Pearl - December 18, 2025


Myron OBLITERATES A Dumb Feminist


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In this episode we are reacting to Myron Goggins' rant about modern women and how they have changed since the early 20th century. We discuss why modern women have changed and why they are becoming more modern than ever before.

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00:00:00.000 at 18 to 19 there's no like clock that puts any pressure on the woman to be good people what up 1.00
00:00:05.920 guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to myron gains cooking a college feminist
00:00:11.920 because of the results of feminism thanks okay throughout this whole night you've kind of been
00:00:16.480 saying a lot of things about modern women and how like i think you referenced something how
00:00:21.280 you're talking he might walk this back but all women are modern women to some degree i am 0.98
00:00:26.480 And women that say they're traditional are just really playing pretend and virtue signaling for simps. 1.00
00:00:33.580 You cannot be traditional in this environment because we have too much power.
00:00:38.300 Traditional implies hierarchy where the men are, the women are subordinate to the men. 1.00
00:00:45.600 And in this society, you just can't have that.
00:00:48.120 Social groups tend to be subordinate to women. 1.00
00:00:51.460 Institutions tend to be subordinate to women. 1.00
00:00:54.520 Even churches.
00:00:56.480 So whether voluntarily or involuntarily, all women and even all men in this society are feminists because we're all participating in the feminist system.
00:01:05.800 If someone and women now are changed from the way they were before, do you know why that is? 0.57
00:01:10.480 Why women are no longer the way that they used to be? 1.00
00:01:12.480 Yeah, like in what way have they changed and why have they changed?
00:01:15.780 Oh, OK. I mean, feminism is the main reason. 1.00
00:01:18.340 Why is there feminism? What thing are they having to go against that is causing them to want to make a change? 1.00
00:01:23.540 Well, what they try to rebel against is this, you know, patriarchy that they complain about.
00:01:27.100 But yeah, I mean, basically what we have now is women have, you know, bought into the feminism mantra of, you know, get a career, make money, put family on the back end. 1.00
00:01:35.100 Being a mom and a wife isn't really respected.
00:01:37.220 It's, you know, kind of actually, if anything, made fun of and shamed.
00:01:40.200 Well, I don't think it's not respected.
00:01:41.400 I just think women are going against the idea that they need to be givers. 1.00
00:01:44.460 I mean, do you think the only.
00:01:45.620 Well, I mean, what what feminism is doing is revealing what women really want. 1.00
00:01:49.680 and women we always frame these conversations wrong because women say they want marriage but 0.97
00:01:55.300 we don't actually want marriage um we only want marriage when we have every other choice is
00:02:01.100 exhausted role of a woman is to be a giver yeah okay and so let me ask you this uh traditionally 0.98
00:02:06.900 but women are not giving people i mean there's just no evidence that says we're giving do you 0.76
00:02:12.020 think human beings need to get at least you guys can do do you think human beings it's at least we
00:02:16.780 can do but we don't do these need to give and take in order to survive absolutely okay so then you
00:02:21.640 don't think women are human if a woman is supposed to be a giver you're expecting that's kind of a 1.00
00:02:26.140 dumb i mean that's basically implying you're not human if you're selfish women to not give and take 1.00
00:02:32.800 so you're thereby dehumanizing women with that statement well the problem is that women tend to 1.00
00:02:36.980 take take take take and then almost never give women by definition are value extractors your 0.84
00:02:41.540 entire mating process your entire mating strategy is an extraction process right but for women if 1.00
00:02:46.260 their yeah sorry what no because i said the female dating strategy the female mating strategy is 1.00
00:02:53.640 literally an extractionary one at that so women are literally designed to extract value from men 1.00
00:02:58.040 this is why you guys look for partners that are superior to in every way this is what hypergamy 0.87
00:03:01.620 is right but women are designed to extract value and when men aren't providing any value that's why 1.00
00:03:06.720 women are then changing that's why women are becoming modern in a sense and not giving men 1.00
00:03:11.560 exactly what they need because they have their own ambitions well that's fine you can go ahead and
00:03:15.640 have your own ambitions right i don't look but i can't because you say i'm my only role is to be
00:03:19.700 a giver right so i can't have ambitions no no women have ambitions and they're acting upon it 1.00
00:03:23.920 but we don't tell them the truth like what i think is because i get it that we live in an
00:03:28.000 inflationary world where things are expensive and everything else like that right but what we need
00:03:31.700 to do is be honest with women and tell them basically this if you're going to pursue having
00:03:36.040 a career making a lot of money and you know putting a family on the back end don't be surprised
00:03:41.100 when your ideal guy doesn't want you back in return
00:03:44.480 because the things that women look for in a man 1.00
00:03:46.500 are not necessarily what men look for in a woman.
