Pearl - December 02, 2025


Pearl & Friends React： Lila Rose Embarrasses Her Husband Online


Episode Stats

Length

40 minutes

Words per Minute

199.03339

Word Count

8,099

Sentence Count

37

Misogynist Sentences

91

Hate Speech Sentences

78


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In this episode of my reaction series, I have my good friend Shiv joining me to react to Uma Lila Rose and her story about how she met her husband. We also talk about porn and the war of the sexes.

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00:00:00.000 also by the way this chick always just wants to tell people how what to do how to live their life
00:00:05.260 how to run their own show it's like ladies shut up dude this sucks like i don't i don't want to
00:00:10.320 like honestly give me an atheist like i'll take the atheist you know like i can fix her you know
00:00:15.320 what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today i have shiv joining us um to react to um lila rose
00:00:25.200 how she met her husband so if you guys don't know what i do is when i film these reactions
00:00:35.940 i send these links out to people i think are funny and then whoever shows up shows up
00:00:40.880 welcome shib my favorite pajit i am the top brahmin that is correct so we're gonna start
00:00:50.920 wait hold on i gotta find this we're gonna start um wait lila rose pearl we're gonna start with my
00:01:00.040 um debate with lila did you happen to see it i think i saw clips of it i didn't see the whole
00:01:04.520 thing yeah should we watch the full thing or how much time you got i got time i'm a youtuber
00:01:09.880 i i got about like an hour ish like hour half all right yeah yeah we could you know we'll just
00:01:16.280 do the clip i don't think the full thing's necessary so um this this is conservative
00:01:24.920 women's faces when you tell them to sleep with their husbands
00:01:30.120 okay it's not like men are given advice that is not on morality it's not like there's a special
00:01:36.040 morality just for men when it comes to sex and a special morality for women the sexual morality
00:01:41.160 that we're given, not by me, not by you, by God and natural law, God's natural law, and also you
00:01:47.380 can see it through divine revelation in the tradition of the church, is a morality for both
00:01:51.200 men and women, married and unmarried, and its core is chastity, which is virtue. Men are called to it
00:01:56.520 and women are called to it. And when men aren't living virtue or women aren't living in virtue,
00:02:00.800 both of them can become increasingly haywire, we hurt each other, then the war of the sexes
00:02:05.780 commences. So speaking against porn is not just about men, it's about men and women.
00:02:11.160 it should be all about women really because women are the ones producing it
00:02:15.560 i know i know men are the ones groomed into watching porn because we're just naked all the
00:02:22.440 time it's true it's you know what i will say i live in san francisco it's freezing cold out
00:02:28.000 and girls will wear like just like the skinniest outfits and i'm like how i'm freezing i have to
00:02:34.140 wear like two jackets um it's really a miracle anyone who's ever been to a rave or festival
00:02:39.520 will see this firsthand you can be in the most freezing town ever and girls will wear nothing
00:02:44.860 i know we want to be naked so bad so it's like the men are kind of i mean i don't even think
00:02:50.900 they're begging us to get naked they're like fine fine i'll look women are like look at me
00:02:58.440 and the men are like i'm busy and then we put on a thing of makeup and then we're like look at me
00:03:02.340 and they're like man busy then we get fake boobs and say look at me now so how do you feel that
00:03:07.760 were groomed from a young age is it tough for you yeah well i'll say this too being indian like my
00:03:13.520 parents were arranged married and so it was like the western dating was so intense for me right
00:03:20.400 like in middle school there was like kids you already had like boyfriend girlfriend and stuff
00:03:24.080 like that and that was just so far removed um from my upbringing so yeah it was definitely like a
00:03:30.480 weird transition into like high school and i'm college like just how like over the top promiscuous
00:03:38.400 the women are here um but it's it's yeah and so it's really really better though i mean akash has
00:03:45.440 akash's wife has done terrible marketing for indian women everywhere
00:03:49.440 i they had decent marketing like i told my girlfriend this so i don't mind saying it on
00:03:54.080 stream because i told my girlfriend i already said i showed her those clips and i said i want
00:03:58.560 you to know that she makes me want to break up with you because you're like you did nothing wrong
00:04:05.280 but now i just hate indian women like you know so yeah i think i think the jig is up on white women
00:04:13.200 right like they're like you know black guys are like oh white women are better and now they've
00:04:18.320 tried a few and they're like eh um black women we i mean we've been new right we had megan the
00:04:23.840 stalli we ben knew this white women the jig's kind of up on us indian women you guys are next we're
00:04:29.680 next we're next on the chopping block man i think japanese women i think you guys are the only ones
00:04:34.320 with decent marketing i haven't seen you guys cook yourselves yet it's incredible no and the
00:04:39.920 japanese men like let's just hope that's their last fashion of hope as men japanese women yeah
00:04:45.520 i think that you will lose more people than you help because no men want to be nagged by women
