Pearl - February 11, 2025
The Curse of Socially Awkward Women (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about the curse of socially awkward women, and why you should just stop lying to me about what women are really like. I also discuss the anti-male propaganda used by women to shame men for not being successful sexually.
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good afternoon everybody welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity
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network i am your host pearl and today we're going to be talking about the curse of socially
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awkward women but before we start please don't forget to like the video and I first want to
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yearly membership you get super chats all year that's the chat i read during the show okay so
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today we're going to talk about socially awkward women so you know a lot of times we hear the term
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incel. And this is sort of a shaming tactic for women to shame men that are not successful
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sexually. So anytime something goes wrong or bad in society, women have a tendency to
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blame it on the incels and shame male sexuality. And it's really interesting because women
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shame men for sleeping around, but they also shame men for not being successful sexually.
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So I made a PowerPoint to kind of showing what's going on in society when I talk about different types of women.
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So on a broad category, these are the three types of women that we have in society.
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So we have the, in the PowerPoint, we have, you know, the beautiful women.
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So these are women that are eights and up.
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So like Megan Fox, nobody is going to tell me that you wouldn't in the chat.
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is there any person that if Megan Fox like who who in the chat is this going to be the hottest
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woman you ever hooked up with just be honest be honest stop lying to me stop pretend I'm tired of
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sometimes you guys talk a big game and you're like oh she's mid she's mid let me see let me see
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let me see the pictures of who you guys have hooked up with Megan Fox is not mid now I know
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women tend to overestimate female beauty but I'm at a little different of a perspective
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because I um I did casting and when I did casting for my panel shows when I was in London
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I had eight girls come in like four or five days a week and I would have to pick which women would
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get me the most clicks and many times um on the internet men will either under rank well they'll
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say women are super unattractive or they're over rank and say that mids or 10s and I need you know
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that's why i say i need to stop the simping because most of you know i have been on the front
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lines of this simp epidemic for years and i need to tell you guys about a quiet weapon being
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back by helping end simping so anyways back to this powerpoint um rob uh is in the chat he says
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yes this is on elliot it won't because she f'd that kelly guy i don't know kelly is but okay so
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this is the three general broad categories of women that we have so um this is a mid to the
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right like most guys would but like a guy that if he hooks up with an eight plus he's really not
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expecting her to stay he's like i most men are like this is very lucky i don't know how i ended
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up in this situation but i'll take it the sixes the mids most men are gonna do like i mean none
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of you in the chat are really gonna turn down this girl like if she's cute she's at the bar
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you don't have to drive that far over here is what we have i would put her at a three and below
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this is like a slow tuesdays the mids i have four categories for so roughly i consider a mid between
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like a four um to like a six and a half like a strong six um so this is what i would call
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a seven trying to be a ten so again all many of you guys this is going to be the most attractive
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woman you've hooked up with you're you're like again a lot of guys are in the country so they
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don't really get to see the like top tier talent of beauty in the cities um but she's like a strong
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um seven through enhancements trying to be a 10. so like if she was completely covered up she
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wouldn't be in the beautiful category but because it's like super tight clothes whatever
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megan fox could be completely covered and she would be in the beautiful category
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do you guys see the difference like this is a seven trying to be an eight to ten an eight to ten
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they don't have to get naked they're just in the beautiful category so a mid that's a chubby cute
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girl is a girl that would be like an adjustable six but she's a little bit too um overweight
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or maybe she's in shape but she has like a below average face like it's just very unsymmetrical
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like her if she lost weight she'd be like a six i'd say a solid six um then we have the mids that
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are like former eights so like they're older um I mean I'd still consider Ivanka like a six but
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she used to be an eight you know like back in her youth so she's like an expired eight now she's
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in the mid category and treated like the rest of us um again you guys see the difference in looks
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you like mid beautiful mid beautiful um Margot Robbie I would put as like a lower tier mid now
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by the way everybody men's preferences are going to like blur the lines by like a point or two so
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like you know there's some guys they don't care about boobs they're all but there's some guys
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that would tell me you know margot robbie is more beautiful than megan fox because they're into
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blondes with blue eyes totally fair margot young i would put in the 8 to 10 category um however i
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would still put her in terms of like facial symmetry at the lower end of the of the beautifuls
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she's definitely in the category she's getting into all the rooms but I'd put her at like an
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eight where like where Megan Fox I'd put it like a nine ten you guys can totally disagree in the
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chat but this is just how I like categorize them now next we have the socially awkward mid so this
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is a woman that dresses herself so bad that it like it's like she almost wants to be unattractive
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now socially awkward mids I generally would put as like four fives um where she's kind of like
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an average looking woman she's not super overweight um but she dresses so unattractive
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like women like her I'm not super pro plastic surgery but I do think a boob job would change
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her life do you know what I mean like this woman she doesn't need a boot I mean obviously it's like
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it's not like she's huge boobs but like it's not really that needed but you know because women all
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want the eights to tens and an eight to ten guy just is not gonna go for this like this is just
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not she's not attractive enough right and if she wants to get closer I'm not I'm not saying she
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should but if she wants to get into the sixth category she'd probably have to do it surgically
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um but naturally she could just stop dressing like a grandma and help herself out maybe go
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for a seven instead of an eight guy um generally speaking the mids are sluttier than the beautiful
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but the mids tend to be more useful because they have to be like this woman was like a scientist
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in the show i mean she has to be a scientist right because she doesn't look like that
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you know what i mean if she looked like that do you think she she would really be that smart you
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know she'd go be a hollywood actress or a model or just like women like this they're just paid to be
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hot and a lot of women cope they say like well i just haven't been found if i was in the right
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rooms you know now don't get me wrong some mids do get in the same rooms as the beautiful but usually
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it's because they're friends with the beautiful so like if megan fox brought this mid friend like
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ivanka wouldn't really like stand out in a room i mean megan fox would probably even be allowed to
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bring a four friend i mean she probably wouldn't do that like the beautifuls like to be friends
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with women kind of like this like less attractive but like you know still pretty hot sevens are the
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ones i see doing the best on only fans and i think it's because men see them as like attainable
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um but like like megan fox could walk in with the girl on the right you know what i mean like
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so sometimes the mids do get into the same rooms but usually it's by knowing someone that's like
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like hotter um and the thing is the men have to live in like a populated area of the city
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to like see this in um and again I'm I'm a woman so you guys can take it or leave it but
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um men in the country and that don't live in like nice areas they have a tendency to see
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mids as beautiful but it's just because they haven't like had sex with women that are like
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this hot like i can honestly find a woman this hot on pretty much any college campus
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but you know most men don't really get access to them you know so everything's kind of inflated
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right now it's kind of like how everyone says michael jordan is the greatest of all time because
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the league was better back then now women are really fat old and ugly so the league is like a
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a little bit inflated um so now women can just be fat and still be in the top 10 of beauty
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in terms of like what we have on the market but they're not eights to tens like you're still not
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gonna be like um a woman so beautiful beautiful you'll be remembered historically for it are we
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are we following guys are we following now because we have to think about how the dating market's
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gonna go so we got the brad pitts we got the guys that were like mid and then they self-improved
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and then they got to be you know like and then we got the let's say the incels or guys not getting
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laid at all um so like i mean like let's say these two guys have harems let's take this guy on the
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right like the guy in the middle he might be in the relationship zone for like a mid here like
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she might date him but she'll probably be cheating with this guy you know because maybe not brad pitt
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but like a lower version of brad pitt like on a slow tuesday he's gonna do it like i mean if she's
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right place right time and you guys know women they're we're not really loyal so you might as
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well expect it um this woman here you know it depends when she cashed out if she cashed out early
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um she could have ended up with a Brad Pitt because back in the day she was an eight Brad
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Pitt's a 10 if she was in the right room like Ivanka back in the day was I would say just as
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attractive as Angelina Jolie or not or not Angelina sorry I'm his first wife Jennifer Aniston
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and Aniston I'd put it like a soft eight like seven eight you know like she's at the bottom
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of the beautiful pyramid but even being at the bottom of the beautifuls she can still nab
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a brad pitt right because you know women we don't really like the med unless we're two points lower
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like we just don't we don't appreciate you guys unless you're pretty much better than us in every
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way um so this guy um self-improve so i want you to understand that the women here like there's a
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guy guys think that the mids are getting um like have lower body counts right because they look at
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this woman how is how is this woman going to compete with this woman she's got to give like
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a gluck gluck 3000 right do you know what i mean like margot doesn't have to do that like i mean
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if you guys are just hooking up with her you're gonna think good enough i'm i'm just happy to be
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here right you know this girl is gonna get pumped and dumped more because the fives in my opinion
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fives have some of the like like they really have the higher body counts because and if you talk to
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pis they'll say five sixes they're more likely to do sex work because they have to i mean
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one of you in the chat is going to send this woman's for free she's not going to have to do
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you know like but this girl is gonna give the gluck gluck 5 000 or whatever you know
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you guys are doing it i don't now i'd like to say all of these points vary i'd give one point
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one and a half points that can move so like some of you in the chat might say margo is hotter than
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megan okay well megan i would have rated like a 9.5 her i'd put like a like an eight but you know
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you could swap those right like you could disagree maybe your thing's brunettes me like it swap it by
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one okay but ivanka like i would put ivanka at like a seven you know like a former eight kind
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kind of aged out into a seven six category but if your thing is like tall blondes that are like
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classy she might be an eight to you are we following are we you know maybe you guys's
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thing is like the gluck gluck whatever and this chick is your your ride or die so i mean that's
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the attractiveness in the market that's kind of what's going on so we're gonna now talk about
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socially awkward women. Now, socially awkward women is something that's not really talked about.
