Pearl - ＂That's Not Abuse＂ Pearl Reacts Steven Crowder And His Wife's LEAKED Footage

00:00:00.000 there is a video going viral on Axe and this video going viral on Axe is from a

00:00:06.800 former employee of Crowder and move the mic closer can they not hear me can

00:00:15.400 they not hear me one in the chat can you hear me

00:00:20.600 they can hear me right okay so this was from a former employee of Crowder okay

00:00:28.660 Stephen Crowder. For those of you that don't know, I covered the Stephen Crowder case back

00:00:34.140 about a year ago now when Candace Owens had a... I'm sorry, guys. I came from practice. I got to

00:00:43.120 start over. I got to start over. So I covered the Stephen Crowder case about a year ago,

00:00:49.700 and I'm going to show you the original video that went viral. Now, mind you, I'd like to reiterate,

00:00:56.660 I am a fan of Candace Owens you will never catch me not saying that I'm a fan of Candace Owens

00:01:02.660 I grew up watching Candace Owens I love can't like I think she's great but I don't think Candace

00:01:12.360 understands the depth that women will go to to destroy a man's life I was also shocked and 1.00

00:01:20.660 appalled. When I figured this all out, guys, I was shocked, appalled. I couldn't believe it.

00:01:32.340 Candace is not in the red pill about this as far as I know. I know she's covered some of the

00:01:39.360 Me Too stuff, but I don't think she knows the depth of family court yet. Now I'd like to make

00:01:45.760 a disclaimer. I'm not an expert. I'm not, I don't know every, you know, I, I know more than I would

00:01:52.860 say 95% of people, but I'm not a legal expert. I don't give legal advice. None of that. I just,

00:01:59.180 I do interviews. I report the, you know, I report the news. So about a year ago now,

00:02:05.660 Candace Owens had this video and can you show my screen? And in this video, you know,

00:02:13.900 I might have to go over so much today that I'm just going to show the clip.

00:02:19.600 In this video, when Stephen Crowder, one of the biggest conservative political commentators, got divorced, Candace covered it.

00:02:31.260 And Stephen came out and he said that he was getting a divorce and his wife divorced him.

00:02:36.600 Now, maybe Candace knows her. I don't know.

00:02:39.720 Somehow she got private ring footage from years ago.

00:02:43.260 Okay, so somehow, Candace got her hands on private ring footage.

00:02:48.060 I, being an outsider, I don't know, came to the conclusion that someone from the ex-wife's camp leaked this footage.

00:02:58.840 Okay, I don't know how else.

00:03:01.360 Now, to me, this was suspicious.

00:03:03.540 And it's suspicious because I've done so many cases or interviewed men

00:03:09.120 where a woman leaks a piece of footage completely out of context, okay?

00:03:14.700 Just completely.

00:03:15.860 They don't show anything leading up to it.

00:03:18.560 They don't say what exactly happened.

00:03:21.640 And so when I saw this footage, and I've shown it before,

00:03:24.920 I just knew this wasn't the full story.

00:03:28.280 I knew it.

00:03:29.220 I knew it, I knew it, I knew it.

00:03:30.300 I knew it for a couple reasons, and I'm going to go through them with you.

00:03:33.540 Oh shoot, sorry guys.

00:04:03.540 back okay feeling some constraints so to me this just seems like a couples fight 0.87

00:04:29.380 okay maybe none of you guys have been in a fight maybe

00:04:33.540 This just seems like a fight,

00:04:35.660 but I just thought it was weird

00:04:37.340 the way she had her belly out. 1.00

00:04:39.280 It just looked like she was acting to me.

00:04:43.020 Now again, I don't know,

00:04:46.220 but I know that it is not uncommon

00:04:48.800 for women to plan divorces years ahead of time, 1.00

00:04:52.400 to hold on to any bad argument from years...

00:04:56.160 I mean, bless it, didn't it blow your mind

00:04:57.820 when we started doing this divorce documentary?

00:05:00.080 Oh, yeah.

00:05:01.020 When you're like...

