Pearl - Panel Show： Can a Conservative Man Date a Woke Woman？

00:00:00.000 what is going on people welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:00:09.440 network i thought i would start a little early before we bring up the panelists later um i first

00:00:15.680 wanted to say thank you guys so much for supporting me and these last couple years as you guys know

00:00:20.400 i just fought off demonetization after two years and you know being back and able to do what i love

00:00:26.260 has just been amazing so thank you guys so much for supporting me this entire time did you guys

00:00:32.580 have a good thanksgiving can you put a one in the chat if you had a good thanksgiving

00:00:36.260 put a two in the chat if it was trash you guys already know sometimes family you know there's

00:00:44.820 the relatives that are fighting sometimes people are excited to see families sometimes they're not

00:00:51.220 it just is what it is. We got ones, ones in the chats, ones, any twos. If your Thanksgiving

00:00:57.180 sucked, put why, put why it sucked. Um, I was thinking about calling this show petty

00:01:05.300 because I really did start this show to be petty. You know, I'm not, I'm not saying like,

00:01:12.180 I'm not saying it was the right thing to do. I'm not saying it was the mature thing to do,

00:01:17.780 but I'm standing on it I'm standing on it you crash out on me on a panel um that I'm just

00:01:25.660 gonna do a panel at the exact same time as your panel and we'll see who wins I'm not saying I'm

00:01:33.080 not saying it's the right thing to do I'm not saying it's what I should have done uh but

00:01:37.180 sometimes you got to do what you got to do you were alone oh no no you know what honestly if

00:01:46.040 you're alone go out and make some pals go on and make some pals get out there you got to learn to

00:01:53.800 bake or something that's that's your gateway to friendship if you ever wondering say i got no

00:01:59.140 friends you got to learn how to bake because america's fat okay america is diabetic damn near

00:02:06.480 um so you just got to bring some cookies and be like hey i got some cookies wherever you go and

00:02:13.900 then you're going to be the person with cookies who isn't happy to see the person with cookies

00:02:18.820 i bring cookies to my gym sometimes my my literal gym where people go to lose weight and people are

00:02:26.080 still happy to see and they're jacked there i'm the fat one in that environment you know what i

00:02:30.840 mean i'm the obese one there okay so you know it's been a little bit since i was live so i guess i

00:02:39.840 maybe we'll go over some thoughts i've had for the week um some of these are related to the topic

00:02:45.960 some aren't um now the first thing that i was thinking about is i joined i recently joined

00:02:55.600 are we dating the same guy groups you know those like in every city i joined like five of them

00:02:59.960 for research purposes right so i'm like i'm kind of like documenting some of the problems

00:03:05.920 women are having in different cities. It's all the same problem, right? The problem women always

00:03:11.420 have dating the same men. I mean, we always have the same problem, right? But what I was thinking

00:03:22.560 about is, um, I would say the lack of good faith in dating now. Um, and I do think women, I know

00:03:31.940 for a fact women started this like women were kind of assholes to men right um and um

00:03:42.260 you know i when i see the difference between women that win and women that don't win

00:03:46.900 um is the women that don't are the women that win go in with good faith regardless of what happens

00:03:54.100 to them right you know if they get cheated on they're not going to go in thinking the next guy's

00:03:58.180 a cheater this is impossible for women right we always make the next guy pay and it's very

00:04:04.340 apparent in these groups because like the women women fight each other and police each other so

00:04:09.620 they'll post a guy and this will be a guy they some of these women haven't even gone on a date

00:04:14.180 with yet can you imagine like you're just like oh i got a match i have a date this week you're

00:04:18.900 excited as a guy and then now you're in a group with like 50 000 women and she goes n-a-t and

00:04:26.340 you're asking the general public to comment anonymously on if there's tea on you it reminds

00:04:32.580 me of that app yik yak put a one in the chat if you in college had yik yeah so my first year at

00:04:39.780 college that was a thing and people could anonymously like talk about you um and i think

00:04:45.460 it like disappeared after a day or something um and i remember this was this is my first experience

00:04:54.500 with the like um negative reviews now i get them all the time it's okay it's normal now i get but

00:05:01.940 this is my first negative review as a young young woman i was 17 when i went to college so 17 and

00:05:08.420 someone put that i was a and i'm like a me no i was devastated i was i couldn't believe it now

00:05:18.180 i could believe it right but back then i i was a young i was a young woman no one had ever told me

00:05:23.300 anything negative in my life the men the men are like we've been hearing this negativity since we

00:05:28.900 were born since we were born yeah you got kicked out of the are we dating the same man because i

00:05:36.780 called them out for being bullies i know women are the worst bullies do it so crazy women especially

00:05:42.360 on twitter they'll have jesus crosses in their bio i swear on my life jesus crosses and the thing is

00:05:52.260 women, we just have this tendency to think we are something if we say it. So it's like,

00:05:56.820 instead of learning to be a good person, we'll just say, I'm a Christian.

00:06:02.460 Why do the hard part of like being nice when you could just say, I'm a Christian and wear a cross

00:06:07.520 on your boobs. That's always the, that's always the caveat. They have titties out with the cross.

00:06:14.860 And they're diabolical. It's crazy. I'm like, oh, wow. You just, you guys keep going.

00:06:20.600 you keep going but anyways going back to the good faith thing negative reviews i know can you believe

00:06:29.120 it i get negative reviews sometimes oh so back to the are we dating the same guy thing so these

00:06:36.260 women they come together and what i've noticed is hot women tend to be a lot more good faith

00:06:42.120 because men treat them better it's a lot easier to be good faith when you're a hot woman you i

00:06:48.440 mean the hot women are like you guys don't get called back and the fat women are like uh yeah

00:06:57.320 and the hot women you know i think it's the mids that are the most bitter i think it's the upper

00:07:04.500 mids because they're so close to being with the hot guys but so far you're right there you're right

00:07:11.220 there but you're not quite you're not quite you're not quite there yet i do think fat women have a

00:07:18.300 little bit more humility right because fat women they kind of a lot of times know their place like

00:07:23.620 they know they can't not know they're fat like when i was fat i knew i was fat do you know what

00:07:29.080 i mean it wasn't like i didn't know so they come with a little humility like a lot of times the

00:07:35.160 fat women will come in with a smile but the upper mids you know because they're banging the nines

00:07:43.560 and the tens but they just can't quite get that commitment they can't quite they're like i'm so

00:07:50.500 close but so far oh i'm in the door with tyrone but he ghosted oh i'm with the door with brad he

00:07:56.900 took me on this nice dinner and then i never heard from him again and it's the um

00:08:03.920 yeah and and you know they're gonna get the the range of offers like amid you would be shocked

00:08:12.040 at the dating apps of a mid now i've seen the dating apps of fat women you would also be shocked

00:08:18.360 if i'm being if i'm being for real here you would also be shocked with the dating apps of fat women

00:08:23.160 you really would i mean these are in shape men matching but somebody's got to do it do you know

00:08:28.600 what i mean there's somebody's gonna do it stream idea you and um carlin borisanko and rachel wilson

00:08:35.960 a show called BLTC Coven because that's the accusation against you three idea you could

00:08:42.100 restore the image of the witch which didn't used to be an insult what's the accusation I'm oh I'm

00:08:47.400 a bitch yeah I do I understand there I understand you know I don't really think I'm a bitch but I

00:08:54.920 think that's for the general public to decide you know I don't really get to decide what other

00:08:59.360 people's perception of me is you know it just kind of is what it is you know you just you take it or

00:09:06.240 leave it okay but back to the are we dating the same guy group chats i was thinking about this

00:09:11.200 and i'm like it's kind of crazy how um big of bullies women are in these chats like i have a

00:09:20.160 friend and he dumped his girlfriend like five years ago five years ago and he got put in this

00:09:28.080 chat as like an abusive monster and he's so nice and and he dated this girl for like two years

00:09:36.640 five years ago not one year not two but she's still not over it you know it just is what it is

00:09:43.200 okay all right let's get into the topic today i'm i'm monologuing i'm spitballing

00:09:50.480 you know how it is okay so today we're talking about political beliefs

00:09:56.080 um so when i was younger i used to kind of think that political beliefs you know i i grew up just

00:10:04.140 you know i grew up my mom took me to sarah palin abortion rallies i argued about abortion on the

00:10:09.920 on the playground okay this was this was me as a child like i was literally 12 on the playground

00:10:16.660 debating with people about abortion i i can't say i was the most likable child

00:10:22.720 and so i always thought this was really really important um in dating and friendships and i think

00:10:31.120 at one point in my life i maybe thought like it makes you a more moral person it doesn't but when

00:10:35.600 you're young you know you just think that um but then i get older um and i i started having

00:10:41.840 developing friendships with the most unlikely of people i've never to be fair i've never dated a

00:10:47.040 liberal so this is kind of in prep this is more in theory than practice for me that's why i brought

00:10:51.760 on a panel today to talk about it but i did one of my really good friends is um now mind you i

00:10:58.000 don't think women should i don't know if i could say it on youtube anymore but the voting republic

00:11:03.680 i think should be smaller i'll just say that's my extreme beliefs and i somehow befriended a vegan

00:11:10.240 activist that used to do nude activism who would have thought we met through music right we're like

00:11:18.320 the best of pals and i never i never would have thought in a million years um that this would

00:11:25.120 matter or to be fair this is not dating this is just friendship but hey um and it made me realize

00:11:33.360 that maybe politics and all that stuff doesn't matter as much as i thought i also had the

00:11:39.200 privilege of interviewing a thousand women um and when you interview a thousand women you really do

00:11:45.040 um you really start to start to see patterns right and you can kind of identify people more

00:11:52.880 um and i just did not notice a difference between liberal women and conservative women

00:11:58.640 in terms of how much of a they were i really didn't you know i just didn't

00:12:03.520 it didn't really seem to make a huge difference to me and so this kind of changed my view a little

00:12:10.480 bit where i thought maybe like politics isn't as important in friendship and and in dating

00:12:17.360 as i as i originally thought but me and doug mpa a lot of times these panels start because

00:12:23.040 of conversations um and this kind of started because me and doug mpa were talking and i was

00:12:28.080 like you know i don't want to i'm going to bring him up in a second you know he had a a negative

00:12:34.640 dating experience with more liberal woman. And I was just like, well, does it, does it matter?

00:12:40.660 Don't we just like change our mind if we like you, you know, maybe, maybe not, but I'm going

00:12:45.140 to bring up Doug MPA to give his side. Now I can be swayed because again, I don't date women. I

00:12:50.320 don't, um, I know there's rumors on the internet, but I really don't. I don't, I don't, I don't.

00:12:55.160 Um, I'm just, I'm a little bit of a tomboy, but the, so I can be swayed. And to be fair, I've never

00:13:04.280 i've i've dated guys that aren't maybe political but i've never dated a guy with opposite beliefs

00:13:11.040 as me so this is a little bit not speaking from experience but i am going to bring people up to

00:13:17.140 give their their um charles kruth hammer i also think that liberal women are a little bit hotter

00:13:23.840 i don't know that's just what i've noticed um and i thought about it i'm like maybe

00:13:28.620 conservative women it's like almost a coat and this is this is a theory this is not a fact this

00:13:36.280 is a theory um for being ugly so it's like we got to make up for it so we're like i guess we'll

00:13:41.180 believe the conservative maybe it's like a subconscious thing i don't know i don't know

00:13:45.140 i'm a little weird my mom took me to sarah palin rallies and i met sarah palin when i was 12 i'm

00:13:50.260 not even kidding i'm not even i was i was born on um election day my birthday is november 4th

00:13:57.540 and presidents are elected i think i was just born to be a political person charles kruthammer

00:14:02.660 conservatives think liberals are dumb liberals think conservatives are evil

00:14:09.620 yeah i could be a cope but you know but i you know i'm one of the conservative women so i mean

00:14:13.620 this would be like admitting to myself all right doug mpa um what do you think so we we had this

00:14:20.580 conversation do you want to tell them about your experience um and why you think no to the liberals

00:14:27.540 to the liberal ladies Doug MPA sorry I was still on mute can you hear me now I can hear you

00:14:37.740 after Doug MPA gives his little intro and his story that kind of sparked this show so go ahead

00:14:45.900 okay so I'm not good I normally try to not make things about race but you guys you know on my

00:14:51.740 channel I always say that black women American black women are the worst women on the planet

00:14:55.900 no men have worse women to choose from than american black men i'd say 80 of them right

00:15:02.040 so in our community our men are supposed to serve the women so you're not supposed to be

00:15:11.400 an independent or a conservative uh in black culture right so so the existence of a black

00:15:20.600 conservative or a black job supporter is is antithetical to to most black women no i'm sorry

00:15:28.520 wrong word it it can't even be conceived by a black woman most of the time so it's really bad

00:15:36.900 in our community and um i the reason why i brought this up is um i was actually out on a date

00:15:46.580 with a woman everything was fine and then we started talking about aisha curry uh and

00:15:52.980 michelle obama you guys know know aisha curry keeps going on these podcasts and she's my language but

00:15:58.760 he's shitting all over steph curry because she has nothing to offer except shitting all over

00:16:04.880 her husband and making him look stupid right and this is anything with michelle obama you may not

00:16:11.360 like barack obama but you but men respect work ethic he became president of the united states

00:16:16.380 right but his wife just rinses him out michelle obama big mike says all these horrible things

00:16:22.940 about him on podcasts she has nothing to offer except saying bad things about him and so you

00:16:30.300 know i asked this girl about that at the end of the date and she's she's trying to explain to me

00:16:35.580 why it's okay that a wife should be able to say things publicly about her husband i'm like no

00:16:42.460 it's not okay no right and that was enough where i never saw her again i'm like no because that's

00:16:49.820 indicative of her mindset she will find it okay to wrench you if you court this woman marry this

00:16:57.660 woman protect and provide she will feel it's it's okay to rinse you out no what about tell them

00:17:04.380 about the and you can you can not tell these stories if you don't want but the blm girl

00:17:09.500 the blm girl wasn't there like a blm like a white girl that was like a blm girl oh yeah

00:17:18.860 so i went out with this white girl and i went on her instagram and it's her around a whole

00:17:23.980 bunch of black people i'm like oh you know she was the slim shady in a group of uh

00:17:31.100 black people and so she you know she was in the law field and she does all this work to better

00:17:37.900 the black community and this that whatever and um and so we're talking and she's just you know

00:17:44.060 black lives matter all these different things and then she's talking about how she's been

00:17:47.900 familyed by so many black people and it's not whatever and so you know i'm a i'm independent

00:17:53.900 but you know i voted for our current president and that short-circuited her mind because i didn't fit

00:17:59.980 her idea of blackness so and she's trying to explain to me why my version of blackness is wrong

00:18:07.900 i was like you have got to be kidding me no no and that's and guys i always say liberal women

00:18:15.500 liberal white women in particular are the most dangerous group on the planet because

00:18:19.520 they can play every piece on the chessboard they can be strong independent they can be

00:18:25.240 damsel damsel and distressed they can be stay-at-home mothers they will talk about the

00:18:29.660 patriarchy um and and the evil white people but then they will marry a white guy have his children

00:18:37.320 and then call him a misogynist and all these names all at the same time.

