Pearl - Single Mother Proves Modern Women Refuse to Learn From Their Mistakes

00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today, we are going to be reacting to the story

00:00:07.160 of how I became a single mom twice, not once. Why make the same mistake? Why, sorry, why learn from

00:00:15.100 the first mistake? You might as well make it again. All right, let's hear this lady's story.

00:00:21.800 Today's going to be a very different subject. Y'all requested this many, many times. This is

00:00:27.820 the story of how I became single. Back when I was 24 years old, I worked here in Bangkok at a hotel.

00:00:37.700 And that's when I met Diana's father. He was also working at a hotel. We hit it off pretty well.

00:00:45.860 Everything was great. The first year was really fun. We went for adventures, whatnot. That doesn't

00:00:51.520 matter. That's not the whole point of the story, is it? Anyways, the second year of our relationship,

00:00:58.640 we started fighting like crazy. And I kind of felt like, yeah, this isn't going to work out because

00:01:06.260 this is becoming pretty toxic. He wasn't physically toxic. He was more verbally toxic. He would threaten

00:01:15.220 me. He would compare me to other people. He would talk a lot about his translation. He was honest with

00:01:23.420 me. He was honest about his feelings. And I called them toxic and abusive. Yep. Why be honest when you

00:01:28.740 could lie? The ex, which is, I mean, there is a fine line between what you should and what you shouldn't

00:01:37.400 talk about. So he would talk a lot about that. He would compare me to them. Um, and yeah, I just,

00:01:44.860 I've just had enough before I decided that, you know, is this going to be the end of us? Um, I caught

00:01:52.540 him cheating on his computer one night and I was like, yep, we're done. Translation. I broke into

00:01:59.500 his computer. I hacked him somehow. And he was cheating because he was an attractive guy.

00:02:07.280 But before I, she didn't leave, decided that I wasn't feeling very great and come to find out that

00:02:16.600 I was pregnant. Yep. Perfect timing. I know it is what it is. I confessed him that I was pregnant.

00:02:25.460 And I also confessed. She got pregnant on purpose. Translation. To him that I saw a few things that

00:02:31.760 I didn't want to see on his computer. He had first denied it, but, um, we worked it out. I forgave

00:02:39.340 him because I'm a, I'm actually, if you guys don't know me, I'm actually a very forgiving person for the

00:02:45.400 first and second trimester. I knew she wouldn't leave. I knew it. Six months later, she'll leave.

00:02:50.240 Mr. Of my pregnancy journey. She was cheating on him while pregnant.

00:02:53.640 He, it was great. He was very supportive and I was starting to think, okay, maybe he's changed.

00:03:01.660 Maybe fatherhood will change him for the best. You know what I mean? Wrong. During the.

00:03:13.180 You know what? Throughout our whole pregnancy was great. He would come to all of my, um,

00:03:19.620 ultrasound visits, all the doctor visits. He would be there and present.

00:03:23.760 So when things are going good, we have to ruin it. So how does she ruin it?

00:03:28.320 Um, we would talk about how we're going to raise her, what we're going to name her.

00:03:32.820 We were really excited. So then when I had the baby, okay. The first two months of her life

00:03:40.040 was awesome. He would help with night shift, um, you'd like bottle feeding, burping, keeping

00:03:48.840 her entertained until she falls back asleep. What not was great. I got some sleep during the

00:03:55.600 nighttime. I also, mind you, I was also breastfeeding. So I had to be up a lot of the time to pump and

00:04:02.460 feed her. But then during the third month of her life was when things started to change and it was

00:04:11.900 very noticeable. He would come home from work, be really tired, and then just sleep throughout the

00:04:21.160 night. The first few nights of him coming home from work, tired, I would understand. And I would be

00:04:30.980 like, it's fine. I'll, I'll do the night shift. It's fine. You know what I mean? But then I think

00:04:36.700 he kind of got used to that and he just kept doing it. He kept saying, he kept giving excuses

00:04:42.780 and Diana as well, wasn't really bonding with him for some reason. And I could never, I didn't.

00:04:51.120 It's her rationalizing, leaving him. Oh, the kid doesn't like him anyway.