00:03:48.640 A woman wants security, provisioning, 1.00
00:03:51.040 a career, leadership, competency.
00:03:53.220 We don't care about any of that.
00:03:54.380 So when women are going to school 1.00
00:03:55.560 and making money and increasing their status-
00:03:57.420 You know, I wanna give a caveat. 1.00
00:03:59.680 It's pretty frustrating to live with a dumb, lazy woman. 1.00
00:04:02.900 Not saying that men are attracted to work ethic, 1.00
00:04:05.700 but I think when men get smart,
00:04:07.600 they do look for it to some degree
00:04:09.540 because if you've ever had a lazy woman around it's the most frustrating thing they just do 1.00
00:04:13.520 nothing you're not really doing anything to make yourself more appealable for a male partner right
00:04:18.420 but you think women are going to school because they're trying to become educated so that they 1.00
00:04:23.060 can do these things and not have to put up with only being givers the reason women are going to 1.00
00:04:27.720 school is so that they now know that they can do better than marry a man that only wants a woman
00:04:32.500 to provide for him and when you talk about these men not being able to find these women you have
00:04:37.420 a ton of men coming up here saying that they can't find a girl I think the roles are reversed
00:04:41.660 based on this debate so you're kind of going back on what you said about no the reason why
00:04:45.720 the reason why women can't find a guy is because your guys standards are too damn high right but 1.00
00:04:48.920 I don't think women's are looking for guys so I actually don't think women's um women do have 1.00
00:04:53.440 high standards but we just say things right we say we have high standards um I think women just 1.00
00:04:58.120 keep taking L's with charming men if you look at the men getting laid a lot it's really not these
00:05:03.200 men uh that are making a ton of money it's these men that are just times a thousand charming ice
00:05:09.380 because the standards are high they are the problem is that i'm personally not you're not
00:05:13.760 looking for a guy no okay because right now i'm not looking i'm following my obviously she's not
00:05:19.180 looking i mean look the way she's dressed you know what i mean career i'm doing what i want to do
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00:07:00.280 the norms have changed as you've said women have changed and there are modern women because we 0.99
00:07:05.680 realize that we want to be more than givers i want to be a giver and a taker because i am a human
00:07:10.900 being the same way that you are a human being yeah that's fine you can go ahead and you know
00:07:14.620 be your giver or taker or whatever you call it but that's what i call it what i'm saying is you're
00:07:18.960 taking your prime years and you're putting it towards prime years for me really quick a woman's 1.00
00:07:23.940 prime years are between 18 to 24 25 no i don't need the ages i just mean what do you define as
00:07:28.560 a prime year that's where prime years when they can like fertilize is that when they're at their
00:07:32.060 highest beauty and most highest fertility yes that is a woman's prime okay so cool if women 1.00
00:07:36.400 want to go ahead and pursue that i think we just need to educate the worst thing is i spent 18 to
00:07:40.520 24 and 25 fat what a waste eat them like i said before but they are educating themselves and you
00:07:46.240 have a problem no they're not that's precisely the problem is that they think that they can go
00:07:49.360 ahead and pursue the yeah because again we get all these awards but they don't really mean anything
00:07:53.420 right so we think we're smarter than we are it's all this stuff to boost our ego career make all
00:07:57.860 this money get their status up and then there's going to be prince charming waiting at the end 0.99
00:08:01.360 and i'm telling them that prince charming probably isn't going to be waiting there at the end and
00:08:04.580 you're going to have to settle for a guy that is at your level if not worse because you've pretty
00:08:09.200 much priced yourself outside of the sexual marketplace what do you define as prince charming
00:08:12.460 a guy who respects a woman and sees them as human or it makes me feel good i mean that's that's kind
00:08:17.520 of what prince charming is a guy who okay well what women typically are looking for is a guy 1.00
00:08:21.980 that's over six foot tall making six figures a year treats them nice loves dogs is handsome but 1.00
00:08:26.500 at the same time can tell them to shut up and that they're stupid and is an asshole like they 1.00
00:08:30.260 are looking for that sorry i interrupted you i didn't they're looking for all of that in one 1.00
00:08:33.700 guy a lot of times yes a guy that tells them to shut up that can tell them to shut up yes an 0.99
00:08:38.240 asshole okay so women are aroused by men that have the capability of standing i think you're 0.99
00:08:43.440 just making blanket statements because i think women are attracted to men that don't view them 0.97
00:08:47.340 only as objects and view them as givers my prince charming personally is a guy who respects that i
00:08:52.860 am human and respects that i have the same ambitions that any other guy or woman can't
00:08:56.840 have you know it's kind of you're generalizing it and you're making women out to be the villain 0.99
00:09:00.300 i'm not making men i actually would make them i don't even think myron makes women out to be the
00:09:04.960 villain um i do yeah because i would say we're kind of responsible for everything that goes wrong
