Pearl - February 06, 2025


Pearl Responds To BIG HATER Who COPES With The Reality Of Dating ｜ Pearl Daily


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34 minutes

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Misogyny

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In this episode, I talk about what women do when they have no argument and how they resort to cheap tactics and insults in order to get their point across. I also talk about how modern women use shaming tactics and cheap tactics to get across their point of view.

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00:00:00.080 today we are going to be talking about what women do when they have no argument so for those of you
00:00:05.200 that don't know i moved from chicago to england about four years ago now and i started a youtube
00:00:11.920 show and when i started this youtube show i really got a perspective on how the ladies are 1.00
00:00:22.240 in dating now you might think pearl a youtube show is not the same as getting laid and okay okay you
00:00:28.400 guys are right you guys are right you guys are right however you know i would have to book laid 0.62
00:00:33.520 i would have to book women for shows and we would talk about a lot of contentious topics and this 1.00
00:00:38.560 show blew up it got a million subscribers in a year another million in the second year and it
00:00:44.000 became one of the biggest youtube shows in the country at the time now it was absolutely insane
00:00:50.720 because when i was going through this process i really got an insight into the way that women 1.00
00:00:56.400 react when they are angry. And I was looking at a show the other day, which was one of the first
00:01:01.540 podcasts that I ever filmed. It was a trip down memory lane that got me thinking of all the women 0.97
00:01:06.780 that I interviewed and the typical responses that I get from them asking questions or talking to
00:01:12.740 them about anything that is contrary to feminist narrative. You know, it got to the point where it 1.00
00:01:17.520 was pretty much scripted. I could, you know, tell what they were going to say before they even said
00:01:21.700 they would say pearl pearl pearl pearl you hate women and i would just think kind of now after 0.98
00:01:27.780 talking to you guys sorry you're making me i'm kidding i'm kidding pearl you're a misogynist 0.99
00:01:34.260 pearl you're a pick me blah blah blah blah blah i stopped the show years ago and i'm thankful for it 0.86
00:01:39.860 because you can't pay me to argue with these women every night at one point guys we had five plus 1.00
00:01:46.420 women in six days a week and i would see how inconsiderate they were you would book them for 1.00
00:01:51.220 a night and they would cancel an hour before i would have to book double the amount of guests
00:01:56.820 double to know how many would show up so if i wanted five women i'd have to book 10 because 1.00
00:02:02.340 worth half are going to show up if that and you know recently i've been thinking of the typical
00:02:08.420 responses that women would give to my content now take into account guys that most people don't have
00:02:16.500 valid arguments against my position they have no arguments so they resort to cheap tactics and
00:02:22.340 insults so let's break down the meaning of them now the late and great kevin samuels coined the
00:02:29.300 acronym psy language and i believe in this concept wholeheartedly because when talking about modern
00:02:35.060 women it's how they navigate serious discussions and i will be borrowing his concept this show
00:02:41.300 So number one is the pick me response. Many women, especially older women, will call any woman that
00:02:48.420 isn't a diehard feminist, that doesn't hate men, and doesn't advocate for a leftist agenda, a pick 0.99
00:02:54.340 me. Like I've said on my previous shows, modern women make up new words or change the definition 1.00
00:02:59.700 of words to reshape reality. They call me a pick me to shame women that try to do what's necessary 1.00
00:03:06.580 to get picked by a man of value they call me a pick me all the time because i advocate for men
00:03:11.940 and because i want to be a wife and have a family number two you just hate women this is the easiest 1.00
00:03:19.780 and lowest hanging response it's the go-to for most women that don't have intellectual and 1.00
00:03:25.780 emotional capability to argue back a point it's purely emotional and it's meant to trigger an
00:03:31.140 emotional response i mean even the other day i was in candace owens chat and she was telling me
00:03:35.860 you just hate women all you do is hate hate on women and if you're arguing with a modern woman 0.56
00:03:42.020 and she says this the discussion is over she won't listen to you anymore and all information
00:03:49.460 that she is absorbing has stopped she has literally brought a childlike argument
00:03:54.900 tactics into an adult conversation most of the time you can see this coming from a mile away
00:04:00.340 make more than one good point in a row with a modern woman and you can expect this response 1.00
00:04:05.460 to come at some point. Shaming tactics are usually the second most common response from modern women. 1.00
00:04:11.860 Pearl, you're not supposed to feel this way. You're a woman. A real woman wouldn't say the 1.00
00:04:16.040 things you're saying. Shaming tactics have little to no intellectual capacity. Modern women use 1.00
00:04:21.780 shaming as a tool to be able to sway your position with little to no evidence whatsoever. Remember,
00:04:28.140 only women can shame. Shame is not a tactic that can be used by men in modern day because women do 0.80
00:04:34.460 not listen to men and their criticisms enough to be shamed i mean if women listen to men's 0.82
00:04:40.460 criticisms we would all be 120 pounds we wouldn't have five plus tattoos and two different baby 0.70
00:04:46.620 daddies so the next on the agenda we have guilt guilt is what a modern woman uses as an emotional 1.00
00:04:52.780 manipulation tactic to make everyone but them responsible for something that is their fault
00:04:58.140 modern women blame men for everything the pay gap the government corporations society in general 1.00
00:05:03.660 everything is not their fault and they will come up with all sorts of reasons why insults this one
00:05:10.380 is a layup this is an easy one modern women will insult anyone that doesn't agree with them or 1.00
00:05:15.020 their point of view no matter how crazy it is there is such an echo chamber with modern women 1.00
00:05:21.340 that when the chamber is disrupted many women cannot handle it so they'll insult you you know 0.99
00:05:26.380 I've been called every name in the book. Pearl, you're ugly. Pearl, you're too tall. Blah, blah, 1.00
00:05:33.220 blah, blah. It's to the point where I don't even hear it anymore. It's the same, the same things.
