Pearl - March 19, 2024


The Born Again Virgins and The Simps | Pearl Daily


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2 hours and 28 minutes

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In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about the church and how we need to be honest about the problems we face in our society. I also talk about how we should be more honest about our faith and how it affects us.

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00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel, and welcome to another
00:00:08.880 episode of Pearl Daily, where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness
00:00:14.040 and really just give my opinions on the world. So we have a lot to talk about today. We have
00:00:23.460 a lot to talk about today. But, you know, before we really get
00:00:28.920 into the meat, the grind, griminess, the down and dirty
00:00:33.360 of today's topic, which is, what do we title this? The simps,
00:00:38.800 the simps, the born again virgins, and the controlling
00:00:44.440 wives. Today we're talking about the church. However, I know
00:00:52.160 this is a sensitive topic. And oftentimes when I talk about the church, people conflate it to me
00:00:58.940 attacking God and religion. And before we start the stream, I'm going to give a million disclaimers 0.95
00:01:05.220 because I do not want my words to be taken out of context. I do not want people to tell me that I
00:01:12.320 am saying things I did not say. But I have to be honest. And the whole point of my show is to tell
00:01:20.100 you about what I see going on in society. You know, I have a lot of unique insights and I don't
00:01:26.860 think people realize, I guess, how unique of a life that I've lived. You know, growing up, I would say
00:01:34.140 I grew up in a pretty well-off area and I grew up traveling the world. When I was 10, I went to Japan
00:01:42.480 by myself. Oh, wait, no, Germany when I was 10, Japan when I was 12, okay? I lived in different
00:01:49.960 countries, you know, when I was young. Like, when I was 18, I went to Germany, and I lived with my
00:01:56.020 German nanny at the time. I grew up with nannies from around the world. I have a very, you know,
00:02:02.280 I would say unique point of view. I then traveled to London, right, to play volleyball,
00:02:07.760 and I ended up interviewing a thousand women and when I interviewed a thousand women many people 0.96
00:02:13.860 argue that I only interviewed a certain type of women but I cannot count how many Christian women
00:02:22.720 I interviewed but whenever I talk about commonalities again and trends I see in Christian
00:02:31.780 women, I often get my faith attacked and I'm told I am not a real Christian. This is what I get.
00:02:41.540 And what I realized is when you attack the church, people react similarly in the way that when you
00:02:47.080 attack women or say anything that's unflattering about the church, people react in a way in the
00:02:53.960 same way if you say anything unflattering about women. I'll give you guys an example. You know,
00:02:59.360 I grew up Catholic. I would still consider myself a Catholic. I know there's a clip going viral of
00:03:04.760 me right now talking about how, you know, I have some questions, but I would still say I'm Catholic.
00:03:13.240 And when people bring up that, you know, controversy we got in a couple of years ago
00:03:18.900 with the priests, I think you guys know what I'm talking about. You know, I can't, I'm not going to
00:03:24.080 get mad because it was true it happened and even though i have my feelings about the church
00:03:33.140 and you know especially when you grew up in a church there's a party that wants to protect it
00:03:38.200 i will die on the hill that we should be honest we should be honest about the things that are going
00:03:44.600 on so you know and when i start talking about these problems and these issues the first you
00:03:51.980 know thing that I get from women is you're insecure and you know they even will dig up old 1.00
00:03:57.780 clips of me talking about being insecure in high school like we all were like wasn't everybody
00:04:04.780 come on anyways why would I do this what would make sense if if insecurity was the root guys
00:04:14.620 you guys attack my looks my character and my reputation every single day you church women 1.00
00:04:21.160 why why would how would that help
00:04:25.540 um so you know i am just a random you know the next thing that i get is there are smarter people
00:04:33.880 that are talking about this and i say yes there are go watch them that's totally fine there are 0.60
00:04:40.820 smarter people there are dumber people totally fine i am just a chick paying attention to what's 0.67
00:04:47.220 going on and taking notes. So, you know, I want to offer some disclaimers for the show.
00:04:57.740 And if any of these disclaimers offend you, you are more than welcome. You're more than welcome
00:05:03.380 to just not watch, move on, leave, go. Okay. These are my rules. So at the end of each show,
00:05:12.500 I am going to start taking call-ins, but I want you guys to realize that I'm not required to speak
00:05:18.840 to any of you, and I'm going to kick off whoever I feel like it. It's not my intention to. I do not
00:05:26.080 wish to, but if I get the impression that you're just here for a 30-second buzz clip and not a
00:05:31.200 genuine conversation, you're gone. Goodbye. Go cry about it. You can go cry about it on your channel
00:05:36.220 with zero viewers. I don't care. I don't care. Um, yeah, I mean, I think that's fair. If you're
00:05:45.060 talking back to me, if you're being rude to me, I, I'm not required to sit here and listen. You
00:05:50.920 can pay me for my time. You can book a session with me. We can go for an hour. If you want me,
00:05:56.780 if you want to pay me to talk to you, cool. If you don't want to do that. All right.
00:06:00.680 next okay so rule next rule do not over talk to me do not interrupt me you're calling to a show
00:06:09.640 where i'm describing what's going on i may give warnings sometimes other days i might i may be
00:06:15.440 less patient okay the next thing i know there are good christian women in church and i'm going to 0.95
00:06:23.560 say this yes yes there are good quality christian women i have met them they exist but to act like 0.88
00:06:30.660 They are the majority of women in church.
00:06:33.740 And the majority of women in church are wife material 0.97
00:06:36.180 is simply living in la-la land and delusion.
00:06:40.240 If you guys were so amazing, special, and awesome,
00:06:43.140 we would not see so many young men leaving the church.
00:06:46.640 And shaming the men for not going to church
00:06:49.080 and feeling how they feel and doing what they do
00:06:52.140 is not going to bring them back.
00:06:53.460 So if that's your strategy,
00:06:55.360 I mean, you could see how that's going for you.
00:06:59.180 Okay.
00:07:01.200 None of this is about winning a debate.
00:07:03.100 It's about being honest about what is going on.
00:07:06.780 Because all of this stuff, all of this craziness,
00:07:11.560 do you know who it affects at the end?
00:07:13.240 It affects children.
00:07:15.760 Children are innocent.
00:07:17.420 Children deserve two parents in the house that love them.
00:07:21.360 Children deserve to see a mother that respects their father.
00:07:25.060 And unfortunately, what is going on in the church is not what I see.
00:07:29.660 I do not see an abundance of wives that are living in pure submission to their husbands. 0.97
00:07:35.300 Because again, men go where quality women are. 1.00
00:07:39.560 And ladies, if your church was so amazing, special, and awesome,
00:07:43.980 there would be an abundance of men there.
00:07:48.140 But whenever I go into any church,
00:07:50.220 and I've been to all different types of churches around the world,
00:07:53.580 I specifically pick different ones at times,
00:07:57.040 just so I can get better insights into what's going on.
00:08:01.080 I ask people, I ask young men,
00:08:04.140 why did you leave the church?
00:08:07.020 Do you guys want to know what's going on
00:08:09.120 or do we want to live in delusion?
00:08:11.120 Are you so special, amazing, and awesome
00:08:12.960 that there are no flaws?
00:08:14.980 Because that's what I get.
00:08:16.580 Anytime I criticize or talk about any issues
00:08:19.140 that are going on, Pearl's just making it up.
00:08:21.980 Oh, the church women are just so amazing, 1.00
00:08:24.100 special, and awesome.
00:08:24.880 We just can't talk about them.
00:08:26.020 Pearl's just attacking, attacking, attacking.
00:08:29.800 But they never stop to ask, is Pearl right?
00:08:33.480 Is anything I said true?
00:08:35.920 Does the shoe fit for anything?
00:08:38.960 It's like narcissism to the extreme.
00:08:42.520 Okay, I will show clips demonstrating the behaviors I am talking about.
00:08:48.180 I am not attacking any of these people personally,
00:08:51.480 but I am attacking what they are saying or doing on screen.
00:08:55.520 I don't know them personally
00:08:57.680 I don't know anything other than clips I see online
00:09:01.820 I could be completely wrong about them
00:09:04.920 Again, I don't know them personally
00:09:07.840 But I will use them as examples
00:09:10.300 This is the town square
00:09:12.860 I like to give examples, okay
00:09:14.520 This is not your topic
00:09:16.480 If you come in and you say
00:09:19.020 Oh, I want to talk about
00:09:20.420 I want to give my monologue about what I want to talk about
00:09:22.880 We're not doing that
00:09:25.520 you guys can go cry somewhere else i don't care okay blessing um can you show them do you think
00:09:32.960 these are fair rules is there anything else i think these are fair rules are they fair rules
00:09:38.640 yeah and if you come on stream make sure your videos on yeah make sure oh yeah i'll add that
00:09:42.560 to my list make sure your video is on video is on and if the shoe doesn't fit stop crying about it
00:09:52.240 i mean all right okay so let's talk about the red pill now i've gotten into a little bit of
00:10:00.240 criticism recently because i was asked on a podcast what is the red pill and i i guess
00:10:06.800 i stumbled a little bit on what exactly it is because to be fair there is some dispute in the
00:10:12.160 the community but the red pill it is men taking notes to increase their sexual strategy this used
00:10:22.940 to happen in barber shops and male only spaces the men would get together and they would talk
00:10:29.800 now it's just migrated to online i am not i myself am not the end all be all of red pill
00:10:38.840 I would say red pill is for men. I just find it interesting.
00:10:43.600 You know, again, I'm just looking at what's going on, okay?
00:10:50.840 One more disclaimer.
00:10:52.820 All of these women coming forward and saying, 0.99
00:10:55.100 you can't generalize, you can't generalize, you can't generalize.
00:10:59.800 Yes, I can.
00:11:02.380 Yes, I can and I will. 1.00
00:11:04.540 And if you don't like it, you can kiss my ass. 0.99
00:11:07.120 how can we have conversations about anything if we can't speak in generalities 1.00
00:11:12.460 you know are you just here to argue if i say water is wet and then you say not all water
00:11:18.480 is like that it's like this is this is how it feels sometimes with you guys it's like pulling
00:11:23.600 teeth all right so i need to i need to pull up the chat if you guys want to support this stream
00:11:32.420 in any way shape or form donations would be very would be very awesome you're not required to
00:11:40.440 donate can we make this a little bigger in the corner at all just just because i can't really
00:11:46.000 read it on my phone but anyways you're not required to donate you do not have to but if
00:11:51.580 you like what i'm doing cash app is pearly things with an s venmo is just underscore pearly things
00:11:57.920 I will read Venmo's and Cash App.
00:12:00.880 Sometimes I don't always see them, so I'm going to do my best.
00:12:05.180 We're trying to create a more perfect system, but to start,
00:12:09.500 Charles Piso sent me $15 saying keeping up the good fight,
00:12:14.720 and Daniel Drake paid $20 saying for the Michael Knowles debate.
00:12:18.520 Thank you, guys.
00:12:20.020 Your contributions are honestly awesome, and it helps me keep blessing here.
00:12:24.600 Right, Blessing?
00:12:26.040 Oh, yeah.
00:12:26.700 you know i mean if you guys want to keep them you know feel free to feel free to donate he's
00:12:38.300 people thought you got fired because king produced the one show yeah i'm here to stay guys
00:12:45.420 supporting the movement okay where where do you guys call in you're gonna call in later
00:12:52.060 Ideally, I would like to talk to Christian women first. 0.99
00:12:55.680 That's who I'm trying to speak to today.
00:12:57.820 That's who I'm trying to talk to.
00:12:59.640 Now, we'll talk to Christian men too, but this is a conversation with the Christians.
00:13:08.540 So if that's not you, or you've never been involved in church, it's okay.
00:13:13.840 Just please bow out of this one.
00:13:15.560 We'll have conversations next time.
00:13:17.360 So I saw an article that said the tier fund report shows that the UK, that in the UK, the ratio of women to men in church is 65% to 35%.
00:13:29.020 So while men still dominate the priesthood or pastorship, statistics show that two thirds of church memberships are women.
00:13:36.740 And if you look at programs run within the church, a much higher percentage of them are led by women than men.
00:13:44.260 Most people in the church have little or no say in what goes on.
00:13:49.520 For a Roman Catholic, Anglican, Methodist, or Baptist, the leadership of churches dominate by men.
00:13:55.760 They dominate just the priesthood, but the positions of bishops and the regional ministers.
00:14:00.600 Yet, as the gender gap grows, the presence of women increasingly dominates most Western churches.
00:14:07.580 while there has been an imbalance for quite some time the recent trend shows that it's increasing
00:14:14.260 the last 20 years 49 percent of men under 30 left the church
00:14:19.500 okay guys you're right there's no problem
00:14:24.660 you're right just shoot the messenger there's nothing going on in church you are so totally
00:14:33.080 right. You are losing half of your young men, 50% of your young men, and there is no issue.
00:14:42.520 You're right, ladies. Keep on doing what you're doing. Keep on doing what you're doing. Do you 1.00
00:14:47.900 guys want to know what's going on? Do you guys want to know what the issue is? Put a one in the
00:15:01.380 chat if you want to know. Put a two in the chat if everything's going. Just so amazing.
00:15:09.240 Stop complaining, men. That's what they'll tell you.
00:15:14.820 Okay, one common trope that I have heard from men that have left the church is that
00:15:20.940 men feel like women and the church will never be happy. It is never enough. 0.65
00:15:28.240 it is never enough now why do young men feel like this now i'm gonna show you guys now again
00:15:37.040 but i see guys okay now by the way again this is not
00:15:42.540 attacking i'm a fan of michael knowles but i think this rhetoric is why you see young men
00:15:52.260 half of your young men you guys are you guys are coming at me like i did that
00:15:57.880 i didn't create this world okay so pull up the screen all right now again this is just showing
00:16:06.460 you an example of the mentality that's pushed in churches and you see it reiterated by talk show
00:16:13.220 hosts you see it reiterated in debates you see it reiterated everywhere okay i mean because women
00:16:21.820 when women have the most choice we don't choose marriage women have the most choice when it 0.94
00:16:26.140 comes to commitment around the age of 22.
00:16:28.520 They're not choosing to get married.
00:16:30.520 I don't pay attention to what people say.
00:16:32.640 No, no, you mean when they have the most options,
00:16:35.820 when they're the most marriageable,
00:16:37.000 but they do, but you will acknowledge
00:16:39.620 those women who have been duped by feminism, 1.00
00:16:42.080 maybe even after they're past their marriageable age.
00:16:45.160 Right there, right there.
00:16:47.740 And I'm just pointing this out.
