Pearl - August 17, 2025


Sydney Watson FINALLY Joins The Me Too Scene


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

176.2141

Word count

2,061

Sentence count

165

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, Sydney and I discuss the ways in which we can avoid being bitter and psycho towards the opposite gender, and the ways that we can manage to not become bitter and hateful towards them. We also talk about how it s possible to be damaged and scarred from sexual assault and trauma, but still not hate the opposite sex.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Yeah. I mean, like, it's really funny because, um, I'm over here. Like,
00:00:03.880 I don't think things are on the same level, but things impact you in like bizarre ways.
00:00:07.780 But yeah, like because the perpetrator, so she's crying. I automatically go up like
00:00:12.560 tenfold that she's lying. All right. So I didn't know Sydney Watson had a me too video.
00:00:21.140 So I was going to watch it and see how much I think she's lying. Maybe I'll believe it.
00:00:27.000 So I wanted to see. She said what I, I blame him, not men. What I learned from being
00:00:31.600 sexually assaulted and abused. So let's see. I ain't gonna lie. This is, uh, 0.96
00:00:37.380 this is gonna be a weird video.
00:00:43.840 Hi, my name is Sydney. Welcome back to my channel. So I hope you're all enjoying your forced quarantine.
00:00:49.680 I know I am. It's basically becoming the equivalent of Castaway. Except rather than Wilson and an
00:00:56.060 island, I have my house and annoying neighbors. So really it's nothing like Castaway. Now I asked
00:01:03.080 everyone on Instagram if they wanted to see any more coronavirus content. And overwhelmingly,
00:01:08.960 you guys said no. But a large portion of folks did tell me that they like hearing stories and
00:01:13.840 anecdotes about my life. So I guess here we are. And what we're about to discuss in this video is
00:01:18.820 actually something that I've wanted to say for a little while, but just never really found the
00:01:23.700 right time. But I guess being stuck alone in my house while the apocalypse is happening outside
00:01:29.020 has finally given me the opportunity. So let's talk about gender relations and how not to be bitter
00:01:34.900 and psycho. Hell yeah. Radical feminism is unquestionably responsible for a lot of anti-male 1.00
00:01:41.300 sentiments. But for every fembot who has said that all men are rapists and pigs, there are men on the 0.99
00:01:47.240 other side who think that all women are resource-stealing baby factories. I would know. I've 0.99
00:01:53.480 watched anti-Sydney videos and they genuinely terrify me. When I say Sydney, I mean me, not the
00:01:59.740 city. Although that Sydney also is terrifying. But for the most part, when you sit back and start to
00:02:05.400 observe what drives some of these narratives, you start to see a pattern. On the surface, a lot of these
00:02:10.760 ideas appear to be grounded in pain, or at least in the repeated- Now she's going to the typical who
00:02:16.380 hurt you. Personal negative experiences with the opposite gender, or even growing up in a society
00:02:23.340 that reinforces ideas that lead us to resenting one another. It's almost like pitting your kids
00:02:28.180 against each other when it comes to sports or music or something. Or drawing between them constant
00:02:34.040 unhelpful comparisons that cause them to grow up all twisted and angry. Versa. Except, you know,
00:02:39.880 with women dating men. And this doesn't just happen exclusively in relationships. The resentment
00:02:44.880 can grow from basically any interaction between the sexes. And some of those interactions are more
00:02:50.020 nefarious than others, but ultimately, they result in the same twisted disdain that we see play out from
00:02:55.760 both sides. A couple years ago, for example, a male friend of mine was MeToo'd. He told me recently
00:03:01.400 that that has had such an impact on him that he's now too uncomfortable and cynical to even be in any
