Pearl - February 26, 2026


Part 2: Rich Cooper versus Andrew Wilson


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2 hours and 5 minutes

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20,734

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398

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204

Hate Speech Sentences

142


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00:00:05.680 what the heck
00:00:11.120 it's not sorry it's normally just on guys there we go
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00:01:23.640 Nobody has to know
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00:01:34.740 That we know for sure
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00:01:45.000 thank you thank you i know i know i know
00:01:55.000 topic i know i should drop an album i should shouldn't i you're right how did you guys know
00:02:03.800 how did you know thank you thank you you know every day i wake up and i think well
00:02:10.040 all right. So a little, I just kind of wanted to shit talk a little bit, tell you guys about my
00:02:17.480 life. Is that cool? This is going to have nothing to do with the topic. We'll get into the topic,
00:02:21.460 but this has nothing to do with the topic. I like to kind of, I like to kind of spitball
00:02:26.740 some thoughts I have. Okay. I like to kind of, so the first thing is that I really want an N word
00:02:38.240 pass. Okay. And I think I talked about this last year. I really would like, I'd like to say,
00:02:44.000 what's up my, you know, and I really, I'm requesting from the blacks, I'm requesting an
00:02:50.060 N word pass. And the reason I want an N word pass, it's not because in my life, you know,
00:02:57.040 like I joke, but I don't have a real reason to be dropping the N word. Um, I think I maybe say
00:03:03.840 the F word a little bit too much, but like, it's not like something I crave, you know,
00:03:10.060 but I just like to feel included. Sue me. I don't like feeling left out. You know,
00:03:21.040 it's kind of like that party that you weren't going to go to anyway. The invite is nice. You
00:03:26.460 know? I want to say, I want to be able to say N-word in Paris without a care, you know?
00:03:39.960 And okay, I'm a little racist, but okay, just because I'm racist, that doesn't mean I hate
00:03:45.080 black people. I think we need to differentiate people that hate black people and racists.
00:03:50.160 racists notice a pattern and that pattern is very stark but i have no hatred in fact some of my
00:03:58.560 best friends are black you know what i mean but they don't like it when white people say that
00:04:04.100 they're like well you can't that doesn't you could still be a racist and it's like well
00:04:07.420 i think i am a racist but can i be a racist with black friends
00:04:11.240 i mean i'll even date interracially like i mean what racist white girls love black guys
00:04:19.080 so i just think that i just like to feel included you know i don't know i don't like being left out
00:04:28.440 it's just like you guys get to say it why don't why don't i get to say it you know
00:04:32.720 i woke up early this morning i like the crack of dawn
00:04:39.280 i woke up at like 5 a.m and it wasn't because i had anything to go to i just um
00:04:47.180 not last night, but the night before I was on my phone too late. Sometimes I get on Instagram
00:04:53.320 reels and I'll be up to like one or two in the morning. So it's like, it was my own fault,
00:05:00.720 but I fell asleep at like nine. So 10, 11, 12, one, two, three, four, five. You know,
00:05:05.480 if I wake up at five, that's eight hours of sleep and I'm like up. So,
00:05:09.800 um, my man, it was his birthday today. It's his birthday.
00:05:17.180 I don't know if I'm supposed to. I'll just say I made banana bread this morning and I'm like, okay. So I go to the store. I go to the store and, um, sorry. And all the stores are closed. And I'm like, okay. So I walk to Walgreens. I get my banana bread ingredients. I make banana bread for breakfast. Some coffee. I know it's not the most healthy, but you know, there were some ripe bananas. What are you going to do?
00:05:44.120 so um i get my my stuff i make my banana bread and i'm walking outside and it's like pitch black
00:05:54.440 like the sun is not up the only people that are up are the homeless people
00:05:57.560 and i'm like
00:06:00.400 am i better than everybody else you know i always would kind of make fun of people that
00:06:08.180 get up early because they just think they think they're so great
00:06:10.840 they think they're better than everybody else you know
00:06:20.880 but i found myself thinking the same thing i'm like ha ha i'm up before all of you guys
00:06:27.060 where is everybody why aren't the stores open get up everybody
00:06:34.180 now i guess it's situational because the area i was in it's mostly nine to fivers
00:06:41.740 so you know but i'm like you guys don't want to work out before work
00:06:57.500 but you know what no one tells you about working out before work
00:07:00.380 i don't if you want to go like i don't know what your normal life is but when you start because
00:07:06.720 recently i used to stay up like all night but recently i'm not an early riser but i normally
00:07:11.380 get up at like seven or eight and mind you when i was in london i used to stay up till like two or
00:07:16.060 three in the morning all the time actually it was worse than that sometimes it'd be five or six it
00:07:20.580 was bad because i would do these shows late at night you know it's kind of part of the reason
00:07:24.200 I stopped doing the panel shows is because I just was not, that schedule aged me. I'm like,
00:07:31.480 I'm already hitting the wall. I don't need to hit it harder, you know.
00:07:34.320 so I've been on both ends of the spectrum right and the issue if you consistently get up at 5 a.m
00:07:58.000 because I used to do CrossFit at 5 a.m is that if you do anything social on the weekends you're so
00:08:02.880 tired. Like staying up past 10 feels like death. It feels like death. So I don't know if anybody
00:08:10.140 has any thoughts on like getting up early or staying up late. I just, I just had the thought
00:08:19.260 yesterday. I was like, I am better than all of you or this morning. I just thought I'm better
00:08:25.140 than everybody. I am awesome. I just get up early. 9 p.m. sleep comes for me. Yeah, I think some of
00:08:33.660 you see I don't have the pass. Maybe one of these days I'll just, you know. I'm trying to think of
00:08:53.460 any other ideas I wanted to spitball at you um oh I kind of had a coffee talk about this but I
00:09:01.640 don't know if I articulated it right I'll just say this um I was thinking about an argument I've had
00:09:08.140 in the past and this had to deal with a woman right and this woman was mad at me because I
00:09:16.240 didn't include her in something but this woman also meticulously bullied me right when I was
00:09:22.740 younger. And I was thinking, I was thinking about this concept and I'm like, women will be so mean
00:09:27.520 to you and then play victim when you don't invite them, invite them to things. Isn't that kind of
00:09:35.820 incredible you're like that's kind of incredible so they say getting up early shows discipline
00:09:56.600 does it i mean if you get the work done all the same but you know i did i did start to have that
00:10:02.420 attitude in the morning. I was like, yeah, yeah, I'm better than everybody.
00:10:24.880 Yeah. Work. I don't know when I worked a nine to five, I did 5am for six months and I utterly
00:10:30.580 hated it. But back then I had a lot less discipline with my phone, a lot less discipline. So, you know,
00:10:41.080 you know guys if you start saying you know if you're trolling in the chat my mod's not here
00:11:01.940 yet because i'm kind of early he's got a he's got a day job um but i will just ban you
00:11:07.120 i will just like it's not that difficult for me to ban you that's your warning
00:11:15.100 i'm better at than everybody because i got up at 5 a.m one time
00:11:26.480 i think this is i think this is gonna be my new personality trait
00:11:32.420 is telling everybody I wake up early and you wake up late
00:11:37.720 and saying, what are you doing?
00:11:40.920 Why don't you get up at the crack of dawn?
00:11:44.220 I think that I'm right and that you are wrong.
00:11:49.480 I'm better than you.
00:11:51.040 I'm better than you.
00:11:52.260 It's true.
00:11:54.460 I'm better than all of you.
00:11:59.420 Really, I felt like that.
00:12:01.080 That's how I felt.
00:12:02.420 All right. All right. We're going to watch this Andrew Wilson. I got to first go to my last
00:12:08.080 debate and my last stream on it and just see where I left off. Let me get the timestamp on
00:12:14.600 the video. 21 minutes. I think I was like 30 minutes in. Let me see. I'm going to go with
00:12:29.320 like 25 minutes. It's close enough. Okay. Also, congratulations to Rachel Wilson. She was on
00:12:40.000 Joe Rogan this morning. Andrew Wilson. I might, if I get through this,
00:12:45.760 Um, I may, I may, um, okay, let's see. I might react to that too.
00:13:03.500 Yeah. Marriage is worth it. If you get the right woman and keep God in your relationship,
00:13:07.480 it's bold of you to assume women have God. That's bold.
00:13:12.300 notice i don't say friendly towards fathers but not hostile towards father where the outcome is
00:13:24.360 a default 50 50 arrangement what about the outcomes for the kids that's what i'm also i
00:13:28.500 have something i have to sign for a package and later we're gonna have a guest come on
00:13:33.780 um and give us a history lesson so um
00:13:41.100 yeah i will have to take a break to grab the delivery so i'm concerned with yeah so the
00:13:48.900 outcomes for the kids are obviously better when the parents stay together and you reduce the risk
00:13:55.440 for the mom to leave dad and kentucky successfully did that they lowered the divorce rate by 20
00:14:00.660 percent by assuming default 50 50 custody on divorce she would have to okay you're saying
00:14:06.160 godly women are rare they don't exist i've never met one i hate to say it every woman i thought
00:14:13.180 was godly her life choice is proved otherwise godly women you're telling me you know better
00:14:22.640 than paul he said he met one good man and no good women really like you're telling me
00:14:30.500 you have met better women than in biblical times that's how i know it's just simping it's like the
00:14:37.380 utmost degree prove that he's some kind of a degenerate piece of drug dealer gangster
00:14:43.220 or something like this where it would warrant her getting custody but if you live in that state now
00:14:48.180 they're seeing the divorce rate drop by 20 percent well then you've created but then you've created
00:14:54.100 a contradiction you've created a contradiction here rich because earlier when i asked you
00:14:59.540 i said rich why is it that if you're in a low risk if you're in a low risk category as a group
00:15:06.180 for getting divorced shouldn't you do it you said well any risk is too high but now you advise that
00:15:10.980 men go to a state where they still i just heard you out the contradiction here is obvious if i
00:15:21.140 ask you why shouldn't people who are in already mitigated low risk groups for getting divorced
00:15:26.980 shouldn't do it you say because the risk is high if there's even one no but they always
00:15:30.820 they always manipulate these statistics like it's a low like none of it's that low
00:15:36.020 i mean the lowest risk is like russian roulette
00:15:41.540 i mean you don't want to play russian roulette do you
00:15:56.980 anyways bores and i go okay but what should they do then to raise children you say well
00:16:04.020 they should go to some place where it doesn't assure them not getting divorced well that's
00:16:09.380 by the way okay if i had to rank like hierarchy of cucked and like divorce i don't think divorce
00:16:16.980 is the worst thing to happen to a man in fact i know a lot of guys i mean okay they
00:16:23.300 they they got some bitchy woman at 22 and then they divorced her at 32 or she divorced him at
00:16:30.560 32 they didn't see it coming they were heartbroken yada yada but now they get the date younger and
00:16:36.380 hotter and better in every way um and they did recover financially because they were around 32
00:16:42.020 too like the worst divorces are the ones where the woman waits like a long time you know it's
00:16:48.420 kind of nice to have silence in your old age, you know, as a man. And hang on, it only helps
00:16:53.960 mitigate the risk. And it's like, but that's my argument. My argument is that these groups are
00:16:58.940 already mitigating risk. Why is it that you shouldn't be gravitating towards the groups
00:17:02.880 which mitigate risk when that's your advice to men now? Great. So what we're saying then is
00:17:07.640 Kentucky mitigates the risk better. Okay. Cause you can say they have like a lower divorce rate
00:17:13.460 or whatever. Like he's, he's basically saying, join my religion. Right. And I mean, you can say
00:17:19.500 that, but it doesn't matter because it's still defaults to the state. Like you can say, yeah,
00:17:24.060 you're less likely to get divorced from a religious woman, but it's like, is she less
00:17:30.040 likely to get fat or I don't know, be a bitch. Like, I mean, most of the conservative women I
00:17:37.560 know beat their husbands to death over the bible like they just use the bible as a way to nag them
00:17:43.560 like if anything i rate them as worse than relate than liberal women because they just use their
00:17:50.440 theology to tell men they're not good enough you know so i don't and they're so much more performative
00:18:00.120 my god there's nothing more performative performative than the marriage of negro
00:18:04.840 and um or even a religious woman in church it's like they'll be the devil behind closed doors but
00:18:11.340 in church oh i love the kids and my husband and this is always the cope they don't whenever
00:18:17.900 someone's not perfect and they do what people do right which is sin all people sin they say well
00:18:23.660 they don't count they're not real christians i'm the moral one i'm i'm moral you're not moral i'm
