Pearl - The Type of Nagging That Drives Men To Suicide

00:00:00.000 Oh, black fatigue 0.99

00:00:25.740 Oh, take me away. 1.00

00:00:55.740 Take me away, we don't care what the people say.

00:01:06.740 Am I a musician yet?

00:01:12.740 guys i've been doing f scale for piano that's been tough for me i wanna i feel like we haven't

00:01:35.580 hung out in a little bit i don't know it's been a second because i took the few weeks off before

00:01:42.240 the debate um you know i i you know so i feel like i just haven't shared my life with you guys in a

00:01:51.840 moment now then everyone's smirking out on twitter here's another one

00:02:01.200 and you know i'm not shocked it's it's destiny looking men black guys and women

00:02:12.240 Yeah, I'm not that shocked.

00:02:33.080 So I want to tell you guys a little bit about my life, because I feel like we haven't hung

00:02:38.320 out in a bit.

00:02:42.240 let's let me let me think i tried um a laser treatment

00:02:49.420 i don't know if i should say this because my my my haters are probably use it against me

00:02:56.740 but it just kind of is what it is um i and i'll tell you guys that was the most painful thing

00:03:04.840 i've ever done never again oh my god i i just i didn't really know what a laser was i'm not

00:03:12.000 gonna lie i didn't google it but i was like it'll probably be fine they were like oh it helps regrow 0.95

00:03:18.540 the new skin and i'm like oh cool did not realize you have to burn off the old skin i'm like damn 0.99

00:03:25.220 damn 0.93

00:03:26.860 all right let's see so i rewrote i'm gonna show you guys a song i rewrote 0.98

00:03:38.980 I hate how simpy most music is when I was your man. So I rewrote. Sometimes for fun, I'll rewrite

00:03:51.700 simp songs. I will rewrite simp songs.

00:03:58.700 yeah here we go so this is same bed but it feels just a little bit big bigger now

00:04:13.460 our song on the radio but it don't sound the same

00:04:18.320 when our friends talk about you all it does is just tear me down

00:04:25.460 Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name

00:04:31.520 It all just sounds like ooh

00:04:34.040 Ooh 1.00

00:04:35.600 Too young, too dumb to realize 1.00

00:04:45.400 That I don't need no flowers 1.00

00:04:48.800 Don't need to hold your hand

00:04:52.580 don't need all your hours because you're a hard-working man

00:04:58.820 i don't need to party i don't need to dance now my man is dancing but he's dancing with another

00:05:11.160 woman hold on i gotta i gotta scroll the lyrics are on the screen screen okay ready

00:05:19.620 My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways

00:05:24.920 Caused a good, strong man like you to walk out my life

00:05:31.900 Now I'll never, never get to clean up the mess I made

00:05:38.820 Oh, and it haunts me every time I close my eyes

00:05:45.180 it all just sounds like, ooh, ooh.

00:05:49.620 Ooh, ooh, ooh. 1.00

00:05:53.760 Too young, too dumb to realize, damn it. 1.00

00:05:58.680 Realize that I should've bought you flowers and held your hand. 1.00

00:06:07.640 I don't need all your hours because you're a hardworking man.

00:06:14.800 I don't need to party. I don't need to dance. Now my man is dancing, but he's dancing with another woman. 0.92

00:06:26.800 Although it hurts, I'll be the first to say I was wrong.

00:06:40.800 Oh, I know I'm probably much too late to try and apologize for my mistakes.

00:06:47.640 But I just want you to know, oh my God, no, I didn't hit it.

00:06:59.360 You see, this is why I get stage fright.

00:07:02.180 If this happens here, I don't really care, right?

00:07:05.840 I mean, this is the stream.

00:07:09.380 This is the stream.

00:07:10.320 but on a stage it's like I see all of you it was different in person it was different in person

00:07:17.120 you know what I mean so how I would end the song oh I don't I don't need no flowers

00:07:26.580 don't need to hold your hand don't need all your hours if you give me one more chance

00:07:36.380 I don't need to party. I don't need to dance. I'll do all the things I should have did when I was your woman. Do all the things I should have did when I was your woman.

00:07:55.300 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Oh, stop it,

00:08:07.040 you guys. You shouldn't have. Encore. Encore. Encore. I realized. I realized that I think

00:08:20.880 I have a lot of people that haven't seen me from the beginning that are here.

