00:00:00.480all right what's going on my ninjas uh today all right what uh okay what is going on my ninjas so
00:00:09.760um today we're talking about women taking l's um and one of the major l's is that women quit
00:00:14.320everything a lot of men get upset i leave because women um quit marriage right uh but remember
00:00:20.640women quit everything including our relationship with our lord and savior jesus christ you know
00:00:26.080know eternal damnation doesn't even scare us from quitting like we just love um doing things the
00:00:32.860easiest way possible doing things the sluttiest way possible and also just doing the wrong thing
00:00:37.780so today we're going to show women quitting their church and see if there's anybody that is a good
00:00:42.360reason and contrast that with when men quit things and see if their reasons are valid um i think i
00:00:48.120think we know where this is going to go uh but you know i a lot of times i haven't i haven't seen
00:00:52.980these videos so i could be wrong so let's see human's free will because he loves us but if you
00:00:59.720use that free will to disagree with him you're gonna burn in hell no everyone is welcome at the
00:01:05.320table as long as you eventually agree with everything we believe at the table you really
00:01:10.500need to humble yourself and admit you don't know everything okay so she's making fun of them
00:01:14.240unlike us who know exactly how god thinks and what he wants do not trust your own understanding
00:01:19.600trust god's wisdom which okay i actually agree with this girl conveniently looks exactly like
00:01:24.560your understanding faith isn't about fear it's about love we don't want to control you no we
00:01:30.760just want you to make the exact life yeah we are just gonna threaten hell if you don't that we
00:01:35.080believe god wants you to make god loves you unconditionally but if you don't love him back
00:01:40.720correctly there will be eternal consequences for that we don't follow religion we follow a
00:01:46.580relationship now here are the rules requirements and acceptable beliefs for that relationship
00:01:52.340whoa you shouldn't be so prideful anyways our belief system is the only correct okay so she's
00:01:58.500complaining about the people in the church right now which you know you could be fair but i think
00:02:04.180the way men would see it uh is all right let's just compare and contrast so she says the people
00:02:10.180were shitty right now let's go to the men were catholic that was saved out of roman catholicism
00:02:15.220over a decade ago. And I'm often asked, was there a particular Bible passage or something you read
00:02:21.340that led you out of Roman Catholicism? Well, the truth is it was a multitude of things. And the
00:02:27.420Bible played a huge role in leading me out of Roman Catholicism. Because after I was saved,
00:02:32.520I was looking into the catechism even more, reading it and comparing it now to scripture,
00:02:37.300understanding scripture in context. But here's the thing. When you read through books like the
00:02:42.700book of Hebrews, it really exposes the blasphemy of the Roman Catholic mass. Okay, so he's saying
00:02:49.700he read the book. Do you know what's funny? Women, people in church were me and I'm leaving.
00:02:56.340The white guy, I don't want to get too much into the religion debate because I just don't have an
00:03:00.440opinion, but the white guy is scripture, right? So here's a woman. Let's see why she left.
00:03:05.480Just people don't know what to do with me when they have conversations with me about why I left
00:03:09.660the church because they can't really use any of like their old arguments on me like for instance
00:03:15.620people like to say oh well the church just must have hurt you so much no like i had a decent
00:03:22.340experience with people in the church like i no one like hurt me really i don't know maybe i was
00:03:27.400asked yeah do you know what the way people talk about religion it's the same way people defend
00:03:31.620women uh they have this like gut reaction really similar volunteer one too many times but like
00:03:36.420that's about it or like oh you just haven't had a spiritual experience yet i would say that i did
00:03:41.240have spiritual experiences but it is like really really hard for christians to reckon with the
00:03:45.140fact that i merely just like thought about it and it didn't make sense and i like researched it and
00:03:49.960it didn't make sense and like the more and more that i dug into it i'm like oh like this ain't it
00:03:55.360i think that thought is like very very scary to them that like logic could get them out of this
00:04:01.540place that they're in and it is far far easier for people to just point to all these excuses as to
00:04:06.160why people might leave the church. Okay. So I actually stopped attending church around the age
00:04:13.90014 or 15, at least if I'm remembering right. Like I was maybe one of 12 kids that attended my church.