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We hear the word incel all the time, and women will refer to any man that goes against modern
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feminist ideals and incel. The actual meaning is a young man who considers himself unable to
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attract women sexually. Women control the nature of the media, so all you hear is men bad and
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incels. What's not talked about is socially awkward women. Kevin Samuels referred to them
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as femcels. You can call them fuckwords or Cheyennes. The conversation of social awkwardness
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has to include females because according to statistics one in four, Americans say they're
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socially awkward. I think that number is underreported, especially in Gen Z.
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and also because women are generally not honest in many surveys. Young people are the group that
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identify as most socially awkward, while 60% of Americans feel anxious in social situations. The
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average American spends 34 minutes a day socializing. Fem cells are women that never
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develop social skills to attract men and also cannot navigate friendships and social situations
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with women as mothers continue to fail their daughters by not teaching them how to be women
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more and more fem cells are created as more and more women are going to college to get degrees
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that no one cares about and more and more it's recently only that we are seeing socially awkward
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women on social media and can listen to them talk about what their lives are like that's what we're
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going to talk about today socially awkward women um so what circumstances are women socially
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awkward many times women who did not want to use their looks to get ahead or couldn't usually
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couldn't yeah do you know what i mean usually couldn't because megan no woman like megan fox
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isn't going to use that and you know that's why like um a lot of times beautiful women
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they might be bitchier but they're really not as socially awkward because like everyone who isn't
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trying to talk to them like they're the center of attention in every room they walk in um usually
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they're fives and sixes who if they became socially aware stop dressing like a grandma could
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be an adjustable six but they get pumped and dumped enough that they are not because they're
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not attractive enough to sleep with eights and without especially not without girl game
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um a lot of socially awkward women are too afraid to look stupid to try so they won't improve their
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social skills they'd rather just be inside and not talk to anybody because it's too hard and
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they don't want to be embarrassed um they have too big of an ego so they go where they do not have to
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look dumb in order to excel which is work um usually because their jobs aren't like crazy hard
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right um they they try but not at the right things if they do do it in an area um where they're not
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socially awkward it's an area that's not really attractive to men women pay the price harder for
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not having social skills than men because one men are okay and can be content being alone women
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we're really not built that way we need community i mean men don't really like people women flock
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to the cities because we like to be around people men say f them men can pick it up also can make
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up for it by being really competent and making money even if a guy's socially awkward if he's
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very good at his job people do respect him the biggest problem with socially awkward women is
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their obsession with the negative side of things this obsession leads them not taking risks not
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getting involved and not exposing them to normal trials and tribulations of life risking rejection
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to make friends or avoiding situations with men which is preventing them from having a dating life
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the traits of socially awkward women they overthink everything their constant battle with
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their brain they don't know what to do with themselves in social situations they have their
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own language to themselves they don't understand social cues they can't stand silence they ghost
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friends families and partners when social situations get overwhelming no middle ground
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when it comes to behavior behaviors either extreme or nothing don't know how to flirt physical
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clumsiness complain about photos all the time um the biggest problem with socially awkward women
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is their obsession with the negative side of things this obsession leads to them not taking
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risk risks not getting involved and never exposing themselves to the normal trials and tribulations
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of life um avoiding making friends and situations with men we're going to look at a interaction
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between kevin samuels and a socially awkward woman
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what's what's the issue you have okay so um i met a guy on tinder um in january and
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and every week we would go we would meet once a week and we would just go out to a park um get
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food and then um fool around a bit uh like but there was no sex no sex well i'm a very conservative
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person okay okay so this woman here on the right you see the like potential like she could be a six
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but she's got you're gonna see she's got like zero social skills now i know they're roasting
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me in the chat they're like pearl pearl pearl you're socially awkward yes yes i'm a quirky lady
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you know but i i'm talking about a different class i'm talking about women that can't
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hold the conversation they can't yeah we'll keep going okay i'm just i'm just being clear
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i'm just being clear yeah so i told him that i want to take it slow i want to build a good
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emotional connection with me first um before i go there and he's not used to that he's used to
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you know okay so you met him in january yes correct okay so what's the issue um so um he told
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me that he would wait for me because he really liked me and all that and then um our last date
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was on valentine's and we did the same kind of dates we did in january which is going um and you
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haven't heard from him since um no he's just been very distant because how old is he he's 30. how
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do you i'm 27. uh uh how are you how do you anticipate having him wait sorry how long do
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do you anticipate having him wait um well actually he broke up with me to see a text message on
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friday okay so i reached out to him right but you okay yeah okay like how long we gotta we gotta
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think about the male point of view this is where the trad cons they really miss it how long is a
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man gonna wait for a woman so let's say she's competing she's like a five let's say she's
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competing for a seven now this guy that's a seven he has the option of dating like fives and sixes
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let's say or maybe it's like a strong he's a 7.5 she's gonna go two points higher
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now a man that's a five might wait but he's not um
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she's not going for him like she's going for a like a seven ish guy is he gonna wait longer
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than like a couple weeks a month for this no she's got a gluck gluck five thousand you know
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what i mean you know what i mean like this isn't gonna i you know um even if she's like more
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innocent and more pure it's just not gonna work he he would wait for a margot robbie
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do you know what i mean he's gonna wait for that he's like take your time sweetheart
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how long do you need three months i will steve harvey a baby but like
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is really important for women this is where we shoot ourselves in the foot because
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you know a woman that looks like we go back to here oh wait not that we go back to here a woman
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that looks like this might give us a dating advice on the internet but that's not your position
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well if you want to get dating advice and I'm not even you know we want to look for the women
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on the right that are dating the Brad Pitts and we're like how the fuck did you pull that off
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you know the women that everyone's like how the hell and usually the answer is she got him young
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you know that's but like let me go back to this tinder girl okay okay so the situation is what
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you want him back i want to maintain a good friendship with him you weren't friends
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you weren't friends you've known this guy for a month you're you're putting all kind of
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importance on somebody that she met in january but i just feel like we have a good connection
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right someone said she should have got her guy in college yes guys should have yes but this isn't
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shoulda this is what is she's here it's time to learn this is where call her daddy gives better
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dating advice than traditional conservatives she's aged out of purity like she could have played the
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purity card like the weight for me i mean you guys might have waited for her 22 you know you
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could have bought that but at 27 i mean like you guys when when i say like a 27 year old virgin you
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guys are always thinking of hot women they're not hot like they're not hot because they would have
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had a guy that was a brad pitt looking guy that would have i mean he might have smashed and like
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you know bounce but they would have had to take it well that's what you feel he did he wanted
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okay if you feel like you have a good connection then why don't you want to take it to the physical
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level why i why i didn't why didn't you yes because um i want to take things slow well
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see that's the thing it's all about what you want see how selfish this is i want to take it slow
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i want you to be on my terms according to my thing and then when he breaks it off you still
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want something that's not there it's very selfish how about if he leaves me after all right well
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then see that's the thing so the socially awkward women the fear of getting pumped and dumped
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overrides like the benefit of a relationship like what you could get but like the fear is
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too strong she's like well what if what if he leaves what if he leaves what if he might leave
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what he might leave after you've been together for a year i mean
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the the guys that are like oh if a woman makes me wait she's more pure
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are kind of idiots like i mean they got bamboozled by whoever they were dating
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you know that girl read like steve harvey's three-month rule and he fell for it but women
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we don't like suckers so this is why i say some women that are like virgins at old age
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they're better just giving it up and the conservatives they'll they'll crucify me
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for it but i'm sorry this woman is not gonna get married unless she starts putting out
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otherwise she's gonna die alone like that's just gonna be it then buy a cat
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buy a dog and die alone relationship exactly so risks i don't know what you ladies expect
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you want guarantees what if you don't like him and you break his heart do you expect
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him to just be all right with that right i i wouldn't doesn't matter no of course because
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you know because women are always the innocent ones but at a 52 divorce rate
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this is what i would tell her okay first you got to switch your whole outfits
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if i were her i would buy boobs look i don't think every woman needs to buy boobs
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her i think it would help her a lot and then listen to some caller daddy
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listen to some caller daddy and you got to start putting out and if i were you this is what i would
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tell her and this isn't like nice advice this but this is what i would say look okay pearl that's
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bad advice okay go seduce a man let me know how that works for you now that's what i would say
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look we got to figure out what your league is for men you might get pumped or dumped you might go
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out of your league but you gotta you gotta start somewhere 70 to 80 of breakups are initiated by
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women ma'am the man said he liked you i give them about a month and if things aren't moving forward
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i'm out look i'm not saying you got to do it first date but like over a certain age what
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the are we waiting for like it's are we i mean okay you wait three months what if the sex is
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terrible and you don't and you realize you don't even like him i mean we're we're grown we're not
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we're not 22 this is we're adults yeah and he and he dated you for a month yeah how long before you
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were intending to have sex with him he's 30 years old he's not a virgin ballpark it for me
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maybe two months in did you tell him that no i told him i had bad experiences with men in the
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well exactly go and so her bad experience is again going shooting too high because
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look the the brad pit got like the eights the eights don't they care about purity but not in
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the way like players do care about purity they don't want a girl that's had sex with
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any of their friends or whatever but they don't value it in the same way that the um
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i don't know the relationship guys do or i don't i don't know how to say it like the the guys that
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can't get a lot of women do um because the guys that have like been around know like they've
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hooked up with a girl that's like a virgin or damn near and it wasn't really all that they thought
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like they realized that being likable as a person is way more important being a pleasant person to
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be around is a more important thing and so if you're kind of like if you don't have any experience
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conversating with men you're gonna be really annoying like it's just not it's a skill you know
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um which usually women like learned because they married young but like now the sexes are they're
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so far apart like the men are going one way the women are going another they don't even really
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interact like like we used to ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding making a man in your present
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pay for stuff in your past equals no future yeah and you guys are like pearl pearl tell her to wait
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yeah okay let's see how that she's waiting how did that turn out for her
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but it is part of my no problem no it's just it's like a trauma right so okay
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do respect your problem the world doesn't owe you and me understanding
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come out put your big girl panties on and grow up please tell me your address if she was a virgin
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I'd wait let me see the roster of women that you've hooked up with let me see them let me
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how many how many women have you hooked up with in the last six months let me let me see send me
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pictures let me see I've seen your trauma with a professional therapist
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exactly the world doesn't know the world doesn't owe you understanding
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this is what i mean modern women have been painted into you want to be modern women
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with all the freedoms and everything else then freedom comes with responsibility
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accountability and consequences you're 27 years old you want a person who's not married to you
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to understand your traumas that you're doing nothing about, no thank you. That's a fully
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formed man who has a life to live. Listen, that is a fully formed man who has a responsibility
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to live his life. You may be a perfectly lovely woman. And honestly, the cool thing would have
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been to say, I think you're nice. And when you get your shit together, I love to date you if
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I'm single. But until then, I'll keep it moving. But that's not where most people are. It's all
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most men don't want to deal with women who have issues.
