Pearl - The Tradwife Wars - Modern Tradcons Going Nuts For Stating The Obvious

00:00:00.000 Oh my God. I thank God every day that Twitter did not exist when I was growing up.

00:00:06.040 All right. So, oh my gosh, I was having a conversation with someone I know that's

00:00:11.300 overweight, right? And I'll tell you my thought processes behind this tweet. So I tweeted

00:00:16.240 that people dating is just both parties telling their friends that the other would be cute if

00:00:21.940 they lost weight. Cause I was talking to a fat person the other day about their date.

00:00:27.520 And they said that statement to me that, you know, the other person would be cute if they lost

00:00:32.840 weight. And I'm like, they probably said the same thing about you. Yeah. So I said beta males have

00:00:42.820 no idea they're fighting for their wives to market how good of a wife they are for husband number two, 1.00

00:00:48.440 but you are not ready for that conversations. Beta males will accept being used as marketing for a

00:00:53.800 woman's online brand. They will not only accept it, but they will fight on behalf of women to make

00:00:59.200 it socially acceptable. And married women will die on the hill of making private moments public in 1.00

00:01:05.040 relationship because it gives women power and status. Now I'd like to say this is not meant to 0.95

00:01:14.420 be hateful, but I am, my job is to predict and talk about the trends and the trends is that marriage in the

00:01:25.720 future. And it already is, is instead of a lifelong commitment, it is used to signal status in a group. And

00:01:34.080 it's basically used for women to say to other women, look at how much my husband did for me.

00:01:41.800 So, um, that's, that's marriage nowadays, unfortunately. Um, and I just kind of was

00:01:47.940 trolling these e-girls a little bit because they all post the rings, but never the husband. And I had 0.98

00:01:53.040 to think about this. And I was like, do women ever miss an opportunity to signal status? And I'm like,

00:01:58.180 if their husband looked good enough for them to get status from it, they would post him, but I don't

00:02:04.160 think their husbands do. Um, um, they're e-girls. Everything is about their brand. They know it. 1.00

00:02:19.460 They just don't like having it pointed out. It's kind of like a dude with bad teeth. Um,

00:02:24.620 I was, so I just kept asking the question, am I the bad guy for noticing that women want to be in 1.00

00:02:31.100 relationships to build their brand? And I can't help but notice. And I'll tell you what I, what,

00:02:37.640 you know, I'll tell you what, those are always the worst relationships. Those always are.

00:02:47.560 Um, I'd also like to say publicly, I had no problem with any of the rings involved in this.

00:02:58.820 This one was kind of funny. I'm just kind of going over my tweets for the day.

00:03:03.180 So the Savannah chick, and I got nothing against these women personally. I'd like to, I don't know 1.00

00:03:09.040 you, but I can't see what you're doing. Do you know what I mean? So she had, so Savannah stone,

00:03:18.320 she says, I got engaged and married within the same week. The husband going, didn't go into debt

00:03:22.820 for my ring. We didn't go into debt for a massive wedding. My wedding dress was 60 bucks and overnight

00:03:27.860 shipping didn't go into debt over a honeymoon. It's not about the material and the money spent,

00:03:32.580 which is why so many women obsess over. It's a lifelong commitment under God. If you're 0.99

00:03:37.600 attacking marriage and family for any reason, you're doing the devil's work. So I don't know

00:03:43.840 if this is me attacking marriage, but I can't, I think I have the right to make observations

00:03:51.020 based on what you put publicly available online. Okay. I didn't ask to see you bitches engagement 1.00

00:03:59.620 photos. Okay. I, well, I didn't, I didn't ask for this. Right. But you guys are saying, 0.99

00:04:04.200 here's my personal life. Here it is. Look at my personal life. And then if I say, Hey,

00:04:09.080 this looks kind of performative, I become the villain. Really?

