Pearl - The Modern Woman LifeCycle

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of

00:00:14.500 pearl daily here on the audacity network today we are going to be talking about the modern

00:00:20.100 woman life cycle. So many times we talk about the life cycle of careers. We talk about the

00:00:34.760 life cycle of, you know, a trend. But today we're going to talk about the life cycle of

00:00:45.420 modern women. But before we start, please make sure you like the video on your way in and

00:00:51.320 subscribe to the channel. So the other day I was thinking, if I had a step-by-step,

00:01:02.180 sorry, the other day I was thinking. So as you guys know, I moved from America to England and

00:01:10.500 interviewed a thousand women on dating marriage and relationships and during this time you noticed

00:01:16.500 a lot of patterns so for example um there were different archetypes of women that even though

00:01:22.420 they were in different um different women they would maybe have the same patterns of behavior

00:01:28.500 and i decided to take you guys's collective experiences and mine and put together a modern

00:01:35.940 woman life cycle so the first thing we have is to go to some high priced institution to

00:01:47.440 get a degree no one cares about to put themselves into debt barely learn anything except how

00:01:54.860 to use men for things now a lot of times on this show I get the pearl you don't know what

00:02:01.180 you're talking about pearl you're just making this stuff up

00:02:05.940 Well, let's look at the stats, 64% of student loan debt is owned by women.

00:02:14.180 Women attending four-year institutions have an average of $29,611 in student debt while

00:02:22.320 those attending for-profit four-year institutions have an average of $42,778 in debt.

00:02:31.300 average student loan debt payment is $307. The average student loan debt for graduate school,

00:02:40.100 if the woman continues her education, is $94,141. So if you go on a date with a woman who has a

00:02:47.960 master's degree, she probably has about 100K in debt on average, meaning half of women have more

00:02:55.000 Never a debt than that.

00:02:56.860 The most common graduate degrees for women is business administration, education, social

00:03:03.220 work, elementary education, curriculum and instruction, educational leadership and administration,

00:03:11.400 special ed, counselor education, nursing school, and reading teacher education.

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00:05:08.460 Okay, so the first thing we do is go to a high-priced institution, get a degree no one

00:05:15.800 cares about to put us into debt.

00:05:18.160 Now the reason for getting this degree is not to learn.

00:05:21.860 as IQ has been dropping for years, and the people coming out of institutions have not been smarter.

00:05:30.900 On top of this, at the schools, what we sign up for is propaganda and brainwashing.

00:05:36.600 I don't even like the word brainwashing because it takes accountability from our choices that we make in life.

00:05:44.660 However, they do rewrite history literally at these institutions and tell you that you're an oppressed victim,

00:05:51.860 and life is just really, really hard. And so obviously, you've got to go out and crush the

00:05:59.020 patriarchy. And so you need to go out and get a job. Now, there's two different types of jobs

00:06:05.320 that you can go out and do. Number one is a salaried career, and number two is an hourly

00:06:12.440 career. Now, the first part we are going to talk about is the salaried employees.

00:06:17.320 43% of women will experience burnout at some point in their careers they usually experience

00:06:25.160 burnout between 25 and 34 so you know we go out and we crush the patriarchy and we think

00:06:32.320 this is kind of hard the men you know they have to work till they're dead but we we go out and

00:06:38.120 say we are burnt out between 25 and 34 the average salary for a woman in her 20s is 34,424

00:06:46.240 dollars the average salary between 35 and 44 is 67 652 dollars and the average salary of a 45 to

00:06:56.580 55 year old woman is 69 628 dollars now we do go out and do this you know um however we do have a

00:07:11.480 plethora of women quitting their jobs to be influencers. Now, I mean, look it, I understand

00:07:19.460 I quit my job to start a talk show too. I did. I was a part of this life cycle.

00:07:24.620 But you know, when you're in this industry, you do see how competitive it is. You know,

00:07:29.480 there are 10 women trying to take my spot daily. There is no greater job. I always say this. There's

00:07:37.620 no greater job than having a talk show i'm lucky i thank god every day i get to do this however

00:07:44.100 most women do not are not successful and if they are successful it's not for a very long period of

00:07:48.900 time so the average salary if she's an hourly employee in the united states what do you guys

00:07:54.980 What do you guys think it is?

00:07:55.980 What do you guys put in the chat what you think it is?

00:08:01.980 $15.47 an hour.

00:08:11.560 On top of that, at school, you know, there is a lot of discrepancy in what the average

00:08:19.480 woman's body count is.

00:08:23.800 many bodies do you think women get a semester because according to studies women are not able

00:08:31.400 to stay with men long term if they sleep with more than five so on top of feminist propaganda

00:08:37.400 a bunch of debt and indoctrination we also get the inability to bond for life

00:08:47.240 ladies we're going out and crushing this patriarchy what do you guys think in the chat

00:08:53.320 how many bodies a semester what do you think is the average mouse stop working plug this in

00:09:06.040 now examples of degrees that are common with a low roi that women get

00:09:13.240 is a degree from the university of southern california's usc online master of social

00:09:18.920 work program. It costs $111,000 plus fees, and the average pay of a social worker is $67,000.

00:09:32.280 Now, the average body count a semester, we have five, 15, six, nine, seven, who knows?

00:09:42.040 There's a lot of discrepancies. Six. Okay, let's go with the most common. Everyone's saying around

00:09:47.800 five a semester. That's the lowest number I got. Let's say it's five. Let's say she goes for four

00:09:54.280 years, 10, 20, 30, 40 by the end of college. Let's say two years she gets into a relationship. That's

00:10:05.240 still 11. A semester is six months. Next get a stressful job that does not care about them

00:10:19.960 and in reality the job is not hard or stressful however women do complain about it.

00:10:28.120 it's not like we're the ones digging the ditches building the buildings deep sea fishing in the sea

00:10:40.000 but we do complain them but when you guys think about who is striking

00:10:44.980 I can almost guarantee it's not the men killing themselves to get us oysters in Alaska but rather

00:10:53.080 the teachers that get three months off of the year and off at three o'clock.

00:11:00.160 Now, the top 10 jobs that women have, the top 10 female-dominated careers, you know,

00:11:08.100 because we got to go out and crush the patriarchy. One, a skincare specialist, 99% female. Pre-K and

00:11:16.080 Kindergarten teachers, 96% female, making $37,000 a year.

00:11:22.680 Skin care specialists make $43,200 a year.

00:11:28.060 Legal, medical, executive secretaries and administrative assistants

00:11:33.040 make between $40,000 on the low end of those jobs and $60,000 a year.

00:11:44.100 Dental hygienists make $87,000 a year.

00:11:48.760 Speech language pathologists, about $90,000 a year.

00:11:53.000 Child care workers, $30,000 a year.

00:11:55.520 Dental assistants, $46,540 a year.

00:12:00.960 Hairdressers, 92% women, make $35,080 a year.

00:12:08.860 Billing and postal clerks make $45,590 a year.

00:12:17.180 Plethebotomists, what the heck is that?

00:12:20.100 I don't even know what that is.

00:12:21.200 $41,810 a year.

00:12:25.640 So again, on average, the ladies have,

00:12:30.960 are making average salaries with an average,

00:12:38.060 with an average of $30,000 in student debt if they went to a public university, $42,000 for private.

00:12:49.740 Now, obviously, once you get that debt, you might think, maybe I should live a frugal lifestyle.

00:13:02.100 You know, so the ladies, they get out of school, they get the average paying job, and we think,

00:13:06.200 I could, A, live with a bunch of roommates, live outside of the city, never eat out,

00:13:15.540 really only eat in, only do fun things that are free, no concerts, don't travel,

00:13:21.660 you know, live a very frugal lifestyle to pay this off. Or

00:13:26.780 Or, I could ignore the debt, buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car.

00:13:40.740 And unfortunately, us ladies pick option two, which is buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car.

00:13:55.000 What percent of solo travelers do you guys think are women?

00:14:01.420 85% of solo travelers are women.

00:14:08.240 What do you think the average car payment is for a car?

00:14:17.680 It's $737.

00:14:21.180 So on top of the student loans, got to get a new car.

00:14:25.000 Then wake up at between 33 to 37 years old and rush to get a husband, kids or both.

00:14:36.720 The fastest growing group of single mothers is between the ages of 33 to 37.

00:14:43.440 Only 2% of births come from insemination and 2% come from IVF.

00:14:48.100 So where are us ladies getting these kids from?

00:14:55.000 the first man available. It could be an irresponsible Pookie or Ray Ray

00:15:01.120 or a desperate guy that is just looking for anything. Some pull it off with a buzzer beater

00:15:10.460 baby and husband, which is to marry a naive or desperate guy with no options

00:15:15.740 or get pregnant by a loser that doesn't want to be a dad you know a lot of us

00:15:25.020 us ladies want an invested father but only some of us can get it

00:15:30.320 unfortunately hit that like button guys hit that like button

00:15:35.900 the next thing of the modern woman life cycle

00:15:41.040 is start antidepressants so by the time we hit 40 life has kind of hit us in the face we have a ton

00:15:49.700 of debt we might have pookie or ray ray's kids or a schlubby husband that we don't really like

00:15:57.960 and we resent because you know settling um

00:16:02.340 So obviously we need drugs to help deal with this predicament and that's when we start

00:16:14.280 antidepressants. 24% of women between the ages of 40 to 59 take an antidepressant.

00:16:24.260 Not to mention the wine addiction to help us cope with life.

00:16:29.100 now some modern women do love their children

00:16:34.460 unless the kids love the dad too much

00:16:41.080 many women will hate the child because the child reminds them that they had to settle

00:16:49.500 or of the dad that just wouldn't stick around

00:16:54.800 they also resent the father because they didn't want to be with him to begin with

00:17:02.900 and last but not least buy a dog or a cat 60 of pet owners are female women get a dog

00:17:15.420 and 50% of pet product buyers were between 25 and 44 so it's mostly millennial women

00:17:26.060 now I want to know today I'm going to do a call-in show so I am going to put a link in the chat

00:17:33.940 really quick and I want to know how accurate is this model and did I leave anything out

00:17:41.500 and what events can you think of that started the whole thing?

00:17:45.920 So I'm going to go through it one more time.

00:17:48.500 The modern woman life cycle.

00:17:50.380 Number one, go into some high-priced institution to get a degree

00:17:55.100 that no one cares about to put themselves into debt.

00:17:58.980 Barely learn anything except how to use men for things.

00:18:01.960 Number two, get a job that is too stressful and does not care about them.

