Pearl - The Meaning of Modern Women's ＂FIND MYSELF＂ Phrase ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily i am

00:00:17.280 your host today we are going to talk about when women find themselves but first i want to thank

00:00:24.000 Thank you to all the amazing people in the chat for keeping me employed.

00:00:29.420 But more importantly, I want to thank all of the hoes out there for giving me a job. 1.00

00:00:37.080 Without you guys acting like idiots, I would have nothing to talk about. 0.99

00:00:41.700 So thank you guys for keeping me employed for a lifetime. 1.00

00:00:44.760 I want to thank the prostitutes, the OnlyFans, models. 1.00

00:00:49.520 I want to thank all the women that have cheated on their husbands.

00:00:53.720 want you know i want to thank all the terrible behavior thank you guys very very much

00:00:59.960 now um first i want to do a throwback so guys if you want me to read your comments go to the

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00:01:11.800 to access a bunch of my old content and you're also going to be able to get me to read the chat

00:01:17.880 normally on in shows you have to donate for every single chat that you send but for me

00:01:23.800 one-time payment and you get to comment eternally so here we have um this was one of my early videos

00:01:33.560 and i just wanted to show it to you guys so i want to show you guys what i started with a couple

00:01:37.400 years ago so three years ago um really the pre-game it all started with just mics in my

00:01:45.720 living room i had a little road caster i had this one bedroom apartment in london and this was me

00:01:52.360 inviting a fellow youtuber he decided to call me racist later but that's a different story um and

00:02:01.880 and a friend that i had on the volleyball team so let me show you guys

00:02:06.680 just like you think you're a 10 out of 10. what i never said i never said i was you think you're

00:02:11.480 11 out of 10 which is in your head so what i'm trying to say is if you're if you're talking about 0.99

00:02:16.520 something that isn't if we can look in your body and we can see you have two testicles and the 1.00

00:02:20.920 penis we know what you are right if you think you are other than what you actually are that's 0.99

00:02:26.600 something going on in your head right because couldn't i identify as a teenager if i wanted to

00:02:31.960 trans age they call it no i'm seriously no i've gone into this what if i said i feel i feel 17

00:02:38.920 and this yeah and this was the early days where i really liked this type of content because no one

00:02:43.800 had channels it was so much less influencer like it was just like a bunch of people talking through

00:02:49.560 ideas on you know in our in my living room 17. well that would genuinely be something that you'd

00:02:55.400 have to work with and being someone who studies psych yeah that would more than likely be a trauma

00:03:00.040 response because transgender is not done speaking people who struggle with their age at least right

00:03:08.840 looking to be so bad um who still feel like they're stuck in their teen years or even

00:03:14.040 childhood years usually experience some sort of terrible trauma at that age in their life

00:03:20.040 and that's where they feel emotionally and physically stunted yeah so that's why like

00:03:24.600 maybe later on they still act a certain way for years but it's interesting because you're kind

00:03:28.680 of saying like that's a that's like a mental disorder yeah no i can i can say that with peace

00:03:34.040 yeah but but trans wouldn't be so trans wouldn't i can't see it that way because i'm someone who's

00:03:39.880 part of the lgbt community yeah and i see how these people struggle and like you know like

00:03:46.280 people tend to make the argument that that's an emotional response it's not a logical one

00:03:53.080 do you want to answer or not yeah but it's okay but it's an emotional response yes it's a yes

00:03:57.480 or notice how she was so mad at him but me we would both interrupt her or interrupt her

00:04:08.520 can you imagine he called me a colonizer late like look at this look at this

00:04:13.240 see what it's like to deal with people all the time and then randomly one day they make hit

00:04:18.680 pieces on you this happened to me twice at least at least twice two different no

00:04:25.640 three times youtubers you'll be like pals and then the next day you're not pet it's crazy

00:04:32.840 it's crazy oh it came unplugged which part is it yes sir i can hear it

00:04:42.520 oh you don't have visual all right guys we'll wait a second is it back

00:04:47.960 okay no question let's talk about the facts not the feelings please

00:04:52.440 regardless these things were removed from the dsm-5 yeah uh being transgender gender dysphoria

00:05:04.680 is still in there i believe and they're working on the dsm-6 i believe if not it's already out

00:05:09.080 but uh no no she was on my volleyball team um it's difficult to pinpoint that as a mental illness

00:05:16.360 only because this is a whole this is something that someone's willing to change their entire 0.99

00:05:23.220 life for i can change my entire life to be 17 i mean shit you could try hang on rachel does 0.99

00:05:31.160 will change her entire life to be black oh my gosh do you know who that is yeah right she was 1.00

00:05:36.320 headed at naacp and she was a white woman yeah so just because she identifies or thought of 0.99

00:05:41.960 how dare they say shit like Colin I know yo you've done I want to tell you it's been long 0.98

00:05:49.120 enough I'm going to talk about this now I don't care so what happened was he had a video and it 0.99

00:05:55.360 was like the truth about Pearl and when I saw it was scheduled I thought it was going to be a video

00:06:01.140 I swear I thought it was going to be a video defending me and I was on the phone with my dad

00:06:06.320 and I'm like oh that's weird he has that scheduled I bet it's I bet he's just defending me

00:06:11.600 and my dad is like are you sure about that i'm like no he wouldn't do that he did do that

00:06:20.700 he did in fact do that it was it was so crazy a crazy guy that doesn't mean that she is but that

00:06:29.100 doesn't make these people any less human i think that's what i'm trying to we're not no but we're

00:06:32.800 not talking that's what i'm saying you're talking from an emotional standpoint i never said trans

00:06:35.780 people or whoever you are are less human they are human beings they deserve their rights as a human

00:06:40.620 and human being but it doesn't mean that what they're saying even respect their identity is

00:06:45.660 the issue so if a trans person respect their identity if somebody were to come to you right

00:06:50.860 now they were trans they once were she and became he and you knew this would you refer to them as 0.74

00:06:59.180 what they are comfortable with or what they were originally born as i would refer to them as who

00:07:03.580 they are which is a man or a woman biologically because what you're asking me to do essentially

00:07:08.860 so then that's just disrespectful disregard i'll tell you what's disrespectful what's disrespectful

00:07:14.780 for me is to ask me to buy into your delusion that's what i think is disrespectful if i come

00:07:21.260 up to you and say listen i know i'm a black man but please call me uh mayling because i'm now a

00:07:25.820 chinese woman you're gonna be like all right you're a chinese you're good i'm a chinese woman

00:07:31.900 really and you've met me and you know me prior to me identifying as a chinese woman you're now

00:07:37.180 gonna call me meiling i'm now asking you to i to buy into my delusion if i feel like this that's

00:07:45.420 100 cool but i shouldn't ask you to buy into what i think of myself because like i said

00:07:52.060 you think of yourself as a 11 out of 10 right if you went around asking people to call you an 11

00:07:59.660 out of 10 and that's just plain arrogant and egotistical because you're asking i wouldn't

00:08:03.900 do that though right but yeah but trans people do all i ask is basic respect no basic respect 1.00

00:08:10.460 people do they ask people to call them the thing do you know what's crazy i'll tell you guys part

00:08:15.820 two of this story what's crazy was after this guy called me a racist right i went through mutual

00:08:25.180 friends and i'm look can we just talk this out like what's the we were cool like two weeks ago

00:08:31.660 you're weird could we just not make this an internet thing he wouldn't do it couldn't look

00:08:38.300 me in my eye and tell me the same thing insane i can't this was crazy they know that they actually

00:08:46.860 aren't it's not the way they see themselves genuinely not that hard to just refer to them as

00:08:53.660 she her or he him as they ask and by the name that they choose to go by it's genuinely not that hard

00:09:00.300 my name is francesca right but i go by cheska that is my preferred name all i have to do is

00:09:05.180 tell you hey this is what i prefer to be called feel free to call me this right and it would be

00:09:09.980 up to you to call me cheska i would like i said i would prefer it if you call me francesca i'm

00:09:14.300 not going to respond because realistically i i don't like that name as much as cheska

00:09:20.940 it's a respect thing it's no it's not shooting in your name yeah it's not the same as asking

00:09:26.220 me to call you by a totally different gender okay so there's no part of you that is that gender if 0.93

00:09:31.020 they preferred a different name even you wouldn't go with that if they preferred it like i said

00:09:36.140 you're us i'm not if they went with a different name i am not buying into someone's delusion yes

00:09:41.180 or no say again it's really not that hard of a question if they asked me to call if they asked

00:09:46.060 me to call them a name if i came to you and i said i prefer the name richard even though i

00:09:50.940 clearly i'm not biologically male i'll be like what what do your parents call you okay what are

00:09:56.220 your parents you're not my parents so you wouldn't have a right to call me whatever you wouldn't have

00:10:00.380 the right to ask me to call you wouldn't have the right to call me by whatever my parents call me

00:10:03.980 because my parents are different from you you're just a 40 year old man okay you're just a stranger

00:10:08.300 that i see on the podcast you don't touch me now you're just a stranger that i see on a podcast

00:10:13.340 so cheska like okay so i i honestly if i if i knew so you know we call that we call that sign

00:10:18.860 language over here if i knew someone that was trans i would probably like i probably would

00:10:23.580 call them by their name like just because they asked me to but but the issue i get is when we

00:10:28.460 start letting people live in delusion there's consequences and i really do on some level think

00:10:33.580 that it's delusional because you're saying you're something you're not but and and the problem is

00:10:38.460 now we have leah thomas coming in who's that leah thomas the swimmer the swimmer okay and swimming

00:10:45.420 in the woman's division and taking away opportunities from women like real biological 1.00

00:10:51.180 women because in my opinion we we started by letting them live in delusion okay and it slowly 1.00

00:10:57.820 got to the point that now with actual real women i like how me and sarah are saying the exact same

00:11:03.180 thing but she's yelling at sarah like we're saying the same thing i just said in a slightly softer

00:11:10.460 voice athletics right okay right that's what happens when you live in that's what that's

00:11:15.660 what happens when you say oh but they feel a certain way so we have to respect it genuinely

00:11:21.180 it has a real world as much as i would love to um you know give a viewpoint on that i can't

00:11:28.380 because one i'm not trans i feel like i can't speak on it until i speak to other trans people

00:11:33.820 who are athletes as well as cisgender people no guys they this was before all the laws

00:11:40.060 i don't know if there was an update on that but this was like three years ago who are athletes

00:11:44.700 and see how they feel about it and two i'm still curating my research on that because i'll be how