00:18:29.520 super moral. Look at me. And then half the time it's like Elijah Schaefer banging some ego. You
00:18:35.720 know what I mean? Like it's, it's just incredible. Then they just try to differentiate themselves and
00:18:41.220 tell you how great of people they are. And then they're like, why don't people want to join my
00:18:45.740 church? And I'm like, well, because you guys are insufferable, insufferable. Um, yeah. So,
00:18:53.580 and then whenever their leader that says the right things gets caught um doing what everyone
00:19:00.500 else is doing they say oh well we got to make sure we don't judge and forgive it's like i'm
00:19:04.740 gonna kill myself yeah here we go christianity isn't about being perfect but anybody that's
00:19:10.940 not perfect you say they're not real christians it just never ends it never it's like it um it
00:19:18.280 just never it like never it's like a circle of logic gets caught doing the bad thing then they
00:19:25.960 say and then they say they're not it's just it never ends i mean pastors are more likely to have
00:19:33.720 emotional affairs emotional and physical affairs which would make sense because they're on the
00:19:39.940 stage women love banging men with microphones i mean there's nothing that gets a woman wetter than
00:19:44.480 a microphone including me you know it's like the guys and has the microphone and you're like
00:19:50.540 christianity no it doesn't apparently no it offers it assists with a de-incentive but if
00:19:58.520 you were a christian in kentucky then your risk would be mitigated by double
00:20:01.680 we're going back to the ought to you know in a perfect world for christian no descriptive is
00:20:09.780 right this second if it's the case that it's lower than the national average overwhelmingly
00:20:13.880 which it is and then you combine that with this incentive there's a couple problems with the
00:20:18.540 statistics that they cite one um the overtly religious tend to be over a certain age so like
00:20:25.880 what they'll do is they'll do a survey saying like people go that go to church this many days a week
00:20:30.480 are they more likely or less likely to divorce right and so it's like three times a week
00:20:35.300 but you don't know who started going to church you know two or three whatever it is the like bar
00:20:41.440 for counting as their religion and then the wife said i don't want to go anymore now they're not
00:20:46.460 counted right it also so it's already like a bad sample like it's a bad way to calculate it
00:20:52.740 it also doesn't count in um i mean social media is going to be detrimental to young women's mental
00:21:00.260 health right like a quarter of women are in ssri so how can we predict what women are going to do
00:21:06.420 in the future? Like you're marrying women that are addicted to their phones, you know? So how
00:21:14.160 does that translate into the future of marriage? So there's just a lot of ways, like even, I think
00:21:30.060 they, I don't know if he's citing it now, but they cited an Amish statistic. They don't include the
00:21:34.760 people that left the Amish they don't count as Amish so if you have like a hundred people and
00:21:38.660 half leave the Amish it's like I wonder what percent leave women from the state it sounds
00:21:43.400 like it's a very low-risk endeavor right rich it's it's it's a high enough risk well what do
00:21:49.060 you and also what do you consider low risk you know
00:21:55.420 it's not worth any man to live in a way that looks like marriage to the government I mean like
00:22:04.520 even you just had to move to a place for a second andrew you gotta let me talk sometimes too okay
00:22:10.580 i've been letting you talk in heavy ortho like eastern orthodox countries like russia
00:22:15.820 the narrative is still women get 80 of custody orders right this is across the world this isn't
00:22:24.040 just in north america this is how we see family courts and religion apply to men and women's
00:22:32.080 lives. And the whole point of a marriage, sorry, the whole point of marriage and children, you
00:22:38.260 would say what? To pass on your name, pass on your DNA, to name your sons, to leave a legacy
00:22:43.680 behind? What would you say it is? Well, it depends on the worldview. From the Christian worldview,
00:22:50.680 we feel that there's a commandment to do so. Women don't care about God. And it's every time,
00:22:58.460 um whether it's me or a different woman i'll even you know i'll be the scapegoat it's like
00:23:03.000 yeah women can say i don't say i'm religious but every woman that i i okay i'm gonna just list
00:23:09.420 though all the women that said they feared god are either divorced one has nudes on the internet
00:23:15.960 it's like all the ones that say they fear god it's like none of your life choices suggest that
00:23:20.580 you fear him and it's not to insult you because you know i also have life choices that don't
00:23:26.340 suggest I fear God either, but it's, there's just no evidence that shows women fear God in any way,
00:23:32.920 you know. Multiply and to get, and for the most part, for most men to get married, not every man's
00:23:38.160 called to do that, but generally speaking, most of them seem to be, they seem to want to be with a
00:23:42.280 woman. I'm pro surrogate. That's the only true patriarchy is surrogacy. They seem to want to
00:23:48.960 have children with her, with that woman. And they're commanded to do this from a secularist
00:23:53.700 perspective or non-Christian or non-religious person, it seems to vary based on things like
00:23:59.660 you mentioned, perhaps legacy, perhaps they have different incentives for why it is that they want
00:24:04.600 to do that. I couldn't begin to tell you all of them because secular marriage to me is bizarre.
00:24:09.580 It makes no sense. I don't know. Yeah, there's a lot of church fearing women. The problem is
00:24:14.920 they're God fearing women. The problem is they're like 50. They're pretty close to death.
00:24:18.580 not many women fear god when they're young i don't even understand it but i do want to at least make
00:24:24.700 much sense in general i think marriage does make sense in general no i think well it fails most of
00:24:31.280 the time it doesn't fail most of the time that's a lot it doesn't it doesn't you look at the data
00:24:36.740 around the people that show me the data that marriage fails most of the time let's start with
00:24:41.400 that what with what sorry the data that marriage fails most of the time yeah so when you look well
00:24:46.640 i don't need data i need my eyes i can think of five couples from back home where on paper their
00:24:54.320 marriage didn't fail but one of them the wife's got completely obese right i mean sure the dad's
00:25:01.200 chubby but the wife is like a whale right another one um the wife is complete she undermines him
00:25:10.320 all and so like again what the religious people want to do um is they want to say look at my data
00:25:17.760 and don't believe your eyes and i'm like like even lauren chen why aren't you your husband's
00:25:24.960 a religion why don't you have his last name and that's so common like i just don't know many women
00:25:30.960 that do marriage in the traditional set it's like pick and choose marriage it's like like in all
00:25:37.040 honesty I wish there was a higher barrier to entry to marriage because I don't think most
00:25:46.360 women deserve the title of a wife I don't I don't think most women are wives and unfortunately any
00:25:52.560 simp that gives a woman a title now she can brag on the internet and say I'm married and I was
00:25:57.540 an authority figure. I only would say I know one woman, maybe two I could think of that actually
00:26:13.700 submit to their husbands in all things. Look at the data on people that live in a way that
00:26:20.060 looks like marriage so uh there was a study done uh aaron and acevedo covered this um
00:26:27.420 the effects of uh love on long-term relationships and they found that less than 13 of people
00:26:35.020 in the study and i can't remember the count i think i wrote it down over here hold on a second
00:26:38.620 um six it was six thousand something people six thousand seventy people over a span of 8.84 years
00:26:50.620 and again the title of this study is does long-term relationship kill romantic love
00:26:54.880 12 are in love and 3 are in a state of obsession or bliss i think that's why most guys would want
00:27:00.860 to get married is they think that they're going to be a state of obsession or bliss with their
00:27:04.240 wife into perpetuity and be granted access to lots of enthusiastic sex whenever they want it
00:27:11.180 and that's not the reality that most men experience when they get into it and some of that data
00:27:15.680 supports that suggesting that most people that are still together over 8.84 years don't even like
00:27:21.740 each other so you're saying that yeah the divorce rate is I don't know 40 something percent or
00:27:26.800 whatever it happens to be then you got to look at the people that are staying together that are
00:27:30.920 staying together out of maybe convenience because they're too cowardly to leave they're not good
00:27:34.440 enough looking to leave they might be poor they might have other anchors sort of tying them down
00:27:38.600 but there's a lot of people that stay in long-term relationships that don't even like each other like
00:27:43.520 the chances of you being in love with your spouse is very low so what to yeah so what so the the
00:27:50.800 question here that i'm asking you is well the point man wants to have long-term relationships
00:27:56.680 because you're saying it's worth it.
00:27:58.420 I live in a way that look like marriage.
00:28:00.020 And I'm telling you,
00:28:00.540 the data suggests that that's not reflective of what you do.
00:28:02.560 Yeah, here's the problem with the argument
00:28:05.160 where it holds no muster
00:28:07.100 and it doesn't even contend with what I'm asking you.
00:28:10.020 What I'm asking you is,
00:28:11.740 if you want to have kids,
00:28:12.700 you want to have children,
00:28:14.500 and you want good outcomes for the children.
00:28:17.700 Yeah, and the other thing,
00:28:19.100 we are not going to be able to predict,
00:28:21.560 like we're not going to really have data
00:28:23.840 on the new forms of marriage that come to be oh two dollar super chat thank you very much phil
00:28:29.840 um like a lot of people are going to come up with ways around getting married and we're not going
00:28:36.080 to really see the outcomes for the kids for like 20 years i i think that um i think in the future
00:28:43.200 male surrogates are going to produce some of the like einsteins of the world but i'll be almost
00:28:50.260 dead by the time i really get that data oh my god a 50 super chat
00:28:58.340 you didn't have to do that keep up the good work pearl looking good love your channel thank you
00:29:03.620 thank you thank you thank you i appreciate it made my day thank you you guys are so nice thank
00:29:10.340 you thank you thank you thank you what is what other than marriage from a especially from a
00:29:16.980 a religious perspective is going to create better outcomes for the children rich that's the question
00:29:21.860 now you keep defaulting to what about me the father what about me the the this guy hang on
00:29:28.920 i get that well for men so i'm talking about men right but this is the angle this is the prompt
00:29:33.120 yeah but the thing is just like i'm always trying to bring it back to men but you see how men want
00:29:37.060 to have kids sure and so they want their kids to have good outcomes and so right but they want like
00:29:41.940 their own kids um and the only way that they own their children is through surrogacy
00:29:51.780 um you cannot like the the only way you can be a patriarch like because you can't be a patriarch
00:30:04.300 if the only way you're a patriarch is if the woman decides like she has to decide you have
00:30:09.980 to be able to fire her. There has to be an enforcement and there's just no way a man can
00:30:13.980 enforce it. So yeah, assets are not even the biggest issue. Losing the children is. And
00:30:22.840 unfortunately, I don't see any prenup in that case. And it's not even just like, even if the
00:30:28.760 man gets 50-50 custody, the wife undermines him constantly. Like there's so many times where like
00:30:36.700 the kid doesn't like the father because the mom's always in the kid's ear i saw this happen in my
00:30:43.660 hometown um with like kids with married parents that happens in the same house
00:30:52.780 so until until there's an enforcement if you're an employer
00:30:57.820 you don't have authority until you can fire the person
00:31:01.180 uh without losing the kids right because most men aren't gonna want to fire somebody with the kids
00:31:09.240 in the house oh how are men gonna have their kids have good outcomes you can have kids not living
00:31:13.420 in a way that looks like marriage to the government yeah okay how you have kids with a woman you don't
00:31:19.820 live together and you parent them together in separate homes what's the that looks the same
00:31:24.360 as divorce that looks the same as a divorced arrangement to me how is that different and
00:31:29.560 that's the unfortunate reality of the world that we live in today what so your solution is if you
00:31:34.620 get so your here's your idea the only difference is the man is still in the household hang on here's
00:31:39.500 what you just said if you get divorced one of the am i allowed to respond is that the men are still
00:31:44.440 the head of the household when they run the relationship that way they're not the head of
00:31:47.920 the household do you know what another fifty dollars thank you guys
00:31:54.860 thank you okay i really i actually like the living separately idea
00:32:03.900 but there has to be once the kids hit a certain age they should live with the dad
00:32:09.900 um maybe like the mom takes care of them till they're five i was actually thinking about this
00:32:15.000 the other day i think age gap relationships are ideal like um you know the speaker like trump's
00:32:22.100 White House press secretary or whatever. She married that dude that was like 30 years older
00:32:26.880 or 20. Hear me out. You marry a 50 year old as a woman. You're 25. You marry a guy that's 50.
