Pearl - Singles Mixers In 2026 Are A DISASTER!

00:00:00.000 i don't think spending 40 on a singles mixer is worth it um and i also tend to end up leaving

00:00:10.320 yeah it's not gonna be worth it if you're fat do you know what i mean i keep saying this be old 0.98

00:00:14.560 but be thin what's up guys welcome to my reaction series on this channel we watch women um take 0.99

00:00:21.360 owls in life we love watching the owls and today's l is that women are unmarriageable 0.97

00:00:26.880 undesirable and just we ain't shit all like collectively right we just aren't doing too 1.00

00:00:31.680 well for ourselves so today we are reacting to um women talking about singles mixers and singles 0.89

00:00:38.180 is a terrible environment um to meet somebody because uh it's like forced and the women um 0.97

00:00:46.340 they kind of want to do it in a platonic way instead of a sexual way and then on top of that 1.00

00:00:50.880 it's in front of everybody so like let's say you take a bitch back from the singles mixer she's 1.00

00:00:54.920 to tell all her friends that's reputation damage i always say guys should just do drinks with ladies 1.00

00:01:00.360 just drinks nothing but drinks um get put a few in her try to take her home and bang her to death 1.00

00:01:06.360 you know what i mean so now we're going to talk about women uh doing what they do best which is 1.00

00:01:10.360 complain and um women complaining about going to singles mixers by themselves they're complete by

00:01:16.120 myself and honestly it was really hard i am all about a solo date putting her again there's things

00:01:20.840 that are hard right um building the infrastructure of society um there's a lot of things in life that

00:01:29.400 are hard you know running a marathon that's kind of hard um ultra marathons i don't know if going

00:01:33.800 to a singles mixer is what we're gonna call as difficult right yourself out there like living

00:01:39.080 your life to the fullest and whether you have a man or not you still got to go out and live your

00:01:42.520 life a singles mixer completely by yourself girl i was going through it like i feel like the hardest

00:01:48.680 part is you feel like you're being hunted for sport that's the main thing is because you are

00:01:53.000 there by yourself so i would sometimes be in a corner somewhere waiting so i could kind of see

00:01:58.200 if there was someone i wanted to talk to in the meantime everyone i felt like everyone was looking

00:02:02.040 at me so you guys are walking past they're looking at you they're looking up and down they're sizing

00:02:06.360 up on whether they want to talk to you or if you're the type etc it's fine but in that meantime

00:02:11.880 you're kind of just being watched versus if you have a friend at least you have someone to talk

00:02:16.680 to to distract you from the fact that other men and other women are looking around looking at you

00:02:21.720 women judge men all the time like women are so used to giving their opinion about men but they 0.57

00:02:28.120 don't like when the tables are turned and men get to give their opinion on us which is that we ain't 0.98

00:02:32.360 shit no oh sizing you up that was kind of intimidating the other part too is just that 0.66

00:02:39.000 i don't have a wing woman so or someone to sort of be my line of defense so if a guy comes up to you 0.99

00:02:46.520 you know you're not interested you can of course decline immediately that usually happens

00:02:50.720 but there's sometimes when declining is not an option or maybe you did decline and the guy keeps

00:02:56.180 following you around in the event that happens you don't have a friend who can be oh my gosh 1.00

00:03:00.600 girl let's go to the bathroom oh my gosh girl let's go to the bathroom women don't want to 1.00

00:03:04.200 communicate they're not interested um directly they we can't grow a pair and so then we get mad 0.92

00:03:11.200 when men um mistake us being nice for interested or whatever um when we just we have to be more

00:03:17.600 direct oh my gosh girl let's go to the bar and get a drink you don't have that so you have to

00:03:21.540 just keep saying sorry i'm not interested sorry i'm not interested over and over and over again

00:03:25.400 while you're in this tight little space it's kind of intimidating to having to keep doing that

00:03:29.720 and then of course you don't have a witness if something actually does go down or something

00:03:33.520 scary notice how she naturally um is afraid of men like that's her first reaction is if something

00:03:38.800 bad happen so there's that part the last part is just i did start talking to the girls there i

00:03:42.880 wanted to try and make new friends too but because it is a singles mixer at first i'm talking to a

00:03:48.240 new girl we're having a really fun conversation and then a guy comes by interrupts us and is

00:03:52.160 talking to her or talking to me and then do you hear her she's complaining about a guy interrupting 0.99

00:03:58.880 her and another girl at a singles mixer like women are incredible at finding things to complain about 0.99

00:04:06.720 mine and hers conversation is derailed so there were so many cool women that i met and was like 1.00

00:04:11.280 oh my god i would love to be friends with her but she got off talking to a guy and then the chance 0.89