00:11:49.580 many subscribers did i have this my channel was small um it was getting bigger though if i had to

00:11:57.020 guess maybe uh 50 to 100 000 but yeah but but this was one of the first videos that went really viral

00:12:10.060 because this was before we even had like real mic stands so this was like first like two or three

00:12:15.980 months of the show this wasn't a pre-game show though this was kind of like a chill day where

00:12:21.020 i would i lived um right next to an athletic center and right next to campus and so i would

00:12:26.940 just walk over and see if they would come and sarah lived nearby at the time so he would come

00:12:34.780 before he decided i was a big old racist honest throughout high school i felt the

00:12:40.060 that way yeah i was like why the hell are trans people ending up in divisions that i feel like

00:12:46.600 they're not supposed to be i realized that happened at your school no i realized that um

00:12:53.940 it was me denying their identity in a sense right um i know that realistically no matter what this

00:13:02.160 person was born opposite of what they are but i do not want to i uh deny how they feel and what

00:13:08.920 they've experienced since more than likely such a young age about what they identify as but at the

00:13:15.280 same time like i i have to look at the science behind this right like because i've seen a lot

00:13:19.860 of trans people come out and say like listen my my body has changed completely specifically with

00:13:25.600 women at least trans women um they're like i don't understand why people get so upset about

00:13:31.540 trans women entering women's divisions because estrogen really does break down our like muscle 1.00

00:13:38.140 mass and like our strength that we had as men previously bone density though no i'm sure but

00:13:45.420 that's what i'm saying that's why i'm saying like i have to do more research on it first before i can

00:13:49.580 really curate an idea on it um but i'm kind of like cheering with it because i could understand

00:13:55.020 like i used to feel that way genuinely like i was like yo i'm a girl and i i feel like i'm fighting

00:13:59.740 for my life and it's already hard enough as a black girl at that right like we we have to deal

00:14:05.660 with from both racism and sexism now i want to talk about how women are not one-dimensional

00:14:17.260 obviously this woman believes a lot of crazy stuff but genuinely knowing her on my team

00:14:26.460 she was one of the nicer women on the team she always said hi to you she was always cheery 0.91

00:14:31.740 there's this idea that conservative women 1.00

00:14:35.360 are somehow better to date

00:14:37.040 now what I'm not saying

00:14:39.660 is that she's the one you should date

00:14:41.080 I'm not saying either or right

00:14:42.820 what I am saying is I don't think

00:14:45.620 necessarily

00:14:46.340 because there was you know

00:14:48.900 a conservative woman 1.00

00:14:51.540 on my team who was an absolute bitch 1.00

00:14:53.700 very Christian very rude 1.00

00:14:57.460 all the time 0.96

00:14:58.160 she believed crazy stuff

00:15:02.380 but she was a lot more pleasant to be around well i just think it's like disrespectful to like

00:15:09.020 to honestly to real women like women that were born that way because we go through

00:15:13.260 they'll never go through they'll never go for a smear test yeah but here the thing is like

00:15:18.940 like what what do we deem a real woman though like i'm just curious what's a real woman a woman that 1.00

00:15:24.780 was biologically with a what is it a womb xy xx sorry xx chromosome and a womb and i and i know

00:15:33.340 they're gonna like bring out exceptions to the yeah intersex people that's what they do yeah 0.99

00:15:38.140 but like like or the the the few girls that have fertility issues but that's very different than 0.99

00:15:45.100 surgically changing a dick into a vagina okay yeah no i i hear you i hear you um i think again like 0.99

00:15:53.980 because i'm part of the community yeah i have more insight on how they feel about it yeah 0.99

00:15:59.580 and i can go off of that better as opposed to the like i said this isn't how you feel

00:16:04.460 not done talking i know you're not but i'm just letting you know no i don't want to hear you right

00:16:08.940 now when i'm done speaking when i'm done speaking listen why are you talking about feelings we're

00:16:14.780 talking about facts bro you're gonna have to stop him before i do i hate being in this position as

00:16:23.020 an interviewer or that you want the guests to debate but where one starts getting offended

00:16:28.620 you're like trying to calm them down hey chill out just to debate

00:16:34.380 listen what are you what are you what are you trying to do i'm nothing i'm just asking the

00:16:38.460 question so like so like it's a it's a we're all talking right yeah but that's what i'm saying

00:16:42.940 we've been able to interact yeah yeah fine yeah and you know if we cut each other off we're like

00:16:47.260 all right like gucci like oh wait my bad like whatever i just don't think right here just keep

00:16:51.180 popping in like i just don't like weasel like you just don't like being caught by a man that's what

00:16:56.460 it is like it is so irritating i'll tell you one thing that gets me in trouble i laugh a lot

00:17:02.300 it's a bit of a nervous tick sometimes and especially when i'm uncomfortable i'm like

00:17:10.220 it's not it's not a good habit but oftentimes when there would be times in interviews where

00:17:15.100 people would be arguing and i would start laughing people would think i'm agreeing with one side or

00:17:21.500 the other or like this person oh my gosh this is a this is a thing i've been caught by a man no

00:17:28.140 because you keep on saying like oh facts over feelings facts over feelings like no like at

00:17:32.140 least when pearl is interrupting me she's saying like oh wait but like this is this is what i see

00:17:38.060 this is what i know you're just saying no facts over feelings what if he puts but facts over

00:17:45.100 i did not get the security deposit back from that apartment

00:17:57.900 i just want you guys to know that i did yeah i did and the next apartment was worse

00:18:06.460 did not trying to say is like their feelings about it don't really matter

00:18:09.740 ain't gonna slap me it's all about like but if we functioned if we functioned off of only logic

00:18:15.100 and reality we would be a heartless system i have no skills either so there's no way i could fix

00:18:19.900 those walls there's just no way i could do it i have no house building nothing society genuinely

00:18:27.180 i believe that um i don't know i think i think currently second place leah the girl that got

00:18:34.700 second to leah thomas would be cool right now okay so okay balance is needed okay how many times have

00:18:41.260 we looked at like politicians for example just going based off of their emotions sheer emotions

00:18:46.940 yeah like and not even in a not even close to logical sense you can find a balance between

00:18:52.860 emotion and logic yeah you can find a common ground i fully understand ah no but ah no but

00:18:59.660 anyway

00:19:07.180 she got kind of mad at me when that went viral i don't know we can find a balance between emotion

00:19:13.500 and logic i do believe that there are times where we have too much logic and too much emotion

00:19:17.500 right what do you think what do you think that was too much

00:19:21.180 guys i saw this on my website i don't like giving sarah clout to be honest because

00:19:29.660 you have to understand this was very devastating to me at the time like these people that i knew

00:19:37.500 just randomly called me a racist i was like this is crazy and you have to understand but this clip

00:19:45.240 was so good i'm like you know what i'm going to swallow my pride for the good of my audience today

00:19:49.600 because this is hilarious the full video of this is on my website 80 bucks a month 10 bucks a year

00:19:57.000 this is the level of content it was amazing i was in downtown london i was recruiting people

00:20:04.580 that where i i put i brought way too many people in that's where it got out of control

00:20:10.420 i won't lie to you guys but this was my favorite shows honestly was when i was back in this like

00:20:16.720 dingy not dingy but it became pretty gross over time i won't lie there was no air conditioning

00:20:23.240 a lot of sweating and the panels made it so much worse oh they made oh it was so hot in that

00:20:30.800 apartment air london's crazy none of them none of the apartments have air conditioning

00:20:35.840 um but we would do these shows and they were so fun the problem was once you got over like

00:20:43.980 half a million subscribers people come with an agenda like they have their ideology they're

00:20:49.500 pushing or I don't know there's just there's it's so much better content when people don't think as

00:20:55.800 many people are watching so this was someone in the chat said this was like 30,000 subscribers

00:21:02.200 at the time it was something like that and I was streaming so much it was crazy like I would do a

00:21:11.020 show at night and then i would do another like change my mind episode during the day i would do

00:21:16.220 like three i just loved streaming it was so fun emotional too much logic i think it was me telling 0.97

00:21:22.240 you to shut the fuck up because you don't know how to sometimes but anyway i said what i said 0.92

00:21:29.160 all right no i heard you i heard you need to go hand in hand in times like this 1.00

00:21:32.840 when there's too much emotion involved i know i was trying to diffuse i'm like here's the alcohol

00:21:37.760 calm down guys calm down genuinely get hurt and when it comes to logic i feel like logic most of

00:21:47.280 the time you can't go wrong but sometimes when we're too logical it can really disregard a group

00:21:51.360 of people or whatever it may be you know yeah but that's that but that's one of the problems

00:21:55.440 i'm talking about we're not talking about disregarding people but that's not what

00:21:59.760 but the fact that people um actually think that speaking things that make sense is disregarding

00:22:10.960 people is where we have a problem in the society because if somebody is speaking to make sense

00:22:16.160 and you take it as oh you're disregarding me no like i said i think these people trans people

00:22:22.800 deserve their human rights i don't think of them as less as a human being i'm saying when it comes

00:22:27.760 to things like you coming into ah and when it comes don't speak when it comes to you um going

00:22:33.840 into a sports arena that is not actually meant for you and it's meant for biological women 1.00

00:22:38.400 then we see real world consequences to um your feelings and people catering to people's feelings

00:22:44.640 that's what i'm saying but again i said that i cannot curate an opinion on that until i do more

00:22:50.240 research i will not open my mouth on something that i don't know about at the end of the day

00:22:56.720 you know like that that would just be dumb so but okay so for you the main thing that you agree with

00:23:01.440 feminism on like the main rights that women need to see today is abortion bodily autonomy because 1.00

00:23:07.840 it's not always just you know it's not it's not just abortion like in some states or at least

00:23:13.200 some counties it's legal for a police officer to assault an inmate that's while they're in custody

00:23:22.480 do you guys think that's true

00:23:26.080 i mean

00:23:29.140 right like so let's say i were to be um arrested and a cop could take me to whatever little jail

00:23:39.440 cell at whatever little uh you know place for custody he could sexually assault me legally

00:23:45.760 are you sure yes okay i probably you can do some research i had seen hang on you can legally 0.67

00:23:52.880 sexually assault somebody yes a cop specifically like what are you talking what are we classing

00:23:59.620 as sexual assault now that's what i'm trying to understand so what what is this sexual assault

00:24:03.060 that this man could do legally what is it that you can do grape legally yes

00:24:08.440 this is such a good content why did you have to do me like that sarah these were so funny

00:24:19.200 he can yeah in some states it's like an outdated law but it's still in place and it does happen

