Pearl - The Redpill vs. Religion： Do 304s Fear God？

00:00:00.000 The thing is, you just said, can we agree that there's no God in marriage?

00:00:03.600 You don't have to agree.

00:00:05.020 Part of the past.

00:00:06.120 If you go back and you look at the English, this has all been there. 0.99

00:00:09.660 People were getting their heads chopped off.

00:00:11.180 The Crusaders were doing their things across countries, and they were spreading Christianity through threats and violence. 0.97

00:00:15.600 What does that have to do with anything?

00:00:16.080 Now, that's what you're trying to uplift.

00:00:18.020 That's what you're trying to uphold.

00:00:19.220 I don't even know what the hell you're talking about.

00:00:20.460 You wouldn't know what I'm talking about. 0.89

00:00:21.960 I don't.

00:00:22.080 That's where you're lacking.

00:00:22.700 I have no idea.

00:00:23.360 So catch up.

00:00:23.880 You're sitting in the car for me.

00:00:24.940 What does the Crusaders have to do with divorce?

00:00:26.000 That was when your holy marriage was the best marriage that you're trying to go to.

00:00:30.140 Now, listen.

00:00:30.640 In the 1950s?

00:00:31.840 So what he's saying is you can't romanticize the past.

00:00:35.240 If you weren't there, you don't know.

00:00:37.600 You can speculate based on evidence, but I'm going to be honest, guys.

00:00:41.700 I don't want to be a farmer.

00:00:43.820 And if I was born in the 1950s, I would have to be a farmer.

00:00:47.560 Were we crusading in the 1950s?

00:00:49.040 No, no, no.

00:00:49.740 What the hell are you talking about?

00:00:50.880 You talked about the institution of marriage for 2,000 years.

00:00:54.100 Yeah.

00:00:54.300 Sir, do you need me to catch you up on what you're talking about?

00:00:57.480 You're having trouble keeping up with me.

00:00:59.100 You're having trouble keeping up with me.

00:01:01.220 You said 2,000 years ago.

00:01:02.720 And I told you 2,000 years ago, they were chopping people's heads off.

00:01:06.580 Which has what to do with anything?

00:01:07.680 I need you to catch up with me, sir.

00:01:09.360 Okay.

00:01:09.720 If you want to take things back to the past, you have to accept everything as the past.

00:01:13.740 You can't just cherry pick.

00:01:15.560 Wow.

00:01:15.840 Here's the thing.

00:01:16.360 You're cherry picking.

00:01:17.340 If you want to take things back to the tradition, take it all the way back.

00:01:20.440 Why stop at the 50s?

00:01:22.020 Take it back to the 1890s.

00:01:23.800 What you're saying right now is so incoherent, I actually don't even understand it.

00:01:27.780 Well, that's what, listen.

00:01:29.160 It's completely incoherent.

00:01:31.400 No, that made sense to me.

00:01:32.900 It's because we have a tendency as people to romanticize different eras.

00:01:37.740 But it doesn't really matter.

00:01:39.640 It's kind of a useless conversation because we're alive today.

00:01:44.380 There's pros and cons of every generation.

00:01:46.500 In the 1950s, my husband probably would have died in the war.

00:01:49.080 Or I'm working on a farm.

00:01:50.820 Screw that.

00:01:51.460 I want to be a streamer.

00:01:52.640 Sorry.

00:01:56.120 Yeah.

00:01:56.680 Running out of bullets.

00:01:57.820 The last thing you do is the shame.

00:01:59.680 All right.

00:01:59.880 I'm not even trying to shame you.

00:02:01.060 It's just incoherent.

00:02:01.940 I need you to catch up with me.

00:02:03.080 Okay.

00:02:03.540 Catch me up.

00:02:04.260 Just say you're lacking if you can't keep it up.

00:02:06.440 All right.

00:02:06.820 Now, here's a problem.

00:02:07.680 It's incoherent.

00:02:08.380 Here's a problem.

00:02:09.220 Here's a problem.

00:02:09.720 I don't know what to tell you.

00:02:10.740 Here's a problem.

00:02:11.400 You're having me.

00:02:11.600 2,000 years ago, they were chopping heads off. 1.00

00:02:13.220 Who gives a shit? 0.99

00:02:13.860 What does that have to do with anything? 0.99

00:02:14.680 Listen, you said 2,000 years ago.

00:02:15.680 I'm coming up with yours.

