Pearl - April 03, 2026
The Future Single Moms of Instagram
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Summary
In this episode of my reaction series, we are reacting to a woman who wants to leave her hometown of Idaho for San Francisco, CA. We talk about what it means to be a woman in the big city, why it s a bad idea to leave your hometown, and what to do about it.
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it's just there's just no chance i'm gonna have white kids i mean be careful what you guess i'll
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be partially white because of me all the black guys are like she's smart she's smart well i don't
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know about what is up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to instagram is not
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a real place where i react to the treachery on instagram so doug mpa and i he is my moderator
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and has worked for the and works for the channel uh we send each other reels on instagram all the
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time and one day i just said maybe we should share with the audience these like hilarious reels we
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send each other because sometimes they're really funny and so i decided we're going to react to
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them on the show and you guys can actually be a part of it because you can join our discord and
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send reels for me to react to okay so we got a woman here um and this is an example of women
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not being happy with what they have so this is a fat woman talking about she wants to move to san
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francisco she could be happy with her hometown but she won't be and she'll keep going further
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and further even though this is not the type of person that's going to make it in san francisco
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men can kind of evaluate like if they would make it in a big city uh women usually don't have what
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to take my dream life from scratch and i want to document the entire thing even if no one's watching
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right now i'm not rich i live in a studio basement apartment in idaho and my dream is to live in
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california and be a content creator yeah and the man men love us so much see that white man
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they'll support us they love being useful and helpful and they don't realize that if this woman
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drops 100 pounds and moves to san francisco that she's leaving your ass and a lot of men they
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don't realize that's what they're pushing when they help women accomplish their dreams i don't
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even look like your average content creator i used to let that stop me i just turned 28 and i'm not
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not gonna let any of that stop me anymore i want to be in san diego and i want to make these kind
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of things happen for myself i don't know i just think someday soon i'm gonna be in san diego
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just you wait i'm building my i'll be waiting for a lifetime i want you to lose the 100 pounds and
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then maybe you'll make it protecting her from all the guys that could treat her better but you have
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to understand women are exactly where we want to be uh because men that don't treat us well
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i think there has to be some um genetic reason it's like then we know that we can't be taken
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advantage of we do not like men that we can take advantage of we like men that make us earn it
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if it ain't me it's no one else first come first serve literally my baby daddy as long as she not
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aware of it she's safe with you release her now it's giving my ex this video look like it smell
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good yeah women don't like being treated well you're good bro build character it really does
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it's part of the humbling of a woman i took my let me get humbled and find their husband like
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back so damn fast yeah because the thing is i was thinking about it uh women have to have free will
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so in a way men running through women is kind of a good thing because it shows what
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women of character and which ones don't it turns out pretty much none of us have it okay let's see
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what this woman said i can't tell you who i'm gonna marry but i can tell you one thing my kids
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are not gonna be white like there's careful what you wish for it's just there's just no chance i'm
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gonna have white kids i mean be careful what you guess i'll be partially white because of me
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all the black guys are like she's smart she's smart well i don't know about those those baby
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black men have the sauce i won't lie they have the sauce um but i'll tell you what um their
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culture comes with a lot of problems even if they themselves don't have it you have to deal with
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their family it's a whole listen we i love a brown man i love a middle eastern man i love a
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man i haven't really loved an asian man but i could i could go blazian why not the consensus is
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i don't love you way okay let's go this is my last video tonight but i do gotta say this
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we're gonna talk about it i yes i am a full caucasian woman very snow bunny like very very
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white but i like the tan okay and my season yeah i am sure i am with toni's laurie's garlic powder
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onion powder all that all of it mixed up bitch sure am do i give a fuck that i'm not your type
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of white girl promise you i don't promise you i'm gonna sleep good tonight when i get my ass in that
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bed don't give a fuck okay why do white women they adopt um look at as someone i don't really
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discriminate but i just would never want to talk like black people it's just not do i care about
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your little comments like oh she's too hood no yep you're not her marketing i'm not her market
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i don't i just want you to know i don't give a fuck because baby you're probably too whitewashed
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for me anyways because that's always the motherfucking ones all right go get pregnant
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by a criminal okay like don't hate the fucking player baby hate the motherfucking game i can't
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help this is how i am bitch i'm the big homie i came out like this and i doubt ask lisa lisa no
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this is who the fuck i am oh my god okay we're gonna continue right future single mother men
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don't approach women anymore i guess i should start going up to men i live in a city and
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literally anytime i'm walking anywhere anytime i see a cute guy it's always heads down headphones
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and he won't look at anyone literally no one is approachable anymore no one looks at each other
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everyone's heads down and no one's smiling or just seems happy literally no one's socializing
