Pearl - The Curse of Socially Awkward Women (Call-in Show)

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00:02:49.440 today we're going to talk about socially awkward women so you know a lot of times we hear the term

00:02:55.700 incel. And this is sort of a shaming tactic for women to shame men that are not successful

00:03:02.780 sexually. So anytime something goes wrong or bad in society, women have a tendency to

00:03:10.540 blame it on the incels and shame male sexuality. And it's really interesting because women

00:03:16.080 shame men for sleeping around, but they also shame men for not being successful sexually.

00:03:22.560 So I made a PowerPoint to kind of showing what's going on in society when I talk about different types of women.

00:03:30.000 So on a broad category, these are the three types of women that we have in society.

00:03:35.400 So we have the, in the PowerPoint, we have, you know, the beautiful women.

00:03:40.820 So these are women that are eights and up.

00:03:45.000 So like Megan Fox, nobody is going to tell me that you wouldn't in the chat.

00:03:50.240 is there any person that if Megan Fox like who who in the chat is this going to be the hottest

00:03:57.240 woman you ever hooked up with just be honest be honest stop lying to me stop pretend I'm tired of

00:04:04.380 sometimes you guys talk a big game and you're like oh she's mid she's mid let me see let me see

00:04:10.420 let me see the pictures of who you guys have hooked up with Megan Fox is not mid now I know

00:04:16.280 women tend to overestimate female beauty but I'm at a little different of a perspective

00:04:20.900 because I um I did casting and when I did casting for my panel shows when I was in London

00:04:27.720 I had eight girls come in like four or five days a week and I would have to pick which women would

00:04:32.300 get me the most clicks and many times um on the internet men will either under rank well they'll

00:04:38.360 say women are super unattractive or they're over rank and say that mids or 10s and I need you know

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00:06:49.240 back by helping end simping so anyways back to this powerpoint um rob uh is in the chat he says

00:06:59.240 yes this is on elliot it won't because she f'd that kelly guy i don't know kelly is but okay so

00:07:05.960 this is the three general broad categories of women that we have so um this is a mid to the

00:07:13.620 right like most guys would but like a guy that if he hooks up with an eight plus he's really not

00:07:22.100 expecting her to stay he's like i most men are like this is very lucky i don't know how i ended

00:07:28.040 up in this situation but i'll take it the sixes the mids most men are gonna do like i mean none

00:07:37.720 of you in the chat are really gonna turn down this girl like if she's cute she's at the bar

00:07:43.160 you don't have to drive that far over here is what we have i would put her at a three and below

00:07:49.480 this is like a slow tuesdays the mids i have four categories for so roughly i consider a mid between

00:07:56.440 like a four um to like a six and a half like a strong six um so this is what i would call

00:08:05.000 a seven trying to be a ten so again all many of you guys this is going to be the most attractive

00:08:11.960 woman you've hooked up with you're you're like again a lot of guys are in the country so they

00:08:16.600 don't really get to see the like top tier talent of beauty in the cities um but she's like a strong

00:08:23.560 um seven through enhancements trying to be a 10. so like if she was completely covered up she

00:08:30.920 wouldn't be in the beautiful category but because it's like super tight clothes whatever

00:08:36.120 megan fox could be completely covered and she would be in the beautiful category

00:08:40.200 do you guys see the difference like this is a seven trying to be an eight to ten an eight to ten

00:08:46.280 they don't have to get naked they're just in the beautiful category so a mid that's a chubby cute

00:08:54.620 girl is a girl that would be like an adjustable six but she's a little bit too um overweight

00:09:01.880 or maybe she's in shape but she has like a below average face like it's just very unsymmetrical

00:09:08.480 like her if she lost weight she'd be like a six i'd say a solid six um then we have the mids that

00:09:16.080 are like former eights so like they're older um I mean I'd still consider Ivanka like a six but

00:09:22.560 she used to be an eight you know like back in her youth so she's like an expired eight now she's

00:09:27.780 in the mid category and treated like the rest of us um again you guys see the difference in looks

00:09:33.600 you like mid beautiful mid beautiful um Margot Robbie I would put as like a lower tier mid now

00:09:41.860 by the way everybody men's preferences are going to like blur the lines by like a point or two so

00:09:50.320 like you know there's some guys they don't care about boobs they're all but there's some guys

00:09:54.300 that would tell me you know margot robbie is more beautiful than megan fox because they're into

00:10:00.120 blondes with blue eyes totally fair margot young i would put in the 8 to 10 category um however i

00:10:09.040 would still put her in terms of like facial symmetry at the lower end of the of the beautifuls

00:10:14.580 she's definitely in the category she's getting into all the rooms but I'd put her at like an

00:10:19.780 eight where like where Megan Fox I'd put it like a nine ten you guys can totally disagree in the

00:10:27.480 chat but this is just how I like categorize them now next we have the socially awkward mid so this

00:10:35.280 is a woman that dresses herself so bad that it like it's like she almost wants to be unattractive

00:10:41.820 now socially awkward mids I generally would put as like four fives um where she's kind of like

00:10:48.780 an average looking woman she's not super overweight um but she dresses so unattractive

00:10:55.540 like women like her I'm not super pro plastic surgery but I do think a boob job would change

00:11:01.580 her life do you know what I mean like this woman she doesn't need a boot I mean obviously it's like

00:11:09.300 it's not like she's huge boobs but like it's not really that needed but you know because women all

00:11:16.600 want the eights to tens and an eight to ten guy just is not gonna go for this like this is just

00:11:22.720 not she's not attractive enough right and if she wants to get closer I'm not I'm not saying she

00:11:29.120 should but if she wants to get into the sixth category she'd probably have to do it surgically

00:11:35.120 um but naturally she could just stop dressing like a grandma and help herself out maybe go

00:11:40.720 for a seven instead of an eight guy um generally speaking the mids are sluttier than the beautiful

00:11:47.760 but the mids tend to be more useful because they have to be like this woman was like a scientist

00:11:53.600 in the show i mean she has to be a scientist right because she doesn't look like that

00:12:01.200 you know what i mean if she looked like that do you think she she would really be that smart you

00:12:06.240 know she'd go be a hollywood actress or a model or just like women like this they're just paid to be

00:12:12.720 hot and a lot of women cope they say like well i just haven't been found if i was in the right

00:12:19.600 rooms you know now don't get me wrong some mids do get in the same rooms as the beautiful but usually

00:12:26.080 it's because they're friends with the beautiful so like if megan fox brought this mid friend like

00:12:32.000 ivanka wouldn't really like stand out in a room i mean megan fox would probably even be allowed to

00:12:37.760 bring a four friend i mean she probably wouldn't do that like the beautifuls like to be friends

00:12:42.960 with women kind of like this like less attractive but like you know still pretty hot sevens are the

00:12:50.160 ones i see doing the best on only fans and i think it's because men see them as like attainable

00:12:56.320 um but like like megan fox could walk in with the girl on the right you know what i mean like

00:13:01.040 so sometimes the mids do get into the same rooms but usually it's by knowing someone that's like

00:13:07.040 like hotter um and the thing is the men have to live in like a populated area of the city

00:13:17.100 to like see this in um and again I'm I'm a woman so you guys can take it or leave it but

00:13:22.700 um men in the country and that don't live in like nice areas they have a tendency to see

00:13:31.760 mids as beautiful but it's just because they haven't like had sex with women that are like

00:13:37.760 this hot like i can honestly find a woman this hot on pretty much any college campus

00:13:43.120 but you know most men don't really get access to them you know so everything's kind of inflated

00:13:50.320 right now it's kind of like how everyone says michael jordan is the greatest of all time because

00:13:55.280 the league was better back then now women are really fat old and ugly so the league is like a

00:14:01.280 a little bit inflated um so now women can just be fat and still be in the top 10 of beauty

00:14:08.960 in terms of like what we have on the market but they're not eights to tens like you're still not

00:14:15.920 gonna be like um a woman so beautiful beautiful you'll be remembered historically for it are we

00:14:23.840 are we following guys are we following now because we have to think about how the dating market's

00:14:28.720 gonna go so we got the brad pitts we got the guys that were like mid and then they self-improved

00:14:34.320 and then they got to be you know like and then we got the let's say the incels or guys not getting

00:14:41.280 laid at all um so like i mean like let's say these two guys have harems let's take this guy on the

00:14:49.280 right like the guy in the middle he might be in the relationship zone for like a mid here like

00:14:56.480 she might date him but she'll probably be cheating with this guy you know because maybe not brad pitt

00:15:02.240 but like a lower version of brad pitt like on a slow tuesday he's gonna do it like i mean if she's

00:15:08.880 right place right time and you guys know women they're we're not really loyal so you might as

00:15:13.680 well expect it um this woman here you know it depends when she cashed out if she cashed out early

00:15:21.920 um she could have ended up with a Brad Pitt because back in the day she was an eight Brad

00:15:27.400 Pitt's a 10 if she was in the right room like Ivanka back in the day was I would say just as

00:15:33.720 attractive as Angelina Jolie or not or not Angelina sorry I'm his first wife Jennifer Aniston

00:15:40.100 and Aniston I'd put it like a soft eight like seven eight you know like she's at the bottom

00:15:45.820 of the beautiful pyramid but even being at the bottom of the beautifuls she can still nab

00:15:51.720 a brad pitt right because you know women we don't really like the med unless we're two points lower

00:15:57.800 like we just don't we don't appreciate you guys unless you're pretty much better than us in every

00:16:03.240 way um so this guy um self-improve so i want you to understand that the women here like there's a

00:16:11.640 guy guys think that the mids are getting um like have lower body counts right because they look at

00:16:18.280 this woman how is how is this woman going to compete with this woman she's got to give like

00:16:25.080 a gluck gluck 3000 right do you know what i mean like margot doesn't have to do that like i mean

00:16:32.520 if you guys are just hooking up with her you're gonna think good enough i'm i'm just happy to be

00:16:36.920 here right you know this girl is gonna get pumped and dumped more because the fives in my opinion

00:16:47.080 fives have some of the like like they really have the higher body counts because and if you talk to

00:16:55.240 pis they'll say five sixes they're more likely to do sex work because they have to i mean

00:17:02.280 one of you in the chat is going to send this woman's for free she's not going to have to do

00:17:06.280 you know like but this girl is gonna give the gluck gluck 5 000 or whatever you know

00:17:17.160 you guys are doing it i don't now i'd like to say all of these points vary i'd give one point

00:17:25.800 one and a half points that can move so like some of you in the chat might say margo is hotter than

00:17:32.840 megan okay well megan i would have rated like a 9.5 her i'd put like a like an eight but you know

00:17:44.680 you could swap those right like you could disagree maybe your thing's brunettes me like it swap it by

00:17:50.520 one okay but ivanka like i would put ivanka at like a seven you know like a former eight kind

00:17:57.640 kind of aged out into a seven six category but if your thing is like tall blondes that are like

00:18:03.880 classy she might be an eight to you are we following are we you know maybe you guys's

00:18:12.120 thing is like the gluck gluck whatever and this chick is your your ride or die so i mean that's

00:18:19.360 the attractiveness in the market that's kind of what's going on so we're gonna now talk about

00:18:24.700 socially awkward women. Now, socially awkward women is something that's not really talked about.

00:18:35.180 We hear the word incel all the time, and women will refer to any man that goes against modern

00:18:41.820 feminist ideals and incel. The actual meaning is a young man who considers himself unable to

00:18:47.960 attract women sexually. Women control the nature of the media, so all you hear is men bad and

00:18:53.760 incels. What's not talked about is socially awkward women. Kevin Samuels referred to them

00:18:59.460 as femcels. You can call them fuckwords or Cheyennes. The conversation of social awkwardness

00:19:07.880 has to include females because according to statistics one in four, Americans say they're

00:19:12.900 socially awkward. I think that number is underreported, especially in Gen Z.