00:08:25.300 and because you know when you get when you do these type of debates right you get a lot of

00:08:32.600 people that i don't think really understand like what you're about

00:08:37.480 oh yeah

00:08:52.280 yeah

00:08:55.300 ring of fire

00:08:59.140 i'm i'm currently learning

00:09:08.740 to play an f major scale

00:09:13.180 i've been taking piano lessons you know i only started playing piano a year ago

00:09:19.580 other than like just a few chords

00:09:21.560 am i racist i don't know i was thinking about this the other day if i was racist

00:09:28.740 you know because i think i could just do a show going over the things people say about me

00:09:35.280 i think i could maybe i could start with that

00:09:39.420 as a woman i gotta make it about me because i was thinking about this i'm like am i racist 0.93

00:09:46.800 if I do believe that black people commit more crimes 1.00

00:09:50.320 and do ghetto shit, but I love them. 1.00

00:09:54.580 Like I'm fatigued, but I love them. 0.99

00:10:00.540 Like I'll come to the cookout, we can hang out.

00:10:03.720 I love you guys, but please stop committing crimes.

00:10:09.600 Please stop committing.

00:10:11.100 It's like women, you know, you guys are chill,

00:10:13.080 we can hang out, but please stop.

00:10:16.800 please please stop you know what i mean like 1.00

00:10:24.100 please stop doing women shit i beg you i i bleed for you to stop doing women shit 1.00

00:10:31.860 am i cool with myron and fresh i heard fresh has been talking shit about me i don't know 1.00

00:10:38.600 he has or he hasn't i don't care enough to look but um i thought we were cool 0.59

00:10:49.400 i really thought we were cool um we could not be honestly i've probably shot a few years ago

00:10:59.240 i talked about them and there was a whole beef and it was my fault um so this was

00:11:06.120 so ancient history i'm talking like four or five so if he still has bad blood from that i wouldn't

00:11:12.200 blame him yeah and a lot of people say that um i you know like they say pearl you think women 0.97

00:11:24.360 are bad at everything and i'm like i would love to be proven wrong i really would love to um

00:11:31.800 um and i think that's where like a lot of these uh commentators again they come from an ivory

00:11:39.000 tower this is what i've been saying um they want to be able to dictate your reality and what you've

00:11:45.960 seen and i just have not seen women be good at things i you know i wish we were better at things 0.81

00:11:59.640 but we just can't. So I do think it would be helpful to let the new people on the stream know

00:12:14.480 exactly what I'm about. Thank you for the super chat. I totally appreciate it. So my goal is

00:12:23.640 always to be as accurate as possible and figure out what's true. I have found this very difficult

00:12:30.060 in today's society because women really do want to confuse you. That is women's goal. 1.00

00:12:44.360 Women are experts at gaslighting. Let me find the definition of gaslighting. 1.00

00:12:53.640 a form of psychological abuse where a person or group makes someone question their sanity,

00:13:01.860 perception, reality, or memories. So that would be like saying, you know, and I always,

00:13:10.540 people have different realities, right? Different life experiences. And I do respect other people's

00:13:16.720 life experiences. However, my life experience has just been that women are kind of bitches 1.00

00:13:24.280 and they're not good at much. Black people, kind of the same thing. 1.00

00:13:35.000 Women aren't very nice. They're not very nurturing. I wish, I wish we were better at 1.00

00:13:38.580 But, you know, being a woman, I got to be honest, being a woman is kind of like being a woman's like, I don't know.

00:13:51.040 So when I was growing up, I was a Cubs fan.

00:13:54.480 Not because I cared about baseball, but my dad was a Cubs fan and my mom was a Cubs fan.

00:13:58.860 And up until I think I was in college, the Cubs were just the worst team ever.

00:14:04.180 like we lost i i think the bears are good this year but chicago sports when i was growing up we

00:14:10.220 never won anything we would lose everything and that's how i feel about being a woman 0.95

00:14:19.000 you can get the top draft picks you can get all the extra help but we just suck 0.81

00:14:24.240 and i think a lot of people think that i'm being facetious or i'm trying to troll when i say this 0.89

00:14:34.180 it doesn't help that if a woman's being really bitchy to me, I kind of shut down 1.00

00:14:40.160 and stop talking, you know? Yeah. You showed up with heart. You should, your opponent showed up

00:14:44.980 with all the tricks. You know, it doesn't help me. Right. Um, it doesn't help when I get, you know,

00:14:50.140 it is what it is. So I could see how the public tends to perceive me as just trolling, being

00:14:59.240 facetious. But the challenge is women just keep proving me right. And it's even worse when they 1.00

