Pearl - November 01, 2026


Steven Crowder EXPOSES What Divorce Taught Him About Women and Marriage

Woman Gets FURIOUS After Pearl Calls Women LAZY

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00:00:00.000 All right. What's up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So for those of you that don't know, a few years ago, Stephen Crowder had a story released by Candace Owens, where she had the first YouTube video publicly breaking that he was getting divorced and accusing him of emotional abuse.
00:00:15.380 Now, Candace Owens is a woman, so that pretty much discredits everything she says. Right. So she called him an abusive monster, even though he's very obviously not like Crowder. Such a nice guy. I knew this even before I knew him. You could just you just get vibes.
00:00:29.680 you know, from people. People always say you can't tell. But even even these two men on this
00:00:35.080 podcast, right, the digital coffee hour, if their wives came out and said they were abusive,
00:00:39.220 I've never met these men. But come on, these guys aren't doing trash. Like they are doing 0.65
00:00:44.400 anything to you. You ladies are so dramatic. So anyways, long story short, all conservative 1.00
00:00:51.280 media throws them under the bus. And I say no, I say that man is not an abusive monster. And I know
00:00:56.880 it. So I read all of Crowder's court documents. Uh, this bitch was on, she had a full-time nanny
00:01:02.460 in her abusive marriage and was getting paid 30 K a month in child support. Do you know what? 1.00
00:01:08.020 I'll get, I'll get punched in the face once a month for 30 K a month. Fuck! Not that he would 1.00
00:01:12.580 do that, but do you know what I mean? Just by this logic. So anyways, um, now Crowder is coming back
00:01:17.540 and he pushed traditional marriage. So this had to be an ego death. I mean, that's so embarrassing.
00:01:22.740 I mean, just like, you know, it's been embarrassing for me as well.
00:01:27.200 Like a lot of us with traditional beliefs had the world crush them.
00:01:31.000 So anyways, Crowder's talking about he would never get married without a prenup now.
00:01:34.780 To date someone with different political beliefs than they have.
00:01:38.100 Depends on how you're framing it.
00:01:39.120 If you mean to have a casual relationship, sure. 0.97
00:01:42.640 I mean, you could be with a fat chick and do that. 0.99
00:01:44.080 If you're talking about meaningful relationship, no. 0.99
00:01:47.420 How can you raise your kids?
00:01:47.940 Where do you draw the line?
00:01:48.840 I totally disagree with him on this. 0.99
00:01:50.360 I actually think liberal women a lot of cases are more feminine and younger so you can change them 0.99
00:01:55.880 because really if you look at women's political beliefs they get more conservative the older 1.00
00:01:59.800 they get so do you want old fat hags or do you want young hot bitches man I'm talking about 1.00
00:02:04.520 someone who's going to be your wife your long-term partner no I mean you have like James Carville 1.00
00:02:09.380 who I guess is an exception but that's because to him like politics is a game and he's one of
00:02:12.880 the best at it but uh no I don't think so and I mean I'm sure there are exceptions we we just
00:02:18.220 whoever we're banging we just we start to f what if a liberal man gets me oh my god like that's
00:02:26.560 what we switch to whoever our favorite you know guy we're banging is but i wouldn't set my life
00:02:31.400 up with someone who doesn't share the values because it's not about your individual values
00:02:35.140 it's what do you what do you imbue to those into those kids has your view of compatibility changed
00:02:41.880 you've gotten older yes how so i certainly believe more in traditional roles that men and women are
00:02:49.160 fundamentally different i always believe that but this interchangeability that we've applied
00:02:54.200 uh to society at large has been corrosive and i don't think it's very good i think i think the 0.95
00:02:59.800 women need to work for the men instead of the men work his traditional marriage now it's the 0.80
00:03:05.000 men working for the women so the men are slaves i think the women we kind of like slavery right 0.60
00:03:11.000 we're you know you know why is it that when we're called corporate slaves we bang our bosses 0.72
00:03:16.360 right we'd probably bang our husband if they've got a dog collar i'm gonna whip you know what i
00:03:21.880 mean except uh you know it's a biblical definition that the man is the head of the household is to 0.59
00:03:26.680 love his wife as christ loved the church but she is to submit to him in all things i think it'd be
00:03:31.400 better if they hated their wives like god hated satan and there would probably be a better dynamic 0.96
00:03:37.320 think that single income households with a mom taking care of the children as opposed to paying
00:03:43.400 a caretaker and i understand there are exceptions not everybody does this but that's the ideal and
00:03:48.600 as a society we need to strive for the ideal situation for rearing children and it's not two
00:03:54.040 parents out of the house and the kids in daycare and then being raised by a nanny another thing is 0.63
00:03:59.720 that you've also gone it depends right because honestly the nanny might be better if the mother
00:04:06.040 is particularly insufferable hey we gotta we gotta we're in 2026 man we gotta problem solve
