Pearl - September 24, 2024


The Modern Age of PERFORMANCE PARENTING and RELATIONSHIPS ｜ Pearl Daily


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In this episode of Pearl Daily, I cover the controversial topic of "Performative mothers" and how they have been manipulated and lied to and manipulated by the media and social media. I also talk about the pro-choice movement and how we should focus on battles we can actually win.

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00:00:00.840 Good afternoon. Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to the Audacity Network and welcome
00:00:09.600 to another episode of Pearl Daily, where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and
00:00:15.920 craziness. So today we're going to do a little different. I'm taking a little break from
00:00:22.660 the lessons that I learned in a year of shows to cover a little bit of Twitter drama and
00:00:33.220 patterns that I've noticed from interviewing a thousand people, but also watching things
00:00:39.980 go down on social media.
00:00:42.300 But before we get into today's topic, which is performative mothers, a couple announcements.
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00:01:40.900 Okay, so today's first story we're going to talk about, performative mothers we're going to talk about last.
00:01:47.860 I have a couple things I saw on Twitter I wanted to go over.
00:01:53.000 There is a problem with simping.
00:01:58.820 And I saw Charlie Kirk simping again.
00:02:03.380 A lot of these guys on X, they always find a way to blame men.
00:02:09.920 even if something is the women's fault they will always find a way to bring it back to the men
00:02:19.820 and one way I see this done commonly is through the abortion argument so as you guys know my 0.90
00:02:28.000 position on abortion is I am pro-life I think that abortion is disgusting however I do think
00:02:33.980 conservatives should focus on battles that we can actually win. Even when Roe versus Wade was
00:02:39.700 overturned, we still saw an increase in the number of abortions that they have every year. 1.00
00:02:46.240 Women are what wins elections. They're the majority of swing voters. You see the Trump 1.00
00:02:51.840 campaign not really pushing for an abortion ban. I can see why, because the way I would see it is
00:02:58.200 there's no point. You have to get the female vote and women will never vote against their biology. 1.00
00:03:03.980 And biologically, in order to survive, many women in history had to unalive their children. 1.00
00:03:14.960 I know that's not a fun reality, but, you know, there was bathhouses in Greece that had baby bones in them.
00:03:24.640 I brought a historian on the channel and he said that if women had too many children and they
00:03:31.540 couldn't basically carry them in order to survive when people were more nomadic, the kid had to go.
00:03:41.720 This wasn't something that's new and this is something that's happened in all of history.
00:03:46.020 So I saw Charlie Kirk on campus debating abortion with some college students and this is what I
00:03:52.240 always see. They always bring it back to it's the men's fault. So let me show you guys.
00:03:56.240 This is what I always see. They always bring it back to
00:04:00.240 it's the men's fault. Let me show you guys. This is me.
00:04:04.240 Okay. Also, the thing
00:04:08.240 guys, if you could bring it back up. I think I said something that triggered it.
00:04:12.240 Based on one very simple medical principle.
00:04:16.240 The lack of informed consent. Let me go back to the beginning.
00:04:22.240 my heart goes out to women that have abortions right because they're lied to 0.97
00:04:26.920 and manipulated and it's based on one very simple medical principle the lack 0.99
00:04:31.180 of informed consent okay I do not believe women largely when they get 0.98
00:04:35.680 abortions know what they're doing okay my perspective before interviewing a
00:04:43.840 thousand women and interviewing women that had had abortions was similar we
00:04:49.480 just do not know what we're doing, right? We just, if the women saw the abortion procedures,
00:04:57.920 they would completely change their mind. But after debating this topic with women, 0.96
00:05:03.520 what I found was that I could show them a video of a gruesome murder of a child. I could show them
00:05:10.420 a late-term abortion, and they would not care. They do not care at all. And when one out of
00:05:18.960 three women in this country have had an abortion, what conclusion do we have? They do not care. 0.99
00:05:29.860 Now, the other issue that we're going to get is I have seen women research plastic surgery for 1.00
00:05:39.260 days. They will fly out to other countries on the other side of the world to get procedures done 0.99
00:05:45.400 to their body, their face, and they have no problem researching those procedures. But
00:05:52.160 Charlie Kirk somehow thinks that we are not adults who can't use Google.
