Pearl - Private Eye Russ Joins In Studio to Reveal women's Dark Secrets ｜ The Sitdown

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to another episode of the sit down today i have a special guest on the show

00:00:11.040 private investigator russ welcome to the show but before we get into it restart it okay

00:00:18.100 all right what up guys welcome to another episode of the sit down i am pearl and today

00:00:25.420 I have a special guest on the show. We have on Private Eye Russ. He is a private investigator

00:00:31.660 and he has a wealth of knowledge, information, and crazy stories for you. But before we get into it,

00:00:38.700 we have a special announcement from the channel. We are actually launching Pearl Academy with Shiv.

00:00:46.100 We have Shiv on the line. He helped us put together this course. Shiv is a self-made

00:00:51.100 millionaire by 30 years old which is pretty insane um and he helped us launch this course

00:00:56.280 welcome to the show shiv what uh shiv yeah turn off the music what are you doing

00:01:04.880 what music oh that's not you

00:01:08.000 is it is it you oh that's us sorry i was like shiv are you jamming out

00:01:17.880 there's no way it's on my side i don't hear anything no no it's not it's not um so why

00:01:25.340 don't you tell everybody your thought process behind the academy yeah so you know i think

00:01:31.980 as everyone who's followed your content or any type of like conservative content or red pill

00:01:36.460 content uh the landscape's so different today and the biggest problem with a lot of information

00:01:42.140 is that by the time you get it through like the normal kind of means or channels or institutions

00:01:47.560 it's already too late. Like I remember even just down to little things like computer science,

00:01:51.620 like when I went to college for computer science, you're learning programming languages that are

00:01:55.580 already outdated. And that's kind of how I feel about the dating marketplace, right? Like a lot

00:01:59.700 of the information you get, whether it's your health or fitness, or whether it's relationships

00:02:05.380 or dating, or whether it's managing money or wealth, these things are super antiquated. And so

00:02:11.020 because you're so well connected, I mean, I've personally seen all the people in your contacts

00:02:16.620 on your phone. I thought it made the most sense to collaborate with the best people

00:02:20.960 in the world and create something where all the latest, best information from people who might

00:02:25.980 not be famous, but have the latest and greatest cutting edge stuff can come together and put

00:02:30.940 their information in one place, one community. And more importantly, kind of create a threshold

00:02:35.260 where it's high quality enough. We vet people high enough who join this, where the networking

00:02:41.020 between the students itself, the people who join this, that creates a networking opportunity for

00:02:45.660 people to collaborate become friends become business partners and do things as well so i

00:02:50.160 wanted to create kind of like i hate to say the word i guess use a liberal term we want to create

00:02:54.060 a safe space um for men who really want to excel so yeah and everybody that was already on the

00:03:00.160 audacity network before the 15th we did download it and you guys are automatically in the school

00:03:05.640 group so that's you know a good value add um you know and i really over the years especially in

00:03:11.860 the dating space over like time tells all so i've really gotten to see who's you know kind of full

00:03:17.340 of shit and who really knows their stuff um like next week we're bringing on a pua guys i saw him 0.88

00:03:23.540 personally bring home three girls in the same weekend i i don't you know i i don't know what 0.99

00:03:30.260 more i need to like see to to know that he knows what he's talking about and while i maybe personally

00:03:35.600 can't teach you how to seduce women i do know a lot of guys that really do know their stuff

00:03:39.540 when it comes to a lot of different spaces, not only dating, but also wealth, fitness.

00:03:45.440 And even today, we're going to teach you how to, you know, sniff out these hoes. Stop, stop, 1.00

00:03:51.780 stop being fooled. But Shiv, anything else you want to talk about for the course before we go

00:03:57.320 into that? So the biggest thing is that obviously this is brand new. And so the way it's going to

00:04:01.980 work is a lot of content is going to be added in over time. So the biggest advantage for joining

00:04:08.280 early is, one, the price is low. As more and more content come in and more and more creators

00:04:14.020 create private content for this, the price is going to go up. But more importantly,

00:04:19.300 it's lifetime access. You get grandfathered in. And so we qualify you. We want to make sure you're

00:04:25.240 a good fit. But right now, the price is $1,980. It's a lifetime access. If we think you're

00:04:30.680 exceptional in any meaningful way or we think you're actually motivated and you're going to

00:04:34.320 be good for the network we will give financing to certain people um to break it apart into a

00:04:39.240 payment plan but yeah we just want to create a high floor because we want the network to be

00:04:44.760 really high quality and um it's kind of like you know look let's be honest the real value of harvard

00:04:50.160 or stanford or yale or princeton is not it's not the education because you could the education's

00:04:56.340 on youtube for free it's it's the the people in there and the networks it brings so that's the

00:05:01.920 biggest thing is we want to keep keep this a high floor uh to make sure that you know i know like

00:05:07.860 you've talked about inviting some of these people to your house one day right if we're going to do

00:05:11.920 something like that we want to make sure we really vet the audience so um so yeah so that's really

00:05:17.020 it it's uh pearl invite.com uh to schedule a call uh with our team to see if you're a good fit or

00:05:24.140 qualify um so i'll post that in the chat but it's pearlinvite.com um and like i said it's it's uh

00:05:31.260 i'm very excited about it and there's always a lot of benefits to being brand new on a new platform

00:05:37.120 that's when you know you get the most air time the most uh kind of dedicated resources from us

00:05:42.040 because we got to prove the track record we got to prove that this is worth uh the money you pay

00:05:46.400 in so i'm really excited for not only what it is today but i mean there's just so much stuff that's

00:05:52.840 going to be added in in the future that we're working on so you get grandfather and you pay

00:05:56.360 once lifetime access uh insane value yeah and you the link's in the description so that too

00:06:02.880 but yeah any anything else you got shiv oh no no not really um other than that i'm really excited

00:06:11.160 for private iras i think he's gonna share some insane information yeah and we also have terrence

00:06:17.060 pops administrative violence is in there too so if you guys want to um learn how to use the

00:06:21.980 justice system in an immoral but not illegal way against the your ex-wife of the sign up 1.00

00:06:27.280 um okay thanks shiv absolutely all right take care bye bye all right guys so welcome to the

00:06:36.120 show private irus how are you today fantastic thank you for having me pearl thank you for coming

00:06:41.420 so how did you become a private investigator uh you know it's it's funny i think i was probably

00:06:48.000 a private investigator before i've gotten got licensed because i actually did work on some

00:06:52.320 investigations throughout some of my work career but um initially i was doing a lot of executive

00:06:58.880 protection work in los angeles and then i moved to florida and florida at the time you needed a

00:07:04.880 private investigator's license to do executive protection work and so i contacted a private

00:07:12.560 investigator who worked out a deal. I actually helped him with, uh, with sales because I actually

00:07:18.620 did a lot of sales work. And so I would, I brought in business for him and in exchange,

00:07:23.840 he sponsored me in Florida. You need a sponsor. Uh, it's a two year, um, internship, two years,

00:07:30.300 40 hours, documented investigative work. And so I did that and, um, you know, wind up working,

00:07:36.540 he's, he's retired now and then wind up just doing my own thing. But, you know,

00:07:40.020 we were talking before my first case most private investigators do surveillance and some of them

00:07:45.700 just stay in that in that particular lane there's nothing wrong with that it's a good living

00:07:49.060 my first case was a homicide so i got thrown in the deep end you know as a license i got thrown

00:07:54.580 in the deep end right away and i've done a ton of ton of those actually so what did you have to read

00:08:00.100 like you had to figure out who did it or well the the and so the homicide the homicide i worked on

00:08:07.540 on this particular, on these particular instances, we're under what's called negligent security.

00:08:12.000 So if you go to a shopping mall or apartment complex or whatever, something bad happens to

00:08:17.320 you, say you're hurt badly, put in a wheelchair or deleted, your family can sue. And so initially

00:08:24.260 what we're doing is we're helping the attorneys get the raw materials they need to prove negligence

00:08:29.600 on part of the property owner or business owner or whatever it is. What, what usually winds up

00:08:35.520 happening is as you're interviewing people tracking people down and talking to more people

00:08:39.940 you actually wind up getting more information about what actually happened than than law

00:08:45.460 enforcement typically does uh most of these oh because they want to have a guard up against you

00:08:49.800 like no one wants to get incriminated so yeah yeah and well like i just think with a cop you're

00:08:55.640 naturally like you don't want to be dragged into something yeah but but also too even further than

00:09:00.140 that you know a lot of these cases occur in lower income areas and you know honestly you know are

00:09:07.120 they really going to work that hard you know like like two knuckleheads one one guy you know

00:09:12.680 they're getting a paycheck anyway yeah exactly and and that's that's not a that's not to put down

00:09:17.500 law enforcement or whatever but you know they've got so many things to work on when i'm working on

00:09:21.320 a case i'm working on that case they might be working on 30 homicides i might be working on

00:09:26.760 just that one. So then there's the time factor. I've got more time to put in because I'm being

00:09:30.780 paid specifically to work on that. And so I almost always wind up with more information

00:09:35.200 than law enforcement. And even some of the unsolved ones, I'll find out who's working on

00:09:42.020 them. You might be interested. I'm actually working on a case right now to try to help a guy

00:09:45.500 get free. He was falsely convicted to life in prison for homicide. And we found some witnesses

00:09:52.180 that will say that, no, he didn't actually do it with somebody else.

00:09:54.980 No way.

00:09:55.980 No, seriously, it's a heart attack.

00:09:57.220 So how did he get pinned for it?

00:09:59.960 Was it on purpose or was he wrong place, wrong time?

00:10:02.880 No.

00:10:03.480 Well, here's what happened.

00:10:04.620 A couple of different things happened with him.

00:10:07.860 So he was near where it happened, but there were three individuals that saw what happened.

00:10:12.460 But because of this no snitching code that they have in the streets, they think talking to the police is snitching.

00:10:18.900 Well, you know, you don't have to say who did it necessarily, but they didn't come forward and say that this guy didn't do it.

00:10:25.420 And so he had a choice to take a life in prison or the death penalty.

00:10:29.740 And so obviously, you know, he chose life in prison.

00:10:33.100 But, you know, since then it was uncovered that there were three individuals that will actually say,

00:10:39.100 and I actually got a statement from one of them saying an affidavit saying that, no, it wasn't him.

00:10:45.280 You know, he didn't actually do it.

00:10:46.580 It had to be somebody else.

00:10:48.120 and there's another one he's locked up right now so i'm trying to get it get a chance to go see him

00:10:52.660 to get a statement from him too to try to get the guy free not that he's an angel but i think what

00:10:58.840 happened was the the detective that was working on this and i won't put his name out there obviously

00:11:02.600 the detective just didn't like the guy because because he missed him so many other times or so

00:11:07.080 many other things that he's like okay you know what maybe he didn't maybe he didn't do this

00:11:10.860 however he did so much so many other things and so we got him and so um but um you know

00:11:17.660 hopefully luck of the irish we can we can get this guy free we got one statement so far we're

00:11:22.900 going to try to add another one and maybe get the guy justice so in your work what percent of your

00:11:28.920 cases are like homicides what percent are um traffic human trafficking rings um marriage like

00:11:37.260 Yeah. Well, the, the, I don't even really, the, the human trafficking things, uh, typically when

00:11:44.620 I'm working those, I'm volunteering. So I volunteer. Yeah. I volunteer for a couple of

00:11:49.420 nonprofits that use a network of private investigators, ex-military guys, um, and

00:11:56.380 retired detectives to try to search for missing and exploited children. And so that's, that's how

00:12:01.320 I, I get involved in those. But, um, and the reason they use PIs is we usually have really

00:12:06.160 good, I got really good information network in Florida, like a lot of information, a lot of

00:12:10.840 people that, um, you can't, you know, information you can't get from Google or, or any place else.

00:12:15.820 You need people that are in that world and, and in that life. And so you've got to, you know,

00:12:20.780 they are, they are the literally quintessential shadowy underworld figures. Most of these guys.

00:12:26.480 Um, however, you know, information is information. And if, um, you know, the way I, the way I try to

00:12:32.560 quantify it. Like I had one person object because I, I actually had to, I paid cash to a convicted

00:12:38.300 sex offender to find a child. And so they were like, how could you give that guy money? I said,

00:12:44.340 look, at the end of the day, man, if you come to me and you say, Russ, my child is missing,

00:12:48.680 I want you to get my child. Do you care how I get your child? Or do you just want your child back? 0.95

00:12:53.580 You know what I'm saying? And so, so at the end of the day, I'm not method. Um, I'm not constrained

00:12:58.280 by methods police are and a lot of times they understand i don't have to play by their rules

00:13:02.460 you know i can make up my own rules as long as i don't go too far obviously yeah but i can make

00:13:07.320 yeah and and sometimes i push those boundaries but at the end of the day my job is to bring a

00:13:13.000 child back home i'm going to bring them home and so that's how the so so the human trafficking side

00:13:17.920 um you know i um yeah they'll pay you they'll compensate you for your expenses something gas

00:13:24.620 or whatever it might be, because it's usually a lot of, you usually got to drive a ton.

00:13:27.960 What are the typical human trafficking cases?

00:13:30.340 Like, is it all women or? 0.54

00:13:32.660 No.

00:13:33.320 Really?

