00:12:32.700I get to write meaningful books that have my story and my worldview and my experiences in them, while also ghostwriting.
00:12:40.420I'm ghostwriting three books right now, one for Harvard University professor and physician,
00:12:45.420and then two for some lawyers in various uh various walks of life a lot of fun but question0.92
00:12:50.980and i'm not that political outside of just hating women um but but so when it comes to like the
00:12:58.460communist versus the anti-communist stuff or like isn't it kind of a lose-lose in a way though
00:13:04.880because both parties represent women's interests because they have to cater to women agree with
00:13:09.800that disagree i've done a little noticing and i've noticed what i've noticed and what i've noticed
00:13:14.820what I've noticed is on the right. Oh, he's reaching for another one. I have a book on
00:13:21.720almost everything. You can, you can, you give me a subject. Okay. This is out today. This is the
00:13:27.700new book out today called burn it down. You've read it. What's your favorite sentence? All of
00:13:35.360it. You know, all of that's good. That's great. That's great. Did you read the little dedication
00:13:39.420I wrote for you in there? I wrote, yeah, I read all of it. Okay. That's wonderful. Very good. Yes.
00:13:44.200All right. So what we must understand, I very much so consider myself a right-wing individual
00:13:51.980because I like being right. So what this book is about, this book is about, well, I'll just
00:13:58.380read you the gist of it. So on the right amongst conservatives, amongst Republicans, there is this
00:14:02.480belief right now that we're in, you know, a Gen Z is like so conservative and they just love their0.87
00:14:09.260pocket constitutions and they just love love love low taxes and wars in the middle east and dying0.68
00:14:15.560for israel etc etc that's kind of like what your fox news boomers experiences uh you know believe
00:14:20.380they're very much feminists as you say second wave feminists specifically they are hardcore
00:14:24.600feminists put more women in leadership have women in charge of everything right this is this is what
00:14:29.720their position is even trump like trump what are you doing appointing these women i don't know
00:14:35.640anything about politics so this is a this is president trump is a boomer president trump is
00:14:39.880indeed is indeed a boomer and fox news enjoyer this is an uneducated opinion because i have no
00:14:45.180idea what they've done but that christine i just saw a girl with long hair and i'm like what are
00:14:48.880you doing i think she was the she's the governor of south dakota i believe she was there's a story
00:14:55.080about me and her christy gnome she searched christy gnome um dog ghostwriter there's a
00:15:01.540whole disastrous hilarious story in there that like a bunch of news outlets wrote about but the
00:15:06.480point of burn it down is that our youth have become radicalized and this is where so many
00:15:12.280subjects that you discuss i discuss and write about and others discuss they sort of overlap
00:15:17.920because there's an issue where because of the hypergamy situation that we know exists with
00:15:24.300more women getting degrees more women out earning men more women owning homes and this is all like
00:15:29.340chapter one type stuff. Burn it down. What's that mean? Young men want to burn the whole frigging0.99
00:15:35.280system down because they are out of options. There is no organization or party that is uniquely0.99
00:15:41.720advocating for the interests of young, straight, white, Christian, male, American men. And if you
00:15:49.000do not give them an outlet, an option, a ladder, hope, opportunity, this is what they will do to
00:15:53.680your system and to all the institutions that you think matter. Of course, we've got the symbology
00:15:58.380here of what young men find themselves being drawn to these days. And so the dating market,
00:16:05.680delayed family formation, fewer marriages, fewer kids, fewer all the things, this is what the
00:16:10.700polling is showing, is that this is where it's deceptive. Polls show that moderates are increasing.
00:16:20.900Fewer people identifying as conservative among the youth. Fewer people identifying as liberal.
