Pearl - September 20, 2024The TRUTH About Why Most WOMEN Push For MARRIAGE ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about why most women push for marriage, why women cheat on their husbands, and why they do it so often. I also talk about how to spot when a woman is lying to her husband.
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Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Audacity Network and welcome to another
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episode of Pearl Daily, where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness.
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However, I have been focusing on recently the lessons I learned in a thousand, sorry,
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in a two years of shows interviewing a thousand women. So today I wanted to go over a couple
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things I saw on X and talk about the truth about why most women push for marriage and how women
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see marriage as an end goal and not being a wife or being marriage worthy. And part of the reason
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supercharge your masculinity. Don't be a simp. Okay, guys. So I was on X and as normal or Twitter
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X, I just, I can't, X is tougher. Before we get into the main story today,
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I, as you guys know, I came from more of a trad, con, I guess, thought process. I went to 12 years
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of Catholic school and I used to watch the Daily Wire all the time. And what happened was I was
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working a sales job in Milwaukee and I decided to go to England to play volleyball. I had a small
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YouTube channel on the side. It blew up and ended up getting a billion views and I interviewed a
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thousand people. And the funny thing that happens when you interview a thousand people is you really
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have to put your worldview to the test. Is what you think true? Because you'll have a panel full
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of people and you're asking them the same types of questions and you start to notice patterns.
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during the year I was interviewing people or the two years
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I was working on a divorce documentary and I interviewed men that were victims of divorce
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grape now if you don't know what divorce grape is I can't say you know that word on YouTube we're
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trying to stay YouTube friendly it's basically men that got screwed over in divorce many times
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they had false accusations. Many times they had lost their kids. It had been years since they'd
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seen them. And once I'd seen this enough times, I knew the patterns to look for, for a woman that was
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accusing someone of something when they didn't do it. Because I could just kind of sniff it out.
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And it would happen often on my show where a woman would say she was abused by her ex-boyfriend.
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And it got to be so common that it was almost every other show, a woman would casually mention
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her abusive ex. And in my head, if you're willing to, on a public platform, publicly mention that
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your ex was abusive, when people know oftentimes who your ex is, I want to make sure you're telling
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the truth. So I would ask maybe three questions and I would say, okay, tell me specifically what
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happened. And they're never expecting this because in day-to-day conversations, they just get away
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with calling men abusive. And so I would ask a couple questions that I would find out that they
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were not in fact abused. And oftentimes what they do is they expand the definition of abuse. So
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emotional abuse. So if you get cheated on, were you abused or did you take an L? Serious question
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for women. Like, is it abuse if you get cheated on? I mean, it's happened to the best of us.
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it's unpleasant. I don't prefer it. But I mean, abusive, gaslighting, I think that's pretty,
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I think that's a little bit extreme. So when Hillary Crowder came out and started when that
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ring footage leaked last year, and I've talked about this case a lot. And the reason I keep
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bringing it up because it was so similar to a lot of the people that I interviewed, the men that
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were victims of divorce grades. When she had the footage leaked of Crowder yelling at his wife,
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everyone called it abuse. I knew what was happening because what happens is women always
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want to build careers and platforms off of victimhood. And whether it's in their town,
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their social circle, reputation destruction is the number one tool of women. That's how we survived
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because if we wanted to, we can't physically attack someone. So what do we do? We destroy
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their reputation. And what, so when I saw her Instagram profile or Twitter profile,
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we can pull this up, and it said twin mom rebuilding from the rubble.
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And we later come to find out she was getting $25,000 a month.
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Thumbs up, thumbs up if rubble is $25,000 a month.
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So that's how a lot of people wondered, how did I know when everyone else was calling him an abuser?
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Well, you interview 1,000 people, you get some patterns.
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And she said, and I want to just point out, this is another form of reputation destruction.
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So the logical conclusion is that many of the loudest voices in the manosphere
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that hold such contempt for women are deeply closeted.
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That is, they have very little, if any, attraction to women.
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Even if they never act on it, their true desire is to be with another man.
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So when I was interviewing women, I'm going to make, I'm going to hold on, take it on my headphones.
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so what I would find and I want you guys to put in the chat what else you guys have noticed let
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me put on the chat so I can see it one second guys all right let me go
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okay here we go yeah 25k a month is that rubble to you yeah exactly that is exactly what i said
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and you'll notice all the women the conservative women backed her up right that's kind of what
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women do we trust each other or whatever we come to each other's aids aid before facts
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conservative, liberal, doesn't matter. Okay, this marker doesn't work. Is this camera on here? Okay,
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it is. Okay, so when women are angry, there are certain insults they love. So when a woman is not
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getting her way, so in Hillary's case, she's not getting her way. She wanted to be a victim.
