Pearl - March 06, 2024Omah Lay Concert Girl DOESN'T DESERVE The Attention？
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Summary
In this week's episode, we discuss the Omelay concert where a woman was asked to perform in front of her boyfriend, who was in the front row. We also hear about a woman who claimed she was in a committed relationship with her boyfriend when he asked her to go on stage with him.
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I need your expertise on another one okay we have another case for you here
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right I just need I need your expertise have you heard of the Omelay concert
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girl I don't think so okay so there is that we went over this last show but
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there's been an update okay so there is a woman that went to a concert with her
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carry on and then she was put on stage and she was I'll show you okay pull it
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are you sure this isn't this is not appropriate with your boyfriend right
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there this is not appropriate behavior though the boyfriend basically should
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just leave it should just leave now right I just never I just block her well
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what's she doing wrong she's engaging in a sexually explicit manner with
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somebody right in front of him and thousands of other people.
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Well, I would say, I mean, I've seen some red flags in my time, you know,
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and actually I quite like the old red flag, you know, here and there.
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Because it's just like, it's like ritual humiliation for the boyfriend, isn't it?
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Because the boyfriend's standing there basically getting cut.
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Anyways, so she, I don't know if the boyfriend's in this clip,
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but she really wanted to come out, and she, like, issued an apology.
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And I want to know what you think of this explanation.
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And I just want to see, what do you, you know, would you,
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all right, so let's just say you're dating this girl, this happens.
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Would you be interested in hearing what she had to say?
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i think he should like i think basically as soon as that started to transpire he should just like
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right and just i'm gonna you know just get out of the venue block delete you know whatever because
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i think it was disrespectful that you know well let's hear what she has to say anyway we're gonna
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watch anyway um so there was an update i saw this i couldn't believe it all right pull it up so this
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was the concert girl nice sweater nice you know good looking girl let's go but you were with
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somebody now this is the question on everybody's minds girl who is this man were you in a committed
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and defined relationship with him um yes he was in a committed relationship how long were you
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together for just under a year so going to a year and when you say you were in a defined relationship
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just so that everybody's aware he was your boyfriend and you were his girlfriend yes yes
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okay perfect so you mentioned in your apology video which we're going to get back to you that
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you're a die-hard fan of omelette so i think my question here is was this a date night was this
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planned was this who bought the tickets why were you guys there together can you kind of talk us
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through what happened the journey of that um so i'm a huge emily fan i've been a fan since
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he even started like music so I really be like his music so I've always wanted
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to go to this concert I was gonna see him I think this was last year well he
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cancelled that show so I thought I'll go to an extra like 100% so when he said
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that he was coming London I just bought the tickets and I thought I'd bring my
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boyfriend because he was going through a hard time himself
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yeah so does this so first thing said she bought the tickets is this is this acceptable now
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no i don't i don't think that makes any difference wait wait let's see let's see there's obviously
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going to be more troy yeah yeah there's going to be just okay yeah why did you obviously the
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woman is talking so i just thought yeah i just just gave him favorite eyes favorite person so
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i just thought yeah did you think i might get called on stage did that ever did that run through
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your mind i've always wanted to go on stage with omelette i don't think there's any other artists
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that i'd even go on stage like with so me and him we've had this conversation like days before the
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concert if i was to get called on stage like would you be fine with that and he said yeah like that
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that's fine he's been okay with it yeah ah okay well that kind of changes the narrative so we've
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seen from the video does that actually change the narrative well maybe but i don't think he should
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have said he was okay with it i think he should have said look we're in a relationship if you get
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called on stage you should politely decline out of respect for me i think that it's kind of
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cucked energy on his part well andy i mean you could go on stage and not hump him well that's
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true that's true i mean they maybe they could have discussed uh i know you hate the word they could
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have discussed the boundaries yes you could go on stage you could just stand there but you're
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not allowed to like start grinding up against him i mean i'm assuming this guy i'm assuming this
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artist he probably does this quite a lot right probably i guess he brings women up no blessing
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i don't know he's like a blessing new one that's enough for this guy does he does he often bring
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women on and stuff like that um yeah i don't really watch him it's for the girls
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well is that have surfaced online that you were very excited to go on stage and now that you've
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revealed to us that he was okay with it you going on stage was it something that you just told him
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or did you guys discuss it prior we discussed it prior obviously but he didn't know that i'd get
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picked to go on stage so um when omla pointed at me obviously in the video you can see like i was
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really really excited which i was and he was encouraging me to go like he even said yeah like
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go that's why i went in the first place there is a point in the video where it looks as though he's
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holding on to you and saying well obviously we don't know what he was saying but it does look
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like he was a bit reluctant to let you go on stage is is that fair for us to say um not really just
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because he was holding me the entire show I think she's lying hmm that's why
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it looked like he didn't want me to go but he was fine with it and there was a
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point I was like stood next to him and everyone thought like I moved away from
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him but I was stood there because I was waiting for the security to get me out
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of the crowd okay okay well that was the clip so did it change anything well I
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i mean oh you think it does i i think that the guy should have laid down the law i think the
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guy should be like look you know i'm happy you're a fan we're going to see the concert
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if he calls you on stage i'm not comfortable with that because like we're in a relationship
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and that would be kind of disrespectful to the relationship i think he should have made that
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clear having said that i suppose he didn't say that he did say she could go on stage so you know
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he should stay with her um i think that given the nature of you know how it was on stage when she
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did go on the stage i think it was kind of like this ritual humiliation i think yeah i think he
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should like just you know pack his bags and take the l well just you know this this you know it's
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really a w because it's a red flag so it seems like a massive red flag and she seems like she's
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she's being all like trying to be all innocent now wearing that nice jumper and being all like
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sort of contrite and everything but she was being very like her movements obviously very sexualized
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and everything like that i mean you know it's um it's the it's the age-old question isn't it it's
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like if couples will often talk or this often comes up like it's like uh oh if x celebrity you
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know came into play should i get a free pass you know yeah what do you think no no because like
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it's like just because somebody's famous i don't think that should change the the dynamic i think
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think the the guy should you know she does she exercises that she does that then the guy should
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be out it's like all right what about what about a girl with a guy um what if it's like like if he
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screws rihanna uh no that's fine no no but it's slightly well it's slightly different
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i mean i get the points to us but it's slightly different because obviously men are less attracted
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by fame and status so for me personally i if it was rihanna specifically i'm not i don't particularly
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find rihanna that attractive so i probably wouldn't it wouldn't be just her celebrity
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status would sort of draw me in whereas i think with women it's much more that's a big part of it