00:18:46.520 It's insane.

00:18:47.340 If you were going to date a liberal woman, what race liberal would you go?

00:18:53.080 Liberal white, liberal Asian, liberal black, or liberal Latina?

00:18:57.100 What you picking?

00:18:58.360 Anyone but black.

00:19:01.620 Sorry.

00:19:03.680 All right.

00:19:04.200 I can make all the rest of it work.

00:19:07.320 do b-dubs all right okay so um we're gonna go over the rules um i the panelists in the back

00:19:12.920 can hear me or you should if you can't then you might have audio issues um so

00:19:20.840 we got to keep it respectful this isn't too contentious of a topic so today should be fine

00:19:26.360 what do you think the talking limit per person should be roughly we're gonna try to keep it

00:19:31.320 around two two and a half minutes and if there's a good back and forth we'll let it go but we have

00:19:39.160 one two three four five six six people plus pearl on the panel i'm going to be moderating and don't

00:19:46.520 don't take it personal if i have to mute you once again i put in the chat we've had a couple of

00:19:52.040 people that try to do main character syndrome on here you got to leave it at the door everyone's

00:19:57.560 equal here and don't bring up your personal life unless you you want what you brought up about your

00:20:03.400 personal life scrutinized and don't do the oh not all women not all we're all adults here yeah we

00:20:09.960 make generalizations on this channel yeah so we're gonna i mean this is a new show so we might you

00:20:15.880 know think of rules down the road audience feel free to interact you know but i think today will

00:20:20.920 be all right so okay let's let me start with i want to do a special warm welcome i wasn't sure

00:20:28.040 if he was coming aaron clary welcome to the show hey hang on had i didn't i gotta get my camera i

00:20:35.700 didn't know we're gonna do three-way here aaron well i'm gonna bring up the whole panel in a

00:20:39.540 second but i do need to give him a special shout out because aaron broke down the economics of

00:20:44.880 dating women i did and you know it's crazy so he he broke it down from a numbers point of view

00:20:52.200 um and jesse's like a dating coach so he went out and dated

00:20:57.520 what's going on good to be on good to meet everyone uh welcome to the show jesse thank you

00:21:06.900 i got i don't think we've met before as a dating with al you got it good to meet you glad to be

00:21:13.380 here thank you we got spirit chili are you are muted you got on mute but welcome to the show

00:21:21.860 um dirty rotten people welcome to the show how's it going everybody good to be here

00:21:27.620 and we got aj's uh rants and reactions welcome what's going on everybody all right um so i'm

00:21:35.700 gonna toss it over to doug mpa um he is gonna moderate the show today and give us some openers

00:21:43.060 but welcome everybody thank you for coming okay so we normally do a trending topic first

00:21:51.540 and then we're gonna do like a micro about the topic and then other panel and then a macro so

00:21:59.540 let me the the trending topic is i don't know if you know who this is but i'm gonna bring up the

00:22:06.180 screen guys make sure to like the video subscribe to the channel i really appreciate it and athena

00:22:10.820 is in the chat i hope everything is going well with you my friend i hope to have you on another

00:22:15.700 panel soon thank you for getting all the panelists together she has brought so much value in a short

00:22:20.980 amount of time so thank you athena and say hi to athena in the chat everyone and let me share my

00:22:26.900 screen real fast share one second what's the first one it's the the indian chick right no no um no

00:22:40.340 we're gonna do um remember nicholas pepe so yeah so nicholas pepe he is a popular

00:22:54.980 football player he's worth 30 million dollars and he was worth well i know right

00:23:02.260 it's 15 now so this is him and his ex-wife right here

00:23:11.540 you can see nicholas pippa left his wife and two kids for a porn star a porn star tiana trump

00:23:18.100 and and so this is him and her right there and this was him and his ex-wife and i saw this tweet

00:23:26.240 and this is what um right he's this person salt of the earth says see why we say as a man you need

00:23:32.180 to get it out of your system when you're still a bachelor get with all the baddies you can

00:23:35.740 you can get your hands on fulfill your wildest fantasies only when you're done should you get

00:23:40.660 married or else you feel get married then ruin your own marriage later so i want to go around

00:23:47.940 the once again this was his first life with two kids whatever he's 30 years old with 35 million

00:23:52.740 dollars he's leaving his wife behind to get with a corn star tiana trump please tell me i mean

00:24:01.860 i mean i i i mean he's dating a chick with like a sleeve you know she's kind of overweight so

00:24:07.700 he's probably just like he's probably you know just like he's probably thinking that either one

00:24:17.140 probably has a past so at this point he might as well get the hotter one

00:24:22.740 Anyone else want to jump in? Why would Nicholas Pepe divorce his wife to get with Tiana Trump, a corn star?

00:24:32.060 Probably retarded, but it's not. I mean, when you're inexperienced as a guy and something like this comes across your lap, you don't think about it.

00:24:42.980 You just jump on it. So inexperienced and also don't underestimate these Jezebels and the power they have over these men.

00:24:50.720 so i'd like to jump in if i could go ahead you know this is what i tell a lot of the women i

00:25:00.280 coach all the time speaking of a woman in the audience you will never be your man's only sexual

00:25:05.920 outlet okay whether that's him looking at corn a playboy magazine ig models of girls the reality

00:25:16.160 of the fact is you will never be your man's only sexual outlet okay i don't know why he decided to

00:25:22.860 divorce his baby mama or go about it that way but maybe if you had the conversation like hey

00:25:28.960 i'm a man i can either look at porn or i can get a side chick maybe it's because he avoided that

00:25:35.720 kind of tough conversation i think it's maybe because he's uh his family's african right so

00:25:42.600 he's he's born in paris you know he's probably like the son of immigrants and they're really

00:25:47.320 really like catholic or really religious right and then maybe this chick just laid it on him and

00:25:54.040 opened up his whole universe to debauchery that he never had experienced you know maybe he's doing

00:25:58.920 lions offer labia i don't know you know what i'm saying so i mean that has to be it you know like

00:26:05.880 it's probably like a cultural thing he thinks it's a status thing i don't know but if any of

00:26:14.120 you have fallen for a really promiscuous woman tell me what did she do that made you fall for her

00:26:19.720 tits got got got five thousand she fought really really well

00:26:29.880 okay i want to hear what spirit chili has to say why do you think

00:26:33.720 a man left you know a relatively unknown woman who wasn't i'm pretty sure back in the day she was

00:26:39.560 you know attractive before the two kids or whatever but to leave for a corn star what

00:26:44.760 do you think they're married too so it's not like his girlfriend his wife yeah well i mean

00:26:49.880 there's obvious reasons lust is the obvious one i mean only fans is is on the rise definitely

00:26:57.960 lately more so uh a lot of women like to take their independence their only fans i have uh

00:27:04.520 won't talk about it very much but i do have a little experience uh in that department so i do

00:27:10.360 know where that lifestyle comes from um i know that when you have more money you tend to have

00:27:16.600 less discipline uh that's not necessarily always the case but marriage takes a lot of discipline

00:27:23.000 and lust and that type of behavior in life is just normalized now basically

00:27:30.440 that's all i really have as far as input i don't really follow shitty things like that so did he

00:27:36.200 get a head injury in it in the game or something did he get maybe he got kicked in the head in the

00:27:43.080 last uh football season or something i don't know i could definitely agree with that uh there's a

00:27:49.240 a lot of stupidity that comes with lust so it's based off of your primal instincts so i have to

00:27:54.920 say all these athletes are not good with their finances in general um it may just be financial

00:28:02.580 education if you look whatever nba nfl doesn't matter how many of them have baby mamas how many

00:28:08.760 of them have kids it's almost uh well i've made it i have unlimited wealth and i don't even know

00:28:15.080 if marriage i mean you said he's he was 30 or he is 30. so he got with this gal pretty young yeah

00:28:21.560 i i don't think the concept of marriage was all that serious within him as it would be per a lot

00:28:27.240 of the professional athletes so this is just i'll throw money at it and it goes away it could have

00:28:32.360 been cultural because he's african so they got he got married early as a cultural thing right and

00:28:37.240 then he he started making more money and all that stuff and obviously but i think that you know

00:28:43.080 You know, Kevin Samuels, he said that athletes and entertainers don't count as what he would call kind of like the high value thing, right?

00:28:50.200 You know what I'm saying?

00:28:50.460 They're in their own category because they're different than like a lawyer who had to work to become partner at the firm.

00:28:56.000 Or a guy who built his own business up, who did the long game to actually build up so he understands what a mistake could cost him.

00:29:05.320 Whereas these young athletes, you know, they're just shoving dump trucks of money up to their house, you know?

00:29:11.260 so okay okay uh the everyone should know this but what are the two biggest reasons why athletes go

00:29:18.260 broke uh it's got to be divorce or child support alimony and child support okay

00:29:26.660 here's the thing as a man's net worth goes up his sex drive goes up okay so maybe he wasn't

00:29:34.820 getting it at home and now he's got this porn star who does everything right and this is the

00:29:40.680 the outlet that he chose to unleash if you will okay so so real fast i'm gonna shotgun the panel

00:29:48.040 real fast a quick answer everybody a prediction five to seven years from now for ridiculous

00:29:55.160 pepe what does his life look like go ahead shambles shambles not good definitely not good

00:30:03.960 down to seven and a half million

00:30:05.400 did he marry the porn star did he marry her no they're wait did they get married i thought

00:30:13.020 they were in talks of getting married they're engaged thank you no was it kids and what

00:30:19.240 next year he'll have a kid with it

00:30:21.240 largely i think he'll be okay he's got a big coach uh you coach women i do this is a win

00:30:31.840 for women everywhere it's like if she can stick the landing anybody can

00:30:41.040 hey i want to i want to introduce nuke to the panel nuke what's up may what's going on you

00:30:45.920 guys hear me hey what's going on nice to see you guys give your give your opinion on the tiana trump

00:30:53.440 nicholas pepe situation real fast uh you know i think a lot of the reasons athletes

00:31:00.960 state like turbo sluts like that it's just ego you know the thrill of being able to lock down a girl

00:31:07.840 like that i think that's why kanye dated the kardashians just to say he to lock them down

00:31:12.640 and stuff it didn't work out i mean they had kids and all that stuff but i think it's just ego like

00:31:17.520 these these kids think they can rule the world and control everything and you know they're like hey

00:31:23.600 i i i can do it i can make a hoe into a housewife i swear i can i'm different and then lo and behold

00:31:29.760 this is how this happens so that's my opinion on that okay and then you know what normally i do

00:31:35.840 one turning topic but i'm gonna have to do two because pro pro and i were talking about this

00:31:40.600 earlier if you're not familiar with the akash singh drama is everyone up to date on that it's worse

00:31:46.220 oh yeah we heard a little something about that okay this has done terrible marketing for indian

00:31:56.140 women they were kind of seen as like batters that was a terrible marketing so so you know

00:32:02.400 she's getting flamed for for disrespecting her husband uh who's typing i hear someone typing

00:32:09.700 i muted him so this is the latest version of her podcast and this is her response to all of us

00:32:19.240 red pill influences what's like 45 seconds of it where the fuck has chivalry gone yeah that's

00:32:26.140 where has chivalry gone? Like, why do these men who make $60,000 a year talking about gold diggers,

00:32:33.020 you don't have any gold to dig. You don't even have to worry about it. It's like, bro, we're

00:32:40.560 not even talking about you because the guys that are actually in the 1% tax bracket, they want to

00:32:46.860 do like the things that my husband and Nav are doing. They want to take care of women. They don't

00:32:51.280 want us to be stressed. They want to be in our divine. They want us to be in our divine feminine

00:32:55.500 energy so do this quickly she doesn't work she's trying to start her own uh social media following

00:33:03.380 by rinsing out her husband um you know she she said all these things about you know messing

00:33:08.140 around with guys in college and and how she doesn't cook or clean or anything like that

00:33:12.960 she's pretty much trying to build her social media experience off at the cost of her husband

00:33:18.180 and she's saying stuff and he's paying for it is the worst part yeah dude yep yep wife is the

00:33:24.640 biggest roi that you'll ever have investing in your divine they want us to be in our divine

00:33:30.320 feminine energy investing in your wife is the biggest roi that you'll ever have investing in

00:33:35.680 your wife is not a financial burden because when you treat your wife like a princess or a queen you

00:33:40.640 spoil her you give her stuff you just let her be able to relax she gets into this divine feminine

00:33:46.800 energy this divine feminine aura in return she starts taking care of you in a much better way

00:33:53.280 she's so emotionally supportive of you because women are so strong in their eq and how they can

00:33:58.320 take care of men and like really comfort them on this like this level that they you know really

00:34:02.640 haven't gotten since they were with their moms you know and and not i mean can we just stop

00:34:11.840 it gets worse she starts talking talking about eastern physics and and and all this foolishness