00:13:33.800 No, it's both.

00:13:35.180 You only hear about it with women. 1.00

00:13:36.640 You only hear about the women. 1.00

00:13:38.700 The boys tend to get shuffled to the back.

00:13:41.540 Yeah.

00:13:42.080 And nobody really cares.

00:13:43.300 But there are just as many young men, young boys, especially being trafficked as there

00:13:47.400 are women.

00:13:47.820 And the thing about the boys is, you know, well, in both cases, if you don't find these children within a certain amount of time, they could disappear down a dark hole and may never be seen again.

00:14:01.640 And so, you know, the people that will engage the services of these, yeah, there's no other, evil, evildoers, you know, there's no other way to put it.

00:14:11.900 And it's not just men that are trafficking children.

00:14:14.400 it. It's, it's actually, I'd say 40% of them are women. Really? Yes. Yeah. If you think about it,

00:14:21.640 it makes sense because if you want to lure a young person or a child, is a man going to be

00:14:26.620 better at that or a woman? Yeah. There you go. And so, um, and so if, you know, these guys that, 0.73

00:14:33.240 that engage in this sort of thing, um, they're, they're, they're evil guys. Um, and, and there's

00:14:38.560 no way any of us could, could understand, or even your audience could ever understand anybody who

00:14:42.920 would who would you know try to do that but if you can't get them back within a relatively

00:14:46.900 short period of time they're gone where do they go um a lot of them don't survive very long

00:14:53.800 and are they all doing sex work usually mostly okay and so look the market for boys being

00:15:03.540 trafficked is more lucrative than the market for girls being trafficked no way dudes that 1.00

00:15:10.120 that want to do that will pay more uh i can't tell you why um but but it happens and it's

00:15:18.360 always tragic when it does and so how does it like what's a typical case is it are they recruited

00:15:23.160 through school are they school um again we talked about about these this being a portal yeah it's a

00:15:30.220 portal if your child has one of these and you do not have your child's phone jacked meaning you can

00:15:36.320 see everything remotely that's going on on their phone wherever the phone is whatever whoever's

00:15:41.860 texting them uh gaming apps are a big thing um we had one case where a child was lured

00:15:48.320 uh into hanging out with a with a with an adult male uh using i almost say the name of the game

00:15:54.540 to avoid litigation but it was an augmented reality game so it was a location-based game

00:16:00.580 And so but you could actually contact each other through the through the game itself.

00:16:05.940 And, you know, as we as we kind of reverse engineered what happened, you know, there were two opposing factions, I guess you could call it.

00:16:16.400 And it was like capture the flag.

00:16:18.160 well you know you could see who was was on that flag or whatever and the the the predator

00:16:24.360 used this particular game to um entice and ensnare young boys uh and so he you know who knows how

00:16:35.000 many times he was successful doing that but so i try to tell people man you have to know

00:16:38.960 you know everything that your child is doing on this or their computer if you don't know and so

00:16:44.860 So, you know, I'm a private investigator.

00:16:46.200 My son has known, knew from early on, I said, look, I'm going to spy on every single thing you do until you're 18.

00:16:54.420 I said, make friends with it.

00:16:55.780 That's just how it's going to be.

00:16:57.700 And, you know, you don't have to catch everything they do.

00:17:01.300 So if they tell a little white lie, who cares? 0.91

00:17:03.240 You know, you're looking for things that are going to lead to harm, you know.

00:17:09.040 And so, you know, if my son tells me a lie like, Dad, your hair looks great.

00:17:12.240 You know, it doesn't look great, obviously.

00:17:13.640 because it's just really nothing there you know that i know he's he's full of you know what but

00:17:18.120 you have to understand what your children are doing you have to know who they're hanging out

00:17:21.560 with and i think what happens is parents get some parents get into a state of complacency

00:17:26.560 they think if they live in a nice neighborhood guess what if you do a sex offender search

00:17:30.800 like i live in a nice crazy i live in a nice area yeah i live in winter park um i went a little bit

00:17:38.080 further out like to a place uh called ovito it was outside orlando as well too not a bad

00:17:43.220 neighborhood, you know, very nice homes. There were more sex offenders in a one mile radius of

00:17:50.080 a friend of mine's, um, um, address in Oviedo than from my old neighborhood in the Bronx.

00:17:58.740 There were more in the suburb. There are guys that have, there are millionaires that are sex

00:18:04.900 offenders. Some of the, some of them haven't been caught. Most of them haven't been caught,

00:18:08.400 so they don't wind up on a registry.

00:18:10.540 And so, you know, there is no safe neighborhood

00:18:13.580 when it comes to predatory human beings.

00:18:16.560 They come in all shapes and sizes

00:18:17.920 from every socioeconomic background.

00:18:21.000 You know, you're not safe

00:18:22.640 because you live in a nice neighborhood

00:18:24.360 or even a gated community.

00:18:25.560 You still have to be vigilant

00:18:26.640 when it comes to your children.

00:18:27.720 I think what happens is people provide a safe space.

00:18:29.580 They think everywhere there is safe.

00:18:31.420 Yeah.

00:18:32.200 Not necessarily.

00:18:33.240 So when these boys or girls get kidnapped,

00:18:36.080 do they typically stay in the U.S.?

00:18:38.380 or they're like raped and killed immediately or how does i'm just wondering what the typical like

00:18:43.760 life cycle is maybe it's a little bit different for every case depending on who's trafficking

00:18:48.160 them but what happens is they typically want to get the child out of the area and so a greyhound

00:18:54.220 bus is still a very common way to transport kids uh and so um like what why a bus and not a car

00:19:01.900 wouldn't they well well because the the the trafficker doesn't want to move the child

00:19:06.240 themselves oh you know i mean and so it's a lot easier to pick up a child from the bus station

00:19:10.560 than to go drive you know 20 hours to pick a child out from from out of state okay um and if

00:19:16.240 the child goes on of his of his or her own accord then it looks like they're a runaway initially

00:19:21.340 and so a runaway is going to be handled differently than a kidnapping or you know i mean by by

00:19:26.880 enticement because that's what it is they're kidnapping them by enticing them away and

00:19:30.480 typically what they'll do is they'll masquerade as a young person, the catfishing, and they'll

00:19:37.080 get them out of their area. And as soon as they get their clutches on them, they start working

00:19:42.880 on them and creating a dependency on them, on the predator. And they're out of their area.

00:19:51.000 Oh, you know, your parents don't want you. They don't love you. They don't care. I'm going to

00:19:54.560 take care of you and even in many cases drugs are introduced to create a drug dependency

00:20:01.200 and so uh one of one of the challenges for us who are searching for the kids

00:20:05.820 is these these traffickers understand that they're going to be people and not in all cases

00:20:11.580 but in some cases people like me hunting for them in law enforcement or whatever law enforcement

00:20:15.700 doesn't really get involved unless they're specifically told to because they got so many

00:20:19.740 other things to do and so um they'll change their they'll alter their appearance sometimes

00:20:25.260 drastically and so um there are a lot of different ways to start looking for them

00:20:30.940 obviously i don't want to put them all out because i don't want them to watch and and learn how to

00:20:35.000 get around one of the things they do is they'll put these they'll put these children they'll make

00:20:40.680 them look grown up and they'll put them on the adult um sex marketing sites for people who are

00:20:49.120 sex working right so independent contractors or they have a business manager or a pimp or whatever 0.75

00:20:54.340 you want to call it they'll put them on there but they'll make them look older but they'll put

00:20:57.420 verbiage in the whatever narrative you know that that will it's kind of like a dog whistle to people

00:21:04.300 who who are looking for those yeah and they'll understand that that's an underage child and

00:21:10.240 and so they'll they'll initially be um you know can i say the r word or i'll say grape yeah great

00:21:18.940 Yeah, they'll stay griped by the individual who trafficked them,

00:21:22.600 and then they'll start marketing them to their friends,

00:21:25.620 and then more people, and these children will be just passed around.

00:21:30.400 Oh, wow.

00:21:31.360 And, yeah.

00:21:33.260 And so is this in the United States?

00:21:35.040 It's in the United States of America.

00:21:35.940 So they do stay here?

00:21:36.660 That happens here in the United States of America.

00:21:38.140 No, I was just wondering if, like, some of them flee the country or something to do it.

00:21:43.740 Not typically.

00:21:44.400 Sometimes, and it depends on who's doing it.

00:21:50.500 But there are some children that are actually requested.

00:21:55.140 Now, that happens rarely.

00:21:56.620 Like some evil dude say, hey, I want you to grab that child. 0.97

00:21:59.900 That happens extremely rarely.

00:22:02.120 But for the most part, they'll stay right here in the United States. 0.59

00:22:04.600 This is one of the biggest human trafficking markets.

00:22:07.460 This is the biggest human trafficking market in the world, the United States of America.

00:22:10.720 So do mothers that put their kids on the Internet put their kids at risk for this kind of thing? 0.99

00:22:17.140 Yes.

00:22:17.720 Yeah.

00:22:18.280 Yes.

00:22:18.700 So, you know, I always cringe when I see, like, people putting baby pictures in really, really, like, in diapers or even no diapers on.

00:22:29.460 You know, there are guys out there.

00:22:31.720 Okay, the worst offenders besides the social media ones.

00:22:35.900 And I don't think they're doing this out of any malfeasance.

00:22:38.200 Right.

00:22:38.340 I just don't understand.

00:22:39.340 but women who put their children on their dating apps with them that is the worst thing you can do 1.00

00:22:45.300 what you're going to attract you're not going to attract for the most part you're going to attract

00:22:49.120 some guys that don't mind single moms but but one of the things one of the things i found um just

00:22:55.260 from some of my investigations were that that uh child grapists tend to have a type okay like very

00:23:05.060 very specific criteria and if they see that criteria one of the things some of these guys

00:23:09.680 will do is they will ingratiate themselves with the moms and and um i try to enter their social 0.99

00:23:16.420 circle if they're married or something um like well well typically they'll they'll they'll be

00:23:22.180 you know most most fathers aren't going to let their kids pictures be put on the internet like

00:23:26.840 that right it's usually moms that are doing it and again not do any malfeasance they want to 1.00

00:23:32.140 show off their children. Okay, fine. But what they have to understand is that the internet is a very

00:23:36.060 big place and you've got to, you got the good with the bad. And so I worked a, um, a protection job

00:23:42.020 is a corporate protection job where, you know, they, they hired me. They're like, okay, one of

00:23:47.340 our employees, and again, I won't go into any names or anything like that, but one of our employees

00:23:51.260 found out that her longtime live-in boyfriend has been, has groomed and molested her daughter,

00:23:57.500 who's 15 now for the last five years and so um he's he's made threats against her and so we want

00:24:08.080 you standing by until he goes to trial and so initially supposed to be 30 this thing wound up

00:24:12.600 like 90 days man oh and by the way the guy was a competitive shooter oh that's just awesome

00:24:17.140 you know i mean yeah and so um and so that ratcheted things up and so what i did was i

00:24:22.800 got them to spend money for some more investigators and i said look i'll be here

00:24:26.440 but i want my guys watching him i want to know where this dude is you know i want to know where

00:24:32.280 this dude is uh because i didn't want to you know supersonic round uh to perforate my brain case

00:24:37.480 right and so and it got really really tense and and these things are always kind of but but there

00:24:43.600 are guys out there that will target women just so they can get close to their kids so what some

00:24:48.580 of the common tactics they'll use is they'll use the babysit you know the oh you need to go get

00:24:54.900 your hair you don't i'll watch your kids for you it's a trap it's a trap never turn over your kids

00:25:00.160 to anybody um the you know besides the babysitting thing there was a case in orlando where um a woman 1.00

00:25:08.220 a single mom two kids five and eight years old would let the maintenance guy watch her kids 1.00

00:25:15.040 so she could go to the club and go do this and hang out with her girlfriends he's such a nice

00:25:20.500 guy and he would buy the kids i mean video games do they realize people don't even vet their family

00:25:25.460 like like family members do it that you've known for years yeah yeah look so like you're doing this

00:25:30.260 with strangers yeah yeah and and then they found out you know later after who knows how long that

00:25:36.500 this guy did it but even it even got worse even worse than that so he would buy them video games

00:25:41.820 to buy their silence oh but even worse the guy who hired him knew that he had molested a child

00:25:50.440 before out in the west coast and hired him anyway because he said oh he wouldn't he wouldn't do that

00:25:55.300 again and and so my my message to single parents moms but especially moms not so much dads but

00:26:02.000 moms especially because you're going to be the ones targeted because you are going to be viewed 1.00

00:26:05.760 as the weak link all right and i'm not saying that you are but i'm saying that that's how

00:26:09.420 you're going to be targeted for that so you got to you got to be on guard men don't like children

00:26:15.400 There, I said it.

00:26:18.460 No, it's okay.

00:26:19.700 I don't like kids.

00:26:20.680 I don't like kids.

00:26:22.240 I feel like dad's like, it's like over like seven, they start to like him.

00:26:27.400 I love my son because he's my son.

00:26:29.700 Right.

00:26:31.020 And look, here's the thing.

00:26:32.300 And having said that, I've helped out so many children to help recover so many children.

00:26:36.040 I'll help children.

00:26:37.180 When I say I don't like them, I don't want to hang out with them.