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Rob says, women get hit on so much more often,
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I mean you have to like it takes work to build a social life and most women it's like after
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college there's a class of women it just drops off I rebuke would you mean me no but would you
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how about if he leaves me after I do it because I don't know if what do you mean if he lose you
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what do you what do you mean if he lose you after you do what after we get intimate okay are you a
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virgin no okay well then i've had that done in the past before i'm sorry man well okay well then
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all these look every woman is gonna take an l at some point
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you know there's women that date men for like five years hoping to get a ring and they get
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dumped out of the blue she says you know what i want younger and hotter
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thanks for the youth sorry lady it's called an L men take us all the time I mean how many of you
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guys are on child support or alimony and some of you guys go the MGTOW way and but a lot of men
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date again they say F it I want to do it all over again men don't give like excuses I mean if
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anything like in my experience divorced guys are great to date like if i would tell young women to
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go for the you gotta go for the divorced guy who's not bitter like he can't he can't be on like
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exorbitant amounts of child support because he's just gonna hate his life but like usually men
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kind of learn from their mistakes so they can hold frame like better in their next relationship
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they become like they go through tribulation like they become better men um over time there
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was a girl that messaged me and she was infertile right and she asked me advice because she was like
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who's gonna date me um because I can't have any more kids and I'm like that's like a that's a
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there's a lot of divorced dads that'll take a 22 year old that can't have kids you know like that's
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a um but if the divorce was too bad um he's just never gonna get married or like um have kids
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again so if that's in the cards for you you gotta like you know you gotta move on but
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you know she this is why i say like the traditional conservative advice i have seen like 10 women that
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look just like her that are either old virgins or they've had sex with like two men in like these
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non-denominational churches and i'm telling you they just get old socially awkward and have no life
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um and it doesn't end well for them like at that point you might as well just be a whore
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um you might like at least the whores are going for it like do you know what i mean at least the
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whores are like like in my opinion a porn star would be more likely to get a husband than her
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because a porn star is in the game right you know like nala just got wifed like nala will get wifed
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before this woman because nala said you know what i know what men like let me get half naked and
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learn to suck dick and boom she's married do you know what i mean riley reedy this is the
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uncomfortable truth. Like, look at, you don't, yeah, no, I know they damaged themselves. Look
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at, but my point is the woman here, she's not going to get into the game and have met women
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like this. And they're like 45 years old. They've had like, I don't know, like two bodies or like
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two relationships. The conservatives will lie to you because they want a virtue signal like this
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doesn't make me look good telling you this right this doesn't but i'm just being honest here like
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at least the whores are going for it and here's the thing very reasonable but if you're dating
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but if a guy is with you here's the thing which you ladies need to understand if a man just wants
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to hit and quit he's gonna leave if you want to if you want to there's no guarantees man
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i'm sorry you could leave him after having sex too what do you want you don't want to get hurt
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i get it no one does this is why you buy a dog or a cat and a battery operated friend
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and don't deal with men or you put on your big girl panties and get out here and play in the game
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if i approach him now and man he's done with you okay if you approach him you've
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my personal opinion you burn that bridge okay because why would you approach him now and say
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you know what that sex i didn't want to give you if you come back i'll give it to you no thank you
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because he said he would wait for me and well he doesn't know you okay okay and he said he'd
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wait for you so what you're not married why does this man owe you anything ma'am no he doesn't
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but i'm just i want to still maintain contact with him i want to maintain a friendship at least
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so how do you maintain contact with somebody who doesn't want contact with you
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ma'am i'm gonna be honest ma'am you need therapy and this is not a bad thing but do you think he'll
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come back around or no yeah and see the thing is the socially awkward women
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it's gonna mean way more to her than it does to him right so like every interaction they have
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because she just hasn't had a lot of experience and you may think that's a good thing but the
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problem is they're very controlling right because they can't take things not working out and it puts
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way too much pressure on the guy because like you know this is why sometimes guys don't really want
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take a girl's virginity some of you are in the chat and you're like oh no we all do we all look
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some men like they don't want that pressure because they don't know her yet and they're like well
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i don't know if this is going to work out or not and i don't want to be that guy
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to like let her down because these expectations are way too high um yeah
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okay listen listen listen listen okay you may be a lovely woman but this reeks of kind of
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desperation it's unattractive you're 27 years old and you're going through life guarded trying to
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protect yourself against hurt because of past traumas then you don't need to be out here
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amongst healthy people dating you're damaged also if you guys want your comment read go to
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audacitynetwork.com we're also on the app store if you type in the audacitynetwork.com it's my free
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speech network um at some point if we get enough members i want to sign other like um talents and
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have like shows that we cast and stuff but um you get unlimited super chats you get a yearly
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membership it sponsors the show so if we get one show sponsorship um one yearly membership
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a show then you know our costs are covered for the year that's okay but deal with your damage
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if you had a car what state do you live in i canada huh canada canada uh do you have a vehicle yeah
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do you have to have a vehicle that passes in any sort of any sort of inspection to have it on the
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road yes right and if it doesn't pass that inspection you're not supposed to drive it right
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yeah because it's a danger to others yeah you're out here with and you're not passing inspection
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you're a danger to others because you got to go where you got to go damn everybody else
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after a month i don't know ma'am he could have been okay ma'am how about this he could have
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the perfect guy for you but you're not ready so he would meet me no see that's that's that
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no no no absolutely not that's the disney fantasy that you ladies have been sold
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that this is the perfect guy who's healthy and ready to go will wait for you a woman who's not
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doing anything about her existing traumas to figure her out absolutely not because if we
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switched that situation and said you are a perfectly healthy woman marriage-minded looking
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to find a husband to go make some babies and you ran into a guy who has his traumas and everything
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else any woman would say you'd be a fool to wait for him to get his stuff together anybody would
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say that you shouldn't have been talking but one emotionally bond i don't give a damn ma'am you
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I just don't think I know a person fully to trust them.
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Because you're not doing anything about your issues.
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I understand your issue, but you're not doing anything about your trust issues.