00:34:18.880 all the but she said all the modern woman talk talking points oh men are brokies and men don't

00:34:24.560 have any gold to dig and all this foolishness but there's also a follow-up on his part where

00:34:29.520 he was on stage he addressed this and he told this story about like how he was broke and she

00:34:35.040 stayed by by by him and it turns out that that that story is not not true that she left him in

00:34:41.520 2018 when he was broke and went to india then he had to go to india to like track her down so

00:34:47.920 he's like trying to do damage control on the road while during his comedy specials you guys

00:34:54.480 speaking of comedy specials i guess you guys know bill burr's quote women are surrounded by this

00:34:58.880 tornado of misinformation nobody corrects him because we want to them yeah yeah so i think

00:35:04.560 that's a perfect example of this she's very attractive i'm top five percent whatever and

00:35:10.160 when they start spewing nonsense like eq and uh women are you know marriage is the number one

00:35:16.720 with the highest roi which i have an entire book and audited by an actuary that says the contrary

00:35:22.400 that that it's the worst investment in many regards this is a person who just had everything

00:35:27.760 handed to her and is not an adult and that's i mean i couldn't i mean like nails on the chalkboard

00:35:34.160 listening to her managed to talk for four minutes and not say a damn thing and so she's hot he went

00:35:40.800 with her now he's got to deal with this because this is not a responsible adult who who's even

00:35:46.160 capable of selflessness or or thinking that other people exist including her husband so it's just a

00:35:52.960 a spoiled child who's painful to listen to because she's never lived in the real world

00:35:57.520 look this is proof that you know guys who have money who get these chicks you can have money

00:36:02.000 she still won't respect you and she'll treat you like absolute crap you know so pull up that

00:36:07.920 picture again just look at his body language right we need the green line it's absolutely terrible

00:36:13.360 and there's so many examples of him trying to kiss her and she doesn't uh-uh and denies him

00:36:19.840 in front of everybody that is not indicative of attraction in the slightest way shape or form

00:36:27.120 that's performative yeah it's sad it's actually sad there's a compilation going around of every

00:36:33.360 time that he's gone to kiss her and he's uh he's done this he bought her like a new ring like a new

00:36:39.440 expensive wedding ring like four or five different times right yeah yeah yeah and in front of

00:36:44.480 everyone he goes to kiss her it's a big ring and she goes up cheek kiss me on the cheek in front

00:36:50.640 of their whole family and friends so dude's a simp yep um anyone on the panel dealing with al

00:36:59.280 i guess to be fair i mean to be fair she kind of has a point like as a man your most important

00:37:06.480 investment will be the partner you pick so if we want to throw her a grain of salt she is right

00:37:12.640 there if you wife off the wife up a hoe she's gonna your friends and take half your

00:37:18.560 if you wake up wife up a wholesome girl that's a good investment right she'll take care of you

00:37:23.760 she'll have your children i'm not sure that's what she said though i'm pretty sure she just

00:37:29.360 wanted the dude to invest in her finances i don't think she was talking about her personally

00:37:35.920 i don't like her farming club like she's already rich now she wants the right i'll i'll tell you

00:37:40.720 this not once i've ever said do i want feminine energy in my woman i've never and that was like

00:37:47.440 her selling point give me a couple million dollars i'll give you feminine energy oh wait it's the

00:37:52.080 divine feminine divine feminine feminine if that means calm and collected sure but i don't think

00:38:00.960 that's what she was going for either yeah i think a lot of women have that feminist mindset and

00:38:08.160 they don't really they don't really think what they say they do so i just think that she doesn't

00:38:14.720 either she doesn't know or doesn't care probably doesn't care the the amount of damage that this

00:38:22.640 is doing because he's a comedian think about all the ammunition comedians rag on each other

00:38:28.560 yeah ammo is gonna give even his co-comedians just rip this guy to shreds yeah and she just

00:38:35.520 keeps going like she did another video today talking about if she wouldn't have married him

00:38:39.840 if he if she had to sign a prenup what is her background is she just from a wealthy family or

00:38:50.640 something i mean she's not an engineer or served in the military i'd imagine uh she's pretty enough

00:38:56.560 that's her background right found a sim and it's crazy because guys you know indian chicks are

00:39:01.520 either gorgeous or they're gargoyles you know there is no in between you know so she's just

00:39:06.000 one of those like rare indian chicks that's kind of up there in looks you know but the ones that

00:39:10.880 aren't are you know so i get it from what i saw when they first met she was just working

00:39:18.240 with a regular job so she might have a college degree because she's not like a doctor or a

00:39:24.000 lawyer she's not that type of indian woman where she's super accomplished so okay okay anyone else

00:39:32.400 what i mean he seems like a short guy like a short guy you know he probably grew up getting bullied

00:39:39.440 yeah and the only way that he thinks he can get a woman was probably just to throw all his money

00:39:44.240 at her and he thinks it's a tough situation that he ended up in i i think a lot of times that

00:39:49.520 happens to guys who might have been picked on or bullied because they were smaller or whatever

00:39:54.080 and now he's basically bullied by his wife

00:39:56.080 well she kind of answered her own question you know she i mean she she says she says uh where's

00:40:04.300 all the chivalrous men at but i mean she said it herself she can't even think about her own husband

00:40:09.080 whenever she's using the vibrator right yeah she she gets dried right up you know so that's why

00:40:16.280 nobody wants to be that guy okay okay if you i put the video with him trying to cope on stage

00:40:24.520 and the private private chat you want to go to six minutes okay on a separate show because i

00:40:30.400 want to move to the main topic anyone else want to comment on this nuke i think uh i think uh it's

00:40:37.200 it's his fault i think a lot of women a lot of women will become this if you just don't have

00:40:43.200 any if you're if you have no backbone as a man this is what women become like this is like it's

00:40:47.800 like two plus two equals four this guy probably never told his girl no like she's like hey i'm

00:40:52.540 gonna go do this with my girls he's like okay whatever you want here's my credit card spend

00:40:56.660 whatever you want that for like 10 years this is the outcome it's just a woman that thinks she can

00:41:01.320 say or do whatever she wants of course she's gonna act like this it's because women or men we create

00:41:06.860 we're we're uh dr frankenstein we create this this is our fault not saying that uh you know like

00:41:13.800 if if women if you do everything right women will be perfect right but it's pretty obvious that this

00:41:20.320 guy is a beta by definition and if you can't even get your wife to look at you like with admiration

00:41:27.120 despite who you are this is the outcome this is it like you know he created this so good job

00:41:33.920 akash you did it congratulations yeah i'm just gonna say um i don't know how long i don't know

00:41:42.720 what started this whole trend of rinsing your your husband or your boyfriend out for clout i don't

00:41:48.720 when it started but it's just getting worse and worse as time goes by awful okay so we're gonna

00:41:54.640 move to the main topic so you know it is the holiday season hope everyone had a good thanksgiving

00:41:59.840 and you're gonna have you set up for to have a merry christmas if you celebrate whatever but um

00:42:06.640 this polarizing political environment you have all sorts of people saying yeah the views say that you

00:42:12.160 should just leave your your family who are on the right behind and don't spend any time with them

00:42:16.640 whatever so the topic is how do you navigate what we're going to start with how do you navigate

00:42:23.200 the holidays thanksgiving christmas dinner with people of opposite political beliefs i'm going

00:42:31.520 to share my screen and give you a couple of examples and make sure to like the team if you

00:42:38.440 haven't already subscribe if you haven't already and i'm going to make sure that everyone shares

00:42:43.860 where you can find them by the end of the show so when they say where to find them make sure to give

00:42:49.620 them a sub okay and let me entire screen here all right good example is right here

00:43:01.060 god cares about the million women

00:43:06.020 from their home with no more murder god was an immigrant

00:43:13.860 jesus christ what i find funny is that she needed a point to wear a shirt that says trump and

00:43:23.380 you for voting for him to her family's thanksgiving gathering here's my thing if you

00:43:27.700 know that you hate your family's political views and can't be mature about it why would you show

00:43:32.420 up just to start problems ruin everybody's night because you too emotional and dumb

00:43:36.740 where the do y'all get this so there's that one and then let me share the other one real fast

00:43:43.860 other ones even better give me one second y'all

00:43:49.540 one second and then this other one right here

00:43:54.340 buckle up because this girl is nuts hold on one second oh where'd you go

00:44:02.660 okay share the screen real fast one second share okay one more time the entire screen

00:44:17.460 are you guys ready because my family's all mad oh

00:44:25.380 do you know who that is uh who's that that's her mother is the one that's suing me i hate her mom

00:44:31.940 no is it cost me grand this morning

00:44:37.940 ain't this the girl who had a falling out with her dad and then yeah yeah her dad came on my

00:44:42.500 show and then decides to drag everybody to court and that's why it makes me laugh and be like

00:44:51.780 all you have to do is get a prenup when you get married all the woman has to do is challenge it

00:44:58.020 and and even if it stays you have to spend thousands upon thousands of dollars going to

00:45:03.540 court because she wants to say she didn't understand what understand meant when she signed

00:45:10.020 the prenup yeah even if they have no case they can just waste your time and money it's amazing

00:45:16.660 i do not spend thanksgiving with my family because my family's all maga and i'm gay etc and here's

00:45:22.340 the thing here's the freaking rub egg on my face because you would think that because i'm not

00:45:26.980 spending my thanksgiving with my maga family that it's like i'm escaping all of the turmoil and

00:45:32.280 fighting you would think that i'm free you would think i've set myself free by refusing to attend

00:45:37.240 but uh-uh-uh because what did i just do for the last 45 minutes while i was getting ready for my

00:45:41.600 friendsgiving i had imaginary arguments with my conservative extended family in my head like i'm

00:45:48.260 actually so heated right now by these hypothetical arguments like i was dipping in and out i was

00:45:54.280 bobbing and weaving. I was pulling out statistics. I was pulling out anecdotes. I was pulling out,

00:45:58.220 you know, arguments in their own skewed Christianity worldview. I was using those

00:46:03.900 things against them. I was flipping things. I was reversing. I was turns tabling, you know,

00:46:08.800 like me and my uncle in my head just really got into it about snap. Me and one of my Republican

00:46:15.220 aunts, we had this huge fight about trans women in sports. Like I'm telling you, like I literally

00:46:20.340 just enacted all of the Thanksgiving

00:46:22.380 table fighting that I was

00:46:24.460 trying to avoid.

00:46:25.980 Guys, someone say something.

00:46:28.100 I was distracted

00:46:30.300 by the stain on your sweater, sir.

00:46:33.140 I could not get past

00:46:34.480 that.

00:46:36.220 I think I'd

00:46:38.460 be going to Whataburger myself.

00:46:40.380 This woman's mother cost me seven grand.

00:46:42.620 I got beef with her.

00:46:45.660 I think she...

00:46:47.620 so so once again how do you navigate we're going to start with just the holidays holiday dinner

00:46:56.160 thanksgiving dinner they say like you know i'm i'm an independent but i voted on the right like

00:47:02.160 if you're on the right how do you deal with someone like the first girl yelling how do you

00:47:08.340 deal with that how do you navigate it anyone i don't think i've ever had anyone that liberal

00:47:13.420 at our I'd say my I've been lucky because my family's pretty conservative

00:47:17.920 um have any of you had that problem I've never had that problem no I'm not on a personal level

00:47:25.020 I know that my aunts uh are polar opposites uh on on the political spectrums one's definitely

00:47:31.700 more vocal one's definitely a little more insane and vocal both um and the other one's definitely

00:47:40.360 democrat but a little bit more conservative if that makes sense at all not really probably um

00:47:46.600 but she gets a little psychotic she's tds up the uh up the ass sorry i don't know how much i can

00:47:52.600 curse on here but i don't know how to put that uh bluntly um but yeah without taking it too

00:47:59.320 personally i've just tried to separate myself from both of them um and i've gained a lot of

00:48:05.240 independence just being by myself and not surrounding myself with my family because

00:48:09.240 you said you'd call the police

00:48:11.620 yeah seriously like you take out your phone record them and you call the police because i'm worried

00:48:20.060 about their safety these people are crazy they're no longer your family right your family's supposed

00:48:24.180 to like have your back and and like you're supposed to be able to talk to them be like hey

00:48:28.940 we're gonna have thanksgiving no political talk can we keep it civil and that's it right but if

00:48:34.120 a little political talk though at the thanksgiving table right there needs to be a little bit of

00:48:38.520 something no no maybe the kids maybe the kids will talk right this is america there should be

00:48:47.640 yeah like i'm not gonna take down like my american flag on the front porch or anything like

00:48:52.200 i get that but like at the end of the day it's just like hey uh you're in my house right this

00:48:57.240 is my house i invited you either you act like a civil adult or you get out and if you don't want

00:49:03.000 to get out i'm calling the police it's over like we're done it's 2025 we're done it's over i'm not

00:49:07.640 dealing with this anymore yeah there's only one way to handle that if somebody crashing out and

00:49:11.960 that's to take out your phone and record it so we can talk about it and the internet can see it

00:49:17.000 that's the only way to handle a crash i don't know to just grab it to go plate and leave but

00:49:23.160 i think a lot of the time when this happens is when you have like a mom and a dad that are

00:49:28.760 you know fairly conservative and then their daughter or doctors go off to college and they

00:49:34.600 come back with the bull ring and the tattoos because it happens like a semester like a little

00:49:39.880 nice girl that they sent off to you know to college one semester back who's paying for it

00:49:47.560 it kind of goes back to what nuke said earlier how monsters are created because the parents are the

00:49:52.520 the ones paying for it but like they'll still pay for it even though they're like basically

00:49:58.540 paying for their daughter or son to get indoctrinated i don't think the majority of the

00:50:04.160 arguments people are going to have is with veritable psychos like that where police being

00:50:10.500 called to be requirement but generally you want to get your goal is to make mom happy

00:50:16.460 So whether you're a Democrat or Republican, you shut up, you know, just let it don't feed them fire.

00:50:23.080 Don't give them oxygen.