00:16:49.460 It's always the women were duped. 1.00
00:16:53.300 the women were just and you trad con women are no better whenever you guys talk about your past 1.00
00:17:02.580 it's always everybody else's fault but yours how do we get anywhere if we keep giving women 1.00
00:17:10.160 a get out of jail free card it's not you were duped it's not you were young it's not you
00:17:15.920 were naive. It's you did it because you wanted to. Why is that so crazy to get through people's
00:17:23.620 heads? Everything's everyone else's fault. I don't live like that. You know, we don't give young men
00:17:30.560 that same grace. So, okay. Now this is just, I'm just, I'm drawing attention to the language that
00:17:41.780 we use in church or it's fine everything's the men's fault just keep just keep doing what you're 0.92
00:17:47.360 doing fellas just keep doing what you're doing shame the men into staying i'm sure that'll work 0.96
00:17:54.080 blessing do you think that works oh no no no no blessing but why okay now and now and maybe you
00:18:05.020 guys can tell me if there are two women i you know i i had two friends in high school okay 1.00
00:18:11.220 we went to all went to the same high school we all came from two-parent homes none of us came
00:18:17.680 from perfect homes but we all made different choices I had one friend that decided she was
00:18:23.360 a die-hard Catholic she got married at 22 waited till she was married and I think she's on her
00:18:29.900 second kid now she was also like our valedictorian this girl killed everything she did 1.00
00:18:35.440 she was amazing then then there was another girl in my school 1.00
00:18:40.960 who i i haven't kept up with her in years but i wouldn't be surprised if she was
00:18:47.340 like on only fans or something these days i don't know what she's doing
00:18:50.580 but the way she she behaved if you you guys know what you know what i mean
00:18:55.820 choices decision free will we are responsible for our own sin
00:19:04.880 i i look that's what i believe and if you think that makes me not religious enough
00:19:11.840 i i that's going to make the men not religious enough to keep losing men
00:19:17.320 keep doing what you guys are doing okay so what i see in churches and now i'd like to preface
00:19:25.060 there are three types of men and are three types of people i generally see in church
00:19:32.180 please don't talk to me about the exceptions i know there are exceptions i know it's not all that
00:19:39.120 but these are the general trends you know and by the way in case blessings church is watching
00:19:47.660 no i'm not i'm not give them a disclaimer please
00:19:53.400 i'm not saying his church is like this but it probably it now
00:19:58.220 it probably it probably is super special and different just you know please please don't
00:20:06.400 give my man blessing like any trouble at church please let him have a good time you know please
00:20:11.580 don't now okay for that what thank you for that disclaimer did it help or hurt no that's okay
00:20:17.480 okay okay so there's three categories of people that i see in church
00:20:24.920 now the first thing i've noticed is simp men in church tend to take the biggest l's i have
00:20:33.480 ever seen in my life and it's worse it's worse okay let me let me show you guys this
00:20:39.360 all right i'm gonna show you this was a chastity speaker that came to my high school
00:20:44.840 now i want you guys to put yourself i i was in sales right i worked in sales
00:20:51.300 And if a product wasn't selling, and I'm not saying women are products, but I'm going to look at them in this way so I can explain a concept.
00:21:01.080 If a product isn't selling, the worst thing you can do is shame the customer and say, bad customer, you are wrong for not buying this product.
00:21:12.080 You've got to ask, what's wrong?
00:21:13.260 Why don't people want to buy?
00:21:15.020 Is it the product?
00:21:16.180 Is it the salesperson?
00:21:18.540 Why aren't they buying?
00:21:19.600 the worst thing ever I sold copiers the worst thing ever I could do
00:21:23.680 and and I sold the worst product ever okay was going to a sale and say
00:21:30.740 you guys are not all copiers are like that not all not all copiers are like there are good
00:21:40.200 copiers I sell good copier you would look at me like I'm crazy but if I say anything about
00:21:46.640 the issues with church women and the reasons men are leaving then I'm the bad guy okay now this is
00:21:53.880 a church woman that's going around they went to my high school I remember I remember them because
00:21:58.760 I thought this sounded crazy when I was in high school too this is her testimony and I want to
00:22:04.080 ask you guys if you think this sounds like a win for men this sounds like something they would want
00:22:10.040 to sign up for and by? This wife, okay. Now, okay. 0.71
00:22:18.280 What is love? Well, for me, my father left when I was two, and I was surrounded by aunts and
00:22:24.520 uncles and even my grandmother who was divorced. So for me, love didn't last. Love was temporary,
00:22:31.000 and it wasn't a forever thing. So that carried into my relationships. When I was about a sophomore
00:22:36.600 in high school i had my first serious relationship and after a while of dating we thought we were in
00:22:41.800 love and everything was great and slowly the pressure started to set into the relationship
00:22:47.560 and it came to the point where he said well girl if you really love me
00:22:52.840 so i'm just pointing this out it's all him right you weren't sexual at all 0.97
00:22:59.640 what are our church women known for being sexual blessing they do go crazy 1.00
00:23:06.600 do you think okay as a man when you hear this story do you believe that it was
00:23:12.960 all him I mean in ladies I'm trying to explain how men hear this you're right
00:23:23.700 you were just used okay you truly love me you prove it to me you'd show me just
00:23:28.800 how much you love me so I needed advice so I went to my girlfriends and I said
00:23:33.600 Well, now it's the friend's fault.
00:23:37.460 Now, to be fair, we do give each other terrible advice.
00:23:41.020 We totally do.
00:23:42.560 But I want you to, guys, when you said I did something wrong and you said, oh, well, he wanted me to do it.
00:23:49.480 Now, again, I'm going to tell you guys a story.
00:23:52.060 You love my story.
00:23:53.420 When I was in high school, okay, when I was in high school, I, for the most part, I was pretty mild.
00:23:59.600 I didn't really, I was so, I played three sports.
00:24:03.400 I was so enthralled in volleyball, in basketball, I just didn't have a lot of free time.
00:24:08.280 It's been a common theme throughout my life.
00:24:09.880 I've always just been a busy, busy gal, okay?
00:24:13.060 Now, my last summer before I left for college, I wanted to throw a very small party.
00:24:23.700 Now I know everyone's going to say, Pearl's the word.
00:24:26.240 Okay, whatever, you know?
00:24:27.120 Now, to be fair, to be fair, now, I got caught.
00:24:33.400 and when I got caught I did the same thing she's doing there look at I'm still a woman I'm still
00:24:39.620 a woman all right but but I did do the same thing I was like but dad my friends my dad was having
00:24:45.460 none of that he said if your friends jumped off a bridge would you too don't you hate that and
00:24:52.080 yeah and they sent me I was grounded for like they sent me they sent me to rural Wisconsin
00:24:57.820 lesson. And I learned a lesson. Okay, I learned a lesson. I never did it again. I never, you know, I
00:25:06.220 never, would I have learned that lesson if my dad let me get away with saying that? If my dad said
00:25:15.840 to me, Hannah, they call me by my first name, Hannah, you're right, it was your friends, you poor 0.98
00:25:24.620 baby that's what you guys do with female sin that's why your women are going crazy because 1.00
00:25:30.700 you coddle them and you tell them exactly what they want to hear and i know because i grew i grew 0.97
00:25:35.560 up around you catholic women all right you will not none of you will fool me okay so we're gonna 1.00
00:25:41.040 keep going we're gonna keep going he kind of wants to do this with me and he wants to do that
00:25:45.360 and they said well what's wrong with you everybody's doing it you love him right and i thought well
00:25:52.840 yeah I love him so at the age of 15 I lost my virginity thinking it was gonna
00:25:58.220 cause this huge great emotional bond between us and we'd be on cloud nine and
00:26:02.260 so in love and in all actuality eventually it destroyed any love we had
00:26:07.860 in that relationship and all respect was just thrown out the window because if I
00:26:13.220 couldn't even respect my own body how is he supposed to respect it and after a
00:26:18.220 while of dating and it seemed like he don't want to spend time with me anymore
00:26:21.340 He was basically spending the time with my body and when a girl is being used 0.97
00:26:26.080 She there it is
00:26:29.220 There it is
00:26:30.880 Okay, do you know what I noticed guys?
00:26:33.940 I have never seen more sexuality than from women now. What do I mean by this if 0.68
00:26:39.320 You go to a male rock concert. I have never seen
00:26:44.820 Men approaching women at a concert or in a setting 0.85
00:26:49.840 Okay, let me explain this in a different way.
00:26:51.860 When I go to a concert, women are trying so hard to sleep with the man on stage. 1.00
00:26:57.980 Let's say, let's take, I use Drake as an example a lot.
00:27:01.080 They throw bras at him.
00:27:02.920 They throw panties at him.
00:27:04.620 And I've seen this with high-end male celebrities.
00:27:08.080 Dan Bolvarian has slept with a thousand women.
00:27:11.560 Okay. 0.99
00:27:15.220 Women are sexual. 1.00
00:27:16.840 At times, more sexual than men. 0.99
00:27:18.840 so when a woman has sex she wants to have why is she being used now I don't really care how you 0.98
00:27:30.860 academically say men and women are different it doesn't really matter to me I I'm just looking 0.59
00:27:36.900 at what I see I look at reality and the problem is many church men have never had a woman be very
00:27:47.040 sexual towards them so they think women are these innocent creatures sorry to burst your bubble 1.00
00:27:54.480 guys okay now let's let's pull it up let's pull it up knows it she knows it in the depths of her
00:28:03.420 heart she may deny it she may ignore it but she knows it and I knew it and after a while we were
00:28:08.880 constantly fighting he was cheating on me and we broke up and went our separate ways now I will
00:28:15.520 never forget the day when he walked away from me for the very last time and as he walked away from
00:28:22.380 me I want you guys to understand how men are going to hear this okay I just want you to understand
00:28:26.800 this isn't what I think this is how men think men don't generally break up with women
00:28:32.840 so generally speaking if a man hears you were dumped they think you're crazy now I'm not saying
00:28:42.560 every girl's got a different situation as women i know all you guys hear is your situation i'm not
00:28:47.440 saying saying this is how men will hear this okay am i wrong blessing am i lying no no you know that
00:28:55.040 am i am i telling the truth or am i lying speaking the truth oh i could think about but not at his
00:29:02.480 church yeah let him come back let my man come back was that guys taking something with him
00:29:11.800 that never belonged to him in the first place.
00:29:15.280 But I can't get it back, right?
00:29:16.560 What's the point?
00:29:17.240 It's already gone.
00:29:18.680 So there I was in the cafeteria talking with my girlfriends.
00:29:22.360 And I came to this conclusion, okay,
00:29:24.500 if a guy can date me for about six months
00:29:28.200 without sleeping with me,
00:29:30.740 then he must love me.
00:29:32.700 Then I'll sleep with him.
00:29:33.980 And I think now six months, six months is the-
00:29:37.700 Okay, this is, this is a lie.
00:29:40.960 Guys wouldn't deal with us if there wasn't sex involved.
00:29:45.480 Look, I'm just being real here, ladies.
00:29:48.200 I know the tribe, this isn't going to sound nice, okay?
00:29:51.400 Most men, now I understand like working, 0.99
00:29:55.380 I understand other situations, fine.
00:29:57.720 But most men are not trying to deal with most women 0.98
00:30:00.540 unless there's a possibility of having sex.
00:30:04.920 That's part of it for men. 0.61
00:30:08.140 The church acts like that's not important.
00:30:10.960 it is to men all right price that I put on my body if it gives me just a little bit of that
00:30:18.500 time just a little bit of that attention that's a little I mean six months a little
00:30:23.320 definition of love and I carry this mentality all through high school he was the first guy
00:30:31.520 that I slept with but he wasn't the last because sin took me further than I ever wanted to go
00:30:36.060 or ever expected to go. Now, after a while living this lifestyle, I got into the partying. I got
00:30:42.440 into the drinking. I got into the clubbing. I got into the drugs. You name it, I was into it.
00:30:47.300 And granted, at the time, yeah, I thought it was a lot of fun. It was very attractive. And I know
00:30:52.980 what that's like. But I also know what it's like to wake up the next day when that party's over,
00:31:00.000 when your friends are gone, and when you're there by yourself. And I remember waking up thinking,
00:31:05.040 I can't believe I did that last night I hope I don't have to see his face in the
00:31:10.620 hallway at school on Monday what if everybody finds out what we did all of
00:31:14.460 these things constantly going through my head but the night before my friends
00:31:18.240 would always say oh it's all fun and games don't worry about it it's not a
00:31:22.380 big deal but the next day the fun and games were over and I remember one day
00:31:27.540 waking up so disgusted and overwhelmed with the feeling of worthlessness and
00:31:34.280 And I thought to myself, what's not the big deal here?
00:31:38.280 My body, my self-respect, my dignity, what's not the big deal here?
00:31:43.620 And I wasn't happy.
00:31:45.440 And I knew I wasn't happy, but I thought, well, I'm damaged goods.
00:31:49.160 It's already too late.
00:31:50.900 There's nothing I can do.
00:31:52.840 Now, after a while of living this lifestyle, my mother had an idea of what was going on
00:31:57.740 with me.
00:31:58.160 And she said, well, there's a chastity talk at a church this weekend, and you're going.
00:32:02.460 And I said, what?
00:32:04.280 I said, I am not going to a chastity talk to Liz. 0.75
00:32:07.700 Does some guy talk about sex?
00:32:09.200 Thanks, but no thanks.
00:32:10.400 She said, well, you're going if you like it or not.
00:32:12.340 And I said, okay, fine.
00:32:14.080 I'll sit in the back of the church for 15 minutes.
00:32:17.720 And then I'm out of there.
00:32:18.960 I have a party to go to.
00:32:19.940 I have friends to see.
00:32:21.240 I don't have time.
00:32:22.580 But in that 15 minutes, God had changed my life
00:32:27.520 because he is the God of second chances.
00:32:31.460 And there was this guy that got up
00:32:33.780 and he talked about all the party and all the sex all the pornography everything that he had been
00:32:39.060 into and he just laid it out and i felt like that guy he had grabbed my hand out of the audience and
00:32:45.620 he walked through my life like he could see the things i was most ashamed of in hiding
00:32:51.300 and i just watched him that he carried about himself that i didn't see that in my friends
00:32:56.820 i didn't see that in the places i went to and i definitely didn't see that okay and i'd like
00:33:00.660 to clarify right now there's nothing wrong with her changing her life i am not shaming or faulting
00:33:10.420 that what i am telling you is men are not dying to wife up women that have crazy pasts
00:33:21.780 and that's the problem in the church is you parade around these women as your speakers 1.00
00:33:26.900 and that becomes the quality of the women in the church 0.52
00:33:31.020 and you're telling women they can get a get out of jail free card
00:33:35.320 when in all honesty for every one woman that it works out for
00:33:39.960 there's 10 women it didn't 1.00
00:33:42.160 okay wait let me let me play the rest
00:33:46.820 because i know she ends up like having getting married to another guy
00:33:50.720 having kids
00:33:52.860 everything right 0.96
00:33:55.480 but is that a win for men the new guy had to wait to have sex with her till marriage 1.00
00:34:03.100 when everyone all the other guys got it for free i mean is this is this a win for men i want you 0.99
00:34:11.540 to think about it from the man's point of view guys that bust their ass to become something 0.92
00:34:18.080 they work their whole lives to become better at talking to women to improve their social skills 0.99
00:34:24.220 to make money to be handsome to be charismatic and the church says yes yes here are the women
00:34:31.020 that we will reward you this is common and the problem you get with these women is many of 1.00
00:34:40.620 them are not attracted to their husbands because the reason they had sex with the first guys was 1.00
00:34:49.180 because they were attracted to them there are many church men and women in sexless marriages
00:34:57.260 with women that have used sex to control their husbands and they do it from the beginning 1.00
00:35:03.500 to get commitment from them they do this early on okay but we're going to get into that later
00:35:12.860 but he had one quality above all of them that i wanted more than anything
00:35:16.780 and it's that he wasn't ashamed of himself i sat in my seat trying to figure out one day
00:35:23.300 one day after i started living that lifestyle of just true peace and joy not worried what i'd done
00:35:30.280 prior that night prior that weekend always worried but never any peace and i realized in that moment
00:35:36.820 i needed to get my standards out of the gutter and raise them as high as i possibly could and
00:35:41.980 start respecting my body this will not work for most women she seems some women if they're 1.00
00:35:48.320 attractive enough to pull this off they can do it but i was in sales so imagine this is the
00:35:54.400 christian woman product okay this is the christian woman product you are she did all the partying 0.99
00:36:03.040 she did all the everything they lowered she lowered the value now she's asking for a higher 1.00
00:36:08.600 price while doing nothing but praying i'm sorry it doesn't work like that to men and if it did
00:36:16.160 work like that you guys would have a better reputation do not blame me for the reputation
00:36:22.220 that church women have it would be more useful to say to women hey if you want to wait till marriage 0.98
00:36:31.420 you are going to have to provide a hell of a lot of value outside of sex that is going to be very
00:36:36.820 difficult to acquire if that's what you want to do now. But we say pray and God will give you a
00:36:45.820 husband. There are women that works for but I'm not in the business of selling dreams. That is 0.81
00:36:51.540 not what I've seen. What I have seen from country to country is churches filled with women, single 1.00
00:36:58.440 mothers, ex-party girls, and simps. Nobody's getting together. I don't see young families
00:37:07.620 in churches anymore. I see the same problems happening across the board. And you guys keep
00:37:14.260 shooting the messenger like I did something to do this. I'm just telling you what's going on.