00:18:06.960 in reality the job is not hard or stressful but women will convince themselves that it is

00:18:13.840 three ignore the student debt buy a house travel and get a luxury car

00:18:18.440 wake up at 33 to 37 and rush to get a kid a kid a husband or both hit late 30s and early 40s and

00:18:29.060 try to get pregnant by a loser or choose IVF seven start antidepressants at 40 eight maybe love the

00:18:38.860 child but hate him for having to settle but hate the husband for having to settle nine buy a dog

00:18:45.580 or a cat so I'm gonna put this in the chat and I want to hear from people am I wrong

00:18:55.320 what did I miss let me join the zoom link also I have a couple announcements that I'm going to do

00:19:06.020 while I'm waiting for people to join the zoom and the first announcement is that guys we are trying

00:19:13.660 to get 3,500 members on the channel unfortunately these ladies get real mad at me they get real mad

00:19:21.040 they flag my videos. They get me demonetized on YouTube. They are very good at reputation

00:19:27.400 destruction and trying to ruin your life. And they try to do that to me every day, including

00:19:31.940 doxing my family. They do that all the time. Making up lies about me. And so I ask if you

00:19:41.200 can go to the audacity network.com and um go to the audacity network oh no go go to the audacity

00:19:56.980 you know to the audacity no to the audacity no to the audacity no to the audacity no to the audacity

00:20:00.760 no to the audacity no to the audacity okay gotta leave that meeting all right um producer I gotta

00:20:11.480 if you're watching it's echoing in my ear I gotta I gotta I don't know how to fix it but if you could

00:20:16.840 message me how to fix it anyways they do try to ruin your life they make hit pieces they do all

00:20:24.660 this crazy and whatever it's fine i'm on the internet but as a thank you as a thank you could

00:20:29.120 you guys please go to the audacity network.com um and you get access to all the shows these ladies

00:20:35.860 flagged all my videos i had to delete three years worth of work imagine working for three years you're

00:20:41.640 so proud you made all this great content i traveled to england started a youtube show it was going

00:20:46.960 amazing and these ladies just they say pearl your opinions are too much you can't have a talk show

00:20:54.800 where you give your opinions flag flag flag flag they say pearl pearl pearl pearl you're so evil

00:21:07.040 okay hold on

00:21:10.560 let me put this in the chat i'm gonna put the zoom link in the chat

00:21:16.960 hold on let's try this again

00:21:21.280 mouse oh there we go okay

00:21:29.880 and anyways so what do you get what do you get out of joining my memberships you're thinking

00:21:37.360 pearl why on earth would i i have to download this by the way it is on the app store it is on

00:21:42.900 both the samsung and the apple version of the app store but you're thinking pearl

00:21:47.820 why on earth would i download this app it's annoying it's off the side well number one

00:21:54.080 normally if you want your chats read you will have to buy a super chat on a show

00:21:59.600 i do read the chats from the website so that's one thing number two you get access to all my old

00:22:07.840 content and three you get first access to our documentaries four it's a good cause it's a good

00:22:14.580 you know um and we are eventually going to do shows specifically on the website but okay

00:22:23.000 produce it can you just put the link in the chat i don't you got it put it in the chat okay um

00:22:28.900 the keep your mic muted and your camera off it is muted and off it's still echoed

00:22:40.000 we'll see if that works

00:22:43.360 we will see

00:22:58.900 okay so now I'm gonna read the website speaking of which okay the live stream finished on the

00:23:19.160 website no it didn't no it's not I don't know why I said that okay oh my gosh okay guys on the

00:23:25.620 website i'll top you off ten dollars thank you thank you rich i'm gonna say right i don't know

00:23:32.320 if i'm i don't want to read you guys this name so i'm not going to but one person said

00:23:38.100 i may or may not have hit some of these points to myself um to a degree with my youth youth i was

00:23:45.020 kind of forced to go to college and i didn't witness it at least i can admit i wasn't perfect

00:23:49.460 that is that's a great first step mrs ziegler richard says ivf is subject to many brain problems

00:23:58.720 miss ziegler i knew someone who waited till after 40 bought an egg bought the sperm and used ivf to

00:24:04.260 get pregnant with a non-biological child just to be a mom because she waited till long and

00:24:09.600 too long and never got married rich says my girlfriends hated it when their dog liked me

00:24:15.320 it was a it's a hundred percent a fact that antidepressants don't do anything

00:24:19.820 um let's see miss ziegler says we some could easily get more from just in one weekend i'm

00:24:29.840 90 sure of women's body count by 40 is around a thousand being an employee these days is no more

00:24:37.100 money these days there is no way money is half of what you need it took me a decade to actually

00:24:44.780 make a decent living as a dental assistant okay and then

00:24:52.300 Rich is good okay okay so let's see I'm gonna try going on the zoom again but it

00:24:58.620 was echoing

00:25:05.280 otherwise we're gonna do the space again because I can't not have control of this

00:25:14.780 I'm going to try it again and see if this works.

00:25:36.160 Oh, shout out to, by the way.

00:25:41.340 It is.

00:25:42.340 If we get one yearly member a show, it's either eight or nine memberships a show or one yearly.

00:25:48.980 It's 80 bucks a year.

00:25:51.120 Just saying.

00:25:52.120 If you guys want to.

00:25:53.120 I'm going to get this Zoom to work.

00:25:54.620 Hold on.

00:25:55.620 Let me try it again.

00:25:56.620 So I'm going to need to control it, otherwise we're going to have to do a Twitter space.

00:26:06.580 No, don't bring them up yet because I need to control the Zoom.

00:26:10.740 So wait, okay, so it says I'm muted on here.

00:26:26.740 Okay, I'm gonna hope this doesn't echo again my compute join with computer audio.

00:26:40.720 okay is it echoing oh it's not echoing great okay okay then we got to figure out a way to

00:26:59.520 okay I think I think it's working now

00:27:10.720 um sorry guys one second no no no no i'm not doing zoom unless i'm in control of it

00:27:19.120 uh i one time guys someone flashed me and i just won't do it again

00:27:23.680 i won't i can either xm immediately or i just won't do it uh

00:27:30.800 make sure your sound is off and you can post controls now okay

00:27:34.880 okay let's see if you can bring them up um

00:27:37.040 I need to make him bigger so I hide this okay I guess we'll just do work with what we have

00:27:54.060 right now okay you can bring them up on the screen

00:28:07.040 hello david what's up pearl how are you i'm doing good where are you calling out of

00:28:24.000 oh i'm in texas nice so what did you think of the modern woman life cycle was i accurate

00:28:30.700 it yeah yeah totally i mean i've seen it myself like in my own life like i've seen a lot of chicks

00:28:38.120 that go to college and they like take all take out all this debt that they drive really nice cars

00:28:45.540 and stuff and they always end up single because the men don't want to deal with it and uh they're

00:28:52.340 always in a lot of debt and they're depressed or on antidepressants um i've seen it so much in my

00:28:58.920 own life it's it's crazy like the accuracy that you have is is pretty spot on how old are you

00:29:05.620 i'm 28 and where did you you don't have to say like um the exact university but did you go to

00:29:11.800 a public school private school so i actually it's a funny story i actually never went to college or

00:29:19.180 anything um i graduated high school and i just started working and um like it's it's kind of

00:29:26.900 crazy like i got involved with bitcoin really early on and uh made a lot of money from that

00:29:32.320 and i just i figured like why why go to school why why even try to do any of this stuff when

00:29:40.260 it's all dominated by women like it's literally just all women professors they only really want

00:29:46.480 you to join school if you're a woman like they really press that really really hard especially

00:29:52.020 in the area i'm in i'm in a really liberal area so like it's to be expected and so the women you're

00:29:59.380 talking about are they women you went to high school with and you saw them go off to get degrees

00:30:04.260 is that yeah yeah and also just girls that i've dated like i've dated a lot of chicks around here

00:30:11.460 mostly younger than me but they're always in college studying some sort of psychology

00:30:16.340 or some sort of like useless liberal arts degree like and whenever they graduate they end up really

00:30:24.860 not making any money like they end up working at starbucks or they're working at like you know

00:30:30.100 fast food places my last girlfriend she worked at a fast food place got a degree in psychology

00:30:35.360 she's in a massive amount of debt i don't date her anymore thank god um but yeah it's it's so

00:30:42.320 common and typical to see that stuff i'm i'm 28 years old never set foot in a college

00:30:47.560 ever in my life and i'm worth more than six figures like i don't need none of that stuff

00:30:53.140 never did and what's your opinion on what events caused this

00:30:59.000 oh it's just a gynocentric society that we live in like women are told that everything that they

00:31:06.680 want to do is right and you're fighting against the patriarchy and you're fighting against the

00:31:12.300 men the men are evil you've got to outperform them you've got to like they have a chip on their

00:31:18.700 shoulder you know what i mean and it's like it doesn't make sense in my perspective because

00:31:23.580 i'm thinking like why would you want to try to outwork a man like why would you want to have

00:31:29.500 that sort of life like because from my perspective it's like this none of the stuff that we do is

00:31:34.860 easy like our lives are so hard and like it's actually difficult to make money and to like get

00:31:41.100 people to respond to you and stuff and it's like why would you want that for yourself like it

00:31:45.020 doesn't make any sense to me but hey i mean it is what it is yeah is there any other thoughts you

00:31:50.620 have like stories that you've seen that kind of back up the life cycle or anything i missed feel

00:31:56.060 free i mean i could go on and on and on it's it's crazy like i mean specifically like my last

00:32:03.580 girlfriend like she literally is just she's literally insane you know like that's why i had

00:32:09.180 had to stop dating her like what what happened was like i was getting attention from a different

00:32:14.340 like i told her that we weren't going to be exclusive because she was leaving like she's

00:32:17.880 graduating and she was like she's not from here she was leaving and she's she saw that i was

00:32:24.360 texting another girl on my phone after i told her multiple times not to go through my phone because

00:32:29.460 she was going to find stuff like that like i told her straight up i was like if you go through my

00:32:32.780 phone you're gonna find stuff from other girls because like it just that's just how it is for

00:32:37.600 me like i'm i mean i'm i mean i don't want to toot my own horn here or anything but it's like i got

00:32:42.740 other options and uh she got really really mad about that and then she went off and like you

00:32:48.600 know slandered my name to all my friends and stuff and like it's just a big old mess like i really

00:32:54.280 don't even want to get into that specifically but they're just evil you know like they really just

00:32:59.020 don't they don't want to have any sort of like disadvantage they want all the leverage

00:33:03.220 what did she say to your friends was it like you cheated or what was the no it was okay so

00:33:10.940 my best friend he has a sister right who's she's probably i think she's like 30 something now but

00:33:17.500 she's like attractive you know like she you know she's she doesn't look bad she's you know they

00:33:22.020 come from a wealthy family and stuff so like she's she's pretty attractive and um i would just like

00:33:28.080 you know i followed her instagram and like she would always be posting these thirst traps and

00:33:32.140 stuff and my ex she like went through my when she was going through my phone she like went and

