Pearl - The Downfall of The Western Man Can Be Blamed on Modern Women

00:00:00.000 plain and simple you were not raised to be a man we were not raised to be men in this country

00:00:05.440 in this culture we were raised to be safe for women what up guys welcome to my reaction series

00:00:11.360 so on this channel we have talked a lot about the issues with modern mothers and how most

00:00:16.400 mothers really aren't good people and today we are actually hearing it from the horse's mouth 0.97

00:00:21.600 um there is a video talking about we were raised by women who hated men so let's see what this guy

00:00:29.520 has to say let me say something that's going to make a lot of people uncomfortable and by a lot

00:00:37.120 of people i mean women so a lot of us a lot of us men if not all of us here in the west

00:00:46.160 we're raised by women but we because even if you're in a two-parent home the mom 1.00

00:00:51.520 usually is just in your ear more you were raised by women who didn't actually like men 1.00

00:00:56.400 and now i don't i don't mean yeah and that's the that's always what's in your ear it's like

00:01:02.860 don't trust men which is kind of crazy because women are the trustworthy one or sorry men are 1.00

00:01:08.640 trustworthy ones women are the deceitful ones and it's it's actually insane when you think about it 1.00

00:01:14.420 like even the fact that women think they're going to be used for sex is just automatically assuming 0.92

00:01:20.580 bad intent when most I would say most young men want to stay with the girls they're sleeping with

00:01:27.000 like I mean obviously there's the chad like running through but like out of 10 men more men 0.96

00:01:32.300 I think want commitment than women just your mom right I mean I mean the entire ecosystem

00:01:39.080 moms teachers counselors therapists daycare workers yeah correct church staff you name it

00:01:47.780 you know they you know we were told by those same women to to grow up and be a gentleman 0.60

00:01:56.180 to be kind and respectful and protective and safe we heard that a lot

00:02:04.420 but there's a cat and that's like automatically assuming they're unsafe you know

00:02:09.300 i'd be out with that it was it was you you were never to be too assertive

00:02:13.940 right never too confident or too masculine in other words be the thing they hated

00:02:22.420 just behave better let me repeat that be the thing they hated just behave better

00:02:33.140 i mean of course the the first woman who ever loved you it wasn't your girlfriend

00:02:36.580 or a crush it was your mom or maybe she didn't love you i don't know so

00:02:42.580 yeah i don't think most mothers love their kid i think most women have children for their ego 1.00

00:02:48.180 they want to fit in with their friends they want social status in the group i don't think most

00:02:52.980 women like the best thing you can do to a kid is like raise it do a good job leave it alone 1.00

00:02:59.300 and if you did a good job it'll the kid will actively want to spend time with you

00:03:04.740 you they those exist so especially the ones that really hate dudes um but yeah i mean let's say you

00:03:12.380 know your dad was either gone he was weak he was abusive or you know disrespected in the home

00:03:18.660 i mean that that love came with strings so and those strings are that that men are dangerous

00:03:25.020 right they're they're selfish they are the problem and uh you may have heard don't be like your

00:03:32.540 father yeah you're just like your father oh my gosh i heard that all the time growing up

00:03:39.900 and i love my dad now i'm like that's awesome i'd love to be like my dad

00:03:46.060 if i could be like a tenth of how awesome my dad is i would be really cool

00:03:51.900 you didn't just learn that love had conditions no you learned that you as a boy were guilty until

00:04:00.620 proven safe yeah that's so true and that's how they treat women or tell women to date 0.99

00:04:07.580 i remember when i was a kid like my mom would tell me don't get a boyfriend in high school

00:04:11.580 don't get a boyfriend in high school and i was ugly so i was like mom nobody's asking

00:04:17.420 but it's kind of ironic because she got a boyfriend right after high school and then

00:04:22.140 had had kids and they started a company and it was really successful like i'm like why

00:04:26.540 you know like why would why would that be the advice this wasn't love not at all it was it

00:04:33.500 was early stage programming that's what you experienced and it taught you to be ashamed

00:04:37.820 of your masculinity and to be ashamed of it before you even understood what it was

00:04:44.620 we we were told you can kind of see the sadness in his eye like there is nothing worse than somebody

00:04:52.580 who's wasted time because they were lied to and they took the wrong information to