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That was her dream. She wanted to just be the victim, single mother, and this is often what
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divorcees do. I really think we should send some of these divorcees to an impoverished country
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because I don't know who in their right mind would say rebuilding from the rubble
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when you're getting extortionate amounts of money in a divorce. I mean, that's crazy. So anyway,
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so when a woman doesn't get her way, oh, sad woman, or a man, right? It could be either.
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could be either, but I saw these patterns often. So number one, you are gay. So oftentimes this is
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something they would say to me. They'd say, Pearl, you're just gay. And they say this, I'm not special.
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They say this to men too. So this is what we have for her. She's just saying in a lot of words,
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your day. Number two, you are insecure. Now, I don't know who is more insecure than women.
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I just, we are the most insecure creatures. Men are too, but especially us. And we just,
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we have a lot of, you know, we rely on beauty a lot and whatever, or we try to, we're kind
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of overweight but so one thing they would say you're insecure and then they would psychoanalyze
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you with any personal information you ever told them or they could find online so if it's a public
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figure you know they would go after my family and say you know I'm insecure because of my family
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you hate, oh, that's number three. You hate, insert whatever. Could be women, could be
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your mother, could be whatever. I want to hear more from the chat. So feel free. And yes,
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please go to theaudacitynetwork.com to support my work. We are demonetized on this channel because
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apparently the truth just gets you demonetized. So we are trying to adhere to YouTube guidelines
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while we are on their platform, but I go off the rails after for 30-minute show that I do after
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the show. So Kevin Samuels would talk about this. It's shame, guilt, insult, and need to be right.
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So this is an insult. You're insecure. Insult, shaming language, you hate, the psychoanalyzing.
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Number four, why? Why do you do this? Why, why, why, why, why? Why would you say that? Why, why,
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why, why, why? By the end of this two years, guys, I felt like I was almost a man because
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Or, I'm trying to remember the other ones, number five.
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So another thing that I would get often would not be, is the information right or wrong?
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it would always be it's how you say it so what happened was in this year I would
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try all these different ways of saying it I would I would try to say it nicely
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I would try to go around and be more politically correct I would and by the
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end of this two years guys I was so done I was so done I was just like I'm gonna
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say what I said and you guys can just kiss my anyways the tone police oh yeah
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so I didn't get this one but a lot of men do small we're trying to be YouTube
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friendly you have a small fill in the blank we're trying to be PC or incel so
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So what's interesting, what's interesting is women,
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I mean, they would insult men by calling them an incel,
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I'm like, don't you want them to be incels then,
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because you don't want them to sleep around?
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that's part of it let's see if anyone else has got we don't have small we don't have a small
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they just have a big fernando fernando this is youtube pc we can do that on the website after
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Okay, so I just, these patterns, but this was a big one.
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Shame, insult, guilt, and the need to be right.
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Another one, oh yeah, arguing when they're clearly wrong.
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So an example of a show that I had too many times.
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It was, guys, it was like I had the same show over and over.
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people. And oftentimes, we would maybe bring up Lizzo and say, that woman is fat. She's fat. I
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mean, overweight, obese. And when I would say she was obese, the women on the show would say, no,
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she's just thick, or someone like Lizzo, okay? And I would show them the BMI charts and say, look,
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obese there there's no if ands or buts here obesity and the chart would be in front of them
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and the men would agree and they would still say no do you know what it's like to do let's say in
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a month three shows about body positivity and have to argue this for three hours
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i saw michael knowles on a show arguing on whatever for eight or nine hours i don't know
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how they do it i said you guys can have these panels i don't want it anymore so need to be
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right and the more feminine or i guess blue-pilled the guy the more these are used i'm going to check
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the chat real quick and see if there's anything interesting you guys you're
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insecure nothing positive yeah this was okay so I understood I understood why
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you know because a lot of times what I would hear from women with their issues
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with relationships is they just wanted they just wanted the truth like why
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I can't, you know, like one topic that came up often was infidelity.
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And they would say, well, why can't the guys just tell me what it is?
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Why, why do they, why can't they just be honest?
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What I figured out is a lot of men go through life, they say,
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they tell us the truth, and then all of those things I just listed happen.
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lying they realize that yeah that's that's now I'm not saying they should or
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should I'm not saying that's the right thing to do but if you ever wonder how
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do we get to a position where they lie or some lie right not all but that's why
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It's because the consequences for telling the truth are just crazy, okay?
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Okay, so now I'm going to come back to the chat.
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because before I would watch the Manosphere content
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and I thought, I see exactly why they don't.
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I mean, it got me, I mean, look at what, why did I have to build this website, guys?
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Okay, so, now, the reason I bring this up, now, this is what she's doing here, if you
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bring up the screen, I also know I could be totally wrong here, my logical conclusion
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that I almost preferred the aggressive women
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than the passive-aggressive because at least they said what they said.
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They said it with their chest, and I knew what I was getting.
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But where I would get frustrated was the passive-aggressive.
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Sometimes that would be more frustrating to me.