00:37:19.480 For once, and start respecting my God. Now, our God is the God of second chances. And he changed
00:37:27.320 my life he turned me around and he gave me the grace yes god can forgive women but men do not 0.98
00:37:34.500 have to accept your previous sin men don't have to do it and ladies if you have a brother or a
00:37:43.720 father maybe that's dating again some person a man in your life that you love you would never want
00:37:51.100 them to be put in a situation where they're dating a woman with a crazy, crazy past, okay?
00:38:01.360 To get out of that lifestyle. And I tried so many times to get out of that lifestyle
00:38:06.600 on my own because I was miserable. I wasn't happy. I was disgusted with myself. And I just
00:38:14.060 needed to get out. And I tried so many times and I promised myself, never going to do that again.
00:38:18.920 And then the next weekend, I was doing the same exact things.
00:38:22.100 But then I realized when you asked the grace from God and I begged him to get me out of
00:38:27.720 that lifestyle, he did.
00:38:29.940 And if you really want to turn your life around, if you really want to start over, you have
00:38:34.680 to do it with Jesus or you're going to fall, right?
00:38:37.960 That's fine.
00:38:38.760 Yes, yes, you should do it with Jesus.
00:38:40.660 But don't expect men to make your problem theirs.
00:38:44.800 And that's what I'm talking about.
00:38:46.260 you guys keep saying I'm shaming the forgiveness I'm shaming her changing her life no that's a
00:38:51.620 good thing but her and her husband would go around and give these chastity talks across the country 1.00
00:38:58.680 it's always the same you can take it off it's always the same story it's always the woman with
00:39:04.980 a promiscuous past you can take off the video it's always the woman with the promiscuous past 0.54
00:39:10.620 with the man that was a virgin it's generally the same story okay occasionally you get it
00:39:18.460 the other way around and we reward these women what would be more effective actually churches 1.00
00:39:25.720 if you want notes from pearl what would be more effective would be showing all of the women it
00:39:30.860 didn't work out for stop selling hope and dreams i don't know why you guys make that the business
00:39:38.280 Many women try this, it doesn't work, and there's consequences, and I see them in your pews. 1.00
00:39:46.380 Sometimes I wonder if the church wants to leave women single so they can get more money, 0.98
00:39:50.980 because single women fund a lot of these churches. 1.00
00:39:54.260 I question that sometimes.
00:39:57.180 Now, let's talk about, I'm going to talk about some of the archetypes that I see in church.
00:40:03.240 Okay, so I talked about simp men.
00:40:05.840 simp men tend to take the biggest l's they tend to have little experience with women so they tend 1.00
00:40:11.780 to simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell this to you themselves or brag about it
00:40:18.720 um they tend to oh i think i read this already they tend to put women on a pad i read this right
00:40:25.620 should i read it again yes just one more time for the simp side there okay i can't remember
00:40:31.940 okay so simp men tend to take the biggest l's these are the men that tend to go on stage and
00:40:40.340 brag about wifing up an ex hoe they brag about this they tend to have little experience with 0.99
00:40:47.720 women so they simp for a lifetime many of these men will tell you themselves or even brag about 1.00
00:40:52.780 it any sexual activity he will always blame the men because in general they have never been
00:40:58.820 sexually pursued by a woman. They have no idea what that's like. They tend to put women on a 0.99
00:41:05.480 pedestal and make them godlike. They tend to be the biggest suckers. They tend to make everything 1.00
00:41:10.780 the man's fault if the relationship goes south. They tend to believe in born-again virgins and
00:41:17.560 sign up for that. Okay, the next archetype, I'm actually going to go to the controlling wives. 1.00
00:41:24.540 Now, there's the simps, the controlling wives, and the born-again virgins. 0.95
00:41:30.720 Now, the controlling wives, we don't know about their past. 1.00
00:41:33.580 Many of them have pasts.
00:41:35.320 Many of them don't have pasts.
00:41:37.260 But the commonality with the controlling wives is none of them have evidence of anything.
00:41:43.180 Nothing major anyways.
00:41:46.320 Okay.
00:41:47.340 Many of these wives marry men they don't like and make everyone else pay for it. 1.00
00:41:53.100 these many of these women love to lecture us on what godly men are despite not being a virgin
00:42:01.160 themselves they have no humility they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not
00:42:06.560 a godly man and god himself gets to decide oh shoot hold on i'll say today you're preaching 0.54
00:42:17.640 today pearl hold on hold on hold on ah freaking hold on hold on hold on hold on um one second
00:42:27.560 one second sorry sorry sorry can i get some ones in the chat if you feel like pearl is preaching
00:42:35.040 today i'll do it again i'll do it again all right um
00:42:47.640 so all the guys on x or 3 000 new x if you can hit the like button sorry sorry sorry i had
00:42:57.740 i had a little emergency but it's okay it's all right all right they're the web the christian
00:43:03.680 women in the chat they're like god got her to shut up no i'm coming back bitches sorry sorry 1.00
00:43:09.080 sorry okay okay all right again christian women i don't see a difference between you guys in the 0.98
00:43:14.540 general population. You guys tend to be just as spiteful, vindictive, and outright mean as general 0.98
00:43:24.180 women. Okay, so again, these women love to lecture us on what godly men are. Despite not being virgins 0.99
00:43:33.600 themselves, they constantly pick at their husband's flaws by saying he is not a godly man, as if they
00:43:39.740 are God themselves and get to decide. These are the same women that say, I am not godly enough
00:43:46.280 to talk about this. The way that women react to me, take notes guys, because that is how they will 1.00
00:43:52.500 react to you. I am just a random stranger on the internet. You'll be married to these women. 0.88
00:43:59.600 Watch out, have fun. Christian women have a tendency to use the Bible to control their 1.00
00:44:04.780 husbands and tell them how to talk. Remember, the way that women react to red pill is how they react 1.00
00:44:10.160 to hearing information they do not like. Remember, the red pill is simply men trading notes. It's
00:44:17.660 simply men. It's barber. It's locker room talk, barbershop talk. Imagine being home and that's
00:44:26.240 how your wife will react if she hears anything she doesn't like. You will see these women call
00:44:32.360 me hateful, problematic, harmful. These are the Christian women that are at school meetings 1.00
00:44:38.060 telling you how to raise your children. These are the women that force the you-know-what 1.00
00:44:45.140 on everybody. These are the mask women oftentimes. These women weaponize sex against their husbands. 1.00
00:44:55.220 shame shame i i see the same shame insult guilt and need to be right from christian women 0.98
00:45:02.360 that i see from normal women there is no difference if there was a difference again 1.00
00:45:07.420 don't blame me for your reputation all right they will call oh oh they will call everyone else
00:45:15.360 of this world as if they themselves hold the keys to god's have to heaven as if they themselves give
00:45:24.880 out these keys that's what you'll see oh you're just worldly what the hell does that supposed to
00:45:30.540 mean crazy lady so are you all right they love the verse husbands must love their wives as christ
00:45:39.180 loves the church yet at the same time will tell men how to talk tell men to watch their tone tell 0.81
00:45:46.920 men to watch their delivery that doesn't sound like submission ladies um okay if christian women 0.99
00:45:54.360 leave marriages. They need a reason. Christian women will band together to label a man abuser, 0.99
00:46:00.400 oppressive, and evil if the woman chose to leave. The woman is always right. As I have said this 1.00
00:46:05.900 many times before, we saw this with Lauren Southern, Stephen Crowder. Everybody banded
00:46:12.960 together. Nobody called out the holes in their story. You will see conservative women 0.99
00:46:20.720 file you will see conservative women rally behind divorced women and still call them more christian
00:46:29.700 than me even though they chose to break up their own home and what and what does that affect oh my
00:46:36.400 gosh the children women care more about women's reputation than they care about children this 1.00
00:46:41.820 stuff leads to divorce this stuff is serious and yet everything is pearl's fault christian women 1.00
00:46:49.800 tend to be very concerned with power. They want the power to preach and exert control over their
00:46:54.920 husbands. They're more concerned with looking good than doing good. Christian women swear they 1.00
00:47:01.900 cannot trust their husband because he is not godly enough. They will swear they are the
00:47:06.140 orbiters of what makes a man godly. They will swear they are the orbiters of what makes a man
00:47:11.540 a real man. Who are you to decide? If the relationship goes south, it is always his fault.
00:47:18.600 christian women also live in fear many of them also excuse women's divorces by labeling the 0.80
00:47:26.920 abuse of men if there was no police report filed i don't believe you get a police report
00:47:36.100 you're go to the police get a report otherwise you're just gonna let us all get beat up by this
00:47:43.620 guy that doesn't make any sense these are the women who are used to defining what they love 1.00
00:47:52.460 defining what christ looks like loving the church and if their husbands don't measure up these women 0.98
00:47:58.840 are gone nada nayski they leave just like normal women when the wife 1.00
00:48:08.860 oh when the wives christian wives often blame everything that is going wrong in their marriage
00:48:18.500 on the husband not believing in christianity i often hear the citation studied
00:48:24.960 or i often hear the citation that when men go to church the whole family follows what christian
00:48:33.400 women do is they weaponize this study and make it the husband's problem that they're not godly 1.00
00:48:42.260 enough when really they should be asking if they're so godly why doesn't their husband want
00:48:47.280 to go to church with them if you're so pleasant and amazing to be around i hate to break it to
00:48:54.000 you but i find non-religious men more godlike than 90 of christian women yes you 10 there is 0.62
00:49:03.160 10% maybe of Christian women that are so awesome and pure. And I love meeting them. You know,
00:49:09.880 I'll give, I'll give, um, you know, Bryson Gray, he's, he's married and his wife, she's like the
00:49:15.880 sweetest woman. I just, I just felt her like innocence and like kindness, just, just being
00:49:22.400 there for the day. Okay. These women exist, but they are rare. They, they are the exception. 1.00
00:49:27.920 they are not the rule what is more common is what i am describing why is this your reputation
00:49:34.660 all right servant leader christian women love this verse and by servant leader generally christian
00:49:44.980 women mean to put his wants and his needs last always i i mean servant leader this this sounds
00:49:55.140 the way you guys describe it, it sounds like slavery to me. And don't get mad at me when
00:50:01.920 you're losing half of young men. This isn't me. I didn't do this. I'm just pointing out the
00:50:08.400 problem. When you interview a thousand people, you start to see some patterns and trends of
00:50:14.780 behavior. Women's groups have a reputation of being gossip centers where women simply gossip 0.99
00:50:21.940 and to speak ill of their husbands and now you are seeing more women running women's groups 0.99
00:50:30.060 god help us god help us christian women love telling men to watch their tone and delivery 1.00
00:50:39.540 you will listen oh and finally christian women listen to their pastor before they listen to
00:50:46.980 their husband. That doesn't make any sense. How do you trust your husband enough to have a child by
00:50:53.620 him, but yet still go to a pastor for advice before you go to your husband? Okay, an example
00:51:04.080 that I see of the way that Christian, this is why I put her in the title, no offense. Now, I'm not
00:51:11.940 personal you might be awesome otherwise this is just the clip i saw this is often how i see
00:51:18.060 christian women reacting to information they do not like remember the red pill is just men trading
00:51:23.960 notes you guys don't have to watch it you don't have to listen to it you don't have to interact
00:51:28.620 with it if you don't want to yet you go on these channels you go out of your way to see it
00:51:33.720 and then cry about what's being said it's madness to me okay i'm gonna
00:51:41.940 hey guys welcome to relatable happy monday hope everyone had a wonderful weekend um so i spent a
00:51:53.460 lot of time over the past couple days thinking about what i really want to discuss today how i
00:52:00.500 want to approach this topic we are going to talk about tim keller the pastor the author who died
00:52:08.740 I'm bad at putting timestamps guys so please excuse me and dress something that's going on
00:52:16.140 online and if you're not really online very much particularly if you're not on Twitter you might
00:52:20.420 have no idea about what I'm about to discuss this trend this movement that I'm about to talk about
00:52:26.900 or how any of it has to do with me in this podcast I don't want to make it about me I don't want to
00:52:32.180 make it about me I want to make it about encouraging you encouraging Christians particularly Christian
00:52:37.640 women. I've seen a movement both within the secular and the Christian right. I consider myself
00:52:46.080 on the Christian right. I am a conservative. I'm on the right side of the political cultural
00:52:52.220 spectrum. I am a Christian. I consider myself a conservative Christian because I believe that
00:52:59.200 what is referred to as a conservative view of the Bible is actually just a biblical view of the
00:53:04.580 bible and faith um but the movement that i'm talking about within a segment of the christian
00:53:11.900 right could maybe be called like the trad movement or in some cases and again you might not right now
00:53:19.480 recognize where this trend is or it's like women we can't get to the point right 1.00
00:53:24.440 i'm like a minute in i'm sorry where it's going and that's okay and i'll give you some examples i
00:53:32.280 don't want to give too many specific examples because there's so many different caveats that
00:53:36.240 I have to put like this person is kind of part of this movement this is not this is a tweet that
00:53:40.200 kind of represents it yeah and I'll tell you why because again there's the core basic eyes trading
00:53:44.880 notes it's not me all right I'm just a chick talking about this stuff and then people yeah
00:53:51.660 yeah yeah but it doesn't but those of you who are in conservatism certainly conservative media or
00:53:56.640 who just consume it. You've probably seen the direction that all of this is going. And
00:54:03.060 particularly if you're not on Twitter, you may not have seen it, but I'm going to try to explain
00:54:08.180 it the best I can. And there are good chances that you at least have a feeling about what I'm
00:54:13.900 talking about. So I'm like two minutes into this. Are we sorry? You think that the red pill? I'm
00:54:19.400 sorry. I need to get timestamps. I'm sorry, guys. I'm sorry. I apologize. As I called it would just
00:54:24.020 be kind of becoming a conservative and maybe it was at one point realizing that the mainstream
00:54:29.540 narratives about everything race gender economics is just wrong but it's actually now kind of morphed
00:54:36.700 into a strange collection of perpetually online men who complain about women okay notice how she's
00:54:45.500 already starting, the shaming language. This is what I mean when I say that Christian women use 1.00
00:54:54.100 the same shame, insult, guilt, need to be right as non-Christian women. It is the same. I'm sorry, 1.00
00:55:01.340 I grew up around y'all. Y'all are mostly Catholics, but Christians. I have been in the hood in London,
00:55:09.080 arguably I don't see a difference I don't see a difference sorry and equate masculinity to
00:55:16.980 physical fitness and ultra self-sufficiency and what I mean by that is like in some of these
00:55:21.860 circles it's looked down upon to be a monogamous in a monogamous relationship or in a marriage at
00:55:27.140 all um in some they emphasize the importance of getting a trad service oriented submissive wife 0.98
00:55:36.060 why is that wrong a trad service orient blessing isn't that what you're supposed to want
00:55:44.700 now it's like we're shaming men for wanting what they want 0.97
00:55:50.540 and uh these are often represented damn it blessing get you a combative woman 1.00
00:55:57.380 go get you someone to argue with twitter accounts constantly 1.00
00:56:04.880 posting tiktok videos of girls saying stupid things or stories of girls betraying their 0.99
00:56:10.800 boyfriends or girls at the gym wearing scandalous clothing uh angry that guys are looking at them 0.99
00:56:18.080 basically this group both of those who are like no i'm non-monogamous and i think you know being
00:56:24.400 a strong man is really just kind of sowing my wild oats everywhere and the side that's like oh no
00:56:29.960 we need to get married to like the most submissive trad wife out there both of these groups it seems 1.00
00:56:36.340 from kind of what they're saying they view girls or depict girls women as dumb as promiscuous okay 1.00
00:56:42.940 so again if women are dumb and promiscuous it's the men depicting them as dumb and promiscuous 1.00
00:56:49.660 we couldn't possibly just do that behavior oh it's the men the men the men 1.00
00:56:57.120 god you guys are killing me sometimes this stop s-i-m-p-s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping sorry 0.95
00:57:09.560 all is radical feminists they believe that feminism is the cause of all of our problems 1.00
00:57:14.740 they're really not that different than incels involuntary celibates who
00:57:18.340 think the same thing girls women that's the they're the core of all of our problems as a country 1.00
00:57:24.580 and speaking as someone who knows and has talked about the modern female propensity to be overly
00:57:32.760 self-focused and to be duped by any political narrative that plays upon our feelings to the
00:57:39.120 detriment see again we are just duped you innocent i don't know blessing is it is it unbiblical to
00:57:53.120 say it's a choice is that unbiblical you're a pastor i don't know they say i'm not i'm not a
00:58:00.280 i'm not a real christian they say i'm not like enough so i don't know you may you're probably
00:58:07.020 enough being a pastor is that unbiblical to say it's a choice no no no am i wrong is this
00:58:13.580 no no just the men have choices but women don't we're just duped of our country um the first one 0.76
00:58:22.140 was the basis of my first book, the trendy narcissism that I talk about a lot. The latter,
00:58:28.740 the overemphasis on feelings when it comes to political and cultural decisions is the focus
00:58:33.680 of my second book coming out next year. So I'm no coddler of women. I'm, I'm no feminist. And yet 0.77
00:58:39.440 I see, and I'm concerned by the different flavors of woman hatred. I see it. 1.00
00:58:45.380 See, I'm no feminist, but I'm behaving in the same way that feminists do, because now she's 1.00
00:58:51.300 going to, the men are misogynists. Now they're just women haters. I'm going to tell men how to talk.