00:26:39.280 Right.

00:26:39.740 Because most people don't raise their children properly.

00:26:41.660 Yeah.

00:26:41.880 You know, and I'm not putting that kind of energy and dealing with some offspring that's not mine.

00:26:47.380 And most men feel that way.

00:26:49.500 Sorry, some people might object to that, but that's the truth, ladies. 0.99

00:26:52.400 So if a guy is volunteering to look after a child that is not his.

00:26:57.360 Why?

00:26:58.280 He's either genuinely trying to get in your good graces, but there are other women out there. 0.98

00:27:04.540 You're not special.

00:27:05.540 I know you think you're special.

00:27:06.460 You're not.

00:27:08.100 You're special, just like everybody else, right?

00:27:09.860 And so, um, but you have to always keep in the back of your mind that this individual

00:27:15.060 could be trying to get close to you because that gives them easier access to your child.

00:27:20.140 So use more caution, man, you know?

00:27:23.640 So the cases that you, so you do murder cases, you do, um, human trafficking cases.

00:27:29.520 What's another type of case?

00:27:30.920 I've done a ton of, um, let's call it pre pre-marital inspection.

00:27:37.160 So say, for instance, you look like a Lamborghini person.

00:27:41.040 No, you don't look like a Ferrari person.

00:27:42.980 I'm a Honda Civic, you saw.

00:27:45.780 But you look like a G-Wagon Ferrari person, right?

00:27:50.080 I don't know cars, so I don't know what that means.

00:27:53.060 You don't know what a G-Wagon is?

00:27:54.880 No, I don't.

00:27:55.480 How do you not know what a G-Wagon is?

00:27:56.140 I just don't know cars.

00:27:57.300 I've always had a Honda Civic.

00:27:58.520 Okay, well.

00:28:00.540 They get great mileage.

00:28:02.400 Oh, my God.

00:28:03.360 I got it from the airport today, guys.

00:28:05.280 The Gmail.

00:28:06.280 Well, the G-Wagon is not about mileage.

00:28:09.220 It probably gets about 10 miles a gallon on a freeway.

00:28:11.760 It's about the prestige and the look.

00:28:13.740 You know what I mean?

00:28:14.080 Okay.

00:28:14.840 But before you buy one, if you buy one used, you want to get a pre-purchase inspection.

00:28:19.360 Okay.

00:28:19.960 You want a mechanic, a trusted mechanic, to go in and look and make sure to check out the maintenance records.

00:28:26.400 Make sure it matches up with what's actually been done in a car.

00:28:28.980 And make sure that you're not buying a ticking time bomb or engine that's going to grenade or whatever else.

00:28:34.600 I do the same thing for men who are thinking about engaging a woman for a long-term relationship or marriage.

00:28:41.420 So there's different tiers of it.

00:28:43.340 There's your basic look, and then there's a really super deep dive,

00:28:47.240 which involves things like active surveillance and things of that nature.

00:28:51.940 And, you know, so that's something.

00:28:55.340 And, again, I take that really seriously because, again, if I mess things up,

00:29:00.960 I could be sending some poor dude to the gallows of our life of misery.

00:29:05.180 What if she like prays?

00:29:08.180 You know, you just want to open up all the cans of work.

00:29:14.000 Okay.

00:29:14.580 Here's the thing.

00:29:15.060 One of the jobs I did before I became a licensed private investigator, I was head of security for a very large congregation for a very prominent religious leader.

00:29:23.360 It was a mega church.

00:29:24.100 um fortunately him and his wife were two of the most gracious people and actual godly people i've

00:29:31.120 ever met his wife was probably the most gracious woman i've ever met uh like super nice people 0.98

00:29:35.860 they would do anything for you but i i was able to interact with a lot of the gospel superstars

00:29:43.860 that people worship today and and here's here's what i can say most of them 90 of them are not

00:29:52.840 They're living like devils while they're trying to tell you to live like angels.

00:29:56.920 So if you have a woman and you meet a woman in church because you think you're getting something better than outside of church, I got bad news for you, bro. 0.86

00:30:05.360 You're not getting anything any better.

00:30:07.160 You're just going to get a really self-righteous individual that's going to pretend that they are better, not necessarily.

00:30:12.880 Or you're going to get a recycled 304 that wants a break from the treadmill.

00:30:17.280 And so she goes to church to find refuge and find some poor schmo that doesn't know about her past. 0.98

00:30:22.840 And again, these might sound like harsh words. However, I don't make a habit of trying to butter people's backsides. I have to give people the truth. And sometimes it's ugly. Sometimes it's difficult to hear. And people will hear me say that and they think I'm anti-Christian. I'm not anti-Christian. I am a Christian. I'm not always a very good one.

00:30:46.440 i'll admit it i'm not always a very good one but uh what i what i object to is people being fooled

00:30:54.100 and using god and church and religion uh as a way to trick people and one of the people you know

00:31:02.100 some of the groups that women get tricked too but men are tricked uh way more often and so

00:31:08.280 um a woman going to church what does that mean um does that look here's the thing i was head of

00:31:13.920 security. I would see women at the club the night before on Saturday night. They'd still be in their 1.00

00:31:19.600 club clothes, church on Sunday morning. Wow. Still be in the club clothes, church on Sunday morning.

00:31:24.980 They're backing that thing up and doing whatever else Saturday night. Yeah. Sunday, they're a

00:31:29.660 holy moly. You know, like, like one of my aunts used to say, holy moly. And so, um, look, and

00:31:35.520 that's not to say that they're worse, but what I'm saying is that they're not better. Right. You

00:31:40.120 know, you still have to, you can't. So here's the thing. You cannot use religion or religious 0.89

00:31:46.400 affiliation as a, as a vetting method. All right. It's, it's, it's, it's, because I've seen it just,

00:31:53.340 I've seen the absolute opposite. In some instances, I've seen women in church act way, way worse 0.99

00:31:58.200 than, than women who don't go to church at all. So, and part of that is there's, there's, um,

00:32:05.880 There's a belief that you're getting something better, so it hits harder when you find out.

00:32:10.240 They don't see it coming.

00:32:11.480 No, man.

00:32:12.340 No, man.

00:32:12.980 And it's like they're stepping into a freeway, and that truck is right there, and they just bam.

00:32:16.920 And all of a sudden, when they realize it, when they come to me, after they find out something's wrong, usually, like we talked about before, they're in crisis mode.

00:32:23.840 Well, you know, the way to avoid that is understand her past.

00:32:28.720 That's the best peak you will get into her future.

00:32:31.420 And so when we talked about earlier, if you if you can if you can live with nobody's going to be perfect.

00:32:38.840 If you can live with her worst that she's ever done, then you have a better chance of weathering whatever storm you might have to going forward.

00:32:47.040 But if you don't know what her worst is, you're not able to make an informed decision.

00:32:51.340 And what I try to do is give guys an opportunity to make an informed decision, because that's all any of us should ever want.

00:32:56.280 If you've got a woman with, you know, like that PPI inspection for the Lamborghini or Ferrari or G-Wagon, you've got to do some homework on the G-Wagon. 1.00

00:33:05.140 But if you think you're getting a car that has 10,000 miles, but the Speedo has been rolled back, how much wear and tear has been on that engine, the chassis, the electronics, the interior, the upholstery, everything?

00:33:23.020 And compare that to, and again, people will get all upset, but at the end of the day, I know a lot of women will give the reply, a woman's past shouldn't matter. 1.00

00:33:34.740 Well, I'm sorry, sister.

00:33:35.920 It does matter to men.

00:33:37.360 It may not matter to you, but it matters to men for so many different reasons.

00:33:41.500 One reason is your reputation.

00:33:44.600 I actually know guys who have married the neighborhood pass around, but didn't know they were the neighborhood pass around.

00:33:53.020 and they found out after they got married now imagine how that guy feels knowing that he has

00:33:57.920 a woman that everybody has been with how did he find out i mean because i feel like men women will

00:34:04.700 snitch men just do not snitch and we were talking about that earlier but like they they could be

00:34:10.780 banging on other dudes what they want well in this particular case he hired he hired me because

00:34:15.000 he thought she was cheating was she and yeah she was and and and i was like you know and this was

00:34:21.780 easy work and i was like yeah dude she's she's probably i said i'll find i'll find i'll look for

00:34:25.800 documentation but yeah she probably is he's like well how do you how do you know i said everybody

00:34:30.020 slept with her man he said really i said dude i slept with her um like everybody everybody got 0.81

00:34:36.420 so you got hired for someone yeah yeah and it's like you know and not normally you wouldn't just

00:34:40.900 come out and say this but you know it's like okay it's so crazy women can be with like a hundred 1.00

00:34:46.660 dudes and none of them will snitch no well they do not well they will say something if it's their

00:34:52.860 their homeboy yeah it's their pal they'll say something now you get different reactions from

00:34:59.500 guys like i'm a pi i've given people documentation like yeah she's cheating no i don't believe it

00:35:04.540 like dude you hired me to get this this is this is like literally i got video like why am i here

00:35:10.160 i got video of a woman getting bent over and cheeks clapping and all the rest of that stuff

00:35:17.280 and and the dude was still like well that doesn't look like her like come on dude 1.00

00:35:21.280 i was just i was just telling someone this the other day when a guy wants to simp you cannot

00:35:28.220 stop him no no at some lessons you just got to learn the hard way yeah and and so he hired me

00:35:33.920 because he thought she was she was messing around and um you know i i didn't know this guy

00:35:39.720 before they got married i met him after he hired me and so i was like

00:35:45.220 i was like well yeah she probably is and he was like what how has it been everybody's been with

00:35:52.620 her man like she was just that like literally she would just she was just very generous uh let's 1.00

00:35:58.700 generous with her time and her presence and so um so for him that was a bitter pill it was a really

00:36:05.960 bitter pill to swallow man because i mean imagine somebody that you you know when when and again we

00:36:11.240 i wrote about this called the a woman as a brand ambassador so very rarely is a man a woman's brand

00:36:18.460 ambassador typically the woman is going to be the man's brand ambassador meaning she represents you 0.94

00:36:25.260 she represents hopefully the best part of your judgment right and so you're because you're

00:36:31.460 bringing this person in and they are they're representing your name your your family not just

00:36:37.260 you but your mother your father your family name in general uh your children she has access to your

00:36:43.300 money and so you know all these other things and so if you get that decision wrong that's going to

00:36:50.360 say a lot to people not necessarily because you did it on purpose but that's going to say a lot

00:36:54.140 people about you as a as a man and your ability to make decisions is if you marry the town pass

00:37:00.140 around uh now some guys are comfortable with that hey do your thing you know but most guys are not

00:37:07.100 how do you categorize women so i'd imagine when you're doing um like when i i did enough interviews

00:37:13.980 you kind of start to see like patterns and trends and like you kind of start to group people is there

00:37:19.580 there a way that you do that with women um like from what like will will she cheat or what type 1.00

00:37:25.100 of what she would yeah like I don't know women it could be by profession that they do this it could 1.00

00:37:30.240 be by a school it could be like I don't I'm just curious over the years you've how long have you

00:37:36.240 been doing this for um I I got my license in um 2000 well it was actually before 2009 but there's

00:37:44.680 a two year internship. So it was really 2007, but 2009 is when I got the, the, um, the full

00:37:50.540 license after I'd completed the internship. Okay. So I've been doing it since then. So yeah. So

00:37:55.660 I mean, you have to have, um, patterns that you've seen, like if I've noticed, if I've learned

00:38:01.860 anything is that people aren't as special as they think. And most people do our statistics and do

00:38:07.720 fall in like, um, it's kind of like the hoe and the simp and church, you know, that's what I've 1.00

00:38:12.840 seen. So with women, how do you categorize them typically? Well, I look at it this way. I look 1.00

00:38:21.420 at women the same way most guys will evaluate women as a, as a straight male, a healthy,

00:38:28.300 aggressive, heterosexual male. First category is would I, or would I, wouldn't I? But more

00:38:35.820 importantly, before then, would she, or wouldn't she? So I can talk to women and tell within a 0.98

00:38:42.040 few minutes or even just watch them to tell if if they're available very very quickly some women 1.00

00:38:47.620 just aren't available you know i mean and it's not necessarily to me but whoever right so one of the

00:38:52.960 things i look for is the attention hounds the attention the women that are constantly not just 1.00

00:38:59.760 the way they dress but they're constantly looking around to see who's who's watching them and and

00:39:06.480 they're looking for that attention if they get that intention um sometimes they're looking for

00:39:11.220 engagement after that intent, you know, attention. And so that's a, that's a big thing. Um, and,

00:39:17.560 and again, you know, so you'll follow a girl and see if she's like looking around for attention. 1.00

00:39:22.800 Not even if I'm followers, I'm just women I meet in general, you know, um, just because I, I,

00:39:27.880 I observe, I watch everything. Um, and sometimes it's a little bit of a curse and sometimes I'll

00:39:33.400 notice things that I don't even want to see, you know, but, but I'll see them, you know,

00:39:37.040 just because of my, my past and just my brain is wired. Um, my,

00:39:41.680 my brain is wired to find things that people are trying to hide.

00:39:45.700 It's been like this since I was a, I was a kid. Again, sometimes it's a,

00:39:48.620 it's a little bit of a curse, uh,

00:39:50.340 just cause you don't want to know everything about some people.

