Pearl - Myron Gaines Vs. The Entire World

00:00:00.000 at 18 to 19 there's no like clock that puts any pressure on the woman to be good people

00:00:05.520 what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to myron gains cooking a college

00:00:11.360 feminist because of the results of feminism thanks okay throughout this whole night you've

00:00:16.080 kind of been saying a lot of things about modern women and how like i think you referenced something

00:00:20.720 how you were talking he might walk this back but all women are modern women to some degree i am

00:00:26.480 And women that say they're traditional are just really playing pretend and virtue signaling for simps.

00:00:33.600 You cannot be traditional in this environment because we have too much power.

00:00:38.340 Traditional implies hierarchy where the men are, the women are subordinate to the men.

00:00:45.180 And in this society, you just can't have that.

00:00:48.120 Social groups tend to be subordinate to women.

00:00:51.440 Institutions tend to be subordinate to women, even churches.

00:00:56.480 So whether voluntarily or involuntarily, all women and even all men in this society are feminists because we're all participating in the feminist system.

00:01:05.820 If someone and women now are changed from the way they were before, do you know why that is?

00:01:10.520 Why women are no longer the way that they used to be?

00:01:12.500 Yeah, like in what way have they changed and why have they changed?

00:01:15.820 Oh, OK. I mean, feminism is the main reason.

00:01:18.380 Why is there feminism? What thing are they having to go against that is causing them to want to make a change?

00:01:23.580 Well, what they try to rebel against is this, you know, patriarchy that they complain about.

00:01:27.140 But yeah, I mean, basically what we have now is women have, you know, bought into the feminism mantra of, you know, get a career, make money, put family on the back end.

00:01:35.160 Being a mom and a wife isn't really respected.

00:01:37.240 It's, you know, kind of actually, if anything, made fun of and shamed.

00:01:40.240 Well, I don't think it's not respected.

00:01:41.440 I just think women are going against the idea that they need to be givers.

00:01:44.500 I mean, do you think the only.

00:01:45.660 Well, I mean, what what feminism is doing is revealing what women really want.

00:01:49.720 And women, we always frame these conversations wrong because women say they want marriage, but we don't actually want marriage.

00:01:57.640 We only want marriage when we have every other choice is exhausted.

00:02:01.900 The role of a woman is to be a giver?

00:02:03.480 Yeah.

00:02:04.300 Okay.

00:02:04.940 And so let me ask you this.

00:02:06.540 Traditionally, but women are not giving people.

00:02:09.000 I mean, there's just no evidence that says we're giving.

00:02:11.800 Do you think human beings need to give and take?

00:02:13.920 It's the least you guys can do.

00:02:16.020 It's the least we can do, but we don't do.

00:02:17.980 These need to give and take in order to survive.

00:02:20.100 Absolutely.

00:02:20.840 Okay, so then you don't think women are human.

00:02:23.200 If a woman is supposed to be a giver, you're expecting...

00:02:25.560 Well, that's kind of a dumb...

00:02:26.700 I mean, that's basically implying you're not human if you're selfish.

00:02:31.820 Women to not give and take.

00:02:32.900 So you're thereby dehumanizing women with that statement.

00:02:35.800 Well, the problem is that women tend to take, take, take, take, take, and then almost never give.

00:02:39.120 Women, by definition, are value extractors.

00:02:41.460 Your entire mating process, your entire mating strategy is an extraction process.

00:02:45.200 Right, but for women, if they're...

00:02:47.140 yeah sorry what no because i said the female dating strategy the female mating strategy is

00:02:53.680 literally an extractionary one at that so women are literally designed to extract value from men

00:02:58.080 this is why you guys look for partners that are superior to in every way this is what hypergamy

00:03:01.660 is right but women are designed to extract value and when men aren't providing any value that's why

00:03:06.760 women are then changing that's why women are becoming modern in a sense and not giving men

00:03:11.580 exactly what they need because they have their own ambitions well that's fine you can go ahead and

00:03:15.680 have your own ambitions right but i can't because you say i'm my only role is to be a giver right

00:03:20.260 so i can't have ambitions no no women have ambitions and they're acting upon it but we

00:03:24.360 don't tell them the truth like what i think is because i get it that we live in an inflationary

00:03:28.580 world where things are expensive and everything else like that right but what we need to do is

00:03:32.000 be honest with women and tell them basically this if you're going to pursue having a career making

00:03:37.240 a lot of money and you know putting a family on the back end don't be surprised when your ideal

00:03:43.140 guy doesn't want you back in return because the things that women look for in a man are not

00:03:46.920 necessarily what men look for in a woman a woman wants security provisioning a career leadership

00:03:52.180 competency we don't care about any of that so when women are going to school and making money

00:03:56.620 and increasing their status i want to i want to give a caveat um it's pretty frustrating to live

00:04:01.400 with a dumb lazy woman not saying that men are attracted to work ethic but i think when men get

00:04:07.100 smart they do look for it to some degree because if you've ever had a lazy woman around it's the

00:04:12.020 most frustrating thing they just do nothing you're not really doing anything to make yourself

00:04:15.960 more appealable for a male partner right but you think women are going to school because

00:04:20.220 they're trying to become educated so that they can do these things and not have to put up with

00:04:25.220 only being givers the reason women are going to school is so that they now know that they can do

00:04:30.120 better than marry a man that only wants a woman to provide for him and when you talk about these

00:04:35.240 men not being able to find these women you have a ton of men coming up here saying that they can't

00:04:39.380 find a girl i think the roles are reversed based on this debate so you're kind of going back on

00:04:43.800 what you said about no the reason why the reason why women can't find a guy is because your guys

00:04:47.560 standards are too damn high right but i don't think women's are looking for guys so i actually

00:04:51.100 don't think women's um women do have high standards but we just say things right we say

00:04:56.000 we have high standards um i think women just keep taking l's with charming men if you look at the

00:05:00.620 men getting laid a lot it's really not these men uh that are making a ton of money it's these men

00:05:06.940 that are just times a thousand charming because the standards are high they are the problem is

00:05:12.160 that i'm personally not you're not looking for a guy no okay because right now i'm not looking

00:05:17.460 i'm following my obviously she's not looking i mean look the way she's dressed you know what i

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00:07:01.680 as you've said women have changed and there are modern women because we realize that we want to

00:07:07.100 be more than givers i want to be a giver and a taker because i am a human being the same way

00:07:12.100 that you are a human being yeah that's fine you can go ahead and you know be your giver or taker

00:07:15.540 or whatever you call it but that's what i call it what i'm saying is you're taking your prime years

00:07:20.060 and you're putting it towards prime years for me really quick a woman's prime years are between

00:07:24.580 18 to 24 25 no i don't need the ages i just mean what do you define as a prime year that's where

00:07:29.600 prime years when they can like fertilize is that when they're at their highest beauty and most

00:07:32.900 highest fertility yes that is a woman's prime okay so cool if women want to go ahead and pursue that

00:07:37.580 i think we just need to educate the worst thing is i spent 18 to 24 and 25 fat what a waste eat

00:07:43.860 them like i said before but they are educating themselves and you have a problem no they're not

00:07:47.440 that's precisely the problem is that they think that they can go ahead and pursue the yeah because

00:07:50.540 again we get all these awards but they don't really mean anything right so we think we're

00:07:54.560 smarter than we are it's all this stuff to boost our ego career make all this money get their status

00:07:58.740 up and then there's going to be prince charming waiting at the end and i'm telling them that

00:08:02.640 prince charming probably isn't going to be waiting there at the end and you're going to have to

00:08:05.260 settle for a guy that is at your level if not worse because you've pretty much priced yourself

00:08:09.960 outside of the sexual marketplace what do you define as prince charming a guy who respects a

00:08:13.440 woman and tease them as human or it makes me feel good i mean that's that's kind of what prince