00:04:55.260 Men don't like kids as much as we do like babies. I think it's because men are pragmatic

00:05:00.640 and they be the most useless. Men like kids once they can start doing stuff. I mean, this is just

00:05:06.600 what I've seen, but I think men don't like babies as much as women do. But they're better at taking

00:05:12.800 care of them. But women are more like, oh, cute. Never knew why. I never knew why he, she, she was

00:05:19.320 always so difficult when she was in his care. She would always cry. She would always fuss. She would

00:05:27.300 never be able to calm down. Mind you, she's only three months. Like anyways, then there

00:05:33.840 was this one time where I broke down crying because at that time I didn't know I had postpartum

00:05:41.720 depression, but I broke down crying. Postpartum depression is just when women reproduce with

00:05:47.460 a guy that they didn't really want to reproduce with, but they didn't know it until after they

00:05:51.300 had the kid crying. And I just started, I remember this, like it was yesterday. I was folding her

00:05:59.640 clothes and she was crying on the bed. He was on the bed, holding her and trying to calm her down.

00:06:07.980 I was doing the laundry. I was unfolding her clothes and I was crying. And he was like,

00:06:14.280 what are you crying about? And I said, I'm crying because of many different things. Number one,

00:06:21.240 I feel like I'm not bonding with her. Number two, I'm not getting enough sleep. I'm tired. Milk is

00:06:28.680 just not coming out as much as I want it to. So we have to rely on formula. And I feel like a failure.

00:06:34.480 And this man's response was, why are you talking like this? There are so many women out there that have

00:06:42.700 two, three, if not more children than you and are living their best life and they're not complaining.

00:06:51.860 And in my mind, I'm like, who? I've never heard of a mother. Yeah. So he's saying,

00:07:00.560 I just can't listen to these mothers rationalize this stuff. Back in 2023, I was put on a government

00:07:08.560 watch list for speaking out about men's issues. The government spent who knows how much money

00:07:13.540 trying to shut me up. And honestly, to some extent it worked. I was demonetized on YouTube. I had three

00:07:19.340 Instagram accounts that deleted seven TikToks accounts wiped out. And I was forced to delete

00:07:24.380 three years worth of work, videos, interviews, everything. The more honest I was, the harder I

00:07:29.500 was punished. And eventually I had to shut down my show, move back home and completely start over.

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00:08:47.640 So now she's going to nitpick everything he says. She breaks up with him.

00:08:58.020 Oh my God, why don't women get to the point?

00:09:00.240 That doesn't complain about how hard motherhood is. But I didn't say that because who, what does he know?

00:09:08.200 You know what I mean? What do I know? I'm a new mom. What does he know? He's a new father.

00:09:14.820 So I just kept crying. And I was like, you know, that's not very nice of you to say that.

00:09:21.180 And that didn't make me feel any better. And he was like, well, you need to stop complaining

00:09:26.740 because you live in a big house. You live with your parents. Your parents are supporting you.

00:09:33.040 And you shouldn't be complaining. There are women out there who are struggling way more than you are.

00:09:40.260 And I was like, okay. So I stopped crying. And that's when I knew in my mind that

00:09:47.880 we're no longer going to be together because of the way you just spoke to me. That was so

00:09:54.000 disrespectful. And that was so-

00:09:55.520 Yeah. Can you imagine? I have a whole kid,

00:09:57.460 but you spoke to me wrong on a day and now I will ruin it. We're very spiteful. We're not very

00:10:04.600 good at forgiving and letting things go.

00:10:06.680 Out of line. And I just, that was not nice, you know? So that was one reason. Actually, no,

00:10:12.480 that's the second reason. You know, the first time he cheated and I forgave him and I should have

00:10:16.900 never forgiven him. Second time is this part. Yeah. Third time. Okay. We don't let things go.

00:10:23.900 Third time's a charm, guys. Third time. I had to go back to work after three months.

00:10:29.200 Any of you fellows got caught cheating and had a girl actually forgive you and never bring it up

00:10:33.520 again? Seems like it can't happen. Maternity leave. Yes. Three months of maternity leave

00:10:39.880 is all you get here in this country. Then you have to go back to work. I know. I had to go back to work

00:10:46.620 and I had to put my trust, my full trust in him. He did not do anything. He would hand the baby over

00:10:59.460 to my mom and my cousin and my dad. They did 99.9% of the caring. And how I knew that he didn't do

00:11:10.400 anything was I get a bunch of pictures from my cousin, my mom, my dad of Diana. Zero updates

00:11:17.640 from him, girl. Zero. So then I would kind of test him sometimes and ask him, hey, how's everything

00:11:24.580 going? And he'd be like, fine. She's crying. She's not sleeping. And I'm like, okay, what are you doing