00:19:17.380 and also because women are generally not honest in many surveys. Young people are the group that

00:19:26.500 identify as most socially awkward, while 60% of Americans feel anxious in social situations. The

00:19:32.740 average American spends 34 minutes a day socializing. Fem cells are women that never

00:19:39.180 develop social skills to attract men and also cannot navigate friendships and social situations

00:19:45.480 with women as mothers continue to fail their daughters by not teaching them how to be women

00:19:50.920 more and more fem cells are created as more and more women are going to college to get degrees

00:19:56.500 that no one cares about and more and more it's recently only that we are seeing socially awkward

00:20:03.780 women on social media and can listen to them talk about what their lives are like that's what we're

00:20:09.160 going to talk about today socially awkward women um so what circumstances are women socially

00:20:16.100 awkward many times women who did not want to use their looks to get ahead or couldn't usually

00:20:22.140 couldn't yeah do you know what i mean usually couldn't because megan no woman like megan fox

00:20:26.660 isn't going to use that and you know that's why like um a lot of times beautiful women

00:20:32.560 they might be bitchier but they're really not as socially awkward because like everyone who isn't

00:20:37.680 trying to talk to them like they're the center of attention in every room they walk in um usually

00:20:44.440 they're fives and sixes who if they became socially aware stop dressing like a grandma could

00:20:51.520 be an adjustable six but they get pumped and dumped enough that they are not because they're

00:20:56.340 not attractive enough to sleep with eights and without especially not without girl game

00:21:02.000 um a lot of socially awkward women are too afraid to look stupid to try so they won't improve their

00:21:09.120 social skills they'd rather just be inside and not talk to anybody because it's too hard and

00:21:14.560 they don't want to be embarrassed um they have too big of an ego so they go where they do not have to

00:21:22.800 look dumb in order to excel which is work um usually because their jobs aren't like crazy hard

00:21:29.440 right um they they try but not at the right things if they do do it in an area um where they're not

00:21:38.640 socially awkward it's an area that's not really attractive to men women pay the price harder for

00:21:44.880 not having social skills than men because one men are okay and can be content being alone women

00:21:50.480 we're really not built that way we need community i mean men don't really like people women flock

00:21:56.240 to the cities because we like to be around people men say f them men can pick it up also can make

00:22:02.720 up for it by being really competent and making money even if a guy's socially awkward if he's

00:22:07.360 very good at his job people do respect him the biggest problem with socially awkward women is

00:22:12.480 their obsession with the negative side of things this obsession leads them not taking risks not

00:22:16.800 getting involved and not exposing them to normal trials and tribulations of life risking rejection

00:22:23.440 to make friends or avoiding situations with men which is preventing them from having a dating life

00:22:28.960 the traits of socially awkward women they overthink everything their constant battle with

00:22:34.400 their brain they don't know what to do with themselves in social situations they have their

00:22:39.120 own language to themselves they don't understand social cues they can't stand silence they ghost

00:22:45.360 friends families and partners when social situations get overwhelming no middle ground

00:22:50.880 when it comes to behavior behaviors either extreme or nothing don't know how to flirt physical

00:22:56.080 clumsiness complain about photos all the time um the biggest problem with socially awkward women

00:23:04.400 is their obsession with the negative side of things this obsession leads to them not taking

00:23:08.880 risk risks not getting involved and never exposing themselves to the normal trials and tribulations

00:23:14.080 of life um avoiding making friends and situations with men we're going to look at a interaction

00:23:21.760 between kevin samuels and a socially awkward woman

00:23:32.400 what's what's the issue you have okay so um i met a guy on tinder um in january and

00:23:39.760 and every week we would go we would meet once a week and we would just go out to a park um get

00:23:46.840 food and then um fool around a bit uh like but there was no sex no sex well i'm a very conservative

00:23:57.900 person okay okay so this woman here on the right you see the like potential like she could be a six

00:24:06.920 but she's got you're gonna see she's got like zero social skills now i know they're roasting

00:24:14.160 me in the chat they're like pearl pearl pearl you're socially awkward yes yes i'm a quirky lady

00:24:19.600 you know but i i'm talking about a different class i'm talking about women that can't

00:24:25.440 hold the conversation they can't yeah we'll keep going okay i'm just i'm just being clear

00:24:34.400 i'm just being clear yeah so i told him that i want to take it slow i want to build a good

00:24:39.760 emotional connection with me first um before i go there and he's not used to that he's used to

00:24:46.320 you know okay so you met him in january yes correct okay so what's the issue um so um he told

00:24:54.480 me that he would wait for me because he really liked me and all that and then um our last date

00:24:59.600 was on valentine's and we did the same kind of dates we did in january which is going um and you

00:25:05.440 haven't heard from him since um no he's just been very distant because how old is he he's 30. how

00:25:12.960 do you i'm 27. uh uh how are you how do you anticipate having him wait sorry how long do

00:25:24.960 do you anticipate having him wait um well actually he broke up with me to see a text message on

00:25:33.680 friday okay so i reached out to him right but you okay yeah okay like how long we gotta we gotta

00:25:41.760 think about the male point of view this is where the trad cons they really miss it how long is a

00:25:47.400 man gonna wait for a woman so let's say she's competing she's like a five let's say she's

00:25:54.720 competing for a seven now this guy that's a seven he has the option of dating like fives and sixes

00:26:00.820 let's say or maybe it's like a strong he's a 7.5 she's gonna go two points higher

00:26:05.600 now a man that's a five might wait but he's not um

00:26:13.660 she's not going for him like she's going for a like a seven ish guy is he gonna wait longer

00:26:22.680 than like a couple weeks a month for this no she's got a gluck gluck five thousand you know

00:26:30.300 what i mean you know what i mean like this isn't gonna i you know um even if she's like more

00:26:40.120 innocent and more pure it's just not gonna work he he would wait for a margot robbie

00:26:47.240 do you know what i mean he's gonna wait for that he's like take your time sweetheart

00:26:51.940 how long do you need three months i will steve harvey a baby but like

00:26:59.300 you know i think knowing your position

00:27:02.520 is really important for women this is where we shoot ourselves in the foot because

00:27:08.660 you know a woman that looks like we go back to here oh wait not that we go back to here a woman

00:27:14.880 that looks like this might give us a dating advice on the internet but that's not your position

00:27:21.880 well if you want to get dating advice and I'm not even you know we want to look for the women

00:27:28.700 on the right that are dating the Brad Pitts and we're like how the fuck did you pull that off

00:27:33.660 you know the women that everyone's like how the hell and usually the answer is she got him young

00:27:40.540 you know that's but like let me go back to this tinder girl okay okay so the situation is what

00:27:48.820 you want him back i want to maintain a good friendship with him you weren't friends

00:27:55.380 you weren't friends you've known this guy for a month you're you're putting all kind of

00:28:01.640 importance on somebody that she met in january but i just feel like we have a good connection

00:28:07.240 right someone said she should have got her guy in college yes guys should have yes but this isn't

00:28:13.640 shoulda this is what is she's here it's time to learn this is where call her daddy gives better

00:28:21.560 dating advice than traditional conservatives she's aged out of purity like she could have played the

00:28:28.360 purity card like the weight for me i mean you guys might have waited for her 22 you know you

00:28:33.640 could have bought that but at 27 i mean like you guys when when i say like a 27 year old virgin you

00:28:40.600 guys are always thinking of hot women they're not hot like they're not hot because they would have

00:28:48.840 had a guy that was a brad pitt looking guy that would have i mean he might have smashed and like

00:28:54.520 you know bounce but they would have had to take it well that's what you feel he did he wanted

00:28:59.960 okay if you feel like you have a good connection then why don't you want to take it to the physical

00:29:03.560 level why i why i didn't why didn't you yes because um i want to take things slow well

00:29:11.720 see that's the thing it's all about what you want see how selfish this is i want to take it slow

00:29:18.520 i want you to be on my terms according to my thing and then when he breaks it off you still

00:29:23.720 want something that's not there it's very selfish how about if he leaves me after all right well

00:29:29.560 then see that's the thing so the socially awkward women the fear of getting pumped and dumped

00:29:35.720 overrides like the benefit of a relationship like what you could get but like the fear is

00:29:41.320 too strong she's like well what if what if he leaves what if he leaves what if he might leave

00:29:46.520 what he might leave after you've been together for a year i mean

00:29:49.160 it's only the dumb guy like the guys

00:29:53.780 the the guys that are like oh if a woman makes me wait she's more pure

00:30:01.000 are kind of idiots like i mean they got bamboozled by whoever they were dating

00:30:07.800 you know that girl read like steve harvey's three-month rule and he fell for it but women

00:30:13.840 we don't like suckers so this is why i say some women that are like virgins at old age

00:30:23.120 they're better just giving it up and the conservatives they'll they'll crucify me

00:30:27.920 for it but i'm sorry this woman is not gonna get married unless she starts putting out

00:30:36.160 otherwise she's gonna die alone like that's just gonna be it then buy a cat

00:30:41.040 buy a dog and die alone relationship exactly so risks i don't know what you ladies expect

00:30:48.000 you want guarantees what if you don't like him and you break his heart do you expect

00:30:53.600 him to just be all right with that right i i wouldn't doesn't matter no of course because

00:31:00.080 you know because women are always the innocent ones but at a 52 divorce rate

00:31:06.240 this is what i would tell her okay first you got to switch your whole outfits

00:31:11.040 if i were her i would buy boobs look i don't think every woman needs to buy boobs

00:31:15.920 her i think it would help her a lot and then listen to some caller daddy

00:31:23.640 listen to some caller daddy and you got to start putting out and if i were you this is what i would

00:31:33.860 tell her and this isn't like nice advice this but this is what i would say look okay pearl that's

00:31:40.000 bad advice okay go seduce a man let me know how that works for you now that's what i would say

00:31:46.560 look we got to figure out what your league is for men you might get pumped or dumped you might go

00:31:53.040 out of your league but you gotta you gotta start somewhere 70 to 80 of breakups are initiated by

00:31:58.720 women ma'am the man said he liked you i give them about a month and if things aren't moving forward

00:32:08.160 i'm out look i'm not saying you got to do it first date but like over a certain age what

00:32:14.080 the are we waiting for like it's are we i mean okay you wait three months what if the sex is

00:32:21.680 terrible and you don't and you realize you don't even like him i mean we're we're grown we're not

00:32:29.760 we're not 22 this is we're adults yeah and he and he dated you for a month yeah how long before you

00:32:38.720 were intending to have sex with him he's 30 years old he's not a virgin ballpark it for me

00:32:48.000 maybe two months in did you tell him that no i told him i had bad experiences with men in the

00:32:55.840 well exactly go and so her bad experience is again going shooting too high because

00:33:03.120 look the the brad pit got like the eights the eights don't they care about purity but not in

00:33:12.160 the way like players do care about purity they don't want a girl that's had sex with

00:33:16.480 any of their friends or whatever but they don't value it in the same way that the um

00:33:25.840 i don't know the relationship guys do or i don't i don't know how to say it like the the guys that

00:33:32.080 can't get a lot of women do um because the guys that have like been around know like they've

00:33:39.040 hooked up with a girl that's like a virgin or damn near and it wasn't really all that they thought

00:33:44.480 like they realized that being likable as a person is way more important being a pleasant person to

00:33:49.520 be around is a more important thing and so if you're kind of like if you don't have any experience

00:33:55.840 conversating with men you're gonna be really annoying like it's just not it's a skill you know

00:34:04.400 um which usually women like learned because they married young but like now the sexes are they're

00:34:10.960 so far apart like the men are going one way the women are going another they don't even really

00:34:15.760 interact like like we used to ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding making a man in your present

00:34:21.680 pay for stuff in your past equals no future yeah and you guys are like pearl pearl tell her to wait

00:34:27.360 yeah okay let's see how that she's waiting how did that turn out for her

00:34:36.320 but it is part of my no problem no it's just it's like a trauma right so okay

00:34:44.320 do respect your problem the world doesn't owe you and me understanding

00:34:47.680 come out put your big girl panties on and grow up please tell me your address if she was a virgin

00:34:55.220 I'd wait let me see the roster of women that you've hooked up with let me see them let me

00:35:01.040 how many how many women have you hooked up with in the last six months let me let me see send me

00:35:06.860 pictures let me see I've seen your trauma with a professional therapist

00:35:16.720 exactly the world doesn't know the world doesn't owe you understanding

00:35:23.220 this is what i mean modern women have been painted into you want to be modern women

00:35:28.760 with all the freedoms and everything else then freedom comes with responsibility

00:35:32.740 accountability and consequences you're 27 years old you want a person who's not married to you

00:35:39.580 to understand your traumas that you're doing nothing about, no thank you. That's a fully

00:35:46.600 formed man who has a life to live. Listen, that is a fully formed man who has a responsibility

00:35:51.960 to live his life. You may be a perfectly lovely woman. And honestly, the cool thing would have

00:35:57.260 been to say, I think you're nice. And when you get your shit together, I love to date you if

00:36:02.320 I'm single. But until then, I'll keep it moving. But that's not where most people are. It's all

00:36:08.280 Well, not you, ma'am.