00:04:19.520It was mostly just old people and old people are wonderful. Don't get me wrong, but as a kid,
00:04:25.120I kind of would have rather been around people my age. Church was really something I dreaded
00:04:30.140going to every Sunday. It was just boring to me. And I know there are some churches out there that
00:04:34.400make it like really fun and exciting. Mine, not so much. And I just got tired of like hearing the
00:04:39.260exact same stories over and over and over again. Like I heard this last year. Why am I hearing it
00:04:43.680again? Like I get it. Jesus was born. Yeah, I get it. So men hate wasting their time. And a lot of
00:04:49.160women do waste time in church because they do just repeat the same scripture that just is about
00:04:55.180shaming men and nothing to do with women. Right. So it's got to get it's got to get pretty tiring
00:05:00.520when you only preach half the bible born he was crucified and he rose how many times do i need to
00:05:05.320hear the story but yeah so i stopped going my mom wasn't happy about it but i was kind of at that
00:05:09.520age where she didn't really feel like she could force me mind you i was still a christian i
00:05:13.320believed in god and i accepted jesus as the savior and followed his teachings whatever i just stopped
00:05:18.640doing the whole church thing but as so many christians love to say it's not about church
00:05:22.740it's about having a relationship with god so i don't want to see any christians in my comment
00:05:27.100section saying oh well if you stopped going to church then you weren't a true christian yeah
00:05:30.860i'm kind of lucky in that i didn't really lose any connections with like people in the church
00:05:35.180because i was a kid yeah once you have overhead um there you're cooked because they have to the
00:05:41.180churches have to cater to women all right let's see what she did turning it to leaving the church
00:05:45.020i will just start off by saying that i have nothing against the lds church nothing against
00:05:49.900the mormon church i'm not going to say anything anti-mormon okay i got nothing against it which
00:05:54.780is a lot women always preface you know lying right you obviously do have something against
00:05:59.260it if you have to say that it's like saying well i'm not a whore but here's how to throw it back
00:06:05.020you can say anything bad at all i'll just share my story and why i eventually felt that it just
00:06:09.500like wasn't for me and my family when i was 16 years old i met my now husband and he stopped
00:06:16.380believing in the church when he was 14. and that was very very hard very tricky for me because in
00:06:21.980In the LDS church, young women are taught that pretty much the most important thing you can do in life is marry an LDS member of the church, a Mormon boy, who is a worthy priesthood holder who can marry you in a Mormon temple so that you can be with your family forever.
00:06:37.680This was so ingrained in my head in a way that's hard to imagine unless you were raised in the church.
00:06:42.460So that's all I wanted, but I fell in love with this boy, okay, and he didn't believe in the church.
00:06:48.240He was my person. I was happiest when I was with him.
00:06:50.600so i spent the next two years basically trying to get him to come to church trying to make him
00:06:55.900change his mind trying to change him nagging bitching complaining yeah that's what we do
00:07:00.480we okay so essentially you left the church because you got good d outside of the church i mean yeah
00:07:06.560that's the greatest way to convert women women is to be good in bed stop you want to save the west
00:07:11.120be good in bed okay we didn't ever do the deed it was very she's lying very mild stuff you guys like
00:07:20.060it was very mild stuff but still I felt horrible because you're not supposed to do anything like
00:07:26.380that outside of marriage and the guilt was overwhelming and so I started to do the
00:07:32.160repentance process and part of that repentance process to be forgiven of those sins I had to go
00:07:38.400speak with the leader of our the church in our area it's called a bishop and like confess those
00:07:44.440sins to him um it's usually it's always a man usually like 50s 60s 40s about that age um and
00:07:52.560you go meet alone with him in his office and confess your sins and he kind of determines like
00:07:57.380what your repentance process should be like the things you need to do to be forgiven for this
00:08:03.300sin me and logan were always on and off we're always breaking up because i always felt like
00:08:07.820i shouldn't be with him but then again like we'd hang out again and just everything felt right in
00:08:12.280the world again. Like I had a hard time staying away from him. So then we messed up again. Again,
00:08:19.260it was mild hand stuff. Okay. But we messed up again. These kids are literally high school boys
00:08:26.480were hitting on me. Okay. So we messed up again and I had to go talk to the Bishop again. And
00:08:31.680this time the repentance process was grueling. He made me read this book called the miracle
00:08:37.680forgiveness he made me email him every single night right before I went to bed he wanted it