00:33:38.100 screenshotted a bunch of her thirst traps and stuff and made it seem like like she kind of framed me

00:33:43.360 like she sent all this stuff to my friend and like was trying to like frame me as like I was being a

00:33:48.180 creep or something when I've never like that chick's older than me I would never try to go after

00:33:52.660 her in any romantic way and it was just an easy attack vector for her you know what I mean and

00:33:58.300 like they they like looked at they're looking at me like oh i'm a weirdo or something now and it's

00:34:02.560 like all all over some stuff that this girl said that you know was complete fabrication did your

00:34:10.240 friends believe her like did they take her side oh they took her side yeah they took her side that's

00:34:16.780 the sad part like i realized that these people weren't actually my friends to begin with because

00:34:20.880 if they were they wouldn't have taken her side yeah you know it's it's crazy oh well thank you

00:34:28.580 very much for calling in I appreciate you sharing your story yeah yeah no problem um I'm gonna go

00:34:36.860 to the next hold on I think oh I see I so I can do it oh okay guys I'm learning guys if you want

00:34:47.740 to call in um go the link is in the chat okay someone asked me on the website actually let me

00:34:58.640 tweet should I tweet the link you get spam sometimes when you I don't think I'm gonna tweet

00:35:09.920 it. So somebody asked on the website and they said, how can you support my work? Okay. There's

00:35:22.760 a couple of things. Number one, monthly or yearly membership on the website. You can donate

00:35:28.700 memberships so your friends can join. You can also, there is a membership tier where you get

00:35:37.920 to meet with me once a month you can do that um you also get access to my old content we also have

00:35:44.920 a gofundme the links in the description that we're raising money for a documentary we need

00:35:49.760 about 100k to put it out again you know when youtube cuts you off this is just the way you do

00:35:56.180 it so every story is gonna be a shit show all right well guys put your story in the chat so

00:36:03.220 I'm going to tell you guys a story of a guy I worked with a couple of years ago.

00:36:07.380 So there was, I worked as a sales woman, like before I did this, I worked in copier sales

00:36:14.000 and essentially it's a really shitty job and most people don't make a lot of money doing it. So they

00:36:19.780 get like fresh blood where you're excited and happy right out of school and they just put you

00:36:25.380 in this job. So I'm there. One of the guys I worked with told me that he had a girlfriend

00:36:31.120 that destroyed his room she went into his room and just tore everything apart

00:36:39.880 um like his bed was ripped his um pillows were torn

00:36:50.160 his um all of his he had like a guitar it was smashed and I can't remember why it was I think

00:37:00.060 it was because she thought he was cheating or something but I didn't even really think he was

00:37:04.840 the cheating type I mean all men will but it wasn't like he was like a killer you know there

00:37:12.420 was another time where my brother so I have a little brother and he's just always done well

00:37:18.140 with the ladies the ladies just love him and I could see why because he's like um I love him too

00:37:24.100 He's he's just a great guy. He's hardworking. He's smart. You know, I don't mean to toot my

00:37:30.260 brother's horn, but he's amazing. And he was dating a girl. And this woman, when I started

00:37:36.800 on TikTok, decided that it would be appropriate to message me, his sister, all of her grievances

00:37:45.620 with my brother. Now, as you guys know, I am not the one to feel bad for you.

00:37:54.100 because this is the thing my little brother he is a he he's the type he does things his way

00:38:01.380 and the ladies they always try to change him they're like be different than who you are

00:38:06.000 well if I'm a sister I love my brother why are you trying to get me to change my brother you

00:38:12.940 crazy bitch and I thought my poor my poor brother this is the list of women he has to pick from

00:38:20.760 this is years ago by the way this is nobody recent if someone knows me watching the show but

00:38:27.500 and you know let's see what else we got you have to let people in go to participants and allow

00:38:39.500 them to join okay wait so participants I might have to make a

00:38:45.140 I think I can

00:38:52.460 we might have to do this next show

00:38:57.820 because I think I'm having an issue

00:39:00.540 oh who can collaborate

00:39:05.880 show the participants well I don't think anyone else is in it yet

00:39:15.140 Let me go back to the modern woman life cycle.

00:39:22.140 Yeah so you know my question is to the fellas out there you know have the women you've dated

00:39:32.820 followed this life cycle?

00:39:36.840 Which I will repeat you know there's people that tune in every time the modern woman life

00:39:41.460 cycle what exactly it is.

00:39:45.140 what the heck

00:39:48.500 oh here we go number one go to some high-priced institution to get a degree no one cares about

00:39:58.600 to put themselves into debt barely learn anything except how to use men for things

00:40:05.420 get a job that is too stressful that does not care about them in reality the job is not that

00:40:10.300 hard or stressful, but women do convince themselves that it is. Step three, ignore the

00:40:16.620 student debt to buy a house, travel, and get a luxury car. Sometimes quit your job to be an

00:40:21.580 influencer. Wake up at 33 to 37 to rush and get a husband, kids, or hit your late 30s and 40s to

00:40:29.340 try to get pregnant by a loser or IVF. Start antidepressants at 40. Maybe love the child,

00:40:35.820 but hate him for having to settle for the husband by a dog or a cat and do you know what i forgot

00:40:42.940 when did the ladies get fat guys i'm gonna go back to the chat can you guys tell me

00:40:50.460 when the ladies get fat if a girl has a psychology days has a psychology degree don't date her okay

00:41:00.220 Okay. Well, what age? What age are the women like? So I'm kind of playing with some eras too,

00:41:08.700 I guess I'll talk about while I'm waiting for them. They said in their thirties, they get fat.

00:41:14.460 So there's a couple of eras that kind of deter women. So it's like, these are our life cycles,

00:41:19.980 but we go through phases, right? It's not like we just wake up on antidepressants, fat or whatever.

00:41:27.740 and feel free these are i'm this is going to be monday's show where i'm going to go in depth

00:41:33.660 into these phases but you know women have a hoe phase now for some women this might be one one

00:41:42.760 night stand and they just move on for other women you know they do a decade of hoeing

00:41:49.600 you you look at all her male friends she's fucked all of them

00:41:53.660 You look at her personal trainer, screwed him too.

00:41:58.480 Work colleagues had sex with them.

00:42:01.680 During the ho phase, sometimes they get STDs that are incurable.

00:42:05.900 Sometimes they get abortions, tattoos, and piercings.

00:42:10.260 That's like a deterrent.

00:42:13.020 Then after the ho phase, obviously, we got to find ourselves.

00:42:17.480 So now finding ourselves can be a prolonged ho phase.

00:42:21.300 we get spiritual. But then, of course, we do the rebrand and hit the Christian phase. So, you know,

00:42:32.900 then, you know, we do the Christian thing, but not like the character change or being a better

00:42:37.740 person, but we start wearing Jesus necklaces and flower dresses. You know, then, you know,

00:42:44.660 comes the health phase. So a lot of times women get an STD and then it starts their obsession with

00:42:50.640 health. So sometimes they get an incurable STD and they think, ah, I am going to have to try to

00:42:58.040 naturally heal this. This is like HPV, herpes. You can go on TikTok and you'll find women talking

00:43:03.260 about how to naturally heal themselves from HPV and herpes. My God, I'm like, who are the doctors

00:43:11.460 selling them this bullshit? But luckily, you know, women will waste money on things to make them

00:43:16.120 healthier. You know, they'll convince the women that there's birth control in the water and

00:43:24.080 there's like seed oils making us fat, but really it's just our poor choices like bottomless mimosas

00:43:30.480 at brunch, eating too much, liquid Starbucks calories. But during the health phase, we also

00:43:37.980 go to overpriced gyms. You know, Equinox, yoga classes, HIIT classes. This can be up to $300 a

00:43:51.060 month. So, you know, they will waste money on a gym memberships they don't need. During the gym

00:43:58.860 phase, they may sleep with too many men at one gym and then go to the next gym. Sleep with too

00:44:04.420 many men there, go to the next gym. Hook up with too many there, go to the next gym.

00:44:15.360 Then again, back to the healing phase. You know, they obviously, that's like, because you know,

00:44:21.100 when women do hard things, they view it as trauma. And so, you know, that's when you get the fat

00:44:26.380 women, like after they do the gym phase, then they say, you know what, I have trauma from this

00:44:31.920 the eating disorder I had when I was trying to lose weight.

00:44:43.680 Next, we have the influencer phase.

00:44:46.120 This is when you quit your job to be an influencer.

00:44:48.960 You know, I've seen TikToks of women that are doctors, lawyers that quit

00:44:53.960 because they want to be what? An influencer.

00:44:59.600 Then we have our career era.

00:45:01.920 this is where we try to compete with men and then burn out and fail there is a decluttering era

00:45:09.820 this is where marketers market to women selling us decluttering stuff that we don't need because

00:45:17.180 they know we are addicted to amazon and nothing will stop us um raise your standards era this is

00:45:26.280 when women try to sell a used product for a higher price. And there's always a simp that signs up.

00:45:35.540 Independent women era. The above it all era where women act like they've learned from their mistakes

00:45:41.860 and petty drama, but really they do the same things over and over again. Raising kids era.

00:45:49.180 This is where women use their kids for clout. Why be a mother when you could be an influencer mother?

00:45:56.280 divorce era where where there's another healing journey where they go on trips and go to the bar

00:46:06.700 now i've been playing with a couple options of boyfriends that women get during each phase of

00:46:14.080 their life and you guys can contribute in the chat i i've i've noticed that women when we get

00:46:20.100 boyfriends during our 20s there is the alpha guy this is a personal trainer musician the more

00:46:27.760 exciting hot guy that cheats and women never get over it they will be talking about that man that

00:46:34.040 cheated on them five years ago then there is the beta guy who doesn't have any standards so the

00:46:48.560 women will give up nothing in order to be in a relationship with him and essentially he acts as

00:46:54.320 an accessory in her life. Now you might think I always used to think that women that posted their

00:47:01.000 boyfriends a lot were really into their boyfriends and I actually have changed my mind. I think the

00:47:07.740 women that post their boyfriends a lot have no fear that he will ever leave and are trying to

00:47:12.260 signal look at the investment I got where women that post their boyfriends less don't want to

00:47:18.260 post him because a girl might slide into his dms and he might actually do it oh no hold on

00:47:30.820 i gotta unplug

00:47:34.580 um the boyfriend's women during the in their 30s women enter their gold digger era

00:47:43.300 this is where women above all aisles prioritize money because they think my beauty is fading who

00:47:50.980 is gonna pay for me the rest of my life and all of my bad decisions um beta guys are often friends

00:47:59.020 with benefits guys guys the link is still up in the chat if you guys want to come up and

00:48:03.860 let's see if anyone's joined

00:48:05.600 did we pin the tweet no hold on we want to pin the link for the call in um let me pin

00:48:17.080 there we go now I'm just sort of playing with these you know you guys are welcome to contribute

00:48:27.860 what other eras do women have

00:48:35.600 a nesting phase

00:48:43.540 the shopping era oh the situationship era wait hold on the situationship era

00:48:55.780 the shopping era

00:49:00.640 what would you call it the what do they say the

00:49:07.000 girl daily is the host now

00:49:13.600 I'm going to read from the website one second

00:49:30.640 okay there is a donate button in the chat too every story is going to be a shit show pearl

00:49:36.160 I don't have any dating horror stories Deej is the only woman with standards low enough to date

00:49:41.020 me we were 17 and 18 we're boring ah pulled an amber herd when I was in Toronto I switched to

00:49:47.320 a 30 year old Chinese nannies for about two years and that was plenty good

00:49:51.020 wow earth girls are easy

00:49:56.860 oh the biological clock age this is when women do not prioritize love but they prioritize their

00:50:06.300 biological clock that is a great one the biological clock biological clock era

00:50:21.980 a nesting phase doesn't have to be a negative oh you know what the abstinence phase

00:50:30.300 this is the phase where women claim they are sleeping with nobody

00:50:37.980 but really are sleeping with somebody

00:50:42.300 well women but they have to market the abstinence to a simp

00:50:51.020 the misandry era oh these are good all right what else do we got in the chat

00:51:03.480 so what are we talking about in the zoom the question is

00:51:07.180 i read the modern woman's life cycle i want to know is it true and what do you think contributed

00:51:17.060 How accurate is this model and did I leave anything out?

