Pearl - The Only Divorce Setup That Doesn’t Destroy Men w⧸ @thisisshah

00:00:00.000 i don't think i had a divorce story that was super bad from two people making the same yeah i don't

00:00:06.160 i'm not saying i'm sure they're out i'm sure they're out i mean there's the emotional nightmare

00:00:10.480 part yeah yeah i mean they'll cheat yeah that part sucks but at least you know you'll have like

00:00:17.040 here's the thing if you're gonna end up getting divorced you guys make around the same and i've

00:00:21.360 always read this in orders what will happen is both parties usually agree to terminate spousal

00:00:26.240 support so the court will write court terminates jurisdiction to award spousal support and then

00:00:30.480 that's it you know they might set child support to zero and they might just figure out custody 0.78

00:00:34.640 on their own now later on that could be an issue and she might say oh i want to keep custody from

00:00:40.080 him and they'd have to go through that but at least you have money to fight for custody at least

00:00:44.800 you're not paying imagine paying alimony paying child support we're fast even if your divorce

00:00:50.560 isn't complete yet you'll be changing child support um you're paying all this and then

00:00:55.200 somewhere along the line you got to figure out how to fight for custody and you know there's a

00:00:59.280 lot of custody horror stories out there to where a guy spends over a hundred thousand dollars just

00:01:03.600 to get some small percentage of custody so it's all you know kind of a pirate victory there so

00:01:09.520 yeah i you know on the job i'm looking at this and i'm just like man i'm hearing stuff in the space

00:01:14.880 and you know on the one hand tran trad cons are saying this i'm like oh no that's bad you even

00:01:19.920 get red pill guys will say oh no you know we we want this we want that the guy should make all

00:01:24.880 the money and do that okay fine if that's what you want but if you hit

Pearl - June 06, 2025