00:32:34.760 You can actually go work. Now you might say, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl. I thought we don't want
00:32:40.360 women in the workforce. Well, we're in 2026, right? Hear me out. The mother's only going to
00:32:47.160 destroy the kid, right? That's all we do. I, we're not too good on like, so, okay. You have her watch
00:32:52.900 it the first three years. After that, the dad, I mean, it's better for the child if the dad takes
00:33:04.660 the kid and the dad's going to be damn near retired. So he, I don't know what's retirement
00:33:09.500 age 65, but a lot of the time by 50, they can work part time. They could, I don't know. I mean,
00:33:16.360 you guys tell me more about your careers maybe i'm wrong but i'm just it's just a thought exercise
00:33:23.720 um the woman she doesn't want to be a mom anyway the mothers today they don't like about their
00:33:29.000 kids they don't care about their kids so it's like send her to work to do something she cares about
00:33:36.440 yeah when mothers aren't good at teaching women children responsibilities speaking in general
00:33:41.320 not absolute yeah so i thought about it and i'm like she can go cheat at work who cares he's got
00:33:49.480 his kid right i mean she won't you could just like let her like cheat at work just let her
00:34:00.040 and just pretend you don't know just pretend you don't know you know
00:34:02.920 pearl one day you're going to regret all this this woman hating content
00:34:12.040 you sound like a simp i hope your balls drop one day you know the husband is supposed to
00:34:21.840 keep the mom in check if she's effing up the kid men should not be the one to raise
00:34:26.040 no man signs up for being cheated yeah but it's going to happen anyway so you might as
00:34:32.720 well adapt right oh no i don't want to get cheated on well it's 2026 it's 2026 you're probably going
00:34:41.460 to get cheated on i don't know why you don't just accept it oh pearl i don't want to accept that
00:34:45.960 it's like well it's probably going to happen anyway you might as well adapt you might as well
00:34:52.580 help her find the guy she's going to cheat with you know what i mean and then you could even work
00:34:57.320 it out with the side dude right you could if you put your emotions aside right you could say hey
00:35:03.980 side dude she's been an absolute cunt can you take her for a week and then you could get a side chick
00:35:09.800 too right yeah because it's like you don't want her to leave and take the kids you know
00:35:19.640 yeah the husband's supposed to keep the wife and i agree with that but
00:35:27.680 um what authority do they have to do that so
00:35:31.060 so i'm just i'm just saying oh hell no well it's going to happen anyway
00:35:37.620 so i'll just continue
00:35:44.160 sorry how are they the head of the household if you're not even living together
00:35:49.280 there is no household you're paying for everything yeah so so your solution is have two separate
00:35:55.980 houses so you're paying double for two separate houses and then split parenting time with the
00:36:03.360 woman what's that your okay i want to see something average mortgage cost
00:36:11.960 per month. Let's see. All right. The average mortgage cost is $2,000. Okay. Average apartment
00:36:22.780 costs. It's got to be higher than that. It says $2,000 to $2,300. Okay. And the average apartment
00:36:33.000 is 13 to 30 okay this seems low to me but okay yeah i'm i'm just saying you could like
00:36:42.320 because it would be kind of nice when she's acting up you could banish her like you could just you
00:36:47.540 could send the woman to the other house and say you're banished till you come back with a nice
00:36:52.360 attitude and then she's like oh i don't want to and then you just take the kid and leave but then
00:36:58.040 she'll call the cops you see it's the same problem idea here is i guess then you could leave and say
00:37:02.220 well i'm banishing myself until you become more pleasant oh no i'm gonna call tyrone well she's
00:37:07.700 gonna call tyrone anyway so pay for two different domiciles and then split parenting time with the
00:37:14.020 woman now if we had a divorced relationship you would be living in two domiciles and splitting
00:37:19.600 the parent time with the woman so if the hang on so if the risk of divorce is well you may not be
00:37:25.740 you gotta grow up dude do you think she's get a ring camera it's gonna happen anyway
00:37:33.980 women when they want to cheat they'll find a way oh no she might bring someone over to the house
00:37:39.260 okay then she might get banged out in her car oh no that would never happen to me
00:37:47.900 are we gonna grow up yet
00:37:51.500 could we just like could we just be adults here
00:37:55.740 well we got to be reasonable here women marriage is just going to be for the upper class anyway
00:38:06.500 i don't think this is the and plus she could get like a teaching gig
00:38:10.940 or if he's 50 he could be almost retired you know anyways let's see your kids and you may
00:38:17.800 have to be paying for it i don't think that men are needed are you gonna let me let me
00:38:22.560 much of the parenting when children are small let me finish my point you're talking about parenting
00:38:27.520 right yeah let me finish my point and then respond to it then respond to it after after i finish it
00:38:32.800 there your world view just showed that there's no distinction if i get a divorce i have to pay for
00:38:38.880 my wife's new living or ex-wife's new living arrangement in a new domicile through child
00:38:43.760 support and then i have to take care of the kids under your view you're just saying go ahead and
00:38:49.280 get cut right to the end and go ahead and begin paying for her domicile and support
00:38:54.080 it's literally you're just asking men to live like they're divorced no that's not what i'm saying
00:38:59.680 yeah i don't think it would be living like you were divorced i think i said this last time um
00:39:04.960 because like you guys could hang out okay let's say he he works nine to five he comes over two
00:39:15.280 or three nights a week for dinner puts the kids to bed maybe spends the night two days a week and
00:39:21.120 then on the weekends the whole family spends it together so
00:39:31.280 like i don't really think that's the same thing it's more like living like you have a baby mama
00:39:36.880 yeah it's like living like and baby mamas and baby daddies they can't stay away from each other i mean
00:39:42.160 if you want to see a love that lasts a lifetime you look at baby moms and baby daddies they'll
00:39:46.920 have whole new marriages and still be banging you know what i mean that's a love that lasts a lifetime
00:39:52.000 that's something that lasts a lifetime the there's no difference yeah there is a difference
00:40:00.120 because the court well here man i'll explain it to you all right the court is running the show
00:40:05.520 when you get divorced women run the show when you get divorced they they leverage family law
00:40:10.220 for their benefit they're getting 80 of the custody orders uh whenever there's child support
00:40:15.180 that's required it flows from a father to the mother if there's alimony that's in range 97
00:40:20.940 of the time it goes from the father to the mother and she controls most of the outcomes in a you know
00:40:26.140 unilateral fashion when it comes to the family courts but if you're with a woman and she says
00:40:31.500 hey i love you and you say i love you too sort of thing and she says you know let's have a family i
00:40:35.660 like to have kids you say fine but here's my boundary i can't live in a way that looks like
00:40:39.500 marriage to the government so i'm gonna pay for a house i'll rent a house i'll look after you
00:40:43.420 i'll come and visit you and the kids um but we can't live in a way that looks like marriage to
00:40:47.820 the government now rich what prevents the woman can someone do the math on how much you would have
00:40:53.660 to make for that to make sense am i going to react to rachel being on joe rogan maybe maybe
00:41:00.620 maybe later or tomorrow maybe i'll do it tomorrow since since there's children involved what
00:41:06.780 prevents that woman from going and pursuing child support anyway and just breaking up with you she
00:41:12.220 can but she doesn't yeah she can he says this doesn't mitigate anything yes it does you don't
00:41:17.340 have to lose half your you're already paying for half of their you're paying for all
00:41:21.500 their no you don't lose half of your assets andrew plus maybe find a with some
00:41:28.060 family money or with like a decent job i mean you need 450k to make that work
00:41:36.780 okay i mean do kids need a house
00:41:41.100 i just feel like there's got to be other options you know
00:41:46.100 yes you do you're already paying half your assets so this woman can live apart you're not you're
00:41:53.140 not you're not living in a way that looks like marriage to the government you're not married
00:41:57.420 you're not living in a way that looks like marriage to the government you understand the
00:42:00.920 different no see i would want to ask rich what the logistics that like how would that look
00:42:07.160 the people that he yeah see here's the thing andrew doesn't know what he doesn't know right
00:42:13.140 so like how does he know that that is a bad idea like again we're not really going to see how this
00:42:22.200 plays out for a number 10 another 10 20 years maybe you tell the woman hey if you're still
00:42:26.980 hear when the kid's seven, we can get a house, but I need a seven year. I think that would be
00:42:33.220 reasonable, right? You say seven year investment of your time. And when the kid's eight and they
00:42:40.840 need a backyard to like run and stuff, uh, we will get a house when, okay. The parents in the chat,
00:42:46.900 what age do you think? Cause like if a baby's in an apartment, is it really going to remember it?
00:42:52.580 like i mean i don't remember anything from before i was like four
00:42:58.080 how necessary is the how like how many square feet
00:43:03.860 how many square feet at what age does the kid need
00:43:09.720 i mean there's like parks outside you know in japan they all live in apartments
00:43:15.620 those kids seem well behaved you know you could even get like
00:43:22.320 a townhouse
00:43:25.840 like in a city
00:43:28.160 you know in an apartment next door
00:43:30.140 like you could live on the same
00:43:32.360 road
00:43:32.720 anybody anybody any comment on the
00:43:38.240 house apartment
00:43:39.020 trailer kids live in a
00:43:42.080 4x4 and they call it legal
00:43:43.760 I just I'm honestly asking the
00:43:46.060 parents observations for how much
00:43:47.860 space the kids
00:43:49.860 need
00:43:50.500 you know i don't know i'm just thinking like what an apartment's like a thousand
00:43:58.100 800 to a thousand square feet and get like a two-bedroom apartment
00:44:02.920 yeah under five are they going to remember it
00:44:09.580 i that's what i'm asking what age i'm not a parent i don't know
00:44:20.500 So, small kids need a lot of space.
00:44:30.700 Kids from 1 to 12 just need a bedroom.
00:44:35.240 13 to 18 own room.
00:44:38.680 Okay, because we're having 1 to 2 kids anyway, so odds are you're getting one kid.
00:44:43.460 I'm so tired of the cope of people saying, oh, I'm going to have a lot of kids.
00:44:48.940 no you're not above statistics you're getting one maybe two um oh but i'll find a girl i bet you will
00:45:04.380 do i think the child's environment the first five years of life is not important
00:45:08.300 i wouldn't say it wasn't important i just want to know how much space you guys need
00:45:11.740 like didn't people used to live in one-bedroom houses like am i tripping
00:45:20.440 i grew up in a three-bedroom mom had one bedroom the other two were with me and two brothers
00:45:28.920 shared with me i mean did you feel traumatized by that you know i'm just asking
00:45:34.060 because there's three-bedroom apartments
00:45:36.680 so you could get you could get two apartments in the same building
00:45:44.040 i mean is that is that is that absurd like you get two two-bedroom apartments
00:45:51.160 i don't know i'm just thinking and here's why for family law to to force a man to compel a man to
00:45:59.220 pay alimony it has to like you have to be married or you have to live in a way that looks like
00:46:04.340 marriage to the government so if you want to go about it a certain way like you know we're talking
00:46:08.720 about a strategy here now at this point yeah if you want to apply a strategy to the game to sort
00:46:13.640 of circumvent some of the uh risk profiles then that's one way to do it that's just one way to do
00:46:20.060 it i mean there's other ways that we yeah but let's focus on this one real quick because to me
00:46:24.000 it's incoherent the idea here is a the woman can still pursue here because it doesn't align with
00:46:29.260 your worldview with no it's incoherent because when it's applied to what it is that you're trying
00:46:33.800 to avoid you're just skipping to the thing you were trying to avoid in the first place
00:46:37.640 the idea here is that if you get a divorce you're going to split assets the idea and and be paying
00:46:43.700 towards your wife's new ex-wife's new life that's what you're trying to avoid under your view though
00:46:48.760 you're just doing the same thing you're just paying for her assets at least she can't take
00:46:53.440 a house if you're renting hang on in the same exact way and she can still pursue legal action
00:46:58.240 through the kids that doesn't stop her from doing that at all yeah and you have taken out the risk
00:47:02.480 mitigation now yeah japan's already doing it you know i i i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna make a
00:47:08.740 i'm gonna make a decision um if that gives the man more leverage i think it's better for the
00:47:13.940 kids to have less space and more leverage for the man i'm gonna take that less yeah of religion
00:47:20.480 so there actually seems like there's an incentive for her to do that the the remedy that she can
00:47:26.500 apply for will be child support right yeah she can't apply for alimony she can't apply for half
00:47:32.340 of his shit because they're not living in a way that looks like marriage the state will always
00:47:36.560 make sure the children are looked after that's that's what they do so there's no avoiding the
00:47:42.480 state well let's just agree on something like some of the big okay i shared a bedroom until
00:47:48.900 i moved out at 18 five kids in two bedrooms early on and homeschooled okay did you think that were
00:47:53.820 you traumatized by that be honest if if you were let me know but i don't know i thought people used
00:48:01.380 and then this is complete this is rich coming from me i grew up in a giant house
00:48:05.460 giant so i i would not know i don't know but this risk for men are what child support alimony and
00:48:13.060 the loss of half half of their assets yeah yeah so you just eliminate two of those risks
00:48:20.900 and the only thing that you would have to deal with is child support versus marriage where she
00:48:26.100 can take half of your shit alimony and child support you you hang on you haven't done that
00:48:32.500 exactly so no you haven't eliminated this risk so here's here's why you haven't eliminated it
00:48:38.500 you're still paying out just like you were divorced you're still paying out just as though
00:48:43.700 you were divorced for this woman to be taking care of your kids for half her assets and you're living
00:48:48.980 apart from her and what this does is this also creates a massive problem which is that the
00:48:56.340 outcomes for the children are still not going to be as good as if they were at home with mommy and
00:49:00.780 daddy to get hang on together because we have all the data in the world to provide it for this
00:49:04.660 that that in split households how much how much data model that i just described to you
00:49:10.180 as a as a solution to that would be that would be your burden not mine well it's one version
00:49:15.900 it's one version yeah because rich is i know people said andrew won the debate but it's just
00:49:22.140 these are two types of conversations that's why they can't have it andrew is talking about
00:49:27.980 idealism rich works with guys to minimize risks rich is going to know more about the best way
00:49:35.340 to minimize your risk than andrew because andrew doesn't he does debate so he wants to be right
00:49:40.140 rich wants a step-by-step plan
00:49:45.900 um no no but that would be your burden you would be you would need to show me the proof that that
00:49:51.100 works better than than the model of being heavily religious and in marriage for mitigation that
00:49:57.000 wouldn't be on me to prove to you it'd be on you to prove to me well they're not going to study
00:50:00.860 something like that but i can tell you from evidence that i've seen that it works quite well
00:50:04.700 what evidence people that i know that do it that's anecdotal that's no place in a debate
00:50:09.680 can appeal to a lot of people that do this andrew yeah but i i think you should accept
00:50:14.840 um i think i wish that we could accept anecdotes from subject matter experts because again you're
00:50:24.420 going to know more from boots on the ground than you're ever going to get from like a stupid study
00:50:28.940 you're like you realize that's anecdotal right but you understand that that that men are having to
00:50:35.800 become creative when it comes to the notion of having children without losing their shit
00:50:40.820 But one of the other things you see guys trying to use to solve this problem is surrogacy,
00:50:47.060 which is another bizarre one, right?
