BLACK PEOPLE ARE THE PROBLEM, NOT THE S.O.L.Y.I.A.S.E.S! Black people are the problem, not the problem. Black people do a lot of ghetto shit and end up in jail.
00:12:12.500i went and saw dave chapelle um yesterday and i actually couldn't believe how woke his set was
00:12:23.180i was like because mind you i've met dave chapelle before
00:12:35.900um briefly and he said he watched my stuff or he'd seen my stuff which was kind of crazy
00:12:43.740because i'm like you're like an a-list you're better than me in every way but yesterday like
00:12:49.880he was making jokes about like charlie kirk and like you better not be pooping dog you better not
00:12:56.680she's licking her paw but if you guys see something you let me know
00:13:01.800but I really liked I like I've always liked his stuff but you know now he's kind of doing ghetto
00:13:12.480shit right it's kind of ghetto but I like him you know it's nothing
00:13:16.920all right yeah um by the way should I bring back these hoodies if you like these hoodies
00:13:25.180let me know I might bring them back I have my t-shirt press machine the I am selling
00:13:31.160five t-shirts that say shut the fuck up university so if you want to enroll your bitch in school
00:13:35.980i do have like five t-shirts um i just wanted to see how to make them and how to sell them on my
00:13:42.980own so um there's only five though that i'm gonna sell literally so if you want one um the day i
00:13:51.200drop um you better be ready because i i gotta figure out how to use this t-shirt machine
00:13:58.060good and bad depends on the person rather than the race i don't agree with that
00:14:08.300i really do think there's certain patterns that you notice
00:14:12.660like you know i spent two years with a dominican guy and there's and there's things that
00:14:21.200you kind of notice dating someone of a different race right um
00:14:26.340i lived in a heavily like nigerian area and i learned things about nigerians like i didn't
00:14:34.560know that jollof rice um they have like jollof offs with the ghanaeans
00:14:39.800is it he i think it's a heat transfer what i'm doing now
00:14:48.500um and you know like you know when i i would hear nigerians bicker like there's a certain
00:14:59.500way that they bicker which is different than like black americans right um
00:15:04.260and you said in my experience you can't generalize i actually think you absolutely can generalize
00:15:12.240I noticed a difference between Europeans and white Americans, right? It's not just race, although that is part of it. I did notice similarities between like what, like there's things that are similar about Europeans to white Americans and there's things that are similar about black people in overseas and in America.
00:15:40.760but there's also things that are different. So if you do, if you're the type of person
00:15:48.640that doesn't believe that you can make generalizations, I would just, I would just
00:15:53.160tune out now. I just don't, I don't think this is the show for you. I'm not, I'm not trying to be
00:15:58.460rude. There's no hatred here, but if you have not seen observa, like you can't make observations,
00:16:05.780generalizations and stereotypes um respectfully this just you know go somewhere else it's totally
00:16:13.260fine so should i go over my history i think i'm gonna go over my history of where i've lived
00:16:24.840communities have been involved in so i grew up in white america um if anyone knows nick f
00:16:30.280and the way he describes the suburbs that he is from I am from a similar suburb not the same one
00:16:37.060but about an hour away I actually think my school I went to private school but I think when there
00:16:42.980was tournaments sometimes we would play the school Nick F went to so this was white America
00:16:52.700and pretty much everyone i knew was white um when it came to my school there's about 30 kids i went
00:17:03.300to from pre-k to 12 30 kids and we had one black girl one asian it like i think if there was
00:17:10.520minorities it would maybe be like five out of 30 but then i entered the sports world um and that's
00:17:17.020where it got a little bit more diverse, right? I mean, in sports, obviously there's going to be
00:17:23.560a higher percent black people. And I don't know what percentage it was. I know basketball, I would
00:17:30.480say, is more diverse than volleyball. I would say volleyball, the richer the sport, the whiter it
00:17:34.600tends to be. And you kind of have to be rich to play volleyball because doing club is very
00:17:39.220expensive. But what would happen is the black girls a lot of times would be on scholarship.
00:17:43.500Like there was this girl that went on to be one of the best volleyball players in the United States
00:17:46.980I was really good friends with her. And, um, she, I remember was not like one of the few that got
00:17:53.820like free tuition at my club and in high school and middle school. I can make a nasty t-shirt for
00:18:08.900you. I should have good unlimited merch. You're losing money, not having that. Look at you guys,
00:18:16.200you know people always think they can sell to my audience way better than is possible
00:18:20.680everyone thinks they could do it better um if you have a t-shirt design send it to me and we can talk
00:18:29.640um so anyways then i go to college i go to a mostly white college but again um it's a higher
00:18:37.000percent black when you're you're dealing with black people um that are on sports teams right
00:18:43.240Right. And usually these people, these these kind of black people grew up around white people because they're here.
00:18:49.760Right. So if I meet a black girl at Catholic school, obviously, she is going to be a black person that grew up around white people because we're from the same area.
00:19:03.740Right. Club, not always the case, but more similar.
00:19:07.440Maybe there's one or two that drove from the city.
00:19:13.240But I really have to go into my observations that I noticed growing up, which were exacerbated by
00:19:31.220the fact that I went overseas. So growing up, I would say that I really didn't care or see race.
00:19:39.440it wasn't really something i paid attention to um you know they kind of tell you the blank slate
00:19:52.720it care it's about character not the color of someone's skin and i think when white people say
00:19:58.000that we really do mean it i really think in our communities we are taught that as long as you're
00:20:04.240competent we do not care we don't care where you're from we don't care what color you are
00:20:08.640everyone says that white people especially white men are the most racist um but what i've seen
00:20:14.640is white men maybe can be racist in certain instances but i don't really see racism across
00:20:20.400the board um i think white men if anything are stupidest they really hate stupid people especially
00:20:28.880high iq white men now i've told you guys my father was a genius my brothers are geniuses
00:20:34.560i really would say i grew up around genius men a lot of the men i went to and even genius women
00:20:41.040i actually found out the other day that out of my middle school basketball team out of 10 white
00:20:48.400women about wait one black girl nine um white women guess how many were doctors from my middle school
00:20:56.320i want i'll guess this is just a crazy stat about me grew up now we're doctors
00:21:09.720no not nine it wasn't that we weren't that smart um three or four three or four i think
00:21:24.320one hasn't become one yet. So I would say where I'm from, it's pretty high IQ, pretty smart. I
00:21:31.120mean, that's not normal, right? That 30% of your, your basketball team goes on to become literal
00:21:37.400doctors. No medical doctors. Yeah, they're taught tribalism, individual character. Yeah, okay.
00:21:49.940how many are still practicing well i'm remember they're around 30 so they might quit later i don't
00:21:57.780know but they just became and even my brother's friends like i think of the childhood friends of
00:22:04.120my brothers i grew up around i mean uh one like literally does rockets for a living another's a
00:22:10.440doctor another like builds furniture from his hands like these are very high iq i mean i don't
00:22:17.200think I realized how smart the people I was around growing up were at the time. Um, but it actually
00:22:25.400made it pretty frustrating become becoming an adult because, um, you don't really realize how
00:22:31.560lazy the rest of the world is and how, um, I guess lower intelligence. Um, I mean, the way I grew up
00:22:41.360is, sorry, hold on. That's my laundry. Please forgive me. Please forgive me. Thank you. You
00:22:50.420know, and I just think back to the people I grew up around. So many are engineers, doctors, lawyers,
00:22:56.120nurses. There are some human resources, bitches, though.