00:50:24.380 You just make mom happy so that she can have her Thanksgiving and her Christmas.

00:50:29.520 And that's it.

00:50:30.540 And then in the rest of your life, you have nothing to do with those people.

00:50:34.180 But, you know, it really is for mom.

00:50:36.520 So, you know, just just practical advice.

00:50:38.500 But, yeah, if they're crazy and flying off the handle, yeah, then don't show up.

00:50:41.580 i think the second video that girl was kind of coping in a way because she's like oh i'm not

00:50:48.960 going but i really want to go so i can talk about everything i believe in so i'm playing it in my

00:50:55.300 head i think that was like an elaborate cope on her part her dad's so nice too that's so nice

00:51:02.200 you gotta wonder what happened gets it from the mom i could tell you what happened her mom's

00:51:07.800 literally dragging me to court right now it's always the mom i could i yeah it's definitely

00:51:13.060 the mom um has anyone had has anyone had a crash out like that at thanksgiving dinner

00:51:20.440 or christmas dinner where you had to leave or kick somebody out anyone never no i was expecting

00:51:27.400 a good story i have one liberal aunt that sometimes we'll go back and forth with like

00:51:33.020 but it's always respectful like i usually the conversations i can think of i mean nobody gets

00:51:40.160 mad or anything they just kind of give each other shit and then move on to the next topic

00:51:44.640 okay okay so now we're going to move on to you can you date someone who has a different political

00:51:57.600 opinion or opposing political beliefs and of course i have some examples of these are short

00:52:03.660 and sweet but let me before everyone says oh yeah oh no let me bring this up real fast guys make

00:52:08.860 sure to like the video if you haven't already subscribe if you haven't already really appreciate

00:52:12.760 that. And let me hit this real fast. Okay.

00:52:25.640 Today, if I had a friend ask me today, if I could ever date someone with different political views

00:52:30.660 than mine, and even like five years ago, I would say maybe if we could compromise on different

00:52:36.040 things, agree to disagree. But honestly, nowadays, with everything that's going on in the world,

00:52:40.280 I actually don't know how you could.

00:52:42.700 I don't know how you could sit at a dinner table with your spouse as you were talking about where to send your kids to school, how to raise your children, what decisions to make with your income if you guys have differing views on policy.

00:52:54.600 I mean, does it work for anyone?

00:52:57.220 Like, I'm genuinely curious if it can.

00:53:01.600 Well, see, that's a problem.

00:53:03.900 She assumes we're making that decision together.

00:53:05.880 One more.

00:53:06.800 One more.

00:53:08.240 Real fast.

00:53:10.280 You know how they say not to talk about politics and religion on the first date?

00:53:15.120 I could not disagree more.

00:53:16.460 For a matter of fact, I like to ask guys about their faith and political beliefs before we even go on a date.

00:53:21.620 Because I'm personally very passionate about what I believe in.

00:53:24.640 So why would I want to go on a date with someone whose values and beliefs don't align with mine?

00:53:28.800 I'm Catholic and conservative, so if you're an atheist liberal, that's fine.

00:53:32.620 Live your life.

00:53:33.600 But there's no way that we're compatible in the long term.

00:53:36.760 Plus, I'm dating for marriage and my future husband's also going to be the father of my

00:53:40.180 children and we need to have those same fundamental beliefs.

00:53:43.180 I don't want to waste either of our time and energy and the guy's money.

00:53:46.880 Also, some of the best dates I've been on, we're talking about God the whole time.

00:53:50.520 So girls, listen up.

00:53:51.500 It's not just about dating a cute boy who treats you well.

00:53:54.200 Those are both very important, but we can't avoid the crucial conversations about values

00:53:58.740 and beliefs.

00:53:59.840 It's not healthy or beneficial to develop strong feelings for someone before you ever

00:54:03.820 have those conversations.

00:54:04.860 Get them out of the way in the beginning, and you'll save yourself from heartbreak.

00:54:08.440 She's banged a liberal guy at that money.

00:54:13.300 Men will just lie.

00:54:14.960 Men will just lie.

00:54:17.100 Men will lie about anything to get laid.

00:54:19.620 She's filtering for liars.

00:54:21.120 That's what she's doing.

00:54:24.140 Dirty rotten people, I want to hear your opinion on this.

00:54:27.780 Yes, I think it I think nowadays it has a lot to do with the the political extremism, you know, when it comes to the division, like right now, like people aren't really their political differences and the discussions that they have.

00:54:42.460 They're not like they're not like, well, I think more, you know, funding should go to our local schools.

00:54:47.880 And, you know, my husband thinks that they should go to infrastructure.

00:54:51.880 You know, right now it's like, it's more like, uh, if you don't believe in what I believe in, uh, you're trying to unalive, uh, everybody like me, you know, like say like on the, on the Tik TOK streets, right?

00:55:03.280 Uh, we got, uh, most of the T people, you know, all your transformers, uh, their general belief is that like, if you don't affirm their pronouns, you're contributing to, uh, uh, mass trans genocide.

00:55:15.280 Right. So it's like and this is this is about to do with the politics, the the politicians and the media.

00:55:23.280 You know, that's that's how they try to spin their narratives. Super extreme. Right.

00:55:28.620 So. So, yeah, right now, there's there's there's no there's just not going to be much, you know, meeting across the table.

00:55:36.720 Right. You know, there's not going to be a lot of people dating.

00:55:40.100 As a matter of fact, I pulled up some some statistics I might share at some point.

00:55:45.280 on grok that's uh pretty interesting that that talks about how you know people uh people now

00:55:52.120 more than ever really are uh they're more politically divided they're not interested

00:55:55.780 in dating people with different political opinions uh and and they they're very comfortable with

00:56:01.560 separating or divorcing over difference in political beliefs so yeah we're very very

00:56:06.560 separated politically right now for sure i love liberal chicks they're the easiest chicks you

00:56:12.140 to pull they're so easy they're so easy so i love them all right but listen would i marry one

00:56:17.760 absolutely fucking not all right there's no shot now i would know so hey they're they're sexually

00:56:22.640 liberated bro they're easy yes actually i will say this though women believe what they want and

00:56:27.580 they'll change their beliefs for the right guy okay so as long as you're able to get them to

00:56:32.880 like you and fall in love with you they'll change their beliefs in a fucking heartbeat i've done it

00:56:37.580 i've seen it a million times should you marry those type of girls if she's been a liberal for

00:56:41.680 more than two years, even six months, she's probably been through the block. So you should

00:56:45.760 probably not marry that, you know, but women are very, you know, they're like clay. So they'll

00:56:50.860 believe whatever they want to believe for the right guy, even more so.

00:56:56.320 Yeah. I mean, that's basically stole some of the words out of my mouth. My toxic masculinity take

00:57:04.660 on the subject is a woman will take on the views of the man that she's with. If she's truly in

00:57:10.240 love with a man she will conform to his world views politically religiously etc etc the reality

00:57:16.900 of the fact is most women today are liberal and you can look at the voting numbers and it's clear

00:57:22.280 as day so honestly i think it's our job as men to date these liberal women to take them back from

00:57:31.480 the state if you will to sigh up them into our our world views right it's our responsibility

00:57:36.780 we have to take our woman back from the state propaganda it can be done it can be done

00:57:43.240 no do you want to expand on the point you had put in the chat that both of the women are feminists

00:57:49.100 yeah i think uh both these women are feminists because they both uh well it's like all women

00:57:56.980 are feminists to an extent because they they all kind of like watch out for their own first

00:58:01.480 the second girl was like oh he's gonna be my future husband blah blah this but it's just

00:58:06.420 like you can just tell through her body language how like she's like a nag and she's like my man

00:58:11.380 has to be like this this isn't that she doesn't sound like a fun woman she sounds like my husband

00:58:15.540 my children oh yeah you see what i'm saying like this kind of like energy of like she doesn't want

00:58:21.440 to get to know you she wants a plow horse she just wants a guy she can put on the plantation

00:58:25.320 and work for him while she does absolutely nothing and pretends to be catholic all day we see it on

00:58:30.880 twitter i mean you you debate them all the time those those are the type of women the lila roses

00:58:35.360 of the world the the whatever that's what they do they they nag men all day and then do one percent

00:58:41.080 of the wife stuff it's just like no i could i could easily tell i don't think first dates are

00:58:45.580 for planning the future i think men should just focus on having fun and it's relationship is her

00:58:51.340 problem if you want to be a good woman for me figure it out you're a woman it's it's your

00:58:56.980 problem i'm republic and i'm right wing whatever but i'm not going to like try to convince you you

00:59:02.540 have to do that yourself. If you don't meet my standards, then I can go find another girl. You

00:59:07.560 can find another guy, really. Aaron, what do you think? Pretty much what people have echoed here

00:59:14.720 before. Younger women, more attractive women, as you said before, they tend to be liberal because

00:59:20.500 they're younger. Most of these girls have been given this ideology because absent children and

00:59:26.100 husband and marriage and family, what other God are they going to have? And so they go with the

00:59:31.180 god that schools gave them so it's you know feminism rah rah girl boss and all that um but

00:59:36.740 then when it comes to more serious matters like if you're going to commit to that uh yes the girl

00:59:41.380 if you know this is why you should not oh i will never date a democrat or a woke girl no go ahead

00:59:45.860 you know as long as i don't got hairy armpits go date them you know if you like to be finding

00:59:48.980 physically attractive and then if they really like you i mean they'll throw all of that out the door

00:59:55.320 unless it is absolutely core to their being, and in which case they're not.

01:00:02.000 I will tell you this, woke women, left-leaning women, are basically antithetical to marriage

01:00:07.460 because being woke, being left, and all that generally is parasitic and selfish.

01:00:12.620 They have no capability of responsibility, self-seportation, or selflessness, which is what love is.

01:00:20.840 And so, yes, you kind of got to discern, does she have good morals?

01:00:26.580 Because all young girls are going to be Democrats, leftists, woke, whatever.

01:00:29.320 They're going to say the popular thing.

01:00:31.080 Is there a quality woman inside there who's like, you could sit her down short of the budget and say, look, sweetheart, this is how it really works?

01:00:39.280 Oh, yeah, you're right.

01:00:40.360 Okay, I was just phase or whatever.

01:00:41.940 But if this is the hill they're going to die on and it's become part of their actual moral fiber, not just the platitude or something they regurgitate to be popular on social media, you cannot – I'll say this.

01:00:54.740 It is – to be happy and have a successful marriage, you cannot marry a leftist, a socialist, a woke woman, or a Democrat.

01:01:03.060 They just – they're not – their moral code is not compatible with marriage.

01:01:09.720 I don't know if you would have these numbers, but when you were writing your book, was there a difference in debt between liberal and conservative women?

01:01:19.300 I never pulled the data.

01:01:21.180 Okay.

01:01:21.460 No.

01:01:22.140 I would imagine there is because only in so far is liberal women tend to choose worthless degrees more.

01:01:29.320 And that's the number one financial thing affecting young women in particular is their student loan debt.

01:01:34.960 And not to say there isn't like a sociology majoring Republican girl out there, but generally leftist women will skew towards your worthless degrees and have the debt and the student loans that come with it.

01:01:47.880 So you would probably find a positive correlation, but it wouldn't be, oh, you're a Republican.

01:01:52.740 Well, you must be a STEM major with $300,000 in the bank.

01:01:55.420 That's not a guarantee.

01:01:56.040 And when you were dating, did you find that any liberal women started to adopt your beliefs?

01:02:02.740 Like, did you ever date with a woman?

01:02:03.880 Oh, yeah.

01:02:04.180 Yeah. No, there is a couple of gals. Yeah. One realized, yeah, being a teacher is stupid. Anyone can do it. Some gals started, they would appreciate my hustle because when I was younger, obviously like all of us were, you know, whatever living in basements. And I'd say, no, I can't do it. I don't have the money or I'd fix my own car or something like that.

01:02:25.060 So your actions, which are kind of apolitical, they started coming around and like, yeah, this is or helping them with taxes was a huge thing where I'm like, yeah, here's what you paid in taxes.

01:02:34.980 And they're like, oh, my God. I'm like, well, you voted for it. So you as a person, as you date them through apolitical behaviors, morals, ethics, they'll start to or just simple adult responsibility.

01:02:49.560 they will probably come along or at least understand um yeah but i've it doesn't happen

01:02:58.420 it's not like the third date we sat down and read atlas shrug and now she's like oh my god i'm

01:03:03.380 totally conservative and let's have sex and here's the lingerie of it that then it took a little

01:03:08.120 longer than that but yes you can change them over time and so actually i was gonna ask you jesse

01:03:16.400 When you were dating or when you're dating, how long does it take for a girl to go from

01:03:22.160 liberal to conservative if she ends up adopting your beliefs?

01:03:25.960 Like three hangouts.

01:03:27.740 They hang out with her three times.

01:03:29.760 They're like, out of heels.

01:03:31.180 But one armpit shave washes a liberal away.

01:03:34.100 All right.

01:03:34.740 That's how it works.

01:03:36.660 Just really quick before I go on.

01:03:38.240 I think this is a really good point.

01:03:40.460 Women sell purity and they're going to catch on eventually where they're like, oh, wait,

01:03:44.820 men want conservative women.

01:03:46.400 And so to automatically go in and assume, oh, she's not a slut because she's a conservative is kind of like a big flaw that you want to take a step back from, right?

01:03:55.980 That's how guys get played.

01:03:57.480 So take it with a grain of salt and judge her based on her behaviors, right, how she treats it, stuff like that, rather than just saying, oh, she's conservative.

01:04:06.260 She must not be a slut, right?

01:04:07.980 Because I've been to those country clubs where they're all wearing boots and they're all conservative, and I'll tell you something.

01:04:12.260 They still get around, all right, whether they're conservative or liberal.

01:04:15.520 So don't base it off of that. Base it off her actions and really do a background check on these women before you dive into any sort of marriage talk.

01:04:23.840 Cool. I want to hear from Spirit Chili.

01:04:26.780 I kind of wanted to piggyback off of what he said because liberal women do tend to be way more impressionable than conservative women because conservative women tend to get their views from their lifestyle and their youth.