00:15:09.660 try not to prove you right, they prove you right more. I'll give you an example. And

00:15:16.560 yeah, we had the best basketball player of all time. We did. But you know, I mean, that was in

00:15:25.080 1996. That was the year I was born. So I don't know when I, from my memory, Chicago never was

00:15:32.700 good at sports. That's from my memory. Okay. I don't, I'm not that close to what, yeah. So

00:15:40.860 and what'll happen is, you know, they give us all of these weight, like, you know,

00:15:53.720 they give women all these free scholarships and yet we still can't get into STEM, right? When

00:16:01.800 they say here, they have all these programs for women in STEM and then women go into STEM and we

00:16:07.820 quit. And even my family, you know, they, they think I'm a little extreme, right? You know,

00:16:20.040 my, my dad, he's like, I think you blame too much on women. You make it too much women and men. 0.92

00:16:26.300 And, you know, I said, dad, women control 85% of consumer spending. 1.00

00:16:41.120 And I said, I said, dad, that's a lot of power. I think it's actually pretty logical

00:16:47.500 that people are going to cater to the their customers like doesn't that kind of make sense

00:16:53.120 like wouldn't it make sense that the academic institutions they know women will pay more for 1.00

00:16:58.120 college so they would kind of cater to what women want i'm like and even i told my dad i'm like dad

00:17:04.780 you indirectly were paid by women because they sold software to um what do you call it they 1.00

00:17:13.860 sold software to like plumbers and that kind of thing and i'm like who hires plumbers you know women 0.93

00:17:25.220 and i was thinking about how that debate was almost proving us right because really i lost 0.92

00:17:31.620 the debate right and i did suck but she also sucked nobody was good if you watch the men's 1.00

00:17:38.100 debate there's like little pauses they're like going back and forth and the women i'm like 1.00

00:17:43.860 i'm like even when we we try to beat the stereotypes we are the stereotypes

00:18:01.540 and so really my goal is always to be as accurate as possible

00:18:05.700 and it has to match what i've seen in the real world 1.00

00:18:13.860 women say a lot of stupid things but men only say stupid things like money can't buy happiness 1.00

00:18:33.700 i actually agree with that statement money cannot buy happiness and the reason is because money 1.00

00:18:41.940 there is nothing worse than a nagging one i'm actually going to add that into my monologue 1.00

00:18:49.060 today i'm going to add that because all right let me

00:18:54.020 because that's actually a good point that i want to discount money cannot buy happiness

00:19:11.940 okay so

00:19:15.780 um let me see

00:19:22.720 all right i actually wanted to go through first before we get to the monologue which is about

00:19:39.080 nagging i don't want to do this do you want to go model doug mpa i wanted to go through 0.91

00:19:45.000 a few stats that were very deceptive during the debate i wanted to go through a few you know

00:19:55.640 while everyone came at me even though i asked to have them submitted ahead of time which she

00:20:00.200 declined i asked to do that um and while they came at me her stats were incorrect and deceptive but

00:20:12.920 when they say it on a stage in front of millions of people how am i supposed to check it on the fly

00:20:18.600 like how am i supposed anyways which one which

00:20:23.720 doug mpa i'm gonna give you the final

00:20:30.040 monologue first and at the he said monologue first and then at the end we can go through

00:20:38.140 divorce stats at the end all right let's talk about nagging 0.90

00:20:44.700 let's talk i'm gonna i'm gonna i get a little distracted sometimes with the chat

00:20:54.020 and i do want to stay on topic

00:20:56.520 i lost because i was at my own mental point of origin probably

00:21:03.020 after the monologue do the stats all right doug

00:21:08.300 bv

00:21:14.500 who's bb i don't know that is i don't care okay so

00:21:23.460 someone in the chat said that money cannot buy happiness 0.99

00:21:27.300 and that men only say stupid things like money can't buy happiness 1.00

00:21:34.180 ellie what are you chewing hold on hold on ellie okay hold on hold on we're gonna play my divorce 1.00

00:21:42.900 documentary we're gonna play hold on in it my dog is chewing a box and that is in it for men 0.98

00:21:56.020 i need to go get her a bone give me a second all right let me put this on 1x 1.00

00:22:03.220 we're gonna play this trailer give me one second then we'll talk about nagging all right

00:22:08.500 also i might do a call in so people can call in all right let's see we're gonna make this

00:22:18.400 full screen give me one second so there's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being 1.00

00:22:25.020 asked the following question do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are useless

00:22:33.240 this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not 0.89

00:22:40.760 young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different

00:22:45.840 world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female 1.00