00:02:16.840 Your holy religious, 2,000 years ago, has been a part of the institution.

00:02:19.740 What does that have to do with this?

00:02:21.620 Exactly.

00:02:22.300 Here's the problem.

00:02:23.560 You're cherry picking.

00:02:24.940 Cherry picking what?

00:02:26.520 Listen.

00:02:27.160 I'm listening.

00:02:27.880 I'm going to slow you down.

00:02:29.140 I'm going to slow you down because I see what you're doing here.

00:02:31.280 I'm going to slow you down.

00:02:32.220 Okay.

00:02:32.600 Because it's hard for you to keep up.

00:02:33.840 It is.

00:02:34.500 You're right.

00:02:34.760 I understand.

00:02:35.480 I understand.

00:02:35.980 This is your toughest debate.

00:02:38.420 Your audience knows this.

00:02:39.440 Oh, it's rough.

00:02:39.940 There's no God in marriage in the United States.

00:02:43.420 Can we agree to that?

00:02:44.560 When you get to divorce, there's no God in marriage.

00:02:46.420 No, we can't agree to that.

00:02:47.160 We need to agree to it because when you go into divorce court, there's no God.

00:02:51.720 You can't bring in your God and your Bible. 0.97

00:02:54.340 This was a stay-at-home traditional wife. 1.00

00:02:57.080 You're here.

00:02:57.780 Okay.

00:02:58.180 Thank you.

00:02:59.380 I filed a motion for temporary orders on three different specifics.

00:03:03.880 One is to have John vacate our marital home.

00:03:07.040 Secondly, for the court to accept my proposed parenting plan.

00:03:11.560 And thirdly, to have a court order.

00:03:14.020 Okay.

00:03:14.620 So someone's saying in the chat, they're saying history is relevant.

00:03:18.420 And this is kind of how people get manipulated, not always intentionally.

00:03:23.720 Okay.

00:03:25.140 If the women in the 50s were a certain way, does that matter to the women you have to pick 1.00

00:03:30.340 from today?

00:03:31.480 No.

00:03:32.560 It doesn't matter.

00:03:33.320 It doesn't matter if things were once one way, if they are one way today.

00:03:39.200 Today that John paid child support and spousal maintenance.

00:03:42.860 We've been married for 16 years.

00:03:45.100 I have been the at-home mother to our five children and have homeschooled them for the

00:03:48.820 last nine years.

00:03:49.740 I also manage the majority of our children's extracurricular activities, which includes their

00:03:55.940 involvement in Boy Scouts, orchestra, piano lessons.

00:03:59.720 Recently, my boys are now involved in a hunting certification class, and I often carpool for

00:04:05.880 my son's Irish dance class.

00:04:07.120 I have chosen our children's pediatrician settlement or-

00:04:11.760 Okay.

00:04:12.760 So she's a stay-at-home wife. 1.00

00:04:14.000 She says that part.

00:04:15.000 Let me go to the part where he-

00:04:17.000 Okay.

00:04:18.000 Now we're going to talk to where the guys talk.

00:04:20.240 Just to repeat that to you.

00:04:21.240 So what I don't need repeated, what I need to know is you have indicated he makes X amount

00:04:27.120 of money.

00:04:28.120 And your basis for doing that is you went through all the bank records and you came and you spelled

00:04:33.000 all those bank records out and this is the money he's made.

00:04:35.360 He's indicated in his taxes he makes X amount of money and significantly less.

00:04:39.340 I want to know what the difference between the two of you is.

00:04:42.120 That's it.

00:04:43.120 I don't need to know everything that's in the paper.

00:04:44.580 I want to know why your position is right and he's going to tell me why his position

00:04:47.860 is right.

00:04:48.860 Mine is documented with bank statements.

00:04:50.860 Anything else?

00:04:51.860 No.

00:04:52.860 To try to summarize what's going on, she's unhappy in the marriage. 0.92

00:04:55.940 That's what she wants is a divorce. 1.00

00:04:58.700 We're one big happy family.

00:05:00.500 We work together.

00:05:02.520 She just moved out of the big bed two or three months ago and we get along fine.

00:05:07.120 There's no danger.

00:05:08.920 There's no abuse.

00:05:12.020 My business is integral to staying in the house because there is all the inventory,

00:05:17.640 which she also didn't mention.

00:05:18.980 And all the...

00:05:19.980 What's the inventory?

00:05:20.980 The suits.

00:05:21.980 I'm a custom tailor.

