Pearl - January 10, 2024


The Stages Of Grief in the Modern World？


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12 minutes

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1,660

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40

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19

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6

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10

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In this episode of Morning Coffee Thoughts, I talk about monogamy and why it's not as normal as it used to be. I also talk about my experience with the Red Pill and how it changed my perspective on sex and relationships.

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00:00:00.160 What up guys, welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Morning Coffee
00:00:04.660 Thoughts where I give my thoughts for morning coffee.
00:00:07.580 So right now, I'm home.
00:00:11.660 And when I'm home, I get this like sense of, I don't know, peace.
00:00:18.160 And that's like the best way I can describe it.
00:00:21.040 It's like a sense of peace that I don't really get anywhere else.
00:00:25.080 um and you really you can't like buy that and it's been kind of weird because i've been filming
00:00:34.020 for this documentary and it's made me go back to a lot of the places like i used to hang out
00:00:40.360 for it um because this documentary is going to talk about um sort of like my journey i guess
00:00:48.280 and the red pill, how I became red pill. And I'm kind of at a weird spot because when I
00:00:58.140 came into the red pill stuff, um, I really was just like curious. Um, when I first heard
00:01:09.340 Kevin Samuels, I'd never heard a guy like talk like that. It was so direct and it kind
00:01:18.060 of triggered me. I was kind of upset at first. Not upset, but I kind of, you know, I mean,
00:01:23.480 how angry are you really going to be? But I was more kind of, I just thought he was
00:01:26.680 kind of douchey. And I kind of went through the not all women are like that stage, the
00:01:32.100 it's just the women you're around, whatever. 0.87
00:01:41.520 But I couldn't stop watching. And then I watched Myron. I liked him less.
00:01:48.060 and then i watched alpha male strategies i watched um john anthony lifestyle
00:01:55.500 playing with fire like i can't even i've watched hundreds of videos
00:02:00.780 and in these videos i realized like everything they teach us in school
00:02:07.520 everything we see on tv about relationships everything we've been told about our parents
00:02:13.880 i'm told from our parents about relationships is just like a lie
00:02:17.400 and maybe not a lie but it's outdated
00:02:20.620 and I'm not trying to be a doomer guys and a lot of times you guys you'll say Pearl
00:02:29.160 you're a doomer you're just a doomer
00:02:36.080 and what I realized is when women are left to her own devices just off of all the content I've 0.99
00:02:43.300 consumed the things i've read etc when women are left to our own devices we want 10 percent of men 1.00
00:02:51.460 we will organize ourselves into harems and share men and many women think that maybe they're not
00:02:59.540 like that or whatever but most women have shared a man at some point either in a situationship
00:03:08.500 or shared a boyfriend they just didn't know it
00:03:13.300 And then when left to their biological like devices, they'll screw as many chicks as possible. 1.00
00:03:20.140 And they're kind of wired to cheat where women are always wired to kind of go on to the next best thing to like do better because they had to filter out the best genes. 1.00
00:03:35.620 And before we had all this stuff in place to stop it.
00:03:39.740 you know, there's religion, there was social shame, you know, there was all of these
00:03:47.140 containers to both of our sexualities.
00:03:54.360 But now with the internet and more choice, women's sexuality is just gone crazy. Like it's 1.00
00:04:06.280 perfectly acceptable for a wife to have an open Instagram. And when you think about an open 0.97
00:04:11.140 Instagram, it's really just an invitation for a higher status man to, you know, swoop in there.
00:04:23.560 And
00:04:24.040 where men, if they have multiple wives or, you know, they want to do the Tate thing, 0.75
00:04:31.560 they have a bunch of baby mamas they're kind of shamed for it where women if you indicate like i 1.00
00:04:37.920 was even thinking of that isabella chick the the cake lady um for those of you that don't know 0.98
00:04:43.780 those are on twitter she's baking a cake on twitter right and this girl's got big boobs okay 1.00
00:04:48.880 very good looking chick but the whole shot it's very clearly like a thirst trap in a way 1.00
00:04:56.980 and anyone that points out that any man that looks at that the first thing they're going to notice 0.97
00:05:05.700 is their tits that is the first thing you know then they'll blame the men or whatever but 0.96
00:05:12.120 every the men are all shamed or everybody's shamed for saying that 0.99
00:05:19.660 and so i just i kind of got to the point where i realized that
00:05:24.200 monogamy is dead and it doesn't exist anymore
00:05:29.960 it is an extreme exception you might think i'm crazy
00:05:36.260 monogamy used to be one person for a lifetime that's like true monogamy 0.98
00:05:42.040 it's not date one person at a time
00:05:45.220 you know now it's normal like stepdads are kind of normal that's not abnormal