00:05:56.820 All right, I just want to show you guys something. So let me just, let me just, so if I Google and I
00:06:05.520 say abortion side effects, okay, watch, watch this guys, it's super. Infections, cervical
00:06:14.980 injury allergic reactions breast cancer retain blood clots in the uterus okay or so you know
00:06:22.740 this is what i call adults being able to google things yes yes we are totally capable of googling
00:06:30.940 things so what the conservatives say is whenever a woman does something wrong she didn't know so
00:06:38.140 that goes back to the plausible deniability oh they just didn't know what they were doing
00:06:43.160 no they knew exactly what they were doing and if they didn't you have no excuse when the internet
00:06:51.040 is here i i don't buy it okay so let's keep going they're not given ultrasounds for their baby
00:06:57.720 they're not informed of the gruesome and graphic details surrounding their procedure
00:07:03.080 instead okay wait let me just show you guys something that's super difficult right so
00:07:07.760 Okay, watch this. What happens when you get an abortion? Ooh. Now I know this might be tough
00:07:19.160 for the conservatives to understand that Google is an option and we are adults and we can Google
00:07:27.100 things. Medical abortions involve taking two different medications to end the pregnancy. 0.95
00:07:37.760 look at that what did i find out we're killing the kid we are you can go to you can find videos on
00:07:46.800 youtube you can't look at we find ways to research bbls we find ways to research botox
00:07:56.740 we find ways to watch youtube tutorials on how to completely transform your face you're telling me
00:08:04.360 that we could not figure out what goes on during an abortion.
00:08:12.340 I can't take this simping.
00:08:14.560 And this is the problem these days.
00:08:16.140 Guys, it's a no wonder when you see testosterone levels dropping of men declining 1% a year.
00:08:21.480 The average testosterone levels are half of what they were 50 years ago.
00:08:26.440 This is one of the foundational psychological reasons why society is crumbling and in the state it's in. 1.00
00:08:32.620 These women are getting away with literal murder 1.00
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00:09:35.460 naturally and supercharge your masculinity. Don't be a simp like Charlie Kirk, okay? Sorry, 0.74
00:09:41.740 Charlie. I like your stuff, but it's, I just, I can't take this level of simpery. I can't do it.
00:09:47.980 i just so i'm also gonna show you guys this while i i react because the the color changing is pretty
00:09:57.580 cool the justice system should be focused on the abortionists that are actually doing that
00:10:02.780 procedure does that make sense i mean i guess but the person also committing the crime like killing
00:10:08.860 her baby is you see this this is the woman so the woman the woman says you know what she actually is
00:10:16.860 committing a crime charlie like women can we do have agency and we do know what we're doing okay
00:10:24.060 wait guys this is the blue all right look at this look at this look how cool this is it matches my
00:10:30.300 shirt but she's saying charlie charlie look at we we do commit crimes yeah i mean don't you think
00:10:40.380 we should be held accountable i don't know and he's gonna say no he's gonna simp for eternity
00:10:48.540 because this is always what this is the difference so the liberal 0.52
00:10:53.500 the liberals want women to have all of the freedom right the conservatives still take 0.60
00:11:01.100 away the responsibility from women they still do it that's why i say the right and the left
00:11:05.420 they do the same thing the left is just open about it they're open misandrist and they're open about
00:11:11.180 it but here i mean this is still him he's gonna bring it back to what about the men though what
00:11:17.740 about the men it's always the men i don't know charlie one out of three i mean i've seen women
00:11:26.380 go on tick tock and upload their abortions like upload them you don't think
00:11:31.740 they might know what they're doing you don't think i mean she made a whole take okay like 0.99
00:11:41.340 should also be held responsible like how can we ban abortions and the mom just still be let go
00:11:48.700 yeah we're just not going to agree i just don't she first of all she's not doing the act
00:11:52.940 many times she's being forced into that situation okay so i'm just going to show you guys an example
00:11:58.460 of one woman that i found talking about how oh you know what actually i'm gonna let him talk a 0.95
00:12:04.780 little more i'm gonna let him go by someone paying for that abortion such as a uh someone that she
00:12:10.220 might have had a relationship with or even in terrible um pimps also do it as well but we're
00:12:16.140 not going to agree because i think our posture on abortion should be compassion for the women
00:12:20.140 that have abortions and get abortions and justice for the industry that lies to them 0.98
00:12:24.780 s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping please god please okay i'm just going to show you guys an example
00:12:35.580 i found online of a woman talking about how just you know i mean distraught i mean she was just
00:12:43.500 coerced and it was just the and and did you see what he did there
00:12:49.380 Oh, it's the men who want the women to get abortions.
