Pearl - Single Mothers Are ADDICTED TO TAKING Ls

00:00:00.000 i like how women say i have no village to help me when there are so many villages today there's

00:00:05.440 daycare there's government assistance what up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we

00:00:11.760 are reacting to single mothers talking about their l's i love watching women take l's i love it it's

00:00:16.800 so funny um because we're just given again we're just like it is like women are given so many

00:00:24.560 handicaps in life like handicaps like um like in basketball they lower the the rim for us it's like

00:00:33.920 the equivalent of life and we still miss so it's just kind of funny watching women that have

00:00:39.440 everything um every opportunity just take else here's another example of how this world is just

00:00:45.280 not made for single mothers my work wanted to move me up but i was told that they can't because i

00:00:51.040 I can't offer them a full schedule availability

00:00:54.060 that they need.

00:00:55.120 As in like, I need to be available for them

00:00:57.280 whenever they need.

00:00:58.360 And I just can't offer that

00:00:59.420 because my kids go to daycare,

00:01:01.280 there's no one to pick them up,

00:01:02.920 ba da ba da ba.

00:01:03.920 And it's so freaking disappointing.

00:01:05.800 It just like really is.

00:01:06.920 I feel like I could just never really get ahead.

00:01:10.300 Yeah, so there's my little rant for today.

00:01:14.040 All right, let's see the next one.

00:01:15.160 Take that L ma'am.

00:01:16.560 Can I explain something?

00:01:18.300 No, this is really, I'm gonna be aggressive

00:01:19.820 because nobody wants to hear this, because what you want me to say today is actually being a

00:01:24.200 single mother is totally possible. It actually isn't. It is really possible. I don't know what

00:01:29.740 she's talking about. It's totally possible. Women do it all the time. I'm not saying I recommend it,

00:01:34.100 but getting a guy on child support to pay for your life is pretty much standard. So sorry.

00:01:41.120 Sorry, realist here. It's not, it was never meant to happen for the human race. Number one.

00:01:46.020 number two single biggest determiner of what yeah we're supposed to be in harems whether a

00:01:50.560 mother is a good mother what do you think it is whether they have a supportive partner so the

00:01:55.580 major partner argument for good dads is actually can the dad be there for the mom what you see is

00:02:02.420 that if you've got a and again everything women say about men women are so it's not can the dad

00:02:06.580 be there for the mom the dad will most likely stay it's can the mom give up her selfish desires to

00:02:12.240 just not be a bitch anyways father figure basically who's supportive to the mother the

00:02:17.460 mother's energy goes towards the children but the second that she doesn't have that supportive energy

00:02:21.720 she collapses and then the kids get starved so it's and we're not actually supposed to be living

00:02:27.460 in a single family household so it's supposed to be a lot more support towards mom than just dad

00:02:31.660 but i'm going with standard societal structure you are a victim of the society that was never

00:02:39.300 meant to work this way you are not meant to and no children are meant to actually grow yeah then

00:02:44.580 she says we're a victim of society but society gives us every health imaginable oh my

00:02:50.520 how do you guys survive as men it must be so annoying having to just listen to women's

00:02:57.280 bullshit your entire lives because as a woman we'll believe it until we start to get old and

00:03:03.480 ugly then we'll be like oh maybe that wasn't true but you know we'll believe it so it makes sense

00:03:08.420 will listen to it but men know like they have that logic in them so they know that it's not true

00:03:14.300 and they just have to pretend that's got to be a rough existence. When I first became a single

00:03:18.220 mother I was genuinely confused as to why people seem to not like that fact about me

00:03:25.940 and why they just continued to severely negatively judge me for that. I was still extremely young

00:03:34.380 because I had my first daughter at 20 years old so I was still in the phase where I just wanted to

00:03:38.800 do what I was supposed to do as a woman by the standards in society so I ended up getting married

00:03:45.460 and then ended up having more children as a result of that as well but as someone who was

00:03:51.120 raised in the system and had deadbeat parents my entire childhood and then continue to have them

00:03:57.020 into adulthood for the most part I just can't believe we women have taken father's day and

00:04:02.360 called it Single Mother's Day. And we're really going to believe that society hates single

00:04:06.120 mothers. Shut the fuck up. I got treated like I was literal trash and like I didn't matter to

00:04:12.240 literally anyone the majority of my childhood. And I was literally disposable to so many

00:04:18.520 placements and so many caseworkers and so many people that I met. I genuinely didn't understand

00:04:25.180 the concept as to why people were judging me as a single mother. Whenever I was doing everything

00:04:31.080 as a mom to give my child everything that i never had growing up but then i slowly started realizing

00:04:38.600 the type of dynamic that we have in our society and the type of society that we live in and that

00:04:44.680 is a patriarchal society where everything is centered around built for and basically caters

00:04:51.400 to men so as a single mom you're very oh my god women will gaslight you she said society caters

00:04:59.640 to men who has the kids you do i mean the fact that you can say this as a fat woman

00:05:05.320 like i just you're fat you know it's just you made so many bad choices to get this fat

00:05:14.200 and um you're gonna say society hates you very much seen and that means you have a very over

00:05:21.160 surplus of food 10 pounds is 35 000 calories you've had to be fat for years viewed as a problem

