Pearl - The Hierarchy of Difficult Jobs： Podcasting Isn't Hard

00:00:00.400 okay all right good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl

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00:00:36.960 i do want to make a generalization before i start the show i do make general sorry i want to make

00:00:43.760 a disclaimer before i start the show i do make generalization sometimes and i want you to know

00:00:50.480 that i never mean all of a group but when i'm talking about societal trends sometimes it's

00:00:56.560 difficult to describe society without talking about groups but we are on youtube i don't want

00:01:02.480 to get flagged for hate speech i will as a disclaimer say some not all and um you know okay

00:01:12.160 so the other day i was

00:01:17.040 one second guys okay so the other day i was hanging out and i got a bunch of texts my cousin

00:01:29.160 texted me my you know my friends texted me they said candace owens mentioned you on her show and

00:01:38.280 i thought huh i'm just you know when i look at these people they're big time they're you know

00:01:44.660 the Brett Coopers, the Candace Owens, they're these big time celebrities. I'm just this random

00:01:50.100 woman named Pearl who streams sometimes, right? This is how I view it. So I thought that's crazy.

00:01:55.920 They, they mentioned me, huh? Okay. And there was a clip that I was, um, I saw her show and there

00:02:04.380 was a clip going viral or not a clip, sorry, part of her show where she said that podcasting is a

00:02:11.480 hard job now it was just an offhanded you know something she said I'll show you the clip

00:02:17.500 and I put in the chat did she say podcasting is a hard job and I guess this pissed her off you

00:02:25.600 know asking this question maybe it's because the answer makes us all look bad but I just kind of

00:02:31.420 say it how it is let me pull up the clip so this is the clip I responded to in the chat

00:02:39.080 a full screen okay why this story was so big and why so many people covered it wasn't because of

00:02:46.180 any particular feeling about daily wire could have been the blaze could anybody else it truly

00:02:49.820 is a meaningful story for all of us content creators and also for the audiences that watch

00:02:56.040 us and invest in us because i have to tell you something it is not easy to produce an interesting

00:03:00.040 show five days a week okay there are days when you really don't want to do it you're not feeling

00:03:04.080 that good whatever it is that's going on and you're like there's nothing to talk about

00:03:07.520 And so for any podcaster that is committing to that, they are working tremendously hard.

00:03:13.440 Understand, they are working tremendously hard because they don't want to let their audiences down.

00:03:16.500 And whether that's Tucker Carlson on Fox News or Brett Cooper on YouTube, they're doing it because they love it.

00:03:22.660 And the reward is obviously the audience.

00:03:25.580 The reward is that you guys come back.

00:03:27.020 The motivation is you guys.

00:03:28.960 So if we cross over into a different season of our respective lives, there's always this feeling like, okay, it's man versus corporation.

00:03:36.520 corporation it's david versus versus goliath it's okay did people just invest in the corporation or

00:03:41.800 do people actually appreciate the work that i did and in this circumstance every independent

00:03:46.680 creator is watching this going my goodness the audience really love okay so i listened to this

00:03:55.240 clip and i think i've worked in media for the last four years and i'm going to go into what i did my

00:04:04.520 experience in media you guys can decide if it's credible or not credible okay you got you guys

00:04:09.400 can be the the judge the jury but i thought to myself you know i see the men that are police

00:04:19.400 officers that are firemen you know the number one job in the country for men is truckers or it's

00:04:26.360 it's like top three. And compared to them, we don't work hard at all. I think we are so lucky

00:04:40.600 and privileged to be in this position that when I hear any complaining, anything saying,

00:04:51.360 this is hard we have to work so incredibly hard it just rubs me the wrong way I just think it's

00:05:00.120 over exaggerated a bit and I'm gonna I'm gonna show you why I think like this okay now I put

00:05:07.680 this in the chat I said I'm typing now mind you this woman has like 40,000 people I mean this

00:05:13.840 she's big time I don't even think she's gonna see my chat and I guess it offended her I put

00:05:21.840 did she's gonna read my comment here at the end of the show i missed it because i left

00:05:26.240 i didn't even know till this morning okay

00:05:31.920 she said she has her own youtube channel she said did you say being a podcaster is hard please

00:05:38.080 yeah i i said no actually pearl what i said was if you want to be a good podcaster and actually

00:05:43.360 create good content and not just be a person that just full-time says awful things about women at

00:05:48.400 all times and no matter what can't say one nice thing about a woman because that's your brand

00:05:51.760 then it's probably really easy to be a podcaster on youtube alas that she has her own you know

00:05:59.440 okay so now she's going back and saying pearl hates women

00:06:05.360 pearl is just you're just a woman you know it's back to the the shame guilt insult need to be

00:06:12.240 right i don't like what you say therefore you're just a woman hater now we're going to get into

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00:07:42.660 bit about how i started my show so i overnight basically became one of the biggest podcasters

00:07:49.540 in the country during like i don't know two years ago one year ago now and what happened was i was

00:07:56.420 working in sales i worked two years in sales and i did door-to-door copier sales now anybody that's

00:08:02.580 done copier sales knows that in sales this is like the worst in the industry like out of the sales

00:08:11.300 jobs this just isn't something that you want right this is like bottom of the barrel in terms of

00:08:20.660 sales now i go to england and i'm going there to play volleyball

00:08:28.100 and on the side i decide i'm going to start a youtube channel i already had it but it was

00:08:33.380 nothing big it was you know small channel whatever and after shows um i decided to invite

00:08:42.220 women over to do like a talk show so i would recruit the guests from um i would recruit the guests

00:08:51.760 from hold on make

00:08:56.740 in in the description sorry all right one second sorry guys okay I will so what I would do is during

00:09:09.320 the show I or during when I was in England I would recruit people from volleyball so I played

00:09:15.400 semi-professional volleyball my goal was to go play professionally in germany um somewhere else

00:09:22.900 right i'm doing this show on the side i get into red pill content because i randomly got into pua

00:09:30.080 when i was in the united states so i had this small channel i'm reacting to seduction coaches

00:09:36.720 i would say is the best way to describe it so you know i didn't know how date how hard dating was

00:09:42.740 for men i had no idea how difficult it was i'd never really thought about dating from the men's

00:09:47.780 point of view and randomly i just find a couple videos like kevin samuels and all these different

00:09:55.220 men teaching other men how to get laid essentially and i ended up going to a boot camp where

00:10:04.580 men would teach other men the best ways to seduce pick up women etc etc

00:10:12.740 Now, when I was at this boot camp, I started to see things from the men's point of view, because there would be average guys, good jobs. I would even say some of them were significantly above average getting rejected by overweight women. You know, they would go and approach a woman, just say hi to her. And she would just so rudely reject him. And it wasn't like the man was being creepy or disrespectful. He was just a normal guy.

00:10:37.820 and so I but you know some of the stuff I didn't necessarily know if it was true or not you know

00:10:48.380 they said like women like the bad boys okay well you know let's go test it out so when I was in

00:10:56.040 England and I am playing volleyball I recruit women from my show or from my team or just at

00:11:04.660 the gym, wherever I would meet them to come on my show.

00:11:10.580 So during this time, I recruited the guests, I learned YouTube equipment, I did the thumbnails

00:11:15.940 by myself.

00:11:16.940 I didn't have any major company behind me.

00:11:20.340 I end up messaging one guy who worked at the Daily Wire at the time, I messaged all these

00:11:27.260 people trying to see if I could get the best advice, strategy, whatever.

00:11:35.380 end up getting in contact with a media manager at the daily wire but you know he i would just

00:11:40.820 get um meetings with him get help what you know he ends up like quitting he's

00:11:45.940 done his own thing for a while now anyway so i end up making 10 000 videos in this time

00:11:52.500 um my channel takes off and at this point you know i had like 20 employees i had a bunch of

00:12:00.340 recruiters this became an operation and it happened within like a year like 20 people working for me

00:12:06.980 the channel's huge it got a billion views now mind you there's no big media company behind me

00:12:12.500 this all just happened um this all just happened like randomly now um i end up getting demonetized

00:12:24.420 and getting demonetized came with a ton of challenges i was not prepared to be demonetized

00:12:30.580 in hindsight that was so stupid i was like the dumbest yeah that was so dumb i didn't have any

00:12:36.100 backups nothing so i end up having to make a website i end up having to move countries couldn't

00:12:41.940 afford london anymore main revenue source is gone and it's been over a year still not re-monetized

00:12:48.180 now we're keeping the lights on with youtube or um with um subscribers on the website

00:12:55.620 now i want to talk about during this period when i did a show now my show became one of the biggest

00:13:03.220 um shows in the country at the time i interviewed over a thousand women which the first half i

00:13:10.020 recruited myself and i end up getting asked to go on in the all these big shows like pierce morgan

00:13:16.900 um i went on no jumper all these people that i watched for years it was crazy i went to the

00:13:20.980 daily wire last year and um on the side i'm also doing a documentary interviewing men that have

00:13:27.860 been victims of divorce grief so during this time i got a really good idea of what was going on

00:13:35.380 i interviewed people from hundreds of countries um i've done panels in england or street interviews

00:13:43.300 chicago miami vegas ireland i've interviewed people straight from africa straight from italy

00:13:51.540 straight from literally all over the world so do i know what i'm talking about when i'm talking

00:14:00.740 about media being a hard job you i mean you guys can you guys can decide for yourself

00:14:09.940 and i would still say that job even though i did the recruiting myself in the beginning we ended

00:14:17.120 up getting people later but in the beginning did the recruiting myself the editing myself

00:14:21.680 the production myself i did all of it myself in the beginning

00:14:25.840 i learned how to do each individual piece until you know we got to a certain point

00:14:32.280 do i know what i'm talking about i would still say that is easier than when i worked in sales

00:14:39.560 for two years. And I would still say sales is a lot easier than other jobs. So the main thing

00:14:47.940 that I look at is I like to point out patterns. I like to look at, you know, I like to look at

00:14:56.620 societal and cultural trends and look for patterns of behavior. Now, I've noticed with the ladies in

00:15:03.720 media, there is a particular pattern. And this pattern I've noticed because I cover a lot of

00:15:10.660 stories of women in media. And I also would meet a lot of them and see how they lived their lives.

00:15:17.780 So one person that we talked about yesterday was Joy Taylor. Now Joy Taylor was a media

00:15:23.880 personality. She was in sports. And nobody could figure out how she got a job in sports knowing so

00:15:30.360 much less than the men in her same position now it recently came out that she was sleeping with

00:15:35.400 everyone and that does not surprise me in the least because again i have studied cultural

00:15:39.960 trends and many men have told me their stories speaking to women in the workplace or working

00:15:46.840 with women and that that has happened before um pearl interviewed people straight out of compton

00:15:55.080 yeah i actually i did interview people in like the hood of milwaukee early in my career because i

00:15:59.640 started the sales job was in milwaukee and i did do like a little bit of you know interviews on the

00:16:07.240 street now i've made a list of the steps women take to become a media personality now in general

00:16:23.240 you know there there are exceptions to this rule but in general this tends to be what they do get

00:16:29.080 a job working for a man so usually when i see ladies that come up out of nowhere there is a

00:16:35.000 company that came up behind them in conservative media we have candace owens was with the daily

00:16:41.080 wire she was also with turning point amala was with prager you brett cooper was with the daily

00:16:47.480 wire usually when ladies are in media they do not have they have a tendency not all to not start

00:16:54.440 their own thing they have a tendency to work for someone else first so oftentimes they will sleep

00:17:01.720 with them for the job or be very hot and dress provocatively and that's how they get the job

00:17:07.000 obviously conservative media you're not going to do that or b you don't sleep with him but you're

00:17:14.040 a woman with an opinion that is unpopular for women or a minority with an opinion that's unpopular

00:17:20.840 for minorities. Now, I can admit that a lot of the reason I'm in this position is because I have

00:17:26.900 a tendency to agree with men on dating and culture. I tend to have a different opinion

00:17:34.080 than most women. If I was a man with the same opinions, I probably would not have had a million

00:17:40.080 followers in a year. That just wouldn't have happened. And I can admit that I could have

00:17:44.860 the humility to admit that without you know it's not it's not like i did no work but let's be

00:17:53.520 honest the man doing the same thing a man has to work 10 times harder and i saw this with myron i

00:18:01.780 mean they interviewed double the amount of people i did they were live six days a week at one point

00:18:06.660 i was live four i see why he lost his hair shout out to fresh and fit and um that you know that

00:18:14.140 just tends to be how it goes. So the step two is to get famous and be worshipped for

00:18:21.840 all of your opinions. So being famous, you know, I think a lot of times when you become

00:18:26.800 famous, it's interesting. People will start in one sector and, you know, because they're

00:18:36.640 famous we think they're credible on all these random topics i try to for the most part stay

00:18:46.160 in my lane which is dating and culture i i will dip into politics at times but that is that is my

00:18:52.720 lane but it's interesting right you know brett cooper 22 year old actress 23 year old actress

00:18:59.840 let's say she starts commenting on the war in the middle east what experience does she have

00:19:07.800 or candace owens have that makes them credible to talk about the war in the middle east

00:19:13.800 now i'm i'm not hating them for it right because i benefit from the same thing

00:19:19.140 but i'm not going to pretend this isn't what it is it isn't much easier you know it's not like

00:19:27.840 you go on pierce morgan and they bring in you know a general from the middle east who's worked

00:19:32.240 in the military for 30 years and has the most credible opinion it's who gets clicks who gets

00:19:37.040 views and women just have a um advantage in media now i want to talk about how i learned

00:19:46.560 women have an advantage in media i managed both men and women so i managed um christine grace

00:19:54.400 who's awesome by the way you guys should go check her out she's still going in england

00:19:59.040 and i managed troy francis we started channels for both of them

00:20:02.720 and they both tack tackled the issue of dating culture um and you know troy was twice her age

00:20:10.560 and he worked as a dating coach for like a decade her getting followers views likes was

00:20:16.560 10 times easier than troy and i'm not gonna say christy she was a super hard worker like she's

00:20:22.640 great she's awesome i would like she's i have nothing like only positive things but

00:20:29.680 one was 10 times easier than the other same you know and this this this just is what it is it's

00:20:37.120 not bad or good women aren't bad for taking advantage of this i mean if you guys get a job

00:20:43.440 you know the male models that get jobs because they're very good looking they don't say hey

00:20:48.400 i am not doing this job out of principle because i'm ugly no the men are like you know what

00:20:55.680 i will be a personal trainer and make a ton of money i don't care i'll do it i'll be a model

00:21:02.080 so the next step is the women have a tendency a tendency not all to leave the company now

00:21:11.200 oftentimes there's four ways they leave claiming unfair pay claiming sexual harassment

00:21:21.280 start some sort of drama on the way out

00:21:26.160 or maybe a lawsuit

00:21:31.440 or go peacefully you know like christine and christine and i we left she's doing her own

00:21:39.520 thing now because you know after getting demonetized i just couldn't do it anymore

00:21:43.600 managing talent but she left peacefully she's doing awesome she didn't do any of these things

00:21:51.280 some women do go peacefully but a lot don't a lot don't um you saw this with um sydney watson she

00:21:59.520 claimed a sexual harassment lawsuit when she left the blaze um you saw this with candace owens there

00:22:05.520 was a bunch of drama she said see there's a guy doing the hard job if you hear that

00:22:10.400 we have construction going on so it just is what it is um

00:22:19.360 you know brett cooper it's this big big deal you know she's unfollowing people you know

00:22:25.360 and i i just look for the patterns i look for the patterns of behavior if a man got fired nobody

00:22:31.360 would care that's the double standard if a guy if matt walsh tomorrow got let go by the daily wire

00:22:37.680 it would not be that dramatic nobody would really feel bad for him

00:22:41.600 but with brett and candace it's a big ordeal it just is what it is

00:22:47.840 now four tell everyone you're a hard worker and that it was through your work ethic you lecture

00:22:55.600 the men on business and work ethic you give your course how to be successful yada yada yada even

00:23:01.920 though the way that a woman does it is 10 times easier than the men

00:23:10.240 okay five mary rich i did i followed 50 million or not sorry 50 conservative commentators and

00:23:21.440 found the average net worth of their husband was like five or six million

00:23:27.760 so they got to marry rich definitely not in their 20s because that would stifle their career get

00:23:34.080 married in their 30s and it's not bad or good by the way i just point out and if they do marry young

00:23:39.200 they have a tendency to wait till their late 20s for kids not bad or good not bad or good it's just

00:23:44.240 more modern it's not traditional then become a karen and tell men they're not good enough

00:23:50.560 and to stop watching corn even though no one knows what the ladies did in their 20s

00:23:57.300 use the relationship for clout now these are just the patterns that i see you know like

00:24:03.640 when they get married it doesn't tend to be a private marriage it tends to be a marriage for

00:24:09.040 brand not bad or good just not conservative okay now let's talk about hard jobs so i talk a lot of

00:24:20.880 on my show i talk a lot on my show about how my dad is just like the hardest worker i've ever met

00:24:26.640 in my life my dad worked 80 my dad owned a software company and he worked 80 hours a week

00:24:32.400 pretty much my whole life and he would drive to the office at three in the morning to talk to

00:24:38.880 people in india and like they would code software um my dad if anything was broken in the house he

00:24:46.560 would look up how to fix it himself and you know on top of that i have an uncle and he's a farmer

00:24:55.360 and you know i would go there and i would see him taking care of the cows he learned how to

00:25:00.560 fly himself and you would just see how in an every day you know how hard those men work

00:25:11.520 you see the men that are construction workers firemen and you see how hard they work

00:25:19.520 now i decided to demonstrate this

00:25:27.200 i decided to do

00:25:30.560 A hierarchy of hard jobs.

00:25:36.300 So at the top, so this is going to be the hardest.

00:25:41.320 This is going to be the least hard.

00:25:43.760 Because, you know, the ladies always say they work so hard.

00:25:47.520 Let's ask ourselves, who's doing what?

00:25:50.400 Who is doing what in these industries?