00:24:24.640 to people i mean i'd love to mtr did the same thing

00:24:29.500 do you know how weird it is do you know how weird it is i just want you guys to understand as a

00:24:37.000 youtuber i just i think i went into this content game like i think one people took it as more of

00:24:45.320 a business than i did when i got into this i just really wanted to have fun

00:24:53.640 it wasn't really about you know making money or i mean it happened right

00:24:59.240 but i just had always loved youtube like from a young age i loved watching youtube

00:25:07.000 if you don't have a lot of friends sometimes YouTube is like sorry but seriously I loved it

00:25:14.900 and so what I didn't realize is that for me when I would have really controversial people on

00:25:21.700 I would think okay they have different opinions who cares what they what other people are seeing

00:25:28.160 is oh you're associating with that person you're not on my team anymore I need to denounce you so

00:25:35.160 I don't lose money from my audience and I'm like what are we I thought we were all having fun here

00:25:42.620 guys you know I'm not the not the you know so I this was I was very naive when I went to London

00:25:50.320 I would say I didn't really know I learned a lot about people I really did I never really

00:25:58.580 thought about people's incentives so i never thought about that if things were not going the

00:26:06.220 way that you know in this case sarah the other youtubers that did this wanted me to go that they

00:26:12.640 would just throw me under the bus and it was super weird because it was it was like grown men it was

00:26:18.340 men oftentimes that were like a decade i think i was like 25 in this or 26 and they were close to

00:26:24.620 40 and it was like these 40 year old guys denouncing me i was like i was thinking

00:26:36.060 like what are you guys women that's what women do like 1.00

00:26:41.820 muhammad hijab no he didn't denounce did he denounce me if he denounced me i'm gonna be upset

00:26:46.780 i don't think he did as far as i know but that's what i mean i interviewed muhammad hijab

00:26:51.900 and tommy robinson i've interviewed both they hate each other i tried to organize

00:27:00.060 a debate between the two they didn't i didn't respond i was like all right

00:27:06.540 um i know i you know and i can't really blame them you know women we get things easier 1.00

00:27:11.820 so i think maybe if i went through the same like toil that they did you know like there's men that

00:27:18.540 have been doing red pill content for 20 years don't have the same following i do it's not really

00:27:23.820 fair you know you just have an easier mode when you're as you're a woman and i could see why

00:27:30.380 the men are a bit more careful than i was you know i could see why you know so i i do understand

00:27:39.020 their perspective i just still think that's a thing to do sorry sorry i'm not gonna lie i'd

00:27:48.220 love to see the research on that do you have it i'm just curious i'll see if i can find it

00:27:52.620 because i i've just never that sounds like kind of wild to me can i can i before we get before

00:27:59.100 we continue just point out um cheska's female privilege so when she threatened to slap me 1.00

00:28:05.660 do you think that do you think that it would have been received well if i threatened to slap her

00:28:11.660 because i would have been laughing one way or another me personally i'm just asking if it would

00:28:16.060 have been received the same way i'm just asking that's all right okay just glad we're just just

00:28:20.860 just establishing that it wouldn't um okay you don't believe in abortions sarah um no i i i

00:28:27.900 think abortions are quote-unquote okay in in in instances of great and molestation because

00:28:35.340 if sex is non-consensual sorry if sex is cons is consensual and you had non-consensual sex

00:28:43.740 and a baby is a result of that that actual act was non-consensual so i get i understand why you'd

00:28:50.780 want to get rid of the child because the sex was non-consensual so the child would be non-consensual

00:28:56.220 if you have consensual sex and the child is a result then you've consented to having a child

00:29:02.380 i'm just big into like taking ownership like i just feel like deal with the consequences that

00:29:07.020 you chose right like okay they want me to show the ah one more time okay because that's pretty

00:29:13.660 much it let me what's the time sort of of the terrible truck i was it was when i got up

00:29:21.420 all right you guys want to see the ah one more time further up okay

00:29:28.780 okay let's see this ah

00:29:30.220 see it's someone on the website requested this look at the influence you can influence the show

00:29:38.660 just by getting on the website you know right you to call me where is this ah did i miss it i feel

00:29:45.580 like i'm about it yeah i feel like logic most of the time their feelings about it don't really

00:29:51.200 matter like and not even in a not even close to logical sense you can find a balance between

00:29:57.540 emotion and logic yeah you can find a common ground i fully understand ah nobody ah no

00:30:08.420 anyway

00:30:13.940 that was so funny i forgot that happened

00:30:17.940 stephen thank you he said figured it was about time i joined thank you thank you thank you thank

00:30:24.420 Thank you, Ken.

00:30:31.120 Where else are we?

00:30:32.120 Is there anything else, Pearl?

00:30:34.280 People like to think that everyone is on the same page as them.

00:30:37.320 That works well as long as you agree with the moral group philosophy.

00:30:41.640 If there is a conflict, the clause come out because people depend on group validation

00:30:46.080 as an integral part of their identity.

00:30:49.080 If you don't validate me, you are the enemy.

00:30:52.420 oh that's so funny should we do it one more time one in the chat if we should watch it one more

00:30:58.900 time before we get to the actual topic today i just saw this guys and i thought it was so funny

00:31:06.100 because i realized there's new viewers that didn't see my stuff before

00:31:10.660 so i sometimes i realize when i'm talking you guys don't know what i'm talking about

00:31:15.940 okay let's guys you know and this is my fault I don't reply to enough comments

00:31:30.160 and I want to change that so please put your comments in the comment section

00:31:35.200 after we're done being live I know it's my fault there's a lack of comments but

00:31:41.500 But, you know, okay, we're going to keep going.

00:31:44.660 That's the woman Pearl dunked on so bad she sued Pearl. 1.00

00:31:47.800 No, that wasn't her.

00:31:49.420 That was a different woman. 1.00

00:31:51.400 That was a woman that, there was, do you know the bullshit I had to deal with? 1.00

00:31:54.920 I see why you guys stopped dating. 0.99

00:31:56.520 And I'll tell you why.

00:31:57.500 Because recruiting women for the show, it was the same. 0.64

00:32:03.240 I went through some of the things you guys go through in dating.

00:32:06.540 The flaky women. 1.00

00:32:07.460 You know, I would recruit eight of her a night for a show myself on Instagram. 0.99

00:32:12.800 And I knew if I wanted eight girls, I'd have to book 16. 0.89

00:32:16.260 Half would flake.

00:32:20.280 You know, it's crazy.

00:32:21.460 Athlete men had the same flake rates as women. 0.98

00:32:26.960 So if I recruited like basketball, they would be like the same flake rate.

00:32:34.040 I'd have to double book.

00:32:37.460 anyways though men would show up on time but there was a different woman I brought on 1.00

00:32:45.260 we texted her the show she was going on and then she claimed that she didn't know the show

00:32:50.980 didn't ever consent and that she was coerced into coming on the show

00:32:54.460 crazy crazy can you fix the thing like like do you know what I'm saying like really like and I

00:33:01.040 think what he's trying to say is like their feelings about it don't really matter it's all

00:33:05.300 about like but if we function if we functioned off of only logic and reality we would be a

00:33:10.820 heartless society genuinely i believe that um i don't know i think i think currently second place

00:33:18.220 leah the girl that got second to leah thomas would be cool right now okay so okay how many

00:33:24.660 times balance is needed okay how many times have we looked at like politicians for example

00:33:29.260 just going based off of their emotions, sheer emotions.

00:33:32.640 Like, and not even in a, not even close to logical sense.

00:33:37.100 You can find a balance between emotion and logic.

00:33:40.100 You can find a common ground.

00:33:41.780 I fully understand, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah.

00:33:49.100 Anyway, we can find a balance between emotion and logic.

00:33:53.400 I do believe that there are times

00:33:54.540 where we have too much logic and too much emotion.

00:33:56.240 This is so funny.

00:33:57.500 right what do you think oh god that was so funny okay let me read the chat one more time

00:34:18.780 pearl reed if abortion is only legal if the sex is non-consensual women will smear men to get 1.00

00:34:24.700 abortions yeah no i i don't look i just don't see a point

00:34:34.380 they are not gonna let us have this one i really think the pro-life people love them i want to say

00:34:41.340 you guys do great work but you're not winning there's more abortions after roe versus wade

00:34:46.220 sorry guys you know like i think it's a great intent but in terms of effectiveness and half of

00:34:53.340 of the pro-life or simp they simp so hard none of them will say throw these women that get abortion

00:34:58.160 in jail none none if you ask them that no we're just gonna throw the doctors in jail of course

00:35:05.280 oh no the women they they just they don't know what they're doing 1.00

00:35:10.700 they're to giving being given the wrong information are you google i've googled an

00:35:18.260 abortion. I have. I've seen one. I know what it looks like. Whose fault is it if they're not

00:35:24.640 informed? Whose fault? Is it the doctor? Who's? But you know what? They simp. And as most of you

00:35:33.540 know, I have been on the front lines of the simp epidemic for years. But I need to tell you about

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00:37:08.580 the discount code okay so moving on to the next topic today we are going to be i want to first

00:37:18.660 give my disclaimers number one i sometimes make generalizations based on what i have seen my

00:37:25.700 experience may not be your experience this is also based on interviewing a thousand women this is

00:37:31.940 also based on following cultural trends and following relationship news and seeing the

00:37:38.420 choices that women make at different periods in their life this may not be your experience and

00:37:42.500 that's totally fine when i say women or modern women i never mean all women there are exceptions

00:37:47.700 to every single rule however i do need to talk about the patterns i've seen and also we're trying

00:37:58.020 to get to 3500 members on the website that is one yearly membership on the show if you can

00:38:04.020 feel free to sign up if you can't that's okay hit that like button okay

00:38:10.660 now we spoke before about the modern woman life cycle and the phases that we go through as women

00:38:17.380 now i first want to recap what the phases are of the modern woman life cycle so first

00:38:22.900 we go to a high-priced institution to get a degree that nobody will care about to put themselves in

00:38:29.380 a whole bunch of debt that will burden them for the rest of their lives all they learn in school

00:38:33.940 is how to be disagreeable and how to use men modern women will get a job that is too stressful 1.00

00:38:39.940 and does not care about them in reality the job is not hard or stressful but these women 0.99

00:38:44.340 will convince themselves that it is modern women feel entitled to a certain lifestyle when they 1.00

00:38:50.420 they begin their careers and will buy houses and cars that they can't afford and spend all their

00:38:56.280 money on travel while ignoring their student loan debt and sometimes credit card debt. Modern women 1.00

00:39:02.200 will wake up between the ages of 33 to 37 and rush to have kids and find a husband or bull.