00:05:39.060 The need to be right. The need to be right refers to a psychological tendency where someone feels
00:05:45.520 the strong compulsion to always be correct in their opinions or beliefs. This often stems from
00:05:51.520 a fear of appearing wrong a fragile ego or a desire to maintain control of a situation
00:05:57.760 female empowerment and america's universities created women that need to be right at all costs 1.00
00:06:02.320 these women need to feel like they are right more than actually being right and many of them
00:06:08.240 have some high-priced piece of paper to enforce their bad decision-making process that gets them
00:06:14.800 in trouble throughout their lives i would argue that the need to be right makes most modern women 1.00
00:06:20.400 unattractive to the men that they want. No man who's had to work hard to become a success wants
00:06:26.180 to deal with a woman that's never right, but feels she has to prove some point that doesn't 1.00
00:06:34.040 need to be proven. Let's see most of the responses to my content and evaluate what tactic they are
00:06:40.440 using. But before I start, guys, I have been demonetized on YouTube. So go to the audacity
00:06:45.780 network.com that's the audacity network.com one yearly membership will support the show
00:06:52.420 and i also do read the chat on the website if you want to have your comment read
00:06:56.900 bongoon the first says evening oil that's the audacity network.com it's the first link
00:07:01.780 in the description and we are on the apple app store wow we got this lady right here can i can 0.99
00:07:08.820 i just who who's doing her who's doing it in the chat because i don't know what it is with the
00:07:16.740 overweight women having the confidence to insult me the way that they do somebody's doing it 1.00
00:07:23.380 somebody's one of you is stepping up to the place and taking her home at 2 a.m i don't know who it
00:07:28.900 is but it's one of you does she make cookies oh my god wow you're considering it you're considering
00:07:36.580 oh my gosh picked hello everyone i'm sarah from everyday starlet welcome to my channel now mind
00:07:41.620 you this woman made a 55 minute video about me i guess i can't really blame her i'm pretty cool
00:07:47.220 there's a lot to talk about you know what i mean make videos to inspire you to be the star of your
00:07:52.020 own life i want to talk about a trending topic online and that is why does pearl not get picked
00:07:59.460 i have intentionally avoided talking about pearl if you don't know who i'm talking about and talking
00:08:05.940 about hannah pearl davis from just pearly things i avoided talking about her for a while because
00:08:11.380 i really didn't want to give her more attention and you avoided talking about me you did a 55
00:08:17.540 minute video you could have did a 10 minute video i mean my whole my whole show was an hour and
00:08:23.540 oftentimes i have multiple topics okay still don't i'm still very conflicted about this i've mentioned
00:08:29.620 her a little bit in my video about being a recovering pick me girl which is my story and
00:08:35.940 kind of why pick me's don't generally get picked you want to check out that video for a little bit
00:08:40.500 more info on that i just kind of touched on pearl's content a little bit joel says he wouldn't
00:08:46.580 do it if he was the she was the last woman on earth not the i mean the last woman if you had
00:08:51.700 no other joel neil says i'll never do it who's capping somebody's doing it i don't know who it
00:08:58.260 is there's someone in the chat that's doing it there's somebody that would sign up because this
00:09:04.020 confidence is incredible in that video but there's been a lot of talk online about pearl being kind
00:09:11.540 of this i don't really even know what she'd call herself but she talks a lot about relationships
00:09:15.780 and things you know dynamics between men and women yet she's not in a relationship and she 0.80
00:09:22.420 i think has never been in a relationship oh my i have a boyfriend i mean you know it's crazy
00:09:29.460 for for like a year now i've been dating the same guy but it's not really been public until recently
00:09:36.100 and i've just had to deal with these fat women telling telling me that i anyways it's it's okay 1.00
00:09:43.140 it's okay and men are not really going after her even though she seems to be creating her content 0.90
00:09:50.180 so pearl reed oh is this fat woman saying that i don't have men after me now look i'm not saying 1.00
00:09:56.980 i'm not saying i'm the best looking and you know this is insult insult but what you're fat who are 0.98
00:10:02.980 you bon gone says pearl reed i wonder how many men this tubster has thirsting after her jelly rolls 1.00
00:10:09.620 and her solely to cater to men to bash women and cater to men if she is supposedly giving all this 1.00
