Pearl - May 20, 2025


She Got What She Wanted — Now She’s Trying to Ruin His Life

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Halo Halle Bailey Twitch Daryl Dwayne Granberry Jr. Haley
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Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

169.99

Word count

1,974

Sentence count

95

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

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Toxicity

18

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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DDG is fighting for his son Halo's custody. He claims that he has been fighting for custody of his son for months, but he doesn't want anyone hating on him over it. He wants to see his son, Halo, grow up in a safe and loving home. He is fighting to have his son with his ex-wife, Haley, get custody of their son. He has been in and out of court with his son since 2017, and now he's fighting to get his son back.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 haley's gonna do next is destroy his life so now what always triggers these women's scorn 0.55
00:00:08.160 right like can we let's talk about what what triggers these women to be evil 1.00
00:00:16.800 younger hotter women yup yup i mean she kind of looks like a chipmunk to me 1.00
00:00:25.040 but i mean all of you guys would right you're all gonna do it i think she's other than the
00:00:29.920 lips like she's got better facial symmetry than haley she looks a little younger pretty you know
00:00:37.760 not by much but yeah this is gonna this is gonna set a woman off this is gonna make her take her kid 1.00
00:00:43.440 so now you try to start a new relationship or even if you're just flirting with a 0.99
00:00:46.960 girl or she perceives it she's ready to kill you 0.99
00:00:59.920 she looks like a lot more 1.00
00:01:05.120 but
00:01:05.760 not
00:01:09.280 or
00:01:10.800 is
00:01:13.920 It's done
00:01:41.920 So conveniently after this 0.88
00:01:49.920 Now this is what Haley's gonna do next is destroy his life 1.00
00:01:56.920 So DDG claims that he has been fighting for his son Halo's custody for months
00:02:05.920 But he doesn't want anyone hating on Haley over it
00:02:08.920 Now he kinda does want people hating on Haley over it
00:02:11.920 Let's just be honest
00:02:13.920 People love trashing
00:02:14.920 But men are afraid of women
00:02:16.920 Right? So he's gotta like tread carefully
00:02:18.920 But he's
00:02:21.920 Now he's experiencing the false accusations
00:02:27.920 Now he's gonna go through it
00:02:28.920 The thing I don't like when people do
00:02:31.920 I don't like when people hate on Haley
00:02:33.920 I don't care if people think she wrong or not
00:02:36.920 Or if I think she wrong or right
00:02:39.920 She could be going through something mentally after having a kid that I can't understand as a man
00:02:44.920 So when situations like this happen
00:02:48.920 I try to handle it with as much grace as possible
00:02:51.920 Because Halo needs her
00:02:54.920 You know, I need her
00:02:56.920 We need each other to create a childhood that's safe and fun and memorable for him
00:03:03.920 And Halo is the biggest blessing in my life
00:03:06.920 Like, I don't know
00:03:09.920 Like I don't remember what life was like before Halo
00:03:13.920 And I wouldn't have him if it wasn't for Haley
00:03:15.920 And for that reason alone
00:03:16.920 Like I got unconditional love or respect for her
00:03:20.920 They said men aren't afraid of women 1.00
00:03:24.920 Men are afraid of the police who will enforce what women want 1.00
00:03:26.920 Yeah, I mean fair
00:03:28.920 But so he's saying look it don't hate on her
00:03:31.920 I just want to see my kid
00:03:33.920 Right? And that's that's a fair ask, you know
00:03:35.920 I mean, it's pretty fair
00:03:37.920 All right, let me see what we got next
00:03:40.920 Copy this
00:03:44.920 No
00:03:48.920 So now they're going back and forth to court
00:03:51.920 And what you're gonna see is the difference in perception of men versus women
00:03:54.920 So Twitter, Twitter is more of a male dominated app
00:03:59.920 And so all the clips I see on Twitter are gonna be
00:04:02.920 And this is what you'll see go on in like communities too
00:04:05.920 The men take the women's or the most of the men deep down take the men's side 0.54
00:04:10.920 Unless they have to take the woman's 1.00
00:04:12.920 While the women spreads rumors about the guy 1.00
00:04:16.920 And that's women's primary way to destroy men is reputation destruction 1.00