00:08:17.960 charming is a guy who okay well what women typically are looking for is a guy that's over

00:08:22.420 six foot tall making six figures a year treats them nice loves dogs is handsome but at the same

00:08:26.840 time can tell them to shut up and that they're stupid and is an asshole like they are looking

00:08:30.780 for that sorry i interrupted you i didn't they're looking for all of that in one guy a lot of times

00:08:34.420 yes a guy that tells them to shut up that can tell them to shut up yes an asshole okay so women

00:08:40.760 are aroused by men that have the capability of standing up to them. And I think you're just

00:08:43.640 making blanket statements because I think women are attracted to men that don't view them only as

00:08:48.220 objects and view them as givers. My Prince Charming personally is a guy who respects that I am human

00:08:53.360 and respects that I have the same ambitions that any other guy or woman can have. You're generalizing

00:08:58.760 it and you're making women out to be the villain. I'm not making men out. I actually would make

00:09:02.340 I don't even think Myron makes women out to be the villain. I do. Yeah. Because I would say we're

00:09:08.240 kind of responsible for everything that goes wrong to be the villain i'm not here's the thing i find

00:09:13.220 it started with adam and eve interesting one woman say this like oh no i just want a guy that's like

00:09:16.920 gonna respect my blah blah blah you know if i take like you know what women say they're attracted to

00:09:22.060 and i look at the last 10 guys they it's gonna be completely opposite like what women say they're

00:09:26.160 attracted to versus what they're actually attracted to are two different things which is why again like

00:09:30.080 i don't listen to what women say because what you guys are aroused by literally is the complete

00:09:33.840 opposite of what you guys say publicly huh what is a man aroused by because you're we're pretty

00:09:39.120 honest about it about these women sleeping with guys nice ass doesn't talk too much right like

00:09:43.680 we're pretty simple about it but women will sit there and say i want a nice guy that's going to

00:09:46.720 treat me well but then you guys go bad boy that tells you right so that's not true because you're

00:09:51.520 just generalizing you're taking yeah so again she it probably fits with her usually when women

00:09:56.320 respond like this they banged a guy um that treated them pretty bad um and you can kind of

00:10:03.760 get around this and say so all the men that you have banged have been really kind sweet caring

00:10:09.600 people multiple types of women i don't agree why is the phrase nice guys finish last such a thing

00:10:15.600 like what are you why do a minority of the men on campus majority of the girls why do the athletes

00:10:19.760 and the frat boys majority of the girls even though they're assholes all you're doing is

00:10:23.280 generalizing and saying these the world works on generalities don't i have the world works

00:10:27.440 things okay the same way some men haven't said the things that you say so by generalizing each

00:10:32.080 gender to something that one person says it's actively making it so that nothing can be solved

00:10:37.280 i don't agree with some feminist standpoints i don't agree with some other standpoints of women

00:10:41.520 but i'm not generalizing what they're all saying in the same way that you are right now the world

00:10:45.280 operates on generalities and to dismiss that is low iq like the world operates on generalities

00:10:52.480 like that's just how it goes like we could go ahead and go into specific people or exceptions

00:10:56.640 to the rule or whatever but that's low iq the reality is is that women have certain things

00:11:01.040 that they look for in a man and a man has certain things that he looks for in a woman when a woman

00:11:04.680 builds up her career and earns money and status these are not things that men really care about

00:11:09.020 okay at all and i would argue the more money and status we acquire the less we care about a woman

00:11:14.380 getting that so like you know if you want to go ahead and like i'll give you an example why does

00:11:18.100 it have to be that you care about it though why can't you love a woman and then her like having

00:11:22.500 ambition why does it have to be that you like a woman because she has ambition or vice versa why

00:11:27.480 do they have to that's why can't they just coexist that statement precisely identifies the

00:11:32.060 problem women don't give about what men want thank you for proving my point what you said why should

00:11:37.960 it be that way let me rephrase what you just said back and woman needs to you men right have to

00:11:42.640 understand what women want to get attention from women and or have sexual access women on the other

00:11:47.660 hand don't have to know or understand men to get attention from men and i would take it a step

00:11:52.140 further not only do you guys not have to do it you guys don't want to do it because you know that

00:11:55.420 men are going to come to you no matter what so when women go ahead and pursue a career and make

00:11:59.100 money those other stuff it doesn't benefit it's um i think there's like a dalrock quote that says

00:12:03.900 um we're playing a game of like chicken and the egg with how much youth and beauty women can spend

00:12:09.180 on themselves instead of their future husband because it's basically like having a million

00:12:13.500 dollars and we could put it into a career and get ahead easier or we could get a better husband um

00:12:19.020 but the other challenge is we're in a gynocentric society um so at 18 a lot of times women don't

00:12:24.760 don't have access to the men um that they want to marry although that's going away a little bit

00:12:30.760 uh because social media it does but you guys like i don't care what you want i'm gonna do what i

00:12:36.460 want to do and then you need to accept me anyway that's the same logic as if i said well you know

00:12:40.200 what i'm just gonna be a hobo i'm gonna be fat i'm gonna be a loser i'm not gonna be charming

00:12:43.380 and they want me anyway that doesn't work so effectively like you guys make fun of incels

00:12:48.600 like oh you get no a lot of you guys are femcels you're not going to get into a relationship

00:12:51.940 because you guys don't do what's required or care about becoming attractive to a male partner you

00:12:57.800 said that's what i mean and i don't want to take their time but you said women are gonna not do

00:13:02.760 to get in a relationship but then you just said that women can do whatever or lack thereof and

00:13:08.700 men will come to them so i don't understand like yeah because somebody will do it there's always a

00:13:14.140 guy i mean maybe myron might not do it but somebody else will be completely contradicting yourself no

00:13:18.380 i'm not those two sentences no i'm not okay women right get a lot of sexual access by existing

00:13:26.220 right right however that's something you're saying i'm not yeah yeah no but yeah that's

00:13:30.620 no matter what no matter what you do whether you're you know fat annoying or rude or whatever

00:13:34.300 or you're a boss babe you're going to get a man right now here's the difference the problem is

00:13:39.280 that most women can't get a guy to lock them down why is that the reason why a lot of women can't

00:13:43.440 get a guy to lock there's always a guy that will lock women down but is it the ones we want i mean

00:13:48.300 it's the age-old question right i'm down is because most women simply don't care about what

00:13:52.480 men want so since they have this you haven't paid attention like it's actually absurd to me

00:13:56.600 how many wives that have been married for 20 years have not paid attention to how their

00:14:00.920 husband responds to the disrespect that they do mentality of take me as i come they don't feel

00:14:07.440 the incentive to improve and be a better girlfriend and or wife eventually and they think the guy

00:14:11.620 should accept them how they come aka their career mindset their attitude whatever it is so this is

00:14:16.960 why so many western women have a hard time with getting a guy because it's either a the guy's not

00:14:22.340 attractive enough for them right or b he is attractive enough for them but that guy doesn't

00:14:26.980 want to commit to her because he has options because he's put himself in a position where

00:14:30.480 other women want him so if you take a guy that's very attractive right and has options who do you

00:14:34.900 think is going to go for the 29 year old businesswoman that's a lawyer that has her own

00:14:38.780 practice or the 19 year old or the 20 year old that is hot submissive and not career yeah do

00:14:44.540 you know what they're still taking the 29 year olds and i'm saying this in the field um and it's

00:14:49.760 not because they don't want the 18 to 19 year olds but the 18 to 19 year olds aren't settling down

00:14:54.980 maybe you guys have a different experience it's just kind of what i've seen like i have a friend

00:14:58.840 who's a matchmaker um and they just can't get these 18 to 19 year olds to you know they'll take

00:15:05.780 them in the rotation and if the girl wants to be a wife she could certainly get it but the problem

00:15:11.000 is at 18 to 19 there's no like clock that puts any pressure on the woman to be good people