00:51:27.060 How accurate is this model and did I leave anything out?

00:51:38.060 I'm going to tweet also and tell the ladies on Twitter.

00:51:44.060 Ladies on Twitter, who have so much to say, I am accepting call-ins on YouTube.

00:51:58.520 Click the link in the Zoom.

00:52:02.320 let's see

00:52:14.700 okay the other question I have for you I'm moving as you guys have noticed I'm moving my

00:52:28.120 show time to a later time I have considered doing a full-on night show I don't know either way I

00:52:36.280 haven't decided yet I sometimes think we would get better callers if we did it later in the day

00:52:42.920 I want to know if this is true for you guys anyways the new cat owner era

00:52:51.900 every chick goes through a wildly hippie phase

00:53:03.120 the hippie

00:53:10.080 phase okay

00:53:13.200 okay well guys we're not really getting any callers today so I think I might end the show

00:53:23.360 I'm interested in hearing from the ladies as I am interested in hearing from Justin Trudeau

00:53:30.140 you know

00:53:33.260 never date a woman with kids

00:53:43.200 Oh, a cougar phase.

00:53:44.640 That's a good one.

00:53:47.560 The cougar phase.

00:53:50.220 I'm going to do a show Monday on all of the different phases.

00:53:56.460 The don't shave your legs is part of the hippie era for sure.

00:54:01.440 The don't shave your legs.

00:54:05.920 Oh, yeah.

00:54:06.700 A woman should call in and ask what era they're on.

00:54:13.200 the the cougar phase aka the public property phase

00:54:30.800 non-monogamy era

00:54:37.200 okay well guys the bitter era you guys are getting good the swap your wife era

00:54:48.320 the swap i'm just writing some of these down swap your wife era okay the poison the coffee era

00:54:57.820 i've never known a woman to be abstinence toward longer than 15 minutes

00:55:04.440 witchy crystals sage okay so the

00:55:10.740 witchy crystals sage the yoga phase

00:55:19.700 I'm back to work next week so it doesn't matter what time you're on

00:55:34.440 guys give pearl more ideas so she won't end the show the starter husband era

00:55:43.020 my grandkids won't visit me phase

00:55:51.300 my grandkids won't visit me phase

00:55:56.820 so there is an era for everything i'm lost

00:56:05.500 really it is

00:56:23.580 oh the trad wife era

00:56:25.660 the wine mom era

00:56:34.600 the playing it safe era

00:56:40.780 I mean a shoe collection phase isn't that just all phases of a woman's life

00:56:49.260 i need to do a segment on the okay okay guys well how are the viewership going up it's going up

00:57:03.060 right now i'm really confused because this is i guess you guys you guys like

00:57:09.020 you guys like collaborating with me huh okay like the video while you're at it like it's free

00:57:18.300 no I mean the women the women themselves are the ones that talk about these eras and these journeys

00:57:28.120 like what are the journeys women do like why is it eras and journeys why isn't it just living

00:57:34.660 do you know why does it have to be like a marketing

00:57:38.800 you know I almost I thought to myself can they we really blame these institutions

00:57:45.500 for selling us ladies degrees that we don't need

00:57:50.480 when we're like begging to waste our time.

00:57:55.380 You know, now that I think about it,

00:57:58.340 we keep saying to men, please lie to us.

00:58:03.220 Please waste our time.

00:58:05.100 And the men said, no, no, no, no, I want to treat you right.

00:58:07.840 I want to be a gentleman.

00:58:08.740 And we said, please lie to us.

00:58:11.340 Please waste our time.

00:58:12.540 and the men said are you sure I mean I'll be a gentleman I'll keep being a gentleman and we said

00:58:18.780 nah that's boring nah and they said F it it's time to waste your time and it was the same

00:58:27.940 with the universities you know they used to teach us things and then they said oh really you guys

00:58:32.620 you guys want careers where you don't make money and you want us to teach you nothing

00:58:37.180 and we said please teach us nothing and the university said are you sure are you sure

00:58:44.620 and we said please please I don't want to study important things please give us the easy things

00:58:52.100 I want to study myself I want to get a psych degree and the university said uh this is the

00:58:58.320 ROI. Are you sure? Okay. You can do it. Oh, the self-discovery era. Okay.

00:59:07.480 okay the we should wait until marriage era

00:59:16.720 the Botox era the girl math era okay this is way too many

00:59:29.680 okay guys well I think I'm going to end the show today

00:59:37.440 oh I have three callers what the why can't I see them

00:59:44.360 it doesn't show me like uh

00:59:59.680 Why can't I see them?

01:00:13.040 Oh.

01:00:15.520 Make sure you guys have your cameras on and your mic on.

01:00:29.680 I'm going to kick you if you don't have your mic on.

01:00:42.180 Why can't I kick him?

01:00:44.700 Okay. Oh, there we go.

01:00:48.440 And more remove.

01:00:54.180 There we go.

01:00:59.680 okay we're going to do the next one make sure you guys have your mics and your cameras on

01:01:09.920 hello how are you yeah i'm all right you guys you got to get a better air kit like a quieter room

01:01:21.520 the air conditioning is kind of loud oh it's okay it's okay for now but just like um

01:01:27.840 Oh, it's the computer fan, okay.

01:01:33.160 So what did you think of the modern woman life cycle?

01:01:36.300 And did you think it was accurate?

01:01:38.300 Yeah, there's some definite accuracies in there, some definite sort of common stages

01:01:45.680 I reckon, for sure.

01:01:48.040 Some of the later ones were a bit sort of nonsensical, but yeah, yeah, the first ones

01:01:55.340 were all pretty cogent.

01:01:57.340 um and was there anything i missed any eras that you think or um any steps that i missed

01:02:05.280 yeah hang on there was there was there was one here that you didn't you didn't call out i think

01:02:11.560 what was it uh let's see if i can find it um no it wasn't that um oh yeah i think we should wait

01:02:20.820 till marriage era that's the one you've mentioned a few times what age do you find have you found

01:02:30.000 that in your dating experience um i know the type i've been around church churches many churches i

01:02:37.760 know exactly what you're talking about and what age do you find women enter that era

01:02:44.060 um well it's pretty much like you say you know like once the beauty starts to go

01:02:51.620 they start to sort of think uh tactically i guess and what events do you think started this whole

01:02:59.440 thing um what events uh uh take it back to seneca falls i guess

01:03:09.860 that's that's pretty much where i'd take it i guess back to center falls yeah well thank you

01:03:19.980 for calling in it's a pleasure yeah and then one more thing pearl like what the hell is going on

01:03:26.020 with your youtuber subscriber count what about it it's been the same it was 1.99 for ages you never

01:03:34.980 quite made it the two million then it started coming down i know it was um it was tough i had

01:03:41.880 to delete like 10 000 videos so i used to get like subscribers every month from those videos

01:03:48.280 and then you you i like tanked like if you look at my um analytics for my channel there's one

01:03:54.900 month where it just dropped and it's because normally on a channel you can like build so

01:03:59.260 of super viral videos and they'll still like make but i yeah youtube just i mean they kept flagging

01:04:05.500 my videos the ladies i i do streams like this and they get mad and just start flagging they find

01:04:11.420 something and yeah so i i had to make a decision to just clear it or try to like it it was just too

01:04:19.900 many videos to go through one by one i just said just clear it so now they're on my website it's

01:04:26.140 never been popular on youtube though not since i started watching youtube like anyway

01:04:31.740 yeah anyway yeah take care and have a good one thank you so much all the best okay

01:04:43.180 okay uh next no oh someone was here it said chris's iphone where'd you go chris

01:04:50.300 what are you doing

01:04:54.620 let me read the thing on the website they said feminism along with social media

01:05:04.440 a guy has a nice chair

01:05:06.480 being a single guy sucks at the moment I spend less money with a two-week flight round trip

01:05:18.360 food hotel to south america and then trying to go out with a modern american chick

01:05:23.320 um okay so on the website i want you guys if you have a comment you want me to read

01:05:29.960 because you guys talk to each other and you know i i think sometimes reading all of them

01:05:36.120 put read pearl or like reading caps and then put two dots and put your comment

01:05:41.800 the zoom is asking you for a password that's weird it shouldn't do that

01:05:48.360 it should put you in a waiting room

01:05:52.440 every day i will struggle with this stuff um is there some way that your subscribers can

01:05:58.920 help you push back against the people and women who are flagging your stuff

01:06:02.760 honestly the only thing we can do is to get enough people on the website so we're free

01:06:08.840 because you know though there's very few people that can pull it off but like

01:06:13.080 crowder he doesn't care if he's monetized on youtube or not because uh you know he has

01:06:20.600 enough members on his website so the best thing you can do is get your friends to sign up um

01:06:26.920 you know that's really the best thing you can do

01:06:32.200 where is let's see what he says but

01:06:35.320 um is it still saying you need a password let me look on the

01:06:47.560 have i done a show on tom brady you know what i have to say i've noticed leonardo dicaprio's exes

01:06:56.280 he he is just the kiss of death on those women's future relationships so

01:07:02.040 So I did see Tom Brady coming.

01:07:05.500 I think I'm going to have it on the record.

01:07:07.660 I think that Blake Lively is next.

01:07:12.660 She will go through a divorce.