00:59:02.180 Online discourse today. Yes, of course, from the left in the form of elevating men who pretend
00:59:09.320 they're women, excoriating every discontent white woman as a Karen. Yet we know that progressives 0.98
00:59:15.720 hate God's design. They hate true femininity and true masculinity. And so I'm used to and expect
00:59:22.480 a kind of a form of woman hatred from a lot of people on the left, but also from the right. 1.00
00:59:28.560 Some of whom, some people on the right, love to play the women are dumb and have caused most of 0.99
00:59:35.100 the societal problems that we have today. I mean, is that true? I mean, is it, 1.00
00:59:45.720 is it is it am i wrong now i'm trying to stay youtube safe i'll just keep that one to myself
00:59:54.920 i'll keep that one trope they love to play on that trope and there's crossover between this
01:00:01.720 and the that's the red pill and then the trad movement which is also just a weird part of
01:00:08.560 conservatism which claims to be a push for traditional ways of life traditional marriage
01:00:13.340 And of course, I am a huge advocate, the biggest advocate of traditional marriage and think we
01:00:18.260 should elevate it. But this online sect. But not, not the way that men want to, just the way I want
01:00:24.920 to. That I'm talking about that you've probably seen before isn't necessarily talking about
01:00:29.820 biblical marriage or biblical gender roles. There is a strange overemphasis in this community,
01:00:36.100 if you will, movement, trend, whatever. I think it's a grift, but a strange overemphasis on the
01:00:43.020 need to subdue women. And on creating this almost like 19th century aesthetic in your home and way 1.00
01:00:49.080 of life, there's a lot of criticism from this crowd of women who, a criticism of women who 1.00
01:00:56.860 work in any way that is not strictly domestic. And here's what I mean when I say that this group
01:01:03.460 is not necessarily Christian, even though they're quote unquote trad. There was a young woman the
01:01:08.180 other day who tagged me in her Instagram story. She was very angry about something that I said. 0.94
01:01:11.560 I don't even remember what.
01:01:13.080 She's an influencer, I guess.
01:01:14.800 I think I agree with her on this point.
01:01:17.040 Small following.
01:01:17.760 I didn't respond to anything that she said, but she claims proudly.
01:01:21.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:01:22.020 She's with the, now she's going to talk about the trads with the bikini pictures on Instagram.
01:01:30.320 We'll agree there.
01:01:31.320 But you guys, this is what I'm showing you.
01:01:33.800 Men are sick of this.
01:01:35.200 They're sick of being told how to talk.
01:01:37.660 They're sick of being told to watch their tone.
01:01:40.160 And the more we do this, the more it's just going to not work.
01:01:49.960 You're going to keep seeing young men leaving and then crying about that they're leaving and blaming Pearl for it like I did this.
01:01:56.760 Okay, so that's the controlling wives archetype that I see in the church. 1.00
01:02:03.020 okay so the next one we have the simps the controlling wives and the born again virgins 1.00
01:02:10.760 now the born again now the born again virgins are the single mothers x of chicks and women
01:02:19.820 that maybe had a history of sex work and single motherhood these are women that have some sort of 1.00
01:02:27.920 public scarlet letter, per se. Maybe it's an OF account. Maybe it's a child. I don't know, okay?
01:02:37.820 But these women tend to come to church to be absolved of all of the consequences of their 0.99
01:02:43.780 decisions. Many of these women mask it under finding God, but generally speaking, it's more 0.96
01:02:50.640 to find a husband and be absolved of any wrongdoings. Many of these women passed over the 1.00
01:02:57.460 men that would have married them in their youth gave their best years to someone that didn't
01:03:04.000 appreciate them and still expect those men to clean up the mess after and to be fair to them
01:03:10.060 some of you simps do it some of you in church but for every one woman that finds a simp there's five 1.00
01:03:18.000 that don't and you'll see this by looking at all the young women in church that are single 0.99
01:03:23.620 young virgins you guys are so bad that men don't even want virgins anymore because of the headache 1.00
01:03:30.280 you are known to come with virgins even have the reputation of being controlling 0.99
01:03:36.880 of being controlling and even withholding sex after marriage don't shoot the messenger okay 0.88
01:03:45.680 this is just what the men tell me men are biologically wired to want a virgin and the
01:03:51.220 reputation of christian virgin women is so bad that men are avoiding the hassle 0.99
01:03:57.060 don't shoot the messenger this is just what the guys are saying to me
01:04:02.160 this is what the guys are saying to me
01:04:04.980 okay so many women come to church wanting to do a rebrand 1.00
01:04:13.760 if you will notice the women that do tend to find a husband in church or a simp generally
01:04:22.180 she is older than him and the younger man just doesn't know any better many of these men are
01:04:30.600 roped into a lifetime decision based on the advice that trads are giving them when oftentimes there
01:04:39.120 are predatory women in church. Predatory. Okay. Generally, these women put on a dress, tell 1.00
01:04:50.800 everyone how godly they are, but usually the mask comes off eventually. Usually to whatever
01:04:56.980 simp they got to marry them. Okay. So now this all came full circle. I need to get the clip. 0.71
01:05:04.600 this all came full circle during my debate with michael knolls okay this all came full circle
01:05:10.980 and if you guys want to hate me for milking this interview i'm going to do it and i'm going to do
01:05:16.260 it more i'm gonna i'm gonna keep doing it so you can be mad let me let me get this time stamp
01:05:21.620 so during the debate with michael knolls um during the debate with michael knolls
01:05:29.800 it was actually quite ironic so we were talking about only only can we say OF on YouTube is there
01:05:38.800 anything against let's just leave it for now okay let me make sure this is the right part
01:05:44.620 whatever that's the point there's actually there I mean miracles happen but I would have that okay
01:05:50.400 okay there we go I think it's here let me so how do we know our purpose
01:05:55.760 men have what
01:05:59.800 have the scriptures we have revelation but we also have our conscience and
01:06:05.100 reading us toward marriage men and you would disagree no you wouldn't well so
01:06:10.520 there you go no no well sort of sort of I think men I think that in the current
01:06:17.820 market there are just not enough wives to go around there there are not enough 0.99
01:06:21.760 wives to go women that deserve to be wise in in my opinion okay you'd agree 1.00
01:06:28.200 on that, right? Well, I don't know exactly what you mean by that. Maybe I would agree,
01:06:32.860 but I don't know exactly what you mean by it. Okay. Do you think men should have standards?
01:06:37.500 Yes. Do you think it's okay for them to want a woman that's in shape? Do you think that's 0.99
01:06:42.180 an okay standard? Yeah, that's good. Okay. A girl that's religious. Would you say that's 0.81
01:06:46.260 good? Okay. But that's not the majority. That's not the majority. So what are men supposed
01:06:51.320 to do in the meantime? They're supposed to convince the women to get in shape and get 1.00
01:06:54.180 religion. Good luck. I've done it for a year. Good luck. Maybe the men would be more persuasive than
01:07:01.160 you would. Good luck. I don't know. Did the OnlyFans models quit that you interviewed? 0.51
01:07:07.860 I don't know if that, you know, I've only interviewed a few on whatever. No, no, no, the shows, that's the point.
01:07:12.280 There's actually, there. I mean, miracles happen, but I wouldn't bet on it. There are a couple of
01:07:15.800 gals, there are a couple of gals who've written into my show, not from the whatever podcast,
01:07:18.500 but who were watching my show and, you know, really watching in the member block and everything,
01:07:22.580 who were both like online
01:07:24.940 pornographers to some degree
01:07:27.040 and one said
01:07:29.180 she was going to quit. I kind of lost track of her in the show. 1.00
01:07:31.200 Another one quit, had a major
01:07:33.080 conversion and you know
01:07:35.000 what a wonderful evidence
01:07:36.980 of the glory of God. Was it the one on Twitter? Yes.
01:07:39.260 Yeah, her OF link was still up.
01:07:41.000 So a lot of times... She denied this.
01:07:42.620 Someone said that that was true. Her OF link
01:07:44.920 was still up. Yes, it was. I checked it.
01:07:46.580 Yes, it was. I'm positive.
01:07:48.820 She posted it and showed that it wasn't still up.
01:07:51.080 it was i don't know i don't know she seemed pretty sincere to me but in any case are you
01:07:55.480 denying the principle okay so here we go here we go all right so oh wait actually let me keep going
01:08:03.400 i think i think there is a little more i'm going to keep going that people can change yeah i mean
01:08:08.200 god can forgive you but men don't have to i don't i don't think it's i'm not talking about repentance
01:08:13.000 i wouldn't repentance is good but i wouldn't say that makes her wife worthy if you still used to 0.87
01:08:17.320 to have an OAuth account you would agree that men in general should not date
01:08:23.260 women that had OnlyFans accounts it's not ideal okay you can't definitively say
01:08:30.820 that a woman okay I don't think it's disqualifying well I just I think you're
01:08:34.180 gonna have a tough time selling guys on that so he starts men can have standards
01:08:39.640 yes, pro men can have standards, then we can't disqualify a chick for having 0.93
01:08:49.820 OF content on the internet. Guys, ladies, can we just look at it from the men's point of view?
01:08:55.700 If you had a son, blessing, if you had a son, would you tell him to wife a chick being a past? 1.00
01:09:03.280 No. Blessing is a very forgiving guy. Blessing preaches here. He preaches to all of us.
01:09:07.700 would you say that it would be a good choice for him to date a woman with an only fan
01:09:14.200 why is this so hard christians god can forgive you of your sin but you should be doing it for
01:09:21.880 god not to get something out of it and so okay now it was so funny because this all proved my point
01:09:29.340 this all proved my point so i during this clip we were actually talking about two different women 0.99
01:09:36.380 we weren't we were communicating but we both were confused okay i was talking about i'm going to show
01:09:44.340 you this on my screen all right so i was talking about let me make this full screen this woman
01:09:54.420 right here this is who i was talking about so this girl you know this guy on twitter has done a great
01:10:03.240 job reclaim your throne has done a great job exposing this chick because she said that you 1.00
01:10:08.600 know she was leaving and then she that's who i was talking about now i didn't realize you can 0.98
01:10:13.760 take it down i didn't realize that michael was actually talking about let me actually put in her 0.99
01:10:20.080 x at this girl and she deleted all of it because she proved my point and so many times you chicks 1.00
01:10:28.520 argue with me and then you prove my point um did she block me she might have blocked me 1.00
01:10:35.320 so oh oh i got well i'll just show that i'll just show the screen i'm blocked dang it oh
01:10:43.400 oh no no i wanted the of chicks to oh i just i wanted i i totally wanted to see what an ex
01:10:52.920 sex worker has to think i oh why god why sorry why why do bad things happen to good people 0.98
01:11:05.640 okay they're gonna they're gonna kill me for this one okay 0.60
01:11:11.040 but i found um this chick had a whole essay and i i it was a whole essay talking about how i was
01:11:20.180 wrong for quest even questioning her conversion even saying how that doesn't seem sincere
01:11:28.460 the same way i wouldn't do business with a former convict if someone has scammed you know even that
01:11:38.580 wolf of wall street guy i mean he's charismatic there's stuff we can learn from him but do i
01:11:44.420 want to do business am I going to trust him with my family's money no the same way why would you
01:11:54.420 trust an OF chick being the mother of your children and as women why is this so difficult 1.00
01:12:02.960 for us to understand the men have put up with so much they put up with us being overweight 0.84
01:12:07.840 we don't got to be virgins anymore but we can't draw the line at sex work
01:12:14.420 really the men are wrong for saying you know what sex work is the line
01:12:20.640 this woman and this is what happens when do you see who someone truly is when they're angry
01:12:28.240 what do they do when they are angry this woman took off her mask she's threatened and i have a 0.67
01:12:36.980 screenshot of it i said why don't you come on the stream and talk she asks to fight me instead 0.84
01:12:43.340 is that who we want my like you know mike i'm just and i'm not saying this to pick on on michael
01:12:51.020 right i'm saying this because young men will watch that stuff and think it's actually a good idea
01:12:57.220 they won't that's why the men are leaving but the way that they react to me is how they're
01:13:04.060 going to react to you i am just a stranger on the internet giving her opinions i am just a random
01:13:10.560 chick okay so what i tend to see happen in church is we have the controlling wives we have the 1.00
01:13:22.880 born again virgins and we have the simps and blessing's the only one left right blessing
01:13:34.880 yeah blessing you don't simp right there's no simping there
01:13:38.500 nah none right no simping no s-i-m-p-i-n-g no simping coming out yeah yeah we should drop that
01:13:52.440 track yeah okay so the funny thing is christian men do a great job of showing men why they should
01:14:02.000 not marry at all. Because nothing is good enough for them where women can do the bare minimum 1.00
01:14:08.940 and be rewarded. So my question is, am I wrong? Are Christian women wife material? 0.90
01:14:19.920 And is this a good deal for men? I'd like to talk to the women first. 1.00
01:14:25.440 i'd like to talk to the women first i'm gonna put the link in the chat give me one second don't 1.00
01:14:34.480 all right this is so if you think the topic's relevant you know did you what which email
01:14:44.340 the pearly things one yeah you emailed it to me yeah oh i see it i see it i see it
01:14:50.280 oh wait and i actually have one more i saw a tweet that i thought
01:14:57.000 summarized this really well i thought summarized this really well the conversation
01:15:02.500 mind you what i say does nothing i am not arrogant enough to think that my words have
01:15:10.760 such an impact on society it's going to change it do you think i can change these government
01:15:17.300 incentives, abortion. Because if that were true, Ben Shapiro, one of the most skilled debaters I
01:15:24.740 have ever seen, would have stopped this terrible culture. I am no Ben Shapiro. I am no Candace
01:15:33.360 Owens. I am nowhere near as skilled as those people. And they weren't successful in conserving
01:15:39.800 anything. So why on earth would I think I could do it? That's just, yeah, good luck.