00:15:16.840 oriented who do you think he's going to take i don't know that's the problem the fact that you

00:15:20.800 don't know is precisely the issue why i do my show i don't know because every guy is different

00:15:25.120 and every person is different okay i don't know i don't this is going in circles no no but see no

00:15:29.240 no see how you don't know but if i line up any guy here and ask them hey what do you want they're

00:15:33.340 all going to know what women want but you don't know what men want and that's what i say you're

00:15:37.660 just completely generalizing men are simple okay that's all i was wondering is why do you think

00:15:43.880 women feel now that there's modern women and feel like they don't care about what men want and it's

00:15:49.800 because men have created that system that is the only thing that i the first question i asked it's

00:15:55.480 gone in circles thank you for talking i think what you're doing here is great thank you yeah no

00:16:01.080 worries i think that conversation revealed a lot guys look i told you guys before i'll say it again

00:16:05.260 like women don't get what we want it's actually more respectful than a lot of women on that show

00:16:09.840 okay so um there's myron cooking cooking this woman as usual and look all people are feminists

00:16:19.580 in this society because everybody's participating in the feminist system like you know if you're at

00:16:24.540 work you're probably making money either directly or indirectly and catering uh sorry off of women

00:16:30.220 and or um catering to women at work through human resources sometimes you might even have to enforce

00:16:35.500 laws that you think are unjust but everybody like has to you know everyone's got to do it so

00:16:41.020 the church that's what i'm like how can this be right if the church is always trying to cuck men

00:16:46.060 what up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we are reacting to stephen crowder and

00:16:51.780 myron debating monogamy so stephen crowder was a big proponent of waiting till marriage to the

00:16:56.560 point that he actually had an article written about him and his now ex-wife talking about the

00:17:01.000 benefits of waiting till marriage now the problem is when you get your reality from studies and not

00:17:06.300 from real life sometimes real life does not match what you see on social media what the church

00:17:10.560 teaches you and what reality actually is so myron or not myron crowder had a very rude awakening

00:17:16.480 when his ex-wife divorced him and called him an abuser one of his former co-workers candace owens

00:17:22.480 actually pushed the narrative and broke the story on her show even though she pretends she didn't

00:17:28.000 now now myron and stephen crowder are now debating monogamy now what happens a lot of the time is

00:17:35.440 conservative men tend to sell what they're doing as monogamy which maybe they're virgins and their

00:17:40.320 their wives weren't, or they had sex with someone before marriage. And now for the period that

00:17:46.360 they're with their wife, they're monogamous. But monogamy really is one person for your entire

00:17:51.080 life. So when we look at reality, what's actually happening, I'm not monogamous, neither are you

00:17:56.260 guys, because most likely you are not, you have not only been with one person for life. That's

00:18:01.340 just not what it is. But a lot of times people like to virtue signal as if they are in a monogamous

00:18:06.720 situation when they tend to not be so um i don't know if they do it intentionally but we're going

00:18:11.200 to watch part two of the myron and stephen crowder debate you're muslim i'm going to talk to jay dyer

00:18:16.080 here in the next couple of days he's the halloween three of the yeah yeah but that's one of the

00:18:20.480 failures like putting kind of inverting everything you described about women just a second ago uh

00:18:25.840 about kind of the role and and that partnership we're gonna when you cut it in we're gonna start

00:18:31.760 it here yeah okay sure so okay so i've noticed what women like that they're just getting without

00:18:36.160 you haven't told them anything nine out of ten times strong father or a strong brother or uncle

00:18:41.040 or somebody in their life like put these values in them like here's the problem when women are

00:18:45.040 very feminine there's a long line of men that want to be with them so a lot of times what happens is

00:18:51.280 women um that really do just get it they still get passed around because there's just such a line

00:18:57.120 they're like i want a girl that just gets it and then she just gets it with him and him and him

00:19:01.760 like think about it if a woman has access to a level celebrities why would she stop at one

00:19:06.240 why not two or three why not bang a few till she finds her favorite yo you do not do this type of

00:19:11.520 she was a woman of faith like she was looking for somebody to lead and that's why i was going to say

00:19:15.120 one of the failures of the protestant church yeah um she was looking for someone to lead no um if

00:19:21.120 she was over the age of 25 there's no excuses um again there was a point in my life where i really

00:19:26.480 thought that i wanted to be married and i think i did but um i did not put the time towards learning

00:19:33.760 what that would take to get to achieve that goal at the time um and it wasn't until i started

00:19:39.600 putting time into learning what i needed to know it that wasn't until things changed for me i ended

00:19:45.040 up getting into a serious relationship um and it was just much easier to get into serious

00:19:51.600 relationships than it was before obviously i'm not married i'm not trying to you know

00:19:55.040 say holier than thou all i can say is um look there's not really an excuse as a woman because

00:20:02.000 the world makes it so easy for us to marry average men now it's a tough situation because

00:20:07.760 biologically we just do not want to do it and you can't help the what like you can't really help the

00:20:14.080 way we're wired and we're just kind of wired that way um so really as a woman you have two choices

00:20:19.760 you can compete for the men you want um or you can go find a guy that has no standards

00:20:26.800 and um he'll just give you commitment easily and so what tends to happen is when we're young

00:20:32.000 we try to compete usually badly because we don't pay attention and then we lose and then we just

00:20:36.560 settle with a simp generally um now he's going to say she was a woman of faith but like did her

00:20:41.840 actions match match that was she a virgin and did she get married before 25 usually the answer is

00:20:46.880 now and that's like a lot of women say they're women of faith but if you look at their actions

00:20:51.520 like candace owen she likes to grow catholicism but if i look at her actions she got married at

00:20:55.920 like 30. um ali beth stucky it's the same thing um you know they all delayed kids lauren chen

00:21:02.880 um she did marry young but she um pushed off children and i'm not saying that's right or

00:21:09.440 wrong but i'm saying like that would indicate their actions are not like what they say they

00:21:14.160 are you know because we're women right i mean we just say things i don't i don't even think you

00:21:18.240 guys should trust me you know trust no women not even me there's been feminism yes like and i know

00:21:23.600 you're you're muslim i'm going to talk to jay dyer here in the next couple of he's the halloween

00:21:27.040 three of the yeah yeah but that's one of the failures like putting kind of inverting everything

00:21:32.160 you described about women just a second ago uh about kind of the role and and that partnership

00:21:37.920 is described in the bible that's the biblical prescription for it but we've taken that and

00:21:42.240 perverted it that's why we still says partnership that's feminism because that implies equality and

00:21:47.360 nobody's happy because of it well women aren't happy and men are not happy no that's not true

00:21:51.760 um we got to extrapolate that a little bit further women are not happy no matter what so like we got

00:21:58.560 to stop selling happiness you're in charge of your own happiness marriage is not gonna make you happy

00:22:03.600 kids are not gonna make you happy you are responsible for making yourself a happy person

00:22:08.480 um and i think that's kind of one of the lies that like media likes to do because they want

00:22:13.200 to say their ideology is going to give you happiness and it's just not true or their life

00:22:17.760 choices are going to give you happiness but um i mean i think crowder i would say the worst

00:22:23.520 um the most miserable he's probably ever been in his life was married to that witch of a woman

00:22:28.560 and he thought he was going to get happiness right i would not go into marriage for happiness

00:22:33.600 um yeah get it and pervert it that goes no yeah in the protestant church it's women who and then

00:22:39.440 that is a failure of leadership sorry and the other thing women are happier in their 20s because

00:22:43.680 like i i know again men keep framing uh marriage is something women want we only want to get

00:22:49.040 married when we have to so and it makes perfect sense if you really think about the customer um

00:22:54.640 the customer doesn't like being told what to do the customer doesn't want to give up free in general

00:22:59.440 people don't want to give up freedom you don't want to give up traveling you don't want to give