00:04:51.760 about what they should and shouldn't do.
00:04:54.520 And as I've said before,
00:04:55.560 any woman that tells men what to do is a feminist
00:04:57.960 because you are applying that you have authority
00:05:00.820 and you are equal.
00:05:03.200 And I don't think you are.
00:05:05.300 So I think I would say we are subordinates.
00:05:08.760 Well, I think men and women are made equal in dignity
00:05:11.440 before God and they're both made in the image of God.
00:05:13.940 Oh my God.
00:05:14.920 Do you believe in the natural order?
00:05:17.440 If I can ask you a question.
00:05:19.460 What if you take my question?
00:05:20.280 question do you believe in the natural order of the world oh if you i i also speak on this i i
00:05:26.680 absolutely hate it when women tell men what to do because every man has gone through this experience
00:05:32.520 where you listen to women and you get nothing good out of it and you literally do the exact
00:05:38.120 opposite of what they want and they treat you better right and like so every time women try to
00:05:43.880 like tell men what to do if you're a smart man you'll just do exactly the opposite she makes me
00:05:49.640 want to watch eight hours of porn a day i saw someone say i'm jacking off to lila rose a bit
00:05:56.120 you can't stop me right exactly like what are you gonna do about it lila you don't think guys have
00:06:02.280 like jacked off to you on the internet like you in a way are creating i mean you're not that hot
00:06:08.120 anymore so maybe like well like let's look at a young lila rose i think she was maybe a little
00:06:13.320 bit better looking than you know the problem is when they nag remember pearl we're the generous
00:06:18.760 altruistic gender we might jerk off to her just out of pity for her right we might jerk off for
00:06:23.480 her out of hoping she'll change and become better you know we're the ones that we could see like
00:06:28.680 scaffolding on a building and envision a beautiful skyscraper right we're the gender that could see
00:06:33.800 just a like a dirt lot and imagine a beautiful park built on it um women just they they look
00:06:40.600 at a finished product right they don't really have the visionary scope um and and we can get
00:06:45.640 into akash things wife later but that's why it drives me crazy when when these guys try to
00:06:49.720 simp out like akash and be like oh but my wife was with me when i was poor it's like you weren't you
00:06:57.080 if you stayed poor she would have left yeah i it would have been impressive if she had three kids
00:07:02.200 with you while you're poor because now she's locked in right like now she's locked in and even
00:07:07.480 then is she that locked in in 2025 no i know you've told me stories about those married women
00:07:14.040 on business trips to fss oh my god yeah i the worst place i ever lived um if you want to see
00:07:22.200 hypergamy is la jolla california near the beach in san diego i lived there for three years and it
00:07:27.340 was all married women from all over the country come there and let a 23 year old zach afron
00:07:31.620 looking guy plow them out and they go back to their husbands it was insane yeah i absolutely
00:07:37.060 do that would be a hierarchy correct and would it be okay if i asked you a question
00:07:43.940 she wants to frame herself as moral and me immoral i am a degenerate though so no but you know here
00:07:51.300 here's my my take on all of it right because like look my girlfriend's not a virgin this whole idea
00:07:56.580 of like the whole purity argument it's kind of why trump won in a lot of ways right because trump was
00:08:02.500 like he said crass things and we're like hey i could trust that because at least he's upfront
00:08:07.460 and honest when trump's like yeah of course i evade taxes of course i'm going to do everything
00:08:10.900 not to pay taxes it's like oh my god that's the only honest answer we've ever heard in politics
00:08:15.300 in human history right and that's how i feel about the women it's like a woman who's just like yeah
00:08:19.700 i have a past here's what i've done i'm not thrilled about it that to me is something i
00:08:25.620 could work with i can't work with these girls who think they're somehow holier than thou
00:08:29.780 that to me is unworkable unworkable and it's too high of a price she's not hot enough like
00:08:35.700 you're asking her wait till marriage prices which could work if you're really hot or really feminine
00:08:40.740 but you have neither it's very obvious right right she's unworkable as a human being but if
00:08:44.900 she got some work done that's workable it's time for fake tits lila yeah it includes order and
00:08:51.460 hierarchy yes i agree with that so again it just goes back to the same question the war of the
00:08:59.220 sexes i would say is women challenging men's authority and i would argue that you are the
00:09:04.660 same as a blue-haired feminist because by nagging and telling men what to do you are doing the same
00:09:14.420 thing you are implying that you are equal which is what feminism fought for so anyways i will
00:09:20.500 unmute you but i do want to i do want to show that you are also interrupting me so yeah pearl muting
00:09:26.580 your guests as a yeah and by the way i gave her like two or three warnings early in the show where
00:09:35.780 i'm like hey i don't i don't enjoy muting people this was pretty fun i wonder why this is pretty
00:09:41.300 fun but i did see that clip and that was i was dying laughing when i watched that also by the
00:09:46.740 way this chick always just wants to tell people what to do how to live their life how to run their
00:09:52.020 own show it's like ladies shut up like this is my youtube channel like i will run my youtube channel