00:25:56.640 So, at the top, these are the jobs that if you mess up, the result is your death, somebody else's death.

00:26:11.400 Yeah, it's basically your death or somebody else's death.

00:26:15.420 So, we got logging, which is the number one cause of workplace death in the United States.

00:26:22.660 Number two, crab fishermen, which we're going to talk about a little more later.

00:26:29.400 Surgeons.

00:26:30.280 If you're a heart surgeon, that's pretty intense.

00:26:32.800 You know, because it's one thing to work hard.

00:26:36.360 But it's another thing to work hard with an intense amount of pressure where if you mess up, if you're human, you know, if I say the wrong thing at work tomorrow, I can issue a retraction.

00:26:48.700 If these guys do the wrong thing at work, they're done.

00:26:51.520 The surgeon could get sued, the surgeon could lose his license, all for being human, for

00:26:58.540 making a mistake.

00:27:01.040 The crab fishermen, you know, there's boats in Alaska where there are men that don't come

00:27:09.180 back.

00:27:10.860 They risk their lives to get us crabs.

00:27:14.360 so again when I hear podcasters saying that their job is so hard I think

00:27:21.620 how dare you you know you know how dare you take for granted

00:27:28.540 the amazing job that we have how dare you for a second say that this is too difficult

00:27:36.740 now next we got the plumbers the linemen and the doctors now these are the jobs that the result of

00:27:51.340 these jobs means thousands of people could be affected so if a plumber does the wrong thing

00:27:58.800 like let's see he's the plumber on a city contracting job the whole city could be mad

00:28:06.080 imagine imagine being that guy where you mess up and the whole entire crew is mad at you

00:28:15.040 that is a lot of pressure you know that because of your actions

00:28:23.200 the city lost its water its power whatever

00:28:28.320 so again when i hear streamers and podcasters saying they have a hard job again i think how dare you

00:28:36.080 These guys have a hard job.

00:28:39.820 Next, we have the jobs where the result of your job

00:28:44.460 is to protect the public.

00:28:47.220 It can be dangerous, but they're not necessarily fearing

00:28:51.760 their life every day by signing up.

00:28:54.620 And you also could be legally liable for mistakes.

00:28:57.720 So again, police officers, it varies.

00:29:00.940 Now, I've done none of these jobs, I'd like to say.

00:29:03.000 So you guys, if you have a disagreement on where it should go in the hierarchy,

00:29:07.100 you're totally welcome to put it in the comments.

00:29:09.900 Maybe one goes higher than the other.

00:29:11.960 This was what I came up with.

00:29:13.420 But police officers, if they make the wrong decision, they could be thrown in jail.

00:29:22.360 Firemen, if they make the wrong choice, they could die in a burning building.

00:29:29.120 Paramedics.

00:29:29.560 Next, we have a job that is not necessarily dangerous, although it can be, but it's necessary

00:29:45.800 to keep society going.

00:29:50.940 This is garbage men, bricklayers, construction, and mailmen.

00:29:55.680 Now I know some construction is very difficult, but if you're pouring concrete or something

00:30:03.440 like that.

00:30:04.440 Next, we're going to be, the job is boring, and if you make a mistake, it would ruin your

00:30:12.240 day, but nobody's going to die, right?

00:30:16.140 It's a pretty boring job, you might be on your feet all day.

00:30:19.160 So I put cashier, babysitter, assistant, sales, hairstylist.

00:30:29.160 And last is the job that's actually fun,

00:30:32.240 you can be passionate about it, and it's low risk.

00:30:35.480 Now, these jobs are the most competitive

00:30:38.340 because everybody wants them.

00:30:41.300 You know, if you follow the rules to be a plumber,

00:30:44.120 most guys can do it.

00:30:46.220 But there's very few successful musicians, comedians,

00:30:52.940 OnlyFans models that actually make money.

00:30:55.240 But the barrier to entry is nothing for these.

00:30:57.980 I mean, anyone can really do it.

00:31:02.560 So imagine when you're down here

00:31:06.000 on the hierarchy of hard jobs.

00:31:09.100 Like imagine a crab fisherman hearing you complain

00:31:13.920 about how hard you are down here.

00:31:15.540 like the audacity and you know there is a there is feedback saying that okay well it takes a lot

00:31:23.460 of mental energy and you have to be smart okay sure but even if we did white collar we divided

00:31:32.900 it between white collar and blue collar it's way more difficult to be a lawyer a surgeon you have

00:31:40.620 go through school managing a hedge fund on wall street like let's not pretend journalists are

00:31:47.900 you know so when i hear streamers podcasters complain i just can't take it i can't do it

00:31:59.100 that's why you know i didn't think it needed i thought she would say oh i agree i agree pearl

00:32:04.140 you're right we shouldn't complain i just set it off the cuff no i gotta i gotta you hate women

00:32:10.620 someone said the streaming is harder than a nine to five now you could argue it's it's

00:32:25.560 competitive right it is I mean there's a million people wanting to be streamers but

00:32:30.320 when I see the top streamers

00:32:32.960 I don't think any of them are crazy intelligent to the point

00:32:39.620 that they weren't you know some of them were just lucky i was lucky candace was lucky

00:32:47.360 right niche right time right person right place right contacts

00:32:52.320 everyone would rather be a streamer so

00:32:58.380 hold on

00:33:02.320 90 percent of workplace deaths are men

00:33:11.480 logging workers have the highest fatal injury worker in the united states with 100 deaths

00:33:18.840 per 100 000 full-time workers other occupants with with high fatal work injury rates include

00:33:26.720 fishing and hunting workers, 75 deaths per 100,000. Roofers, 57 deaths per 100,000 workers.

00:33:37.140 Reviews and recyclable material collectors, 41 deaths per 100,000 workers. However,

00:33:45.500 the average fatality for all workers in all occupations in the United States

00:33:50.640 include transportation incidents. 42% of occupational fatalities in 2021 were caused

00:34:00.180 by roadway incidents. Falls, 16% of occupational fatalities in 2021 were caused by slips, trips,

00:34:07.760 and falls. Homicides, 9% of occupational fatalities in 2021 were homicides. Truck drivers,

00:34:14.800 truck drivers make up 20% of total workplace deaths, and four in five of those deaths were

00:34:22.360 attributed to transportation incidents. Commercial pilots, about three quarters of people who died

00:34:28.160 on the job were commercial pilots. In 2022, women made up 4% of the logging workforce in the United

00:34:38.620 States, while men made up 95.8% of the industry. The salary for male workers in the logging

00:34:49.080 industries was $50,000, which was 1.9 times more than the average salary for female workers,

00:34:57.440 which was $42,000. The forest sector has been historically male-dominated. Even today,

00:35:04.460 fewer than 20 percent of foresters in the united states are female women make up only 17 percent

00:35:11.580 of the forestry sector now i want you to ask yourself again the logger making fifty thousand

00:35:19.740 dollars a year do you think he has any sympathy for the podcasters saying it's really hard to

00:35:29.260 chase down stories research online

00:35:34.460 follow the trends. The 4% were women bringing the men coffee. Now I'm going to take a second

00:35:43.460 to look at the website chat. Give me a second, guys.

00:35:51.420 Are we live on the website? Okay. I don't know why it's not coming up for me.

00:35:56.240 oh here we go okay so we're going to check check out the chat on the website

00:36:07.340 dangerous jobs air operations on a u.s carrier it's a floating airport where in a small space

00:36:17.480 add fuels bombs missiles jets intakes rotors propellers fires weather and oceans hard is

00:36:24.380 relative dm says hard is relative to the environment the person is raised in i think

00:36:28.780 you're referring to physical labor podcasting is mental well not even

00:36:34.740 hard is you know going to law school and finishing

00:36:39.320 hard i mean that's harder i would say than being a podcaster

00:36:44.300 hard is um becoming a surgeon and going to school for 15 years if we're going to talk about mental

00:36:50.500 hard now again it is competitive it requires creativity but i just i you i've lived it okay

00:37:03.620 i've put on a show i've done all of the jobs at some point that you need to do to put on a show

00:37:10.900 and you will not convince me that it's harder than any of the jobs higher on the top half of

00:37:19.620 pyramid you just won't i disagree and we're in such a privileged position as women to be in

00:37:28.660 these jobs and yet we still find a way to complain now i want to compare and contrast the men talking

00:37:38.340 about their jobs being hard so i saw this video of a plumber talking about five reasons you

00:37:44.260 You shouldn't be a plumber.

00:38:14.260 difficult about this career. And if you're not cut out for it, you shouldn't go into it. And that

00:38:18.460 brings us to number one. One of the reasons why you shouldn't become a plumber is because people

00:38:23.240 aren't going to help you on the job site. Now, you are going to be given directions. You are going to

00:38:28.020 be looked at over your shoulder. People are going to make sure that you're safe. But for the most

00:38:32.240 part, when you're struggling, they're going to expect you to figure it out and get it done. Does

00:38:37.080 that sound a little bit harsh to you? Like they expect you to put in the grunt work. They expect

00:38:41.520 you to sweat. They expect you to get the task done because they themselves, the other people

00:38:47.300 that are monitoring you and supervising you also have tasks. It's not like they're sitting there

00:38:52.680 twiddling their thumbs. No, you two are a team and they have a very difficult job themselves.

00:38:57.600 Your journey person is going to have to do the hardest parts of the job. They're going to have

00:39:00.760 to do the installation part of the job. They're going to have to do the soldering. They're going

00:39:04.040 to have to get the job done. They got to supervise that it's done. They also have to make sure that

00:39:08.420 they are up to code when it's done. They got to make sure everybody's safe. Like they have a lot

00:39:12.380 of tasks themselves. If they turn and see you and you're struggling and you're working hard,

00:39:17.160 a lot of the times they're just going to sit back and let you struggle and let you figure it. And if

00:39:22.660 you can't handle that, if that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, then that's not something you

00:39:27.180 should probably get into because that's the way it is throughout the entire career. And just so you

00:39:31.680 know, it doesn't stop at the apprenticeship. There comes a point where you're a journey person and

00:39:36.220 you're going to struggle and you're going to sweat and every single person around you, including the

00:39:41.040 customer, is just going to sit back and watch you struggle. And the truth is, is that most of those

00:39:46.100 people can't help you even if they wanted to help you. Do you understand? This is a difficult career

00:39:50.640 and you need to have a fortified mind to be able to move forward in it. So when you're in your

00:39:55.100 apprenticeship and your journey person turns to you and sees you struggling and just lets it

00:39:59.920 happen, that's not because they're evil. It's not because they don't care. The reason why they're

00:40:04.980 doing that is because they had to do that themselves to get competent and in order to

00:40:09.440 make sure you become competent they got to take their hands off the tools and let you sweat let

00:40:14.420 you cuss let you figure it out another reason why you shouldn't become a plumber reason number two

00:40:19.520 is because people expect you to be good listen they don't expect you to be all right they don't

00:40:26.940 expect you to be adequate they expect you to be good you're going to be expected to be an authority

00:40:32.640 on the subject, you're going to be expected to be good enough to figure out the problem. That

00:40:37.320 doesn't mean necessarily right then and there, but they are expecting you to have the mental

00:40:42.860 problem-solving abilities to be able to get to the answer of this problem. This means sometimes

00:40:48.960 you're not going to know the answer and you're going to have to call up the supplier, figure out

00:40:52.900 if they have anything on the market that might suit the current situation. You might have to call

00:40:57.520 the manufacturer of whatever it is you're working on to ask them why this certain event is taking

00:41:03.200 place. You have to be wise enough. You've got to be smart enough. You've got to have problem

00:41:07.400 solving abilities enough. You've got to have enough humility to be able to say, I don't know

00:41:12.020 what's going on and go figure it out. Without that, if you can't do it, the third reason why

00:41:17.560 you shouldn't become a plumber is because people are going to call you on the weekends. Now, I know

00:41:22.820 this might cut into your work-life balance i totally appreciate that and plumbers when we

00:41:27.620 get very good we get calls on the weekend specifically for help to help people out that's

00:41:33.060 something you have to understand inherently by getting called on a weekend a lot of that

00:41:38.340 sometimes is one of the biggest compliments you can get because people know you're good and people

00:41:43.060 know you have the answers and people know okay now the reason i brought this up is i want you

00:41:48.340 you to pay attention to the way he talks about his job even in a video where he hypothetically

00:41:54.540 could be complaining he's not complaining he's saying look this is a difficult job he's not

00:41:59.180 saying oh we work so hard my life is so hard he's saying look this is a hard job you're going to be

00:42:07.480 called on the weekends and I want to compare and contrast oh I have one more video I'm going to

00:42:15.160 show you where Mike Rowe talks about the difficult jobs on he talks about America's most dangerous

00:42:24.860 jobs let me pull this up sell dirty jobs in 2003 with no real success and the network said we we

00:42:35.040 do have something though that we're kind of curious about which is crab fishing in the

00:42:39.260 Bering Sea would you be interested in and exploring that and I said yeah sure and they

00:42:44.640 show me some footage little boats big water cold all right and so i flew from san francisco to

00:42:51.860 seattle seattle to anchorage anchorage one of those little planes that become a statistic down

00:42:57.680 in the job number seven or eight there called pen air and they fly you to the middle of the

00:43:02.520 elution chain and you land at dutch harbor alaska and you get off the plane and you check into what

00:43:08.200 looks like it might have been a motel once upon a time and then you get on one of these boats

00:43:12.740 and you start fishing and then you realize what actual fishing really and truly is 20 30 foot seas

00:43:19.820 temperatures that can swing 40 degrees in five minutes um you want to talk about danger i actually

00:43:27.540 thought this was a misprint you'll love this they they they gave me an actuarial chart before i went

00:43:34.180 out on the boat three columns uh injury rates catastrophic injury rates now again

00:43:41.900 crab fishing female conservative influencer

00:43:50.460 and mortality rates now i'm on this little pen air flight from anchorage to dutch and it's sporty

00:44:00.160 right i got a bush pilot up there and he's like saying all right folks hang on we're gonna give

00:44:05.060 whenever you're landing and the pilot comes on and says ah you know what let's give it a shot

00:44:11.900 right you can hear the sound of your sphincter slam shut and you're just like the pilot's going

00:44:18.740 to give it a shot because like 40 percent of the flights that come in the dutch they they abort

00:44:22.900 they just turn back around and they land in cold bay or some other place because you're flying in

00:44:27.760 between mountains and the wind is crazy and so i'm on this plane being up and down and back and forth

00:44:34.400 and i'm reading these actuarial charts and i'm thinking somebody's just fucking with me and this

00:44:37.840 this can't be true what do you think the injury rate is for a man who works on a crab boat

00:44:45.360 for a full season which is about at that time in 2003 is six weeks the injury rate 20 percent

00:44:53.920 higher 50 higher 100 percent yeah you're gonna get injured on those type of jobs are correct adam

00:45:00.880 one yes hundred percent yeah that's why i don't do those kind of things i stay here on podcast and to

00:45:06.800 be clear

00:45:07.840 even adam says it i don't do those things because they are harder

00:45:18.800 easier harder easier harder a couple of stitches broken finger right a mild you know contusion

00:45:27.920 you're gonna get knocked around for sure guaranteed catastrophic injury rate eight

00:45:33.600 percent wow six weeks so yeah uh an iron pot's gonna slide across an icy desk and shatter your

00:45:41.280 pelvis all right you know jesus mike you're gonna lose an eye you're you're you're gonna dislocate

00:45:47.760 an elbow uh a helicopter is gonna come again flown by one of these poor bastards down in category

00:45:53.680 number seven who's probably not gonna make it back to drag your ass off the boat right to some

00:45:58.480 hospital they're eight percent yeah okay the mortality rate column three it's not even a

00:46:07.520 percentage they don't even give it a percentage number one a week one a week right now one a week

00:46:15.280 so again so all to get us crabs just so americans can eat crabs one man dies a week so again you

00:46:26.880 know i have family that served in the military my boyfriend he served in the military he was on a boat

00:46:35.520 and it's like when you see men doing real jobs doing the jobs that keep society running

00:46:47.840 you feel some type of way when you have conservative female influencers

00:46:53.360 saying that their job's hard, complaining at all, saying that this is so difficult.

00:47:00.540 I disagree. If you want to come at me because I disagree with you, fine.

00:47:11.540 But this is the thing. So Joy Taylor spent all of those years in media and everyone around her

00:47:20.920 told her that she was oppressed everyone around her said that her job was really hard that she

00:47:26.900 had to work twice as hard as the men and the thing is when I actually managed men versus women in

00:47:33.860 media I saw a completely different perspective we are absolutely at an advantage it is stupid

00:47:39.940 and I'm grateful for it right I'm very thankful to you guys for allowing me to do what I do

00:47:45.520 you know but we have to be we have to have an honest conversation about this

00:47:52.900 the men have to be 10 times better to be in the same position that we are do you think there was

00:47:59.620 a white guy that knew more than candace owens about conservative politics that maybe that

00:48:10.240 was not famous but if you ask him about the history of anything he knew more than her same

00:48:15.760 with brett cooper same with amala now i'm not saying it's right or wrong we're in the business

00:48:22.080 of entertainment so the audience gets to pick what's entertaining but again the men have to train

00:48:29.760 10 times as hard as hard to get 10 percent of or they have to work 10 times as hard to get 10

00:48:40.460 percent of the money the credit or the recognition and we're out here living life on easy mode

00:48:46.580 and complaining about it again how dare you how dare you complain at all never

00:48:54.080 um and the thing is when i when i talk about this stuff i'm told i hate women i'm told that

00:49:03.860 i'm somehow evil for pointing this stuff out and

00:49:09.080 and i get demonetized on youtube for pointing out things that are true they're true megan kelly

00:49:19.200 did not have to be as good as her male counterparts to get the positions she got

00:49:25.980 she is a smart woman but she did not have to be as good to interview the president

00:49:31.100 it just is what it is if she was not attractive she would not be in the same position it's not

00:49:39.680 right or wrong it's not bad or good but come like complain when there's one guy dying a week

00:49:48.740 in alaska on these boats to get you crab makes you seem pretty spoiled to me i don't know

00:49:55.460 person statistically is going to die every week during the six-week period of crab fishing

00:50:05.620 on the bering sea now people who watch that show which by the way is now in its 20th season

00:50:12.520 is it deadly as catch this is deadly this is a show i've been narrating from the from the john

00:50:17.980 They know you can't script the Bering Sea.