00:23:02.480 up going to different events like there's a lot of stuff that many like men we like would require

00:23:08.240 us to give up in order to be with them um so that's why we're in situationships because it

00:23:13.280 allows us to get sex attend and attention from the men we like but we don't have to do the burden of

00:23:18.160 performance um and the responsibility of a relationship so um the men keep framing it as

00:23:23.600 women want relationships and the women i think some women think they want really like i'll say

00:23:29.200 when i was young i really thought i wanted to be in a relationship um i really like i really thought

00:23:34.880 i did um but if i looked at my actions like i went to college you know i played volleyball in college

00:23:41.680 i had you know it wasn't i it wasn't until recently that i stopped playing really um competitive

00:23:48.720 sports like i still play but i do like rec leagues that are easy to skip that even really had time for

00:23:54.320 relationship so it's like did i really want one if i didn't make those choices um you know i refuse

00:24:00.720 to lose the 20 to 30 pounds i didn't make that a priority my youtube like and so it's like a lot

00:24:05.840 of times you might think you're one thing but it doesn't mean you are um and i think that's why

00:24:11.360 that's kind of why i try to break a lot of the the e-girls and stuff because like in a way i relate

00:24:17.840 to them because um like you might think you want something but that doesn't mean that you do

00:24:26.160 um and women say they want relationships and marriage as a way to virtue signal to betas

00:24:32.240 for men a lot of men didn't prioritize faith and so women are the ones who take the kids to sunday

00:24:36.160 school women are the ones who are often so the protestant church oh and okay so they want to

00:24:41.040 frame this and i don't know if they mean to but men don't go to church because it's not like a

00:24:46.960 lack of faith like if anything men have morals inside of them so they don't really need to go

00:24:52.000 to church just my opinion like some of the worst women i've ever met were in church like the worst

00:24:57.200 most evil women i've ever seen so i i don't really see church as making you a better person

00:25:04.320 um i forgot where i was going with that which is catered to them yeah oh yeah the church is

00:25:08.720 catered to them yeah he's gonna hate very much we've read it's it's a real problem yeah where

00:25:12.960 you will hear pastors sit down and talk about what a man isn't and what a man needs to be and

00:25:17.360 if you ask well what is a wife he'll just tell you well i'll tell you what submission doesn't mean

00:25:22.000 yeah but what does it mean i'll tell you what it doesn't mean uh this like yeah but can you call

00:25:26.160 half of this place to the mat and they don't yeah and and that's i'm really glad that you said that

00:25:31.200 and that's just not a problem within the protestant church that's a problem in society in

00:25:34.400 general all churches a lot of so what a lot of these influencers are going to do

00:25:39.120 is they're going to sell their churches special or different but remember a lot of people think

00:25:44.400 they're above statistics most of us will probably be statistics most of us will most likely be

00:25:48.960 single parents so i'm just being real here okay so i i hope it doesn't happen but

00:25:56.160 we don't know you know so if you ask them and i think that's why like andrew is getting a lot

00:26:01.440 of flack right now wilson is because they're selling their religion um as a solution and

00:26:07.440 And it's really not because a lot of the women in the churches, including his wife, as much as we like her, she still made some of the same choices that modern women and every other woman makes.

00:26:19.680 And I would say the same thing for myself or like Isabella Moody, all the e-girls, you know.

00:26:25.580 So you're not really going to get a difference in quality going in or out of the church.

00:26:30.460 So, you know, whether in a confinement of religion or not, like women's roles nowadays are ambiguous.

00:26:36.220 They can behave like a man when they want.

00:26:37.820 They can behave like a lady when they want.

00:26:39.100 And they're able to kind of what I call the perpetual, the proverbial double dipping where

00:26:42.780 they could demand on one end, you better pay for the day and treat me like a lady.

00:26:46.120 But on the other hand, they can say, I'm a boss, babe, and I don't need to listen to

00:26:48.380 you.

00:26:48.540 And this puts us in a very weird position because now she wants me to adhere to all my

00:26:53.260 duties, but she's not adhering to hers.

00:26:55.160 She could talk back to me, but I'm responsible for anything if it goes wrong.

00:26:58.240 So I have basically all this responsibility with no authority.

00:27:01.120 And my thing is whether, you know, it's the advice I dispense with having those five things

00:27:05.280 in place with the 50 bodies, certain money being in shape, et cetera, or, um, you know,

00:27:09.760 venting a girl for six months to 12, six to 12 months. My biggest thing is I just want men to

00:27:14.040 be in the position where they are the decider. You want to be monogamous? Fantastic. Do it.

00:27:18.460 You want to have multiple girlfriends? Fantastic. And the thing is what the church does is it

00:27:22.880 doesn't put the man in the position of the decider. It puts the woman and it honestly,

00:27:30.980 and I might do a thing on this, but I, I had a reaction to a debate a while ago about monogamy

00:27:37.460 and how polygamy is like, there's like Christian polygamy or something.

00:27:44.020 And I hate to say it, but Christian polygamy just sounds so much more,

00:27:49.000 um, like it sounds like the natural order of the world way more than monogamy. Okay. Cause

00:27:57.420 right now, all of society, this is the simps. I put Ruslan, the pimps, I put Leo. So all of society

00:28:05.060 is just catering to the women. So men have no leverage anywhere, but let's say Leo, um, wanted

00:28:12.520 to bang this like 20 year old and he married her. And like, um, this is all in the context of

00:28:18.520 marriage, like no sex outside of marriage. Hypothetically, if she's acting up, he can just

00:28:23.900 get this second wife you know and i was thinking it would actually allow women to i know this

00:28:31.020 sounds crazy and it kind of would have sounded crazy to me five years ago but like i love my

00:28:37.500 youtube channel and let's say i had a second i'm not saying i'm going to do this but let's say i

00:28:40.760 had a second wife it would actually allow for the women like the men to pursue their mission

00:28:45.780 and the women to also pursue like what we want to do because a lot of women get married and like

00:28:52.560 if they're a housewife they kind of resent the husband for having to give up stuff but you'd

00:28:57.200 have to give up way less when you have like a third person helping with the like taking the

00:29:02.220 kids to practice like take you know because I kind of had in a way not polygamy but I had nannies

00:29:08.360 growing up um obviously my dad was not like with them or anything but um because I had nannies

00:29:15.740 um because I had nannies like we had extra help and I was thinking of like

00:29:24.160 it would have been better honestly a second wife than a nanny because then I at least wouldn't

00:29:30.640 have had these rotating women like in and out of my life anyways so I've kind of had the concept

00:29:35.540 of nannies I know they would actually be helpful if you because I'm one in ten anyways but like

00:29:42.280 men being monogamous is naturally going to put the leverage on the woman's side because

00:29:48.900 the woman has dating apps where she can get easy matches with a million men um she has all this

00:29:55.620 stuff right men the only leverage they can really have is non-monogamy and so that's why i kind of

00:30:03.800 think the church cucks with men a bit because they say you are not you are immoral if you use

00:30:09.920 the only leverage you really have as a man which is walking away so it says if you have sex you

00:30:15.200 can't walk away and then it also says as a man um you can't have a second wife or you can't divorce

00:30:24.560 or like it just cucks you so hard especially in this society so that's kind of why i'm like stuck

00:30:31.760 on what i believe a little bit like because i don't know christian guys are just so cucked

00:30:39.920 and um they both will sell cucking as even like listening to them talk about porn

00:30:46.820 like I'm like now you're not even allowed to jack off to another woman if your wife doesn't put out

00:30:52.340 I'm like why are you guys so hell bent set I'm cucking men like what what is and I just want

00:31:00.840 you to know that you simps I'm not saying that I would be a religious or a good woman or like super

00:31:06.560 i am catholic but like the simps kind of deter me because i'm like a lot of the stuff you say just

00:31:16.320 and then they're like well it's in the bible but like i just wish we could be like people have

00:31:21.360 such an ego belief in religion that we can never have an honest conversation about it because they

00:31:28.160 say well it's easy it's in the bible if you just read the bible you'd come to my conclusions and

00:31:31.840 And I'm like, I don't think so, because a lot of people read the Bible and have very different conclusions reading the same book.