00:04:15.280 to grab her instagram or anything like that so overall i would rate it a 6 out of 10. i do not 1.00

00:04:21.360 think i would do it again by myself but i am glad i put myself out there and women want credit for 0.99

00:04:27.440 everything okay we got this uh yeah she's not that attractive the last girl is kind of cute 1.00

00:04:32.240 especially for a black girl she looks thin uh i mean not like thin thin but thin for a black woman

00:04:38.080 um this girl's not cute at all this girl's not she looks pretty old so let's see it's going on

00:04:44.640 with men but like one of the guys told me that like i asked him what his job was and he's like

00:04:49.840 i'm a rabbit breeder ha ha ha like as a joke like that was supposed to be funny he breeds rabbits

00:04:55.360 like i mean do you think that you're funny you know before we criticize men's jokes like are you

00:05:00.800 funny i'm funny okay i can i can crack a lack and i can get to cracking jokes um but you i don't i

00:05:08.960 don't know if you're funny where's the funny joke bro i did give my number out to a woman

00:05:13.760 so there that is the women that i was like hanging out with they're like quick isn't that incredible

00:05:17.840 how women are meeting women at singles events we just can't do anything right you know but we like 1.00

00:05:24.320 to hang out i was like yeah sure so there you go i made some female friends yeah i look at female

00:05:31.920 friendships in general it's kind of a low roi because they'll just stab you in the back later 0.64

00:05:36.960 usually a hot take on singles mixers because i think a lot of them are full of and

00:05:43.200 they don't care about all their customers um i have been to multiple ones before

00:05:51.440 and every time i go either you have to spend forty dollars and nothing's included you spend

00:05:57.760 forty dollars and you don't meet anybody you spend forty dollars and the event is unorganized and

00:06:07.120 just like you're standing there looking like a lost puppy the whole time um now a lot of these

00:06:13.040 events the same people go to so that's also kind of annoying to me um yes it's cool to make friends

00:06:20.560 But I also am at the age where I'm like, okay, I have enough friends.

00:06:24.520 I just want my partner at this point.

00:06:28.860 And honestly, I feel like a lot of people are just there more so to find someone to

00:06:36.740 hook up with because they don't have intellectual conversations with people.

00:06:40.400 And they end up just sticking to one person the whole night and not exploring other people. 1.00

00:06:46.900 um and that's on the post in my opinion because there's usually way too many women and not enough

00:06:54.260 men um so yeah i don't think spending 40 on a singles mixer is worth it um and i also tend to

00:07:06.460 end up leaving it's not gonna be worth it if you're fat do you know what i mean i keep saying

00:07:10.540 this be old but be thin be old but be thin you you can't be old and fat you just got to pick a 0.93

00:07:17.220 struggle thing with lower self-esteem um and i'd rather just stay home and read a book and hang 1.00

00:07:24.100 out my dog have them talk to prettier women in front of me because i'm not and drive them line 1.00

00:07:29.440 up for the thin women having an hour she just yawned an hour to go to singles mixers because 1.00

00:07:35.320 there's none in my area all right so let's see what's next why did like why did just download 0.88

00:07:40.680 a dating app dating apps favor women so much i don't understand why women don't want to use them

00:07:45.480 download an app get yourself on there okay i have to address these comments um like this one

00:07:52.760 to be honest i have learned a lot in my comment section i didn't know i've never thought about

00:07:59.480 the perspective of a man going to one of these events honestly like and that was a genuine

00:08:04.120 question me asking the same women who twist up their face at you and try to make you feel less 0.93

00:08:09.800 than if you approach them in public want dudes attending their events sooner see me at a chinese

00:08:14.520 new year event what do men look for what like why don't they want to go to these events i really 0.59

00:08:20.520 wanted to know and i think they want they want to smash you know what i mean they want to smash

00:08:25.240 and it's not a good place to smash i think from these comments i really got good insight on um

00:08:31.480 like why they don't go what makes them um stay away from them how do they actually feel about

00:08:38.120 singles mixers and it's so interesting and based on what this person said honestly

00:08:47.000 i kind of have to agree i think there are there's a lot of pressure for men sometimes to like um just

00:08:53.160 being a room for women that just judge them i think even when like obviously me going to one

00:08:57.400 of these singles events i see men that just aren't my type right and i'm not going to approach them 0.99

00:09:02.440 i'm not even going to look their way and then meanwhile they have a bunch of women but if they 0.69

00:09:07.960 don't look a certain way or they don't they're not up to par to what women like our standards 0.96

00:09:12.440 then no one's going to approach them so i i do feel sometimes like kind of a humiliation ritual 0.95