00:50:48.860 Then you don't have the mom involved at all.
00:50:51.560 Yeah, but that's only going to be available to men who have wealth.
00:50:54.880 I did the math.
00:50:56.240 I did the math.
00:50:57.260 60 grand, you get you a kid.
00:51:00.240 60 grand for a kid.
00:51:01.640 That's about the cost of a divorce and child support.
00:51:04.560 It's cheaper.
00:51:05.820 You're just paying up front.
00:51:06.900 If you can save 60 grand, get you a kid.
00:51:10.820 i am for surrogacy i'm for it i think more men should do it so become wealthy that's yeah well
00:51:18.880 but that's that but you see what i'm saying like this creates a massive problem most men are not
00:51:23.920 going to become wealthy people are not going to become more if you're not successful then then
00:51:29.120 you have to follow the masses this is this is why so many guys get destroyed because the because
00:51:35.320 the game is rigged against them the the population has no real fair way to navigate relationships and
00:51:45.080 children consecutively yeah but you create here's the problem that you have here with this analogy
00:51:51.240 the first is when you appeal to an anecdote if i were to give you a similar anecdote oh i know a
00:51:56.360 lot of guys who do that and doesn't work out for them you wouldn't believe me because that doesn't
00:52:00.040 tell us anything. That's one. No, but I would ask for more specific examples. I would say, okay,
00:52:06.300 who? Because liars, like people that say know a person, like, okay, if you said to me, I said,
00:52:12.660 marriage is a bad deal for men, right? And I said, one of the worst divorces I ever saw was at the
00:52:17.920 same church as Michael Knowles. And they said, that's an anecdote. You're lying. And I would
00:52:21.460 say, no, this was a guy who was in his mid thirties. He met a girl at an Orthodox church
00:52:27.680 or in a traditional latin mass church and she was from eastern europe and she stole his kid
00:52:33.560 brought it back to europe like i could go into detail about this couple um even if i wanted to
00:52:39.160 be a little bit more broad i could still offer specific details um more like people that are
00:52:49.220 lying they tend to be more broad right they can't come up with i mean there's some psychopaths out
00:52:54.440 there but you know and the second problem here is one thing about marriage that's useful for us is
00:53:02.360 being able to track divorce that's really easy because it all goes on that yeah we got lots of
00:53:08.200 data on divorce and the statistics around it yeah and the problem that you have here is that you're
00:53:13.560 saying well men are getting destroyed because of how many of these uh you know marriages and
00:53:19.000 divorce but that's actually only true of some groups some groups that your risk of uh divorce
00:53:25.560 is very very small it's very tiny it's a tiny it's it's well within what i would consider
00:53:31.160 again what is the difference in risk for divorce for people that are christians versus non-christians
00:53:36.680 it depends on which type of christian we're talking about your nominal christian you're on
00:53:41.480 these stats aren't good i mean i can't remember the if ands or buts of why they're not good because
00:53:47.720 god it was i i don't know how these people like remember every little detail but um
00:54:00.200 oh my god i can't even remember i did a video on it though it's like i'll do a video on it and i'll
00:54:04.680 still forget why because it's just not that interesting to me you know it's just not par
00:54:10.360 with the national average if you're a devout catholic or devout orthodox it's down to 12
00:54:16.040 percent to 18 percent versus 40 percent 12 i mean that's still like one in ten
00:54:24.360 12 versus 40. that's a huge like we're talking about now well within acceptable risk if it's
00:54:30.520 the case that five to ten percent of people who ever have it but i would have to ask what
00:54:36.200 what do they dictate as a failure because do they include the men that don't get laid
00:54:46.040 you know so come alcoholics right you wouldn't say that that's so much risk that you should
00:54:54.840 never have a drink like that's within what i would consider acceptable barriers of risk
00:54:59.300 you're now part of an 80 to 90 percent of success rates rather than you only view it as 10 to 12
00:55:06.480 percent failure rate i view it as an 80 to 90 success rate
00:55:10.840 no but just because you're together that doesn't mean it's a successful marriage and
00:55:17.500 i just know them personally so i'm like how do you guys not see this
00:55:21.360 i mean we we've talked about how many and i'm not maybe i don't know but like i'm like
00:55:27.620 but personally people we know that like like brother cook it doesn't even matter if they're
00:55:35.260 still like okay i have a friend her mom completely turned the kids against the dad they figured that
00:55:41.760 out when they're older but she's like psychotic and fat i mean is that successful they're still
00:55:47.180 married you know they'll have way too many variables when it comes to marriage even if you
00:55:52.520 are a christian when it comes to the churches the pastors that you're dealing with who she is you
00:56:00.380 know as far as a woman before you marry her the fact that women always reserve the right to change
00:56:04.700 your mind at any given time about you later on down the road we've seen many many religious
00:56:08.860 people get divorced and get absolutely fucking cleaned out sure but why don't the numbers then
00:56:13.600 reflect it within the individualistic i don't know i haven't collected the data but i mean
00:56:17.720 some of the data as well that i've talked about you can look at you can look at the data say that
00:56:23.260 the earth is warming when we all know that's not happening yeah yeah but but hang on there's a big
00:56:28.180 difference between people producing warming models which are vastly hypothetical and predictive
00:56:36.260 versus gathering data which is established because we just have raw numbers of how many people are
00:56:40.980 divorced within which category which group i mean the vast majority of models they try to point to
00:56:46.500 statistics that are as accurate as possible but well i mean we have we have accurate records of
00:56:51.460 how many islamis have been divorced man that's not hard to gather that's not hard data to figure out
00:56:57.300 and so that's the case or hindu type of religion since the divorce rate's lower or for i agree
00:57:04.260 yeah actually i agree what i'm looking for is what is the things inside of these religious models
00:57:11.540 that's keeping the divorce rate so low compared to the average and i think that that's what's
00:57:15.540 left out of the nuance of the discussion tell us well here's what's going on and again well-studied
00:57:21.860 phenomenon is that but it's just i don't know i wish andrew there's some things that just are not
00:57:29.020 in your depth like and they're not in my depth either right like i don't really care how many
00:57:35.340 studies and how many debates i went i will never be as knowledgeable as the people on the ground
00:57:41.740 and the experts in the field i just won't i won't i will never be able to talk about men's issues
00:57:47.460 the way that a man, I mean, it's why I openly acknowledge that there's a lot of men that know
00:57:51.800 the material better than me. And I point you guys to them because like, it's just true, you know,
00:58:03.880 and the men that like work with and coach men, they just have way better insights. You know,
00:58:10.180 whenever I want to know about a trend in the dating marketplace, I literally go to my friend
00:58:14.220 who's just, like, he's just a professional woman banger. Like, he just, and I just ask him,
00:58:19.300 have you seen SSRIs in women's, like, things? Do you see this? Do you see that? And he can give me
00:58:24.600 such good insights into the marketplace. That's way better than a study. Subject matter experts
00:58:29.280 are better than studies. And in my opinion, you cannot become a subject matter expert.
00:58:37.240 um like we're so like like andrew is a subject matter expert on debating right and maybe like
00:58:44.140 on on certain parts of history you know but you're just never going to compare to the boots on the
00:58:49.520 ground ever you know so religion operates on a support network so you end up having people who
00:58:58.860 have shared like-minded value structures especially for your wife well that's a big thing
00:59:03.780 Because if women are hanging out with like divorcees and they're hanging out with promiscuous women and things like that, they tend to often follow suit based on those social pressures.
00:59:14.140 Men actually do do this too.
00:59:15.960 Yeah, but again, social pressures.
00:59:21.640 I just don't like that language because, and I mean, I'm sure I use language people don't like either.
00:59:27.420 I don't like that language because it insinuates women don't want to divorce their husband and
00:59:33.620 take the kids. They're just like influenced. So. To a lesser degree, but they do do it too,
00:59:40.220 depending on the friend and in-group they have, they tend to do more or less degenerate behavior,
00:59:44.560 depending on how those groups play out. When it comes to women, they do the same exact thing.
00:59:49.360 But now if you have a support group and a support network that's like-minded and is focusing
00:59:53.940 specifically on the same value structures which is yeah but you guys pushed sarah stock enough said
00:59:59.660 yet women can say anything i mean sarah was i mean she's friends with your wife and she
01:00:06.060 like who's a better person to tell her to not fuck elijah than rachel you know who's better than her
01:00:14.280 like i bet if sarah went to rachel and she said should i bang elijah schaefer
01:00:21.860 rachel would have been like yeah don't do that well yeah so anyways um yeah it doesn't really
01:00:29.040 matter because women's and women's friend groups that's the other thing women could have religious
01:00:33.260 friends at 20 and find a new friend group at 30 do you know how many like cycles of friend groups
01:00:41.420 women go through it's like incredible stay married here's what the role of the woman is etc etc
01:00:46.220 creates a reinforcement in those communities which mitigates against divorce and it gives a support
01:00:51.180 network to people having marital troubles that seems to be what's going on and that's not
01:00:56.700 accessible to the general population outside of that so why are there still issues within the
01:01:02.860 churches well again issues in fact you're not going to you're asking the thing that i would
01:01:08.940 raise as well to andrew is like you know we talk about christianity and i'm for it man like you
01:01:13.260 know my mom's family is christian orthodox i grew up in that space you know like i understand it well
01:01:18.060 but america you know where you live is mostly a christian country wouldn't you say so no it's
01:01:26.060 mostly a nominal christian country what's the difference between nominal christian and christian
01:01:31.180 yeah so a nominal christian so you know the the trans debate the trans debate a person could say
01:01:39.420 i'm a woman they're not actually a woman you would agree right so you're saying that they're calling
01:01:44.540 themselves christians but they're not real yeah and so and the reason they're nominal and we can
01:01:48.540 make that distinguishment between nominal and non-nominal real christian hang on we can make
01:01:53.500 the distinction between nominal and non-nominal yeah but it's that now it's going to go where
01:01:57.920 you get to be the judge of morality you get to pick who's moral and that's what makes christians
01:02:02.980 so unlikable it's like the audacity you think you have the you get to pick who's moral really
01:02:09.500 like i mean you can based on how much they involve themselves in their church
01:02:17.280 how many i just disagree with that i disagree with that heavily because most of the men that
01:02:22.440 i know that act in a religious manner do not go to church because they don't like the politics
01:02:27.900 associated with church because women tend to overtake the church um and then they have to
01:02:33.320 do all this bullshit when like the most moral people I know don't go to church sorry I mean
01:02:44.560 like and and and then I always get gaslit by people in church about this they're like
01:02:53.060 oh it's just the church you go to and I'm like I'm the same religion as you
01:02:57.240 i grew up and then they're like well it's just that it's just where you grew up and i'm like huh
01:03:04.960 yeah like so now we're saying okay the people that have so this is what essentially happens
01:03:13.600 the people that are involved in the church they're the real christians and i'm like so
01:03:18.680 the people with the most free time the people like the people with nothing to do i mean that's
01:03:26.000 my pastors kind of suck these are just half the time these are guys that don't want to work you
01:03:30.440 know so these sacraments they partake in and how often they actually participate in that community
01:03:39.860 this is broken down by pew for divorce stats and other organizations as well which shows the reason
01:03:46.520 like traditional catholics have such a low divorce rate in comparison to the national average is
01:03:52.640 because many of them partake in the church functions in the sacraments which helps reinforce
01:03:56.800 the ideology but it also okay you can have traditional catholics but it doesn't guarantee
01:04:04.600 their kids will be so like okay they might have a lower divorce rate but it doesn't mean their
01:04:12.060 kids will stay traditional latin catholic or whatever
01:04:15.500 you know
01:04:22.640 of the family that they're supposed to work through marital issues rather than get divorced
01:04:28.820 and it's just a different society like people don't i mean again i know somebody that's from
01:04:34.900 that type of mass and like all of the kids moved away you're not in these like tight-knit
01:04:43.400 communities anymore it's just not the same thing they all moved to the cities including for the
01:04:47.960 sake of the kids that's why so when people say america is mostly a christian country it's actually
01:04:53.480 not factually true it's mostly a nominal christian country it is true that like 65 or 70 percent of
01:05:00.200 people will identify as being a christian but when you look at their behaviors in society they act
01:05:05.520 no different than a secularist non-christian they don't go to church they don't participate
01:05:09.740 in sacraments they don't take their religion very seriously it's called like cultural christianity
01:05:14.820 But nominal Christianity is fine, too.