00:10:16.740 information that men want to hear and saying all these things that men want to hear why is she
00:10:22.900 herself not finding a man a lot of people have a lot of theories surrounding this there's some
00:10:28.420 very popular ones and then there's also some obscure ones oh my gosh i actually think there's
00:10:33.620 a very specific reason for this that i want to dive into and it's actually kind of a simple
00:10:38.260 explanation but i want to talk a little bit about i mean does this woman have a boyfriend 0.78
00:10:43.540 does she look like okay this phenomenon this question and kind of the idea of like why pick
00:10:50.100 me's don't get picked first of all if you're not familiar with what a pick me is i have a video
00:10:54.100 going into this deeper so you can go check out that video but in reality a pick me usually is
00:10:59.140 in reference to women although i do think there is a male application to it but in this case i'm
00:11:03.780 primarily speaking about women who essentially will do anything for male validation do anything
00:11:11.460 to get attention from men or chosen by a man or men in general okay where is this video for the
00:11:17.780 women on only fans okay i have opinions she disagrees with where is this energy for the women
00:11:25.460 that are literally selling their bodies to men why don't they get called pick me 1.00
00:11:31.940 and usually will sacrifice themselves or sacrifice other women or basically do anything
00:11:38.020 even if it is out of character or even harmful to them or harmful to women in general, solely to get
00:11:44.580 acceptance or validation from men or a particular man. It's not a healthy state. This is not just
00:11:50.480 about wanting a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. And I have a series of disclaimers
00:11:55.880 I'm going to get into before we get into this video. But the first one I want to get into is
00:11:59.200 Can you fix it?
00:12:00.640 is if you are desiring a relationship, there's nothing wrong with that. I'm not going to tell
00:12:04.660 anybody out there who is like hey i want a man i want a relationship i want to be in a relationship
00:12:09.860 with him okay this is what she's gonna say want a relationship but don't do the things it takes
00:12:15.380 to get into a relationship don't do anything for them but luckily ladies i do have a solution for 1.00
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00:13:18.800 and i want to be in partnership and i want to find love and there's nothing wrong with that
00:13:22.320 if you don't want that and you're like i'm happy being single i'm happy not being in a relationship
00:13:28.220 that's cool too and I'm gonna talk a lot in this video kind of about the idea of like what men want
00:13:35.160 and what men are looking for and like why men are attracted to certain women and why they're not
00:13:39.660 I want to make it clear that this is really for educational purposes for women to be aware
00:13:44.140 but if you're a woman who's watching this and going I don't care what men want 1.00
00:13:48.200 fine I am not at all saying that women need to pay attention to what men want
00:13:53.160 if you want oh my god get to it oh my goodness there's no wonder that you have 37 000 subscribers
00:14:00.500 my god you're going to attract you might even attract that person that you're trying to to
00:14:05.040 attract by becoming something else but it's not going to be a solid true deep connection and like
00:14:11.060 a healthy relationship because you're just pretending to be something that you're not
00:14:14.200 i also want to say that well i could hate speech if i say i'm going to type something in the chat
00:14:20.080 on the website i can't say it on youtube but chat on the website on the audacitynetwork.com
00:14:27.200 i'm gonna say what i'm gonna say should there be i can't read this part a blank for blank
00:14:35.040 in society i it's under santiago because i forgot my login but it's me that i do understand because
00:14:44.160 pearl is very she's very cruel to women very often she's very insulting to okay if you're 1.00
00:14:49.680 i just say that that's why she's mad women she tends to blame women for everybody's problems 1.00
00:14:55.680 she tends to say things that are very controversial and very insulting towards women in general or 0.65
00:15:00.880 sometimes just insult a specific type of woman or insult a specific group of women or insult an 0.93
00:15:06.880 individual woman and she is very insulting which you know i really do believe is really for clicks 1.00
00:15:11.680 and views because she knows that that's going to get more attention it's very easy when you're
00:15:17.360 talking about someone who does those things to get very insulting towards them and i understand why
