Join us this week as we discuss the fallout from the revelation that the details of the divorce between Steven and Hillary had been leaked to the public by her ex-husband, Steven, and his lawyer. We talk about the fallout, why this should never have happened, and why Hillary should be allowed to move on with her life.
00:16:37.120Not a lot of people were, they wanted to just hate Steven.
00:16:39.940And like you said, somebody can go out tomorrow and just make stuff up
00:16:43.080out of thin air and it, we have no re how do we prove it didn't happen?
00:16:47.320You can just continue to make things up as you go.
00:16:51.100And so there is some protection provided by an NDA like, hey, this is part of it.
00:16:55.100I have to sign NDAs, not just with this company, but with other companies and vendors and things like that.
00:17:00.120It's like mutual non-disparagements, things that are very, very reasonable to make sure that there is some protection that you can go back and say, well, look, you said that you would do this.
00:17:09.680And by the way, no one out there ever has to sign an NDA, ever.
00:17:16.860You just can't work here if you don't. That's the only thing. That is required at so many jobs. I think UPS makes you sign an NDA. Somebody can fact check me out there, but there are so many companies that make you sign an NDA so that you can't disclose proprietary or private information. It's just a normal standard thing to do, and it is not a problem with free speech.
00:17:38.520You can believe in free speech the way that we do and we champion free speech and say, hey, by the way, you can't reveal the private address of where Steven Crowder lives because it's a security concern for him and his children.
00:17:49.520That's the kind of stuff that we're talking about.
00:17:52.520And it's not limited to that, but there are other things.
00:17:54.880But that is like the most easily understandable portion.
00:17:57.340We're like, yeah, well, that makes sense.
00:17:58.940You cannot sign an NDA and go get a job somewhere where that's not required.
00:18:14.520And it's frustrating because I counted Jared as one of my friends.
00:18:18.620And I, when he left, I didn't really have much contact, if any, with him for a long time.
00:18:23.280But then to see him doing these kinds of things is really frustrating to me because I know
00:18:27.460that it would have been the last thing that I would have expected from him.
00:18:31.680And so it's difficult, but at the same time, I would rather he not make any further mistakes.
00:18:35.940and so hopefully this lawsuit will get people's attention hey knock it off this can't keep going
00:18:41.300on and we'll see where this goes i don't know but um i wanted to touch on one quick thing that you
00:18:47.140said and i mentioned it briefly you've been onto this for a little while and you took a lot of
00:18:51.600arrows for this because people said you were just defending stephen crowder that you were on our
00:18:56.520payroll have are you on our payroll by the way because if you are i didn't know and i'm supposed
00:19:00.720to be in charge of that it doesn't really look good if the ceo doesn't know of course not you're
00:19:05.140not on our payroll, right? Like you were onto this and you took a lot of arrows for this. And
00:19:09.820hopefully today people see like, Hey, you weren't bringing this from nowhere. You've seen this kind
00:19:14.780of stuff before. And it just reeked of it initially. I'm glad you saw that because that
00:19:19.440was very, very good to see, but I couldn't comment on it. Obviously we weren't, we weren't doing any
00:19:24.240of that, but man, I tell you what, you can really tell, um, who your friends are when stuff like
00:19:29.580this happens, who gives you the benefit of the doubt, who stands by your side and who doesn't.
00:19:33.960Well, I just couldn't believe the simping. It was just driving me nuts. You guys just believe women, you know, a lot of the conservatives just believe women with a story and we need to verify these facts. And again, guys, if we're going to throw the abuse term around, you need a police report. You need one. That is the only court that is based on evidence.