00:04:18.900 Really? I don't know. So I just kind of noticed, and I have to think about what is the thought

00:04:27.860 process behind this post. This is a virtue signal post because she's, she's communicating. I am

00:04:36.520 married. I had a cheap dress. I didn't go into debt, which is fine. Right. I would argue those are

00:04:42.480 all good things. However, you have to understand I'm thinking I'm like the psychology behind wanting

00:04:49.740 to do that. It kind of makes you like, um, a little narcissistic because it's like, look at me.

00:04:59.400 Look how awesome I, do you know what I mean? All right. So pictured wedding ring, not pictured

00:05:06.120 husband. That's what I, and I just, you know, this isn't a personal thing against her, but I see these

00:05:11.860 pictures on the timeline all the time. And I just, I just, I always quote tweeted because it's pretty

00:05:17.960 much always no husband and always the ring. Um, she, uh, Trey came in, he's called into the show.

00:05:26.340 Her ring looks better than Sarah's. I did like the ring. I thought it was super cute. I look at, I

00:05:30.820 got, I got nothing against the ring. They're always tweeting my ex-boyfriend. I get it. I get it. I race

00:05:37.680 mixed. It's like, all right, all right, all right. You know, it's like, I get it. You guys did not,

00:05:47.140 you were not impressed with the ex, all right. We're not together anymore. It's been a few years.

00:05:51.720 We can, we can put the photos away, but anyway, so then everyone comes back at me and beta males

00:06:00.020 will even fight for this. They'll say, are you retarded? And they show me the picture she has 0.98

00:06:05.940 in her, of her husband in the bio. Now, again, I don't necessarily think this is a bad thing.

00:06:17.140 However, I have to call this what it is. Conservative women will always use their 1.00

00:06:22.620 husband, family, and relationship to build their brand. Thank you for proving my point.

00:06:29.620 Now, I, again, I'm not saying that that's a bad thing, but I'm saying that's what it is.

00:06:39.840 Now they always resort to attacking me. They said, what brand is she building you giraffe? 1.00

00:06:44.400 I am pretty tall, so it's fine. She's showing men she's taken and showing a real marriage and

00:06:49.740 real love. And, you know, I just keep thinking, I'm like, is it a real marriage? Is it a real

00:06:55.900 marriage? If you're like live streaming your life and like, do you know what I mean? Cause

00:07:00.500 I think of there's this housewife that lives near me and I just always think of her when

00:07:04.720 I think of the best wife ever. And if I tell her, and I tell her this all the time, I'm like,

00:07:10.360 you're the best wife ever. And she always says, no, no. Like I'm so lucky they put up 0.68

00:07:15.540 with like, that's her mindset, right? Oh no, no. She's the coolest lady ever. She's so

00:07:20.960 cool. And I just, I don't get that humility. Do you know what I mean? I don't get that

00:07:25.780 like humble spirit. When you're like, look at my ring, you can't get in. And I'm like,

00:07:32.780 I don't know. I mean, am I, am I going crazy? Like sometimes I'm like, am I being gaslit here?

00:07:47.200 Um, so they said, what brand is she building? I said, look how awesome I am for being,

00:07:51.240 oh, I should have said married. I think I didn't talk to text, not saying it's good or bad. It is

00:07:56.600 what it is, you know, and you know, there's something about in this society. Like if I,

00:08:07.520 if I was a, I had a teacher, right. And every day the teacher was like, look at my ring, look at my

00:08:12.660 ring, look at my ring. You know, before she started the class, I would think something's up. Like

00:08:19.260 there's something wrong with this lady. Do you know what I mean? Like, I would think something's 1.00

00:08:23.760 kind of weird, but you know, like, it's like when political commentators are talking about politics

00:08:31.700 and they're like, look at my ring, look at my, and I'm not saying all of them do this, right.

00:08:36.420 Or look at me, look how awesome I am. It makes me start to think that something's off.

00:08:41.400 I don't know. Is that immoral? Do you know what I, do you know what I'm saying? Like,

00:08:52.700 is it, is it immoral for me to like notice this? And then I thought about it a little bit more and

00:09:02.000 I'm like, modern marriage is marketing for brand building. I think Rolo has an essay on this,

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00:10:55.640 Oh my God. I thank God every day that Twitter did not exist when I was growing up.