00:04:12.280 through a very public divorce now i i think that just to do by right by our viewers i think i need
00:04:18.380 to ask like what do you think people got right and what do you think people got wrong about that
00:04:22.760 situation well i'm i'm not going to talk everything right crowder where's my shout out was that
00:04:27.900 because that's the mother of my children and um i've never that's what i mean trying to do the 1.00
00:04:32.580 right thing you need to do the wrong thing air that bitch out air that bitch out air her out 0.99
00:04:40.560 tell all her secret address it beyond acknowledging that it was happening publicly or defended myself 0.99
00:04:46.300 um but i want their i want those kids you should defend yourself to respect their mother
00:04:53.820 and their father um if she's crazy why do we want her to respect them it was a very rude
00:05:00.820 awakening though to be one of the few people who as a matter of record in court under oath never
00:05:06.440 cheated never and to see the kind of pr campaign that a judge ruled was allowed to continue as an
00:05:12.680 extortion suit it was diabolical i mean all of conservative media that's what i mean you're so
00:05:17.340 alone as a man they just throw you under the bus i mean what i watched with crowder was diabolical
00:05:23.000 even um jeremy boring why the f were you texting his wife can we talk about that jeremy uh which i
00:05:29.840 dropped. Um, there were some people out there who did some due diligence and kind of actually
00:05:33.820 pulled what happened in court. Uh, I never addressed it, but to them, I'm forever grateful
00:05:38.340 because there's, there's a, Hey, that's me. Court of public opinion. And there's the court
00:05:43.760 of what actually happened. And it takes, it takes multiple parties to make something like
00:05:47.760 that fail. But beyond that, I want those kids to, to be obedient and to love both parents.
00:05:52.620 So what happened there specifically between like the court of public opinion and what
00:05:56.680 actually happened in court? What was the resolution between that?
00:05:59.840 Well, there was no resolution.
00:06:00.800 You just have people believe things that aren't so.
00:06:02.660 It's a matter of record.
00:06:04.620 Ben Cort never cheated, never.
00:06:07.360 But you have people who believe that, you know, it's like a lifetime movie.
00:06:09.700 It's always being pushed down a flight of stairs.
00:06:11.960 So, yeah, maybe.
00:06:13.940 Some men always view themselves with men.
00:06:15.800 Someday, but what's most important is that those kids love. 1.00
00:06:18.500 I think we view men like this because we're so weak to our vaginas. 0.99
00:06:21.280 Like, we get so down bad. 1.00
00:06:23.160 And a down bad woman is so much worse than a down bad man. 0.76
00:06:26.340 Think about the Cornell 7, right? 1.00
00:06:27.920 that down bad woman banged seven dudes in one night that's the most down bad thing i've ever 1.00
00:06:33.820 heard of because she was trying to chase chad that's what we'll do for chad that's far worse
00:06:38.660 than what men do for women when they're down bad right men almost become productive versions of
00:06:44.240 themselves they become great you know um not obviously they become simps and shells of
00:06:49.760 themselves but at least financially they make a lot of money they conquer the world where women 0.66
00:06:54.620 when we're down bad we oh my god we the out of everybody both their mom and their dad um and
00:07:00.940 neither one is perfect uh but only one really voiced a lot on that publicly and it wasn't
00:07:06.780 myself and i'd rather keep it that way did you learn anything going through something like that
00:07:11.340 about relationships or about life about yourself some very valuable lesson going through such an
00:07:16.380 intense and life-changing experience yeah that i guess could you know you could share for someone
00:07:21.900 to learn uh i definitely learned a lot about the about the system and how it exists and so uh not
00:07:29.420 losing you know giving up primary custody to another party that's very rare for a man i'm
00:07:33.020 very grateful for that but knowing how 90 go one way and and and seeing other fathers out there who
00:07:40.220 may be flawed like you see this with lindsey clancy right now people saying well i think and
00:07:44.540 it took me a while where i had to really search there's no evidence that this guy ever cheated
00:07:48.860 there's no evidence that this guy ever did anything wrong as a matter of fact he took
00:07:51.740 paternity leave uh he actually worked from home so that he could be more present he got her a nanny
00:07:56.860 he would go pick up prescriptions the day that she planned to her children he was picking up
00:08:02.140 prescriptions and bringing home food and people still go he didn't do enough i think the husband
00:08:07.020 did it on no basis other than we don't want this woman who her children to be accountable and this
00:08:13.900 this may be uncomfortable for people, but I have talked about this one quite a bit. And I think
00:08:19.040 it's been a wake up call where people go, has this large of a percentage of Western women 1.00
00:08:23.700 always been this crazy? Like there was that court TV poll with a lot and 60 something percent said 1.00
00:08:28.900 she was not guilty. I mean, Candace said that she was absolutely not guilty. I'm not even willing.
