faith like she was looking for somebody to lead and that's why i was going to say

00:02:34.000 one of the failures of the protestant church yeah um she was looking for someone to lead no um if

00:02:40.080 she was over the age of 25 there's no excuses um again there was a point in my life where

00:02:44.880 i really thought that i wanted to be married and i think i did but um i did not put the time

00:02:51.040 towards learning what that would take to get to achieve that goal at the time um and it wasn't

00:02:57.760 until i started putting time into learning what i needed to know it that wasn't until things

00:03:03.040 changed for me and i ended up getting into a serious relationship um and it was just much

00:03:09.120 easier to get into serious relationships than it was before obviously i'm not married i'm not

00:03:13.200 trying to you know say holier than thou all i can say is um look there's not really an excuse as a

00:03:20.160 woman because the world makes it so easy for us to marry average men now it's a tough situation

00:03:26.400 because biologically we just do not want to do it and you can't help the what like you can't really

00:03:32.720 help the way we're wired and we're just kind of wired that way um so really as a woman you have

00:03:38.000 two choices you can compete for the men you want um or you can go find a guy that has no standards 1.00

00:03:45.760 and um he'll just give you commitment easily and so what tends to happen is when we're young

00:03:50.960 we try to compete usually badly because we don't pay attention and then we lose and then we just

00:03:55.520 settle with a simp generally um now he's gonna say she was a woman of faith but like did her actions

00:04:01.760 match that was she a virgin and did she get married before 25 usually the answer is no

00:04:06.480 and that's like a lot of women say they're women of faith but if you look at their actions like

00:04:10.640 candace owen she likes to grip catholicism but if i look at her actions she got married at like 30. 1.00

00:04:16.400 um ally beth stucky it's the same thing um you know they all delayed kids lauren chen

00:04:22.080 she did marry young but she um pushed off children and i'm not saying that's right or wrong but i'm

00:04:29.040 saying like that would indicate their actions are not like what they say they are you know

00:04:33.920 because we're women right i mean we just say things i don't i don't even think you guys should

00:04:37.520 trust me you know trust no women not even me there's been feminism yes like and i know you're

00:04:42.880 muslim i'm gonna talk to jay dyer here in the next couple of he's the halloween three of the yeah

00:04:46.960 yeah but that's one of the failures like putting kind of inverting everything you described about

00:04:52.480 women just a second ago uh about kind of the role and and that partnership is described in

00:04:57.760 the bible that's the biblical prescription for it but we've taken that and perverted it

00:05:01.680 it that's how he still says partnership that's feminism because that implies equality and 0.97

00:05:06.320 nobody's happy because of it well women aren't happy and men are not happy no that's not true

00:05:10.720 um we got to extrapolate that a little bit further women are not happy no matter what so like we got 0.89

00:05:17.520 to stop selling happiness you're in charge of your own happiness marriage is not gonna make you happy

00:05:22.560 kids are not gonna make you happy you are responsible for making yourself a happy person

00:05:27.440 um and i think that's kind of one of the lies that like media likes to do because they want

00:05:32.080 to say their ideology is going to give you happiness and it's just not true or their life

00:05:36.720 choices are going to give you happiness but um i mean i think crowder i would say the worst 0.97

00:05:42.480 um the most miserable he's probably ever been in his life was married to that witch of a woman 1.00

00:05:47.520 and he thought he was going to get happiness right i would not go into marriage for happiness 0.99

00:05:52.560 um yeah get it and pervert it that goes no in humor yes in the protestant church it's women 0.66

00:05:57.680 who and that is a failure of leadership sorry and the other thing women are happier in their 20s 0.59

00:06:02.080 because like i i know again men keep framing marriage as something women want we only want

00:06:07.760 to get married when we have to so and it makes perfect sense if you really think about the

00:06:12.800 customer um the customer doesn't like being told what to do the customer doesn't want to give up

00:06:17.680 free in general people don't want to give up freedom you don't want to give up traveling you

00:06:20.960 you don't want to give up going to different events like there's a lot of stuff that many

00:06:25.280 like men we like would require us to give up in order to be with them um so that's why we're in

00:06:30.960 situationships because it allows us to get sex attend and attention from the men we like but we 0.89

00:06:36.080 don't have to do the burden of performance um and the responsibility of a relationship so um the men

00:06:41.520 keep framing it as women want relationships and the women i think some women think they want really