01:07:15.100 That is my next prediction.

01:07:28.840 like you have some sort of password set up on your settings okay let me see if I can fix it

01:07:37.480 um

01:07:53.480 I don't know

01:07:58.840 oh here we go okay hello

01:08:08.680 hey i'm on yeah you're on um i think they might take a second to make you full yeah there you go

01:08:13.800 hello how are you all right um so what did you think of the modern woman life cycle

01:08:22.280 so you talking about all the everything you've been talking about yeah 30 minutes

01:08:25.480 yeah it's interesting um i i just think that there's so many opportunities to go to college

01:08:37.720 now and learn absolutely nothing of substance and just waste money and get into debt and it's kind

01:08:48.680 of like it's like a high school part two and so i just don't think that um you know going to

01:09:01.400 this extended there's a psychological term it's called neoteny excuse me it's not psychological

01:09:07.400 it's biological so there's a biological term called neoteny and it's the retention of um

01:09:15.000 um it's the retention of juvenile features into adulthood and i think that's a lot of

01:09:22.200 what's happening in college i mean with men and women but i think it definitely um it

01:09:29.360 just it extends into getting all these useless degrees that that don't really um they don't

01:09:38.540 really translate into going out and doing like an actual real world service so and how sorry go ahead

01:09:47.400 go ahead go ahead how old are you oh i'm 44 and have you seen the the like the women in your peer

01:09:56.780 group go through those stages where they get into a lot of debt again the women you've dated is that

01:10:02.320 something you've seen um where women get into a lot of debt um they go to school they get a car

01:10:08.180 they can't afford buy a house they can't afford yeah i mean people are buying all kinds of stuff

01:10:15.300 that they don't that they don't need but i i mean like i'll give you an example so so like i'm i'm a

01:10:22.740 um i'm a commercial driver i'm a class a driver i'm a truck driver okay you can go out and you

01:10:31.620 can go out and get a cdl for three or four thousand dollars and turn around i mean the

01:10:40.740 turnaround time is or you could go to i got mine paid for by the department of transportation

01:10:47.860 for free but you know the turnaround time on that is about anywhere from two or three months to six

01:10:56.980 months and you know you could be making up to 70 to 100 000 a year wow so i mean i don't not that

01:11:06.340 i don't make that much but my point is though is that you don't have to go somewhere for four years

01:11:13.620 and then get into a hundred thousand dollars in debt and get a degree in underwater basket weaving

01:11:21.780 and get out and make $30,000 to $35,000 the rest of your life

01:11:27.560 and try to pay off these loans and stuff.

01:11:29.720 So I guess what I'm saying is there's a lot of blue-collar work,

01:11:33.220 but I don't think a lot of women want to do that type of stuff because it's hard.

01:11:38.860 And when you chose your career, did you think about passion?

01:11:45.120 Yeah, but, I mean, I'm ex-military.

01:11:47.180 I've done a whole lot of stuff.

01:11:50.220 lot of stuff i mean i used to jump out of airplanes um that was a long time ago when i was skinnier

01:11:56.300 and braver but uh yeah i mean yeah i thought about that i i thought about passion way more than i

01:12:03.660 ever did money and i i can tell you you know as a man it

01:12:12.620 it it's not all women but it morally disgusts me how some women are obsessed with money

01:12:20.220 I just find it morally disgusting.

01:12:26.100 There's kind of this attitude of, again, I don't think it's all women, but among some women, they see something as being valuable because it's expensive.

01:12:38.780 Not because the item itself is functional or it works well or it's a good product.

01:12:43.780 It's just, you know, they feel like they're elite or, you know, they're, they're, they're above the table or they're important, you know, because they have things that are expensive.

01:13:00.420 And I never, as a man, think about something like that.

01:13:06.100 You know, so if I have a pair of shoes or boots or whatever, and they cost X amount of dollars, I mean, if I can go into a store and find it for a lower price, I'm going to do that.

01:13:19.080 And I think some women have a different mentality where they think it's, you know, and go and buy a pair of high heels.

01:13:27.040 There's stores in Dallas that sell shoes that are $15,000.

01:13:30.420 i mean i can't i cannot fathom as a man ever spend fifteen thousand dollars on a pair of shoes i mean

01:13:40.300 they they would i would i'd have to be able to like fly around the planet in them or something

01:13:45.460 if i was going to spend fifteen thousand dollars on a pair of shoes and so or a pair you know just

01:13:51.300 stuff like that i mean it's just ridiculous to me that a pair of high heels would be ten to fifteen

01:13:55.900 thousand dollars but you know there's ultra high-end stores that sell stuff like that and

01:14:01.740 then to me as a man that kind of stuff would never really exist in my universe you know yeah

01:14:10.060 well thank you very much for calling in no problem thanks thanks uh where is

01:14:20.940 okay let me get the next person because i think someone else was in the waiting room

01:14:25.900 there we go

01:14:28.900 hello paulo hello pearl how are you i'm good how are you where are you out of well i'm very glad

01:14:40.200 you'll be here i think you might have an echo okay yeah let me fix that real quick okay yeah

01:14:49.280 so i was listening about your model and i think it was really interesting i think what bothers me

01:14:55.460 and what would bother most guys are the lies meaning a woman will say no i want that or that

01:15:02.100 is important for me when in reality they want something completely different and to the point

01:15:08.260 that very often i think that women not all women but i would say lots of them don't really know

01:15:14.900 what they want so they don't really have a goal and then just like you said it will change they

01:15:21.300 would have like maybe the era the hippie era or i will tell you what i think all women i ever went

01:15:29.460 out with i was always the second guy or the third guy always so either all of them were lying or i'm

01:15:39.940 really special what do you mean you were always the second or the third guy oh that you that that

01:15:47.060 they slept with exactly yeah oh how old were they how old were they when they told you that

01:15:55.780 20 30. so they would say they were 30 and you were the second guy they'd been with

01:16:01.540 the second or third or or then there would be variations about the average like oh you are

01:16:08.180 the second or third guy that i ever fell in love with or you're the second i had a special person

01:16:14.180 forever ago but now i came to know you and you are the love of my life my point is there's always

01:16:20.980 something that i'm gonna make you feel really special even though it kind of sounds like a

01:16:26.420 line to me very often did you believe it not at all oh you didn't none of them none of them

01:16:33.620 the fourth oh so like the first time yeah the first time you believe there

01:16:38.420 so the first time you believed it but then like the next time you were like you wise it up

01:16:44.820 exactly yeah the first time we probably believed every little bit of it yeah yeah but then after

01:16:49.860 a certain point i think we learn is there anything i left out of the model like any

01:16:55.620 eras i forgot about or any stages in the modern woman life cycle i didn't include

01:17:03.620 i cannot really think of one no i think you covered it all i i really liked i i loved your

01:17:10.980 videos i think a few months ago that you had a board like a flip charge in the background

01:17:17.460 and then you'd go into real big detail about those little things and how it works and pretty much a

01:17:23.940 real like a mechanics of the relationship so i really like that thank you and what events can

01:17:30.820 you think of that started this whole thing like in your lifetime were there any events that you

01:17:36.500 think really impacted the women you knew or maybe something in the culture music

01:17:45.540 that is a very good question but maybe if you're asking me how far does it go

01:17:53.060 i have no idea i think that's a very old thing maybe i think it'll be very easy to point out to

01:17:59.140 the 50s and 60s and the woman liberation movements and this kind of thing uh i think it's

01:18:06.180 and the when women needed to go into the marketplace i think those things changed the

01:18:13.460 laws and the societies and how people perceived women and yeah but i think it goes i i have no

01:18:21.220 idea how far back it goes but for for sure with social media and instagram and tick tock and the

01:18:27.860 globalization of the love market all of those things does not help did you notice a difference

01:18:35.700 when tick tock came into the picture i noticed a difference when social media came into the picture

01:18:43.220 more and more like 10 years ago or so but yeah i i always noticed a difference in terms of behavior

01:18:51.540 I would feel since I was a teenager, I would notice that people would very much mimic how people spoke in the movies and how people spoke and behaved in series.

01:19:02.360 So, yeah, now with TikTok and Instagram that we have like this beautiful trailer of whatever people are living or not living.

01:19:13.460 And, yeah, I think very often, mostly women, because I believe women are more influenced by those kinds of things, that they will compare their lives and be sad to something that is not even real.

01:19:31.380 Because people have filters on and they go to a nice place and take pictures and they're not really happy.

01:19:38.420 i i i believe that i think you were talking something a little bit to that tune earlier

01:19:44.980 today that you have this perfect marriage yeah like oh i have a guy i don't want to advertise

01:19:51.940 my boyfriend or my girlfriend all over social media and say hey look how great of a woman i got

01:19:58.580 look how great of a guy i got yeah say that's my private life why would i even advertise that for me

01:20:06.420 it doesn't really make sense i prefer to keep my private life private so why would i have all this

01:20:14.980 advertise of my great life i don't see why that would be the case well thank you very much for

01:20:20.660 calling in you're very welcome pro get the nine okay the next person i just saw someone in the

01:20:34.740 waiting room i try to give i don't know why it's not pearl you should have women calling okay

01:20:44.820 send this to your sisters guys i mean like i don't know what

01:20:50.580 the ladies don't i mean they get mad at me

01:20:57.300 do you know what i mean like they start they they try to ruin my life the same way they try to ruin

01:21:02.660 you guys's lives do you know what i mean you're like get get the women get the way you guys get

01:21:08.100 the women like what do you what do you mean to have miracles here okay um

01:21:17.780 like this eventually calls um michael are you at work yeah okay yeah are you a cook or something

01:21:27.060 i'm a private chef oh that's cool what are you making um i'm cleaning up i work for the church

01:21:34.360 well what did you make oh i did uh ahi tuna seared with kimchi fried rice and roasted vegetables

01:21:41.240 oh wow that sounds really good what are your what are your thoughts on the so how old are you you

01:21:46.980 look 30s 30s yeah i'm 38 38 okay i see i'm a good guesser yeah hold on let me get in because i was

01:21:54.100 hearing like the other guy at the same time so i didn't even know i was on yet okay so about that

01:21:58.940 um so i'm i'm asking what your experience has been like witnessing the women in your age group

01:22:06.620 that you've dated that you know and do you feel like my modern woman life cycle is accurate

01:22:13.040 i feel like a lot of your points were extremely accurate to be honest with you

01:22:18.180 um to be to be straightforward i'm like i just got like divorced this year you know um we were

01:22:26.620 together for like a couple of years and we had like all these plans and shit like that and then

01:22:31.180 oh i'm sorry about the language or whatever we had all these plans and stuff and like to have a

01:22:36.560 family and all this you knew like what i wanted and as soon as we got married i put a ring on it