00:09:17.400 they do have a lot of pressure and i i don't i understand why they don't want to comments why

00:09:22.120 would a man that women want go to a singles event that is the question you should be asking yourselves

00:09:26.920 who are the guys that need to go to singles event and are those type of guys you're looking for in

00:09:31.080 the first place i just never thought of it from the perspective of a man we know there are women

00:09:37.560 everywhere why would i go to a singles event imagine making an event that involves men but

00:09:41.880 never have thought about it from their perspective the joke writes themselves folks i could be ignored

00:09:47.400 for free at home i'm short i will just stay home at three and a singles mixer will be looking to

00:09:53.240 be approached by a 10 i've had friends say it's also a dice roll all it takes is one guy to show

00:09:58.120 up that's six four and it's over because they are all getting the matches guys understand that going

00:10:03.080 to singles events is kind of desperate everyone's judgmental hurt and trying to outdo their last

00:10:07.720 mistake it's a state of wanting which it doesn't leave lead to good relationships these events

00:10:12.440 but based on these responses i think i'm gonna retire these singles events i don't think it's

00:10:20.440 it's worth it i think i'd rather just go back to meeting people in the wild and yeah i don't know

00:10:27.720 i say go online i think it's easier just a quick funny story last month i went to this singles

00:10:34.120 mixer event and yeah you're fat you see it's like if there was um uh angelina jolie looking chick

00:10:42.440 saying she was going to a singles event event i mean the men would go right if they if they said 0.82

00:10:47.080 victoria's secret angels party do you want to go all the men would go but when the women look like

00:10:51.800 this men are visual they want to see that you're hot it was 30 men 30 women and of the men i only

00:10:57.960 found one of them attractive oh my god they could go to these events to get rejected by you

00:11:05.000 that's incredible and honestly we were kind of hitting it off and they had little ice breakers

00:11:10.760 uh like the get deep let's get deep cards so we're playing with those getting to know each other

00:11:15.560 and then a group kind of starts to form and the next card that was pulled was where's your dream

00:11:22.520 place to live and so everyone's going around in the group and the guy I'm interested in says

00:11:28.240 Barcelona and I said oh I've never been there but if I was gonna live in Spain I'd probably live in

00:11:33.540 Madrid you know I'm a real Madrid girl and he kind of looks at me for a second and so I double down

00:11:39.220 And I'm like, well, I'm Ronaldo all day over Messi.

00:11:43.800 And he looks at me and he says, I'm having ambivalent feelings towards you.

00:11:48.260 And then maybe a few minutes passed and he like got up and walked away.

00:11:54.140 And I figured, you know, okay, he wants to mingle with other people.

00:11:57.340 That's totally fine.

00:11:58.580 And then he never came back around.

00:12:00.620 And then he left for the night.

00:12:02.900 So I legitimately think me saying I prefer Ronaldo over Messi and did that.

00:12:10.020 She probably talked about traveling too much.

00:12:12.460 What do you guys think it was?

00:12:13.840 What do you think it was?

00:12:15.240 All right, let's see who's next. 1.00

00:12:16.540 Or she's fat. 1.00

00:12:17.680 Mixer, guys. 1.00

00:12:19.600 Come to the singles mixer.

00:12:21.740 Sign up.

00:12:22.340 Sign up.

00:12:23.780 Yeah, Andy has signed up.

00:12:26.240 I'll see you guys there.

00:12:27.700 How you doing? 1.00

00:12:30.000 Girls need Chaz at the singles mixer.

00:12:33.500 Look at him.

00:12:35.060 She got it.

00:12:36.060 I was not going to come.

00:12:37.420 Now I'm going to go.

00:12:37.960 singles mixer guys they're not gonna go there's no way let's see all right so i just got back

00:12:47.020 um from this ivy league singles mixer in down to iami that my co-workers and i

00:12:55.060 signed up and paid 50 bucks to get to because according to the invitation it's kind of crazy

00:13:01.760 how dating apps are free but we need singles mix mixers you know what i mean we're gonna be

00:13:07.200 mixing with the creme de la creme and I think it's fair to say that my co-workers and I

00:13:14.480 we were the creme de la creme yeah and then you know after paying like 50 bucks to at least

00:13:23.400 attend the event I was assuming at least a drink would have been included you know

00:13:28.700 but no we had to pay for our own drinks on top of that or any food

00:13:37.200 yep i think it's fair to say you're fat if you were a victoria's secret model if you're hot and 0.97

00:13:44.160 young you would get a bunch of free stuff but you're old and fat just take the l eat it move

00:13:48.880 on coworkers and i did not find r is six foot five why would a six foot five chad be at a singles

00:13:56.720 mixers you should be going there looking for your average joe your average man um to settle down