00:03:07.220 romantic situation with a woman. On the other side, I have female friends who've been sexually 0.88
00:03:11.920 assaulted, or who've had repeated negative sexual experiences with men, and now have this irreversible
00:03:17.980 resentment and hatred towards them. And then there are just horrible people who act horrible because
00:03:23.180 they are horrible. Like serial killers, or people who abuse animals, or Hillary Clinton, and Bill Clinton, 0.91
00:03:30.300 and Harvey Weinstein. Thank you, Sydney. We get the picture. Now, all of that being said, 0.59
00:03:34.860 it is possible to be damaged and scarred and still manage to not completely despise the opposite
00:03:40.400 gender. And I know this on a personal level, which is what we're going to talk about today.
00:03:45.200 So we're about to have a pity party. I love parties, especially now that I know you can distill
00:03:50.360 men's tears into alcohol. She's got crazy eyes. Oh. In the last little while, I participated in a video
00:03:56.740 for a YouTube channel called Jubilee. The video was about the MeToo movement, and towards the end of it,
00:04:02.060 much to my absolute horror, I got a little choked up discussing something that happened a few years ago.
00:04:09.940 Yeah, I mean, it's really funny because I'm over here, like, I don't think things are on the same
00:04:14.960 level, but things impact you in, like, bizarre ways. But yeah, like, because the perpetrator-
00:04:19.440 Yeah, so if she's crying, I automatically go up, like, tenfold that she's lying.
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00:06:05.400 Okay, what's the, let me see, get to, what happened, Sydney?
00:06:08.240 I wasn't white, um, and because he was, like, I'm, you know, part of, like, a certain religion.
00:06:14.880 And when the police were basically just, like, we can't because, um, of cultural differences,
00:06:18.800 which I don't feel like is such a great reason for, like, throwing something out.
00:06:22.300 In my defense, I was super jet-lagged. I had literally just flown in from Australia the day
00:06:27.560 before. I was super tired. I clearly had poor emotional control. If I was gonna have a pity party,
00:06:33.460 there'd be more cake. Sydney, you can't just lure me into your videos with the promise of cake
00:06:39.220 and then tell me that there's no cake. How am I supposed to be body positive if I'm not eating?
00:06:44.020 Funnily enough, I'd actually discussed that specific event a couple years ago.
00:06:47.960 Okay, what happened?
00:06:49.440 On Australian national TV.
00:06:50.940 What happened?
00:06:52.600 And I didn't cry once.
00:06:54.020 And honestly, it's such a bizarre story that I'm even a little bit embarrassed to repeat it.
00:06:58.640 Maybe I'll believe it. Come on.
00:07:00.860 But basically, in essence, I was sexually assaulted or indecently assaulted
00:07:05.480 on a flight a number of years ago. 0.94
00:07:08.100 Which sounds completely ridiculous to absolutely everyone,
00:07:11.260 but it's actually much more common than you think,
00:07:13.520 with other women around the world reporting similar stories.
00:07:16.500 The problem with my case specifically was that, despite going to police in Australia,
00:07:20.980 they essentially told me that the man would be let off because of cultural differences.
00:07:24.600 What did he do? I need specifics.
00:07:28.640 Because some cultures around the world think it's okay to disrespect and hurt women,
00:07:35.360 and apparently, Australia is fine with that.
00:07:37.820 Initially, I felt cheated.
00:07:39.520 And then, I felt angry.
00:07:41.620 And then, I wasn't just angry at men, but I was angry at everyone.
00:07:45.040 Events like that have a profound impact on how you feel about the world and everyone in it.
00:07:50.380 And to be clear, I am not saying for a second that my experience was the most horrific one out there.
00:07:55.900 In fact, I know there are people out there, men and women, who've been through much, much worse.
00:08:01.220 And while I'm definitely not into the idea of creating a hierarchy of who has suffered more,
00:08:06.340 it's pretty clear...