00:19:53.540yeah so i yeah i and yeah they keep this month apparently i work for you guys i work for the
00:19:59.780daily wire like this month i work for wow you're busy i know i um i was like damn i'm demonetized
00:20:07.940i should give them my cash out well i i think you're right like it's weird for it's it's weird
00:20:15.060and i'm not ascribing this to any particular person so nobody read between the lines i am
00:20:18.980speaking very generally but going back to brett kavanaugh's confirmation with uh what is it christine
00:20:23.700blazy ford and she we're they're like believe all women like whoa whoa whoa whoa no don't just
00:20:28.500believe all women don't believe all men don't believe all don't believe all anything yeah like
00:20:33.460have evidence and have facts to back it up but then when something like this happens it's like
00:20:37.380oh i stand with so and so and i was like well why what evidence do you have that what they're saying
00:20:43.540is true like you should operate that way all the time don't get carried away with an opinion because
00:20:49.900you dislike somebody don't get carried away with an opinion because you feel for somebody you can
00:20:53.980still feel for somebody and say divorce is terrible i'm so sorry this is happening to you
00:20:57.800or or with what you're going through whether they're at fault or not but don't run down the
00:21:04.760line of oh that guy's a monster because they had an argument that involved no yelling right in that
00:21:11.920backyard video that we saw. Don't run down that line, especially when there's years of evidence
00:21:17.200to the contrary. There are passionate people out there. I mean, gosh, I would hate, I've been in
00:21:22.580arguments with my wife that were more severe and we barely argue that much. So there have been
00:21:28.780moments where you're just like, ah, honey, I wasn't at my best. I'm really sorry. And you make up and
00:21:33.520you love one another. It's just frustrating, Pearl, because they go and they run with it and
00:21:38.700you have to come back and go but this is what we preach against don't become something that we hate
00:21:43.340just because it's convenient well we saw a lot of that and what i have found in a lot of these cases
00:21:48.940women poison the well years in advance so it's almost like if maybe there was mutual friends
00:21:55.020and i'm not saying this happened or didn't i think the facts will come out eventually so we'll see
00:22:00.380but what i have found is that women poison the well with mutual friends colleagues etc and so
00:22:07.100when you know a clip or something goes viral they'll all confirm it because they've heard
00:22:12.220stories from this woman for years um and i i find that that's like every other divorce case i
00:22:19.520interview yeah and i you know i don't have a lot of experience with divorce cases i had um my one
00:22:26.960of my best friends went through divorce but i didn't really know much about it at the time
00:22:30.200this has been a crash course um in the tactics of a divorce and it is eye-opening it is eye-opening
00:22:37.340to see the system and how it is uh structured and it almost takes somebody who hasn't been divorced
00:22:44.200to be able to help reform the system because otherwise you're just kind of somebody who's
00:22:47.860been divorced and you're frustrated about what happened to you well i haven't been divorced
00:22:51.820don't plan on it ever my wife and i have talked about this we will we will figure out a way
00:22:57.520rather than go through divorce. But the system does need to change. It really, really does. It
00:23:04.060is geared towards women and against men. And sometimes, look, I understand why those things
00:23:09.120evolve. Don't get me wrong. I understand that there can be a power imbalance in a lot of these
00:23:13.780relationships, but it doesn't mean right and wrong. It doesn't mean somebody is the victim
00:23:17.020and somebody is the aggressor. So we've got to get away from that. And we've also got to get away
00:23:22.200from the ease with which people get divorced. It's terrible. As a Christian, I want people to
00:23:28.620respect marriage, to get married, to have a family, but to do it thoughtfully. And seeing
00:23:35.940the divorce tear families apart, seeing this divorce specifically and what it's done, my gosh,
00:23:41.980man, make good choices. And then if stuff gets tough, just try to work it out. And I know that's
00:23:47.640what was happening here. It was being worked on at the time of the divorce being filed. It was
00:23:52.160being worked on and i just wish that that process had been able to play out well there's a guidebook
00:23:57.500you know it's called how to destroy a man have you read really yeah no it's called how to destroy a
00:24:03.360man it's exactly what she's doing actually there's like a guidebook you can find it online on how to
00:24:09.080use the system to destroy men um and it's it goes as far to use the media to destroy men because the
00:24:16.580way that the media reports on information. As we saw, it's as if he was guilty. It even goes so
00:24:25.340far to describe that if the victim is a woman or a child, the media is more likely to report on it.