01:05:17.360 All right. Well, I mean, since Jake invited me to do this conversation slash debate with you, I was listening to any YouTube conversation you had with anybody, you know, James Sexton, Coach Greg Adams.
01:05:32.760 There's been a few other ones where you've had these conversations and you've changed your story in some of those conversations.
01:05:38.420 I don't know if you've updated your beliefs, but I've heard you say in the past that the vast majority of America is Christian.
01:05:44.820 but now yeah but now hang on saying that they're not nominal nominal christian okay so this is new
01:05:51.980 so now this is a new model you're saying well it's not it's not a new model what we're doing
01:05:56.720 so well i mean there's recordings out there when we're talking about specificity by the way i
01:06:00.940 reserve the right to update my worldview based on new information at all times right so whether or
01:06:08.180 yeah so if i've never if i've ever said before uh you know the united states is mostly a christian
01:06:17.700 nation but didn't put in the caveat of nominal it's actually irrelevant right i do think that
01:06:25.060 that it's it is the case that most people identify the majority of people identify as being christian
01:06:31.060 but i'm trying to figure out what that means right so yeah so what i was going to get to
01:06:35.300 is this i mean you know if america is a christian country or nominal christian country you know
01:06:39.620 let's call it it's past laws and legislation that aren't aligned with the religion and it's created
01:06:47.380 an environment that's hostile to its christian you know participants agreed so what's the solution to
01:06:55.140 that andrew well the solution to this from a political standpoint is going to be likely the
01:07:02.020 push for mass marriage reform which would look now well it would look like exactly what you're
01:07:07.380 talking about in kentucky where you start with grounding localized laws which will do things
01:07:13.380 like immediate custody disbursement between both couples things like this the groundswell
01:07:19.140 of traditionalism which is moving back into the mainstream especially from the right wing is now
01:07:24.980 beginning to make more demands like this and they have more access to the legislators to do this
01:07:30.100 that's step one but in the interim time we have we have to have some way in which children are
01:07:35.780 still being produced and men don't lose hope because all hope is lost you're going to be part
01:07:40.820 yeah but i don't sell hope like i don't think it's a bad thing to lose hope it's kind of freeing now
01:07:46.100 like i've just kind of it's it's i don't know how to put it there's this
01:07:50.340 freedom that just happens when you lose hope
01:07:53.300 there's a freedom like you just feel so free it's like yep the world's going to shit let's let's
01:08:04.260 party everybody pearl calls going church christians were self-righteous pious unlikable
01:08:10.480 hippo i mean i didn't say that but i guess if you're going to take the least charitable way
01:08:14.780 to say it yet they have lower divorce rates well again but that doesn't mean they have better
01:08:20.860 marriages baby mamas and baby daddies they have a lifelong bond a bond stronger than most husbands
01:08:29.260 and wives you know um yeah because it's kind of like you know like if you accept my wife is
01:08:44.020 probably going to cheat on me if you accept that then now you don't have to worry about it
01:08:53.200 you know and just know women are women aren't that good of liars so yeah hold on i'm gonna go
01:08:59.400 get the delivery i was talking to you about but i'm gonna make the screen i'm gonna make the
01:09:03.380 screen full and play it for a little bit part of this 40 statistic or 50 statistic and you're
01:09:09.660 screwed. That's actually not the case. The case is, is that individually, if we break down various
01:09:16.360 groupings of the types of people who are getting divorced, some groups are at way higher risk than
01:09:21.700 other groups. And that's factually true. And if you're a part of a group that has a very low risk
01:09:26.260 of divorce, it suddenly becomes much more attractive to men to do. And they're less
01:09:30.860 likely actually to get destroyed in a divorce because they're not even likely to get one in
01:09:35.240 the first place so if we examine the change that's required we realistically need to say
01:09:42.340 no more to women yeah would you agree um yeah what's the plan for that given the environment
01:09:51.760 that we live in not the environment that we ought to live in do you mean the descriptive is
01:09:56.980 like what do you what do we want to do about it right this second because nobody's able to say
01:10:02.720 no to women today what do you mean by that everything everything that happened the vast
01:10:07.760 majority of things that happen in culture and politics is all to support a female first primary
01:10:14.240 social order it's all to um it's all to make men less and make women more it's yeah i don't disagree
01:10:21.360 with that i think feminism is the supremacy movement today it's not about equality anymore
01:10:25.520 it's about destroying men well it's about removal of the of the patriarchy yeah it's about the rule
01:10:30.560 of man from the household and making the state and women the head of the household so that so
01:10:36.480 that dynamic is shift completely it's it's put everything on its head so christianity as you
01:10:42.880 idealize it you know the ought to version of christianity is not is not supporting i don't
01:10:48.880 i don't get i don't get why you keep saying that this is an ought when it's descriptively true
01:10:54.560 right now as we speak it is the case that these groups exist right this second as we speak where
01:11:02.720 your risk of getting divorced is greatly mitigated by just being part of these groups because they
01:11:07.840 do tell women no the traditional churches the traditional churches tell women it's not perfectly
01:11:13.120 idealized it's a case right this second right now what do you mean in a in a perfect idealized
01:11:18.880 church system but the church system is not like that yes it is compromised by toxic feminism let
01:11:24.080 let me ask you a question can the orthodox or catholic church have female deacons i don't know
01:11:29.220 i'm not i'm not no can they have priests who are female no can they have women who are in positions
01:11:34.060 of leadership no they're being told no all the time they're being told no you can't be in here
01:11:40.080 you're not allowed you're not allowed to be a deacon you're not allowed to be a priest you're
01:11:44.360 not allowed to do any of that they're being told no and that's why you see the mitigation rate for
01:11:48.740 like orthodox christians especially the mitigation is so low right that your chance of getting a
01:11:56.340 divorce if you're getting married inside the church and participating inside the church
01:11:59.560 it's abysmal it's abysmally low and so it's like yeah there are organizations which tell women no
01:12:05.880 and they do it all the time and they won't let them in any position of leadership and they do
01:12:09.980 it all the time and it's that's not in the future that that's going to happen that's
01:12:14.060 right now that's happening there's orthodox churches that are pro-lgbtq their messaging
01:12:22.540 allowing for divorces in their churches today yeah they allow for divorce but the chance
01:12:29.020 they allow for divorce under certain extremities same as catholics so if there's abandonment i'm
01:12:34.700 not happy i got bored not those not those no there's only there's only there's very few
01:12:40.300 adultery abandonment addiction those are really the only three in which you have any grounds to
01:12:47.020 even petition the church for divorce and so that helps mitigate in a huge way divorces inside of
01:12:55.560 these churches because you're right most of the time women sue for divorce it's for irreconcilable
01:12:59.200 differences not because of abuse not because of abandonment not because of cheating they're not
01:13:03.920 mostly not pursuing divorces under those grounds so so your churches only allow it
01:13:08.620 about christians and will lower the divorce rates and everything will be fine wait say that again
01:13:14.940 so your recommendation is everybody become devout christians no lower the divorce rate to a level
01:13:20.460 that's not risky and everybody no i'm not first of all what i'm getting is a descriptor for if
01:13:26.860 marriage is good in the west right now not even a prescription not even a prescription yet just
01:13:32.700 just a descriptor and the descriptor is obviously for some groups it's fine and for other groups
01:13:38.940 which are groups who are not part of the devout infrastructure of religion it seems to be really
01:13:43.780 bad okay for you guys really good for us really bad for you huh you still have a 12 divorce rate
01:13:50.800 where men will get that's really low dude still that is really low really low huh can i just say
01:13:58.240 um the i think that you're kind of talking past each other a little bit in certain ways so andrew
01:14:04.080 you're coming from the religious aspect rich you're coming from an aspect where your mitigations for
01:14:08.960 these problems rely on you being a little bit more wealthy so if you are looking at a guy for example
01:14:14.000 who is between 25 and 30 maybe living paycheck to paycheck doesn't have a deep spiritual life
01:14:18.960 in any way what what do you think is the is the best thing for that sort of guy to do
01:14:23.040 you're asking me oh both of you yeah if the average joe just doesn't have a deep spiritual
01:14:32.160 life or if the average joe is living paycheck to paycheck i know andrew would say get a deep
01:14:36.880 spiritual life that'll solve your problems what do you think is the best for this for this guy to do
01:14:42.080 i mean that's a difficult one because he's he's got to enter into a conventional marriage and
01:14:48.640 that's what most of them try to do they get them destroyed um sorry i'm just looking at the data
01:14:54.800 for uh the devout christian is that what they're called devout christians uh no so it depends
01:15:03.600 we would be looking at we'd be looking at denomination and then practice within
01:15:07.680 denomination in order how many different denominations are there for christians
01:15:11.280 a lot like how many what i would do maybe the easiest way to parse it out
01:15:18.240 would be to look at catholics orthodox and then protestants there's going to be the the kind of
01:15:23.760 major but it does get into things like catholic orthodox wait hold on and you're gonna you're
01:15:31.000 gonna have you're gonna have hold on i need to take a commercial break we'll can come back to
01:15:35.520 this. I need to cook some e-girls. Hold on. Let me, give me a second. Give me a second.
01:15:50.440 bruh
01:16:02.440 serious question why are so many gen z men drawn to influencers like nick fuentes and andrew tate
01:16:11.480 even when their voices promote racism and only degrade women you can dismiss them as incels or
01:16:17.980 extremists if you want but that description is lazy something real is happening to young men
01:16:23.020 first young men feel like the culture has turned on them for years they were told masculinity is
01:16:29.500 toxic boys are dangerous and men are the problem what started as a movement to advance women often
01:16:34.860 turned into a movement that treated young men like defects to be corrected okay blah blah blah
01:16:42.580 sounds like chat sheet pt all right if decent leaders don't speak to young men radicals will
01:16:48.420 a generation of young men is looking for meaning strength and purpose what should i respond you
01:16:57.220 please e-girls never stop being stop
01:17:03.220 stop being yourself okay also i heard brett cooper i you know i guess i've only done like 20 shows
01:17:15.580 on her so i can't believe it she responded oh oh for his business and the perfection said
01:17:21.980 this kind of mindset might cost because that does not seem like a happy healthy fruitful
01:17:26.700 productive life one woman who oh i guess i guess she was cooking myron and me so let's see from
01:17:32.760 fresh and fit obviously had a response and he posted yep to go to a singles dating event versus
01:17:37.360 just going the fact that men aren't showing up isn't all that women and feminism helped cause
01:17:41.520 this like i am not disputing that women effed around they broke hearts they this like how is
01:17:46.100 this new anyway i digress moving on somebody else said foyd's paying cash to meet men men still don't
01:17:52.540 care to show up truly the dark ages and it's all women's fault i have no sympathy for anyone
01:17:56.920 involved except the bros and again like i am not disputing at all that women and feminism helped
01:18:02.580 caused this like i am not disputing that women f'd around women hearts not feminism women women
01:18:08.260 they spent decades telling men that they are worthless that masculinity is toxic that they'd
01:18:12.580 like that obviously i don't i think the average woman just would rather do anything else than date
01:18:17.380 men i don't always know if it's intentionally malicious or whatever but like women would just
01:18:24.180 just like you know when you were 18 to like 23 you'd rather do a talk show than get married you
01:18:29.540 know go to college threw it back at ucla it just is what it is you know
01:18:36.580 i threw it back to we all threw it back you know just is what it is you know take the l
01:18:40.980 had an impact on male female relations on the modern dating landscape but i would also argue
01:18:45.940 just as an aside again hopefully it'll piss people off the dating events are naturally
01:18:50.340 a bit more up women's alley so like the fact that men aren't showing up isn't super super now she's
01:18:54.900 coping right hold on hold on i'm gonna make this full screen for one second
01:19:00.900 rising to me like especially because women often travel in groups i feel like that's a joke in
01:19:05.780 rom-coms that like they travel in a pack like it becomes a social event they go with a bunch
01:19:10.100 of girlfriends they make a night out of it and like i highly doubt that their male counterpart
01:19:14.580 peers are doing the same thing like i highly doubt that they would choose to go to a singles dating
01:19:18.420 event versus just going and grabbing a beer and watching the game can i get what i'm saying if
01:19:22.020 If you want to be smug about all of this and point to feminism and say that it's all women's fault,
01:19:27.320 like, that's fine. Like, again, that makes sense. But this can't be victory. This can't be the end
01:19:32.460 of the road. And we're going to get to that. Myron Gaines from Fresh and Fit obviously had a response
01:19:35.980 and he posted, yep, I predicted this six years ago. Female desperation is rising and I'm here.
01:19:41.520 It's true. There's accounts dedicated for women approaching men because, um, yeah.
01:19:47.960 Now, first of all, before we get into the rest of his reaction, I feel like Myron is intentionally slanting this.
01:19:52.840 Like, women are showing up in droves and freaking out and being so anxious and anguished.
01:19:57.120 But I don't know if a dating...