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what am i supposed to do chase a guy down the street that yeah try it does not want to be
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bothered and ask him if he is single i feel like i give off the most approachable vibes i'm always
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smiling looking pleasant not looking at my phone i don't wear my headphone literally never once
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i've never been approached get this i was talking to a guy i matched with on cuffed we were talking
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on the phone had the best conversation ever ghost me he literally goes now if you probably said
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something crazy like a really good phone call with a guy you matched with on a dating app he's
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got options he's you know he probably talked to like five blondes and picked his favorite like
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raya cuff tinder or whatever i guess you just ghost them immediately it's funny though like on
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the phone when we were talking i asked him if he like ever approaches a girl at a bar or in the
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street and he was like no god no so i guess maybe that was just a red that men forget that they
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literally have the power in the situation so that's why everyone's single since men don't
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approach women anymore i guess i should start going up to men i'm gonna pull this all right
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next uh this one 26 26 is the year of no more crusty dusties it's like why do you have to put
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your l's in front of it like why do you why are you showing it like throwing it in everyone's
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face do you think my baby daddy's coming home tonight absolutely not my name's audrey i'm 28
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i'm a mom of three and i'm moving the out of here some of you may be wondering why it's only one
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night that's fine right wrong this man never comes home on the weekends during the week
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like literally the schedule i don't know i don't know when he's going to be home i don't know when
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he's coming back home i don't know anything and again some of you may be wondering why does that
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matter um we have three kids together and i have absolutely no help from him when he's gone or when
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he's home actually so instead of staying here and waiting for him to come back and come around
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whenever he wants to i am leaving this house and getting my own apartment i only have about
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12 days left and you bet i am counting down the days the hours the minutes the seconds until i
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can leave because you guys i am so freaking excited you have no idea i'm gonna be 29 this
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year and i've come to a point in my life where i don't need a crusty dusty man next to me ruining
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everything i'm really not trying to talk but like if the shoe fits you know what i mean and anyways
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if you guys want to follow along i'm going to be posting so much more content about moving and my
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life as a single mom all that kind of good women leave their husbands to have a single mother
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instagram following throwing their l's in other people's face it's just incredible it's just
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incredible like i feel like i'm on the i don't know if there's a sports team that has gone 100
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years without winning but that's really how i feel as a woman despite getting like the best
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trades and the best drafts i don't know sports people please put in the comments but that's how
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i feel that is how i feel hey y'all i keep getting questions about the house in our prenuptial
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agreement it specifically says that my ex-husband will be the sole owner of the marital residence
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and uh he'll continue to own the home forever and i will not but in the prenup it says that i
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do get to live here until our youngest is 19. so in 14 years from now um somebody is just going to
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come and say hey courtney time's up got to move out not only is it written in the prenup but
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there are so many rules in the prenup about this house about who i'm allowed to have here
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who's allowed to stay here like i have so many rules of what i'm allowed to do in my own home
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like i just find that so strange see that top comment talk to a lawyer a preempt can be voided
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or amended if the terms are unfair yes even if it's been signed he's 20 years older everything
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makes sense now how is it that this man is divorcing me and yet yeah we got to hear his side
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he still has control over where i live he can choose to sell the house if he wants and and make
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me move into a different house uh he is there there's a set of rules written specifically in
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the prenuptial agreement um telling me how i am allowed to live in this house what i i just i the
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more i think about it the more bothered it makes me in 20 14 years excuse me 14 years from now
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i'm gonna be 50 and he's gonna be 70. i'm gonna have lived in my own home forever and then at
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at 50 years old i'm gonna get told that i gotta go and my 70 year old ex-husband is gonna move
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back in like what damn hey y'all i keep getting questions yeah that's the you know that guy seems
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like the goat okay all right let's see the next one so i'm a divorcee with three children and yes
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i remarried a man who is 14 years younger than me it's gonna be a trend there's gonna be dumb men
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that fall for it and i get accused of having made a calculated move marrying him was a calculated
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move because who would want to marry someone women never do anything uncalculated on with three
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children you done right it was a calculated move in fact when he proposed to me i literally said
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can you make my life better he said yes i can i said women never do anything unless it's in our
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our benefit we don't think of anyone else let's get the calculator out that's why i say men that
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are like um that you think the woman's getting nothing out of the relationship she gets something
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i don't know what but she always gets something and do the math okay i will be financially better
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off with you let's get married and ladies that's my advice to you if you want to let some money
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into your life he's got to make it better on paper yes i am a divorce all right guys um look
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women like I got to stop hearing about how women are the romantic genders because we're just not
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um let me know what you think of the comments I really love you guys thank you so much for
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