00:22:51.420 men and women are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it 1.00

00:22:58.740 a fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage you've kind of got the trad

00:23:03.760 con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way

00:23:08.840 you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men marriage is a

00:23:13.940 bond and it's a sacred bond it's a machine designed to extract resources from you now many

00:23:19.080 of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married

00:23:21.960 Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things one of the most controversial faces in all of the internet 0.98

00:23:30.780 she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men because if me and you were in a

00:23:34.920 business contract you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave gee what could go wrong

00:23:40.000 there 74 percent or something of divorces are initiated by women men have everything to lose 0.91

00:23:45.940 primarily their own children men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws I had no idea that

00:23:51.520 courts of family law were courts of equity not courts of law because in family court you don't

00:23:56.480 need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence when you guys say get married young a

00:24:01.120 lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for and you're not going to be there when their

00:24:04.720 entire life falls apart i interviewed them on the other side i didn't meet my son until he was 15

00:24:10.640 months old how much did you spend trying to get him back on legal fees alone was about 200 000

00:24:15.760 before you know it you're homeless you're literally just thrown out onto the street we absolutely

00:24:19.840 reinforce bad behavior from women wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow 1.00

00:24:24.720 up without their fathers family is a foundation of society every problem in society comes from 0.97

00:24:29.760 single mother homes a lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness 1.00

00:24:34.160 endless happiness feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women we tell women to date as many 1.00

00:24:38.160 guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage you are allowed to leave your 1.00

00:24:42.560 perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend 0.93

00:24:47.760 oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's anything else in life 0.94

00:24:52.240 that we actually ever go into preparing to fail right like if you have the mentality of this is

00:24:56.720 going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to

00:25:00.800 fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages 1.00

00:25:05.200 because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the children

00:25:10.320 and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like

00:25:15.920 it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of male privilege

00:25:21.600 where's my mouth privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all the power

00:25:25.440 privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about men's rights 0.97

00:25:30.400 i have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this situation men are homeless men

00:25:36.640 are thinking about eating guns i've seen so many men on on the brink of suicide and they didn't do

00:25:41.840 anything wrong. How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the

00:25:47.660 country? The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure. Women are 1.00

00:25:52.780 helplessly dependent upon men. The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol,

00:25:58.780 three times higher among men than among women. Culture is telling men you are no good. You got

00:26:03.960 to get your act together. I think men have failed themselves. What kind of a man are you? What kind

00:26:08.180 of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble so are women everybody knows this is a huge

00:26:13.720 problem but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k

00:26:18.920 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really set up against you to fail as a man if men make

00:26:24.600 less than women women don't want to marry them so you know who wants more economically and 1.00

00:26:29.120 emotionally viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a 0.91

00:26:35.740 strong independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men

00:26:40.620 that don't stop i can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you pearl 1.00

00:26:45.420 you simply no i think i think you said for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff but 1.00

00:26:49.740 pearl is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just 0.99

00:26:54.060 hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women 1.00

00:26:58.140 can't find a husband the future if everybody follows your path is there is no future we go

00:27:03.500 into population decline and our economy goes into decline civilization will crumble the american

00:27:09.820 story does not end well this is an existential crisis failing young men

00:27:21.180 all right that's the trailer for our divorce documentary there is a link in the description

00:27:26.380 for it if you want to donate or you can you know message me privately if you are an editor

00:27:31.420 or you you're an app builder two things we're hiring for this month thanks for your work 50

00:27:37.340 super chat oh you're too nice you guys are too you're too much

00:27:44.620 all right so the definition of nagging a person constantly harassing somebody to do something

00:27:53.420 or painfully, persistently worrying. So I did a compilation of nagging.

00:28:10.000 Now, a lot of times women, when we want to argue or debate, we have a tendency to use 1.00

00:28:18.020 the tactics, you know, the female tactics. Shout out to Kevin Samuels. Shame, guilt, 0.99

00:28:24.340 insult need to be right nagging. I'm going to add nagging. Shame, guilt, insult need to be right

00:28:30.840 nagging. Shaming, a painful feeling of humiliating or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong

00:28:41.320 or foolish behavior. Guilting, making someone feel guilty, especially in order to induce them

00:28:47.420 to do something. So remember, feminism uses guilt against men. It makes, it says women are victims, 1.00

00:28:55.840 uses guilt to get whatever they want. Ah, I'm being raped. Let's throw men in jail. 0.99