00:16:25.580that does not mean they're centrists that means they are fleeing to the right and to the left
00:16:33.100women are going further to the left under 35 men under 35 are going further to the right
00:16:39.540every single political event i go to amongst conservatives and republicans
00:16:43.760it's young republicans we're like young male republicans pearl it's 95 percent men and they
00:16:49.660can't get vicious it's just nuts it's nuts and everywhere we go we're all talking about so
00:16:54.240anybody got a girlfriend so you know that i had i had a friend who got married recently1.00
00:16:58.220it's it's just it's a female free zone and it's very troubling these are young men they want a1.00
00:17:04.060house they want a good career they want a safe place to live and they want a wife and they want1.00
00:17:08.540kids they want the 1950s american dream and there's not a set of female counterparts to get
00:17:13.920them and so what we talk about in the book is political solutions social solutions and more
00:17:18.660economic solutions spiritual solutions even to give particularly young men of our generation
00:17:25.860other opportunities and we look at history what we're what have been great leaders in history
00:17:32.180who have been fathers to their nations to their nation's young men and given them something to do
00:17:39.100to keep them from burning it down on amazon.com out today by joshua lisek and rich barris well i
00:17:46.500think it's just going to get burned down, right? Because what else? What other? It's kind of the
00:17:51.340way it's going. Like men are dropping out of everything. That's what the trend lines are
00:17:55.540showing. But I thought it behooved me that if there is a way up and out, then Joshua Leitzig
00:18:02.240is going to show the way. So what's the way, Joshua? You got to buy the book or can you give
00:18:06.560us anything? I'll give you a sense. So we do roughly 12 eras of recent history in Western
00:18:13.240civilization, where there was a number of factors similar to ours today, including economic
00:18:20.260malaise, where your efforts and your labor do not really equal your rewards and your output. Of
00:18:26.680course, young white straight male Christians are obviously discriminated against by every
00:18:31.200institution in the United States. So no matter how hard you work, you are not going to be rewarded
00:18:36.200to that extent. That is deeply a problem. You begin the checking out period. You begin the
00:18:40.960resentment. You get all the things. So in short, one of the solutions is there's an archetype in
00:18:48.960history that we've identified. We call him the para father. Para means like alongside or above
00:18:54.740in addition to these sorts of things. The para father is a character who rises and he gives
00:19:00.040specifically young men a productive builder focused thing to do. He gives them, grants them
00:19:07.200a ladder, a ladder. And so people that we talk about in the book might be familiar names from
00:19:14.620Julius Caesar to Napoleon Bonaparte, from SimĂłn BolĂvar in Gran Colombia in South America,
00:19:23.260to Michael Collins of the Irish Republican Army, to everyone's favorite, Francisco Franco.
00:19:31.360And he created the Spanish youth movement that gave basically military training to all of the
00:19:36.660nation's young men while providing domestic, um, support, homemaking skills to the nation's,
00:19:43.320uh, young, young, young people and youth and gave them service oriented projects to do
00:19:47.520to basically beautify Spain and keep them out of world war II. And there's other things we talk
00:19:53.200about in the book. It's not just those individuals, but there's a lot that a para father can do,
00:19:57.160but it's going to be, it's going to be a man. It's going to be a dad to fix it. There's a line0.81
00:20:02.040in here where we say that fathers build civilization. And we dedicate the book to the dads who will
00:20:08.580save us all. So what we need in this country are dads. Not girl dads, mind you folks. Not the girl
00:20:14.780dad phenomenon. Oh honey, you can do no wrong. My little princess, I can't. Oh, you hit your brother,0.89
00:20:20.280but I'm sure he deserved it. None of that girl dad crap, but the para-father individual.1.00
00:20:25.580The para-father individual? Yeah, as we talk about in the book, the para-father. The man who rises0.99
00:20:30.720decides, no, we're not, we're not doing this. I'm going to fix my country. I'm going to fix my
00:20:35.920country and decides that's what we're going to do. People will call him a dictator. People call
00:20:39.880him whatever they want, but he fixes things. Okay. So, so you're saying like some of these
00:20:44.680young men might be able to navigate through the oppressive institutions, get into power,
00:20:49.540and then just say, this is what we're doing. Well, ideally there is someone probably of the
00:20:55.260generation x age or elder millennial who who possesses or it just simply says i'm going to
00:21:00.880take i'm going to take the power i'm going to say no to everyone that is in my way that's what dads
00:21:05.720do what does a dad do pearl what does a good what does a good dad do oh yeah he just says no we're
00:21:11.240not doing that i'm fixing it right and so so it's sort of this book is a bit of a bat signal
00:21:15.940as you say to to the men who oh it's it's my turn i can just do things maybe it's a character like
00:21:21.980Elon Musk, for example. Whoever he, obviously, I think with Trump just about to turn out, he may
00:21:31.280not be exactly the candidate that we're looking for. But there's nothing stopping a para-father1.00
00:21:36.720type individual rising up in a given institution who will say, I'm specifically platforming young