01:04:40.800 i will say i did live in portland i was a vegetarian for four years a vegan for two i did

01:04:46.480 have a septum i never identified as liberal but i was definitely a democrat and i'm from democrat

01:04:52.160 states i was an activist i did all of those things i wasn't necessarily liberal i never

01:04:59.200 identified as liberal to don't lie to me you have the pink hair i will i will continue this is red

01:05:04.320 first of all i did have a peak and i did have a purple i had all you know i'm an alt this is i'm

01:05:11.200 actually kind of dressed up kind of decent today because this is my first podcast um but i do uh

01:05:18.000 know that i red-pilled myself uh based off of logic and reasoning and the reason why those liberal

01:05:23.440 women will tend to change their narrative and their perspective based off of the men that they

01:05:29.040 are with is because they're impressionable women because who who red-pilled you what creator um

01:05:36.480 honestly i i don't think it was necessarily a specific creator a candidate event oh um well i

01:05:44.960 had a natural dmt experience a special spiritual awakening hence the name spirit oh wait no what

01:05:50.960 what like what content were you watching like what youtubers so i it wasn't influencers it was

01:05:58.000 personal experience i've been around i lived in new mexico and i experienced trump derangement

01:06:03.280 syndrome firsthand i was actually there this was before i was supportive of trump i was in the

01:06:09.520 trump rallies i don't know if you guys are familiar with what happened in albuquerque

01:06:13.680 new mexico a long time ago there was a big riot um they put out tear gas i was in that crowd i

01:06:19.760 was there for observation and i realized that something kind of clicked in my mind and i was

01:06:25.280 still back in new mexico and i eventually did move to portland but that's when the wheels started

01:06:29.840 turning for me that i did not fit in with all of this social media influence i didn't fit in with

01:06:35.680 the narrative of activism because my policies my ideas my beliefs were more independent focused

01:06:43.200 and i've always kind of been uh what's the black sheep and i think that's kind of where it comes

01:06:48.720 from i didn't grow up with my mom either i think that's the biggest the biggest influence is i did

01:06:54.480 not grow up with my mom and i grew up with my dad and he was super hyper independent i kind of had

01:07:00.560 to raise myself so everything i've learned i've just learned from experience not a lot of women

01:07:06.000 get that and that's still in portland no no no actually i left as soon as covet happened because

01:07:15.280 my instincts did kick in because um i was a part of the petitioning for like psilocybin therapy

01:07:22.000 and uh drug reformation there and it i had some doubts with the drug reformation that did happen

01:07:29.600 in oregon and a lot of that when covid kicked in i knew you have to say the cough cough don't say

01:07:36.720 oh cough cough yeah you're right sorry i forgot it's youtube sorry trust me i've been demonetized

01:07:42.800 i had more social media influence before before i started talking about this topic so i understand

01:07:48.480 sorry um but yeah so i my instincts kicked in as soon as 2019 happened and i left that state and

01:07:56.160 um i've kind of just been on the observation end of everything and just kind of seeing

01:08:01.440 anything from a broader lens so so i'm going to bring you back to the topic yeah how would you um

01:08:07.680 just with that 20 seconds do you think it's worth dating someone with oppositional political

01:08:14.000 beliefs give me 20 seconds i don't think it's worth it i i don't think that's where your values

01:08:20.080 or your your strong characteristics for with relationships i mean if we forgot one question

01:08:26.880 we forgot one follow-up question how good looking are they how good looking are the person with the

01:08:38.800 opposite political beliefs a lot of people say that but they'll put it aside when they see how

01:08:44.320 good looking yeah especially guys you know if the girl's like a a high mid a lot of these sides will

01:08:50.400 will start to simp and be like yeah i'm gonna go to the women's march or just clouded do you

01:08:55.760 Do you see how many hot girls bang Destiny?

01:08:58.700 Oh, yeah.

01:09:01.040 True.

01:09:02.940 Okay.

01:09:03.720 I grew up around men, so I don't really look.

01:09:07.120 I think Destiny is the only cuck that out-cucked his wife.

01:09:10.660 Like, he cucked his wife harder than she cucked him.

01:09:14.400 So I'm going to move it on to.

01:09:16.840 So now we can talk about.

01:09:19.640 I know.

01:09:20.840 Look, guys.

01:09:22.080 We can talk about men shouldn't get married all we want.

01:09:24.800 But in my lifetime, I think that the majority, maybe just below the majority of men are still going to get married.

01:09:33.780 So should a guy marry a woman who has oppositional beliefs?

01:09:38.580 And if he does, what is his life likely to look like?

01:09:43.060 So I'm going to share this real fast because I thought this was interesting.

01:09:49.780 One second.

01:09:54.800 look at this my experience marrying a trump supporter as a latina before i go into the story

01:10:01.680 i want to preface by saying that i believe there is a difference between a trump supporter

01:10:07.200 i married a trump supporter and this is how it went far going to the story i want to preface

01:10:12.880 by saying that i believe there is a difference between a trump supporter and a republican he

01:10:18.720 would constantly say things like build the wall even after i told him how hurtful and disrespectful

01:10:26.800 hearing that was because i came from a family of immigrants because of this experience that

01:10:32.000 i had with my ex being a trump supporter is a deal breaker for me the main reasons for this

01:10:38.240 is because anytime me and my ex argued he was always threatening to call ice on my family

01:10:44.720 and the relationship did not happen okay hell yeah

01:10:55.360 was very abusive but i stayed while ice on my family and the relationship was very abusive but

01:11:02.000 i stayed because of these threats i felt guilty a lot of the times for putting my family at risk

01:11:08.400 he consistently used me as an example as to why he's not racist because he married a mexican

01:11:15.060 he basically treated me as an exception one time we were at his family's house and his

01:11:22.140 trump supporting family cornered me and harassed me about my political views can we can we just

01:11:28.040 stop this none of this is true this is an attention whore with tits just this none of this happened

01:11:36.280 i love how she tried to spin it like she felt like like she was imprisoned in this relationship

01:11:43.780 uh because of fear that her husband might call ice on her family that's that's great i love that

01:11:49.080 how women's are either the heroes for the victims in their own stories but 99 percent of the time

01:11:57.080 they're to volunteers you notice that she goes from from the victim to the hero i have a question

01:12:03.120 for the guys on the panel how many times a day do you have to hear a woman say something and you

01:12:08.640 have to just listen and think things that never happen on the internet no just day to day oh it's

01:12:17.040 it's so difficult i i catch myself i catch myself rolling my eyes after it's too late

01:12:26.160 i have such an expressive face that i'm literally trying to work on

01:12:30.240 not showing my disgust and my disbelief i'm like actively trying to do it because i can't hide it

01:12:36.960 like but i think the most important thing about that clip is that the way she's speaking about

01:12:41.520 it it groups every single guy or whoever's watching it as oh they're all who are

01:12:47.120 going to call ice on these people right if you're conservative which is not true right

01:12:50.960 even if it did happen by any slight chance that guy's just probably a right so it's like

01:12:56.720 did that really happen probably not but why group everyone that you know that we would threaten them

01:13:01.680 and manipulate them in that way shape or form so that's the real problem that i see there it's why

01:13:06.640 is she grouping everyone as that they're going to take that action and just be very toxic in

01:13:11.920 a relationship like that you know well once again that's a real problem it's the female friendly

01:13:16.800 version of the story she's the hero and the victim at the same time that's why she's doing it yep

01:13:26.160 i'll tell you this if you guys ever see me doing my makeup while i'm doing a video

01:13:32.240 it's over i'm a liar uh contact the executor of my estate and have them shipped off to montana

01:13:41.280 where i'll be euthanized but yeah you can tell she's lying she's doing makeup on the that it's

01:13:46.880 it was all theater this goes to this goes to show you guys that what women say online doesn't really

01:13:52.160 matter you know like always watch what they do not what they say like uh if she wanted to be

01:13:57.200 in that relationship and she stayed or if she's in a relationship that long and she stayed it's

01:14:02.000 because she wanted to be there no one's holding a gun to her head no one's i know i know she had

01:14:06.560 to add in oh but he was gonna call ice and my family i'm like no like that that's not no one

01:14:13.120 believes that so it's like you love you love that man you enjoyed being in a relationship with that

01:14:17.360 that man as a matter of fact you liked him saying those things because everyone else was treating

01:14:22.260 you like a princess and this guy was making fun of you to your face and you like that i know that

01:14:26.900 because uh that's how a lot of latinas are they like guys that are republican or something because

01:14:32.760 of this dynamic they love the colonizer dynamic so trust me i've seen it with my own eyes i'm

01:14:39.380 dominican i've it's very common women will complain about guys that are right wing and then you know

01:14:46.700 be the victim but they just cannot they love the colonizer dynamic man i've just seen it too many

01:14:51.500 times have you guys seen that tick tock of the girl whose boyfriend cheated and so she he was

01:14:56.540 like hispanic and she brought him to the other side of the border what yeah no i didn't see that

01:15:06.460 she was like an illegal immigrant she found out he cheated and then she pretended they were just

01:15:10.620 going to a day trip and was just like oh just sleep just sleep it's okay i kind of deserved

01:15:15.180 lucky though hey um cappy we salute you brother thank you so so what does so for a man what does

01:15:29.420 what does his life look like being married to to a woman like that if i could try and chime in

01:15:35.820 because i have a friend of mine who's getting divorced right now and he was kind of liberal

01:15:41.180 when he first met his wife i think uh pearl and doug mba that you might have heard this story but

01:15:45.720 my friend he's a phd in engineering he makes quarter million dollars a year he's a good

01:15:50.480 looking dude pause you know what i mean and uh his wife won't give him kids right and she all

01:15:57.560 of a sudden is a non-gender conforming ldhc tv person and he's been trying to make it he can

01:16:04.100 work for like 15 years in the last six years things have come to a head and now he's like

01:16:09.120 She didn't think she'd divorce him, but he wants to be a father.

01:16:12.540 He wanted to be a father six years ago.

01:16:15.460 And her and her feminist friends, I'm not a brood man.

01:16:18.640 You can't make me have children.

01:16:21.100 So now he's kicking her out to the uprights, and that's it.

01:16:26.440 But she didn't think that he'd leave.

01:16:27.840 So that's his whole life.

01:16:29.360 They've been together since from 28 to 42.

01:16:33.320 And, you know, she just went all super far left.

01:16:37.740 They were both left.

01:16:38.360 and now he's a conservative.

01:16:39.760 But yeah, no kids, LDHD TV,

01:16:43.980 even though they live as a heterosexual couple,

01:16:47.880 but it's just, it can't work.

01:16:50.660 It cannot work.

01:16:52.720 Basically wasted his whole life with her.

01:16:57.360 Sounds like he didn't do a good job vetting her.

01:17:02.220 It sounds like he didn't do a good job vetting her.

01:17:05.720 you know well they met in a different state in in grad school and then when they moved to dc you

01:17:13.800 know she started her friend group completely changed so about six six years in to the

01:17:19.720 relationship four years into the marriage is when she dropped the bomb like no kids and then he he

01:17:25.820 wasted the next six seven years trying to change her mind now i say if you guys if you want kids

01:17:32.120 you're with a chick and she says no kids you can't convince you just get out period that's

01:17:37.400 the one thing that you can't compromise on and well i would say politics two things right but

01:17:43.400 i would say that when he started seeing signs he should have kind of bowed out earlier you know so

01:17:49.880 yeah because we had said how impressionable that women are so once their their entire friend group

01:17:55.240 change changes to more blue-haired septum ring pierced chicks it was just cooked that's that

01:18:00.360 Yeah. Yeah. And a lot of people get fooled. A lot of men get fooled because a lot of these women, especially in the Hispanic community, they come off as as conservative, but really they're covert feminists.

01:18:12.340 You know, as it turns out, you know, a few years later, a few kids later, you know, they they promote divorce, you know, and they need that that child support and that alimony.

