Pearl - ＂Pretty Privilege＂ AKA Women Hiding 304-ing

00:00:00.000 take that out you got rejected by a couple for a three bro all right what up guys welcome to

00:00:05.760 my reaction series there's nothing that will put you further ahead in life than being hot

00:00:10.880 now there's a lot of men that cope with this they say it's not about looks looks aren't everything

00:00:14.960 and okay they're not everything um what happens for men is when they're young they are pretty

00:00:22.640 much everything they just kind of go who's the hottest and then they get older and learn the

00:00:27.200 lesson they learn the lesson that looks aren't everything but think about how much time and

00:00:32.480 attention you had to give that hot before you learned that looks aren't everything so it's like

00:00:38.560 yeah uh okay looks aren't everything now you like that girl now but we all know men are willing to

00:00:44.560 do more and i think you know as a as a mid we we amids really see how much more men are willing

00:00:50.400 to do for really hot because they don't do it for us you know what i mean so um ladies the two

00:00:57.200 watch me don't let these men gaslight you um for you not like to pretend you're not seeing what

00:01:03.100 you're seeing sometimes when they get older they get perspective so if a mid's like treating them 0.63

00:01:07.860 right but again they got to get burned by a hot chick probably like 10 times and then they're 0.76

00:01:13.380 like do you know what maybe maybe i need to i need to lower my look standards this is men with choice

00:01:20.440 because even mids we only see men with choice so to be fair we bring this upon ourselves let's see 1.00

00:01:25.220 with this blonde she's cute um not hot not like beautiful but she's cute what does she have to say 0.99

00:01:30.440 privilege is the biggest blessing that us pretty girls get on this earth and i think with that we

00:01:36.220 should see it to its full potential and i don't think we're doing that when me and my friends

00:01:41.040 went to vegas last may i came home with more money than i left with and i didn't make a dime gambling

00:01:47.660 that's for sure and if you're sitting there being like how do i make money in vegas literally go up

00:01:52.900 to a man and be like give me some money wait what you guys are getting that direct that is bold

00:01:58.380 and they do it every time me personally i was raising money for a boob job so i would go up

00:02:04.360 to somebody and i'd be like hey you know clearly god didn't give here um i really want to get a

00:02:10.940 boob job would you help fund my boob job every single one said yes and they then met me on the

00:02:16.800 spot. Some gave me cash. And no, I did not come home with enough to get a boob job, but that 0.61

00:02:22.960 money straightened my pocket. And one day, one day when I do get a boob job, I will think of them.

00:02:27.740 I will think of them. And every time I stop, imagine doing that as a minute, like say,

00:02:31.560 Hey, ladies, I want to get penis enlargement surgery. Can someone try that? Let me know how 1.00

00:02:35.720 it goes. I think of them too. Also, you don't have to pay for VIP backstage ever, ever. Not in Vegas.

00:02:45.140 we went out every single night every single night we were invited backstage we were invited vip like

00:02:50.460 there was not a day where we were not upgraded and i want to be very clear that you do not have

00:02:57.060 to do anything you do not have to kiss them you do not have to go home with them i know that's

00:03:01.040 true you don't a lot of guys will give it for free i mean if you're getting like cash from guys over

00:03:05.860 a long period of time i would imagine like those are the girls i don't believe but like for parties

00:03:10.900 these yachts yeah they can they can just be invited nothing you need to talk to them some

00:03:14.800 of them i didn't even talk to they just do it because you're pretty there was one night we went

00:03:19.900 and saw a dj and these guys sent out their little minions to come and grab me and my friends to come

00:03:24.200 to the vip section we were like obviously yes free liquor let's go we're sitting there we don't even

00:03:30.080 talk to them like really that much and all of a sudden he goes you guys want to go inside and

00:03:33.800 gamble i'll pay yeah we went in he gave us two thousand dollars okay i think i had like four

00:03:40.840 hundred dollar chips um i think i gambled with a hundred and the other three hundred went in my

00:03:45.160 back pocket i'm not gambling with that money i'm gonna lose it another night we went to live or

00:03:50.740 live however you say it lab and um we were all right we need to stop bragging about this stuff 0.58

00:03:56.560 this is gonna piss guys off okay keep going lady today men realize how easy it is for women to give 0.66

00:04:03.180 things that they want is the day that they will stop assuming that every woman is a prostitute 0.85

00:04:07.860 you can literally just look in a man's direction randomly because like you heard a noise or 0.58

00:04:14.060 something and boom next thing you know you're on a private yacht in greece just because you looked

00:04:20.960 his way you can literally be why do you think women are outside they're not inside because you