00:50:25.300 We know something bad is going to happen, but we don't know when.

00:50:29.240 And in that first season, I spent six weeks up there.

00:50:33.460 When I left, everybody I met, including me, had gotten injured.

00:50:40.020 One of eight in 10, or eight out of 100, 8% had gotten seriously hurt, and I went to six funerals.

00:50:47.980 wow the the actuarial chart in 2003 for injury rates and mortality rates on the bering sea

00:50:58.540 was not in fact an actuarial chart it was a prophecy and it came true 100 and when i got back

00:51:06.220 to uh to the states and and talked to my friends at discovery and we all looked at this footage

00:51:12.540 you know, we realized that the question you're asking is not so different than what...

00:51:20.780 What do people want to watch? Like, what does satisfying curiosity really mean? What does

00:51:26.140 discovery really mean? Is it limited to, you know, how the universe works and planet Earth? Or can

00:51:34.300 we look at what it means to leave the cave and bring home the meat? Like, is that actually a thing

00:51:41.100 you can do on on television and when we saw that footage and we saw real men most of whom you know

00:51:49.340 the lower 48 doesn't know exist and the crazy thing is i was looking for men in this job that

00:51:54.620 were complaining online couldn't find them couldn't find them the closest thing

00:52:03.740 that i found was the one that i showed before and he wasn't even complaining

00:52:07.900 he was saying this is what's difficult about doing the job

00:52:12.620 how many complaints did i find about teachers how many complaints did i find from women in

00:52:18.220 marketing human resources i'm gonna go through them in a second but we are such a privileged class

00:52:26.620 again you're gonna say i hate women

00:52:31.660 because i point out that we cannot and do not have as hard of lives as men

00:52:37.180 that's true that's true and you can get mad at me for it you can say i'm a woman hater because of it

00:52:44.260 but it doesn't make it any less true i mean nobody had ever gone up there with cameras before

00:52:52.160 much less put them on a boat much less get to know the deckhands and the greenhorns and the captains

00:52:57.880 and live in the midst of that shit storm nobody even knew what was happening the privilof islands

00:53:04.180 what are those what do you mean you're 50 miles off the coast of russia with 800 pound crab pots

00:53:11.320 going over the rail what do you mean you don't sleep for 48 58 70 hours at a time holy oh my

00:53:20.940 gosh i could not i did a 48 hour live stream once and i fell asleep i did back in my in my streaming

00:53:28.800 days wow what do you mean six people are going to die in the next six weeks like all that stuff

00:53:37.520 was unknown and then all of a sudden it was self-evident toward your future looks bright hat

00:53:48.240 okay

00:53:55.040 now how do women fare in construction

00:53:59.600 11 of the construction industry is women and women only stay in the job for an average of five to

00:54:08.000 seven years we have a tendency so now it's interesting because i didn't find articles

00:54:17.920 talking about crab fishing about the guys complaining about crab fishing but i did find

00:54:25.280 read an article talking about why nursing is super hard. 10 reasons why being a nurse is not

00:54:35.580 easy. One, you hold in your hands the start of life. Number two, you have to be familiar

00:54:44.480 familiar with so many medical terms three you have to be accountable for your actions

00:54:53.140 four isn't that okay you have to see someone else suffer you have to be altruistic you have to be

00:55:03.700 patient you have to smile always I mean do you guys again do you hear I'm just I want you to

00:55:11.820 think of the perspective of that guy on a fishing boat in Alaska reading this article.

00:55:18.940 Oh, you have to smile always. Okay. You don't have holidays. You get too attached

00:55:25.320 and you hold in your hands the end of life.

00:55:29.740 now we have the ladies on tiktok showing what a day in the life of a nurse looks like

00:55:42.700 now i'm going to compare and contrast this with the crab fisher

00:55:47.300 earliest memory i never wanted to be anything but

00:55:55.060 a nurse i worked my whole life to have those two letters is so incredibly difficult physically and

00:56:01.540 emotionally it is all consuming it is complex in ways that i'll never be able to describe and

00:56:07.300 you'll never understand unless you are a nurse from my earliest memory i never wanted to be

00:56:11.540 anything but a nurse i worked my whole life to have those two letters follow my name the irony

00:56:16.620 that such a complicated profession is represented by just two letters will never be lost on me

00:56:20.580 nursing has taken from me in many ways that i will never get back and some days are so exhausting

00:56:25.460 that i question why i became a nurse at all and it's on those days that i remind myself of how

00:56:29.540 bad i used to want to stand in the confident capable nursing shoes that i get to stand in today

00:56:34.100 i would be so proud of how fiercely i care for my patients and i have far surpassed many

00:56:39.140 expectations that i have ever set for myself as a nurse and for that i am so grateful and

00:56:43.060 unexpectedly i am so proud of how hard i have fought to say that i love being a nurse

00:56:47.140 even when it doesn't love me back now why don't the guys in the same position

00:56:55.620 make tick tocks like this because they're working

00:57:03.860 because they're doing the job how hard can the job be if you can tick tock during it

00:57:12.900 am i am i wrong for saying that

00:57:17.460 okay hold on hello now let me go on youtube

00:57:23.940 oh my gosh ugh we had tech issues how will i survive this hard job

00:57:32.900 uh i know crab fishing videos okay now let's deadliest catch let's just i feel like it would

00:57:44.980 help us to get to get a real vision of what these guys are doing

00:58:04.980 crab fishing

00:58:06.340 deadliest catch. I want to get like a short from it. Oh, Alaska. Oh, here we go.

00:58:25.640 260. And we are going to check the first spot. And the thing about the first spot is

00:58:31.020 whatever that pot has, the rest of them are probably going to have that

00:58:36.020 so if it's blank and uh the rest of them are probably going to be blank

00:58:48.580 i don't know looks more difficult than the nurse

00:58:58.940 on the saga worse for us because all our equipment's wide open all our personnel are

00:59:16.920 right next to the starboard rail with winds increasing and seas building moving thousands

00:59:23.820 of pounds of metal across a slick deck

00:59:26.280 makes a dangerous job

00:59:28.000 downright deadly.

00:59:31.220 Hang on, hang on.

00:59:32.600 I'm going to come down.

00:59:34.300 Okay.

00:59:41.500 Hopefully the crab's here.

00:59:44.300 Light off deck!

00:59:46.540 No, no, no.

00:59:48.140 Coming in.

00:59:50.860 Yeah.

00:59:52.540 Holy

00:59:53.140 okay so you know run one stupid mistake which we're all human we get tired we

01:00:03.220 make mistakes we're human you could end up dead

01:00:08.980 versus the female dominated jobs modeling only fans cashiers are 70 women assistants

01:00:20.020 majority women, hairstylists, majority women, babysitting, majority women, daycare, majority

01:00:27.240 women. And then nursing, also majority women.

01:00:40.420 In a half hours, I was nonstop. I had seven patients after my shift yesterday, 14 and a

01:00:46.020 half hours i was non-stop i had seven patients the worst night of my entire nursing career i know

01:00:52.040 some nurses especially those who work med surg work these types of shifts all the time i don't

01:00:56.760 understand how being the same floor is always like this it's one of those floors where i literally

01:01:01.000 cannot understand how that's anyone's staff job but let me just rant off my seven patient assignment

01:01:06.460 to you i had an na to myself i don't know sometimes i feel like that doesn't really make a difference

01:01:09.880 much sometimes it does number one independent just requests pain meds probably every four to six

01:01:14.780 hours patient number two kept feeling like he was gonna have seizures and he did have a couple

01:01:18.260 seizures needed to be like monitored even out of hand patient number three work up for a stroke

01:01:22.880 seizure he's confused doesn't want his IV left in stop the bed alarm for NIH neuroassessment and

01:01:28.600 then at one point doesn't want to do any of it or respond I don't know if it's serious or not

01:01:33.120 it's just being difficult and then you have to call rapid number four q2 turn nonverbal uh q4

01:01:38.500 nih neuro assessment on heparin number five was pretty easy thank god number six q4 neuro

01:01:45.620 assessments on verbal to turn and it needs to be changed every so often now again i'm not saying

01:01:53.620 this is completely easy i mean she's above she's still above us she's still above the streamers

01:02:01.860 okay she's still above the youtubers nerd where would you i'm gonna put nurse

01:02:08.820 uh i'm gonna put that with construction garbage brick layers would you guys say that's fair

01:02:14.420 maybe it's harder than a cashier i'd say yeah i'm gonna i'm gonna put them in the middle so

01:02:19.700 you're not even at the bottom but the guys at the top they never complain ever okay next

01:02:29.540 we got this one so i don't usually post this type of content but i want to tell you guys how i feel

01:02:48.160 so that if you feel like this way too then you don't feel like you're alone because i feel

01:02:54.240 kind of alone right now I had a really really hard shift last night and I was

01:03:05.220 really scared and I felt super incompetent and I feel like I had no

01:03:11.040 idea what I was doing and I was terrified for my patient and it was just

01:03:19.040 really scary and there was just so much going on and i was terrified for her and i didn't know if

01:03:26.320 she was going to make it at one point and i just i was oh it just sucked it just really sucked

01:03:34.800 and i felt so stupid in front of everybody but it's okay my patience okay

01:03:41.440 like i'm so so so thankful for my team i could have never done it without them they

01:03:50.320 saved my life like i love my nursing team oh my gosh they're amazing

01:03:57.720 i still have not seen the crab fisherman complaining he saw one guy die a week there's

01:04:05.220 guys that do that every season they do they do they do every they're the captains of the boat

01:04:11.060 they keep signing up i don't see them on tiktok crying i just don't

01:04:18.660 i don't even see them offhandedly saying how hard they work i just don't

01:04:25.780 but i i don't know i almost like i was it was hard not to like cry during it i feel pretty numb

01:04:35.540 right now and pretty pretty pretty stupid just stupid and incompetent and embarrassed but she's

01:04:44.580 okay men one in the chat if you've ever felt stupid incompetent or embarrassed at work that's part of

01:04:54.660 work even me look at and by the way i'd like to say i'm at the bottom the bottom do you know

01:05:02.980 I've been embarrassed before. Hell yeah. I mean, even as someone that does a show,

01:05:10.880 people make fun of my show all the time. Every day of my life. But you know what? I will never,

01:05:16.260 I will never complain. I will never cry about it because

01:05:20.820 I'm at the bottom of the pyramid. Know your place.

01:05:26.860 top of the pyramid that's when that's when you should complain

01:05:33.520 i know exactly the audacity the audacity but the thing is this is the challenge we go through life

01:05:43.980 being told like okay i'm gonna take candace owens brett cooper amala i could do this in

01:05:51.100 other industries, I know my industry the best. Right-leaning, conservative women.

01:05:59.260 None of them are as smart, including me, as our male counterparts. You guys know I'm the biggest

01:06:06.940 fan of Rolo. He doesn't like me. I can see why. I can understand why. But I'm a huge fan. Huge.

01:06:13.920 I think he's so intelligent. And he's done this 20 years. I have more subscribers than him. It's

01:06:22.600 okay. I'm not bragging. But you get a leg up. Ben Shapiro was an actual lawyer. Managed a huge

01:06:30.780 media company. Cute conservative influencer who follows cultural trends. Totally fine. I do the

01:06:38.920 same thing, not wrong, not wrong, not wrong. But she doesn't have to work as hard as Ben.

01:06:49.400 Candace doesn't have to work as hard as the men. Amala didn't have to work as hard

01:06:54.040 as Dennis Prager. Totally okay. Totally fine. Not right, not wrong.

01:07:02.680 But the men have to be 10 times as good to get 10% of the clout.

01:07:08.920 and that's why men don't respect women's money because it's so much easier for us to get it

01:07:17.100 you know that's why i'm really not against women working i'm really not

01:07:21.340 because okay i'm thinking if you're a plumber and you can work 80 hours a week or work 40

01:07:27.600 and your wife could be one of the a babysitter a cashier an assistant sales hairstylist

01:07:35.380 you guys could retire 20 years early she gets the easy money you get the hard money what

01:07:42.440 I'm gonna continue

01:07:45.640 Pearl Shapiro and Prager are terrible example look you might not like Ben I get it people don't like

01:07:55.440 him but you have to admit being a lawyer is harder than being an actress I understand there's

01:08:02.140 nepotism i'm just asking what is a more difficult job okay you don't like prager you you don't like

01:08:09.340 ben they're still they've still started a giant media company and managed a ton of people i can

01:08:17.260 tell you managing people is hard i i did it i did it like overnight i got to roughly 20 employees

01:08:23.900 at one point that was the most stressed i've ever been you guys saw me i was pulling my hair out

01:08:30.860 starting a media company not easy it's not

01:08:35.820 that is 10 times harder than being a female conservative influencer and i can say it

01:08:41.820 because i've done it because i've done it okay next off

01:08:53.900 off. We have teachers. We have why teaching is hard. Teaching is one of the hardest jobs

01:09:06.140 in the world. As I am an English teacher, I am the one who experiences all the difficulties

01:09:18.900 of it even though it gives you pleasure to teach something and transfer your knowledge from people

01:09:24.740 it really takes a lot of the things away from you first of all people must understand that we are

01:09:32.260 also human beings thus there are moments where teachers are unhappy and dismotivated

01:09:39.300 i don't say demotivated dismo okay but we should do our best not to reflect this to our teachers

01:09:48.900 They said, Pearl, we don't have to respect Ben. I didn't say you had to respect him. I said, okay, what's more difficult? What was a more difficult path? Lawyer, high-end law firm, actor. One could be more competitive. No, not a lawyer. There's so many people trying to be lawyers.

01:10:08.920 but you could argue one has more people trying to do it but that doesn't make it more difficult

01:10:13.840 sorry i'm going to continue all right now this teacher has the idea why would a teacher think

01:10:21.820 that they have one of the most difficult jobs in america in the world again it's the delusion

01:10:27.860 that lady worked her she slept her way up at fox joy taylor and everyone had to pretend it was just

01:10:36.040 as hard. The teachers have to do the same thing where we all have to pretend that you work just

01:10:42.420 as hard as everyone else, even though you get three months off of the year. I'm not saying

01:10:47.280 it's unimportant. I'm not saying there are not challenges, but let's not pretend it is the same

01:10:56.360 thing as the top of the hierarchy of hard jobs. Teaching is really hard and many reasons for it

01:11:07.140 including the ones happening inside and outside the classroom. If I need to mention about the

01:11:12.580 ones happening inside it is really hard to communicate with people from different age

01:11:16.880 groups and backgrounds. They may all have different problems. When I look at my students

01:11:22.440 I can see them completely busy with homework from school. I can't motivate them to study the English

01:11:28.220 that I teach. When you work in private school, you have to make sure all your students are happy

01:11:32.980 with their presence at the school as they basically pay the money. This is another problem that puts

01:11:38.320 teachers under pressure. As I said, many of my teenage students have a lot of homework and it's

01:11:43.580 hard to keep them motivated at my lessons. The same problem occurs with my adult students who

01:11:48.800 working in the same place as they are working really hard this can't be effective in the class

01:11:56.160 they can't be as effective in the class and feel down when they come down with

01:12:00.640 high expectations and can't make them happen because of the reasons I listed above or maybe

01:12:04.800 you're not a good teacher maybe isn't that possible too they feel down as once again

01:12:12.080 we are the ones who have to motivate them with our speeches and actions

01:12:15.280 you don't you don't have to motivate them you have to fail them if they don't do the work

01:12:22.780 and make sure you're teaching them the material

01:12:25.500 when you're doing what you are doing in private school is more than teaching you can't just write

01:12:32.400 down the rules on the board and leave the class you have to be with them at all time she then

01:12:37.700 talks about how she has to be prepared when we are talking about teaching specifically

01:12:45.080 that requires more effort from you as teaching as teaching a language needs more than explaining

01:12:51.560 rules you have to show a lot of diversity in class to help your students have a good process in

01:12:56.520 learning isn't that part of working being prepared for a job okay now i'm gonna switch over and show

01:13:06.360 you the tick tocks of women complaining about how hard teaching is so a while back i posted a video

01:13:13.880 about how being an elementary teacher is dead-ass hard there's no way i could do this for another

01:13:18.120 20 years and so i'm reading the comments asking people for advice like what do i teach because

01:13:22.120 the middle school teachers are telling me that it's the same nothing changes and in fact the

01:13:25.560 high school teachers are telling me it gets worse in shock and as i'm reading these comments i see

01:13:30.440 a comment that centered with me hit me in my soul he said the reason being an elementary teacher is

01:13:36.440 so hard is because they don't know how to be humans yet if that ain't the truth i'm about

01:13:43.080 to tell you the story so about a week ago we had a new do you know how to be a human if you're

01:13:48.200 significantly overweight i mean am i the only one thinking that like you obviously don't know how

01:13:54.040 to feed yourself normal portion sizes preschooler come in yeah i know it's april welcome to teach

01:13:59.880 your life and i understand these kids are like four and five and she's brand new so this is

01:14:05.320 probably first time she's ever been in school so i go over and i say let me help you write your name

01:14:09.640 on the back of your artwork what's your name she looks me in my eye and says i don't know

01:14:17.000 i try again i say so what does your mommy call you at home like what's your name

01:14:22.920 she literally said i don't know the little girl didn't know her own name

01:14:31.160 huh i i expected a lot of things coming into elementary but i did not expect that

01:14:36.520 and again you got one guy dying a week versus watching kids a kid not knowing their own name

01:14:47.720 this is how i know that that comment could not be more true they don't know how to be human

