Pearl - May 17, 2026


"Pretty Privilege" AKA Women Hiding 304-ing


Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

219.50052

Word count

2,751

Sentence count

31

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

14

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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This episode is all about how women need to lower their standards when it comes to men and how to deal with the fact that men are willing to do ANYTHING for you to get you to be hot. Being hot is not about looks, it's about money.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 take that out you got rejected by a couple for a three bro all right what up guys welcome to
00:00:05.760 my reaction series there's nothing that will put you further ahead in life than being hot
00:00:10.880 now there's a lot of men that cope with this they say it's not about looks looks aren't everything
00:00:14.960 and okay they're not everything um what happens for men is when they're young they are pretty
00:00:22.640 much everything they just kind of go who's the hottest and then they get older and learn the
00:00:27.200 lesson they learn the lesson that looks aren't everything but think about how much time and
00:00:32.480 attention you had to give that hot before you learned that looks aren't everything so it's like
00:00:38.560 yeah uh okay looks aren't everything now you like that girl now but we all know men are willing to
00:00:44.560 do more and i think you know as a as a mid we we amids really see how much more men are willing
00:00:50.400 to do for really hot because they don't do it for us you know what i mean so um ladies the two
00:00:57.200 watch me don't let these men gaslight you um for you not like to pretend you're not seeing what
00:01:03.100 you're seeing sometimes when they get older they get perspective so if a mid's like treating them 0.63
00:01:07.860 right but again they got to get burned by a hot chick probably like 10 times and then they're 0.76
00:01:13.380 like do you know what maybe maybe i need to i need to lower my look standards this is men with choice
00:01:20.440 because even mids we only see men with choice so to be fair we bring this upon ourselves let's see 1.00
00:01:25.220 with this blonde she's cute um not hot not like beautiful but she's cute what does she have to say 0.99
00:01:30.440 privilege is the biggest blessing that us pretty girls get on this earth and i think with that we
00:01:36.220 should see it to its full potential and i don't think we're doing that when me and my friends
00:01:41.040 went to vegas last may i came home with more money than i left with and i didn't make a dime gambling
00:01:47.660 that's for sure and if you're sitting there being like how do i make money in vegas literally go up
00:01:52.900 to a man and be like give me some money wait what you guys are getting that direct that is bold
00:01:58.380 and they do it every time me personally i was raising money for a boob job so i would go up
00:02:04.360 to somebody and i'd be like hey you know clearly god didn't give here um i really want to get a
00:02:10.940 boob job would you help fund my boob job every single one said yes and they then met me on the
00:02:16.800 spot. Some gave me cash. And no, I did not come home with enough to get a boob job, but that 0.61
00:02:22.960 money straightened my pocket. And one day, one day when I do get a boob job, I will think of them.
00:02:27.740 I will think of them. And every time I stop, imagine doing that as a minute, like say,
00:02:31.560 Hey, ladies, I want to get penis enlargement surgery. Can someone try that? Let me know how 1.00
00:02:35.720 it goes. I think of them too. Also, you don't have to pay for VIP backstage ever, ever. Not in Vegas.
00:02:45.140 we went out every single night every single night we were invited backstage we were invited vip like
00:02:50.460 there was not a day where we were not upgraded and i want to be very clear that you do not have
00:02:57.060 to do anything you do not have to kiss them you do not have to go home with them i know that's
00:03:01.040 true you don't a lot of guys will give it for free i mean if you're getting like cash from guys over
00:03:05.860 a long period of time i would imagine like those are the girls i don't believe but like for parties
00:03:10.900 these yachts yeah they can they can just be invited nothing you need to talk to them some
00:03:14.800 of them i didn't even talk to they just do it because you're pretty there was one night we went
00:03:19.900 and saw a dj and these guys sent out their little minions to come and grab me and my friends to come
00:03:24.200 to the vip section we were like obviously yes free liquor let's go we're sitting there we don't even
00:03:30.080 talk to them like really that much and all of a sudden he goes you guys want to go inside and
00:03:33.800 gamble i'll pay yeah we went in he gave us two thousand dollars okay i think i had like four
00:03:40.840 hundred dollar chips um i think i gambled with a hundred and the other three hundred went in my
00:03:45.160 back pocket i'm not gambling with that money i'm gonna lose it another night we went to live or
00:03:50.740 live however you say it lab and um we were all right we need to stop bragging about this stuff 0.58
00:03:56.560 this is gonna piss guys off okay keep going lady today men realize how easy it is for women to give 0.66
00:04:03.180 things that they want is the day that they will stop assuming that every woman is a prostitute 0.85