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Okay, so now we have, and I've seen this Cernovich guy.
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He's a little bit, he's got a bit of a simpiness.
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It's an open secret that many of those podcasters are being OnlyFans girls.
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Now they're not only gay, they're gross and ugly.
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Not homo, they're sexually frustrated, serial killer vibes.
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because you know that's now we're playing the female game or male right right youtube youtube
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okay um so anyways that's how i was going to open today's show because i just saw this and
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thought we should talk about it that's what's going on here now we have matt walsh now matt
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Walsh had a tweet today. And I actually love because, again, I came from a more trad con
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thought process. But as much as I love them, like, you know, I enjoy their stuff.
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I interviewed 1000 people. And I know you guys roll your eyes. You say, Pearl, we get it.
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You don't get it. Okay. It's so many people. You know why Myron lost his hair?
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like he had to get this whatever because it's a lot all right and you just learn so much and
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your worldview has to come to reality to see what's true and what's not true so
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I want to talk about the phases that men go through in life now if a guy was going to
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I'll go through it in a second we're going to go back to the whiteboard so he says my
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My controversial take on a lot of news is in the political and media world this week is that you
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should not cheat on your spouse. It is a decision guaranteed to lead to pain, suffering, guilt,
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and shame for all involved. No upside, all downside. After 13 years of marriage, I can't
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understand why people do this. You're choosing to wreck your life. It's the least tempting thing I
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can imagine. So I want to see how this measures up to what's true in the world. It sounds nice,
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right? When you hear that, you're like, yeah, don't cheat. Cheating's wrong. But again,
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I pride myself to a fault. I could do the same thing. I could go degeneracy, the feminine light,
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right? But I pride myself on being accurate. And what was very surprising to me after interviewing
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a thousand people was how when husbands or boyfriends cheated, this would not happen.
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There's no morality in dating. We're not talking about moral or immoral. I'm talking about
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what happened when men did certain behaviors. What I found was that when men cheated, the women were
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more likely to stay than leave. It was more often that what he's saying, the pain, suffering, guilt,
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and shame involved, the wrecking of the life and the marriage, I found that to be much more common
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amongst men that were loyal than men that were not loyal. Now, you might think that this is
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surprising, but I can explain it back on the whiteboard. So what I found was that,
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and I found this out from, this is on right, good, okay. I found this out from a lot of guys that
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coached men. So I was good friends with Troy Francis and a couple other dating coaches,
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right? And these guys' jobs was to, and I talk about the phases of life a man goes through.
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So usually, and I don't want to be offensive, but I'm trying to accurately describe this stuff.
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All right, we got three guys. So we have the guys that are not getting laid. As we know,
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for men under 30, one out of three, it's pretty common, haven't had sex
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in the past year or are virgins. So we have one out of three men that women
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this is, we could go back and forth, but I'm just describing what it is.
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These are the relationship guys. So these are the
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guys, the only way they can get sex is through relationships. So
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to get sex has to give attention, dates, whatever it is, be friends first. Okay. So this is the,
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he's the, this is his wife or girlfriend. Okay. Boom. This is the guy that's sleeping with all
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the women. So these guys would have different problems, right? So this guy's problem was he had
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a bunch of women that wanted to sleep with them, but none
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wanted to give him a relationship. So this is the guy that the women call
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at 2 a.m. and they say, look, I'm down to, and he would think,
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maybe, and this guy has seen it all. So he's seen
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this guy's girlfriend that he thinks is an angel
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do some not so angelic stuff. These guys, once they
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Okay. So oftentimes guys go through life and they start here. They're in high school or college and
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they say, ladies, are you interested? And they say, no, they're not. No, thank you. And they say, no,
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we want this guy or this guy. And so the guys say, dang it. And then they become better. Maybe
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they go to the gym or they get a good job. And then they say, ladies, are you interested? And
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then they say, yes, but I want to be taken on a date first. Or yes, but you have to wait three
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months or yes but whatever so then now they're this guy they can get a girlfriend so then usually
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they get broken up with like two or three times they get dumped heart broke and or maybe they
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dump them I don't know you know then they move to here I'll give you an example so I have a friend
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he started here then he always had long-term girlfriends right first time in his life he
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starts dating casually. So he starts dating multiple women at the same time. And they know
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about each other. So this is kind of new to him, right? He said this was the best treatment he ever
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got from women. So once a guy gets here, it's hard to get him back here. Because sometimes the women
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treat him better here than they did here. Not to say it's impossible. Now, what is the theme? What
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is the woman's dream right what is every romantic comedy about what is every so in Titanic right and
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this is a movie that millions of women watched across and loved same with the notebook they're
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both with this guy right and they miss this guy so what's her name the girl in Titanic is like 80
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years old. She has kids with this guy, but she misses Jack in the bottom of the ocean. It's the
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same thing with, what is the other woman's, the notebook, right? It's the high school boyfriend.