00:06:47.200 like I'll say when I was young, I really thought I wanted to be in a relationship. Um, I really,

00:06:53.000 like, I really thought I did. Um, but if I looked at my actions, like I went to college,

00:06:58.440 you know, I played volleyball in college. I had, you know, it wasn't, I, it wasn't until recently

00:07:04.320 that I stopped playing really, um, competitive sports. Like I still play, but I do like rec

00:07:10.980 leagues that are easy to skip that even really had time for relationships. So it's like,

00:07:14.720 did i really want one if i didn't make those choices um you know i refuse to lose the 20

00:07:20.800 to 30 pounds i didn't make that a priority my youtube like and so it's like a lot of times

00:07:25.160 you might think you're one thing but it doesn't mean you are um and i think that's why that's

00:07:30.620 kind of why i try to break a lot of the the e-girls and stuff because like in a way i relate to them 0.99

00:07:37.260 because um like you might think you want something but that doesn't mean that you do

00:07:44.580 um and women say they want relationships and marriage as a way to virtue signal to betas for 1.00

00:07:51.400 men a lot of men didn't prioritize faith and so women are the ones who take the kids to sunday 0.99

00:07:55.200 school women are the ones who are often so the protestant church oh and okay so they want to 1.00

00:08:00.100 frame this and i don't know if they mean to but men don't go to church because it's not like a

00:08:06.000 lack of faith like if anything men have morals inside of them so they don't really need to go

00:08:11.040 to church just my opinion like some of the worst women i've ever met were in church like the worst 1.00

00:08:16.120 most evil women i've ever seen so i i don't really see church as making you a better person

00:08:22.740 um i forgot where i was going with that she's catered to them yeah oh yeah the church is

00:08:27.760 catered to them yeah he's gonna hate and very much we've read it's it's a real problem yeah

00:08:31.780 where you will hear pastors sit down and talk about what a man isn't and what a man needs to

00:08:35.920 be and if you ask well what is a wife he'll just tell you well i'll tell you what submission doesn't

00:08:40.180 mean, yeah, but what does it mean? I'll tell you what, it doesn't mean this, like, yeah, but can

00:08:44.380 you call half of this place to the mat? And they don't. Yeah. And that's, I'm really glad that you

00:08:49.680 said that. And that's just not a problem within the Protestant church. That's a problem in society 0.53

00:08:53.220 in general. All churches, a lot of, so what a lot of these influencers are going to do

00:08:57.500 is they're going to sell their churches special or different. But remember, a lot of people think

00:09:03.480 they're above statistics. Most of us will probably be statistics. Most of us will most likely be

00:09:08.000 single parents so i'm just being real here okay so i i hope it doesn't happen but

00:09:13.420 we don't know you know so if you ask them and i think that's why like andrew is getting a lot

00:09:20.460 of flack right now wilson is because they're selling their religion um as a solution and

00:09:26.500 it's really not because a lot of the women in the churches um including his wife as much as we like

00:09:31.580 she still made some of the same choices that um modern women and every other woman makes and i 0.99

00:09:38.940 would say the same thing for myself or like isabella moody all the e-girls you know um 0.78

00:09:44.540 so you're not really going to get a difference in quality going in or out of the church

00:09:49.100 so yeah you know whether in the confinements of religion or not like women's roles nowadays are 1.00

00:09:54.620 ambiguous they can behave like a man when they want they can behave like a lady when they want 0.66

00:09:57.900 and they're able to kind of what i call the perpetual the proverbial double dipping where

00:10:01.900 they could demand on one end you better pay for the day and treat me like a lady but on the other

00:10:05.340 hand they can say i'm a boss babe and i don't need to listen to you and this puts us in a very

00:10:08.460 weird position because now she wants me to adhere to all my duties but she's not adhering to hers 0.98

00:10:13.980 she could talk back to me but i'm responsible for anything if it goes wrong so i have basically all

00:10:18.140 this responsibility with no authority and my thing is whether you know it's the advice i dispense

00:10:23.260 with having those five things in place with the 50 bodies certain money being in shape etc or um

00:10:27.980 you know vetting a girl for six months to 12 six to 12 months my biggest thing is i just want men 0.79

00:10:32.780 to be in the position where they are the decider you want to be monogamous fantastic do it you

00:10:37.420 want to have multiple girlfriends fantastic and the thing is what the church does is it doesn't