00:15:23.040 people tend to take that route because when you have someone who's out there like spewing hate
00:15:26.960 and saying a lot of negative things about people or a group of people it's very easy to then jump
00:15:32.720 to i'm going to insult them but i don't want to approach this from that place i try to never
00:15:38.720 approach my content from a place of like hate or hate matching hate or as like a hit piece or trying
00:15:45.040 to shoot anybody down or anything like that so like i don't want to go at this with like cheap
00:15:50.880 shots against her i want to look at this situation more as a chance i have been listening for six
00:15:56.640 minutes and gotten nothing is that she has very low self-esteem and that she there you go number 1.00
00:16:02.320 one you have low self-esteem i would argue that you have low self-esteem because you won't get
00:16:08.000 it on the treadmill how is the woman with a pound of makeup on fake hair and overweight telling me 1.00
00:16:16.680 i have low self-esteem i'm going to speed this up to 1.5 as a request of doug on the website
00:16:22.620 he was considered herself like the ugly friend or the friend that didn't get much attention when
00:16:26.540 she was younger and things like that you know for boys specifically i have a great deal of empathy
00:16:29.460 for women who because this is so common most women have some level of self-esteem issues as a woman 0.99
00:16:34.000 Okay. There was a clip of me years ago talking about how I wasn't the best looking friend
00:16:40.720 in my friend group. How many of you were the best looking friend in your friend group? Only,
00:16:46.900 you know, a man could say that and nobody, like everyone would say, yeah, you're not. Now,
00:16:52.900 I never thought I was ugly, but isn't that the experience of most people? If you're a normal
00:16:59.160 person that somebody's gonna be better looking that it's okay you know it's not it's not the
00:17:05.220 end of the world oh my goodness who's also had very low self-esteem in her life and i think a 1.00
00:17:09.480 lot of women can relate to that i have a great deal of empathy for her i don't agree with what
00:17:11.860 she says i don't agree with the way that she is dealing with that situation i don't agree with
00:17:14.760 the message she's putting out because i do think that it is a very dangerous message of blaming
00:17:17.400 women for everything and blaming women for problems and spewing a lot of things that are 1.00
00:17:20.160 actually very dangerous i think as far as the message goes i'm not gonna dive too much into
00:17:23.420 her message because that's not really the point of this video but i am going to approach this
00:17:25.780 from a certain level of empathy because as much as like i would never go on pierce morgan and say
00:17:28.980 women shouldn't vote because i've never believed that i don't think that i can't talk about that 1.00
00:17:32.340 on this platform but that sounds like a reasonable thing to say that's all i'm gonna say that's all
00:17:37.540 i'm gonna say that's a reasonable thing a good message to be putting out in the world i know
00:17:41.380 from my past and having been a pick me girl in my younger years like i have definitely
00:17:45.140 said some things that were more i bet she was thinner in her younger years dougs on the website
00:17:50.260 says she went from sounding like a whale to sounding like a pig at 1.5 speed crazy kyle i
00:17:56.500 hear fat talking why can't i eat more i was just thinking does pick me shame a woman for doing 1.00
00:18:03.540 stuff that men would actually appreciate for their spouse i just can't pearl she's showing her butt 1.00
00:18:10.820 crack under her chin but saying you have low self-esteem she's giving a 15 minute pre ramble 1.00
00:18:18.100 i know misogynistic or held certain beliefs that were definitely more misogynistic because i thought
00:18:22.180 it would get me more male attention or it would get me liked by more guys and things like that so 0.52
00:18:25.700 So, like, I have a certain level of empathy for that.
00:18:27.540 Now, I think Pearl has taken it to the extreme.
00:18:29.440 She makes a lot of money off of it. 0.99
00:18:30.600 She makes a lot of money doing this stuff. 1.00
00:18:32.080 It's very controversial. 0.67
00:18:33.080 I've been demonetized for a year, fatty.
00:18:35.520 You made more on this video than me.
00:18:38.340 I mean, I know she was demonetized,
00:18:39.280 so I don't really know what her financial situation is now,
00:18:40.960 but she has made a lot of money on this.
00:18:42.080 A lot more money than I've ever made on social media,
00:18:43.560 so I will acknowledge that
00:18:44.380 because that tends to be what gets attention online
00:18:47.080 is the controversial stuff.
00:18:48.120 So I understand, and I just-
00:18:49.740 So what's that?
00:18:51.300 Dane said she had to be thinner in her younger years.