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oh and okay and i got a i got a real simple question for you ready ready yeah how's that
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working for you it's hard to find men that will wait for me because you deserve
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and the tradcon's the leader to destruction and take her money for a lifetime
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and lead her to be like a 40-year-old with two bodies they're gonna crucify me for this
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swear to god don't you guys clip this i'm gonna be annoyed because then this is what they'll do
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they'll take it and just virtue signal pearl pearl pearl i thought you said you hate degeneracy i'm
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look. Purity is a young woman's game. At 22, you can marry as a virgin. At 27, unless you're a
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unicorn and you're an eight or higher, it's going to be pretty difficult to pull that off. It's a
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young woman's game. There is no virtue in purity when you're old and they want to lie to you and
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say that there is but when you're old the men one they're gonna assume you've done something so
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let's say you're a 28 year old virgin and you really are a virgin men aren't stupid they're
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gonna assume you've gluck gluck somebody you've taken it from the back you've done something
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they're really not gonna they're not gonna buy it okay they're not dumb we've had too many women lie
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men are going to assume if a certain amount of time has passed you're fucking somebody
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or you've done something even if you haven't and the men that don't think that do you know
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what they're going to do they're suckers because they just don't have a lot of experience with
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women and the relationship will fail anyway work wait for a damaged woman who's not said pearl
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you're hating on virgins i'm not hating on virgins i'm not i think it's a great thing i really do if
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you get married young i think that's the ideal situation as a woman that's what you want to do
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you want to wait you want to have sex with one guy for your entire life but that has an expiration
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date and i'm being generous by 25 because women graduate high school with like five bodies these
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days so not working through her traumas i i don't i don't think that i'm damaged okay ma'am the
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woman okay ma'am you just said i've been hurt by men before and i have traumas that's damage
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you got a car it's been an accident and it would not pass inspection but he said he understood
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all right you keep talking like you can talk or rationalize your way through it he left you
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period see this is what i mean ladies do not deal with reality well
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this is why men have to deal with rejection often but when you ladies get rejected or left
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it's like the world is supposed to look man he dated you he gave you an opportunity yeah t carp
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says i've seen when these women get married they cling to their virginity as their identity and
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will never be sexual at all yeah guys you know this is why the i hate saying it because um
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it's like you look at the data and you think it's like a simple two virgins they they last the
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longest but you know you start to look into this stuff and a lot of it's kind of funneled by like
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religious propaganda the the challenge you get in a lot of churches is they worship women and it's
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not really patriarchal if a woman waits and she's in a patriarchal structure that you know then she's
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set up for success right but how many women are raised to be wives most men have to coach their
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wives into being likable right the challenge you get in churches is they're so used to virtue
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signaling their virginity like how many virgins can keep their virginity for their husband to
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not tell anyone and not make it this whole show and spectacle um they have their egos too invested
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into it um and it becomes more of like a way for them to be worshipped rather than like a gift for
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their husbands. And if they're learning to weaponize sex to get what they want before
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the marriage, a lot of times they're going to do it after. I hate to say it because in
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a patriarchal way, it's better if a woman waits and it's the man's idea. If you're going to
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go that route, it's better. And what man's going to have that idea, right? He's like,
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we'll just tell everyone at the wedding we waited you know he wanted to have i feel bad that i
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unknowingly had sex with a virgin i was 19 and she who's 17 i wish it wasn't me well it is what
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it is you guys i'm sure you've taken an l with women we got to do it too have sex you didn't
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want to jump into bed he didn't he dated you for a month and some change and then decided you know
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what i don't want to keep doing this that's his right if you decide to leave you can do it too
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he doesn't owe you anything you're not married you've known him for a month
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and now you're gonna make him well you said you would do such and so forth you sound crazy
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but you do think that he's a coward for breaking up with me via text message
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instead of trying to talk no no if this conversation is any indication i retract that i think it was
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smart if this conversation is any indication i think he should have got away from you this
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as cleanly as possible but i've not been rude to him at all i've i'm being oh my god
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you just went right past that just because you're soft-spoken
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does not change the fact that you would not accept he doesn't want to be there
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yeah because i don't know if she's in it for me or in it for my body well it doesn't matter
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anymore now does it your body's not good enough to you know getting used once or twice isn't
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going to kill this woman if anything it'll kill her ego a little bit so she can be a little bit
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more ready this this is the raw honest truth the trads aren't gonna tell you that's why i prefer
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you know my show's died down a little bit and i kind of prefer it this way guys because
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i don't need to be clipped every other show taking my ideas out of context it's too much
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i mean they could do a whole parade off of this show just virtue signaling
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i'll make you famous doesn't matter anymore now does it because ma'am do respect your body is
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not virgin so you ladies are playing these fast and loose games with i don't know why you're here
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so what do you need a man to have a commitment monogamous what needs to happen before you
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decide to have sex do you guys need to be boyfriend and girlfriend
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in well i just need to know him on a better level like i need to feel comfortable myself he didn't
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want that can he make the choice is he free is he free to make the choice just like you are
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yeah then accept his choice just like he'd have to accept yours
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okay i mean seriously yeah i mean it's like you keep pushing and that's why i said ma'am
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this is not this counseling is a good idea because your self-esteem this reeks of kind of
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desperation like like a guy you met in january on tinder it ain't like he was referred to you
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by your pastor or by your mother it was just you swipe left or swipe right or whatever
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you got here and you're putting all this emotional attachment into somebody
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who you only known for less than a month men want sex so for all of us christians which i am paul
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told us if we can't control ourselves and get married we can have sex the right way yeah good
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luck the state will just ruin your life but yeah let's try that two really unhealthy man
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there are all kind of things i could really kind of pull out but i think you need to sit down with
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the therapist because you're far too invested in a swipe right okay so there there's you know
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tcap paul understands that men want sex and they get married so they can have it
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okay so that's what's out there this is an archetype of women that a lot of men are
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encountering especially on the dating apps in my experience there's two types of socially
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awkward women the ones who talk too much and the ones that talk too little socially awkward women
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that talk too much i have an example on tiktok so again this is i would put her in like five six
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category um like i'd put low six for her you know what i mean like the last girl she she's like
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lower this girl's like low six in like the like the quiet in a corner awkward i'm like that doesn't
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stop talking about nonsense awkward like you'll be you'll be sitting there and i'll feel like i
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have to say something so i'll kind of give you like uh i'll give you like a little reenactment
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of a conversation with me. So do you like cheese? I like cheese. I like cheddar. No, I don't know.
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I don't know. Cheddar is, I mean, like, provolone is my favorite, but, like, I don't really know.
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How's the weather? Is it good? I like weather. Do you like weather? Weather. So what's your
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favorite holiday? Mine's Christmas. Oh, you like, you like Easter? I love, I love Easter. Easter's
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great. Yeah, no, I mean, my family. Did your family celebrate it? My family, Halloween's cool.
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I like Halloween. I'm like, I like scary movies. Do you like scary movies? I get scared. I don't
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know do you have any siblings i have i have i have a sister you have a sister oh cool cool yeah yeah
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i mean do you guys get along how's your relationship yeah so they said five six sloppy seven no this is
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not a seven guys you got freaking a god download your dating apps and get laid or something i know
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i talk about on the show how hard it is i'm sure it is but maybe start going for the fat chicks or
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something like someone's got to do it but i can't take these like over ratings anymore
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yeah i know five no i mean she's still cute like most men would but like okay is a guy gonna drive
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a guy that has some options gonna drive like three hours to smash not really not for this you know um
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um she's like I put her six like low six because she's young you know she looks under 25 so
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I know I mean she'll be a four in like a decade but right now I mean she's thin
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low six strong five the last woman I would have put as a five
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i mean at least now we're being a little but now now we're going too far the other way
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let me see your rosters let me see them seriously email them to me show me the women you're sleeping
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with you can blur out their faces i won't show them on screen but if we're if you're
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going to give ratings i need to see what you're dealing with here
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pearl you're a five i know i know it's like you guys say this it's like i have to do thumbnails
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relationship with your mother oh mine's okay yeah mine's really good me my dad
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so as you can see um i don't know yeah and see do you see the arguing in the chat so they say a
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seven i'm a seven to a 6.5 this is called types right this is what i said it varies by like a
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point and a half right so let's let's give me a 5.5 today well you know if some guys into redheads
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with green eyes a seven's kind of generous like a sick you know but i'm being objective here
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you know we are in america so remember like a woman like her is still going to be the hottest
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woman in most bars in america but that's just because the league is ugly it's not because we're
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that attractive it's because the league has gotten so bad it's like half of american women are fat
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but it just now it just means there's like a ton like half of women are below fives right
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you know pearl is two beers i know for some of you i am it's totally fine
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but i just i like to be yeah he says yes redheads with green eyes yeah i mean
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you know some men like you know the highest i'll get is a strong set like men that are being nice
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they'll say a seven but it's because it's like if the guy is um like his thing is like tall redheads
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like then they're very into me because that's like their thing and we're such a rare like
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archetype do you know what i mean it's like blonde hair blue eyes like that's a rare archetype so the
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men that are into that if they if their thing is like six foot blondes and they find one it's like
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wow amazing yeah so i'm objective here okay i worked in media i have to rate these things
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um the hottest woman that conservative medias look at if i was an eight i'd have eight results
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i'd be in la or something like they would have recruited me to come there by now
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it's i it's shocking but i never got those calls i never got those calls so but you know what when
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an eight gets into conservative media she's like immediately worshipped so like