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So every woman's dream is to, not every woman's, right? But a common theme or a common thing that
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we see, because we are a bit delusional at times, is women want this guy to turn this guy into this
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guy that's and some women pull it off but it's the exception it's not the rule right um okay so
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matt if i had to guess right because usually this is just the normal a lot of married guys
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were this guy and they got married to the first girl that wanted to marry them i don't know if
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that's him. I don't really care. And so to them, the idea of being this guy is crazy, and they
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think it's very moral, or immoral. And so what they're saying is it's a virtue signal. So what
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is he? I'm going to come back here for a second. What is Matt signaling from this post? He's saying,
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my take is that you should not cheat on your spouse. So he's saying, I am moral. These guys
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are immoral. I'm moral. So what is this? This is what we call a virtue signal. Because do you guys
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think that, hold on, can we, can we, the guy up here with the multiple women is going to see Matt
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Walsh's tweet and say, you know what? Do you think Leonardo DiCaprio is going to see this and say,
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you know what? I am done with these 19 year old hot women. I'm done with them. I'm done. Thank
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you, Matt Walsh. No. And so a lot of times what we get from the media personalities is they want
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to be the orbiters of morality. They want to tell it like, in a way it's, and I'm sure there's been
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times, what? Oh, sorry, sorry, I thought it was that one. Okay, so this is a decision guaranteed
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to live, lead to pain, suffering, and guilt, and shame for all involved. So is men, on average,
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would I say, so this is what I would see happening if a marriage ended because of cheating. I'm
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and again just my opinion if a woman got from this guy to go from here to this guy so if a woman
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married this guy it didn't matter she was not she wasn't leaving if he cheated she would just
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it's like have you ever seen that tick tock where the woman said when you catch your billionaire
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husband cheating and you just this is a reality now i'm not what i'm not saying what i'm not saying
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is that it should be that way or i want it to be that way i'm saying this is what i saw
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a lot of times these guys were have no idea the amount of choice that these guys have an example
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um i know a friend who's married to a very attractive guy and he has women approach him at
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the gas station these two guys can't fathom that they they don't even
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which most people can't fathom that right because this is like most people will not get to that
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point um well it depends how old you go but okay regardless where was i going with this so
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So what I would see more often, if she left because of cheating, it's because she thought
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she married this guy, and he was acting like this.
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And she thought, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I married you to be this guy.
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And there's certain words that women say that give away where we categorize a guy.
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It's not conscious, but men are interesting because they've basically tracked us or, like, paid attention to our behavior for, like, 30 years and then came up with patterns that we say.
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um after 13 years of marriage i can't understand the people who do this so again this is just it's
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just a virtue signal it's to say i am moral they are immoral because clearly
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none of these guys on the top are gonna stop doing what they're doing that's like
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that's just not okay you're choosing to wreck your life it's the least tempting thing I can
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imagine right because again you know I have a different friend he worked with a contractor
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right and this contractor for his like house or something a day or two later that guy's wife is
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sending him news now he didn't follow through with it but the guys in the middle can't imagine
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now they can get girls from, like, any city, right?
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and then we're going to do the main event.
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Get that starter wife, put her to work maxing out that 401k
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He says, I don't understand how men could do this.
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Well, interesting thing, talking to male dating coaches,
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is, if a guy has a wedding ring on, he's more likely to get hit on by women.
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So, and, yeah, so, let me, the woman doesn't pull it off, she just happened to be there
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Okay. So let me go to this last video because I wanted to, I saw, I love watching Brett Cooper
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because she reminds me of how I sort of thought a couple of years ago until I went through this.
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And so I enjoy watching her videos, but I just wanted to point out a couple patterns.
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I was absolutely shocked when I found myself agreeing with Alex Cooper,
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So why would a conservative woman or a liberal woman agree
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when they have completely different ideologies?
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I don't want to say this YouTube-friendly.
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i can't say i can't yeah relationships podcast call her daddy did not see that coming and to be
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fair caller daddy has changed a lot since its beginnings at barstool and a lot of that has to
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do with the fact that alex cooper after saying for years that she wouldn't and literally urging
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her millions of female fans not to she settled down and married a good man and that is a story
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Okay, what's that? When she says a good man, who is that in the chart?
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And remember, the guy in the top is guys women find hot, sexy, etc.
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Good man means, and this is why I hate the term alpha, beta, I don't know, sexy.
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They're not alpha and beta, but it's basically saying long-term security, right?