00:11:34.040 now? Okay. So now she found up all these reasons and then she breaks up with him. All right. What's

00:11:39.140 next? Well, I was single up until Diana was almost a year old. And that's when I reunited with an old

00:11:47.860 childhood friend and it was great. Everything was awesome. Yeah, she friend zoned and now comes back

00:11:52.880 with a kid. Diana was so little at that time. And I was like, you know what? This is the perfect

00:11:57.660 opportunity because this is like our little, our little family. And she has no memory of her

00:12:04.180 father. And this could possibly be her new father that she can bond with and actually have an actual

00:12:11.180 father-daughter time. Right? Wrong. At the time, he said it. And he didn't live here. He lived in

00:12:20.600 another country. So it was us talking back and forth, long distance. We dated long distance and

00:12:28.880 he decided to come here after a couple months of talking and proposed to me and we got engaged.

00:12:35.480 We had a whole plan. There's always somebody to get married in France because he's half French.

00:12:41.960 Then COVID happened. And so we had to postpone that. We postponed it so far that we ended up being

00:12:51.760 engaged for like two years, three years. And the wedding just never happened. Like my wedding dress

00:13:00.520 is still in the closets collecting dust. And I want to sell her. I want to give her away. I don't

00:13:07.760 even want to look at it anymore. So when COVID happened, I was like, okay, my life is going to

00:13:14.580 be on pause right now because I want what's best for me and Diana. I want to move there to be with him

00:13:23.560 because I felt like moving there at that time would be a good idea. So I patiently waited until COVID

00:13:32.660 calmed the fuck down. So when COVID calmed the fuck down, people started traveling, you know,

00:13:39.320 he came here for a visit. All right. Where, where does this end? Let me, let me hear you got engaged.

00:13:46.720 Let me, let me go a little forward. You'd only have to work here for a couple years.

00:13:52.060 I think what I'm getting is she's too insufferable and she keeps driving these men away. That seems to be

00:13:57.140 save money. And then we can find a house to, what do you guys think your problem is as men? Put it

00:14:03.300 in the comments. Is it BPD? Is it, you know, like what's the issue here together abroad? You know what

00:14:10.860 I mean? That never happened. He didn't want to come here. I was like, okay, well you leave me with

00:14:17.260 no option. What do we do? And that talk just continued and it never ended. This conversation just

00:14:25.020 never ended. It's just back and forth. Where should we do? Where should we go? Blah, blah, blah.

00:14:30.400 This whole conversation, I was engaged for like two, three years. Okay. And I'm not in a hurry to

00:14:36.920 get married, but damn, I am in a hurry. Nope. She's pissed. She's not getting married because he's

00:14:42.820 second guessing it. He'd run down the aisle, but he's trying, he's like, I proposed to a crazy woman

00:14:48.120 to go live with you and start my own little family journey with you. Right? Are we going to be doing

00:14:54.880 long distance until I'm in a wheelchair? So we fought a lot about this and I was like, okay,

00:15:02.940 you're not making an effort to come here or to even help me find a place there. I ended this

00:15:09.280 relationship and we got divorced. He came back here to sign the papers and I am now officially

00:15:17.860 single. And Diana is now seven years old. I am now 33 years old. I have been single for two,

00:15:27.040 three years now. And I'm happy, dude. I'm actually really, really happy. I know it seems like they're

00:15:35.060 not, but I actually believe her. If they can find money, women would prefer to be alone than with

00:15:39.920 men. All of our actions say that we do not want to be with men, fortunately. And then she'll just

00:15:47.180 get passed by the top guys. It'll still hit. She's still cute enough. They'll hit. I might still put

00:15:52.560 her at like a 5.5. So track of enough. Most men will do it. Because I feel like I'm starting to gain

00:16:00.240 my independence back. I always relied on people. I always relied on him, my exes to make the decision.

00:16:09.140 My life was on pause for so long because I was long distance for so long. Oh my gosh. Long distance

00:16:16.940 is so, that is the worst. And there was never a plan. Okay. Well, um, she's, she's cooked. Yeah.

00:16:28.000 I wish her well though. Well, it'll be interesting to check back in. I think the last single mother

00:16:34.080 I've reacted to, there was a little hope for this one. I foresee dying alone, but let me know what

00:16:39.840 you guys think in the comments. Make sure you like the video on your way out. Please subscribe to the

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Pearl - October 05, 2025

Single Mother Proves Modern Women Refuse to Learn From Their Mistakes

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