01:18:23.620 yeah it's the yes queen culture latinos are very susceptible to the yes queen and you go girl

01:18:30.260 yeah um well here here's how i see it like uh from what i've seen in my family it's like

01:18:40.820 they innately have the software or the hardware to be good women but they are very susceptible

01:18:46.020 to ratchet culture they're very susceptible to you go girl stuff but the thing is uh that's why

01:18:53.700 they kind of stopped dating latinos because latinos come from very conserved catholic families

01:18:58.820 and they don't really deal with that stuff so they date other races because they're they want

01:19:03.060 to be that they look at they look at uh white women and black women are like i want to be that

01:19:08.100 because it looks better because being latina is like you gotta serve your husband you know it's

01:19:13.620 very ingrained in the culture but all right guys i gotta go but nice talking to you guys i'll talk

01:19:17.840 to you guys later thanks profiling me on thanks for coming yeah i mean he's right though that's

01:19:24.460 why kosh sing's wife's online right now talking about popping her pussy i mean they can only stay

01:19:29.800 so conservative for so long you know it's too boring such bad marketing for the indian women

01:19:34.740 i feel like indian women have generally had pretty good marketing at this point yeah i mean

01:19:39.460 white women have kind of ruined our marketing with like the like transition kids and like the

01:19:45.620 liberal feminine you know but indian women haven't had a real l in the media black women don't need

01:19:50.900 to say more um you know but indian women they had decent marketing till now now it's over i mean like

01:20:00.160 when i did my interviews i think that's one of the number one races that i would hear like um

01:20:05.020 the divorce rate mentioned it's like oh go to india they don't have divorce um but now it used

01:20:11.420 to be cooked it used to be latinas until nuke just ruined it for everybody

01:20:19.260 no the jigs up on the latinas they've seen what happened to selena gomez they get fat men will

01:20:24.940 forgive a lot but they won't forgive oh and also giselle's brazilian that counts as latino so

01:20:29.820 giselle yeah you know yeah i mean latina's i just i i can't think of any indian woman that's like

01:20:36.860 been terrible marketing before this i can't think of one mandy kindly i don't know isn't she she's

01:20:44.620 there no nia khalifa is a middle eastern okay okay i'm gonna go around the panel i want i wouldn't

01:20:51.100 know i'm gonna do aaron spirit um uh dating without the rotten people jesse wait you if your brother

01:21:03.260 or or a man close to you comes to you and says i want to propose to this woman and she's a raging

01:21:10.700 liberal okay give me like 45 seconds to a minute and tell me what would you say to this guy that

01:21:17.420 that you cared about who is about to get on one knee and marry this liberal crazy person how would

01:21:23.780 that conversation go aaron go ahead i would basically say you're about to ruin your life

01:21:28.400 by marrying someone who's parasitic and doesn't want to work who is not capable of love because

01:21:35.260 she is woke or leftist or whatever and her her god her ideology is uh not you it is other people

01:21:44.740 randos kids immigrants criminals anyone else but you and you cannot form a relationship with that

01:21:51.560 person because frankly they're inhuman because they are not capable of respecting other people's

01:21:56.980 life and time and money and me being a misanthrope i just walk away at that because i've learned to

01:22:03.500 be a stoic and not stop people when they're making mistakes because they're gonna make

01:22:06.460 him anyway so that'd be my 45 second pitch okay i'm very stoic myself i would definitely not chime

01:22:16.200 in in this situation but given the force of having to chime in with the situation yeah definitely

01:22:21.280 um she's a narcissist she's going to make a lot of decisions for you and if that's what you want

01:22:29.280 to lean into go forward but that's what's going to happen but that's about it 30 seconds 10

01:22:36.140 sorry that's all i really have she's yeah i'd say do it because you're gonna do it anyway

01:22:43.020 i'm in this deep with the she's gluck gluck three thousand she's doing something i don't know what

01:22:48.560 but she's doing something right so um i'd say you might as well just do it um but i would get a

01:22:55.080 prenup best way to learn to learn is from your own mistakes i just i you know i'm kind of with

01:23:00.700 Aaron on this. I think most people

01:23:02.680 are just going to do it anyway, so I waste

01:23:04.660 my breath. Don't get emotionally

01:23:06.800 involved. It hurts, but

01:23:08.280 say your piece so you're free.

01:23:10.760 Like, hey, I did my part.

01:23:12.640 Yeah, I guess I'd maybe add

01:23:14.800 in

01:23:15.160 stop simping, please,

01:23:18.860 and then just move on.

01:23:22.180 You can definitely

01:23:22.720 do better.

01:23:24.500 Go ahead.

01:23:27.060 I would say don't do it

01:23:28.740 yet. Your job's not finished, brother.

01:23:30.700 i would say like i said at the beginning of the panel you know a woman will take on the world

01:23:35.740 views of the man that she's in love with so if my brother is conservative she's not ready for that

01:23:41.660 ring bro she's not you got you got to continue to reprogram her from the netflix programming

01:23:48.060 so i would say hey man i know you like her but but job's not finished bro you got to keep it going

01:23:53.260 hold off on the ring tell her no okay men this is where men get in trouble they and like you can

01:23:59.660 have good intentions like he's a nice guy he wants to be kind to his partner so he says yes

01:24:05.420 to everything but women crave being told told no and it's actually a great test to see if they

01:24:11.740 deserve marriage right can they handle being told no or if they don't get their way one time then

01:24:17.660 hits the fan yeah let's uh let's shift the word marriage to assets right do they deserve assets

01:24:26.060 i think we thought about it like that we would shift our perspective but also for the record

01:24:30.540 if i become good friends with all of you and and you come you see me doing something like that

01:24:35.020 please shoot me in the head just don't let me actually do it all right um the first thing i

01:24:39.980 would do though it's it's something that was covered earlier on that's really important

01:24:44.140 vetting is a two-step process all right in order to be able to vet you have to earn the vetting

01:24:49.500 right right so the first thing i would ask him is like how many other women have you been with

01:24:54.380 because if he's willing to do that mistake he probably hasn't been with many women

01:24:58.380 um he doesn't know how they operate probably so i'd start there it'd be five seconds and get

01:25:02.620 the conversation going so i could convince him not to do that if i truly cared about him okay

01:25:10.220 can i ask something or are we gonna i just i suppose like the yeah i was just wondering

01:25:17.100 as far as like the vetting goes is there any like necessity like as far as like dating in general

01:25:21.900 where you feel like that that's your obligation or i mean like is that why you feel the need to

01:25:27.660 waste the time or is that just it's not a waste of time it's not a waste of time at all it's the

01:25:32.380 best investment a man can make okay men men get better with experience right that's why older men

01:25:37.180 are more attractive right a young man who has never had any experience in the world is worthless

01:25:43.420 right and the same thing goes with women so it's one thing back in the day was different because

01:25:48.060 you you had guidance right from your family like oh this is a good woman right um there's protection

01:25:53.740 here and there that guidance is gone it's no longer existent so we have to seek that guidance

01:25:58.140 on our own and a man has to go out into the real world and learn what's actually proper with women

01:26:03.260 what works what doesn't how he so he doesn't get fooled in the long run so it's not a waste of

01:26:07.900 time in any way shape or form now i'm not saying go sleep with every girl you meet right but get

01:26:13.100 Get an idea of how they behave before you get down to one knee.

01:26:17.500 So I wanted to ask, so, you know, we have guys out here who are trying to build themselves up, you know, using all their bandwidth to make themselves better.

01:26:29.140 how much is too much when it comes to vetting because like is there a such should a guy know

01:26:37.120 how have like a set criteria as to how much time and how much effort before he starts going out

01:26:43.880 there to vet is there a such thing as too much like if a woman's a liberal raging feminist

01:26:48.940 but she's high how much time should a guy put into trying to change this woman how much time

01:26:55.020 an effort. Just enough to hit it and then bounce.

01:26:59.960 Amen.

01:27:01.480 I was going to say, he shouldn't.

01:27:03.160 If she's

01:27:03.600 I don't think

01:27:09.160 it takes that much effort for liberal or

01:27:11.040 conservative women.

01:27:14.800 Are you

01:27:15.280 writing people? Go ahead.

01:27:16.940 Yeah, I think just a couple of dates, man.

01:27:18.800 I mean, the thing is, you don't have to

01:27:21.200 tell her everything that she needs to

01:27:23.020 believe in. The first

01:27:24.940 date, but you at least need to let her know that, uh, you are a man of, uh, of depth and strong,

01:27:31.220 uh, views and opinions on things. And, uh, therefore she just kind of knows how to operate

01:27:36.600 around you, you know, but, uh, yeah, I think if, if my brother was, uh, man, if he was going to

01:27:42.300 marry a raging liberal, I would just tell him, uh, uh, I hope you're not too attached to your

01:27:48.480 balls, bro, because they're going to be in her purse for a long time. Um, and I can almost

01:27:54.600 guarantee you that it's not going to work out. And, um, even if it does, you're never going to

01:28:00.460 be respected again and you're going to have to deal with her cheating every once in a while.

01:28:04.120 So, uh, yeah, I just think, uh, I would, well, I'd tell them, you know, I'm probably gonna have

01:28:08.900 to distance myself from you, but that's probably not gonna be a problem because she's not gonna

01:28:12.400 you hang out with me anyway so um engineering women fool around a lot this is code for

01:28:19.760 do don't know bird fur thank you for this engine women okay i don't really understand what he's

01:28:27.120 saying but thank you for the super chat i will read it aj go ahead yeah well if my brother had

01:28:35.680 decided to be a liberal chick i would just tell him be just be prepared to come last

01:28:42.400 in your relationship behind transformers palestine all this other stuff they climate change even that

01:28:51.120 comes before you these liberal liberal chicks make everything issues in their relationship

01:28:57.600 that don't really matter you know what i mean like you know how many guys i know who are with

01:29:02.400 liberal chicks and they'll be like oh you know milwaukee passed some anti-ldhg tv law and they're

01:29:08.720 like i don't care how can you not care it's like so all these you know sorry keep going keep going

01:29:14.640 sorry no no no but like uh well you know your geopolitical thing that these chicks know nothing

01:29:21.120 about they're gonna argue they're gonna come home and you've had a long day's work and make that

01:29:26.480 issue your issue it's like a lot of guys just don't care because we're working so you will come

01:29:30.960 and if she has kids it'll go her bastard kids the dog palestine transitioning kids

01:29:38.560 yeah but the don't you think conservative women do that too like i was talking to a conservative

01:29:43.200 relative because i'd say my family's mostly conservative and this relative kept going

01:29:48.160 on about the food supply and this was like 45 minutes i just had to listen to help there's

01:29:52.560 pesticides in the food and i'm like i don't care i'm gonna eat it like a girl's gotta eat

01:29:58.240 like what am i i can't i'm not gonna buy your like anti-pesticide that's too much work

01:30:07.600 i'm just gonna die like i'll die early if i have to but but like i don't know if i see a difference

01:30:15.680 like between conservative and liberal women that much i would say dating anybody

01:30:22.400 typically women who are super politically inclined sorry pearl this isn't a jab at you

01:30:29.120 oh no i i get it it's it's a d it's a deficit it's not a good yeah it's it could you know you're

01:30:34.320 you're walking uphill you're running uphill yeah i wouldn't recommend it to be honest

01:30:42.480 well it's it's a really and this would go for anything whether it's politics career or look

01:30:48.400 and i'm not christian but she should have no other god before you whether that's her career

01:30:53.760 her politics right or left which is why i don't believe any of these mommy soccer mom blog youtube

01:31:00.480 influencer types lecturing men about having sex and they're christian and or you know trad con

01:31:05.840 wife like you know or they a classic tell is they're posing their kid uh you know they use it

01:31:12.800 as a proper pearl you had that run in with the gal who took the picture of her posing and it was

01:31:18.080 was supposed to be some orthodox church it was all about her the girl needs to put you first and

01:31:23.520 and truthfully the the politics of the career or whatever else might truly come second which would

01:31:28.360 inevitably lead towards if you want to get into political political assessment they're probably

01:31:32.840 going to lean right but yeah it's it's their behavior and like am i coming first or you know

01:31:38.960 where we started with the um the comedian guy and she's using them as a prop so that it it really

01:31:46.740 will tell you everything you do with her actions.

01:31:49.540 Cappy, you have to find yourself

01:31:51.020 a vodka drunk in a public

01:31:52.940 porter potty before the rumple

01:31:54.780 mince.

01:31:57.020 No, I think drinking

01:31:58.700 the rumple mince of the porter potty was

01:32:00.500 good enough. Someone put in the

01:32:02.820 chat that you have to find a woman that

01:32:04.720 can't speak. Maybe there's

01:32:06.700 like mute women out there.

01:32:09.200 They can still use sign language

01:32:11.040 and cuss you out.

01:32:12.520 Yeah, but if you can't, you just, you know.

01:32:14.420 They can still hold the frying pan.

01:32:16.740 exactly right is there a mute mute woman events in dallas

01:32:21.420 i'm gonna you can go and interview their boyfriends they're probably the happiest guys in the world

01:32:28.480 okay i'm gonna ask the next question what has been um what has been said on a date or dating

01:32:37.420 someone that you're like i can't do it no way like that was just an immediate they say something

01:32:44.740 they say something about a belief or like a political issue and you do this right then

01:32:49.220 because like me i'll start so like you remember when the whole thing popped off with tiger woods

01:32:55.780 that was what like 2008 wasn't it 2009 something like that um i i met up with this girl in portland

01:33:02.900 of all places and um a white girl and we went to zoo lights it was it was in the winter time

01:33:11.220 and everything went good then we went out to dinner and we started talking about tiger woods

01:33:18.180 and i said look like everything going i mean tiger woods is the greatest call for of all time

01:33:23.780 and nothing's going to take that away from him and she's like yeah but he was cheating on his wife

01:33:28.020 and blah blah blah i said like so what he's still the greatest she's like i think that the pga should

01:33:33.460 take all of his titles back because he cheated on his wife what and then she's like yeah yeah yeah

01:33:38.740 yeah i said but he's still the greatest golfer of all time and then she had the nerve to say

01:33:45.780 if i was black i would consider him a traitor to my race because he cheated on his wife

01:33:53.860 i said do you go to the hit real quick do you go to like the bargain bin at walmart to

01:33:57.540 find your white women or where are you going to write a book called white women

01:34:03.860 and i've dated it's called you've never been to portland oh yeah yeah this is back when i was in

01:34:12.500 the northwest yeah but portland is full of those women but yeah yeah so right when she said that

01:34:17.540 like i don't right when she said that i was like check please i'm out of here i went on a date with

01:34:23.380 a guy a few years ago that this is before i had social media like before i had like the channel

01:34:31.780 and stuff um and he told me he was a male feminist and he like talked about feminism

01:34:37.380 for like 45 minutes on the date i'm like you were barking up the wrong tree

01:34:42.660 you don't know it but this is not the right audience is that even a real person a male

01:34:47.940 feminist is that like a person i don't know he was in like law or something so i think

01:34:52.740 like people in law especially if they're like fresh in their career tend to be more liberal

01:34:57.380 i don't know i've heard that liberal men tend to be the ones that are just trying to sleep with you

01:35:03.520 they're not actually liberal but i don't know how i don't know how true you don't say no i don't know

01:35:09.280 maybe that was his strategy but i was like this is the wrong tree

01:35:12.520 i'm like i'm like a male feminist bro i'm not like one of those agro conservatives bro come on

01:35:23.000 who you try to fool hey pearl i like you know have like a dream catcher bro yeah i don't know

01:35:30.280 i don't know that was the last day we went on but i mean if if that was his strategy it was

01:35:35.400 the wrong target market i can play some jason razz on my guitar bro anyone else have any stories

01:35:43.080 where you're dating someone or you're out on a date and they say a woman or anyone has said

01:35:48.200 something you're like nah this is it i'm cooked check horses and she mentioned she had horses

01:35:53.880 that was it for me no i'm not here no i'm more seriously um i had one gal where we're talking

01:36:01.720 about sex and she says well i believe if you're in the middle of having sex you do and she says