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itself for another time because she was basically terrified to tell all of her audience that she'd
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gotten engaged and so a lot of women they don't know they're doing this but they're embarrassing
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their husbands because they're basically calling them the nice guy but they don't know it because
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it's not like a conscious thing she hit it she basically had to issue an apology and an explanation
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for settling down it's crazy and it just goes to show in my opinion that at the end of the day no
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matter how hard you try to convince yourself or millions of other girls who follow you that men
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are trash and that you should be hardened and play the game and ghost them and sleep around and
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literally cheat on them you might actually fall in love and be called to get married and you'll
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want to have his babies okay how do we see what people want to do what do they do when they have
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the most choice so she didn't want to do this when she was at the peak of her career
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almost like that's just a biological response but anyway i'm getting distracted from the actual
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point on the topic of wanting to get married deep down i believe that it is something that
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most women want again because we are biologically okay so
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So, if women wanted to get married, and this is a, this was a turning point I had to have.
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Women have dating apps where you, even if you're overweight, you can get thousands of matches online.
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If women wanted to get married, they would do it.
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when women have more power to get married than ever before.
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If you don't want to date under a certain height,
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I mean, with 5,000 matches, what would men do with that power?
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So if women wanted to get married, they would get married.
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...to want that commitment to then want children, and Alex Cooper...
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So again, right now we have more options than ever.
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Birth control, abortion, fertility treatments, both ways.
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If women wanted to have children, we would be having children.
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But you've given women, you've said, do anything.
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And again, it's the same cop-out I keep talking about.
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It's everyone telling them, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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this subject actually had some very sound advice before we talk about that though make sure that
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you like this video subscribe to the comment section channel if you have not already and of
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course ring that notification bell so that you never miss a comment section episode all right
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so last week alex was traveling somewhere for work and she took the opportunity to do a q a on
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her instagram stories and many people were asking her about marriage and falling in love with her
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husband among many other things but this response to a specific question really stood out to me so
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this is a screenshot that i took but this person asked what is the one thing that you've learned
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from marriage and she said you will know when they are the one no questions no doubts and then
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this is the important part if you don't feel compatible or on the same page or emotionally
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or physically connected to your partner or any of the above they are not the one i think that
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many relationships feel like oh the natural next step would be this i'm x years old so wtf am i
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going to do start over yes if you have at all thought to yourself how would i even start over
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in your current relationship the answer is you need to leave okay so this is because women
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in general have never had to compete for a man. Men have to compete for women. So they have to
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become, go to the gym. They have to learn how to talk to women in a way that we find attractive.
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They have to become, make enough money that we find them attractive, right? They have to go
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through all of these steps. And women, on the other hand, whenever there's anything that
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indicates that we have to be better, we always find a way to blame it on the guy, okay? So
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if there's ever any doubts, they are not the one. No doubts, no concerns, nothing. You're perfect.
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you're just so amazing and special and awesome there's nothing anyways i'm gonna continue yes
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start over it is a temporary year or two or four that you need to restart but thank god because
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you will then find somebody fully right for you i'm so happy that i found matt that's her husband
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i okay so i want you to understand this mindset we view marriage as the end goal so it's never
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becoming, okay, so if you talk to a woman that's done a lot of self-improvement, right, it's pretty
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rare. And my thousand people I interviewed, I didn't find it often, but they would always come
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in with a very humble attitude because they knew they had so many things to improve on.
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There was a woman that came on my show that told me she was working on having a softer voice.
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She was working on being less argumentative. And they could tell you specific ways of how
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they do it but the more traditional dating advice from women is just he's the problem
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it could not possibly be something you have to improve on or bring to the table many moments
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like the above and i'm grateful that i got out of oh and they they view themselves as they have won
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so they have gotten the ring and i think it's because again marriage is so hard for men to get
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out of and I see this as the reason why a feedback I get from men is that their
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wife completely changed after marriage because what tends to happen is women
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get the ring then they love telling everybody what to do right they're the
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CEO of like dating advice and marriage and what tends to happen is they view it
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as they have one where women that are actually focused more on self-improvement
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and becoming the best version of themselves for their husbands and the problem is when you get
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the middle guy these guys have never really had other options so they don't typically have
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standards for the women that they're with so the women that they're with they say you're perfect
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as you are where the guy on the top who knows he can replace her has a very different attitude
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where he will say, I don't want to say you ain't shit, but I'm trying to swear less, but
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those guys know, the woman knows that if you get out of shape, I'm not putting up with this.
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If you aren't sleeping with me, I'm not putting up with this.
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Those women tend to have a very different attitude.
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that is all incredibly sound, intelligent advice in my opinion. And if you've been,
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okay. And this is what I mean when I say conservative and liberal women, it's like
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the same mindset because we're in the modern era, right? It's not like a woman from the 1950s.