00:21:42.540men and granting young men opportunities. And anyone of any influence can become a para-father,
00:21:49.100can become a father with exercises father's heart, particularly for the young men who have
00:21:54.340not been given away and give them a ladder to opportunity. Okay. Yeah. Cause it wouldn't make
00:21:58.880sense if Elon Musk did something like that, you know? Yes. Yes. There, you know, we, we subscribe
00:22:05.560to the great man theory of history, that history happens and moves forwards because of specifically
00:22:11.560great men who decide it will okay so you you could foresee something like that happening
00:22:19.340i think it's just going to get burned to the ground i'm going to be honest but you think
00:22:23.560i'm too much too black pilled too much of a pessimist there's plenty of opportunities
00:22:30.880and i think even reason justifications for for blackpilling and blackpilling does sell quite a
00:22:37.520few books i have experienced myself it does but ultimately i am pro i'm a father myself
00:22:46.260and for the sake of my children i i can't exclusively black
00:22:50.800what's that sorry oh it's okay yes so so so for the so for the sake of the future because i have
00:22:59.040i have a genetic stake in the future i have to i have to put forward i believe i have a duty to put
00:23:04.520forward? What are the ways out? What are the alternatives? What can be done? What must be
00:23:10.820done? Okay. And you, so you're in the same boat that you think the solution to feminism is more
00:23:17.060feminism? Yes. Yeah. Okay. Tell me, tell me, I say that, but I want to know what made you come1.00
00:23:23.060to that conclusion? For one reason, it's momentum. Who has momentum right now in the United States
00:23:30.400in the western world the the fandom of feminists are anti-feminists obviously feminists yeah they
00:23:35.280won yeah yeah the the most feminist institution in the united states is the american christian0.94
00:23:41.360church establishment across all across all denominations these are the institutions that0.97
00:23:46.720have the momentum that have the power so there's things you don't like about feminism young men
00:23:53.120young women well which direction can you go if if it's you against a system which direction can you
00:24:02.640push can you push back press escape to go back return to tradition repeal the 19th good luck
00:24:11.840yeah is it going to be easier to push forwards now i learned this from ghostwriting the divorce books
00:24:18.320There have been in blue states, so this is like democratic, strongholds, liberal cities,
00:24:23.920it has been, I learned through ghostwriting books on the matter, it has been liberal cities with far0.91
00:24:30.160more feminist-leaning domestic relations courts that have been better for fathers. Why? What does0.90
00:24:38.320third-wave feminism say? Traditional gender roles are social constructs. There's no real difference1.00
00:24:45.520between men and women so dad can change diapers so dad should have the kids half the time you see1.00
00:24:52.660where this is going huh see where this is going women can be providers too women can be bread1.00
00:24:58.560winners too let her but let her pay the pay the alimony let her have the the high powered career1.00
00:25:03.680jobby job and be a girl boss let dad stay home and let's let's smash the patriarchy by subverting0.81
00:25:11.220expectations and have mom pay child support fellas open your eyes people okay so i have i have a pitch
00:25:19.540for you okay hear me out so i think for a young guy you're 25 right you go get you a 35 year old
00:25:28.260baddie hear me out hear me out okay you get you the she's high earning right you be the stay-at-home
00:25:33.780husband she's gonna cheat on you within the first five years it's gonna happen just document it
00:25:38.980right and then so and maybe even right pay a guy that looks like you but better looking to try to1.00
00:25:46.500hook up with your wife and then just have him document the whole thing get him in on it right1.00
00:25:51.860and then you go to the court and you say your honor i gave up my career for her
00:25:57.860i gave up everything for her and she cheated on me and then hear me out you can get your kids right
00:26:04.580and now you can go get your traditional wife you know you can be 25 now you're 30 you got your
00:26:09.460kids you can be a single dad and then you can get paid off of the child support and alimony
00:26:14.660and now you can go get a girl 10 years younger now you can have your cake and eat it too what
00:26:20.500do you think there's certainly playing the long game what you think you should do two
00:26:27.060years of marriage and then cut it what are we thinking in general that's not how men think
00:26:34.580okay men are not schemers and connivers like you pearl yeah but i'm helping you guys out
00:26:40.740she's gonna cheat anyways right so you might as well just facilitate it
00:26:46.340yeah like you might as well give her an offer she can't refuse right and then it's a win-win0.97
00:26:51.060because hear me out hear me out if she doesn't cheat then you actually have a wife congratulations
00:26:56.840fellas if she does well now you have a documentation for court you're welcome
00:27:01.540that is a pragmatic solution yes and what scott i would always say the first step towards a good
00:27:11.240idea is a bad idea and here's the thing pearl i don't know if that's a bad idea scott adams would
00:27:16.440have said an idea is not good or bad because the question you want to ask is is it testable
00:27:22.420yes pearl's pearl's pitch is indeed testable i don't think i will be the one testing it though
00:27:29.020it is certainly testable well i'm just saying because you could still have and you said the0.93
