Pearl - July 16, 2026


Never Take A Woman’s Treatment Personally

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Myron Abba
These 60 Year Old Hags Think They Deserve Love LOL Modern Women + Age = CONSEQUENCES

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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

168.65

Word count

1,840

Sentence count

23

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about the lessons I learned about people and life in my 20s. I learned that you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, but verify what they say and do. People are not as nice as the little sheltered like world that I grew up in.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 All right, what's up, guys? I fear living in Texas has gotten to me. Do you see this sunburn? This is not good. This is not good.
00:00:10.480 Okay, so I wanted to talk about a lesson that I had to learn about people and about life. And I'm glad I went through this in my 20s, because I see people going through this in their 30s. And I can't even imagine learning this like later in life.
00:00:25.260 so um i grew up in a very good-natured community um there were things um
00:00:34.140 that you received from giving people the benefit of the doubt a lot of times it worked out in your
00:00:38.620 favor um and unfortunately when i became an adult um i learned that the cold hard reality of the
00:00:45.980 world is that you cannot um you cannot just openly and blatantly give people the benefit of the doubt
00:00:52.700 you have to trust but verify and uh people are not as nice as the little sheltered like world
00:00:59.420 that i grew up in now i learned this in a few ways so i became a social media i don't know
00:01:03.880 commentator influencer um when i was about 22 or 23 i've always been conservative never voted
00:01:09.540 democrat but i really wasn't that political maybe um in the communities that i was in because i
00:01:16.880 never, you know, I played volleyball. I wanted to hang out with my friends and there wasn't a lot
00:01:24.320 of upside for me, like talking about this stuff at the time. So, and you know, I was kind of
00:01:29.740 relatively young, so I wasn't really sure what I believed, you know, I mean, okay, keep, keep it
00:01:35.060 on going. So, um, when I start reacting and, um, doing my show about red pill content and about,
00:01:42.660 you know just conservative content um it really caused some people in my life 0.80
00:01:48.440 to just be complete assholes um one I think of is this girl I was friends with for like 20 years 0.79
00:01:53.980 my best friend and she turns on me you know I did a I did a show one day on a topic she didn't like 0.98
00:02:00.140 and she just goes on to like spill secrets on the like spill secrets on the internet about me and
00:02:07.100 just you know you know decide that she didn't want to be my friend which whatever everyone's
00:02:12.880 got a right to do that but at the time I took it really personal um and a few years later
00:02:22.140 we ended up like um meeting right we ended up meeting and or not meeting sorry she ends up
00:02:30.160 reaching out to me and when she's texting me um you know she said something like she was willing
00:02:40.400 to come on the phone with me today or something like that and I just remember thinking like back 0.96
00:02:45.440 then I missed her so much and I wanted to talk to her so bad and now I'm like you're a crazy person 0.87
00:02:51.240 actually that had nothing to do with me uh what gives you like what why would you think I would 0.97
00:02:58.480 want to talk to you you know you're crazy so anyways then I go to London and in London 0.54
00:03:05.840 in London I end up um 0.91
00:03:09.760 I ended up hiring some people like one stole a camera from me and people that I felt like I gave
00:03:18.660 opportunities of like let's go put this in my other hand because my hand's getting tired um
00:03:23.640 people that I felt I gave like the opportunity of a lifetime to you know I was like how could
00:03:31.620 they do this and I kind of thought the same thing with my ex-best friend you know I'm like 0.99
00:03:37.120 I used to drive so much do you know you start to think of all the shit you did for them 0.77
00:03:41.240 and you're like I used to do x y and z and it's not like you really did it to expect things in 0.93
00:03:47.280 return but you're like I would at least expect you to not you know crash out and go online about
00:03:55.720 me or I would at least expect you to you know not steal a camera from me and the thing you have to
00:04:02.960 realize is that there's people in life that are just kind of like leeches and they go from person
00:04:10.280 to person to person to person and they're looking for people to like rob or take advantage of and 0.99
00:04:18.160 this has nothing to do with you and your mental health will struggle if you take the way women
00:04:24.560 treat you personally uh you know there was a guy that I really we worked together but in all honesty
00:04:34.640 he really was kind of irrelevant before he came on my show his subscribers doubled
00:04:43.840 and then as a payment you know he called me a column like you know he called me racist
00:04:49.280 and again this is a person that goes from person to person to person to person 0.98
00:04:53.700 accusing them of shit like this and the worst thing you can do as a giving person 0.98
00:04:59.100 is to take it personal, uh, because my friend, uh, it's funny. I have a friend of mine and he's 0.99
00:05:06.240 going through the same thing right now. He's helping this kid and this kid is completely