00:31:38.880 So, you know, and then they'll say, well, if you don't read the Bible, you're immoral.

00:31:45.440 And I'm like, well, I don't know, because that's a lot of time that you'd have to take up to do that.

00:31:52.300 And there's guys like, isn't that it's kind of like, how dare you say that to the men that are building the society that allows you to live?

00:31:59.060 you know like am i going to criticize a guy working on an oil rig and say you know what

00:32:03.060 you're going to hell like that doesn't make sense but he works a lot so he's going to hell

00:32:08.420 on something that will benefit society do you guys see my like logic i don't know i just feel

00:32:14.180 like when it comes to religion a lot of people have an ego belief in their religion being right

00:32:18.900 and are selling their religion and therefore we can't have an honest conversation about it

00:32:23.300 to it, but you need to be the one dictating how things go, not the women. That's really the only

00:32:28.420 biggest, that's why I do what I do is so that men understand that they need to be the leaders and to

00:32:33.080 be the leader, you need to have these things in place and also understand what you're dealing

00:32:36.480 with on the other end, because women of 2025 are no longer the women of 1955, which, you know,

00:32:41.340 guys make this egregious mistake and think that they are. Yeah. That's where we would differ is

00:32:45.600 for me, the prescription is, um, yeah, a woman should, and if she does provide those things,

00:32:50.540 it is your duty as a man to honor her to respect her of course and be and i would put in there

00:32:55.900 monogamous yeah um but myron's like no but crowder you're i just don't understand how

00:33:03.080 his life results has shown him that what he did didn't work you know um like i tried waiting

00:33:11.320 until marriage when i was younger it might have worked if i was hotter but

00:33:15.120 like we can't help who we're attracted to and men have to have sexual experience in order for us

00:33:23.040 to be attracted to them it just is what it is you know i will say as long as the guy's making

00:33:27.860 that decision and he's monogamous because he wants to be i'm cool with it i just don't want

00:33:31.260 guys being monogamous because their wife tells them oh you better be monogamous because xyz like

00:33:35.680 i understand your problem with it too yeah i understand because the truth is if a man

00:33:39.220 if a man commits to monogamy and again i fully support monogamy not like this bigamist over

00:33:44.400 here yes like now he's gonna virtue signal i'm monogamous he's not like i mean i think he's

00:33:50.220 kidding but like it's just it's really tiring because you're not monogamous nobody's i'm not

00:33:56.220 nobody's monogamous because we've all had multiple partners and they all want a virtue signal and

00:34:03.320 then they all end up doing the same i'm half thank you that's how you know it's a cult if

00:34:06.680 someone gets to bang everyone at the top yeah but um it's a power grab i i will say be like

00:34:11.760 the Brains of Indians, man. We're here next to Dallas. We're not too far away from Waco. Like,

00:34:17.080 come on, man. I don't think you'd want hypergamy with those. But I will say, like, if you promise

00:34:22.160 monogamy, which I believe should be promised, the problem is you are promising something that is

00:34:25.760 like 80% of the equation for a woman, if you're a man worth committing to. And we do have to

00:34:31.000 understand relationship dynamics. There is leverage at play sometimes. And you've given that all up.

00:34:35.400 Or one's like, if I know this man is a good man and he is going to be monogamous, I can use it

00:34:39.280 against him. I'll summarize it this way. I have, despite what people try to say, you can even look

00:34:44.260 at court records, never laid a hand on a woman, never would. But I've been with women who have

00:34:48.720 been with guys before me who hit them. And I've said this where I've gone, you know what? You

00:34:53.960 know, I'm not going to. And the messed up thing is I know that's being used against me. I know

00:34:59.780 that you're talking to me in a way that you wouldn't to your former Puerto Rican boyfriend

00:35:04.160 or whoever it is. Yep. Or Jamal. And you're just like, and so what do you do? Like, it doesn't

00:35:08.380 matter how stern you are it's like you can be walked all over and that is a problem that i think

00:35:12.860 a lot of men just don't know how to solve where they can be hit where they can be cheated on a

00:35:17.420 woman can hit a man cheat on him he's so close he's so close but yeah and that's why the only

00:35:26.140 leverage men have and the church that's what i'm like how can this be right if the church is always

00:35:31.820 trying to cuck men the only leverage men have is walking away and they take that away because they

00:35:40.540 say no divorce or um cheating and they say that's immoral getting a second wife they say that's

00:35:47.420 immoral so if him and take half and so they're checking out and so i do think that the protestant

00:35:53.580 church has come up short with a lot of uh with a lot of solutions i certainly wouldn't go to islam

00:35:58.060 but we we smack our women i know a lot of you do yeah um so i i do understand that i still

00:36:05.420 think that that is what we should strive for and i don't think that going down the path of of

00:36:08.620 poly uh amorous relationships revolution but i get it and i remember going ooh the fact that i'm not

00:36:13.340 because you in other words the promise i've made to myself where i'm not the one where if you were

00:36:17.740 the one challenge you do get from non-manage and i'm not even saying that um men shouldn't like

00:36:25.100 like should cheat in relationships but the the challenge you get with monogamy is like women

00:36:33.260 just do not really respect the men when they do it unfortunately a guy you'd be going off the

00:36:40.300 balcony and i know it's used against me yeah and and and since we and i'm glad you said that since

00:36:45.580 we can no longer use violence to curb women shucks um we have to stop it we have to oh man damn it

00:36:52.380 we have to use something else and what i always say is the only leverage you have as a man is

00:36:56.060 your ability to walk away now am i saying guys right and you know run around and smash a bunch

00:37:00.060 of girls or whatever no but you being able to not be monogamous is what keeps women in line because

00:37:05.260 i always said when you have other women in line your girl will be in line and follow what she's

00:37:09.260 supposed to do because she knows that you can get up and leave because you keep your sexual

00:37:12.300 market value high you're you're you stay the way change the line because i agree with what you think

00:37:15.900 maybe it might help if you change language too as opposed to like getting what you want like

00:37:18.860 i mean like there's no honestly you can't control it and i think that's what a lot of players and

00:37:26.060 like guys that have really kind of been through the ringer kind of come to and you see men in

00:37:30.940 their 30s and like 40s trying to grapple with this especially 30s where again you can have implement

00:37:38.540 strategies to be the best man but it doesn't mean she can't find a better guy or a different guy

00:37:45.340 that she wants and it's just out of your control there all you can do is focus on yourself if you

00:37:51.180 are going to meet her expectations in other words like if she gets what she wants she has to meet

00:37:54.860 expectations because women think like hey you're training me like a dog and i understand where

00:37:57.500 you're coming from but it's true it's like hey we both have expectations you've got to meet yours

00:38:01.820 you can't hold me to a promise if you're not holding yourself to yours yeah no and the problem

00:38:05.740 is that guys don't hold the make sure they don't hold the woman to a standard which is the legal

00:38:09.660 system forbids it yeah precisely and and she has every incentive to actually break said contract

00:38:14.060 So what I tell guys is like, this is why you got it.

00:38:16.640 This is why I'm so big on you.

00:38:17.520 You need to go to the gym.

00:38:18.220 You need to make money.

00:38:18.800 You need to be successful.

00:38:19.620 You need to have all these things in place where you're an attractive man.

00:38:22.300 And most importantly, other men respect you and other women want to be with you.

00:38:25.440 You walk into it enough about me.

00:38:26.700 I agree.

00:38:27.620 Cause that's subtly showing like, let's say Leonardo DiCaprio marries one wife.