00:04:07.860 you can literally just look in a man's direction randomly because like you heard a noise or 0.58
00:04:14.060 something and boom next thing you know you're on a private yacht in greece just because you looked
00:04:20.960 his way you can literally be why do you think women are outside they're not inside because you
00:04:26.000 never know what you're going to get invited to outside it just takes the right guy seeing you
00:04:30.180 walking through a grocery store your car accidentally hits another man's car boom you're
00:04:34.960 married to a doctor because your car hit his cart i can give so many examples but not everybody gotta 0.99
00:04:42.660 fuck for something literally me and my homegirls can go out tonight any weekday weekend it don't 0.99
00:04:51.300 matter it don't even have to be a holiday nothing we can just go out looking cute and pretty next 0.99
00:04:58.280 thing you know we all got birkins we all got chanels we are just for being in a certain place
00:05:03.500 at a certain time and being bro i want to go to that place i wasn't invited i know shock and awe
00:05:08.780 okay let's see 37 years to realize that the reason why everyone always hated me is because
00:05:13.240 they thought i was pretty and you are not hot enough for this attitude you are not attractive
00:05:18.400 and i mean you're cute i'm not going to say you're ugly but okay um so every the whole world hated 0.99
00:05:25.640 you right okay i was shy and insecure and they interpreted that as me being a standoffish bitch 0.98
00:05:31.240 if you're pretty then you should just be confident automatically but that's not how it works being 0.94
00:05:35.400 pretty is a privilege and i should just be confident and i should be the first one to say
00:05:38.520 hi i should be the first one to make eye contact and i never was i didn't realize that it was up
00:05:43.160 to me to make everybody feel good about the fact that i'm pretty an epiphany really okay i'm ready
00:05:48.520 everyone tell me i'm not even pretty well i did it again i went to i will tell you you're not even
00:05:54.920 pretty uh you're mid cute mid so not ugly i mean pretty is fine that's not a terrible description
00:06:01.880 40s you start being able to turn pretty privilege on and off and it is fascinating i've always 100
00:06:06.840 believed that pretty privilege is real but as an averagely attractive straight-sized woman i've
00:06:10.840 never known what it was like not to have it now i'm in my 40s i do still have it it just requires
00:06:16.040 a lot more effort on my part to maintain it if i go out with no makeup on my hair scraped back and
00:06:21.160 in an outfit that doesn't show off my figure. I 100% do not have it. And the difference in how
00:06:26.340 I'm treated is quite shocking. The vast majority of it is just that you become very invisible. And
00:06:31.780 then when you are seen, you get absolute bare minimum from people. People let doors slam in
00:06:36.100 your face. It takes longer to get served at bars and coffee shops. You don't get the nice customer
00:06:40.320 service with a smile. People tend to just want to. Yeah, she's got to hide her wrinkles and then
00:06:44.520 that she can get the customer service. Move you along as quickly as possible. I also feel like 1.00
00:06:49.440 I'm not taken as seriously people question me a lot more and assume more quickly that I'm either
00:06:54.060 lying or I don't know what I'm talking about people are just much less kind and helpful as
00:06:58.280 well if I'm obviously struggling with something people are much less likely to help me in fact
00:07:01.920 yeah we're like a pretty dress guys help you so much faster and they will just completely ignore
00:07:06.620 me not even notice that I'm there struggling to hold a bunch of stuff or struggling to carry bags
00:07:11.820 upstairs and I'm not saying I feel entitled to anyone's help or kindness but that is what pretty
00:07:16.260 privilege is it's a privilege you get just for being pretty and if you go through your whole 0.92
00:07:21.320 life having pretty privilege then you wow she is kind of a catfish generally think people are a
00:07:26.740 lot more kind and helpful than they actually are they're only kind and helpful because yeah
00:07:31.420 women that used to be fat get black billed because if they lose it i was young and chubby so i was
00:07:38.960 never like fat i was kind of fat but i was like chubby so but when you're young guys kind of
00:07:43.780 overlook it um so but i matt if i was like obese oh my god it's completely different experience
00:07:51.520 this is men and women by the way on the whole this sort of invisibility doesn't affect my day-to-day
00:07:57.420 life and actually it's quite nice being able to walk past a big group of teenagers or a building
00:08:02.380 site and knowing that you're just not gonna get harassed by them what isn't nice is how actively
00:08:08.080 hostile people are towards you if they don't find you attractive and i'm gonna be honest it is more
00:08:13.420 men than women that treat me this way i've had men walk into me and then have a go at me because
00:08:18.020 they walked into me multiple times what's that man get really angry when i get served before them
00:08:22.700 even though i was there first and it's amazing how differently they're like you're invisible now so
00:08:27.880 they're like i didn't even see ya yeah i know for some reason men get mad when women go to the gym