00:36:09.380 You're not doing anything about your issues.

00:36:12.120 And I'll be honest, ma'am,

00:36:13.060 most men don't want to deal with women who have issues.

00:36:15.120 You shouldn't be out here dating

00:36:16.120 until you address your traumas.

00:36:20.560 You wouldn't expect a man to be out dating

00:36:21.960 if he had traumas, would you?

00:36:22.960 Would you want to deal with his?

00:36:26.200 Oh!

00:36:28.000 Rob says, women get hit on so much more often,

00:36:30.640 get an experience except her.

00:36:33.080 No, I'm telling you, they don't go out.

00:36:34.500 They don't have social lives.

00:36:35.580 Like, they just go to work, go home.

00:36:38.280 I mean you have to like it takes work to build a social life and most women it's like after

00:36:46.160 college there's a class of women it just drops off I rebuke would you mean me no but would you

00:36:53.420 how about if he leaves me after I do it because I don't know if what do you mean if he lose you

00:36:59.020 what do you what do you mean if he lose you after you do what after we get intimate okay are you a

00:37:04.720 virgin no okay well then i've had that done in the past before i'm sorry man well okay well then

00:37:11.380 that's called taking an l

00:37:13.640 all these look every woman is gonna take an l at some point

00:37:22.700 you know there's women that date men for like five years hoping to get a ring and they get

00:37:29.300 dumped out of the blue she says you know what i want younger and hotter

00:37:33.240 thanks for the youth sorry lady it's called an L men take us all the time I mean how many of you

00:37:41.020 guys are on child support or alimony and some of you guys go the MGTOW way and but a lot of men

00:37:48.700 date again they say F it I want to do it all over again men don't give like excuses I mean if

00:37:58.140 anything like in my experience divorced guys are great to date like if i would tell young women to

00:38:05.300 go for the you gotta go for the divorced guy who's not bitter like he can't he can't be on like

00:38:11.480 exorbitant amounts of child support because he's just gonna hate his life but like usually men

00:38:16.900 kind of learn from their mistakes so they can hold frame like better in their next relationship

00:38:21.720 they become like they go through tribulation like they become better men um over time there

00:38:29.180 was a girl that messaged me and she was infertile right and she asked me advice because she was like

00:38:34.360 who's gonna date me um because I can't have any more kids and I'm like that's like a that's a

00:38:40.520 there's a lot of divorced dads that'll take a 22 year old that can't have kids you know like that's

00:38:46.580 a um but if the divorce was too bad um he's just never gonna get married or like um have kids

00:38:56.080 again so if that's in the cards for you you gotta like you know you gotta move on but

00:39:00.440 you know she this is why i say like the traditional conservative advice i have seen like 10 women that

00:39:09.480 look just like her that are either old virgins or they've had sex with like two men in like these

00:39:16.200 non-denominational churches and i'm telling you they just get old socially awkward and have no life

00:39:23.320 um and it doesn't end well for them like at that point you might as well just be a whore

00:39:28.280 um you might like at least the whores are going for it like do you know what i mean at least the

00:39:35.400 whores are like like in my opinion a porn star would be more likely to get a husband than her

00:39:43.160 because a porn star is in the game right you know like nala just got wifed like nala will get wifed

00:39:51.540 before this woman because nala said you know what i know what men like let me get half naked and

00:39:56.920 learn to suck dick and boom she's married do you know what i mean riley reedy this is the

00:40:05.180 uncomfortable truth. Like, look at, you don't, yeah, no, I know they damaged themselves. Look

00:40:12.760 at, but my point is the woman here, she's not going to get into the game and have met women

00:40:17.060 like this. And they're like 45 years old. They've had like, I don't know, like two bodies or like

00:40:23.620 two relationships. The conservatives will lie to you because they want a virtue signal like this

00:40:32.100 doesn't make me look good telling you this right this doesn't but i'm just being honest here like

00:40:40.340 at least the whores are going for it and here's the thing very reasonable but if you're dating

00:40:47.000 but if a guy is with you here's the thing which you ladies need to understand if a man just wants

00:40:51.600 to hit and quit he's gonna leave if you want to if you want to there's no guarantees man

00:40:59.220 i'm sorry you could leave him after having sex too what do you want you don't want to get hurt

00:41:05.820 i get it no one does this is why you buy a dog or a cat and a battery operated friend

00:41:12.240 and don't deal with men or you put on your big girl panties and get out here and play in the game

00:41:19.280 if i approach him now and man he's done with you okay if you approach him you've

00:41:24.780 my personal opinion you burn that bridge okay because why would you approach him now and say

00:41:31.820 you know what that sex i didn't want to give you if you come back i'll give it to you no thank you

00:41:36.220 because he said he would wait for me and well he doesn't know you okay okay and he said he'd

00:41:42.200 wait for you so what you're not married why does this man owe you anything ma'am no he doesn't

00:41:50.100 but i'm just i want to still maintain contact with him i want to maintain a friendship at least

00:41:55.400 so how do you maintain contact with somebody who doesn't want contact with you

00:42:00.340 ma'am i'm gonna be honest ma'am you need therapy and this is not a bad thing but do you think he'll

00:42:07.400 come back around or no yeah and see the thing is the socially awkward women

00:42:13.980 it's gonna mean way more to her than it does to him right so like every interaction they have

00:42:21.780 because she just hasn't had a lot of experience and you may think that's a good thing but the

00:42:26.740 problem is they're very controlling right because they can't take things not working out and it puts

00:42:32.660 way too much pressure on the guy because like you know this is why sometimes guys don't really want

00:42:39.040 take a girl's virginity some of you are in the chat and you're like oh no we all do we all look

00:42:46.720 some men like they don't want that pressure because they don't know her yet and they're like well

00:42:54.320 i don't know if this is going to work out or not and i don't want to be that guy

00:42:58.240 to like let her down because these expectations are way too high um yeah

00:43:09.040 okay listen listen listen listen okay you may be a lovely woman but this reeks of kind of

00:43:17.080 desperation it's unattractive you're 27 years old and you're going through life guarded trying to

00:43:26.040 protect yourself against hurt because of past traumas then you don't need to be out here

00:43:30.440 amongst healthy people dating you're damaged also if you guys want your comment read go to

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00:43:41.800 speech network um at some point if we get enough members i want to sign other like um talents and

00:43:47.720 have like shows that we cast and stuff but um you get unlimited super chats you get a yearly

00:43:55.160 membership it sponsors the show so if we get one show sponsorship um one yearly membership

00:44:01.160 a show then you know our costs are covered for the year that's okay but deal with your damage

00:44:07.640 if you had a car what state do you live in i canada huh canada canada uh do you have a vehicle yeah

00:44:17.480 do you have to have a vehicle that passes in any sort of any sort of inspection to have it on the

00:44:23.160 road yes right and if it doesn't pass that inspection you're not supposed to drive it right

00:44:28.440 yeah because it's a danger to others yeah you're out here with and you're not passing inspection

00:44:36.600 you're a danger to others because you got to go where you got to go damn everybody else

00:44:42.700 but you know you need to pass inspection

00:44:45.500 after a month i don't know ma'am he could have been okay ma'am how about this he could have

00:44:52.860 the perfect guy for you but you're not ready so he would meet me no see that's that's that

00:45:00.300 no no no absolutely not that's the disney fantasy that you ladies have been sold

00:45:08.220 that this is the perfect guy who's healthy and ready to go will wait for you a woman who's not

00:45:14.540 doing anything about her existing traumas to figure her out absolutely not because if we

00:45:19.100 switched that situation and said you are a perfectly healthy woman marriage-minded looking

00:45:23.980 to find a husband to go make some babies and you ran into a guy who has his traumas and everything

00:45:28.220 else any woman would say you'd be a fool to wait for him to get his stuff together anybody would

00:45:32.860 say that you shouldn't have been talking but one emotionally bond i don't give a damn ma'am you

00:45:41.980 You keep giving yourself excuses.

00:45:46.720 I just don't think I know a person fully to trust them.

00:45:50.500 Well, then don't deal with them.

00:45:52.040 In a month.

00:45:53.100 Okay, then, ma'am, buy a dog, die alone.

00:45:58.080 Because you're not doing anything about your issues.

00:46:01.720 I understand your issue, but you're not doing anything about your trust issues.

00:46:07.280 I am by being more cautious.

00:46:10.060 No.

00:46:10.800 oh and okay and i got a i got a real simple question for you ready ready yeah how's that

00:46:18.240 working for you it's hard to find men that will wait for me because you deserve

00:46:27.120 their pearl is right

00:46:33.280 and the tradcon's the leader to destruction and take her money for a lifetime

00:46:37.440 and lead her to be like a 40-year-old with two bodies they're gonna crucify me for this

00:46:46.240 swear to god don't you guys clip this i'm gonna be annoyed because then this is what they'll do

00:46:52.100 they'll take it and just virtue signal pearl pearl pearl i thought you said you hate degeneracy i'm

00:46:58.560 look. Purity is a young woman's game. At 22, you can marry as a virgin. At 27, unless you're a

00:47:12.900 unicorn and you're an eight or higher, it's going to be pretty difficult to pull that off. It's a

00:47:20.660 young woman's game. There is no virtue in purity when you're old and they want to lie to you and

00:47:28.280 say that there is but when you're old the men one they're gonna assume you've done something so

00:47:36.360 let's say you're a 28 year old virgin and you really are a virgin men aren't stupid they're

00:47:41.800 gonna assume you've gluck gluck somebody you've taken it from the back you've done something

00:47:47.720 they're really not gonna they're not gonna buy it okay they're not dumb we've had too many women lie

00:47:53.960 so even if you were

00:47:56.260 you know pure

00:47:57.580 it's like

00:48:00.840 void and I've seen this

00:48:02.740 I've met virgin women guys

00:48:04.260 they got till 25 to pull that

00:48:06.880 shit off after 25 you're cooked

00:48:08.680 done

00:48:09.780 where do we waited for

00:48:12.960 point blank period

00:48:16.760 why does anyone need to say once the

00:48:18.920 legs have been opened no

00:48:20.300 even if they haven't

00:48:22.900 been

00:48:23.960 men are going to assume if a certain amount of time has passed you're fucking somebody

00:48:29.300 or you've done something even if you haven't and the men that don't think that do you know

00:48:34.960 what they're going to do they're suckers because they just don't have a lot of experience with

00:48:42.080 women and the relationship will fail anyway work wait for a damaged woman who's not said pearl

00:48:48.060 you're hating on virgins i'm not hating on virgins i'm not i think it's a great thing i really do if

00:48:54.780 you get married young i think that's the ideal situation as a woman that's what you want to do

00:49:00.380 you want to wait you want to have sex with one guy for your entire life but that has an expiration

