Pearl - Nobody Wants to Date Single Moms!

00:00:00.000 go play in somebody else's face and I can see through that shit very quickly she cannot see 1.00

00:00:05.080 through that shit very quickly at all what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we're 1.00

00:00:09.980 going to do what we do best on this channel watch women take L's not only do women take L's but we 0.99

00:00:15.500 also tell the world about our L's which means I will be employed I will be employed for the rest 1.00

00:00:21.200 of my life I will never I will never not have a job because women are just going to keep doing 1.00

00:00:25.980 this all right she says dating as a single mom in your 30s is a war zone the single mom in your 1.00

00:00:31.780 30s is a war zone because i flirt you flirt back and then as the natural progression happens i

00:00:37.760 catch feelings and i let you know about that and then you hit me with a oh i can't be intentional 0.99

00:00:42.620 with you or i'm not looking for anything serious what the fuck do you mean are you flirting with 0.99

00:00:46.560 everyone out here i i grew up listening to never sound never and hello goodbye you can't do this 0.99

00:00:52.000 yeah um men are not the men you want aren't dying to take on single mothers now again there's an

00:01:00.840 alpha in every age category every democrat there's some men that just you know they like to run

00:01:06.020 through single moms and occasionally one one gets them or you know a single mom puts her foot through

00:01:10.780 the door and women will always pedestalize that one woman that got in you know barely um but most 1.00

00:01:16.940 you know, for every one winner, there's a bunch of losers. It happened again. I had a date cancel 1.00

00:01:22.880 on me and we were supposed to go out for dinner tonight as a single mom. So it's a few hours

00:01:29.380 before the dinner. I get a Instagram message that he's not going to be able to make it. He has to

00:01:37.200 bail. This was a guy from my DMs and he's out of town. He said he was coming into town, wanted to

00:01:45.220 take me up for dinner. I said, sure, cleared my schedule, made sure that I used one of my

00:01:51.000 one of my four free nights a month to meet this guy. And the funny thing is, is that I knew this

00:01:57.340 was going to happen. I had a feeling a few days ago and told a few friends that this guy was going

00:02:01.820 to stand me up. So I guess at least he had the decency to send me a message and let me know that

00:02:08.320 he wasn't going to make it. I just don't get it. I don't understand. I don't think this guy had

00:02:14.640 actually any intentions of coming to my city. I think it was all bullshit. And I was just picking 1.00

00:02:18.720 up on this really hardcore, but I can't even get a date. I literally cannot even- Yes, you can.

00:02:24.900 You can't get a date with the guy you like, but come on. Fellas in the chat, I know a lot of you

00:02:32.020 guys would take her out to dinner and try to bang her after. I know. I know. I can get one date, 1.00

00:02:37.640 get people to meet me. I don't understand what it is. I'm not on the dating apps,

00:02:42.180 trying to meet people in real life thought maybe i would try my dms to see if that was an option

00:02:47.300 like my own personal dating app just take the l i mean men get stood up on all the time you got to 0.50

00:02:51.940 eat that out my social media that's not working what is it like yeah it's uh single mothers okay 1.00

00:02:59.860 let's see this one's got a little potential none of these women are ugly enough that i think they'll 1.00

00:03:04.520 die alone because there's always going to be a guy that does it because if things couldn't get 1.00

00:03:08.620 any worse the guy that I've been seeing for like all of five weeks texted me just now and said

00:03:13.640 I just feel like you haven't been showing me a lot of attention the past two weeks like actually 0.96

00:03:21.960 shut the fuck up because you know how like you make a to-do list and it's like the super important 0.98

00:03:27.200 things and then there's like the little fun section at the bottom where it's like these 0.99

00:03:30.680 are things that like need to get done but like it's fine if I don't get it done that's where 0.85

00:03:35.940 he's at i'm like you're not even a priority right now like damn oh that cuts i'm so sorry like you 0.81

00:03:43.820 actually don't matter don't piss me off as a yeah because again okay let's see dating my standards 0.94

00:03:52.660 as a single mom here are my standards for dating for the people that i date and myself i say that

00:03:57.680 because i never expect anything from someone that i don't also expect from myself and also if you're

00:04:02.120 dating, you need to have your standards defined before you start dating. If you don't have your

00:04:06.520 standards predetermined before you start dating, how do you know if someone's violating them?

