Pearl - May 23, 2026


Reacting to Red Pill Crowder He's Almost There. . .Almost


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12 minutes

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175.77

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2,126

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69

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28

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Toxicity

9

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16

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Crowder gives advice to young men on how to avoid ex-feminists. Is it a good idea to avoid them? Is it bad? And what does it really mean to be a feminist? How can a man who is not a feminist be a good man?

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00:00:00.000 All right. So let's get into Crowder. That's really what I'm here to do today is
00:00:04.260 we're going to react to Crowder telling young men how to avoid ex-feminists. So for those of you
00:00:10.800 that don't know, I became a Candace Owens hater as soon as she turned on Steven Crowder and called
00:00:17.120 him emotionally abusive because I just thought, in what world do you as a woman think you can 0.72
00:00:22.660 tell a guy what to do? And it pissed me off even more because Candace, it's been years. He's
00:00:29.320 obviously not abusive. Are you going to take it back? Are you going to apologize? And she just
00:00:33.980 will not apologize. So that to me says that she's got the ego a size of a ginormous thing and she 0.59
00:00:40.280 just can't be wrong. I have this eternal struggle where it's like I want my husband to be the
00:00:44.580 provider, make all the money, pay all the bills, do the adulting things, fix everything around the
00:00:50.340 house, take care of my car, take the trash out, make all the plans, handle our finances. So
00:00:55.260 basically do everything while i just lie around and like only do things when i feel like doing
00:00:59.420 them if someone has a conversion story it can't just be a wish list it has to be a how they are
00:01:06.000 going to prevent other people from making the same mistakes that's the accountability we get a lot of
00:01:12.680 questions from you guys and we get a lot of questions from women and a lot of questions
00:01:16.900 from men and i know there's there's feminism and then people sort of point to the red pill community
00:01:20.920 And that's kind of a weird, the manosphere where you have people like Andrew Tate, Iron
00:01:25.500 Gaines, and they share nothing in common with people like Andrew Wilson.
00:01:28.840 But I will say this, what you do see as a trend, if we, let's just eliminate the outliers. 1.00
00:01:35.020 I don't think that feminism is an outlier. 0.98
00:01:37.660 I think the extreme views or the view that you should sleep with as many women as possible,
00:01:42.020 you know, in that manosphere is an outlier. 1.00
00:01:44.380 But let's just get rid of the blue haired feminists. 1.00
00:01:46.940 Oh my God, Crowder, can we just cut the cap? 1.00
00:01:49.760 it's better than waiting till marriage and you're you're you did you tried your world for you and 1.00
00:01:55.820 it didn't work you got to humble yourself get some hoes my guy you know let's get rid of the 1.00
00:02:00.740 outliers on the on the far right manosphere as people refer to it I don't know how else to refer 1.00
00:02:05.240 to it the dynamic that we see that is consistent is young men who want to get married right this
00:02:14.720 is really only for people who want to get married and this is really only directed at people who
00:02:19.200 want to have a more traditional marriage that is hard to come by these days and a lot of men who
00:02:24.460 have been traditional their whole lives and have now worked and achieved some degree of success
00:02:28.620 we get a lot of questions regarding this they say yeah but how do i know that the women who are
00:02:35.320 closer to my age who now say that they want to be a stay-at-home wife or a mom or they want a more 0.95
00:02:41.560 traditional relationship when they live their whole life progressively in a feminist way how do
00:02:47.780 i know that they're being genuine and so a lot of they're not like it's very it's very obvious
00:02:52.580 they're not being genuine because actions speak louder than words right they're not they're lying