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If your husband cheated, they would not really come to your aid and, and comfort you and say it
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was all him it's like the woman I'm thinking of that was the most
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traditional woman that I met would ask why he cheated and what did you do to
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make him run to another woman but this stuff yeah so it's the same thing here
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for a while and you've been watching comment section since the beginning you
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know that we have talked about this specific thing a fair amount especially
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for women this is why I care about the subject so much because you have
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biological clocks we have biological clock so look I just want you to pay
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attention it's all about what we want it's not and the thing is the women that I see
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that I would argue love the man the most is when they're willing to give up what they want so
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their timeline for his and what you and there's two the question is whose terms is the relationship
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on? Is it on his terms or her terms? Is it his timeline or hers? And
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men want to be loved for, I mean, I think we both want to be loved for ourselves to some degree,
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but usually women want the children more than the man, or they want their timeline more than
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the husband. And I'm going to, I'm going to get into it more. And so if there is even an
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inkling in your brain that you might want children you should not be sitting around
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twiddling your thumbs hoping that maybe one day this guy might propose or that you should stay
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because you okay let me give you guys a realistic version of what timeline women should expect
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now again usually okay so these guys what i've seen are willing to marry much quicker
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Because, again, they don't have this, I will replace you if you don't act right mentality, right?
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OK, so the normal phase for these guys, not these guys.
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And by the way, there's different strategies, right?
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So maybe as a woman, you'd rather be with this guy.
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The issue is, what I would see is women would always
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So these guys, what the process they typically go through
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Step three. Ring engagement. Four to five. Okay. Five years, and this is the average
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right now is how long you can expect. And so some women say, well, screw that. I'm not going for this
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guy. I'm going to go for this guy. That's way easier. This guy will marry me in a year. This
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guy's going to take five. And I don't blame them. That's not a bad strategy to have, right?
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But what you see with Alex Cooper, right, is from zero to, or 20, or 18, whenever she started her
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show. To 25, she was dating these guys. And now at 27, she's dating this guy. She even has an
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incurable STD. She put that on the podcast, right? Amazing. So that's what's going on. That's what's
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going on there. So, okay. So, oh, anyway, so the women are kind of like, in a way,
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they're telling people which guy their husband is. And she has an, she has an, no, no, I'm not
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talking about Brett. I was talking about, um, Alex Cooper. No, no, no, no, no, not Brett, not Brett.
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Okay. Already invested too much time? No, that clock is ticking. If it's not right, stop wasting
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precious time and energy, the one type of currency that you cannot get back, especially for women,
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and take some action and go find the right thing. Because the right man will not need to be
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convinced. The right man will not be shrouded in questions and doubts and concerns. And obviously,
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the same goes for you men and any women that are playing games with you who have learned from call
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her daddy over the years same goes for you okay so i want to explain why men wait why when men do
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wait so i want to give you guys a couple stories so i worked at a gym worked out at like a power
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lifting gym in london and there was this couple that had been together 10 years right and one
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summer, they decided to tie the knot. They said, we're doing it this year. Finally, it's been a
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decade. And so many guys come to the realization that after they give women the ring, and once
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they have the ring, that means they have leverage, they completely change. You don't know who she is
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And they might see, and the guys at this gym saw,
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this woman divorced, she was with him for 10 years,
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and in the first year of marriage, she divorced him.
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So oftentimes, they'll wait longer to alleviate risk,
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Three to five. Yeah. So this isn't saying it's right or wrong, but I just don't think when
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we hear this content about if he wanted to marry you, he would.
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I want this. I want, I want to have kids this year. I want to do it this year. It's sort of
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missing the point because it's all about what you want and not what he want. Um, okay. Let me.
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and also for men unfortunately you do have extra responsibility because you don't have that same
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biological clock and so if you are not sure or you do not want to take that next step if you're
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not interested in being a father or not interested in getting married yet you continue to string a
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woman along who loves you and is trying to make it work because it's convenient and comfortable
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okay this is another one oh he strung her along nope nope nope nope nope nope sorry but we have
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zero excuses. We get 5,000 matches on dating apps, even if you're unattractive. There's no,
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he just strung you along. You're an adult. You're not a kid. We're adults. And as adults,
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you can make your own decision. Guys will date women for many years and spend thousands of
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dollars on them just for them to leave. They don't get the get out of jail free card that
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they were just strung along. Nope, nope, nope. We're not kids. And this language that we use
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often is almost as if we're children, right? And you want to get laid, which is honestly why a lot
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of guys say in relationships, you need to be honest and cut her loose. Because wasting a
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young woman's time when she trusts you and wants marriage and children is one of the cruelest,
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gross... Sometimes, sometimes, another thing is sometimes guys change their mind.
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And yeah, you know, sometimes they date you, and then they think,
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nah, I don't want to get married yet, or nah, she's crazy.
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Some guys just change their mind, and it's not, and a lot of times the women will say,
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oh, we strung me along for years, but they miss out on the crazy thing that made them get dumped.
