Pearl - March 18, 2026


RECAP: I Won While Being Hungover!


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Length

7 minutes

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Word count

1,448

Sentence count

10

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

5

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the declining birth rate in the UK, why it is happening and who is to blame for it? Is it men or women? Is it picky women or is it the problem?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 why am I in a world where I have to listen to your opinion? I mean, honestly, the reason I don't love
00:00:05.200 collabs is because I really just like to go live when I feel like it. And that requires me to go
00:00:11.560 live at the same time. I just feel like, you know, I like to, I know, I know, um, although I'm going
00:00:19.060 to take a sponsorship soon that's going to require interviews. So I guess, I guess put them in the
00:00:23.700 comments because I'm, I'm going to do more soon. Anyway, so I'm kind of hung over and I was thinking
00:00:29.060 about it i'm like damn i got absolutely what do they call it mogged i'm like this girl mogged me 0.89
00:00:33.060 she looks so cute look at her anyways oh i'll start with you are men immature men should we 0.97
00:00:40.400 say to blame for britain's declining birth rate well what do they mean by immature men
00:00:45.180 like if maturity is the problem why don't women just date older men that's always an option
00:00:49.740 it's a good point it's a good point i've gone on social media sorry go ahead it was the echo
00:00:54.940 wasn't no i was just saying it's a great point carry on and i looked at the list of things that
00:00:59.820 women said that the reason that men gave them the ick smiling too much being mother's boys 0.99
00:01:06.060 tying their shoes playing pool doing yoga opening the car door um you know when women have lists 1.00
00:01:12.380 that are you know hundreds of pages long at this point of all the things that men are doing wrong
00:01:17.420 what gender are the immature ones you know uh to me um women make excuses for the fact that women 1.00
00:01:23.740 do not want to be mothers um and they want to blame men when really the real issue is women
00:01:28.460 don't want to reproduce with average men and cannot get commitment from the men that they want 0.91
00:01:32.540 so interesting stuff there paul and i'll pass that over to you paul's made an interesting
00:01:37.340 observation there is are both sides to blame is it just is it just is it immature men or is it
00:01:43.020 perhaps picky women or there's this thing called the ick i've seen that trend on social media 1.00
00:01:48.140 before what do you think annette yes i think that nobody wants actually a man baby and if we look at
00:01:55.740 the stats we know that men are very much so sitting at home with their trousers around their ankles 0.54
00:02:02.780 and a box of kleenex and an only fan subscription and it's not funny it's not sexy they're gaming
00:02:10.220 also way too much they're chronically online way too much and women don't find it attractive and 0.87
00:02:16.700 yes you could say go for an older man but not all women want to procreate with an older man that's
00:02:21.820 the issue and actually if we look back at the 1970s um about 62 like i just feel as though 1.00
00:02:30.700 i am forced like i should never have heard a woman's opinion that's this stupid and bitchy 1.00
00:02:36.620 like why am i in a world where i have to listen to your opinion am i crazy for thinking this i'm 0.99
00:02:42.620 i'm like what percent of 25 year olds were married and today that's only two percent so i do blame
00:02:49.480 the men and they need to sort it out paul over to you you're gonna talk about if you're gonna talk
00:02:54.720 about um men's video game addiction why don't you talk about women's social media addiction
00:02:58.820 most women spend like eight hours a day on their phones and it's far more detrimental to women than 1.00
00:03:04.480 it is to men i mean we can see women on tiktok complaining about the smallest littlest things
00:03:10.140 when it comes to men you have dating apps now where you can filter men by height by race by
00:03:16.540 even income on some apps it's like what more do you want ladies what more could you buy you can
00:03:21.260 get thousands of matches on these apps and you can't find one you like enough really what up
00:03:26.780 guys my name is pearl davis i have a youtube show and i'm a cultural commentator if your wife
00:03:32.060 girlfriend or situationship is acting up you can hire me to make a personalized video to break the
00:03:37.820 news i can tell her to lose weight stop being a stop spending too much money get back in the 1.00
00:03:42.860 kitchen or stop being a is your buddy simping for an overweight mid i will tell him to stop 0.98
00:03:49.100 contributing to hoflation today find me on shout out for only 2.99 you can put your wife in her
00:03:55.740 place today and you can get your friends to stop simping well that's the whole thing so dating apps
00:04:02.780 in general they have found that they are less people are using them because both sides are
00:04:08.300 actually finding them a nightmare it's this whole casino effect it's the same with tiktok and
00:04:13.280 instagram with people doom scrolling it's not good for anybody but your average person isn't
00:04:19.500 going to not find you know they don't want to go on dating apps and actually are men taking
00:04:25.580 responsibility for that do men have good conversation skills do they want to be motivated
00:04:31.800 to be in a relationship and it seems like a lot don't you think that's just complaining about
00:04:36.200 anything though i mean come on if you gave a man an app okay okay let me ask you a question he
00:04:41.560 would find one he likes right okay let me just shows that women will complain about anything 1.00
00:04:46.840 yeah sure okay let me ask you a question if you had a husband and he had an only fan subscription
00:04:53.480 and was spending the household money on it would you be okay with that i wouldn't blame him if i
00:04:57.240 was obese i mean it's not the only thing i'm sorry and that let paul finish yeah again if women 1.00
00:05:04.120 really cared about what their husbands wanted they wouldn't be fat so as far as i'm concerned
00:05:09.400 if you're a woman and you're overweight and your husband's you know subscribe to only fans maybe
00:05:13.240 get on the treadmill yeah but what if he likes junk in the trunk what if he's that's his thing
00:05:17.960 some men like that what's wrong with that um well again if they liked junk in the trunk then the
00:05:22.840 the only fans models would be fat but they're not so look at them i like how i just i'm just
00:05:28.800 going to interject sorry sorry sorry i just want to interject briefly i want to put this to you
00:05:33.980 is it the case that i do not i look so bad in this it's all over the place i was so hungover
00:05:40.520 and are too immature is it actually a product of the society that we've been building because
00:05:45.360 you know i would say some of your criticisms about only fans and things like that well they are also
00:05:49.960 also perpetuated by people like, you know, OnlyFans models.
00:05:53.820 There's some quite famous ones out there
00:05:55.180 that put out some quite racy content.
00:05:57.760 So we've also been talking about the manosphere lately,
00:05:59.880 but there's also another side to that
00:06:02.020 where women are perhaps just as picky. 1.00
00:06:04.500 I think Pearl had a really good point about that, you know,
00:06:06.760 women by far on the data showing on these dating apps 0.98
00:06:09.460 having lots of connections with men,
00:06:12.040 but men not getting the same in return.
00:06:13.880 So is it fair to put the blame all on men?
00:06:16.260 Well, I think we have to look at when you talk about the word picky,
00:06:19.280 when women do actually have children we know there's a cost of living crisis and that you 1.00
00:06:24.980 know two household incomes are going on very much so in many families but women do 65 percent 1.00
00:06:31.200 more household labor than men as well as working full-time and that they find difficult they also
00:06:38.560 lose 65 000 pounds in the first five years of having a child so yes there's a bit of cost of
00:06:45.100 living crisis going on but they need a secure partnership and at the end of the day marriage
00:06:50.100 is a business all right listen that data is collected we've run out of time that data is
00:06:55.700 collected by ungrateful women and they don't include the things that men do like assembling 1.00
00:07:00.520 things from amazon and there's other household chores they just count there's more to life than
00:07:04.880 ikea darling i'm sorry we've run out of time yeah yep that's me debating hungover you know what i
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