00:09:58.820 however i want if i want to mute you every six seconds i could do it just hop off the stream
00:10:03.380 my it's these women are so nasty touche touche
00:10:13.140 sorry that was so funny i just did it you can keep going i just did it no no no no no but seriously
00:10:19.860 right it's like it's your show and you have every prerogative to do that you know so i don't get i
00:10:24.820 don't get her her point i just don't understand what's her point with all of this like like men
00:10:30.820 watching porn is the last it's like literally the lowest issue we have in the world right now it's
00:10:37.220 pretty much the bottom if anything women are so lucky that men are watching porn because they're
00:10:42.020 not putting out with their husbands let's just be real i think no no and you know what's even
00:10:46.660 funnier is when i do this to a young woman because i have muted younger women they laugh
00:10:51.540 and that's how you should like if you get muted it's like teehee yeah it's funny or you can crash
00:10:56.980 out and she picked i gave her so many warnings on this um also we have a new guest uh welcome
00:11:03.060 to the show beardson hey how's it going did you see this video oh yeah it was awesome dude i was
00:11:11.860 like like golf clapping you the whole time like i gave you a you didn't see it but i gave you a
00:11:16.340 standing ovation in my living room yeah okay we're gonna go back you you but i do want to
00:11:23.220 i do want to show that you are also interrupting me so yeah pearl muting your guests is a very uh
00:11:29.620 disrespectful thing okay i'm gonna do it again yeah i again you can you can nag these simps you
00:11:36.740 You can't nag me.
00:11:39.840 I don't know how much she's muting me.
00:11:41.680 So if she's just going to keep muting me, I don't know there's a point of being able to have a discussion.
00:11:46.360 So I don't know how much she's joking about muting me constantly.
00:11:49.360 I don't know.
00:11:49.680 I don't see her muting, so I don't know how much she's doing it.
00:11:51.820 But it might make sense to not have the conversation if she can't have any good faith.
00:11:55.160 It's a really bad faith conversation if she's just going to mute what I said.
00:11:58.020 I'm having a good faith.
00:11:58.900 The problem is, here's the challenge, actually.
00:12:01.400 Can you hear me?
00:12:01.820 Am I muted or not?
00:12:02.420 You get to go on these shows and you do over-talk and analog.
00:12:06.740 and you're kind of used to doing it so it's um again didn't you hear me right now
00:12:12.160 unfortunately i could i should have muted her again
00:12:15.200 she was like over talking you like crazy though it was insane and i hate that so much it's like
00:12:25.600 one of my biggest pet peeves well and it was the second time i had her on the show
00:12:30.160 and the first time i had her on like i could barely get a word in i just could not they it's
00:12:36.420 like i think youtubers get used to doing this because you have to develop the skill of like
00:12:40.680 talking for like hours straight but they just don't like they almost lose the ability to have
00:12:47.160 a normal like back and forth conversation where we both talk yeah like everybody wants to get
00:12:54.160 their shit in all the time you know what i mean it's like dude you can like let me finish my point
00:12:58.420 and then you can go but no i'm glad you did that because that was like like chef's kiss she was so
00:13:04.060 mad you can like see it in her eyes like how mad she is right there yeah are you listening can you
00:13:09.900 hear me okay i do um if you if you continue to mute me i don't even know when you're muting me
00:13:14.380 or not i'm not going to be able to have a conversation with you i don't think you're
00:13:17.180 acting in good faith right now so i'm gonna i'm gonna have to end the stream with you if you're
00:13:21.260 gonna continue to meet me well is she reprimanding you can't you like talk to you like you're a child
00:13:27.100 pearl is she gonna give you a timeout pearl that was gonna do yeah i'm like these women are like
00:13:34.620 i just grew up around this is like the archetype of woman i grew up around catholic catholic schools
00:13:42.140 oh my god these women are everywhere and they just like they have they're like these
00:13:49.980 because the thing is white guys are really really nice they're really they're the nicest gender i
00:13:55.420 sorry gender and race and the problem is everyone uses that niceness against them especially their
00:14:01.820 wives and they just a lot of these women have never been told no ever in their lives and this
00:14:07.980 is the epitome of it and they don't realize how much of bitch they are they like or maybe they
00:14:13.260 just don't care i don't know what what's crazy is this is her on stream on camera imagine her
00:14:21.340 in private with their husband right like if she's this disagreeable this like telling you demands
00:14:27.820 how what men should do what you should do on your stream i can only imagine the nightmare she is
00:14:33.420 off camera that poor man i pray for him dude i guarantee he's going through hell right now
00:14:39.100 yeah it gets worse he's probably jerking off the porn right now yeah well there's probably men
00:14:45.100 jerking off to lila right now you can't stop them how hypocritical is it when you think
00:14:51.180 about it like how many men have bookmarked a photo of lila pearl you know what my prediction is
00:14:57.820 my prediction is in five to ten years that's going to be considered rape too if a guy just
00:15:02.060 thinks about a girl and jerks off to her and if it ever gets like revealed that that will