00:08:33.040 with makeup and hair down they're utilizing your pretty privilege yeah look um there's a reason 1.00
00:08:38.660 women are putting so much money into Botox, lip fill, all that stuff. It's because it gives you 1.00
00:08:44.660 better treatment. It's true. I don't have a conventionally attractive face. And because of
00:08:48.380 that, I basically have to stay skinny in order to get any semblance of pretty privilege. And before
00:08:53.720 people get in my comments to dispute me, I'm just basing it off of my relived experiences. I'm not
00:08:58.640 saying there's not plenty of people who do find me cute, but there is a stark difference between
00:09:03.040 me being skinny versus me being 10 to 15 more pounds. And I feel like I've noticed with women 0.94
00:09:09.260 who like genuinely have lethal face cards, it's not as much of a requirement to be skinny for 1.00
00:09:13.820 them to get that pretty privilege for them to still be found conventionally attractive by
00:09:18.400 societal standards and get treated a lot better by society. And what made me think of this is that
00:09:23.360 I saw this couple on a dating app who I hooked up with in my early 20s. And I thought it was a
00:09:28.260 really good time i thought we had a cool time a couple girl what i'm in a cool vibe but they ended
00:09:34.000 up rejecting me for like a second time after we hooked up they gave the reasoning that they
00:09:38.920 weren't attracted to my body type and my thing is that you can have whatever standards or
00:09:42.580 preferences that you want i definitely would not want to continue hooking up with them if they 0.81
00:09:47.040 didn't find my body attractive like to me that would be incredibly embarrassing to be hooking
00:09:52.060 up with somebody where i think that we're all in this experience to receive pleasure to have this
00:09:57.120 great time that we're all really feeling and vibing and attracted to each other meanwhile
00:10:00.920 that's not what's going on at all so it wasn't the fact that they rejected me because i think
00:10:04.820 if they just said that they didn't really feel the chemistry but they still really wanted a
00:10:08.500 friendship with me because that is ultimately what happened and i was much more of a people
00:10:13.080 pleaser back then so i did maintain a friendship with them for a while but even at the time it was
00:10:17.320 extremely disappointing not because okay take that out you got rejected by a couple for a threesome
00:10:23.300 bruh you have a guy saying three signs that you have pretty privilege and i have never related
00:10:27.960 to something so hard so this has happened multiple times where we like have talked to people and
00:10:31.660 they've said oh these people are really rude they weren't helpful they didn't help me at all and
00:10:34.820 then my husband will have gone to the same person and say i don't know what you're talking about
00:10:37.860 they were so nice to me they weren't rude at all like they were really helpful and really sweet
00:10:41.120 yeah pretty man privilege is a thing from women and i'm just sitting there and i'm rolling my
00:10:45.980 eyes i'm like yeah who are you talking to was it a girl was it a guy didn't matter who it was
00:10:52.980 they're gonna treat you differently my husband's the kind of person who when we walk into a bar
00:10:57.300 or a room they're not looking at me they're all looking at him look how happy she looks what does 0.99
00:11:03.620 this dude look like oh she did marry a chad that is a chad all right let's see this this blonde
00:11:09.220 woman video that said pretty probably just so real because you can be as weird as you want but if 0.51
00:11:13.700 you're hot you're still going to get invited places and you're not going to be a weird girl
00:11:16.980 you're still going to be hot anything it's even better to be a weird hot girl because and then
00:11:21.060 guys are like oh she's different like she's not like most girls did it like she's weird and funny 0.96
00:11:26.140 like i know multiple girls personally that i've said if people didn't think i was pretty i would
00:11:30.900 just be a weird girl like i they wouldn't want anything to do it's so weird though yeah that's 1.00
00:11:35.240 true because i'm weird you know but i'm like it takes one to know one a lot of you bitches are 1.00
00:11:39.420 weird too frustrating for people to think that life is just all sunshine and rainbows when in 1.00
00:11:44.280 actuality we go through with the worst people think we got all these friends we got niggas
00:11:49.240 we got options we always invited to the parties when that is literally the furthest thing from 0.91
00:11:54.840 the fucking truth for one we get treated so bad by men like so bad I mean I don't know about y'all 0.95
00:12:02.080 but I've encountered some men that tried to do me fucking dirty and I didn't do nothing to deserve 0.98
00:12:07.440 it nothing but I've come to terms with the fact that a lot of men have gotten satisfaction of 0.98
00:12:14.460 trying to break me down and belittle me whether it was because they was jealous or they want you
00:12:19.040 no one was jealous you're not hot enough um anyways all right guys um let me know what you
00:12:23.500 think in the comments it's pretty privileged real and do you know anybody that's very attractive
00:12:27.280 and what was their life like like the video subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time