Pearl - September 14, 2026


“She Admits Her PERSONALITY Might Be Why She’s Single” @JustPearlyThings

“40 Year Old Woman Asks Why ONLY 26 Year Old Men Want Her” @JustPearlyThings “He Said He ‘Wasn’t Ready for a Relationship’ and She BELIEVED Him” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

264.35

Word count

410

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Toxicity

3

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I also think maybe like telling them a little bit about me like I don't know why I didn't do this
00:00:04.020 I think I was just trying not to like talk bad about myself or bring in any past relationships
00:00:07.540 into it but I am a very slow burn like I need a long time to feel comfortable with somebody
00:00:14.000 especially to be like fully myself like there's a lot of versions of Deb despite what you think
00:00:17.660 and I told him this at the very end when he ended things I said maybe this is one of the reasons why
00:00:23.500 there wasn't anything there it's because I felt very reserved because I was so in my head about
00:00:26.920 not wanting to mess anything up because i don't date that often and truly dinner dates scare me
00:00:32.520 so badly you never believe it i literally came from a dating show where you go on dates dinner
00:00:36.660 dates for some reason there's just so much pressure i get so in my head and then i feel 0.98
00:00:40.280 like i'm thinking too much so then i just come across as really stupid because that 0.72
00:00:43.480 is my number one defense mechanism my acting teacher one time told me that i am an expert 0.98
00:00:47.840 at weaponizing incompetence and i kind of want to get that tattooed on my forehead because it
00:00:52.080 is the most accurate representation of me this is kind of turning into like a vulnerable post
00:00:55.680 I'm embarrassed I also think I need to work on asking more questions about the other person
00:01:00.820 like I just get so caught up in like having a conversation and like the tangents we go on and
00:01:04.840 just like random little things that I forget that it's a date and you're supposed to be getting to
00:01:08.500 know the person but like okay I know where you went to school I know what you study like I know
00:01:11.900 what you do for work like what other what other questions are there what's your social security
00:01:15.820 number I don't know and then that makes me feel like I'm on love on the spectrum if I had to google
00:01:19.660 like questions to ask on a date but maybe I should go on love on the spectrum anyways I'm back to
00:01:25.460 trying to going on dates so hopefully they go better yeah and she's complaining but she'll
00:01:29.740 have pick the litter i mean you know you can't believe this stuff