00:05:03.540 like i mean i interviewed one chick who or not chick one guy who the woman said that he she 0.93

00:05:11.700 was great like she said that he raped her you catch my drift 10 years ago 0.99

00:05:19.300 so it's suspicious to me when you know chicks are 1.00

00:05:26.660 it just looked suspicious okay listen to me you want to walk out right now listen to me i can't

00:05:34.680 go to the gym i can't go to my parents i can't call my face so they're arguing about a car or

00:05:38.840 whatever i can't go i can't be home you're gonna take the car and leave me here hillary and and 0.98

00:05:42.920 again as a conservative the first question we should be asking is ma'am why aren't you listening

00:05:48.340 to your husband because true marriage biblical marriage is submitting to your husband in all 0.63

00:05:53.900 things. And I'm sorry, guys, not using a car and being told to walk the dogs. That's not abuse.

00:06:00.160 You might not like the tone, but it's just it's not abuse. And I'm cautioning women. We really 0.98

00:06:07.000 got to stop throwing this abuse term around. That's feminism. Feminists came in and changed 1.00

00:06:13.680 the definition of abuse. They added in financial abuse. They added in coercive control. They added

00:06:19.520 in all these terms that don't mean anything abuse is one-sided hitting okay so again these are strong

00:06:26.540 claims all right think of how boxing you've made me what do you need me to pick up i'll get it i'll

00:06:31.040 be back when i'm back no that doesn't work either you'll be back when you're back that doesn't work

00:06:35.320 either do you understand the difference between my life being set to the second and you're going

00:06:40.960 They're arguing about a car.

00:06:47.020 The only way out of it is discipline respect.

00:06:50.260 It's the only way out of it, or we're at an impact. 0.96

00:06:52.160 We are at a good ass. 0.97

00:06:53.340 Good. 0.97

00:06:54.160 Because you can't have any discipline respect.

00:06:55.980 Yeah.

00:06:57.020 There you go. 1.00

00:06:58.020 I mean, imagine, like, imagine making millions of dollars and busting your ass to become one 0.98

00:07:05.140 of the biggest names in conservatism, and your wife can't even listen to you about driving 1.00

00:07:09.180 a car. 0.97

00:07:10.960 Crazy. Crazy.

00:07:13.620 You give up so easily. 0.99

00:07:14.800 I don't give up, Stephen.

00:07:15.680 You give up so easily.

00:07:17.320 I just said the only way out of this is discipline or structure.

00:07:19.500 You said, then we're at an income.

00:07:20.500 No, we are at an income.

00:07:22.300 Okay?

00:07:22.780 I love you, but Stephen, Stephen, your abuse is the same.

00:07:26.720 Okay, and so this is what women do. 1.00

00:07:29.060 I've seen this.

00:07:30.820 They'll start talking to the lawyers, okay?

00:07:34.360 And the lawyers get in their head and tell them, oh, that's abuse.

00:07:38.400 So, again, they changed the definition of abuse.

00:07:41.440 They added financial abuse, emotional abuse, all these things that aren't real abuse.

00:07:47.400 And then the woman goes and tries to get evidence of it. 1.00

00:07:53.140 I don't know.

00:07:54.300 Again, this is my take, okay?

00:07:58.140 Watch it.

00:07:59.660 Watch it.

00:08:00.280 So now that's what he's saying.

00:08:02.640 He's clued into what's going on.

00:08:04.560 So he's saying, watch it.

00:08:06.260 You can't say abuse.

00:08:07.660 that's not actual abuse and he's right guys not ladies like we we have to get this out of our head

00:08:14.140 a guy telling you no in a tone you don't like is not abuse it's just not okay

00:08:23.260 watch it i'm gonna let go i'll get what you need and i i need some space we need to just talk

00:08:29.580 engage you for a little bit, okay? I love you. I love you very much. I don't love you. That's the big problem. I've never received love from you. Now, I know on paper, if you're not super red-pilled, right, men receive love through respect. So he's saying here, again, I just want you to listen to me. That's what he's communicating. Women and men don't receive love in the same way, okay?

00:08:56.020 This is when I go, look, I need you to A, B, C, and D. You should be disciplined about it. You go, no. But I love you more than life itself. Okay. Put on some gloves. No. But I love you more than life itself. That's not fair. That's not fair. And it's disingenuous. Hillary, you're right. Right in the past. Become someone, resume it, day in and day out, worthy of a wife. No, not as a wife. I didn't say as a wife. Hillary, Hillary, come on now.

00:09:23.100 i'm not going to engage i'm not going to engage anymore i'm going to go i'll get texting that you

00:09:26.700 need i'll get you to you i i love you i'm committed to you

00:09:40.940 are you going to do those things i'm i'm not i'm not going to do those things

00:09:45.340 you're not committed to anything you're not committed to anything you just said i love

00:09:49.660 Now, again, like, no hitting, okay?