00:12:54.820 And this is how you can tell that they haven't spent a lot of time in the trenches interviewing
00:12:59.640 people and talking to people.
00:13:02.700 The people that I know personally, the women that I know personally, that have gotten abortions
00:13:10.340 usually are from boyfriends and men that would have stuck around. 0.52
00:13:15.700 women tend to abort their boyfriend's kid more than they do a one night stand because 0.94
00:13:22.620 it goes back to women are trying to get the highest status guy they can they're trying to 0.96
00:13:27.600 pass on his genes and many of those guys don't commit I mean is it a coincidence that the NBA
00:13:38.600 players who let's let's be honest I don't think a ton of them are screaming husband material
00:13:43.640 none of the women that they get pregnant seem to want to abort those kids that's a 0.75
00:13:48.560 that's a major coincidence right
00:13:51.100 but you see men crying outside abortion clinics about like begging women not to get abortions
00:14:01.720 so which is it right now let me show you this woman she was coerced i bet just she was coerced
00:14:09.020 into the abortion, I'm sure. I mean, does that look like a woman who doesn't know what she's 1.00
00:14:26.920 doing? Does that, I mean, she must've just been coerced. I mean, it's coercion. Am I right? 1.00
00:14:36.180 and the reason i point this out because every time we give one gender the get out of jail 0.64
00:14:45.940 free card where we say hey they don't know what they're doing it's why you see these numbers go
00:14:53.400 up every year it's why we keep getting away with stuff it's because the simps come in and they say
00:15:00.540 oh, they don't know what they're doing. Okay. All right. So that's the first part.
00:15:08.940 I wanted to go over a couple things I saw on Twitter today. The second thing I saw on Twitter
00:15:13.220 is Lizzo is losing weight. Guys, look, we just have to talk about this because
00:15:21.020 I did so many shows where we would argue about if Lizzo was overweight. And all the shows,
00:15:27.820 the women would tell me, she's not fat, she's thick. Truly. I mean, this is, this is thick 1.00
00:15:39.360 nowadays. If this is thick, then I must be anorexic because that would frustrate me a lot.
00:15:47.880 And now even Lizzo is admitting that she does not like or want to be fat. Now, is this probably
00:15:53.740 Ozempic? Is it pretty convenient that the year Ozempic becomes popular all these celebrities
00:16:02.500 start losing weight? But in her case Ozempic might save her life. This is probably someone 0.99
00:16:09.400 I know it's better to do it the natural way but some people are so obese that it might save their
00:16:16.160 life. So I'm actually not against Ozempic for very obese people because time's a-ticking. You
00:16:24.640 don't know when they're going to have a heart attack. If that's the only thing that fixes them,
00:16:29.300 yeah, I mean, good, good for her. So good job, Lizzo. Good job, Lizzo, because
00:16:35.540 I am very excited to never have to argue with someone again if Lizzo's overweight. So please
00:16:42.900 keep going. Do it for me, Chica. Help a woman out. Okay. The next story that I saw on X was a 0.97
00:16:51.880 woman who basically exemplified something that I've noticed. So another way that I have noticed
00:17:00.440 that women in relationships take credit for the men's success. And there are phrases that we say
00:17:05.520 often that somehow give us the credit, even though we did nothing. So behind every great man is a
00:17:12.580 great woman. We say that as if Bill Gates' wife built Microsoft and worked 80 hours a week and 0.91
00:17:19.420 did the thing, right? There's nothing wrong with being supportive. In fact, we want to be supportive,
00:17:24.920 but to act like the level of competence it takes to run a huge company and vent things,
00:17:32.540 in this case that we're going to go over, make it to the NBA, so many times we feel entitled that if
00:17:39.880 we're with a guy during the years he is building himself up or becoming a man that we are entitled
00:17:46.500 to his future and it doesn't work like that the same way men that are with us um when we have
00:17:54.240 nothing or if we're overweight are not entitled to be with us if we lose weight or if we uh I've
00:18:00.780 seen women leave men when they get famous right I've seen women leave men when they get in really
00:18:05.600 good shape. Or I've seen women leave men if they go viral for being really attractive and they get 0.51
00:18:11.200 better options. The same way that women, we do that. Men, they are entitled to, if they want to, 0.99
00:18:20.420 if they become rich, successful, and famous to leaving us too. You're not entitled to anyone's
00:18:26.480 time. You're not entitled to the future. And just because you're with a guy when he has nothing,
00:18:31.860 It does not mean it will work out. And what I see on social media and media in general is people
00:18:38.060 are trying to, they want to get a good outcome. And what they want is here are the step-by-step
00:18:46.360 instructions in order to get the outcome that you want. But life doesn't really work like that.