00:38:34.340 It doesn't matter because she knows that, I mean, he could get hotter girls in this,

00:38:38.720 but she knows that he can replace her for three.

00:38:42.880 and that is like dread and again christians will say oh you're immoral to try to make her think

00:38:49.520 you're cheating or think that you could cheat or would cheat a lot of guys just don't have that

00:38:54.340 dog and women are looking at you right and and and that helps because now your girl sees oh she's

00:38:59.240 given a constant reminder oh i'm with the best that i can get because i always look at women

00:39:02.260 as like they're kind of like uh well they're they're the buyers right so like if you if you

00:39:06.140 get a car right you get a really nice car right as the woman right i'd like to normally make the

00:39:09.720 women the car with the high mileage but we can go ahead and do it on the other side so if she feels

00:39:14.320 like she bought a car right and everywhere she goes this car is getting you know you know um

00:39:19.580 people are enamored by it asking questions like oh my god so how'd you get that blah blah blah

00:39:23.260 that's event that thing is rare what blah like she's and she's getting constantly getting

00:39:27.580 attention and compliments on it or like people are looking at it she knows that she got a good deal

00:39:31.160 but if she's not constantly being reminded that her guy is that guy she loses attraction a little

00:39:36.460 bit. And that's the thing that's kind of sucks with women, which is another thing I need to

00:39:39.640 tell guys is like, cause they don't understand this. Women are attracted to status and women

00:39:42.960 are attracted to men that already have other women. We don't need that because we're decision

00:39:46.580 makers on our own. And we're, we have capable, we're capable of like independent thought. Like

00:39:50.020 for example, right. Let's say all of us were single. You guys weren't married. If Gerald

00:39:53.480 saw a hot girl and down the street and we, and he was like, Oh man, she's hot. And we said, dude,

00:39:57.640 she looks weird. What are you talking about? He'd be like, you guys, I'm going to go talk to her

00:40:00.180 anyway. He doesn't need us to co-sign that girl for him to be attracted to. Women aren't like

00:40:04.260 that though they need to you know they might be attractive but what i like about the red pill is

00:40:08.340 for the most part it's not moral like i know we put you know stop being whores or whatever you

00:40:15.020 know i mean it's kind of the marketing but like women can't help the way we are we're biologically

00:40:21.680 programmed to be this way where men like um they also can't like it just accepts the sexes as they

00:40:30.000 are instead of trying to change the world because the people that are selling you that the world's

00:40:34.040 going to be different they're just going to waste your life i'm telling you they see other women

00:40:39.860 attracted to you it goes even further so they need like the the community to approve of you

00:40:44.760 and there's a bunch of biological reasons for that but oh it's a competitive drive it's a

00:40:48.180 competitive drive for them it's so guys need to be that dude where and this is where the monogamy

00:40:52.600 thing kicks in fine you want to be monogamous that's fine but she needs to know that you could

00:40:56.200 leave her at any second and i think that's what keeps women in line yeah i agree with that

00:41:00.640 What do you? Okay. Let me ask you this. Cause this is, and I know people will be, no matter

00:41:05.900 how we have this conversation, people will criticize me and you and vice versa. Cause

00:41:10.260 I'm totally fine. I'm trying to be as fair as toxic misogynist, but does, does love enter

00:41:15.720 into the equation by that? I mean, let's say, for example, let's say you're general Patton,

00:41:19.760 right? And you're the, you're the baddest mofo on the block person I can think of.

00:41:23.320 Yep. And then you get hit by a car and you need some help. Are you saying that women

00:41:28.480 would leave that guy because he he doesn't he's not desired by other women at that point or is

00:41:32.080 do we allow for hey knowing that he was that guy and knowing who he is but sometimes he you actually

00:41:38.240 okay when you were like super awesome before you got hurt it is a time clock before the

00:41:47.680 women will leave you but how long she stays depends on how awesome you were before you

00:41:51.680 do need to be each other's support structure yeah no of course um i'll say that you know

00:41:55.200 you know, she's a good girl. She's going to stay by there, by there for you. But I, you know,

00:41:58.040 I think every woman is going to have a time clock, right? Like, yeah, he's right. Oh,

00:42:03.140 how long will she sit there as you're like, you know, disabled, not able to provide and have that

00:42:07.180 security. And I think this is like the, you know, the more carnal and, you know, bad side of female

00:42:12.180 nature where women are literally designed to like find the strongest man and align with that. So

00:42:16.720 like, if you can no longer provide that security that you used to, it's inevitable that she's

00:42:20.320 going to lose a level of attraction for you at some point. So that's why we tell guys, like,

00:42:23.540 if you lose your job or anything else like that,

00:42:25.520 like don't cry in front of your girl,

00:42:26.660 like figure it out,

00:42:28.100 talk to your guy friends,

00:42:28.980 don't cry to your girl

00:42:29.860 because women are literally designed to be,

00:42:32.580 you know,

00:42:33.520 repulsed by weakness by men

00:42:35.040 because that affects their security.

00:42:36.620 So like if they see you crying

00:42:37.600 or they see you get beat up by another dude,

00:42:39.480 even though they might say,

00:42:40.180 oh no, open up to me or I'm going to support you.

00:42:41.800 Like there's like some visceral reaction

00:42:43.660 in the back of her brain that's going to say,

00:42:45.200 oh, this guy might not be able to protect you.

00:42:46.700 You might, you know, need to change.

00:42:48.000 And I've had so many girls on my show.

00:42:49.440 We've got like 4,000 girls now at this point.

00:42:51.060 A lot of them say-

00:42:51.780 You personally?

00:42:52.280 yeah on our show that's so crazy i interviewed about a thousand he's kept doing the shows he's

00:42:57.400 in about about 4 000. i'd actually guess it's probably a little higher than a thousand because

00:43:01.960 i've done street interviews and honestly i'm out all the time talking to people about this stuff

00:43:07.640 asking kind of interview i don't i had an old producer of mine tell me he's like you don't

00:43:12.360 ever stop working like you're always asking people these questions and i'm like i am i

00:43:17.240 love what i do i just love it you know um i'll do it till i die oh you're a different number

00:43:23.320 yeah girls that we've seen you're like magic johnson yeah well i didn't i mean i'm just kidding

00:43:28.480 magic johnson straight as an arrow great movie theaters please continue uh his son not so straight

00:43:32.540 uh but he has to like one of the things i've always noticed is like when girls like you know

00:43:37.420 lose attraction for their guys there's some like this one pivotal point it's either he lost his

00:43:40.860 job he cried in front of her he showed weakness and then she just never looked at him the same

00:43:43.940 and then the attractiveness is dropped off from there.

00:43:46.520 So I'm not saying every girl is gonna leave you

00:43:48.280 when you're in that vulnerable position,

00:43:49.480 but there's definitely a time clock that's starting.

00:43:51.920 So is there ever,

00:43:53.240 because a lot of people say,

00:43:54.000 well, that seems cold and bleak,

00:43:55.480 and I hate to use the word transactional

00:43:57.000 because all relationships are transactional

00:43:58.340 to some degree.

00:43:58.820 Sure.

00:43:59.360 But is there a scenario where appropriate,

00:44:01.940 assuming confines,

00:44:02.960 assuming expectations have been met

00:44:04.060 where a man can be vulnerable

00:44:06.100 or should be to trust that woman?

00:44:07.900 Can she ever cross that threshold in your mind?

00:44:10.360 I think vulnerable,

00:44:11.420 but in ways that won't necessarily hurt you.