00:09:10.260 to be the villain i'm not here's the thing i find it started with adam and eve interesting
00:09:14.660 women say this like oh no i just want a guy that's like gonna respect my blah blah blah 1.00
00:09:18.360 you know if i take like you know what women say they're attracted to and i look at the last 10
00:09:22.940 guys they it's gonna be completely opposite like what women say they're attracted to versus what
00:09:27.100 they're actually attracted to are two different things which is why again like i don't listen
00:09:30.560 to what women say because what you guys are aroused by literally is the complete opposite 0.76
00:09:34.220 of what you guys say publicly huh what is a man aroused by because you're pretty honest about it 0.99
00:09:39.760 about these women sleeping with guys it's nice ass doesn't talk too much right like we're pretty 1.00
00:09:44.020 simple about it but women will sit there and say i want a nice guy that's going to treat me well 1.00
00:09:47.260 but then you guys go bad boy that tells you right so that's not true because you're just
00:09:51.720 generalizing you're taking yeah so again she it probably fits with her usually when women respond 0.94
00:09:56.700 like this they banged a guy um that treated them pretty bad um and you can kind of get around this
00:10:04.380 and say so all the men that you have banged have been really kind sweet caring people multiple
00:10:10.860 types of women i don't agree why is the phrase nice guys finish last such a thing like what are
00:10:16.300 you why do a minority of the men on campus majority of the girls why do the athletes and the frat boys 0.80
00:10:20.460 majority of their girls even though they're assholes all you're doing is generalizing and 1.00
00:10:24.140 saying these the world works on generalities some don't i haven't said those things okay the same 0.98
00:10:28.540 way some men haven't said the things that you say so by generalizing each gender to something that
00:10:33.180 one person says it's actively making it so that nothing can be solved i don't agree with some
00:10:38.220 feminist standpoints i don't agree with some other standpoints of women but i'm not generalizing what
00:10:43.020 they're all saying in the same way that you are right now the world operates on generalities and
00:10:46.540 to dismiss that is low iq like the world operates on generalities like that's just how it goes like
00:10:53.820 we could go ahead and go into specific people or exceptions to the rule or whatever but that's low
00:10:57.820 iq the reality is is that women have certain things that they look for in a man and a man 0.77
00:11:02.220 has certain things that he looks for in a woman when a woman builds up her career and earns money 0.99
00:11:06.220 and status these are not things that men really care about okay at all and i would argue the more
00:11:11.740 money and status we acquire the less we care about a woman getting that so like you know if you want 1.00
00:11:16.140 to go ahead and like i'll give you an example why does it have to be that you care about it though
00:11:19.740 why can't you love a woman and then her like having ambition why does it have to be that 0.80
00:11:24.300 you like a woman because she has ambition or vice versa why do they have to that's why can't they 1.00
00:11:29.260 just coexist that statement precisely identifies the problem women don't give about what men want 1.00
00:11:34.060 thank you for proving my point what you said why should it be that way let me rephrase what you
00:11:39.580 just said back and woman is to you men right have to understand what women want to get attention 0.58
00:11:44.860 from women and or have sexual access women on the other hand don't have to know or understand men 0.96
00:11:50.060 to get attention from men and i would take it a step further not only do you guys not have to do
00:11:53.580 it you guys don't want to do it because you know that men are going to come to you no matter what
00:11:56.860 so when women go ahead and pursue a career and make money those other stuff it doesn't benefit 1.00
00:12:01.020 it's um i think there's like a dalrock quote that says um we're playing a game of like chicken and
00:12:05.820 the egg with how much youth and beauty women can spend on themselves instead of their future husband
00:12:11.820 because it's basically like having a million dollars and we could put it into a career and
00:12:15.420 get ahead easier or we could get a better husband um but the other challenge is we're in a gynocentric
00:12:20.860 society um so at 18 a lot of times women don't don't have access to the men um that they want
00:12:28.380 to marry although that's going away a little bit uh because social media it does but you guys like
00:12:34.940 i don't care what you want i'm gonna do what i want to do and then you need to accept me anyway
00:12:38.060 that's the same logic as if i said well you know what i'm just gonna be a hobo i'm gonna be fat
00:12:41.900 i'm gonna be a loser i'm not gonna be charming and they want me anyway that doesn't work 0.73
00:12:46.300 so effectively like you guys make fun of incels like oh you get no a lot of you guys are fem
00:12:50.540 cells you're not gonna get into a relationship because you guys don't do what's required or
00:12:53.900 care about becoming attractive to a male partner you said that's what i mean and i don't want to
00:12:59.660 take their time but you said women are gonna not do to get in a relationship but then you just said 1.00
00:13:04.540 that women can do whatever or lack thereof and men will come to them so i don't understand like
00:13:11.340 Yeah, because somebody will do it.