01:14:52.580 they don't know anything they don't even know their name and it's given me the grace to be

01:14:58.600 more generous with these kids because they they really just don't know they don't know and i get

01:15:03.360 it's super beautiful this is a beautiful age how wonderful how big of a blessing it is to be a part

01:15:07.560 of this part of their development core memories understanding life i get it it really is rewarding

01:15:13.200 it really is special but man it's so damn hard it's so hard sometimes because these kids don't

01:15:19.800 know how to be human my god anyways i said you can't make this up i know i know all right we got

01:15:27.960 one more you know what here we go breaking down why teaching is hard right now for the people who

01:15:37.600 are confused okay I feel like I have had a breakthrough and like figured out why teaching

01:15:44.380 is so hard right now and hopefully this can clear it up for people that are confused and why it's

01:15:48.740 hard in general but really why it's hard right now um so here it is so in other jobs people like

01:15:53.620 work together um towards a common goal or like to create a product lots of people working together

01:15:58.380 to create something else however as a teacher like the product that you are creating is your

01:16:04.700 students like you are literally morphing a person that is the job the job is to like morph a human

01:16:10.680 and like minimum 15 humans maximum like if you're like me i teach middle school many periods like

01:16:16.260 180 humans okay and like in other morphing human jobs like nutritionists or fitness coaches or

01:16:24.260 nail techs or a hairstylist or a hairdresser these are professions where paying adults are coming to

01:16:32.340 those professions to be morphed they want to be morphed and they are paying adults who are going

01:16:36.880 to sit quietly because they are like committed to the service that you are providing they do not

01:16:40.200 want you to mess it up and they like trust you a lot to do it but with school you are morphing

01:16:45.360 children you're morphing children that most of the time don't want to be morphed and like

01:16:51.180 developmentally it just makes sense that they would fight being morphed they're like trying

01:16:55.020 to find themselves and they don't want to be there and they want to do literally everything else

01:16:58.360 and they have to be there and your job is to morph their minds and help them so you're molding humans

01:17:03.080 lots of them the humans are children and the children that you're morphing and molding and

01:17:07.880 helping don't really want that help okay so your job is hard because you have to do your job

01:17:15.360 i can't do this anymore i just can't i just so that job as a teacher that's just the job and

01:17:25.040 that makes sense like that's the job we signed up for but it takes a lot of time and focused

01:17:29.780 work you get three months off during the year who here wants three months off you know it's like

01:17:35.740 who here wants three you know who wants to

01:17:41.120 they get off at like three o'clock two my high school got off at 2 30

01:17:47.380 2 30 to do that because i mean if you know anything about like changing a person like

01:17:52.460 that's like really hard okay so when do we have that focus time when do we have the time to create

01:17:57.400 these engaging lessons that are going to mold their minds and to grade things and give feedback

01:18:01.320 when we are being pulled during our planning periods,

01:18:04.740 pulled during our lunch to cover things and do things

01:18:07.660 and be places because there's a teaching and a sub-shortage.

01:18:10.300 When are we going to do that if there's so many standardized tests

01:18:12.260 that while we're trying to mold their minds, we actually...

01:18:14.140 They not only have teachers now, they have teacher's assistants.

01:18:17.780 They have two teachers.

01:18:24.820 We actually have to beginning, middle, and end of the year

01:18:26.640 give these standardized tests for them to do well on them,

01:18:28.700 but we can't morph them to do well on them because we're giving them.

01:18:31.320 How are we morphing the humans if we don't have unencumbered work days to get better at our job?

01:18:35.160 And how do we morph them if we don't have the money to pay to live a life that gives us the energy to morph them?

01:18:40.420 I mean, you have three months out of the year to drive Uber.

01:18:46.480 Okay.

01:18:49.200 That was years ago.

01:18:50.240 Now you get off at four and the elementary kids get off at 3.30.

01:18:54.620 Parents really don't want to watch their kids, huh?

01:18:57.760 They're like, keep them longer.

01:18:59.340 do not send them back okay I have like three other industries but

01:19:07.560 no it's interesting because when men are asked the same question about their industry

01:19:12.380 we have a tendency they have a tendency to admit that this is not a difficult job now

01:19:21.760 you know Candace is saying you know Pearl it's it's just because you don't have an

01:19:28.780 entertaining show you just hate on women i'm sure the the people that don't do what you do they

01:19:34.780 wouldn't agree with you no well let's see you know kai sinette has jumped over i was at speed

01:19:43.360 i get them confused he's one of the biggest streamers one of these guys has jumped over a car

01:19:49.000 on stream speed yeah they you know they it's crazy they go to city to city they are select i don't

01:19:56.820 get it no offense like shout out to you guys but i don't understand why they're so famous but

01:20:07.380 you can't say they don't do an entertaining show

01:20:12.100 what do they say when is streaming harder is youtubing harder than a nine to five

01:20:17.700 um we asked me this and i remember one time he's like

01:20:21.700 streaming is it harder than a nine to five it should be harder than a nine to five yes

01:20:26.820 no hell no she was harder than nine to five okay let me let me give you so me i hate women

01:20:36.260 but he says the same thing my my results on it right so like have you ever had another job other

01:20:42.820 than streaming no okay listen let me tell you something anybody who says that streaming is

01:20:46.820 harder than nine to five is an idiot i i i work so hard on my streams it takes a lot of hard work

01:20:53.620 it takes a lot of hard planning it takes a lot of um you got to be in front of a camera for

01:20:58.340 dozens of hours okay i understand that you feel me it's it's hard you feel what i'm saying in

01:21:02.980 terms of like the skill that i at least do it on but and some people do it on it's hard right

01:21:08.180 but harder than a nine to five you're talking about somebody that may not even want to even

01:21:12.500 be there right i i love streaming yeah it's like i think about it all the time and see this is on

01:21:21.620 the hierarchy of heart the people at the bottom get to be passionate we get to be creative we're

01:21:27.300 so lucky the people at the top don't always have that luxury they understand a job is a job

01:21:34.260 the other thing that men understand is that somebody has to do it there's somebody you know

01:21:40.180 there are jobs men know okay that's not a high-paying job but somebody has to step up and

01:21:45.940 has to have to do it and men are willing to sacrifice for the greater good of society

01:21:52.420 not all not all not all many women are not i mean there are the women that go into the trades like

01:21:57.860 seven percent but it's not the majority um um i treat it as if it's like a i got there's a job

01:22:08.900 but you love it but i love it the average nine to five worker don't want to be there yeah they

01:22:14.500 They ain't loving it.

01:22:15.340 I want to be there.

01:22:16.160 I remember I had to do something in the grocery store.

01:22:17.980 I had to pack things and I was like,

01:22:19.000 damn, I don't want to be here.

01:22:20.280 And like, man, and they had to find ways

01:22:23.700 and they're not even really getting paid.

01:22:25.380 You get paid and you gotta,

01:22:27.420 that shit's going straight to bills

01:22:28.540 and taking care of the kids.

01:22:29.880 Yeah.

01:22:30.720 Next, we have

01:22:36.220 iShowSpeed being asked the same thing.

01:22:38.220 Is streaming harder than having a nine to five?

01:22:40.560 It's streaming harder than having a 9 to 5.

01:22:45.980 Well, you never had one, so...

01:22:47.420 I mean, well, when I was 15, I did have a job, and I did...

01:22:50.760 What'd you do?

01:22:51.900 I worked, you know, it was a caretaker home.

01:22:55.180 You know where, like, you send your grandma and grandpa?

01:22:57.100 Yeah.

01:22:57.580 I worked in a kitchen in a caretaker home, and I was like a server, right?

01:23:01.680 So, you know, give them the food and deliver the food.

01:23:05.220 But, and let me tell you this.

01:23:09.660 No.

01:23:10.560 uh no when i when i worked there it was it was way harder it was it's just draining you know

01:23:19.920 it's dreaming harder okay so then they agree

01:23:25.600 now it was interesting because i just want to show the disparity in men versus women

01:23:32.160 and by the way showing this stuff does not help me it really doesn't because

01:23:38.640 you know I mean this benefits me too but I like to be honest about this stuff so

01:23:45.540 Candace Owens interviews this guy on the USS Liberty this got 5.4 million views

01:23:52.200 I'm gonna show a male that did the same thing longer interview live streamed which makes it

01:24:04.040 more difficult right 18 000 views unfair unfair it's just life just life could you could say the

01:24:16.740 same thing for me same thing i had to delete most of my content so i can't really

01:24:21.820 what a sad day feel free to go to the audacity network.com if you want me to become

01:24:28.420 youtube free say with me guys youtube free but please let me in if you're watching youtube

01:24:35.000 so i want to reiterate am i we're gonna do a call-in show so you guys can call in we're gonna

01:24:45.120 um take a quick we're gonna take a quick pause for a second while i let people

01:24:50.460 call them we're gonna put the zoom link in the chat and i want you guys to answer the question

01:24:56.020 am i wrong for saying that media is an easy job and do i hate women call in i get a lot of

01:25:06.420 criticism i want to know do i hate women am i wrong for saying that media is an easy job

01:25:26.020 Thank you.

01:25:56.020 Thank you.

01:26:26.020 Thank you.

01:26:56.020 Thank you.

01:27:26.020 Thank you.

01:27:56.020 okay guys we're back wanted to make sure that the zoom worked today so i wanted to double check so

01:28:09.060 i'm going to read the comments on the website again normally you guys have to pay for every

01:28:14.980 comment you read on all these other channels that are monetized with super chats not here

01:28:18.980 i let you go on my website and 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year unlimited reading

01:28:25.920 i read it so all you have to do is put pearl read and i will read your chat on the website

01:28:32.400 i have you guys put pearl read first just because and you guys you can even you can

01:28:38.460 even roast me i'll read it i don't care i don't discriminate i'll allow it um

01:28:43.500 the reason i say pearl reed is sometimes you guys talk to each other and it's a little confusing

01:28:49.660 okay so these are going to take a second so stay tuned i am going to accept people

01:28:55.260 on the zoom also after this okay um

01:29:01.980 pearl reed mike roe is the godfather of hard work pearl you are not evil for telling the truth if

01:29:08.720 truth doesn't hurt it's not the truth thank you curveball says if nursing is hard why do they

01:29:14.480 cock block men in hiring dane my wife the deed ganader was a refinery mechanic for 17 years

01:29:24.240 for chevron and pass kagula and for years she was the only female fabricator still on her tools

01:29:34.960 Dane says women don't want that job even though it offers $100K per year, which is enormous in

01:29:41.680 this area. Women love saying we do the same job, yet I'd rather pay one male nurse $75K who can

01:29:48.320 lift a patient alone than two $50K female nurses to lift the same one patient together. Dane,

01:29:55.760 a female operator at her refinery was killed years ago. A furnace blew up. She ran one way

01:30:01.440 and the other operators ran another she was barbecued and left behind three children remember

01:30:07.360 Deej is only four foot eleven inches tall but she handled it for years she was the only woman

01:30:13.360 Chevron is begging for females but the job isn't climate controlled

01:30:19.440 Dane back in my shipbuilding days I helped haul injured men out from the bottom of warships being

01:30:25.200 built i saw a man get half naked his hand i sorry i saw a man get his get half his i saw a man get

01:30:34.800 his hand mashed off but mashed off but not off it was mashed by a crane outrigger i saw a mechanic

01:30:43.120 mechanic one day get his toe a mechanist one day get his toe chopped off by a falling steel plate

01:30:50.000 it landed behind his steel toe and then his boots and chopped off all his toes

01:30:55.680 i literally witnessed that curveballs i used to move around heavy freight

01:31:00.080 while the women around women worked the ticking ticket counter for higher pay

01:31:08.720 the daily gripe sure but pre-k isn't hard just babysitting it's like 97 females doing pre-k

01:31:14.800 Dane, I've had two knee surgeries and a rotator cuff repair from work injuries.

01:31:19.740 The shoulder was a complete tear and a one-inch separation between pieces.

01:31:24.440 There was a suspicion that my bicep had also torn loose from the bone, but thank God it hadn't.

01:31:32.740 Dane, Dee's used to talk about women in other departments like operations,

01:31:37.180 instrumentation, and whatever, who came in in their full makeup and hair done.

01:31:42.460 She'd say they are not here to work.

01:31:44.800 my brother had a big piece of pipe fall on his end and caught him about halfway down his shin

01:31:50.800 and literally sliced him up the bone down his ankle and almost cut off his foot at the ankle

01:31:56.320 pearl deej will tell you that there is big money she makes my plate for dinner and she picks up my

01:32:02.320 underwear off the bathroom floor without a complaint she knows what's up but most women don't

01:32:07.840 johnny says a woman doesn't see the glass half full or half empty she just wants a bottle or a

01:32:13.360 a can or a jar. Gazelle says, I don't blame that kid for forgetting his name. Having someone who

01:32:20.080 weighs 320 pounds leaning on your face with those whiskey glasses would scare the life out of a

01:32:26.400 grown adult, let alone your kid. They said, Pearl, are you following back Audacity members on Twitter

01:32:31.680 and X? Yeah, sure. Sure, I will. I will. If you guys need to screenshot your membership and send

01:32:38.740 it to me on twitter i'll follow you back okay so we're gonna start with hannah i don't have

01:32:47.960 women calling to the show much obviously so let's see um no don't share the screen okay i want to

01:33:00.560 make sure there are people first so just don't share the screen she's fine now but in general

01:33:05.500 Okay. Okay. Now we have Hannah. One second. Okay. Hello, Hannah. Hi, Perla. How are you? I'm good. How are you? Where are you calling from? I'm calling. Hello? Oh, there we go. Hi, Perla. How are you? I'm good. How are you? Where are you calling from? I'm calling from Ogden, Utah. Is that us or her? Do you have a YouTube playing in the background?

01:33:35.500 talk I do yeah yeah make sure you pause it and then I'll be able to hear you

01:33:40.140 there we go awesome okay so you're in Utah I am okay so what is your thought

01:33:50.240 on the topic am I wrong for bringing this up do I hate women what's your you

01:33:54.720 agree disagree well you reached out to me to call in because of your post on

01:34:01.860 virgins and yesterday. Oh, in terms. Oh, I'm sorry. We moved that topic to tomorrow. I forgot

01:34:10.340 to tell you. I'm so sorry. Today we're talking about hard jobs, but tomorrow we're doing that

01:34:15.560 same time. Okay. Well, maybe I should just call back in tomorrow. Okay. You don't, do you have

01:34:20.700 any thoughts on the topic at all? Um, not necessarily. I like, I've been in and out

01:34:28.040 listening to some i was like oh i don't know if i there's like much that can be applied to this

01:34:32.980 okay um so maybe i'll just call in tomorrow yeah thank you for calling in i'm so sorry i forgot

01:34:37.820 about that oh no you're good no worries at all thanks thanks okay next we have

01:34:43.800 i'll i'll let in my my moderator doug mpa is gonna say hello

01:34:49.960 doug what's going on

01:34:58.280 no yeah no he can oh yeah that's fine um

01:35:09.380 okay hello doug what's going on yeah yeah sorry sorry about that you're okay

01:35:17.740 Okay. So, one second. Sorry. I got to turn the YouTube off. I did the cardinal sin myself. Okay. So, women in construction, women in tech, and a whole lot of male-dominated jobs, because remember, modern women want credit for everything, even the smallest little thing.

01:35:44.820 so you see women oh yeah girlies in tech women in tech but they're not actual software engineers

01:35:53.860 they're the project managers the accounts receivable all the things adjacent to it but

01:36:00.960 they want the same credit and claim to be in tech as engineers it's the same thing as

01:36:06.160 construction i had a friend who had a civil engineering degree i'm sorry guys but biology

01:36:13.160 is the female easy stem degree and civil engineering is the easy female engineering

01:36:19.120 degree most female engineers are civil engineers not electrical electrical engineers not mechanical

01:36:26.740 engineers not chemical engineers civil engineers right and so these women are on the job site

01:36:35.200 and you see all these women oh yeah women women in construction um breaking down all these

01:36:42.700 barriers but you have a clipboard you're not swinging the hammers you you're not driving

01:36:49.740 the tractors women want all the credit of the men doing the hard work and they're not even

01:36:56.460 actually in the industry themselves where would you put civil engineers on the hierarchy of hard

01:37:03.760 jobs i put it down with podcasters yeah wait really i don't know yeah because let me tell

01:37:11.020 you what no way a civil engineering degree has got to be harder than no no okay okay go ahead

01:37:18.220 i don't know every single civil engineer i know all the so to my friend who's who's a civil

01:37:26.700 engineer they're building a building right and the building has to be built to a certain

01:37:32.580 specification to match um state and city regulations so she goes through and makes

01:37:40.560 sure that what's being built matches with city and state regulations so she has her little air

01:37:47.260 conditioned a little office thing and she walks around with a clipboard that's all she does all

01:37:51.880 day wow all she does and then i have another friend who works for um the state in a and um

01:38:02.040 for for um state government and she makes sure that she's a civil engineer but she makes sure

01:38:09.040 that like road crews get the supplies they need to actually lay down the concrete so so she sits

01:38:17.140 in an office and she just makes sure that the state is purchasing the right supplies based

01:38:23.500 upon the demand of fixing roads there's no civil engineer who's out there i mean there may be some

01:38:30.460 but most civil engineers aren't doing hands-on work they're just not you know i'm thinking i

01:38:36.660 had a roommate that was an engineer and she was civil she was totally civil yeah are you still

01:38:44.040 connected with her could you ask you what she does is i guarantee you she she works for some

01:38:49.580 kind of administration somewhere she's an air-conditioned office behind a computer type

01:38:54.640 and stuff all day she's in an office she totally is yeah yeah yeah and then another thing i'll get

01:39:02.040 up here uh once again women want credit for everything on tiktok there are women who are

01:39:09.400 saying that there's a woman who

01:39:11.400 has a Carhartt hat on, and she says that

01:39:13.500 she deserves all the credit

01:39:15.580 of the men building

01:39:17.700 buildings, building

01:39:19.400 bridges, building all these different

01:39:21.460 things, because she's pregnant

01:39:23.120 and she's going to have a baby.