01:19:58.260 Like, you intentionally tried to not flirt with, um, tried to slant you flirting with clavicular?
01:20:04.620 The event with 15 women and 5 men is really a great representation.
01:20:09.580 And those are the actual numbers from the event that the New York Times reporter went to.
01:20:12.900 15 women. Like, that is what we're dealing with here.
01:20:14.760 And I also think that women...
01:20:15.660 Yeah, but this is all over the country.
01:20:17.640 She didn't even look into this.
01:20:19.600 She's so young.
01:20:20.640 Hold on.
01:20:21.320 Let me get my dog in.
01:20:23.400 Okay, y'all.
01:20:24.160 Come on in.
01:20:25.580 Come on in.
01:20:33.780 Okay.
01:20:34.180 Okay.
01:20:35.240 All right.
01:20:38.280 So.
01:20:38.680 she could have did like two minutes of research
01:20:48.480 i know i reacted to a girl in atlanta that's happened to
01:20:55.020 i don't know doug mpa if you know it put it in the signal
01:20:59.040 chat i know a few months ago
01:21:01.920 is my wi-fi not going god doesn't want me to be right right now
01:21:08.680 Here we go.
01:21:19.400 Here we go.
01:21:20.280 Different one.
01:21:20.800 Welcome back to Alpha Central.
01:21:22.460 I'm your host.
01:21:22.980 You're supposed to make us like boys who are like, I don't chase women.
01:21:28.680 Okay.
01:21:29.880 Dallas women shocked after zero men showed up to their singles event.
01:21:33.880 See, happens all the time.
01:21:35.520 I mean it's I found it Doug it's fine um yeah like it's it's happening everywhere um
01:21:45.760 I'm on the pulse I this is why I should get the n-word pass because I am that I'm on the pulse
01:21:52.940 with all the trends I never stop working look I every time I talk to someone I'm looking for
01:21:58.220 the trends in their life. Every, you know, she's not on the pulse.
01:22:07.960 Doing what they've always tried to do, which is date. And people have been calling women
01:22:11.700 desperate for an eternity. Again, this is not some new phenomenon. Like a desperate woman is
01:22:16.080 an age-old trope. Like there were desperate women in Jane Austen novels that were made fun of. Like
01:22:19.940 again, not new. However, I will concede that maybe this desperation is taking new forms. Like they
01:22:25.300 are now stealing men's salads at sweet it's not the same i mean what was that though you're just
01:22:30.840 gonna nag you're right but not like all right doug's gotta let's see
01:22:40.120 single men to come to a party i have a restaurant in brooklyn and i want to throw a singles mixer
01:22:52.600 for valentine's day and all of the women in my dms are very enthused but no men yeah let's see
01:23:02.400 okay greens for crying out loud just watch this tiktok as the dating scene is getting so bad in
01:23:08.040 new york city that i am seeing on tiktok there are girls going into midtown during the week
01:23:14.400 and stealing finance bro's salads for lunch and then looking their name up from the salad order
01:23:21.660 on linkedin and then messaging them through there and being like hey oh my god so sorry
01:23:27.020 grabbed your salad like let me just make it up to you and buy you a new one and that's how they're
01:23:32.260 like sliding it which honestly smart why are we stealing men's salads like that's why can't they
01:23:38.680 just come up to us at a bar like okay well they're not coming up to you at a bar because number one
01:23:42.540 rejection is awful but also they don't want to be me too'd and for the last however many years
01:23:46.560 every what was this okay so you just nagged him for no reason which is why i think that good men
01:23:52.640 okay let me keep going now apparently oh wait here let me all right like play the games sleep
01:23:58.880 around hook up culture all of that so alex cooper i think you're to blame no i mean brett i mean we
01:24:04.240 could go into your life okay let's just be honest here i don't know who the hell you gave it up to
01:24:10.080 before i don't really care right i don't i don't spend my life wondering who you banged before you
01:24:16.000 you met your husband, but I'm not stupid. And I know bitch that's been on her own since 16.
01:24:21.280 She's banging somebody, right? You can play the innocent card to your, your husband or whatever.
01:24:27.140 I'm not stupid. Okay. Your husband, he might be stupid. I don't know. You know, I'd say you've
01:24:34.140 banged at least five other dudes. At least I'm going to be, I'm going to be so kind. You've only
01:24:38.540 banged five other dude. We count head here. I don't think it was one or two. I think it was at least
01:24:44.800 five. We count the Gluck Gluck 9,000. We count getting finger blasted. I would say at least
01:24:52.080 five dudes. Okay. So were you brainwashed? No. It was just, you wanted to do it, right? You got
01:25:05.720 horny. It's normal. Like we're adults here. You get horny. You want to throw it back, you know?
01:25:12.220 we all been there um she'll pretend she's never been there but every woman's been there you know
01:25:22.140 it's like it is what it is i'm not judging you know but i don't really like this rhetoric that
01:25:30.000 feminism convinced it's like women didn't you were in a sorority okay what frat guy did you bang
01:25:36.260 like if i really wanted to do a deep dive on so i would never do this i would never it's like i
01:25:42.260 would just ask people in your sorority right women talk too much you probably told some
01:25:47.060 that hates you not like you know there's some frat guy you know probably the hottest
01:25:53.220 maybe not the hottest but like top five you know because she's like a mid and a sorority she'd
01:25:57.620 probably be pretty ugly actually sorority girls that like hot you know at big schools not like
01:26:03.860 she's better looking than normal but like you know what i mean at big schools
01:26:10.660 you're just not gonna anyways so okay okay yeah so i'll just anyway he goes on and he says now
01:26:18.180 they're done they'd rather grind video games stack cash hit the gym or just live free than
01:26:23.380 blow thousands chasing entitled unappreciative women in loud bars or on apps men are fed up with
01:26:28.820 with the disrespect, the hypergamy, the attitude,
01:26:31.360 the men going their own way,
01:26:32.640 Redfield trend isn't slowing down, it's accelerating.
01:26:35.280 Year after year, more men will opt out.
01:26:37.920 Women ignored the warning signs,
01:26:39.320 and now they are living with the consequences.
01:26:41.040 I talk about this extensively in my second book,
01:26:42.980 Why Women Deserve Even Less,
01:26:44.320 which is a sequel to my first book,
01:26:46.080 Why Women Deserve Less, link below,
01:26:48.040 which is just comical.
01:26:48.960 But like, okay, again, seriously,
01:26:50.440 I understand your analysis on why this happened.
01:26:53.100 I sympathize with that, I get it, I can point to it.
01:26:55.300 But like, are we really seeing this as a victory?
01:26:57.960 this is like a good thing it seems totally backwards and completely unhealthy to claim
01:27:01.560 that the consequence is actually the positive way forward and thankfully thanks bro did you
01:27:07.080 just say that a consequence is not the positive way forward so you're saying women shouldn't have
01:27:16.120 constant this is incredible i mean e-girls please i just this is my plea to you please don't ever
01:27:25.080 stop saying dumb stuff on podcasts I would never look I say dumb stuff too at times and I make a
01:27:34.980 lot of people's careers and you guys are about to make mine so I'm going to continue we do not live
01:27:39.600 in a completely direct society because many commenters agree like one guy said you say this
01:27:43.240 as if it is a good thing congratulations on doing your part to drive a wedge between men and women
01:27:47.020 another person said six years later and the master plan is opt out and play video games revolutionary
01:27:51.960 If your grand solution to modern dating is retreat and resentment, that is not power.
01:27:56.520 That is avoidance with branding.
01:27:58.420 I love that comment.
01:27:59.200 And let's be honest, it is branding because this is his business.
01:28:01.880 What is happening now is profitable for his business and the messages that he espouses.
01:28:05.460 This comment was just wild.
01:28:08.000 She has gone full feminist since getting married.
01:28:11.340 This is incredible.
01:28:14.860 Please don't stop.
01:28:21.960 remarkable so i had to read it but this person said you have correctly diagnosed the rig game
01:28:26.440 but the men going their own way movement is a fatal prescription well some of the men going
01:28:30.280 their own way don't have a choice they're ugly chopped right and you know it's like two percent
01:28:36.440 of women are marriageable and even if you get a marriageable one like brett cooper would be in
01:28:43.080 the marriageable statistic assuming she doesn't have an incurable std right um and i'm assuming
01:28:49.720 she paid off her college debt with um the money she's made at the daily wire so but uh brett
01:28:56.280 gotta be real here all the men have to deal with that marry women like you you looking at
01:29:02.520 clavicular the way you did you know that's a lot of men just don't want to do it so
01:29:06.680 and now she's nagging about video games it's like okay are we gonna nag you about the pound
01:29:21.800 of makeup that you were wearing shut up games and stack cash is the path of exile a retreat
01:29:26.800 masquerading as true independence by withdrawing you avoid the pain and friction of the modern
01:29:31.840 dating market, but you abdicate the throne entirely. A true king doesn't surrender to the
01:29:36.480 chaos or hide in digital comfort. He burns the false map, masters the laws of the territory,
01:29:41.180 and builds an unbreakable frame. Do not mistake a comfortable cage for a kingdom. I love that.
01:29:46.960 Take that comment to heart. Back to the point. The problem is, in my opinion, is that I think
01:29:51.000 that these commenters and myself, people like us, and these red pill bros are operating from
01:29:55.740 completely different premises. Like the commenter that just left that reply, he still believes in
01:30:00.240 conquering challenges in making society better and getting married and building strong families
01:30:04.720 just the audacity that you think you can tell men what to do you're not traditional or feminine in
01:30:11.120 any way because you think that you have and neither am i right we suck we're women you know but like
01:30:19.360 you don't have the right to tell men what to do
01:30:24.880 so you don't know anything about the male experience and you're going to tell men they're
01:30:28.320 they're weak if they give up fuck you they're doing hard jobs you're talking into a microphone
01:30:33.780 like I just think that like it's unfortunate that when you talk into a microphone you become
01:30:38.780 higher status in society because I really think we should be the lowest status people
01:30:44.180 people hate us but we're still considered like high status people maybe not me right but like
01:30:52.640 lot of these people and these prestigious you know companies so
01:31:01.360 it's just like we should be the lowest because we don't do anything
01:31:06.400 this whole red pill movement the men going their own way they just seem concerned with
01:31:10.240 tearing it all down you need to comment did i comment oh i said never change e-girls
01:31:17.040 and essentially getting revenge like they're angry and obviously again we can all understand
01:31:23.640 why i think all of us get it but their solution is to burn it all down and opt out that to them
01:31:28.560 is success but at what cost because yeah so again you're a high status woman with the money for
01:31:35.900 servants right so you ever i was i'm making a show i'm gonna do soon i'm doing a lot of research for
01:31:41.980 it so i'm not ready yet but it's going to talk about high status women how they've actually
01:31:49.260 never cooked and cleaned they've always had servants right and when you think about it we've
01:31:55.420 it's not really changing the only difference is that women are becoming high status through debt
01:32:00.540 now so like young women at 18 get a bunch of debt and now they have servants at college right they
01:32:06.620 have you know people catering to their they have a the meal you know meal services at college
01:32:13.020 and they graduate they get uber eats so they're not cooking they're not cleaning like um i don't
01:32:19.340 know if that makes sense so women enter the servant or the high status like they're basically living
01:32:25.660 the lives of queens you know most women in all of history didn't get to travel like that now women
01:32:30.460 are getting to live that but they're getting to live it through credit card debt or useless jobs
01:32:35.740 like me and brett have you know so she as like essentially is in the position of a queen right
01:32:47.660 and she's saying oh well you peasants keep working peasants work work for me peasants peasants peasants
01:32:56.060 it's like well and then they always cope the conservative oh i work so hard no you don't
01:33:02.460 if you don't work like 12 hour days um uber eating and doing this you don't work that hard
01:33:11.020 okay i mean some of these jobs suck they suck ass i i wouldn't want to do them i'm gonna be
01:33:15.500 honest i would if i had to but like i wouldn't you know that does not i know i could be more
01:33:22.460 useless right i could be hr but it's not like you know it's not like we're changing society here
01:33:29.900 seemed like a happy healthy fruitful productive life one woman who was brave enough to jump into
01:33:35.880 his comment section said this kind of mindset might feel empowering in the short term but it
01:33:40.240 is built on resentment more than reality yes dating is messy right now yes some men feel
01:33:44.740 overlooked but turning that into women deserve less just keeps everyone stuck in a cycle of blame
01:33:49.020 instead of growth opting out is a choice so yeah so now women are freaking out because they are not
01:33:54.960 to have slaves they essentially want like they need men to uber eats them they need you know
01:34:00.640 they need men to deliver them food and do all this stuff and men are saying you know
01:34:06.880 f it i'm not gonna live like a slave if i don't get anything in return why would i be a slave
01:34:13.440 for nothing you know so
01:34:24.960 and now high like essentially queens in society high status women
01:34:29.720 uh they're nagging the slaves and the peasants right like essentially we've just kind of