00:13:13.600 There's always a guy, I mean, maybe Myron might not do it,
00:13:15.940 but somebody else will do it.
00:13:16.900 Completely contradicting yourself.
00:13:18.280 No, I'm not.
00:13:18.700 With those two sentences.
00:13:19.760 No, I'm not. 0.95
00:13:20.900 Okay, women, right, get a lot of sexual access by existing. 1.00
00:13:26.280 Right? 0.99
00:13:26.640 Right.
00:13:27.300 However.
00:13:27.840 That's something you're saying.
00:13:28.920 I'm not agreeing with that.
00:13:29.340 Yeah, no, but yeah, no matter what, no matter what you do, 0.94
00:13:31.960 whether you're, you know, fat and annoying or rude or whatever, 0.96
00:13:34.280 or you're a boss babe, you're going to get a man, right? 1.00
00:13:37.260 Now, here's the difference.
00:13:38.540 The problem is that most women can't get a guy to lock them down. 1.00
00:13:41.340 why is that the reason why a lot of women can't get a guy to lock there's always a guy that will 1.00
00:13:45.420 lock women down but is it the ones we want i mean it's the age-old question right i'm down is because 0.62
00:13:50.620 most women simply don't care about what men want so since they have this you haven't paid attention 1.00
00:13:55.020 like it's actually absurd to me how many wives that have been married for 20 years have not paid
00:13:59.900 attention to how their husband responds to the disrespect that they do mentality of take me as i 0.99
00:14:05.980 come they don't feel the incentive to improve and be a better girlfriend and or wife eventually 1.00
00:14:10.860 and they think the guy should accept them how they come aka their career mindset their attitude
00:14:15.420 whatever it is so this is why so many western women have a hard time with getting a guy because 1.00
00:14:20.620 it's either a the guy's not attractive enough for them right or b he is attractive enough for them
00:14:26.140 but that guy doesn't want to commit to her because he has options because he's put himself in a
00:14:29.900 position where other women want him so if you take a guy that's very attractive right and has options
00:14:34.460 who do you think he's going to go for the 29 year old business woman that's a lawyer that has her 1.00
00:14:38.540 their own practice or the 19 year old or the 20 year old that is hot submissive and not career
00:14:43.800 yeah do you know what they're still taking the 29 year olds and i'm saying this in the field
00:14:48.340 um and it's not because they don't want the 18 to 19 year olds but the 18 to 19 year olds aren't
00:14:54.140 settling down maybe you guys have a different experience it's just kind of what i've seen
00:14:58.160 like i have a friend who's a matchmaker um and they just can't get these 18 to 19 year olds to
00:15:03.600 you know they'll take him in the rotation and if the girl wants to be a wife she could certainly 1.00
00:15:09.920 get it but the problem is at 18 to 19 there's no like clock that puts any pressure on the woman to 1.00
00:15:15.780 be good people oriented who do you think he's going to take i don't know that's the problem
00:15:20.320 the fact that you don't know is precisely the issue why i do my show i don't know because every
00:15:24.440 guy is different and every person is different okay i don't know i don't this is going in circles
00:15:28.580 no no but see no no see how you don't know but if i line up any guy here and ask them hey what do
00:15:32.200 want they're all gonna know what women want but you don't know what men want and that's what i
00:15:37.000 say you're just completely generalizing men are simple okay that's all i was wondering is why do
00:15:43.400 you think women feel now that there's modern women and feel like they don't care about what men want 0.69
00:15:49.240 and it's because men have created that system that is the only thing that i the first question i asked
00:15:55.080 it's gone in circles thank you for talking i think what you're doing here is great thank you
00:15:59.480 yeah no worries i think that conversation revealed a lot guys look i told you guys before i'll say
00:16:04.840 it again like women don't get what we want it's actually more respectful than a lot of women on 0.99
00:16:09.240 that show okay so um there's myron cooking cooking this woman as usual and look all people are 0.82
00:16:18.920 feminists in this society because everybody's participating in the feminist system like you 1.00
00:16:23.480 know if you're at work you're probably making money either directly or indirectly and catering
00:16:28.680 sorry off of women and or um catering to women at work through human resources sometimes you
00:16:34.360 might even have to enforce laws that you think are unjust but everybody like has to you know
00:16:39.400 everyone's got to do it so anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments like the
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