00:04:57.420 control our emotions you were told hey control your emotions control them but you weren't taught

00:05:04.920 crazy because women are the ones who can't control our emotions it's not men 1.00

00:05:09.000 how you were you were taught to simply suppress them especially anger never let that cat out of

00:05:17.480 the bag you were told to to respect women but not to respect yourself when a woman disrespected you

00:05:27.420 you were you were and women are not told all the subtle ways we disrespect men we do it all the 1.00

00:05:33.640 time all the time and it just kind of shows how the society just caters to women over and over

00:05:40.400 told to be to be kind and be gentle but you weren't taught how to say no without feel without

00:05:48.560 fear of rejection or punishment that's the worst thing that mothers do that's like the worst thing 1.00

00:05:54.160 that mothers do is they make you feel guilty if you they they guilt you if they don't get their way 1.00

00:06:01.520 plain and simple you were not raised to be a man

00:06:03.920 Again, we were not raised to be men in this country, in this culture.

00:06:10.440 We were raised to be safe for women, to be safe for women.

00:06:16.080 And if you stepped outside those lines, you got hit with the ultimate insult, possibly.

00:06:23.960 You're acting just like your father, right?

00:06:28.080 You heard that one before?

00:06:29.840 You're acting just like your father.

00:06:33.920 but let's let's talk about numbers here let's talk about you know school for a second

00:06:39.400 over six or over 76 percent of k-12 teachers in the u.s are women

00:06:47.060 in early education it's over 90 percent

00:06:53.520 from the god help these kids and we can't even control our own emotions so then we torture the 0.69

00:07:00.420 children from the moment you step into a classroom you are placed in a behavioral system

00:07:07.920 designed by women for women for girls

00:07:12.680 boys aren't they're just outnumbered they're out cultured you you you're expected to you know sit

00:07:22.520 still for hours use your inside voice never never interrupt no never talk back never challenge

00:07:32.360 authority always be obedient but what's actually happening and it's crazy because that's the things

00:07:41.720 women should be taught like men are trained to be what women should be and women are being trained 0.53

00:07:46.440 to be men so it's like everything's inverted is is that that normal male behavior is being

00:07:53.000 pathologized yes yeah if you're you know if you're i've heard this one when i was nine you're too

00:07:59.960 energetic you have adhd my ninth grade teacher mrs tinsley and they put you on drugs as a kid

00:08:07.320 i thought i had adhd because in the middle of social studies i learned how to do this

00:08:15.720 and was super excited about it and kept doing it so and i didn't have adhd i was just

00:08:25.000 the the doctor said no he's just a nine-year-old so uh hats off to that doctor

00:08:32.040 but yeah i mean uh you know you're assertive that means you're aggressive

00:08:35.400 If you disagree, that means you're oppositional.

00:08:40.000 And if you're fidgety, then you're disruptive, right?

00:08:45.660 And what happens to boys in this system?

00:08:49.440 They adapt by shrinking.

00:08:52.080 I've talked about this.

00:08:54.220 Or they rebel and get punished for it.

00:08:58.640 Either way, the message is clear.

00:09:01.760 Boys, your nature is a problem.

00:09:03.920 and we make men feel so bad for just being men like if they're you know if they like 0.98

00:09:11.140 young hot women we make them feel bad if they want to have sex a lot we make them feel bad 1.00

00:09:17.920 if they want if they tell us no we make them feel bad it's like women are just 1.00

00:09:22.560 the ceos of nag and it's every it's family dynamics it's um literally school dynamics 0.91

00:09:30.920 it's every institution by the time you hit adolescence your default mode is appeasement

00:09:38.360 say sorry when she's upset do whatever makes her comfortable never raise your voice

00:09:48.680 never assert your needs

00:09:52.360 never take up too much space don't be man spreading now

00:09:56.040 you're not operating from strength you're you're you're performing for approval because deep down

00:10:04.580 the programming says if you're good enough she won't leave and if you're soft enough she'll

00:10:09.760 you'll be safe right that that's not love that's that's fear-based compliance just dressed up as

00:10:17.200 virtue the same women who who instilled this fear told you to be a gentleman right

00:10:23.740 ironically enough hold the door pay for my meal yeah and it's interesting because it's inverted

00:10:31.580 when you think about it because true femininity is women serving men that's like the natural order 0.99