00:18:52.860 You're not entitled to anything. And just because you do the right thing, it doesn't mean you'll
00:18:56.980 have the right outcome. Sometimes bad things happen to good people, right? That's just life.
00:19:05.420 And so a lot of times what I see is women, if they get dumped and a guy goes on to do bigger 1.00
00:19:10.060 and better things, or even if they break up with him, they get entitled to his future.
00:19:19.980 um and so this woman i saw her on x so it said scotty barnes played high school
00:19:26.740 at motorvade academy and literally six months of college basketball at florida state
00:19:32.380 before he got drafted what was she holding down so this is always what i hear was i held him down
00:19:39.960 yeah what what does that mean ladies i think we'll one of these days i'm going to do a call-in show
00:19:46.600 and ask what does it mean to be holding it down I don't know did you if he went to the NBA did
00:19:53.180 you shoot the free throws did you do that did you spend hours in the gym no were you just like
00:20:00.460 there was is that building a man up being there I mean maybe I'm not saying you were a bad
00:20:06.160 girlfriend maybe you cooked maybe you cleaned maybe you maybe you did the things you were
00:20:10.420 supposed to do, but I don't know. What's harder, being a good girlfriend or making it to the NBA?
00:20:19.600 I don't know. I don't know. One seems a little more simple. And this is the thing. Life is about
00:20:26.040 choices and trade-offs, right? So if we go after a guy that's the top 10%, or in that case, it's
00:20:32.420 like 1% of men how can we be surprised if they have the option to trade up and you're not entitled
00:20:44.600 to him not doing that just because you did the right thing anyways so I guess she is salty so
00:20:50.040 she's as we do many times we run to social media when things don't go our way in order to get
00:20:55.980 sympathy and play the victim card and then you get more power and sympathy and attention from
00:21:00.340 playing the victim card so i've seen this let's put a finger down if you were dating your high
00:21:07.120 school sweetheart for almost six years you're holding it down for him while he's trying to
00:21:10.740 make it to the nba he makes it to the nba so you move to another country to be there with him to
00:21:15.140 support him all while studying for your master's one day out of the blue he breaks up with you
00:21:19.540 and then months later he gets a white girl pregnant just me okay let's play a game okay yeah so
00:21:28.040 again, this is what we call entitlement. She felt entitled to carry his kid.
00:21:35.460 She felt entitled to be a mother to his kid, just because she was there when he was young.
00:21:42.740 And that's life. Sometimes you take L's. And what I would encourage is taking an L gracefully. Now, 0.97
00:21:51.180 at times, you know, I, it's much better to just eat it and take it than do this kind of stuff.
00:22:03.100 Um, yeah, that's, that's my two cents. Okay. So next story today.
00:22:13.260 Um, okay. Before we get to the topic and then I will get to the topic, let me check the chat
00:22:20.300 really quick yeah holding it down is beyond my understanding yeah I was just wondering what
00:22:27.480 I mean what did you cook did you clean I mean is it that hard I mean don't you have to do that for
00:22:34.800 yourself anyway and I'm not what I'm not saying is trying to downplay the role of a wife and
00:22:42.660 mother, right? It's a very selfless job. But again, what's more difficult to do? Would you,
00:22:53.500 would you guys say, I mean, hold it down for a multi-millionaire guy
00:22:59.060 or make it to the NBA? Which one, which one has more difficult? I don't know.