00:39:52.880 Sometimes, you know, you just want to think that just an ordinary person.

00:39:55.680 And then, you know,

00:39:56.320 I'll see things like friends of mine and their wives are fitting in some of

00:39:59.680 these patterns. I'm just like, Oh man, I was like, what do you say?

00:40:03.640 Cause you know, both of them. Right. So, so what do you say?

00:40:07.040 what do you do and so i had a recent thing i'll ask your opinion on this okay i had a recent thing

00:40:11.360 i i i asked the internet on x what would you guys do on my my dog walks i typically walk my dogs if

00:40:20.240 i'm around uh three times say three times a day and excuse me i'm sweating uh i've always sweated

00:40:26.160 a bunch oh it's the studio these things i i i sweat like a um i sweat like a like a person in

00:40:33.760 in the desert so sorry so i don't want to blind anybody with my shiny bald head um but so so

00:40:40.500 here's what happened um i'm walking my dogs take them to a park right and it's by one of the tennis

00:40:46.240 courts we have a bunch of tennis courts in my neighborhood um that's when you know you're in

00:40:49.360 a good neighborhood if you don't have any basketball courts but tennis courts you're in a

00:40:52.160 nice neighborhood so um and so with with one of my neighbors goes on power walks in the middle of

00:41:00.620 the day she walks she walks to the park and gets in a car and I was like but she couldn't see me

00:41:08.360 I guess I was actually picking up dog doo-doo be responsible pick up okay pick up your dog doo-doo

00:41:12.620 don't don't be like that and so I was like that wasn't her that wasn't her husband you know I

00:41:17.380 mean so I was like okay you know and so I let it go um another time I see her get picked up

00:41:23.220 same pattern same car and so um and this this happened more than once and so i hung out and

00:41:33.140 then saw him drop her off and then she proceeds on her power walking thing again and goes back 1.00

00:41:39.080 home and i was like not her husband husband's at work uh providing a great living he's a surgeon

00:41:45.520 um so she hired you know she she married the high value guy uh and the guy who picked her up wasn't

00:41:51.260 a brokey he was driving a um seven series beamer so you know what was she one to ten uh looks wise

00:41:57.700 she's a little bit higher man she's like an eight and a half nine man like she's uh i would eat if 1.00

00:42:06.200 she wasn't married i would eat sushi off her naked backside okay she's that attractive okay you know 1.00

00:42:11.320 i mean is that descriptive yeah i'm i'm the king of analogies you'll find but and so and obviously 0.98

00:42:20.220 i don't mess with married i stay away from married women um but and so i said okay what

00:42:25.440 would you guys do and i got a range of answers from oh you have to tell them i know the guy

00:42:29.920 how well but we're not like pals i've smoked cigars with them with other guys in the neighborhood

00:42:35.900 a couple of times while we're drinking this has happened to me before and if they stay together

00:42:41.480 it's so awkward so so because then the snitch is the bad guy so so so what would you do yeah

00:42:50.500 exactly nothing sorry not look at there was a time where i would have but i'm sorry too many 0.98

00:42:56.280 of you simps it's bit me in the ass but i gotta let you guys suffer yeah some guys were oh you 0.99

00:43:01.140 gotta do it and this is the bro code okay i get the bro code thing but i still gotta live in that 0.98

00:43:04.820 neighborhood exactly so here's how i handled it okay again and one of my strong suits is problem

00:43:13.200 solving right and so i i love solving solving problems i love finding creative ways to solve

00:43:18.220 problems so what i did was i said okay i clocked the times that she would be there it was right

00:43:23.740 around the same time every day i started booking the tennis court around that time and inviting

00:43:29.620 one of the neighborhood older guys in the neighborhood that plays he's this guy is a

00:43:33.320 even though he's the guy's in his 70s man but he went to college on a on a tennis scholarship

00:43:39.160 this guy is such a ringer like he'll have you running around the court all day so i invited 0.99

00:43:43.680 him to go play tennis i booked the tennis court and i positioned myself so that my back was to

00:43:51.260 the pickup point and he was facing the pickup point and so um you know we're going back and

00:43:57.740 forth he's telling me how much i suck at tennis uh which i suck at tennis i suck at golf i still 0.83

00:44:01.880 love buffalo but that wasn't her husband but the guy knew her husband well yes okay okay if he knew

00:44:07.340 him well yes that's smart so you get a long time so you get the friend to do it for yeah so so uh

00:44:12.780 and then he stopped and was like i turned around i goes hey oh is that such and such he's like

00:44:18.620 yeah and he's got this really concerned look on his face let's go all right uh i think it's your

00:44:24.720 serve and he's like and and i just left it at that and he dealt with it yeah yeah and so i i

00:44:32.600 didn't tell him i just put him in position to see yeah um even though the guy wasn't the client

00:44:37.760 some people say i'm a snitch okay uh technically i'm a professional snitch no that's what i do for

00:44:44.660 a living you know i'm constantly that's smart because then like is if you tell them the problem

00:44:50.560 is one they might not believe you and then it's awkward for you yeah two they do believe you and

00:44:56.580 then they fight and then they tell them that you're the person that's what happened to me i told

00:45:01.620 and then they fought and then they stayed together so i was the best i'm like okay you know what i'm

00:45:09.240 like suffer suffer i don't care yeah yeah and so and so that's that's how i handled that right

00:45:14.620 that particular thing. And, and, um, because I was like, man, yeah, you hate watching guys

00:45:19.220 dangle, you know, over, over a volcano and you can save them, but you don't do it. You don't do

00:45:25.560 anything to save them. And so I, so I let his friend, uh, cause that guy's really good friends

00:45:29.640 with him. Um, I know him casually. I know the other guy better. Him and I smoke cigars all the

00:45:33.980 time. Um, and, uh, so did he find out, did he tell the husband, um, from what I, from the gossip

00:45:41.740 i got in the neighborhood i never asked um the older guy what happened or what he did but the

00:45:46.840 gossip i got from the neighborhood is that um he did indeed find out uh what was going on with his

00:45:53.500 um with his with his spouse are they staying together uh no no they're getting divorced no 0.56

00:45:59.060 he's he's bouncing yeah apparently he's probably screwing a nurse anyways well apparently she this 1.00

00:46:04.440 was her college boyfriend no way she told him not to worry about

00:46:09.940 it's always the guy it's always the guy they say not to worry about i'll tell you i'll tell you a

00:46:15.800 story from school so i was on a team with a girl and she it was i transferred in um

00:46:23.640 and before i even like knew her she dated this guy freshman year and they dated they didn't even

00:46:30.220 date that long like i don't know two three months but i guess she was kind of stuck on i mean you

00:46:35.200 know how it is like she was stuck in him forever senior year she has a new boyfriend and we were

00:46:40.620 at like it's called like a day party like a dirty it was like saint patrick's day or something

00:46:44.440 and i'm waiting to go to the bathroom right and i'm like why is this taking so long it's taking

00:46:50.580 forever and she walks out with the guy from freshman year and her boyfriend came to the

00:46:58.340 party later and had no idea they're still together to this day and you know what makes it worse is 0.54

00:47:04.020 she wasn't a whore like she wasn't like you would expect there's different girls on our team that 1.00

00:47:11.220 you would maybe expect that from but she did not at least as far as I knew she did not have the 0.95

00:47:16.700 reputation of sleeping around with oh sorry sleeping around with a bunch of people you know

00:47:22.540 so this guy i'm like he would have no idea because she like really she had a good reputation i was 0.99

00:47:29.440 i i couldn't even believe it and yeah and i was not gonna be the one i'm sorry pal too many of

00:47:35.820 you guys you tell you you know how mad they get at me for being like because because there's guys

00:47:42.320 who will say oh um they want like a virgin wife or like and and i say guys like two bodies i'm like

00:47:50.100 good luck. And then they tell me I'm like evil. They're like, Oh, well that's just you. Or that's

00:47:55.980 just like you, you, you, um, it's just the women, you know. And I'm like, look, it's just women on 0.98

00:48:05.040 podcasts. Like, here's the thing, man. Finding like, if you do find a virgin, I actually know

00:48:12.780 a guy and we talked about this briefly. You find a virgin. Um, she was using her virginity as a, 1.00

00:48:17.800 and her sexuality as a method of control over guys that she was messing with, 1.00

00:48:21.080 like literally holding it over their heads like the sword of Damocles.

00:48:24.800 You know what I mean?

00:48:25.300 And these guys were all chomping at the bit,

00:48:27.200 and she was just playing these guys like a fiddle. 0.86

00:48:32.040 Guys, get over the whole wanting a virgin thing.

00:48:35.220 It's not going to happen.

00:48:36.140 If a woman tells you that she is a virgin, odds are that she's lying.

00:48:40.100 You know, when you talk about the data, whenever they poll, they show these polls,

00:48:44.020 oh, only 20% of women who were polled said they were cheating. 0.95

00:48:47.100 oh my god yeah okay you believe them right you guys believe that nonsense and the workarounds 0.96

00:48:52.980 it's like they'll they'll give oral then say that doesn't count and that's the virgin I found 0.99

00:49:00.700 five types of virgins one lying two workaround virgin they do and I was on the phone I talked 0.54

00:49:07.500 to this lady the other day and I was like I don't know how these guys believe these women when

00:49:12.420 they're like 27 or 28 that they're virgin okay like 19 okay but like 27 what was she doing for

00:49:20.300 the past decade and then she was like oh but I was and I was like don't make me do this and I was

00:49:27.400 like and I told her I'm like really you did nothing else and she's like oh well of course I did other

00:49:32.360 and I was like come on and again you know maybe some guys maybe some guys think that if a woman 0.95

00:49:37.800 gives throat hugs um that that she's still a virgin sorry bro yeah but if you gave three

00:49:43.800 throat hugs at the same time are you still a virgin come on that logic makes no you can get 0.81

00:49:49.180 an std from it so like you can get an incurable std but you're a virgin get out i'm so i you don't

00:49:57.160 understand like i had to interview a thousand women and i was just so done by the end i'm like

00:50:02.240 are you one girl on the show said she was a virgin before the show she told a different guy

00:50:07.440 on the show that like she was telling him about this day her situationship and he on the show was

00:50:13.760 like you just told me about it and then three the ones that use it as marketing and they can't give

00:50:21.480 up like the Lolo Joneses you know I don't know if she but let's say she's telling the truth like

00:50:26.500 she couldn't give up the clout for being a virgin so like yeah and like she's she's destined to be 1.00

00:50:32.060 alone um because she's just you know she's she seems like kind of a weirdo yeah you know and 0.98

00:50:37.480 and that's what you're going to get if you get a woman in her 30s or 40s who's a virgin 1.00

00:50:41.080 she's going to be strange you know to maintain that that long she's got to be unusual and you

00:50:47.500 talk to the guys you're like oh strange is okay i'm like trust me no it's not what you think yeah

00:50:53.500 you don't want a weirdo wife and and um you know like okay or like i've talked to women who um 0.99

00:50:59.480 i've let people swim in the hershey highway let's just say right i don't get it back door oh back

00:51:08.060 okay okay you never heard hershey no no my god all these people you never heard that terminology

00:51:13.780 no one's used never heard a g-wagon no i knew okay i knew what i've heard g-wagon i just okay

00:51:19.920 i wouldn't i wouldn't look like i know i wouldn't be able to identify it i'm not i don't pay

00:51:25.080 attention to cars i just don't care you never heard hershey highway no i'm the first i know

00:51:30.940 what a honda civic is great mileage that's what hershey highway means and i know women that have 1.00

00:51:36.920 done that like guys do that and they're like oh i'm a virgin are you you know like uh sorry

00:51:43.560 probably not uh but there are some women that that believe that uh there are surgeries that 1.00

00:51:50.680 oh my god let it go just be a ho let it go there are surgeries you know what i mean porn stars are 0.99

00:51:59.480 getting married nowadays let's not let it hold you it's not gonna look there's someone that's

00:52:04.540 gonna do it i mean and there's one there's some there's one woman on the internet i don't remember 0.52

00:52:08.360 her name um i don't remember what podcast it was on she was talking about how god

00:52:11.560 restored her coochie and then and the other woman the other woman was like wait don't you have five 1.00

00:52:17.080 kids it's like i'm sorry man you know but there are there are ceremonies in churches this is why

00:52:27.300 i say you know watch out for the church con yeah trad con they put the con yeah in in trad con and

00:52:34.000 so they've got this whole praying and restoring virginity born again virgin that's a crock of

00:52:43.160 nonsense that's that's okay where does it say that in the bible some guy came up with that

00:52:47.740 to market it um to to get away to market women that are coming off the streets that they want 1.00

00:52:54.840 to get married to these knuckleheads sitting in the pews who believe everything this guy with a 0.53

00:52:59.140 suit on says because he's got a bible in front of him whether he's preaching from the bible or not 0.97

00:53:02.820 there's a whole different thing but they're just going to believe and they're going to they're

00:53:06.120 going to get sold a um you know they're going to get sold a really bad used car yeah and and

00:53:11.600 And instead of trying to get women to understand that there's going to be a day of reckoning for your behavior, just like men, there's a day of reckoning for you.