00:10:41.980 put the man in the position of the decider it puts the woman and it honestly and i i might do

00:10:51.100 a thing on this but i i had a reaction to a debate a while ago about monogamy um and how polygamy is

00:10:59.900 like there's like christian polygamy or something and i hate to say it but christian polygamy just

00:11:05.740 sounds so much more um like it sounds like the natural order of the world way more than monogamy

00:11:15.660 okay because right now all of society this is the simps i put ruslan the pimps i put leo so all of

00:11:23.340 society is just catering to the women so men have no leverage anywhere but let's say leo um wanted 0.93

00:11:31.500 to bang this like 20 year old and he married her and like um this is all in the context of marriage

00:11:37.660 like no sex outside of marriage hypothetically if she's acting up he can just get this second 0.91

00:11:43.900 wife you know and i was thinking it would actually allow women to i know this sounds crazy and it

00:11:51.100 kind of would have sounded crazy to me five years ago but like i love my youtube channel and let's

00:11:57.260 say i had a second i'm not saying i'm going to do this but let's say i had a second wife

00:12:01.420 it would actually allow for the women like the men to pursue their mission and the women to also 0.96

00:12:07.260 pursue like what we want to do because a lot of women get married and like if they're a housewife 1.00

00:12:12.620 they kind of resent the husband for having to give up stuff but you'd have to give up way less

00:12:17.340 when you have like a third person helping with the like taking the kids to practice like take

00:12:23.340 you know because i kind of had in a way not polygamy but i had nannies growing up um obviously

00:12:29.580 my dad was not like with them or anything but um because i had nannies um because i had nannies

00:12:38.060 like we had extra help and I was thinking of like it would have been better honestly a second wife 0.99

00:12:46.980 than a nanny because then I at least wouldn't have had these rotating women like in and out 1.00

00:12:51.620 of my life anyways so I've kind of had the concept of nannies I know they would actually

00:12:56.200 be helpful if you because I'm one in ten anyways but like men being monogamous is naturally going 1.00

00:13:05.620 put the leverage on the woman's side because the woman has dating apps where she can get 1.00

00:13:11.380 easy matches with a million men she has all this stuff right men the only leverage they can really 1.00

00:13:18.900 have is non-monogamy and so that's why i kind of think the church cucks with men a bit because

00:13:26.020 they say you are not you are immoral if you use the only leverage you really have as a man which

00:13:31.140 is walking away so it says if you have sex you can't walk away and then it also says as a man um 0.99

00:13:40.420 you can't have a second wife or you can't divorce her like it just cucks you so hard 1.00

00:13:46.420 especially in this society so that's kind of why i'm like stuck on what i believe a little bit like 0.99

00:13:53.940 because i don't know christian guys are just so cucked and um they both will sell cucking 0.99

00:14:03.140 as even like listening to them talk about porn like i'm like now you're not even allowed to 1.00

00:14:08.260 jack off to another woman if your wife doesn't put out i'm like why are you guys so hell bent set 0.99

00:14:15.700 i'm cucking men like what what is and i just want you to know that you simps i'm not saying 0.99

00:14:22.660 that i would be a religious or a good woman or like super i am catholic but like 0.97

00:14:30.980 the simps kind of deter me because i'm like a lot of the stuff you say just and then they're

00:14:35.620 like well it's in the bible but like i just wish we could be like people have such an ego belief

00:14:41.620 in religion that we can never have an honest conversation about it because they say well

00:14:47.460 it's easy it's in the bible if you just read the bible you'd come to my conclusions and i'm like

00:14:51.460 i don't think so because a lot of people read the bible and have very different conclusions

00:14:56.580 reading the same book so you know and then they'll say well if you don't read the bible

00:15:03.780 you're immoral and i'm like well i don't know because that's a lot of time that you'd have to 0.70

00:15:09.780 take up to do that and there's guys like isn't that it's kind of like how dare you say that to

00:15:14.580 the men that are building the society that allows you to live you know like am i going to criticize

00:15:19.700 a guy working on an oil rig and say you know what you're going to hell like that doesn't make sense

00:15:24.140 but he works a lot to always going to hell on something that will benefit society you guys see

00:15:30.000 my like logic i don't know i just feel like when it comes to religion a lot of people have an ego

00:15:36.100 belief in their religion being right and are selling their religion and therefore we can't 0.99