01:36:06.600 stop you do one more one more thrust then it is um the arrestable offense of sexual badness

01:36:13.640 and it's like okay yeah you know what i agree with you but the fact you brought that up i'm

01:36:20.500 just like going to exit stage right and get the fuck out like i won't do that but what else is

01:36:25.940 going to land me in jail with you so that that was that was a lead that you brought it up that's

01:36:32.060 yeah by the way i think it was like oh good for you i'm out yeah i had a girl telling me about

01:36:39.740 her abortion on our first date what yeah yeah yeah she was talking about her ex and blah blah

01:36:45.440 blah because we all know how these chicks love to talk about their exes and just be totally

01:36:49.680 misandrist on the first date oh man this man that and then she was like and then we this and that

01:36:56.700 and then after my abortion i'm like check please time to go and she was just nonchalantly just

01:37:02.540 flippantly talking about it so yeah that was uh yeah i mean no particular stories man just uh

01:37:12.640 if they're trash talking their fathers uh that's that's that's a big one for me you know i gotta

01:37:17.320 be out of there pretty quick um uh bringing out their exes too much yeah that's always a no-go

01:37:22.680 uh i've never had nobody bring up an abortion on the first date but man if they did i wouldn't

01:37:29.100 even pay the check i would say i'm going to the restroom and i'd sneak out and leave it with them

01:37:32.480 fuck it yeah i don't have any stories in particular um if they're a nurse i think

01:37:42.100 that's a red flag based on my show yeah um if they use the term patriarchy like unironically

01:37:50.140 probably should reconsider um but on a serious note i think a line in the sand here like really

01:37:57.420 considering you know is this worth my time at all is i don't know maybe maybe you're not having this

01:38:05.340 conversation on the first date but essentially how she feels about charlie kirk and what happened

01:38:10.380 there oh that's a good one yeah a lot of people thought were like kind of normal seem to celebrate

01:38:18.060 you know his death and it's he was really a moderate at the end of the day so if somebody's

01:38:23.260 celebrating the death of a moderate it's like okay they're too far gone i'm like i'm getting up and

01:38:29.100 i'm leaving that's a really good one i got a dip guys but thanks for having me on bye guys

01:38:36.780 thanks for coming aj yep jesse do you have any stories yeah yeah but one thing i'll say is um

01:38:47.820 when you guys are going out to meet these women especially like the smart ones that again that

01:38:52.300 sell purity the last thing i want is to anybody like listening to this to get played is when

01:38:58.240 you're out with these women try to be as non-judgmental as possible oh that's that's how

01:39:03.580 you're going to get the real true colors okay that's how they start talking about these stories

01:39:07.780 right um but i do have a story when i was uh i had this girl in rotation i was talking to her

01:39:12.960 about her friend who was a bartender and uh you know we're just talking about it and she was like

01:39:17.920 Yeah, well, you know, she slept with, like, 50 guys or something.

01:39:21.000 And, you know, what's that saying?

01:39:23.860 Birds of the feather flock together.

01:39:26.040 So when she talks about stories about her friends and, like, what her friends do and how her friends are behaving, that's a huge red flag because if her friend has done it, she's probably done it too, right?

01:39:37.260 So always take a notice at how her friends behave and how she's behaving with her friends and how she talks about her friends, the crazy stories they've done.

01:39:45.340 They could indirectly tell you what they've done through those.

01:39:47.920 fun stories okay uh spiritually well i've definitely never dated a liberal woman but

01:39:59.660 uh i know um from my separation um my my ex he was my ex-husband he was definitely a more

01:40:07.800 oppressionable person um and didn't have that strong backbone so definitely definitely need

01:40:15.700 somebody who has a strong backbone and has their own beliefs but you should definitely let somebody

01:40:20.680 reveal themselves in dating but i i definitely don't i don't think that you could definitely i

01:40:28.240 i know for a fact that i'd never date a liberal man man because i don't really think that they

01:40:32.760 truly exist i think a lot of that is performative so that's my only take as far as dating liberals

01:40:40.420 i don't really have a whole lot of input besides that unfortunately i just don't i don't date crazy

01:40:48.020 strong opinionated people have you could i ask you this have you ever tried like going on a date

01:40:52.440 with a liberal and then just telling them that you're conservative to see if they switch be like

01:40:56.240 oh yeah actually you know what it's not that bad and try to like pander out to you i tend to not

01:41:02.220 date so much anymore because i'm a lot more reserved because of how polarized people are

01:41:07.280 and i tend to just kind of stay away from that uh i i would definitely pull that on somebody i mean

01:41:13.120 i know that i'm pretty abrasive with my points of view i used to have a channel where it talked

01:41:17.440 about my views all the time so i don't do that so much anymore i kind of got a little bit quiet

01:41:22.640 um just maybe you should so you could start saving one liberal man at a time i you know

01:41:29.200 i have been shadow bans because i'm so um anti a lot of the things going on right now

01:41:37.120 what we won't talk about because that's not the topic so that's just why i've been a little bit

01:41:41.360 quiet but i'm definitely a vocal person when it comes to my beliefs i'm a woman i mean at the end

01:41:47.280 of the day whether you're a liberal or a conservative woman uh you're a woman you're

01:41:52.080 going to be strongly opinionated that's just kind of how it is and i think i think your best bet i

01:41:57.200 do want to give the advice like like uh i'm sorry i'm not sure what uh your name is um but you were

01:42:02.960 the one talking about vetting um definitely let them reveal themselves uh in the first few dates

01:42:09.760 because that will save you a lot of time and trouble and arguments because when you aren't

01:42:16.000 good at that type of questioning and trying to you know get the right information you're gonna

01:42:21.200 spark some type of uh debate with a very loud opinionated woman and um that might put a sour

01:42:27.840 taste in your mouth in the future so just kind of be level-headed and smart about your your questions

01:42:35.280 when you when you do do that it's already happened don't and i always say i always say

01:42:45.040 i always say guys do not do not afraid to ghost these women dude i'm mr ghosts seriously just

01:42:51.680 ghost them don't argue with them don't try to prove any point just ghost them

01:42:56.160 i mean i love going online and seeing oh guys ghost and it's terrible and blah blah blah guys

01:43:02.120 just go you don't have the time to to explain a woman why you you don't want to because women

01:43:08.380 want closure even when you go out with them on one day or two dates a relationship i mean they

01:43:14.580 want closure don't give it to them just ghost them don't even tell them what they said to turn

01:43:21.060 you off just leave and don't talk to them again i actually asked the girl once i was like do you

01:43:25.980 would you prefer for me to go see her tell you the truth and she's like could you tell me the truth

01:43:29.900 and i told her the truth and i from that point forward i decided i'm never going to tell them

01:43:34.580 the truth ever again there you go what did you they don't like the truth what did you don't

01:43:40.000 wait what did you say i was like it was actually i posted on my instagram story or something along

01:43:45.500 the lines that hey it's just like i think you're great i always started like yo i think you're

01:43:50.820 great but um it's just not a good long-term partnership and i don't even think i'm i thought

01:43:55.980 i was ready for a relationship but i actually i'm not ready for relationship so i didn't even give

01:43:59.360 her the whole thing and i had to bring to the case that she kind of grew up with no dad and i was

01:44:04.920 like and i don't want to show you what like you know what a true you know masculine figure is in

01:44:11.160 your life i think that's too much work for me at this moment so i'll just kind of like go from there

01:44:15.040 i really have to chime in here between these two i'm sorry but can you please just take one for

01:44:19.720 the team of women we don't there's so many strong vocal women can you just every once in a while

01:44:28.120 put your two cents in just because they probably need to hear from somebody yeah i mean you don't

01:44:33.720 have to do it every single time because it's not going to work out let's be real but if you put

01:44:39.800 that in the back of their mind it would be better for us too because i don't get along with most

01:44:45.480 women because okay okay panel panel ghosting yes or no aaron go ahead and start dirty rotten people

01:44:54.920 dating without ghosting what do you think men ghosting men ghosting uh no if you if you said

01:45:01.160 you're showing up on the date you show up on the date that's just basic no but i'm talking if you

01:45:05.400 go out on a date and everything's going along and then you just don't want to talk to her anymore

01:45:10.280 you know you show up yeah you have integrity stuff but like let's say you know you go on a

01:45:15.660 couple dates and then she says something and then you just you pay the bill you stop talking to her

01:45:19.620 yeah you do not owe her any more of your time no one knows yeah and you don't have to follow

01:45:24.340 up with closure or i didn't like no you absolutely ghost and if if i wanted to be retributive i

01:45:29.580 rarely had girls give me closure or anything like that so no gloves are off ladies we're

01:45:35.060 going to start treating you like you've treated us. So you see how you like it for a couple of days.

01:45:38.500 Who do we learn it from? Right? Yeah, yeah, exactly.

01:45:42.920 Okay. Jerry Rotten people, go ahead. Oh, I'm pro ghosting, man, all the way, dude.

01:45:47.980 Yeah. Yeah. All the way. To be honest with you, I try to run all my dates off like as quick as I

01:45:56.440 possibly can because I've kind of gotten to the point where like I consider my successes to be

01:46:01.600 the numbers in which

01:46:04.040 females I can run off, right?

01:46:06.380 If I can just sit and run for the heels, I'm just like,

01:46:08.380 that's time not wasted right there.

01:46:10.600 So yeah, like

01:46:11.740 first five minutes of the first date,

01:46:14.320 I'm giving them my harshest

01:46:16.360 views, my most offensive

01:46:18.100 outlooks and worldview, right

01:46:20.340 out the gate, and if they fucking

01:46:22.340 run off, then great.

01:46:24.340 I can sit there and eat dinner by myself in peace.

01:46:26.880 No, but I'm talking ghosting, so

01:46:28.260 let's say you've gotten past that phase.

01:46:31.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:46:32.120 Yeah, first date, second date, third date.

01:46:35.060 Or how about this?

01:46:36.460 You guys are together long enough where you take her to meet your parents and then you ghost her right afterwards.

01:46:44.600 Is that okay?

01:46:47.780 Oh, man.

01:46:49.040 No, I mean, if she made it to the meeting the parents phase, man, she must be something special.

01:46:55.420 She must be something special, man, because I'm not a get-past-the-first-date kind of guy.

01:47:01.800 But, yeah, I mean, you know, but, yeah, still pro-ghosting all the way.

01:47:05.860 Like, if the food's good enough on our first date to where I actually stick around and eat, then, yeah, you know, I'll ghost her afterwards, I guess.

01:47:15.500 Food's got to be good, though.

01:47:17.940 Dirty Rod, Dirty Rod, I've got to chime in.

01:47:19.600 I'm a dating coach, okay?

01:47:20.640 You've got to stop.

01:47:21.460 You've got to cut that out.

01:47:22.180 You can't tell your most fucking radical beliefs on the first day, bro.

01:47:26.660 You're going to come across like a psychopath.

01:47:28.020 Oh, dude, it saves so much time.

01:47:31.380 It saves so much time, bro.

01:47:35.040 It's considerate on my behalf.

01:47:37.460 I don't want to waste my time, but I don't want to waste yours either.

01:47:40.420 You know what I mean?

01:47:41.200 This is a psychopath, bro.

01:47:44.260 You slowly bring it up.

01:47:47.560 Oh, well.

01:47:49.300 A little finesse, brother.

01:47:50.800 A little finesse.

01:47:51.280 No, I don't know. I can't.

01:47:54.880 Wouldn't it not save you any time? Because women, we're women, we're liars.

01:47:58.680 So we'll just like lie.

01:48:02.000 Yeah, no, that's, I mean, that's fair.

01:48:04.580 I mean, most women that I've dated, they'll come off as conservative,

01:48:08.400 but it turns out they'll be covert feminists the whole time.

01:48:10.960 Yeah, because you told them up front.

01:48:13.700 Then we'll just, now we figure out how to lie.

01:48:16.260 That's a good point.

01:48:17.200 The most crazy radical political beliefs.

01:48:20.140 I have a question for Dirty Rotten People. Guys, we know that we're going to ease up. We have fundamental foundational views, but we're not going to be living this super red pill craziness in a relationship. I would think that it's better to overshow and kind of pull back as you get to know a woman than undershow and then find out later your views.

01:48:47.580 Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. I think that's where most people go wrong is that they themselves, they don't go on the first date.

01:48:54.500 The representative does. You know, I think I think put all that I think put your worst foot forward right off the gate.

01:49:00.980 You know, yeah, no, no, no wasting any time, dude. Like, look, I'm not I'm not hard up enough anymore to where like I'm that desperate to get laid.

01:49:09.080 Like, I don't I don't care, dude. I'm not I'm not wasting my time, bro. Fuck it.

01:49:13.940 Jesse, what do you think about ghosting?