00:44:13.780 so like um if you have a dog and she shows that shows it sees how much you love your dog and how

00:44:18.180 you you know show so much affection to it and she sees a soft side that's a good way right

00:44:22.020 we're being vulnerable because it shows like iron's accurate and honest

00:44:26.740 your character is having a hard time there's like stages of red pill and crowder's that

00:44:31.140 this is a really hard one to get over because especially and i grew up kind of religious ish

00:44:37.540 you just realize how much the mothers in the community are using that religion to like

00:44:41.780 weaponize it against men i mean it's like once you and i see a lot of the gripers like a lot

00:44:46.980 of them are catholic and i think they see catholics as like different but i'm just trying to be real

00:44:54.260 i'm like i know that catholic women do the same women are women um it's not really a deterrent

00:45:01.860 to anything with your children you know playing with them and showing that you can be a very

00:45:06.100 loving father i think this is good but like when it comes to like you as a guy like crying or

00:45:10.500 showing any type of weakness i don't know what i'm gonna do about these bills blah blah i think

00:45:13.940 most women um would prefer for you to just solve the problem silently and decide and she doesn't

00:45:17.940 even know about it then bring that problem to her and have her help you with it now am i saying that

00:45:22.180 she'll leave you of course not no she'll she'll be like yeah let's go at this together with us

00:45:25.540 against the world someone will embrace it and love it yeah but you don't know because every

00:45:29.140 girl is different and until they're uh until they're met with that problem you don't know how

00:45:33.460 they're gonna respond so i look at it like why why i rolled the dice right we're talking about

00:45:36.420 revolves earlier why play russian roulette with your relationship right why if you don't have to

00:45:40.340 to because women respond so strongly to security or a lack of it, I wouldn't even chance it.

00:45:46.520 Yeah. Yeah. And I think men respond to stability that's created by the woman in the home. That's

00:45:51.800 a really big thing. I mean, either you're out sowing your wild oats, but when a man settles

00:45:54.960 down, he's only settling down because he wants stability in his house that he doesn't get from

00:45:58.600 the world. And that's super important. That's both sides of the equation.

00:46:01.580 And for her to feel like the house is going to be stable, she needs to know that you're stable too,

00:46:05.080 because you're the reason why she has the roof over her head. So I look at it like when you

00:46:09.060 your problems your masculine problems you should always go to your guy friends with it never to

00:46:12.660 your girl or to your woman yeah okay i agree um and then you and if you go to your woman with

00:46:19.220 problems then like the women start actually believing that we can fix them like imagine

00:46:25.860 you're taking orders from oh my god most men don't want to don't marry middle-aged women with children

00:46:31.700 who are struggling and that's the realistic you'd be surprised there's a lot of simps out there

00:46:34.980 okay so i'm gonna um react to this i mean that are traditional but you know i'd be very um

00:46:47.620 foolish to not admit that from the female perspective is also tough because feminism

00:46:51.700 hasn't just hurt women it's also hurt men because a lot of guys don't feel the need

00:46:55.300 to rise up to their duties and be a protector or provider a lot of guys nowadays want a 50 50

00:47:00.660 relationship with a woman so i would say step one is making well yeah because and i don't agree with

00:47:07.620 myron on this but i do see the thought process when it comes to 50 50 relationships so myron

00:47:17.700 i i believe from what i've seen he advocates for men to cover all the bills

00:47:21.940 now and i've heard men say that you don't get a certain level of respect from a woman unless you

00:47:27.620 cover like everything in the relationship um now the downside of this is again we had um this is

00:47:35.060 shaw on he explained how the child support system works men are on the hook for way more child

00:47:39.380 support if they have a stay-at-home wife and the other issue is in 2025 women aren't having kids

00:47:44.660 like that so most men have jobs they don't have businesses like myron what is this woman going to

00:47:50.500 to be doing all day um so my opinion's a little more nuanced but I do see where he's coming from

00:48:00.680 I understand I understand the perspective so I'm not I'm not one way or the other there's pros and

00:48:07.060 cons of both the way I think about it is if your wife's cheating on the job right you know at least

00:48:12.540 she's screwing a guy with a job and like she's probably you know screwing her boss and at least

00:48:19.300 she, um, how do I, how do I say this? At least she, like, how much time is she going to have

00:48:27.320 to cheat on you? She's working 40, 50 hours a week. If she's a housewife, she has all the time

00:48:33.000 in the world to just, you know, screw Tom, Dick and Harry. So that's the issue. Sure. That you

00:48:37.720 find a guy that like believes in traditional values. Like if you find some progressive guy

00:48:41.100 that wants to go half and half with you, that's going to be a miserable existence. Um, and then

00:48:44.820 also you mentioned that you're Christian, uh, finding someone that has those values as well

00:48:48.660 going to be super important um and uh you know i will say luckily there's more young men now that

00:48:56.020 are trying to you know adopt this so you know young men are starting to become more and more

00:48:59.140 conservative i think from the last 10 15 years of you know leftist that they've been dealing with

00:49:04.260 um but yeah it's still going to be tough man i mean i would say your church um through social

00:49:09.380 groups your family might know someone um but yeah i would say just definitely um be cautious and

00:49:15.940 and take your time. You're what, 21? No, I'm almost 24. 24? Yeah. Oh, okay. Then a little

00:49:20.700 bit of speed then. You don't want to get the 28, 30 and not have a guy. I want to be a young mom

00:49:26.640 for sure. Find a guy now for sure. I guess my question was more so like not dating wise.

00:49:32.560 You know, it's interesting. So the female strategy is to spend all of our youth on ourselves

00:49:37.980 and none on the husband, right? To use our youth for our benefit. And the male dating strategy is

00:49:45.600 get the young hot women to marry and date young so it's interesting because when men say that

00:49:50.720 they're basically saying to women adopt our mating strategy and you can there's a good case for it

00:49:56.160 right they're much better people so they're a lot nicer with obviously than we are um

00:50:03.440 but it's like interesting so i'm like yeah she's not gonna do that

00:50:07.840 and also the church good luck you're not gonna you're not no that's not gonna work i guess like

00:50:14.240 because i know my my end goal is that like i want to be home with the kids i want to be cooking i

00:50:19.360 want to be cleaning i want to be the homemaker but because i'm not there right now like what what

00:50:23.440 should i be doing okay okay i see what you mean not for finding a guy and rather what should you

00:50:27.200 do now preserve your value so so for for men right i always say men have to build their value women

00:50:32.560 have to preserve their value so when women turn 18 you get all the value in the world because now

00:50:37.520 i'm assuming assuming you're like a virgin or have a low body count or whatever like your job

00:50:41.600 from that point forward is to preserve yourself for the best guy yeah so for women just preserve

00:50:46.880 find the guy get married asap men create value women gotta yeah but okay the reason this advice

00:50:54.160 is just not helpful where is she gonna find the guy like that's that's the question what's the

00:50:59.120 best she can do where does she find and when does she sleep with him you know what i mean

00:51:04.480 um because if i'm i'm gonna be more realistic here like 24 you can maybe sell purity

00:51:11.600 um i would say go on a dating app download the app go on date sleep with the guys you're attracted

00:51:23.020 to until one commits um that's really the best unless he he might have a better game plan

00:51:28.460 but you know just preserve there's a lot of women sitting in their apartments doing nothing

00:51:33.580 but they don't get like i just i have the perspective of like time and see the women

00:51:41.220 that like don't do it proactively kind of end up by themselves perfect got it all right well

00:51:47.920 thanks just you're doing no problem so basically do what you're doing preserve your value don't

00:51:51.160 be a thought got it good thank you cool any single christian guys there there you go you got you got

00:51:57.880 someone here oh hey who knows you might meet somebody here uh who's up next

00:52:05.960 hey what's up man how are you uh thank you brother appreciate that thank you

00:52:12.040 hello hi how are you all right all right i'm here to debate on why women should not

00:52:18.440 be in the kitchen okay so after marriage i have a question went down on

00:52:27.880 All right. Are we back up on you? Okay. All right. Go ahead. So 50% of marriages in the

00:52:38.460 United States end up in divorce, correct? Roughly. Yeah. So 82% of men in marriages

00:52:44.340 ask for prenups. If you search up that statistic, it is true. What do you expect women whose only

00:52:50.700 capability is being in the kitchen and cleaning to do after that divorce with the prenup?