00:23:12.660 yeah and yeah women literally have phrases for starter husbands 0.91
00:23:23.700 but when the men do what we do we get mad I mean that's you know that is what it is that's life
00:23:31.420 okay so the next story I saw I'm actually going to dip a little bit into politics today
00:23:37.500 I was shocked that I agreed with a story from Kamala Harris. Yes, or I agreed with a policy
00:23:48.060 that Kamala Harris was pushing. So as you guys know, I don't specifically cover politics on
00:23:54.040 this channel, but sometimes I dip into it a little bit. And I was just shocked that I saw a Kamala
00:24:02.240 video of her saying something that i agreed with and i want to tell you guys why understand though
00:24:09.360 it's okay do you think that sex work ought to be decriminalized i think so i do i think that we have
00:24:18.160 to understand though that it is not as simple as that but when you're talking about consenting
00:24:23.600 adults i think that you know yes we should really consider that we can't criminalize consensual
00:24:29.760 behavior do you think that sex work yeah so the reason that i think that sex work it should be
00:24:38.220 decriminalized is not because i think it is a good thing it is not because i wish it to be common
00:24:46.460 but after interviewing a thousand women it's already out in the open anyways only fans i would
00:24:53.940 argue that one out of five attractive women under the age of 35, if not higher, are in some form of 1.00
00:25:00.280 sex work, sugar babying. How many Instagram influencers get caught getting flown out to Dubai
00:25:06.620 and getting paid absurd amounts of money to do some sort of sexual favor? I don't think this is
00:25:13.260 good. But I think that when you give women the freedom to do anything, which we have the last 1.00
00:25:20.440 hundred years, a higher percentage than you would think are going to pick sex work. I know you guys
00:25:27.840 are thinking, um, why would they do that when the average only fans person makes like $500 a month,
00:25:35.440 I think less like two 50. I don't know guys. Um, it's not really about the sex work. What I found
00:25:43.580 is that it's not about the money, but it's about, they enjoy being desired and knowing that men will
00:25:49.540 pay money for them makes them feel really good and they love getting naked on camera and some 0.60
00:25:54.760 women love getting paid to have sex um and i don't really think we should be wasting police tax
00:26:03.200 dollars to start it we got bigger fish to fry so um and i what i wouldn't want is it to be out in 0.98
00:26:13.040 the open i think there's got to be laws that they limit like where it can be done um because i 0.93
00:26:18.560 wouldn't want to have children where they can just see like an Amsterdam where the women are 1.00
00:26:23.560 just in the windows. I would never want to live somewhere like that. Um, but it's, it's already 1.00
00:26:31.520 here. I don't see the point of wasting tax dollars trying to, okay. That would be my opinion on it.
00:26:42.020 Okay. So, I got into some trouble this weekend. I pissed off an account.
00:26:55.080 One second. Also, guys, please like the video. There's over five. There's 664 of you watching.
00:27:03.260 um don't I mean if you guys can't get the membership okay like the video do do a woman
00:27:13.020 a solid you know help help me out well I mean a like is free just hit the like button just do me
00:27:20.800 a favor it's like they said are you kidding sex work should be illegal I mean what are you guys
00:27:27.680 gonna do are you guys okay let me get this straight let's let's let's make sex work illegal
00:27:32.720 okay let's make it all illegal let's ban it and I've been down this path okay I want to say I'm
00:27:37.740 not judging you for having these thoughts some of this stuff I said to at one point but the problem
00:27:45.360 is you got to think through some of these things so right now the the numbers say that crime is
00:27:52.960 down in this country but anecdotally I don't really believe that um I know more people that
00:27:59.840 have gotten robbed the past couple of years. We've had issues with immigration and the crime
00:28:07.420 that brings in. Every other day I see something crazy going on on social media in terms of a 1.00
00:28:13.420 clip of someone being attacked in public, robbed in public, etc. The other issue is because of the
00:28:25.160 Black Lives Matter stuff. We have a decrease in men that are going into the police force
00:28:29.860 and what they can do. So there's a limit on that because they don't want to be called racist. They
00:28:34.940 don't want to be in that sort of position. And we're saying let's wait. Let's have them spend
00:28:45.640 their time chasing down two adults, making a transaction sexually. You might say that's 1.00
00:28:54.580 immoral? I would agree, right? But you guys think you're going to stop the world's oldest profession.