00:04:10.160 Number one, and probably the most important to me, I do not do casual hookups. If you're just

00:04:15.340 looking to sleep around, I'm not your girl. I really think that you should sleep around as a 1.00

00:04:20.200 single mother. If you're not going to get back with your baby daddy, you're in the basically a 1.00

00:04:24.300 prostitute market. That's kind of how they see you like as easy picking. So you might as well be 0.99

00:04:29.040 easy work with men and you might get a taker um this whole i'm gonna raise my standards after i've

00:04:34.480 had a child just is not i don't know i wouldn't really recommend it at all to anyone who doesn't

00:04:39.720 mind casual hookups not at all get yours you know what i mean love that for you it's just not for me

00:04:45.000 number two also very important if you are maga goodbye there's no discussion there's i don't

00:04:51.300 want to hear anything you have to say just go any affiliation with maga or the conservative party at

00:04:56.100 all, goodbye. Number three, if you have children and I find out you are a deadbeat dad, goodbye.

00:05:02.360 Goodbye. I don't date deadbeat dads. If you try to play the card of, oh, I want to see my kids,

00:05:06.760 but I can't see them because their mom won't let me. I realized that that may be true in some

00:05:10.940 circumstances. And if you say that to me, I will find out if that's the truth. I will find out.

00:05:16.180 And if I find out you lied to me, goodbye. Cause I also don't mess with liars. This one might 0.93

00:05:19.800 ruffle some feathers because people get real sensitive about it. But if you do not take care

00:05:23.840 of your body at all, then we are not compatible. I don't need you to be the most fit person in the

00:05:28.760 world with big muscles and six pack abs. She does need that. That's what she's saying. But like if

00:05:33.760 you don't work out at all and you only feed your body junk, we're just not compatible. I take a

00:05:38.700 lot of pride and respect in the fact that I take care of my body. I work out every single day and

00:05:43.520 for the most part I eat well. So I need my partner to kind of be on that same playing field. I don't

00:05:48.280 even know what number we're at, but let's just keep going. The second and I mean the second you

00:05:52.940 make me feel like I'm annoying you I'm bothering you or that it's a chore or to talk to me or

00:05:58.240 spend time with me let me just go ahead and lift that weight off your shoulders baby you will never

00:06:02.060 hear yeah again you're a woman so at some point he he's going to find you annoying it just is what

00:06:07.600 it is for me again goodbye it's a privilege to be in my presence and talk to me and I don't say that

00:06:12.720 in an arrogant way it's just I know I'm a good person and I have a lot to offer so if you don't

00:06:17.400 want to take advantage of that privilege and you want to disrespect it I'll just take it from you

00:06:21.680 but at the same time i don't expect all day communication because you're not going to get

00:06:25.360 all day communication from me i'm busy i got things i'm working towards on the daily i have

00:06:29.680 kids i have my own life i don't have time to sit on my phone all day and text you i just don't

00:06:34.080 prioritize talking to someone especially in the beginning like take me out okay you keep just

00:06:39.040 saying you're not a priority to me and then wondering why the men are like all right see ya

00:06:44.000 on a date and we can learn about each other then like we can have a few texts during the day

00:06:47.760 you can send me a funny video i might send you one but like i'm not gonna sit around and text

00:06:51.760 you all day next let me catch a whiff of games you will never hear from me again you will never see

00:06:57.600 me again he will absolutely see you again that is a cap that's translation that has worked and it 0.76

00:07:02.960 will continue to work on me because i'm a grown ass woman i do not have time to play games with 0.84

00:07:08.880 somebody's unhealed little baby boy who's just using women for his entertainment and defeat his 1.00

00:07:13.920 ego go play in somebody else's face and i can see through that shit very quickly she cannot see that 1.00

00:07:19.800 through that she cannot see through that shit very quickly at all very quickly so she's just 0.99

00:07:26.300 saying things don't don't play with me because i have no problem blocking you okay last one um i 0.99

00:07:32.200 need you to be a little funny i do if you're like a dry personality with no sense of humor and you

00:07:37.700 just like don't want to kind of dry and she will get dry because she's dry and unfortunately um

00:07:43.060 yeah so it's just not gonna be good enough for a banter with me at all i enjoy the banter 0.99

00:07:47.380 i enjoy a little bit like play as translation okay let's see another woman realize how hard 1.00

00:07:51.940 it is to date as a single mom that actually care about who's around their child because

00:07:58.340 man i'm i'm literally with my child 24 7. like rarely do i have an opportunity to do anything

00:08:04.980 without my kids and specifically micah like he's with me 24 7. so i actually i had an opportunity

00:08:12.180 you know, Friday night and, um, during the day on Saturday, cause my sister kept him

