00:00:00.000So Pearl's on travel. So she said, Hey, you want to do a show? I said, yeah, sure. Of course. Why don't I just cover the early episodes of the pregame show? If you guys aren't aware, Pearl had a show in London called the pregame show. And she used to have people on her show, bringing in people from all over London.
00:00:21.060well i'm gonna cover some of the early days right because the reason why the show is called the
00:00:28.720pregame was because pearl played on a volleyball team and she would bring her teammates on before
00:00:36.040games or after games so she called it the pregame show so anyway so let me tell you a little bit
00:00:43.180about me i'm doug mpa and i first became a fan of pearl back in 2021 i became a mod on her channel
00:00:49.920back before she had 20 000 subs and um she used to have a call-in show on instagram i called them
00:00:57.760there a couple times and then we became friends offline and i told her way back then i said you're
00:01:01.840gonna be a big deal she's like you really think so i said yes and now she's over two million subs
00:01:08.080so anyway um thank you everyone for being here i really appreciate it
00:01:13.760pearls doing some travel that's essential to the future of the channel right now so um i wish her
00:01:19.440well in her travels and uh yeah so i've been supporting pearl for the last three four years
00:01:26.480i truly believe in what she's doing i've seen her growth i'm really proud of where she is
00:01:31.920and i was helping behind the scenes for a long time and then she wanted me to become officially
00:01:36.320part of the channel matt butcher in the chat haven't seen you in forever steve m jj uh espy
00:01:44.960colton steve m the moderator guy foe all you guys good to see you okay so sorry about the
00:01:52.560the beginning i'll probably edit that out when this is done anyway so um we're gonna start with
00:02:01.520in the chat sometimes i put cheska ah ah ah if anyone has been here long enough you'll know
00:02:08.740exactly why I do that, because you are going to see that clip right now. Let me share my screen
00:02:16.000real fast. Make sure to like the video, subscribe if you haven't already. We really appreciate that.
00:02:21.480We got to 2 million subs. We are on our way to 3 million subs.
00:02:26.400So I still see people coming in here. Thank you for joining me on this Saturday.
00:05:13.360The disrespect with this woman is real, right?
00:05:16.100And also, this is a conversation they're having about trans women in sports, because this was at the end of 2020, early 2022, and what was going on with the Transformers in women's sports, guys.
01:26:33.800do you rate single mothers who have a child at a wedlock
01:26:38.680differently than a single mother who adopt a child yes or no yes or no
01:26:44.840isn't right if you're not happy you can leave and i was like however i do recognize that maybe i know
01:26:53.160one of them was actually like a complete like narcissist psychopath he lied about having cancer
01:26:57.360he told me he had a cancer and he didn't and i was like you're actually about this is when she's
01:27:01.140talking about her toxic ex's watch regardless of where she sits on the political spectrum whether
01:27:07.540she's conservative or liberal whatever if a woman wants to have kids with a man and she wants to
01:27:13.280build a family she will always care to some degree about how much he can make i think the only
01:27:18.420anomaly that i would have to take nod to is there are some women who choose to have kids like on
01:27:22.360their own who choose to like happen and they're like no do you think that's wise when again we
01:27:27.520need 2.5 million to oh yeah the sound let me go a little further
01:27:31.920also want to be confident and secure and i don't care if other people accept me or not
01:27:40.600and it's uh it's messy it's messy it's messy okay i'm gonna read some super chats um okay so the next
01:27:48.300one uh did i read this already i can't remember uh did i did i do that oh yeah okay okay if i
01:27:57.620didn't already um sentience you are you whatever happened to sentience he should drop hundred
01:28:03.380dollar bombs in the super chats before he was cool i hope he's still around i know he's still
01:28:07.960listed as a mod on my channel zentians if you're out there come back man where have you been
01:28:12.840i think he's a doctor or something because he always say oh yeah i'm watching
01:28:16.520while i'm doing my rounds okay and he always dropped hundred dollars super chats
01:28:21.400in the super chat i've been super chatting a lot lately i thank you
01:28:27.000did i did i do that oh yeah okay okay if i didn't already um sentience you are
01:28:32.360you have been super chatting a lot lately i thank you i'll by the way guys all donations go
01:28:37.960I'm reinvesting it into the studio. So I just got a new camera. I think I broke my mic. I'm not
01:28:44.640really sure like what's going on with them. They're having problems. I might send money.