00:15:40.620 have an honest conversation about it classic do it but you need to be the one dictating how things

00:15:45.560 go not the women that's really the only biggest that's why i do what i do is so that men understand

00:15:50.560 that they need to be the leaders and to be the leader you need to have these things in place and

00:15:53.840 also understand what you're dealing with on the other end because women of 2025 are no longer the 1.00

00:15:58.080 women of 1955 which you know guys make this egregious mistake and think that they are yeah 1.00

00:16:03.380 that's where we would differ for me the prescription is um yeah a woman and if she does provide those 1.00

00:16:09.200 things it is your duty as a man to honor her to respect her of course and be and i would put in

00:16:14.680 they're monogamous yeah um but Myron's like no but Crowder you're I just don't understand how

00:16:22.040 his life results has shown him that what he did didn't work you know um like I tried waiting

00:16:30.260 until marriage when I was younger it might have worked if I was hotter but

00:16:34.060 like we can't help who we're attracted to and men have to have sexual experience in order for us

00:16:41.980 to be attracted to them it just is what it is you know i will say as long as the guy's making that

00:16:46.940 decision and he's monogamous because he wants to be i'm cool with it i just don't want guys being

00:16:50.540 monogamous because their wife tells them oh you better be monogamous because xyz like i understand 1.00

00:16:55.180 your problem with it too yeah i understand because the truth is if a man if a man commits to monogamy

00:17:00.220 and again i fully support monogamy not like this bigamist over here yes like now he's going to

00:17:05.660 virtue signal i'm monogamous he's not like i mean i think he's kidding but like it's just it's really

00:17:11.420 tiring because you're not monogamous nobody's i'm not monogamy nobody's monogamous because

00:17:17.260 we've all had multiple partners and they all want a virtue signal and then they all end up doing the

00:17:23.420 same i'm half thinking that's how you know it's a cult if someone gets to bang everyone at the top

00:17:26.860 yeah but um that's a power grab i i will say it'd be like the brazilvinians man yeah yeah

00:17:33.100 we're here next to next to that there you go yeah too far away from waco like come on man i don't

00:17:36.700 don't think you'd want hypergamy with those people. But I will say, like, if you promise

00:17:41.100 monogamy, which I believe should be promised, the problem is you're promising something that is like

00:17:44.860 80% of the equation for a woman, if you're a man worth, you know, committing to. And we do have to

00:17:49.940 understand relationship dynamics, there is leverage at play sometimes. And you've given that all up

00:17:54.220 for one's like, if I know this man is a good man, and he is going to be monogamous, I can use it

00:17:58.220 against him. I'll summarize it this way. I have, despite what people try to say, you can even look

00:18:03.200 at court records never laid a hand on a woman never would but i've been with women who have

00:18:07.660 been with guys before me who hit them and i've said this where i've gone you know what you know

00:18:13.220 i'm not going to and the messed up thing is i know that's being used against me i know that you're

00:18:19.020 talking to me in a way that you wouldn't to your former puerto rican boyfriend or whoever it is

00:18:24.200 yep or jamal and you're just like and so what do you do like it doesn't matter how stern you are

00:18:28.560 it's like you can be walked all over and that is a problem that i think a lot of men just don't

00:18:33.020 know how to solve where they can be hit where they can be cheated on a woman can hit a man

00:18:37.420 cheat on him he's so close he's so close but yeah and that's why the only leverage men have 0.80

00:18:46.180 and the church that's what i'm like how can this be right if the church is always trying to cuck

00:18:51.360 men the only leverage men have is walking away and they take that away because they say no divorce

00:19:00.340 or um cheating and they say that's immoral getting a second wife they say that's immoral

00:19:06.760 so if him and take half and so they're checking out and so i do think that the protestant church

00:19:12.760 has come up short with a lot of uh with a lot of solutions and i certainly wouldn't go to islam 1.00

00:19:16.840 but we we smack our women i know a lot of you do we should not carry them yeah um so i i do 0.99

00:19:23.280 understand that i still think that that is what we should strive for and i don't think that going

00:19:26.460 on the path of of poly uh amorous relationships evolution but i get it and i remember going oh

00:19:31.260 the fact that i'm not because you in other words it's a promise i've made to myself

00:19:35.020 where i'm not the one you were if you were the one challenge you do get from non-monogamy and