00:08:34.540 He wants to kill that. I would kill that. But can you imagine this one black woman 1.00
00:08:39.360 tarnishes your name to the entire industry never no retraction nothing candace bitch 1.00
00:08:45.700 retraction apologize right obviously not abusive you stupid bit like bruh to entertain the 1.00
00:08:53.340 discussion of postpartum insert whatever here pharmaceutical companies the husband 0.98
00:08:58.580 because i can't get out of kid number two that's all i think about i didn't sleep for nights we
00:09:06.420 want to talk about how she felt and how maybe he picked up chinese food when he should have
00:09:09.280 picked up dominoes. Imagine being kid number two. I think it was a five, a three-year-old
00:09:13.560 and a seven-month-old. Well, your mom's your brother and you're next. And we're talking
00:09:19.500 about whether she was taken. That to me is a very strong statement as to where we are
00:09:23.400 as a society. And it's coming from one half. You didn't see any men line up to support 0.98
00:09:28.240 Dahmer or Gacy or Bundy. And I hope, I hope we reverse course.
00:09:33.700 Did you have a prenup?
00:09:34.940 No.
00:09:35.760 And what have you learned going through that experience?
00:09:37.880 you can guess. Even if you have one, you're cooked as a man. 0.98
00:09:42.320 This is it. This is awesome. You can guess. It's actually quite a common discussion we have on 1.00
00:09:46.580 this podcast specifically. I think people should have prenups. I think people should
00:09:50.680 absolutely have prenups. And people say, and this is a big failure of the evangelical Protestant
00:09:54.100 church, like, well, you don't need a prenup because you're planning for the marriage to
00:09:58.260 fail. Well, you could just as easily go, okay, you're planning to fleece. It's the same thing
00:10:03.620 like going back to Lindsay Clancy. They go, well, he didn't do enough. Let's just apply that exact
00:10:06.740 same mindset to her you think she was doing enough you think she just one day or three children or 1.00
00:10:12.420 do you think she was probably a wife and mom too and everyone turned up because boy gee golly she 1.00
00:10:17.540 has access to all the health care in the world and she doctor shops maybe she wasn't doing enough 0.99
00:10:22.980 so i think yeah because again it's the female laziness epidemics most men with stay-at-home 0.64
00:10:27.220 wives have just completely lazy wives that do nothing all day i mean i want to i want to say
00:10:31.940 i live in this world where the homemakers are doing stuff and i i did know homemakers that 1.00
00:10:36.980 did do things growing up there's one i lived really close to and she was amazing gift from god
00:10:41.540 really not lazy at all but uh in this day and age yeah prenup prenup uh i will say money
00:10:51.060 and violence creates clarity unfortunately creates clarity as far as sides money clarifies
00:10:57.540 relationships where people say yeah i'll do it for you and then money gets involved and you realize
00:11:01.140 wait a second someone's intentions are a little bit different it's interesting yeah i think uh
00:11:05.060 and i think when you understand that you know up to 70 percent of divorce filings in this country
00:11:09.700 are are women and you understand that uh physical and infidelity are not the top reasons listed i
00:11:16.340 think when you look at the fact that uh domestic one-way domestic is far more common from women to
00:11:21.780 men it's most common between lesbian couples this is well documented and that a single mother
00:11:26.500 household. A single mother is 48% more likely to have a child than a father. I think we have a
00:11:31.280 broken system. I really do. And I think the fact that the outrage is over a prenup, this is what
00:11:35.840 I say. I am a very, very flawed and prickly conservative Christian who believes that marriage
00:11:44.360 and family, the nuclear family, is the foundation and bedrock of Western society. That's why Marx 0.87
00:11:50.580 and Black Lives Matter and socialists have tried to tear it down. It's in their charter. I think
00:11:55.100 it's it's super important and it's hard for me to advocate that a young successful man get married
00:12:00.200 without a prenup what do you do with that it's no longer a religious thing there's a covenant with
00:12:05.200 god and then there's a there's a legal contract in the state and it's the only contract where one
00:12:12.340 side that that earns the lesser financially is incentivized to break it and it's a multi-billion
00:12:17.300 dollar industry now i'll tell you this one other example is in kentucky they switched custody
00:12:21.340 default to 50 50 yeah and it it went divorce went down meaning like we're not going to argue over
00:12:27.180 that unless there's obviously it starts automatically with 50 50 custody and you saw
00:12:30.520 divorce filings go down significantly people will say it was part of a larger trend in other states
00:12:34.600 but not to the degree that kentucky saw that sharp decline you know why it was lost as a leverage 1.00
00:12:39.140 point i think people don't like to face the fact people women women are terrible that too often not
00:12:44.800 all women will use children as leverage pretty much always against the father and it's very
00:12:51.200 common in the court system all right guys um yeah so i i think marriage just doesn't make sense 0.97
00:12:57.280 for men i don't even think it makes sense for women anymore like the way society is set up
00:13:03.360 it just doesn't make sense at all so anyways all right guys i really love you thank you for
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