00:02:58.660 easy of guys aren't willing to take that risk and they're checking out because you see a trend
00:03:05.640 this is becoming increasingly common now it could just be because of social media i think you
00:03:10.780 probably would have seen women saying this from the 60s all the way up until now where they do
00:03:15.880 college glorified years of alcoholism finding themselves traveling boss babe and then they say
00:03:23.100 well actually uh now i do want a more traditional life how can a man who's taking that risk
00:03:30.680 identify if someone is being genuine and you as a woman how do you know that you're coming at it
00:03:36.580 from a genuine place well i have a litmus test for you well your mistake would be assuming a
00:03:42.060 woman's genuine about anything ever. Make her prove she's genuine. Prove it. 1.00
00:03:54.220 How can you tell? What are her actions say? You know, but first I'm going to show you a montage
00:04:03.040 of women who were at one point feminist. And I would argue most of them when you watch this 1.00
00:04:08.720 still are but saying actually i do want to be a wife now i do so women are lying to you this is 1.00
00:04:14.760 why i say blue pilled is a mindset crowder yeah lying want to be a mom i don't want to be boss 1.00
00:04:26.700 babe feminist but what i want you to do as these people have the revelation i want you to just with
00:04:32.060 this montage, count how many times you hear an ask or a demand. Let's watch. Do you want to know 1.00
00:04:39.700 one of the saddest realizations I recently had was that as a liberal woman, it is really hard
00:04:46.080 to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship
00:04:52.160 in today's day and age, who is not a conservative. Do I wish I had the ability to be at home and to
00:04:59.140 be able to take on the traditional woman's role in a home? Absolutely. Do I give off more masks? 1.00
00:05:06.220 They're lying. They don't mean it. They're saying I want to stay home for like Chad, you know.
00:05:12.880 Feeling energy? Yeah. Am I a good housekeeper? No. Have I ever been a good housekeeper? No.
00:05:19.260 I have this eternal struggle where it's like, I want my husband to be the provider,
00:05:23.160 make all the money, pay all the bills, do the adulting things, fix everything around the house,
00:05:28.360 take care of my car take the trash out make all the plans handle our finances so basically do
00:05:33.560 everything while i just lie around and like only do things when i feel like doing them a guy is
00:05:38.280 asking you like what your goals are and you're talking about how you want to continue to go back
00:05:44.440 to school and you want to do this and you want to do that they're not hearing that you want to you
00:05:48.680 know they're not hearing that you want to nurture your family i don't believe in feminism i think 0.94
00:05:53.160 that if men are willing to do more and do more, then they should make more. That's the first 0.99
00:05:58.520 argument. Everybody's like, men shouldn't make more money than women. I don't want to be a 0.95
00:06:02.480 carpenter. Get up for me. I want your seat. So women only want traditional relationships
00:06:07.520 when it benefits them. So when they're saying, oh, I want a guy that like, think about it. They 1.00
00:06:12.940 don't talk about any of the downsides of a traditional relationship, like listening to
00:06:17.440 everything he says that's kind of annoying right honey i want to get ice cream we're not eating
00:06:23.680 ice cream oh before you could just do it right there's no reason we should get rid of those 1.00
00:06:31.280 pieces of chivalry all for feminism me and all my liberal friends want to be traditional housewives
00:06:38.000 well not all of us but most of us yeah again um the traditional has to come with obedience okay
00:06:45.040 do you enjoy building legos while being interviewed i don't think i've ever done a lego set here are
00:06:51.400 a few bucks for coffee and everything bagel i'm an on-the-road trafficker and your streams give me
00:06:55.960 get me through a thousand mile all-nighter runs oh my god that makes me so happy keep up the good
00:07:02.700 work wow am i keeping this economy going am i gonna take credit for your work no no thank you
00:07:11.560 I appreciate you helping us get, I don't know, whatever you transport on time.
00:07:16.080 You can come on a Lego show and gossip and no one will hear it.
00:07:20.620 What's the Lego show?