00:49:05.180 date and i'm being generous by 25 because women graduate high school with like five bodies these

00:49:11.980 days so not working through her traumas i i don't i don't think that i'm damaged okay ma'am the

00:49:31.180 woman okay ma'am you just said i've been hurt by men before and i have traumas that's damage

00:49:37.500 you got a car it's been an accident and it would not pass inspection but he said he understood

00:49:46.940 all right you keep talking like you can talk or rationalize your way through it he left you

00:49:54.780 period see this is what i mean ladies do not deal with reality well

00:50:00.220 this is why men have to deal with rejection often but when you ladies get rejected or left

00:50:05.180 it's like the world is supposed to look man he dated you he gave you an opportunity yeah t carp

00:50:10.780 says i've seen when these women get married they cling to their virginity as their identity and

00:50:15.020 will never be sexual at all yeah guys you know this is why the i hate saying it because um

00:50:28.380 it's like you look at the data and you think it's like a simple two virgins they they last the

00:50:33.740 longest but you know you start to look into this stuff and a lot of it's kind of funneled by like

00:50:39.340 religious propaganda the the challenge you get in a lot of churches is they worship women and it's

00:50:49.020 not really patriarchal if a woman waits and she's in a patriarchal structure that you know then she's

00:50:55.660 set up for success right but how many women are raised to be wives most men have to coach their

00:51:01.820 wives into being likable right the challenge you get in churches is they're so used to virtue

00:51:08.060 signaling their virginity like how many virgins can keep their virginity for their husband to

00:51:13.340 not tell anyone and not make it this whole show and spectacle um they have their egos too invested

00:51:20.380 into it um and it becomes more of like a way for them to be worshipped rather than like a gift for

00:51:27.420 their husbands. And if they're learning to weaponize sex to get what they want before

00:51:33.220 the marriage, a lot of times they're going to do it after. I hate to say it because in

00:51:41.120 a patriarchal way, it's better if a woman waits and it's the man's idea. If you're going to

00:51:48.520 go that route, it's better. And what man's going to have that idea, right? He's like,

00:51:55.620 we'll just tell everyone at the wedding we waited you know he wanted to have i feel bad that i

00:52:00.700 unknowingly had sex with a virgin i was 19 and she who's 17 i wish it wasn't me well it is what

00:52:07.920 it is you guys i'm sure you've taken an l with women we got to do it too have sex you didn't

00:52:11.840 want to jump into bed he didn't he dated you for a month and some change and then decided you know

00:52:18.360 what i don't want to keep doing this that's his right if you decide to leave you can do it too

00:52:24.240 he doesn't owe you anything you're not married you've known him for a month

00:52:28.020 and now you're gonna make him well you said you would do such and so forth you sound crazy

00:52:33.340 but you do think that he's a coward for breaking up with me via text message

00:52:39.680 instead of trying to talk no no if this conversation is any indication i retract that i think it was

00:52:47.780 smart if this conversation is any indication i think he should have got away from you this

00:52:53.500 as cleanly as possible but i've not been rude to him at all i've i'm being oh my god

00:53:03.020 you just went right past that just because you're soft-spoken

00:53:09.260 does not change the fact that you would not accept he doesn't want to be there

00:53:19.340 i don't know you're not ready

00:53:20.780 yeah because i don't know if she's in it for me or in it for my body well it doesn't matter

00:53:28.760 anymore now does it your body's not good enough to you know getting used once or twice isn't

00:53:39.480 going to kill this woman if anything it'll kill her ego a little bit so she can be a little bit

00:53:44.520 more ready this this is the raw honest truth the trads aren't gonna tell you that's why i prefer

00:53:55.160 you know my show's died down a little bit and i kind of prefer it this way guys because

00:54:01.080 i don't need to be clipped every other show taking my ideas out of context it's too much

00:54:07.720 i mean they could do a whole parade off of this show just virtue signaling

00:54:14.520 i'll make you famous doesn't matter anymore now does it because ma'am do respect your body is

00:54:22.880 not virgin so you ladies are playing these fast and loose games with i don't know why you're here

00:54:31.360 so what do you need a man to have a commitment monogamous what needs to happen before you

00:54:37.700 decide to have sex do you guys need to be boyfriend and girlfriend

00:54:39.860 in well i just need to know him on a better level like i need to feel comfortable myself he didn't

00:54:47.620 want that can he make the choice is he free is he free to make the choice just like you are

00:54:54.180 yeah then accept his choice just like he'd have to accept yours

00:54:59.380 okay i mean seriously yeah i mean it's like you keep pushing and that's why i said ma'am

00:55:07.000 this is not this counseling is a good idea because your self-esteem this reeks of kind of

00:55:12.960 desperation like like a guy you met in january on tinder it ain't like he was referred to you

00:55:18.780 by your pastor or by your mother it was just you swipe left or swipe right or whatever

00:55:23.400 you got here and you're putting all this emotional attachment into somebody

00:55:29.020 who you only known for less than a month men want sex so for all of us christians which i am paul

00:55:35.400 told us if we can't control ourselves and get married we can have sex the right way yeah good

00:55:41.560 luck the state will just ruin your life but yeah let's try that two really unhealthy man

00:55:49.400 there are all kind of things i could really kind of pull out but i think you need to sit down with

00:55:54.720 the therapist because you're far too invested in a swipe right okay so there there's you know

00:56:05.060 tcap paul understands that men want sex and they get married so they can have it

00:56:10.440 okay so that's what's out there this is an archetype of women that a lot of men are

00:56:15.400 encountering especially on the dating apps in my experience there's two types of socially

00:56:19.840 awkward women the ones who talk too much and the ones that talk too little socially awkward women

00:56:25.100 that talk too much i have an example on tiktok so again this is i would put her in like five six

00:56:34.620 category um like i'd put low six for her you know what i mean like the last girl she she's like

00:56:42.380 lower this girl's like low six in like the like the quiet in a corner awkward i'm like that doesn't

00:56:49.100 stop talking about nonsense awkward like you'll be you'll be sitting there and i'll feel like i

00:56:54.380 have to say something so i'll kind of give you like uh i'll give you like a little reenactment

00:56:58.860 of a conversation with me. So do you like cheese? I like cheese. I like cheddar. No, I don't know.

00:57:06.720 I don't know. Cheddar is, I mean, like, provolone is my favorite, but, like, I don't really know.

00:57:09.760 How's the weather? Is it good? I like weather. Do you like weather? Weather. So what's your

00:57:14.440 favorite holiday? Mine's Christmas. Oh, you like, you like Easter? I love, I love Easter. Easter's

00:57:19.600 great. Yeah, no, I mean, my family. Did your family celebrate it? My family, Halloween's cool.

00:57:23.500 I like Halloween. I'm like, I like scary movies. Do you like scary movies? I get scared. I don't

00:57:27.420 know do you have any siblings i have i have i have a sister you have a sister oh cool cool yeah yeah

00:57:33.640 i mean do you guys get along how's your relationship yeah so they said five six sloppy seven no this is

00:57:40.840 not a seven guys you got freaking a god download your dating apps and get laid or something i know

00:57:49.600 i talk about on the show how hard it is i'm sure it is but maybe start going for the fat chicks or

00:57:55.340 something like someone's got to do it but i can't take these like over ratings anymore

00:58:01.900 yeah i know five no i mean she's still cute like most men would but like okay is a guy gonna drive

00:58:10.620 a guy that has some options gonna drive like three hours to smash not really not for this you know um

00:58:18.300 um she's like I put her six like low six because she's young you know she looks under 25 so

00:58:27.420 I mean she's not a three guys um

00:58:33.420 I know I mean she'll be a four in like a decade but right now I mean she's thin

00:58:40.140 low six strong five the last woman I would have put as a five

00:58:47.160 um

00:58:48.300 i mean at least now we're being a little but now now we're going too far the other way

00:58:54.080 she's not a three guys like who we

00:58:56.680 let me see your rosters let me see them seriously email them to me show me the women you're sleeping

00:59:05.400 with you can blur out their faces i won't show them on screen but if we're if you're

00:59:09.500 going to give ratings i need to see what you're dealing with here

00:59:13.540 pearl you're a five i know i know it's like you guys say this it's like i have to do thumbnails

00:59:24.440 i know

00:59:30.060 relationship with your mother oh mine's okay yeah mine's really good me my dad

00:59:36.980 so as you can see um i don't know yeah and see do you see the arguing in the chat so they say a

00:59:43.080 seven i'm a seven to a 6.5 this is called types right this is what i said it varies by like a

00:59:49.640 point and a half right so let's let's give me a 5.5 today well you know if some guys into redheads

00:59:58.100 with green eyes a seven's kind of generous like a sick you know but i'm being objective here

01:00:05.480 you know we are in america so remember like a woman like her is still going to be the hottest

01:00:10.160 woman in most bars in america but that's just because the league is ugly it's not because we're

01:00:18.000 that attractive it's because the league has gotten so bad it's like half of american women are fat

01:00:25.120 but it just now it just means there's like a ton like half of women are below fives right

01:00:32.880 you know pearl is two beers i know for some of you i am it's totally fine

01:00:38.000 but i just i like to be yeah he says yes redheads with green eyes yeah i mean

01:00:43.760 you know some men like you know the highest i'll get is a strong set like men that are being nice

01:00:50.680 they'll say a seven but it's because it's like if the guy is um like his thing is like tall redheads

01:00:57.480 like then they're very into me because that's like their thing and we're such a rare like

01:01:03.440 archetype do you know what i mean it's like blonde hair blue eyes like that's a rare archetype so the

01:01:09.040 men that are into that if they if their thing is like six foot blondes and they find one it's like

01:01:14.800 wow amazing yeah so i'm objective here okay i worked in media i have to rate these things

01:01:26.240 um the hottest woman that conservative medias look at if i was an eight i'd have eight results

01:01:32.080 i'd be in la or something like they would have recruited me to come there by now

01:01:37.440 it's i it's shocking but i never got those calls i never got those calls so but you know what when

01:01:45.440 an eight gets into conservative media she's like immediately worshipped so like

01:01:51.280 brett cooper i put week seven like six seven tommy lauren that was like the hottest thing

01:01:56.880 conservative media had for a while i mean she's she's like a low eight but like she wouldn't

01:02:01.940 really make it in hollywood like tommy lauren's like seven eight but again because we're so fat

01:02:08.060 she's like inflated to a nine in america i don't make the rules how to just like sit there in

01:02:16.540 silence with someone i don't really know jack says that i'm not socially awkward i'm just super

01:02:22.240 outgoing however i don't know because sometimes there's moments you know like when you get that

01:02:28.800 moment in your head and you say something and it was just weird and you were like that was freaking

01:02:34.640 awkward and then you're like you're like wishing you could take it back but you can't because you

01:02:38.900 said it and and they've moved on probably but you haven't moved on from it yet and then you're just

01:02:43.140 kind of sitting there like i guess my point in this is can anyone else relate to me they're like

01:02:48.560 they're they're the socially awkward where they don't stop talking and so it's not that you you

01:02:52.880 know you're too afraid to talk it's that you're too afraid to not talk does anyone someone said

01:02:57.040 personality adds or subtracts two points that to me tells me you need to start banging somebody

01:03:04.320 because no it doesn't i i mean

01:03:07.920 maybe in like long term okay sure but it's like it doesn't add or subtract two points it's just

01:03:20.640 like a six with a good personality it doesn't make the six and eight because the eight like

01:03:27.280 the six isn't getting recruited to hollywood for her personality the reason eights belong to the

01:03:32.640 streets forever eights and ups it's not because they're like sluttier like this girl is gonna

01:03:39.040 have banged more dudes than probably an eight plus the reason eight pluses belong to the streets is

01:03:48.000 because they've been worshipped their whole life they don't have to do anything um there's the

01:03:52.400 occasional one with like a good dad but nowadays that's like few and far between so men you know