00:23:11.360there are a lot of dumb doctors. Okay. Well, you have to be a little bit higher IQ to become a
00:23:17.420doctor. I mean, can we just, can we just call a spade a spade? This is going to be a little bit
00:23:27.140of a rambling monologue. So, because now the first time I noticed the difference between the decorum
00:23:36.080of white women and black women, I got to be honest, is in middle school.
00:23:41.360Pearl is a smart friend who builds furniture well we're not friends anymore I mean I met this guy
00:23:47.040he was just someone I grew up around I'd say family friend you know and when I was in middle
00:23:52.320school the first time I was introduced to like sexual behavior degeneracy whatever you want to
00:23:59.100call it was in eighth grade and I remember the first sexually active woman that I went to school
00:24:05.140and this is 30, 30 women. I remember, and this is kind of embarrassing. I would, we had Facebook,
00:24:13.340right? And on Facebook, this was in the time where you like, everyone had Facebook on their
00:24:22.520phones, but you had to like type every single one. Do you know what I'm saying? So you, you would
00:24:29.020shorten the words. And I would ask, well, does anyone want to come over today? Like come over
00:24:33.740to my house. And I would spell it C-U-M, come. I didn't know. And do you know who told me what
00:24:43.000that meant? The black girl. Do you know who was the first stepdad? Like I didn't know what a
00:24:48.640stepmother or stepfather was until I met the black girl because she was a product of, and she was a
00:24:54.900really nice girl actually, but she was a product of like a step, she had a stepdad. And I'd never
00:25:00.760seen that dynamic until i met the black girl building furniture is evidence of smartness
00:25:07.480are you here to nag me are you here to just nag
00:25:13.920i mean if you want to nag yeah that does take a certain kind of intelligence the amish make
00:25:23.040furniture from scratch it's not ikea furniture this is some high level shit okay
00:25:28.060uh like this is a black guy coping like yes it does take some level of intelligence
00:25:34.980it does oh hell no i can't build furniture
00:25:41.460i don't think white women can really cook though so i'm gonna that's a different day
00:25:47.740there are things we lack as white women um so i mean
00:25:53.720i gotta stop looking at the chat i'm gonna i'm gonna you guys are distracting me a little bit
00:26:06.800so i'm taking you out all right so i i'm getting a little add today so that was kind of the first
00:26:14.600instance where i just noticed and i didn't notice it as a pattern yet right um but like the older i
00:26:21.700god the more i noticed like white women just did not crash out in the same way that black women did
00:26:28.740like they just i i just noticed a difference you know um like a lot of times the black girls would
00:26:36.020like yell or get madder than like the white women right um
00:26:50.660now this was exacerbated when i went off to school
00:26:58.500because when i went to college um again this was kind of during the blm stuff at the tail end
00:27:06.020And I just remember this guy at school had like the biggest crash out over the BLM stuff.
00:27:16.400And I remember he like played victim and said the police targeted him.
00:27:26.640But really, he was just had underage girls, you know, under 20, like 18 to 21 year old women drinking and doing drugs.
00:27:36.020And I'm like, bro, you got the, you got the party house. And it was this big, like, it was this big spectacle where you're just like, uh, you know, and I got arrested too in school. I'm going to be honest, guys, I did get arrested.
00:27:48.800um but when i got arrested i knew it was my fault i had a fake id
00:27:55.820i don't think i got like an actual arrest like it was um in a lot of the high income areas there's
00:28:03.600like slap on the wrist a lot like if you get caught with doing shit that teenagers do there's
00:28:09.440a lot of like slap like it ended up being a parking ticket yeah i did i did um i did enjoy
00:28:15.740the fake IDs. I did. I was a year young in school. I went to college when I was 17 and I wanted to
00:28:20.680go to the bars. I did. But when I got arrested, you know, I did know it was, I did, I do think I
00:28:31.040cried. White women love crying. I, you know, but it was my fault and I owned it and I just took the
00:28:38.340But when the black guy got arrested, he went on a whole social media tirade, pretending that it wasn't his fault, you know.
00:28:50.480And I'm like, this was absolutely your fault.
00:37:13.960But over time, like, think about Stephen Crowder's wife, right? Stephen Crowder's wife went through his business contacts and destroyed his reputation behind the scenes, edited a video clip, went public, said that he was emotionally abusing her.
00:37:37.420and um she'd basically been planning this for like a decade when she had a
00:52:07.820Coldplay kissed Cam HR boss Kristen Kabat on 16 seconds that ruined her life.
00:52:13.740For the first time, the former astronomer executive speaks publicly about her panic after seeing the video
00:52:20.200and the impact on her children and the danger of the online mob.
00:52:24.880Like, would a man ever get this grace that cheated?
00:52:30.600i don't know because you know a woman like her she might be conservative
00:52:36.180i know you guys say liberal white women i don't see a difference um so she was doing the wrong
00:52:44.240thing and she's had months to come out and say i am sorry
00:52:48.560i am sorry what i did was wrong and there was no excuse i am sorry to for my to my
00:53:00.580company for making them look bad. I am sorry to the president for impacting his marriage.
00:53:07.540I was being selfish, self-centered, and irresponsible. I am so sorry. But no.
00:53:20.660But no. Everything just flashed before my eyes. Kristen Kabat recalls moments,
00:53:27.660the moment chris martin ruined her life at a cold play concert so not i ruined my life
00:53:34.740but the people that put me on the screen ruined my life the moment in question an embrace with
00:53:43.360andy byron her married boss was caught on a kiss cam filming the audience in boston either they're
00:53:49.660having an affair or they're just very shy martin joked as the pair ducked and hit their face hid
00:53:55.520their faces a 16 second clip filmed by another concert goer and posted to tiktok became one of
00:54:03.540the most viral videos of the time receiving 150 million within days it railed an online mob
00:54:10.540bent on destroying the lives of kabat and byron who were wildly assumed to be caught cheating
00:54:15.720kabat having never spoken publicly about her ordeal until now in an interview with the times
00:54:22.920the mother of two says the embrace was the first time she had been and byron had been physically
00:54:27.900affectionate both of them she says were amicable separating their spouses so what is she going to
00:54:32.400do now gaslight even further that's what white women do you could catch a white woman in a lie
00:54:37.480and she'll just continue black women this is just a woman thing
00:54:40.300i could have been struck by lightning i could have won the lottery or this could have happened
00:54:48.320She said of the fact the intimate moment was broadcast to a stadium of 50,000 people before being watched and analyzed by millions of people.
00:54:56.800The attention might have been fair, reasons to herself, had she been famous or a high-profile figure.
00:55:17.520Well, it is. It is the final word. It is the final word because you are a human resources professional. Like, your whole job is to get people to not bang at work.