00:27:36.360solution to marriage is a dom sub relationship right so okay in the beginning go be a cuck you0.98
00:27:42.460have to be a cuck anyway just do it for two years you know get it over with get cucked out get your1.00
00:27:47.840kids right paternity test it and then hear me out right hear me out then divorce her ass go to the1.00
00:27:54.340judge and say your honor I gave up my career for her I did everything you know all the things women1.00
00:28:00.320she wasn't emotionally available she was emotionally abusive and then and then divorce her right get1.00
00:28:07.540you get your kid make sure she mogs like she was hot when she was younger and then now you're 300.99
00:28:12.020you got your kids and you can go get you a 20 year old baddie or 22 whatever you qualify for0.99
00:28:17.600you know I don't know how good looking you are I don't know what you can get so I'm not here to say
00:28:21.640what but all i'm saying is you can have that traditional relationship most of your life if
00:28:26.480you just cuck out for like two years get your kids three years how many kids you want you know
00:28:30.840it's testable we'll say that we'll say that it actually could could could work although i don't
00:28:39.700i don't expect it to be widespread because that level of or depth of deception dual and dual
00:28:47.720mating strategy that is utterly foreign to men who want those things so so men who want like
00:28:53.620wedded bliss they want the family like their their mind is something like when they're out
00:29:01.080dating and playing the field and when they're looking they're looking for the person i will be
00:29:07.140in the rocking chair next to on the last day of my life when i'm 85 years old and we just bid
00:29:14.420farewell to the great-grandchildren. Well, look outside. I don't know why you would think that's
00:29:18.700going to happen. That is the ancestral memory of men. That is the instinct of men. And I'm sure
00:29:28.960that some listening will validate that. You say it yourself. Men are the true romantics.
00:29:36.020Well, it's not working. So here's another plan. Oh, there certainly is. Yes, yes. One must
00:29:42.060understand that there's more more ways than one to get there uh but generally speaking your
00:29:48.160conservative christian young man is unfortunately deeply naive and it's all in the book it's all in
00:29:57.800the book he wants things and yet our culture is not set up in any way for him to actually get
00:30:04.320those things or or achieve those things you know it's it's it's deeply deeply troubling
00:30:10.940so you got a better plan what you got what you got for them well what i have talked about in
00:30:18.280that particular video i talked about is the sort of sort of energy that seems to work
00:30:23.220versus the energy that doesn't so so the energy so so so we know what what doesn't work
00:30:28.720is equal partner energy so i'm not i'm going to speak not from a legal perspective or even
00:30:35.280a relationship perspective but from an energy exchange perspective and not on compatibility
00:30:39.800right the idea of we're going to be equal partners the co-ceo dynamic that the modern marriage
00:30:45.900contract of civil and legal marriage puts forward there's no one who's actually in charge
00:30:51.260in that so the the person the party is like you're you're locked in here and the only way
00:30:58.780forward is you either agree or one forces the other to agree now typically the way men0.72
00:31:07.140force women to do things. Duluth model domestic violence, it's illegal. This is why I point out1.00
00:31:14.780the New Testament of local Christianity, where it talks about how women must obey their husbands.0.99
00:31:20.520Women must remain silent in church, et cetera. Women must obey, submit in all things, et cetera.0.52
00:31:28.700And if you as a woman, you are married to an unbelieving man, to an unbeliever,0.96
00:31:34.020an unbeliever, then the way forward for you as a Christian wife to be a good wife is to be0.74
00:31:39.220especially obedient, submissive, and sweet and respectful to your husband. That's Christian
00:31:44.460marriage. Of course, it's illegal, as I pointed out, to enforce any of that from a husband's0.72
00:31:52.260perspective, because now it's two husbands in a relationship. That's what modern marriage has
00:32:01.240become from an energetic perspective which is gay yes completely gay of course the great irony is0.76
00:32:09.320you know who has the best marriages by far gay men yeah i'm in the gayborhood now you'd be surprised0.60
00:32:16.360though that i got there's like they got some drama too you'd be surprised oh yes oh yes oh yeah they
00:32:21.560have their queens hashtag slay indeed yes but in terms of in terms of energy if she wants an equal
00:32:29.160partner what as i said in the video what she really wants is i want someone who equally deems
00:32:34.920my opinion as valuable as i do and will partner with me in enforcing my will for the family the
00:32:42.040marriage and every issue that is important to me that's what equal partner yeah you have to kind1.00
00:32:46.200of learn learn the you know but it's not fair because she crashes out more especially white
00:32:51.640guys you guys are so chill like they're like the chillest guys ever and so if one party crashes
00:32:56.840out and then one doesn't then the other one that crashes out always has more power
00:33:02.280because everyone's afraid that they're going to crash out you know what i mean
00:33:06.680well i also think that yes generally generally speaking in sort of sort of the
00:33:15.400what is in the white man's blood memory is the creation and maintenance and protection
00:33:24.360of domestic peace, creating peace, peace at home, peace across this land, peace across the country.