00:53:21.740 You simp long enough, you're going to get bit.

00:53:23.840 If you're going down that 304 train or stroll or lane forever, at some point, you're going to run out of tread on those tires.

00:53:34.220 I don't know.

00:53:34.840 Riley Reid just got married to a decent looking dude.

00:53:37.920 okay he's a decent looking dude but really um like like this this dude is an empty shell inside

00:53:42.900 man let's be honest do you know what i think what happens and you could tell me if i'm wrong

00:53:46.960 guys look at the conservative women and then they start to not notice the difference and so they 0.70

00:53:52.500 just say well at least like riley reed and i've talked about this on the show i think she pulled

00:53:58.620 it off because she brings in her hot friends to do threesomes so like yeah like that would be a 1.00

00:54:04.720 big selling. So she's, she's adding value. I'll always ask the chat. I'm like, guys for like a

00:54:13.520 threesome once a week, would you put up with it? I'm not saying you should, or you would, right.

00:54:18.720 But eventually there's going to be a taker. Look, most, you know, most, and I told you, I did some

00:54:25.560 work for some of the, the, um, the adult film industries in Los Angeles, not any film stuff.

00:54:33.200 I was doing some protection work when I lived in California.

00:54:35.780 And so a lot of these women that guys see on screen, if they saw them without their makeup, they would be horrified.

00:54:43.120 Yeah, I know.

00:54:43.860 Like, like seriously, they would be they would screech like, oh, my God, is that what she really looks like? 0.65

00:54:48.140 Yes, that's what she really looks like.

00:54:49.800 Not to mention most of them are drug addicts just because they they they get into that just because they to kill the the feeling of how they're throwing their life down the toilet.

00:55:02.320 man you know what i mean and so there's a lot of drug addiction there's a lot of really twisted

00:55:06.880 um sexual proclivities a lot of them wind up with um um being nymphomaniacs where they gotta have it

00:55:14.560 all the time and so you know that might sound like a good thing and we talked about this also

00:55:18.400 today it might sound like a good thing but okay what happens if you get injured like that that

00:55:22.400 dude i know who married literally a nymphomaniac and he hurt his back and so he couldn't do anything

00:55:28.480 like he was like literally bedridden and she went buck wild you know why she had to have it

00:55:35.140 somewhere right she had to get it from somewhere and so you know guys got to be guys got to be a

00:55:42.040 lot more discerning and um be you know stop being so um stop being so trusting you know women we

00:55:49.560 talked about how women investigate men it is miles ahead of what most men do women if they want to 0.94

00:55:55.540 marry you. I'm not talking about the guy. They just want to hump, right? That's different.

00:55:59.300 They're not going to look into that guy at all. They just feel what they feel and they're going

00:56:02.080 to act on it. That's different. That's more primal, right? Uh, if she wants to marry you,

00:56:06.880 I can almost guarantee you, she does not have that primal desire for you. All right. That's

00:56:10.680 just how it works. You know what I mean? Don't get upset about it, but they will, they will

00:56:15.840 vet their, their past. They will try to find past girlfriends and interview them. Like they'll

00:56:21.400 contact them. We talked about some of these apps where they share information. They'll research

00:56:26.160 your phone number, reverse image searching. They'll look for anything they can to vet you

00:56:33.440 and see what type of person you are. That's before they really get to know you. Then they'll study

00:56:37.040 you. If they want to marry you or be long-term relationship, they'll study everything you do.

00:56:41.540 So they know your personality and your behavior, excuse me, inside and out. And so, you know,

00:56:48.360 Guys that are marrying women that are adult film people, you know, I think that's a very, that's a tiny percentage of men.

00:56:55.420 Right.

00:56:55.860 That's not, okay, do most men want to hook up with a porn story?

00:56:59.500 Of course.

00:57:00.060 I know, but do you know what's been crazy to watch?

00:57:03.580 I recently interviewed a pretty, like, pretty well-known fighter.

00:57:10.140 um and there was someone else at like the place i was interviewing that i asked him would you

00:57:16.160 accept a woman with an only fans and it's been amazing how in the last five years how normal it

00:57:23.880 is for men to accept it as long as they don't smash on camera like it and i know it's like

00:57:30.540 it's almost like disheartening you know and i'm like watching like men that have other options

00:57:37.320 I'm like, why are you accepting that?

00:57:39.460 Because there's, there's, it's been, there's less stigma because it happens so much.

00:57:44.520 Yeah.

00:57:45.060 You know, like look at, look at COVID.

00:57:46.820 How many women got on OnlyFans during the COVID stuff? 1.00

00:57:49.700 Yeah.

00:57:50.280 Like hundreds of thousands.

00:57:52.540 Right.

00:57:52.840 And now, okay.

00:57:54.020 The vast majority of them didn't make a dime on OnlyFans.

00:57:57.700 No, the average is like 250.

00:58:00.000 It's like nothing.

00:58:01.500 The average, they don't, they don't make anything.

00:58:03.220 Can you imagine putting your most prized possession on the internet and making $250 a month?

00:58:09.300 And then, you know, so you look at it from this standpoint.

00:58:12.180 If you're a guy, you marry a woman. 0.98

00:58:13.920 Right. 0.98

00:58:14.660 Everyone's seen her private parts.

00:58:16.240 That's supposed to be something special. 0.96

00:58:17.740 Now, you're not getting a virgin.

00:58:19.200 We already talked about that.

00:58:20.260 Yeah, yeah.

00:58:20.660 But do you want everybody to have seen it?

00:58:23.700 Yeah.

00:58:24.180 You know?

00:58:24.720 Do you know what the challenge is, though?

00:58:26.840 I think sometimes the girls can kind of wipe it decently clean where it's not 1.00

00:58:31.960 easily accessible.

00:58:33.820 You can still find traces of it.

00:58:35.980 Yeah.

00:58:36.120 But normal people aren't going to like look that hard.

00:58:39.240 You know what I mean?

00:58:39.880 You know what I mean?

00:58:40.560 Yeah.

00:58:40.720 So yeah.

00:58:41.680 And,

00:58:41.980 and you'll find it,

00:58:43.860 right?

00:58:44.360 Yeah.

00:58:44.620 Yeah.

00:58:44.880 And I've actually,

00:58:45.540 I told you one I found recently where she actually did scrub it,

00:58:48.160 but,

00:58:48.880 but you know,

00:58:49.600 I found it,

00:58:50.000 I didn't,

00:58:50.360 didn't find all the content,

00:58:51.440 but I found the page and I found the,

00:58:53.540 the,

00:58:54.100 the,

00:58:54.680 what they call a thumbnail or a screenshot or whatever it is from from her page and you know

00:59:00.180 this was a woman who had previously denied uh to my client that she'd had any sort of only fans

00:59:05.420 um and then you know then we talked about some of her associations she was hanging out with a 0.98

00:59:09.540 bunch of scumbags like her friends are dirt bags there's no way to put it like she hangs out with 1.00

00:59:14.320 a bunch of dirt bags and like these are guys i look i know a lot of shady characters i wouldn't 0.99

00:59:18.020 hang out with these guys um you know and and um you know and so you know he wound up disqualifying

00:59:23.900 because this is a very, you know, guys that, that tend to, um, from what I've seen tend to stay

00:59:31.000 married longer and have more successful marriages are guys that tend to vet women the same way women

00:59:36.960 vet men. Um, you know, women will look at things sometimes, unfortunately, okay, how much can I get 0.96

00:59:43.860 from this guy when I pull the ripcord on our marriage and send him plummeting earthward to

00:59:49.340 the uh the finely polished uh floors of the family court and go splat how much can i get out of this

00:59:54.320 uh but men are not looking like that you know like i know a guy who married a woman just because 0.91

00:59:58.780 she had huge boobs you know and and he was shocked right when she wound up she thought her vajayjay 0.93

01:00:07.660 was so good that everybody should have some and he was surprised it's like it's like dude it's like 0.98

01:00:14.580 really hot woman blinds a man yeah sometimes sometimes i'm like do you not notice she's a 1.00

01:00:23.460 terrible person and and you know but but the reason some really good looking women wind up 1.00

01:00:28.900 being such awful human beings is because no one ever tells them to go go kick rocks right you

01:00:35.000 know and and um you know and and if guys would stop putting up with bad behavior more uh you know

01:00:43.340 these these behavior patterns wouldn't just get like okay women who are really violent when they 1.00

01:00:48.420 get older this is a that's a that's a woman that as a young girl and a young lady and teenager or 0.99

01:00:53.620 whatever else she was never stopped and checked and and so you know you see some of these videos

01:00:58.980 where they're just doing awful things um and it's like you know no guy ever just punched him

01:01:03.900 and but if you do punch him then all then you're the bad guy you know she hits you uh you just got 0.77

01:01:09.100 to take it but if you hit her back now you're you're an evil doer and i hate to say it but at 0.99

01:01:14.560 the early ages somebody needs to punch him punch him in the face you know as men we grow up 0.99

01:01:19.300 understanding that if i if i mess with a bigger stronger opponent odds are i'm going to get 0.96

01:01:26.740 flattened so you don't mess with a bigger stronger opponent women never really most don't learn that 1.00

01:01:32.360 lesson of from an early age on the opposite you know guys are told not to hit them back and women 0.99

01:01:38.540 know that guys most guys aren't going to hit them back so they get emboldened and um and and you

01:01:44.000 know so you know i remember talking to me well you know what would you say to guys i said you

01:01:48.680 know what dude i said technically you you're supposed to be able to defend yourself however

01:01:54.180 if you defend yourself against a woman who's attacking you odds are you're going to go to jail

01:01:58.400 that's the truth and so the best thing you can do as a guy is get the hell out of there

01:02:03.400 Don't stay in that relationship.

01:02:04.860 You got to get out of it.

01:02:05.600 I know guys now that are frightened of their wives, not because physically they can't overcome them.

01:02:13.720 They can overcome them.

01:02:15.040 He's got to sleep, though.

01:02:16.180 He doesn't know what he'll do.

01:02:17.620 But not just that.

01:02:18.220 If he does do something, all she has to do is call the police and say he did this.

01:02:24.080 His life is over.

01:02:25.560 Right.

01:02:26.020 You know, so that's what they're really frightened of.

01:02:28.060 You know what I mean?

01:02:28.480 And I see a lot of it.

01:02:30.360 and um you know i remember i was out one day and i was shadowing uh i was shadowing somebody

01:02:38.380 and you know some woman started getting really belligerent with me and i just told her i said 0.97

01:02:43.560 look if you think i'm one of these dudes that won't punch you in the face in front of everybody

01:02:46.560 i said go ahead try me see what happens try see what happens i said i said i'm confident that i 0.92

01:02:51.780 could beat you up and your friends so go right ahead uh naturally i'm not going to go around 0.71

01:02:55.600 punching women in the face but i just wanted her out of i just wanted her out of my out of my space 1.00

01:02:59.480 But some women can get so, I'm not saying all, I'm talking about just a certain percentage of them, can get so obnoxious because they've never had that discipline instilled in them. 1.00

01:03:12.300 You know, their dads will protect them.

01:03:13.780 Their brothers will protect them.

01:03:15.200 That's replaced by police and the courts and everything else.

01:03:18.460 And so they feel like they're untouchable until they run into that guy who doesn't care about that.

01:03:24.820 And that's the guy they usually wind up sleeping with.