00:10:36.940 of the world so if anything the women should pay for the dates if i would say that's more 1.00

00:10:43.820 traditional than a man doing it because whose time's more valuable the man or the woman's when

00:10:48.380 man pays it implies the woman says obviously there's social norms so that's never going to 1.00

00:10:52.780 happen like men are always going to pay for dates but you know i actually think it's like i almost

00:10:59.660 think it's more traditional the woman working than the man now i know i know hear me out hear me out

00:11:05.820 because women have such easy jobs that it's like she's giving her paycheck to him in a way but 0.95

00:11:14.220 i i know it's tough to follow but like when the man is paying for everything he's like

00:11:20.060 worshiping the woman and it would be one thing if women were like submissive had his kids but like

00:11:26.060 most women are basically men so half the time you get a housewife she's lazy so 1.00

00:11:32.860 it's not like the woman is really usually making the man's life much easier i mean they're even

00:11:37.660 saying that he has to work and do the chores protect her you know listen without speaking

00:11:45.260 sacrifice your needs and then in return

00:11:52.220 and in return disrespect when you set a boundary accusations when you assert yourself

00:12:00.460 emotional manipulation when you withdraw and rejection when you stop playing nice

00:12:05.500 see it was never about mutual respect it was about behavioral compliance okay you you don't get

00:12:14.500 applauded for being a good man you get used you get used and abused until you stop performing

00:12:22.460 and you know we we talk about feminism like it's somehow confined to just college or social media 1.00

00:12:32.220 but it's more formative influence happens at home it happens in the home single moms 1.00

00:12:41.100 projecting their unresolved anger at men onto their sons

00:12:46.260 married women belittling their husbands in front of their kids 0.85

00:12:51.400 daughters that are yeah no married and married women do that all the time 1.00

00:12:57.780 they always are challenging like i saw this video of a woman her husband left and she redecorated

00:13:07.520 his whole like man cave and like made it more like like it looked on paper better but i just

00:13:14.120 kept thinking i can't believe this woman has the audacity to like redecorate his personal space 0.98

00:13:20.060 without asking like women treat men like they're not even human i would i would feel so violated

00:13:25.900 like if somebody came and re you know like redid my whole room without asking me learning to be

00:13:31.500 dominant and sons learning to submit i mean you you grew up thinking that love meant being agreeable

00:13:40.460 being needed being useful and now as a man i mean this day and age man you're saying yes when you

00:13:49.740 want to say no you'll let women walk all over you you try to be the you know be the safe guy

00:13:57.660 right and wonder why they don't respect you you've been domesticated dude you've been tamed

00:14:04.140 you've been turned into a a service animal and and dude and that's what they're trying to convince

00:14:10.940 men to do it's almost like adam and eve all over again because women are trying to convince men to 1.00

00:14:15.820 serve them and the ones that fall for it ruin society emotionally and neutered men they can't 0.98

00:14:21.960 lead the system just creates overthinking men over apologizing men under a lot of men respected men

00:14:30.060 men with no fire or voice or edge men who ask for permission to simply exist you don't know

00:14:38.780 how to lead because you were never allowed to in the first place you don't know how to confront

00:14:44.560 because you were punished for it. You don't know how to hold frame in a relationship because the

00:14:51.900 only frame you know is make sure she's happy or you'll lose everything. A lot of men are just

00:14:59.100 walking on eggshells in relationships right now, especially marriages where they have everything

00:15:04.040 to lose in the marriage and in the divorce, whereas the woman has everything to win and to 0.99

00:15:09.560 gain from both and you know men provide us value just from dating us like you get if he's good in

00:15:19.020 bed you get that you know you have someone to like talk to listen to their problem you know

00:15:24.140 most of the time men i mean we don't add much to their life like even if you cook and clean most

00:15:29.020 men can do that for themselves we need them way more than they need us but yeah you were

00:15:35.240 you were told masculinity is dangerous and that strength is oppression that assertiveness is

00:15:42.920 aggression but the truth the truth is that the absence of masculinity is the real danger

00:15:49.880 if you want to see real chaos go to a school with no male teachers go to a household with 0.91

00:15:56.600 no strong father go to a neighborhood where men are absent and boys are raised by the state

00:16:02.560 you don't get order you get complete and utter dysfunction and why it's because there's something