00:33:33.400That is what we aim for. That is our focus. But if we look at the state of modern marriage in the
00:33:40.740United States, the 50-50 business, there is no path to peace. There's not. The only way to create
00:33:48.840peace in your family and in your life and in your routine in your home is to cow is to obey your0.97
00:33:56.680wife it is to give her what she wants perpetually and what that does is that creates a dynamic
00:34:04.040of you being her butler rushing to her every need her being your master or in this case your
00:34:10.780your mistress and so the energy is you hubby are here to serve me wife and give me everything i
00:34:18.420want and the better you are at doing that as a man the worse she treats you up to and including1.00
00:34:24.920your children lindsey clancy yeah people say oh she didn't have enough support so she did the0.99
00:34:32.300terrible thing she did reframe reframe what if she did the terrible thing that she did0.95
00:34:39.180because she had all that support that's your black bill pearl yeah because she's spoiled1.00
00:34:46.280and she precisely yeah she'd never heard no in her life like no you can't kill your kids0.98
00:34:52.620yes yes we get we do some we enter some pretty pretty dark territory about about about brat0.69
00:34:59.700maxing but that energy of course is like i talked about with the mental point of origin
00:35:03.900the husband is constantly orbiting his wife because again he wants peace but he's stuck
00:35:11.840in a 50-50 decision-making, co-CEO, co-founder dynamic. He has no authority commensurate with
00:35:17.460his responsibility. But because he shoulders so many burdens to create the peace that he can,
00:35:23.980financial prosperity, etc., running the kids around, doing all the things that he possibly can
00:35:29.260as a man to keep this family afloat and at peace, right? But he doesn't have the authority
00:35:36.160commensurate with his responsibility. It's not equal. It's not even equitable.
00:35:41.840right? He may have something like 70% responsibility, but he doesn't have 70%
00:35:48.340authority, right? So even in that case, the co-founder dynamic is shot. So what is the
00:35:55.140solution? Well, one of them is the solution to feminism is more feminism. 50-50? Okay. You earn1.00
00:36:02.720half the money, dear wife. I will be with the kids half the time. That's one solution every man can0.91
00:36:08.860move towards in the United States. That is, it's not legal advice or financial advice coming from
00:36:14.500Joshua Lysak here, Pearl, but maybe it should be. You need to put your wife to work. One of the worst0.98
00:36:20.880things you can do for your marriage is let her be a homemaker. Homemaker, by the way, is the most1.00
00:36:25.360common profession of the divorcing wife. Having no job is the most common job of the woman who1.00
00:36:31.540divorces your ass. Can you talk about, I know you had a tweet about how there's a big1.00
00:36:38.680reframe from homemaker to stay-at-home wife or something you know i'm talking about i swore you
00:36:43.680to tweet one of the things that i've talked about is the reason so so the divorce lawyers i've
00:36:54.180written books for we that that was enlightening before becoming a divorce survivor myself pearl i
00:37:00.300i saw all this so i i didn't go through a lot of the experiences of suffering that so many men go
00:37:06.340through in my position or of my status because i was writing about this stuff years ago and
00:37:11.600maybe it's simulation hypothesis and i was writing about my own future in all of these books wait did
00:37:18.900so when there were signs before the divorce were you like oh no yeah i'm writing i'm writing all
00:37:26.060these books and stories like wow and and one begins to pick up some similarities and my
00:37:32.200situation is different i'm special i'm special this is not gonna do it all the cope cope cope
00:37:38.680cope cope because again is there anyone more naive than than than um a kind a kind-hearted
00:37:44.340conservative christian person and in any case yes so i talked about you were the vegan activist no
00:37:52.740oh this we're talking about after this we're talking about after after my transformation
00:37:57.200oh okay this is after yes yes yeah i have a 15 year long story this lot can happen in 15 years
00:38:02.440oh okay all right yes yes fair enough um yes so the
00:38:07.140the issue with a homemaker or the stay-at-home mom personality is she runs out of things to do0.90
00:38:14.900she runs out of things to be productive in and also having mental stimulation and that0.56
00:38:22.280role is really meant to be shared anyway in an appliance-free world. So much of the modern
00:38:29.440malaise for both men and women is we live in a society, yes, but we are not made for that society
00:38:36.740in terms of our bodies and our brains evolved, designed, developed, created, etc. for a very
00:38:42.020different environment, social environment than we find ourselves in. And so we just are kind of all
00:38:48.380doing our best to cope right a woman raising children is not supposed to be by herself0.97
