Pearl - August 17, 2025
Sydney Watson FINALLY Joins The Me Too Scene
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Summary
In this episode, Sydney and I discuss the ways in which we can avoid being bitter and psycho towards the opposite gender, and the ways that we can manage to not become bitter and hateful towards them. We also talk about how it s possible to be damaged and scarred from sexual assault and trauma, but still not hate the opposite sex.
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Yeah. I mean, like, it's really funny because, um, I'm over here. Like,
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I don't think things are on the same level, but things impact you in like bizarre ways.
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But yeah, like because the perpetrator, so she's crying. I automatically go up like
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tenfold that she's lying. All right. So I didn't know Sydney Watson had a me too video.
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So I was going to watch it and see how much I think she's lying. Maybe I'll believe it.
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So I wanted to see. She said what I, I blame him, not men. What I learned from being
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sexually assaulted and abused. So let's see. I ain't gonna lie. This is, uh,
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Hi, my name is Sydney. Welcome back to my channel. So I hope you're all enjoying your forced quarantine.
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I know I am. It's basically becoming the equivalent of Castaway. Except rather than Wilson and an
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island, I have my house and annoying neighbors. So really it's nothing like Castaway. Now I asked
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everyone on Instagram if they wanted to see any more coronavirus content. And overwhelmingly,
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you guys said no. But a large portion of folks did tell me that they like hearing stories and
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anecdotes about my life. So I guess here we are. And what we're about to discuss in this video is
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actually something that I've wanted to say for a little while, but just never really found the
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right time. But I guess being stuck alone in my house while the apocalypse is happening outside
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has finally given me the opportunity. So let's talk about gender relations and how not to be bitter
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and psycho. Hell yeah. Radical feminism is unquestionably responsible for a lot of anti-male
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sentiments. But for every fembot who has said that all men are rapists and pigs, there are men on the
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other side who think that all women are resource-stealing baby factories. I would know. I've
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watched anti-Sydney videos and they genuinely terrify me. When I say Sydney, I mean me, not the
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city. Although that Sydney also is terrifying. But for the most part, when you sit back and start to
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observe what drives some of these narratives, you start to see a pattern. On the surface, a lot of these
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ideas appear to be grounded in pain, or at least in the repeated- Now she's going to the typical who
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hurt you. Personal negative experiences with the opposite gender, or even growing up in a society
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that reinforces ideas that lead us to resenting one another. It's almost like pitting your kids
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against each other when it comes to sports or music or something. Or drawing between them constant
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unhelpful comparisons that cause them to grow up all twisted and angry. Versa. Except, you know,
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with women dating men. And this doesn't just happen exclusively in relationships. The resentment
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can grow from basically any interaction between the sexes. And some of those interactions are more
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nefarious than others, but ultimately, they result in the same twisted disdain that we see play out from
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both sides. A couple years ago, for example, a male friend of mine was MeToo'd. He told me recently
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that that has had such an impact on him that he's now too uncomfortable and cynical to even be in any
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romantic situation with a woman. On the other side, I have female friends who've been sexually
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assaulted, or who've had repeated negative sexual experiences with men, and now have this irreversible
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resentment and hatred towards them. And then there are just horrible people who act horrible because
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they are horrible. Like serial killers, or people who abuse animals, or Hillary Clinton, and Bill Clinton,
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and Harvey Weinstein. Thank you, Sydney. We get the picture. Now, all of that being said,
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it is possible to be damaged and scarred and still manage to not completely despise the opposite
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gender. And I know this on a personal level, which is what we're going to talk about today.
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So we're about to have a pity party. I love parties, especially now that I know you can distill
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men's tears into alcohol. She's got crazy eyes. Oh. In the last little while, I participated in a video
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for a YouTube channel called Jubilee. The video was about the MeToo movement, and towards the end of it,
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much to my absolute horror, I got a little choked up discussing something that happened a few years ago.
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Yeah, I mean, it's really funny because I'm over here, like, I don't think things are on the same
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level, but things impact you in, like, bizarre ways. But yeah, like, because the perpetrator-
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Yeah, so if she's crying, I automatically go up, like, tenfold that she's lying.
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Okay, what's the, let me see, get to, what happened, Sydney?
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I wasn't white, um, and because he was, like, I'm, you know, part of, like, a certain religion.
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And when the police were basically just, like, we can't because, um, of cultural differences,
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which I don't feel like is such a great reason for, like, throwing something out.
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In my defense, I was super jet-lagged. I had literally just flown in from Australia the day
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before. I was super tired. I clearly had poor emotional control. If I was gonna have a pity party,
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there'd be more cake. Sydney, you can't just lure me into your videos with the promise of cake
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and then tell me that there's no cake. How am I supposed to be body positive if I'm not eating?
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Funnily enough, I'd actually discussed that specific event a couple years ago.
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And honestly, it's such a bizarre story that I'm even a little bit embarrassed to repeat it.
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But basically, in essence, I was sexually assaulted or indecently assaulted
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Which sounds completely ridiculous to absolutely everyone,
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but it's actually much more common than you think,
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with other women around the world reporting similar stories.
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The problem with my case specifically was that, despite going to police in Australia,
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they essentially told me that the man would be let off because of cultural differences.
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Because some cultures around the world think it's okay to disrespect and hurt women,
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And then, I wasn't just angry at men, but I was angry at everyone.
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Events like that have a profound impact on how you feel about the world and everyone in it.
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And to be clear, I am not saying for a second that my experience was the most horrific one out there.
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In fact, I know there are people out there, men and women, who've been through much, much worse.
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And while I'm definitely not into the idea of creating a hierarchy of who has suffered more,
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Sometimes women, I'm like, get to the point.
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And while I'm definitely not into the idea of creating a hierarchy of who has suffered more,
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But for me, personally, I went through a very bizarre and unfortunate situation on a plane,
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and then found that my second flight was grounded for 24 hours,
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which was pretty traumatic on top of everything that had already happened,
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because it was really the first time that I was traveling on my own.
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And when I eventually got where I was going, which was France,
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I ended up getting very sick, losing about 10 kilos, tapping out, and flying home.
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Frankly, that was about enough adventuring for me.
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But in true Sydney style, I went and made things worse.
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Because about a month later, feeling pretty sad and sorry for myself and just wanting someone to lean on,
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I went and poured myself into a majorly abusive relationship that went on for almost two years.
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and you now wishes that you could talk to you then and just be like,
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And over the years, I've really considered my role and my culpability in it all.
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Is she gonna say she hit him and was also abusive?
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Is she gonna say she just, um, gives too much or something to that effect?
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The doubt that starts to seep in after you've had years to consider the part that you played
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To this day, there are things that happen that I still can't get past.
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Things I can't talk about and will probably never talk about because I'm ashamed and embarrassed.
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I spent almost two years in a situation that was controlling and physically and emotionally
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And when we eventually broke up, he harassed me so much that I decided to move to the UK.
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To England, where people think exercising is going on a run to the pub.
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And, uh, you get to see all this Roman history that you just won't appreciate at the time.
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Oh, Sydney, that looks like a fun thing to sit on.
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How did you not know that this is an insanely impressive historical landmark?
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At the time, moving was absolutely the right thing to do.
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I needed to get out of my environment because I could feel myself sinking into that depression
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Um, yeah, I mean, you got to get to the point, Sydney.
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All right, so, oh my gosh, I got 700, almost a million views.
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Women, we don't have to do anything to get views.
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I was thinking how bad the video was the whole time.