Pearl - June 06, 2025


One Night Stand Cost This Cop His Whole Paycheck w⧸ @thisisshah


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1 minute

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410

Sentence count

7

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2

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Toxicity

3

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2

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Summary

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On this episode of the podcast, we have our first guest on the show who is a former police officer and a current sergeant at the California Department of Family and Protective Services (DHS). We talk about a case where a police officer accidentally knocked up his wife on a one-night stand and now he's got a warrant out for child support.

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00:00:00.000 you know i saw this this case and it was this guy made a big mistake um it was it was actually a
00:00:05.760 police officer they make pretty good money depending on where they are 10 to 15 a month
00:00:11.280 um i think he was he was around 8 to 10 somewhere there i think and uh he went to a different state
00:00:18.240 and ended up knocking somebody up on a one-night stand and uh yeah so he he's at home with his
00:00:24.880 wife and kids and they have a mortgage and he's his wife stay at home so he's paying everything
00:00:29.600 oh wait his wait so who did he knock up then it wasn't the wife it was like a side chick yeah 1.00
00:00:36.080 it was in a different it was in a dick like yeah it was i can't remember where it was but he went 0.99
00:00:40.480 somewhere and um basically it happened that california had to make the order so you know 0.79
00:00:47.120 looking at the math on this case if this guy makes eight to ten grand or whatever they have a mortgage
00:00:51.760 that's like you know 2500 a month you know so take taxes away take the mortgage away take this away
00:00:56.880 and then all of a sudden so he's not paying any child support to anybody which means this is the
00:01:00.640 first child support order which means it's going to be like that max amount of 20 he's got zero
00:01:05.200 percent custody he didn't even know this kid existed until we opened the case um so they're
00:01:09.920 taking like two you know it's going to be a significant amount where he might not even be
00:01:14.560 able to pay his bills for his family so i mean you know that's that's the game that they're playing
00:01:20.640 And so, yeah, you'd see stuff like that.
00:01:24.320 And I don't know.
00:01:26.140 So as a guy that's worked there before, I can't get it out of my mind to not be doing,
00:01:31.900 like if I go to a wedding and I might just, oh, okay, so what do they do?
00:01:35.080 That's interesting, you know?
00:01:36.980 And in my brain, I'm doing all this math.
00:01:40.400 And I'm not, God bless them, I hope the marriage lasts forever.
00:01:43.900 But, you know, I just think, okay, what happens if, you know?
00:01:46.320 But in the dowry system, you know, this is stuff they were thinking about.
00:01:49.280 This is a front-end deal.
00:01:50.640 for a long-term monogamous marriage. 0.97