00:29:07.060 Right? Insulting. To speak or treat someone with disrespect or scornful abuse. The need to be 0.54

00:29:17.200 right? An irrational way of thinking characterized by a person's need to always prove themselves

00:29:22.860 right often by proving others' actions and opinions wrong. So I was thinking more about

00:29:29.480 this debate, right? And I was thinking how their goal was kind of to make me look dumb and it 0.97

00:29:33.880 definitely worked, right? I did look dumb. I got really nervous, got crashed out on stage a little. 0.99

00:29:39.800 It happens, right? It happens to the best of us. And I was thinking about this a little bit more

00:29:45.260 because i mean this was kind of an l for me i am a bit embarrassed but it just is what it is

00:29:52.940 but i was thinking about how anna went up there she might have won the debate 0.99

00:29:58.700 but she proved why men don't want to be married 0.84

00:30:04.940 and the person in the chat said pearl pearl pearl money can't buy happiness

00:30:10.620 well it depends if there's a nagging wife in that big house 1.00

00:30:15.860 There's a lot of rich men imprisoned by their nagging wives.

00:30:20.600 And so what keeps happening is women keep proving the red pill, right? 1.00

00:30:25.120 And men don't even have to argue it.

00:30:28.500 You know, me, I'm like the DEI hire, right?

00:30:32.680 I mean, in a way, I know you guys support me.

00:30:34.740 You say it's not just DEI.

00:30:36.580 But there's so many men that are smarter than me, better debaters, more intelligent.

00:30:41.000 um but i know that these guys are correct because when i heard this information

00:30:46.680 it really made everything in my life and that i'd seen my entire life make sense

00:30:51.820 it made it make sense why men just look so depressed when they're married

00:30:59.220 it made it make sense why every girl i knew growing up figured out that their mom was crazy 0.52

00:31:05.620 around 16. I knew one girl. I mean, her dad was a soldier and he was deployed all the time. And

00:31:12.520 when she was 16, I mean, all the lies she heard growing up about her father, he comes back from

00:31:18.660 deployment. She's like, he's pretty cool. And generally speaking, men, women think that they

00:31:27.940 have authority over men to tell them what to do. It's why, you know, I really don't like telling

00:31:33.380 men to do anything because men look at the cost and the benefit or the cost and the benefit of

00:31:38.600 something and pick themselves um i don't really have to tell men not to get married they're just

00:31:45.920 not going to do it right i don't have to tell men not to you know save a woman in the streets they're

00:31:52.100 just going to stop right men can do that on their own they don't need a woman a woman 1.00

00:31:56.360 a midwoman at that to tell them what to do right and so but what happens is women they have a 1.00

00:32:07.100 tendency to go on these stages and show men exactly why they don't want to get married

00:32:12.860 and I just kept I keep thinking about this debate my my manager says to just move on stop talking

00:32:19.580 about it but do you know what there was so many just moments where she really revealed her cards

00:32:29.660 right where i might have looked nervous or dumb or whatever but she revealed the way she felt about

00:32:40.800 she feels about men and feminists will deny this but we look at their reactions and even what they

00:32:46.680 say when pressed and i was barely pressing right um and men just naturally are going to make the

00:32:58.360 decision so i actually don't think men are necessarily afraid of getting married and

00:33:05.960 getting divorced right i think most men can deal with a divorce and recover it's not even necessarily

00:33:15.000 about the money because their wives spending habits are so bad that a lot of men get on child 1.00

00:33:25.520 support and still have more money left over but what men do have do fear in marriage is being 0.96

00:33:36.400 trapped in a sexless marriage with a nagging bitchy wife that talks to them the way that 1.00

00:33:43.880 Anna spoke to me. And so it's really interesting because, you know, she's going to say she won and 0.98

00:33:55.740 she did. Right. And do the victory lap. But because she was a bitch, she proved why men don't want to 1.00

00:34:03.620 get married because she nagged because she was shaming, guilt, insulted me, need to be right. 1.00

00:34:08.940 um then on top of that she embarrassed her husband publicly 0.81

00:34:15.440 she said that i was responsible for what she said i'm like i didn't make you say that ma'am

00:34:23.060 she called her her she implied her husband was a couch surfing bum when she met him

00:34:28.200 she could have said former professional athlete she said couch surfing bum

00:34:32.240 and is so out of touch that she doesn't see the problem with that

00:34:38.940 and you know again men aren't going to say anything they just watch and silently make decisions

00:34:47.760 so let me let me play the this compilation all right let's see we're gonna