01:22:41.280 she's like you know what i don't really know how i feel about kids anymore i want to go get my

01:22:45.220 masters and i'm like dude you already have like 60 grand in debt and now you want to and she had a

01:22:50.600 great job as a paralegal and she's like oh i want to leave my great job to now like become a history

01:22:58.540 teacher and she doesn't even know history like that it was crazy it was mad funny so she didn't

01:23:04.300 even study because you could study history on your own no i would we would have all these discussions

01:23:10.100 like me i'm like pretty big like um audible guy and i like a lot of history and stuff like that

01:23:15.940 so she we would like i would proofread and like edit her papers for her and stuff like that

01:23:20.980 it was wild it was really wild but i i wanted to say one thing um i think the big problem with

01:23:26.980 nowadays is social media period and this this uh status identity thing everything's like status

01:23:34.900 as opposed to like substance you know it's like i'd rather look like everything is great than

01:23:39.940 everything actually be great and it was a really big problem i was having with my modern lady

01:23:45.300 because as opposed to us having a healthy relationship it was more important for her to

01:23:50.980 for us to look like we had a healthy relationship and then behind closed doors it was pretty rough

01:23:56.580 well not on my end but i you know what do you mean pretty rough like what were some of the things

01:24:01.540 you experienced oh dude yo like i threw a pillow at my wife one time playingly and she like punched

01:24:07.380 me in the face like like that you know like um these these women nowadays i don't know about all

01:24:14.740 of them but you know they get a little they get a little handsy you know what i'm saying yeah yeah

01:24:20.660 i've heard like i'm i'm christian catholic i i would never you know i don't even want to put

01:24:24.900 hands on another person unless i have to let alone the woman i'm supposed to love so i never understood

01:24:30.660 like that violence you know but whatever that's not you know how old was she when you um so you

01:24:36.900 said you're third age what so you're both 38. yeah we're one month apart for the day and then

01:24:43.620 she wanted to go back to school and get her master's instead of having kids as soon as we

01:24:49.060 got married which was how long ago uh last um i would well no last day was our one year anniversary

01:24:58.340 so two years ago uh march 18th right after st patty's okay so it was a pretty short marriage

01:25:05.700 then yeah shorter than i ever thought it would be honestly and she filed on me she filed papers on

01:25:13.060 like she kicked me out the house i had to move into my apartment again and i was trying to talk

01:25:18.100 to her this and that and then you know we weren't finding common ground i don't want to like um like

01:25:23.940 be nasty and like throw under a bus or whatever so i'm just gonna say we didn't find common ground

01:25:28.340 you know and um yeah so then one day i i got mail at my job and she had i had somebody process

01:25:37.140 serve me at my church in front of like and it was it was heartbreaking man i must uh i i fell apart

01:25:43.960 for like a good month you know and it was wild you know i'm curious how did your church react

01:25:50.420 did they did they did you both go to that church or was it just yours like no yeah i was the only

01:25:57.180 one she wasn't really like uh she's not like a god turned woman she's not really a believer

01:26:03.140 you know we had a lot of differences man you know it was just really weird um i would say

01:26:10.360 just from my opinion personally it's one of those things where um like you you finally get what you

01:26:16.220 want and so now you don't really give a shit about it it's like the child that wants the toy

01:26:20.300 yeah you know like they don't care about her she had her wedding she had her wedding era

01:26:26.080 and then she was done yeah that was it basically it was like all right not here you go checklist

01:26:30.720 be married get my ring you know and and then the gaslighting forever always gaslighting forever in

01:26:38.720 a day you know for some reason no matter what men do we never do no matter what i literally like

01:26:46.320 when we met i was a biker in a biker club right and i was a part-time caterer and she was like

01:26:53.280 well we need this and that we need stability and better but so within a year i doubled my salary

01:27:00.000 i make almost 80 000 a year now as a private chef full benefits life insurance 10 days pto a year

01:27:07.520 five days sick like i can't even i don't know anyone that has a job like this the way and i

01:27:13.440 only work like 30 hours a week so it's it's sick i'm living good and and it kills me because like

01:27:21.440 that's when she decided to be like oh this isn't enough the the bar just kept moving higher and

01:27:27.280 higher and higher and higher and higher you know what i'm saying yeah i would take her on vacation

01:27:31.600 twice a year dude twice a year fourth of july she woke up she's like let's go to vegas yo six grand

01:27:38.480 on a vegas trip like and then and i'm i'm told like i don't do enough so it's i feel like it's

01:27:46.480 just like a status thing it's like this i don't know i don't know pearls yo you're one of the

01:27:52.160 only females that makes sense on this planet so i don't know i don't know what to tell you guys

01:27:57.920 i'll let you know i'm from new york by the way so if if you if you didn't notice already i'm curious

01:28:03.680 what was what did she say was the reason the marriage ended um well how many reasons um so

01:28:13.840 this is gonna be there's a lot there's a lot of stuff a lot of it was like me putting my foot

01:28:21.200 down on things because i didn't like the way i was treated i don't think uh physical abuse is

01:28:26.080 acceptable at all you know what i mean and then um it became an issue because like her her

01:28:32.600 continuous lack of accountability and gaslighting created this constant struggle for power you know

01:28:39.440 it was just and for me personally it was like my biggest gripe was like yo you're not even nice to

01:28:45.860 me anymore dude you know like i came home with flowers and chocolates make dinner you know and

01:28:52.200 when she's with her friends she would brag about all this and that but together like i came home

01:28:57.140 and felt completely unloved and everything in her life was like her main focus period and not really

01:29:03.280 our relationship so it created a huge void because i felt like i was i was killing myself

01:29:09.120 to be everything she wanted and like i couldn't even get like a a hug when i got home from work

01:29:15.360 and a kiss without her being like i'm busy doing some school paper or whatever

01:29:20.080 and so i was like yo do you think the best idea after you get married is to fill up your time

01:29:24.960 with a master's degree as opposed to us like finding a way to come together as a couple first

01:29:30.960 right you know so that was i can't even believe i'm on this call right now you're the man

01:29:36.320 man girl well i'm like a huge fan just saying no well thank you so much for sharing i appreciate

01:29:43.800 it yo i appreciate you pearl like you make me feel like sometimes like we're not crazy like

01:29:50.360 that other people kind of think and see these things too you know so it's very refreshing i

01:29:55.000 appreciate you it's okay they gaslight me too these ladies i bet i bet they're the worst to

01:30:02.840 you girls are worse to each other than you are us i can't even believe it you know it's crazy

01:30:08.600 hey they can't falsely accuse me but they would if they could all right i i got mad and so all

01:30:15.820 right well you god bless you and you have a great night i'm gonna keep watching the show

01:30:19.440 thank you for your time yeah thanks for calling in yeah guys if you have a bye if you guys have

01:30:26.560 a ex-wife ex-girlfriend girl you dated sister whatever i'm just curious you guys as stories

01:30:33.360 you know you could say pearl you're completely off this life cycle was super wrong my sister

01:30:38.880 went through none of those just call in let me know you guys can let on who's next

01:30:44.320 i i like the personal stories of like event when i ask the question and i have the call-in for you

01:30:53.680 guys i want you guys to tell me what happened specifically in your life you know oh we got

01:31:00.160 jonathan hello oh hey how's it going i'm good how are you oh you know just hanging in there

01:31:11.680 where are you out of uh i'm in oklahoma oh nice how old are you i'm 33 33 okay i like to know the

01:31:20.560 age because then i kind of see what um age group you guys are in like millennials or whatever

01:31:26.720 so i'm curious from your point of view um was the life cycle accurate did i miss anything

01:31:34.160 um did i add something that's not there go ahead it's pretty accurate um

01:31:40.960 I feel like a lot of women are too heavily influenced by the music and, you know, content creators like yourself, but they're on the complete opposite spectrum of what you're doing.

01:31:59.200 They're pushing these women to do things that realistically it ends up destroying them and they don't realize it until it's far too late.

01:32:09.560 And at that point, they're clueless as to why they feel the way they do.

01:32:16.240 And are you talking about women you've dated that you're thinking about?

01:32:20.260 Was this sister, family?

01:32:22.400 Like, who are you thinking of?

01:32:24.820 Well, women in general that I've tried to date or talked to.

01:32:29.040 So personally, I've been single and celibate for like 12 years.

01:32:35.240 uh the last girl i was with um i guess i technically cheated on her i i went on vacation

01:32:42.740 with my family to hawaii and um was on the beach drinking beer and i didn't know it was 12 percent

01:32:50.400 i had a you know 12 pack of budweiser tall and i was i don't know halfway through it and

01:32:58.000 a girl and her sister came down to the beach and i made out with one of them and

01:33:02.580 i guess i could have you know had sex with her but i didn't and i just i felt so guilty about

01:33:09.800 it and whenever i got home i confessed to my girlfriend at the time and uh she just broke

01:33:17.640 up with me and then two days later i was having sex with some other dude and she had the audacity

01:33:23.200 to call me on the phone while it's going on so she called you during yeah holy where is she now

01:33:31.320 like what do you know what she's doing i have no idea no i'm just i want to see where she is

01:33:37.940 in the life cycle because she's probably 33 now right around the same age uh well i think she's

01:33:44.940 closer to 28 29 um and last i checked she was married but i mean from the photos neither of

01:33:54.400 looked happy oh no so it is what it is i i just kind of moved on with life and

01:34:02.560 um just every woman that i've spoken to was either kind of in her hoe phase or

01:34:10.880 kind of influenced by you know what was that six foot oh the six six fingers yeah

01:34:20.000 and do you think it's harder to date where you live

01:34:24.760 uh i mean i it's probably hard everywhere but i mean i've i was living in tulsa until recently

01:34:34.260 and most of the women that i would you know speak to they would either not want to speak to me or

01:34:43.720 they just wanted something different now I'm just wondering is the celibacy is that like

01:34:53.720 because the women aren't interested or is it because of like religious reasons

01:34:58.720 like you just don't care enough to well I uh in my younger years I was quite promiscuous and

01:35:08.100 i kind of came to a realization that that was part of the problems in my life so i just made

01:35:17.640 a personal decision to wait until i found a wife and that just hasn't happened okay and the women

01:35:24.320 making the bad decisions that you're describing could you tell me like is it you're dating them

01:35:30.640 and you find out they're getting in a lot of debt or what's the can i get like a specific story maybe

01:35:36.020 uh well let's see here the last girl that i was talking to um we were sitting down um

01:35:46.520 kind of like a little picnic thing really um we have quick trips around here and a lot of

01:35:52.360 quick trips will have like a you know like a little picnic bench outside and we were just

01:35:58.860 sitting outside um i was eating some ice cream uh she was uh i don't know if she was eating

01:36:06.460 something some some fast food um and it was it was kind of funny she was a teacher so