00:14:03.200 with okay all right let's see this girl yesterday and i left feeling more defeated than hopeful

00:14:10.000 the host did an amazing job the vibes were immaculate um the location everything was

00:14:15.840 great the games um it was very well thought out but i think what did it for me was um demographic 0.99

00:14:22.640 wise it felt like hench but in real life there was a room full of beautiful accomplished women

00:14:28.880 a lot of nice men but only a few of them that everyone wanted and the very few acted like they

00:14:35.840 were the prize they literally would only talk amongst themselves they would not initiate 0.86

00:14:41.840 conversation with women unless the host told them to we had a moment where we had we were forced to 0.75

00:14:47.840 just go and talk to somebody new for eight minutes which i thought was a little too long 1.00

00:14:52.160 but that was the only time that they would initiate conversation with the women women are so childish 1.00

00:14:58.880 do you know what i mean it's just like you're too old to have to have like a grown adult tell 1.00

00:15:03.200 you to talk to each other just go talk to the guy you're interested in if he says no go home

00:15:08.440 stop wasting these men's time so i started wondering like is this a new york city thing like

00:15:13.620 is there like a thing in the air that makes people not want to have conversation with each other i

00:15:18.160 know that like in new york people are known for not wanting people to have deep conversations with

00:15:22.880 them but it just got me wondering like are people just so afraid to start conversation because

00:15:28.800 they risk you know like they fear rejection is it a millennial thing do we just not know how to talk

00:15:34.640 to each other anymore like what is it i'm super social so i initiated most of the conversations

00:15:39.680 that i had yesterday and at the end of the night i felt so drained because i just felt like it

00:15:43.760 wasn't going anywhere and the worst part of it is and you're not attractive why are you dressing in

00:15:50.960 plaid like you can't dress like a dude so i woke up this morning feeling super sad um and i was 0.53

00:15:57.120 just asking myself like damn like in a room full of people where the intent is today like i didn't

00:16:03.840 make any connection so what is wrong with me so i started asking myself overweight and not that 0.95

00:16:09.680 attractive sorry hate to break the news i'm not that attractive either you know takes one to know

00:16:15.600 one you know um was i too opinionated did i talk to you yes as an opinionated woman men hate that

00:16:24.640 they don't want your opinion about anything they really don't they might want to see how you think

00:16:29.920 like your mindset but yeah if you're one time years ago i said some racist stuff on a date

00:16:41.200 i i thought it would make me wife material but the guy was kind of freaked out

00:16:45.680 he's like yeah i don't i'm like what

00:16:50.080 am i not feminine enough no we're not i'm not feminine either just big else like why wasn't

00:17:02.380 like why what do i need to do in order for me to be chosen like what do i need to change and

00:17:07.400 guys the be hotter the woman i said the word chosen is when i was like hold up

00:17:11.000 take a beat here okay do you want to be chosen yes one second yes pick me pick me i mean that's

00:17:19.140 how you feel if they're hot enough you feel like pick me um and yeah okay let's say i wanted to

00:17:26.040 be chosen do i really want somebody to choose me because i reshaped myself to fit what i think

00:17:31.920 men have traditionally been attracted to guys i won't even buy a bag if i think too many people

00:17:37.840 have it like i love being unique and i really want to believe that the person that's meant to

00:17:42.640 be with me will have that same mindset i don't if you look at men's celebrity crushes they're

00:17:48.820 all pretty much the same it's just different versions of hot women i just don't think that

00:17:52.320 i want to be with anybody who makes me feel like i'm too much or that i need to change who i am or

00:17:56.780 that i cannot be anybody translation i don't want to be considerate of another person so i'd rather

00:18:02.320 just consider myself but who i am so the reason why i went to this mixer is because this year i

00:18:07.800 told myself that i want to be proactive in my search of a partner and i'm proud of myself for

00:18:13.640 doing that. Yeah. Okay. Take that out. Take that out. Um, anyways, guys, um, singles mixers just

00:18:20.840 are really, in my opinion, not the best place. I don't understand why women are so against the 1.00

00:18:24.640 dating apps. Um, I mean, yeah, like you might get pumped and dumped a few times, but it just seems 0.87

00:18:31.040 like the quickest, easiest option. And I don't, I think if you're somewhat realistic, you can get

00:18:38.000 on dates with men in your league. You know, I just think if you're getting a thousand matches,

00:18:42.380 there's bound to be one that would marry you it's kind of a numbers game so anyways all right guys

00:18:48.860 um let me know what you think of the comments i love you thanks for watching if you can drop

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Pearl - May 18, 2026

Singles Mixers In 2026 Are A DISASTER!

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