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these things that i can imagine i mean it's fine it is your prerogative if you don't actually want
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to be with her let's see i just want i just want to keep going through nowhere in this advice we're
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going to get to the whole video there wasn't one piece of advice on how to be more worthy of a ring
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the most feminine woman i ever met was not married i swear i swear to you she was not
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most feminine woman i've ever met in my life unmarried
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100 sure about her it's fine if you don't want to get married and you're not comfortable with
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the institution of marriage if you don't want to be father what because again remember they view
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marriage as the end goal it's never becoming a better wife bringing more to the table it's
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marriage is the end state no one's won when they got married i don't know what's going to happen
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to you in a decade i don't know if you'll still be married i hope you are i always wish you know
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but move on so that you can find the right person who is on the same page as you but playing that
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game and toying with somebody is and i just have to go from personal experience so i went to two
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weddings in the past two years or no i went to three guess how long out of the three couples
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two of them were together. So one wedding, they were together for a year. The next wedding,
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they were together for seven years. And the other wedding, they were together for 11 or 12.
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Why did the guys wait so long? They just wanted to wait until they were a little more settled
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for when they got married and the women gave up their timeline and what they wanted for what he
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wanted because they loved him that much does that mean he just doesn't value or appreciate them but
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if a woman is influencing women don't like men that we can control and so if we're putting our
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timeline onto the men then the relationships on our terms not theirs so wrong which is why i love
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alex said this because i'm sure that it will make an impact in many many lives now alex's answer to
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that question reminded me of something that i recently saw go viral on tiktok there was a
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really sweet woman she randomly popped up on her you page her name is mckenzie and she made a video
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where she was asking for advice about her relationship and the entire situation was just
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heartbreaking listen to this i think that this video got over 2 million views in like 24 hours
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for those of you that are married how did you get your significant other to see the value in getting
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engaged and getting married girl to girl what are some of the things that you did to accomplish that
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because i'm really struggling to get him to see my perspectives and how much marriage would mean
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to me i don't have those things that i have been asking for and he says it's really selfish of me
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to ask for them i mean the reason why this video stood up okay so now i already know it's just
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going to go oh poor woman so this is how a lot of men are going to see it now men
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with a more religious background are gonna see this a little differently
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right but most people in general aren't overly religious so this is just talking
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So, if you live together, if you spend every day together,
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maybe even have a kid together some people do some people don't but have a kid together
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what changes when you get married and a lot of women a lot of men see women's need for marriage
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Because the men, what the men will do is they'll say,
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Okay, well, you want to get married because of God.
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well are you a virgin did you do things the God way and then she'll say well no I mean and then
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he might look at you and say do you even go to church like did you have you gone to church
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recently she's like well I don't want that part and he'll be like what we live together
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and so for men nothing changes nothing will change when you get the ring other than you can get
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approval from your friends and post it on IG and there was a story a friend of mine he's an older
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guy and he was a successful guy who lived down south I think and he told me something really
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interesting because his ex-girlfriend broke up with him for this very reason she wanted to get
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married and he just felt like she wanted the wedding more than him because from his head
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you already have me you have all my time I'm not seeing anyone else yeah yeah monogamy
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I'm not seeing anyone else what changes you're not even religious you're like
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she was an older woman she's like 35 and like I think she had a kid so he just
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didn't see the point I mean we can invite all these
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people we don't care about spend all this money for what and women will make
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it very black and white well they'll say well he just doesn't like you enough if
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But my question for women is, do you want the wedding
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If you want the man, sometimes you've got to be patient.
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and even if you are patient it doesn't give you a guaranteed outcome there's no guaranteed outcomes
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in life so a lot of times when people go to online to the internet they're looking for a
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way to guarantee that nothing bad will ever happen that we will not be single mothers that we will
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not get divorced, then none of these bad things will ever happen. But this is life, and there's
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no guarantee if that woman leaves her boyfriend that she'll find someone she likes better.
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And that she won't, there's no guarantee if she stays that he'll marry her. But I never,
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my point more is I never hear strategies on how to improve ourselves it's always just I'll leave
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if you don't do what I want it's always the same oh if he doesn't do exactly what I want the way I
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want it then I'm going to go it's always the same thing me from the get-go is because it wasn't
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selfish it wasn't entitled she wasn't demanding something like I need a ring I want to be a bride
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she was genuinely asking for advice because she thought that the situation that she was in and
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all the comments are gonna be you've done nothing wrong you're amazing leave was okay that all she
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needed to do was convince this guy a little bit more and make him see her perspective that he
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really should want to be with her and commit to her for life I mean that's why it was so
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heartbreaking and then on top of that what I found out later is that she's a single mom who met this
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man who loves this man she's trying to do right by her son she wants something serious for her son
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Okay, but let me tell you how men are going to see this.