00:16:12.400 missing and no ladies it's not empathy it's edge it's masculinity that's the that's the antidote

00:16:21.500 not the disease so men you want your strength back you want to break the spell the voice in

00:16:29.500 your head that says you know don't make her uncomfortable don't be scary don't take up space

00:16:38.560 don't don't make her mad dude that that is not your intuition that's that's programming dude

00:16:46.560 that's your programming you are not here to be a pet you're here to build and to protect and to

00:16:55.320 lead, to say no and mean it. You don't need her permission to be a man. You need your own

00:17:03.180 conviction. I mean, we got to talk about healing without simping. So yes, heal, but stop confusing

00:17:09.600 healing with neutering. Healing isn't. That's funny. Women don't really need to heal. Men are 0.99

00:17:16.460 the ones that need to heal. Like women always talk about healing, but in a way men need to 0.99

00:17:20.640 heal more than women because they're the ones that are like put down in society. It's not women. 1.00

00:17:25.320 turning healing isn't turning into an emotional golden retriever no it's like growing it's like 0.98

00:17:32.920 growing grabbing your balls basically it's not crying for attention or saying i'm in therapy 0.85

00:17:39.000 like it's a badge of honor healing is regaining your power it's it's learning how to feel anger 0.98

00:17:45.560 without shame and it's learning how to love without losing yourself learning how to lead

00:17:50.920 without apologizing for it you don't heal by appeasing you heal by confronting action that's

00:17:58.200 the action that needs to be taken plainly put you weren't raised to win you were trained to lose

00:18:04.040 with grace yeah no that's so true and everything with women in at work like men are kind of trained

00:18:13.080 to be slaves it's kind of crazy because they always said women were slaves but men who's

00:18:17.880 Who's enslaved if one has to die in battle if the country goes to war?

00:18:22.340 To get cheated on and stay quiet, to get disrespected and be the bigger man, to get alienated from your child and be grateful for scraps, to carry everyone's burdens and call it strength.

00:18:37.280 That's not nobility.

00:18:39.200 That's servitude with a smile.

00:18:42.820 So if you feel confused and bitter and angry, good.

00:18:47.880 Good. Your soul's waking up. Rise and shine. You're not broken. You're not toxic. You're a

00:18:53.400 man who finally sees what was done to him. You're finally seeing it, man. So yeah, fellas, if this

00:19:02.760 hits, send it to another man who's been, you know, sleepwalking through his life.

00:19:10.560 He doesn't need another lecture. He needs to hear the truth. It's time to stop chasing her

00:19:16.300 approval that was it's time to stop apologizing for being a man yeah wow that was really good

00:19:24.620 and it's complicated commented he said why is masculinity masculinity even an issue when men

00:19:31.040 are hated for being too masculine and not masculine enough i always hated how anger was treated as

00:19:36.840 evil even as a child i remember thinking those guys who say happy wife happy life just sound 0.93

00:19:41.100 pathetic my mother hated my dad especially after the divorce so once he was out of the house the 0.99

00:19:45.280 was directed at me i'm glad i cut her out of my life when i grew up and became a husband and a 0.97

00:19:49.760 father and will never speak to her ever again wow i was a good little boy for 20 years and got

00:19:56.880 nothing now it makes sense by adolescence your default programming is appeasement yeah because

00:20:02.960 what happens is the mothers are super they always get upset over everything and everyone's just 0.94

00:20:08.080 everybody's trained to like appease the mom and appease the sisters my mother showed a hatred 0.97

00:20:14.320 for men my entire life at age 45 um i finally confronted her about this and explained that she

00:20:19.920 hated her hatred showed her in the way that she treated me her response f you in which she stormed 1.00

00:20:25.280 off into the basement slammed and locked the door behind her for the first time in my life i actually

00:20:30.320 felt relieved i don't want to talk about it too much on camera but i had a similar experience

00:20:37.120 and it's worse because mothers are two-faced so a lot of times like people think like they don't 0.89

00:20:43.200 understand what you're talking about with the mental like torture they put you through

00:20:48.320 um anyways you know that's my two cents um maybe i'll talk about it more probably in a few years

00:20:56.300 not now but anyways guys um if you like the video and subscribe to the channel i love you

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Pearl - December 06, 2025

The Downfall of The Western Man Can Be Blamed on Modern Women

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