00:15:07.020 be considered like an our charge in the future that this is just the way we're going everything
00:15:12.220 is oppressive to women apparently um you know lila i might i might have to rub one out to you
00:15:17.420 just out of principle sorry i've had a lot of sad faps i'm not sure i'm that that down the rabbit
00:15:23.900 hole yeah wait how funny would it be if someone made an ai porn you know we all know pearl who
00:15:33.100 would do it it's luffy we know luffy would do it in seven oh my god because i think there's apps
00:15:38.780 now okay grok will do it it's that's the line i don't want to cross like i know grok will do it
00:15:44.860 but yeah yeah i won't
00:15:48.780 no yeah you can't stop me look it's either submit to the rules of the show or don't
00:15:55.820 okay i'm always waiting for these like feminine women to show me their submission and they just
00:16:00.380 never can so so are you going to continue to meet me during our conversation or is it going to be a
00:16:07.260 if you over talk me i will unmute you yeah okay i think i think we're gonna have to close out then
00:16:13.420 because you need to let your audience decide who's over talking who all right see ya
00:16:20.700 what made it so incredible pearl is just how you're dead pan through the whole thing
00:16:24.540 like you're just like all right whatever see ya bye it's like it's so incredible yeah because
00:16:30.940 it's like do you think i'm gonna i don't care i i've interviewed a thousand people you're not
00:16:36.540 special the porn the porn argument from these women just drives me crazy it's like all right
00:16:43.500 well then how about you like put off your husband every day and like you know like oh no i don't
00:16:49.100 want to do that yeah all right so so um i have a humiliation ritual this got worse have you seen
00:16:58.060 this no i haven't seen this no okay so conservative women um will generally use their husband and
00:17:07.660 their family for clout and to build their brands while simultaneously embarrassing them in the
00:17:14.060 process ask me how i know now how lila rose met her husband for the first time uh i already don't
00:17:22.460 like this this is when you met your husband what was your like you know love story did you were
00:17:27.420 you attracted right away was it uh was there chemistry right away what do you think she's
00:17:31.420 gonna say oh what if she says no oh i actually thought he was weird and nerdy and short or
00:17:37.260 something like i've seen too many girls say stuff like that so i hope she doesn't also
00:17:41.420 why can't we lie like i just women if you're gonna marry for money and resources provisioning just
00:17:47.420 lie oh i thought he was so hot he's the hottest guy i've ever all you gotta do men know men
00:17:53.740 understand this you know they're not they don't do that to us when they're asked publicly about us
00:18:00.220 oh exactly my my girlfriend asked me am i is she the hottest woman i've ever like made out with i'm
00:18:04.540 like yeah of course yeah see luckily i'm an incel so i don't have to deal with this but if i ever do
00:18:11.260 get married for some reason i'll be like oh dude this was chopped dude i was like she was like on
00:18:17.580 the side of the road i bought her a cheeseburger and you know she looked hungry you might as well
00:18:23.020 it would it would make it more even did you were you attracted right away was it uh was there
00:18:27.020 chemistry right away i'm curious about this actually or was it more like a slow burn was
00:18:30.620 it a jim and pam situation from the office so i think when i first met him i definitely thought
00:18:36.300 he was cute you know he's he's handsome you know he's objectively handsome but it wasn't like
00:18:42.060 butterflies stars to start you know lightning you know what that's like though you had had
00:18:46.060 experience okay yeah and so i oh that's brutal oh with these other guys i had butterflies in his
00:18:54.780 love at first sight with him it was more a logical decision for uh provisioning and providing and
00:19:00.620 that's rough that every guy even if it's the truth every guy once he hears that from his wife
00:19:07.020 his spirit is never the same right because it's like men deep down know we're just being used
00:19:13.740 like we kind of understand we're utility only in this world but when when it's so uh when it's
00:19:20.220 shown in front of your face that black and white it's it's hard for us to like cope with it to be
00:19:25.020 honest you know so women lie just lie yeah this is like the equivalent of her saying that's like yeah
00:19:31.340 i've had bigger dicks you know like i've had you know he's not the biggest he's all right you know
00:19:37.660 oh my gosh i think there is a and it ended up and for him you know he i think he was very like
00:19:45.820 excited you know thankfully and asked me out but i wasn't going into like i i just met the man i'm
00:19:50.700 gonna marry you you know um but i was definitely interested in him and you know interested excited
00:19:55.660 that he wanted to take me out i was like yeah don't totally i didn't say interested in she
00:19:59.980 said in him but then she clarifies i was excited he wanted to take me out
00:20:07.660 oh this is a humiliation ritual it was a mutual meetup where my brother knew him and so he got
00:20:15.540 put a group together and so you guys met as friends we met as friends yeah and now it quickly
00:20:19.960 moved into dating like right away like he asked me out but it did it was we met in a kind of it
00:20:25.140 felt lower stakes because it wasn't like a blind date now the the circumstances were my it was my