00:05:29.160 that needs to be handled or changed and that is why as a single mother and a woman with children

00:05:36.280 who isn't tied to a man they freaking hate that you exist the world does not give a about

00:05:44.040 single mothers and please don't come on here talking about single fathers and single fathers

00:05:49.880 that go make your own post speaking from experience and as a witness i mean there's so many homes for

00:05:56.680 single mothers like there's so much government assistance to help them out there's no government

00:06:01.000 assistance for men we are seen as less than human we are we have father's day is you guys have taken

00:06:11.320 over seen as weak burdens on society well you guys are burdens on society but we're not even

00:06:17.640 allowed to say that i mean i was demonetized for two years for using those talking points inferior

00:06:23.080 damaged goods

00:06:25.560 expected to

00:06:27.080 always be

00:06:29.700 perfectly emotionally regulated

00:06:31.600 help is

00:06:33.540 held over our heads every single time

00:06:35.520 without fail we are

00:06:37.580 demonized for accepting

00:06:39.740 help for asking for help

00:06:41.260 and also for

00:06:43.740 rejecting help

00:06:44.700 expected to do the impossible

00:06:47.640 with no village without complaining

00:06:49.500 preyed on by social workers

00:06:51.400 I like how women say

00:06:53.080 I have no village to help me when there are so many villages today.

00:06:58.780 There's daycare, there's government assistance, there's child support.

00:07:03.740 Like, it's just women know how to get everything handed to them and still lose.

00:07:10.700 It's like, imagine cheating on a test, getting all the answers and still failing the test.

00:07:15.420 And you're like, you had the answers.

00:07:18.240 And women are like, yeah, but it was just hard to fill them in.

00:07:21.500 and you're like you know people in the community who are supposed to be there for assistance they

00:07:30.500 look at your kids and see dollar signs especially them damn social workers you think you're doing

00:07:36.880 the right thing for you and your kids by swallowing your pride and reaching out for help

00:07:41.540 like it's stressed for single mothers to do all the time just for it to be yet another life lesson

00:07:47.580 people turn on you everywhere you go like it's hard to make friends and keep them it's hard to

00:07:56.220 rely on family members especially if you didn't really have any to begin with

00:08:02.000 the worst is always without fail always assumed about you I'm sure there are some of you watching

00:08:10.700 this video right yeah and I mean I assume you made a bad decision I'm not looking I'm not the

00:08:15.480 moral person on here to say who's bad and who's good but i can assume you made a poor choice

00:08:22.120 you know it just is what it is eat it now i'm thinking oh what did she do wrong oh she looks

00:08:27.240 like the type two and that's why she's in the position she's in yes there are decisions that

00:08:33.080 i could have made differently and i carry the guilt of those decisions daily i also never i

00:08:40.040 was wrong it's always i could have made it differently i was young my best to learn from

00:08:44.120 them and to do differently and with that being said even if you try your best to learn from those

00:08:51.640 decisions and to do things differently next time around it's like it's almost like nothing that you

00:09:00.920 do to change the trajectory of your life matters what she's saying is she's crashing out because

00:09:07.800 alphas aren't going to give her attention when she's another man's kid they're just not going

00:09:11.000 going to do it anymore not seriously regardless of the amount of inner work that you do and the

00:09:20.180 amount of self-accountability you possess there's always somebody or at least it seems like there's

00:09:28.000 always somebody there just watching and waiting like a hungry motherfucking shark that's me

00:09:34.580 that's me Taj I'm not I'm not you know but I will react you know I'm not I don't really care about

00:09:40.000 your life but you have i don't even want to say too much here because for all i know there's a

00:09:47.880 bunch of hungry little sharks watching my video right now how much 32 comments i'm like i'm like

00:09:57.740 oh nobody's watching your video i mean except me but the internet loves single fathers i know

00:10:04.880 because women love single fathers men don't love single mothers they'll do it though they'll always

00:10:09.400 do it at the end of the day i'm just i'm tired in my heart and my mind and my soul and my body

00:10:14.860 and i just want one good thing to happen to me and my little family i'm sick of picking up the

00:10:24.880 pieces of things that i didn't break i'm done taking accountability i'm touching she says i'm

00:10:32.460 gonna take accountability that goes back and says i'm done taking accountability for things that i

00:10:38.540 shouldn't have to take accountability oh my god oh you guys make it so easy I shouldn't my job

00:10:49.180 should be harder for like uh the actions of others the only one that I am responsible for is myself

00:10:57.520 and my children all right I'm done look single mothers are going to keep taking L's um because

00:11:03.340 it just usually there's too many ways to not be a single mother now so usually they're just

00:11:07.940 either pretty dumb they made poor life choices so i mean as far as i'm concerned you kind of get

00:11:15.220 what you get but let me know what you think in the comments guys do you agree with her do you disagree

00:11:20.660 um i don't think the world i think the world treats single mothers pretty well um way better

00:11:25.460 than they should be treated because they're kind of the downfall of society but it just is what it is

00:11:29.540 um i love you you know thanks for watching like the video and i'll see you next time

Pearl - November 28, 2025

Single Mothers Are ADDICTED TO TAKING Ls

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