00:55:35.600so like that's kind of like a cop getting caught dealing drugs like what what is what is the point
00:55:45.380of your your job you know you just lost kabat joined astronomer byron's startup tech as a
00:55:51.980it's human resources chief left last november she was headhunted by recruiters thanks to her
00:55:57.100decades of experience working at top advertising firms where colleagues regarded her as something
00:56:02.680of a rock star and people strategy so again white women um men have known for 20 years that their
00:56:09.640sexual um being irresponsible sex sexually can cost them their career white women on the other hand
00:56:19.000are now learning this are now learning um that yes you're gonna get fired just like the men do
00:56:26.200and you're gonna have a scarlet letter and it's gonna be worse actually kabat heard good things
00:56:31.080about byron all of them she says turned out to be true byron was a sort of boss who made sure women
00:56:35.880had a seat at the table that i was just as loud as every voice in the room as anyone else she said
00:56:40.600it was the first company issue company in the male-dominated professions i'd worked in where
00:56:45.640i felt my gender was not an issue they worked closely together sharing the same vision for
00:56:50.360the company and how it could grow cabot recalls i definitely thought he was a good-looking guy and i
00:56:55.000had thought if I didn't work here. About a month before the concert, Kabat says the pair revealed
00:57:01.180to each other they'd split from their partners. Kabat from her husband, Andrew, the CEO of a
00:57:06.060family-run distillery, and Byron from his wife, Megan, a school teacher. I don't think the
00:57:11.800separation would have come as a surprise to him, but his definitely did for me, Kabat says by Zoom
00:57:16.400in her apartment in Boston. To have someone else going through it at the exact same time, you could
00:57:21.180talked to an amazing support over time her feelings for him developed into what she would
00:57:26.100call a big happy crush so again now trying to gaslight and downplay gaslight and downplay
00:57:35.020when she was given two free cold play tickets from her friends she decided to offer the spare
00:57:45.780to byron the night of the concert her 14 year old daughter wanted two children she had with
00:57:50.580her first husband, texted her to let her know her estranged second husband, Andrew, would be there
00:57:55.340too. She would learn from a friend later that evening that Andrew would be on the first date.
00:57:59.940It erased her conscience. She said that she was there with Byron.
00:58:04.480Kabat says she was on top of the world before the kiss cam caught her with Byron. We were sitting in
00:58:09.000the back of the stadium at the opposite ends of the stage in pitch black, just feeling totally
00:58:14.140anonymous in the arena of 50 to 60,000 people. We were just dancing. I'd had a few high noons.
00:58:19.940Andy was standing behind me and we were dancing and I grabbed him. I didn't hear the announcement
00:58:24.960that the Jumbotron was coming so suddenly I'm just seeing us on screen she says.
00:58:30.260Her instinct was to cover her face. Byron's was to duck and hide. I'm not sure what to do Martin
00:58:35.700then said awkwardly. Did we rumble you? My immediate reaction was holy shit Andrew's here.
00:58:40.700We are in the middle of an incredibly and amazingly amicable separation. I was worried
00:58:46.360I would have embarrassed him. He's an amazing guy and he does not deserve that.
00:58:55.740Then a beat later, my mind turns to, oh my God, Andy's my effing boss. This is a bad look. Boston's
00:59:01.780not a big town. And while it wasn't an astronomer event or anything, but there could have been
00:59:06.040other investors or staff there. Her longtime friend, Elena, is the woman in the video seen
00:59:11.900laughing nervously. Kabat and Byron rushed out of Gillette Stadium as they started to process
00:59:17.560what had happened, thinking about what he should do next. They agreed they needed to send a joint
00:59:22.340email to Astronomer's Board of Directors in case the news go out. They got a taxi back. They had
00:59:28.900parked their cars. It was pretty silent, Kabat said of the journey. All I could think about is
00:59:33.200Andrew's going to kill me, and what do we do with our jobs? See that? He didn't try to stab her.
00:59:37.800Do you see the difference? No stabbing. No stabbing. I mean, do you see the difference here?
00:59:53.120Byron and Kabat drove to hers more than an hour away. During the drive, she received a text from
00:59:57.440an old friend who had been at the gig, but she did not know that she and Andrew were separated.
01:00:03.920it read dude kabat and byron then parted ways and spoke on the phone around midnight for several
01:00:09.140hours strategizing the wording of the email to the board at about 4 a.m her husband who had not
01:00:13.880said anything up to this point sent her a screenshot of the video online um and that said
01:00:19.100i think you should know this is out there it had been shared on tiktok by concert goer grace
01:00:23.740springer which quit play stupid games win stupid prizes internet sleuths began hunting for the
01:00:29.540identities of the couple early the next morning kabat addressed members of the astronomer board
01:00:35.720i apologize profusely for it becoming a distraction she recalls they weren't thrilled
01:00:40.720but they were nice about it they said that stuff happens the human resources department
01:00:44.960want to be opening an investigation they told her obviously that was weird because that would
01:00:49.840ordinarily be my job white women am i right my daughter burst into tears kabat wanted
01:00:59.520to tell her children her daughters and 16 year old son before they heard it from anyone else
01:01:03.920my daughter burst into tears and said i guess that means you really are getting divorced while
01:01:09.120her son tried to reassure her that it would probably go away it did not
01:01:14.560the video took on a life of its own turned into fodder for late night talk show hosts and gossip
01:01:24.580columnists. Coldplay gate is a stark reminder that cameras are everywhere. It was even brought
01:01:35.520up at the Oval Office press conference with President Trump. Meanwhile, Byron and Kabat's
01:01:40.680LinkedIn accounts were diluted with mocking references to Coldplay. Lights did not guide
01:01:45.560Andy home, one comment read. Fake Facebook accounts were set up in the name of their
01:01:50.460spouses. It had all the right ingredients. Suspected adultery, a tech CEO, the head of HR
01:01:58.160linked to one of New England's wealthiest families. So I want you to see this because this is always
01:02:04.240what's going to happen. White women will appeal to authority to run cover on our reputation.
01:02:11.660Why am I being sued? Because of an angry white woman trying to use the justice system to run
01:02:17.780cover on her reputation because it was exposed she was a terrible wife and mother and a terrorist
01:02:23.300and her husband said something on my show and now i'm being dragged to court
01:02:29.540yeah i hate you guys i hate you guys too astronomer itself poured fuel on the
01:02:36.260raging fire by hiring martin's ex-wife gwyneth paltrow to feature in a commercial promoting the
01:02:43.700business appalled appalled kabat threw everything away that she owned from paltrow's brand group
01:02:52.260goop i was a fan of her company and she did this and i thought how dare how dare she after
01:03:00.580after the beating she got for all the conscious uncoupling stuff what a hypocrite yeah and that's
01:03:07.220the next thing you know she should have um she she should have just you know if you get caught
01:03:15.380doing something bad you just got to own it and say i did do the bad thing um it was wrong
01:03:21.380oh you're so evil i did it and it was wrong
01:03:28.820instead of now she's saying gwyneth paltrow is bad for making fun of her it's like well
01:03:32.900Well, Kabat's entire life has been distilled to a 16-second clip, a video she has never been able
01:03:39.640to bring herself to watch. I became a mean. I was the most misaligned HR manager in HR history.
01:03:45.800I think as a woman, as women always do, I took the bulk of the abuse. People would say things
01:03:51.060like I was a gold digger or I slept my way to the top, which couldn't be further from reality.