00:39:07.880 Modern women will hit their late 30s and early 40s and try to get pregnant by a loser or go 1.00

00:39:13.000 through IVF. Modern women will start on antidepressants and become alcoholics. Modern 1.00

00:39:18.660 women will buy a dog and die alone now along this journey there are different phases that 0.97

00:39:26.260 modern women go through we have covered the hoe phase today we are going to cover the post hoe 1.00

00:39:33.860 phase and the find herself phase so what is it the post hoe phase the post hoe phase usually comes 0.92

00:39:41.220 along when the women try to get our lives together before we smash into the wall some women enter this 1.00

00:39:50.900 phase sooner some women enter it later but the host post hoe phase consists of the following 1.00

00:39:58.020 options number one a health journey many women do an extreme diet in this period they do this 1.00

00:40:10.820 extreme diet because they don't want to take the work to about learning about health or nutrition,

00:40:17.140 you know, learning about carbs, protein, fat, calories. That's too much work.

00:40:21.140 Let me just go carnivore, vegan, or paleo. I don't want to count sugars. I don't want to count

00:40:26.820 calories. So oftentimes they do this extreme diet for a couple of reasons. One, to naturally clear

00:40:34.180 an STD. There are STDs that can be naturally cleared, allegedly. And women are, I mean, 1.00

00:40:44.180 at least they're convinced of it. I'm not even saying this is true or false, but on TikTok,

00:40:48.020 they're certainly convinced that changing their diet will clear their STD. Another thing that

00:40:53.460 they may do this is to lose the weight that they gained from poor decision-making. Now,

00:40:58.580 an office job doesn't necessarily need to mean that you get fat. There's many men that work

00:41:02.900 office jobs and are in great shape. But that does require discipline and hard work. That means

00:41:07.440 putting the donut down, not getting a 500 calorie latte from Starbucks. It means eating meals and

00:41:15.420 not just snacking. And that is way too hard. So they need to go carnivore, vegan, or paleo to get

00:41:21.920 out of that. The next reason is to have sex with men at the gym. Now, obviously, you know, 1.00

00:41:28.120 i mean top of the totem pole is going to be the jacked guy i mean there's a reason women 1.00

00:41:34.840 go and see magic mike we don't really go and see

00:41:39.040 you know the the smart guys dancing for it you know so you know in order to do that

00:41:50.340 they're obviously gonna need to be in shape too so here's a tick tock of a woman 1.00

00:41:55.800 oh by the way also I forgot a breakup will also trigger this so you know being reminded that you 0.96

00:42:04.700 suck as a girlfriend and that you just can't keep a relationship is hard so throwing yourself into 0.93

00:42:09.640 the gym seems to be an option for some very first proper day at the gym hey guys so I just came back 0.98

00:42:20.240 for my very first proper day at the gym and I wanted to jump on here and kind of start

00:42:25.920 documenting my journey because I want to have accountability buddies on the internet.

00:42:33.360 I've asked my friends to be my accountability buddies and everyone seems to be better at

00:42:37.240 doing their own thing by themselves.

00:42:39.180 So due to the lack of friends who want to be my accountability buddy, I've decided to

00:42:44.560 come on here and share my journey with you guys.

00:42:48.960 So I wanted to share a little bit about my health journey that I am kind of focusing on for this season of my life.

00:42:55.920 And that is basically I have really bad cardiac health.

00:42:59.940 So like even a little bit of exercise pushes my heart rate up to like 200 something.

00:43:05.040 And my blood pressure on average is quite low.

00:43:08.920 My orthostatic blood pressure is quite low.

00:43:11.920 So I really wanted to kind of see if I can improve that through like resistance training.

00:43:17.700 and just overall improving my cardiac health. Okay, we get the idea. The next option for a

00:43:26.200 post-ho phase is finding religion or a spiritual journey. So I dog on Nala a lot because she's a 0.50

00:43:33.520 perfect example, but you know, it's not just Nala. The best place to find some ex-hoes is in church. 1.00

00:43:39.360 There's no better place. And the reason is because there's a lot of marketing towards

00:43:43.740 people that are broken and have made really poor life decisions now that's all fine and dandy

00:43:48.680 but the best thing for a hoe to do is join a non-denominational church with no standards 0.99

00:43:55.300 where you can live stream your baptism do no work and tweet about how holy you are

00:44:01.820 that's option a so let's let's pull this up

00:44:05.920 here we go

00:44:08.500 a year ago i didn't believe in god didn't believe in jesus didn't believe in god i thought it was

00:44:18.780 super weird i thought it was super old-fashioned and traditional i thought it was super religious

00:44:24.680 super culty um and like some people just lived their life that way and it was really extreme

00:44:31.580 and strange and it just was not a part of my world it would never be me

00:44:35.760 it is now

00:44:39.420 and your worst part is she's hot enough you guys are gonna fall for it there's no way you won't

00:44:46.700 I don't I don't believe you you're like Pearl not me I'm too alpha I wouldn't fall for that

00:44:53.420 yeah okay okay guys yeah I I don't you guys are falling for those blue eyes

00:45:01.320 you're you're part of the church now let me i didn't notice the only fans associated god and

00:45:09.540 jesus very heavily with what i knew of religion um and that was one of the biggest things for me

00:45:16.020 at the time that was a block in even considering getting to know god i had some wild experiences

00:45:26.300 crazy experiences that led me to believe in god that i did not believe in let me

00:45:33.860 now oftentimes so women that convert have a tendency to think that god wants them to have

00:45:40.840 a platform and they often hear voices and they attribute that to god you know and it's the same

00:45:48.180 story right it's i was alone i just i've been partying and being a hoe and then i got then i 0.99

00:45:55.080 heard god speak to me lady he did not speak to you you are just crazy you are insane you hear voices 0.99

00:46:03.000 because you're hung over from getting tag teamed the night before i mean do you guys really believe 0.99

00:46:11.000 that nala heard god's voice yeah okay let me tell you if you're watching this right now and you're

00:46:20.040 like oh like another Christian video or oh another like person talking about God I was totally the

00:46:27.240 same I every time I saw these videos pop up on my bit earlier in my journey like every time I saw

00:46:32.480 these videos pop up on my TikTok I would be like oh but she's from a Christian family or oh she 0.52

00:46:37.980 grew up that way or she goes to church or she has a best friend that's a Christian you know like I

00:46:43.780 just always thought it was ingrained in their life somehow I am telling you I went from zero

00:46:52.060 belief zero faith zero care to believe to full undoubtable full heart brain body full belief

00:47:06.300 full knowledge that the fact that this is so real because the wildest things happen to me the

00:47:12.480 craziest things happened to me i went through a really hard time and then hoeing the hard time 0.82

00:47:18.400 is a hard time if you know what i mean it's he i it always has to do with a boy you know it's

00:47:28.300 interesting because when men go through hard times it's like well my mom was sick my i was deployed

00:47:37.660 my best friend tried to commit suicide when women go through a hard time it's 1.00

00:47:43.580 i got dumped i took an l he didn't call me back and these insane things started happening

00:47:51.820 the only christian i knew was my boss oh my gosh cap cap cap you guys in the chat you would fall

00:47:57.480 for it i don't believe he wouldn't i just you know i don't believe if a woman this attractive 1.00

00:48:04.700 was super into you you would want to believe i've seen you know what i've seen this too many times

00:48:11.220 i've just seen it you guys would fall for it hook line and sinker

00:48:15.100 they're all saying they wouldn't yeah okay nah nah i wouldn't oh i'm

00:48:26.560 okay um so literally thank god for her because she helped me and

00:48:34.700 i hadn't told her all these strange things that were happening to me until eventually

00:48:38.380 one day i just blurted it out because she was the only christian i knew and she was like

00:48:42.780 you need to start reading a bible and then i even then i was like

00:48:48.540 no like girl be for real me read a bible me read a bible like a a bible

00:48:57.900 like in what world but i did she bought me a really cute bible and kenneth said he'd hit and

00:49:07.520 then see what happened that's an honest answer thank you for being honest thank you kenneth

00:49:12.860 thank you because that right there is honesty what i don't need is the virtue signal in the chat

00:49:21.540 you know i just want you to know i the shows that i did earlier

00:49:26.500 i would see the men say that they don't date those types of women or they wouldn't fall for 1.00

00:49:34.880 that blah blah blah and do you know who i would see them dating later oh you know there's this

00:49:41.640 one guy who come on their show a lot and he would always talk about how he does didn't date women

00:49:45.680 like that but i knew his girlfriend before he met her she was exactly like that so 1.00

00:49:54.560 i'm not blaming you guys i mean look she's beautiful girl

00:49:59.600 but can we just like call can we just be i just i want some level of honesty between me and you

00:50:05.040 i want some like you you not only would you believe it you might you would want to believe

00:50:11.120 it you would say lie to me more that's exact you know it's like when women start talking about 1.00

00:50:18.160 stuff they've done before and the guys are like oh shut up shut up shut up 0.96

00:50:24.000 it's because you're saying lie to me please and i don't blame you guys you know what i'm like 0.99

00:50:28.400 we like it when the men lie to us you're the most beautiful woman in the world

00:50:35.440 okay then why don't i have why aren't i on the cover of vogue like why haven't i had these

00:50:40.640 outcomes chill pearl they're starved

00:50:50.320 i'm just yeah okay you're telling me the australian accent blonde hair blue eyes

00:50:57.840 you would not but you would you would not fall for it

00:51:01.760 it soft-spoken you know that gives that you guys think if a girl saw you know some girls have two

00:51:12.680 voices they have two voices they have the and this totally happened on a team I was on in college 1.00

00:51:19.460 there was this woman and to us she was a total b she was a total bitch like she was not nice 1.00

00:51:24.640 to anybody always came in with a scowl on her face always screaming at practice and then we 0.99

00:51:29.080 would see her go up to her boyfriend she would have a different voice and we're all like what

00:51:34.580 you were just how did you

00:51:38.060 but you guys have it too you guys will be in the locker room

00:51:43.560 showing each other I don't know nudes or whatever the hell you guys do I don't want to know I don't

00:51:50.780 want to know the side of men in the locker room I just don't want to say I I don't I think you

00:51:58.040 guys would hurt my feelings i just think you would and i'm good on it but women have that too you 1.00

00:52:04.520 know so we know when you're falling hook line and sinker she would pull it off she completely 1.00