01:39:25.200 And she's a single mom, no less.

01:39:28.220 But because

01:39:29.180 she can build a baby in her body,

01:39:31.780 she deserves all the credit

01:39:33.440 of these crab fishermen,

01:39:36.600 the men on the roofs,

01:39:39.400 drywallers she literally has a two minute long tiktok saying this stuff

01:39:45.260 crazy insanity insanity insanity now again i i don't say that this stuff isn't competitive

01:39:53.580 you know there's a million people that want to be youtubers actors models

01:39:59.020 but difficulty level you you will not convince me it's anywhere near the top of my whiteboard

01:40:10.020 it is just not thank you very much for calling in doug a pleasure as always oh it's good talking

01:40:15.540 to you my friend have a good one you too i really would love to hear from the ladies you guys have

01:40:20.740 so much to say to me on twitter you really do the ladies will say i hate women that i'm just

01:40:26.980 a woman hater and they have no problem telling me this on twitter so come up this is your invitation

01:40:36.020 Candace, it's an invitation to you too.

01:40:37.920 I hate women, okay?

01:40:39.500 I have never have anything nice to say about women ever.

01:40:45.340 So, you know, it begs the question too,

01:40:48.880 why in order to say something positive about women,

01:40:55.160 why does it have to be better than men?

01:40:59.940 If I say that men are better at things,

01:41:02.860 in general, not all, not all at all,

01:41:05.300 Nobody comes from ... Their automatic gut reaction is, but women, but women, but women.

01:41:17.620 Women are better at things than children, per se, not all, not all, not all.

01:41:23.720 As a group, if we look at the data, if I hate women, let me know, do I hate women?

01:41:36.020 I'm going to bring up Trey Parks.

01:41:40.440 Because I think I've seen him on Twitter.

01:41:42.300 I need your video on, guys, because I need to make sure you guys are real people.

01:41:49.680 Please make sure you have nothing playing in the background.

01:41:53.860 Trey, how are you?

01:41:58.960 Can't hear you right now?

01:42:00.400 Is his side?

01:42:02.680 Okay.

01:42:05.300 all right trey i'm gonna have to drop you because i can't hear you what

01:42:12.380 i'll give you a i'm gonna put you back in the waiting room but i'm gonna put on someone else

01:42:19.200 okay um i'm gonna go elijah t i'm gonna oh i'm gonna just say you guys's first names my bad

01:42:29.620 okay i need camera on okay looks like he's ready to go and hello elijah

01:42:40.380 hi hi pearl hi everybody how are you where are you calling out of

01:42:45.680 listen i'm from germany i'm from dresden germany i'm not the usual type of guy i like to be calling

01:42:53.620 into shows because i usually run and host my own shows as you can maybe tell maybe not from the

01:42:58.200 background from the overlay um first off matt props to what you're doing i love the fact that

01:43:03.680 you dare speak the truth in such a difficult political climate and i wanted to chip in if i

01:43:09.880 may go ahead go ahead all right well listen um you were you were asking two things and i find it

01:43:19.280 difficult to answer both at the same time because on the one hand you were asking about like jobs

01:43:23.460 in general right and the other question you uh brought up today was about like the difficulty

01:43:29.620 of like podcaster podcasters and like um content creators people who stream um and maybe even

01:43:37.000 particularly like for a living because there's like the part-time streamer who does it who

01:43:41.700 sort of like enjoys part-time success and it's kind of fine with like uh it going nowhere

01:43:47.060 financially speaking and then there's the other people who literally depend on this thing like

01:43:52.360 bringing in a steady revenue stream and literally have mouths to feed like by way of what they're

01:43:58.320 doing streaming or content creating so i want to differentiate those actually like three things but

01:44:03.360 to keep it short first and foremost i want to say you're 100 right this uh generally speaking

01:44:09.480 in terms of like the landscape of jobs i see that um women obviously have it easier

01:44:15.460 and the sole proof like in my opinion for why this is right for why what you're saying what

01:44:22.820 you're advocating for is 100 correct is because it's been exactly that way that has been the

01:44:28.280 general opinion for like about 99.9 percent of time of human existence there was no debate over

01:44:34.380 whether male dominated jobs were the more difficult ones as opposed to the female ones

01:44:41.700 there was no discussion there was no debate about that it was just like a given it was clear

01:44:46.660 like as clear as the fact that the sun rises in the east and sets in the west right nobody

01:44:51.940 was arguing nobody was challenging that thought because it was so obvious it was so clear it was

01:44:57.460 so i want to say like two degree natural that it almost seemed crazy to even question that like how

01:45:03.780 what like you you must be mad to even question this premise and only now i want to say like

01:45:10.020 like, from maybe the last 20, 30, 40-plus years, right,

01:45:13.920 we've stepped into this new era of society

01:45:16.160 where all of a sudden it has become sort of, like,

01:45:18.280 fashionable, I want to even say,

01:45:20.060 to say the most outlandish, daring things,

01:45:22.860 because apparently we are now in this post-truth era.

01:45:27.040 But even, like, mathematically speaking,

01:45:29.420 like, statistically speaking, right,

01:45:31.120 why would, like, a universal truth that had been true

01:45:34.460 for the longest amount of time,

01:45:36.220 all of a sudden, so abruptly, so definitively,

01:45:39.640 have ended and why if it has ended does the world still revolve around men and i don't want to even

01:45:48.380 say unfortunately that's just the way it is you know because i don't want to frame it in any kind

01:45:53.040 of way i feel like that's been the way it has been whatever you believe whoever you believe in

01:45:58.880 whether that's god creation some type of process of evolution or whatever right it has led us for

01:46:03.980 millions of years to this place where society has not only evolved, but basically like

01:46:09.160 established itself in a functioning way, in a way that has allowed us to reach heights of

01:46:16.440 civilization, climb mountains, peaks, culturally speaking, technologically speaking, and so on and

01:46:22.780 so forth. And now to put all of this in jeopardy, just to be able to say, but no, like we've upheaved,

01:46:29.060 upturned, groundbreaking, basically a loss of biology and society and time itself, just to be

01:46:38.480 able to include everybody now, especially those who haven't been providing as much, historically

01:46:43.620 speaking. I mean, that's just outlandish to me. And it seems to me that people tend to say these

01:46:50.220 things as in, you know, like we're all equals as though we were, because obviously that's the

01:46:54.720 fashionable politically correct thing to do to say these days and some people who are overly

01:47:00.080 politically correct they even go beyond that they not only claim that men and women are created

01:47:05.980 equal but they then say women are even better somehow for having been the lesser part for so

01:47:13.520 many hundreds maybe thousands of years what have you right and i find i find it very difficult to

01:47:19.660 argue with these kinds of people because again there's no proof there's no basis for even like

01:47:24.200 the most remote feigned argument like realistically speaking i i find it difficult to approach these

01:47:30.600 people and yet it's necessary and i want to bring it to a close i find it so necessary because this

01:47:37.400 if we were to give in to these let's say unrealistic fantasy living people right we would

01:47:43.720 endanger the core principles of our society and so what you're doing as a podcaster as a content

01:47:50.520 creator as a multiplier of information in an era where we have so much emphasis on this information

01:47:57.240 war um is incredibly difficult i get it it's an easy job to do like from the outside when you

01:48:05.400 look at it like superficially oh he's like in this ac room right he's well lit and he's just sitting

01:48:10.840 in his armchair and he's talking and commenting and blah blah blah and while that may be true

01:48:15.960 um just a quick caveat at the very end there um so lots of people can comment lots of people can

01:48:23.480 podcast but just just the tiniest amount of people the the the the fewest amount possible

01:48:29.400 smallest one possible can actually break through and that's what everybody aims for those who start

01:48:34.600 but 99.9 they will fail right and so basically even the simple jobs the podcasting the content

01:48:41.320 creation right you can do it but getting back to having it be culturally important and financially

01:48:47.960 viable to break through that's the actual would you agree that that men have to work 10 times

01:48:54.520 harder to break through than a woman in podcasting in terms of content creation yeah i love that

01:48:59.640 example that you gave with uh um uh who was a candace owens right so i'm gonna enjoy a type of

01:49:06.360 bonus right for being female and doing this like hard job and so on and so forth because obviously

01:49:11.640 like uh well there's a double standard there let's just say it right well it's more rare all over

01:49:17.240 canvas yeah it's more rare right like a woman with conservative opinions is rare where a man with

01:49:23.720 conservative opinions is common so one is going to be paid more even if they're not as knowledgeable

01:49:30.040 yeah that's the novelty that comes with it for sure the fact that you're a little bit more

01:49:34.280 exclusive when as a woman you present yourself that way but still i mean regardless of any topic

01:49:39.640 right i mean like um i find that women like check your instagrams right uh you'll see a woman even

01:49:46.600 if they say nothing of interest at all posts like uh totally below average pictures sometimes even

01:49:51.960 they get like 10 times 20 times 30 times 50 times the the clicks the likes the comments the interaction

01:49:57.880 and so on and so forth uh that's the way the world works but if you're if you're assuming that that's

01:50:03.880 as it is and it is right the way it is and there's an advantage that females have why not say that

01:50:09.560 there are advantages that men have and for being able to enjoy these advantages that comes with a

01:50:15.320 price and the prices you take on the responsibility you want to have the reins right you want to have

01:50:19.720 the power you want to have the responsibility all right but it comes with strings attached

01:50:24.280 and that's you have to do the hard jobs you have to let people walk over you all over you especially

01:50:29.240 in this culture and this climate and yet still stand for it right still say i'm a man right i'm

01:50:34.840 i have to be i have to rise above that right that can't hold me down that's been historically

01:50:40.600 speaking always been my role be a strong man first and then maybe if you're like the exceptional man

01:50:47.800 even be a leader and then go from there right that's that's your role in the world and just

01:50:52.920 live with it well thank you very much for calling in germany i can't believe we got people watching

01:50:58.520 over there nice to meet you well yeah absolutely yeah nice to meet you thank you for everything you

01:51:04.680 do and uh keep streaming i love i love watching your content whenever i find it i always click

01:51:09.720 thank you for that thank you next we're gonna have you too okay guys did you see how um

01:51:20.600 he came in he had his mics ready oh what did i do no i don't want to don't report okay he had

01:51:28.040 is mike ready he's ready to go that's ideally what you guys will do your camera somewhere i

01:51:34.440 can see you so you're not walking around right sit down i understand you guys are doing other

01:51:39.240 things you're kind of waiting to get in i get it i get it you don't know if you're gonna get picked

01:51:42.760 i've been there i've been on the other end but if you can

01:51:48.840 if you can um do that we're gonna try yesin

01:51:52.040 it might be a all the ladies that say I hate women now is your time now is your time to shine

01:52:04.760 let's see

01:52:08.840 am I getting is he coming in

01:52:22.040 see he's connected now right his camera's off I need camera on guys I'm going to put

01:52:30.200 you back in the waiting room hopefully we're going to go to someone that's got their camera on

01:52:37.880 next Phil

01:52:41.400 there he is hello

01:52:48.360 oh he's still we'll give you a second to connect

01:52:53.000 says you're still connecting the audio

01:53:02.040 camera on this is home eagle there maybe is that better oh i can hear you now hello how are you

01:53:09.160 good how about you i'm good where are you calling out of uh western new york oh cool

01:53:15.080 you know I was a teacher and if that was one subject career you brought up and

01:53:22.580 I mean I had plenty to complain about but I just couldn't do it it was too hard

01:53:28.560 I was a truck driver you know I did a lot of different careers but I finally I spent 30 years

01:53:37.420 doing technology and that was getting kind of crazy I went back to driving truck I was making

01:53:43.100 better money. I didn't have all the headaches of dealing with the people every day. Any kind of

01:53:48.960 public service work or even just, you know, sales. I mean, you said you did sales. It's tough, you

01:53:54.900 know, dealing with people all the time. But I mean, I always say to people, well, why do you

01:53:59.960 think they're paying you? Because you wouldn't do it for free. That's why they pay you. It's things

01:54:05.520 people, you know, don't want to just do in their everyday life. So did you have any other specific

01:54:12.220 topics i i'm new to this i don't i mean i've been watching you a little while yeah so the question

01:54:17.560 was am i wrong for bringing up that our jobs are more difficult or sorry our jobs are easier than

01:54:24.860 the guys because i i just keep getting that i hate women that you know i'm wrong for this and i just

01:54:31.740 wanted to know the audience's thoughts well i've i tried to write you a little bit in just through

01:54:37.740 emails about I do this cognitive therapy stuff and it really puts this distinction mostly on

01:54:45.620 men and women because women tend to think more about you know all the headaches and all the

01:54:51.640 problems like and you've talked about this you know the fears and with all the bad things that

01:54:56.180 could happen where you know if you're more right-brained you think which men are you tend to

01:55:02.380 just say hey what am I getting out of this is this worth the trouble and we that's why we don't

01:55:07.080 complain as much we have all those same thoughts we just don't uh we don't focus on them because

01:55:15.120 yeah these things could happen but they don't always happen and it's sort of a stress coping

01:55:20.540 thing with people too is they what do you call that venting or whatever yeah you know you get

01:55:25.980 aggravated and you want to see how this person oh my god you know it that kind of releases some of

01:55:31.800 that stress but the real way you release it is by just getting a resolution in your own mind about

01:55:37.980 look I I chose this path if I don't want to do it I can maybe try something else so I'm getting

01:55:44.980 older now that's why I went back to driving truck because I I'm nearing retirement so I

01:55:49.280 I just don't want to uh start something new at this point um but I think with women with you

01:55:56.820 hating women see that's when you're saying something critical about somebody it kind of

01:56:02.380 immediately launches this defense mechanism everybody has oh i'm not like that what do you

01:56:07.900 mean well maybe this other person is and i it really comes down to are you looking at the world

01:56:12.900 through you know the way people see you or are you looking at how you see yourself because if

01:56:20.140 if you have a strong self-worth you're not going to care what anybody says about you i mean they

01:56:26.040 kind of call that self-confidence but it's not really that it's more it's more just having

01:56:30.780 confidence enough to say well I know what I do some people would call me a loser if I'm I'm just

01:56:36.960 a truck driver well you know like you're talking about how women have these high standards maybe

01:56:41.360 sometimes higher than men but that's just the the choices they make it's all free will we all have

01:56:48.400 a free will to choose and do what we want as a question is are you going to blame the world

01:56:53.240 or are you going to blame yourself and the real answer is to not blame either one either one

01:56:59.020 you make decisions you see what happens and then you just move forward now as far as people hating

01:57:05.140 you i could see why they hate you it's pretty clear to me i mean just seeing the text and

01:57:11.600 everything and hearing some of the comments you've made and it's no difference with you and a lot of

01:57:15.740 other commentators especially the people who have been banned like i don't even i've never hear

01:57:21.300 anybody mention this one comedian because i think you can't even mention him this guy that's in

01:57:26.680 idaho i don't know if you know him and he got banned about eight years ago which was owen

01:57:31.580 benjamin do you know him he he's a comedian sounds really familiar go ahead well spoke up against

01:57:38.120 the uh giving children hormones back when they started doing that and he was immediately banned

01:57:44.580 from every platform and he's still suffering for it so there's always going to be people who don't

01:57:51.080 like the way you think or do things. So you just have to go forward and say, well, is this a path

01:57:57.640 I want to go down? And it gets more true with religions and, you know, stronger belief systems.