00:08:07.120 Okay, I need specifics.
00:08:09.240 What happened?
00:08:12.240 Oh, wait. Okay, I might have skipped too much.
00:08:15.520 Okay, sorry.
00:08:16.160 Sometimes women, I'm like, get to the point. 1.00
00:08:17.880 ...worse.
00:08:18.160 And while I'm definitely not into the idea of creating a hierarchy of who has suffered more,
00:08:23.520 it's pretty clear that traumatic...
00:08:24.840 Thank you for the super chat, Rulatwia.
00:08:27.040 ...events affect everyone differently.
00:08:28.580 But for me, personally, I went through a very bizarre and unfortunate situation on a plane,
00:08:33.780 landed in a foreign country,
00:08:35.000 and then found that my second flight was grounded for 24 hours,
00:08:38.340 which was pretty traumatic on top of everything that had already happened,
00:08:42.480 because it was really the first time that I was traveling on my own.
00:08:45.240 And when I eventually got where I was going, which was France,
00:08:48.660 I ended up getting very sick, losing about 10 kilos, tapping out, and flying home.
00:08:54.120 It, uh, wasn't the best time of my life.
00:08:56.520 I'll be honest.
00:08:57.520 Frankly, that was about enough adventuring for me.
00:09:00.400 But in true Sydney style, I went and made things worse.
00:09:03.940 Because about a month later, feeling pretty sad and sorry for myself and just wanting someone to lean on,
00:09:09.280 I went and poured myself into a majorly abusive relationship that went on for almost two years.
00:09:15.080 You know, when you look back...
00:09:16.340 That one, I might believe the plane.
00:09:18.520 I'm 50-50 on the plane.
00:09:20.980 Don't believe the abusive relationship.
00:09:23.240 Two years, why don't you leave?
00:09:24.920 ...back on really terrible relationships,
00:09:26.920 and you now wishes that you could talk to you then and just be like,
00:09:30.620 this is one of those.
00:09:33.380 But you know, hindsight is...
00:09:35.300 She loved him.
00:09:36.280 ...2020.
00:09:36.900 Do you get it?
00:09:37.620 It's 2020.
00:09:39.160 No, Sydney, we get it.
00:09:40.600 It's just not funny.
00:09:41.640 That relationship was miserable.
00:09:44.560 And over the years, I've really considered my role and my culpability in it all.
00:09:49.080 I feel like a lot of people can relate.
00:09:50.900 Is she gonna say she hit him and was also abusive?
00:09:53.540 Or is she gonna say...
00:09:54.940 Is she gonna say she just, um, gives too much or something to that effect?
00:10:00.240 The doubt that starts to seep in after you've had years to consider the part that you played
00:10:04.700 in events that negatively impacted you.
00:10:06.900 To this day, there are things that happen that I still can't get past.
00:10:11.080 Things I can't talk about and will probably never talk about because I'm ashamed and embarrassed.
00:10:16.120 I spent almost two years in a situation that was controlling and physically and emotionally
00:10:20.660 abusive.
00:10:21.680 And when we eventually broke up, he harassed me so much that I decided to move to the UK.
00:10:26.140 Because when in doubt, move away.
00:10:28.440 To England, where people think exercising is going on a run to the pub.
00:10:33.040 And, uh, you get to see all this Roman history that you just won't appreciate at the time. 1.00
00:10:38.380 Because you're dumb. 0.99
00:10:39.560 Oh, Sydney, that looks like a fun thing to sit on. 1.00
00:10:41.820 How did you not know that this is an insanely impressive historical landmark?
00:10:45.480 At the time, moving was absolutely the right thing to do.
00:10:48.980 I needed to get out of my environment because I could feel myself sinking into that depression
00:10:53.700 sludge where I was driving...
00:10:56.040 Um, okay, I don't really believe it.
00:10:59.900 Um, yeah, I mean, you got to get to the point, Sydney.
00:11:08.780 All right, so, oh my gosh, I got 700, almost a million views.
00:11:13.760 Women, we don't have to do anything to get views. 1.00
00:11:17.720 I was thinking how bad the video was the whole time.
00:11:20.820 Let's go.
00:11:40.440 I was thinking so.