00:38:54.940literally in a cardboard box with rooms in it for hours upon end per day what was the experience of
00:39:01.340the tribe well it was her and her 12 sisters all raising their 30 kids together you know and all
00:39:07.520of their dads you know grandpa was all there and the and the pre-teen boys were there if you think
00:39:13.320about tribal life of the vast majority of history of homo sapiens, you realize just how different
00:39:19.700we are in our situation now. And I think those political or social movements that are better at
00:39:27.640trying to recreate intentionally, get closer to the environments, the social environments
00:39:35.100of our ancestors, the better off we're going to be. But there's such a lag legally. And so one of
00:39:42.700the things that men can do to take more responsibility is okay my marriage is 50 50
00:39:48.200okay you're earning half the money and i'm spending half the time with the kids
00:39:52.640and that's if that's what your legal contract is you've got to enforce that folks you you've got
00:39:58.640you got you got to do that men none of this you you she gives uh you know she gets her cake and1.00
00:40:04.160eats yours too that does not work yeah because now stay-at-home wife just is not a full-time job
00:40:09.620i you know i was really annoyed because they would tell me that cooking and cleaning takes so long
00:40:14.920and so i decided to cook myself a family of four and see how long it would take me to do it with1.00
00:40:20.240like simple stuff and you realize the reason it takes so long for women is we just like to1.00
00:40:24.620overcomplicate things like why are we making bread from scratch you don't need to do all that ma'am1.00
00:40:28.640you know what i mean i mean you can but like it's so a lot of times like the stay-at-home moms0.99
00:40:35.100they're just like good at wasting time and doing things inefficiently where guys will just do it0.98
00:40:40.580very efficiently you know yes i i think that's true because there is a a productivity principle
00:40:47.780that says something to the effect of uh the amount of work expands given the amount of time0.72
00:40:55.000allowed for that work in which to take place oh so if she has 10 hours to kill let's say in the day
00:41:03.680from, you know, 7 a.m. to 5 p.m., okay?1.00
00:41:09.080Now, maybe she really only has 90 minutes of labor to do,1.00
00:41:12.820domestic labor, but she can now expand it to 10 hours1.00
00:41:17.060where there's breaks and there's delays1.00
00:41:19.560and there's phone calls and all the things that happen.
00:41:22.940So the 90 minutes of work gets stretched out
00:41:25.400into an exhausting 10-hour marathon completely unnecessarily.
00:41:29.460okay so you recommend men enforce the contract if your contract is is indeed 50 50 then that's
00:41:39.240what it needs to be okay so what is it what does it look like to you okay you so you can't earn as
00:41:43.940much as i do okay what what education credential you're going back to school oh but the kids then
00:41:49.540i'll take care of the kids so you have that it like think like a contract lawyer for a minute
00:41:56.200gentlemen think like a contract lawyer for a second if you're not going to enforce a contract
00:42:01.960you don't really have a contract right this is what you learn about copyright i've written i've
00:42:06.480written books about copyright trademark and patent law over the years you don't have a patent you
00:42:10.900don't have a trademark you don't have a copyright unless you're willing to enforce that you do
00:42:16.380so the fact that it's 50 50 co-ceo co-founder okay so we have to be equal contributors flip
00:42:24.900the script what what are these so-called exhausted wives always saying oh i just need you to
00:42:31.260contribute more i just need more from you they do the bird hands i just need more i just need more0.81
00:42:37.280right they bird hand you i need more from you flip the script on the bish gentlemen i just
00:42:43.260do my dear wife i need more from you i need more from you i earned 90 000 this year you only earned
00:42:50.900you didn't only need they're only in 38 i want an equal partner
00:42:54.400i need an equal contributor in this relationship i just feel so alone in the earnings avenue of our
00:43:04.960of our of our relationship again gentlemen this is not legal or financial advice but maybe it
00:43:09.800freaking should be yeah and there's so many easy jobs now for women so it's not like she can't
00:43:16.160earn the same as you she told like there's so much dei just given to us again the solution1.00
00:43:23.060to feminism is more feminism because i remember i worked and back then i thought it was because0.99
00:43:28.300i was talented i wasn't but i i worked in sales for a little bit and they just i walked in and0.88
00:43:34.160they just gave me the best territory i'm like wow they see potential that's because you're a woman
00:43:39.300yeah i know i quit you know what i mean i'm a youtuber but they just like i remember they took