00:19:39.020 i'm not even saying that um men shouldn't like like should cheat in relationships but

00:19:48.380 the challenge you get with monogamy is like women just do not really respect the men 1.00

00:19:54.140 when they do it unfortunately a guy you'd be going off the balcony and i know what's used against me

00:20:01.540 yeah and and and since we and i'm glad you said that since we can no longer use violence to curb 0.91

00:20:05.980 women shucks um we have to stop it we have to oh man damn it we have to use something else and 0.99

00:20:12.740 what i always say is the only leverage you have as a man is your ability to walk away 0.99

00:20:15.940 now am i saying guys right and that's you know run around and smash a bunch of girls or whatever 1.00

00:20:19.620 no but you being able to not be monogamous is what keeps women in line because i always said 1.00

00:20:24.740 when you have other women in line your girl will be in line and follow what she's supposed to do 1.00

00:20:28.660 because she knows that you can get up and leave because you keep your sexual market value high

00:20:31.940 you're you're you stay the way change your life because i agree with what you think maybe it might

00:20:35.220 help if you change language too as opposed to like getting what you want like i mean like there's no

00:20:41.060 honestly you can't control it and i think that's what a lot of players and like guys that have

00:20:45.940 really kind of been through the ringer kind of come to and you see men in their 30s and like 40s

00:20:51.780 trying to grapple with this especially 30s where again you can have implement strategies to be the

00:20:58.740 best man but it doesn't mean she can't find a better guy or a different guy that she wants

00:21:05.300 and it's just out of your control there all you can do is focus on yourself if you are going to

00:21:10.500 meet her expectations in other words like if she gets what she wants she has to meet expectations

00:21:14.260 because women think like you're treating me like a dog and i understand where you're coming from 1.00

00:21:16.980 but it's true it's like hey we both have expectations you got to meet yours you can't

00:21:21.160 hold me to a promise if you're not holding yourself to yours yeah no and the problem is

00:21:24.880 that guys don't hold the make sure they don't hold the woman to a standard which is the legal 0.80

00:21:28.640 system forbids it yeah precisely and and she has every incentive to actually break said contract 1.00

00:21:33.000 so yeah what i tell guys is like this is why you got it this is why i'm so big on you need to go

00:21:36.720 to the gym you need to make money you need to be successful you need to have all these things in

00:21:39.480 place where you're an attractive man and most importantly other men respect you and other women

00:21:43.720 want to be with you you walk into it enough about me i agree because that's subtly um showing like

00:21:48.920 let's say leonardo dicaprio marries one wife it doesn't matter because she knows that i mean he

00:21:56.600 could get hotter girls in this but she knows that he can replace her for three and that is like 1.00

00:22:04.120 dread and again christians will say oh you're immoral to try to make her think you're cheating

00:22:09.320 or think that you could cheat or would cheat a lot of guys just don't have that dog and women 1.00

00:22:13.880 are looking at you right and and and that helps because now your girl sees oh she's given a

00:22:18.600 constant reminder oh i'm with the best that i can get because i always look at women as like 0.99

00:22:21.640 they're kind of like uh well they're they're the buyers right so like if you if you get a car right

00:22:25.720 you get a really nice car right as the woman right i'd like to normally make the women the 1.00

00:22:28.840 car with the high mileage but we can go ahead and do it on the other side so if she feels like she

00:22:33.480 bought a car right and everywhere she goes this car is getting you know you know um people are

00:22:39.000 are enamored by asking questions like oh my god so how'd you get that blah blah blah that's event

00:22:42.940 that thing is rare whatever like she's and she's getting constantly getting attention and compliments 0.99

00:22:47.240 on it or like people are looking at it she knows that she got a good deal but if she's not constantly

00:22:51.660 being reminded that her guy is that guy she loses attraction a little bit and that's the thing that

00:22:56.760 kind of sucks with women which is another thing i need to tell guys is like because they don't 0.93

00:22:59.620 understand this women are attracted to status and women are attracted to men that already have other 0.99

00:23:03.260 women we don't need that because we're decision makers on our own and we're we have we're capable 1.00

00:23:07.880 of like independent thought like for example right let's say all of us were single you guys

00:23:11.160 weren't married if jerry's a hot girl and down the street and we and he's like oh man she's hot 1.00

00:23:15.560 and we said dude she looks weird what are you talking about he'd be like you guys i'm gonna go