00:52:55.400 Well, okay. That's a dumb argument. I could think of, okay. Cause the thing is people don't know how

00:53:00.960 to cook and clean. So if you actually took your job as a stay at home wife, seriously, you could

00:53:05.340 be hired. You can either be hired as like a maid. Um, and some of them are running businesses like

00:53:10.980 for apartment complexes. They're not making bad money. Um, yeah. And they don't have any assets

00:53:17.660 or money given to them. Sure. Good question. Well, um, the family laws actually were written

00:53:22.740 with that taken into account. This is why men get destroyed and, uh, in divorces a lot of times

00:53:27.080 nowadays, because what's happened is the family court system was created specifically to protect

00:53:32.920 women from that very problem that you mentioned. She devotes her life to him, devotes her life to

00:53:36.920 the family, to the kids, et cetera. And they don't want it where he rug pulls her, leaves with

00:53:41.140 everything and she's destitute. So that's why alimony, child support, all of these things were

00:53:45.880 put into place to protect women from that. The problem though, is that. The other thing too,

00:53:51.080 my right like people aren't this is why you kind of gotta adapt with the times women aren't having

00:53:57.760 like there's no reason for women to stay home if they have less than like two children like okay

00:54:05.400 the first five years of the kid's life sure but just my point of view a lot of stay-at-home wives

00:54:14.560 just are women that don't want to work and they want a retirement plan um I don't see a lot of

00:54:20.580 women doing super extravagant cooking to the point like I don't know I like I've cooked for a family

00:54:27.820 of like four or five it doesn't take that much time like I don't know what I guess if you're

00:54:36.200 doing something super complicated but like you can make a nice rice dish chicken steak

00:54:42.660 like a pasta dish it'll take you what like half hour 40 minutes

00:54:48.760 anyways the laws haven't caught up to feminism and progressivism giving women you know equal

00:54:56.520 rights and equal ability to earn so i would say um number one is now i had a thought okay i'm

00:55:03.020 sorry i'm gonna let this play a little longer i do this sometimes i know i had a thought

00:55:06.780 in a way if women if the women work and the man's a stay-at-home dad i was thinking about this

00:55:15.740 aren't the women like more submissive in a way because they're giving the guy their page if they

00:55:23.880 do they don't usually it's like demasculating women but okay not probable that your husband's

00:55:29.240 gonna leave you it's actually you know there's a whole phrase it's cheaper to keep her it comes

00:55:32.760 from the concept that um it's cheaper for a guy to simply just stay married versus divorce his

00:55:37.580 wife most women have initiated divorce like 90 um so i would say there's safeguards in there to kind

00:55:43.420 of deal with the problem that you mentioned which i get it is a viable concern but the family court

00:55:47.560 deals with it so you believe that even though men may not leave their women because it's cheaper a

00:55:52.460 woman should stay in her marriage let's say he cheated let's say other issues because there are

00:55:57.140 other reasons for marriage other than the men specifically leaving the woman yeah um so your

00:56:02.880 question is do they cheat or what do you know i'm saying that for example a woman might have to leave

00:56:08.480 under her own circumstances not because the men believes that the marriage should end shouldn't

00:56:13.040 end because it's cheaper a woman might leave other in any other way yeah so when she's out in the

00:56:19.540 world she cannot get a job because she had not got a college education and her only experience

00:56:24.700 was working in a kitchen that is just not true okay you could get a job in a new kitchen you

00:56:31.260 could be a private chef like where is the problem solving skills because that is what some men like

00:56:38.960 you believe she should be doing yeah i mean well the thing is is that if she leaves that's her

00:56:43.400 personal decisions that she's got to deal with the consequences of that right like if she's going to

00:56:47.240 go ahead and break up her family and leave her husband um there's going to be negative consequences

00:56:51.960 to that right like you know i didn't see any complaints for the 10 years where she was with

00:56:55.440 him and she didn't have to work and she was able to kind of plus you got 10 years of raising kids

00:57:00.060 doing daycare my sister works at a daycare chill and you know live a certain lifestyle um

00:57:08.820 But then she wants to leave and be able to say, okay, well, I don't want to deal with negative consequences of breaking out my family.

00:57:13.680 And I think that's kind of the bad part is women prioritize their happiness in a relationship over their duty.

00:57:21.300 And they'll leave because they're not happy.

00:57:23.740 Do you believe happiness should be considered whether it's in domestic abuse situations?

00:57:29.380 Let's say your husband abuses his wife.

00:57:32.480 Do you believe the woman should stay there in that relationship, which could cause trauma to the child because of the family's happiness?

00:57:38.820 now obviously you're being specific with domestic violence though that does occur it's not the

00:57:44.500 majority of reasons right um it just comes down to women just not being well here's the thing

00:57:49.040 let's be very let's have a very honest conversation here a lot of these phrases are

00:57:53.700 bullshit oh verbal abuse oh emotional abuse it can literally be him saying yo you need to do xyz or

00:58:00.460 him critiquing her and she'll say that's verbal abuse the problem is that we've basically conflated

00:58:04.940 valid criticism or anything that needs to be said in relationship to keep it going as abuse and we

00:58:10.800 tend to defer to what women say and believe them on at face value for everything that they say

00:58:14.700 so what's ended up happening is women don't really take accountability in relationships anymore and

00:58:18.760 everything is verbal abuse or i'm being uh assaulted or um excuse me or verbal assault

00:58:24.680 i've heard like stupid shit like this he might say hey you know what i need you to do xyz should

00:58:29.360 look at that as this is abusive so not only has it been where we've created like this weird

00:58:34.380 environment where women want to go ahead and destroy relationships we've also created stupid

00:58:38.420 vernacular to um kind of try to criminalize or um pejoratively label constructive criticisms or

00:58:45.380 healthy conversations within relationships because in other words the man is always wrong the woman

00:58:51.040 is always right so i feel like you're kind of deflecting my point i'm talking about in a scenario

00:58:55.200 that there is domestic abuse and for sure in fact yeah she should leave if she's being assaulted she

00:58:59.700 should leave yes but that is not the majority okay but let's say there is a woman who in this

00:59:03.280 scenario if you do believe that she should stay in the kitchen this woman well if he's beating

00:59:08.080 her ass then no obviously yeah she goes into the real world with a child because obviously no woman

00:59:12.960 is going to leave her child with an abuser with no experience no job no degree no woman is going

00:59:18.980 this is why myron lost his hair and to get a transplant to survive in that world because

00:59:23.640 we live in an economy where things are extremely expensive where you do need a degree to survive

00:59:27.980 unless you're going to marry again well and most men don't want to don't marry middle-aged women

00:59:34.660 with children who are struggling and that's the realistic you'd be surprised there's a lot of simps

00:59:38.680 out there that's what i say too because i used to say i swear to god i used to say no guy will

00:59:49.500 ever take her and then life just kind of i was like oh yes they will you would be surprised

00:59:56.940 um you'd be surprised there's a lot of steps out there that would that would do that again um

01:00:04.460 i see the scenario the specific scenario you're mentioning yes if a guy's beating his wife's ass

01:00:09.380 yeah she should leave but that isn't the majority of the situations a lot of times it's the woman

01:00:14.220 feels like i could do better i'm bored or you know i just don't feel the spark anymore we grew

01:00:18.300 apart all these bullshit phrases that women use to justify breaking up with a guy because they're

01:00:21.840 not happy anymore and they leave so um it's not the dv like you're claiming that that could be a

01:00:27.640 part of it but that's a minority also men are more commonly in marriages to commit infertility

01:00:32.200 than women so to commit what and for

Pearl - January 09, 2026

Myron Gaines Vs. The Entire World

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