01:03:27.120 and dating for years talking about what a horrible abusive abusive person he was and

01:03:32.280 they dated for 10 years what percent of women under 30 do you think have actually let's say

01:03:39.060 what percent of women between 18 to 25 right now do you think have done some sort of sex work 0.71

01:03:45.300 um i'd say probably 50 really that high yeah yeah and so look there's and we talked about this

01:03:51.940 and how attractive what's like the minimum floor because i mean half of them are going to be

01:03:57.000 fat can they still uh you know here's the thing there are there is a market for obese women okay 1.00

01:04:03.260 there are some guys who like obese women um you know i would say the the floor would probably be 1.00

01:04:10.380 a five but when they put on makeup they're going to be a six maybe a seven six and a half and so

01:04:15.120 especially young the makeup looks like yeah exactly looks magical yeah at that stage you

01:04:20.560 know but uh there's there's all types but you know there's there's different types of sex work 1.00

01:04:24.840 you know just my own categories i've got two main categories hard sex work and soft sex work

01:04:30.620 all right so soft sex work has more categories to it hard sex work is they're on the streets

01:04:35.920 doing the host role on the trail the track whatever you want to call it every city every

01:04:40.120 major city has one even smaller cities have one where they walk up and down the street right the

01:04:43.560 street walkers then you've got the the women that are on the the escort sites um you know similar to 1.00

01:04:50.540 the old back page and the funny thing is back page wasn't even a major player when it came to

01:04:56.140 that sort of that sort of work the sex work you know they're they're actually minor but everybody

01:05:01.540 heard about them there's so many more there's dozens of them snapchat nowadays uh snapchat

01:05:07.940 is a big way they market um instagram is more on the soft side and so the soft soft um sex work

01:05:16.860 goes in different categories you've got the um from instagram you know the ig um you know i

01:05:23.500 showed you that screenshot that investigation young lady sent me her price list on over each 0.99

01:05:29.360 over ig instant message then you've got um your sugar baby sites sugar babies are are sex workers 1.00

01:05:37.380 they are sex workers but they've got plausible deniability because somehow it's legal so you got 0.98

01:05:42.940 sex work but it's a subscription you pay a monthly a weekly fee for a certain amount of visits

01:05:48.580 and supposedly these visits are only for dinner and companionship we play frisbee and go play

01:05:53.880 golf and yeah okay whatever that's that's that's nonsense uh it's it's it's bs and then you got

01:06:00.920 the cuddle sites so people will pay people to cuddle with them they'll pay a professional

01:06:06.560 cuddler to lay down with them in bed on the couch and cuddle and do you see a difference in

01:06:12.100 socioeconomic class not anymore uh used to be it was mostly driven by uh poverty uh but you know

01:06:20.740 as you've seen from some of the some of my series on she's not doing it for the money there are

01:06:24.320 young women coming from very wealthy backgrounds phillips had a good background you know what that 1.00

01:06:28.940 is yeah she came from a wealthy she's mrs 101 yeah yeah she had a wealthy you know she was on 1.00

01:06:35.100 my show oh really before she did it yeah i didn't know that yeah and the crazy thing is she was

01:06:40.600 actually more pleasant than a lot of the like i what i like about her she owns it she's like yeah 0.98

01:06:46.220 i'm not she doesn't people try to shame her behavior and she's like no i just like having

01:06:51.200 sex yeah she's honest you know you know you see some guys on there and they're like oh she's a

01:06:56.980 victim it's like no she doesn't claim victimhood so why are you claiming it for her i know and 0.61

01:07:03.260 then a more soft um sex work is that that older dude that helps her pay a bill every now and then 0.90

01:07:11.560 but she needs paid that dude's not doing it because he likes her that's the older dude um 0.98

01:07:16.460 that coach greg had that thing i got money that's the guy who if she needs if she can't make her car 1.00

01:07:22.400 note you know um i know a guy i know a guy who runs a um um he owns property and most of his

01:07:30.160 tenants are college students um and um there are several women that when they can't pay their rent 1.00

01:07:38.660 they pay a different way that's sex work you know okay if you're having sex with somebody who's 0.99

01:07:43.800 going to pay your rent or is going to pay your phone bill is going to pay your car note or your

01:07:47.720 insurance bill that's sex work you know like like pure and simple you know and so uh but people will 0.98

01:07:53.180 look at it as though it as though it isn't but it is indeed sex work so that's part of what i call

01:07:57.420 the soft sex work,

01:07:58.980 your soft sex work where they got some plausible deniability than the hard 0.79

01:08:02.720 sex work where their, 0.64

01:08:04.340 their picture is on there and they're just,

01:08:06.320 that's who they are.

01:08:07.220 That's what they are.

01:08:08.060 And that's gotta be more difficult to track,

01:08:10.720 right?

01:08:11.060 Like I'd imagine.

01:08:12.360 Yeah.

01:08:12.920 What about like high end escorts?

01:08:15.380 Are they?

01:08:16.180 High end.

01:08:16.860 What do you mean?

01:08:17.560 Where they come from?

01:08:18.800 No,

01:08:19.140 I meant,

01:08:19.420 are they more difficult to track?

01:08:22.000 No,

01:08:22.360 no,

01:08:22.860 no,

01:08:23.200 no.

01:08:23.280 You just have to know the right people.

01:08:24.940 Okay.

01:08:25.480 I,

01:08:25.900 I got friends in low places.

01:08:27.420 And I know, I know a ton of darksiders, uh, darksiders, in case your audience doesn't

01:08:34.480 know, are guys who engage, um, sex workers for their services and they do it regularly.

01:08:39.820 Uh, they call themselves hobbyists.

01:08:41.860 Some of them, um, I know one guy, he sees a different, um, sex worker five, six times

01:08:47.020 a week.

01:08:47.460 Wow.

01:08:47.740 So he knows them all.

01:08:49.320 He, and so when I need answers about things, you know what I mean?

01:08:52.620 And there's a whole network of them all over the globe, these guys.

01:08:59.500 And if a woman is engaged in sex work, one of these guys knows about it.

01:09:04.060 Now, even on the escort side, there are escorts that are called UTRs, which is under the radar.

01:09:09.900 So she doesn't have any advertisements anywhere.

01:09:13.040 She's not showing up any databases anywhere, but she's doing regular sex work. 1.00

01:09:17.400 And she's getting paid for services on a regular.

01:09:21.240 So it's not always easy to find, but you can find it.

01:09:26.220 You just have to know the right place to look.

01:09:28.300 And so like when I'm doing research on not just necessarily people, but trends, I'll talk to some of these guys.

01:09:34.720 I'm like, okay, what's going on?

01:09:35.860 What's this?

01:09:36.380 What's that?

01:09:36.860 Or something I've never seen before.

01:09:38.780 And they'll break everything down for me.

01:09:40.900 And I even had, um, on more than one occasion where I've sent them a picture of a, of a

01:09:47.800 young lady that I knew was doing sex work, but I didn't have any, any documented proof. 1.00

01:09:52.320 And they're like, Oh yeah, I've seen her like 20 times.

01:09:54.620 I like this guy, like some of these guys, they have a ton of money.

01:09:58.040 Right.

01:09:58.540 They have a ton of, of disposable income.

01:10:00.720 And so they literally go out of their way to meet and see every new girl they can.

01:10:08.380 and so and these guys spread the word and so these women will you know they'll reach out to a guy 0.99

01:10:15.900 some of the soft sex work and say oh you know i need some help paying my bill okay and so hey look

01:10:20.880 if you need to make more money i can introduce you to some friends of mine and that's how they

01:10:24.400 wind up doing the under the radar thing and do you see because um kevin samuels would talk about

01:10:30.080 how high-end escorts often end up getting married by one of their clients yes that's really common

01:10:35.280 Yes. So high-end escorts are typically what they call low volume. So low volume, they might see

01:10:42.100 one or two guys a week, where the high volume women will see five, six, seven, eight guys a day. 0.99

01:10:49.080 Now they're making less money per person. The high-end escort, if you want to spend a weekend 1.00

01:10:55.640 with one of the really, really sought after escorts, you're paying 25 grand for a weekend,

01:11:01.380 you know just for her to hang out with you and during that weekend she's going to expect you to

01:11:05.320 take her here take her there some of them come from wealthy backgrounds not all of them though

01:11:10.000 and and so what what happens is and we talked about this again again people are gonna get

01:11:17.740 angry about this but sex workers understand the male psyche better than most modern

01:11:25.600 i'd say why married wives yeah you know wives wives understand their husbands from the standpoint

01:11:33.420 of how they can you know they can spot lies or this that they don't understand how to make their

01:11:38.180 husbands happy because we talked about it before they see it as a as degrading to want to make

01:11:45.320 their what do they call them pick me's and all the rest is nonsense yeah okay so making your

01:11:49.100 husband happy is somehow um that's somehow bad but you want your husband to make you happy but

01:11:54.420 you don't want to return the favor. And so, um, and again, some of the, and we talked about a

01:11:59.800 case I worked on recently. I want to, um, interviewing like, like 40, like a little bit

01:12:05.540 over 40 escorts on a human trafficking case I had to work on. And so I had to track them down,

01:12:11.060 contact them, actually interview them. And a bunch of them will say that they've actually

01:12:15.960 saved marriages because they're providing something that the guy's wife is not providing 0.97

01:12:20.620 anymore, which is physical, um, gratifying physical contact. You know, just doing that

01:12:28.440 one thing on a regular basis would make more marriages pleasant. But there are so many women 1.00

01:12:34.000 that have been taught to utilize sex, like a cudgel to beat their husbands over the head with 1.00

01:12:39.860 withholding it, you know? Oh, you don't, you do this, you do that. Then I'll might give you some. 0.99

01:12:45.360 okay so now you're working on a might I married this woman I might get some versus I pay 150 200

01:12:52.020 300 and I get a sure thing or some of these women with their dating requirements oh well you have to 1.00

01:12:58.020 take me here you have to pay for my babysitter you know first of all look if you're too broke

01:13:01.800 to pay for your own babysitter you shouldn't be going on dates um pay for your own babysitter

01:13:06.180 sorry yeah I'm sorry you know you're not not really sorry just you know just stop making 0.77

01:13:11.000 demands like that because they're ridiculous oh I want to be taken to this restaurant you have to

01:13:14.900 pay at least five hundred dollars okay so i'm gonna pay a babysitter how much is a babysitter

01:13:18.840 like 200 bucks a night or something like that maybe i don't have kids i don't know i yeah i

01:13:22.400 don't i don't even know what it would be but but let's say 200 bucks a night right then you you

01:13:26.640 spend say four or five hundred dollars on a nice dinner somewhere right that's a decent dinner

01:13:31.720 somewhere with a nice restaurant um and so you're looking at six seven hundred dollars for a maybe

01:13:38.320 versus $150 for exactly what I want.

01:13:43.260 This is one of the things that's driving,

01:13:45.820 there's more and more,

01:13:46.800 I'm seeing more and more women engage in sex work 1.00

01:13:48.820 than ever before.

01:13:50.400 Do you think it's also they get access

01:13:52.440 to higher value guys that they wouldn't get access to,

01:13:56.340 especially like the high-end escorting?

01:13:58.680 Because I can imagine like the guy,

01:14:01.040 like a 20-year-old is going to get like a better,

01:14:05.280 get access to a better guy escorting

01:14:07.660 that you're going to find like on a college campus or, you know, in terms of like value

01:14:11.700 in society, whatever.

01:14:13.540 Well, to be a high end escort, number one, you've got to be in the upper echelons of

01:14:17.680 looks.

01:14:18.900 So, but also to your body has to be in, in really good shape.

01:14:23.380 So you, you have to have much more discipline in general, right?

01:14:28.980 Because these guys that, um, I know guys that use really expensive escorts and like these

01:14:34.900 women are nines and tens you know like like they're they're knockouts in every facet man you 1.00

01:14:41.400 know i mean and and again i'm not talking about women who look good in makeup um the real beauty 0.79

01:14:46.560 comes from bone structure and so these women are born at the at the upper end of things then when 1.00

01:14:52.000 they put on makeup they're out of this world and so these are the women that are getting the the 1.00

01:14:56.680 really discerning guys now having said that there is a new breed of of recently or newly wealthy

01:15:04.380 guys that don't understand their value yeah the tech bros and i've actually done some work for

01:15:09.040 some of the tech bros yeah and like the crypto guys yeah these crypto guys are big targets they're

01:15:14.720 huge targets yeah even streamers too like young i mean i see that a lot in my industry that's i

01:15:21.100 was telling you that um the the one girl the amareth um her husband came on my show the other

01:15:27.520 day and i was i was telling her like not her directly but i knew she was watching so i was

01:15:32.260 like, if this doesn't work out, streamers are your future. Cause those are the only ones that

01:15:36.800 are going to date you. They'll do it. They will. I don't know for how long, but they'll do it for

01:15:41.440 a bit. Yeah. And, and, and your high value, high value targets, um, high value male men are high

01:15:47.660 value targets. And once you get to that higher level of wealth and the upper echelons of income,

01:15:52.300 um, here's what happens. You're no longer the target of the normie chicks, right? Now you've 0.74

01:15:59.020 got the super sophisticated really dedicated really smart really slick predatory women who 1.00

01:16:08.520 who have an innate or even learned understanding of the male psyche and they understand how to play

01:16:16.080 their cards just right and so those are the ones that that you know guys really got to be careful

01:16:22.280 of because they understand the dynamics and the science of attachment they understand

01:16:28.040 um what do they do like what's their well you know what's their playbook typically

01:16:32.460 here's what i would say to guys and this is what there's this is their playbook they are so good

01:16:37.460 at what they do you'll think you got game and you rolled up on her and you were so slick and so smooth 0.86

01:16:45.960 and so just you were just on top of things right you just think you're the oh man i'm the man 0.99

01:16:52.520 i just walked up and macked on this shit you know what hoes are so good at that i know exactly she 1.00

01:16:59.080 drew you into a trap yeah she pulled you into a trap she made the first move but made him think 0.99

01:17:05.560 it made you think it was your idea yeah yeah and so like i'm a hunter and so some guys do what they

01:17:11.060 call like the bait hunt and so the bait hunt is you put some you know animals food source somewhere

01:17:16.540 and then you wait till it shows up and you shoot it um i don't really call that hunting yeah that's

01:17:20.720 killing but whatever i actually do what they call spot and stalk i'm actually on the ground

01:17:24.600 walking i'm not in the tree stand but women understand what you want they understand how 1.00

01:17:30.580 to market and maximize everything they have because they know that men are visual first and 0.78

01:17:36.640 foremost we're visual creatures you know this is why the the the female um beauty products 1.00

01:17:43.740 clothing they eclipse those of men like a factor of 10 maybe more they're like like there's way

01:17:50.260 more money put into that. Why? The better a woman looks, the more chances she has in landing a guy 1.00

01:17:58.520 that she might want, right? And so, but these women are already on the higher end of the spectrum, 1.00

01:18:03.400 but they also understand that they've got competition from women that are just as 0.88

01:18:07.720 attractive as they are and just as smart as they are and just as dedicated to getting what they

01:18:12.080 want. And so they have competition. And so they're fighting the competition, but they're going to

01:18:16.480 pull you into thinking that it was your idea it wasn't your idea you're not that slick dude i'm

01:18:22.100 sorry uh it wasn't your idea um you tried but but she wanted you to win you know i mean yeah and

01:18:30.080 you're only going to get a partial victory these chicks if if now if they're escorts then you'll 1.00

01:18:35.640 you know even then the high-end escorts don't just give it up if you just flash them okay hey here's

01:18:40.500 10 grand meet me at whatever even then they're gonna make you work for it the high-end ones

01:18:45.460 And why? Because they understand that the more you want to be with them, the more they can charge you.