00:05:51.020 and really what what's like the difference between that and like what what's the real
00:06:02.440 difference between having two wives at two different periods in time
00:06:05.680 and two wives at the same time like why is one better than the other 1.00
00:06:10.580 or a situationship or you
00:06:15.140 and i just kind of realized that there's no evidence that women when given freedom 0.57
00:06:25.880 will be less sexual so i sort of question are are men really the most sexual ones because
00:06:34.520 women take off their clothes so easy like there's no tomorrow it's like the first thing we do 1.00
00:06:39.700 and you know you find out like four percent of people are virgins on their wedding days
00:06:45.040 and you realize the Adam 22 stuff is going to be like so much more common in the future
00:06:51.820 you know and I started to think to myself what happens if we run out of money
00:06:59.120 and they take away these government benefits
00:07:01.920 it's mostly women on these benefits 1.00
00:07:06.660 it's mostly women on these benefits so what's going to happen 0.99
00:07:13.320 prostitution and we're starting to see that you have the adam 22 stuff you have the destiny stuff 0.99
00:07:22.840 like it's all that's the direction it's going now i really do like going to the suburbs because
00:07:31.240 the city almost like warps the way you see things and there's this girl that
00:07:37.300 always does hit pieces on me and she's always like attacking the way I look 0.99
00:07:40.540 whatever and I don't generally watch it but you know sometimes I think someone
00:07:49.120 sent me something she said I don't remember but and this girl was so
00:07:53.920 obsessed with looks and I kind of looked at her Instagram and I thought where I'm
00:07:59.980 from you would kind of look like a clown because the way that people dress in the cities is like
00:08:05.980 different than the suburbs and all the woke stuff is more in the cities than the suburbs like most 0.95
00:08:12.700 people i know around here are married maybe some are on a second marriage but most people are married
00:08:20.700 and if they divorce they remarry but i thought to myself you know divorce was pretty
00:08:27.260 uncommon a hundred years ago. It's pretty common now.
00:08:33.540 And then I kind of thought to myself, I thought, well,
00:08:37.160 single motherhood was pretty uncommon when I was growing up.
00:08:48.420 I seriously can't think of any.
00:08:52.720 There was maybe like a divorcee that came in when I was like getting,
00:08:55.560 I remember the first girl whose parents got divorced was, like, when I was in fourth grade or third grade.
00:09:04.320 Maybe a couple more later, but it's going to get more common.
00:09:09.440 There's going to be more throuple relationships both ways.
00:09:14.400 And in the suburbs, it's kind of, I think it's going to go that way, too, eventually.
00:09:18.520 because right now we're kind of going back to our evolutionary roots.
00:09:27.420 Like everyone's getting the most freedom that we can get.
00:09:30.560 So the women are going to go for the top men. 1.00
00:09:34.740 And the men are going to go,
00:09:43.000 are going to either be sexless or maybe share a woman you know like lower value women 0.70
00:09:49.740 and I'm pretty optimistic about my future I know you guys aren't
00:09:53.740 um I think I'll be all right but
00:09:58.860 you're still like raising your kids in that world
00:10:03.840 and there's not really much you can do about it and I think there's like um
00:10:11.180 a phase maybe people go through in their early 20s and there's something like inspiring about
00:10:19.180 this phase where you kind of feel like you can conquer the world you're so energetic um
00:10:24.940 and
00:10:27.140 you get to your later 20s your 30s and you start to realize i think things are kind of going to
00:10:35.520 stay this way for the time being this is the direction the world's going in
00:10:42.880 and for what every like billion people that thinks they can change things there's always
00:10:50.000 there's maybe you know one that does and i think that's why the death of kevin samuels
00:10:55.440 like saddens me because that man was starting a movement he was really getting people together he
00:11:01.200 he was actually, like, people were getting married, and
00:11:10.580 I don't know, that sort of movement and, like, mass appeal doesn't happen overly often, so
00:11:19.800 I don't know, I guess this is my morning, it's a night anyway, but my thought is that
00:11:26.640 the world is going this way, and I don't really know what to do about it, because I do believe
00:11:38.260 that traditionalism is the best way forward, and I do believe that's why we're so confused,
00:11:49.700 because they tell us to be egalitarian, and that's why our relationships partially don't work.
00:11:56.640 Um, but I also think you can't really go back.
00:12:03.660 And so there has to be evolutions going forward.
00:12:07.740 And I have to think more about what the evolutions are, but I don't know.
00:12:16.180 Let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:12:18.880 Um, you know, these, these coffee thoughts are just my tangent.
00:12:22.620 so if i'm scatterbrained and disorganized this is what these are let me know what you think
00:12:29.540 in the comments like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel i'll talk to you next time