00:43:46.540one guy's um like he had a really big client and they just gave it to me i didn't ask for it you
00:43:52.620know i'm just i'm just you know what's up got you know i didn't i didn't ask for it but so by that
00:43:58.760logic like yeah i agree with you because you know every woman i knew that wanted to be a stay-at-home0.99
00:44:05.520wife growing up was totally lazy like there was this girl i'm thinking of and she was like the1.00
00:44:11.160laziest woman i ever met ever like every team we were on um she was more talented than me like1.00
00:44:17.480in sports but she'd always ride the bench because she was just so wouldn't show up to practice on1.00
00:44:23.560time that was the only not saying that's every stay-at-home mom right but that's a good chunk1.00
00:44:28.740i think is women that don't want to work because that just personal experience i was the only one1.00
00:44:33.480knew yes i think overall the you know what it is it's women don't do things for good reasons
00:44:42.360so you guys are assuming like white guys they assume the best in us they're like oh she wants1.00
00:44:48.680to be a stay-at-home mom for a virtuous reason she's a virgin for a virtuous reason because
00:44:53.560she's a good person but we only do things for selfish reasons well that's because men men
00:44:58.920project in the same way yeah you know i i i believed in male chastity uh he might say so
00:45:07.560that you know for noble reasons i totally believed it for my religious upbringing and so
00:45:12.640the only reason she would is because she did for the same reason or or or what have you like well
00:45:20.180what's for the best interest of the children well a knockdown drag out bitter world war three style
00:45:24.860divorce fight over the kids that puts them on the stand is absolutely in their worst interest.
00:45:30.640So you have to think. Think, gentlemen. Think shrewdly. Understand that marriage, like any
00:45:38.940business contract, is there is potential for total war, unrestricted warfare. Anything that could be
00:45:48.240used as a weapon against you very well might be used as weapon against you. And we all know that
00:45:55.840the worst enemies are those who commit treachery, betrayal, traitors. So even if you have a good
00:46:01.800wife, understand that what makes betrayal so awful and the enemy so bitter is because they were once
00:46:08.660your ally or your partner or your compadre in some way. So even understanding that what is best
00:46:16.800for the kids is protecting their relationship to you, which is all you have control over.
00:46:23.540You can't necessarily control or manage. See, this is, again, you're not a leader. This is what
00:46:29.220I can't stand about the, you call it the Christian circle, the Tradcon Christian circle of cope,
00:46:33.880Be a leader in your household. Be the leader of your family. You can't be. You literally, physically, legally can't be your leader. You cannot lead your wife. You cannot lead your kids from the whole perspective. That's literally illegal. Until we fix that, you can't be a leader.
00:46:54.060Well, what can you do? What can you affect? So I'm advising men radical honesty on these matters.
00:47:03.000What you can control right now is you can influence your wife, you can influence your
00:47:09.900children, and do the best to create relationships. And I think about, metaphorically speaking,
00:47:16.980metaphorically speaking, the period of the Wild West. Now, people often think about the Wild West
00:47:22.440as a sort of era where there's gunfighting and chaos and train robberies and vagabonds and
00:47:27.500ruffians and all manner of highwaymen causing problems plus the indians okay and there's
00:47:32.220and there's a high noon and all manner of gunfighting right well it turns out my city
00:47:37.460Dayton Ohio I live in Ohio I will always live in Ohio because I am Ohio anytime anyone talks
00:47:44.580bad about Ohio you're talking that you're talking Joshua that's that's that's who you are
00:47:48.660this this is this is the face of ohio anyway unfortunately as it is there are more murders
00:47:56.660in dayton ohio every year than there was for the entirety of the wild west era across all the states
00:48:05.560and territories and the reason why is everyone had a gun if you started something you knew
01:31:33.140does if you watched my last video on gold haven resource what up my ninjas if you watched my last
01:31:38.660video on gold haven resources in tungsten you are going to want to hear this the u.s department of
01:31:44.980war just announced a 450 million dollar investment to strengthen america's tungsten supply chain
01:31:53.540yeah and i'm here too obviously i'm going to be on the show uh either right now or in a little bit
01:31:58.500and i want you guys to know that alongside a potential two billion dollar tungsten purchase
01:32:02.420agreement that happened putting an urgent need right now for new western tungsten sources right
01:32:07.940back in the spotlight i want to share a couple of stats with you guys number one that brings us
01:32:14.180back to gold haven resources which is trading under gh vnf in the us and goh in canada which