00:05:12.200 taking advantage of him. He's like a young guy. And again, he's gone from like place to place to
00:05:17.400 place and um I keep you know and again I I would hear him having this thought process it's like
00:05:30.440 what I've done so much for you how could you do x y and z and that is the worst way possibly
00:05:37.660 imaginable to think as a woman or a bit just as a giving person in life because unfortunately
00:05:43.860 we're in a society that really does reward people that take and people that do the wrong thing like
00:05:51.620 it's rewarded constantly and a lot of times the people that do that they don't have a consequence 0.99
00:05:56.640 for like a decade it does hit them like a pile of bricks at some point but you see this with women
00:06:01.980 I know a woman who's treated every boyfriend that she's ever had terribly and because she's beautiful 0.91
00:06:08.720 she'll just have another another chance at love some other sucker signs up and it's 0.88
00:06:14.080 it's actually incredible this is why women hate beautiful women and we don't believe men when 0.95
00:06:19.360 they say oh it's not all about looks because we see like the way you treat very beautiful women
00:06:25.120 and they get so many chances it's like insane um and you might be jealous of her at first right
00:06:33.680 Right. Cause she gets chance after chance after chance at love, but you know, the terrible
00:06:37.840 treatment isn't just the boyfriends, right? At some point, you know, their bad decisions catch
00:06:47.760 up to them because, you know, the looks start to fade. Uh, you know, they start getting dumped
00:06:53.780 as opposed to being the dumpy. Um, their family gets sick of their shit, you know, it just keeps 1.00
00:07:01.020 going but I would say if there's a younger person watching these people I swear to god a lot of 1.00
00:07:08.620 times they don't have consequences for like a long time even Abba and Preach right Abba and Preach 0.53
00:07:13.860 talked all that shit about Myron and Fresh and they were doing the same if not weirder stuff
00:07:19.300 that Myron and Fresh were doing and they had no consequence for that for like a decade until 0.88
00:07:26.060 until um the same thing happened to them you know what I mean and it all comes out so
00:07:33.420 people's like chickens do come to roost uh but it's just not in the way that people think like 0.98
00:07:42.280 the beautiful woman men will always take her shit um and honestly there will still be people 0.99
00:07:49.080 that sign up even into her 50s but by the time she gets there she's so damaged as a person 1.00
00:07:54.700 and just um it's like they they can't be fixed because they just cannot be humbled at that point
00:08:02.620 and then their spending habits catch up to them and it's just kind of a mess um and some guy will
00:08:10.580 still do it right so don't hold out on that hope but they're so insufferable it's like you know if
00:08:18.120 they have kids their kids hate them they're you know things do catch up to people it just can be
00:08:24.420 frustrating because again there are these enablers in society I've been an enabler I know a lot of
00:08:31.460 enablers that allow these people to take advantage of them and really there's no virtue in that like 0.62
00:08:39.080 there's no virtue I think white people in particular we got to stop with this idea that
00:08:45.160 there's like virtue and bailing people out like and I just see it all the time like men bail their 0.85
00:08:52.040 ex-wives out like they still fix their ex-wife especially white guys they still fit like you
00:08:56.620 know the ex-wife made the choice to leave and instead of standing on the choice she still
00:09:01.240 expects stuff from the ex-husband he feels indebted because there's a kid um they do it
00:09:06.940 for their sisters I mean I know guys that like they let their sister boss them around
00:09:13.280 in their house even though she's living rent-free it's like there's that virtue in enabling these
00:09:20.580 people but I don't know I think the mindset of like how could they do this to me you really gotta
00:09:28.200 understand about people is everybody wants their cake and they eat it too and everybody has the
00:09:33.620 capacity to do like to take um and some people more than others and really that's their character
00:09:42.640 flaw and it has nothing to do with you so it's just I don't know something I've learned in life
00:09:47.680 that whenever somebody, I don't know, crashes out and blames me or whatever, 90% of the time,
00:09:56.820 it's just, look, and I'm not against saying sorry for like real stuff, you know, but
00:10:03.120 yeah. And, and the thing is about people that are takers, they're often really charismatic.
00:10:08.880 They're very like, well, you like them a lot of the time. And it's because in order to survive,
00:10:15.920 they have to be charismatic they have to get people to like them because like if people didn't
00:10:23.440 like them they don't have any skills they're useless a lot of the time so anyways I hope that
00:10:29.720 helps maybe you guys understand where I'm going with it maybe you don't let me know in the comments
00:10:33.580 also I want to do an event in your city so um there's going to be a google form in the description
00:10:40.020 and if you fill it out we're going to call you guys and like you have to kind of apply it's like
00:10:45.740 going to be 20 person private dinners um so I got to make sure nobody's crazy you know what I mean
00:10:52.500 so anyways like the video I'll see you next time