00:23:18.800 talk to her anyway he doesn't need us to co-sign that girl for him to be attracted right women

00:23:22.840 aren't like that though they need to you know they might be attracted to you but what i like about

00:23:26.240 the red pill is for the most part it's not moral like i know we put you know stop being horrors or

00:23:33.600 you know i mean it's kind of the marketing but like women can't help the way we are we're 1.00

00:23:39.920 biologically programmed to be this way where men like they also can't like it just accepts the

00:23:48.000 sexes as they are instead of trying to change the world because the people that are selling you that 0.86

00:23:52.400 the world's going to be different they're just going to waste your life i'm telling you they

00:23:58.160 see other women attracted to you it goes even further so they need like the the community 0.78

00:24:02.960 to approve of you and but there's a bunch of biological reasons for that but oh it's a

00:24:06.080 competitive drive it's a competitive drive to them it's so guys need to be that dude where

00:24:10.400 and this is where the monogamy thing kicks in fine you want to be not gonna say that's fine

00:24:13.520 but she needs to know that you could leave her at any second and i think that's what keeps women in 0.81

00:24:17.520 line yeah i agree with that what do you okay but let me ask you this because this is and i know

00:24:24.000 people will be no matter how how we have this conversation people will criticize me and you

00:24:27.840 and vice versa uh because i'm totally i'm trying to be as fair as toxic misogynist but does does

00:24:33.840 love enter into the equation by that i mean let's say for example let's say your general patent 0.93

00:24:38.720 right and uh you're the you're the baddest mofo on the block person i can think of yep and then 0.98

00:24:43.200 you get hit by a car and you need some help are you saying that uh women would leave that guy 0.89

00:24:48.080 because he he doesn't he's not desired by other women at that point or is do we allow for hey

00:24:52.560 knowing that he was that guy and knowing who he is but sometimes he you actually okay

00:24:57.840 when you were like super awesome before you got hurt it is a time clock before the women 1.00

00:25:06.960 will leave you but how long she stays depends on how awesome you were before do you need to

00:25:11.020 be each other's support structure yeah no of course um i'll say that you know she's a good

00:25:14.680 girl she's going to stay by there by there for you but you know i think every woman is going to 1.00

00:25:17.960 have a time clock right like yeah he's right uh how long will she sit there as you're like you 0.93

00:25:24.020 know disabled not able to provide and have that security and i think this is like the you know

00:25:28.120 the more carnal and you know bad side of female nature where women are literally designed to like 1.00

00:25:33.300 find the strongest man and align with that so like if you can no longer provide that security that

00:25:37.600 you used to it's inevitable that she's going to lose a level of attraction for you at some point

00:25:41.260 so that's why i always tell guys like if you lose your job or anything else like that like don't

00:25:44.860 cry in front of your girl like figure out figure it out talk to your guy friends don't cry to your

00:25:48.580 girl because women are literally designed to be um you know repulsed by weakness by men because 1.00

00:25:54.240 that affects their security so like if they see you crying or this you get beat up by another dude

00:25:58.160 even though they might say oh no open up to me or i'm going to support you like some there's like

00:26:01.740 some visceral reaction in the back of her brain that's going to say oh this guy might not be able

00:26:05.100 to protect you you might you know need to change and i've had so many girls on my show we have

00:26:08.580 like 4 000 girls now at this point a lot of them say personally yeah on our show that's so crazy 0.93

00:26:13.220 i interviewed about a thousand he's kept doing the shows he's in about about four thousand i'd

00:26:18.720 actually guess it's probably a little higher than a thousand because i've done street interviews and

00:26:22.820 honestly i'm out all the time talking to people about this stuff asking kind of interview i don't

00:26:28.120 i had an old producer of mine tell me he's like you don't ever stop working like you're always

00:26:32.920 asking people these questions and i'm like i am i love what i do i just love it you know um i'll do

00:26:39.580 it till i die oh you're a different number yeah girls that we've got you like magic johnson yeah 1.00

00:26:44.740 well i didn't he's not banging i mean i'm just kidding magic johnson straight as an arrow great

00:26:49.160 movie theaters please continue uh his son not so straight uh but he has to like one of the things

00:26:54.540 i've always noticed is like when girls like you know lose attraction for their guys there's some

00:26:57.700 like this one pivotal point it's either he lost his job he cried in front of her he showed weakness

00:27:01.280 and then she just never looked at him the same and then the attractiveness just dropped off from

00:27:04.940 there so i'm not saying every girl is going to leave you when you're in that vulnerable position

00:27:08.280 but there's definitely a time clock that's starting.