01:36:14.520 what 40 45k a year and at the time i was doing uh facility maintenance but i was making 55 a

01:36:24.140 year base but that year I made like 80k and she uh she heard me say 55,000 a year and

01:36:34.480 it wasn't but five minutes after that she ended the conversation and I never spoke to her again

01:36:40.580 how did the salary come up did she ask yeah I mean I asked her what she did she she said she

01:36:52.700 was a teacher i she asked me what i did and i told her i'd do maintenance and she asked me how

01:36:59.460 much i made got it so your experience is that like wow that's so rude i can't i would never

01:37:09.040 ask someone that that's crazy i've heard that like women just straight up ask it like but i

01:37:13.860 was always taught that's like a rude thing to ask somebody i saw i suppose it is kind of rude i mean

01:37:20.240 I don't mind I suppose I'm a little too honest sometimes but it it is something that one might

01:37:31.980 consider in a relationship especially if they're looking to immediately have children and with the

01:37:38.040 way you know society is and in the economy it is a heavy consideration well thank you for

01:37:48.940 telling me the story and thanks for calling in yeah uh thanks for having me on and uh you and

01:37:55.640 the crew and everyone else listening you guys have a blessed weekend

01:37:58.800 thank you um on the next person

01:38:06.720 um running

01:38:18.940 we'll take one more caller i think hello we got

01:38:26.440 flow state hello hey am i on yeah you're on how are you i'm good you i'm good what did you think

01:38:36.880 of um did you hear where i listed the modern woman life cycle um i did but if you want to hit it

01:38:44.900 again real quick i wouldn't mind that okay so the modern woman life cycle is number one go to some

01:38:50.920 high-priced institution to get a degree no one cares about to put themselves into debt barely

01:38:56.420 learn anything except how to use men for things um number two get a job that is too stressful and

01:39:02.980 does not care about them in reality this is a job that actually isn't that hard or stressful but we

01:39:08.560 convince ourselves it is. Ignore the student debt to buy a house, travel, or get a luxury car that

01:39:14.740 we cannot afford, or a gym membership as well, like Equinox, those. Wake up at 33 to 37 and

01:39:24.540 rush to get a husband, kids, or both. Hit late 30s, early 40s to try to get pregnant by a loser

01:39:30.780 or IVF. Start antidepressants at 40. Maybe love the child but hate the husband because you had

01:39:37.160 to settle by a dog or a cat i want to know how accurate is this model is there anything i left

01:39:43.680 out um i guess my only my biggest gripe with it would be that it's it seems like it's universal

01:39:52.740 almost that seems like men could fit into most of those things except for the well we're gonna do a

01:39:58.820 well we're gonna do a simp life cycle but that's a different show okay so i mean i mean that's we

01:40:05.400 are you going to do a simple life the life cycle of a simp how do these men end up wife in these

01:40:10.600 like not how does nolly get a husband well there's a simple life cycle is he a simple is he a pimp

01:40:16.240 i think a lot of a lot of the the porn star husbands i i suspect are pimps not that one

01:40:24.700 i wouldn't i've i don't know i've i've heard him like i i would say so but is there any i don't

01:40:31.380 know i've never seen him i have no idea about the dude but okay but i'm asking how accurate is this

01:40:36.260 model do you think it's accurate inaccurate for the modern woman life cycle and is there anything

01:40:41.480 that needs to be added that's not true um i think that's pretty accurate

01:40:49.780 yeah i think i think it's pretty accurate i think that you got it all again i think that it's uh i

01:40:56.880 would maybe move the antidepressants earlier okay okay what age would you put nobody waiting until

01:41:03.120 they're in their 40s to get on antidepressants what where would you put it 30s i would put it

01:41:08.420 late 20s at the beginning that's genesis of this life cycle okay antidepressants a lad that doesn't

01:41:15.680 know earlier like 22 give me an age let's do yeah let's do 20 20 okay and what's your experience

01:41:25.980 been dating um women like what stage do you tend to meet them at this life cycle

01:41:33.420 and what's your experience um i meet him about at the antidepressant stage

01:41:39.740 i'm 38 and i've been uh basically in not the same relationship but in a relationship since i was

01:41:46.620 about 20. um no i have good experience with women i don't have a lot of the issues of the guys that

01:41:52.780 were up here before um that i was listening to so okay are there any on wood i guess yeah

01:42:01.900 so you've been in a relationship since you were 20. um not the same one but basically i have not

01:42:09.100 been single for much of it okay and did you find the spending habits of the women to you that you

01:42:14.540 dated been bad good um if they were good like what were their jobs like i'm trying to get specifics

01:42:22.220 from guys yeah so um my ex-wife was terrible uh we got married right out of college and um really

01:42:32.980 the main issue is that college is a different environment than the real world right so we could

01:42:38.000 go and party together we could walk into a party and we were both fun and social and good looking

01:42:43.200 and could chug beer and all that stuff but then when we had to go do real world stuff make decisions

01:42:48.860 together that just wasn't happening at all um she spent money like a maniac um after the i and i

01:42:59.060 filed for divorce um how much did she spend like what was what what did she cost you a month would

01:43:04.600 you say uh when we were married or what did divorce cost no when you were married um

01:43:11.500 i do a show called what do modern women cost so i just like to get ballparks

01:43:16.940 So we got married in 2011, and I was making $60,000 or $65,000 a year there, about $65,000 a year.

01:43:28.660 And so we weren't going into debt, but just barely not going into debt.

01:43:37.120 So every last bit of that was getting spent, and our living expenses really weren't that high.

01:43:41.680 So whatever that, however that math's out, $64,000 or $65,000.

01:43:46.940 by 12. okay she had a little bit of income um we had a daughter at the time uh who was a baby but

01:43:55.900 um she did it she had like a it was not really a real job it was like hanging out and selling

01:44:02.060 vitamins or some yeah and so what who did you date next what was your so when i got divorced um i

01:44:12.540 actually met my girlfriend i'm with now we've been living together we've been together for

01:44:16.540 10 years or so and um we met at the park uh i had just because i had just uh divorced we'll split

01:44:24.620 up with my ex-wife and got custody of my two-year-old daughter she had just split up with

01:44:31.100 her husband and had customer kids so we met at the park and now we're one big blended family nice

01:44:37.740 and what does she do like what's her job she doesn't have one okay cool what did she do when

01:44:44.700 you met her i guess nothing when i met her she had just she had literally just moved out of uh

01:44:51.500 her husband's house and moved into her mom's okay so that's pretty rare because i think only like

01:44:56.380 12 or it's like up to 20 i think tops of how women get to be housewives it's pretty rare yeah

01:45:04.220 now she has taken um little odd side jobs throughout yeah the time but um my goal has

01:45:11.580 always been to that she doesn't have to she can if she wants you know if she decides she wants to

01:45:17.820 have something on her own or something to get out of the house or you know get her own however i

01:45:22.340 don't care that i'm fine with that but um i don't want her to have to supplement the money yeah and

01:45:28.720 what do you think are events that contributed to these life cycles in your lifetime was there

01:45:36.700 anything that you like remember maybe shifted the behavior of women around you um well i think that

01:45:44.140 college is is largely a sham now um federal loans are too easy to get and you can never bankrupt out

01:45:53.140 of them so we've got two generations now of americans who are basically indentured servants

01:45:59.260 because they were told they needed to go to college and they didn't really get much out of it

01:46:04.040 I went to college. I don't have debt, but I don't use my degree.

01:46:08.720 You know, it's, I think that's the case for most people. Yeah.

01:46:16.540 Yeah. And I think it's, I think it's just that the sort of consumerism,

01:46:21.900 capitalism, Western achievement mindset, right.

01:46:26.140 That you got to be,

01:46:27.000 go be a boss bitch and get a job and have your own money. And it's not until

01:46:32.060 you're out of time that you realize that working for somebody else actually sucks

01:46:36.200 yeah well thank you very much for calling in appreciate it all right guys what time is it

01:46:45.300 i gotta play i'm playing volleyball tonight so

01:46:48.480 i think i can do one more caller i know i said one more before

01:46:56.600 i think i got time for one more it's only because the gym is next door

01:47:03.640 one more caller this is my last one whoever my producer picks sean you're the lucky guy

01:47:14.600 hello sean yeah i got you loud and clear what's good how are you

01:47:20.040 do? I'm great. How are you doing? I'm good. You're still winning, yeah? Yeah. So I'm

01:47:29.020 going to win tonight in volleyball, I'll tell you what. I hope so. Thank you. Don't

01:47:33.760 lose. Thank you. So today we're talking about the modern woman life cycle. Did you hear

01:47:39.480 me list the modern woman life cycle? Yeah, yeah, you got it. You nailed it on the head.

01:47:45.280 Okay. So the question is, how accurate is this model? Did I leave anything out? And the more

01:47:51.440 specific examples, if you think it's accurate, I'd like to know specific examples from your life.

01:47:57.220 If it's inaccurate, same thing. Or if there's something I left out, I just want to know where

01:48:02.040 you guys got it from. No, no, no. I say you'll be accurate. And also I dated and lived overseas for

01:48:09.180 about 20 years now so that's not just the west it's a global thing so i would say the only thing

01:48:18.020 is sometimes you know it's reversed sometimes the women do have the children early but then they do

01:48:23.120 all the other stuff afterwards you get what i'm saying yeah so they have the children be in a

01:48:27.820 relationship for about 15 20 years especially in a place like asia so but later on they're like what

01:48:34.060 did i do okay now i'm gonna go get that now i'm gonna be a boss babe or boss cougar what age do

01:48:41.220 they typically do that like if you if you catch a cougar in the wild like how old is she usually

01:48:46.680 40. oh 40 okay 40 they out here while in pearl they're like they're just doing whatever they

01:48:54.400 want because everything's secure after that point you know like the kids are a little bit older

01:48:59.400 they're okay with it they're like okay mom do what's best for you and then at that point she's

01:49:05.540 just hitting a gym getting a dog going to the spa you know just the exit plan it's living the good

01:49:11.760 life and then the ex-husband is the ex-husband do they pay for it there too yeah it's pretty bad

01:49:18.420 though they set up like loans you can go get a loan for your wife if you need to pay for settlements

01:49:23.140 for divorces so that's a thing that's available so you got to go out and get a loan and then you

01:49:28.420 pay for her divorce and an exit so guys would be like driving a taxi for hours trying to pay off

01:49:34.980 the loan and stuff it's crazy where are you at what country well i was all over but currently

01:49:42.420 i'm in thailand okay and are there any difference for about two years where in asia do they tend to

01:49:49.460 do it like where do they do the modern world woman life cycle young and where do they do it old

01:49:55.700 young they definitely do it in a place like china but it'll just be expedited a lot you get

01:50:02.340 because once you turn 25 you kind of old so that's why there's a lot of leftover women

01:50:08.320 uh i would say maybe in like southeast asia then they do it in reverse okay and they do it in

01:50:15.020 reverse and so thailand would you say it's reverse then there yeah yeah thailand would be reversed

01:50:20.180 indefinitely later on in a place like because it's like about development if the country's

01:50:25.300 develop they got more opportunities you get what i'm saying so they could seize those early versus

01:50:31.140 and underdevelop or developing then they'll go ahead and do it the other way and have you been

01:50:36.500 single for most of the 20 years you said you were overseas no i've been in relationships long term

01:50:43.380 or long distance um and they've been cool they've been good but always overseas always thought you

01:50:49.620 know dating outside your marketplace gave you a little bit better uh negotiating power and

01:50:54.980 marketplace value but as far as being overseas guys say oh man it's the west's decline of

01:51:03.540 civilization i'm like bro you don't know anything because guys over in china they

01:51:09.220 got to have a free and clear mortgage on a house in three cars all paid for in order to get a mate

01:51:16.020 it's very hard it's super hard globally for people to pair now with the world developing the way it is

01:51:24.980 And you said in China, they're leftover after 25.