01:03:54.920The amount I sacrificed to get in my career and the amount of hands I've had to take off my ass
01:04:00.640over the years i've had to swap men away now again you know maybe that's true but
01:04:08.800white men and men in general know that one bad move can ruin your career
01:04:14.080and women are finding this out thank feminism you know i mean how many like tiger woods
01:04:20.320he he had like an impeccable you know he had to publicly i'm gonna actually you know show
01:04:26.000tiger woods apology and you know tiger woods is actually another example um and there was like a
01:04:34.560car crash involved in that and i'm sure the white woman was involved whatever but you know when you
01:04:40.240have um are we date like facebook groups talking about dating tiger woods i mean that's kind of
01:04:46.800irresponsible i mean that's some ghetto i'm just being honest but his apology was good that was not
01:04:53.120ghetto i'm going to contrast this this was a beautiful i referenced this because this was
01:05:00.640a beautiful apology speech and i think if you're gonna um give an apology you either
01:05:08.880if you're going to apologize this is the way to do it good morning and thank you for joining me
01:05:14.480Many of you in this room are my friends. Many in this room know me. Many of you have cheered
01:05:27.260for me, or you worked with me, or you supported me. Now, every one of you has good reason
01:05:38.060to be critical of me i want to say to each of you simply and directly
01:05:45.460i am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and selfish behavior i engaged in
01:05:55.960i know people want to find out how i could be so selfish okay do you see how he's taking
01:06:04.560ownership right there i was selfish not cold play ruined my life
01:06:09.920i was wrong and a lot of people are saying in the chat that he's not sorry
01:06:16.660um even if he's not this humiliation ritual says something i'm being honest
01:08:43.400work remains unchanged and will continue you guys get the idea i mean this is the all right now we
01:08:50.680we we contrast this after this video went viral she retreated to an airbnb in new hampshire and
01:08:56.360went to the mountains she describes being in too dark of a place to parent her children
01:09:00.760byron resigned see that white people we don't crap we resign white women will play victim
01:09:06.840white men do you see why i'm fatigued with the white i'm not fatigued with the white men
01:09:13.400Astronomer's investigation concluded there was no evidence of an affair between him and Kabat, though the board wrote to the company's leaders. Leaders are expected to set the standard in both conduct and accountability. And recently that was not wet. Kabat stepped down shortly after and there was a lot of noise about me not taking accountability. And what actually happened? Please stay, she says. How, how give it? Wait, hold on.
01:09:36.380there's a lot of noise around me not taking accountability but what actually happened is
01:09:41.020the board said please stay she said and i said how given my job is to be the one to show people
01:09:46.620how we are expected to behave our store our morals standards and values if it hadn't turned
01:09:52.060into what it did online i could i could have stood up and said it was a really bad decision
01:09:55.860i regret it and i'm sorry for the position i put you in but i'm committed to this place and stayed
01:10:00.780at my job kabat and byron kept in touch for a short while exchanging crisis management advice
01:10:05.680but have not spoken since. Kabat says she was saddened that no one from the Coldplay team
01:10:10.080ever reached out to her or released a statement that might have helped turn down the scandal.
01:10:16.200She believes Martin had helped manufacture. A spokesperson for Coldplay declined to comment.
01:10:22.240Now she's blaming Coldplay. Kabat filed for divorce from Andrew in August, formalizing the
01:10:31.600end of a short and ill-fated marriage. The status of Byron's marriage is not known, though he and
01:10:36.120his wife were pictured enjoying a picnic together in May and in late September. They did not respond
01:10:41.420to a request for comment, so they're kind of working it out. She's divorcing. In the weeks
01:10:47.840and months after the concert, Kabat received thousands of emails, texts, and letters to her
01:10:52.820home, calling her a homewrecker and recommending ways she could meet a violent end. Her local
01:10:57.880radio station shared her address and she started getting threatening messages from people warning
01:11:02.760her that they knew where she got coffee and filled her car. Throughout her ordeal she wondered if
01:11:07.920Byron was experiencing the same level of abuse. I'm sure a lot of people say this is a dead story
01:11:13.700why bring it up but it's not over for me and it's not over for my kids. The harassment never ended.
01:11:18.880To this day mothers still gossip about her in the playground. Strangers shout profanities to her on
01:11:23.960the street. Her children are too embarrassed to let Kabat pick them up from school or attend
01:11:27.700sports games. They're mad at me, she said tearfully, and they can be mad at me for the rest of their
01:11:32.060lives. I have to take that. She lost friends and even family members who never reached out after
01:11:36.800the incident. She has been looking for another job and has been told she's unemployable. The
01:11:41.540impact of public shaming on its subjects has been studied at length. Statistics show that women are
01:11:46.520shamed more often and intensely than men, especially when it comes to issues such as body image and
01:11:51.900workplace behavior. People can't resist amplifying someone's worst moment. Psychologists say that's
01:11:58.640because it works to deflect from our own anxieties about success and power. Many lose their jobs and
01:12:04.620struggle to find new ones. Others experience lasting mental health problems. Amid the fallout,
01:12:13.160Kabat hired a communications consultant who is no stranger to rehabilitating the image of women
01:12:19.560monstered by the media, having represented both Monica Lewinsky and the late Virginia
01:12:24.740Juroff. Together, they hope to create awareness around the real-life consequences and vigilante
01:12:30.200like online mob in destroying someone's personal life. So now she's going to do what white women
01:12:34.460do best. Play victim. Play victim, right? But I wouldn't be shocked if she could actually build
01:12:43.580a victim brand off of this. I mean, Monica Lewinsky made a lot of money off of her book.
01:12:47.440it would not shock me it really would not shock me if she could make a decent amount of money doing
01:12:54.760this so all right we're gonna Doug MPA had some thoughts so I mean this is kind of what when I
01:13:07.940talk about patterns in society black people go into white areas they still do ghetto shit
01:13:43.340White women though, we always appeal to authority. So white men are kind of awesome. I mean, they don't really do wrong ever. They're like trustworthy and amazing people. So I don't really see them doing much. I understand that like there's some Wolf of Wall Street type white people. It's not really normal.
01:14:04.480there's like lawyers that do coke okay um white men really don't commit crimes like other right
01:14:13.420they don't but white women um we love to destroy white men and um play victim so yeah what i mean
01:14:22.860the one thing that's going to be consistent is the playing of victims okay we're going to set this
01:14:27.900here. I don't think this woman really faced consequences yet. Yeah, I guess she's getting
01:14:47.060like a scarlet letter, but I think she'll get a victim book. You know, this is Black
01:14:55.720woman coming in your kind has issues as well i mean i talked about that for half of the stream
01:15:00.260not white men though they really don't have issues their only issues i'll tell you white
01:15:04.300men's number one issue is being too nice and too charitable i'm gonna be honest it's they can't say
01:15:10.020no to women there's a lot of henpecked white men that can't tell their what like they can't divorce
01:15:16.760their wives and they should have divorced her like 10 years ago being too nice too good too moral
01:15:25.260yeah that's that's what i would say their issue is black men it's doing ghetto shit white women
01:15:31.660it's playing victim and psychological torture i was bullied into talking about your kinds of issues
01:15:41.440because you're glazing us blacks for a week you sound like a black woman gaslighting do you know
01:15:46.920what i mean it's like well anyone that's watched my show for a while i've there's been a white
01:15:55.060woman taking me to court for six months oh trust me i have my beef with them
01:16:00.560i have my beef with white women i mean it's like psychological torture
01:16:07.760but you guys do some ghetto shit this is true i i don't really i don't care how mad you
01:16:16.860get it just is what it is what up doug mpa hey how's it going i love this topic so you tell me
01:16:24.600am i just making this up no you're not um the the michigan um the michigan state guy you know he
01:16:35.120he's making like 20 million almost 30 million dollars a year with with endorsements and he
01:16:41.380lost it over a piece of ass come on mid-ass too i i would put her as pretty cute because she's young
01:16:48.980but i don't think her facial structure is like do you know i mean like she's cute because she's young
01:16:53.940not because her face is that good you know yes i agree it's like you know you get get at least if
01:17:00.580you're going to lose 30 bajillion dollars it should be over some hot women yeah and then
01:17:06.420And the sad part about it is, you know, I have all these black people. Oh, yeah, we're being held to a higher standard. It's not fair. It's not fair. It's not fair.
01:17:13.860OK, first off, that's not true. But second off, even if it is true.
01:17:19.120And you know that you're being scrutinized. There's a bunch of white people. Why are you doing stupid shit?
01:17:26.960Why? You're you're you're you're aware enough to complain about the double standard that black people are being held to.