00:04:20.920 And she can get all the men on her side 1.00
00:04:21.920 You know, like one thing she said in court is I could not concentrate or be present at the Met Gala
00:04:28.920 Yet she was out partying at the after party and did a tweet and delete
00:04:32.920 So she was saying
00:04:35.920 His Twitch posts ruined my night, which it did and then
00:04:40.920 Now I want to contrast how those clips are with how women are perceiving this situation 1.00
00:04:49.920 I am so sick and tired of all this like what is it with like the amount of DV cases that I'm hearing about
00:04:54.920 There's just too much happening
00:04:55.920 So DDG has been accused of putting his hands on Halle Bailey
00:05:01.920 She's come out to file a restraining order against DDG 0.98
00:05:09.920 He's laid his crusty disgusting hands and beat a woman 0.98
00:05:12.920 Anyone who's laying there like this is why they have to drop her 1.00
00:05:16.920 And my wife is like, she's going to drop her down 1.00
00:05:18.920 I am so sick and tired of all this 1.00
00:05:19.920 he's laid his crusty, disgusting hands and beat a woman. 1.00
00:05:23.680 Anyone who's laying their hand on a woman is absolutely vile. 0.99
00:05:27.280 And that's the women's interpretation, 1.00
00:05:31.920 is it doesn't matter how much I provoke a man,
00:05:34.480 it doesn't matter how bad I am, if I hit him first,
00:05:37.340 anybody who lays their hand on a woman is wrong. 1.00
00:05:42.340 I mean, to you, you are disgusting, 1.00
00:05:44.640 bottom barrel behavior that is, like, what the hell? 0.99
00:05:47.800 And the thing is DDG is still live-streaming and he actually made a statement.
00:05:52.260 We're going to go ahead and talk about what it is that Haley has accused DDG of,
00:05:55.180 but DDG has made a statement, pretty much being nonchalant and making it seem like everything's cool,
00:05:59.180 when you've literally just been accused of DDG.
00:06:00.640 Like, the way that he's trying to say that I'll be on Twitch later,
00:06:03.140 like, are you going to be trying to address it?
00:06:04.720 Like, anything, this guy would do anything for clicks and it's actually really desperate.
00:06:08.560 And it's so disgusting because I remember I used to watch DDG back in 2017,
00:06:12.060 16, 17, 18, I remember being, I think I was going from secondary school to college 0.97
00:06:17.140 and I remember watching him, he used to, like, have those long ass videos.
00:06:19.520 I don't know what, like, if he still does this now, and there'll be, like, so many ads in between.
00:06:23.360 And a lot of his content was, I think she likes me, I think she likes me.
00:06:25.780 I don't know what his content is like now, but I know that he's still streaming and a lot of people still rock with him.
00:06:30.020 So for him to literally hear about this in the media, and there's so many news sites covering it,
00:06:36.600 it's a little bit insane to me, if I'm going to be real.
00:06:39.180 No, it's very insane. Let's be so for real.
00:06:40.760 And they said, they share a child, Halo, um, nobody should be going through this,
00:06:45.600 but it seems like the DV cases have just literally increased so much and it's just so disturbing.
00:06:49.440 So let's go ahead. I'm going to go get, go ahead and give you guys a disclaimer.
00:06:52.660 Um, there's going to be a description of verbal and physical abuse.
00:06:55.540 So yeah, also I'm literally in my pajamas right now with this weird ass angle at my pink mic.
00:07:01.040 But you know what? I just didn't feel like actually leaving my bed today.
00:07:03.840 Therefore, I'm not going to leave my, I'm not going to leave my bed today.
00:07:05.780 So Halle Bailey has been granted a restraining order against her ex, DDG, as per the AP. 0.55
00:07:15.300 The two first fucked romance rumors back in January, 2022,
00:07:19.120 and went on to welcome their son, Halo, in December of 2023.
00:07:22.320 The following October, DDG, whose real name is Daryl Dwayne Granberry Jr.,
00:07:27.000 confirmed that they'd broken up, writing on his, of course, it's always him.
00:07:30.260 And that's another thing about DDG. He loves content. He loves to be the first one in there.
00:07:33.060 And the thing with Halle is that it's not that she doesn't come out to say certain things,
00:07:36.660 but I just don't think, and that's not me trying to, and look, me saying what I'm about to say
00:07:41.360 does not mean that he should have stole ladies' hands on her. Absolutely not.