01:18:53.080 And so that the science of desire. Right.

01:18:55.980 And so if I'm we talk about this before, I'm walking around with a full nut sack.

01:19:00.920 I'm already compromised. I'm already somewhat compromised.

01:19:04.920 Yeah. And so my brain isn't working the way it should.

01:19:07.900 So every set of pretty feet, long legs, shapely backsides, perky boobs, pouty lips, pretty faces, nice hair, all of those. 0.96

01:19:16.700 Now I'm going to be paying more attention to those.

01:19:19.260 And as their beauty goes up and these high end, I actually know a couple of women that are actually on the upper ends of the escort business, I guess you could say. 1.00

01:19:30.220 And I think I told you about one of them.

01:19:32.160 She was, you know, she was a Disney girl.

01:19:35.360 She was a Mouseketeer. 0.96

01:19:36.160 uh and when i say good looking holy smokes like smoke show dude it's it's like like literally man

01:19:44.120 like like i've actually had to meet her places and and dudes are constantly swooping in and

01:19:51.360 circling and like like we have no there's no romance between us at all um she's she's been

01:19:57.000 um she's been a witness for me on a couple of different cases a few different cases

01:20:00.540 and she just she's got she knows she's got so much power over guys and and she understands how

01:20:11.320 to use that and the best way to use it is not use it do you know what people think i'm harsh

01:20:16.580 in my ratings one to ten but i don't think most men have seen nines or tens if they don't live

01:20:22.300 in la miami because if there is a nine or ten in podunk nowhere she will be in la miami vegas 0.84

01:20:30.140 or New York she'll be there soon a good place to find nines and tens right when I was uh when I was

01:20:36.820 working as a civilian military contractor you know sometimes I'd go back because I'd work three

01:20:42.280 three months on one month off six months on one month off that sort of thing they gave you a lot

01:20:47.080 of R&R because there was just so much stress and so much unfortunately violence that you needed

01:20:52.720 time off right otherwise guys would start going crazy and so I went on recommendation of a buddy

01:20:58.120 of mine uh persian dude actually said it said you know my nickname is chuck he said chuck my friend

01:21:03.820 you must go to czech republic okay okay so i was like okay sure i rented a villa uh a car rental

01:21:11.420 car came with it was a big place bigger place than i needed but i had a whole bunch of cash

01:21:15.480 and you know you're working in violent areas you spend you spend a lot of money uh just because

01:21:21.740 you don't know if you know you don't know your next deployment or your next job is going to be

01:21:25.400 the last right so i never saw like okay a 10 here would be a six or a seven over there

01:21:35.960 and i'm not even exaggerating there there's some of the and again everything's subjective

01:21:40.820 right but there's some of the most beautiful women on the face of the earth we're in the 1.00

01:21:44.420 czech republic um czech republic is there money there um some i found at least in america it's

01:21:52.840 like wherever the money is the beauty follows that's what they're gonna be yeah yeah yeah like

01:21:56.260 la you know i lived in la for a while for a very long time some beautiful women in la like stunning 1.00

01:22:02.520 but but the czech republic they were all natural beauties right you know like like um and i did not

01:22:09.760 meet an obese woman the whole time i was in czech republic not saying anything wrong with being 1.00

01:22:15.080 obese if that's you know some guys like big women i like slim athletically built women i don't like 1.00

01:22:19.820 big women that I just never have. Uh, but I'd never met one that was obese or what they call 1.00

01:22:26.260 thick, you know, there was no, there were, there were no thick women there and they were just 1.00

01:22:30.800 absolutely beautiful. So I went back there like five times. Do you think that plastic surgery

01:22:36.280 works? Um, I think for the short term it might work, but I think, you know, it all depends on

01:22:43.080 what you like. I like natural beauty. Um, I don't like, and again, I lived in LA for us. I saw

01:22:48.780 a lot of plastic surgery and so I could I can pick it out pretty easily um and and that's just

01:22:54.560 not my thing uh I I me personally and I think a lot of guys would say is I like women that look 0.72

01:22:59.880 good with minimal makeup hair pulled back in a sundress and flats if you can look great in that

01:23:05.400 guess what we're good to go you know but um you know and again men are so visual but guys get so

01:23:12.080 caught up in the way things look. They can't see past the very surface. So plastic surgery does

01:23:20.520 work on some guys, you know, but as women get older, I got a neighbor married to a wealthy guy. 0.98

01:23:27.660 She had a bunch of work done when she was younger. She's 50 now. It looks horrifying. Everything else

01:23:35.120 is sagging, but her boobs look like two parking cones. You know what I mean? Yeah. Her lips are 1.00

01:23:40.220 just oh god the lips are the worst you know another one of my neighbors she stays in great shape 1.00

01:23:46.480 great body very slim flat she had some parking cones and she had her lips done it looked like 1.00

01:23:54.160 somebody punched her in the mouth uh it just doesn't look right and and don't even get me 0.97

01:24:00.340 started bbls are disgusting you know bbl is the brazilian those work i hate to say it they're 1.00

01:24:08.400 disgusting they work i've i've seen women get those and it just changes like for the short term 1.00

01:24:14.960 the short term right because they don't look real it looked like somebody stuck a lego backside on 0.99

01:24:19.560 their their butt they look kind of real now now i don't know man you know what i've seen something 0.95

01:24:25.700 that would look just like no some are so bad but i'm like that i've seen some where i'm like i would 0.97

01:24:30.880 never have guessed personally i've seen okay maybe i'm maybe i haven't seen the right ones because

01:24:35.060 the ones i've seen they literally look like somebody took giant chewed up pieces of bubble

01:24:40.020 gum and stuck it in their backsides they're only fifteen hundred dollars now i'm not nuts

01:24:45.460 i i know i got an ad in brazil no no no it was in um it was an ad for like a surgeon in dallas

01:24:54.380 doesn't for fifteen hundred bucks see i'm like i think people are a lot more plastic than people

01:24:59.940 like yeah i think it's gonna be bad well you know you got guys getting plastic surgery yeah i know

01:25:04.320 fake uh abs oh god you know like i have a couple friends that are bodybuilders and they they would

01:25:10.780 send me pictures of guys that had the fake ab implants like that doesn't look anywhere near

01:25:15.100 real or fake pecs they would just just go to let's go to the gym right go to the gym and lift man

01:25:20.800 okay there are some genetic limits like like how somebody looks when they're working out

01:25:26.480 has a lot to do with their genetic makeup and so um you know i i know a guy he's actually he

01:25:33.300 actually does steroids he looks like it looks like crap but he looks better than he did before

01:25:38.520 you know you know what i mean um oh steroids definitely work yeah they do um i'm not saying

01:25:45.720 there aren't side effects but yeah and and you got to be you got to be really careful it's like

01:25:49.700 guys that get on if the guy guy gets on trt i knew a dude that took um you know and the problem

01:25:55.360 with steroids in this country is most of the steroids people are using and again i got buddies

01:26:00.240 that are that are bodybuilders and most of them are made in somebody's bathtub no way no seriously

01:26:06.500 and so that's why it's like okay if you look at there's a place called oxygen gym in um in i think

01:26:14.360 it's in is it in dubai no kuwait kuwait oxygen gym and so guys bodybuilders would go to oxygen

01:26:22.000 gym and just get freaking monstrous you know why for the first time in their career no they're 0.84

01:26:26.940 getting pure pharmaceutical grade steroids. You can't really get those here. Uh, what they do is

01:26:32.940 guys will buy precursor chemicals, uh, from China and then mix them in their bathtubs. And so

01:26:38.600 there's always, you know, cross contamination and all the rest of this stuff. And so guys don't

01:26:42.300 know what they're injecting. And I've heard some horror stories from guys. Um, you know, my thing

01:26:47.000 is, you know, I, like, I'm not a bodybuilder. I just stayed, I stayed natural my whole life. I

01:26:52.360 I had no interest in ever doing that just because I've seen too many guys, you know, get really bad side effects, like really bad acne.

01:27:01.380 And then there's making your junk shrink.

01:27:04.940 Yeah. 0.99

01:27:05.260 Like, that alone should be a deterrent.

01:27:09.260 But guys want to go down that road.

01:27:11.400 Like, I got one buddy.

01:27:12.240 He was Mr. Universe years ago.

01:27:15.660 And to maintain that form, they've got to keep juicing.

01:27:21.480 He owns a gym, and so he's got to keep that up, and ultimately that's bad for your health.

01:27:27.780 When you're younger, that's one thing.

01:27:29.220 It puts so much stress on your internal organs, your heart.

01:27:32.160 So many things can go wrong, you know, but back to women with the plastic surgery. 1.00

01:27:37.740 Look, some guys don't mind it.

01:27:40.020 I guess the BBLs have gotten better.

01:27:42.000 I've seen some really bad ones.

01:27:43.580 Oh, there are some bad ones, yeah.

01:27:45.700 God, man.

01:27:46.360 I saw one at the DMV.

01:27:47.780 Literally, it's so out of place.

01:27:50.120 like, okay. I'll just, I'll say these fat women and I'm like, I can't argue that doesn't look 1.00

01:27:54.020 better than before in the gut. I don't know, man. Well, look. I'm like, they're not going to go to 0.93

01:27:59.420 the gym anyway, right? Probably not. Probably not. Come on. And guys aren't going to really be able

01:28:04.960 to tell, I guess, I guess if that's really good, they can't tell the difference. I don't know. I

01:28:08.980 reacted to a, can you tell who had plastic surgery thing? And I was just surprised at how many I got

01:28:13.720 wrong. You know, I, here's the thing I don't understand, man. Like, like people who genetically

01:28:18.320 or known racially for having giant backsides getting a bbl you already got a giant butt i know 1.00

01:28:24.580 how much more do you need they get it the most you're not gonna be able to fit in your car 0.99

01:28:28.600 like if you had a compact car you're screwed i know you know i mean like you can't fit in a prius

01:28:33.080 with that backside yeah um or you know a convertible unless it's a cadillac or something

01:28:37.620 i i just don't get um and again everything is subjective i just like i prefer natural i prefer

01:28:43.600 natural women yeah that look good with minimal do you find that the ones with a lot of plastic 1.00

01:28:48.300 surgery have like other issues too yeah yeah look most women are incredibly insecure most even the 1.00

01:28:55.680 ones that seem really confident are really really insecure and that's you know and again that

01:29:01.560 we're getting older every year it just gets worse yeah and and that insecurity actually makes them

01:29:06.480 vulnerable yeah yeah it does because they're willing to do things to um to make someone happy

01:29:13.520 or gain someone's or gain validation

01:29:16.500 and how far are they willing to go for that validation.

01:29:19.220 Some are willing to go just a little bit.

01:29:20.660 Some are willing to go really, really far.

01:29:22.760 And so that's a vulnerability.

01:29:24.240 That's another flag.

01:29:25.900 If you've got a woman that's super, super insecure, 1.00

01:29:28.640 she's, unless she can find some way 0.85

01:29:30.400 to get some confidence in her looks,

01:29:32.480 and those insecurities come from childhood.