00:29:09.660 The world's oldest, like literally the oldest profession in all of history. You think
00:29:17.300 that we're just going to make a dent in it. We're going to stop it. Should we put police in hotels?
00:29:24.580 are we going to put police on on tinder should we should we have them spend their days 0.99
00:29:31.420 looking through tinder profiles and seeing the women that charge for a night
00:29:37.180 i personally think they have better things to do i think we got bigger fit the same thing with the 0.81
00:29:49.240 abortion, guys. I think it's wrong, but I'm trying to be pragmatic here and think about
00:29:55.500 what can we actually accomplish and what is realistic. With the amount of sex workers that
00:30:02.200 I have spoken to, I don't see them going anywhere. Okay. Farming is the oldest profession. Okay. But
00:30:10.960 I guarantee I guarantee sex work was right right after okay so you know they said the
00:30:20.980 cops will start getting their whistles okay anyway so that's how I see it I I understand
00:30:32.680 I completely understand why people want it to be banned I just am trying to be realistic so
00:30:39.820 this weekend on X, I got into some trouble. And I think a lot of times when I make these
00:30:48.740 analyses or like I point out a pattern of behavior, people think I want relationships
00:30:58.120 to fail. People think that I want marriage to disappear. But the funny thing happens when you
00:31:10.200 interview a thousand people, you notice patterns of behavior. And so what happens is you start to
00:31:16.280 watch social media posts over time. And you look for certain patterns that predict that they will
00:31:24.740 breakup. So I saw this video on Twitter and I have to do screenshots. I think I got blocked or
00:31:33.080 she made it private or something. But yeah, why? Yeah, I can't see it. So I said there was a
00:31:45.580 picture of a girl getting engaged and I need to find it. Okay, this one. I'm going to zoom in
00:31:56.440 because I got, everyone was triggered and can they see this? The girl getting engaged on the,
00:32:03.980 yeah, okay. So she posted this picture of her getting engaged and it was getting engaged is
00:32:09.860 amazing and whatever. And what I've noticed over time is people kind of tell on themselves in their
00:32:18.080 posts. So I said pictured ring, not pictured husband. And what I've noticed is when the
00:32:26.000 center of a post is about me, me, me, they tend to break up or get divorced. So if there's 10
00:32:32.640 pictures of the ring or the wedding, they tend to get divorced more. And then there's one picture
00:32:41.940 of the husband. And so what happens is I reveal something in these posts because I reveal
00:32:48.640 what the true intent of the post is. And the post is, look how much the ring costs. I am awesome.
00:32:59.180 and it's not celebrating being with him it's celebrating the wedding and the ring and
00:33:09.260 another thing you can what reveals is people's reaction to this because all I look at is I'm
00:33:20.340 pointing out a pattern of behavior right and if they get mad and angry generally what I found is
00:33:28.860 the shoe tends to fit. Because a normal reaction would be, oh, that's weird. This is my husband.
00:33:35.800 Here you go. An abnormal reaction would be, why are you such an asshole? She gets engaged, 1.00
00:33:42.380 posts several photos with her new fiance. You choose the one photo taken to specifically show
00:33:47.720 off the ring he proudly chose for her and made an issue. By the way, where's your fiance? So she's
00:33:52.840 getting mad, right? And number one, they lied because she only, she posted the fiance after I
00:34:00.580 said this and then before, and these, these are the receipts, you know, but, and I don't care about
00:34:08.040 that. But what you start to notice is everything is a performance and how many women make real 0.99
00:34:17.220 life decisions based on social media and their social media is a shrine to them. 0.93
00:34:26.360 Now, what are you talking about, Pearl? You're crazy. You nutty woman. So then apparently I 1.00
00:34:31.300 pissed off this. I didn't mean to piss off the pro-white accounts on Twitter. There was this
00:34:38.000 Twitter post and I didn't know this account was a pro-white account, but I just saw it in my
00:34:45.080 timeline, right? And I post, uh, wait, let me find it. One second, guys. Um, oh.
00:34:54.980 okay here we go so what did I say that pissed this oh I know why I can't pull this up
00:35:23.520 Let me look it up. I got blocked by this account, too. Can you believe it? Can you believe it? I was like, all I'm doing, all I'm doing is pointing out patterns, guys. I was like, why are you guys getting so mad? I didn't say bad people. I didn't say, you know, they just get angry. I don't know.