00:07:44.340 But I just feel like we weren't in this relationship and that's not me talking about abuse here.
00:07:47.440 Please hear me out. I'm trying to say like, you know, before this whole abuse thing happened, right?
00:07:51.240 A lot of people are like, oh my God.
00:07:52.460 It's all the same, it's all the same path, right?
00:07:56.520 And this is just what I've seen and what I think is going on here.
00:08:00.040 Oh my gosh. So first thing that happens is a man and a woman are together, right? 0.96
00:08:08.380 And so typically the woman wants something out of the guy. 0.98
00:08:13.040 So she behaves like a completely different person to get what she wants. 1.00
00:08:16.520 Some women, it's a baby. Some women, it's a wedding. 1.00
00:08:19.420 Some women, it's a kid. Some women, it's 10 kids, right? 1.00
00:08:22.660 And you don't really see how the woman is as a person until she gets what she wants. 1.00
00:08:27.260 There's no preventing this and there's no predicting this.
00:08:30.440 I don't care what the trads say. There's ways that you can maybe lower your risk, but you don't know.
00:08:37.040 And so what happens is they're together and the woman builds like a catalog of all the things she hates about the guy,
00:08:45.500 but doesn't say anything, right?
00:08:47.420 She just builds up, lets it present, whatever.
00:08:49.880 Because she's got to be nice and perfect and an angel to him to get what she wants. 0.85
00:08:56.580 So then the woman is an angel or whatever, gets what she wants. 0.52
00:09:01.220 And then the real her comes out.
00:09:04.080 Now, remember, the woman is keeping a catalog of everything that he's done wrong.
00:09:09.740 The men don't do this.
00:09:11.460 Men forget, you know, like they can forgive and forget and actually forget.
00:09:15.840 Women, we're just, we don't do, not all, not all. 1.00
00:09:18.140 So what I see happening is now the woman can interpret situations where before the baby, 0.97
00:09:25.820 she was afraid to say no to him, right?
00:09:29.600 So, um, for example, if before she had, she got the baby,
00:09:36.040 she may have been afraid to say no to certain sex acts or whatever, 1.00
00:09:40.120 because she doesn't have the leverage.
00:09:41.960 DDG, DDG is a streamer.
00:09:44.400 He can go hook up with the next one.
00:09:46.400 So she gets the leverage. 1.00
00:09:48.080 And now the woman has this catalog of stories to destroy his reputation 0.96
00:09:52.440 and, um, interpret things as non-consensual retrospectively.
00:09:58.680 So maybe she was uneasy about doing something in the bedroom.
00:10:02.780 Maybe she provoked a fight out of him.
00:10:05.160 Well, now the way she's going to see it, um, and she wouldn't have said it at the time.
00:10:09.360 She's going to see it retrospectively is that it was abusive and she did not consent to this stuff.
00:10:16.440 So now she has a catalog in her head of all the bad things he's done.
00:10:19.980 She's going to spread it to the whole friend group.
00:10:22.440 To the whole town.
00:10:23.540 And now in 2025, the whole internet.
00:10:26.040 And, um, so now what she can do is she can go to court,
00:10:31.120 especially if she divorces her files first, 0.99
00:10:33.740 and she can be the first one to, um, tell the story.
00:10:37.220 And once the first story is out there, it's very difficult.
00:10:40.620 It's, and working in media, you figure this out.
00:10:43.140 How many times, I mean, there's been rumors about me that just are simply not true,
00:10:49.300 but the amount of time it would take me to correct the record.
00:10:52.420 It's, it's not even worth it.
00:10:53.740 It's done.
00:10:54.580 And women know this. 1.00
00:10:55.860 So they always go first, right?
00:10:58.080 They go and they put out the information first.
00:11:02.700 Now, now the man is on defense.
00:11:07.020 So he's got to go and say, Hey, no, I'm a good dad.
00:11:10.220 You see him on.
00:11:10.860 So all I want is to be with my son.
00:11:12.340 I love my son.
00:11:13.500 Well, she's got a catalog, even a phone library of all the evidence to use against you.
00:11:18.700 Now, what men that are smarter, they keep a catalog back, right? 1.00
00:11:24.180 So they keep evidence that she consented.
00:11:27.280 They keep evidence that she wanted to be there, yada, yada, yada.
00:11:30.740 But the men that are blue-pilled and they go, I'm going to be with my baby mama forever. 1.00
00:11:35.180 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:11:35.980 Sorry, fellas. 1.00