01:49:17.580 um about what they're saying about showing too much on the first date you coach guys so

01:49:22.100 and ghosting yeah um it's actually funny i teach guys not to show anything on the first date

01:49:27.380 because the way women operate it's like they will look at you they perceive you however they want

01:49:34.000 to perceive you they're into you they will justify the attraction to you right and so a lot of times

01:49:39.140 on the first date or the second date women are like wait a second i don't know anything about

01:49:43.340 you jesse right or for my clients i don't know anything about these guys like tell me more about

01:49:46.640 you but by that time i already figured out everything about them right so it's kind of

01:49:51.120 like a game of chess really um and you're trying to say as little as possible to learn as much as

01:49:56.800 possible when it comes to this type of stuff pearl always tells me doug and pa why do you keep

01:50:03.520 talking so much on dates why don't you just shut up and get laid how many stories have i told you

01:50:11.200 for how many stories i know i'm like don't you you're already on the date or you want to get laid

01:50:18.800 okay what's the most other things that you tell a woman on the day what's the one that's gotten

01:50:26.000 most women to be like whoa wait a second if you don't mind me sharing what do you mean yeah well

01:50:31.840 i mean it's especially if it's like a single mother you know uh because my thing is like i'm

01:50:36.800 not completely against dating single mothers but if she is first five minutes first uh uh first date

01:50:43.440 uh we gotta address uh that elephant in the room uh i'm basically i'm gonna have to let her know

01:50:48.640 that you know i will uh be inflicting as much physical pain on her child as i uh as i see fit

01:50:55.680 in order to undo all the damage that she probably did to it because she probably she probably

01:51:00.240 fucked him up or her jesus christ man it's a child um

01:51:09.520 uh yeah i don't know about that i think you're on your own on that one brother

01:51:15.040 i know i i love eating in peace i don't think so um yeah i don't i don't think i've ever said

01:51:22.000 i think outrageous on the first date uh i i usually ask a woman what her most um

01:51:29.760 controversial political well opinion is and see what she says and yeah i've heard some pretty

01:51:37.920 crazy stuff i said on the first date and then oh yeah they're they don't have shame men men have

01:51:46.000 shame we're too scared to like tell people what we think for some reason uh women they just bust

01:51:50.000 that's a wide open or you know what when you're having these like deep talks it's not like about

01:51:57.280 politics i just think it's not that flirty you know what i mean it's not like yeah like what

01:52:03.400 do you say exactly like when you go in and she's like oh i'm a single mother do you just go like

01:52:07.840 i'm gonna beat this shit out of your child like what do you like what do you actually say i am

01:52:11.840 legitimately curious i mean yeah i mean i mean probably more like word for word like uh you know

01:52:18.300 when i when i said it the first time you know that's that's pretty much that's pretty much

01:52:22.540 like my line you know uh you know without a doubt you screwed up your kid i mean not without a doubt

01:52:28.320 you know more than likely i've seen some single mothers that are surprising but uh for the most

01:52:33.700 part their kids are brats and uh i'm i'm not putting up with that bullshit so it's either

01:52:38.980 first date do what when was the last time you had a successful first oh successful first date

01:52:47.000 You know, to be honest with you, dude, most of my first dates, probably, yeah.

01:52:59.980 I mean, if you consider it to be successful, you know, I smashed.

01:53:03.720 But, I mean, like, they weren't really traditional dates.

01:53:05.960 They were more like we met and we fucking smashed and when they just kind of stayed together.

01:53:11.780 But, yeah, it's been a long time.

01:53:14.040 It's been a long time.

01:53:15.320 I'm not surprised.

01:53:16.320 i don't i don't i don't really date anymore so okay that's yeah i it's not on the first date

01:53:24.960 or the second day for the third day but usually before i get serious with a woman especially in

01:53:29.320 the area i live in right now i ask him about their debt especially student loan debt

01:53:34.500 in the area i live in women are getting crushed by their debt and so you have to have that

01:53:42.000 conversation sooner rather than later because in my opinion a woman's debt is a reflection

01:53:47.660 of their decision-making process or lack thereof but you can tell a lot about a woman by how much

01:53:52.840 debt they're in big time so and then one last question i guess um big dating without kind of

01:54:04.780 answer this earlier but i'm just gonna go around the table do you believe that women change their

01:54:10.040 Political beliefs, if you're that guy, Aaron, spiritually, dating with Al, Jesse, if you want to reiterate and then dirty rotten people, go ahead.

01:54:21.020 Aaron, go ahead.

01:54:22.380 Will they change their political beliefs if you're the guy?

01:54:25.540 If you're that guy, the capital.

01:54:27.440 If you're that guy, yes.

01:54:28.720 That.

01:54:29.040 80% of the time they will, yes, unless they're their true God is their politics, whatever form that might take.

01:54:36.240 But, yes, they will generally throw that away.

01:54:38.700 Yes.

01:54:40.040 okay spiritually go ahead yeah um i mean like i said at the beginning of the panel women are

01:54:48.020 very impressionable so like i said before to you just let them reveal themselves and you can

01:54:53.460 honestly groom most women into being better people that takes a lot of time and effort though it's

01:54:59.360 like what your willingness is and how deep they are in in that mindset too so if that's your boat

01:55:06.200 you want to sell go ahead but at the end of the day you're probably going to have to groom somebody

01:55:11.400 to be your partner and they're going to have to groom themselves to be your partner as well so

01:55:16.760 it takes a little give and take okay i know that um my aunt she's super super duper liberal and

01:55:26.040 her husband's super conservative it doesn't always work but sometimes it does it's just how old are

01:55:30.680 they though um they're they're much older so there you go there yeah so yeah younger

01:55:37.800 not so much it's we we're a lot more polarized in our youth nowadays because

01:55:48.280 oh yeah you know i gave my stance on this of course they will a woman will take on the belief

01:55:53.560 system of the man that she's in love with to take it a step further i think to all the young men

01:55:58.840 out here it's it's our responsibility as americans as patriots to date these women right most women

01:56:05.800 aren't super politically inclined they're just default liberal just because everything around

01:56:11.160 them has the same message right their netflix account their instagram blah blah blah they're

01:56:17.000 default liberal so it's our job to date them and then deprogram them from the state and reprogram

01:56:23.080 them to more sane political beliefs so so i just want to say you say that most women aren't deeply

01:56:29.800 political but the problem is they get surface level politics from tick tock though how do you

01:56:34.280 deal with that because they're not super political but they have an opinion on some of these because

01:56:39.480 of social media so how do you deal with that you just like anybody else just have a frank

01:56:44.520 conversation and logical debates i think a great one to begin with is just the whole gender debate

01:56:52.280 like if you want to talk about your future with a woman and say oh you want kids right i want kids

01:56:57.320 too that's great well say if we have a little girl so they relate more do we want to dress

01:57:03.720 her up as a girly stuff pink bows and stuff and the cute little dresses or how are we going to

01:57:10.280 dress them up what toys are we going to buy them and then they're going to think like hopefully a

01:57:15.400 light bulb goes off and a flitch is sweating like yeah you know what my little girl i do want to

01:57:19.880 to dress her up in in cute little outfits so i i think starting with an easy win like the gender

01:57:25.940 debate is is a good tactic so i can if you could clarify your position you're telling us that to

01:57:32.660 save america we have to sleep with these women uh yes well okay good just want to make sure okay

01:57:40.840 good yeah we're here to save america all right really quick them have children with them

01:57:48.280 But it's it's more like flipping them because I think we all saw, you know, how they voted this last election, like overwhelmingly to the left.

01:57:58.140 Right. I don't know what exact number was, but we have work to do as men.

01:58:02.980 If she if she doesn't register as a Republican right in front of me, it's all facade.

01:58:06.640 OK, so I will say, though, if you aim to deprogram a woman, you're going to aim for failure.

01:58:12.060 i would leaning lean into the grooming and the cleaning aspect versus just trying to be abrasive

01:58:18.860 and change your change your mind because you're going to get a combative woman i'm just that was

01:58:23.660 my only two cents for that sorry go ahead yeah changing her tiktok algorithm is definitely

01:58:28.780 probably the hardest thing um you could probably hire probably like an indian for like five bucks

01:58:33.500 to just solely scroll and engage with conservative memes and reels and that could probably work to uh

01:58:40.380 to change your feed but um outside of that the real problem with women is that feminism now is

01:58:47.100 so strong in these women groups so you have like you know four chicks trying to figure it out all

01:58:53.020 together and it's obviously not working and so you could maybe flip one right but if the other three

01:58:59.500 are always going to overpower with their liberal ideas and those group chats it just makes it

01:59:04.140 really really difficult so yeah i agree it's going to be a team effort for everyone

01:59:08.140 to flip these women around you have to sleep with them i don't think you have to sleep with them but

01:59:12.580 you definitely have to be attractive enough so they could start changing their ideology of what

01:59:18.740 a quality man is i think i think that we kind of pick whoever the best looking like conservative

01:59:24.960 or liberal commentator is like i feel like more young women are conservative now i'm like like

01:59:31.640 i've noticed like there's more trump supporters now um amongst like young white women and i think

01:59:38.200 it's because trump's more attractive than biden just like just like as a person i think more

01:59:46.840 like charismatic for sure yeah i love pearl davis defender of men how she destroyed lila rose my

01:59:54.580 catholic sister yeah look i've been telling you i grew up around conservative catholic white women

02:00:00.460 And I don't see much of a difference.

02:00:02.860 So it's just my two cents.

02:00:06.520 Do you have people?

02:00:10.040 Yeah, absolutely.

02:00:11.180 If you're that guy, you can absolutely tell her what to believe in and what her new opinions are.

02:00:18.540 But you got to do it right.

02:00:19.600 I mean, the only way to go is to got a date down and dating market value.

02:00:23.660 And she dates up.

02:00:24.340 She's got to look at you, look up to you and see you as a leader.

02:00:27.840 And so, yeah, it's absolutely possible.

02:00:29.820 I've dated both

02:00:32.140 I've dated truly

02:00:34.180 submissive women that

02:00:35.620 thought I was the greatest thing since sliced bread

02:00:38.380 and I've dated women that

02:00:40.100 straight up really wanted to be the man in the house

02:00:42.260 and I'm telling you, if you do it right

02:00:44.100 yeah

02:00:45.960 you can

02:00:47.140 sway their political views

02:00:50.140 opinions, all that good stuff

02:00:52.180 absolutely

02:00:52.680 Pearl

02:00:55.680 any last

02:00:56.760 before we close?

02:00:59.820 on that subject at all um yeah i think women can be swayed like i don't know when i interviewed

02:01:08.500 a thousand women the biggest difference i found um in how nice they were was actually age over

02:01:15.360 political beliefs so like if they're over a certain age like 25 they're kind of cooked and

02:01:22.000 just combative and brood that's even 23 bro 23 yeah so because like even if they were young and

02:01:30.220 liberal like if i would say a combative opinion um or like a a difference like it was a debate show

02:01:36.860 so like the younger women would giggle and be like oh teehee i think this teehee but the old

02:01:43.160 women would get angry crash out and get mad and i'm like i see why men like the younger women

02:01:49.280 makes sense to me okay well we're going to close it out because we just hit the two hour mark i

02:01:56.080 want to thank everyone for for coming if you can go around and say where people can find you i

02:02:03.200 really appreciate that and then we'll we'll we'll put your information in the description box of the

02:02:08.560 slide streams so people can find you so we'll do aaron's spiritually defeated without jesse and

02:02:14.080 Tell people where they can find you please

02:02:18.520 You can find me at assholeconsulting.com

02:02:21.900 And then I got my YouTube channel

02:02:23.960 Which is my flagship social media

02:02:25.980 You can just search Aaron Clary on YouTube

02:02:27.940 And you'll find me there

02:02:28.940 Aaron Clary, let's go, the man, the myth, the legend

02:02:31.780 I'm on Instagram guys

02:02:34.260 Jesse underscore Steele

02:02:35.900 And YouTube as well

02:02:37.560 Just look up Jesse Steele as well and I'll be there

02:02:39.560 Okay

02:02:40.680 you're on mute spirit um sorry i didn't i forgot yeah i'm spiritual you can find me

02:02:49.640 on facebook youtube and twitch that's a hobby of mine

02:02:53.160 you can finally add dating with al on tiktok and instagram i run i'm a live streamer on tiktok

02:03:02.380 giving dating advice to kind of a call-in show i'll help anybody eileen conservative but if

02:03:08.260 you're a liberal, come on the show. I'll try to help you out. We love helping people at Dating

02:03:12.360 with Al. Cool. Dirty Rotten People, go ahead. Yeah, so I'm Dirty Rotten People on all the

02:03:21.120 platforms. I'm mostly active on TikTok, usually live streaming, but I'm also on YouTube, Instagram,

02:03:27.500 NX. Just look up Dirty Rotten People and you'll find your boy. Cool. Thank you guys all for

02:03:34.340 coming um oh aaron did you go no i'm here no i meant like did you say your final thoughts yeah

02:03:41.060 oh you did okay i can't remember okay thank you guys all for coming i appreciate it

02:03:46.260 um if you guys could go follow their channels

02:03:51.940 what um also guys nuclear cardio is live now if you guys want to go go uh stream his chat

02:03:59.460 he's talking about how to win cuffing season i'm gonna put his i'll put that link in the chat

02:04:05.460 i think it'd be funny to get him to like 50 viewers or something so i know

02:04:11.540 uh any final thoughts on the stream my friend when i was younger i thought politics mattered a lot

02:04:18.820 i don't think it really matters that much i think there's people that have different political

02:04:22.980 opinions that have good hearts and are good people i thought this especially when i did my

02:04:27.780 interviews of women um again i just didn't think that politics mattered that much nor do most women

02:04:34.260 care that much they just have these talking points they repeat from tick tock so that's my two cents

02:04:40.100 but i don't date women so take that with a grain of salt um yeah i would say guys you have to you

02:04:47.060 know i have met women that don't really have an opinion on stuff and then they meet you and they'll

02:04:52.660 like oh well you know i like him so i'll get into what he's into um but if a woman is a straight up

02:04:58.900 like liberal feminist dude you you guys you don't have time to deal with that i know that they're

02:05:04.100 saying oh you have to you know um convert her especially if you're young you got to build

02:05:09.780 yourself into something you don't have time guys so you know yes he's saying three hangouts though

02:05:15.540 you got to find his system that's not too bad three hangouts so yeah that's my opinion but

02:05:24.100 especially as you get older it's just it's just too much headache you know you do get to an age

02:05:29.780 especially in your 40s where sex sex isn't that important you know if you get laid cool whatever

02:05:34.500 but it's about your time and don't spend any time with some liberal feminist who's gonna go back and

02:05:39.380 forth so that's just mine yeah fair enough fair enough i don't date women so take it with a grain

02:05:44.260 assault okay guys um make sure you like the video on your way out um go to nuclear caudios

02:05:51.540 um stream let's see how many views he's at now is that wait hold up let me see now he's at 29

02:06:01.380 guys guys get to

02:06:04.980 get to get to 30 or 40 that'd be cool anyways like the video the link to his

02:06:09.540 channels in the chat and i'll see you next time have a good one see you

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Pearl - December 01, 2025

Panel Show： Can a Conservative Man Date a Woke Woman？

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