00:18:53.760 No way she could have been fatter. 0.94
00:18:55.120 have a certain level of empathy for her i also have some theories about her family life from
00:18:59.140 what i've heard about her family dynamic in her home life i'm not gonna dive into that but i do
00:19:01.820 feel i'm just i'm just gonna leave it that i i do feel a certain level of empathy for her because i
00:19:05.360 think that a lot of the stuff that she's doing is actually coming from i don't want to say trauma
00:19:08.240 response and i know she would argue that the word trauma is overused and she would make fun of that
00:19:11.380 and everything so i'm not gonna really dive into that but i i have empathy for how she ended up
00:19:14.700 where she is i don't i don't agree with it but i want to approach this from a place of empathy
00:19:17.600 i'm gonna get into the common reasons that people give for why pearl is not in a relationship and
00:19:22.260 why men are not interested in dating pearl even though she tends to do you guys know how easy it
00:19:26.440 is to get into a relationship as a woman even this which one of you in the chat is doing her
00:19:32.760 they said don't be disrespectful that's miss fatty oh my goodness to gear her entire life 1.00
00:19:40.300 and content solely around catering to men and being this ultimate pick me one of the reasons
00:19:43.960 that people often give is because pearl is too masculine and she's not going to attract a masculine 0.98
00:19:47.020 man because she's not feminine enough now let me break down this explanation a little bit i have a
00:19:50.320 lot of videos talking about masculine and feminine energies. When I talk about masculine and feminine
00:19:53.060 energies, I don't think this is actually what the people that point this out are actually saying,
00:19:56.000 but masculine and feminine energies are found in everybody. Like, we all contain both energies,
00:19:58.840 but masculine and feminine energies, the opposite energies attract. Same energies repel. So two
00:20:02.420 people in masculine energy are going to repel sexually. Two people in feminine energy are
00:20:05.260 going to repel sexually, but a masculine energy and a feminine energy are going to attract sexually. 0.98
00:20:08.480 That goes for men and women. You can also be in wounded or healed versions of either of these
00:20:11.080 energies, and I'm not going to dive into wounding right now in this video. A lot of other videos
00:20:14.020 diving into that. This pearl, in her content, very masculine. Yes, she is. Most of her content is
00:20:18.500 often debates and things like that it's often a lot of conflict that is very masculine i'm not
00:20:23.040 saying that women can't debate it is okay okay because again this is not about gender this is
00:20:28.520 about energetics when she is presenting her content she tends to be in very masculine energy
00:20:32.240 so yes a man who is more okay now she's calling me masculine manly i mean she's just gonna keep
00:20:39.940 going and again this is the insult this is you say thing i don't like therefore i will call i will
00:20:47.660 call you names instead of attacking the argument okay we're gonna move on to the next one unless
00:20:52.860 you guys are dying dane pearl empathy for how she ended up where she is world famous physically fit
00:20:59.440 successful well educated private education has a dowry and she has empathy for you for having a 0.67
00:21:05.760 great father dane you're too kind masculine who is there showing up for a debate not gonna have
00:21:11.300 a lot of sexual chemistry with her because you're gonna have two masculine energies that are gonna
00:21:14.220 be in a debate now again i and i've mentioned this in other videos before i don't think anybody
00:21:17.340 should be living their entire life solely just to sexually attract a partner there's times in your
00:21:21.380 life for men and women where being in your masculine energy is just more appropriate
00:21:24.100 or being in your feminine energy is just more appropriate i do believe that the majority of
00:21:27.560 women are naturally feminine at their core and the majority of men are naturally masculine at
00:21:30.240 their core and that most women are going to operate the best in their feminine energy and 1.00
00:21:33.640 when they're in their feminine energy most of the time and most men are going to operate their 1.00
00:21:36.280 now this is essential energy and primarily most of the time but i do believe it's good for men
00:21:40.040 and women to have a healthy connection with both energies the fact that when pearl makes this 0.99
00:21:43.380 content she is very much embodying her masculine energy makes perfect sense of course she would 0.91
00:21:46.840 So when she's presenting this content, she isn't necessarily going to be sexually attracting a
00:21:51.800 masculine partner. Pearl, this woman talking at 1.5 speed is giving us an image of what she would 1.00
00:21:57.900 look like if she actually worked out at the gym. What is she? You know, I guess if that's the reason 1.00
00:22:02.800 she's making this content, then yeah, she's probably failing at her purpose. But if she's
00:22:05.460 actually trying to have a debate, whether you agree with her or not, if she is showing up to
00:22:08.780 debate someone, and that's the purpose of what she's doing, embodying her masculine energy,
00:22:11.760 not a bad thing to do. That's an appropriate time to be using your masculine energy. The problem
00:22:15.260 with the argument that that's why pearl's not attracting a man doesn't really hold weight in
00:22:18.480 that situation because for one that's one area of her life so if she's embodying masculine energy 1.00
00:22:21.740 in that area of her life but in other areas of her life she's embodying her feminine energy then