01:17:33.660then you still do dumb stuff when you believe that you're under a microscope and being scrutinized
01:17:39.100differently it blows my mind and go ahead no sorry keep going oh yeah yeah it and so i put a story
01:17:49.260another story in the um uh in the signal thing about ime udoka he he was the boston's
01:17:56.620uh celtics coach he took the celtics to the championship in 2022 and then he got caught
01:18:05.420banging one of the owner's wives and he lost his job at some ghetto yes ghetto us us blacks
01:18:16.060are aware that we have issues we don't need you to tell us that focus on your issues
01:18:19.740we would love to but segregation's illegal
01:18:21.900so you guys do you come into our spaces and make it our issues
01:18:27.900yeah we would we would love to like do you know what i mean
01:18:31.180and what pearl's talking about is there's this girl on tiktok and she literally said
01:18:38.080you know i'm a black woman and i love going places where there's nothing but white people
01:18:43.140and taking up space and i love it's like but it's like why why do we feel this need to do that
01:18:49.320i i stopped going places i'm not wanted a long time guys don't go places where you're not wanted
01:18:56.320it doesn't matter if you're white black red green stop trying to force your way into places where
01:19:03.320you're not wanted why do people feel this you have black people with black women especially
01:19:09.040they just want to take up space take up men's spaces white people's spaces why do you know
01:19:15.640it's crazy if we did have segregation black people there would be like a line of black men like doug
01:19:21.240trying to apply medicine please please don't put me with these people yeah i'm telling you
01:19:30.280if it's either live in an all-white neighborhood or or all-black neighborhood i know it's what i'm
01:19:36.020picking we're gonna give you guys california you can have it i mean that's the nicest and then the
01:30:14.880i played within middle school are now doctors so is one of my brother's childhood friends
01:30:20.560like if i look at my brother's childhood friend one warren's work one works in marketing so i
01:30:26.080think he's like normal one is like a high level engineer and one's a doctor it's like this is who
01:30:32.400i grew up around um another one's an accountant i think an accountant but and you know black
01:30:43.040people come into these areas and do ghetto shit it just you know it is what it is keep standing
01:30:47.440on bidness uh the truth hurts but it's the best sanitizer i don't know why black people should
01:30:52.420love me i'm so honest i mean it's better than these people that are pandering to you i mean
01:30:58.400what do you want me to come out and like get my black square is that what you want you want me
01:31:04.660to come out and um wear your your blm shirt yeah how'd that work out for us guys yeah i mean
01:31:12.360you know like it's like you see that one of those angry freaking um lesbos is actually going to
01:31:20.840is actually being um charged with fraud and stuff it's in jail finally yeah and black people kind
01:31:27.440of are the only ones with issues um there's way i mean white people have issues but again white
01:31:33.360men it's like too nice to consider doing too much like where you know white women i could go on
01:31:41.620about i'm losing a lot of money to a white woman right now she probably cost me 10 grand could be
01:31:47.340worse could be worse a lot of these court cases are way worse but it's like it's just the not
01:31:51.700knowing when it's going to end that's the thing with white women black women will beat your ass
01:31:55.240and leave white women will do a court case for 10 years and the worst part is another white man's
01:32:00.860paying for it because he believed her that's what i mean too nice too trusting all right we got
01:32:07.820handyman what up handyman yeah how you doing carl how's it been good uh what's your thoughts you
01:32:14.060have a personal experience disagreement what do you what have you come here to share i have a
01:32:19.580slight disagreement with you um okay i don't think you're being precise enough uh i don't think it's
01:32:27.420it's not skin color it's not race although that's super easy to point to because you know
01:32:33.500black people are really easy to point out um i think it has more to do with uh their culture
01:32:43.040in general which if you've read any thomas soul um the ghetto culture uh yeah i've read that book
01:32:52.980i just don't agree with it because it's like it came over from europe no i i know i know where
01:32:58.540you're gonna go with it i've i've read it's like black rednecks white liberals have read it
01:33:02.920Yeah, I just don't agree. Because, again, it's like, yeah, you could give an academic assessment and whatever, but I have to go with my eyes. And I've lived in England. And I've lived in Germany. And these are Blacks from Africa, Blacks from the United States, Blacks from Europe.
01:33:23.200there's the genetic component of iq obviously um so in a sense i somewhat agree with you
01:33:31.880that there's uh somewhat of a genetic component uh because if you hierarchy all of the um
01:33:39.240iqs asians and andonoski jews are at the top and then um why but it doesn't we're not really
01:33:48.180debating why right the point who cares why like it's the point is they come into white spaces
01:33:55.060and do ghetto and that does happen yeah but here's the thing here's the thing the reason
01:34:03.540why pearl wants to stop talking about the why is it's like the black community okay um slavery
01:34:11.700happened jim crow happened white people did all these terrible things to to black people okay
01:34:18.100but what are you gonna do about it now because discovery of how we got here it's work it's not
01:34:24.740the real work figuring out what to do about it in the present for a better future is is where the
01:34:30.500real work starts absolutely you're not this generational racism or or like three century
01:34:37.700you know a century ago i had slavery in my family therefore today there's generational oppression
01:34:43.620or whatever that's a bunch of crap um i'm not what i'm what i'm really getting my slight disagreement
01:34:50.180is that it's not like it's not the skin it's not the pigment of the skin
01:34:57.220that that's causing the issue it's like but i don't care why like you're kind of you're saying
01:35:02.020talk about why talk about but i'm like i don't care why who cares it doesn't matter like it
01:35:07.060doesn't matter if it's because of the pigment or the culture whatever it's when black people come
01:35:12.580into white spaces this is what they do ghetto yeah no just i don't disagree with you um but
01:35:19.060i don't think it's because of their i don't think it's their blackness that's the cause i think it's
01:35:22.820a more of a culture thing okay okay okay well this is a conversation it's an easy it's an easily
01:35:30.580identifiable thing right we don't want to have it now so thank you see white men white men are so
01:35:38.180nice they like they come in and they they're saying say it nicer but it's my my culture
01:35:47.700slavery and get out of here no i just don't care why i don't care i don't care why like
01:35:54.900i just want to talk about what's happened it's like and i learned this from my dad i've explained
01:36:02.280some of these theories to my dad and my dad's a really intelligent like really the one of the
01:36:07.520highest iq people i think i've ever met in my life it's like yeah when you get robbed from a
01:36:13.460black person do i care if it's their race or their culture i don't give a fuck i just want my camera
01:36:18.960you know and actually and it's again it goes back to like they want to say oh there's this book and
01:36:25.880i've read that book actually black rednecks white liberals i i used to i used to read it i like i
01:36:31.880used to listen to it when i ran but i i just don't agree because i've seen like i i've lived this
01:36:40.140right i've been in white areas i've met the black girls that came from a white culture where i'm
01:36:46.740right there right i i like there's one that was in my school from like second grade
01:36:52.980there's another one that i played club with for like 10 years
01:36:57.380they still do the ghetto why i don't really care but you know thomas sowell can say this is what
01:37:04.100he thinks and this is the data whatever but it doesn't matter if you know the girl who taught
01:37:11.300me what sex is is the girl in in my white school the one black girl in the class you know i never
01:37:17.780even knew what a hand job was you know like that's that's something that should have came from my
01:37:22.100parents and it comes from the one black girl in class and i actually like to choose cool person
01:37:28.580but you know she was throwing it back at like 13. it's like if the white girls were doing it i didn't
01:37:35.540hear about it uh yeah once again that a guy just he put in the back you have to identify the why
01:37:45.940so you can solve it i i think it's pretty unrealistic to think that you can solve any of
01:37:51.620these problems it's actually unsolvable it's actually completely unsolvable you as a normal
01:38:00.180like you know that's why my dad you know he would always tell me to just give the women abortion
01:38:05.540because he knows that's an unsolvable problem yeah yep yep all you can do is is do your best
01:38:12.780to minimize how the issues affect you move to certain neighborhoods you know just you know if
01:38:20.300if you see four ninjas walking down the street towards you cross the street myron said it the
01:38:25.940best. He's like, he's like, all you all you people, even the
01:38:28.940black ones at this table are crossing the street. If you see
01:38:31.700four ninjas coming, coming towards you walking down the
01:38:34.400street. And, and I agree with him 100%.