01:28:50.820Anyways, and I'm going to get a new table. I'm going to get a wooden one because it's like better
01:28:55.200for sound. So Zentience, I hope I said that right. But you allow the man to finish inside you. You
01:29:01.460even said you would stop it under certain circumstances. Why not stop it under all
01:29:05.080circumstances accepting accepting responsibility is not conditional either be responsible or not
01:29:11.040oh i don't let me i don't let men finish the side yeah oh so that might have been i don't let men
01:29:16.220a hundred dollars super chat yeah i should i played a sound i don't really know that's right
01:29:26.860i haven't actually figured out how to use the soundboard yet but um pro actions predict future
01:29:31.980behavior past actions predict future behavior if a woman is impaired bonding look it up she is
01:29:37.180more likely to revert to being a 304 infidelity divorce and if she isn't bonded to her mate what
01:29:42.380sense what sense man is going to willing to bet she will is willing to bet that she will make
01:29:48.620moral and sound decisions so it's like she's saying like if you're sleeping around now like
01:29:53.020then that like um i think that's really reductionist um so if you knew me i was suicidal i tried to
01:29:58.940kill myself uh of course she was it's funny because you know i'm from the west coast from
01:30:06.380a very liberal state and she sounds like a girl from where i'm from but just with english accent
01:30:13.180and here's the thing i mean you can tell by the glasses and the short hair guys
01:30:17.020tell me i'm lying and then where would you rate her on a scale of one to ten
01:30:22.620because it's a shame because once again i think she's doing this whole
01:30:29.540you know i'm gonna have my hair short and these goofy glasses to fight the patriarchy but then
01:30:36.040well i can't say that because because she's out here in these streets letting guys hit it raw
01:30:40.280getting chlamydia so never mind a couple of times um and so if you knew me who i was um even a year
01:30:47.720ago no actually not a year ago a year ago was good but two years ago i was very codependent
01:30:52.140i was very i had very low self-worth i had and so to be like your past actions determine who you are
01:30:57.980no it's all about self-awareness it's all about like you can't say if a guy went to prison three
01:31:02.460times from for attempted battery he might do it again oh no no 100 100 like you you can say that
01:31:08.940you can say that but to reduce a woman to be like oh just because so i was very codependent and so
01:31:15.020the men i date now would be like well based on your history you want a relationship with me you're
01:31:20.060gonna fall in love with me and i'm like you are very confused i don't want that at all right now
01:31:24.300i will because i'm very different i've been i've been single by choice for a year and a half like
01:31:29.340that's not a bad thing it's okay to like fall in love but it's been a year and a half it's been a
01:31:33.420year and a half and i've not yeah but but i'm i'm saying like can i ask you a question if you met a
01:31:39.420guy that you really liked and you were considering him for a relationship and he told you that he
01:31:44.060had cheated in every relationship previous to this are you saying that would not at all impact his
01:31:50.940desirability to you for a boyfriend no i'm not saying that i'm not again it's that's it it's not
01:31:56.460black and white it's not one size fits all i will i will keep saying so i'm green i'm blue in the
01:32:00.380face it's not one size at all it's not saying not saying the nuance and it depends the the
01:32:07.180nuance gang and it depends gang that it'd be like not saying it's the deciding factor but like would
01:32:13.500it not shift your opinion of him potentially as a boyfriend or do you think it that would not
01:32:18.540impact your view of him at all no no being being realistic yeah it would be being a realist yeah
01:32:23.420in the same way so you'd understand if a guy viewed like yeah basically sleeping around a
01:32:28.060lot the same way but then we've got yeah yeah but then we've got um if you ever like 500 days
01:32:33.900of summer is one of my favorite films and she says when you know you know and i've dated a lot
01:32:37.420of guys who are like i'm never gonna be relation i'm never gonna i was like well you will you will
01:32:41.020meet someone at some point in your life it's probably inevitable that you will meet someone
01:32:45.420that you're like i'm gonna settle down i don't agree with when you know you know i think that
01:32:49.980you make a choice and like that's it like i don't think most people well yeah but when you know that
01:32:56.700it's the right choice but i'm saying i don't think you'll ever know and i think that's like a lot of
01:33:00.860like now fear today and like dating today is people thinking that they're just gonna they're
01:33:05.020just gonna know but all you can do is make a decision with the information that you have
01:33:10.380but then yeah but then you'll know that's your decision and even nowadays like people are dating
01:33:15.740i don't believe that there is a one or a soulmate i just know that guys look us people in the red
01:33:24.220pill space we can say don't get married don't have kids it's a bad idea but in my lifetime most men
01:33:31.020are going to get married there's never going to be a point where in society in general less than
01:33:37.18050% of men get married. Not what I'm, I'm around, but so unfortunately, but what happens is, is a
01:33:47.860man will achieve enough and say, I can get married now. And he'll, he'll start looking for a woman
01:33:53.720to do it. That's what it is. And if you are in a major city, if you are in a city that has a foot,
01:34:00.600a football team, a basketball team in an international airport, there are women from
01:34:06.340all over the place. And guys, you owe it to yourself to be productive as a man. One, even if
01:34:12.140it's not for a woman, you owe it to yourself to be productive. But number two, if you're in a major
01:34:18.220city, Los Angeles, DC, Chicago, Dallas, you have more of a chance to find a traditional minded
01:34:28.560woman who's not from this country or who's from a different culture. And I know plenty, I know
01:34:33.400Too many guys who didn't achieve, didn't uphold their masculine performance, and they met a judicial-minded woman, and the woman just moved on because he didn't do the work necessary.
01:34:47.020Now, I don't recommend getting married.