01:15:47.300 So, what I say does nothing, but what I am pointing out is that by saying men are wrong
01:15:55.840 if they're lied to about paternity, they still need to father the kids and they're wrong 0.58
01:16:00.160 to divorce their wife, that is not a good sell on marriage.
01:16:07.500 By saying you should, by not definitively saying not to date OF workers.
01:16:17.300 single mothers and women with crazy pasts that is going to turn men away 1.00
01:16:28.740 by telling men to wait for women that have not that are not worthy
01:16:35.780 that's going to turn men away by saying hey guys no mandatory dna test you're wrong to get a 0.99
01:16:42.980 prenup that is the greatest marketing plan you could ever do to discourage men from getting
01:16:48.460 married and going to church and it's interesting because what i say which is change the laws make
01:16:53.840 them more fair for men as a starting point that that would actually be more likely to encourage 0.99
01:17:00.120 men to get married where what you guys are pushing actually will turn them away because
01:17:06.540 men naturally weigh the costs and the benefits they naturally do that
01:17:12.980 i mean i could blessing if i started saying marry these of chicks marry these of chicks 1.00
01:17:19.540 would you do it because i said it hell no i mean i i can't you cannot control men
01:17:26.760 maybe maybe some young ones some of you christian women figured out how 1.00
01:17:30.740 um okay but so i'm gonna do it in the youtube chat women get first priority i've been going 1.00
01:17:39.240 for two hours oh no hour and a half we're gonna put it in the x chart as well we got 4 600 people
01:17:43.960 wow yeah okay i don't know how to do it uh i'm gonna put it there okay i can't even put it in
01:17:50.600 my own oh shoot i'm logged into christine's account figured out how all right zoom link i'm gonna pin it
01:18:09.240 the juice is just not worth the squeeze now again so my question is and i want you guys
01:18:19.540 to answer this question are christian women wife material 0.95
01:18:23.380 are christian women wife material am i just am i just all wrong am i just making this up
01:18:35.560 I could be wrong.
01:18:37.620 I could be wrong.
01:18:46.920 We need to have a song that plays.
01:18:52.380 I should do my songs.
01:18:53.880 Guys, I have some music coming out soon.
01:18:56.100 Get excited.
01:18:56.760 am i wrong am i they're all saying no in the chat i'm not wrong
01:19:07.720 are christian women wife material
01:19:10.660 and by the way when we're talking about a group of people we're talking about the majority
01:19:19.540 not the minority the majority
01:19:24.060 okay and i want to clarify because everyone's going to say pearl pearl pearl
01:19:31.360 there are good women there are good christian women i've acknowledged that
01:19:35.160 i have acknowledged that so you know any any women coming or no i just got it yep we got women 1.00
01:19:48.540 oh yeah guys just wait uh okay we got brie it's gonna come up first
01:19:55.880 i didn't even know we could i thought streaming on x was like the same as youtube
01:20:09.000 what do you mean i don't know i thought it was like late i don't know
01:20:14.440 i'm just wow 4 000 people that's crazy okay yeah x is giving us some love yeah we love that how
01:20:22.500 many are we on rumble rumble as well but rumble they're not they're not put yeah i mean to be
01:20:28.400 fair we got to be better with rumble all right are you ready pal i'm ready what's her name
01:20:39.320 brie brie yeah okay yeah bring her up brie i'm gonna ask you to unmute your
01:20:43.360 wait can you say something brie hi pearl oh hello brie how are you today
01:20:53.860 i'm using an ipad and now i'm realizing the camera sucks on the split okay could you go
01:21:00.520 in the middle yeah go in the middle there you go let me see i may just be not looking properly
01:21:06.540 everybody so sorry about that all right yes as long as you're on camera we're good
01:21:10.480 okay where are you where are you at so i'm from kansas city oh okay cool so yeah um in your
01:21:18.600 opinion are christian women wife material i told i do agree with you um that a lot of christian 0.81
01:21:25.980 women are not uh marriage material i think a lot of christian men aren't marriage material either
01:21:31.900 i just think in general the church has a huge problem more and i'm coming from a protestant
01:21:38.620 side okay of that what denomination uh well so i went to a church called calvary chapel which
01:21:45.660 i think overall is considered non-denominational okay non-denominational um and i'm the oldest of
01:21:52.300 seven kids uh you and i have kind of a similar background because i come from a big family
01:21:56.940 I'm the oldest, and I have five sisters, so very churchy.
01:22:02.840 My parents were, like, incredibly involved in church.
01:22:07.240 They're still married today.
01:22:09.040 We're all blood-related.
01:22:10.140 There's no—we're not a blended family.
01:22:13.180 But I grew up, so I'm older than you, like probably 10 years older than you.
01:22:18.620 and when I was growing up as a teenager I feel like one of the biggest things like the biggest
01:22:24.400 mistakes that church church has made with the youth back then was the whole purity conversation
01:22:31.020 um and I don't know if that was around when you were growing up oh but oh we oh yeah yeah I I feel
01:22:38.260 like what happened and and I'll kind of go in I feel like I check so many of these opposite boxes
01:22:43.900 for you so i hope i'm a fun guest to have on um so when i was growing up you know the purity
01:22:49.260 conversation hey wait till you're married both genders right like male female wait till you're 0.99
01:22:54.620 married absolutely nothing until you're married don't i remember my dad being like a guy can't
01:23:00.860 touch your abdomen you know like what is that i don't know you're like not allowed to touch
01:23:05.020 until you're married um and i think that had the opposite effect on people i'm sorry i wish i could
01:23:12.500 get more on camera for you um there you go right there you're good right okay i feel like that had
01:23:18.500 the opposite effect on everyone both genders where if you what made the mistake of kissing someone
01:23:28.900 or even you know all the way sleeping with somebody you felt like now you're in a position
01:23:35.380 of okay now you got to marry that person right oh oh you did the thing that's only for married
01:23:40.340 people so and you started seeing this person at 14 15 say you know whatever 16 17 for some of us
01:23:47.460 um you know now you're stuck with them that you've got to make this work right or it was like oh you 0.94
01:23:54.700 made the mistake so now you're a whore right like now you already messed up so then you kind of feel 0.98
01:24:00.900 like okay well i already messed up so now i can just i'm just gonna do whatever or now i'm like 0.99
01:24:05.460 kicked out of the church or whatever you know whatever whatever you have i feel like there
01:24:09.340 wasn't a lot of counseling for teens in church at that time I think they sort of dropped that
01:24:16.040 maybe like five years after I got out I don't know what your thoughts are on that well they also
01:24:20.220 don't have paths to marriage in my opinion so it's like they like you know we're pushing the
01:24:27.660 marriage age right now to like 30 right that's that's what the the normal world is doing and I
01:24:33.380 don't really see a lot of programs that get the men and the women together and and to me it's
01:24:40.100 because they're giving them the wrong information you know it's like they're telling a lot of the
01:24:44.660 men the happy wife happy life type stuff and that doesn't arouse women and then and that's from my
01:24:51.860 point of view you know I I don't think the church has figured out how to have people date in the
01:24:58.380 modern world. I don't think they've figured it out yet. Completely agree. Completely agree. And I
01:25:04.500 also, but I do want to say, I think the church, the Protestant church side of things has it right
01:25:11.980 in terms of, or the statistics that you have quoted too, which is, hey, if you're each other's
01:25:18.520 only, okay, and you get married and you have that relationship and you have a way higher likelihood
01:25:24.940 of making it and i have several friends that are my age now that did that right they waited
01:25:30.000 until they were you know married to do anything and they they waited a long time to become what 0.73
01:25:35.660 sexually acted if you will you know they didn't even get married till they were 21 um my story
01:25:41.760 is i when i was you know i lost my virginity at 17 to my first high school boyfriend kind of
01:25:48.620 was like okay oh whatever i messed up it's over you know but i didn't i actually kept it together
01:25:54.580 I really you know still I went to a Christian school my graduating class was only 10 kids
01:25:59.000 so very small circle and still had a lot of religious support to kind of keep it together
01:26:04.960 and not hoe out if you will um and then when I was about 18 on my own in my own apartment um 0.95
01:26:13.680 I ended up meeting my husband at that time and that's when I don't know am I still on right
01:26:21.840 i'm still here i think the just keep blessings gonna fix it i hear you okay oh okay um anyway
01:26:30.720 i all i was gonna say is i ended up um getting married by the time i was 19 and my dad begged
01:26:37.840 me not to do it told me i wasn't ready really your dad asked you now i was just talking on
01:26:43.680 i was just on the day of my wedding girl you begged me i was just talking to someone about
01:26:49.360 how dads raise their daughters like sons now and give them and give them advice like like most
01:26:56.540 dads don't want their daughters to marry young either yeah um well and it wasn't he wasn't
01:27:02.420 necessarily against getting married young he just knew that this one wasn't the one kind of thing
01:27:07.540 and also and i only dated this person um for i think we dated four months and then like we were
01:27:17.560 what's engaged and then we were married within a year so it was absolutely too soon um he was um
01:27:25.580 from the church as well and was very inexperienced himself um i i think he he
01:27:32.380 man i feel bad for the people who know me sorry people um but i think he was a virgin when we got
01:27:38.540 married i wasn't and so you know that was different were you were you did you do you
01:27:44.560 think it was like an attraction thing like what what was the problem you think the or uh why did
01:27:51.480 I get married oh I'm sorry I guess the way you were talking I assumed it didn't work out so I
01:27:55.960 was just curious no it did correct so that uh yeah so I I shouldn't have gotten married um and
01:28:02.740 I used to I heard you saying earlier you know women blame feminism sometimes I don't I and I
01:28:09.720 don't and that's I'm not coming here to blame I take full responsibility for all my mistakes
01:28:13.920 And for what I did, I don't think, you know, I think I just, you know, everyone just makes their own decisions. Right. And I made some bad ones. So I shouldn't have gotten married. I knew that very quickly that I shouldn't have gotten married probably within a matter of months. But I kind of felt like, well, I made this commitment growing up in church. Right. You're like, OK, well, it's too late. I already signed the paper. Right. So here I am. This is what I'm doing. But I was pretty unhappy. I gained a lot of weight. I probably gained about 30 pounds that first year.
01:28:43.340 so sad um and then uh i had a son with him and so by the time i was 20 and had a son my husband at
01:28:54.220 the time was making almost no money life was really really hard and i i was working too and
01:28:59.420 then we're trying to raise my son and very stressed so then i decided to go to college
01:29:05.180 which is where you get told all the great things about why you shouldn't be a married young person
01:29:10.700 and how there's so much more life out there and blah, blah, blah.
01:29:13.800 And as time went on, I like within a year of being in school, I was like, I'm done.
01:29:19.120 I want to get divorced again.
01:29:20.940 My parents were very upset and devastated.
01:29:23.320 Actually, my entire family shamed me over it, which they should have.
01:29:27.400 I mean, it was just all a big mess and unnecessary.
01:29:30.400 And it was just one bad decision after the other.
01:29:33.080 And we had a baby and that was all like it was really hard to work through.
01:29:36.560 at that same time i ended up reconnecting again a classic what scenario that you give all the time
01:29:43.740 correct yeah totally yeah totally always um so we ended up reconnecting and um within a matter of
01:29:53.660 weeks of my divorce i was pregnant again with my second son with girl sorry i know i know i'm telling
01:30:01.940 it's a crazy story okay but um and i was i was so embarrassed it was horrible um i felt really
01:30:09.220 awful about it didn't really know how to deal with it but um my my so my ex-husband which was
01:30:16.420 my first son's father um really handled it well i have to give him that credit like he we and
01:30:23.380 um unlike a lot of women that um go through these things i didn't i knew how important it was to
01:30:30.100 have a father uh for my son and so i we did not go through any custody battles whatsoever i
01:30:35.780 immediately put us on a 50 50. no child support whatsoever good job like it good job you're not
01:30:41.940 the majority good job not the majority at all um and i and i just knew that i just understood all
01:30:48.100 those and i love my dad right i love my dad and and then i knew how important a same-sex parent
01:30:53.540 is so i knew how important my son like he needed his dad and that was going to be the case forever
01:30:59.700 and i needed that help i i think parents don't realize like or being a single mom being a single
01:31:05.460 dad it doesn't matter like you need that help why would you not rely on the other person who created
01:31:11.300 the baby with you it just made sense to be like let's work together and be as seamless as possible
01:31:17.300 even though we're not living in the same house again that is not an excuse that doesn't mean
01:31:21.380 hey my kid should should have grown up exactly i'm not saying that but i do
01:31:26.180 fully agree with you um about child custody laws that it should never be like 80 per if it's at
01:31:33.700 all possible physically um to have 50 50 that should be the kit that should be the automatic
01:31:40.340 default and i and i think both my sons are better for it um so i so at that time i had a my sons are
01:31:47.380 only 23 months apart so they were very little um i was with the second um that second person my
01:31:56.500 second son's father for five years uh again relationship ended now we did not get married
01:32:02.980 at all um so that relationship ended and i would say again it was a choice i made falling right
01:32:10.100 into those scenarios again um i was like hey i don't want to and life was real i think what
01:32:16.340 happens with women i what i feel like happened with me again not a justification just i think
01:32:21.060 it's a mentality thing um life was hard you're toiling i was under i was uh 23 24 when i ha
01:32:29.140 like by the time i had these babies and broke up with him when i was about 27 28 and life was hard
01:32:34.900 i had no we had no money things were difficult you're like trying to get through you're both
01:32:39.060 working all of those things make a relationship hard and then you're and then i wasn't married so
01:32:44.900 So I was like, I'm not, I don't have to be committed to this,
01:32:48.340 which I was writing down some questions
01:32:50.740 that I wanted to ask you, just your thoughts,
01:32:52.640 not as like a gotcha.
01:32:54.580 But, you know, I know you advocate for like,
01:32:57.280 hey, let's be careful about getting married, right?
01:32:59.580 Or like, you know, getting married
01:33:01.080 may not be the best deal for a man.
01:33:04.100 But I don't know what that means for protections for them
01:33:07.480 with their kids later on.