01:03:57.440 they tend to marry mids because mids you know they had to have been humble right i mean she's

01:04:02.800 been passed before at least once or twice she talks too much right like mids you know they're

01:04:10.480 at some point they're rejected eights really aren't they they pretty much have the power in

01:04:14.320 all relationships till they're like 35. so they're gonna like go find something better because they

01:04:19.440 probably can you know um but if this girl dates an eight i mean or even a strong seven guy she's

01:04:26.560 not going to do better do you want to understand that if you can relate let me know and okay she's

01:04:32.320 an adjustable four fine totally fine look i mean she's a mid right i mean look at the the fours i

01:04:40.880 can i don't think she's fat enough to be a four to me so to me she's a five six but you know whatever

01:04:46.080 let me know if if you found a way to cope with it because i'm still trying to find a way to like

01:04:52.800 fix myself with this yeah okay so there's another one then there's socially awkward women that talk

01:05:01.120 too little so it's like because i'm interested you bring them somewhere and they just say nothing the

01:05:06.000 whole part it and a little bit socially awkward it doesn't mean that i'm weird or unusual that

01:05:11.680 i mean i am now where would i put her let's see if you guys can guess

01:05:15.040 I'd put her seven I'd put her like if she's like done up she can get invited to the parties

01:05:25.440 and stuff but like I'd put I'd put her like she's not gonna be a beautiful like a Margot Robbie

01:05:31.160 Megan Fox yeah seven seven six yeah you can you guys see but the variance isn't too crazy right

01:05:39.260 it's like a point and a half based on you guys's taste maybe you like redheads maybe like big booty

01:05:44.400 latinas maybe black women maybe mixed women are your type i don't know which i don't know what

01:05:48.320 you guys are into um yeah seven

01:05:56.720 seven six like that's kind of the range i'd put her in seven six although here she looks less

01:06:03.840 attractive in this one but just off the glance um but it's not related it's a separate issue of its

01:06:10.480 own okay so she's talking about she doesn't talk all right mario's four let me see the woman you're

01:06:17.520 banging let me see email them swear to god she's not a four okay how does social awkwardness

01:06:26.720 manifest itself in the dating market understand that this is a this is a this is a four four or

01:06:33.280 five very unlike conventionally pretty face but she's young right and um

01:06:44.560 she looks thin so i'd probably give her a five you know four or five

01:06:51.840 the people that are benefiting from hinge are not like the actually attractive people on there

01:06:56.480 if you've ever thought something like oh no three is the fat woman she's not fat

01:07:02.080 why am i getting these crazies on hinge that i would never encounter in real life

01:07:05.840 that's who's benefiting the crazies the people who stand to benefit from hinge don't go outside

01:07:11.360 and might be kind of off-putting in person but they have some good photos of themselves okay

01:07:15.920 the baddies are like questioning if they're actually even attractive because of um who they

01:07:20.000 get in their likes and the people who mass send out likes and hopes that someone will match them

01:07:23.440 also aren't winning because they're still not getting any matches thanks to hinge like i get

01:07:27.520 get these opportunities like if you saw me out there in person like you wouldn't be hitting on

01:07:31.880 me because like I'm just in my software engineering fit I'm not just saying this I know this for a

01:07:36.720 fact because I've been like told by multiple people that I am like these three things that

01:07:41.740 I am awkward off-putting clinical I am hinge's target demographic yeah so this is what she's

01:07:47.620 saying she's like the men I match with on dating apps I would never get in real life like on hinge

01:07:52.140 you can't really tell you know I just seem like a normal person some of the people I'd be talking

01:07:57.040 to i'm like wow you would not fuck with me if we met off this app and like it's awesome anyway

01:08:03.200 to the friends who enjoy photography and have a digital camera thank you thank you so much

01:08:07.840 you're caring you're honestly see the other one

01:08:14.320 let's go through my yeah so remember that you saw what she looked like in real life

01:08:19.200 now you see how she is on the hands can we turn it up a little bit

01:08:23.200 number one because i can't really hear let's go through my hinge profile because to be honest with

01:08:28.000 you i think going through people's hinge profiles is so fun and swapping for them too real life

01:08:32.160 like four or five ways of life on hinge number one we have this picture

01:08:38.240 see she can go up like a point and a half by getting a little more naked that's what the

01:08:43.200 mids got to do they either got to sell purity or get more naked it's those two strategies

01:08:48.320 she in this one she's getting more naked she puts on some makeup now she's in adjustable

01:08:55.160 she's like a 5.5 to 6 if you're into asians maybe 6.5 in this picture um i think it's low-key like

01:09:00.840 catfishing and it's a selfie i don't even think it's that good of a photo uh because like of the

01:09:04.980 lighting but that's also why i like my skin looks so good and like i did turn on the setting where

01:09:09.540 they test your first photos and they like keep which one is like the most popular and this has

01:09:14.520 stayed the first photo so this is my second photo it was next to the

01:09:18.100 yeah you gotta put some legs out there and I think this is very me it's in

01:09:22.340 Hawaii and I'm just like in a swimsuit eating a hot pocket I really like that

01:09:27.120 swimsuit it's like one of those dear my love like the Japanese olita swimsuits

01:09:30.360 but I do feel like if you can't tell that it's a swimsuit you're kind of like

01:09:33.280 what the fuck am I wearing in the photo other than being funny though it wasn't

01:09:36.280 a very high quality picture so I replaced it with like this coffee shop

01:09:39.420 one number three I feel like this one is more representative of how like I would

01:09:43.980 rolling up to our date and it's a good picture that's why it's number three although it's probably

01:09:48.060 like the oldest photo i have on there but you see her social awkwardness brings her down like a

01:09:52.140 little bit this is like the guess where i am prompt because this is in mount tam which i think is

01:09:58.220 beautiful and like if you're in the bay area you probably recognize it but i was wrong no one

01:10:02.060 recognized it this one i also feel is pretty representative of me like those are my favorite

01:10:07.340 jeans and uh you probably need to include a full body shot at some point i'm also not wearing

01:10:11.820 makeup in this one so yeah what you see is what you get very much the opposite of the last photo

01:10:17.020 this is literally me in 2b cosplay but i feel like this is rather not representative of who i am

01:10:22.060 because um i've never played near solid five that's what i'm saying she's a five i just thrifted

01:10:28.620 but could she get an eight let's think about this pragmatically could she get a strong seven to eight

01:10:33.820 guy i mean she plays her cards right she's got to bang him fast like there's no way

01:10:43.900 i mean like if her strategy was to wait it out and sell purity that's just

01:10:48.540 not it's really just not gonna work for her because she's not hot enough

01:10:54.780 simple as but like if she was really good in bed and was really fun to be around

01:11:00.940 and she could pull it off i know you guys are saying she couldn't she couldn't she couldn't

01:11:07.300 look men are kind of pragmatic where it's like if a woman's been a lot around for long enough

01:11:14.300 and she's like above their minimum standard and it's too much work to go replace her they're just

01:11:21.540 like eh i'll take it good enough she could be a seven she could be man out of seven she doesn't

01:11:29.320 have some potential maybe with like again maybe you guys disagree and but this is the thing men

01:11:36.140 they'll kind of cap because they'll say like women we like natural women and it's because

01:11:42.760 men don't like being fooled right and I totally get that you guys don't want to have kids with

01:11:48.120 someone and have these like big ass you know knocker noses but you know I've seen nose jobs

01:11:53.920 change women's face and if I'm going to go with what works I wouldn't I don't want to really

01:11:57.840 recommend like facial plastic surgery but i do think if she bought a giant pair of tits it'd bring

01:12:05.120 her up a point uh look she looks flat i know uh look and i would say her results because again

01:12:15.740 it starts with the eyeballs right you you got to get the men's eyeballs on you and if she's flat

01:12:21.940 is a boy like I don't know if she's got a back but if she doesn't like I would go buy boobs I would

01:12:29.080 I know no no no look they've done these studies if you pull men and ask them what do you prefer

01:12:35.720 no boobs or fake boobs they all say no boobs and I know you guys think that's what you like the

01:12:42.760 same way we think that's like we like the nice guys you know we think that however they've done

01:12:49.160 studies where they show men two pictures and when they see the pictures what do they point to

01:12:57.260 the giant knockers when did pamela anderson get on the cover she said i didn't get on the cover

01:13:04.100 of playboy when i had normal boobs when i went and got my fake boobs i went on the cover

01:13:08.800 and that's a magazine that focused on what men respond to now i know but you're like but that's

01:13:14.680 not wifey that's not look you guys don't go out looking for wives you go out looking for hoes and

01:13:20.700 you bring someone home and eventually she stays around long enough and boom you're married

01:13:24.720 unless you're a super simp out there but that's usually how it goes the men are like

01:13:30.800 I want a hot piece of ass I'll take that one big tits and then boom they start hooking up and then

01:13:37.400 boom he's like oh she's kind of nice okay I'll keep her around that's kind of how it goes it's

01:13:41.920 not like men go in and they're like you know occasionally when a guy's older and maybe he's

01:13:49.740 worked a lot and he's like had a lot of sex and like he's on a mission he wants a wife in the

01:13:54.640 next like two years i i have seen guys like that and sure maybe but still they're they're still

01:14:02.620 gonna go for the hot piece of ass first um and you guys that want to lie

01:14:08.580 i'm not gonna virtue signal here yeah that's why relationships pearl needs to hang out in

01:14:20.960 the realms of reality yeah okay

01:14:22.720 i do live in the i've interviewed a thousand people i would see who people hooked up with

01:14:31.940 after the shows i would see what you guys click on guys with boobs it's like google got like

01:14:37.040 real pearl you're wrong real men want knockers i mean i'm sure your first choice is real ones

01:14:44.800 and i'm not saying like if a woman's at a solid c cup she doesn't need to get fake tits you know

01:14:49.960 like she can still pull like purity but i'm saying if a woman's a five it might be time to go get

01:14:55.200 some this like black dress that was similar and like it happened to be halloween this would cause

01:15:00.200 people to assume that i'm a weeb and i go to cons but i've been to a con like once in my life and i

01:15:04.260 think most anime is trash even outside of hinge though like when i'm meeting people for the first

01:15:07.480 time they assume that i'm a weeb and if i'm wearing j fashion or something i understand but

01:15:11.720 if i'm just like wearing my software engineer fits like what okay prompts uh in my opinion my

01:15:17.000 prompts are all very generic and don't really say that much but photos are more important anyway

01:15:20.340 this one is actually quite important because um usually people ask me like which webtoons i draw

01:15:25.580 and then like they go look at it when i share with them and then like from that you get a much

01:15:29.860 better idea of my sense of humor and stuff plus if we both read the same webtoons that's a really

01:15:33.880 good starting point and then we have this this is very important and i'm not getting rid of it

01:15:38.840 like the having kids field at the beginning i put not sure because like there i can see like a few

01:15:44.040 circumstances where like i might be okay with it circumstances like you're a billionaire you're

01:15:47.880 gonna hire a nanny i never have to see it etc wow like i'm leaning no and i really need to

01:15:53.880 get that across wow what a anyway okay okay um most sexually oh my gosh most socially awkward

01:16:04.280 women are single for years and unable to find a relationship and they'll go years and years

01:16:08.840 without sex and the reason they go years and years without sex is because you'll hear them

01:16:13.480 say they never find men they like which is true but remember like this woman here will find a man

01:16:20.840 that she likes pretty often because she's hot enough to this woman you know like what was

01:16:26.360 sheldon like a six seven he's like a tall scientist let's put six you know she's a four

01:16:32.040 that makes sense right but that's you know how often like the the brad pitts and the this guy

01:16:41.640 only have so much free time right they can't everybody and you know the men that look like

01:16:48.040 oh wait hold on the men that look like this you know i know men with like

01:16:53.400 five girl rotations girl number five is getting seen like every other month like twice a month