00:08:17.300 and they offered to do it, you know, more, but I feel bad. Like I feel terrible. Like

00:08:24.520 it's not putting my child off on someone when it's family, you know, their family,

00:08:29.580 he deserves to know who his family is. And me and my sister have grown into this amazing

00:08:33.380 relationship, but it also like, it's like a damn, like I'm sending my child somewhere 0.89

00:08:39.340 so I can go hang out with somebody or you know something like that and it feels terrible but at 0.88

00:08:45.440 the same time it's like I will not allow anybody around my kids I've done it before made that 0.99

00:08:52.640 fucking mistake ain't doing that shit again hell no I learned from that mistake very big very big 1.00

00:08:59.240 I stayed with a man for four years because my child was attached to him toxic ass psycho not 1.00

00:09:04.380 doing it so i'm like i'm like at a loss because like what the fuck how do i manage that how do 0.99

00:09:10.860 i go around that it it's wild honestly and you know then it's like i think about okay well i'd 0.86

00:09:20.020 rather have a man that's like what are you and the kids doing you know how are the kids rather than 0.98

00:09:24.880 oh are the kids asleep because bitch my kids are my life yeah just take that l i don't even know 0.99

00:09:30.800 you're saying take that okay go on okay so i am dating and i'm a mom and i just thought i'd give 1.00

00:09:35.600 my share my tips on my dating standards that oh no a single mother talking about her standards

00:09:44.080 hell is frozen over keeps me going it makes it exciting and gives me hope in men because

00:09:50.720 i have high standards and i understand that not everybody meets those standards and that's okay

00:09:56.560 i'm good with this so here's a few of my tips on dating okay ladies listen up number one

00:10:04.720 especially on when it comes to a first date i do not go out to eat to dinner on a first date

00:10:10.400 no ma'am that because it's my no man i sound like shay shay love diva she also talks about this

00:10:15.520 um because it is it's my resting time it's my night time i'm relaxed i just want to hang out

00:10:20.560 and i don't want to hang out with a stranger i don't want to end my night with a stranger

00:10:23.760 like i just it doesn't sound like a good time to me so i will not go out to eat our dinner date for

00:10:28.560 the first date that's everyone also to know alcohol i should not be drinking and having some sort of

00:10:34.080 mind-altering substance substance if i'm trying to yeah okay again the first date's really just

00:10:38.960 to figure out if you're attracted to him the rest can come later um so as a single mom you should be 0.62

00:10:44.560 dishing it out it should be like a giveaway i mean you don't have a lot of time so you might as well 0.88

00:10:49.520 just put out every first date if you like the guy so you get to know this guy like if i have to

00:10:54.400 jury to get to know you we should not be on the date okay so this leaves first dates are great

00:10:59.840 lunches great lunch dates and then number two ten times out of ten i will not pay on the first date

00:11:06.800 no no no no no women i feel like you get my presence you get my time you get my attention

00:11:12.560 um we get to know each other and i don't know there i can do it all pretty much i can create

00:11:19.560 life i can get a job i can pay for the tab but in order for i feel like for the man to feel valued

00:11:25.740 and feel appreciated he's got to bring something to the table too and that is one of the big things

00:11:30.720 that men they're very they're providers like men are providers they like to yeah and she's going

00:11:35.340 to expect you to provide for um daquan her child so you know it's like i didn't they like to give

00:11:42.040 they they love to give it makes them happy to give so let him give for you let him if he wants to but

00:11:48.840 there's a difference between like it's there's a difference between accepting it because he wants

00:11:53.320 to then expecting it because he has to pick up the tab especially on the first date and show that

00:12:00.120 he's a gentleman show that he's chivalrous and that will one hopefully lifts your spirits because

00:12:07.720 it does it lifts mind to know that there are good men out there not all of them are okay get that

00:12:14.600 okay and number three i would say to ask the hard questions like you're in observation mode you're

00:12:23.640 checking out to see if this guy is yeah this woman's gonna die alone because what's gonna 0.68

00:12:28.840 happen is she's gonna come in agenda mode like if i was a single mom right this is kind of the 1.00

00:12:34.600 energy you want to give I'm easy for you baby for you I'm easy let's make it as easy to meet

00:12:41.720 and easy asking him a bunch of questions is not going to inspire his best you know so all right 0.96

00:12:48.080 single mothers take that out eat it sorry about sorry about the situation you're in but you picked 0.76

00:12:52.740 it like the video subscribe and I'll see you next time

Pearl - May 07, 2026

Nobody Wants to Date Single Moms!

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