01:58:02.880 But you just have to, you know, make a choice. You make a choice and you take the heat. And if

01:58:08.500 you don't like it, you leave the kitchen, right? Yeah. Something else. I mean, it's, I'm a little

01:58:16.020 nervous. I don't, I just, I don't want to say anything inappropriate for YouTube. You know

01:58:20.560 what I'm saying. So you said you were a teacher, a trucker, and what was the third job? You worked

01:58:26.200 in tech? Yeah, for like 25, 30 years. I liked it, and it was pretty male-dominated, but you know

01:58:34.280 what really turned me off is when people started getting into the phones. I was working at a

01:58:39.320 college, and I saw this transition right at the time where everybody just was staring at their

01:58:47.080 phones constantly. And all this social media, I really think social media is really destroying

01:58:53.340 our society because it's giving an outlet to that thing I mentioned earlier, this kind of

01:58:58.600 judgmental fear that you look at the world in this kind of, oh, this person hates me, this person

01:59:04.320 likes me. And that's part of the left brain stuff. As you're looking for acceptance, you want people

01:59:11.080 to appreciate you and to give you positive feedback. And then if you're thinking like that

01:59:16.140 lie when you don't get it you get you know what do they say butt hurt or you know i mean you get

01:59:20.940 all this kind of a pain about well what am i doing wrong and it's like well you're maybe you're not

01:59:27.820 doing anything wrong you know so when you say you know these people hate you hate on you they're

01:59:33.980 going to because you're what you're doing is you're really uncovering a lie yeah right whenever you

01:59:39.820 tell somebody the truth either they're if see if they're brief if they're disposed to hear the

01:59:45.340 truth they're going to say yeah i understand i do that it's what's it's quite kind of humility

01:59:52.140 and if they want to know how to change they will make an effort to change but they're

01:59:56.460 they're most they usually don't want to change like and i've done all this mental health work

02:00:00.300 where i got a little frustrated with that because that's what it came down to was do you want to

02:00:05.340 get better do you want to change well here's some steps to change and and people would do these

02:00:12.620 things this thing i got involved with was from 80 years ago and it was very very well received but

02:00:17.660 as soon as drugs started coming into the picture it people are just doing that now they're nervous

02:00:24.060 they pop a pill you know it's easier to drink or whatever drugs so go ahead what would you

02:00:31.020 what would you say out of the three jobs that you did was the most difficult like

02:00:36.460 uh that one that i wasn't getting paid for that was the most difficult it was doing all this

02:00:45.100 mental health work because you it's sort of the same as teaching you're trying to help these

02:00:49.840 people like that one comment or video you play where she says oh you're forming people and

02:00:54.500 you're shaping people yeah you can only shape them if they want to be shaped yeah so you're

02:01:00.600 just arguing with them they say you know what you always hear it's like well you know why i can't do

02:01:04.200 that because my dad beat me or you know whatever they just you can make a laundry list we call it

02:01:09.960 right yeah you make a list of why why these people don't like you or why it's so hard

02:01:15.960 but none of that and see i i hate this even get into this a little bit but it's really the

02:01:20.840 difference between freudian thinking which is kind of dominating our culture right now

02:01:26.040 which is telling everybody that they're a victim that's where this whole victim narrative comes out

02:01:30.600 of because it's this idea that it's not your fault like ever i've seen some videos where they

02:01:37.080 do counseling like that and they just go it's not your fault it's not your fault and then

02:01:41.400 repeat it and repeat it and you'll accept it for a minute and say yeah you're right it's not my fault

02:01:46.920 but if you're already decided and thinking you're in your in your inner being that it is your fault

02:01:52.200 or i made these bad choices or whatever you're going to always think that way and then you end up

02:01:57.560 about kind of being in this victim narrative world where, you know, well, I can't get ahead

02:02:03.480 because of this. And I can't, well, why, what is ahead? What are you, are you eating? Are you,

02:02:09.280 do you have a home? Where are your standards at? I mean, like you talked some of that about these

02:02:14.040 higher value men or whatever, or women, they have a certain standard that they want to live

02:02:20.340 and be. And they get, that's the other thing you're running up against is there's this big

02:02:25.280 denial with women and you've talked about this quite a bit and I'm really impressed by it they

02:02:30.720 they get to be 30 something years old and they go I'm just as hot as a 20 something well okay

02:02:35.860 you can believe that and it's well go ahead you know you want to live and believe that you're

02:02:42.140 going to be disappointed yeah you see the guy you married married you because you were super hot and

02:02:48.560 now you're not so super hot and now he's looking at girls that look like you used to look yeah well

02:02:54.880 that's why you took him because you thought you you know he had all this deep love for you

02:02:59.920 but you know it's just everybody's shallow you know what i mean we're all shallow nobody's

02:03:05.680 nobody has this great depth that we think and it's a part of a curse of our culture now too was

02:03:10.960 it's just this thinking that oh i knowing is not i mean knowing information is not the same as as

02:03:18.480 kind of incorporating it into your being like i was having a conversation earlier with a friend

02:03:23.760 about littering and I used to get real mad at people who littered right and so I started by

02:03:29.520 never littering okay but I still got real aggravated with people litter everywhere and

02:03:34.400 then I had a sister-in-law we were hiking through this beautiful part of the forest in Vermont

02:03:39.280 there was all this garbage all over and she I go doesn't this drive you crazy all this garbage

02:03:44.000 and she says yeah but I go well what do you know it's ruining our hike and she says well

02:03:49.440 i just pick up garbage when i hike and i said oh you're gonna go around pick up garbage what are

02:03:54.800 you gonna bring bags she goes no there's bags right here already all those grocery bags are

02:04:00.240 all over yeah and she would pick up a bag and take take some of it out so we you kind of have

02:04:05.840 to do that with your own character right when you see this crap that's that's making you miserable

02:04:11.120 or people are attacking you whatever you have to kind of put them in the bag and just you know put

02:04:16.160 them outside of there and it's going to happen you just have to predispose it's going to happen

02:04:20.480 so i i'm sorry i'm i keep monopolizing the conversation but you are going to if you keep

02:04:25.680 going down this path which i think is wonderful because you're speaking truth that's really the

02:04:30.160 bottom line am i lying and it's one thing this other comedian does a lot he says i i may not i

02:04:35.520 may be wrong but i'm not lying all right because or doing fetus daily podcast because he got booted

02:04:41.680 off everything yeah so that's a good kind of a good philosophy it's like just if you can focus

02:04:48.240 on just being true to yourself and what you believe and try not to hurt other people then

02:04:53.520 you're doing 90 more than the rest of the world because you're you're making an effort to make

02:04:58.480 things better instead of just what's that line on see the light instead of cursing the darkness

02:05:04.560 yeah i'm sorry so yeah as far as you hating women no i think what you're actually doing

02:05:10.800 is loving women because you're speaking truth to them it's sort of with anybody with your friends

02:05:16.000 or your family say look you know if you can get a moment and say hey you know when you do this or

02:05:20.160 the other that you know you really piss people off i mean if that's your goal then you're succeeding

02:05:26.240 i mean as long as you're not doing it for that reason you're fine you're doing you're speaking

02:05:31.200 truth and and and 90 of the people say oh pearl's a jerk but there's a few people out there listening

02:05:38.640 to you it'll say i kind of thought that's what was happening and i and it reinforces the good

02:05:44.320 you know what i'm saying you're you're actually helping yeah so i'm sorry about down about being

02:05:50.160 so okay you're fine well did you have any other thoughts you might want me to respond to no i

02:05:56.560 think that was pretty much it but i really liked your commentary calling again thanks pro and i'm

02:06:02.720 a daily watcher and i'm i haven't been a long viewer i i uh let me just say about your stuff

02:06:08.560 i saw the first time i saw you was doing the stuff in britain and then i caught some of the

02:06:13.520 replays of the street stuff because you did that first right the street stuff yeah and and then i

02:06:19.040 then from there i actually got into watching some of those whatever shows oh yeah i love andrew i

02:06:26.160 mean and see oh he's hilarious he's hilarious he's a right brain person and that's what you

02:06:31.680 see a perfect demonstration there between these people who think with their left brain the women

02:06:37.280 which is the average women tend to be more left brain and him saying oh wait what are you saying

02:06:42.640 that you know you can have the standard but the men can't and they're trying to just show them

02:06:47.440 truth right you know what i mean it's when you can observe stuff like that it really helps you

02:06:52.720 understand that dynamic it's not you're going to change it but what you are going to do is

02:06:57.040 understand it better and you'll you'll have less pain and you'll be a little more uh understanding

02:07:01.760 about the weather way other people think and i i just think you're great and uh i don't know the

02:07:07.360 whatever's cool it's just it's kind of i always say it's shooting fish in a barrel right i used

02:07:12.720 to do it i had to quit i couldn't i couldn't argue what pressing what it was incredible stress right

02:07:20.240 yeah yeah it was too much i couldn't i i just couldn't hear another woman tell me liza was hot

02:07:26.560 i just couldn't do it yeah you know that's not true and but if they think it's true remember i

02:07:32.960 love when andrew they says well how do you rate yourself and they all go i'm a 10. i'm a 10. and

02:07:38.480 then they get back to him and he goes well i'm a 10. all these girls are and they laugh yeah they

02:07:44.480 why and he does it on purpose right why are you laughing at me because they are there they want

02:07:50.080 the freedom to just be subjective and say whatever they want but if you do it then they mock you

02:07:56.560 right they mock you that you're being subjective so i'm sorry i see no you're totally fine

02:08:02.720 but i love your show and i i'm actually only can see it now because right now when i'm driving

02:08:07.440 i work 12 hour days and i work like five six days a week and it's right when you're on so i

02:08:14.160 only time i usually can catch us like right now i'm just tapping to be off so but keep it up

02:08:20.480 and try not to get discouraged and i'll sell you i'll send you a bill for this counseling session

02:08:26.560 I mean you don't let anybody discourage you you know be selective about who you take advice from

02:08:38.360 because there's going to be people that want to discourage you and people that are going to

02:08:41.920 encourage you most people just be neutral you know I don't care yeah you know trust you know

02:08:47.400 how it is the people you trust in your life and they give you good feedback then those are the

02:08:51.280 ones that want to lift you up versus the people that just want to kind of oh you know you're

02:08:56.060 you're screwing up you know so anyway i better hang up thank you so much phil feel free to call

02:09:02.460 in any time and thanks for you know transporting uh the goods in this country appreciate it

02:09:10.300 fuel fuel yeah we all need that so thank you kind of i didn't get any kind of break during

02:09:18.220 covet i worked straight through because we were essential stuff yeah you guys work hard

02:09:23.420 you guys work very hard thank you i love doing it i i love being contributing to society and

02:09:29.580 that's another way to look at things right like a teacher pop or anything yeah thanks

02:09:35.020 i appreciate you having me on thank you so much okay okay next we're gonna try trey parks again

02:09:46.700 camera on. Where are the ladies? You ladies have been killing me on Twitter. You've been killing

02:09:59.040 me. Where are you guys at? Let's see. Let's try Trey. Hello, Trey.

02:10:16.700 girl how are you good how are you can you put your camera on the table there you go

02:10:22.940 this way there we go yeah we got are you are you trey from twitter yes oh yeah oh that's you

02:10:30.780 how are how are you sir i always see you in my replies oh wow i didn't think that you even see

02:10:39.700 my replies no i see you simp it all the time right that's you yeah i'm i'm going hard trying

02:10:47.480 to win simp of the year 25 okay okay let me let me have it why do i hate the women

02:10:55.060 what's okay go ahead yes my problem first um it's very nice to be on with you i'm glad we were able

02:11:02.900 to finally have this dialogue okay my problem my problem with you pearl is the fact that you don't

02:11:08.340 believe in salvation. You like to say that Jesus can forgive, but men don't. I strongly disagree,

02:11:16.240 especially as a Christian. We are called to forgive people. I also think you were very mean

02:11:22.960 and unchristlike in the whole catfish of the year awards. Every single one of those women

02:11:29.680 looked better in their non-catfish pictures. That is not true. It would not have gone viral

02:11:34.740 if they looked better it would not have gone viral that is just simply not true

02:11:39.260 do you want me to I'm gonna bring it up in a second but okay so let me are they gonna see

02:11:46.560 my screen are we gonna they gonna see my screen if I move there they won't oh oh that's amazing

02:11:54.380 I wanted to write down your disagreement so I remembered them okay so all right so the first

02:12:00.600 disagreement is the forgiveness okay right and then the catfish of the year okay keep going yeah

02:12:09.060 and then also um you can call me a simp and that's fine you know i wear it with a badge of honor you

02:12:15.460 know but i'm also i'm such a simp pearl that i even defended you on the whole 16 year olds are

02:12:22.500 being hotter than the 26 year olds tweet you were absolutely right and you shouldn't have deleted it

02:12:28.340 i stand with you on that so you can even say that yeah i agree with you on some things

02:12:34.900 but my number one disagreement with you is when it comes to your attacks on nala okay yeah you're

02:12:40.420 a nala guy okay yeah that's what probably really got my attention and maybe you saw my replies to

02:12:48.180 you when it comes to nala she is a good christian woman okay so what how do i know if somebody is

02:12:56.260 really sorry i would tell by their actions um jesus the in the bible um we can tell that someone is

02:13:06.500 truly sorry just by the way that they um carry themselves we we judge them by their fruits and

02:13:12.820 she does display the fruit of the spirit and that's what paul mentioned in galatians 5 22 the

02:13:18.340 fruit of the spirit so that's how i can tell the story how would you say that she is displaying

02:13:24.260 the fruit of the spirit what is she doing that is that would display that she's being kind patient

02:13:33.380 loving self-control um and there i believe those those are four five aspects of the fruit of the

02:13:41.060 spirit um gentle kindness patience self-control and so yeah so how is she like how is she

02:13:49.700 specifically doing that other than other than you know going on podcasts and talking

02:13:57.060 it's not a difficult thing to do anyone can say things right all right i could go tomorrow you

02:14:02.500 know i've been offered um like to talk at churches before don't know why it's been they just give it

02:14:09.540 they just give it to anyone i guess i guess so i wouldn't say those are the right churches um

02:14:15.140 it's not that difficult so other than speaking you know there's there's con men that have spoken

02:14:21.800 at churches and you know so i agree with you completely there has been a lot of people that

02:14:28.480 will say that they are say they can talk a big game but your actions have to justify it so i

02:14:34.780 can only judge by her actions but my opinion well it's true what's done in the dark what comes to

02:14:40.220 life so if she's not really about that christian life really not about that christian walk it's

02:14:45.080 going to be revealed over time all i can say is just what she is specifically doing now which is

02:14:51.400 she has changed her whole social media account now she is now um sharing bible verses actually

02:15:00.060 sharing the gospel with people trying to get other people to repent from that life of only fans

02:15:06.580 to come to christ and that one response that she had to laura loomer it was just spot on like she

02:15:13.540 could have she just takes all these attacks she just takes it on the chin still have a smile on

02:15:18.720 her face say you know what i'm gonna pray for you and that is that should be our christian response

02:15:23.680 so if i tomorrow i start tweeting bible verses and i tell people repent i tweet it and i smile

02:15:36.160 that's the requirements to be a good christian that's it no no no no i'm hearing what you're

02:15:42.580 saying? I said to list the actions. I'm ready to tweet. I want the Christian simps, you know,

02:15:49.840 I'm ready. The requirement to be a good Christian is to really share the gospel. So yeah, you can

02:15:58.020 post Bible verses. That is part of a thing sharing the gospel, but actually having those one-on-one

02:16:03.040 conversations with people and telling people how a Christian should be, but more so walking the

02:16:10.580 walk instead of talking to talk your walk has to okay talk louder then if she's sharing bible

02:16:17.140 verses that are incorrect and she's misinterpreting things would that would that be an indication

02:16:23.720 that she's not reading the bible like she says she is and maybe she's not ready to preach

02:16:29.540 she's still a babe in christ so i wouldn't i don't believe in women pastors anyway like women

02:16:36.460 shouldn't preach at all like okay paul made it clear in in timothy that women shouldn't preach

02:16:42.660 so i'm not all for the women preachers and stuff like that so that's not what women should be

02:16:48.640 doing but also we are all called to evangelize so she's evangelizing which is sharing the gospel

02:16:54.340 that's what we're all called to do but i'm okay but if somebody is looking at christianity and

02:17:02.220 they're getting the wrong information could that be more harmful for them converting if she's saying

02:17:10.880 christianity is this this is the interpretation of the bible verse and somebody's looking at

02:17:17.000 converting and me i'm not overly religious and if i could say that's not true that's incorrect

02:17:24.340 wouldn't you say that deters people from converting and doesn't help them

02:17:30.360 it would i would agree with that but what bible verse is she getting incorrect because

02:17:38.100 scripture is for correcting and we are supposed to study ourselves study to show ourselves approved

02:17:45.080 and scripture a lot of people throughout time has misinterpreted scripture to say oh

02:17:49.560 the bible actually says this but no it actually says this even though i'm a baptist christian

02:17:55.240 you got other denominations that are under protestant as that's what people call it

02:18:00.200 and they think they misinterpret things like people still believe speaking in tongues is a

02:18:05.720 thing which is not people still believe in prophecy that oh these people are prophets

02:18:11.720 and they're not right that's heresy yeah okay so the next reason i don't believe her she doesn't

02:18:18.560 dress modestly again this is something that's easy right that's a very easy to do

02:18:24.640 you know oh it's long sleeve shirt pants skirt it's not a difficult thing

02:18:32.740 yeah dressing like you you dress very modesty and and i appreciate it's not it's not hard i'm not

02:18:38.780 i'm not perfect with it right but it's not that hard to overall be a more mod and she had a tick

02:18:46.040 tock like three days ago where she's got no bra on and she's in booty shorts so i didn't see that

02:18:53.100 one at all. I can pull it up. If she did do that, I would say that it's wrong. And you would maybe

02:18:58.700 question it? Would you question it if that was true? Her sincerity? If I was her husband, that's

02:19:05.640 when her husband should check her because women are supposed to submit to the men. So her husband

02:19:11.980 should tell her, yo, that's not how a Christian is supposed to dress. That's not how I want my wife

02:19:18.060 to dress so i would definitely call that out as being wrong 100 if that is how she dressed on top

02:19:24.380 of that she's in spandex on the whatever podcast wouldn't you say that's a bit now look i i'm not a

02:19:33.580 puritan right i i don't really care about spandex but i know they're not modest i'm not gonna play

02:19:41.100 pretend here and say that that's my it's not modest the wardrobe thing is something that

02:19:47.180 she still has to correct she's still a babe in christ she she's only been saved for like

02:19:51.500 a year now so you could do that tomorrow too with sin and i still fall short on a lot of things too

02:19:59.100 so but i would say that is wrong and she should dress more modesty i would agree with you on that

02:20:05.500 but to say that she's not a christian to say that she's not saved i think that's taking it too far

02:20:10.300 because i can say that just just based on how she has acted just about what she her life has changed

02:20:18.300 i do believe that her life has changed and we are still growing none of us are fully purified

02:20:24.540 sanctified until christ calls us home yeah i disagree i don't think her life has changed at

02:20:30.080 all the reason i disagree is because now instead of only fans she's streaming like five hours a day

02:20:35.860 she didn't go do a real job she got a guy to bail her out which that's what they tend to do

02:20:42.020 she didn't go on her own she didn't go to a missionary for two years on top of that she

02:20:46.740 did raise her only fans prices after she was baptized she's not dressing modestly after she

02:20:53.060 was baptized she's misquoting scripture so to me i don't think i'm wrong for not believing her

02:20:59.580 because to me, none of her actions match what she's saying to be true. What I'm talking about

02:21:08.140 is when she was on whatever and she misquoted the Trinity. Okay. Yeah. I didn't see that part.