01:17:00.040 maybe every other month if she's not sleeping with anyone else that's her life so that's all

01:17:05.880 the social skills she's like getting um anyways let me go back

01:17:12.920 but anyways my main point is that um socially awkward women put their fears in front of

01:17:24.440 getting what they want and I want to do a call-in show so we're gonna put the link in the chat I'm

01:17:30.740 gonna read this article while I'm waiting but we're gonna put the link in the chat and I want

01:17:35.420 guys to tell me if you've dated socially awkward women um what you know what your experience was

01:17:45.180 like with them do you think i'm right wrong i just kind of want to hear you guys's stories you can

01:17:51.100 stay off camera but i need to see that you're a person i don't want to get flashed i don't want

01:17:55.740 any weird stuff my rules are please be respectful please get to the point i really hate cutting

01:18:03.260 people off it's just not my personality so if you could just get to your point um if you have a

01:18:09.980 stories of like um guys that have run a rotation and be interesting to have you on and like if any

01:18:16.300 of these women were in your rotation would they see anyone else how often would you see them um

01:18:23.740 if you've dated women like this like what were the biggest challenges um

01:18:28.380 like what what was you know the hardest about dating women like that

01:18:33.920 and try to be specific like which one did you date the one that talks too much too little

01:18:39.880 give me age of them looks level etc okay socially awkward women get obsessed and it weirds you out

01:18:50.140 says leo okay how tolerant are americans of awkward situations um awkward silences clog

01:18:57.500 toilets and gossipy text messages mistakenly to the wrong person everyone encounters embarrassing

01:19:03.340 or awkward situations yet there's a great deal of variation in how people respond to them

01:19:08.140 how americans cope with awkwardness with situations they find awkward um whether people

01:19:14.380 personally consider themselves to be an awkward person everyone has embarrassing moments but some

01:19:19.100 people encounter or enable them more than often one in four americans say they're much more

01:19:23.420 awkward than other people, while 41% consider themselves less awkward, and 25% says they're

01:19:29.380 an average amount of awkward. Youth appears to foster awkwardness. Young adults, particularly

01:19:34.480 under 30, are far more likely than older Americans to consider themselves awkward. Only 11% of people

01:19:40.140 65 years and older think they're more awkward than other people. If you look by age 18 to 29,

01:19:50.260 25 percent think they're much more awkward 12 percent um or no 12 percent say much more awkward

01:20:02.940 somewhat somewhat more awkward is 25 percent 28 is normal um somewhat less awkward 16 percent

01:20:12.700 seven percent much less awkward some people know how to cope with awkwardness better than others

01:20:17.200 one in three Americans say they're much or somewhat more tolerant of awkward situations

01:20:22.380 than other people. Just as many, 34% say they're about as tolerant as others, while 21% believe

01:20:28.680 they're less tolerant of others. Americans 65 and older are more likely than younger adults

01:20:34.480 to say they're more tolerant than other people. Regardless of whether or not they're tolerant of

01:20:44.100 awkward situations. Do Americans enjoy them? The majority dislike or hate being present for

01:20:50.600 awkward situations. Well, 15% say they love or like it. Despite Americans 65 and older reporting

01:20:57.080 a greater tolerance of awkwardness than younger people, they are less likely to enjoy these

01:21:01.700 situations. Only 8% say they love them compared to 21% of people under 30. Three in five Americans

01:21:09.100 say they feel anxiety in social situations at least some of the time and only 21 percent say

01:21:14.860 they often do 25 percent say they rarely do and eight percent say they never do social anxiety

01:21:19.620 appears to wane with age adults under 30 are more than three times as likely as 65 and older to say

01:21:27.460 that they experience anxiety in social situations um okay so do we have anyone on the line for the

01:21:35.720 call okay cool okay so again now we're gonna go to take callers um let's go to uh jc first

01:21:45.800 you don't have to put them off camera to start oh yeah yeah sorry um put them off camera to start

01:21:52.840 start also us also if you guys have a chat you want red please go to the audacity network uh dot

01:22:00.840 com let's see zoom yeah um go to the audacitynetwork.com and um join the yearly or monthly

01:22:12.800 membership one yearly membership sponsors all our shows as you guys know these women try to ruin my

01:22:18.640 life they threaten me with lawsuits they demonetize me they just i mean you guys know how vengeful

01:22:24.480 women are like dear god you know you know you know you know you know you know you know sorry

01:22:30.220 that's me um you know how vengeful women are so all the support we can get it helps we're also

01:22:35.740 raising money for the divorce documentary um okay we got brad on the line do you want to be on camera

01:22:43.660 brad um oh you're muted you gotta unmute just give me a thumbs up if you're good to be on camera

01:22:53.260 to start okay he's good to be on camera but i do need you to unmute

01:22:56.780 is that us or them okay hold on oh now i hear him um okay we got

01:23:05.900 uh let's see do i still hear him

01:23:09.660 okay i think the audio is okay now how are you doing brad doing good pearl it's good to see you

01:23:22.700 again i hope you're well i hope you're well also um what's your thought on the topic today

01:23:28.380 you know what caught your attention um so i know your call-in inquiry was about

01:23:34.840 uh if you dated like a socially awkward girl is that correct yeah yes definitely have this one is

01:23:42.340 not like the divorce story this one's personal so i definitely have experience with that

01:23:46.340 okay so what happened or what give me her age job and like how you met her first

01:23:53.580 um so i was doing it i was 22 she was 21 she was one of those call center agents you know

01:24:01.500 when people call in for like tech support and stuff okay yeah so she was 21 she was doing the

01:24:08.060 call center gig and um i'm sorry does that answer the question yeah so she was 21 and how did you

01:24:16.260 meet her? Uh, so I was doing it for Verizon. She was one of the call center people. Um, just kind

01:24:23.280 of came over to help her out with something and then little exchange of numbers happen and so on,

01:24:28.420 so forth. You know, the rest is history kind of vibe. Yeah. And one to 10, would you rate her?

01:24:34.340 Uh, physically, uh,

01:24:36.180 my like myself like a five okay like a solid five okay and so what was like what were the

01:24:46.340 challenges you had dating her like what like what were the problems that came up

01:24:50.820 okay i want to be super careful how i say this because it's going to come across weird right

01:24:58.540 but it's almost like you're dating a child it's it's almost like um the concepts are the concepts

01:25:08.180 aren't clicking it's almost as if they're not aware of like what's happening it's almost like

01:25:15.780 they're kind of in um what do you call that ignorance is bliss vibe where it's just wherever

01:25:22.280 you're going wherever you're taking the conversation they follow but they're not

01:25:27.260 thinking critically they're not contributing they don't have any like ideas of their own

01:25:33.100 um so was she the quiet ones like the ones that don't talk enough um let me think on that one so

01:25:43.660 no more of the other one where it's like they talk too much oh okay and could you give me an

01:25:49.340 example of like a specific situation yeah i was just about to do that you read on the same wavelength

01:25:54.780 for show um so just kind of intimate moments just randomly start giggling and you're like

01:26:04.000 well what's so funny and it's the whole i don't know but it's just just can't stop giggling where

01:26:10.260 that's kind of where i got that child vibe i'm like well this is like not not the time and place

01:26:16.220 to just be laughing about something hysterical um and then i'd be like well what are you laughing

01:26:21.240 about and she'd just be thinking about a south park episode she watched when she was like 17

01:26:24.940 i'm like why the hell excuse my language yeah are you thinking about south park episode you watched

01:26:30.200 forever ago in the middle of this you know like total weird um another example would be

01:26:39.180 you're just talking about um i don't know you're talking about politics you're talking about the

01:26:46.500 economy groceries being you know out of ridiculously out of out of uh out of pocket

01:26:54.160 and then uh they just randomly bring up their obsession with um what was it it was like raves

01:27:01.180 and edm music and stuff and it's almost like the con it's basically it's like you're not even

01:27:06.800 having a conversation with this person it doesn't matter if you're the person with them or if

01:27:12.240 someone else is with them like like their minds their minds somewhere else almost like you you

01:27:18.920 could i could be there you could be there and it would make no difference to how this chick would

01:27:23.600 talk you know what i'm saying it would just be like off the wall stuff and you're and you're

01:27:29.580 like are we even having a conversation like normally there's a back and forth there is i

01:27:35.480 say this it makes you think this and then you it's relevant in some way no like there was just

01:27:40.900 no relevance to to any of the the thought process the conversation intimacy was the same way it was

01:27:47.780 just weird it was just weird and from your perspective what stunted her like development

01:27:53.740 mentally was it like a dad she was depending on or like what was the like was there like a guy

01:27:59.760 solving all her problems so she never had to grow up like what was the yeah that was it yes yes it

01:28:06.620 was definitely um she still lived with her parents um i remember her sister because her sister worked

01:28:15.620 there as well her sister said that kind of kind of you know when we're all young we stash like

01:28:23.600 oh i had like a bowl of cereal when i was 13 and i stashed it in the room and it like got left in

01:28:30.020 there and then mom and dad found it this girl was 21 still doing this stuff because i remember

01:28:35.860 talking to the sister and i was like what is with her and she's like oh she she's trying to be

01:28:41.360 basically not growing up like she still lives mom and dad she never cleans she stashes dishes in her

01:28:46.820 room still um doesn't actually now that i think about it yeah i don't think she had any bills she

01:28:53.740 didn't she didn't have a car payment she didn't have a cell phone she didn't have nothing so i

01:28:58.120 definitely would say sheltered yeah and did you end up breaking up with her over it

01:29:02.560 or like ending it yeah yeah don't judge me chat don't judge me it's all right i mean

01:29:09.500 i had to do how long did you date her till you like dumped her oh this is embarrassing like

01:29:18.040 i gave i gave it the old college try i gave it like eight months to a year

01:29:22.420 okay and then you kind of it was just too much for you

01:29:25.600 it just it just one of those things where like i was saying it's like i i felt like

01:29:32.560 You know, when you're in a normal relationship, you feel seen, you feel like the person sees you, what you think, how you how your mind works.

01:29:43.200 And then there's kind of like a duality there. It just felt like it didn't matter who was the guy.

01:29:50.880 It did not. It just felt like another example. Actually, now that you ask that, I remember asking her, like, what is your plans?

01:29:58.340 Like, what do you what is your five year plan? Like, what do you want in the future?

01:30:02.560 And she said, I want a child.

01:30:05.240 And I was like, okay.

01:30:06.340 I was like, do you want a child with me?

01:30:08.540 And this was the big indicator.

01:30:09.860 She said, no, I just want a child.

01:30:12.580 And that's where it kind of clicked in my head.

01:30:14.640 Like, okay, yeah, it doesn't matter who the dude is.

01:30:18.680 She's.

01:30:21.280 And it kind of like, it kind of insults your ego a little bit.

01:30:24.400 Because you're like, oh, you weren't even attracted to me.

01:30:26.200 You were just, you just wanted a placeholder, period.

01:30:29.200 And how long has it been?

01:30:30.440 Like, how long ago was this now?

