Pearl - The Ghosting Epidemic

00:00:00.000 i think when you're an old woman if he doesn't want to crack that's hurtful because it's like

00:00:04.560 it's kind of like because you know you're like a used car and as a used car you have a discounted

00:00:08.320 price and when you offer the car for free and they're like i'm a i'm good you're like what the

00:00:13.360 all right so uh today we're talking about ghosting today we're talking about ghosting

00:00:18.080 um now the definition i'm actually going to pull up the definition of ghosting definition

00:00:23.760 because i want to be i want to be accurate ghosting is the slang term for abruptly

00:00:28.480 cutting off all communication with someone ignoring calls texts and social media without

00:00:32.880 explanation popularized by the dating apps in the 2000s it means vanishing like a ghost to avoid

00:00:40.240 confrontation it's considered a passive aggressive emotionally hurtful practice most commonly used in

00:00:46.720 romantic dating scenarios but it also applies to friendships and increasingly in professional or

00:00:52.160 workplace settings the person ghosting will ignore messages stop replying and many block the other

00:00:57.440 person on social media the term gained popularity with the rise of online dating and social media

00:01:04.080 i haven't seen him in weeks i've been ghosted she totally ghosted me after our second date i told

00:01:09.520 them i wasn't interested they just ghosted well okay balla let's go show love people thank you

00:01:15.680 thank you so much so okay the epidemic of ghosting i realized this is an epidemic that transcends

00:01:22.640 dating and really is just the way of the world millennial and gen z is the generation of ghosting

00:01:29.520 but i the more i'm talking to people the more i'm seeing this is becoming an epidemic everywhere

00:01:34.560 what up guys my name is pearl davis i have a youtube show and i'm a cultural commentator

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00:01:50.640 back in the kitchen or stop being a whore is your buddy simping for an overweight mid i will tell

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00:02:03.600 in her place today and you can get your friends to stop simping uh people in the service industry

00:02:10.160 get ghosted they'll have customers of 10 years just go ghost coaches are getting ghosted and

00:02:15.360 today i'm at the gym and i made i made friends with a woman and she said her employer ghosted

00:02:22.000 her they just stopped asking her to come into work yeah and it just seems like ghosting is the way

00:02:27.280 forward it's the future if i'm messaging a girl i've never met and she stops communicating then

00:02:31.840 i let it be but if we go on a date and she stops communicating thankful it's only happened to me

00:02:36.160 once but i'm hurt but it hurt like for women i can just speak to like my experience it really

00:02:41.520 only hurts if you cracked um i mean doug mp we were kind of going back and forth about this he

00:02:46.880 said i think when you're an old woman if he doesn't want to crack that's hurtful because it's

00:02:51.840 like it's kind of like because you know you're like a used car and as a used car you have a

00:02:56.000 discounted price and when you offer the car for free and they're like i'm a good i'm good you're

00:03:01.760 like what the i gave you a free car you don't want my free car you don't like what's wrong with my

00:03:05.600 car what's it you know but when you're a young woman you know they want to crack so it's just

00:03:10.480 like he stopped asking her to come to work it sounds like he got tired of asking are you coming

00:03:15.120 or not i don't think that's what it was but i don't know it just seems like um ghosting is the

00:03:20.240 way forward and women invented this women have been ghosting men for 50 years i think or maybe

00:03:26.400 10 years 20 years i don't know women have been in the business of ghosting so i'm gonna have doug

00:03:31.120 mpa come in on this segment because he has strong feelings about ghosting we'll just kind of go back

00:03:35.520 and forth for a little bit now personally um when is it diabolical to ghost somebody is one question

00:03:42.800 i have um my answer i think one date not diabolical first month eh who cares um first three months

00:03:52.400 it really inconsiderate not diabolical but i'm hearing people are getting ghosted from three

00:03:58.800 year two year relationships you know ghosting proves the inability to be direct and honest

00:04:04.480 that's true that's true but anyways let's i'm gonna bring up doug mpa oh no chad's ghost all

00:04:11.440 the time chad's love ghosting you should always text my dad well that was the hurtful part i'm

00:04:16.800 I'm like, Dad, we talk all the time.

00:04:18.900 I'm like, Dad, we talk all the time.

Pearl - March 15, 2026

The Ghosting Epidemic

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