01:34:38.460 redistributed society to where most women live like queens until they're like 35 and then women
01:34:45.300 enter the servant class like if you look at the nail techs they're all usually older hair stylists
01:34:50.040 whatever but like when they're young they live like queens um and then enter the servant class
01:34:55.300 later some women like brett um and that's why women don't value i was thinking about this
01:35:00.420 i'm gonna do a more in-depth show but i was thinking about what like all the rich guys i
01:35:06.100 know don't care about cooking and cleaning they do not care sorry like okay sorry i should say
01:35:12.180 rich and high status because women when they go they don't just want money they want status so
01:35:17.080 like the ideal for women is like brad pitt right do you think brad pitt really cares if his wife
01:35:23.280 cooks like he probably he's like 50 he's probably there learn to cook on his own and has meals he
01:35:30.320 likes or like he can afford a like someone to meal prep or whatever like they don't really care
01:35:37.860 and i was really thinking about this and i'm like women prioritize events and going out because
01:35:44.980 they're more likely to meet the high status men and the cooking skills like they just don't really
01:35:50.520 like need them sometimes there's high income men that like they don't participate in the status
01:35:57.760 game so like my dad maybe would be one of them where like he doesn't care about the events he
01:36:02.960 doesn't like that stuff just wasn't appealing like he didn't play in that game of like status
01:36:09.900 does that make sense so they tend to care more about money but the the men that women are gunning
01:36:14.940 for they really don't care about cooking well when i think of the servant class like i think of uber
01:36:23.580 eats hair hair salons nail salons like because i was thinking about it's just a new equivalent back
01:36:29.900 in the day like women would have um like queens would have people to help them get ready in the
01:36:35.900 morning and women basically have that now with like people to cut their hair people to dye their
01:36:41.180 hair people to do their nails like it's just women are in the cert like they graduate into the
01:36:47.660 servant class brad pitt is 62. um status makes you richer yeah i know it does in some industries
01:36:55.580 um not all though not all like my dad doesn't really i mean i guess he'd be high status in
01:37:02.060 his company growing up but like he i don't know the games in the cities um
01:37:11.180 yeah so improvement so is learning how to build healthier dynamics without framing half the
01:37:20.300 population as the enemy and also this is such an important lesson to learn even outside of dating
01:37:25.880 in this whole issue that we're going through like as humans it is much easier to just shut down and
01:37:30.500 walk away and avoid things when they are hard or when things are painful it is easy
01:37:33.720 like do you understand why you saying this as a commentator like even let's even take a woman
01:37:42.560 with an easier job like a hairstylist who has to cut hair for 12 hours straight
01:37:47.000 or a trucker being told by you to do things when they're hard the actress turned commentator
01:37:58.660 no okay don't see the irony or two drop out of that course that you're worried about flunking
01:38:07.020 in college it is easier to close yourself off from people so that you don't get hurt it is easier to
01:38:11.460 in the 1970s women were in the u.s were still cooking family dishes yeah like middle class
01:38:16.960 women right middle class women have cooked and cleaned lower class women have cooked and clean
01:38:22.640 upper class have managed servants you think melania knows how to cook do you think trump
01:38:29.260 cares because upper class women their job was um reputation management so like they would host part
01:38:37.720 like i was looking up the average day in an upper class woman and it was like the servants come help
01:38:43.240 her get ready she might have two or three out outfit changes she does breakfast hosts dinner
01:38:48.880 parties it's like i don't know i'm like that is a completely yeah lift harder at the gym because
01:38:56.800 it's painful like whatever that might be in your life but as human beings and i often have to
01:39:00.800 remind myself of this we only grow so let me get this straight they want you want them to listen to
01:39:05.360 you when you have to be reminded to do hard things as a commentator a commentator
01:39:12.640 like i just want to show the equivalent this is like a queen saying to the peasants
01:39:19.680 guys make sure you do things make sure you do things that are hard
01:39:23.760 and they're looking at you like you're the you're a queen
01:39:32.560 you're now i know i'm a queen too right i i mean
01:39:35.740 i don't want it to sound like but the way i live right it's better than a lot of women
01:39:42.120 i've lived in all of history i was really lucky the family i'm born into it doesn't mean you
01:39:46.360 don't work hard at certain things but it's just not going to compare to the grueling labor of
01:39:51.800 being a peasant it's not better and get stronger when we push through and overcome things and also
01:39:57.880 when we pray and develop a relationship with god and use hallow now let's shut the up
01:40:04.360 you're using god to sell an app is not meant to be comfortable it is about oh my god through the
01:40:13.980 noise dropping what weighs you down and doing the work to become you're using jesus to sell ads
01:40:20.580 send the fucking asteroid oh my god i can't take this i cannot take conservative media
01:40:34.060 I cannot, if she's Catholic
01:40:36.460 I'm going to lose it
01:40:37.640 I am going to lose it
01:40:39.480 If you are Catholic
01:40:41.220 If you are, if you have
01:40:44.300 converted to Catholic in the last three
01:40:46.520 Fuck!
01:40:51.360 Oh my god
01:40:52.920 You don't get to
01:40:53.980 Oh my god
01:40:56.040 I disavow
01:40:58.300 Grant did not look it
01:41:00.480 I'm barely Catholic
01:41:01.960 Okay
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01:41:52.540 I'm skipping this ad.
01:41:57.880 Bruh.
01:42:00.380 Brett, again, that is preborn.com slash Brett to get involved today.
01:42:04.100 Again, that is preborn.com slash Brett to get involved today.
01:42:07.260 So back to the story.
01:42:08.100 The point I'm trying to make here is that, yes, we get it.
01:42:11.240 Be smug all you want.
01:42:12.760 Be happy about this.
01:42:14.100 But this is.
01:42:15.840 Brett Cooper and Pearl are part of a human.
01:42:18.300 if I get dragged into this human trafficking thing, I am going to, if Candace, I don't think
01:42:26.800 she would, I've made like a million streams on her. She's never responded, but I swear to God,
01:42:31.520 if I get pulled into this, if I get put into this conspiracy theory,
01:42:38.220 we're going to have beef. Okay. Beef. Not a victory for society. It is not a victory for
01:42:46.020 anything other than you and your business and your brand and interest bro did you just let me
01:42:51.640 get this straight she i think i hate her more every day i hate her more every day i i went
01:43:00.820 from a fan to pure hatred i think now so let me get this straight she's saying it builds your
01:43:14.100 brand when you just used god to sell an ad i quit i'm singly what this new york times reporter found
01:43:24.900 in his tiny dating event might not be indicative of the entire dating landscape for example take
01:43:30.180 this tick tock the rules of grifting always use god and then play the victim you're a pretty
01:43:36.740 successful woman trying to date new york city you might genuinely be cooked people talk about how
01:43:40.500 it's the greatest city in the world for dating for guys yeah there's a 70 30 split everyone here has
01:43:45.780 a college degree women are smarter than men these days for being one of the most diverse beautiful
01:43:49.220 cities in the world a lot of the guys here are very bland you want a finance bro you want a
01:43:53.380 traditional like five foot seven douchebag go for it but then the dudes how do you you just covered
01:43:59.380 maury murray hill who got like a thousand matches as a woman on a dating app when he okay
01:44:05.300 to do well here with women have all the options in the world they have massive egos and there
01:44:13.840 can be a paradox where as a successful attractive woman you have all the options but how many of
01:44:18.240 those options do you really want and do you want to commit and would want to commit to you
01:44:21.780 this is something a lot of women really want guys to be respectful and be confident and go up to
01:44:26.760 them in person but it's not happening because so much of dating is online dating you get in this
01:44:30.940 cycle of all the options in the world and yet no options at all so similarly he is arguing that
01:44:35.420 men especially that top percentage of men hold all the power in new york city that they have
01:44:39.360 all of the options and yeah but women are choosing to chase chad and there's still i bet okay if it's
01:44:46.160 30 70 split men to women then women are fucking 10 of them and leaving 20 out like women are
01:44:53.860 gonna women might not be as great for women however some some that's the caveat women in
01:44:58.800 comments did not agree that they were totally cooked like one woman said it's just as amazing
01:45:02.720 for women what do you mean another woman said i don't know personally i've had a great time
01:45:05.680 dating here and i don't think i'm wildly attractive lol and most of it has been in person was only on
01:45:10.240 the apps for a few months pre-vaccine you just have to leave the house but that's the hard thing
01:45:14.480 people don't want to leave the house they want to be on their phones not a new okay the thing is
01:45:18.800 when you're in small cities i think you can just like meet people in person more um yeah
01:45:25.520 another person said really i've had three nyc boyfriends and they all wanted to get married
01:45:30.480 and i didn't want to would rather be single she says but yeah but it's 70 30 that includes older
01:45:36.260 women that comment shows therein lies the issue and if men are dealing with countless women who
01:45:41.160 do not want to settle down yeah where is she going to say my name just interested in dating
01:45:44.460 around who are girl bossing in their new york city cubicles who are getting micro banks i don't know
01:45:48.220 whatever you guys are doing then yeah they will probably opt out or they will move and just change
01:45:52.260 dating markets but the point is what i'm trying to say here is that i feel like i say this in
01:45:56.680 every single dating episode but it's not a black and white issue some men and women in different
01:46:00.800 dating markets are still thriving but it is a hard market regardless it's just like the real
01:46:04.660 estate market in 2026 it is complicated and it is complex but what does seem to be an objective
01:46:10.080 truth at this point is that the red pill bros the men going on their own way movement whatever that
01:46:14.780 is they are never happy nothing will please them because honestly how dare you
01:46:21.940 how dare you just white women i see why they hate us just like liberal because it's just like
01:46:31.480 how dare you complain to the men about anything that they decide to do
01:46:36.580 in the position you're in shut up shut like shut up feminist women all they do is complain and
01:46:45.340 desire to hate the opposite sex but you don't even know what red pill is you actually there's
01:46:50.140 forums called the married red pill with men that have been married like 20 plus years she doesn't
01:46:56.080 even know what the red pill is matter what we do they will find a reason to be upset they are even
01:47:01.700 complaining over evie magazine trying to teach women how to have better sex and better please
01:47:07.160 their oh my god she's not gonna do it oh my god okay so evie okay hold on literally now in case
01:47:18.220 you missed that entire controversy happening on x right now evie magazine's newest print issue they
01:47:22.480 do a couple of print issues every single year this next issue is going to be all on sex for married
01:47:27.480 women okay so now brett cooper is going to defend a quote-unquote so they're going to use
01:47:35.140 conservatism which is supposed to be conserving like traditional values right modesty like
01:47:40.800 modesty like when you think of conservatism is one of those values so women want to be naked
01:47:47.200 really bad because it gives them more attention so and it draws more attention to whatever they
01:47:51.380 want so they just want to get naked and um conservative women are now going to defend the
01:47:57.300 right of women to get naked so they can get naked because brooke kind of or not brooke brett got
01:48:02.520 naked in her photo shoot not completely naked but you know she's doing a sexy photo shoot too
01:48:06.980 and now she's going to defend it because they want the right to be whores but not be called
01:48:12.580 whores and i'm like look we're all just admit it just admit it you know it's fine just say
01:48:18.820 just say whore i'm a whore i'm a slut ho whore big whore yeah just yeah i mean just
01:48:29.220 you know it's okay you know and here's the cover right here obviously this got a lot of people
01:48:35.780 fired up in many ways but in a recent post they explained why they're doing this so i want to read
01:48:40.340 this to you and then show you the response to show you how ridiculous and hypocritical it really is
01:48:44.660 so this was a letter from britney hugaboom who is the editor-in-chief and the founder of evie
01:48:48.740 and she said dear readers this is the first of many themed issues and it is the most ambitious
01:48:53.300 thing we have ever done for years a recurring plea has shown up in our dms our emails and
01:48:57.780 our survey they realize traditionalism means there's a natural order in the world so you get
01:49:03.620 instruction from your husband right god talks to your husband the husband talks to the wife right
01:49:14.100 so if you have questions about sex you're supposed to go to your husband not a magazine
01:49:19.700 it's actually pretty liberal to go to a random woman on the internet
01:49:24.500 it's conservative to go to your husband right
01:49:27.540 right? You could be like, daddy, how do I gluck, gluck 9,000 better for you? You know what I mean?