00:52:12.120 would pull it off first pointy chin looks fade

00:52:21.000 she would get you and i took it politely opened a page never stopped so this is your sign

00:52:28.040 like it's not that weird it actually is not weird it is just a part of life and it's not crazy to

00:52:35.080 just get curious about it like it she's talking about religion and god like she's like getting

00:52:43.800 curious about your sexuality like it's the same it's the same words or the same kind of phrases

00:52:51.640 just different different thing changed my life and let the stigma that i had of religion deter you

00:53:00.760 from what is actually god because god is healing god is love god is blessings there are so many

00:53:07.480 things that religions do that i do not agree with at all and there we go remember it's pick and 0.98

00:53:14.840 choose christianity the thing is being a real christian is real hard again that's why i try

00:53:19.800 to say you know they're don't look up to me there's people be like pearl don't you want people

00:53:26.520 to like don't you want young women to look up to you no no go find an amish girl or something not

00:53:32.680 me now but there's like a hierarchy right of the the best women and the worst women and the thing 1.00

00:53:41.480 is women don't want to do anything hard so they'll always say there's stuff i don't agree with about 0.87

00:53:46.680 christianity when it means saying something that might get them ostracized not being a hoe 1.00

00:53:54.120 all the hard parts we just tend to opt out of the men will do the hard parts because you know they 0.97

00:53:59.880 have not all not all that all but they have standards and you know honor and when they

00:54:06.920 say things they mean them we do not we just say things um i'm gonna read the chat for a second

00:54:15.160 if you have a comment put it in the chat on the website someone wants to know what happened to

00:54:19.400 auntie me and auntie are still friends i might have her call in one show that might be kind of

00:54:23.400 fun for us to do um i texted her the other day actually where are we going remember put pearl

00:54:33.800 read if you want me to read something pearl why don't you film the advertising so you play it

00:54:41.720 aren't you tired of repeating it i think it's better interaction when i read it but maybe i'll

00:54:48.360 look into that curveball says it was very traumatizing when a girlfriend started telling

00:54:53.720 me that god speaks to her yeah you know she's crazy but again you know if she says it with

00:55:00.360 those blue eyes you i don't put it past any of you i've seen too much i've seen the christian guy

00:55:07.880 come on the show virtue signal talk about how moral he is and then you know that's why when

00:55:15.480 you know when ben shapiro saying andrew tate is the devil or whatever i don't know what ben shapiro

00:55:20.280 does in his free time and you know everyone just assumes because people talk about christianity

00:55:28.040 that they're moral immediately i don't know what these people do in their free time

00:55:33.080 you know so being the morality police

00:55:37.040 I'm just going to continue um

00:55:43.260 you're right Elizabeth Holmes the Theranos con artist used two different voice depending on the

00:55:52.440 situation that's more common than you guys think you got to go up like two octaves yeah it's I have

00:56:00.880 deep voice you know what my voice has gotten deeper the last three years because of this job

00:56:06.560 i think it's gotten an octave lower um

00:56:11.520 girls like to do 180s because they figure out it's a way to get polite society to call 1.00

00:56:17.600 to stop calling them hoes and i thank them for that because i wouldn't be employed thank you guys 1.00

00:56:24.960 like at all and it was a huge block also life here on earth is just way too short and way too

00:56:32.720 amazing to be wasting it on caring about what other people think of what you're doing you know

00:56:41.120 as long as you're not doing terrible things then it doesn't matter let me get this straight now

00:56:46.720 she's saying it doesn't matter what people think. Okay. Craig is a dang about what people think of

00:56:58.320 what you're doing. Okay, we're going to go. Craig says, Pearl Reed, what about turning the I don't

00:57:03.640 need a woman man on its head? I think society would be better off. The sexes are going to go 1.00

00:57:10.820 further and further apart don't expect your siblings to have children at least half of them

00:57:17.460 aren't going to do it so okay let me let me go to the next so the next option for them

00:57:28.400 is to become a trad wife now becoming a trad wife is going to be tough because the men that have

00:57:36.060 been around the players, the charming men, the men that have the choice are going to know your BS.

00:57:42.900 They know, the men that have choice, they know a rebrand when they see it, right? So they're

00:57:48.660 going to, so when a woman's going to become a trad wife and she's a former hoe, she's got to 1.00

00:57:56.520 pick an easy target. That's why you'll notice their targets. They're always dorky guys without

00:58:02.020 Not a lot of experience. 0.93

00:58:03.240 If you ask them how many relationships have they been in, it's usually one, maybe two.

00:58:09.700 That's called an easy target because, again, the woman, even let's pretend she's a virgin 1.00

00:58:16.200 by 25.

00:58:19.140 The amount of men she's interacted with, dealt with, talked to, her manipulation power, like

00:58:26.420 the sex is manipulating each other. 1.00

00:58:28.300 You guys say you're the most beautiful woman in the world.

00:58:31.640 pretend you don't like us as much as we as you do to keep us interested you do the hot and cold

00:58:37.640 i've seen i've seen the dating advice stuff okay we do the same thing we have we manipulate each

00:58:43.300 other women are just better at it women are just we're a1 manipulators we manipulate through a 1.00

00:58:50.460 pound of makeup to get a hotter guy there was a guy in a space the other day who came in and said 1.00

00:58:55.320 he had a girlfriend of nine months never saw her without makeup and then they didn't live together

00:59:01.020 right so every time she came in always had makeup on and she was so much less attractive 1.00

00:59:06.860 when he saw her without makeup he just didn't know what to do

00:59:12.860 now so the trad wives usually they'll do one of three things they go for a man about their age 1.00

00:59:21.340 because again a woman late 20s mid 20s early 30s way more experienced than the man

00:59:27.900 and she's going to run that relationship she's going to give up nothing to be a trad wife she 1.00

00:59:33.100 might be an influencer build a a trad wife persona on the internet and anything that she wants to do 1.00

00:59:42.700 god is going to be calling her to do it so she's gonna say god wants her to have a platform she's 0.90

00:59:48.700 gonna say god wants me to go to put the kids in this school that's like a form of manipulation

00:59:56.300 they have a tendency to use god um they also have a tendency to shame male behavior

01:00:04.220 and even though they're not perfect either right you know they they they're getting married late

01:00:09.580 there's something there right so they have a tendency to use the bible to shame any behavior

01:00:16.060 they don't like from the man so a common thing i hear from the trad wives is that 1.00

01:00:20.700 all the men just aren't holy enough he's not leading me to god

01:00:26.300 And is it like a worse form of manipulation because you're using God to get what you want and manipulate?

01:00:33.480 It's just, it's like you respect the player.

01:00:37.220 I respect the player more.

01:00:39.240 The Tinder swindler who got all that money out of the women. 1.00

01:00:43.400 I really respect him more than the trad wives using God to manipulate their husband. 1.00

01:00:49.160 The Tinder swindler.

01:00:51.920 At least you can be impressed.

01:00:53.580 That's hard to do.

01:00:56.300 Now, the thing is, these trad wives, they don't know the alpha and beta traits, right? 1.00

01:01:02.620 So oftentimes, they marry a beta guy, unfortunately. 0.86

01:01:06.960 Now, or a guy they see as beta based on the men that they've dated before.

01:01:12.460 They don't know that they don't like him.

01:01:14.560 You know, it's not like these women go in wanting to divorce their husband.

01:01:19.300 But they need a kid.

01:01:21.140 They need a kid. 0.99

01:01:22.180 They got to get married.

01:01:23.120 married, so they have to do our hamster reel, convince ourselves we like him.

01:01:28.200 The problem is that kid gets born.

01:01:31.880 Postpartum depression is post-nut clarity for women. 0.91

01:01:35.200 Haven't you guys ever really thought you liked a woman, then had sex with her and realized 0.99

01:01:39.160 you just wanted a blow job? 1.00

01:01:41.500 That was it. 1.00

01:01:43.620 Women have that same thing with children. 1.00

01:01:45.520 They think they like the man.

01:01:47.400 That's why a lot of times the sexless marriages happen after the kid. 1.00

01:01:53.120 Now, these women also have a tendency to shame male sexuality, so they have no problem not 1.00

01:02:01.520 sleeping with their husbands and they will shame men for trying and also shame them for 0.88

01:02:06.480 watching corn.

01:02:07.480 Now, we all know how strong the male need for variety is.

01:02:12.980 There's a reason that, you know, in a way this is just nature correcting itself because

01:02:18.920 historically eight women reproduced for one man.

01:02:23.120 eight so the sexless men the women sleeping with the same but this is just nature 0.68

01:02:28.160 kind of taking its course right um but what they'll do is they don't really want to have

01:02:35.700 sex with him but they also don't want their to lose their resources and their husband going 0.96

01:02:39.560 elsewhere so they shame the porn they act like porn is the root of all evil in society 0.92

01:02:45.200 i mean 70 of men watch porn admittedly in the last month i don't know society's running okay 0.99

01:02:54.500 and i think most men would give it up if they had a a bunch of women that wanted to have sex with 0.79

01:03:00.900 them i know what they say to me i think women just don't like losing the power because they 1.00

01:03:09.360 can't manipulate the guys as much if they have another outlet another form they will also shame

01:03:16.340 men that are players who are exploring their options so you guys know when a man's a player

01:03:21.860 there's nothing you are going to do to get him to not have sex imagine imagine thinking that 0.93

01:03:30.000 a man that's dating multiple women having a harem of five women trying to have sex with him all the 0.80

01:03:35.480 time and you're gonna say you're a bad person do you think that man is gonna say ah you know what

01:03:43.400 I am a bad person maybe yeah okay so what they'll do is they the reason they love the players right

01:03:56.000 they really do because at some point most women have dated a guy that's more of a player than

01:04:02.800 their husband, let's just say. Most women do not marry the baddest boy that they've ever dated or

01:04:08.860 the biggest player, whatever. They hate that they're attracted to the players. They're not

01:04:14.100 attracted to their husband. Because why are the women yelling at the men for sleeping around, 1.00

01:04:21.460 right? I mean, you kind of wonder, what are you doing there? It's kind of a weird behavior.

01:04:27.820 year. So they all go on a lot of shows and shame men for exploring their options, even

01:04:33.500 though they did the same thing when they're at their peak.