01:51:30.840 Yeah, maybe like you could do 23.

01:51:34.160 I'm really pushing it with 25, but 23, you're kind of considered the leftover.

01:51:38.760 There's a whole name for it.

01:51:40.680 And it's pretty hard, man, though.

01:51:42.800 It's brutal to get a woman.

01:51:44.740 You have to have like, you know how we got those little calculators that say delusional?

01:51:49.620 Yeah.

01:51:49.900 And then they like put this in.

01:51:51.460 Yeah.

01:51:51.640 well over there those girls have the calculator but it's for like if i look like this if i'm this

01:51:56.840 much weight and i got this you have to make this much so they have to have a lot of they have to

01:52:02.340 have a lot of single women then there too i'm guessing yeah yeah they have a good amount

01:52:08.120 especially in places like japan it's super terrible i mean like people haven't even

01:52:13.600 dated in seven years it's like the government has to pay people to try to like get together and

01:52:19.920 host events to learn how to talk to each other it's pretty extreme and what about promiscuity

01:52:26.780 are they less slutty there or is it similar like that's that way because i have one um one guy out

01:52:34.480 of my show ryan dawson he married a japanese woman and he swears up and down that japanese

01:52:40.100 women are not slutty and not like that i i'm not i'm not saying they are they aren't i don't know

01:52:46.920 i don't know japanese women so i would say for the most part they could possibly be just more

01:52:52.680 on the low about it under the radar i wouldn't just say it's braggadocious in your face like

01:52:57.560 as it is in some western countries like man i get it you know you'll be like what the heck

01:53:02.920 they're a little bit more you know a little bit clandestine with it you get me so but i would say

01:53:09.800 i don't really think it was the whole social networking thing i just people people don't

01:53:14.280 realize people got choices and i just think it's just people they make those decisions they can

01:53:20.200 decide to listen to pearl but come on they're like man she telling me to do this and do this

01:53:26.480 and i'm trying to be out here pursuing my goals and most of the moms told them to do this hey girl

01:53:33.860 you know when you get older i don't do what i did you know go out and explore adventure live your

01:53:40.340 life and so i think it's just people making their own decisions they get influenced yeah but i don't

01:53:46.560 think that's no excuse it's just like you do decide to do what you want to do period you know

01:53:52.500 what um i heard the same thing from african women um like when i was in london a lot of the women

01:53:58.480 that came on were like second generation um nigeria zimbabwe ghana like a ton and um that

01:54:06.840 was a really common story i heard was that their mothers were married for like 50 years or 40 years

01:54:12.520 and their moms told them not to do it don't do it yeah that's exactly and and i'm like does

01:54:20.500 your dad know that she told you that they're like no he probably throw a fit you know what i'm saying

01:54:28.520 like they don't play but she definitely go get your education uh go do this because you know

01:54:35.280 a lot of them say i stayed in it because i didn't have much of an option is what they'll argue and so

01:54:43.600 yeah it's just changing but i think men's problem most of it is they're just not

01:54:48.560 they're always trying to give women that out like i'm in a social network and it's tick tock that's

01:54:52.640 the issue like man they're grown they're making these choices you get me you got a dude say that

01:54:59.440 his girl was hitting on him like geez louise so i mean people making decisions to do what they want

01:55:07.360 what do you find the differences dating over there like i'm an american woman does it take longer to

01:55:16.000 like sleep with a woman there are they like are traditional dates more common i'm just

01:55:21.360 wondering the differences uh you know they're gonna call me a 666 so you know for me it's

01:55:28.080 it goes a little bit different but and but what i would say is that no it doesn't when i you know

01:55:37.280 tap into the people who are just like locals and you know i have a lot of local friends and they're

01:55:41.840 getting raked off the coals rich and just middle class but i would say if you're dating overseas

01:55:47.280 the one thing that's just different is the landscape like in america there's so much

01:55:52.080 things that women can pull on like the government the rest of society that you know what i'm saying

01:55:57.760 to interfere and people mostly in the world they let people live like your family your business

01:56:04.080 you get what i'm saying yeah but we're always like interjecting so i think that's the big difference

01:56:09.760 where there is no child support you get me like the thai government ain't got time to be running

01:56:14.800 around chasing dudes and figuring out like who's paying 10 bucks and not like yeah they got other

01:56:20.720 problems like road and water so they're just like nah you're gonna be homeless if you don't get the

01:56:26.240 the right man so now it kind of forces people to make sure they kind of make the better you know

01:56:31.400 what i'm saying yeah because overseas you can end up on the street as a woman with kids versus the

01:56:38.200 west that's like almost impossible right like housing programs welfare so i think that's the

01:56:44.180 big difference where girls are like look i could really be homeless out here underneath a bridge

01:56:49.180 with kids and that's completely fine in a different country and is divorce pretty big

01:56:54.840 in the in like china for example uh no it's a little bit lower you know especially like a place

01:57:02.860 like japan it's developed like us right yeah um so net net it's like two percent divorce rate

01:57:09.160 babies out of wedlock is extremely low and there's shame there's shame in that culture yeah

01:57:15.040 it's shame in that well let's just say japanese divorce rate is really no way go ahead yeah check

01:57:21.580 me i it's super low holy crap uh and shame is shame is a thing over there in that culture they

01:57:29.840 shame the heck out of you but people are just refusing to get in relationships then rather

01:57:36.780 than be shamed yeah that's what yeah so that's why they have to pay these things so that's why

01:57:43.320 we tell guys they're like we need to bring back shame it's gonna work and then it's like girls

01:57:48.060 could still be like i'm not getting married bump that that's what they're doing in japan they're

01:57:52.540 like i'm not about to get shamed i'm about to just stay over here i think they have a new thing

01:57:57.580 called friendship marriage so it's just like they're having friendships and then having a

01:58:03.320 contract with them as friends it's all i guess they innovate in new ways to make it work but

01:58:09.820 and in asia do they prefer black guys and like what like what's the hierarchy in like

01:58:18.360 is race a big do they prefer to date other asians did it like white i'm just curious by race how it

01:58:25.160 goes i think everybody prefers to date their own so that's like the baseline not even i don't find

01:58:31.820 that in america i don't think so for asian women they always go white i'm going oh sorry god what

01:58:38.500 wait who say it again like in america i see asian women they seem to pick white guys first

01:58:43.660 oh no yeah definitely because they're in like a population where it's majority of uh whites you

01:58:49.880 get me and that's like the mono culture but it and then like i said it goes down to that culture

01:58:55.020 thing it goes down to uh you know when they get older they want to connect with somebody more so

01:59:01.720 than just like have the adventures and fun and curiosity and diversity so dude like me always

01:59:07.460 got like girls because they were just interested they were like i never been with a black american

01:59:11.620 man and so i was like neither have i but net net that's where we kind of connected and so but it

01:59:18.980 was early on and then when they get older they're kind of like nah i really want to settle down with

01:59:23.620 someone who can get me get my customs my culture you get what i'm saying so it's a small fraction

01:59:30.660 so i wouldn't even say it's based off of the color like overseas if you're a competent male

01:59:36.580 fathers would appreciate that because they're like man's better than the men here locally

01:59:41.860 because you might be a high performer in the west or something yeah so they kind of respect that so

01:59:47.060 i've been with girls who dads were politicians owned banks in japan uh prominent families but

01:59:54.260 that was because i was you know a diplomat working at the u.s embassy i had my life in order and are

01:59:59.220 people less um superficial they're dating like are they more practical in asia like you like in um

02:00:07.700 the us it's very shallow it's very looks oriented um would you say it's the same in asia or it's a

02:00:14.020 little different no it's it's a little bit more practical but not too don't go too extreme but

02:00:20.340 it's a little bit more practical because again in the developing country people are trying to secure

02:00:25.860 security resources and so they're gonna put that logic into it because there is no government

02:00:31.700 programs but they're like all right you know i can get some housing i can't get no housing if

02:00:36.820 i don't secure this relationship or you know secure some form of security inside of people

02:00:42.820 because there's no state support yeah got it well thank you so much interesting yeah thank you so

02:00:50.500 much for sharing um sorry for all the questions but i've always been really curious because

02:00:54.660 i've sort of um i've thought the same thing that it's really not that different because when i was

02:01:00.960 in london i would hear so many men have the same complaints and they would be from um more of

02:01:07.500 africa than asia on the show but it would be like africa eastern europe and they would all be like

02:01:12.860 the same thing couple yeah yeah one of the worst women i ever had on my show was italian

02:01:18.660 my god the craziest oh yeah yeah but there's some differences i'm not going to say there's none

02:01:25.060 dudes be you know password bros be going crazy but what i'm just saying is like

02:01:31.780 it's changing you know it's evolving at the end of the day as you say i think it would be just

02:01:38.100 best for dudes to focus on having a great life and it is what it is man you gotta let people ride out

02:01:44.180 if they make choices they make them but hey you gotta win don't lose go out here and do your thing

02:01:50.180 and uh keep doing your thing on youtube because we greatly appreciate it well thank you so much

02:01:55.300 for calling in peace out all right guys that is my last caller for the day because i gotta go win

02:02:04.660 a volleyball game and i think they're here so anyways guys um i i'm considering doing a later

02:02:13.140 show but I do like to play volleyball on Fridays so if you have a time you guys suggest I want to

02:02:20.220 get the best call-ins I might experiment with a late night one but I don't want to be up half

02:02:25.740 the night so I'm like anyways let me know what you think I'm too old for volleyball I mean I'm

02:02:34.080 telling you I'm the youngest one at this league it's not that competitive anyways like the video

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Pearl - January 04, 2025

The Modern Woman LifeCycle ｜ Pearl Daily

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