00:10:00.660 Now, we're going to get to the damning part. 0.95

00:10:12.660 Okay, so again, Stephen gets angry and angry and by his own admission screams, I'll F you

00:10:17.660 up with his pregnant wife, Hillary, who then flees the home. Okay, I'm going to pull up something 0.90

00:10:22.260 else. Now, this on paper, this on paper looks bad. But again, I always, I have seen too many

00:10:32.220 of these cases. The same way, you know, Candace had this, oh my gosh, she was so fly. See, I love

00:10:39.380 Candace. That's why I hate having to go through this, but I just, I got to. When I interviewed

00:10:45.120 her, I did an event with her this weekend. Oh my gosh. And I was so nervous guys. It was 3000

00:10:50.580 people watching. I have never done public speaking. I wanted to die. I was like, I mean,

00:10:56.740 I know I've done it with you guys. Okay. I know I have, but it's different. This is the camera.

00:11:01.660 I'm not seeing you guys, you know, anyways. So, so, okay. You know, I later, and I covered this

00:11:10.500 in a different stream but we've been cutting so much stuff um because we're trying to get

00:11:16.240 you know we just cleared pretty much the whole channel so okay then I get this you can just put

00:11:22.880 the audio on blessing don't you don't have to share the screen because it's just audio okay

00:11:27.620 that is the context of that saying if you go to your friend and you know that it was not meant

00:11:33.600 that way i'm married with stephen threatened to hit me dr walker so they're arguing and i know

00:11:43.640 i know this i've just seen it too many times they're arguing about her going around saying

00:11:48.740 that he's abusive and that's what they're arguing about and he's saying you know i didn't mean it

00:11:54.520 that way right because we all know conversations have context if i come in and i say blessing 0.98

00:12:02.880 blessing i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna fight you damn pal you know there's a completely 0.98

00:12:13.400 just my tone is a completely are you scared i'm actually gonna fight you blessing no yeah yeah 0.99

00:12:19.400 you know some girls say that in a way to be flirted you know some girls say that in a way 1.00

00:12:25.420 to actually fight all conversations have context right so this this is what what i'm trying to

00:12:33.900 explain okay so now he's saying he's saying do you want to play those games i will you up okay i

00:12:48.640 didn't mean it that way so now no just i want to i want you guys to understand how i'm processing

00:12:54.840 this information. Pearl, okay? I'm thinking, huh, so I have a girl that's already lying. I mean,

00:13:04.960 she's leaking out-of-context stuff to the press, and because, sorry, how else did you get that,

00:13:12.820 you know? Private ring, that doesn't make any sense.

00:13:17.480 You know, oh, all of my footage is going to be on my website, guys. We're working on it.

00:13:21.740 That is exactly what happened. I will actually say that what Stephen is saying right now is exactly what happened, okay? That terrified me, and that is way too far. And it can't happen.

00:13:37.440 But it's way too far to claim that I've ever been violent, threatened by us.

00:13:41.620 And you know what?

00:13:43.700 Let me tell you something I appreciate.

00:13:45.740 And this is gaslighting.

00:13:47.040 Because, again, guys, if he wanted to be violent, he's a 6'2", in-shape guy.

00:13:55.020 This is gaslighting.

00:13:57.540 Okay?

00:13:57.760 This is ultimate gaslighting.

00:14:02.280 Okay?

00:14:02.420 I appreciate that the way that he just communicated what happened to you is exactly what happened, okay?

00:14:12.920 I was louder.

00:14:13.940 You were louder.

00:14:15.180 Now, what you need to understand was you are a big man.

00:14:25.340 You have never said anything like that to me before, okay?

00:14:31.220 you've never said anything like that to me before and it truly scared me okay and I need you to

00:14:40.720 understand that it truly really scared me I understand can you imagine living in this gas

00:14:48.040 lighting sorry this is why I believe in divorce now no I'm just okay but you guys so so this is

00:14:55.780 this is how I'm processing this maybe you know call me crazy all right so then you know

00:15:03.320 we're gonna go through what I have noticed that women tend to do in divorce proceedings 1.00

00:15:12.100 okay yeah they said he could have handled it differently but not abuse okay so I I'm going

00:15:21.960 through this, okay? So, you know, the first way that I process information personally is I look

00:15:29.820 for patterns and trends. Now, the same way the FBI profiles serial killers. Now, please do not

00:15:38.900 say that I'm saying these are the same thing. They're not the same thing, but it's the same

00:15:42.560 process, right? Many times, FBI profilers can figure out who a serial killer is because, you

00:15:50.440 know, they have things in common. I have found this with divorce cases. Many from completely

00:15:57.800 different backgrounds, from completely different parts of the world go through the same thing.