00:20:30.700 brother and his wife my best friend and a fiance these women always get mad because i pull out the
00:20:34.820 ho facts right like they'll say oh i wait till marriage poor and bad um don't have sex outside
00:20:40.980 of marriage i'll be like wait so how old were you when you went to call like how old were you
00:20:45.860 when you got married um where did you go to college she went to like ucla you expect believe
00:20:52.900 you didn't throw it back at ucla like do you think i'm do you think i'm as dumb as these simps
00:20:57.620 he went to ucla and it's uh yeah like i mean and like um rest in peace peace charlie kirk but
00:21:07.400 that's another one his wife went to arizona state it's like also didn't she get married him at like
00:21:12.040 35 or 32 or something yeah i mean it's just like i'll maybe believe a virgin like if you could
00:21:19.500 maybe sell me purity i'll give you till like 23 and i think that's generous but if you if it's
00:21:26.120 past then well it's just hard to believe too like she was like miss she was like in bikini
00:21:31.880 competitions like a model like modeling for trump and patch and stuff and then you're going up until
00:21:36.840 32 charlie is way younger right they have like a five-year age gap yeah luck 9 000 anybody nobody
00:21:44.760 right and she went to arizona state university i have i've been to asu i don't think there is a
00:21:51.080 school that has more promiscuity than that school let me double check in america i think in america
00:21:56.760 that's the craziest school tech lila rose college yeah ucla she was a history major so she had the
00:22:03.400 time to hoe out so hofax and my husband and i so it was a kind of an unusual group in that but it
00:22:10.040 wasn't a blind date we weren't set up on a blind date yeah but i i think that you know the i guess
00:22:15.160 the lesson maybe the takeaway for my little story is that the like the sudden sparks i think some
00:22:20.680 people especially depending on your personality type everything's an adventure that's kind of the
00:22:24.200 way i am you're open to everything everything's exciting like everything's a spark like everything's
00:22:28.760 everything's like a connection and everything's a spark except with him
00:22:36.120 oh why are you doing this but then so you may be looking for something super intense
00:22:41.800 when you meet that meet your future spouse like oh it needs to be like the lightning just flashed
00:22:45.800 right but it's not it's something soft and quiet it's like the gentle whisper of the holy spirit
00:22:50.360 it's like oh that's not most i will say from my friend i love asking now like all my friends are
00:22:56.100 married to say what whether i knew them through their love store ask whenever i asked me married
00:22:59.560 couple and i asked that question right and i will say what's really interesting is the vast majority
00:23:03.320 it was not a lightning bolt there was a when you know you know so there was a moment when they just
00:23:09.800 felt the peace and that peace yeah because most women aren't going to get their first choice
00:23:13.460 so like it's just not going to happen yeah it's like what they're talking about it's like a quiet
00:23:18.100 resignation like i guess i'll settle for this you know what i mean like that's oh no they weren't
00:23:23.040 no no it's actually like the holy spirit it's like dude and i'm saying this as a catholic like
00:23:27.980 you're full of shit i'm sorry like it's not it wasn't the holy spirit it was at all i'm turning
00:23:33.440 27 and i guess i better do something so oh here's this guy right here i guess i'll pick him up this
00:23:39.400 is brutal if my wife ever talked like this in public about our marriage i would like i would
00:23:44.040 like commit sapuku like i would like take a samurai sword and got myself in public bro like
00:23:49.480 that's crazy like imagine if because i mean let's be honest um men with choice so not many men but
00:23:56.200 it's not like they don't settle on looks because they get to they get a girl that's too hot and
00:24:00.360 then she just abuses him and they're like i gotta go down and but they're not gonna say that on a
00:24:05.720 podcast you know i wanted big tits but all the girls with big tits like the big natural ones
00:24:13.240 they just weren't really treating me well so i went and got a flat chested
00:24:16.840 bitch and she's a lot more humble so i'll take it
00:24:21.960 that's definitely my problem all these huge tittied women are just abusing me and i'm just
00:24:25.880 like enough you know right i hate that i hate what happens i mean no anxiety that piece didn't mean
00:24:32.360 like because you can't unknow like oh my gosh this is a big decision right you no one can be unaware
00:24:38.200 of that right but yeah i think for most people it was like a cool yeah and it's funny the other
00:24:43.000 thing that was interesting is for most of the time the girl was like yeah like i'll give him
00:24:46.920 a shot right and i wonder if that's like also women have to be more guarded because like you
00:24:50.760 have to assume that men always have like ulterior motives the challenge you get with waiting till
00:24:55.000 marriage is like if women really like you they're not gonna wait so it kind of defaults women that
00:25:00.920 are like that don't really like the men because i mean you see how horny young women are they
00:25:07.000 throw it at everybody but then another case the guy like almost all my this is like two out of
00:25:14.120 three the guy was like oh yeah like i'm asking her out and the girl's like okay like we'll see
00:25:20.200 yeah you know we'll see here terrible marketing you know what i mean this is women are the worst