00:24:30.780It also tells you how to use the police. Because if there's ever a story that indicates that they
00:24:37.420might be incompetent, they're more likely to act. And it's really effed up, actually. There's an
00:24:43.000entire guidebook that instructs women on how to do this and it's completely legal so i really think
00:24:48.440that this should be number one of the number one issues um to be honest for conservatives this
00:24:53.560election you know um because i i personally think men aren't going to vote until there's some
00:25:00.920you know the one party at least starts to cater to their issues or at least try to like it's it's
00:25:08.200you're in a weird position as a man excuse me who's you know a white male you're not you're
00:25:12.920not really a part of any protected class that you can really depend on and uh apparently everything's
00:25:18.520been easy for you in life that's not the case like and i'm not crying poverty either saying
00:25:23.400like oh my gosh my life has been so hard yes there's been challenges in my life but i've been
00:25:26.760very blessed i get it but it's not because i'm white or male where there's some advantages yeah
00:25:31.720but i can squander them i have tons of people that i can point to that are white and male and losers
00:25:36.120right i get it like you you can have all of the advantages quote unquote in the world and still
00:25:40.840it doesn't help you at all i i just think it you end up in a difficult position when none of this
00:25:47.160seems kind of geared towards you and they would argue that the entire system is and i'm like well
00:25:51.880name it talk to me about the systems right now that favor men not just white men but men in
00:25:58.520general you certainly can't point to divorce laws marriage law anything like you can't point to any
00:26:03.080of that stuff you certainly can't point to getting into college uh and having you know quotas for
00:26:08.520that you certainly can't point to any of that you certainly can't run on being a man for any office
00:26:13.080you certainly can't be appointed to supreme court simply because you're a woman right we saw them
00:26:17.560basically list the top qualification for uh kentaji uh jackson brown brown jackson brown jackson i
00:26:23.720always say it backwards as being a black female and i was like well hold on i need i need somebody
00:26:27.960who's a great judge first and foremost right so i think you're right that there is this group of
00:26:33.800voters out there that is feeling completely left behind by politicians because they just assume
00:26:39.640everything's okay not everything's okay and you're starting to see it play out in relationships and
00:26:45.240men not wanting to date not wanting to get married it's not because they don't like women they do
00:26:49.800it's just that this is such a difficult time to be a young man trying to find a partner a wife
00:26:57.000for life and it's just sometimes it's just easier not to it's easier just to go you know what this
00:27:02.680is this is crazy i don't want to be a part of this and that tears at the fabric of our society
00:27:07.960and so something does have to be done i don't know what all the answers are for this but something
00:27:12.760has to be done people have to take an honest look at it and go you know what what's happening over
00:27:17.480there right now that's not okay we've got to change it i don't care who the class of person
00:27:21.480is male female white black it doesn't matter hispanic asian none of that none of that matters
00:27:25.880that's not right so let's go and fix that to make sure that men don't feel like they can't do
00:27:32.440anything right and women don't feel like they don't do anything wrong there's got to be this
00:27:38.440middle ground that we come back to where we're all people that are trying to do our very best
00:27:42.840and we're protected equally and if you really look into it some of the laws are straight up sexist
00:27:48.120you know like the tender years doctrine assumes that um women raise better children under the age
00:27:53.480of seven um sometimes it's up to 16 and there's no evidence that supports it the woman is actually
00:27:59.000the most likely one to abuse the child over 100 years of data um then they also if you're you if
00:28:07.320there's paternity fraud meaning a man's raising a kid that's not his um in the state of california
00:28:12.680if that happens over the age of two he's still on the hook for um child support for life because
00:28:18.200the laws are right their laws are written in the best interest of the child and not the best and
00:28:23.160that's basically the best interest of the mother because um again and women are also incentivized
00:28:28.840to i mean as you've seen to get more time with the child so they can get more money so they're
00:28:34.120essentially paid to and single father homes fare pretty much the same as single uh or as
00:28:40.520two parent homes where single mother homes fare significantly worse um so it's actually all the
00:28:47.000evidence suggests that men should have the custody of the children and yet it's given to women
00:28:51.320yeah i think that's a a heartstrings thing i really do and i mean it makes sense like women
00:28:57.360are supposed to be the the of the two if you had to just pick general man general woman the woman
