Pearl - May 18, 2026Singles Mixers In 2026 Are A DISASTER!
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In this episode we re reacting to women complaining about singles mixers and how they re a terrible place to meet new people. We re talking about how women are unmarriageable, undesirable, and just we ain t shit
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i don't think spending 40 on a singles mixer is worth it um and i also tend to end up leaving
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yeah it's not gonna be worth it if you're fat do you know what i mean i keep saying this be old
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but be thin what's up guys welcome to my reaction series on this channel we watch women um take
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owls in life we love watching the owls and today's l is that women are unmarriageable
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undesirable and just we ain't shit all like collectively right we just aren't doing too
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well for ourselves so today we are reacting to um women talking about singles mixers and singles
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is a terrible environment um to meet somebody because uh it's like forced and the women um
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they kind of want to do it in a platonic way instead of a sexual way and then on top of that
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it's in front of everybody so like let's say you take a bitch back from the singles mixer she's
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to tell all her friends that's reputation damage i always say guys should just do drinks with ladies
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just drinks nothing but drinks um get put a few in her try to take her home and bang her to death
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you know what i mean so now we're going to talk about women uh doing what they do best which is
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complain and um women complaining about going to singles mixers by themselves they're complete by
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myself and honestly it was really hard i am all about a solo date putting her again there's things
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that are hard right um building the infrastructure of society um there's a lot of things in life that
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are hard you know running a marathon that's kind of hard um ultra marathons i don't know if going
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to a singles mixer is what we're gonna call as difficult right yourself out there like living
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your life to the fullest and whether you have a man or not you still got to go out and live your
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life a singles mixer completely by yourself girl i was going through it like i feel like the hardest
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part is you feel like you're being hunted for sport that's the main thing is because you are
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there by yourself so i would sometimes be in a corner somewhere waiting so i could kind of see
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if there was someone i wanted to talk to in the meantime everyone i felt like everyone was looking
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at me so you guys are walking past they're looking at you they're looking up and down they're sizing
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up on whether they want to talk to you or if you're the type etc it's fine but in that meantime
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you're kind of just being watched versus if you have a friend at least you have someone to talk
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to to distract you from the fact that other men and other women are looking around looking at you
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women judge men all the time like women are so used to giving their opinion about men but they
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don't like when the tables are turned and men get to give their opinion on us which is that we ain't
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shit no oh sizing you up that was kind of intimidating the other part too is just that
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i don't have a wing woman so or someone to sort of be my line of defense so if a guy comes up to you
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you know you're not interested you can of course decline immediately that usually happens
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but there's sometimes when declining is not an option or maybe you did decline and the guy keeps
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following you around in the event that happens you don't have a friend who can be oh my gosh
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girl let's go to the bathroom oh my gosh girl let's go to the bathroom women don't want to
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communicate they're not interested um directly they we can't grow a pair and so then we get mad
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when men um mistake us being nice for interested or whatever um when we just we have to be more
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direct oh my gosh girl let's go to the bar and get a drink you don't have that so you have to
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just keep saying sorry i'm not interested sorry i'm not interested over and over and over again
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while you're in this tight little space it's kind of intimidating to having to keep doing that
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and then of course you don't have a witness if something actually does go down or something
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scary notice how she naturally um is afraid of men like that's her first reaction is if something
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bad happen so there's that part the last part is just i did start talking to the girls there i
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wanted to try and make new friends too but because it is a singles mixer at first i'm talking to a
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new girl we're having a really fun conversation and then a guy comes by interrupts us and is
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talking to her or talking to me and then do you hear her she's complaining about a guy interrupting
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her and another girl at a singles mixer like women are incredible at finding things to complain about
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mine and hers conversation is derailed so there were so many cool women that i met and was like
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oh my god i would love to be friends with her but she got off talking to a guy and then the chance
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to grab her instagram or anything like that so overall i would rate it a 6 out of 10. i do not
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think i would do it again by myself but i am glad i put myself out there and women want credit for
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everything okay we got this uh yeah she's not that attractive the last girl is kind of cute
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especially for a black girl she looks thin uh i mean not like thin thin but thin for a black woman
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um this girl's not cute at all this girl's not she looks pretty old so let's see it's going on
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with men but like one of the guys told me that like i asked him what his job was and he's like
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i'm a rabbit breeder ha ha ha like as a joke like that was supposed to be funny he breeds rabbits
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like i mean do you think that you're funny you know before we criticize men's jokes like are you
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funny i'm funny okay i can i can crack a lack and i can get to cracking jokes um but you i don't i
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don't know if you're funny where's the funny joke bro i did give my number out to a woman
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so there that is the women that i was like hanging out with they're like quick isn't that incredible
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how women are meeting women at singles events we just can't do anything right you know but we like
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to hang out i was like yeah sure so there you go i made some female friends yeah i look at female
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friendships in general it's kind of a low roi because they'll just stab you in the back later
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usually a hot take on singles mixers because i think a lot of them are full of and
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they don't care about all their customers um i have been to multiple ones before
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and every time i go either you have to spend forty dollars and nothing's included you spend
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forty dollars and you don't meet anybody you spend forty dollars and the event is unorganized and
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just like you're standing there looking like a lost puppy the whole time um now a lot of these
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events the same people go to so that's also kind of annoying to me um yes it's cool to make friends
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But I also am at the age where I'm like, okay, I have enough friends.