00:07:23.400 Oh, that was my favorite super chat in a while.
00:07:27.200 Oh, but the problem is we don't like Republican men.
00:07:29.960 But like, I'm not talking about traditional gender roles because I'm not cooking.
00:07:33.340 I'm not cleaning.
00:07:34.220 I'm not doing his laundry. 0.99
00:07:35.660 But men don't care about cooking and cleaning.
00:07:38.380 They care about obedience.
00:07:39.340 some men do care about cooking and cleaning. I didn't understand this till later. Like this is
00:07:44.980 a lesson I wish someone gave me at 20. Men care about cooking and cleaning if that's what they 0.99
00:07:50.920 want. But some men like to cook. Some men eat out all the time. So I borrowed this $2 from my nan. 0.57
00:07:59.160 She rates you. Thank you. Thank you. So it's more just asking him what he wants. It's not her
00:08:07.040 telling him what to do so again like what he's saying actually puts the woman in power for asking
00:08:13.360 what for telling him what to do instead you know obedience in a traditional relationship is going
00:08:20.660 to be her asking him what he wants you know so he doesn't get it yet but he's getting close i also
00:08:27.480 don't like to be told what to do i can make my own decisions and i like making my own money
00:08:31.260 ask can somebody help so i don't really know what to do because i don't want to compromise my morals
00:08:36.420 values just to find a man but am i asking to have my cake and eat it too i want leadership
00:08:44.020 but don't just like they want a guy with abs we barely eat or cook anyway that's true boss
00:08:51.220 me around you know like lead me lead me when i'm in the mood to be led i thought it was like a given
00:09:01.780 that hey i'm a nurse of course like i'm a nurturer and i'm gonna take care of my family 0.99
00:09:10.980 but okay number one nurses are known to be the biggest whores uh that does not mean you're a 0.94
00:09:16.260 nurturer that does not that does not nurturing again nurturing comes from men men are nurturing 0.97
00:09:24.660 nurturing to kids is listening to what the dad says that's it
00:09:29.180 if you don't do that you're a terrible mother sorry
00:09:33.180 sorry because men are going to give the kids what they want so 0.66
00:09:40.080 sorry not what they want what's good for them and mothers are going to do what's good for themselves 0.95
00:09:47.740 so 0.96
00:09:48.300 in the meantime while you know we don't have kids
00:09:54.520 is it is it not attractive that i have a career going for me or does that mean i would not prefer 1.00
00:10:04.200 uh is it not attractive that i have a career going for me men don't want lazy women a guy
00:10:14.340 like crowder isn't gonna care if you got nothing going on but like in the early stages of dating
00:10:20.220 usually men aren't going to want to take over your bills like immediately, right? So they do
00:10:28.000 want to see you're responsible as a person because so you're not a liability if you go into their
00:10:34.300 life. Men are different. Some men are different in what they want. See this guy here, this young
00:10:40.200 Chad. I'm okay with a woman who is sleepy but loyal. I don't know. I think men give way too 1.00
00:10:47.620 much grace on women being lazy. I think there's not, but you know, unless she's going to share 1.00
00:10:56.460 the money, what's the benefit of a career? Well, I just meant how soon do you want her to start 1.00
00:11:01.060 asking you for money is the question. I mean, that's, that's, that's the question. It's not,
00:11:05.740 I'm more of like a pragmatic, Oh, go from the parents' house to the boyfriend or the husband's.
00:11:10.960 Well, that's just not usually how it works. In 2026, you meet on a dating app. Yeah. You date
00:11:17.460 on the dating app like you do situationships first then you get into a relationship like
00:11:22.700 that's kind of the order it tends to go in now so you do like men don't want a mountain of debt
00:11:30.160 coming forward so you do have to pay for your lifestyle until you meet
00:11:35.420 the guy are we are we following are we following
00:11:38.980 yeah 1.00
00:11:43.220 a more traditional woman role in a household ask no i would love that ones that bust their ass and 0.99
00:11:51.720 make enough money to support a stay-at-home mom wife whatever are the republican men because they 1.00
00:11:59.760 will exploit the out of themselves for money wrong
00:12:02.740 .