01:04:39.220 The next thing that the finding religion or spiritual journey does is we should wait till 0.69

01:04:45.160 marriage. Making men wait for used goods, the 90 day rule, et cetera. So the women, 1.00

01:04:53.620 not as hot or innocent as they used to be you know good women will make up for this right you 1.00

01:05:00.260 know good reasonable women will know okay i'm not as attractive as i used to be and there's different

01:05:05.300 strategies that women take we could argue about what strategies are the most effective right but 1.00

01:05:12.580 you know some women decide they want to 1.00

01:05:15.060 give really good blowjobs that's how they try to make up for it one in the chat if that would help 1.00

01:05:24.340 other women they decide i'm just going to be a nicer person i'm going to learn to be more pleasant 0.99

01:05:31.060 nicer you know like fat women fat women used to they knew they weren't the best so they made up 1.00

01:05:36.860 for it with a really good personality so maybe the women go that route other women you know i have a 1.00

01:05:42.720 friend, she was older and she ended up getting married to a guy that really doesn't take any 0.99

01:05:48.420 shit. I wouldn't say he's beta at all. And she did this by, how did she do this? She learned how to 1.00

01:05:55.300 code and built him a website for his business. I mean, she learned skills that would make his life

01:06:00.860 easier. She quit her job, worked for him. That's one way to do it. Some women will get in better 1.00

01:06:06.440 shape you see women in their 30s hitting the gym really really hard but the these women think no 1.00

01:06:16.760 i don't want to do that that's too hard i would rather just charge a higher price for used goods

01:06:24.200 you know i am going to sell i'm going to sell you know because at the end of the day dating

01:06:28.120 it is selling right everyone's selling themselves this is what i have to offer this is what i have

01:06:32.200 to offer so what they're gonna do is they're gonna say look i know my ex-boyfriend hit all the time

01:06:40.200 for free he had to pay nothing but you you get to wait until marriage put all your money on the line

01:06:48.360 give me the power to destroy your legacy and steal your children and in exchange you get nothing 0.93

01:06:55.480 you get the promise that i won't leave

01:06:57.640 they will get a guy to sign up probably one of you in the chat that fell for those blue eyes

01:07:06.280 I know one I know it's one of you I don't know who 1.00

01:07:09.080 but deep down the woman knows he's an idiot it's not a smart move 1.00

01:07:16.400 so you know um the next option for the you know ex-hoes is running back to school this is an 1.00

01:07:26.980 excessive focus on their career. Generally, it's a graduate degree and a PhD, so they sign up for

01:07:36.400 more debt. They become even more selfish, even though they're already selfish, so they say,

01:07:41.080 I'm focusing on me. Sis, you didn't need to do that. You focused on yourself enough.

01:07:49.060 here we go how my heart broke how my broken heart led me to going back to school for social work

01:07:57.760 led me to go back to school for social work I've actually been wanting to it's never engineering

01:08:02.980 talk about this it's never like long time oh my gosh I need to move this it's never medicine

01:08:07.920 it's always something that doesn't make any money time about how a heartbreak led me to go back to

01:08:14.780 school for social work I've actually been wanting to talk about this for a long time but for some

01:08:18.720 reason i just never knew where to start in 2019 i was living in la with my ex-boyfriend who i was

01:08:25.020 also working for at the time and if anyone's watching this who is contemplating working with

01:08:29.920 their significant other don't honestly has nothing to do with why we broke up but it made the breakup

01:08:34.840 so messy after i'll never forget the day that started our breakup he woke up really early and

01:08:40.060 he went to go play basketball and we didn't really speak that morning he kind of just like woke up

01:08:43.600 and left hours later i haven't heard from him so i'm like hello like all of a sudden i see like

01:08:48.020 in our text that he turned off his location services i'm like that's weird what i just

01:08:54.660 realized that this story time was supposed to be about why i went back to school for social work

01:08:58.340 not what happened in our breakup so long story short he broke up with me i was distraught when

01:09:03.860 i tell you i have never felt heartbreak like that tried for a very long time to just get over it on

01:09:09.780 my own but i literally could not wake up in the mornings like i was that depressed so naturally

01:09:14.420 i'm like okay i need help i found a therapist and i started seeing her like two times a week

01:09:18.900 and no joke she single-handedly changed my life to the point there's a therapy phase i want you 1.00

01:09:25.300 guys to think about all the people that make money off of us during these phases the doctors

01:09:29.220 convincing us that we're sick when we're not here we go the therapists convincing us we need therapy

01:09:39.300 and to try to understand our feelings when we don't even if we can't understand our feelings

01:09:48.740 i mean that's an impossible task i get mad for no reason all the time i get happy for no reason i

01:09:54.340 mean we can't we can't understand me being like holy i want to be able to do that for people so

01:09:59.780 i took a big risk applied to a bunch of schools got in now two years later i graduate this summer

01:10:05.060 and the goal is to become a therapist and help people the way that my therapist helps me it's

01:10:09.940 wild how real rejection is redirection if i hadn't gotten broken up with i wouldn't have applied to

01:10:15.460 get my master's in social work i wouldn't have found locks club which made me realize that i

01:10:19.380 really want to work in the dating and relationship space i wouldn't have moved to florida during

01:10:23.700 covet met my boyfriend and i probably wouldn't have started a tick tock everything happens for

01:10:28.020 a reason rejection is redirection okay so there you go

01:10:37.860 next the false accusation realization so this is when

01:10:43.220 she realized she consented to none of her hoe activities 1.00

01:10:48.660 this happens when looks start to fade because their looks can't get them the resources that

01:10:53.780 they used to they used to get all this free stuff events attention thrown at them they can't get it

01:10:59.460 from that anymore have you ever noticed all the false accusation the me too ladies it's always 1.00

01:11:03.860 after they're hot they're not hot now they were hot before then it's the i was dumb young and dumb 0.97

01:11:11.300 justification so when men commit a crime when they were young they say i was wrong but women 0.99

01:11:17.220 say i was young and dumb everything before posto i was young and dumb then they gotta marry a 0.73

01:11:25.220 boyfriend or a husband that's a placeholder so they obviously need a beta with no standards 1.00

01:11:31.540 that lets them do whatever they want you're the guy she can get fat on if your woman's getting 1.00

01:11:38.500 fat on you if she's gaining a ton of weight she's not afraid of you dumping her you've instilled no

01:11:43.860 fear congratulations fellas she needs she wants you to have no standards and zero requirements 0.90

01:11:52.660 next is a divorce divorce because you want to be an influencer go to concerts or join

01:12:01.460 some sort of community that seems better than your husband next obviously she's gonna raise

01:12:07.300 her standards. Make men wait longer for sex while offering nothing in return. So the older they get, 0.90

01:12:14.100 the longer that waiting period. It goes from a month phase, two months, three months. Give up,

01:12:20.820 have a one night stand, and then she repeats. So again, that's what they always say. I fell into

01:12:26.740 temptation. How do you fall? Did you choose it or was it an accident? There's a lot of steps in

01:12:35.060 having sex you know it starts i mean i don't want to get too detailed but you guys you know there's

01:12:40.660 a lot of steps there's going back to the place there it doesn't usually it's not just something

01:12:46.500 you fall into it's a a choice but you know they won't say that so you know women back in the day 0.99

01:12:55.140 used to stay at their parents house until they found a husband they used to learn how to be

01:12:59.380 wives and mothers from their mothers when they met the man they were going to marry they would 0.99

01:13:03.620 tailor themselves to fit that man and they would become the woman that he needed her to be but a

01:13:10.660 woman finding herself as a new phenomenon started by modern women as a way to put off marriage 1.00

01:13:16.020 children and any other major life decision because again the goal of feminism is to be able to use 1.00

01:13:24.100 our youth on ourselves as much as we can find a bailout guy later if we could if we had fertility

01:13:31.220 to push off kids till 40 swear we would do it i swear instead of prioritizing becoming a man's

01:13:38.100 wife we learn how to be disagreeable disagreeable and difficult the quest of a woman finding 0.65

01:13:43.940 herself usually leads to the next phase that is the hoe phase now what is a modern woman's 1.00

01:13:51.060 motivation for finding her hoe phase you now this is an article from a feminist website 0.99

01:13:58.180 that says you have been so lost and it's explaining the whole phase it's to the girl who needs to find

01:14:04.320 herself again you have been so lost in the whirlwind of life that you've tricked yourself

01:14:10.400 into thinking that you're happy until the high ends until your friends leave you leave and you

01:14:15.800 feel all alone all you hit is rock bottom you've become someone that you don't recognize someone

01:14:21.760 you thought you were supposed to be and you don't want to be that girl you've become that girl

01:14:28.100 that you promised yourself you would never become,

01:14:30.660 that girl who doesn't know who she is.

01:14:32.780 You tell yourself that you're happy,

01:14:34.720 that you love the life that you live

01:14:36.760 until you're laying in bed at night and it all hits you.

01:14:39.260 Those fundamental questions,

01:14:41.480 what are you even doing with your life?

01:14:42.980 Who are you?

01:14:43.580 Are you satisfied with where you are at?

01:14:45.580 The answer is never.

01:14:46.580 We're never satisfied.

01:14:48.140 Never.

01:14:48.960 Are you really happy?

01:14:50.740 And if you can't escape that resounding no,

01:14:53.860 that you feel because you know it's the truth.

01:14:56.380 you've tried to be what everyone else needed instead of what you needed you've

01:15:00.400 conceded to what you should have fought you've conceded when you should have

01:15:04.440 fought you've tried to be who you thought people expected you to be to

01:15:09.580 please them instead of pleasing yourself you're so caught up in everything else

01:15:12.820 that you've lost yourself along the way she's stuck between who she is who she

01:15:17.320 wants to be and who she should be you've spent so long living for others that

01:15:21.520 you've forgotten how to live for yourself you've looked for love in all

01:15:25.100 wrong places and happiness and all the wrong people you've constantly looked to others for

01:15:30.300 approval and acceptance when you don't even accept yourself you've done everything the world has told

01:15:36.140 you would make you happy and it has left you with nothing but unhappiness you've been so desperately

01:15:43.340 trying to fill that void but nothing you do nothing you get or anyone you ever meet seems

01:15:47.500 to be able to fill it at the end of the day you feel empty you feel lost what are the common

01:15:51.980 actions of a woman finding herself. Usually dated and broke up with a toxic, misogynistic 1.00

01:15:58.480 ex. Selfishness, me, me, me in all aspects of life. Spent a ton of money on living, traveling,

01:16:05.860 and material goods. Long-term planning stops. Live in the now until we smash into the wall.