01:32:20.820has just hit another important milestone at its flagship magno tungsten project now historical
01:32:29.140work has identified more than 600 000 tones of tungsten bearing mineral at today's tungsten
01:32:35.700prices that potentially represents roughly 1 billion dollars in gross contained value now gold
01:32:42.980haven is using modern diamond drilling to find out just how big and continuous this system really is
01:32:49.620and with the latest results coming in there is no telling how much further this could grow
01:32:54.740yeah now to put into perspective here i want to bring up a comparison on screen check this out
01:33:00.100so china controls roughly 80 percent right roughly 80 80 percent which is kind of crazy
01:33:06.980of the world's tungsten supply with major deposits like shizwan forming part of the dominance now
01:33:13.380shizwan is a state-linked tungsten project valued in the multi-billion dollars range is considered
01:33:18.180one of china's major tungsten systems and now enters goldhaven resources with the magno project
01:33:24.260operating on a completely different level and with last week's news of hundreds of millions of
01:33:28.340dollars being important to securing the u.s tungsten supply chain this puts goldhaven and
01:33:33.300the magna project into a whole new perspective here's another way to look at it the shizuan
01:33:38.820tungsten system is china in china is centered around roughly 10 square kilometers about 2500
01:33:45.380acres isn't that crazy that's crazy because gold haven's land package is more than 30 times larger
01:33:51.060than the area surrounding one of the world's major tungsten system now this matters because it shifts
01:33:58.180the conversation from exploration into strategic supply security yeah now obviously uh drilling at
01:34:05.140magno is underway and if the results continue to confirm what the early data is suggesting
01:34:10.180It looks like Goldhaven could be advancing a project with the potential to become an important western source of tungsten, which is absolutely incredible.
01:34:19.620We have to look at this for what it really is, a matter of national security.
01:34:22.840Tungsten is one of the most strategically important metals on the planet.
01:34:25.980Critical to defense applications because of its extreme hardness density.
01:34:30.320As we mentioned here, anything from jets, tanks, ships, munitions all rely on tungsten.
01:34:34.860honey and that's really crazy because it's used across military systems from armor piercing
01:34:40.680applications and ammunition to aerospace components and advanced defense system and this
01:34:47.020isn't something that's coming years down the road it's happening right now as we speak
01:34:50.920governments are putting billions not millions behind critical minerals and domestic supply
01:34:56.440chains uh you know the message from washington is pretty clear yeah it is clear as we mentioned
01:35:02.500they are paying to bring tungsten home uh 10 million dollars pentagon 12 billion project fault
01:35:09.320and of course even more check that out 30 billion dollars secure minerals america needs
01:35:14.660back our country reduce dependence on foreign supply and rebuild right now the domestic and
01:35:19.840allied supply chain check this out the gold haven magna project is being positioned as a potential
01:35:26.400new north american source of tungsten at a time when western government are pushing hard to secure
01:35:30.600critical mineral supply chains that's absolutely insane the financing is up it's absolutely great
01:35:37.000and with last week's announcement of hundreds of millions of dollars being directed towards
01:35:40.840strengthening the u.s tungsten supply chain the timing couldn't be more interesting north american
01:35:44.840mineral exploration is making a powerful comeback government support driving the sector demand for
01:35:49.080strategic metals accelerating i honestly didn't think the momentum around tungsten and gold haven
01:35:53.720could accelerate any faster but last week's news took the story to another level and in a big way
01:35:58.520now if you want to follow check this out follow yourself uh and actually grow the story as they
01:36:04.760grow their operations gold haven resources trades as gh and uh vnf in the u.s that's gh vnf in the
01:36:12.440u.s and goh in canada guys just check out the link in the description if you want to learn more
01:36:19.480yeah of course and it's very important to understand make sure that you guys read the
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01:36:48.600me i love white boards hold on i think i feel feminism sorry start over because i did i didn't
01:36:56.520mute you all right can you hear me okay now i can hear you you say you can't no i can i can you can
01:37:02.680okay very good yes can you do that thing where you zoom in on both of our screens again so we can
01:37:06.920have a seat a little bit better yeah there we go that's better okay you got it okay okay so
01:37:12.680So, I mean, I need to adjust it a little bit this way.