02:21:15.940 I'll have to look that up. Um, Andrew is a pretty good debater. And so I'm pretty sure Andrew may

02:21:21.900 have tripped her up. It's kind of hard when you're a babe in Christ and you're trying to tell a man

02:21:26.840 that has probably been studying scripture for i don't know for how long i disagree with him a lot

02:21:31.780 of things he's orthodox i'm protestant we can have that debate i would love to talk to him one day

02:21:36.600 but that is kind of a hard part to take but i don't think she misquoted the the trinity if she

02:21:44.860 believes that jesus christ is the son of god and is god and then we have the holy spirit that lives

02:21:51.540 with us right now there's three components of the trinity and if she's saying that oh jesus isn't

02:21:57.040 god that would be wrong but i do believe she believes that jesus is god yeah i i think that

02:22:03.440 her actions don't match her word she's also was really disrespectful there was zero humility on

02:22:08.580 whatever when she was debating with andrew i've seen him debate women that i would believe to be

02:22:14.100 more christian before she was rude she was disrespectful she was talking back so no i and

02:22:20.540 And I don't think it's immoral for me to not believe her.

02:22:23.680 And I actually think that Christian men lack discernment.

02:22:27.360 And that is why you have female pastors, is because you guys believe anything.

02:22:32.540 Some men do lack discernment.

02:22:36.300 I think you're one of them.

02:22:38.200 I like you, but I think you're one of them.

02:22:39.880 I won't lie to you.

02:22:40.880 I think I have pretty good discernment.

02:22:44.280 I can tell when someone...

02:22:46.200 Well, it's just the fact that I believe in what Jesus has taught us.

02:22:50.600 And so for me to really become a Christian, for me to really walk the Christian walk, I have to take you at your word.

02:22:56.940 At the end of the day, only Jesus is going to know.

02:22:59.140 When she's at the beam of seat of judgment and she's standing before God, he is going to be the one to know if what she did was really for him or was it wood, hay and stuff.

02:23:08.400 Wait, why do I have to?

02:23:09.720 What is the Bible verse that says I have to take someone for their word?

02:23:13.320 it's just it's just that we're taking them at their action jesus i would say that she raised

02:23:20.800 her only fans prices after she was baptized the only reason she deleted them is because i started

02:23:27.680 a campaign against her i think she would have kept it as long as she could i don't i know that

02:23:33.320 she said something about how the only fans how she couldn't delete it right off the bat and i guess

02:23:38.320 you still got to get money for it or whatever from it.

02:23:41.020 Why did she still have chats going?

02:23:43.840 There's active, I saw the chats.

02:23:46.880 I was in one, I got into it.

02:23:49.360 That one guy that came with the receipts from it,

02:23:51.580 I did see that episode of it.

02:23:53.520 But at the end of the day,

02:23:54.980 I don't know if that was actually true.

02:23:58.320 I do know that the way that she is living now,

02:24:01.940 we can all improve.

02:24:04.020 But as for when you ask the Bible verse

02:24:06.280 that says that we should take people at their word we i know jesus there is the bible verses

02:24:11.920 that judge not in you know and we won't be judged but at the same point we are to judge but we are

02:24:18.240 to judge righteously so i can judge her from my action and we first must take the beam out of our

02:24:23.920 own eye before we can judge that's what jesus said in matthew okay so i can't get the beam out of our

02:24:30.900 own eye okay so i can't identify at like at this point you can't even identify that somebody's

02:24:40.560 doing something wrong without being told you're wrong like i can't even say she's half naked

02:24:46.120 yo guys she's in spandex i don't i don't know if she believes this stuff she can't do the

02:24:53.100 she can't do the bare minimum at the same point she is still a babe in christ i believe that's

02:25:01.500 more so on her husband to check her on that like hey she was a pastor's kid but the end of the day

02:25:07.120 oh come on she was a pastor's kid she knows this this woman grew up for it was the daughter of a

02:25:13.040 pastor you don't think that she knows the bible that she's been taught this but she knows she's

02:25:19.060 supposed to be modest? See, a lot of women these days, I've seen a lot of women that are Christian

02:25:24.660 that don't dress the way that I think they should dress as a Christian. Because you guys accept it.

02:25:30.760 I wouldn't have my wife dress like that. And that's just something that's wrong with the church. And

02:25:34.180 that's something that the church, we have to correct as Christians and the men as being the

02:25:38.960 head, because the man is supposed to submit to God and the woman is supposed to submit to her

02:25:43.820 husband so if her being a married woman she should submit to her husband and that means her husband

02:25:50.020 should be telling her hey you don't supposed to dress like that and her husband should be the one

02:25:54.680 on these podcasts you know explain sharing the gospel well quoting scripture and doing that and

02:26:01.280 i'm sure they do their own bible studies but at the end of the day i do still believe her she just

02:26:07.420 need some more work done, you know, and we're none of us are finished product. I'm in Bible school

02:26:14.440 now. I don't, I don't believe her at all. So why am, so you're saying am I immoral because I don't

02:26:23.620 believe her? I don't think you're immoral. I just think that as a fellow Christian, I can tell you

02:26:29.980 that hey we should show more grace to her since she is a babe in Christ we

02:26:35.140 should help her on her walk with Christ instead of just condemn condemn condemn

02:26:40.360 your life you're doing this wrong you're doing this wrong you're doing this wrong

02:26:43.060 no I'm saying there's a way to wear a bra but wear a bra please wear a bra

02:26:47.920 please God I told you where I say you are wrong in the way that you the way

02:26:57.880 that you are treating her i believe that that is wrong okay well as for her actual actions if you

02:27:03.120 want me to tell you like this specific action is wrong i think that you were wrong to say that she

02:27:08.100 misquoted the trinity i think that she does believe jesus is god she probably just said it the wrong

02:27:14.120 way yeah i think you guys give them i think you guys give the benefit of the doubt to everything

02:27:19.180 and i think that this mindset is what deters people from christianity today so i actually

02:27:25.500 think this is part of the problem because even here we can't treat women as adults because we

02:27:31.080 still are blaming her immodesty on her husband for not correcting her she's an adult she is an

02:27:37.460 adult and sometimes if if i was an unsafe person and i saw someone that is purportedly to be a

02:27:44.840 christian doing something that isn't christ-like that is an area that jesus said hey we're not

02:27:52.220 supposed to be the reason that anyone stumbles or preventing anyone from being saved so if she is a

02:28:00.320 stepping block on that believe me jesus will check her on that when she's at the beam of seat of

02:28:04.460 judgment but right now i can say that i do believe that she is walking the walk she just has to get

02:28:12.460 better at it and that's when it comes to submitting truly to her husband yes women are responsible for

02:28:18.000 her actions, but as a Christian woman that is married to a Christian man, she should be submitting

02:28:23.940 to her husband, and her husband should be the one checking her. Yes, she's still responsible for her

02:28:29.060 actions, but her man should be doing better, too. I know that if she was my wife, she wouldn't be

02:28:36.980 wearing a spandex. What would you do? So, okay, let's role play this. Let's role play. Let's pretend.

02:28:43.280 Okay, I'm in the spandex. What are you going to do? I'm going to say that's not what you are

02:28:47.720 supposed to wear you as my wife i don't want you dressed like that you are causing other men

02:28:55.000 to sin i don't care as your husband don't care at all that's not how you are going to dress i don't

02:29:00.200 care now what if she said i don't think that i would think that she would do that like i i know

02:29:08.840 i wouldn't marry a woman that wouldn't respect me or respect my authority i said i would respect it

02:29:14.200 it before the marriage now it's after now it's after yeah now it's after and I changed my mind

02:29:19.600 after marriage and all of a sudden I changed my mind yeah changed my mind that that would cause

02:29:25.220 a problem we would go to the elders of the church and I would take that to the elders of the church

02:29:30.240 my wife is not being responsible being responsible she's causing other men I'm gonna can I pretend

02:29:39.280 to be the elder well it's your fault why didn't you lead her to god i did lead i did i did i did

02:29:47.280 a great job leading her to christ and she is still not doing what she is supposed to do but i just

02:29:54.240 well you should just lead her no no you should just lead her better just lead her better it's

02:29:58.960 your fault sent back home i will i'll lead her better and i will still submit to god okay now

02:30:08.320 Now we're back in Christ, but I will continue to love her and I will continue to disciple her.

02:30:15.740 But as the elder of the church and as the pastor, I need some backup on this.

02:30:22.320 I need you to back this up for me and let her know that what she is doing is causing other people to sin, to fall short.

02:30:31.440 Now let's be the church elder.

02:30:34.180 Let's be the church elder now.

02:30:35.920 Now I'm the wife.

02:30:37.100 pretend you're the church elder what would you say okay as the elder of the church i would tell

02:30:42.980 tell you as the wife of the husband that hey in corinthians paul says women are to dress modestly

02:30:53.200 now spandex i understand that there is a time to wear spandex but wear that in the confines of

02:31:00.060 your home do not go outside wearing spandexes if it is causing other men to sin or causing

02:31:06.520 other people to look at you as not a Christian

02:31:10.680 because you are a representation of him, your husband.

02:31:13.820 And if your husband tells you not to wear this,

02:31:17.020 you need to respect his authority as a wife.

02:31:20.160 And as his authority comes from God, you should respect it.

02:31:23.860 I totally will.

02:31:25.240 Now watch me.

02:31:25.980 I go home, I do the same thing.

02:31:30.240 I really believe that.

02:31:32.920 You can't control another person.

02:31:34.760 Maybe you can say I'm gullible.

02:31:35.340 Maybe you could say I'm global, but I really believe that women that are truly saved, truly walking with Christ, if they are corrected on that, I believe that they will change.

02:31:46.300 I don't know if her husband even corrected her on that.

02:31:48.320 Her husband might not think anything is wrong with it.

02:31:50.400 And if so, that's on him.

02:31:52.380 He needs to tell her that that's wrong.

02:31:54.360 He tells her that it's wrong and she still does it, then that would be a red flag.

02:31:58.980 If that was true, why don't I see a difference in behavior of Christian women and other women?

02:32:06.520 I don't see any difference.

02:32:08.540 There are lots of great Christian women out there.

02:32:11.080 I can name a few of them.

02:32:12.560 Allie Beth Stuckey, Liz Wheeler, who is a Catholic.

02:32:15.800 I disagree with her on Catholicism.

02:32:17.900 But there are lots of good women out there.

02:32:20.500 Lila Rose.

02:32:21.500 There are plenty of good Christian women out there that are separated from—

02:32:26.500 any i don't find them to be any different than that of liberal women and to prove this i actually

02:32:33.120 track down their age of first marriage number of kids like the same as other women i don't find

02:32:41.420 them to be kind i don't find them to be any different i just find them to virtue signal

02:32:45.360 harder okay so how how do you want them to be how how are they supposed to be different because i

02:32:51.300 believe that they are different just from the fact that they are saved they are be being good

02:32:56.100 traditional wives

02:32:58.980 and actually

02:33:00.420 submitting to their husbands.

02:33:02.660 How do you know?

02:33:04.400 Just from the way that they act.

02:33:06.260 I don't know them personally, so I can only judge

02:33:08.400 by their actions.

02:33:09.660 Why would you white knight for someone

02:33:12.360 you don't know personally?

02:33:14.960 Because as a Christian,

02:33:16.280 I'm going to take them for their word,

02:33:17.960 and I'm just going to go with it.

02:33:20.120 If they do turn out to be

02:33:22.540 not what

02:33:24.340 they say they are i can say well guess what you know i'm giving them benefit of the doubt as a

02:33:29.760 christian as a as a christian man and so i'm going to take them for their word and i don't think i'm

02:33:37.980 gonna be held responsible if someone they're not my wife that's my point see right there

02:33:43.300 that's exactly my point you're not the one that's going to suffer the consequences

02:33:48.300 no that's exactly right that's exactly why if i end up marrying you will i can tell you will

02:33:55.420 she'll get one over on you no she won't i believe okay i gotta i gotta move on to the next person

02:34:02.440 this was a good call thank you for calling in but i do gotta move on thank you thank you pearl

02:34:07.060 it's great to talk to you yeah nice to meet you yeah okay guys um let me i have had so many people

02:34:16.420 I do appreciate Trey for calling in but what I would love is for the people

02:34:23.800 the ladies that are coming at me on Twitter

02:34:27.660 you know where are they coming

02:34:32.580 we're gonna have one more caller because let me let me go to the website really quick I'm gonna

02:34:44.280 read the the stream on the website okay and then we're going to go to the next caller so

02:34:53.960 eli give me one second i'm going to read the website and then i'm going to go to you okay so we

02:34:59.080 got pearl reed do you need any do you read comments from previous podcasts um sometimes on my phone

02:35:08.920 not on uh it depends where it's at the let's see

02:35:16.280 deej wants to call talk on the call and she's under my name okay we can bring her i'll bring

02:35:21.000 her i'll make an exception for you dane i'll make an exception you guys okay pearl society was in

02:35:27.640 bad shape before social media or it wouldn't have had negative effects it does morality was already

02:35:32.440 degraded long before twitter or instagram pearl do you think jesus was a simp just because he

02:35:37.800 saved an adulteress from being stoned to death he was following law which required witnesses there

02:35:42.760 were none these only fans hoes have many um i blah blah i was raised in a church my whole life

02:35:50.680 then i turned my back on the church and was involved in pornography both in front of in front

02:35:55.240 of the camera and behind the camera that said i'm with you pearl pearl women have more power over

02:36:01.480 shaping society because of their huge influence on men we rise to whatever level they settle for

02:36:07.000 and us sad but true women can help make men heroes or scumbags pearl modern christianity has been

02:36:13.720 has emasculated god and created a patriarchal society because men and women have different

02:36:18.600 duties in his design for human existence hello eli is that am i saying it right eli yes yes can

02:36:27.560 you hear me clearly yeah i can where are you calling from so i'm from the uk uh just to

02:36:32.920 give some sort of description i also do some youtube videos um i've interviewed uh jen kuga

02:36:40.120 destiny david parkman uh some other people okay and uh yeah i'll see you uh we're going live and

02:36:48.040 you're doing these cool ones so i thought i'd just jump on sure so the question is do i hate women

02:36:55.000 i have two questions you can pick one to answer okay i have one that's do i hate women and the

02:37:00.200 The other is, am I wrong for pointing out that men do, if we pull up the camera, can

02:37:07.220 I show them this on the Zoom or no?

02:37:09.560 I had a hierarchy of hard jobs, that men do the more difficult jobs and that we do the

02:37:13.820 easier jobs.

02:37:14.820 So, okay, well, let's talk about that.

02:37:18.540 So women do a lot of good jobs, don't they, that healthcare is predominantly dominated

02:37:24.000 by women, wouldn't you say?

02:37:27.000 the nurses sure but i would say that say uh we talked about crab fishermen one man die in those

02:37:34.360 boats a week you know so what 80 of the crew gets injured sure so so men men do more physical jobs

02:37:46.280 they also do the most difficult jobs like surgeons are mostly men but the presidents have been all men

02:37:53.720 well yeah i mean in the uk it's getting more uh more more women uh you know how many prime

02:38:01.320 minister women has it been three yeah i don't know so don't follow so what do you so i i saw a clip

02:38:08.120 of you saying that you don't support women what do you think about women voting i don't want to

02:38:13.560 ask you about that can't talk about it on youtube i wish i could oh really yeah that was one of the

02:38:20.600 things so i can't talk about that on youtube so let's talk about men and women generally then

02:38:25.000 so what's what's your thoughts on it generally

02:38:29.160 on voting i can't talk about it on youtube no no i'm not specifically voting but on men versus

02:38:34.840 women because that huge like the two points that you mentioned beforehand i think that men do the

02:38:39.800 more difficult jobs in society for example they make 80 of the world's stuff they do most of the

02:38:47.000 transportation if nurses went away tomorrow the healthcare industry would keep going forward men

02:38:55.560 would learn to do those jobs women couldn't learn the jobs men do or do them so what about education

02:39:02.840 education is predominantly dominated by women as well yeah and iq drops every year

02:39:11.400 yeah and they they complain incessantly saying they have the hardest jobs in the world

02:39:17.000 And I don't think it's near as hard as the men that are truckers, plumbers, electricians.

02:39:23.860 They get three months off in the summer.

02:39:27.560 So I'm not saying it's not needed.

02:39:30.720 I think it's harder than, say, my job.

02:39:33.100 But that's what sparked this conversation was Candace Owens had a clip saying that podcasting was a super hard job.

02:39:41.920 I don't believe it's true.

02:39:43.640 And I think it's 10 times easier as a woman than a man.

02:39:47.000 being a podcaster and i think this because i managed talent for men and women and women had

02:39:52.680 would have one-tenth of the life experience or credit credentials or knowledge on a topic

02:39:59.160 and that as the men and the women would have more followers i think i've benefited from this myself

02:40:06.440 yeah i mean like it's so that that you've got experience with that so you're doing better than

02:40:09.800 me um but in terms of let's say health healthcare or education or social service i mean there's

02:40:17.240 there's all of those predominantly uh predominantly dominated by women and now like you said men do

02:40:24.120 have different style jobs uh men have more violent jobs men die more on jobs but i mean like i they

02:40:32.600 they're different roles i mean the whole point of of this is that you can't treat men and women

02:40:38.360 the same 81 of surgeons are men it's a lot it's a lot easier to hook up an iv than do surgery

02:40:49.880 so so so what's your point out of all of this what's like so you're saying there's differences

02:40:54.280 between men and women of course we agree on that what's your point that they do that they do that

02:40:59.160 we complain more about it i i've never seen a man complaining about crab fishing i didn't even know

02:41:05.000 what it was but if women were in those conditions they would be striking there's no way so we do

02:41:13.480 less and complain more no but i i don't know if a woman would be complaining more if she was in

02:41:21.400 such a condition but men are more aren't they more physically attuned it's like they're able

02:41:27.560 to do more physical jobs anyway well even the mental ones like there's no female chess champion

02:41:35.000 That's mental. There's no physicality.

02:41:37.640 Oh, the new female chess champions?

02:41:39.700 No, all the men are the top ones.

02:41:42.160 A man identified as trans went into the women's tournament and won.

02:41:50.940 So I just, you know, I just look at industries and most of the industries we complain about, it's majority females working.

02:42:00.000 Education, we complain about a lot here. That's mostly women.