01:16:11.360 Becomes an amateur psychologist. Will diagnose herself and everyone around her with some sort

01:16:15.540 of mental disorder, fully embrace misandrous ideas like men are trash, toxic groups of 1.00

01:16:23.100 misandrous female friends, et cetera. 1.00

01:16:26.300 Creative pundits, social media, content creation, some sort of creative business, lack of true

01:16:31.140 self-reflection, taking herself off the dating market for far too long and rejecting all

01:16:36.160 the good men that come along because she's dealing with her trauma.

01:16:39.680 This woman talks about how she started her healing journey.

01:16:42.880 Of course, she had a toxic ex.

01:16:45.540 how did i start my healing journey let's talk about it i feel like i need to preface this in

01:17:01.020 saying that i was in a very very unhealthy and toxic relationship at the time that's another

01:17:06.160 video for another time because that was just a lot the first step to starting my healing journey

01:17:10.460 was getting comfortable with being alone.

01:17:13.300 I had this warped view that having somebody there...

01:17:15.620 So that's taking herself off the dating market. 1.00

01:17:19.280 For far too long.

01:17:20.120 It was better than being by myself,

01:17:21.160 and that was far from the case.

01:17:22.700 If you disrupt my peace of mind, you gotta go.

01:17:24.580 I learned that the hard way, but it was very valuable.

01:17:27.080 I had to unlearn everything that I had learned

01:17:29.980 within that relationship.

01:17:30.980 I had this really warped view of myself.

01:17:33.420 She was telling me I was too skinny, 0.96

01:17:35.040 I needed to get a boob job. 1.00

01:17:36.140 I couldn't see myself for who I was

01:17:38.460 and what I had to offer.

01:17:40.460 now remember these are the men's that the men that can demand that

01:17:47.240 these are I'm telling you I've heard guys

01:17:51.820 I've heard guys that

01:17:56.440 there's one guy in London I knew okay and he I don't want to give too many details I don't want

01:18:05.060 you guys to figure out who does but he always had a rotation of five women like always 1.00

01:18:10.200 as long as I knew him his this is the thing you would be shocked the what women will accept

01:18:17.660 for the right guy I mean and to be fair this was a good looking guy in good like he had all the

01:18:22.860 boxes checked right this is um very good in his field I met like three of his girlfriends he was

01:18:31.780 like friends in our friend group they always accepted him stepping out always always always

01:18:38.480 always that was that was like his standard okay and unless you accepted that you just were not

01:18:47.600 there was one woman that actually i think he settled down with but i'm telling you she had

01:18:51.540 to go through like a year or two of him doing whatever he wanted that just was what it was

01:18:57.220 now let me continue so those guys when you hear them talk about women and what they like and 0.96

01:19:06.800 don't like they are very critical like they are very specific and normal guys if they're over a

01:19:14.860 certain threshold it's like oh shoot that that's why I do I do the one to ten because I hear how

01:19:21.680 these guys think and they will tell you to get a boob job I swear to god they'll do it I mean they

01:19:27.980 do not care when he think about him so he has a girl he likes she's slightly above below his 0.86

01:19:36.080 attractiveness threshold that he usually goes for he's gonna tell her if she's too skinny he's gonna 0.98

01:19:44.420 tell her to lose weight he's gonna tell her to get a boob job if he wants it because he's got 1.00

01:19:49.440 four of you lined up not only that these guys have women from their past that are ready to date them

01:19:57.300 at any time they could be in a whole marriage if these guys called they're breaking it off and

01:20:03.380 and they're coming back you you have no idea the abundance that these guys get so when

01:20:11.060 a 10 gets with a girl like this she's cute she's not bad looking right but by no means 0.99

01:20:18.620 is she the archetype that the men go for right she's cute not beautiful they're gonna say 1.00

01:20:30.700 stuff like that and you're gonna you're gonna have to do it valuable i had to unlearn everything that

01:20:38.860 i had learned within that relationship had this really warped view of myself he was telling me i

01:20:43.500 was too skinny i need to get a boob job i couldn't see myself for who i was and what i had to offer

01:20:48.860 it's time to let it go learn new ways of thinking that would benefit me empower me and help me grow

01:20:54.780 usually put makeup on my forehead i started journaling that was one of the things that

01:20:58.620 really really helped me get to the root of who i was what i loved how i felt about myself who i

01:21:03.820 wanted to be i had to work on finding validation within myself and knowing that what i thought

01:21:09.100 about myself is all that mattered i started meditating i started meditating because i

01:21:13.340 needed to really get to the essence of what i was thinking being alone with my thoughts was

01:21:17.500 one of the scariest things i needed to rebuild my mindset and just see myself for who i am

01:21:22.220 what i had to offer which was a hell of a lot i started getting back to me and everything that

01:21:26.540 made me happy i wanted to feel good all around so i started working okay you guys are saying she's a

01:21:31.660 five you do it i i don't want to hear it i don't want to hear it you would do it i have seen how

01:21:40.940 these things played out and you know what the other thing the women that would argue with these guys 1.00

01:21:45.580 on the show i'm not gonna say names but you guys can put two and two together from these from these

01:21:51.820 streams they would throw themselves at the guys that they were arguing with when the cameras were

01:21:57.500 off that's all i'm gonna say and on my mindset i started working on what i was consuming and

01:22:04.300 was watching things that motivated me at this point i'm always working on the relationship

01:22:08.620 i have with myself my healing journey helped me get back to me and that's why my book my journal

01:22:13.420 is called back to me you have to learn to get back to ourselves and nurture ourselves and love

01:22:17.900 ourselves so back to me when men write books it's about accomplishing something 0.98

01:22:26.140 when women write books it's just about finding themselves another one we have a woman is finding 1.00

01:22:34.060 herself by quitting her job to backpack around europe and has a gofundme to get the funds to do

01:22:40.940 it. It's been incredible, incredible. I mean, it's like I'm meeting me for the first time. It's like

01:22:53.080 Allison, meet Allison. So I quit my job and I'm going to eat, pray, love my way around Europe

01:23:00.260 to gather information for my memoir, Meeting Allison. Yeah. So just donate to the GoFundMe

01:23:06.640 that I just posted on Facebook

01:23:08.220 because I have no money now.

01:23:10.660 No money.

01:23:13.900 Okay.

01:23:14.820 Where are we going to next?

01:23:16.340 We got a housewife that is finding herself. 0.99

01:23:19.560 You guys think, you guys will say,

01:23:21.240 oh, my wife would never.

01:23:24.040 I am super safe.

01:23:27.880 No such thing, fellas.

01:23:30.000 Nobody's safe.

01:23:31.980 Nobody.

01:23:34.780 Here we go.

01:23:36.640 but if you don't i am a stay-at-home mom and this year is about me finding myself and making time

01:23:46.660 for myself because when i first started this tick tock um i went to the doctor because i was having

01:23:52.600 panic attacks and i honestly thought it was like my adhd acting all over the place but turns out i

01:23:58.040 got diagnosed with anxiety and depression and they try to stick me on some medicine

01:24:03.200 well that's when i got into fitness because don't this is for me not for you i didn't want to end up

01:24:10.000 getting stuck on the pills and relying on the pills so i took the fitness route and fitness

01:24:14.220 has truly truly helped me i'll put a photo below this is the before and after and yeah now i make

01:24:20.300 time for myself to read i find the time in the day to do me i used to do like can you imagine

01:24:26.000 coming home from a hard day of working like let's say looks like a decent house let's let's

01:24:32.860 let's say your husband's a trucker let's say trucker it's a pretty common job

01:24:38.060 and you come back and your your wife says you know what

01:24:42.780 i need to make time for myself i need to read and you're like i just worked a 12-hour shift

01:24:50.940 no no no i need to read kids and my husband and that's it me on the back burner because

01:24:59.100 but this is a rationalization she doesn't really like her husband she doesn't know what to do

01:25:04.860 it's not again the ladies don't go into this hoping to get divorced 1.00

01:25:13.500 they just the the challenges before

01:25:19.100 we fell in love because we had to we had to survive now we don't have to

01:25:25.020 it's an uncomfortable truth we're choosing not to wife and the mom i need to go last but i'm not

01:25:36.060 doing that anymore i'm putting i'm putting myself my kids my husband everything on equal terms

01:25:44.140 because that's what it needs to be and i have to say 2024 is the best year and i'm taking y'all

01:25:52.620 along on the journey okay next another stay-at-home mom that needs to find 1.00

01:26:03.720 herself imagine being the man in this marriage you have to provide for a woman 0.99

01:26:07.860 with this attitude oh tits out of course what would what would where would we be 0.99

01:26:16.020 without the tits I'm not doing too good I gave birth last December to a beautiful 1.00

01:26:30.340 and healthy baby girl and this journey has been so beautiful but I've lost 0.72

01:26:38.340 myself i'm lost it's almost december again and it's been a year of me not doing things for me

01:26:48.740 at all i think i want to do 30 days until it's december and i get to see my family 30 days

01:27:00.900 where i do things for me i want to move my body i just want to know what was you guys's

01:27:07.380 first impression when you saw the video what was the first thing you noticed

01:27:14.260 can women please stop thirst trapping with their kids it's just getting 1.00

01:27:20.100 this poor baby this baby doesn't know what he's what she's being used for 0.99

01:27:25.700 like her mom's sticking her boobs out 1.00

01:27:31.220 yeah i know they're saying yeah i don't have time for my skin care right 0.66

01:27:37.380 i want to eat better i want to drink water like and the thing is the women will do it before the 1.00

01:27:44.860 kid's born they'll do these naked they'll they'll take these and to be fair they're artistic right

01:27:50.600 they're beautiful pregnancy naked pictures but those are supposed to be beautiful naked pictures

01:27:57.940 for the husband, the hut, and they keep putting them on Instagram, then we get the holding

01:28:15.960 the baby breastfeeding pictures, again, that's a cute picture for the husband, but you guys

01:28:25.540 know men think of sex with everything you're like trapping them you're you're putting a baby 0.98

01:28:32.180 sucking on a boob which is you know you know how guys mind is why are you doing that to them you're 0.99

01:28:40.900 just putting it on the internet poor kid the kid doesn't know this kid's thinking he's hanging out 1.00

01:28:46.820 with his mom he's being she's being used for a thirst trap i wanna get dressed every day even 0.98

01:28:51.780 though i stay at home most days i want to spend some time daily outside in nature

01:28:57.300 somewhere i want to journal a little understand my feelings of time for them so i'm doing this for us

01:29:09.220 30 days i'm gonna show you what i eat in a day vlogs join me hold me accountable

01:29:16.660 oh that baby's so cute

01:29:22.580 and being used for a thirst trap the audacity

01:29:27.420 another stay-at-home mom that needs to find herself like this is the there's this is why 1.00

01:29:33.680 i try to say there's no right or wrong a lot of conservatives again think that their morality

01:29:40.360 will save them from not getting this you know one woman i've seen the commentators 1.00

01:29:46.980 or the wives of the commentators be super happy to be stay-at-home mom at 22 1.00

01:29:51.900 but at 32 they felt like they missed out there's no there's no i hope for the best i pray

01:29:59.340 you know but this is my job i i i'm not gonna bet on it i actually want to do there's a marriage

01:30:08.560 that worked out and i'm actually going to show you guys why i think it would i did tomorrow

01:30:16.880 she landed i don't want to spoil it we'll do tomorrow

01:30:22.480 oh wait the sound

01:30:26.000 so a few months ago i got into what i thought was the worst argument ever in that mommy is

01:30:32.000 when i realized that i needed to love myself so deeply that i didn't even rely on someone else to

01:30:37.680 to make me happy.