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And honestly, I feel like a lot of people are just there more so to find someone to
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hook up with because they don't have intellectual conversations with people.
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And they end up just sticking to one person the whole night and not exploring other people.
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um and that's on the post in my opinion because there's usually way too many women and not enough
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men um so yeah i don't think spending 40 on a singles mixer is worth it um and i also tend to
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end up leaving it's not gonna be worth it if you're fat do you know what i mean i keep saying
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this be old but be thin be old but be thin you you can't be old and fat you just got to pick a
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struggle thing with lower self-esteem um and i'd rather just stay home and read a book and hang
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out my dog have them talk to prettier women in front of me because i'm not and drive them line
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up for the thin women having an hour she just yawned an hour to go to singles mixers because
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there's none in my area all right so let's see what's next why did like why did just download
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a dating app dating apps favor women so much i don't understand why women don't want to use them
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download an app get yourself on there okay i have to address these comments um like this one
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to be honest i have learned a lot in my comment section i didn't know i've never thought about
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the perspective of a man going to one of these events honestly like and that was a genuine
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question me asking the same women who twist up their face at you and try to make you feel less
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than if you approach them in public want dudes attending their events sooner see me at a chinese
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new year event what do men look for what like why don't they want to go to these events i really
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wanted to know and i think they want they want to smash you know what i mean they want to smash
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and it's not a good place to smash i think from these comments i really got good insight on um
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like why they don't go what makes them um stay away from them how do they actually feel about
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singles mixers and it's so interesting and based on what this person said honestly
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i kind of have to agree i think there are there's a lot of pressure for men sometimes to like um just
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being a room for women that just judge them i think even when like obviously me going to one
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of these singles events i see men that just aren't my type right and i'm not going to approach them
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i'm not even going to look their way and then meanwhile they have a bunch of women but if they
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don't look a certain way or they don't they're not up to par to what women like our standards
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then no one's going to approach them so i i do feel sometimes like kind of a humiliation ritual
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they do have a lot of pressure and i i don't i understand why they don't want to comments why
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would a man that women want go to a singles event that is the question you should be asking yourselves
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who are the guys that need to go to singles event and are those type of guys you're looking for in
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the first place i just never thought of it from the perspective of a man we know there are women
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everywhere why would i go to a singles event imagine making an event that involves men but
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never have thought about it from their perspective the joke writes themselves folks i could be ignored
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for free at home i'm short i will just stay home at three and a singles mixer will be looking to
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be approached by a 10 i've had friends say it's also a dice roll all it takes is one guy to show
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up that's six four and it's over because they are all getting the matches guys understand that going
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to singles events is kind of desperate everyone's judgmental hurt and trying to outdo their last
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mistake it's a state of wanting which it doesn't leave lead to good relationships these events
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but based on these responses i think i'm gonna retire these singles events i don't think it's
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it's worth it i think i'd rather just go back to meeting people in the wild and yeah i don't know
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i say go online i think it's easier just a quick funny story last month i went to this singles
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mixer event and yeah you're fat you see it's like if there was um uh angelina jolie looking chick
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saying she was going to a singles event event i mean the men would go right if they if they said
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victoria's secret angels party do you want to go all the men would go but when the women look like
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this men are visual they want to see that you're hot it was 30 men 30 women and of the men i only
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found one of them attractive oh my god they could go to these events to get rejected by you
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that's incredible and honestly we were kind of hitting it off and they had little ice breakers
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uh like the get deep let's get deep cards so we're playing with those getting to know each other
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and then a group kind of starts to form and the next card that was pulled was where's your dream
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place to live and so everyone's going around in the group and the guy I'm interested in says
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Barcelona and I said oh I've never been there but if I was gonna live in Spain I'd probably live in
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Madrid you know I'm a real Madrid girl and he kind of looks at me for a second and so I double down
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And I'm like, well, I'm Ronaldo all day over Messi.