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So if she gave a child to a guy without a ring,
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why does he have to pay a higher price for a lower product i know that's not nice to hear but why
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why okay forward the way that she had expected and she genuinely wanted advice on how to make
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it work and i was so so happy to see a general consensus in the comments one girl said if you
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have to convince him he doesn't want you this is what i mean guys we are how we are like it's the
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same right left it's the same another person said you're probably thinking you invested so many years
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and you don't want to start over but you do not want to be married to the wrong person starting
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over now is easier than after a divorce another person said i built a whole house with a man and
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played wife for three years that's a whole other story which we've talked about playing wife before
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you actually have the ring again it's always let me give less in order to get what i want
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that's always it never is to give more and be better and improve it's always let me give the
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men less wifey treatment so i can get what i want wait without hesitation you have to be on the same
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page that's what alex was talking about this will never work resentment will take over eventually
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you're not selfish let him go find less and i don't even think that we need to say let him go
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find less like let him go find the person that he actually wants to be with let him go not get
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married if he doesn't want to get married maybe it will be less but it might just be that they
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genuinely do not want the same things and they aren't willing to come together and have that
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hard conversation because again it's convenient to just ignore it and stay in something that's
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comfortable and stagnant last comment i'll read this girl said i wish i could give you a hug
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i think deep down you have all the answers you need it is selfish of him to steal your youth
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yes if he's not interested in the same future as you i hope that all of this works out now what
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about you stealing us time and attention i don't i just the one-sided women's advice is just
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It drives me crazy. I mean, I would say as a single mother, you want to get married now? Good
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luck. Good luck. You kissed that goodbye. You kissed that goodbye when you had the kid out of
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wedlock or you got divorced. Now you've been demoted from future wife to future girlfriend.
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You can go lower and find a guy with less options.
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but this is such a vulnerable position to be in.
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And then we never questioned the incentives.
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What, okay, so if this woman is going to the internet
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And telling her personal relationship problems.
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I mean, she's going to the internet for sympathy.
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because this is how friends ruin relationships.
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So if she, if this was a single mother who has a guy that's living,
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and I don't know the situation, but I'm just, hypothetically.
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maybe going 50 50 on rent or paying the bills i don't know and he's a good guy and he's stepping
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in as a stepfather involved in the kid's life and he's been there for a couple of years it might not
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be a bad deal because my question is what do you have to bargain with i mean she seems a little bit
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chubby so maybe my advice would be if you want to i mean get to the gym right thing to ask because
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it's basically asking the world like does he not love me enough it's scary it's uncomfortable and
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i'm sure that she just needed the validation and the confirmation that what she was feeling
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was not crazy just like i'm giving you the confirmation that red light therapy will
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literally change your life now i've been loving my bond charge i will not yeah i'm sorry bro
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we gotta skip this i won't what did i do did i meet it is if one partner desperately wants to
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move on to that next step and is ready and is so madly in love with you and the other partner
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refuses and is not interested in budging is not ready to do that whatever the reason is whether
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that's because they're again if we're talking about a traditional wife it's giving up what
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you want for what he wants i'm not saying you have to do that but i would be pretty cautious
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because you don't know if the grass is really going to be greener out in the dating market
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sure about the person that they're dating or because they just don't want the next step they
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don't want to be married they don't want kids or whatever it is but regardless why stay and try to
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fit a square peg into a round hole when it clearly doesn't work why lie to that person and drag them
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on for years you cannot get that time back it is literally the one thing you cannot get back you
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can make more money you can move to a new place you can get a new house you can get a new apartment
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whatever you cannot get your time back and for women i wish that every woman could hear this
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you can't get these years back so you should be incredibly incredibly careful
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on who you are giving those years to yeah so again it's the same thing when we talked about earlier
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do not she's saying don't go for the players not about not bad not about it
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not bad advice and go for the guys that it's easier to get that from
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um not i'm not saying that's bad advice i'm just saying this is what we're communicating thankfully
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this young woman mckenzie got the support that she needed and this was her update just because
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this is where we're at does not at all make him a bad guy so please be gentle be kind it's been
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great to me in many areas oh my gosh days of my life i'm forever grateful for that whatever is
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for me will not miss me and whatever misses me was never for me my true self is gonna attract
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the person, whoever that is, whether it's him, someone else. And the last thing that I want to
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do is pressure someone into wanting me. And I know that those lines about
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pressure someone into wanting me. Yeah. It's, it's, it's always, it's always back to a guilting
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tactic, well, why don't you want me? Where if she was doing everything she could and really focused
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on him to the point where it's really interesting talking to the woman I tell you guys about, the
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very feminine one, the way she describes her man, it's like, I study him. I know him better than he
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knows himself there's no woman that could take him from me and she just had this level of like
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confidence I guess um that comes from knowing you're doing your job right so that's it that's
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kind of I think we got to the point from that and my general point is always it's always the same
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thing female dating advice it's always give him less to see if you can get more withhold in order
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to get. And it's never about self-improvement. It's always if he wanted to, he would. And
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yeah, this is why there's no female self-improvement, unfortunately. But let me know what you guys
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think in the comments. Maybe you guys disagree, you know, just my opinion. So like the video
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