00:29:01.760is supposed to most likely be the more nurturing right and that makes some sense but it isn't
00:29:07.660always true yeah and so you just can't make these blanket general rules that have perverse incentives
00:29:13.720as well right the perverse incentive is if i can get past the age of two with this guy thinking
00:29:18.280it's his child, then I'm all good in California. That's ridiculous. It doesn't make any sense at
00:29:22.980all to do something like that. And if you can just make good rules for men's involvement based
00:29:30.620on data, then everybody can at least look at the data and go, that makes sense. But really,
00:29:34.480Pearl, I think it comes down to what's palatable for voters. If I'm the guy, I mean, who's going
00:29:39.760to be the guy to stand up and say, hey, men have it hard in this country. They'll be shouted down
00:29:43.920so fast by every women's rights group that's out there and every other politician that's a woman
00:29:48.780or a candidate that's a woman that's running against him like you i can't believe it because
00:29:51.920most people they're told all day every day that it's easy to be a man well it's not we we have
00:29:57.420the most workplace deaths by far we're the guys that typically get up in the night for something
00:30:02.280that goes bump right it's not always the case again but it's the general norm like we're the
00:30:06.820ones that go out and defend the village and lay our lives on the line as we should but there has
00:30:12.320to be some kind of fair treatment with that when it comes to okay well how do we deal with these
00:30:16.640situations where kids are involved the man i don't know if you were um watching the documentary
00:30:22.880what's it called all quiet on set i think that was something that's come out or quiet on set
00:30:27.060i think is what it's called uh where they're talking about the nickelodeon studios and
00:30:31.060everything that was happening and uh drake bell when he was his characters kind of being introduced
00:30:36.000and i don't know a whole lot about drake bell i didn't really follow any of the stories but what
00:30:39.840I'm learning is his dad was involved and his dad spotted a predator a mile away. And his dad said,
00:30:44.580don't let him near this particular guy. Don't let him near this guy. Don't let him near this guy.
00:30:49.620This guy doesn't need to be around. My son can put on his clothes by himself, his shirt or his
00:30:53.340glasses or his costume. He doesn't need to be in this room. Made sure that that guy was never around
00:30:58.100him. Some stuff went down where the guy drove a wedge between Drake and his father. Drake ends up
00:31:03.520going to his mom. Drake's dad said, look, don't let him be around this guy. I think his name was
00:31:09.060brian can't remember his last name brian peck don't let this guy be around brian peck cannot
00:31:15.040be around drake the mom basically said oh you know what brian can you take him to all these
00:31:20.360interview these these uh you know rehearsals can you take him to all these different things that
00:31:25.040he has to do and don't worry i'll come get him and then because she lived an hour away didn't
00:31:28.860drive and pick him up and that's when he was molested sexually assaulted raped essentially
00:31:33.640by Brian Peck. In the care of the mother, the father saw it a mile away. There is value to
00:31:39.440fathers being in kids' lives, period. Even if you don't say just being the only one.
00:31:47.520And I'm not blaming her for everything. I'm not saying women wouldn't get it. I'm just saying
00:31:51.120that's a specific example where if the dad was in the kid's life, he probably doesn't end up in
00:31:55.220that situation. Son, I know it's 10 o'clock at night and it's an hour drive to get you,
00:31:58.900but you're not staying in that man's sight for one more minute than you have to. I'm on my way
00:32:03.500as fast as the law will allow click go get him not i don't want to drive like it just it just
00:32:10.740has we just have to understand that that is the reality there are so many positives that men do
00:32:15.840bring to those relationships and look men out there you want more respect in this regard earn
00:32:19.960it we have the capacity to do this well and to do it right and if you don't you don't deserve to get
00:32:25.360it it doesn't mean that women are entitled to it either everybody's got to earn it if you're going
00:32:30.340be a woman and be nurturing be nurturing help raise that child in a godly way in my opinion
00:32:36.660well and the biggest the same thing i mean the biggest um what i found because i interviewed a
00:32:42.100thousand um women on my show and i was saying earlier the biggest um red pill sort of that i
00:32:48.100figured out is most um daddy issues are actually mommy issues because the mom is yeah deadbeat dad
00:32:54.500it's a myth it's mostly women that will not allow the dad to see the children it's really really
00:33:01.060common children do get used as pawns in the game yeah and that really sucks you know what i did
00:33:08.260forget i did have one family member uh get a divorce it didn't last they got back together
00:33:12.660that's why i think it kind of slipped my mind but during the time where they were going through that
00:33:16.980process it was kind of a you know i'll give the kids everything they want so that they'll like me
00:33:22.820instead of liking their other parent, right?