00:25:25.160 marketing for religion politics really everything oh yeah dude it's terrible i'm catholic and i'm
00:25:31.160 just like looking at all these women like dudes just shut up like you were making this look so
00:25:35.160 fucking lame dude like i love catholicism i love being catholic but like dude you're like
00:25:40.920 oh yeah i'm not gonna like really like you at all and i'm not gonna like suck your dick and i'm not
00:25:45.240 gonna like do anything and we're basically gonna have sex three times a year and you're gonna fill
00:25:49.640 out a little punch card for me you know to eat my and uh that's it and you're gonna
00:25:54.280 do everything and it's like dude this sucks like i don't i don't want to like honestly give me an
00:25:58.520 atheist bitch like i'll take the atheist you know like i can fix her you know yeah then you can
00:26:04.920 program her with your ideas but like who programmed what catholic guy programmed her right right
00:26:12.440 women don't have dads now so it wasn't a dad like yeah well well and the problem too is that when
00:26:18.680 women try to play this religious card so hard they they will put the man to such a high standard
00:26:24.920 using religion like oh a man should be virtuous and blah blah blah blah blah blah and it's like
00:26:30.580 they never talk about what they have to do on their end of the bargain so to me it's why i just
00:26:36.000 can't stand it because it's basically a way for women to gaslight men to be do even more than what
00:26:41.400 we're already doing which is everything in all of society um so yeah yeah and that's why like when
00:26:47.840 you were talking to her in that first clip like when you pulled out the submissive card like that
00:26:51.860 was perfect because there's no she has no rebuttal against that it's like you're you were right you
00:26:56.320 were more theologically correct than she was and she couldn't answer against it you know what i
00:27:01.580 mean and i'm a degenerate so yeah but it's like dude it's like catholicism used to be it's like
00:27:10.820 women wouldn't even go to church like the man would go to church he would hear the gospel then
00:27:16.700 he'd come home and if he felt like it he would tell you about it you know what i mean like that's
00:27:20.940 it used to be oh really the women didn't go to church yeah i mean great this is like
00:27:27.980 yeah that's how it should be i want to go ruin it my female instincts are like kicking in
00:27:35.420 it would be so much better if that were the case dude like it should be that way like
00:27:38.940 the men should go to church we hear the gospel we'll come home if we feel like it we'll let you
00:27:42.540 know what happened but like otherwise i've said that my ideal church would be that women are banned
00:27:49.580 and only the men go and they bring the ideas back and tell the wife what to think that would make
00:27:54.380 the most sense to me yeah that's how it used to be we used to live in a good time but you know
00:28:01.020 and i would bring in cookies so i could get in you can only get in if you bring some value um
00:28:09.580 and and like it would be in a separate like room like obviously they have to be separated because
00:28:15.580 we're just yeah okay all right but and then you guys are dating then was it relatively quickly
00:28:21.420 that you kind of the sparks and like it caught up i think i want i would love people to hear that
00:28:25.340 yeah like hey like i a great honest like you know someone that my friend group who trusts and knows
00:28:30.620 me well was like hey you should meet this person we had a hangout session i quickly like over time
00:28:36.060 got to know this person and yeah and that grew yeah yeah i think for us it was that we it we
00:28:42.460 kind of i think pretty quickly i would say within three months there was a strong sense of i think
00:28:47.580 this is the one cool but we were in the same community and we were seeing each other multiple
00:28:51.900 days a week you know at least on weekends at first and then we would see each other you know more so
00:28:56.220 we were both busy but we were it wasn't a long-distance relationship i think it's easy for
00:29:00.300 there to be a long-distance relationship and you have these ideas about the person that aren't
00:29:03.580 necessarily fully real and so you kind of jump to a conclusion i that's why if you're going to date
00:29:08.700 i always like give it time like give yourself time yes but then we didn't get engaged for another
00:29:13.420 year so it wasn't like we jumped into engagement there were a lot of things going on in his life
00:29:18.140 and and in my life that were um you know things to sort through basically and that jump into
00:29:24.380 marriage fast usually just don't have any other choices because it's like if guys has a lot of
00:29:30.540 choice like if he has three hot bitches to choose from why is he just going to give it to one of
00:29:34.460 them it's gonna make them work but yeah i don't know what if he's doing like handstands or
00:29:42.140 something on it like i said if she's doing like handstands or something on it you know
00:29:48.940 what i mean like i might put a ring on that one that's crazy
00:29:57.180 were there any things you felt you were too picky on since you're asking us were there anything that
00:30:01.100 that you're like oh man like this isn't what i envisioned and it took you a minute to get over
00:30:05.580 and if you don't want to get in specifics you can but i'm just curious were there things you're like
00:30:08.700 oh like i like how he gave her an out to not embarrass him further and then she's still
00:30:13.900 gonna pick embarrass him further he said you don't have to get into specifics i don't know about that