00:27:10.880 So is there ever, because a lot of people say,

00:27:12.920 well, that seems cold and bleak.

00:27:14.440 And I hate to use the word transactional

00:27:15.940 because all relationships are transactional

00:27:17.280 to some degree.

00:27:18.260 But is there a scenario where appropriate,

00:27:20.820 assuming confines, assuming expectations have been met

00:27:23.000 where a man can be vulnerable

00:27:25.040 or should be to trust that woman?

00:27:26.820 Can she ever cross that threshold in your mind?

00:27:29.300 I think vulnerable, but in ways

00:27:30.800 that won't necessarily hurt you.

00:27:32.800 So like if you have a dog and she sees

00:27:35.280 how much you love your dog

00:27:36.960 and how you, you know, show so much affection to it

00:27:38.860 and she sees a soft side.

00:27:40.100 That's a good way, right?

00:27:41.080 We're being vulnerable because it shows like-

00:27:42.320 Iron's accurate and honest.

00:27:46.400 Crowder's having a hard time.

00:27:47.580 There's like stages of red pill and Crowder's that.

00:27:50.080 This is a really hard one to get over

00:27:51.900 because especially, and I grew up kind of religious-ish.

00:27:56.380 You just realize how much the mothers in the community

00:27:58.860 are using that religion to like weaponize it against men. 0.60

00:28:02.140 I mean, it's like once you,

00:28:04.380 and I see a lot of the Groypers,

00:28:05.600 like a lot of them are Catholic.

00:28:06.960 and i think they see catholics as like different but i'm just trying to be real i'm like i know

00:28:14.060 that catholic women do the same women are women um it's not really a deterrent to anything

00:28:21.580 with your children you know playing with them and showing that you can be a very loving father i

00:28:25.840 think this is good but like when it comes to like you as a guy like crying or showing any type of

00:28:30.140 weakness i don't know what i'm gonna do about these bills blah blah i think most women um would 1.00

00:28:34.160 prefer for you to just solve the problem silently on the side and she doesn't even know about it

00:28:37.520 then bring that problem to her and have her help you with it now am i saying that she'll leave you 0.97

00:28:41.700 of course not no she'll she'll be like yeah let's go at this together with us against the world

00:28:45.060 someone will embrace it and love it yeah but you don't know because every girl is different and

00:28:48.780 until they're uh until they're met with that problem you don't know how they're gonna respond

00:28:52.960 so i look at it like why why i roll the dice right we're talking about revolves earlier why

00:28:56.500 play russian roulette with your relationship right why if you don't have to because women 1.00

00:28:59.960 respond so strongly to security or are there or a lack of it i wouldn't even chance it yeah yeah

00:29:06.000 and i think and i think men respond and kind of to stability that's created by the woman in the

00:29:10.180 home that's a really big thing i mean either either you're out sowing your wild oats but

00:29:13.180 when a man settles down like he's only settling down because he wants stability in his house that

00:29:17.120 he doesn't get from the world and that's super important that's both sides of the equation and

00:29:20.540 for her to have the state to feel like the house is gonna be stable she needs to know that you're

00:29:23.540 stable too because you're the reason why she has the roof over her head so like i look at it like 0.89

00:29:27.820 when you have your problems, your masculine problems, you should always go to your guy 0.98

00:29:30.540 friends with it. Never to your girl or to your woman. Yeah. I agree. Um, and then you, and if 0.57

00:29:36.860 you go to your woman with problems, then like the women start actually believing that we can fix 1.00

00:29:42.320 them. Like imagine you're taking orders from, Oh my God. Okay guys. Um, thanks so much for

00:29:50.000 watching. I really appreciate you guys. Um, I love you. You know, if you want, I really think

00:29:55.160 going to get kicked off of this uh channel any day now because they did kick me off for two years

00:30:01.160 and if that happens i can't promise i'm coming back because i you know i gotta have a life so

00:30:07.000 anyways um make sure you subscribe to the channel bring that notification bell

00:30:11.640 i really appreciate you watching and i'll see you next time

Pearl - November 28, 2025

Myron Gaines and Steven Crowder Debate The Redpill

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