01:49:34.900 So it's like, responses, young, married women are asking us for real, honest and detailed guidance
01:49:42.020 on sex. A reader once wrote to us and said, progressives own sex positivity, but abandoned
01:49:46.740 marriage and monogamy a long time ago. Conservatives own marriage, but can't bring themselves to be
01:49:50.940 sex positive. That stuck with us because it's true. And it perfectly describes the gap that
01:49:54.940 millions of women are living in. Many young women, especially from traditional religious families,
01:49:58.440 have come into womanhood without learning anything about sex. They save themselves for marriage and
01:50:02.300 then they realize that the culture that told them to wait had absolutely nothing to say about what
01:50:06.020 comes after the altar. They grew up with negative associations to intimacy but were expected to
01:50:10.220 become uninhibited the moment that they said, I do. We believe that sex is one of the most
01:50:13.820 important foundations to a thriving marriage. You cannot call something sacred and then refuse to
01:50:19.040 take it seriously. Now she goes on, there were other parts of it that were also controversial
01:50:22.920 to the detractors online but like to me what evie is doing it sounds like a good and healthy thing
01:50:28.600 because for years young women have been bombarded with sex positive content however it was not
01:50:33.240 positive in the slightest it was not beautiful or healthy at all in my opinion it was explicit
01:50:37.560 and gross advice from call her daddy and teen vogue who encouraged women to sleep around like
01:50:43.000 men and play the dating game okay but you're encouraging women to do a sexual photo shoot
01:50:47.720 while married how are you any better if anything i like caller daddy i mean they give gluck gluck
01:50:53.080 9000 advice i mean it's very practical if you really listen to the original i mean that could
01:50:58.280 that could save a marriage right there you know games and find your perfect non-binary queer
01:51:05.720 vibrator which was a literal article that was released on teen vogue meanwhile on the right
01:51:09.800 and for girls from more traditional families or who are more traditional the advice is always
01:51:13.800 no such thing as a traditional women you're you guys are all that we're all the same and you prove
01:51:18.760 it so save yours thank you for that helps me you know with my career so keep going embrace
01:51:24.360 traditionalism embrace purity but again what happens when you get none of you are pure
01:51:29.640 you can you can sell that to your husbands you're not selling that to me well and even
01:51:33.400 if you aren't a virgin when you get married maybe you're still looking for pointers maybe you don't
01:51:37.080 really know what you're doing so where do you look where do you go for that advice certainly
01:51:41.480 not cosmo or teen vogue or husband that's that would be traditional your husband alex cooper
01:51:47.000 hopefully it's not porn or smut even though that has become far husband wives that you know not
01:51:52.360 the internet for women unfortunately so this is a niche that should be filled this should make a
01:51:57.880 lot of yeah like you know what should and shouldn't be you're like 22 you know people happy now some
01:52:03.560 people responded to this and said you know this is weird mass media should not be talking about
01:52:07.640 this go talk to your mentors or your friends older women but this is also just such a personal and
01:52:12.120 intimate thing obviously like some people are not comfortable having those conversations they might
01:52:16.120 not have access to individuals who could help them mary morgan for example wrote a hilarious
01:52:20.040 and painfully accurate response to that and she said instead of clapping back with they should
01:52:23.800 go to older women for advice not a magazine first ask yourself why young couples do not have trusted
01:52:28.440 older married mentors in the first place the average boomer has shitty advice on pretty much
01:52:32.200 every topic and you're telling me evie magazine is gonna have good advice really that's gonna be
01:52:38.840 better but they are especially hopeless when it comes to dating a sex marriage they are the free
01:52:44.440 love divorce generation after all the average boomer lady is going to tell a younger woman to
01:52:48.120 marry her vibrator it is that bad now moving on from that and going into the other detractors
01:52:53.080 i'm looking at the landscape of the internet my me me were you paid me my algorithm on x and i'm
01:52:58.920 I'm like, aren't people online always complaining about marriages these days?
01:53:03.600 You spent half your show complaining.
01:53:05.820 It's like the audacity.
01:53:07.260 Marriages are loveless and sexless.
01:53:09.320 So why would men even get involved in that?
01:53:11.420 Why would they engage in something that is so terrible and barren?
01:53:14.600 And this magazine, this issue is here to help.
01:53:16.880 But no, guys, because it is still a problem.
01:53:19.100 And I guess as I'm doing this episode, I should have also included the Red Pill Women
01:53:21.940 because, of course, Pearl was one of the first people to jump in Evie's comment section.
01:53:26.880 she said ha ha please keep going and then she said i love how hard trad e-girls fight to be
01:53:32.400 more and more naked and like i don't even care but how is that like a response to the very valid
01:53:37.280 argument because there is a naked woman on the cover i mean are you are you playing are you
01:53:44.000 stupid or are you playing dumb playing dumb would make playing dumb would be i i think that
01:53:50.800 That, I really don't want to think you're stupid.
01:53:53.980 I don't want to think that you're dumb.
01:53:56.080 I don't, but here's the thing.
01:53:58.380 As an e-girl, people tell you you're smart all the time.
01:54:02.920 Are you stupid or playing dumb?
01:54:07.380 Why am I talking about e-girls fighting to be naked
01:54:11.600 when there's a woman in lingerie you just showed on the screen?
01:54:14.900 are you are you dumb or dumb or playing stupid i don't which one she's got to go live okay
01:54:27.420 i don't like this we need reasoning that evie laid out demand these streamers go live
01:54:32.620 do you guys mean what you say like part of being trad i would assume i would hope is being married
01:54:37.880 and having a healthy happy sex life with your husband and i think that is what evie is trying
01:54:42.260 to encourage no such thing you cannot be traditional and be on social media bitches
01:54:46.480 that's so that's so incredible it's like oh well i need this magazine to be trad it's like well
01:54:53.420 you can do you want to delete social media to be trad well i don't want to do that
01:54:57.420 okay why don't we just say that why don't we just get back to the horse
01:55:01.500 just say i like getting offers from other men in case i want to leave my husband i mean that
01:55:07.520 makes sense right that may i mean that makes perfect sense that at least is logical to me i
01:55:14.080 like wearing a black dress showcasing it for the world because i like other offers you know
01:55:19.440 i like the attention at least at least we're being like honest here i'm trying to just encourage
01:55:24.880 a little bit of honesty just a little bit not a lot just a little right um
01:55:32.560 is that is that too much to ask and help young women do another commenter said spoiler there
01:55:40.700 are no traditional women they are all just whores like us men let's stop the charade okay women are
01:55:45.280 whores because they want to have better sex with their husbands because were you a virgin on your
01:55:49.480 wedding night were you a virgin on your wedding night no whore we're all whores right um and even
01:55:58.380 the women that are virgins on their wedding night it's usually just because a hot enough chad didn't
01:56:02.440 ask hot enough chad just did not ask but notice how she's become more man-hating after the kid
01:56:09.840 now she's got power this is a woman drunk on power i know an unchecked ego they want to learn
01:56:16.500 how to please their husbands and be comfortable and understand their bodies like okay you all
01:56:20.440 genuinely just want to be mad about everything that is what i've taken away from this entire
01:56:24.220 situation doesn't matter if somebody's trying to fix the problem no because you don't know what the
01:56:27.940 red pill is the red pill actually is completely dedicated to fixing the problems you don't have
01:56:33.400 an answer to any of the problems because all of your um your solutions are either you either don't
01:56:38.820 have a solution or it's very abstract um yeah and nobody nobody made you throw it back for other
01:56:49.400 dudes before your husband nobody made you do that so i mean hoes are gonna hoe including you brad
01:56:55.100 it's all right don't it's okay it's okay you know sometimes hoeing just calls your name and you got
01:57:03.060 a hoe you know that you've laid out that you yell about online 24 7 you just want to be pissed off
01:57:08.600 i mean you go on and on i mean but you just you you were just pissed off at the red pill it's just
01:57:13.840 like the hypocrisy like if you're gonna be a hypocrite just don't do it in the same video
01:57:18.920 just do it in different like like two two separate videos would be ideal
01:57:24.680 because then it's like well she probably forgot she said that you know but i mean you couldn't
01:57:29.000 have forgot because one the naked picture was right there and two um
01:57:40.760 two you just complained you know so on about how sexless loveless marriages are a problem
01:57:46.360 in america that they lead to divorce and divorce is bad and divorce makes men resent women and why
01:57:50.040 should men get married in the first place everything is terrible oh my gosh if only
01:57:53.480 somebody if only somebody was offering a solution and trying great social media brett that would
01:57:58.520 that would fix your sex life i'm sorry whoever you you had sex with in college is better sex than
01:58:05.160 your husband um he was probably sexually inexperienced to allow you to act this way
01:58:13.000 as a married woman which it is what it is right don't take it with a grain of salt you know
01:58:20.360 but yeah i mean just because you threw it back more than him it just is what i mean that's like
01:58:25.800 the conservative marriage so to make things better and healthier like you people you commenters you
01:58:33.080 offer no solutions except retreating into a resentful lonely isolation where men and women
01:58:38.440 continue to she's so mad that we all know she because this is the thing red pillar there's
01:58:43.220 behaviors she just can't hide that we all know indicate that you hold a bit you can't hide them
01:58:50.940 you can pretend you can gaslight for eternity but we all know a hoe when we've seen one we all know
01:58:56.860 a ucla whore you know what i mean it just it is what it is right just like candace owens like
01:59:01.500 she tries to not be ghetto but we can all kind of see you're kind of ghetto right you can't really
01:59:05.920 you can't hide it and that pisses her off she doesn't like being found out because she made
01:59:10.600 her brand on like being super innocent you know anyways anyways um she's not you know she's not
01:59:23.000 holding this l too well with the clavicular thing i hope she gets it back though look it i don't
01:59:28.440 judge you for hoeing but you're not gonna you're not gonna hoe and fool me you're not gonna hoe
01:59:33.500 and then pretend you're not hoeing i don't i don't like the gas lighting hose are fine we love the
01:59:39.060 hose you know anyways all right guys the hose are gonna hoe all right guys we're at the two hour
01:59:48.660 mark so candace admits she used to part i'm sure she did but i bet she didn't admit that till
01:59:54.580 after she had a few kids you know that's when you admit it after you built the brand after you got
01:59:59.640 the kids.
02:00:09.080 Hoes are gonna ho, keep it on the low. Hoes are gonna ho, keep it on the low.
02:00:29.640 Wait, what the heck?
02:00:33.000 Oh, wait, hold on.
02:00:41.120 Sorry, one second.
02:00:42.980 Hoes are gonna hoe.
02:00:44.980 Keep it on the...
02:00:46.380 Wait.
02:00:48.900 Brett pretends she didn't hoe.
02:00:53.480 But everybody knows.
02:00:57.520 UCLA sorority girl
02:01:02.400 And look, I'm not the type to clutch my pearls
02:01:07.900 But every now and then a bitch has got to throw it back
02:01:13.280 Cause you're so horny, somebody tapped that
02:01:18.600 And we're all adults here, we know
02:01:23.620 that hoes are gonna ho hoes are gonna ho keep it on the low nobody has to know
02:01:36.500 but hoes are gonna ho people like brett are used to nobody questioning their wholeness
02:01:47.940 their hoeness
02:01:50.140 but I'm like
02:01:52.600 bitches
02:01:53.100 I know
02:01:54.920 you're in your 20s
02:01:58.460 and sometimes you gotta hoe
02:01:59.980 it's usually college
02:02:01.240 in college
02:02:02.960 you threw a few shots
02:02:05.980 in college
02:02:08.200 you act like a thought
02:02:10.900 in college
02:02:13.400 everybody
02:02:14.340 knows
02:02:16.300 That hoes are gonna ho
02:02:21.240 That holier than thou ain't gonna work on me
02:02:26.360 You are not gonna sell me purity
02:02:30.800 Now your simp husbands, they might buy that too
02:02:36.460 But I don't see a big difference between you and Bonnie Blue
02:02:41.480 And maybe, and maybe this will get me in trouble, but I'm trying to get these simps out of
02:02:53.860 the conservative bubble.
02:02:57.860 Hoes are gonna hoe, clavicular nose.
02:03:08.360 are gonna hoe. Keep it on the low. Now we used to get away with hoeing. We used to get
02:03:23.900 away with throwing a back you're knowing. But now social media's here. That puts a lot
02:03:37.780 trad e-girls in tears because now everybody knows hoes are gonna ho everybody knows
02:03:57.540 that you can't stop
02:03:59.140 thank you everybody thank you that song that song was from the bottom of my heart you know
02:04:10.140 you know i um again i get music offers all the time and i just turn them down
02:04:20.140 you know super busy super busy you know pearl's gotta go
02:04:26.120 and be a hoe, you know?
02:04:28.840 We got a hoe, so.
02:04:31.640 30fos are going to 30fo.
02:04:33.140 Yeah, I know.
02:04:34.580 Laugh, laugh, laugh.
02:04:40.560 Does Doug, can Doug,
02:04:42.300 Doug, can you freestyle?
02:04:44.640 I'll hold the show
02:04:46.900 if Doug can add a verse.
02:04:50.240 $10.
02:04:51.360 Thank you, guys.
02:04:52.420 $10.
02:04:57.100 I can sing, but I can't rap.
02:05:01.160 Well, I mean, then I got to take away your N-word pass.
02:05:05.720 I got to take it away.
02:05:09.980 You don't deserve an N-word pass.
02:05:15.300 Well, I mean, it was more of like a, it's okay, next time.
02:05:18.960 You should write a few verses for the Black Fatigue song,
02:05:22.700 and I can just play it, and you could, like, come, you know.
02:05:26.120 all right well i gotta go anyways guys
02:05:33.560 if you can like the video and subscribe um let me know if you want send this to the music officials
02:05:42.880 um yeah because i think i deserve an album you know so i mean i i turn it down all the time ha
02:05:51.640 huh? But yeah, you know, you never know. Anyways, like the video. I'll see you next time.