00:35:42.140 um okay so I said oh my gosh they blocked me okay so I'm gonna read what I said and then I'll find
00:35:52.340 the picture because I'm having trouble getting both so what you can tell in a picture is when
00:35:57.540 a family tends to be more in order and these families tend to last longer the center of
00:36:04.300 attention is the man in the picture because the natural order of things traditionally is going to
00:36:10.620 be God, men, women, children, right? And women that are raised to be wives, which is pretty
00:36:18.040 rare nowadays, they know they're supposed to bring attention to the men and not try 0.99
00:36:21.640 to bring attention to themselves. And so I asked the question, who is the center of attention
00:36:27.260 in this picture? And apparently they were saying, I hate white people because I asked 0.97
00:36:33.000 this question. So this is the picture. And is the center of attention him, or is it my children, 0.99
00:36:41.780 my baby? And the reason I point this out is because many men are used as sperm donors.
00:36:49.940 The women don't want their babies, they want a baby. And you can see it, and they don't.
00:36:56.500 It's the same thing what I was telling you guys with the timeline. It's all about what the woman 0.96
00:37:00.800 wants and bringing attention to the woman and they end up making these accounts and these
00:37:05.840 accounts are just dedicated to saying I am awesome live like me and using their kids for clout and 0.98
00:37:13.960 attention and apparently this pissed off where's the last one let me go to my account because
00:37:24.400 I think sorry guys I thought I had these links up but I guess I did not
00:37:31.840 and and so what you get you get performative mothers and I've seen a couple of these growing
00:37:40.020 up where every single thing the family does is on Facebook it's on social media and it's one
00:37:49.280 thing when the kids like when everyone's an adult or at least the kids can be on social media so 13
00:37:55.580 14 but when you have kids that are five six seven years old and you're you're trading you're saying
00:38:03.440 you know what I know there's I know there's pedophiles on this app I know that there's
00:38:09.320 creepy people I know there's all these creeps on this app of Twitter I know there's literal
00:38:15.380 corn on this app but do you know what's more important attention attention and so what they
00:38:24.780 do is they use these kids for likes clicks and attention and the kids can't really consent to
00:38:31.600 it they're kids um and it's just really it's really obvious right what they're trying to do
00:38:40.600 um and i'm waiting for the first lawsuit of a kid whose whole life was plastered on social media
00:38:52.340 without their consent um because i i see that coming in the future
00:39:01.500 um and some of the performative mothers they may cover their children's faces right
00:39:10.020 but they still put all of their animate family details on social media and what it tends to
00:39:18.280 signal is the men have a lack of frame because who lets their wife use their 10-month-old baby
00:39:30.380 for clout? Is that a guy that has boundaries and standards or is that a guy that lets his wife do
00:39:36.700 whatever she wants at the expense of their kid's privacy. Because kids are innocent, they don't 0.65
00:39:46.480 ask to be used for their mother's social media career. So there was a woman I found on TikTok
00:39:55.980 and i just could not believe so all of you crazy pro-white account race mixer people 0.98
00:40:08.600 were trying to say it was because the the couples were white and i'm like you guys are so crazy i'm 0.98
00:40:17.020 gonna show you a mixed couple who's doing the same crazy stuff look at so this woman has a 0.58
00:40:22.140 whole TikTok account. It's got 3.2 million followers. And it's putting all of the intimate 1.00
00:40:29.120 details of their family online. Let me find. I've seen this couple do.
00:40:45.160 Okay.
00:40:45.840 That you would be a hedge of protection over them, that nothing formed against them would
00:40:49.780 prosper, God. I pray that you would lock these doors with your strongest angels. Nothing would
00:40:54.920 come inside that is not safe, God. I pray for protection and peace and wisdom for all the
00:41:00.260 teachers in that school, God. And I'm just explaining, a lot of the UTRADCon women on 1.00
00:41:05.300 Twitter, this is how you look with your kids. I mean, does this look like a genuine prayer or does
00:41:11.460 this look like a performance? That you would arm them with everything they need to keep these
00:41:16.100 babies thriving and safe that you would be a hedge of protection over them that nothing formed
00:41:21.620 against them would prosper god i pray that you would love then you get
00:41:25.700 so this is you know you're you're you're trading privacy family privacy right for money and these
00:41:44.980 kids, you know, I got a lot of pushback on this because, you know, there's, it's one thing to have
00:41:52.480 like a family photo once a year. And it's another thing to put the most intimate details of these
00:42:00.620 kids growing up on the internet. Hold on. You can give her apple if she tells the truth. I'm
00:42:10.700 I'm gonna ask you one more time, sit up, please.