01:38:38.300We are are we know that there's people in the black community
01:38:40.940that still we get it, you ramble about it. It's like, then why
01:38:43.700are you here? See, this is what I mean, black women and arguing.
01:38:48.860I can be muted and turned off at any time. And yet you come here,
01:38:53.580like i'm talking about my experiences and you come here to gaslight me about my experience or say
01:39:00.860well this is why we do it i don't give a and then you know they keep you know this
01:39:06.620another guy says pearl's running from marco quet or whatever you say his name i am because i'm
01:39:11.740fatigued i'm done i'm kind of done with the ghetto stuff you know it's like i'm running from your
01:39:20.300terrible personality yeah unfortunately you know i mean who is marquette i mean improve it improve
01:39:27.020it and maybe i'll reconsider but i i am running from your terrible personality and um
01:39:36.620the the ghetto yeah so yeah guys come on all marquette has to do is say hey pearl i i would
01:39:44.380like to come on onto your channel and discuss this topic but he hasn't done that yet he literally
01:39:50.940feels like we're in this new environment where you you have to debate me or else or or else you
01:39:59.340you're a coward how'd that start becoming a thing who are you before you throw down the glove to
01:40:06.060debate somebody ask yourself who you who do you who do you think you are and it's so crazy the
01:40:12.460craziest thing is like it's like they they don't like the way i talk and i'm like we could never
01:40:20.380talk again this is completely voluntary this is completely voluntary i'm oh is it i'm getting
01:40:29.420to join your channel thank you thank you and you know it's like and you know it's crazy when we
01:40:39.980see it i want to tell the black people watching when white people see ghetto
01:40:43.740we don't want to argue with you we just leave like have you ever had a
01:40:47.180woman crash out on you and she thinks she won because you
01:40:51.820stopped talking or walk away it's the same thing do you know i
01:40:56.860actually wanted i had this other white really smart white guy i wanted to bring
01:41:00.460on lapif and he just said i can't deal with like
01:41:04.460black they over talk like i can't do it um because they're just
01:41:09.100gonna crash out and that's how it is with a lot of you guys it's like okay you you did some ghetto
01:41:15.820and then you expect me you it's like you do ghetto and then they expect us to
01:41:21.420engage and we're like well we're gonna stay over here where we don't have to deal with it
01:41:26.540um i knew a college educated black man in chicago he had to kick his drug addict brother out of his
01:41:31.900mother's house because he was robbing his mother blind yeah yeah and it's like and that's that's
01:41:38.620the thing with a lot of black people is they do the same stuff women do they get overly offended
01:41:43.260over things that are true they say you can't talk about it this way and then they do ghetto
01:41:48.140and they're surprised and we we don't even want to fight we say okay have fun with the ghetto
01:41:52.940we're just gonna walk away we're just gonna walk away that's like you can see videos where women
01:42:01.020are getting all hype or getting up in a guy's face and he's just laughing at it guys just laugh
01:42:08.140just laugh because it takes the power ray what pearl's doing right now is taking these people
01:42:15.100he he's don't have to give an f people wanna this is black people women all these groups
01:42:23.340they feel entitled to your time to your resources to all of it you don't have to give anyone anything
01:42:29.820no you don't feel entitled to us protecting their reputation which white people did for a while
01:42:35.340white people protected black people's reputation forever we went with the slavery narrative like
01:42:40.460we went with all this and we got nothing in return and we're like do you know what um
01:42:47.420yeah we just don't so again if you guys want to come up here and tell me i should say my
01:42:52.460experiences differently or you want to argue about why please just stay in the chat i don't
01:42:57.180want to talk to you we're not here i want to hear your experience why was it different not to
01:43:03.100to criticize my lived experience but share yours well there's um there's marvin oh there he is
01:43:13.060going on marvin good afternoon pearl good afternoon doug mpa long time no see how you
01:43:19.600doing buddy great just got off work perfect timing um i wanted to point out a few things
01:43:29.000i am black fatigue myself pearl are you black are you something are you you're white no i'm
01:43:38.680black fatigue mentally because um because what i went through myself i'm like are you okay
01:43:45.480so what was your experience um on the streets or on business wise why are you fatigued
01:43:54.040uh they're hard people to negotiate especially in this neck of the woods where i'm in in the
01:44:01.100california area um they tend to not like to hear the truth and then they start saying stuff like
01:44:07.900oh you must be racist because you know you don't want to they're always saying stuff like
01:44:13.200oh you're better than me because you know you're bad because you know just just stupid you know
01:44:18.060words like that and i just i can't deal with them uh i've rejected so many of them because
01:44:23.420they're just hard to get along with you know and they crash out huh yeah not to mention i was
01:44:31.500younger i got robbed by a black guy in public transportation in san francisco and on the muni
01:44:37.020i was only 14 and um i became a victim from assault from a black guy they're like it's
01:44:46.700is it they're like oh is it the culture or is it is it is it genetic and we're like we don't care
01:44:53.900we just want you to stop robbing us yeah because marvin you're supposed to understand that he
01:44:59.740didn't have his father in his life and and and he had lack of access to education and and and
01:45:07.660and all this you know who cares no who cares we don't and you know it's crazy the last guy
01:45:15.260no disrespect to him but like i've read that book i've read i i know the exact book he's talking
01:45:20.380about and i've read it so many times um and it's just like it doesn't really matter where where
01:45:27.100this stuff came from this is not i don't really i don't see history as really offering that many
01:45:33.980solutions i don't really see it i'm in alameda right now by the old um naval station there's a
01:45:42.220an old aircraft carrier parked at the waterfront over here, so I'm in a good area, but just down
01:45:48.140the road, it's Oakland, and Oakland's full of black gangsters out of this world, they'll rob
01:45:54.380everything, anything from their community, even rob their own kind, and, you know, in the projects,
01:46:00.420they just don't care, you know, people, some people never grow out of that mentality,
01:46:04.500and they've just been finessed, or they just never left the plantation, they just haven't
01:46:10.620growing out of that mindset of hurting people they just keep constantly robbing and constantly
01:46:15.980just saying rude things it's like come on yeah 20 30 years to do something with your lives
01:46:21.500go to school better your education better yourself as a person and what do they do they just stick
01:46:26.220with the robberies you know it's not they're always on the news channel four channel three
01:46:31.340channel live i was so um i i worked for a little bit in baltimore okay and uh the the place that
01:46:42.600i worked for they tried to um patron black businesses black owned businesses right and so
01:46:49.680um and one thing i noticed in dealing with black owned businesses is that the first thing they do
01:46:56.500is tell you that they're black owned and the reason why they do that is because black owned
01:47:02.620businesses their only goal is to survive not not to thrive not to make more money not to give
01:47:09.500superior service into in a superior product right but that's kind of like black culture in general
01:47:16.180like our our goal is just to to survive and not to thrive and do better thanks for calling in
01:47:24.900um hey look yeah i'm gonna bring him in one second
01:47:32.420yeah i know and this is the this is the thing i don't say this you know because
01:47:38.800they they want us to say well it's ghetto culture fatigue whatever and i'm like look
01:47:43.520if my experience was oh black people behave so much better when they just have money
01:47:49.340and are in better institutions it's like okay i again i grew up in my middle school three of
01:47:56.960the girls are doctors that out of a 10 person female team pretty high iq pretty intelligent
01:48:02.120uh saw the same patterns when black people entered that industry i went to corporate america 100
