Pearl - March 06, 2024


Omah Lay Concert Girl DOESN'T DESERVE The Attention？

Adult Actress Gets BRUTALLY REJECTED By Nerdy Streamer？ Why Do Most Women Think Femininity is About Makeup and Dresses？

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

174.49

Word count

1,700

Sentence count

22

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Summary

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In this week's episode, we discuss the Omelay concert where a woman was asked to perform in front of her boyfriend, who was in the front row. We also hear about a woman who claimed she was in a committed relationship with her boyfriend when he asked her to go on stage with him.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I need your expertise on another one okay we have another case for you here
00:00:04.720 right I just need I need your expertise have you heard of the Omelay concert
00:00:10.760 girl I don't think so okay so there is that we went over this last show but
00:00:16.040 there's been an update okay so there is a woman that went to a concert with her
00:00:20.040 boyfriend I did hear something about this yeah
00:00:23.240 carry on and then she was put on stage and she was I'll show you okay pull it 1.00
00:00:27.560 up blessing
00:00:30.000 so she was pulled on stage by this artist
00:00:37.360 her boyfriend was front row
00:00:41.520 oh jeez
00:01:00.000 No, was this a no-no?
00:01:25.960 Yes, 100%.
00:01:28.400 are you sure this isn't this is not appropriate with your boyfriend right
00:01:35.520 there this is not appropriate behavior though the boyfriend basically should
00:01:39.020 just leave it should just leave now right I just never I just block her well 0.97
00:01:43.280 what's she doing wrong she's engaging in a sexually explicit manner with 1.00
00:01:52.160 somebody right in front of him and thousands of other people.
00:01:56.440 So?
00:01:57.380 Well, I would say, I mean, I've seen some red flags in my time, you know,
00:02:03.420 and actually I quite like the old red flag, you know, here and there.
00:02:06.440 But I mean, that is like beyond red.
00:02:09.020 That's like...
00:02:10.340 Because it's just like, it's like ritual humiliation for the boyfriend, isn't it?
00:02:16.320 Because the boyfriend's standing there basically getting cut.
00:02:18.600 Oh, yeah.
00:02:19.380 You know?
00:02:19.880 He's front row.
00:02:20.860 Yeah.
00:02:21.560 Anyways, so she, I don't know if the boyfriend's in this clip,
00:02:26.100 but she really wanted to come out, and she, like, issued an apology.
00:02:30.980 And now she's on a podcast.
00:02:32.580 And I want to know what you think of this explanation.
00:02:36.120 She's going to give you an explanation.
00:02:38.000 Okay.
00:02:38.520 And I just want to see, what do you, you know, would you,
00:02:41.660 all right, so let's just say you're dating this girl, this happens.
00:02:44.600 Would you be interested in hearing what she had to say?
00:02:48.460 No, I think that he should just, like, cut it.
00:02:50.800 i think he should like i think basically as soon as that started to transpire he should just like
00:02:54.400 right and just i'm gonna you know just get out of the venue block delete you know whatever because
00:03:00.480 i think it was disrespectful that you know well let's hear what she has to say anyway we're gonna
00:03:06.480 watch anyway um so there was an update i saw this i couldn't believe it all right pull it up so this
00:03:13.520 was the concert girl nice sweater nice you know good looking girl let's go but you were with
00:03:21.760 somebody now this is the question on everybody's minds girl who is this man were you in a committed
00:03:28.720 and defined relationship with him um yes he was in a committed relationship how long were you
00:03:34.720 together for just under a year so going to a year and when you say you were in a defined relationship
00:03:42.320 just so that everybody's aware he was your boyfriend and you were his girlfriend yes yes
00:03:47.360 okay perfect so you mentioned in your apology video which we're going to get back to you that
00:03:52.160 you're a die-hard fan of omelette so i think my question here is was this a date night was this
00:03:57.920 planned was this who bought the tickets why were you guys there together can you kind of talk us
00:04:03.440 through what happened the journey of that um so i'm a huge emily fan i've been a fan since
00:04:09.520 he even started like music so I really be like his music so I've always wanted
00:04:14.760 to go to this concert I was gonna see him I think this was last year well he
00:04:19.000 cancelled that show so I thought I'll go to an extra like 100% so when he said
00:04:26.400 that he was coming London I just bought the tickets and I thought I'd bring my
00:04:31.220 boyfriend because he was going through a hard time himself
00:04:36.760 yeah so does this so first thing said she bought the tickets is this is this acceptable now 0.63
00:04:43.380 no i don't i don't think that makes any difference wait wait let's see let's see there's obviously
00:04:49.520 going to be more troy yeah yeah there's going to be just okay yeah why did you obviously the
00:04:54.960 woman is talking so i just thought yeah i just just gave him favorite eyes favorite person so