02:42:02.660 health care they've started to complain about women have come in

02:42:06.260 and what about in terms of abuse that that many women get abused i don't believe them

02:42:15.860 really not at all i believe like out of women that say they were abused i believe like five percent

02:42:24.980 no the reason yeah the reason i don't believe them is because the thing is family court

02:42:33.280 has made it so easy for women to throw accusations of abuse because they've changed the definition

02:42:39.460 the definition used to be you hit me i didn't hit you back right i didn't start it i didn't

02:42:45.020 hit you first you hit me didn't hit you back now they've included things like financial abuse and

02:42:49.920 seen court documents where the man doesn't give her as much money as she wants to spend

02:42:56.960 and now he's a financial abuser emotional abuse gets i've had women tell me that they were

02:43:05.360 physically abused and it turns out he was pushing her out of his house

02:43:09.520 because she was trespassing because he didn't want her there she wasn't welcome

02:43:12.960 it was like someone this is specifically family courts not abuse in general yeah so the second

02:43:20.460 question i usually ask is did you file it in family court or criminal court and most of them

02:43:25.100 do it in family when women most people when you hear a woman claim she was abused you feel bad

02:43:31.080 like i don't want to you know it's kind of awkward to be like okay oh i was abused and to be like

02:43:37.680 okay give me all the rattle off these questions but usually if you ask them their stories fall

02:43:43.560 apart and that's what i found was i used to just believe them because i would feel bad i wouldn't

02:43:48.800 think people would lie about that but then when i would ask them like two or three questions

02:43:53.080 one of them being where did you file the case usually um she the story fell apart so what about

02:44:02.000 not like crim not in a place where people would raise it up in court but more you know just being

02:44:08.720 treated differently i mean you said you'll probably talk you you would probably say you

02:44:12.640 know some men treat women more positively in some ways but a lot of ways don't men also abuse women

02:44:19.280 on a on a different levels like i saw i saw a video i think it was today or the other day

02:44:24.480 of a woman of a man going undercover as a woman going down the streets of new york

02:44:29.120 on the city in the night and it was it was horrendous in terms of how much abuse and how

02:44:34.400 much uh weird comments he was getting he was getting from other men well men are more likely

02:44:40.880 to be victims of a violent crime but um a woman more likely to be victims of rape or of other

02:44:47.920 abuse well one what men couldn't even file rape charges until a couple years ago legally they

02:44:56.560 couldn't even file it in most places like there was no male rape it was just female

02:45:05.280 and the other thing is it depends on if it was sexual assault or rape because sexual assault

02:45:11.840 again they changed the definition of the word so they expand it to include a lot of things

02:45:18.800 so so when i'm talking about do people do people face this on a daily basis i'm talking about

02:45:23.040 sexual assault not rape so of course rape is much less but sexual assault don't women face this a

02:45:29.040 lot i don't think so but if you ask women they might say that i really haven't because i've

02:45:39.200 never really had that problem i've never like it's just never been a big thing for me i went to work

02:45:48.560 Nobody did anything, but I was also a professional.

02:45:55.640 Okay, so putting all of this together, what do you think would be the ideal position of a man in life and a woman in life?

02:46:03.300 Do you think a woman should stay at home, or what do you think the ideal position would be?

02:46:08.160 I think there's no ideal, and it depends on the person, because I've met some women that would be terrible mothers,

02:46:14.020 and I pray to God they don't have children, so I'm not in that camp.

02:46:17.300 they're too irresponsible so yeah there's some women i pray get their tubes tied so i'm not in

02:46:26.960 that camp but um it depends on the woman okay well i think that's sensible i mean you don't

02:46:34.600 have like you don't think that woman should stay at home and men should go out and work

02:46:38.540 like by default i think if you have kids you should try i mean i would recommend trying to stay home

02:46:47.300 but it's not always an option no i'm not anti-work because i you know if a man could retire

02:46:54.820 20 years earlier from his wife working part-time why would she not

02:46:58.980 like work part you know if she's a you know i talk like someone one of the most

02:47:03.220 um common jobs is an assistant you can do that online so i'm not you could work yeah you know

02:47:12.260 and those uh that's dominated by females as well assistant yeah that's on i don't know if you can

02:47:18.100 see my board can he can't see it i can't see but yeah i don't think we can switch it with the zoom

02:47:23.460 but i had a hierarchy of hard jobs and i put my job at the bottom to be fair youtubers streamers

02:47:31.380 it's competitive meaning a lot of people want to do it but difficult no like we're not going to die

02:47:36.260 but the hardest jobs death has to be on the other side if you make a mistake that's what i put at

02:47:42.100 the top so the president you might get shot ours almost did like six months ago a surgeon or someone

02:47:50.660 else will die so a surgeon you're doing heart surgery you make a mistake they'll that's that's

02:47:56.180 a lot of pressure that's pretty hard so that was at the top me if i if i say if i say something

02:48:02.260 wrong i can issue a retraction tomorrow no one's going to kill me i mean i i would i would generally

02:48:07.620 say i know you i can see why you're saying surgeons very high president's very high i'd say

02:48:11.300 i i would say educational social service is one of the highest in terms of actually making sure

02:48:16.500 you know we've got we've got a good generation and we've got you know really really clever

02:48:21.700 important people uh teaching people about business to help grow the economy in the future

02:48:26.980 how many kids i'll be very social you said education is going going worse every year so

02:48:33.620 i'll be very interested to hear the statistics on that how how many kids does social services

02:48:39.140 lose every year i don't actually know i've heard that before i don't actually know it's true what

02:48:45.140 do you mean by lose hold on how many i hear they lose track of kids in foster care tens of thousands

02:48:55.140 of simply disappear from foster care according to several recent reports my parents my family's done

02:49:02.900 adoption on both ends where i have a brother that was given up and i have we adopted two later and

02:49:11.380 my our experience with social services definitely was not that they were overly competent people

02:49:17.380 my experience so you're talking about the management or the woman

02:49:24.340 the people that we worked with so but i i don't think that's i just don't think the barrier for

02:49:31.300 entry is as hard i don't think it's as difficult as a surgeon oh it might not be the barrier to

02:49:37.060 entry might not be as hard but the actual the the the sector is vital uh it might not be as

02:49:44.740 dangerous but it's really vital for the cop for the for the country yeah i don't think so

02:49:51.220 well education is it isn't vital i don't think they do a very good job because iq

02:50:00.900 iq is dropping every year i think it's vital yeah all right let me check let's check let's check

02:50:17.380 uh i can't see any proof of that

02:50:21.220 my cue last hundred years last chart i saw it was dropping oh i guess you're right

02:50:29.300 okay i'll concede that maybe women are doing a good job in their education now i don't think so

02:50:38.980 what would convince you

02:50:40.580 if the people coming out of education were smart

02:50:47.700 and I don't find them to be overly intelligent especially when they're increasing the number

02:50:55.660 of degrees in basket weaving or similar things like gender studies

02:51:02.100 basket weaving

02:51:10.580 I've never heard of that one you've heard of gender studies and so after some

02:51:23.840 reason you're not coming up on the concierge oh here you are and I have

02:51:30.260 heard of gender studies what do they teach about different genders yeah it's

02:51:33.620 the study of our gender I'm sure you would love to go to such a class I would

02:51:38.640 actually i think it'd be hilarious well why didn't you go and do a video about it i've thought about

02:51:43.440 it actually but it's it's like a cost benefit analysis what's what's the i don't want to pay

02:51:49.520 for it i don't want to pay for it i don't know those are expensive you can't really criticize

02:51:56.800 something without knowing in depth what's wrong with it well i can look at the average income

02:52:04.320 for people with those degrees and i can look at what they did at the company that i worked at

02:52:11.600 and it was pretty much did you work at what's your experience with this

02:52:15.600 um i was the i was actually the dei person at my company i know i had to give like a powerpoint on

02:52:24.000 i was so long ago i'm trying to remember but they made me like either a minority or a woman

02:52:29.600 had to be it at my company and you had to give a power point on not getting harassed at work

02:52:37.200 and some bs so so let me ask you a question about all these you know uh i presume you've seen that

02:52:44.240 eu i think uh said a couple of years ago that they want uh companies to be uh more diverse in terms

02:52:52.080 of reaching a certain number of uh women or a percent a percentage they need to hear a certain

02:52:58.480 quota terrible and i'm like 40 or something on the board yeah uh if you think if we go back and

02:53:05.440 you see let's say black or women or different people that used to be much more abused i don't

02:53:10.480 know if you would agree with that but it's pretty obvious that used to be much more abused now it's

02:53:14.000 much less how and they they actually want to go about in life um and they don't have many positions

02:53:21.040 in these jobs how do you think that they should get there i know of course it's based on skill

02:53:26.080 right you need to have good skill but if i'm just trying to i'm just trying to work out and look at

02:53:31.600 the different sides and trying to understand the side that you know if there's not many black

02:53:36.560 people have been in this position how do you encourage more people to get there and how do

02:53:41.040 you how do you really diversify it properly i think you should apply like everybody else

02:53:46.640 no i understand that but i'm trying to formulate the question if i hire if i hire an editor tomorrow

02:53:57.360 yeah i think it would be better for me to post the job and see who has the best edits

02:54:04.640 so do you think a company that's more diverse is more efficient or doesn't make a difference

02:54:10.160 it's all about skill just about skill i would say skill yeah because i i've seen statistics

02:54:18.320 that say that diversity actually helps improve productivity in companies i doubt it

02:54:24.560 i i mean there might be a stat i doubt i doubt that's true so which ones if you if you see a

02:54:34.240 statistic that doesn't follow what you've seen in where did he go

02:54:44.000 i guess he laughed what i was gonna say is if you see a statistic that doesn't follow what you see

02:54:50.160 in real life are you going to believe it i wouldn't but i think it's pretty

02:54:57.200 foolish to just believe now I'm not saying no stats are valid I'm not saying none are

02:55:07.540 but if I get a stat like if I had a stat a statistic in front of me

02:55:17.060 that said my dog is a cat should I believe it just because it's a stat anyways um I'm gonna

02:55:26.200 let danes in or i think he said his wife wanted to call in so i'm gonna let him in

02:55:37.480 hello i've heard so much about you

02:55:42.920 she's connecting to the audio

02:55:44.200 hello hello i've heard so much about you how are you i'm doing great it's a i'm really enjoying

02:56:00.000 talking to you uh excited about the chance uh i didn't this is not what i came here to talk about

02:56:05.520 but i did want to address um nala and that issue um i i was you know open-minded until i saw her on

02:56:13.700 the whatever podcast and um you're completely right about her shout it from the rooftops

02:56:21.160 do not back down she is she is not uh she there was nothing in her demeanor that was repentant

02:56:28.600 um she was belligerent she was rebellious um she was aggressive um so i saw nothing in her that

02:56:37.800 look like um regret shame um you know repentance uh and and everything that you've pointed out you

02:56:48.720 know one one thing would be okay you know she um okay maybe she's not up on scripture but when you

02:56:56.560 look at the whole of it it all says no this is this is not this is not a repentant woman

02:57:03.300 But that's not what I came here to talk about. I came here to talk about the job fields that you talk about and the difficulty. And I worked, I'm sure Dana's talked about this a lot, but I worked in industry for 17, well, 18 years, if you include the shipyard that I worked at.

02:57:20.680 worked at a shipyard for a year and then i worked in a refinery for 17 years after that

02:57:27.240 and when i say i worked in a refinery i was not in an office i was not in planning i was climbing

02:57:34.840 columns i was operating you know small cranes forklifts doing you know very physical work

02:57:45.320 um we would have to climb you know 30 foot columns uh on a vertical ladder and get to the top of the

02:57:51.480 column and pull up a bucket that had 30 pounds of tools in it on a rope uh sometimes so um the uh

02:57:59.400 impacts that we would use to take flanges apart would uh would weigh 10 12 15 pounds um so it was

02:58:09.800 a very physical job and when uh and i'm i'm a very small woman i'm four foot eleven um women

02:58:25.080 women say that they can do these jobs and um they're full of crap they don't have any idea

02:58:30.360 what they're talking about they've probably never even seen the work much less done it

02:58:34.760 um it is it is not an easy thing to do uh for anyone um and it's it's even harder for women to

02:58:41.640 do our bodies weren't made for that kind of work now i love the work that i did and i worked very

02:58:46.840 hard i'm very strong considering my size uh and we had tools to help us you know i had uh cranes

02:58:54.120 when there were things that i couldn't physically lift um we had um uh fort lifts to move things um

02:59:02.040 so it wasn't like it was all brute strength but it's hard it's hard and and it's not just

02:59:09.720 the physical work just being you know in a refinery for 10 hours every day and you can't

02:59:18.440 go home and you have to get out there and do the job you know it's it's it is mentally

02:59:25.240 grueling it is emotionally grueling and um women by and large like they just their their minds

02:59:35.680 aren't aren't they're not strong enough for that really i mean i'm sure like me you've seen women

02:59:42.120 on the whatever podcast and uh they'll start whining that they haven't had a snack after

02:59:48.160 they've been there for a few hours they can't you know they're they're complaining because it's past

02:59:52.720 their bedtime um but they say that they can go work on a roof somewhere and it's just not true

02:59:58.540 it's and then I've witnessed it um and I've also worked in a male-dominated field around men most

03:00:06.960 of the time for probably I'd say eight or nine years I was the only woman in my department now

03:00:15.560 there were other women in the refinery um but we were the the minority but I was the only one in

03:00:22.340 the fabricator uh position where we did pipe we worked on pipe and structures and uh it was just

03:00:29.540 me for a very long time um the the idea that if you show up in a male dominated world that you're

03:00:40.420 going to be instantly sexually harassed is um it's it's ludicrous it really isn't and you know the

03:00:48.620 idea that you're going to be just you know hounded and made fun of and um you know it's

03:00:57.820 they're not going to behave like that for the most part around women because they're scared of

03:01:03.300 losing their jobs but they can um they will talk to each other like that that's how men act in

03:01:10.280 in refineries in industry a lot of times you know they that's that's their love language is making

03:01:16.440 fun of each other and uh i participated in that you know right along but i i behaved uh like a

03:01:25.160 like a decent woman uh and i was i was not harassed i was not uh i did not have crude remarks made to

03:01:33.480 me um i uh behaved like a like a lady with dignity and i was treated with respect so um i don't know

03:01:47.000 if it's your experience too but my experience working in male industries is that the women

03:01:52.520 that claim harassment are flirting to some degree because men aren't really going they're not going

03:01:57.720 going to risk it but they might if you're like sticking their boogier boobs in their face

03:02:02.660 yeah i mean by and large women that are treated poorly um have uh engaged in conversations or

03:02:12.940 behavior that led men to believe that they were okay with being treated like that yeah um because

03:02:18.920 they're not going to risk their jobs um i don't care how attractive a woman is you know that if

03:02:25.660 If you work, the industry I worked in, it was one of the best paying jobs in this area.

03:02:31.720 I mean, you know, we made as much as professionals like doctors.

03:02:37.620 I mean, we were very well paid and we had very good benefits.

03:02:41.400 So those men did not want to lose those jobs because they were not going to get another one like it, more than likely.

03:02:47.640 um so they they are not gonna and honestly it just comes down to the fact that this idea that

03:02:55.340 men are just wicked and evil and bad is just not true i mean there were bad men at that refinery

03:03:01.940 there are bad men in the world but by and large men are good they're they're just good that they

03:03:08.900 these were family men that love their wives they took care of their children um they come they

03:03:15.580 contributed to the community and they went out there and they worked a dangerous hard job

03:03:20.480 to take care of their families and and and they um everybody needs gasoline in their car you know

03:03:28.520 i mean the plastic products that we use there's so much that a refinery makes that we have to

03:03:33.920 have every day just to live our lives some medical products i mean men are just not bad and uh i i

03:03:41.320 hate to see the the way that they get treated what do you think when you hear podcasters talking

03:03:47.260 about how hard their job is um i i i don't think it's it's that bad but it it is uh it's it's

03:03:58.660 almost up there with women who say that that being a mom is the hardest job in the world

03:04:02.740 um you know it's i've been both i've been a stay-at-home mom and we we had we raised six

03:04:10.100 kids um so we you know and and they were kind of doorsteps you know so i've i've been a stay-at-home

03:04:16.660 mom it it and it is it's it's emotionally trying sometimes uh but to say it's the same as uh

03:04:22.740 climbing a 50-foot column and pulling up 50 pounds of tools and uh working in the heat

03:04:29.300 uh yeah or when it's 20 degrees and there's like cold wet rain blowing on you and you feel like you

03:04:36.700 can't even feel your fingers anymore because you've been out in the cold so long uh no it's

03:04:42.300 not it's not a tough job it's not a tough job i don't think i mean i'm not a podcaster but

03:04:47.300 should i should i should i be offended maybe i should yell at you now

03:04:51.360 i mean you know it's they they have tours of the refinery you know i'm sure we could uh you know

03:04:57.840 you wanted to come out here put a hard hat and some uh steel toes on then maybe i would that'd

03:05:02.400 be a pretty funny video they'd let me they'd let me in pick up a pick up a wrench that uh is longer

03:05:09.440 than your arm or than your uh leg and uh and and hold it while somebody runs an impact that is it

03:05:16.160 will jar your teeth out you know um so yeah i i understand it and there's there's definitely a

03:05:22.240 hierarchy and when it comes to the the hardest jobs that that people do men are out there doing

03:05:27.440 those jobs yeah and they're doing them every day and they're doing them without complaint

03:05:31.120 and and they're getting very little to no credit for it yeah so i i really do think it's a shame

03:05:38.120 yeah well thank you i just wanted to give you a female's perspective from a man's world

03:05:43.040 yeah no i appreciate it thank you so much for calling in all right i really enjoyed

03:05:47.900 talking to you thank you for letting me come on you too thanks for coming

03:05:51.260 okay guys so i think we're gonna end the show on that it's going on like three hours

03:05:59.300 well thank you guys all for calling in we love the callers and

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The Hierarchy of Difficult Jobs： Podcasting Isn't Hard ｜ Pearl Daily

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