Pearl - “She Got PUMPED AND DUMPED and Learned This the Hard Way” @JustPearlyThings

00:00:00.000 about it i'd be like so what are you looking for so why are you single when was your last

00:00:03.260 relationship i'm just trying not to be annoying okay also like didn't want to mess it up at all

00:00:07.860 i also think i need to be more upfront with like what i'm looking for in the beginning like i don't

00:00:12.460 date for fun like i'm getting old like i'm dating to yeah see this is why we're more insufferable

00:00:17.200 because when we're young we're like teehee let's see where it goes then we get pumped and dumped

00:00:21.040 and we're like i am looking for a marriage yesterday actually find a relationship we don't

00:00:25.920 have to get married tomorrow like trust me i do not want that i have a lot to do in the meantime

00:00:28.980 but like a boyfriend for like a while would be nice before even thinking about the next step but

00:00:34.020 that's like i'm not looking for like i don't need dinner like i i can cook well i can't cook but you

00:00:39.720 know i can make sure myself okay so just you know establishing maybe that like earlier i think

00:00:43.460 asking earlier what they're looking for because if what they're looking for isn't me like that

00:00:47.260 could have been established on like date three rather than having to go yeah but a lot of times

00:00:50.380 our insufferability is hidden in the beginning so then they date us for longer and they're like

00:00:55.900 oh you're insufferable let me dump let me pump and dump through five of them but I did get fed

00:01:00.460 really well so I'm not mad about that at all

Pearl - September 14, 2026