00:22:24.800 she would attract a man in other areas of her life if you know she's out in the world and she's 0.97
00:22:27.440 connecting to her feminine energy she would attract a masculine man also there are a lot 0.99
00:22:31.160 of women that embody a lot of masculine energy in most of their lives because it's very common 0.99
00:22:34.000 nowadays for women to be very much in their masculine energy a lot of them are in relationships 0.99
00:22:37.060 they're probably going to attract a man who has a deeper connection to his feminine energy 1.00
00:22:39.700 and you know so again she's saying you can't get a guy you're single but she cannot attack 1.00
00:22:48.960 what i am saying pearl 1.5 makes her sound like she has bipolar disorder and is having a full-blown
00:22:56.460 manic episode have mercy please it's up to two people to decide if there is chemistry
00:23:05.720 so what are you prattling on about brian this woman is giving you free air time on her program 1.00
00:23:12.000 i wonder who she preaches to and what our audience is it's gotta be women we harpoon 1.00
00:23:17.760 whales over here get her i'm not gonna get into that and the reverse polarity and things like
00:23:21.980 that because i have other videos about that i'm not gonna dive into that here but there are a lot
00:23:24.740 of very masculine women who attract men and are in relationships so the fact that pearl embodies
00:23:29.200 more masculine energy doesn't take her out of the dating pool it just means that most likely if she 1.00
00:23:33.780 is embodying that masculine energy more of the time she's going to be less likely to attract
00:23:36.340 a very masculine partner a very grounded masculine partner she's going to be more likely to attract
00:23:40.180 men than embody more feminine energy which is ironic because the manosphere as much as they 0.86
00:23:43.800 preach masculinity tend to have a greater attachment to their feminine energy i'm not 0.99
00:23:47.560 going to talk about in this video i have other videos talking about that so that's not for this
00:23:49.780 video but yeah so now she doesn't like the manosphere so she's saying well they're girly
00:23:54.800 they have feminine energy but again it's just it's just a shaming tactic there's she's saying 1.00
00:24:00.440 i don't like that you're telling men that i am not wifeable that's what she's saying dane said
00:24:06.360 really though dad he worked hard to lead his family and it shows she was raised by a single 0.96
00:24:11.840 mother or a weak passive father pearl embodying a lot of masculine energy is not going to rule 0.98
00:24:16.680 her out of the dating pool and the thing i find really ironic pearl seems to be kind of putting 0.99
00:24:20.180 it out there that she'll take anyone so it's not like she's being that particular so it's not
00:24:24.480 necessarily like she's saying she will only take the most masculine man she seems to be giving off
00:24:28.500 this energy of like i would take anyone it's not like a more feminine man would be someone she
00:24:32.820 would write off her list like she's not giving off the energy that she's being that particular
00:24:35.620 which is a factor which i'll get to in a minute i would also point out that there are other content
00:24:39.240 creators who are similar to pearl in content and i would say also an approach and things like that
00:24:43.640 i see a lot of names thrown around of people that have similar content i don't watch a lot of that
00:24:46.580 content the only other one that i'm really familiar with that i can think of is a comparison
00:24:49.000 would be candace owens who has that very like she's big into debates she's very combative they 1.00
00:24:52.700 have very similar points of view they both kind of seem to be worshiping andrew tate so they have
00:24:55.640 lot of similarities in that. I think there are other commentators, but Pearl and Candace Owens
00:24:58.420 are the two that I'm more familiar with. Candace Owens has a very similar, like, aggressive 1.00
00:25:01.360 approach. When she's on camera and she's doing her job, she tends to embody very masculine energy.
00:25:04.700 She has a husband and a family. And again, I don't really know what Candace Owens is like, 1.00
00:25:07.340 like, off-camera or anything, so I don't know if, like, when she's at home with her family,
00:25:09.880 if she embodies more feminine energy, and I don't really know much about her husband or anything
00:25:11.920 like that. But I think it's important to point out that just because Pearl embodies a lot of
00:25:14.960 masculine energy in her sort of workspace doesn't necessarily rule her out from having a relationship 1.00
00:25:19.640 with a man. When she's working and she's in that masculine energy, she's probably not going to
00:25:23.160 attract a masculine man but that doesn't mean that she is completely has no chances of being
00:25:26.700 in a relationship with somebody now there are a couple other aspects to pearl's personality that
00:25:30.020 i do think are inhibiting her from actually being in a relationship she goes on for 55 minutes first 1.00
00:25:35.500 person to super chat on the website i'll stop it first super chat on the website i will stop it
00:25:42.020 yeah you can donate on the website i will stop ten dollars i'll stop her i'll stop this video
00:25:49.280 one thing is her hypocrisy and again like i said i don't know how authentic her content actually 0.89
00:25:53.080 is whether she believes it or whether she doesn't but she does tend to have a lot of hypocritical 0.81
00:25:56.360 arguments she tends to throw in any argument that she thinks might win a debate or be controversial
00:25:59.400 or things like that so there's an aspect of authenticity there that is very unclear and
00:26:02.840 generally speaking as pearl every time she buys something even like a car she has to taste it