00:30:19.020 right as part of the dating process i think we all encounter those things and you're like yeah
00:30:22.300 like i want to work through that or no like that's tough you know i think because i had dated a lot
00:30:28.060 of other guys i had more of a sense of your your christian trad wife fellas
00:30:37.020 that's crazy what mattered and what didn't dude like to me it's like i don't know maybe i'm kind
00:30:43.660 of like up in the head i am up in the head i know that i am but it's like i couldn't imagine like i
00:30:48.300 wouldn't even want to date a girl that like goes on a date with a bunch of dudes like dates a bunch
00:30:52.060 and just like making out with them you know what i mean like that's still like kind of gross to me
00:30:55.580 you know what i mean like and women know this that's why as a woman your number one job is to
00:31:00.940 lie and she can't even do that i actually think that it's a red flag if women are too honest with
00:31:06.060 you that means they just don't respect you or like you do you know i mean because if she
00:31:11.100 i mean she's being 100 honest how she feels yeah like do you think melania doesn't like you don't
00:31:16.620 think she dated a bunch of dudes but she's afraid she knows she's like he kicked the last two wives
00:31:22.940 to the curb i can't say about this like she was like 29 when she met him too and she was
00:31:28.460 she did nude photo shoots you don't think melania threw it back with a bunch of dudes
00:31:32.700 come on oh yeah oh yeah but you know she at least knows to lie or say nothing yeah well and i think
00:31:41.900 the thing is especially with these like influencer types like especially the catholic female
00:31:46.220 influencer types it's like they get to a point where their their like career gets like so much
00:31:53.340 more inflated in their head than their relationship they care more about like i want to be portrayed
00:31:58.540 as like an honest influencer at like at the detriment of my marriage and my relationship
00:32:03.900 because that's what matters to me more you know what i mean like they're up they're crazy yeah
00:32:10.460 so i i if you had asked me that at age 23 i would have maybe been like yeah like
00:32:16.220 You know, if I'd met my husband at 23, I might have been more like picky in terms of things
00:32:21.220 that don't matter.
00:32:22.220 And again, he's amazing.
00:32:23.220 So I'm not trying to say there's things that I don't love.
00:32:26.220 You know, I love I love him.
00:32:27.220 What would be the male equivalent?
00:32:29.220 Give me a male equivalent of what she's saying.
00:32:33.220 So did you know your your girlfriend was the one or did you know your wife was the one?
00:32:41.220 Give me a male equivalent answer.
00:32:43.220 Well, to be honest.
00:32:46.220 i fucked a lot of hotter cooler girls in my life but i am just tired and exhausted she found me at
00:32:53.480 a time where i'm just exhausted so i just settled yeah beardson give me yours did you know your
00:33:00.700 your wife how'd you know your wife was the one yeah well you know i used to have this girl that
00:33:06.580 would just like come over my house and cook me food and suck my dick and then leave immediately
00:33:10.280 and that was awesome but like i don't know it just got kind of boring after a while so i just
00:33:17.580 you know got on tinder and i was like fuck it you know swipe right on the first one and here we are
00:33:23.840 nine years later that's so funny and the worst part is women would be into that that's how messed
00:33:31.600 up we are oh yeah percent right but but not by the time that i met him i was 28 i had definitely
00:33:39.560 you know dated a lot of different kinds of guys too and so i had a sense what mattered and he also
00:33:48.360 had dated a number of girls he had a sense for what mattered too and i think that helped a lot
00:33:54.280 yeah like just like like like it wasn't a big drama i guess i think that's what it comes it's
00:33:58.200 a maturity thing like it wasn't this big drama of like oh but like whatever the thing is right
00:34:03.320 he doesn't like to hike or he doesn't have to hike but you know whatever whatever the thing is like
00:34:07.480 oh he you know i'm trying to think what it would have been at 23 that oh he's you know he's not
00:34:11.880 crusading around the world you know he's in the military right he's now he's now a lawyer like
00:34:17.080 it's not it's not your typical like you know free-spirited entrepreneur traveling the world
00:34:21.480 and doing his crazy gig you know i think that that speaks to the importance like of like you
00:34:26.680 know that translation i banged a lot of travel guys and entrepreneur guys um they didn't commit
00:34:32.920 because um once the sex happens uh that i'm gonna pretend we didn't have the burden of performance
00:34:39.160 is on how likable i am and my personality and i just didn't i didn't quite cut it um
00:34:44.440 and instead of improving i just found someone with no standards yeah it's also very i mean i
00:34:51.720 don't know why it's a little telling that her husband was in the military i've noticed like
00:34:55.160 dudes in the military they're like real quick to just like lock something up real quick you
00:34:59.480 what i mean and i feel bad i get it and it's like bro you gotta you can play the field a little bit
00:35:03.720 man you don't gotta you know come home well that's the it's not the problem that they're out in the
00:35:07.800 field in the military and they're like dude i can't do that again like be out and about
00:35:11.960 she like they've seen their friends die and stuff like yeah a lot of my military i used to live in