01:33:08.740 But for me, with my ex, when I ended that relationship,
01:33:12.860 again, I immediately was like,
01:33:14.900 let's 50 50 and i had my kids um every other week my kids are 13 and 15 now but i have them on
01:33:22.580 essentially the same schedule so they both come to me at the same time so they spend time together
01:33:27.540 we we are like our own family and then their dads they have time with their dads and they're
01:33:32.340 separate from each other at that time but they're both with their dads and um no child support with
01:33:37.700 either one of them and i think my kids are really stable and they really love their dads and
01:33:42.100 it's all good so i think that you know i think that i don't know life happens and i don't know
01:33:48.500 how um i don't know why women um reject the men that you know created the baby with them
01:33:55.460 and won't involve them um i think it's a really important thing and even though i don't advocate
01:34:01.300 at all for single parenthood or like that it's irrelevant that both people be in the same house
01:34:07.220 i do think that you can still create a lot of stability just by having that 50 50 custody for
01:34:12.660 sure but um back to the church thing i agree with you on the 50. i think actually kids turn out
01:34:18.020 better um when um if if there's a wife that doesn't respect the father and she's constantly 1.00
01:34:26.820 like like it's not like she's constantly disrespecting him i see similar outcomes
01:34:32.740 the single motherhood yes so i totally agree totally agree and women i think underestimate 0.99
01:34:40.500 especially with sons maybe it could be a little different if you have daughters but i think women 1.00
01:34:45.780 underestimate how sons need that they need there's just something about a father parenting it's a
01:34:54.100 little stronger um and women don't handle parenting the same way that men do it's it's different at
01:35:00.660 least that's my experience um i was um yeah i still struggle with it with my teen boys it's
01:35:07.540 hard to be you're not as firm um and they need their they need to know that there's like the
01:35:13.220 even even not at my house like even when they're not uh or when they're with me and their dads
01:35:18.100 aren't there they're still i mean i still say things like i'm gonna call your dad like if you
01:35:22.740 you know and they're like okay okay you know and i and it's good we have a good relationship that
01:35:27.860 way in those parenting households we're there to support each other and if you're not doing that
01:35:32.020 you're like you said the person who gets hurt the absolute most is your kids always um but
01:35:38.420 going back to the church thing i think that was the biggest mistake that i felt um and again taking
01:35:44.900 responsibility for my own yeah yeah i understand you've been very you know you've taken i'll give
01:35:49.380 you the taken responsibility for this i just i don't want to sound like it's okay it's okay
01:35:53.860 i i do think though that and they did sort of i feel like what happened now what's happening in
01:35:59.380 the church and i do so my family still i myself don't really go um but i'm not you know i'm not um
01:36:07.060 i wouldn't say that i've uh that i don't believe in what i was taught or anything like that but i
01:36:11.540 don't go to church regularly but i a lot of my siblings do and like i said i have a lot of sisters
01:36:16.100 so i have a lot of girls in the church um my four younger sisters um that are in church now i can
01:36:24.580 see that that environment has changed for them like as they grew up as teens um that purity thing
01:36:30.580 has kind of dropped off i kind of feel like what the opposite has been done which is what you're
01:36:35.460 talking about where it's kind of like um they don't want to hold people to those standards anymore
01:36:43.300 purity but they also like aren't going to call they they should still be calling women out or
01:36:48.540 at least explaining to women the importance of their chastity and purity yeah and why it's 0.62
01:36:53.440 important i think i think they just really have lacked and it still is this way in the church
01:36:58.520 because they don't want to talk about it they don't want to talk about sex they don't want to
01:37:01.980 talk about the reality of those interpersonal relationships and they they don't want to explain
01:37:07.320 like what effect what effects sex has on women and how we're how that affects our relationships 0.99
01:37:14.580 moving forward and I I wish someone would have told me those things uh early what do you what
01:37:21.260 do you wish the church told you like if you could talk to your like I don't know 16 year old self
01:37:26.740 like what what messaging do you think would be good that's a really good question um
01:37:33.400 i definitely wish someone would have explained to me about the detaching thing um about you know
01:37:41.240 the more people you sleep with you're detaching they they would say the thing i don't know if
01:37:45.740 you heard this trope but they would say like you always leave a little piece of you with that
01:37:50.360 person that you slept with and you're like okay yeah who cares but i think they said tape or
01:37:58.340 something yeah yeah it's i don't know it's that same trope and it's more like the opposite like
01:38:06.540 i guess you could say yes you like a part of you is gone but um that there's like real i've heard
01:38:13.240 it everywhere you know there's real scientific evidence that you if this is not a bible thing
01:38:18.220 this is a a truth that the more partners you have you are emotionally detaching and it's not
01:38:24.040 I think specifically for females, it is not healthy. And not all women realize that that's 1.00
01:38:30.900 happening to them. And I didn't realize it myself. When I got older, after I broke up with that other
01:38:36.860 guy, I was single for a year. I'm like a serial monogamous. I'm like never really single. I just
01:38:42.220 always find someone and then I connect and then I'm with them for a while. But I was single for
01:38:46.320 year and i fell into this idea or trap that um that men want you to like be experienced and
01:38:55.280 that's another thing i again like when you grow up in the church you think you do think the
01:39:01.120 opposite you know you you know or you think that men aren't looking for oh they want you to be like
01:39:06.800 perfect so then if you're not then you're like okay well those guys aren't for me now right
01:39:11.040 because i'm not perfect anymore um so then i kind of fell into that feminist idea right of like you 1.00
01:39:18.240 should be sleeping with as many people as possible you go girl you know like do this do this and um 1.00
01:39:24.960 you know whatever i think body counts matter so i'm not going to share mine
01:39:28.320 but i would say that i learned really quickly how unsatisfying and horrible i felt but i didn't
01:39:34.080 really understand it because nobody there really wasn't that messaging back then this was like
01:39:38.320 maybe five years ago there really wasn't messaging to women and a lot of women are hating on the red 0.99
01:39:45.200 pill community but i feel like there are a lot of good conversations for women in this community too
01:39:50.240 because once i started hearing people like you talk about you know the the the mental damage 0.51
01:39:57.120 that can be done when you're doing that um for for women and what it means for men like i it's just
01:40:03.920 no one ever said to me like hey men actually don't like it when they think you're a huge
01:40:08.160 select do you like do you think you were able to consume the content easier because you have sons
01:40:14.720 absolutely 100 i was gonna say that too i'm really grateful to me i again i don't agree
01:40:20.720 with everything you say i don't know i mean whatever i you know you're not my jesus right
01:40:25.360 but i know sorry i'm just kidding i'm not i am so grateful for voices like like yours um there's
01:40:34.080 other voices out there that i totally agree with you and um yeah raising boys and helping them
01:40:40.800 under like hearing these things yes i think it makes it easier to digest and care about
01:40:45.600 but it also resonated with me personally like i said i feel like i hit all these like negatives
01:40:50.960 of the women the negative stereotypes which is fine whatever i did it it is what it is um but i
01:40:57.680 i also it just made me realize quickly like oh those were the mistakes i was making these are
01:41:04.320 the things i wasn't understanding i was seeing it backwards like it's it's a backwards idea to
01:41:10.000 think that as a woman sleeping around is going to get you the best guy and that's just not true but 1.00
01:41:14.960 it's kind of put at you that way or it's like hey this is what everyone's doing like we're all like
01:41:20.960 but it's just it's really not true and men don't see it that way and and also understanding how
01:41:25.860 men see sex i think i didn't understand that either um and going back to that church conversation i
01:41:31.840 wish that was said i because you were always kind of because you're raised around christian men
01:41:37.940 you're you're like taught that men value sex the same way you do because we're all supposed to be
01:41:43.080 seeing it the same way not a reality for most men right not we're not all growing up in the church
01:41:49.040 we're not all growing up with these same values and and for me a more honest conversation would be
01:41:54.820 that that girl was lucky she found a husband rather than he had to earn her and he deserved
01:42:02.400 her because that you know implies that again their sexual activity like it would have been
01:42:09.500 equally damaging and it's not it's just not true we're not the same um for me would be more honest
01:42:15.860 but because for every I mean I'm sure you've been in any church for every one girl she she got away
01:42:21.000 with it because she was cute enough right like come on if she had like 50 more pounds no no guy 1.00
01:42:27.700 would put up with that right to me that's a little bit more honest rather than the you can just do a
01:42:35.840 rebrand and you'll still get the same quality a guy it's just not true I I completely agree um
01:42:43.160 and and attractiveness is another issue in the church like i don't know that's another thing
01:42:49.440 like i and i don't know what to do about that what are we gonna say like a lot of like women 1.00
01:42:54.500 that are into the purity thing and the modesty thing how attractive is that to men out there too
01:43:02.560 what's it's and not what i don't mean the purity thing what i mean is like you know if you're like
01:43:07.160 trying to be a hundred percent now like men are looking at all kinds of women all the time christian
01:43:12.100 or not christian they're kind of putting them all together and i and i like so there's a lot i mean
01:43:17.180 i think there's a lot of struggle for women in the church to find men in the church too that are
01:43:21.620 good like really good women but they get passed over because they're really well yeah well i've 0.96
01:43:26.560 seen that i've seen like um a phenomenon it's obviously the exception but like of slightly
01:43:31.700 older virgin women that that on paper are okay maybe they have some i don't know that i don't 1.00
01:43:37.940 know but on paper would be okay but they just struggle to find men they're attracted to because 0.97
01:43:43.600 the men in church aren't attractive like to them because there's so women are not attracted to men 0.53
01:43:49.020 that put women on pedestals and i see a lot of that in the church i think that's still going on 0.65
01:43:54.760 in the church too and i don't see like and then one demon one guy that's a demon comes in and just
01:43:59.940 goes through in my like in my own so i only have one brother yeah um and and then i have my dad
01:44:08.420 and and i always grew up knowing that like my my dad was the head of the household and my mom she's
01:44:15.520 a yeller you know all that stuff they definitely argue but you know she's not a princess right and 1.00
01:44:22.180 he didn't ever treat her like that but of course it treated her with absolute respect and everything
01:44:25.820 like that but um my dad was really traditional he went to work my mom stayed at home with all of us
01:44:31.100 so she didn't work at all um and now my brother who's married um and he's got five kids and he
01:44:37.180 has four girls two and one boy and same thing he works and he like immediately like my my sister-in-law
01:44:44.620 stays at home with all the kids and out of all of us kids i like i think so i i got married i
01:44:52.540 I have a sister right under me who got, she's a whole other story and she definitely checks 1.00
01:44:57.720 all your boxes and maybe someday she'll be on here to tell her story, but she's wild.
01:45:02.460 She's the one you stay away from people.
01:45:04.660 Um, but, uh, yeah, she's been married three times.
01:45:08.340 Um, and then, um, I, I have another sister that she, like her and my brother, both much
01:45:16.020 more traditional relationships, um, and have outlasted.
01:45:19.880 So I really do believe in the traditional sense.
01:45:22.420 I'm not, you know, I feel like any healthy marriages that I've seen that came out of
01:45:28.200 the church community or didn't just like friendships I have, they do are more traditional.
01:45:33.000 And I think women don't want to hear that, but I just think it's, it's true. 1.00
01:45:37.200 I think it's easier to maintain a relationship that way.
01:45:39.700 I don't know if maybe like if a man stays home and a woman works, like if it would still 1.00
01:45:43.380 work or not, like, I don't know if that does, I don't know if it has, I guess what I'm saying
01:45:47.900 is I don't know if it has.
01:45:48.800 We're going to see more of it.
01:45:50.140 So we'll watch and see what happens.
01:45:51.880 I wanted to ask you a couple, like, I think they might be challenging questions. But like I said, they're not like, got you questions. I just wanted to know your thoughts. Do I still have time to ask? Yeah, that's all right. Go ahead. Okay, so only, only because you've been pleasant.
01:46:08.380 thank you thank you um so my first question is do you think that a man gets because i know you're
01:46:16.680 really passionate about um the like divorce laws and also like protect you know all that stuff so
01:46:23.220 do you think a man gets more or less protection in court when he's not married but seeking custody
01:46:29.980 do i think a man gets and i don't know the answer to this by the way so it's like wait no say it
01:46:36.780 say it again sorry say one more so do you think he get do you think a man gets more or so let me
01:46:44.440 explain why I'm at so I'm asking this question because um and I know you're saying that you
01:46:49.900 don't tell men what to do so I'm not trying to put words in your mouth but I know you're kind
01:46:54.420 of advocating for like let's not get like getting married is a bad idea right but if procreation 1.00
01:47:00.920 happens right like if a woman has your baby so you're a man and now a woman's got your baby 0.90
01:47:05.500 does a man get more or less protection in court when he's not married but seeking custody
01:47:12.620 protection in court when he is not married married but seeking custody um i would guess
01:47:22.300 i would guess he would get more if he was married but he would be on the hook for more
01:47:27.260 for alimony so it wouldn't just be child support but i don't know i could ask i could get the
01:47:33.580 answer i could say it next show there's um i can actually dm i just think it'd be an interesting
01:47:38.160 thing for for you because i know you're doing that documentary too um which i'm really interested in
01:47:43.680 i think it's a really cool one um and uh but i just think that um when you're advocating for
01:47:50.560 people not to get married um i think there are some protect like especially when it comes to
01:47:56.800 children specifically that men could be like okay don't get married because of all these other
01:48:02.820 things but if you have a child with somebody you know I I this is me guessing I don't know the
01:48:09.160 answer I think you get way less protection as a man and access to your child when you're not married
01:48:14.900 okay I'm gonna guess I'm guessing it depends on the state I guess I've just seen so many men
01:48:22.320 that were married and were in the same position it doesn't seem to make that much of a difference
01:48:27.180 to me but i actually i just dm'd a guy that used to calculate like um but i don't know if you saw
01:48:33.820 him shaw i just asked if he knew the answer so i'll i'll ask around i'll get you the answer
01:48:39.660 okay um so my other question is do you think they uh do men get more or less protection for their 0.91
01:48:46.860 assets um being unmarried and the the the reason i'm asking that is a circumstance of like let's
01:48:53.980 say that you uh you have two people two people that cohabitate maybe for five six years so
01:49:01.340 you're splitting rent maybe you even um buy a house together um or you you know you're building
01:49:08.540 retirement whatever like you could have like joint assets together so do you like if you're in that
01:49:13.740 sort of a situation where you're not wanting to get married because you're afraid of the institution
01:49:19.340 But when that relationship ends, what protection do you have when you're not married?
01:49:24.640 Or do you think they have more or less protection with their assets?
01:49:27.600 These are really great questions.
01:49:29.300 I don't know, but I'll get you the answer.
01:49:31.820 These are really good questions.
01:49:33.920 And I don't know the answer either.
01:49:35.860 Like I said, not got you questions.
01:49:37.480 I just thought of them and was wondering them.
01:49:40.620 Another question I have is, are you proposing men should not procreate? 0.93
01:49:48.340 and create stable relationships going forward with women so like again I know you're not telling
01:49:55.340 people to do but if curls a man right are you well so the hard thing is I think women will choose 1.00
01:50:05.520 like there's going to be a portion of men that just aren't going to get sexual access because
01:50:09.920 women are choosing to sleep with 20 percent of men even if we double it to 40 there's going to 1.00
01:50:15.440 percent of men that are going to walk away anyways so not partially choice sometimes not by choice
01:50:23.560 others um no i think men that want to should but it's just i i think men need to have they need to
01:50:33.980 be informed so they should meet with like if i said should they i don't like to say should because
01:50:39.100 it like do what you want but it would be wise to meet with the attorneys into your state to figure
01:50:44.680 out what the laws are yeah i totally agreed totally agree i heard you on um michael knoll
01:50:50.460 michael knoll's show show saying that some states say the child should be with the mother until 16
01:50:56.540 and i just thought that was unbelievable um yeah totally unbelievable i saw in nashville though
01:51:02.200 they abolished that law like a couple years ago so i was like oh that's good yeah that's good
01:51:07.280 um so if men decide to use women solely for sexual or fun reasons so you know um let's say that like
01:51:15.320 let's say that we're all trying to force the social movement right just like there's women 1.00
01:51:20.340 feminists that are trying to push the whole like of thing or like women do what you want sleep 1.00
01:51:25.180 around okay so we're forcing that social norm but let's say men are like okay great we're done with
01:51:31.180 the whole we're gonna marry you up and stabilize families and all this so we're done doing that
01:51:36.860 And if men decide to use women solely for sexual fun reasons, no commitment, does that lead to less promiscuous women or more promiscuous women?