00:26:08.840 and it'll make her feel good in her belly she'll buy it humans we tend if she had a nickname it 1.00
00:26:15.800 would be jowls to be on alert for contradictions and hypocrisy and authenticity even if we don't
00:26:22.920 necessarily like even if it's not obviously in front of us there's usually going to be a part
00:26:26.200 of us that's going to feel that's so crazy so men naturally can understand hierarchy
00:26:35.640 so if a guy says lebron james isn't the greatest of all time nobody says hey you can't shoot a 0.94
00:26:43.960 basketball you're terrible but women it's like if i say men don't like old fat single mothers 1.00
00:26:50.840 they say but pearl but pearl you attack pearl attack pearl attack pearl and i'm like 0.98
00:26:58.520 what did i say that was untrue pearl we know this is torturing you more than us we can mute
00:27:04.060 like something can you imagine if that woman smashed into the earth we'd all be done for
00:27:10.220 is not right anyone who's operating get some salad in your life you guys have a lot of heat for her 1.00
00:27:15.240 uh you know inauthentically or very hypocritically for most people there's going to be some kind of
00:27:20.140 a warning sign there even if you're not totally fully aware of what that is now of course there
00:27:23.540 are things like trauma bonding and aspects like that that tend to make us drawn to people who
00:27:26.520 might be inconsistent or tend to be more manipulative or things like that which is
00:27:29.720 actually more of a trauma response so trauma bonding when women say stuff like that it's how 1.00
00:27:33.860 they rationalize going for alphas it's like why did i go for this serial killer this drug dealer
00:27:40.840 and they call it trauma bonding but it's just our wiring yeah that no one ever calls no one ever
00:27:47.200 calls pearl a liar they say no way no one donated from 700 well i get it you guys don't want to
00:27:52.520 download the app and go to this off party site even though you should you really should it's
00:27:58.580 80 bucks a year unlimited supers 10 bucks a month and all you got to do is put pearl read on the
00:28:04.380 website i read it and you can download it on the app store it's not like people who are inauthentic
00:28:09.380 or hypocritical can't be in relationships so i don't necessarily think that's what's keeping
00:28:11.920 pearl out of a relationship pearl she is displaying a mental illness analyzing external environment 0.99
00:28:17.760 with the goal of boosting her self-worth i see you found your january fat calendar girl 1.00
00:28:23.360 you think that that's going to keep people a bit distant from her because you know and she's not 0.73
00:28:27.140 alone in this mind you a lot of the manosphere is very hypocritical and i actually have a lot 0.92
00:28:30.200 of requests to do a video all about the hypocrisy of the manosphere but because she's very hypocritical 0.98
00:28:33.260 and also she's not really consistent in what she even expects from women i mean there's kind of
00:28:37.660 ties to the more like traditional christian trad wife thing but then she's also got arguments about 0.95
00:28:41.700 women paying their own way but then also women's work is not as important like there's so many 1.00
00:28:45.680 no no no no no no no no i want i want to be so clear i say pick one i say if you delay marriage
00:28:53.520 odds are you will not be a housewife and you are not in a traditional marriage if you wait
00:28:59.600 until 32 to have a kid totally fine I don't think it's wrong to do that as a woman as a guy you can
00:29:06.480 still you can go get a hot young thing you know you guys have all the time you could be a trad 1.00
00:29:10.700 husband at 50 if you want you guys have all the time in the world on the other hand if you want
00:29:16.680 to go trad get it done before 25 because only like 18 percent of women get it pearl it won't 1.00
00:29:23.620 accept my card i'll owe you honest yeah i've heard that one before existence is in her arguments
00:29:30.420 look at i have i have a cash app look or a venmo let me see let me let me get my i'll do my
00:29:37.940 it's my venmo in the chat you know let's put your money where your mouth is i'll take venmo
00:29:42.820 just underscore score pearly things this girl could get to 30 year old five with lots of work 1.00
00:29:50.160 women have a one to ten have a one to ten ranges based on age category pearl so how many men
00:29:57.520 is she dating married to any commitment from men perhaps she just needs help well
00:30:02.520 go to maggie's finishing school teachable moments with maggie.com and use my name pearl for 50% off
00:30:09.400 pearl you should clearly ask her to be your valentine she's clearly infatuated with you 0.98
00:30:14.520 pearl gifted 9.99 we got enough for this bon goon for the love stop it for the love of peep
00:30:20.940 bon goon that's two dollars i said 10 i don't see the gift of okay wait let's see nope i don't have
00:30:27.900 anything on the paypal we keep going we keep the fat woman going people in general even if you're 1.00
00:30:32.920 agreeing with some of the stuff that she's saying there's always going to be that thing in your
00:30:35.380 brain that's going to be like okay something is off here and i think that's going to be off putting
00:30:38.560 for people doesn't mean that people like that won't get into relationships so i don't think
00:30:40.920 that's really the the key point but that is something that's going to keep people hesitant
00:30:43.860 from getting involved with somebody especially somebody who is like sort of mentally healthy
00:30:46.340 and mentally stable the fact that she's talked about women not being able to cook but then she's 0.66
00:30:49.080 talked about not being able to cook you know women spending so much time focusing on their careers 1.00