00:05:01.140 i just thought yeah did you think i might get called on stage did that ever did that run through
00:05:05.640 your mind i've always wanted to go on stage with omelette i don't think there's any other artists
00:05:09.800 that i'd even go on stage like with so me and him we've had this conversation like days before the
00:05:16.920 concert if i was to get called on stage like would you be fine with that and he said yeah like that
00:05:22.760 that's fine he's been okay with it yeah ah okay well that kind of changes the narrative so we've
00:05:28.680 seen from the video does that actually change the narrative well maybe but i don't think he should
00:05:36.200 have said he was okay with it i think he should have said look we're in a relationship if you get
00:05:41.320 called on stage you should politely decline out of respect for me i think that it's kind of
00:05:49.000 cucked energy on his part well andy i mean you could go on stage and not hump him well that's
00:05:54.600 true that's true i mean they maybe they could have discussed uh i know you hate the word they could
00:06:00.520 have discussed the boundaries yes you could go on stage you could just stand there but you're
00:06:04.600 not allowed to like start grinding up against him i mean i'm assuming this guy i'm assuming this
00:06:08.440 artist he probably does this quite a lot right probably i guess he brings women up no blessing
00:06:12.760 i don't know he's like a blessing new one that's enough for this guy does he does he often bring
00:06:22.280 women on and stuff like that um yeah i don't really watch him it's for the girls
00:06:29.880 well is that have surfaced online that you were very excited to go on stage and now that you've
00:06:35.720 revealed to us that he was okay with it you going on stage was it something that you just told him
00:06:41.560 or did you guys discuss it prior we discussed it prior obviously but he didn't know that i'd get
00:06:48.200 picked to go on stage so um when omla pointed at me obviously in the video you can see like i was
00:06:53.560 really really excited which i was and he was encouraging me to go like he even said yeah like
00:06:59.320 go that's why i went in the first place there is a point in the video where it looks as though he's
00:07:05.320 holding on to you and saying well obviously we don't know what he was saying but it does look
00:07:09.560 like he was a bit reluctant to let you go on stage is is that fair for us to say um not really just
00:07:16.120 because he was holding me the entire show I think she's lying hmm that's why
00:07:24.700 it looked like he didn't want me to go but he was fine with it and there was a
00:07:27.580 point I was like stood next to him and everyone thought like I moved away from
00:07:31.060 him but I was stood there because I was waiting for the security to get me out
00:07:34.900 of the crowd okay okay well that was the clip so did it change anything well I
00:07:43.600 i mean oh you think it does i i think that the guy should have laid down the law i think the
00:07:50.080 guy should be like look you know i'm happy you're a fan we're going to see the concert
00:07:53.840 if he calls you on stage i'm not comfortable with that because like we're in a relationship
00:07:58.160 and that would be kind of disrespectful to the relationship i think he should have made that
00:08:02.480 clear having said that i suppose he didn't say that he did say she could go on stage so you know
00:08:08.160 he should stay with her um i think that given the nature of you know how it was on stage when she
00:08:14.400 did go on the stage i think it was kind of like this ritual humiliation i think yeah i think he
00:08:18.480 should like just you know pack his bags and take the l well just you know this this you know it's
00:08:25.440 really a w because it's a red flag so it seems like a massive red flag and she seems like she's
00:08:31.280 she's being all like trying to be all innocent now wearing that nice jumper and being all like 0.90
00:08:34.800 sort of contrite and everything but she was being very like her movements obviously very sexualized 1.00
00:08:38.480 and everything like that i mean you know it's um it's the it's the age-old question isn't it it's
00:08:43.600 like if couples will often talk or this often comes up like it's like uh oh if x celebrity you
00:08:50.080 know came into play should i get a free pass you know yeah what do you think no no because like
00:08:57.520 it's like just because somebody's famous i don't think that should change the the dynamic i think
00:09:02.400 think the the guy should you know she does she exercises that she does that then the guy should
00:09:07.680 be out it's like all right what about what about a girl with a guy um what if it's like like if he
00:09:14.240 screws rihanna uh no that's fine no no but it's slightly well it's slightly different
00:09:23.940 i mean i get the points to us but it's slightly different because obviously men are less attracted
00:09:28.840 by fame and status so for me personally i if it was rihanna specifically i'm not i don't particularly
00:09:35.340 find rihanna that attractive so i probably wouldn't it wouldn't be just her celebrity
00:09:39.400 status would sort of draw me in whereas i think with women it's much more that's a big part of it 0.92
00:09:43.780 if that makes sense