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And he looks at me and he says, I'm having ambivalent feelings towards you.
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And then maybe a few minutes passed and he like got up and walked away.
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And I figured, you know, okay, he wants to mingle with other people.
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So I legitimately think me saying I prefer Ronaldo over Messi and did that.
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singles mixer guys they're not gonna go there's no way let's see all right so i just got back
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um from this ivy league singles mixer in down to iami that my co-workers and i
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signed up and paid 50 bucks to get to because according to the invitation it's kind of crazy
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how dating apps are free but we need singles mix mixers you know what i mean we're gonna be
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mixing with the creme de la creme and I think it's fair to say that my co-workers and I
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we were the creme de la creme yeah and then you know after paying like 50 bucks to at least
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attend the event I was assuming at least a drink would have been included you know
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but no we had to pay for our own drinks on top of that or any food
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yep i think it's fair to say you're fat if you were a victoria's secret model if you're hot and
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young you would get a bunch of free stuff but you're old and fat just take the l eat it move
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on coworkers and i did not find r is six foot five why would a six foot five chad be at a singles
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mixers you should be going there looking for your average joe your average man um to settle down
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with okay all right let's see this girl yesterday and i left feeling more defeated than hopeful
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the host did an amazing job the vibes were immaculate um the location everything was
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great the games um it was very well thought out but i think what did it for me was um demographic
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wise it felt like hench but in real life there was a room full of beautiful accomplished women
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a lot of nice men but only a few of them that everyone wanted and the very few acted like they
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were the prize they literally would only talk amongst themselves they would not initiate
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conversation with women unless the host told them to we had a moment where we had we were forced to
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just go and talk to somebody new for eight minutes which i thought was a little too long
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but that was the only time that they would initiate conversation with the women women are so childish
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do you know what i mean it's just like you're too old to have to have like a grown adult tell
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you to talk to each other just go talk to the guy you're interested in if he says no go home
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stop wasting these men's time so i started wondering like is this a new york city thing like
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is there like a thing in the air that makes people not want to have conversation with each other i
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know that like in new york people are known for not wanting people to have deep conversations with
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them but it just got me wondering like are people just so afraid to start conversation because
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they risk you know like they fear rejection is it a millennial thing do we just not know how to talk
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to each other anymore like what is it i'm super social so i initiated most of the conversations
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that i had yesterday and at the end of the night i felt so drained because i just felt like it
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wasn't going anywhere and the worst part of it is and you're not attractive why are you dressing in
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plaid like you can't dress like a dude so i woke up this morning feeling super sad um and i was
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just asking myself like damn like in a room full of people where the intent is today like i didn't
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make any connection so what is wrong with me so i started asking myself overweight and not that
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attractive sorry hate to break the news i'm not that attractive either you know takes one to know
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one you know um was i too opinionated did i talk to you yes as an opinionated woman men hate that
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they don't want your opinion about anything they really don't they might want to see how you think
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like your mindset but yeah if you're one time years ago i said some racist stuff on a date
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i i thought it would make me wife material but the guy was kind of freaked out
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am i not feminine enough no we're not i'm not feminine either just big else like why wasn't
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like why what do i need to do in order for me to be chosen like what do i need to change and
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guys the be hotter the woman i said the word chosen is when i was like hold up
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take a beat here okay do you want to be chosen yes one second yes pick me pick me i mean that's
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how you feel if they're hot enough you feel like pick me um and yeah okay let's say i wanted to
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be chosen do i really want somebody to choose me because i reshaped myself to fit what i think
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men have traditionally been attracted to guys i won't even buy a bag if i think too many people
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have it like i love being unique and i really want to believe that the person that's meant to
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be with me will have that same mindset i don't if you look at men's celebrity crushes they're
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all pretty much the same it's just different versions of hot women i just don't think that
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i want to be with anybody who makes me feel like i'm too much or that i need to change who i am or
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that i cannot be anybody translation i don't want to be considerate of another person so i'd rather
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just consider myself but who i am so the reason why i went to this mixer is because this year i
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told myself that i want to be proactive in my search of a partner and i'm proud of myself for
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doing that. Yeah. Okay. Take that out. Take that out. Um, anyways, guys, um, singles mixers just
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are really, in my opinion, not the best place. I don't understand why women are so against the
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dating apps. Um, I mean, yeah, like you might get pumped and dumped a few times, but it just seems
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like the quickest, easiest option. And I don't, I think if you're somewhat realistic, you can get
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on dates with men in your league. You know, I just think if you're getting a thousand matches,
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there's bound to be one that would marry you it's kind of a numbers game so anyways all right guys
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um let me know what you think of the comments i love you thanks for watching if you can drop
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