00:35:15.880 san diego and like they they get married quick and then they a lot of them get divorced like five
00:35:20.760 years later yeah it sucks man i feel bad for them you know like i'm not i'm not even trying to hate
00:35:25.160 because it's like same deal i got a lot of friends over in the military i'm here in kentucky so it's
00:35:28.520 like everywhere you know and uh yeah dude they come home they marry like the first broad they
00:35:33.380 meet in a bar and i'm like bro like you've been home for six months and you're getting married
00:35:37.500 that's crazy do not do that yeah if you got a shady past ladies um there is hope military men
00:35:42.960 are for you yeah they don't have standards they'll marry anybody so if you need to get out of jail
00:35:47.620 free card find a military man near you yeah don't make a trip to fort gamble dude you'll be married
00:35:54.800 in a weekend you and him have been already dating around a lot like i think that speaks to the
00:35:59.040 importance of like chaste dating because like i feel like with a lot of chase dating you're able
00:36:03.840 to essentially like get to know more of yourself and like you know both i don't think you're really
00:36:08.640 gonna know a girl till you bang her to be honest because women can pretend to be anything even then
00:36:14.880 you know and yeah i guess no more like okay like you know the people the people that really know
00:36:20.240 women are the ones that bang them and don't judge them because we just say anything we will just say
00:36:26.000 anything like that's actually like oh i agree that's why i feel bad for a lot of the conservative
00:36:31.120 guys because because i have gone through a little bit of that you know party phase in san diego
00:36:39.040 dating and just when you know what women will really do especially like in the bedroom or
00:36:45.600 whatever when you don't judge them and let them go full full tilt um yeah a lot of these conservative
00:36:51.520 guys probably don't even know their their wives have that gear in them or like want it right
00:36:56.160 yeah because when when they lead with religion and morality then women will just like fake it
00:37:01.360 like you're giving you're giving her a blueprint on how to cook you exactly yeah yeah like
00:37:07.360 conservative women especially are just like and i'm saying this i am a catholic conservative
00:37:12.000 conservative women are awful like they are the worst the race of women on the planet they will
00:37:18.400 nag you to death they they already and i mean again like pearl was saying all of their ideas
00:37:23.760 have come from a man like they have been like imprinted on by a man already so you're like
00:37:28.000 there's no room for you to even really do anything and this is why i'm just i'm going to stay a virgin
00:37:32.960 the rest of my life i'm just not going to participate in it it's awful you are not a virgin
00:37:37.760 prove it you know i'm gonna use that i'm a virgin as well you know what actually i'm also a virgin
00:37:45.960 we're all three virgins on this panel it's awesome this is the purity show by pearl davis
00:37:52.480 yeah okay well that's the full clip what are you guys's final thoughts
00:37:59.160 anytime women are gonna give the holier than thou this is how men should act argument or it's it's
00:38:05.840 like i i came up with this thing where it's like um conserve like woman woman um it was like a
00:38:14.800 a woman's opinion rejected right like it was like this hashtag that we like made in our space and
00:38:20.520 basically yeah anytime a woman's trying to tell a guy how to live to me i already just cancel it
00:38:26.400 out. It's like, don't, don't tell us how to live because we have to ask. Um, no, but basically,
00:38:50.660 you know, just, I just think that, uh, anytime these women get, tell men what to do, it's
00:38:55.680 like men have to do the right things to attract women right so so women telling us what to do
00:39:02.540 is stupid because like if a man wants to attract you like he will do the things that that a girl
00:39:07.660 wants um or whatever is desirable so um i never want to hear women tell men how to live uh what
00:39:14.140 are what we're doing right or wrong um that's not really their jurisdiction in my opinion um to kind
00:39:20.640 tell us what to do. What are your final thoughts, Beardson? Yeah, I mean, I'm not much of a dating
00:39:32.500 expert or coach by any means. Again, incel. I guess I would just say mainly to the men,
00:39:40.180 you know, the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. And I think that's what women
00:39:44.400 really need to experience for a very long time before this behavior gets corrected.
00:39:48.520 it's not like because i see a lot of guys they want to like lean in really hard with the
00:39:52.820 misogyny stuff and don't get me wrong i love making fun of women i've i've made a career
00:39:57.160 out of it actually and it's awesome and it's great but like dude just uh total indifference
00:40:02.560 i think towards women if women are trying to nag you or tell you what to do or boss you around
00:40:07.060 just ignore them and it will drive them fucking crazy um i mean i don't know like in a sexual
00:40:13.260 i again never had that work for me but uh you know maybe it'll work for you guys so i'm just
00:40:17.740 uh you know chud so i want to line out but yeah well i'm gonna do these reactions more often so
00:40:24.860 if you guys are free i'll just send a link and hop on whenever yeah yeah i just i don't i'm too
00:40:31.980 unstructured so it's going to be a very random time so if you're free hop on
00:40:37.180 um thank you guys for watching i really appreciate it um thanks for