01:30:31.920 like what happened to her what's she doing now do you know uh i

01:30:37.920 she popped up on uh my people you may know so i was 22 she was 21 i'm 30 now so she'd be 29

01:30:48.100 she popped up on my people you may know she was kind of like myself like just white

01:30:55.160 midwestern american you know what i mean just plain jane girl now she's got the neck tattoos

01:31:02.700 no oh yeah no i'm not even joking and then she was with this dude and i'm talking this and this

01:31:10.880 was another one of those like placeholder things she had this dude in the photo and he had like

01:31:15.500 one of them ridiculous african um gauges in the ear where it's a big hole with like a droopy ear

01:31:22.600 you know i'm talking about yeah um and he just looked like he looked like Groot from uh what's

01:31:31.540 that show the marvel show you know Groot the stick yeah Groot mixed with Sid from ice age

01:31:38.680 it's the best way to explain what this dude looked like it was is she a single mom or like

01:31:43.580 does she have a kid now yes yeah one or two uh i don't know the details but i know that i saw a

01:31:51.220 baby and all right go ahead and roast me i did a little bit of stocking guys it is what it is

01:31:58.660 who does it we're all we also we got to make sure we're doing better than our exes like come on

01:32:03.620 definitely definitely had a kid i would say i mean this ain't even really like matter but

01:32:13.620 she definitely put on i would say like a solid 40 pounds so yeah she's leaving dishes in her room

01:32:19.260 at 21 like that's not good you know it was it was weird too it was like um

01:32:27.080 i don't know it was just it was just weird i just felt didn't ever have like a

01:32:35.520 intimate moment that was weird but i just felt dirty nonetheless does that make sense yeah i

01:32:40.800 felt like i was like taking advantage of someone and i was like yeah yeah it was it was just a

01:32:46.880 weird vibe but um yeah i hope i answered all the questions i hope that makes sense yeah you totally

01:32:51.780 did thank you for sharing brad i appreciate it call in any time all right yep no i pre pearl

01:32:59.580 before you go i have a question for you sure okay because i know that all the guys are probably

01:33:04.560 curious on this why specifically because i hear you say it all the time you say they're always

01:33:09.920 trying to destroy my life they're always trying to come after me if you could give me maybe it

01:33:15.260 doesn't have to be the reason but what would you say is the number one reason these chicks are

01:33:19.620 coming after you because i'm curious like why oh they don't like if you reveal things that are like

01:33:25.340 bad about female it's all reputation right like women are fueled by reputation so if you have an

01:33:30.900 ex that tried to destroy you ever you probably damaged her reputation to some extent like maybe

01:33:36.860 she cheated and like it like ruined the town so it's easier to call you an abuser it's the same

01:33:42.200 thing with me it's like if i reveal negative things about female nature then it's easier to

01:33:47.260 just like attack me because it's based on reputation like like it ruins the reputation

01:33:52.740 of women that's why you get like not all women are like that because if i say look

01:33:56.620 ladies you fuck you're fucking somebody like you're 28 you know what i mean you're 29 you're 32

01:34:02.680 why are we waiting yeah like they can't get their resources they used to get because they used to

01:34:08.140 be able to like pull the men used to literally wait three months all the time like 10 years ago

01:34:12.760 that wasn't that abnormal so like oh okay so you're saying that because you're impacting their

01:34:21.140 ability to survive yeah they're trying to discredit you by any means necessary is that kind of the

01:34:27.400 yeah like nala like if i say hey this woman is not like she's a whore and she's using christians

01:34:34.680 as a get out of jail free card that ruins her reputation so it's easier to just like sue me

01:34:39.760 so i i saw that too and i've seen all the all those andrew wilson yeah things with nala i'm

01:34:48.260 gonna let you get i know i'm sorry i'm getting nothing else here my thing my thing with nala

01:34:52.900 that they just i cannot understand this about michael knows and nala is not one not one hard

01:35:00.820 press question about like why is your only fan still up why do you still have chats why do you

01:35:06.660 still have the subscription like not one not one dude are you serious right now he wants like it

01:35:13.780 it's a sympathemic i mean he wants to get paid so you know that's what it is but i gotta move

01:35:20.340 on to the next caller i gotta move on to the next caller all right brad appreciate it thank you

01:35:25.620 thank you we're moving on to jc

01:35:30.820 let's see what we got we got jc moving on next

01:35:37.960 right he was in the show here see there oh all right jc i need your camera on you're not going

01:35:49.140 to be on camera okay um are you good to be on camera or no if no okay that's fine you can turn

01:35:56.520 off your camera i just needed to make sure you're a real person okay yeah how's it going jc it's

01:36:04.000 going so what what's your experience with socially awkward women what are your thoughts on the topic

01:36:10.220 uh well as being as i you know i hit 18 like i basically dated nothing but awkward women some

01:36:22.100 pretty attractive women but most of them are all awkward in different ways

01:36:26.420 um the one a really big one comes to mind was a girl i did when i was 18 and she was 17.

01:36:32.580 um she was into photography and she you know had glasses she looked like she looked like one of

01:36:39.380 those like old 70s 80s uh uh stereotypical nerdy girls you know got glasses but a little bit big

01:36:47.060 nose but huge uh chest you know the the stereotype that was back in that day okay so like a like a

01:36:54.100 five six girl yeah yeah yeah yeah and i was i was in uh community college at the time also kind of

01:37:01.220 you know working my way into the military um so she wasn't even she wasn't my girlfriend we didn't

01:37:06.580 like officially date she was just one of the females i talked to um but like arranging stuff

01:37:12.740 with her was awful um even hanging out where she was really quiet so answer that when she was the

01:37:18.820 quiet awkward let's say all she if the only thing you could hear talk about is her photography and

01:37:23.780 maybe cars she was a car girl so that was awkward um intimacy was you know not almost not as instant

01:37:34.340 i don't think we made it past second base if i remember correctly but like it was just awkward

01:37:39.300 um she had a overbearing mother so she was like really locked down she was really sheltered yes

01:37:47.140 okay to the point um the last i heard from her what when i didn't hear from her i actually met

01:37:53.620 her mother um about when i was 25 26 and i think about this today because i turned her down for a

01:38:01.620 official relationship because she wanted to date but i wasn't you know i was i was a i i was 18 19

01:38:08.500 going around doing whatever so i wasn't really into it but um her mother said she turned 18

01:38:15.460 moved out a week later and married some 40 year old dude at 18 like completely just

01:38:19.940 up and ran away and hadn't talked to her mother since that day holy crap yeah i felt bad about

01:38:26.660 that because i was like well did i if i hadn't rejected her what she had done that like i felt

01:38:31.140 bad about it for a while because i was like well did it work out because i'm guessing that was kind

01:38:34.980 kind of a while ago now did it work out or no um that was that um I don't know because I haven't

01:38:41.680 been able to find her I haven't heard from her because she changed her last name so obviously

01:38:46.520 Facebook's different now um she was still married to the guy at 25 when I found her on Facebook she

01:38:53.480 she had gotten rid of her glasses she got her she got contacts she got her hair dyed from uh

01:38:58.540 from dark brown to like platinum blonde um um doesn't look like she lost weight but she was

01:39:06.240 wearing more um like fitting clothing instead of wearing like you know the the you know nerd girl

01:39:12.620 t-shirt she was wearing like actual like stuff that hugged her body a little bit more um but

01:39:18.600 that was the last i heard about it was five years five years ago but yeah her her mom was distraught

01:39:24.020 about it that she just up and left and and hadn't seen her since then and what were some of the

01:39:29.740 challenges that came from dating her i think you mentioned maybe there was some other ones too that

01:39:35.580 you dated um what are some specific situations that maybe made the relationship difficult

01:39:41.520 uh with her it's a i mean intimacy was really odd like she was very hesitant and or and then

01:39:49.640 she was really not hesitant like she she wouldn't want to um be intimate when she was hanging out

01:39:57.760 with me but like later when i'm going to go do something she'd be texting me stuff like you know

01:40:02.620 you know women talk you know they'll talk game but don't back it up when you show up

01:40:06.660 yeah that stuff that stuff happened was it like a religious background like do you think it was

01:40:12.960 because she felt guilty about the sexual stuff?

01:40:16.440 I don't know.

01:40:18.100 I actually, like I said, I was 18 at the time,

01:40:20.540 so I really was not paying any attention

01:40:22.580 to my religion at the time.

01:40:23.940 So I never even asked, I'll be honest.

01:40:25.840 Oh, I just, I didn't know if she was,

01:40:27.100 sometimes you get that with the religious girls.

01:40:29.480 They're kind of like weird about sex.

01:40:33.040 Yeah.

01:40:35.080 I've had, I've actually had more than one girl

01:40:37.220 that fit that description where it's just like

01:40:39.360 either a single mother or a single mother

01:40:41.160 stepfather and the mother's super overbearing so they're they're always awkward from that

01:40:49.720 and i and then you know my now wife but i've dated a bunch of horse girls if i can give

01:40:55.400 any advice to men listening avoid horse girls is a pain oh oh that's funny because they're

01:41:03.320 very socially awkward they are but they're also aggressive because they're used to riding horses

01:41:09.640 And with training horses, they're like, you have to be aggressive.

01:41:14.460 So they'll, like, smack the horse.

01:41:16.080 They'll, I don't know what the little whip thing they use is.

01:41:19.820 So they're more aggressive about their awkwardness.

01:41:22.020 It's not like they're going to just be there and be quiet.

01:41:23.680 They're going to be annoying about it.

01:41:25.860 Yeah.

01:41:26.900 Are there any other situations you remember with the women?

01:41:30.680 Outside of sex, but just, like, day-to-day conversation that made it hard to be with them?

01:41:35.020 um a lot of them honestly didn't have much interesting to talk about i'm being honest

01:41:41.380 i mean we don't really tend to care a lot about what to talk about until we like you like like

01:41:47.360 when when it's just a hookup phase we don't care what you want to talk about but once you're like

01:41:51.240 dating or you know my wife like i want to have conversations with you and they don't honestly

01:41:56.800 have a lot to talk about so it's kind of weird and they'll always if you were a decent level guy

01:42:04.420 you know looking ability they'll always come back to you like you know they'll message you i have

01:42:12.280 the one a second girl that messaged me a couple months ago i ain't seen her since i was 25 and

01:42:18.180 she she's messaging is like yeah i liked you more than anyone even when we dated in college i'm like

01:42:23.620 yo this is nine ten years ago like i'm married with kids now yeah she hasn't been able to have

01:42:29.360 like more experiences to help her move on i guess right like she couldn't um because i find a lot

01:42:38.740 of them their social life kind of drops off after college would you say that's true college and some

01:42:45.180 don't even make it that far if i'm being honest yeah yeah well thanks for calling in i'm gonna

01:42:52.280 move to the next caller but thank you but yeah i appreciate you telling me your stories guys

01:42:58.320 so next on the line we got let me see we had someone in the waiting room didn't we

01:43:07.020 okay oh these are my choices mm-hmm I can do Bon Goon

01:43:13.620 okay let's see i got to see that you're a person you're not on camera to start

01:43:30.820 bangun but i got to see that you're a person

01:43:37.940 i'm going to read also the chat on the website which guys we have 14 people in the chat on the

01:43:43.140 website. What a day. If you guys have something you want to say, go on the website. I'm going to

01:43:50.120 read this really quick before we get to the next caller. I'd rather have a socially awkward woman

01:43:55.320 with a good attitude than a 10 who's a nag. Pearl, a 9 is the gal who is stunning. A few people have

01:44:01.200 ever seen a 9 in real life. She's beautiful when she speaks or walks. It's as beautiful as she is.

01:44:05.860 She's the gal that turns heads everywhere. A 10 is like the Loch Ness monster. She probably exists,

01:44:10.080 but most people only hear stories about them if they exist they're squirreled away by their wealthy

01:44:14.400 husband unless batshit crazy a four is a gal you see in public and think i hope she can cook

01:44:20.220 she can get a husband but she'll need to have reasonable domestic skills and behave well

01:44:24.940 a three is a gal you see at walmart and think oh bless her heart poor thing she needs very

01:44:29.840 developed domestic skills and look for a husband and accept an exceptional school

01:44:35.600 um fazelle says a quiet girl is the god given a true blessing dane the two typically has two

01:44:43.960 issues with personal hygiene they usually come with deep intellectual issues she can be

01:44:47.800 the best housewife and be single she literally thinks her cats are her kids

01:44:51.740 the one is a homeless woman she's missing atomical parts she's morbidly obese anorexic or physically

01:44:57.480 handicapped fazelle says pearl is bad for the 304 business t carp says they always come back

01:45:05.300 ground when they get lonely.

01:45:07.340 What's going on, Bon Goon?

01:45:08.540 You're good to be on camera, right?

01:45:09.980 You've been on before.