01:51:49.600 Well, I would say that men can't do anything that women don't allow. 1.00
01:51:54.900 Fair. 0.98
01:51:55.940 So it's not, I think women are more responsible because we're the ones that allow sexual access because men will screw anything. 1.00
01:52:03.900 That's the way I see it anyways. 0.97
01:52:05.460 I would say it would be more promiscuous, but I think women that want to be sexual are going to do it anyways. 1.00
01:52:12.500 Okay. Yeah, fair.
01:52:13.700 Like, you go to a concert, you see chicks, like, throwing their panties on, say, what are you going to do to stop that chick? 1.00
01:52:18.980 Right.
01:52:19.860 Like, what am I supposed to do about it?
01:52:23.960 No, I agree. Everyone's responsible for themselves.
01:52:26.940 And, I mean, I think that's just a problem in our culture in general that we just, I think that our culture is not about accepting responsibility.
01:52:35.460 on both men and women i think a lot of people would rather blame anything but themselves
01:52:40.980 upbringing you know all of that stuff um personal responsibility is a hard thing to have um it's
01:52:48.180 hard to look at yourself and say like that was a mistake and yeah so anyway um my last question
01:52:54.240 and then um somebody else can like join but thank you pearl so much for letting me on here it's
01:52:59.440 i really like you i think you're um i really look up to you as a youtube person it's cool
01:53:05.000 to see someone like start small and get big so really cool but last question um what responsibility
01:53:11.060 if any um do men have to advocate for the law changes oh men i i think men should advocate
01:53:21.140 but they have been that's the problem they've been advocating they've had men's activist groups
01:53:25.600 since the 1900s like for the same thing so i think men are doing it they're just not very successful
01:53:32.040 because we rely too much on the female vote that's the problem okay i'm yeah i mean i would
01:53:37.300 say i've literally never heard of them of a men's group advocating for changes to divorce laws but
01:53:42.860 that i mean i also haven't been a huge passionate uh researching it but i guess that's a good
01:53:48.600 question you brought some good questions today because i guess that's why i get frustrated when
01:53:53.580 i go on on shows i'm talking about men's issues and i i feel like i'm getting waved like it's
01:53:59.800 like oh whatever but women you know um I guess men are you know responsible to some degree but
01:54:06.480 I don't think men are aware I think that's the biggest problem I don't think most men know what
01:54:11.860 they're signing up for like I don't think most men know in California if they don't establish
01:54:17.960 paternity before the age of two even if the kid's not theirs that they have that for life I think 0.99
01:54:23.240 most men don't know. Yeah, that's yeah, that's crazy. I totally agree with you on a lot of the
01:54:29.700 things you say, like the mandatory DNA testing. I thought that was really wild that Michael Knowles
01:54:34.160 was like, that's offensive to women. Why would it be? I don't really see that as offensive. I would 1.00
01:54:39.020 I to me, like, why not? You just might as well. There's nothing wrong. If you're like already in
01:54:44.340 the hospital, they're doing all the tests. Anyway, why wouldn't it just be tacked right on? I don't
01:54:48.840 see the issue I give my ID to get liquor I'm not offended you know right they verify I don't see a
01:54:55.980 reason why that would be an issue it's like better for I mean it's better for all parties like
01:55:01.100 women too like if that relationship goes south and then the guy all of a sudden starts deciding 1.00
01:55:06.460 that that's not his kid having that protection right at the beginning gets you like it's good
01:55:11.260 for all parties so I don't know why that's not done here but anyway thank you so much for having
01:55:16.040 me on thank you for coming have a good one okay so i asked my shaw you guys know shaw what is 0.99
01:55:25.000 about her questions he said i think it depends more on who is doing the provider role
01:55:30.360 what is the history the kids spend more time with who yeah that's what i was thinking up but i didn't
01:55:35.800 want to say it if it was wrong custody hearing will be similar in both cases just depends on
01:55:40.320 the setup setup where they cohabitating but if not married there is no alimony so it's easier
01:55:45.380 to fight for custody oh i didn't think about that more protection for assets being unmarried
01:55:50.980 definitely oh wow okay there's your answer you're curious in california anyway it's tough you know
01:55:57.620 they they spend a year teaching um the child custody laws to people that work at the child
01:56:06.180 custody office it is really hard for an average person to understand it um okay who's all right
01:56:12.900 next caller cv is coming up okay hello how are you
01:56:22.500 um wait hold on one second i like to have this certain tab up just so i can take notes okay
01:56:31.300 is it our side i think i'm unmuted can you hear me okay oh yeah i can hear you
01:56:35.300 okay hey what's going on hi what's your name my name is chris chris where are you at um the
01:56:41.700 the Detroit area. Oh, Detroit. Okay. It's not too far from, I'm from Chicago, so it's not too far.
01:56:47.160 Oh, Righteous. Yeah. Yeah. I've only been there once. I was a drummer growing up,
01:56:50.600 so I had some auditions down there. Okay. So do you think Christian women are wife material? 1.00
01:56:57.820 Oh, wow. That's really tense. One of the things I appreciate about you is you always lean into
01:57:04.360 the marketplace and you ask the tough questions and you're honestly one of my heroes in the
01:57:09.380 marketplace you're definitely a fearless inquisitor so thanks for all you do um wow okay so from my
01:57:16.480 lens and with my background um it's interesting to take a look at this question from the angle
01:57:24.100 of somebody who has a lot to lose um i've actually been railroaded by the veterans administration for
01:57:30.640 the past 12 years so i had a six-figure business ended up falling down because i made some
01:57:35.280 agreements. It fell through. And now I have to basically start my business over. As a matter
01:57:39.740 of fact, in this room right now, sorry about the background, I'm actually setting up for a digital
01:57:43.280 studio in my home. So I apologize for the mess here. But as I go to build my business, one of
01:57:49.600 the bigger concerns that I've had growing up as a Christian was noticing a trend. And this is going
01:57:57.360 to be a stereotype. I understand there are exceptions to everything. So I'm acknowledging
01:58:01.220 this is uh this is an ex we know there's exceptions we're talking about the rule
01:58:05.620 right right right so um generally my experience uh whether it's a narrow lens or broad
01:58:13.220 is that there seems to be i don't want to broad stereotype it as entitlement but my experience
01:58:22.020 my exposure has been that there's always an interest in finding out what can the guy bring
01:58:27.780 to the table like what can you get what's in it for her so um christian women sitting around 1.00
01:58:34.500 talking about somebody who just got engaged talking about oh he's a doctor oh he's an attorney
01:58:39.700 oh you're young but he's going to law school kind of situation and it's it's really a struggle for
01:58:46.500 me because i admire some of the conversations that have been had online and i imagine they're
01:58:51.780 not staged in some of the podcasts i've witnessed i don't spend a lot of time on youtube but what i
01:58:56.020 have seen um a group of women coming onto a podcast and being asked what do you bring to the table 0.96
01:59:02.580 and it's crickets so um where is this lens coming from well i've been engaged once um i went on
01:59:11.780 deployment she cheated while i was on the combat area so that didn't work out um i was getting
01:59:16.580 ready to ask someone else to marry me but she had professional aspirations and she wanted to 0.59
01:59:22.500 go somewhere else so i wish her the best i wanted her to be successful so that didn't work out so
01:59:27.060 much um i'm currently not dating on a voluntary basis i also probably don't fit the typical
01:59:32.980 stereotype of a man i don't smoke i don't drink i don't do drugs i'm not voluntarily going out
01:59:38.740 and screwing anything that's available um including the tree or you know fire hydrant 0.58
01:59:43.940 down the street it's just not who i am i'm probably the exception and i'm not saying that
01:59:48.660 to pat myself on the back it's just characterizing the lens that i'm seeing this from um i've wanted
01:59:53.460 to be a father at an early age um i wanted to be a worthy husband and father and grow up and take
01:59:59.220 care of myself to such a degree that i would be able to provide for somebody um you know due to
02:00:04.180 the nature of the world and how it is right now i'm putting my personal relationship ambitions on
02:00:08.660 hold to build up my financial prowess um but to steer this back into the topic um i find it a
02:00:15.860 struggle because if i have a lot to lose i'm hesitant to go into the market in this day and
02:00:20.740 age with the dynamic the way it is right now because of the lens that i'm looking at this
02:00:26.100 through whereas if somebody's going to look at me as a possible husband um i'm concerned that
02:00:33.060 they're looking at my pocketbook they're looking at my atm they're looking at what's in it for them
02:00:37.460 uh whether it's intimacy related financial related um household related uh if it's clout related um
02:00:45.220 i've known to end up in circles that are highly influential very rapidly i would find myself
02:00:53.860 speaking with people that are centers of influence and i'm grateful for that privilege to be able to
02:00:58.260 network with some great people that have those networks uh but whatever somebody is chasing
02:01:04.020 in a spouse that they're looking for one of my concerns is they're not looking for love
02:01:08.420 they're not looking for somebody that's a suitable person for them um and that's my you know
02:01:13.700 individualized lens i acknowledge it um that being said i'm very concerned about you know going to
02:01:20.980 another location in the united states i prefer to live in the united states and wherever i go
02:01:25.700 to try and date i'm concerned that it's going to be less about whether we're a fit and more about
02:01:31.300 what they're going to get from me and i'm very very hesitant to go into the market and actually
02:01:36.100 seriously date at the moment i still want to i still want to try and i'm 100 interested in
02:01:41.540 becoming a husband someday but I just I want to be very careful and I'm not sure how to navigate
02:01:46.900 the waters right now I don't know if somebody's actually going to be on the hunt for something
02:01:51.580 that I can provide them or something that's going to be a mutual fit am I good for her and is she
02:01:56.820 good for me does that make sense no I'm really glad you said that because I find more men in
02:02:02.460 your position where they actually want to be married they're not really because they always 0.99
02:02:07.500 have this idea that if men aren't married, they're sleeping around, they're going and doing all of 1.00
02:02:12.660 this stuff. But I find men in your situation to be more common than the men that are just trying
02:02:18.560 to run through a bunch of women. I find men want relationships. It's just, how do you, how do you
02:02:25.200 do that? So I'm curious, do you notice a difference in the quality between Christian women and non 0.99
02:02:31.340 Christian women? There's no right or wrong answers. It's just based on your, it's just 1.00
02:02:35.020 based on your experience right right so here's my experience um and i want to qualify this okay um
02:02:41.400 women that are loyal and practicing christians i i see there being a higher quality okay um people
02:02:48.260 or women who are religious people who are i don't want to call it fanatical but they're they do what
02:02:54.380 they say they're going to do right they keep their word so if they say they're religious if they say
02:02:59.800 they're practicing then they're actually practicing they're not visiting once a week just because it's
02:03:04.620 check in the box um they're not doing things uh in the public eye and then once nobody's seeing
02:03:11.100 them behind closed doors their character changes and i think that's a really good test of character
02:03:16.060 is what are you doing when nobody's looking when nobody's watching you or holding you accountable
02:03:20.940 are you holding yourself accountable um maybe this is the military person inside of me maybe
02:03:25.740 this is a musician or somebody who's toured the nation as a drummer or something i don't know
02:03:29.980 what it is in me but the idea of extreme ownership is something that I take to heart
02:03:34.700 and I admire that quality in the women that I have dated because there's no question that
02:03:41.440 they're acknowledging what's going on with them they they are on a path of personal development
02:03:46.280 by choice they're not doing it to try and what's the what's the phrase trap a man
02:03:52.880 um they're more interested in doing what is right because it's what they feel is right that's what
02:04:00.380 they're interested in viewing as right and they're more interested in how they view themselves and
02:04:04.860 how other people view them now everybody is self-conscious to some degree there are still
02:04:09.460 moments where you're concerned like what are the neighbors going to think or hey you're causing a
02:04:12.860 scene at a restaurant when you're having a misunderstanding or something i don't know what
02:04:16.680 the different context would be outside of those because those are exceptions um i admire the
02:04:22.660 Christian women that I've been around, I should say, of some of the Christian women that I've
02:04:27.460 dated, I think there is a higher caliber of women out there who are devoted overtly, I guess is a 1.00
02:04:35.460 word for it. They're willing to go out of their way to do the right thing in the right way for
02:04:39.500 the right reasons, because what is good is intrinsically good, regardless of opinion or
02:04:43.740 circumstance. What percent of Christian women do you think that is? Just in your, again, no right 1.00
02:04:51.400 no right or wrong answer it's just based on you know i i don't know what detroit women are like 1.00
02:04:56.940 so you know i don't i've i haven't spent a lot of time there so you you tell me
02:05:02.460 um this this is going to be a tough answer but my guess is going to be a third probably 33 percent
02:05:10.940 that's more than i would and i say that wholeheartedly because um i've met some who
02:05:16.060 have actually invited me on dates like i've actually been approached yeah and been invited
02:05:20.040 it out and they got it there's not many there's not many men left i mean the women are they're
02:05:26.360 they're they can be aggressive in church you get a handsome you get a handsome guy that walks in
02:05:32.180 they're all like yeah so even with that um i've still been invited on things that i've had to say
02:05:39.560 no to because they don't fit my standards i don't go out to bars i don't drink i i don't i don't
02:05:44.580 participate in that venue i've had to when i was a kid because that's where a lot of the musicians
02:05:48.740 would be that i wanted to participate and work with so as a profession that was something that
02:05:52.580 i did and i made an exception for that but now that i'm older and i value my standards more
02:05:57.460 because it's more important to me as an individual i don't frequent those atmospheres anymore so to
02:06:02.340 that extent i would have to say a third uh just because of the nature of the offers i've been on
02:06:07.940 so when i date the the third date thereabouts i give the woman the opportunity to plan the date 1.00
02:06:14.980 because I want to see what her creativity is going to be, right? And a lot of the times when
02:06:19.720 I get there, I end up breaking off the relationship. If you want to call it a relationship, I don't
02:06:24.220 know what you call that, whatever. But by the third date, their idea is so far gone in violating
02:06:31.400 what I'm interested in having around me that I'm just like, we're not a good fit. You're a great
02:06:36.640 person. I wish you the best. No hard feelings. It's just, it's not for me. Yeah. Well, thank you
02:06:41.880 for calling in to share your experience i'm glad you did because i i find more men like you than
02:06:48.040 what they they paint most men want relationships they want family they want marriage it's just
02:06:54.320 you know there's not one there's not enough marriageable women and two you know they're 1.00
02:06:59.960 worried about being a target so thank you thank you very much i'm fearless i'm not i don't care
02:07:04.960 about being a target i'm just going to do the right thing in the right way for the right reasons
02:07:07.680 it's an honor to speak with you and I just wanted to give a quick moment shout out to you thanks
02:07:12.600 for all you do keep doing great things and I don't get starstruck easily it's just not who I am but
02:07:17.060 I feel like I'm speaking up to somebody that I never thought I'd get the chance to speak to and
02:07:20.600 I've always wanted to so thank you well thank you for calling in all right all right see now
02:07:27.680 this is what I'm saying you know everyone said you know guys how do you think men find the red
02:07:36.120 pill i am not the red pill i'd like to say it's not me it's not pearl it's it's blog forums from
02:07:46.040 before i was even when i was a baby when i was a child it's um it's men talking in the barber
02:07:53.520 shops it's it's it's bigger than me there's no leader there's no it's just men talking
02:07:59.380 they find it generally through a woman
02:08:06.320 a woman breaks their heart a woman divorces them and they go looking for answers okay it's not it's
02:08:15.180 not me okay um we could do maybe how many are watching on twitter uh we got six thousand three
02:08:25.960 everyone six thousand that's crazy x is giving us x is giving us love yeah um okay we'll do we'll do
02:08:34.520 maybe one or two more one or two more all right i'm gonna bring up the next one uh can you unmute
02:08:41.800 your mic i'm getting kind of hungry hello how are you pearly big fans good to meet you
02:08:52.520 you're beautiful you're more beautiful than i thought oh thank you um what's your name
02:08:59.780 chatron that's how it's pronounced okay so where are you at i'm in charleston charleston south
02:09:07.300 carolina south carolina so are the christian women in south carolina wife material uh with a
02:09:15.600 resounding 100 no and in fact it's even worse where i live at i'm just out here working right
02:09:24.300 now i live in spokane washington it's worse out there because they're extreme liberals
02:09:29.120 they don't even believe in god most of these people are godless faithless baseless people
02:09:33.960 um what i've what i've discovered particularly in the past like six years
02:09:40.460 is the only reason why they turn to God
02:09:43.760 is like you brought out in your opening diatribe
02:09:46.760 was that something goes terribly wrong in their lives
02:09:52.220 and they want some type of spiritual comforting,
02:09:56.700 some type of support,
02:09:59.160 some type of consolation prize.