00:30:51.480 when she's primarily been focused on her careers like she's been shaming women for all the things 1.00
00:30:54.860 that no no no no i say that's modern look at modern isn't good or bad it's not right or wrong
00:31:02.160 and by the way i can cook i'm a decent cook so let's not let's not but two two it's not right
00:31:08.340 or wrong but pick one and if you pick one and expect the other that's delusion pearl pay how 0.99
00:31:16.760 much she wants eight how much she weighs pearl pass me your etc wallet number i don't what is an
00:31:23.100 etc is that like bitcoin or something i don't know that she embodies and she's a venmo is just
00:31:29.400 underscore pearly things i think i have cash app you guys i get locked out of things a lot oh yeah
00:31:35.420 I do have cash up pearly things p-e-a-r-l-y-t-h-i-n-g-s and I'll stop her I'll stop the fat 1.00
00:31:43.760 lady I need eight more dollars raised there's a lot of men out there that don't care if a woman 1.00
00:31:49.240 can cook or that are okay with being with a career woman may even actually want to be with a career 1.00
00:31:52.420 woman but unfortunately like pearl's message and the people she's targeting are men who think that
00:31:56.120 a woman that embodies the things that she embodies are not really what they want and so her audience 0.99
00:32:00.260 of men that she's catering to are not the type of men that are going to be attracted to her and
00:32:04.360 she's shaming women for doing it now she's saying pearl you're manly and ugly things that she's 1.00
00:32:08.980 doing that goes into the hypocrisy also and the inauthenticity but also she's almost trying to
00:32:13.380 win over an audience of men and be a pick me for men that aren't going to pick her that's not to 1.00
00:32:18.120 say there aren't men out there who would pick her but those are not the men that she is targeting
00:32:21.680 and she's also because she's targeting the men that would hate on her she's not surrounding 0.53
00:32:25.680 herself with men that would pick her for one but also she's really alienating the types of men that
00:32:29.920 like i'm not trying to be rude i've gotten a marriage proposal on a first date
00:32:34.800 it's like happened to me it's not that hard as a woman oh my god okay i'm gonna just that might
00:32:40.400 actually be interested in a woman who is you know in her age range for a woman who is has a career
00:32:44.880 that is very outspoken there are women out there that embody those things that actually do find 0.99
00:32:47.680 partners but she is specifically targeting a different type of guy that's going to find the 0.91
00:32:52.240 things that she embodies to be okay i get it insult insult can we get to that she's doing
00:32:56.640 the disagreement but those guys are not going to want to date her because they're literally they're
00:33:00.480 just seeing her as like an ally girl i feel bad for calling this woman a whale insulting such
00:33:05.940 beautiful majestic creatures i'm going to expose you to buzzfeed for torturing your male viewers 0.99
00:33:11.460 this could be classified as cruel and unusual punishment i'm sure not seeing her as a woman
00:33:17.780 that they would pick because she's specifically targeting guys that don't want the things that 0.91
00:33:21.300 she brings to the table i hate that term bring to the table but like the things that she embodies
00:33:24.520 herself she's specifically targeting men who don't want those things so she's saying that women should 1.00
00:33:28.760 cater to men but she's not really catering to these men and i'm not saying she should be catering to
00:33:32.520 these men she's not now that's not to say that there aren't men out there who would want the
00:33:35.000 things that she embodies but she's not targeting those men as her primary audience that doesn't
00:33:39.320 mean she can't meet a man who actually is looking for the things that she has to offer in everyday
00:33:41.960 life she's just probably not going to meet in the workplace because in the workplace she's 0.99
00:33:44.760 targeting an audience of men that are not looking for that i also want to get into the the root of
00:33:49.000 pick me behavior let's be real it's usually low self-esteem it's desperately needing value i knew
00:33:53.160 that was coming low self-esteem validation from somebody it can come across sometimes as being
00:34:00.040 like an egomaniac of being like really arrogant but usually that is overcompensating for low
00:34:04.840 self-esteem and clearly pearl has very low self-esteem i'm not shaming her for that because
00:34:08.280 i know what it's like to have very low self-esteem obviously the treadmill i can identify with having
00:34:13.320 very low self-esteem particularly in my younger years something i've worked through my whole life
00:34:16.680 i'm not shaming her for this and i actually have a lot of empathy for her for feeling this way i
00:34:20.360 actually wish she felt better about herself because i feel like people who feel better about
00:34:23.720 themselves don't feel like they need to take down all women in order to make themselves feel better
00:34:27.800 about themselves and i i don't like the way that she goes about dealing with her low self-esteem
00:34:31.080 but i do think a lot of this is low self-esteem and it's interesting how she's kind of essentially
00:34:34.120 admitted that she wouldn't expect anything from a guy that she would be okay with a guy cheating
00:34:37.640 if he you know was successful enough or whatever like i want to be realistic here this is the one
00:34:42.440 i always get if you have a guy's kids and he cheats on you what are you going to do leave
00:34:46.440 good luck and date as a single mother i'll just forget i'll just get over it