00:11:01.740 I'm not going to trash talk anyone here, but oh my God. Holy shit. You know, because it's really not 0.99

00:11:08.160 fun for the kids. Do you know what I mean? It's not really fun for the kids to have to pose for your

00:11:14.160 mom's social media, right? Um, it's just not fun, right? Yes. Women use the ring and their husbands 1.00

00:11:23.760 for status. It's not good or bad, but it's not what conservative women pretend to be. And this 1.00

00:11:28.860 is their response. They say, you're sad. You're miserable. Uh, you're a mud shark. I get it guys. 0.99

00:11:34.560 I get it. Um, you know, I personally, I'm an equal opportunity employer, but yes, you know,

00:11:42.320 I, do you know what I mean? I don't really want to, I don't know what my personal life has to do with

00:11:50.360 this, you know, and, and I can even say this from experience because I did, you know, when I was

00:11:57.120 younger, I did have a public relationship and that's probably, it was, it was not good. I wish

00:12:02.560 I didn't do that at all. I really wish I didn't. And now they tweet me pictures forever. They do.

00:12:09.720 But usually when you're doing that sort of thing, and I can speak from experience,

00:12:17.660 it's something you're insecure about, right? When you're constantly having to prove to the world

00:12:24.440 that your relationship is awesome, it's usually not awesome.

00:12:28.400 I get it. They're saying, you know, go get a husband. I get it. I, I understand. Look,

00:12:38.420 I look at, I, I understand. I understand their, their point of view, right?

00:12:43.740 Maybe, maybe I'm not the best messenger, right? Maybe there's, there's some, you know, and I,

00:12:49.040 I always try to point to the men that are better than me, right? There, there are many men better

00:12:53.720 than me that know this stuff. And I'll always point to them and say, Kevin Samuels was amazing.

00:12:59.360 Myron is awesome. Um, Rolo, even though he's not the biggest fan of me, awesome. But just from my

00:13:06.500 point of view, it's becoming very performative. All right. What's, um, okay. Now they'll say it's

00:13:22.020 normal for people to post and share life milestones. And a ring is a symbol of the next chapter. So

00:13:28.320 that's the next thing is the women will say, this is a normal thing. This is a normal pro 1.00

00:13:32.520 and to that, I say

00:13:38.500 for women, the good people, gender, not all, not all, they don't do that. Like when I think about my 0.88

00:13:50.480 brothers who they're dating is not really a part of their, like most men don't have an online brand. 0.99

00:13:57.600 What the fuck are you guys talking about? That's normal for women and women normalize this to give 0.99

00:14:03.820 them power because it serves as marketing for their next husband and beta male simps will die on the 1.00

00:14:11.080 hill of them doing this. And they don't understand what's going on. And it gives them social power

00:14:18.320 because after they can say, Ooh, I was abused.

00:14:27.580 Um, okay. Let's see what's next. So that, that was my tweets today. I streamed for like four hours

00:14:34.780 talking about this on Twitter. Mama used to say, don't air your dirty laundry. If you don't want

00:14:40.820 advice on how to clean it, it seems it same goes for anything you put out there. Yeah, I know.

00:14:45.000 And that's why I can't really blame the people for tweeting at me, my, my, my ex from years ago,

00:14:50.000 because you know, it's, it is embarrassing, but I, you know, I did it to myself and I got to live

00:14:55.780 with that consequence, right? That, that is a consequence. Um, but I would warn, you know,

00:15:04.720 speaking from experience, I would warn because you got to think what good are you going to do

00:15:11.180 by putting your, your thing on the internet? You've now become material for my show. So I guess

00:15:16.840 I'm not going to discourage you. Women should post less about their relationship and spend, 1.00

00:15:22.500 instead of spend more time with the kids, drain their man's balls and less energy on clout. 1.00

00:15:30.800 Now, you know, it's totally fine for them to do it because I get content for my show. So I don't 0.94

00:15:37.100 really mind, but I think people are tired of performative conservatism. And it's really sad

00:15:46.160 that the only traditional women that we're going to have in the future are women that build a brand 1.00

00:15:50.780 and make content off of being traditional. And that the traditional women, like the one I live near, 0.97

00:15:57.020 they're just never coming back. Or maybe it's not a bad thing, right? It just is what it is.