00:16:04.660 So what women tend to do in divorce proceedings is they not only try to legally rob the man and 1.00

00:16:11.200 steal his children. You know, most men, men take L's a lot better than women. So what most men 0.58

00:16:19.280 tend to do is, you know, they'll take the L, they'll move on with their life. They just want

00:16:25.440 to be left alone. But Wim for Women, it's not enough. That is not enough. They not only, 1.00

00:16:37.280 they not only rob him legally and, you know, also, also they rob him legally

00:16:47.560 and steal his children they go a step further and ruin his reputation across the town

00:16:54.780 many times the man has no idea he thinks that he's in a happy relationship and unbeknownst to him

00:17:02.360 many times she tells her friends that he is an abuser and does not give the full context like we

00:17:08.180 just saw so mind you this woman has probably been going around to all of the daily wire people for

00:17:16.480 years and telling them these awful things now imagine i'm gonna pretend you know i'm gonna

00:17:23.680 pretend blessing was the victim here sorry blessing now imagine blessing brings in his his little his

00:17:33.200 his girl to work right you know and i say oh hi hi how's it going and for a couple years she's

00:17:40.320 like oh it's good plays victim and then says yeah he just he hit me yesterday and i say or he he

00:17:49.920 put hands on me yesterday and i say oh he put hands on you well that's not good well well don't but

00:17:56.240 don't say anything and so you know then i would start to look at blessing like what's going on

00:18:02.240 with you blessing you seem pretty chill but maybe he's dumb i don't know please don't need me 0.69

00:18:11.440 now yeah yeah but you guys get the idea so my guess is this woman's been going around 1.00

00:18:17.040 telling these stories for years that's my guess um you know and i'll give you an example and

00:18:24.480 sometimes i actually to my core think that the women just have never gotten pushback or questions 1.00

00:18:32.800 about a story in their life i think they convince themselves okay i i'm just honest to god some of

00:18:40.060 them i think they believe it i am is that crazy to think blessing no is that i mean i don't know

00:18:47.480 maybe maybe they don't but sometimes i'm like i swear i think if these chicks took a lie detector 1.00

00:18:53.120 contest like i think they would pass okay but an example is a girl came on my show she said i was

00:19:00.320 thrown down a flight of stairs by my abusive ex and the way that you can decipher these stories guys

00:19:09.920 you have to ask a lot of questions and you have to say okay tell me what specifically happened

00:19:15.440 what led up to the argument what were you guys arguing about and in this case the woman she said

00:19:21.520 said oh he was trying to get me to leave and I said oh wait oh wait where were you oh I was at his

00:19:32.560 house so you were trespassing you forgot to leave out the detail and so what a lot of guys do is

00:19:45.000 women either won't leave or they'll get in their way and the men will push them and the women will 1.00

00:19:49.940 say, ah, he put his hands on me. Or they're hitting first. They hit him first and then he

00:19:59.320 defends himself. Ah, ah, no. I don't know. I'll wait for the facts to come out. But I'm skeptical

00:20:09.720 of any abuse claims. Did any of these people claiming abuse file a police report?

00:20:15.440 the law is on your side as a woman i'm sorry it's favored towards women not men

00:20:23.240 if you have significant evidence you should be able to file a police report

00:20:28.220 then what they'll typically say is i was too scared but my question is

00:20:32.440 if you were scared then why why are you not scared to talk about this publicly

00:20:41.180 and go around to all of his friends that doesn't make any sense

00:20:45.440 that it just doesn't it like okay did she have any actual injuries you know guys i i squat 250

00:20:55.200 i deadlift 300 pounds i'm an athlete

00:21:00.500 if me and if me and blessing were in a fight i would actually bet on blessing

00:21:08.480 i think he'd win like you can't do much against the guy especially you know i mean crowder

00:21:17.940 seems like he's in decent shape so where where are the injuries you know how did the argument

00:21:24.680 start did he hit him ever are there any witnesses to this alleged abuse or is it all stories

00:21:29.760 do we have actual witnesses you know has there been a pattern of similar behavior in the past

00:21:36.720 Are there any documented instances of threats or coercion?