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brett cooper i put week seven like six seven tommy lauren that was like the hottest thing
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conservative media had for a while i mean she's she's like a low eight but like she wouldn't
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really make it in hollywood like tommy lauren's like seven eight but again because we're so fat
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she's like inflated to a nine in america i don't make the rules how to just like sit there in
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silence with someone i don't really know jack says that i'm not socially awkward i'm just super
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outgoing however i don't know because sometimes there's moments you know like when you get that
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moment in your head and you say something and it was just weird and you were like that was freaking
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awkward and then you're like you're like wishing you could take it back but you can't because you
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said it and and they've moved on probably but you haven't moved on from it yet and then you're just
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kind of sitting there like i guess my point in this is can anyone else relate to me they're like
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they're they're the socially awkward where they don't stop talking and so it's not that you you
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know you're too afraid to talk it's that you're too afraid to not talk does anyone someone said
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personality adds or subtracts two points that to me tells me you need to start banging somebody
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maybe in like long term okay sure but it's like it doesn't add or subtract two points it's just
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like a six with a good personality it doesn't make the six and eight because the eight like
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the six isn't getting recruited to hollywood for her personality the reason eights belong to the
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streets forever eights and ups it's not because they're like sluttier like this girl is gonna
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have banged more dudes than probably an eight plus the reason eight pluses belong to the streets is
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because they've been worshipped their whole life they don't have to do anything um there's the
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occasional one with like a good dad but nowadays that's like few and far between so men you know
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they tend to marry mids because mids you know they had to have been humble right i mean she's
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been passed before at least once or twice she talks too much right like mids you know they're
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at some point they're rejected eights really aren't they they pretty much have the power in
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all relationships till they're like 35. so they're gonna like go find something better because they
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probably can you know um but if this girl dates an eight i mean or even a strong seven guy she's
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not going to do better do you want to understand that if you can relate let me know and okay she's
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an adjustable four fine totally fine look i mean she's a mid right i mean look at the the fours i
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can i don't think she's fat enough to be a four to me so to me she's a five six but you know whatever
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let me know if if you found a way to cope with it because i'm still trying to find a way to like
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fix myself with this yeah okay so there's another one then there's socially awkward women that talk
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too little so it's like because i'm interested you bring them somewhere and they just say nothing the
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whole part it and a little bit socially awkward it doesn't mean that i'm weird or unusual that
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i mean i am now where would i put her let's see if you guys can guess
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I'd put her seven I'd put her like if she's like done up she can get invited to the parties
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and stuff but like I'd put I'd put her like she's not gonna be a beautiful like a Margot Robbie
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Megan Fox yeah seven seven six yeah you can you guys see but the variance isn't too crazy right
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it's like a point and a half based on you guys's taste maybe you like redheads maybe like big booty
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latinas maybe black women maybe mixed women are your type i don't know which i don't know what
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seven six like that's kind of the range i'd put her in seven six although here she looks less
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attractive in this one but just off the glance um but it's not related it's a separate issue of its
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own okay so she's talking about she doesn't talk all right mario's four let me see the woman you're
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banging let me see email them swear to god she's not a four okay how does social awkwardness
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manifest itself in the dating market understand that this is a this is a this is a four four or
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five very unlike conventionally pretty face but she's young right and um
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she looks thin so i'd probably give her a five you know four or five
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the people that are benefiting from hinge are not like the actually attractive people on there
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if you've ever thought something like oh no three is the fat woman she's not fat
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why am i getting these crazies on hinge that i would never encounter in real life
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that's who's benefiting the crazies the people who stand to benefit from hinge don't go outside
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and might be kind of off-putting in person but they have some good photos of themselves okay
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the baddies are like questioning if they're actually even attractive because of um who they
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get in their likes and the people who mass send out likes and hopes that someone will match them
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also aren't winning because they're still not getting any matches thanks to hinge like i get
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get these opportunities like if you saw me out there in person like you wouldn't be hitting on
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me because like I'm just in my software engineering fit I'm not just saying this I know this for a
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fact because I've been like told by multiple people that I am like these three things that
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I am awkward off-putting clinical I am hinge's target demographic yeah so this is what she's
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saying she's like the men I match with on dating apps I would never get in real life like on hinge
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you can't really tell you know I just seem like a normal person some of the people I'd be talking
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to i'm like wow you would not fuck with me if we met off this app and like it's awesome anyway
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to the friends who enjoy photography and have a digital camera thank you thank you so much
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you're caring you're honestly see the other one
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let's go through my yeah so remember that you saw what she looked like in real life
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now you see how she is on the hands can we turn it up a little bit
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number one because i can't really hear let's go through my hinge profile because to be honest with
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you i think going through people's hinge profiles is so fun and swapping for them too real life
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like four or five ways of life on hinge number one we have this picture
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see she can go up like a point and a half by getting a little more naked that's what the
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mids got to do they either got to sell purity or get more naked it's those two strategies
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she in this one she's getting more naked she puts on some makeup now she's in adjustable
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she's like a 5.5 to 6 if you're into asians maybe 6.5 in this picture um i think it's low-key like
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catfishing and it's a selfie i don't even think it's that good of a photo uh because like of the
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lighting but that's also why i like my skin looks so good and like i did turn on the setting where
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they test your first photos and they like keep which one is like the most popular and this has
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stayed the first photo so this is my second photo it was next to the
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yeah you gotta put some legs out there and I think this is very me it's in
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Hawaii and I'm just like in a swimsuit eating a hot pocket I really like that
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swimsuit it's like one of those dear my love like the Japanese olita swimsuits
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but I do feel like if you can't tell that it's a swimsuit you're kind of like
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what the fuck am I wearing in the photo other than being funny though it wasn't
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a very high quality picture so I replaced it with like this coffee shop
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one number three I feel like this one is more representative of how like I would
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rolling up to our date and it's a good picture that's why it's number three although it's probably
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like the oldest photo i have on there but you see her social awkwardness brings her down like a
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little bit this is like the guess where i am prompt because this is in mount tam which i think is
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beautiful and like if you're in the bay area you probably recognize it but i was wrong no one
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recognized it this one i also feel is pretty representative of me like those are my favorite
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jeans and uh you probably need to include a full body shot at some point i'm also not wearing
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makeup in this one so yeah what you see is what you get very much the opposite of the last photo
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this is literally me in 2b cosplay but i feel like this is rather not representative of who i am
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because um i've never played near solid five that's what i'm saying she's a five i just thrifted
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but could she get an eight let's think about this pragmatically could she get a strong seven to eight
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guy i mean she plays her cards right she's got to bang him fast like there's no way
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i mean like if her strategy was to wait it out and sell purity that's just
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not it's really just not gonna work for her because she's not hot enough
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simple as but like if she was really good in bed and was really fun to be around
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and she could pull it off i know you guys are saying she couldn't she couldn't she couldn't
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look men are kind of pragmatic where it's like if a woman's been a lot around for long enough
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and she's like above their minimum standard and it's too much work to go replace her they're just
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like eh i'll take it good enough she could be a seven she could be man out of seven she doesn't
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have some potential maybe with like again maybe you guys disagree and but this is the thing men
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they'll kind of cap because they'll say like women we like natural women and it's because
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men don't like being fooled right and I totally get that you guys don't want to have kids with
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someone and have these like big ass you know knocker noses but you know I've seen nose jobs
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change women's face and if I'm going to go with what works I wouldn't I don't want to really
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recommend like facial plastic surgery but i do think if she bought a giant pair of tits it'd bring
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her up a point uh look she looks flat i know uh look and i would say her results because again
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it starts with the eyeballs right you you got to get the men's eyeballs on you and if she's flat
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is a boy like I don't know if she's got a back but if she doesn't like I would go buy boobs I would
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I know no no no look they've done these studies if you pull men and ask them what do you prefer
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no boobs or fake boobs they all say no boobs and I know you guys think that's what you like the
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same way we think that's like we like the nice guys you know we think that however they've done
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studies where they show men two pictures and when they see the pictures what do they point to
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the giant knockers when did pamela anderson get on the cover she said i didn't get on the cover
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of playboy when i had normal boobs when i went and got my fake boobs i went on the cover
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and that's a magazine that focused on what men respond to now i know but you're like but that's
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not wifey that's not look you guys don't go out looking for wives you go out looking for hoes and
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you bring someone home and eventually she stays around long enough and boom you're married
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unless you're a super simp out there but that's usually how it goes the men are like
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I want a hot piece of ass I'll take that one big tits and then boom they start hooking up and then
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boom he's like oh she's kind of nice okay I'll keep her around that's kind of how it goes it's
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not like men go in and they're like you know occasionally when a guy's older and maybe he's
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worked a lot and he's like had a lot of sex and like he's on a mission he wants a wife in the
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next like two years i i have seen guys like that and sure maybe but still they're they're still
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gonna go for the hot piece of ass first um and you guys that want to lie
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i'm not gonna virtue signal here yeah that's why relationships pearl needs to hang out in
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i do live in the i've interviewed a thousand people i would see who people hooked up with
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after the shows i would see what you guys click on guys with boobs it's like google got like
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real pearl you're wrong real men want knockers i mean i'm sure your first choice is real ones
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and i'm not saying like if a woman's at a solid c cup she doesn't need to get fake tits you know