01:30:39.540 I felt worthless, I felt as if I was in love.

01:30:42.600 I was tired of feeling like I was in love.

01:30:45.260 I was tired of accepting disrespect

01:30:46.980 just because I wanted to keep that person around.

01:30:50.280 Now I'm on this journey to self-love

01:30:52.560 and I want to help other stay-at-home moms 0.88

01:30:55.120 who's also gone through the exact same thing.

01:30:57.520 I want you to know that you are not alone

01:30:59.240 and we're gonna go on this journey together one step.

01:31:03.000 Yeah, so that's her recruiting the other stay-at-home moms 1.00

01:31:05.700 to leave their husbands too.

01:31:07.680 your wife is not safe sorry fellas so now we're going to do a twitter space we're going to try

01:31:15.980 the twitter space today and i want to know what does it mean what do you think it means this is

01:31:21.920 from my experience this is from what i've noticed but i want to hear from you guys what does it

01:31:28.140 mean when a woman says she's going to find herself now for a second i'm going to read the chat

01:31:35.980 um on the website again if you guys want your chat rad you can

01:31:41.040 change the course of the show 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year

01:31:46.300 and if we get 3 500 members you know i can be youtube free forever

01:31:53.160 they can't demonetize me again and ruin my life they could they could call me a colonizer all

01:32:01.660 they want don't care now um and for you guys I was thinking you guys let me know if you think

01:32:09.360 this would be cool I was thinking about putting all the courses I'd recommend um because I don't

01:32:15.300 do dating advice but I have a lot of friends with some really good stuff like Troy Francis is one

01:32:21.020 he's a really good dating coach like I've seen him work miracles truly I truly have

01:32:27.140 and i've seen these guys work behind the scenes i've seen them on shows i've seen them interact

01:32:33.020 with the women so um anyways point is this i've thought about putting them on my website so you 0.96

01:32:38.780 could have it all in one place um again these aren't my courses but this is just if you think

01:32:45.740 it'd be cool i could put them on there um pearl reed what about turning the oh wait i read that

01:32:55.300 one pearl read hey totally off topic but you should search on google images for teacher

01:33:01.260 caught assaulting student the results are staggering would probably make for a good 0.93

01:33:05.380 stream idea if you're ever looking for content on female violence maybe one show pearl tate

01:33:11.340 is the real deal judge not on the surface issue yet judge righteous judgment pearl is 0.99

01:33:17.380 the pearl tate is the real deal judge not on surface issues yet judge righteous judgment

01:33:22.360 okay um hopefully is a real thing pearl the most corrupting power we have to contend with 0.99

01:33:29.040 is the power of the pussy okay um i think it is quite possible that more than 70 percent watch 0.99

01:33:38.800 porn do you know the worst is women that think that's cheating it's like do you want them going 1.00

01:33:44.200 out naturally cheating like i don't understand i had a friend once that told me she didn't like

01:33:51.360 that I reacted like this she she had gained a bunch of weight and so her husband was watching

01:33:57.520 corn right and she was like jealous of the models and I'm like well he's not cheating so why do you

01:34:06.620 care I think it saved more marriages to be honest because you know guys are like path of least 0.92

01:34:15.780 resistance this is way easier than going and finding a girl to have sex with but they just 1.00

01:34:21.300 they just crave for variety you know i'm not saying it's right or wrong the same way it's not

01:34:26.020 right or wrong that women want the best guy they can get we could try to shame like we could try 1.00

01:34:31.540 to shame women out of not being hypergamous but that's just never gonna happen men are never gonna

01:34:36.900 be shamed into not wanting variety i don't if you're gonna virtue signal to me about this now

01:34:45.380 again i have a different point of view i've seen the podcasters that virtue signaled about this

01:34:53.300 promise you they all have harems i promise to god they can have a real relationship with god

01:34:58.340 they really could but men have a hard time turning down easy poonanny that it's just 0.96

01:35:07.540 yeah the men if they think no one's gonna know and you are not gonna find out they're probably

01:35:14.500 gonna do it um okay pearl can you analyze home apps chart according to your experiences and

01:35:25.940 viewpoint not today but if you remind me tomorrow i can pull it up

01:35:33.620 i always say richard says i always say people are having way more sex than they say the average guy 0.77

01:35:38.260 is going to have sex with his girlfriend five times a day five times is that true i mean you 0.85

01:35:46.820 guys tell me five don't you guys have like things to do i don't know you guys maybe the guy has 0.98

01:35:58.340 three girlfriends and does this for 20 years up to 50 there's plenty of sex going on wow three times 1.00

01:36:06.740 I mean you know you must be a machine Richard maybe you're a machine comment

01:36:13.920 of the year when a woman goes on a journey it means she's going to do 0.99

01:36:17.120 something stupid I'm adding that to my notes journey equals doing something 1.00

01:36:29.240 stupid okay in one second um pearl other men envy men with a high body count other women don't envy 0.99

01:36:39.720 women with one any of them can attain one but no no i'll tell you women do envy women with high 1.00

01:36:45.980 body counts they envy women with high body counts that got away with it every female celebrity that 1.00

01:36:55.440 women worship taylor swift 35 landed a football player candace owens 30 landed british royalty

01:37:04.240 even though the women don't love her but they're kind of coming around and they're coming around 1.00

01:37:07.920 because they see how that turned out um they like george clooney's wife 35 lawyer landed george

01:37:17.760 cluny so they they do envy the women with the high body counts that got away with it 1.00

01:37:28.560 um and aren't hotter than them

01:37:33.680 okay so now we're gonna do the space so do i join on my

01:37:37.760 here we go what does it mean when a woman says so do I reconnect here 0.99

01:37:58.000 will that work or no

01:37:59.040 let me see if i oh okay um i just want to be able to kick people it's my own name

01:38:12.180 i think i have a second twitter account though um i have to remember the login that's always 0.94

01:38:18.320 where i get caught um okay well we could just try it for today and then i'll tell you to kick them

01:38:26.740 not they can hear me okay okay what up guys on twitter so i am currently doing a twitter space

01:38:40.100 um on my youtube channel so youtube can hear you also it's during my show and i gave my take on

01:38:48.180 what it means when women says that they want to find themselves now i'm going to give a little

01:38:52.100 recap here just so you guys know you know essentially

01:39:00.660 they're gonna find themselves through a health journey usually an extreme one to clear an std

01:39:07.140 or lose the weight they gained finding religion journey back to school journey and you know

01:39:14.740 finding himself herself is what i want above what the men want but i want to hear from you guys so

01:39:25.380 come up give me your take on what does it mean when a woman says i want to find myself 0.81

01:39:33.300 all right football man and they're gonna hear it on youtube right

01:39:37.700 okay all right guys we are we're experimenting with the technology today i wanted to see if i

01:39:43.300 could do a space on youtube so you're gonna have to bear with me i can't hear anything right now

01:39:49.700 i don't know

01:40:06.340 i don't know because i couldn't hear there's usually music in the beginning and i couldn't

01:40:09.460 hear it and i don't see my mic moving so i don't think they can hear me

01:40:13.300 because usually your mic's going to move

01:40:20.500 someone says an attempt to repackage

01:40:36.260 and i can go on

01:40:43.300 i mean i can ask can someone go on from the chat go on to twitter and see if it works but i don't

01:41:00.380 i really don't think that they can hear me because i just don't see the audio moving

01:41:05.800 and it should move

01:41:13.300 yeah but normally you're gonna see my audio move

01:41:28.060 no that just means it's live like usually it's going to be right under my thing

01:41:37.320 on twitter okay reconnect

01:41:44.800 let's see you cannot reconnect this space because you're already in the space it's not letting me

01:41:56.520 do you have another oh i have an audacity clips one so i can see on here

01:42:00.440 okay let me go to my account start listening

01:42:06.180 um got it blah blah blah I'm gonna take this off just to see yeah there's nothing on here

01:42:20.100 I just took the audio I unplugged it to see if I could hear anything I can't I'm in another

01:42:28.740 account

01:42:29.580 just end the space

01:42:48.380 do you want to

01:42:52.200 how do you want to do it then

01:42:54.760 oh the twitter space

01:42:58.520 i don't really want to do it that way i'm just gonna end the show

01:43:03.020 um just to see if you can fix it for tomorrow um okay guys well thank you for your input on

01:43:11.960 the phases that women go through and tomorrow i think we're gonna be 0.99

01:43:20.500 you know i i'm either i'm i'm debating between like two or three topics so you guys

01:43:27.860 can tell me your favorite. I want to either do the socially awkward women. I'm getting feedback 0.99

01:43:35.560 from the men that they're finding women that haven't had sex in three years, five years,

01:43:40.640 that are just extremely socially awkward. I'm also hearing from the men that these women are lying. 1.00

01:43:48.460 Let me know which one you guys think is true. I'm thinking about doing that tomorrow.

01:43:54.320 um i'm gonna read the chat one more time if you guys want 80 bucks a year 10 bucks a month feel

01:44:01.540 free to sign up and you get you get to watch all the videos um that i have like the one i showed

01:44:06.280 you at the beginning of the show um there's plenty of sex going on comment of the year okay wait i

01:44:13.440 read that i read that no sound twitter is working fine probably you look okay um okay i think that's

01:44:21.100 pretty much it all right guys um like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel also

01:44:27.220 leave a comment i'm gonna respond today i'll be replying to all comments so i'll see you guys

01:44:31.920 tomorrow bye

Pearl - January 14, 2025

The Meaning of Modern Women's ＂FIND MYSELF＂ Phrase ｜ Pearl Daily

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