01:29:35.360 Like I know a woman now, she's beautiful,

01:29:38.400 but her sister, she's about an eight. 1.00

01:29:40.740 Her sister's a 10. 0.61

01:29:41.660 and she's insecure because she grew up because her sister was a pretty one and she was called 0.96

01:29:47.500 the smart one like like there she's she's she's she's outstanding and i'm sitting there like like

01:29:53.460 what do you what are you insecure about well okay because it came from from early early childhood

01:29:58.280 so she has this um you know really deeply ingrained insecurity that just that might never go away

01:30:04.540 you know are there any professions you recommend for women like like when men are selecting women

01:30:11.600 are there any that had more green flags or i mean a lot of guys will say like from the trads will

01:30:18.420 say well she shouldn't have a job i'm like okay well she's got she's probably doing something

01:30:22.500 is she homeless yeah i was just wondering if there's like ones where like men look here's the

01:30:29.820 thing um it it if she's going to be a 304 she's going to be a 304 and and there's not a whole

01:30:39.160 bunch. There's nothing you can do about that. Um, there are professions that are more prone to

01:30:44.440 three or four activity nurses. Oh yeah. It goes down in the hospital, man. It goes down at the

01:30:51.660 hospital. It goes down, uh, surgeons, doctors, um, you know, maybe not, maybe not your spouse,

01:30:58.380 but a lot of her other coworkers are. Um, I, I know a couple of nurses, I know an oncology nurse

01:31:04.200 and she'll, she'll just tell me stories. Like she'll accidentally walk in, like there's certain

01:31:08.660 rooms no way that they'll put up to like a how do they not have lawsuits for that nobody knows

01:31:15.860 the husbands don't know yeah but don't the women always come out later and not really because most

01:31:20.940 of them are married oh what are they gonna say you know like so it's that mutually assured

01:31:25.360 destruction thing right that's why some married people like messing around with the married 1.00

01:31:28.520 people because you know they got just just as much to lose as they do and so um i would say

01:31:34.260 if you're going to look for a green flag, um, avoid being unequally yoked. Now, not necessarily

01:31:41.360 from education. Education doesn't mean squat, man. I know everybody look, okay. I've got a

01:31:46.400 bachelor's degree. It's in political science. I'm a private investigator. Does that have anything

01:31:51.880 to do with it whatsoever? It's a piece of paper. Um, I don't hang it up anywhere because I don't

01:31:59.300 think it means anything. Um, I'm not saying anybody else's, uh, if you're in STEM, different

01:32:03.880 story, right? Because you need those. But the, the, the issue guys are, are the mistake they're

01:32:10.660 making is they're letting women paint themselves as something that they're not. So what women will 1.00

01:32:18.220 do is they'll find a way to get into the space of men they want to attract. Right. Okay. So one of 0.63

01:32:24.880 my neighbors, the one who just got a bunch of work done, she wants, she's actually said she

01:32:28.580 wants a wealthy, she wants to marry a wealthy man. Right. Okay. She got some boobs. She got 1.00

01:32:33.460 some lips. Maybe that helps. Maybe it doesn't. Here's what she started doing. She started taking

01:32:37.440 golf lessons. Why? She wants to be able to participate in things where men are. Watch out 1.00

01:32:44.340 for women that are making themselves available in your space that's incongruent with where they 1.00

01:32:49.000 were before. So be really, really careful of what I call the chameleon. Watch out for the chameleon.

01:32:54.300 Why? Because yeah, maybe she wants you, but why does she want you? And maybe you want her because 0.98

01:32:59.400 you think what you see is a genuine article what she really is not necessarily and so but again

01:33:06.560 women are really really good at that especially if they're on the upper ends of looks and guys 1.00

01:33:11.360 will ignore a whole bunch of stuff for like you said for hot women guys will ignore a ton of stuff 1.00

01:33:16.960 a ton of red flags look i i knew a guy years ago that brought a woman home and beautiful and i was

01:33:24.100 He's like, dude, where'd you meet her?

01:33:25.240 She moved in with him.

01:33:26.320 Never saw him with her before.

01:33:28.380 And he owned a tow truck company, right?

01:33:31.340 And so the guy was making money.

01:33:32.620 The guy was making really good money.

01:33:33.880 He had a bunch of trucks.

01:33:35.300 He's doing well.

01:33:36.400 And he was like, I met her at the gas station.

01:33:38.360 I said, what, like you guys were pumping gas?

01:33:39.500 No, no, she was homeless at the gas station.

01:33:42.200 She needed a place to stay.

01:33:43.260 Oh, my God.

01:33:43.780 And I'm like, and so that should give you, like, guys will move in.

01:33:47.900 Look, guys will let a chick who's affiliated with Al-Qaeda move with them if they're hot. 1.00

01:33:54.100 I know, they always say I can fix her.

01:33:56.920 But, you know, but they'll roll the dice on a hot chick. 1.00

01:34:00.100 Yeah. 0.61

01:34:00.580 And so, like, if you're ugly, especially if you're a guy, like, you ever notice there's really no beautiful homeless people? 0.58

01:34:07.660 Somebody will give you a place to stay. 0.94

01:34:09.340 Yeah. 1.00

01:34:09.740 You can be nuts. 0.99

01:34:11.400 And so he let her move in. 0.99

01:34:13.680 She was a, she had a meth habit.

01:34:17.740 Her parents had thrown her out.

01:34:19.480 20 years old.

01:34:20.240 She was living with them.

01:34:20.880 She was, you know, like most drug addicts, they were stealing. 1.00

01:34:23.280 understand he met her talked to her for a little while then invited her to get something to eat

01:34:27.260 got something to eat and said well you need a place to stay and she moved in with him and i was

01:34:31.240 like dude so you let a meth head move in with you and live in your house because she was hot 1.00

01:34:37.160 now was she hot even filthy she was attractive and so really beautiful really beautiful and 22 0.60

01:34:44.920 you could be like a five at 20 or seven in the real world but if you're really beautiful like

01:34:51.300 you can be filthy and have on rags and you're going to look beautiful but you're not going to

01:34:54.840 get that far down because someone's going to give you a place to stay yeah is that right am i am i

01:34:59.920 wrong no you're totally right and this guy did this and i'm sitting like like are you serious

01:35:04.360 man he's like he's like yeah so you're saying but men should watch out for the women that pick up 1.00

01:35:09.500 like a hobby or something just to be with them the chameleons the chameleons yeah but it's not

01:35:14.100 something they actually want to do not really and so that that might be a temporary um endeavor

01:35:19.940 just to get their foot in the door right you know i mean and so you always have to guys have to be

01:35:25.760 realistic okay so if i'm a guy and i'm a three but i got a ton of money and some chick who's a seven 1.00

01:35:34.740 nines and tens aren't going out with a three even if he's a billionaire they're just not going to do

01:35:38.340 it they're just not going to do it because they know they can find a billionaire who's better

01:35:41.500 a billionaire who's better looking than that three they're just not going yeah um and so you have to

01:35:48.260 be honest with yourself what does this chick want for me or clearly she wants money but she won't 1.00

01:35:52.880 tell you she wants money but you have to have it in the back of your head and if you're willing to

01:35:56.340 do that and you understand what you're signing up for that's fine just just be able to put yourself

01:36:01.840 in a position to make an informed decision stop buying the cover story you know there's always a

01:36:06.860 story behind what most women most women will put their best foot forward and so that's why it's 1.00

01:36:12.520 like when guys meet women that are mean and nasty when they first meet them like bro it's only going 1.00

01:36:17.180 to go downhill from there it's only gonna get worse it's only it's gonna get much much worse

01:36:20.920 if that's her best foot so have you found like more success with guys that meet at work on the

01:36:26.960 apps like where it is like the fuse I'm I'm sure in your profession you're a complete cynic but I'm

01:36:32.900 trying to maybe have put a little hope yeah I am I'm a cynic but I'm like you know maybe today

01:36:39.700 I'm feeling hopeful so yeah I don't I don't believe in hope but here's what I will say

01:36:45.120 um you're wasting your time on dating apps you might get dates you're not going to find a chick

01:36:50.460 that you actually want to because dating apps aren't set up for that they're set up so that

01:36:55.380 you keep coming back and if you're successful then they go out of business very rapidly

01:36:58.980 so the algorithms are not set up for you to actually meet somebody that you're actually

01:37:03.340 going to be long-term committed with now if you're just looking for women to smash 1.00

01:37:07.360 smash away dating app is a place to go um instagram is a new dating app as well too

01:37:13.660 you know um and so what i've told guys and guys that i've you know they've kind of helped try to

01:37:20.980 guide some of these some of these some clients wind up being friends uh because you know some

01:37:25.460 of these guys like especially some of the tech bros the finance bros these guys are they work

01:37:30.780 so much a lot of them they don't have the time well you know before they became wealthy they

01:37:36.060 were nerds yeah they were nerds and like elon musk ashley st claire yeah they they should have

01:37:43.040 had you on staff. Yeah. They, they know nothing about women. Like literally they're, they're

01:37:47.740 like a fish out of water, man. I feel bad for some of these guys. Cause like some of

01:37:50.820 these guys have gotten played so badly, man. And, and so, um, in the wild is the best way

01:37:58.000 to meet women in the wild, meaning natural life, not a bar or club out in the wild. If

01:38:04.060 you can meet a woman out in the wild and you don't have to be okay. Some of the pickup

01:38:07.780 stuff does help. You know what I mean? But you don't have to be a pickup artist to meet

01:38:10.840 a woman you know i'm saying uh if you're a pickup artist you can meet more women you know i mean 0.97

01:38:15.380 like some of the pua guys are actually really good some of them are fugazi you know some of 0.83

01:38:20.640 them are some of them are yeah i didn't mean to use fugazi as that guy's thing the no fugazi thing

01:38:25.560 but some of them are fake fugazi means fake with italian people but um out in the wild is a really

01:38:32.700 good way and be careful of referrals though okay if your buddy who's not married refers you to a

01:38:40.820 woman she's probably a good good chick to me all right if your married friend's wife 1.00

01:38:47.260 recommends a chick to you run for the 1.00

01:38:50.260 sorry that's so funny that's so true yeah run run like nobody else would take her

01:39:00.780 look most you know and and again you know people get angry but most women give horrible relationship 1.00

01:39:07.680 advice yeah they don't look I've had so many so many of my friends wives try to set me up with 1.00

01:39:12.080 women and and one of them I actually did a speaking engagement not too long ago um and

01:39:19.040 you know guy hired me and paid me to talk to his his his executive team and his wife was like hey 1.00

01:39:25.300 I want you to meet a friend of mine and you know she just kind of did this cold and she she brings

01:39:30.080 the woman has her back turned she brings her over and she goes hey I want you to meet and I was like

01:39:35.760 And I said her name.

01:39:36.580 She was like, hey.

01:39:37.140 She gives me a hug.

01:39:37.860 She was like, how do you know each other?

01:39:39.380 I said, oh, we met.

01:39:41.400 I said, we've met before.

01:39:44.520 You know, two ships passing in the night.

01:39:47.260 And she was like, so you want to see her again?

01:39:51.220 I said, no, I've seen enough of her.

01:39:52.920 And she was like, how did you meet?

01:39:54.100 I said, I met her.

01:39:55.520 I said, I met her.

01:39:56.220 I think that one, I think I met her on Park Avenue in Werner Park, a big shopping district,

01:40:02.860 a bunch of really overpriced stores.

01:40:04.180 A friend of mine has a jewelry store down there, and there's a little cafe and a little alcove in there.

01:40:09.740 And I was in there just drinking some coffee.

01:40:11.640 She was there, and I looked at her.

01:40:13.620 She looked over at me.

01:40:14.960 I just literally gave her the nod, and she just came over and sat with me.

01:40:20.980 And so we talked for a while, then wound up.

01:40:24.260 We didn't even date.

01:40:25.340 She just came over to my place. 0.99

01:40:29.700 Are there any questions from the chat?

01:40:31.860 Any supers or no?

01:40:32.740 Super chat.

01:40:33.520 Okay.

01:40:34.080 Could you put them on the screen if you don't mind?

01:40:36.460 See if they have any.

01:40:37.940 This is Shaw.

01:40:39.080 So his private eye, Russ stories are the best.

01:40:42.640 711, scroll down.

01:40:45.560 Oh, there we go.

01:40:46.360 Please ask Russ to have a conversation with Andrew Wilson.

01:40:49.780 Andrew needs to hear the truth.

01:40:53.120 Are you familiar?

01:40:54.360 That would be interesting.

01:40:55.480 Yeah.

01:40:56.660 He's a smart guy.

01:40:57.680 Yeah, he is.

01:40:58.080 He's a very smart guy.

01:40:58.900 I'll recommend him.

01:41:00.580 Is that just those two?

01:41:01.880 Yeah.

01:41:02.100 Okay, cool.

01:41:02.600 um also guys if you want more information on how to dig deeper into a woman's past and we filmed a

01:41:08.680 bunch of content before this for um in the school group that shaw was talking around not shaw shiv

01:41:15.340 was talking about so if you guys are interested the link to that is in the description it's going

01:41:19.960 to be really cool we're going to have events at some point too where i can meet up with everyone

01:41:23.440 so sign up if you got time um thanks so much for coming thank you for having me thank you for the

01:41:29.960 hospitality. Thanks for having me out there. It's, um, um, you're, you're one of my favorites,

01:41:34.760 man. You are fearless. And, uh, I think you've got, um, a lot of, uh, really exciting things

01:41:40.840 going on in the future and I'm looking forward to watching you grow and succeed. Yeah. And you

01:41:46.140 got to take over YouTube. I can't wait for you to like really dive headfirst into your channel.

01:41:51.820 I think, well, I'm, I'm actually got some plans in the works of, um, starting to do,

01:41:56.640 I told you I bought a microphone, so people keep complaining about the audio qualities.

01:42:01.880 Okay, all right, guys, I put my money where my mouth is.

01:42:03.900 I actually bought a mic, and I've actually got plans of doing some stories and putting

01:42:09.020 them on video.

01:42:09.920 Awesome.

01:42:10.360 So that'll be coming up soon as well, too.

01:42:12.700 Well, we're going to link your channel in the description, and your Twitter as well,

01:42:18.540 so guys, check that out.

01:42:19.700 Make sure you follow him and subscribe.

01:42:21.780 Thanks so much for coming.

01:42:22.900 I've had so much fun.

01:42:24.100 I love listening to your stories.

01:42:25.680 Thank you for having me, bro.

01:42:27.280 But we got to go, guys.

01:42:28.700 I got to bring him back to the airport.

01:42:30.340 He's got to go home.

01:42:31.180 So like the video, you guys.

01:42:33.120 Subscribe to the channel.

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Pearl - May 16, 2025

Private Eye Russ Joins In Studio to Reveal women's Dark Secrets ｜ The Sitdown

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