00:08:42.500to be right before I went to bed and tell him what I did that day and tell him if I was a good girl
00:08:47.160and literally tell him if I had any impure thoughts about this boy and he made me meet with him two to
00:08:54.560three times a week and oh that's so weird to tell him in detail everything that happened he asked me
00:09:02.040a lot of questions he made me tell him feeling okay i'm gonna give her a real this is a pass
00:09:08.340i had he made me tell him every detail you could imagine about this sinful act to the point that
00:09:18.000even as a 16 year old girl i knew like i i felt so creeped out i felt so icky and i kind of pushed
00:09:27.540back a little bit and i was like do you really need to know all this like do i really need to
00:09:30.700explain this again and he kind of he kind of threatened me and he's like maddie this is a
00:09:37.340second time offense and you obviously are having a hard time controlling yourself and if you don't
00:09:42.680want to tell me about it you can go meet with the stake president who was a level above him
00:09:46.820and he's like and you can risk excommunication i've seen people get excommunicated from the
00:09:52.020church for second time offenses for things like this which i don't know if that's true but
00:09:56.360basically i could get kicked out of the church like lose my membership all my blessings like be
00:10:00.780revoked type of thing so that scared the shit out of me and so i just kept telling him everything
00:10:06.860religion's weird man wanted to know and i met with him for three or four months it was a very long
00:10:11.780time and at the end of the three or four months i had to bear my testimony in church which means
00:10:18.540like stand up in front of our congregation and like share my beliefs you know that i believe in
00:10:24.180this church blah blah blah blah and then he said we'd meet again after that and if he felt like I
00:10:28.840was really sorry and I really I don't know then he would like let me move on from this and he told me
00:10:37.020during this time he's like I know prom's coming up I know you're planning to go with Logan but you
00:10:41.700can never speak to him again you can never be around him again and you definitely cannot go to
00:10:45.700the prom with him and I was devastated because it was too late to find another date and we'd spent
00:10:50.420two years like happy years together in high school and i really wanted to go with him
00:10:55.060and i was like like i i really want to go with him like i'll be a good girl like please let me
00:10:59.140go it's my senior prom and he was like no no no no no and he also said to me he said maddie
00:11:05.220you need to stop hanging out with boys like this you have really messed up yeah so again you can't
00:11:10.740tell me the church is not cucked and it doesn't leave women single that's her husband let her go
00:11:15.300go bang it out and then get pregnant and have a kid and he told me and I will always remember this
00:11:19.940he said honestly Maddie someday you're gonna find a boy you're actually head over heels for that's
00:11:25.020actually a good guy and I hope he still wants you he might not even want you after what you've been
00:11:30.560through you need to take this very seriously and I remember saying well I really love Logan and he
00:11:35.900doesn't care about stupid shit like this and so like maybe I should just be with him and maybe
00:11:43.200you are in love with this boy maybe he really loves you and maybe it's real and he said but
00:11:47.740you will be so blessed for following your bishop's counsel and you will have a more rich life and a
00:11:54.180better life if you follow my man that's crazy so is she with a dad now i think she's with the dad
00:12:02.760okay all right let's see let's see why this guy left the church this guy's church his name is
00:12:07.180Pastor Ed, and he's the pastor of CBC, Community Bible Church in San Antonio, Texas. But I left
00:12:13.580this church back in 2024, right before the 2024 presidential elections, because Pastor Ed started
00:12:20.260intertwining God and politics. He won't say it, but he's a MAGA pastor. He pushes for Trump and
00:12:26.480whoever Trump endorses. That's why he just posted this right before the midterms. This is where
00:12:31.600James Tallarico goes to church. This is his pastor. Do we really believe that like a virgin
00:12:36.240gave birth to a baby did you hear what she said she said no this is the home church it tells you
00:12:41.280to pick and choose and let culture i can't stand when pastors have this like feminine way of
00:12:47.920speaking i asked me why did i deconstruct christianity i never constructed that that
00:12:54.000shit like i remember being in children's church and i was like yeah no no no y'all not
00:12:59.920finna sit here and tell me that a name noah put two of ariana on a boat like i know i'm young but
00:13:14.400Another reason that I left the church is because I'm not ever going to willingly be a part of a group of people, a religion, an ideal that is knowingly associated with the oppression of marginalized groups of people.
00:13:27.340I'm just not going to be a part of it.
00:13:29.140Another reason that I left the church is because I'm not.