00:04:26.000 never know what you're going to get invited to outside it just takes the right guy seeing you

00:04:30.180 walking through a grocery store your car accidentally hits another man's car boom you're

00:04:34.960 married to a doctor because your car hit his cart i can give so many examples but not everybody gotta 0.99

00:04:42.660 fuck for something literally me and my homegirls can go out tonight any weekday weekend it don't 0.99

00:04:51.300 matter it don't even have to be a holiday nothing we can just go out looking cute and pretty next 0.99

00:04:58.280 thing you know we all got birkins we all got chanels we are just for being in a certain place

00:05:03.500 at a certain time and being bro i want to go to that place i wasn't invited i know shock and awe

00:05:08.780 okay let's see 37 years to realize that the reason why everyone always hated me is because

00:05:13.240 they thought i was pretty and you are not hot enough for this attitude you are not attractive

00:05:18.400 and i mean you're cute i'm not going to say you're ugly but okay um so every the whole world hated 0.99

00:05:25.640 you right okay i was shy and insecure and they interpreted that as me being a standoffish bitch 0.98

00:05:31.240 if you're pretty then you should just be confident automatically but that's not how it works being 0.94

00:05:35.400 pretty is a privilege and i should just be confident and i should be the first one to say

00:05:38.520 hi i should be the first one to make eye contact and i never was i didn't realize that it was up

00:05:43.160 to me to make everybody feel good about the fact that i'm pretty an epiphany really okay i'm ready

00:05:48.520 everyone tell me i'm not even pretty well i did it again i went to i will tell you you're not even

00:05:54.920 pretty uh you're mid cute mid so not ugly i mean pretty is fine that's not a terrible description

00:06:01.880 40s you start being able to turn pretty privilege on and off and it is fascinating i've always 100

00:06:06.840 believed that pretty privilege is real but as an averagely attractive straight-sized woman i've

00:06:10.840 never known what it was like not to have it now i'm in my 40s i do still have it it just requires

00:06:16.040 a lot more effort on my part to maintain it if i go out with no makeup on my hair scraped back and

00:06:21.160 in an outfit that doesn't show off my figure. I 100% do not have it. And the difference in how

00:06:26.340 I'm treated is quite shocking. The vast majority of it is just that you become very invisible. And

00:06:31.780 then when you are seen, you get absolute bare minimum from people. People let doors slam in

00:06:36.100 your face. It takes longer to get served at bars and coffee shops. You don't get the nice customer

00:06:40.320 service with a smile. People tend to just want to. Yeah, she's got to hide her wrinkles and then

00:06:44.520 that she can get the customer service. Move you along as quickly as possible. I also feel like 1.00

00:06:49.440 I'm not taken as seriously people question me a lot more and assume more quickly that I'm either

00:06:54.060 lying or I don't know what I'm talking about people are just much less kind and helpful as

00:06:58.280 well if I'm obviously struggling with something people are much less likely to help me in fact

00:07:01.920 yeah we're like a pretty dress guys help you so much faster and they will just completely ignore

00:07:06.620 me not even notice that I'm there struggling to hold a bunch of stuff or struggling to carry bags

00:07:11.820 upstairs and I'm not saying I feel entitled to anyone's help or kindness but that is what pretty

00:07:16.260 privilege is it's a privilege you get just for being pretty and if you go through your whole 0.92

00:07:21.320 life having pretty privilege then you wow she is kind of a catfish generally think people are a

00:07:26.740 lot more kind and helpful than they actually are they're only kind and helpful because yeah

00:07:31.420 women that used to be fat get black billed because if they lose it i was young and chubby so i was

00:07:38.960 never like fat i was kind of fat but i was like chubby so but when you're young guys kind of

00:07:43.780 overlook it um so but i matt if i was like obese oh my god it's completely different experience

00:07:51.520 this is men and women by the way on the whole this sort of invisibility doesn't affect my day-to-day

00:07:57.420 life and actually it's quite nice being able to walk past a big group of teenagers or a building

00:08:02.380 site and knowing that you're just not gonna get harassed by them what isn't nice is how actively

00:08:08.080 hostile people are towards you if they don't find you attractive and i'm gonna be honest it is more

00:08:13.420 men than women that treat me this way i've had men walk into me and then have a go at me because

00:08:18.020 they walked into me multiple times what's that man get really angry when i get served before them

00:08:22.700 even though i was there first and it's amazing how differently they're like you're invisible now so

00:08:27.880 they're like i didn't even see ya yeah i know for some reason men get mad when women go to the gym

00:08:33.040 with makeup and hair down they're utilizing your pretty privilege yeah look um there's a reason 1.00