01:48:09.380white office white men i was the only girl and there's one black guy obviously i wasted people's
01:48:15.400at work as white women do i talk too much like right i mean come on um it distracted you know
01:48:22.280i mean what did the black guy do he called fax lines he could have worked and he just decided
01:48:26.760to call fax lines instead of doing his job so again i just don't i love that example
01:48:33.320i love it i'm not making it up they they're like you're making it up i'm like i am not
01:48:37.640this is too specific i mean i could tell you his name i wouldn't do that publicly but like
01:48:42.440and i remember everyone at the office was just amazed they couldn't fire him because he was the
01:48:46.440only black guy he got to do this for like nine to ten months like after they found out isn't that
01:48:54.280crazy like and then he just he lied on his resume said he was like the ceo like it was just crazy
01:49:02.040it is it gonna make a difference to the boss as to why he acted like that we don't care
01:49:06.600um and really as far as white people go it's kind of black people in general have just abused their
01:49:14.040kindness too much it's kind of on you guys to prove you're not like that and white people are
01:49:19.080so nice half the time we give you the benefit of the doubt anyway i still say that my staff is still
01:49:27.80050 black that's the crazy thing and the other crazy thing i was thinking about black people
01:49:36.760get madder at white people for racism than black people for murder they murder other black people
01:49:43.720like there's rappers and that are in the public eye that murder other black people and they get
01:49:50.200matter if a white woman says the n-word like that's that's a bigger crime than someone who killed
01:49:58.840like a bunch of like oh my god i'm like the white woman that went viral said the n-word okay whatever
01:50:06.020maybe like i personally wouldn't really use that but it's like she didn't kill anybody some of these
01:50:13.620like heroes in the black community for the women they falsely accused like the one that did it to
01:50:21.000Tory Lanez like Megan Thee Stallion black women still love her and it's like but a bitch says
01:50:29.720the n-word you know it's like all right let's bring up Sean before I monologue even longer
01:50:35.000Sean welcome to the show hey my boy what's going on what's going on what has been your experience
01:50:42.420um similar dissimilar open to all feel free yeah no my experience has been mostly negative hence
01:50:51.000why you see me on the lake far from black people let's go not here in the middle of nowhere
01:50:57.740but no i mean i've experienced it from the globe black people in brazil and africa it's the same
01:51:07.720complaints white people colonization white people destroyed the natives i mean i would say in
01:51:16.420america in my personal opinion that the whites are great because they put up with so much bs for a
01:51:26.560long time i mean come on most white people even elected a black person to rule their country
01:51:32.640in the united states of america that's how far you know we are as far as having those issues
01:51:39.320black fatigue always blaming racism always blaming the past for ailments um of course a
01:51:46.080community that ignores uh you know crime elements in our community in our cultures like we're
01:51:53.320talking about free prisoners we got t-shirts saying let's free a prisoner when he committed
01:51:59.360a crime it's ridiculous and so it's not only happening for white folks it happens to those
01:52:05.280people like even a doug who tries to probably help and then just gets tired and says you know what
01:52:11.680i'm tired of y'all telling me that it's racism to fill out a loan application if you fill it out
01:52:17.000you're probably going to get approved and be able to buy a house no white people don't want us to
01:52:21.520win they've always did this and so it shows itself too much and it just gets annoying and that's just
01:52:29.020how i experience on the black side now i'm a coon i'm a sellout i'm all these other different type
01:52:34.700of things i have i have a question if we segregated black people to california and white people to
01:52:40.220texas where would you live and what would be um your application process come on i'm gonna live
01:52:49.180with the white folks bro i'm gonna move with them and they're gonna allow me to move when you in our
01:52:55.140play pretend scenario doug mpi said he's in charge of allowing people in can you give him
01:53:00.720your pitch how would you pitch him so if i okay so to get into texas if you're black if you're if
01:53:09.540you're if you're a woman no bastard kids no weed no tattoos student loan debt of less than fifty
01:53:18.060thousand dollars um and then and then uh remember how how harvard added that um
01:53:26.700the character you have to have a certain kind of character i'd add that to black women and then
01:53:33.580black men uh no kids um no felonies a bachelor's degree um no kids no felonies bachelor's degree
01:53:46.460or if you don't have have a bachelor's degree at least two to three years of a of a highly valued
01:53:51.740skill or a trade okay okay now what was the question you asked me you got to give your
01:53:59.980pitch you're applying so okay applying okay okay no problem scenario how are you doing today
01:54:09.100no sean so so let's say that you were in charge of letting people into texas that is all white
01:54:15.580for black people okay and you got to set the terms you got to set the terms okay what would
01:54:20.780the terms be black people number one black people are got to be in charge because white people are
01:54:27.900too nice we'll start yeah yeah it'll be racist and you'll be too nice i'll be like hold on get
01:54:33.260out the way white man let me show you how this is really done what's up and see how you reply
01:54:40.380but no so first i would say i would definitely put on do you own a laptop i know it sounds
01:54:47.180crazy but it actually means something do you own a laptop if the answer is no then you're
01:54:52.300automatically out right so that's very important especially also about the kids i'll i'll actually
01:54:59.740never allow any black women in so that's just an x hey okay marry somebody else
01:55:05.260no it's just too steep man it's just too steep the toxicity what about like african women or
01:55:13.360caribbean women are you just saying like like are you just saying say american black women
01:55:17.300what if they're not fat like what if they're not fat no no no they're still out
01:55:21.380no they're still out have you seen howard like you know what i'm saying have you seen howard
01:55:27.600it's actually a prestigious college and they were still having grow lilla like girls who have been
01:55:32.540the suburbs all their life raised in million dollar houses in the white community have still
01:55:37.500adopted traits of ratchetness like cardi b making the stallion they still lead a woman who could
01:55:44.540actually have her own nail salon her own you know it it doesn't matter it really doesn't matter it
01:55:52.140reaches that demographics but we do have cornball black men those are the ones that i would be
01:55:57.100targeting those cornballs black men we don't have too much cornball white black women and so net net
01:56:03.420we'll just have to keep it like that and what were you saying you asked the question doug
01:56:08.380so so would you let in black women from the caribbean or the african continent or just like
01:56:13.900a a ban of all of them period no because i always say kind of like if you come from a
01:56:19.580losing nation why would i want to add you in my ranks like your nation's losing for the last
01:56:23.820there is no black strong country so it's hard for me to add that in there i'll have to get somebody
01:56:30.180i'm going to be allied with some forces that are actually going to help me
01:56:33.880economic socially and politically all right sean's got the job man you're hired
01:56:38.060what's funny is even in this scenario i'd probably be more forgiving than you guys i would say oh i
01:56:45.500mean one actually he could come in well okay no he can't well it's because he here's the thing
01:56:51.800and it's funny you know it's like me and b-dub they say oh why do you care it's because
01:56:57.700everything these people do affects me as a black person every story on the news i see every every
01:57:05.220time i see a headline i know it's a black person i'm like dang because that makes more people
01:57:11.120look at me sideways when i'm walking down the street so there's gonna there's gonna be
01:57:17.620have there have to be a time of multiple generations where where that type of stuff
01:57:23.520needs to stop happening to kind of ease that tension a little bit where there'd be no room
01:57:30.100for error like none zero i want to get to the point no i was going to ask pearl do you have
