Pearl - May 21, 2025


She Caught Him Cheating — Then Ruined His $17 Million NFL Deal

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Episode Stats


Length

4 minutes

Words per minute

162.34

Word count

709

Sentence count

91

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

9

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about cheating, domestic violence, and why women think it s okay to commit crimes over cheating. We also talk about a woman who was arrested for vandalizing her husband's car for cheating, and a man who lost his $17 million contract with the Baltimore Ravens for a domestic violence incident.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I just want to make this easy for you. So, either you step out the house or we go in there.
00:00:02.500 You're not coming in.
00:00:04.100 Look. Nah, you can't come in.
00:00:06.580 A woman destroying a car for cheating and getting arrested for it. 0.53
00:00:25.080 Vandalism for what?
00:00:26.160 She said, for what? 1.00
00:00:31.760 Bitch. 1.00
00:00:34.220 What do you think? Guys, make sure you like the video. A like is free. 1.00
00:00:37.720 For what?
00:00:38.740 Vandalism from all over social media.
00:00:41.980 I'm pregnant. I can't do this.
00:00:43.140 A risk for what?
00:00:44.500 He hits her. What do you mean?
00:00:46.400 You don't know nothing. Why are you here?
00:00:48.080 He puts his fucking hands on me. 1.00
00:00:49.080 Did you press charges, man? 1.00
00:00:50.220 No.
00:00:50.940 Exactly. 1.00
00:00:51.320 You need to come out and step out with us, bitch. 1.00
00:00:53.500 No, she's not going nowhere. 1.00
00:00:54.680 She needs to come out with us right now. 0.98
00:00:56.060 She's not going nowhere.
00:00:56.800 Do not close the door.
00:00:57.900 I'm going to close the door because she's not going nowhere.
00:01:00.640 Step out the house.
00:01:02.040 Yeah, and so that's why you always see women have these altercations with the police. 1.00
00:01:06.240 They're so used to just doing whatever they want that when a man treats them equally, they really can't take it.
00:01:17.120 Five seconds, ma'am. Step out. 1.00
00:01:18.920 We're just going to make this easy for you.
00:01:20.780 So either you step out of the house or we go in there.
00:01:22.740 You're not coming in.
00:01:24.380 Look.
00:01:25.280 No, you can't come in.
00:01:26.860 Okay, okay.
00:01:27.440 I can go.
00:01:27.900 You can't come in.
00:01:33.120 They proceed to come in.
00:01:42.740 That's so funny.
00:01:43.740 What do you mean?
00:01:45.580 Why do women think it's okay to commit crimes over cheating? 1.00
00:01:50.560 Like, I understand cheating is an L. 0.59
00:01:52.520 You can be mad about it.
00:01:53.880 But, I mean, that doesn't give you the right to vandalize or to trespass.
00:02:00.740 Or even worse, a woman will sabotage their husband or significant other because they got mad. 1.00
00:02:07.660 This guy that was on the Seahawks, he went to the Ravens.
00:02:12.960 He got a $17 million one-year deal with the Ravens.
00:02:17.300 Him and his wife got in a fight, and his brother was in the NFL too.
00:02:21.100 So him and his wife, they got in a fight, and he went to his brother's house.
00:02:24.460 His brother was holding a party.
00:02:26.300 So, of course, on Snapchat and social media, he was posting videos of him and his brother at the party at his brother's house with women all over the place.
00:02:35.980 So one of his friends, one of his wife's friends, saw that and showed the wife. 0.93
00:02:41.880 The wife got her, you know, her pistol with three of her friends, went to the house, was waving the gun around, pistol whipped a couple of the hookers there. 1.00
00:02:53.940 And when the police came, he had gotten the pistol away from his wife, but she had picked up a knife.
00:03:01.440 It was chasing him around his car in the driveway, right?
00:03:05.980 So the police walk up, and they're literally running back and forth around the cars.
00:03:09.840 So they arrest her, and because it's a domestic, you know, incident, he ended up losing his $17 million contract with the Baltimore Ravens.
00:03:19.780 No.
00:03:21.700 Yeah.
00:03:21.960 Oh, my.
00:03:23.840 I can't believe she brought a gun.
00:03:25.480 What is wrong with these women? 1.00
00:03:27.040 And was it worth it?
00:03:29.920 No.
00:03:30.440 Was $17 million...
00:03:31.600 Yeah, and that's why the guys have to placate to the women, too. 1.00
00:03:37.740 You know what I mean?
00:03:38.240 Like, it would have been easier for him to say, oh, you're right, let me just leave this party.
00:03:43.400 You know, like, it would have saved...
00:03:44.420 Even though he shouldn't have to do that, that's how women end up getting their way. 1.00
00:03:49.220 Because, Ben, it's like, you don't want to...
00:03:50.980 You just lost $17 million for what?
00:03:54.280 Yeah.
00:03:54.640 And, of course, his statement was pretty correct.
00:03:58.120 He's like, yeah, you know, me and my wife need to take some privacy, so please respect our privacy, and, you know, I want to get my family back.
00:04:05.240 She ruined it for you, dude. 0.99
00:04:06.760 There is nothing that he could have done.
00:04:08.540 And she doesn't work. 1.00
00:04:10.180 So was that worth $17 million?
00:04:12.480 I don't think so.
00:04:13.620 Yeah, especially athletes.
00:04:15.080 They got to wait until their career is over to get married. 0.63
00:04:18.360 Oh, God.
00:04:20.100 There's too many sharks in there.