00:16:01.300 Um, I said, I liked all the rings. I, you know, I did not criticize the rigs. I don't think that's

00:16:10.660 important. Um, all right. So again, this girl named Dally says I would have gotten engaged with

00:16:16.880 the ring pop. If that's all he had, I can't imagine turning your note down your nose to the

00:16:21.160 size of a ring. Okay. But this again, it's still virtue signaling. It's saying, I, I am a good person

00:16:29.200 because I would accept a small ring. You know, on one hand, I got to respect Emily for just,

00:16:35.180 she just comes out and is like, yeah, I'm a whore. Yeah. Yeah. I'm gold digging. You know, 1.00

00:16:42.380 as much as people criticize that out in the open, like roughness in a way or whatever,

00:16:48.320 where she's like, yeah, I did drug. Yeah. Whatever. It's more honest than what these ladies were doing. 1.00

00:16:53.580 Um, because a lot of the guys that build their brand off of their wife, 1.00

00:16:57.020 you don't really know what your wife was doing at 18. Uh, you know, a lot of guys,

00:17:02.960 their girlfriends had jobs where I'm like, you know, I'm sure she's got something right.

00:17:13.960 Um, it's not until you've seen a mother in person who does performative marriage till you can spot it.

00:17:19.540 Um, yeah. And we just had these where I grew. It's like the Facebook mothers.

00:17:24.460 They moved to LinkedIn and now they're on Twitter.

00:17:29.460 I said, it doesn't count as traditional marriage. If you're making money off of it and broadcasting

00:17:34.080 private moments, cause I'll see these influencers pushing traditional marriage. And I'm like,

00:17:38.800 but what you have, it's not like, if I'm live streaming,

00:17:42.400 are you guys better than only fans models? If you're live streaming, your private like lives at

00:17:51.220 home. I mean, cause the only fans models, they're live streaming private, like their sex lives,

00:17:56.880 which I, okay, maybe it's worse, but it's the same concept. Do you see what I mean? It's the same

00:18:02.120 like pattern of thinking as you're broadcasting private things for the world.

00:18:11.720 Yeah. And that's just, that's kind of the trend. That's where it's going is private things are

00:18:16.980 becoming public. The liberal women are going to make it only fans. The conservative women are

00:18:21.560 going to make it marriage. And it's just going to be a live stream off. And I'm not saying that's a

00:18:26.540 bad thing. I'm not, I'm not, I'm really not. You know, I think there's people that make it work. I

00:18:31.280 think Mr. Beast and his like girlfriend are kind of wholesome. I think it's kind of cute what they're

00:18:35.600 doing and he's owning it. Right. But he's not pretending to be Mr. Trad. You know, it's impossible

00:18:47.020 for conservative women to not use their marriage for cloud. I've just never seen it. I've never

00:18:51.880 seen a woman get married and not use it to signal status to their followers, to their group chat or 0.52

00:19:01.700 whatever. I've just never seen it. I don't think it's possible. I don't think it exists. I don't.

00:19:09.080 New marriage is brand building marriage. Just more of the wedding ring. Yeah. And it's just them.

00:19:17.400 I'm just being gaslit this week. I'm really tired of being gaslit and just told about

00:19:23.180 the ex-boyfriend. I get it. You guys don't like the whatever, but anyways, so yeah,

00:19:31.900 this is the future. Their Twitter accounts give women's Twitter accounts, give them followers and 1.00

00:19:41.180 money and guess what they use it for their kids, their ring and private family moments. So

00:19:47.140 yet now marriage is not only a contract now, but it's a brand.

Pearl - August 08, 2025

The Tradwife Wars - Modern Tradcons Going Nuts For Stating The Obvious

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