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like she can still pull like purity but i'm saying if a woman's a five it might be time to go get
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some this like black dress that was similar and like it happened to be halloween this would cause
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people to assume that i'm a weeb and i go to cons but i've been to a con like once in my life and i
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think most anime is trash even outside of hinge though like when i'm meeting people for the first
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time they assume that i'm a weeb and if i'm wearing j fashion or something i understand but
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if i'm just like wearing my software engineer fits like what okay prompts uh in my opinion my
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prompts are all very generic and don't really say that much but photos are more important anyway
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this one is actually quite important because um usually people ask me like which webtoons i draw
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and then like they go look at it when i share with them and then like from that you get a much
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better idea of my sense of humor and stuff plus if we both read the same webtoons that's a really
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good starting point and then we have this this is very important and i'm not getting rid of it
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like the having kids field at the beginning i put not sure because like there i can see like a few
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circumstances where like i might be okay with it circumstances like you're a billionaire you're
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gonna hire a nanny i never have to see it etc wow like i'm leaning no and i really need to
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get that across wow what a anyway okay okay um most sexually oh my gosh most socially awkward
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women are single for years and unable to find a relationship and they'll go years and years
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without sex and the reason they go years and years without sex is because you'll hear them
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say they never find men they like which is true but remember like this woman here will find a man
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that she likes pretty often because she's hot enough to this woman you know like what was
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sheldon like a six seven he's like a tall scientist let's put six you know she's a four
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that makes sense right but that's you know how often like the the brad pitts and the this guy
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only have so much free time right they can't everybody and you know the men that look like
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oh wait hold on the men that look like this you know i know men with like
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five girl rotations girl number five is getting seen like every other month like twice a month
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maybe every other month if she's not sleeping with anyone else that's her life so that's all
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the social skills she's like getting um anyways let me go back
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but anyways my main point is that um socially awkward women put their fears in front of
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getting what they want and I want to do a call-in show so we're gonna put the link in the chat I'm
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gonna read this article while I'm waiting but we're gonna put the link in the chat and I want
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guys to tell me if you've dated socially awkward women um what you know what your experience was
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like with them do you think i'm right wrong i just kind of want to hear you guys's stories you can
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stay off camera but i need to see that you're a person i don't want to get flashed i don't want
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any weird stuff my rules are please be respectful please get to the point i really hate cutting
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people off it's just not my personality so if you could just get to your point um if you have a
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stories of like um guys that have run a rotation and be interesting to have you on and like if any
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of these women were in your rotation would they see anyone else how often would you see them um
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if you've dated women like this like what were the biggest challenges um
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like what what was you know the hardest about dating women like that
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and try to be specific like which one did you date the one that talks too much too little
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give me age of them looks level etc okay socially awkward women get obsessed and it weirds you out
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says leo okay how tolerant are americans of awkward situations um awkward silences clog
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toilets and gossipy text messages mistakenly to the wrong person everyone encounters embarrassing
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or awkward situations yet there's a great deal of variation in how people respond to them
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how americans cope with awkwardness with situations they find awkward um whether people
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personally consider themselves to be an awkward person everyone has embarrassing moments but some
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people encounter or enable them more than often one in four americans say they're much more
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awkward than other people, while 41% consider themselves less awkward, and 25% says they're
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an average amount of awkward. Youth appears to foster awkwardness. Young adults, particularly
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under 30, are far more likely than older Americans to consider themselves awkward. Only 11% of people
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65 years and older think they're more awkward than other people. If you look by age 18 to 29,
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25 percent think they're much more awkward 12 percent um or no 12 percent say much more awkward
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somewhat somewhat more awkward is 25 percent 28 is normal um somewhat less awkward 16 percent
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seven percent much less awkward some people know how to cope with awkwardness better than others
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one in three Americans say they're much or somewhat more tolerant of awkward situations
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than other people. Just as many, 34% say they're about as tolerant as others, while 21% believe
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they're less tolerant of others. Americans 65 and older are more likely than younger adults
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to say they're more tolerant than other people. Regardless of whether or not they're tolerant of
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awkward situations. Do Americans enjoy them? The majority dislike or hate being present for
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awkward situations. Well, 15% say they love or like it. Despite Americans 65 and older reporting
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a greater tolerance of awkwardness than younger people, they are less likely to enjoy these
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situations. Only 8% say they love them compared to 21% of people under 30. Three in five Americans
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say they feel anxiety in social situations at least some of the time and only 21 percent say
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they often do 25 percent say they rarely do and eight percent say they never do social anxiety
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appears to wane with age adults under 30 are more than three times as likely as 65 and older to say
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that they experience anxiety in social situations um okay so do we have anyone on the line for the
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call okay cool okay so again now we're gonna go to take callers um let's go to uh jc first
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you don't have to put them off camera to start oh yeah yeah sorry um put them off camera to start
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raising money for the divorce documentary um okay we got brad on the line do you want to be on camera
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brad um oh you're muted you gotta unmute just give me a thumbs up if you're good to be on camera
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to start okay he's good to be on camera but i do need you to unmute
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is that us or them okay hold on oh now i hear him um okay we got
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okay i think the audio is okay now how are you doing brad doing good pearl it's good to see you
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again i hope you're well i hope you're well also um what's your thought on the topic today
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you know what caught your attention um so i know your call-in inquiry was about
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uh if you dated like a socially awkward girl is that correct yeah yes definitely have this one is
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not like the divorce story this one's personal so i definitely have experience with that
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okay so what happened or what give me her age job and like how you met her first
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um so i was doing it i was 22 she was 21 she was one of those call center agents you know
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when people call in for like tech support and stuff okay yeah so she was 21 she was doing the
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call center gig and um i'm sorry does that answer the question yeah so she was 21 and how did you
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meet her? Uh, so I was doing it for Verizon. She was one of the call center people. Um, just kind
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of came over to help her out with something and then little exchange of numbers happen and so on,
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so forth. You know, the rest is history kind of vibe. Yeah. And one to 10, would you rate her?
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my like myself like a five okay like a solid five okay and so what was like what were the
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challenges you had dating her like what like what were the problems that came up
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okay i want to be super careful how i say this because it's going to come across weird right
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but it's almost like you're dating a child it's it's almost like um the concepts are the concepts
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aren't clicking it's almost as if they're not aware of like what's happening it's almost like
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they're kind of in um what do you call that ignorance is bliss vibe where it's just wherever
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you're going wherever you're taking the conversation they follow but they're not
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thinking critically they're not contributing they don't have any like ideas of their own
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um so was she the quiet ones like the ones that don't talk enough um let me think on that one so
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no more of the other one where it's like they talk too much oh okay and could you give me an
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example of like a specific situation yeah i was just about to do that you read on the same wavelength
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for show um so just kind of intimate moments just randomly start giggling and you're like
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well what's so funny and it's the whole i don't know but it's just just can't stop giggling where
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that's kind of where i got that child vibe i'm like well this is like not not the time and place
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to just be laughing about something hysterical um and then i'd be like well what are you laughing
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about and she'd just be thinking about a south park episode she watched when she was like 17
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i'm like why the hell excuse my language yeah are you thinking about south park episode you watched
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forever ago in the middle of this you know like total weird um another example would be
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you're just talking about um i don't know you're talking about politics you're talking about the
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economy groceries being you know out of ridiculously out of out of uh out of pocket
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and then uh they just randomly bring up their obsession with um what was it it was like raves
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and edm music and stuff and it's almost like the con it's basically it's like you're not even
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having a conversation with this person it doesn't matter if you're the person with them or if
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someone else is with them like like their minds their minds somewhere else almost like you you
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could i could be there you could be there and it would make no difference to how this chick would
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talk you know what i'm saying it would just be like off the wall stuff and you're and you're
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like are we even having a conversation like normally there's a back and forth there is i
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say this it makes you think this and then you it's relevant in some way no like there was just
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no relevance to to any of the the thought process the conversation intimacy was the same way it was
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just weird it was just weird and from your perspective what stunted her like development
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mentally was it like a dad she was depending on or like what was the like was there like a guy
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solving all her problems so she never had to grow up like what was the yeah that was it yes yes it
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was definitely um she still lived with her parents um i remember her sister because her sister worked
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there as well her sister said that kind of kind of you know when we're all young we stash like
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oh i had like a bowl of cereal when i was 13 and i stashed it in the room and it like got left in
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there and then mom and dad found it this girl was 21 still doing this stuff because i remember
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talking to the sister and i was like what is with her and she's like oh she she's trying to be
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basically not growing up like she still lives mom and dad she never cleans she stashes dishes in her
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room still um doesn't actually now that i think about it yeah i don't think she had any bills she
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didn't she didn't have a car payment she didn't have a cell phone she didn't have nothing so i
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definitely would say sheltered yeah and did you end up breaking up with her over it
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or like ending it yeah yeah don't judge me chat don't judge me it's all right i mean
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i had to do how long did you date her till you like dumped her oh this is embarrassing like
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i gave i gave it the old college try i gave it like eight months to a year
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okay and then you kind of it was just too much for you
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it just it just one of those things where like i was saying it's like i i felt like
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You know, when you're in a normal relationship, you feel seen, you feel like the person sees you, what you think, how you how your mind works.