01:45:14.040 I can't hear you.

01:45:15.580 Maybe he's muted.

01:45:18.020 No, I don't want to be on camera.

01:45:19.480 Bad hair day, Phil.

01:45:20.680 Oh, OK.

01:45:21.400 Not today.

01:45:22.080 No problem.

01:45:23.360 So what's your thought on the topic?

01:45:25.100 Have you dated a socially awkward woman?

01:45:28.640 Well, I wouldn't say dated, but I encountered one night.

01:45:34.240 was staying at my cousin's house and one of his well one of his uh flatmates was there and flirting

01:45:40.640 with me that night okay and uh well she she was flirting with me but then like when we're cracking

01:45:49.440 on she was um i don't know she was like punching me i guess you know like when we're um uh when

01:45:59.040 we're flirting and then like i didn't think too much of her i thought she was a bit odd and then

01:46:03.120 went to bed and uh she just opened the door and to the spare room and jumped into bed with me

01:46:10.000 so she was hitting she was hitting you and then she jumped into bed yeah

01:46:16.400 did you do it um that's a yes bon goon

01:46:21.360 i knew somebody's screwing these whales somebody's doing it

01:46:32.480 she wasn't a whale she wasn't okay okay what was she one what was she one to ten

01:46:38.120 i don't know man uh she was a lot of fun uh she wasn't like the most attractive all right fair

01:46:45.200 enough like but uh i need a ranking i need you to be objective you've seen how i rank women where is

01:46:52.080 she i'd say about five or six objectively right okay okay fine but like yeah um so then she just

01:47:03.760 disappeared virtually straight afterwards you know went back to her room i was like oh right

01:47:08.720 until the next morning and she did it again she just came no no talking just just banging huh

01:47:18.560 no talking no words it was and then she did it again disappeared went back to her room

01:47:24.920 and then like i was like did i just get used

01:47:30.480 that's mad so yeah it happens

01:47:37.460 well you know but like she was very socially awkward obviously

01:47:43.600 where did she go like what happened to her did she ever get married like how wait

01:47:49.280 actually let me start how old was she um i don't know she was i suppose in her late 20s

01:47:56.680 that was in my early 30s

01:48:00.160 she

01:48:02.300 but I do know that my cousin

01:48:04.240 fancied her and like we sort of

01:48:06.220 fell out after that

01:48:07.500 so yeah that's

01:48:10.080 a bit of a downside but he was a dick

01:48:12.220 anyway so

01:48:13.060 he's like worth it

01:48:15.300 yeah

01:48:16.620 fuck my cousin

01:48:18.940 I'm banging this chick

01:48:21.340 well thanks for calling

01:48:23.860 I didn't turn her away you know I didn't turn

01:48:26.280 the lady away well thanks for calling in bon goon no worries man thanks for saying my name right

01:48:32.740 finally all right next on the call we got renegated authority

01:48:42.060 i said we shagged yeah i know you guys

01:48:52.600 do you know how i know you guys lie to me about how hot how hot of like women you date i i know

01:49:01.600 how you like because i've seen celebrities rosters and so if i see the guys that like

01:49:08.780 the women the nfl players are getting pregnant and their mids a lot of them you're telling me

01:49:15.680 yours are so much better get the fuck out of here get out half of american women are overweight

01:49:22.040 they're like i would never i would never date a single mother seriously really

01:49:27.000 even one that looked like megan fought really she was hot enough you would i've seen i've seen

01:49:32.920 greater men than you fold i i have you might think oh i would never i would never do

01:49:39.300 i've been around too long i really i've been around too long okay guys like

01:49:45.440 i've seen men there's a guy i used to do shows with a lot and that was this thing he was like

01:49:52.500 i'll never i'll never wife a whore i'll never wife a whore why does your girlfriend have a sleeve

01:49:56.940 i know who your girlfriend is

01:50:02.920 she used to bang everybody she was very she's very generous with the pussy you know what i

01:50:08.060 mean she's like you get it you get it you get it you get it men men fold a lot

01:50:14.820 and i don't i don't really care what you guys say i don't need cap today okay but i do have

01:50:24.700 another caller we have renegade authority um please turn on your camera so i can see your

01:50:30.560 person you will be off camera to start um if you want to stay on camera i'll show the people um

01:50:42.960 they said wrap and unwrap look all i'm saying

01:50:48.240 is that if it's look i i know men

01:50:54.240 most of you would cheat on your wives if it was easy and you didn't think you'd get caught

01:51:00.560 if some four you thought had a gluck gluck 9 000 right if this woman that looked

01:51:11.760 uh because okay a mid and higher most men are gonna do right that's kind of how i rank it like

01:51:19.440 a mid is like men's attraction for well even the brad pits of the world if it's easy they're gonna

01:51:26.720 do it right like none of you were saying no to this her this girl's gonna get most of you to cheat

01:51:38.000 now i'm not saying you'll settle down with her but like

01:51:42.800 i mean if you're at a bar she approached you and you know it's going to be easy and there

01:51:50.640 they're saying helna helna shut the fuck up sorry okay shut up i don't believe you

01:52:00.920 i don't two beers in she looks good to me i know look i've seen uglier women men do like

01:52:09.860 i've seen men better than you do uglier that's all i'm saying pearl is right i know i'm right

01:52:17.200 christianity unplugged says beer goggles thank you for being honest thank you thank you t carp

01:52:24.420 in the audacity chat says they always come back around when they get lonely let me refresh you

01:52:28.800 make sure i'm not missing any i've done worse sober i'm trying to create a i'm trying to create

01:52:36.320 a space you know every every mid for the most part unless if you got married before 22 as a mid

01:52:43.220 you might never have taken an L because a mid at 22 like like this girl looks around 22 right

01:52:52.020 ish like would you guys agree so she gets kind of like points like uh she's a five six she's not a

01:52:58.740 five six she's a four but because she's young she almost gets placed in the same category

01:53:04.680 um maybe not as ivanka but it's not that far is what i'm saying like the 42 year old seven

01:53:13.340 and the 22 year old four

01:53:16.840 i mean it's not you guys are both gonna do it like here let me go through this

01:53:25.940 you're all doing her if it's easy and you could cheat even if you're married you're all doing her

01:53:32.940 pretty much if if she made it very easy and you didn't think you'd get caught and no one would

01:53:38.700 know you're doing it um you're all doing her um you're all doing her for sure you like would

01:53:46.420 cheat and get caught for this one um you'd cheat and get caught for this one it's slow tuesday you

01:53:54.040 guys would do it um well now we're into the men so yeah so i mean the only one you guys are not

01:54:05.000 doing is this girl on the left which is like the three and lower category that's when you guys are

01:54:11.680 like okay i i have standards all right like fours to sevens are the mids that you guys are all gonna

01:54:19.520 to do how did Ivanka I mean what would you guys put Ivanka at but I don't know she's 42 I'd say

01:54:27.880 when she was younger she was like a seven eight um now I'd put her at like a six seven

01:54:33.360 and you know what I know some of you would do the three two the male sex drive is strong if it had

01:54:45.740 been long enough and it was easy enough i know a lot of you are gonna do it i'm not proud of that

01:54:52.100 right i mean you guys follow me i like to think you're above it but i'm i'm being honest here you

01:55:02.820 know i've just been disappointed too many times i really have renegade authority i need camera on

01:55:12.660 um mic on i need to see that you're a person i will um we won't put you on camera to start

01:55:23.520 however i need to see that you're like real we can take the slideshow down

01:55:28.320 because but let me let me see that you're a person

01:55:33.900 yeah i'm not seeing your video renegade we're picky in cells shut the fuck up

01:55:46.540 guys do you know what i had a guy he was um

01:55:55.200 you know i i saw with the end he had a five girl rotation right guy i knew in london

01:56:02.120 and I saw what the end of his rotation looked like

01:56:05.940 and he was better looking than most of you guys

01:56:10.340 like he was good enough to have a five girl rotation

01:56:13.260 now I will say body does switch a girl's rating a bit

01:56:25.180 I do think boobs and butt

01:56:28.380 like add

01:56:30.020 he says that's him but he sent the link in the chat or something okay um

01:56:42.080 pearl are you in a bad mood today yes i am because i don't like being lied to

01:56:49.140 i don't like the i don't like the bs i just want to cut through it i want to cut i want to cut

01:56:55.180 through and have an honest conversation what were his finances uh i mean he was pretty well off he

01:57:02.780 was like a successful i don't want to say his job because you guys will figure out who it is but

01:57:07.580 he he was in a job where he had stat like a little bit of clout so um

01:57:14.220 you know but the end of his rotation was not impressive the first three were generally

01:57:18.940 impressive but even those guys have slow tuesdays where the gluck gluck 5000 girl gets in there

01:57:25.180 who the f is lying someone said i'm lying i know

01:57:30.700 no it wasn't elon musk i've never met him elliot said i wouldn't even out even if i was drunk

01:57:41.760 charlie says obviously you're not counting religious guys standards guys if anything

01:57:47.180 religious guys have worse standards they marry porn stars like not only do they have worse

01:57:53.500 standards you guys are known for having do you know what i actually would consider simps or not

01:57:59.980 simps leftists men with open relationships more or sorry less of simps than i would consider

01:58:08.060 christian men and let me tell you why destiny let his wife get banged out by other dudes

01:58:15.340 but he was also having sex with pixie melania pixie's roommate i forgot her name he was having

01:58:22.380 sex with like five other girls who's a bigger simp the christian guy who married the porn star

01:58:28.980 who's getting cheated on or the leftist who's like look she's gonna cheat anyway i'm just gonna

01:58:33.420 cheat back like adam 22 right i mean yeah he married a porn star um and he loaned her out

01:58:42.560 to another guy but he made like millions of dollars off of it and also um

01:58:51.140 he his wife would bring him women to have sex with so like who's a bigger simp the christian

01:59:00.440 guy who married the born-again virgin and never cheated or the leftist who just said you know what

01:59:06.540 I'm keeping this open relationship.

01:59:10.000 Yeah, so actually, and I don't want this to be true,

01:59:13.800 but the problem is the church puts religious men

01:59:16.220 in such a bad position because they're like,

01:59:18.060 look, you guys, if you don't wait until you're married,

01:59:20.520 you're a bad person.

01:59:21.320 That's what they'll say.

01:59:22.900 And they're like, here are these whores in church.

01:59:27.220 I mean, the hot 20-year-old Megan Fox isn't going to church.

01:59:30.660 so i mean do you know do you know what i'm saying like the

01:59:38.320 so because of that um you guys are in like the worst position because your only choice like the

01:59:48.060 women in church are whores and they also tell you you can't date outside of the church

01:59:51.580 it's like they're basically saying wife up these hoes or go to hell

01:59:55.440 and if you watch porn you're a bad guy and if you don't get married you're a bad guy

02:00:01.180 and if you date around you're a bad guy so yeah it's definitely worse anyways um i don't think

02:00:09.360 the video was working for the renegades so i think we're just gonna what yeah i think we're

02:00:15.880 just gonna end the show but yeah charlie you're not gonna you're not gonna convince me with that

02:00:22.320 bs i know liberal men and i know conservative men and conservative men love to get bamboozled

02:00:29.960 that is like their favorite thing they like are foaming at the mouth dying to get bamboozled

02:00:36.680 they're like please trick me please porn stuff fazelle says i'll do a whale at 3 a.m when i'm

02:00:43.320 at my post drink max iq level then i'll blame the alcohol thank you for being honest that's all i

02:00:48.840 need well thank you guys for watching today um if you guys want your comments read please go to

02:00:56.000 the audacitynetwork.com i really do appreciate you guys um supporting me you guys don't have

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02:01:17.380 good to get like a thousand five hundred likes on this video so if you can hit it on the way out

02:01:21.320 thanks so much for watching and I'll see you guys tomorrow bye

Pearl - February 11, 2025

The Curse of Socially Awkward Women (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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