00:08:38.660 women are putting so much money into Botox, lip fill, all that stuff. It's because it gives you 1.00

00:08:44.660 better treatment. It's true. I don't have a conventionally attractive face. And because of

00:08:48.380 that, I basically have to stay skinny in order to get any semblance of pretty privilege. And before

00:08:53.720 people get in my comments to dispute me, I'm just basing it off of my relived experiences. I'm not

00:08:58.640 saying there's not plenty of people who do find me cute, but there is a stark difference between

00:09:03.040 me being skinny versus me being 10 to 15 more pounds. And I feel like I've noticed with women 0.94

00:09:09.260 who like genuinely have lethal face cards, it's not as much of a requirement to be skinny for 1.00

00:09:13.820 them to get that pretty privilege for them to still be found conventionally attractive by

00:09:18.400 societal standards and get treated a lot better by society. And what made me think of this is that

00:09:23.360 I saw this couple on a dating app who I hooked up with in my early 20s. And I thought it was a

00:09:28.260 really good time i thought we had a cool time a couple girl what i'm in a cool vibe but they ended

00:09:34.000 up rejecting me for like a second time after we hooked up they gave the reasoning that they

00:09:38.920 weren't attracted to my body type and my thing is that you can have whatever standards or

00:09:42.580 preferences that you want i definitely would not want to continue hooking up with them if they 0.81

00:09:47.040 didn't find my body attractive like to me that would be incredibly embarrassing to be hooking

00:09:52.060 up with somebody where i think that we're all in this experience to receive pleasure to have this

00:09:57.120 great time that we're all really feeling and vibing and attracted to each other meanwhile

00:10:00.920 that's not what's going on at all so it wasn't the fact that they rejected me because i think

00:10:04.820 if they just said that they didn't really feel the chemistry but they still really wanted a

00:10:08.500 friendship with me because that is ultimately what happened and i was much more of a people

00:10:13.080 pleaser back then so i did maintain a friendship with them for a while but even at the time it was

00:10:17.320 extremely disappointing not because okay take that out you got rejected by a couple for a threesome

00:10:23.300 bruh you have a guy saying three signs that you have pretty privilege and i have never related

00:10:27.960 to something so hard so this has happened multiple times where we like have talked to people and

00:10:31.660 they've said oh these people are really rude they weren't helpful they didn't help me at all and

00:10:34.820 then my husband will have gone to the same person and say i don't know what you're talking about

00:10:37.860 they were so nice to me they weren't rude at all like they were really helpful and really sweet

00:10:41.120 yeah pretty man privilege is a thing from women and i'm just sitting there and i'm rolling my

00:10:45.980 eyes i'm like yeah who are you talking to was it a girl was it a guy didn't matter who it was

00:10:52.980 they're gonna treat you differently my husband's the kind of person who when we walk into a bar

00:10:57.300 or a room they're not looking at me they're all looking at him look how happy she looks what does 0.99

00:11:03.620 this dude look like oh she did marry a chad that is a chad all right let's see this this blonde

00:11:09.220 woman video that said pretty probably just so real because you can be as weird as you want but if 0.51

00:11:13.700 you're hot you're still going to get invited places and you're not going to be a weird girl

00:11:16.980 you're still going to be hot anything it's even better to be a weird hot girl because and then

00:11:21.060 guys are like oh she's different like she's not like most girls did it like she's weird and funny 0.96

00:11:26.140 like i know multiple girls personally that i've said if people didn't think i was pretty i would

00:11:30.900 just be a weird girl like i they wouldn't want anything to do it's so weird though yeah that's 1.00

00:11:35.240 true because i'm weird you know but i'm like it takes one to know one a lot of you bitches are 1.00

00:11:39.420 weird too frustrating for people to think that life is just all sunshine and rainbows when in 1.00

00:11:44.280 actuality we go through with the worst people think we got all these friends we got niggas

00:11:49.240 we got options we always invited to the parties when that is literally the furthest thing from 0.91

00:11:54.840 the fucking truth for one we get treated so bad by men like so bad I mean I don't know about y'all 0.95

00:12:02.080 but I've encountered some men that tried to do me fucking dirty and I didn't do nothing to deserve 0.98

00:12:07.440 it nothing but I've come to terms with the fact that a lot of men have gotten satisfaction of 0.98

00:12:14.460 trying to break me down and belittle me whether it was because they was jealous or they want you

00:12:19.040 no one was jealous you're not hot enough um anyways all right guys um let me know what you

00:12:23.500 think in the comments it's pretty privileged real and do you know anybody that's very attractive

00:12:27.280 and what was their life like like the video subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 17, 2026

＂Pretty Privilege＂ AKA Women Hiding 304-ing

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