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And then there's kind of like a duality there. It just felt like it didn't matter who was the guy.
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It did not. It just felt like another example. Actually, now that you ask that, I remember asking her, like, what is your plans?
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Like, what do you what is your five year plan? Like, what do you want in the future?
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And that's where it kind of clicked in my head.
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Like, okay, yeah, it doesn't matter who the dude is.
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And it kind of like, it kind of insults your ego a little bit.
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Because you're like, oh, you weren't even attracted to me.
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You were just, you just wanted a placeholder, period.
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like what happened to her what's she doing now do you know uh i
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she popped up on uh my people you may know so i was 22 she was 21 i'm 30 now so she'd be 29
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she popped up on my people you may know she was kind of like myself like just white
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midwestern american you know what i mean just plain jane girl now she's got the neck tattoos
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no oh yeah no i'm not even joking and then she was with this dude and i'm talking this and this
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was another one of those like placeholder things she had this dude in the photo and he had like
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one of them ridiculous african um gauges in the ear where it's a big hole with like a droopy ear
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you know i'm talking about yeah um and he just looked like he looked like Groot from uh what's
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that show the marvel show you know Groot the stick yeah Groot mixed with Sid from ice age
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it's the best way to explain what this dude looked like it was is she a single mom or like
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does she have a kid now yes yeah one or two uh i don't know the details but i know that i saw a
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baby and all right go ahead and roast me i did a little bit of stocking guys it is what it is
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who does it we're all we also we got to make sure we're doing better than our exes like come on
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definitely definitely had a kid i would say i mean this ain't even really like matter but
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she definitely put on i would say like a solid 40 pounds so yeah she's leaving dishes in her room
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at 21 like that's not good you know it was it was weird too it was like um
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i don't know it was just it was just weird i just felt didn't ever have like a
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intimate moment that was weird but i just felt dirty nonetheless does that make sense yeah i
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felt like i was like taking advantage of someone and i was like yeah yeah it was it was just a
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weird vibe but um yeah i hope i answered all the questions i hope that makes sense yeah you totally
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did thank you for sharing brad i appreciate it call in any time all right yep no i pre pearl
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before you go i have a question for you sure okay because i know that all the guys are probably
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curious on this why specifically because i hear you say it all the time you say they're always
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trying to destroy my life they're always trying to come after me if you could give me maybe it
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doesn't have to be the reason but what would you say is the number one reason these chicks are
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coming after you because i'm curious like why oh they don't like if you reveal things that are like
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bad about female it's all reputation right like women are fueled by reputation so if you have an
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ex that tried to destroy you ever you probably damaged her reputation to some extent like maybe
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she cheated and like it like ruined the town so it's easier to call you an abuser it's the same
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thing with me it's like if i reveal negative things about female nature then it's easier to
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just like attack me because it's based on reputation like like it ruins the reputation
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of women that's why you get like not all women are like that because if i say look
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ladies you fuck you're fucking somebody like you're 28 you know what i mean you're 29 you're 32
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why are we waiting yeah like they can't get their resources they used to get because they used to
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be able to like pull the men used to literally wait three months all the time like 10 years ago
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that wasn't that abnormal so like oh okay so you're saying that because you're impacting their
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ability to survive yeah they're trying to discredit you by any means necessary is that kind of the
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yeah like nala like if i say hey this woman is not like she's a whore and she's using christians
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as a get out of jail free card that ruins her reputation so it's easier to just like sue me
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so i i saw that too and i've seen all the all those andrew wilson yeah things with nala i'm
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gonna let you get i know i'm sorry i'm getting nothing else here my thing my thing with nala
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that they just i cannot understand this about michael knows and nala is not one not one hard
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press question about like why is your only fan still up why do you still have chats why do you
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still have the subscription like not one not one dude are you serious right now he wants like it
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it's a sympathemic i mean he wants to get paid so you know that's what it is but i gotta move
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on to the next caller i gotta move on to the next caller all right brad appreciate it thank you
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right he was in the show here see there oh all right jc i need your camera on you're not going
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to be on camera okay um are you good to be on camera or no if no okay that's fine you can turn
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off your camera i just needed to make sure you're a real person okay yeah how's it going jc it's
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going so what what's your experience with socially awkward women what are your thoughts on the topic
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uh well as being as i you know i hit 18 like i basically dated nothing but awkward women some
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pretty attractive women but most of them are all awkward in different ways
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um the one a really big one comes to mind was a girl i did when i was 18 and she was 17.
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um she was into photography and she you know had glasses she looked like she looked like one of
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those like old 70s 80s uh uh stereotypical nerdy girls you know got glasses but a little bit big
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nose but huge uh chest you know the the stereotype that was back in that day okay so like a like a
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five six girl yeah yeah yeah yeah and i was i was in uh community college at the time also kind of
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you know working my way into the military um so she wasn't even she wasn't my girlfriend we didn't
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like officially date she was just one of the females i talked to um but like arranging stuff
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with her was awful um even hanging out where she was really quiet so answer that when she was the
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quiet awkward let's say all she if the only thing you could hear talk about is her photography and
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maybe cars she was a car girl so that was awkward um intimacy was you know not almost not as instant
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i don't think we made it past second base if i remember correctly but like it was just awkward
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um she had a overbearing mother so she was like really locked down she was really sheltered yes
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okay to the point um the last i heard from her what when i didn't hear from her i actually met
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her mother um about when i was 25 26 and i think about this today because i turned her down for a
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official relationship because she wanted to date but i wasn't you know i was i was a i i was 18 19
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going around doing whatever so i wasn't really into it but um her mother said she turned 18
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moved out a week later and married some 40 year old dude at 18 like completely just
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up and ran away and hadn't talked to her mother since that day holy crap yeah i felt bad about
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that because i was like well did i if i hadn't rejected her what she had done that like i felt
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bad about it for a while because i was like well did it work out because i'm guessing that was kind
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kind of a while ago now did it work out or no um that was that um I don't know because I haven't
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been able to find her I haven't heard from her because she changed her last name so obviously
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Facebook's different now um she was still married to the guy at 25 when I found her on Facebook she
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she had gotten rid of her glasses she got her she got contacts she got her hair dyed from uh
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from dark brown to like platinum blonde um um doesn't look like she lost weight but she was
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wearing more um like fitting clothing instead of wearing like you know the the you know nerd girl
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t-shirt she was wearing like actual like stuff that hugged her body a little bit more um but
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that was the last i heard about it was five years five years ago but yeah her her mom was distraught
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about it that she just up and left and and hadn't seen her since then and what were some of the
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challenges that came from dating her i think you mentioned maybe there was some other ones too that
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you dated um what are some specific situations that maybe made the relationship difficult
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uh with her it's a i mean intimacy was really odd like she was very hesitant and or and then
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she was really not hesitant like she she wouldn't want to um be intimate when she was hanging out
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with me but like later when i'm going to go do something she'd be texting me stuff like you know
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you know women talk you know they'll talk game but don't back it up when you show up
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yeah that stuff that stuff happened was it like a religious background like do you think it was
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because she felt guilty about the sexual stuff?
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sometimes you get that with the religious girls.
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stepfather and the mother's super overbearing so they're they're always awkward from that
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and i and then you know my now wife but i've dated a bunch of horse girls if i can give
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any advice to men listening avoid horse girls is a pain oh oh that's funny because they're
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very socially awkward they are but they're also aggressive because they're used to riding horses
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And with training horses, they're like, you have to be aggressive.
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They'll, I don't know what the little whip thing they use is.
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So they're more aggressive about their awkwardness.
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It's not like they're going to just be there and be quiet.
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Are there any other situations you remember with the women?
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Outside of sex, but just, like, day-to-day conversation that made it hard to be with them?
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um a lot of them honestly didn't have much interesting to talk about i'm being honest
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i mean we don't really tend to care a lot about what to talk about until we like you like like
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when when it's just a hookup phase we don't care what you want to talk about but once you're like
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dating or you know my wife like i want to have conversations with you and they don't honestly
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have a lot to talk about so it's kind of weird and they'll always if you were a decent level guy
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you know looking ability they'll always come back to you like you know they'll message you i have
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the one a second girl that messaged me a couple months ago i ain't seen her since i was 25 and
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she she's messaging is like yeah i liked you more than anyone even when we dated in college i'm like
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yo this is nine ten years ago like i'm married with kids now yeah she hasn't been able to have
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like more experiences to help her move on i guess right like she couldn't um because i find a lot
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of them their social life kind of drops off after college would you say that's true college and some
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don't even make it that far if i'm being honest yeah yeah well thanks for calling in i'm gonna
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move to the next caller but thank you but yeah i appreciate you telling me your stories guys
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so next on the line we got let me see we had someone in the waiting room didn't we
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okay oh these are my choices mm-hmm I can do Bon Goon
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okay let's see i got to see that you're a person you're not on camera to start
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i'm going to read also the chat on the website which guys we have 14 people in the chat on the
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website. What a day. If you guys have something you want to say, go on the website. I'm going to
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read this really quick before we get to the next caller. I'd rather have a socially awkward woman
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with a good attitude than a 10 who's a nag. Pearl, a 9 is the gal who is stunning. A few people have
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ever seen a 9 in real life. She's beautiful when she speaks or walks. It's as beautiful as she is.