02:10:03.860 I'll give you an example.
02:10:05.500 I had a chick and I don't want to put her name out there 1.00
02:10:08.040 just for the sake of not humiliating her.
02:10:10.460 don't feel free to not it's all right no names needed but she was like 11 years older than me
02:10:15.820 right and i was working two jobs at the time i was working two jobs i was working really hard
02:10:21.740 i was making good money on my main job and i was getting uh i had direct deposit with that
02:10:26.940 on my second job i had an actual paper paycheck stub so she takes it upon herself one day to go 0.55
02:10:33.420 through my wallet and sees the paycheck stuff for my second job not knowing that it was my second job
02:10:38.780 and uh she started criticizing me as about how much i make and wondering where i get all this
02:10:46.480 extra money from seeing how that job doesn't pay me enough to make his you know to have the money
02:10:52.340 that i'd be spending i didn't do rape uh she was one of those church girls she had breast cancer 1.00
02:11:00.520 and uh she turned to god because she didn't want to die alone or go to hell when she died she was
02:11:06.200 she had got sick and she had been through some things at any rate she didn't know i make really
02:11:12.380 good money doing the job that i actually had and uh she had the nerve to bring the scriptural text
02:11:18.320 to my attention said i'm not being unevenly yoked with this type of guy blah blah blah you know all
02:11:24.740 that one that's a scriptural verse you know biblical scripture biblical verse pertaining
02:11:31.420 to spirituality and the fact that she used it in a way money i'm gonna write that down
02:11:37.380 right right my point exactly and then she said she's not settling and i hit her with a kevin 0.99
02:11:44.840 samuels line long before kevin actually said it to her well said this to another chick i said to 1.00
02:11:50.420 her you weren't settling for me you were being rescued at the time i was like 29 30 i was about
02:11:56.780 30 she was about 40 and i said yo i'm in tip-top shape i'm six to 210 pounds one percent body i'm
02:12:06.660 in tip-top absolute shape no kids make good money blah blah blah i ran down my resume i'm like wait
02:12:13.940 a minute you're a breast cancer survivor you're a gastric bypass weight loss recipient you're
02:12:20.860 covered and littered with back cheap backyard tattoos and you're 40 you're past the age of
02:12:26.280 geriatric present pregnancy you weren't settling for me and under any circumstance you were being 0.95
02:12:31.580 rescued but the whole pretense was she used this i'm a christian as a way of talking trash to try
02:12:38.780 to talk down at somebody and what i've discovered is i've i've been reading the bible and getting
02:12:46.040 scriptural and biblical and things like that recently you know and uh what i've discovered
02:12:51.900 there's uh there's certain texts and scriptures that outright expose these christian people
02:12:57.960 and i'll give you one of them right now out of the mouth it says don't worry about washing your
02:13:04.180 hands before you eat what you eat passes through passes through your body it goes into the sewer
02:13:08.720 but what comes out of your mouth comes from the abundance of your heart the type of heart you have
02:13:14.740 the type of things that you think the type of things that you have in your heart and when you
02:13:18.460 at these church people when you look at these uh what's the word i'm looking for here these so-called
02:13:24.220 religious zealots as i like to call them they're always talking bad about someone they're always
02:13:30.460 talking down about someone they're always everything up their mouth other than what
02:13:35.900 they say about themselves is something bad and when you hear somebody only say something bad
02:13:43.340 you have to look at them as hey maybe they're a bad person
02:13:47.260 so what percent of church women do you think are wife material 1.00
02:13:53.160 uh again i i just can you see me yeah i can see you you're fine
02:13:59.180 i get i like to just say maybe about zero percent
02:14:03.300 zero none none of them okay they're not there because of their spiritual convictions
02:14:09.880 they're not going to churches because they have a spiritual spiritual conviction they're there
02:14:15.800 they're there to try to gain something and you brought this out earlier they're there to try to
02:14:22.460 trick god into giving them a man they're there to try to trick god into giving them a man 0.91
02:14:29.540 you know they're there trying to uh what's the word i'm looking for here
02:14:35.560 well they're godless and they're faithless they're baseless they don't actually believe in god
02:14:41.660 they're they're they're trying to deceive a man to believe it that they are something
02:14:48.520 that a man will let his guard down for so they can steal from him that's what they're there to do
02:14:55.460 and uh hey pearl pearl you there yeah i'm here i'm sorry uh have you seen the ace metaphor show
02:15:05.320 the the talk that the type of people that's in his crowd are the same women that are in those
02:15:10.660 churches look at an ace metaphor crowd crowd let me look i don't know yeah like what's the name
02:15:15.920 his show ace metaphor i don't i don't actually know who that is there's a guy named ace metaphor
02:15:22.260 who obsidian's always laughing about crowd oh i think i've seen this oh i see he can put it on
02:15:30.300 tonight's discussion or tonight's conversation or something like that oh yeah yeah okay i see i see 0.98
02:15:35.320 all of those chicks are the same chicks that you'll see out of td jakes or creflo dollar crap 1.00
02:15:44.360 oh i see no totally well thank you for what i just want to uh commend you for what you do 0.95
02:15:53.800 and uh i'm i'm really looking like crap right now because i just got off work
02:15:58.840 and stepped into my air anyway um i want to commend you about what you've done and what
02:16:03.240 you're doing and uh i was talking to obsidian on his show not long ago and i complimented you
02:16:09.480 i saw your pierce morgan um interview keep up the good work young lady you're doing very very well
02:16:15.640 you're gonna have what you want you're a wife you're gonna have what you want 0.99
02:16:20.280 keep up the good work okay thank you very much thank you um okay so we got
02:16:28.360 we got hold on how many do we have any people back there oh yeah a lot we have we have six
02:16:38.760 so far oh wow okay hold on give me one second guys i'm trying to um all right put up so okay now
02:16:51.240 we have two men not me saying this ladies ladies this isn't Pearl saying this they both one
02:17:01.620 was a guy doesn't drink doesn't smoke seems to be involved in church
02:17:08.540 I didn't I don't know about the other guy but but both of them have not had positive experiences
02:17:17.460 with Christian women. Stop blaming me, Christian ladies. Like I did this. If you guys are so good,
02:17:26.180 why isn't your reputation better? Why isn't it better? But who knows? Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe
02:17:33.540 I'm just crazy. Oh, oh, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl. I don't know. Maybe I'll get another guy that says
02:17:41.640 it's 90 who knows um okay let let maybe one or two more callers guys also hit the like button
02:17:52.620 what can they push it out on youtube we have 800 likes i think on oh on on youtube can we get to
02:18:02.720 a thousand and on x as well let's get the likes do they like it on x i don't understand x yeah
02:18:09.520 We got, like, 56 likes in the 6,000.
02:18:12.060 They have 56 likes and 6,000?
02:18:15.800 6,600 people in here.
02:18:17.440 I am protesting.
02:18:19.580 I am pro-
02:18:20.480 Yes.
02:18:21.880 Yes, Axe.
02:18:23.260 Protesting.
02:18:24.580 P-R-O-T-E-S-T-I-N-G. 1.00
02:18:28.500 Let's get some retweets as well.
02:18:30.160 Yeah, give me some retweets.
02:18:31.760 Retweet, like, whatever, you know.
02:18:35.080 Did I do this to the women's reputation? 0.94
02:18:37.700 Okay.
02:18:38.020 because again when i when i do these shows there's no right or wrong answer you could tell me a
02:18:43.380 billion percent if you guys want i don't i don't know where you guys are from i'm saying this is
02:18:50.040 my my experience tell me yours okay it's called ai bots um i don't know i don't know um okay let's
02:19:00.600 let's take the next caller you up hello hello how are you good how are you i'm fine i'm fine
02:19:11.300 so in your experience are christian women wife material wait wait first i want to know where 0.99
02:19:16.440 you're from before i go sorry where are you from i'm from alabama and but i was actually born in
02:19:22.140 gary indiana so i'm actually next to you in chicago oh nice so what do you do um i'm actually
02:19:29.080 president of a defense company oh cool okay so tell me are christian women sorry i i have more 0.64
02:19:38.040 questions that i think of that i should ask first what religion are you christian christian okay so
02:19:44.120 are christian women wife material true christian women yes these christian feminists no they're
02:19:52.440 not marriage material and too many of them basically when they have all the failures that
02:19:58.440 they have they have all the hot girl summers they have all the crazy stuff that they do they have 0.97
02:20:03.640 the multiple fair on the failed mayor um marriages or they will sit there and have the multiple
02:20:11.160 engagements that never happened then all of a sudden they run back to church wait the
02:20:16.920 engagements do they lie about engagements look look look the engagements of well i was with him 0.78
02:20:25.080 But so far, he asked me, but I turned him down, you know, that type of dumb stuff. 0.86
02:20:29.740 Oh, wow. 0.93
02:20:30.740 You know, and, you know, and as a man that mentors other men in business, you know, I
02:20:35.660 tend to listen to like these young men and they're asking me for like my advice because
02:20:39.580 I've actually been married for 28 years.
02:20:42.420 I got four kids, two boys and two girls.
02:20:46.280 And they're like, well, what did you do to make it work?
02:20:49.740 And then I basically explained to them how like we were able to make it work.
02:20:53.300 but i but i do feel for my sons you know like out there because it's crazy
02:20:58.460 if your son is like looking at the women in church how old's your son my youngest son is 23 23 so is
02:21:07.920 he married single um he's single he actually um he just graduated he just graduated from the
02:21:15.100 university of alabama and he's about to go into like the law program now um he actually started
02:21:20.680 his first day is um like what a law firm like today wow that's awesome yeah okay so in your
02:21:27.660 experience like for him what percent of women if he goes to your church under like that are his age
02:21:33.860 would you say are marriage material like that you would say are good enough for your son
02:21:37.800 i would say probably no more than about 30 to 33 percent the rest of them are just i mean you know
02:21:45.480 you know I'm gonna be honest it's a hot mess yeah you know um um even like with the men that
02:21:51.480 I mentor that are 35 and 40 years old or or like a few that you know like you know younger they're
02:21:59.120 like they're like 28 years old it's I mean it's a mess it's a hot mess yeah and I can see you don't
02:22:06.140 say this like you're not looking for this like it's like almost with a heavy heart when you say
02:22:11.120 it like you're not so i'm saying like it's not like you're happy about it you know no it's it's
02:22:16.460 you know it's literally one of those things of seeing it go down the drain the way that it's
02:22:21.540 going down the drain that it is and then to sit here and have people that will quote unquote take
02:22:27.660 no accountability for their actions and no way shape form or fashion and then basically make
02:22:33.960 these particular demands it's like you you haven't earned that and because you haven't earned that
02:22:41.720 why are you trying to make these particular demands it's crazy so what and i guess in your
02:22:48.940 church what do you think contributed to this to me the feminism um you know the feminist movement 1.00
02:22:59.420 it caused a lot of problems you know the sexual revolution caused a lot of problems anytime now 1.00
02:23:05.840 i mean you know like in the church i mean it isn't uncommon now to see dumb stuff in the church where 0.95
02:23:11.320 you see pastors doing dumb stuff you see they have these um assistant pastors who are just like 0.95
02:23:21.060 they're about to go to the club and this is a female pastor like they have female pastors in 1.00
02:23:25.440 there now or you have a particular group of you know female ministers that have been divorced two 1.00
02:23:32.880 three times and they're trying to guide people it's like no you should no you should be sitting
02:23:39.040 you should sit down you should sit down you you you definitely should sit down you know it's you
02:23:45.980 know it's no it's crazy and then like I mean people want to get upset when um whenever you
02:23:52.380 mention stuff like this but it's obvious anytime that you don't have fathers you don't have your
02:23:59.260 brothers you don't have your uncles guiding you you won't take any advice from a man but yeah you
02:24:05.180 want to go quote unquote get your advice from your friend as a whole come on i mean what are you
02:24:11.180 expecting your results to be yeah yeah and then they'll say like their friends told them to it's
02:24:16.220 It's like, well, why didn't you go to your dad, Becky?
02:24:18.740 It's like you chose the worst run to get advice from.
02:24:24.160 Right.
02:24:24.600 You know, and then, you know, and then how come, you know, and, you know, and one of the things that I basically have mentioned, and sometimes I get people that basically get upset about it.
02:24:35.280 And I sit down and mention, okay, look, I'm African-American.
02:24:38.940 Black women are the last to get married, and they are the first one to get divorced. 0.84
02:24:43.140 and also they have the most single parent homes now there's a reason for that and you have to
02:24:51.420 basically take it for what the situation is and say either you're going to make the necessary
02:24:56.760 corrections or not if you're not going to make the corrections then you cannot complain
02:25:01.080 but yet you know but yet they do yeah well thank you for for your contributions tonight
02:25:09.260 thanks for calling in thank you and um keep up the good work and look i understand that they're
02:25:15.820 going to come at you no matter um you know no matter what but just keep on doing like what
02:25:20.220 you're doing thank you all right so this is a married man of 30 years
02:25:30.940 and do you see that you see that you could hear the like hurt in his voice like you know when i
02:25:35.580 say okay what percent of christian women are wife material so women why are why are we 1.00
02:25:42.940 if you're special and different why are you offended
02:25:52.380 seriously it doesn't make sense to me if it doesn't apply to you why are you offended
02:25:56.940 if it doesn't apply let it fly why are you offended why you know and it's so interesting
02:26:04.300 It's so interesting. Because many of these women will get so mad at me for their poor decisions. 1.00
02:26:13.900 You know, I had two, I had a single mother lecturing me about my salvation.
02:26:20.460 Chick, you ruined your kid's life. You should worry about your child's salvation. Like, 1.00
02:26:25.240 you should worry about your kid instead of me. It's like these women, these chicks, 1.00
02:26:30.080 how did i make you a single mother i didn't make you do that 1.00
02:26:34.740 i didn't make you do corn i didn't make you do that it's not my fault i'm talking about the
02:26:42.580 consequences but yet again what did they say they say pearls the what blessing pearls the what
02:26:49.640 the bad guy the bad guy pearls evil like i like i made i made this
02:27:05.340 um is there any girls in the chat no yeah fair enough well i think i think i'm gonna cut it for
02:27:14.440 tonight sorry guys i'm sorry we can't do everybody but women women women women
02:27:22.600 don't make me the bad guy because you don't like what the men have to say
02:27:30.780 i i'm just the messenger i'm just a normal chick i'm just a normal chick looking at what's going
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02:27:51.580 let's get to a thousand i really if you're watching this as a replay i really want to get
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