Pearl - Telling Women the Truth Hurts More Than Ghosting @Mr.DatingCoach

00:00:00.160 there's a point there's a point in my life where i was like i don't know if i should just ghost

00:00:04.160 the girls or tell them the truth and i i asked the girls like do you want me to go see or do

00:00:08.640 you want me to tell you the truth and she's like tell me the truth i told her the truth

00:00:12.000 she goes i would rather you've ghosted me what did you say um i was like you know um i don't

00:00:17.600 see myself with you long term it was already like six seven months and she's already getting like

00:00:22.160 what are we yeah and she's like i don't see myself you know with you long term i just

00:00:25.920 just, you have a lot of issues.

00:00:28.600 What were the issues?

00:00:30.040 Did you list them out?

00:00:31.040 She didn't have a father figure.

00:00:32.300 Okay, yeah.

00:00:33.140 Right?

00:00:33.900 And it's just like, it's just a lot of work, you know?

00:00:36.820 And I'm willing to put in the work, but not ask, like, it's too much, right?

00:00:40.780 And I do feel like your, you know, conflict resolution, it's not, it's not there, right?

00:00:46.160 The accountability is not there.

00:00:48.040 And so I was honest.

00:00:49.140 And she's like, yeah, I'd rather you just ghosting me.

00:00:51.400 But I think because I told her that, she actually ended up being in a long-term relationship.

00:00:55.260 so I think I helped her. Wait, you dated her after that? No, no, she ended up being. Oh,

00:00:59.260 she dated someone else? She dated someone else, exactly. Oh, okay. And so I think I helped her.

00:01:02.700 Did she like call you and say thank you or what? No, she should, right? What a jerk. 1.00

00:01:08.700 But yeah, so, you know, I do think it helps telling him the truth. It definitely does hurt.

Pearl - June 12, 2025