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She's the gal that turns heads everywhere. A 10 is like the Loch Ness monster. She probably exists,
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but most people only hear stories about them if they exist they're squirreled away by their wealthy
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husband unless batshit crazy a four is a gal you see in public and think i hope she can cook
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she can get a husband but she'll need to have reasonable domestic skills and behave well
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a three is a gal you see at walmart and think oh bless her heart poor thing she needs very
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developed domestic skills and look for a husband and accept an exceptional school
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um fazelle says a quiet girl is the god given a true blessing dane the two typically has two
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issues with personal hygiene they usually come with deep intellectual issues she can be
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the best housewife and be single she literally thinks her cats are her kids
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the one is a homeless woman she's missing atomical parts she's morbidly obese anorexic or physically
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handicapped fazelle says pearl is bad for the 304 business t carp says they always come back
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Well, I wouldn't say dated, but I encountered one night.
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was staying at my cousin's house and one of his well one of his uh flatmates was there and flirting
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with me that night okay and uh well she she was flirting with me but then like when we're cracking
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on she was um i don't know she was like punching me i guess you know like when we're um uh when
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we're flirting and then like i didn't think too much of her i thought she was a bit odd and then
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went to bed and uh she just opened the door and to the spare room and jumped into bed with me
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so she was hitting she was hitting you and then she jumped into bed yeah
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i knew somebody's screwing these whales somebody's doing it
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she wasn't a whale she wasn't okay okay what was she one what was she one to ten
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i don't know man uh she was a lot of fun uh she wasn't like the most attractive all right fair
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enough like but uh i need a ranking i need you to be objective you've seen how i rank women where is
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she i'd say about five or six objectively right okay okay fine but like yeah um so then she just
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disappeared virtually straight afterwards you know went back to her room i was like oh right
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until the next morning and she did it again she just came no no talking just just banging huh
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no talking no words it was and then she did it again disappeared went back to her room
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well you know but like she was very socially awkward obviously
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where did she go like what happened to her did she ever get married like how wait
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actually let me start how old was she um i don't know she was i suppose in her late 20s
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the lady away well thanks for calling in bon goon no worries man thanks for saying my name right
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finally all right next on the call we got renegated authority
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do you know how i know you guys lie to me about how hot how hot of like women you date i i know
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how you like because i've seen celebrities rosters and so if i see the guys that like
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the women the nfl players are getting pregnant and their mids a lot of them you're telling me
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yours are so much better get the fuck out of here get out half of american women are overweight
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they're like i would never i would never date a single mother seriously really
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even one that looked like megan fought really she was hot enough you would i've seen i've seen
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greater men than you fold i i have you might think oh i would never i would never do
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i've been around too long i really i've been around too long okay guys like
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i've seen men there's a guy i used to do shows with a lot and that was this thing he was like
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i'll never i'll never wife a whore i'll never wife a whore why does your girlfriend have a sleeve
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she used to bang everybody she was very she's very generous with the pussy you know what i
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mean she's like you get it you get it you get it you get it men men fold a lot
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and i don't i don't really care what you guys say i don't need cap today okay but i do have
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another caller we have renegade authority um please turn on your camera so i can see your
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person you will be off camera to start um if you want to stay on camera i'll show the people um
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most of you would cheat on your wives if it was easy and you didn't think you'd get caught
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if some four you thought had a gluck gluck 9 000 right if this woman that looked
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uh because okay a mid and higher most men are gonna do right that's kind of how i rank it like
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a mid is like men's attraction for well even the brad pits of the world if it's easy they're gonna
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do it right like none of you were saying no to this her this girl's gonna get most of you to cheat
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now i'm not saying you'll settle down with her but like
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i mean if you're at a bar she approached you and you know it's going to be easy and there
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they're saying helna helna shut the fuck up sorry okay shut up i don't believe you
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i don't two beers in she looks good to me i know look i've seen uglier women men do like
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i've seen men better than you do uglier that's all i'm saying pearl is right i know i'm right
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christianity unplugged says beer goggles thank you for being honest thank you thank you t carp
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in the audacity chat says they always come back around when they get lonely let me refresh you
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make sure i'm not missing any i've done worse sober i'm trying to create a i'm trying to create
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a space you know every every mid for the most part unless if you got married before 22 as a mid
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you might never have taken an L because a mid at 22 like like this girl looks around 22 right
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ish like would you guys agree so she gets kind of like points like uh she's a five six she's not a
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five six she's a four but because she's young she almost gets placed in the same category
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um maybe not as ivanka but it's not that far is what i'm saying like the 42 year old seven
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i mean it's not you guys are both gonna do it like here let me go through this
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you're all doing her if it's easy and you could cheat even if you're married you're all doing her
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pretty much if if she made it very easy and you didn't think you'd get caught and no one would
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know you're doing it um you're all doing her um you're all doing her for sure you like would
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cheat and get caught for this one um you'd cheat and get caught for this one it's slow tuesday you
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guys would do it um well now we're into the men so yeah so i mean the only one you guys are not
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doing is this girl on the left which is like the three and lower category that's when you guys are
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like okay i i have standards all right like fours to sevens are the mids that you guys are all gonna
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to do how did Ivanka I mean what would you guys put Ivanka at but I don't know she's 42 I'd say
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when she was younger she was like a seven eight um now I'd put her at like a six seven
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and you know what I know some of you would do the three two the male sex drive is strong if it had
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been long enough and it was easy enough i know a lot of you are gonna do it i'm not proud of that
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right i mean you guys follow me i like to think you're above it but i'm i'm being honest here you
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know i've just been disappointed too many times i really have renegade authority i need camera on
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um mic on i need to see that you're a person i will um we won't put you on camera to start
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however i need to see that you're like real we can take the slideshow down
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because but let me let me see that you're a person
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yeah i'm not seeing your video renegade we're picky in cells shut the fuck up
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guys do you know what i had a guy he was um
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you know i i saw with the end he had a five girl rotation right guy i knew in london
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and I saw what the end of his rotation looked like
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and he was better looking than most of you guys
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like he was good enough to have a five girl rotation
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now I will say body does switch a girl's rating a bit
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he says that's him but he sent the link in the chat or something okay um
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pearl are you in a bad mood today yes i am because i don't like being lied to
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i don't like the i don't like the bs i just want to cut through it i want to cut i want to cut
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through and have an honest conversation what were his finances uh i mean he was pretty well off he
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was like a successful i don't want to say his job because you guys will figure out who it is but
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he he was in a job where he had stat like a little bit of clout so um
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you know but the end of his rotation was not impressive the first three were generally
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impressive but even those guys have slow tuesdays where the gluck gluck 5000 girl gets in there
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who the f is lying someone said i'm lying i know
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no it wasn't elon musk i've never met him elliot said i wouldn't even out even if i was drunk
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charlie says obviously you're not counting religious guys standards guys if anything
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religious guys have worse standards they marry porn stars like not only do they have worse
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standards you guys are known for having do you know what i actually would consider simps or not
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simps leftists men with open relationships more or sorry less of simps than i would consider
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christian men and let me tell you why destiny let his wife get banged out by other dudes
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but he was also having sex with pixie melania pixie's roommate i forgot her name he was having
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sex with like five other girls who's a bigger simp the christian guy who married the porn star
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who's getting cheated on or the leftist who's like look she's gonna cheat anyway i'm just gonna
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cheat back like adam 22 right i mean yeah he married a porn star um and he loaned her out
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to another guy but he made like millions of dollars off of it and also um
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he his wife would bring him women to have sex with so like who's a bigger simp the christian
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guy who married the born-again virgin and never cheated or the leftist who just said you know what
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Yeah, so actually, and I don't want this to be true,
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but the problem is the church puts religious men
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look, you guys, if you don't wait until you're married,
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And they're like, here are these whores in church.
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I mean, the hot 20-year-old Megan Fox isn't going to church.
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so i mean do you know do you know what i'm saying like the
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so because of that um you guys are in like the worst position because your only choice like the
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women in church are whores and they also tell you you can't date outside of the church
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it's like they're basically saying wife up these hoes or go to hell
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and if you watch porn you're a bad guy and if you don't get married you're a bad guy
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and if you date around you're a bad guy so yeah it's definitely worse anyways um i don't think
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the video was working for the renegades so i think we're just gonna what yeah i think we're
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just gonna end the show but yeah charlie you're not gonna you're not gonna convince me with that
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bs i know liberal men and i know conservative men and conservative men love to get bamboozled
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that is like their favorite thing they like are foaming at the mouth dying to get bamboozled
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they're like please trick me please porn stuff fazelle says i'll do a whale at 3 a.m when i'm
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at my post drink max iq level then i'll blame the alcohol thank you for being honest that's all i
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