00:21:42.580 You know, has the victim sought medical assistance?

00:21:48.600 Has there been any clear attempt to control or manipulate the alleged victim's behavior?

00:21:54.880 Is she getting custody of her children? 1.00

00:21:58.820 Oh, and my question is, it should be easy for women to get custody, especially if you have an abusive ex. 1.00

00:22:04.940 So if you're not getting custody, my question is, and I have no idea if she is or she isn't, but the laws, and especially in Texas, I'm sorry, I've interviewed some guys from Texas, I know they have a minimum on child support, so I think that's good, or maybe no alimony, it's something like that, but let me tell you, Texas is no special state, it is brutal.

00:22:31.160 I interviewed a guy that spent $1.5 million on a divorce, and he didn't get primary custody

00:22:38.940 out of Texas. It's like one of the most expensive divorces. 0.99

00:22:44.380 Okay, so, you know, oftentimes what I see these women do is they get close to the guy's friends, 1.00

00:22:51.760 families, and enemies in the process. So many times women use the man's friends and enemies 1.00

00:22:57.960 to put together a smear campaign the equivalent of this to me would be reaching out to any woman 0.99

00:23:04.760 that i've ever pissed off i mean you could blessing i mean i've we've seen smear campaigns

00:23:11.320 come at me and they just you know it gives basically a microphone to anybody that has

00:23:17.720 a disagreement with you ever to be speaking things that are fact and if you're married to someone

00:23:24.360 i mean i think blessing could put together an effective smear campaign and we just work

00:23:30.220 together imagine if you're married to someone yeah i mean like you could probably do it right

00:23:37.820 if you wanted please don't but like if you do you know what i mean like if you wanted it probably

00:23:43.500 i mean you would know where to start it makes sense but yeah if you're married then that's long

00:23:50.100 I so you know and you know the most devastating one of these these people is the children

00:23:56.120 and I've just heard the same story like from 50 different people all around the world I just know

00:24:02.320 this stuff when I see it they always leak out of context footage um they always reach out you know

00:24:09.120 they may reach out to ex-girlfriends ex-lovers ex-business employees and typically they try to

00:24:15.720 make money off of it and you know i'm looking at this chick's um let me go to her page 1.00

00:24:22.660 could you share this you know she pops out of nowhere with a twitter account

00:24:29.740 rebuilding from the rubble like guys we could you could make an x account if she wanted to

00:24:36.100 give political commentary i wouldn't care but we we don't have to make you know this a spectacle

00:24:43.140 like you don't have to make the whole divorce to show we could just say you know what

00:24:46.300 we were terrible together let's move on let's get along for the kids

00:24:50.960 so i don't know you know rebuilding from the rubble and we're going to get to this

00:24:59.520 a lot of like and what these girls will do is they'll put vague stuff that everyone knows what 1.00

00:25:06.040 they're talking about like in june of 2022 i was sleeping on a mattress in my closet that was too

00:25:12.840 big the sun was bright my head hurt as I tried to distinguish what the truth was about was about

00:25:21.180 a lie about my life I could no longer envision what my future looked like all I all I saw when

00:25:28.640 I looked ahead was a void and complete darkness I like what is this a lifetime movie I mean just

00:25:38.100 do the right you know and then i i get the bad guy i i i'm the bad guy for saying hey you know

00:25:45.780 maybe we shouldn't be leaking this ring footage you know i i don't think he's an abuser and the

00:25:51.940 only point of my stream is the is to disprove this stuff and i guys i don't have any dog in this fight

00:26:01.380 everyone keeps asking why do you keep why do you keep you know pushing this why do you keep you

00:26:08.360 know why can't you just let it go and I can't let it go because I have just I've seen too many men

00:26:13.660 on the other side of this I've seen like and when men are put in this position where the woman's 1.00

00:26:20.880 ruining their reputation stealing their money stealing their children many commit suicide in

00:26:26.560 this process. So, you know, you know, I don't know, you know, this is just me going through this stuff.

Pearl - March 27, 2024

＂That's Not Abuse＂ Pearl Reacts Steven Crowder And His Wife's LEAKED Footage

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