00:42:13.940 Did Zuri say that?
00:42:15.100 Is that a truth or a lie?
00:42:17.380 A lie.
00:42:18.220 Okay, and because you told the truth,
00:42:19.700 you can have an apple, because look at me.
00:42:21.500 As long as you tell the truth,
00:42:23.100 you're not gonna get in trouble.
00:42:25.520 It's when you lie that you're gonna get in trouble,
00:42:27.300 but as long as you tell the truth, mommy.
00:42:30.500 So what if she lied?
00:42:31.620 Is that going on the internet?
00:42:33.380 Is this appropriate?
00:42:37.720 Is this something? 0.78
00:42:40.700 Remember, pedophiles on this app. 0.97
00:42:44.620 Remember, creeps, people that kidnap children.
00:42:54.060 But let's just tell all the intimate details of,
00:42:59.080 and, you know, that's why you see a lot of these parenting channels in five years.
00:43:04.960 All of this messed up stuff comes out about them.
00:43:08.180 and they just go crazy
00:43:10.800 look at this
00:43:11.680 so I just woke up to the news about the Georgia
00:43:16.340 mass school shooting
00:43:17.780 oh my gosh she's not
00:43:19.820 and I like
00:43:20.440 feel like I'm gutted
00:43:22.440 how do we
00:43:24.420 so how do we need to all 0.83
00:43:27.200 homeschool our children to keep them
00:43:29.280 safe and she's crying online 1.00
00:43:31.040 bitch 1.00
00:43:32.920 I'm sorry 1.00
00:43:35.200 I need to I'm working on my swearing
00:43:37.460 but
00:43:37.840 But lady, you just put, okay, let me get this straight.
00:43:44.420 So your concern, your concern is a school shooting,
00:43:47.240 sending your kids to school and there being a school shooting.
00:43:53.500 While putting all the intimate details of your kids' lives,
00:44:00.760 like your baby children's lives on the internet.
00:44:04.980 wow what a time what a time to be alive okay so I wrote down some patterns that I see
00:44:18.300 from social media performative mothers their social media posts revolve around the ring
00:44:25.100 what their man does for them and um what he provides for them it's never about him so it's
00:44:34.460 never about how awesome he is. It's look at me. Look how awesome I am. Look at all the awesome
00:44:40.080 things I do for my husband. I am awesome. Or it's look at all the things he buys for me.
00:44:47.120 Look at all the things he does for me. It's never look at how awesome he is. Second thing,
00:44:53.500 the social media mothers, as I said, the kids lose a sense of privacy. There are pedophiles
00:45:01.180 on this app and these women do not care because attention is the currency um there is a difference 1.00
00:45:10.220 between a family picture once a year and putting all the intimate details about their kids underage
00:45:17.800 children's day-to-day life um everything is a show for the performative mother many times they have
00:45:27.700 different personalities on and off camera, but you can see their true self by how they react when
00:45:34.340 they are offended. As people, we all get offended, but what you can see, their true nature and how
00:45:40.040 they react. For example, there was a 37-year-old woman who was offended that I said younger women
00:45:46.640 were hotter than older women, and she revealed her true nature because she just tweeted at me 1.00
00:45:53.040 her selfies to prove that she was hotter than me. That's not a normal reaction and to me would 1.00
00:45:57.860 signal some sort of mental illness. For the social media performative mother, usually it is a shrine
00:46:06.020 dedicated to themselves showing how good of people they are and genuinely it's a virtue signal to say 0.81
00:46:13.540 we are better than you and generally this signals some sort of narcissism in the woman. So oftentimes 0.89
00:46:20.140 times they will say, you know, this is kind of where you get the women that
00:46:26.040 got married two seconds ago and they start lecturing everyone the next day. And what you
00:46:33.060 see with them is they tend to get divorced in about five to seven years. And yeah, that's what
00:46:40.700 I see with the performative mother. So that's all I got for you guys today. Guys, please go to the
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