00:05:22.980 So there's all kinds of things in the office.

00:05:23.980 The whole bedroom is full of Ferrell apparel.

00:05:26.700 It's very disruptive to move it anywhere.

00:05:29.440 We do just fine together in the house.

00:05:31.660 The kids want us to stay married. 0.50

00:05:34.320 Everything works just fine as it is and I would submit that to try to break this up or do something

00:05:41.740 or make a decision today would not be wise.

00:05:44.360 I would petition that we have an evaluation done for our family with a social worker, master's

00:05:51.500 in social work to help us find out what really is in the best interest of the children versus

00:05:56.360 breaking this up, which I propose.

00:05:58.360 Okay.

00:05:59.360 So long story short, he gets kicked out of the house.

00:06:02.980 He has a...

00:06:03.980 He's a custom suit designer with a housewife, a Catholic guy. 0.81

00:06:10.200 He like sent me his footage and yeah, and now he's getting kicked out of his marital home.

00:06:17.740 The audacity.

00:06:18.740 Okay.

00:06:20.240 Cool.

00:06:20.680 And at that particular point, none of your ecclesiastics marriage works.

00:06:25.640 Okay.

00:06:26.000 Period.

00:06:26.320 So the thing is, you just said, can we agree that there's no God in marriage?

00:06:31.060 And then he switched...

00:06:31.360 You don't have to agree.

00:06:32.360 But hang on, calm down.

00:06:33.980 And then you switched over to divorce.

00:06:36.720 There's no God in divorce, but those are two different questions and propositions.

00:06:39.780 Hang on, relax.

00:06:41.500 The second thing is, is that me saying that what made marriage a great institution is this

00:06:47.860 whole sky daddy character and that the institution has been in place for 2000 years.

00:06:53.000 And it's been, hang on, hang on, calm down.

00:06:54.440 And it's been a strong institution.

00:06:56.760 I'm not actually sure how tying in...

00:06:59.100 You gotta, you gotta let men know what they get out of this.

00:07:01.920 Cause all the churches, they're going to be dead by the end of the century because they

00:07:07.260 just cannot tell men like what they're going to get out of this.

00:07:12.120 That at the time they cut people's heads off, what that has to do with the fact that in the

00:07:16.060 1950s and forties, you still had 95% of these marriages staying together.

00:07:20.460 This is not ancient history.

00:07:22.500 This is not even early American history.

00:07:25.480 That's hang on.

00:07:26.320 That's in your, in your, in your grandfather's lifetime, basically.

00:07:29.460 And then, by the way, that was the case for black marriages as well.

00:07:31.980 Very strong institutions, but all of those institutions were that way because they followed

00:07:37.460 that whole sky daddy thing.

00:07:39.160 They were like, Oh, that sky daddy's going to smite us if we don't.

00:07:42.760 And so what you do here is you're giving the classic.

00:07:45.720 I don't think women have ever feared God, but I, I think it's more, uh, yeah, like women.

00:07:53.640 Sorry.

00:07:54.140 I just don't believe women ever have had the fear of God in them.

00:07:57.280 Um, you just, I mean, Eve didn't fear God, you know, I, but it was more pragmatic.

00:08:02.940 Um, women had to stay with beta bucks back then. 1.00

00:08:06.680 It's not like we wanted to, we'd rather die than be with beta bucks, but we had to then 0.98

00:08:12.720 progressive argument, which is, well, you know, guys, it is true that it's a great institution

00:08:19.420 and it is true.

00:08:20.240 It's the best place in the world to have children for the continuation of the species.

00:08:24.180 And also it's fantastic for men's health.

00:08:27.740 It's fantastic for their mental health.

00:08:29.460 It's great for them in almost every way, but that divorce thing is real bad.

00:08:33.180 And I counter you're right.

00:08:34.680 That divorce thing is real bad.

00:08:36.420 We have now a center of agreement, but now we're going back to the marriage in the West

00:08:40.100 thing, which is that whole great institution problem.

00:08:42.760 Well, if we agree that what made it good, which you just did is, Hey, that sky daddy guy.

00:08:48.180 And then I point out that right now you can still utilize that sky daddy guy for an ecclesiastical

00:08:53.420 marriage outside of the state.

00:08:55.080 Hang on.

00:08:56.020 And women don't fear God. 0.98

Pearl - November 06, 2025

The Redpill vs. Religion： Do 304s Fear God？

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