01:57:36.480asian fatigue no i don't exactly all right wait pearl are they a minority group yeah i don't mind
01:57:44.340are they a poc people of color allegedly that's what they would say yeah yeah but i can't think
01:57:49.780of anything they do wrong really um i have indian fatigue so if that counts as asian i kind of i do
01:57:55.380have india they they don't smell very good yeah but that's it right did it do they do all the other
01:58:01.940toxicity and all the other no but i just would prefer they go back while they put i'm just saying
01:58:08.020is now okay if you had to rate it from one to ten compared to the indian fatigue to the actual
01:58:16.740i mean 12 after what happened in london i got a 12 um indians um like a 5.7 so right it's not
01:58:27.140even on the high end right so again that kind of destroys the narrative that white people are just
01:58:32.580against all people again asians are doing extremely well in the united states actually
01:58:37.380outperforming a lot of white people when it comes down to economics and all class levels and so
01:58:42.900that's why i said the excuse is not about being minority of being poc it's about just being
01:58:47.780ridiculously bad at life and doing bad things and i don't see many agents protect the worst
01:58:54.880elements of their culture i don't see elon musk stand up for trailer trash and say well trailer
01:59:00.340trash the reason they're trailer trash is because no they just leave them over there in the parks
01:59:05.260and ignore them black people don't do that they protect that group i mean i could do an hour
01:59:12.360monologue on white women i really could i really could yeah well most white women are karens at
01:59:20.300some point the beauty fades and for us a little bit sooner right art no i know we crash out so
01:59:27.060that's kind of but the funny part was when you had the conversation no i was saying the funny
01:59:33.080part is when we have these conversations they said something like you remember this girl well
01:59:38.440y'all do shoes school students you were like yeah that's right you didn't deny it you said yeah
01:59:43.720that's right no gaslighting yeah but but when you said hey you do a lot of crime over here they're
01:59:49.800like oh whoa whoa let me ask you why is it because slavery is it because like and then
01:59:55.480the systematic racism in the gym why don't you want to talk to me pearl i can't imagine a single
02:00:02.040reason oh my gosh girl why why are you running i'm like because i'm fatigued
02:00:10.680yeah it's the fatigue we're going to bring up hoodservative
02:00:14.680you got hello hoodservative what do you have to add to the conversation
02:00:25.260oh well first off likewise i talked to doug in pa a couple weeks ago when you first kicked off
02:00:31.640this black fatigue war it was uh good stuff and uh thanks for having me up i gotta tell you i've
02:00:36.680been kind of watching you for a little while the first time the black crowd turned on you
02:00:42.580it sounds going yeah i'm calling i'm on my phone right now forgive me but um i remember the first
02:00:48.820time you had this whole battle years ago now we spoke a couple of times before a second then
02:00:53.620but i think your uh your villain arc has been interesting to watch because i do think it's true
02:00:58.020that um you genuinely do like hang around you have black friends around you all that so it's hard for
02:01:04.500people to just immediately accuse you of racism but i think the the black fatigue conversation
02:01:10.340really boils down to just being dishonest nobody wants to be honest about the real state of affairs
02:01:16.200or or even why things are the way they are like why so much of like if you look at the internet
02:01:21.980a lot of black content is coming up with conspiracy theories about white people white people do this
02:01:27.740and the history of racism of that like there's a lot of just contemplating white people that goes
02:01:35.160on and on the black side and i think if people would just be a lot more honest about what's
02:01:39.780happening and how we got to this point there would be way less fatigue but the fatigue thing
02:01:44.760is incredibly real and it's amazing to me that so many black folk try to deny it as if as if we
02:01:50.280haven't earned the reputation that we are on the other hand proud of because you know you get a lot
02:01:54.740of black folk though they they um celebrate the quote the ghetto you know all that sort of hostile
02:02:00.280behavior they they will describe it as black on one hand but then when other people say well those
02:02:05.700the things that make me not like you then it's so well we don't do that we're not all like that
02:02:10.260it's a very weird thing but again it comes from i think a place of just being uncomfortable with
02:02:15.380honesty yeah black people black people created this villain i am the villain um you guys created
02:02:22.020it i would have talked about it two years ago but i was trying to get back on youtube
02:02:28.020we have a thing you know it's like one of the worst things ever happened was this
02:02:31.860whole believe all women thing where like women will will will defend a woman doing crazy stuff
02:02:38.340in the news even even knowing that they have friends in their real life to do the same thing
02:02:44.420but they'll defend all women with black people we defend all black people when when we suffer
02:02:51.540worse for from the same black people that we're defending it's like oh yeah do defend all black
02:02:57.460people at all no no not anymore that time is up no way welcome to the show greg what do you have to
02:03:04.740add hey pearl i used to live up there near uh chicago heights and worked at a factory and i've
02:03:10.740worked my way up to supervisor and the entire line that made this car part was all black except me
02:03:16.180then i lived in gary indiana where there was a little tiny trailer park and that was the only
02:03:22.340white part of the entire part of gary indiana well anyway while i was working at this um
02:03:29.060uh part or at this um car park place making this part you could go down the line and just
02:03:36.020it was like a circus it was like every single one of them you could just say was a complete
02:03:39.940hard moron every single one of them i mean one would drive this forklift drunk every day and
02:03:47.060disappear the old man that was there that was near retirement age he would just walk in he would
02:03:51.860clock in i'm not kidding he would walk back out of the factory and come back in at time to clock
02:03:56.660out and he did this all the time and never got in trouble for it got paid every time
02:04:02.020another one of them uh there's this big machine that would just rotate these big uh
02:04:06.900threader you've probably seen metal things that come together and they shred the material
02:04:12.020and there's a chute where you'd feed the material down in there well this one
02:04:15.620black guy he would hold on to a bar and he would stick his whole body in the chute
02:04:19.300and his his feet would be this far from those teeth i mean if he if he'd screwed up this far
02:04:23.380he's a dead man and he would just laugh and think it's just freaking hilarious and he'd pull himself
02:04:28.500out of there and and rather than realize that he just about came within half an inch of a very
02:04:32.980gruesome death would just start cracking up and talking about the stink on his fingers
02:04:37.540i mean this is how these people are they're just all hearts okay and okay how is being their
02:04:42.820supervisor when you had to like discipline one of these people how did that go because that's
02:04:47.700my worst nightmare well so i i was i tried to make the best of it i knew i was in a losing
02:04:58.740situation and also was like 21 years old so i was pretty young so you know i'd just try to crack
02:05:05.460jokes and stuff like when a power go out i'd say hey y'all need to smile so i can take a head count
02:05:09.860here you know what are you gonna do right but i mean i wanted to ask you guys something especially
02:05:19.540pearl and they are the white gentleman i just joined the panel um for the last two or three
02:05:23.220days i guess i've been kind of covering a certain thing um the white man is fighting for his rights
02:05:28.660right now so the other day the the white house has um i think she's with the eeoc like the doj
02:05:34.820And so now the white man and this might apply to you
02:05:39.780I don't know if you're still in the game or not, sir, but uh
02:05:42.100You can now sue if you believe that your white male civil rights have been violated in the workplace
02:05:47.060Because you know how this dei thing came out and people are just like giddy to not hire a white guy
02:05:52.660And i'm like, you know, technically that is kind of illegal, but you know, it's not my place