00:34:55.500 look

00:35:05.460 if she proved her point you won look i don't really care if i won or lost

00:35:15.960 because it does that that doesn't really matter right it matters i just want to know what's true

00:35:24.580 i don't have an ego in this right i i really don't i don't need to be right i want to know

00:35:31.080 what's correct and that's really the point of my whole platform is growing up all these commentators

00:35:36.840 just confuse you and i'm going to show how they manipulate the statistics um because i couldn't

00:35:43.640 believe how much she manipulated her stats to have the ego to yell at me i just couldn't believe it

00:35:49.400 i'm like this is incredible this is incredible okay all right now and you guys can watch this

00:35:56.680 and see this is the type of nagging and this isn't just her that makes men not want to get married 0.98

00:36:05.080 um you're ridiculous make this bigger ridiculous anyway next move on you said it's you said it's 1.00

00:36:12.500 ridiculous it's ridiculous especially coming from a girl who grew up in an affluent situation 1.00

00:36:21.000 with incredibly wealthy parents you don't know anything about struggling economically or and 0.99

00:36:28.620 it's like you do you're you're a podcast talker do you know what i mean sorry okay okay or

00:36:37.820 financially you know so to tell i'm not gonna be able to not dot i love people were trolling me

00:36:43.600 they're like pearls used to the mute button i love the mute button because what women do is they 1.00

00:36:48.120 scream louder than you and then whoever screams gets the most in yeah i mean that's how that's

00:36:54.840 how they win they scream louder and that's how that's how marriage is yeah tell a single mother 0.98

00:37:03.880 who decided to stay home and raise her children instead of work that she doesn't deserve a penny 1.00

00:37:11.000 to raise her kids after divorce is the most privileged piece of thing to say

00:37:17.240 Do you see me? I'm like standing there like this is the nagging.

00:37:21.640 Are you saying men should never get married?

00:37:23.920 How does a man know if his girl is safe to marry and won't steal his money? 0.98

00:37:29.800 And so what happens, it's up to the man.

00:37:36.920 And by the way, I am so proud of my background.

00:37:45.280 I am so proud of my father.

00:37:47.240 There is nothing this woman could say to me to make me feel bad about where I come from.

00:37:59.600 Look it, I'm sitting there.

00:38:00.920 And here's the thing. 1.00

00:38:01.840 The women, because women are bitches, right? 1.00

00:38:04.040 They clip this and because they don't like me, they think they won. 1.00

00:38:09.640 Because they want to see someone scream at me, right?

00:38:12.100 Because they can't stand me.

00:38:13.760 So this is very exciting to them.

00:38:15.880 Which is fine.

00:38:16.680 i understand that um i do understand that but

00:38:26.280 again you're showing because men aren't stupid right they know you can't necessarily turn that

00:38:31.640 off at home a lot of the commentators pretend they're like a joy to be around this is you know 0.82

00:38:37.560 there's a reason i haven't taken as many debates in the last two years um because i'm not really

00:38:43.000 fun to be around before and after these i get stressed before after i'm like a little embarrassed

00:38:49.800 i i get like the ups and the downs you definitely bring this stuff home to your boyfriends and

00:38:56.240 husbands there's no like i'm the only one that's honest about this stuff there's a reason i don't

00:39:02.180 take the high stress stuff as much anymore the only number you needed was kentucky divorce rate

00:39:07.080 dropping by 25 after 50 50 custody no other stats would have meant anything do you know what

00:39:13.000 I, I got tripped up and I said this last time because I knew she was just going to keep going 0.99

00:39:20.280 and there was going to be some number that I didn't know the name. I'm names are going to

00:39:25.160 be the death of me. I don't remember people's names. I don't remember like if someone tells

00:39:31.860 me a story that I meet on the street, or if I read a study, I'll remember the study and the

00:39:37.000 story for the rest of my life i have like a great memory for that but for whatever reason names

00:39:47.240 and they all know it they know they can get me on this and that's why i froze yeah i did so

00:39:53.800 all right so but look at when you know when she speaks like this

00:40:00.360 women are gonna see it and cheer because they're like oh this is amazing

00:40:07.000 i love seeing pearl get obliterated um but men are gonna see it and say wow she's kind of mean 1.00

00:40:14.360 you know hey except black guys they're kind of simps you know let me ask you something pearl 1.00

00:40:19.540 man would you be willing to marry a guy who's poor men because i married a guy who was in debt 0.97

00:40:25.060 and love the hell out of him best thing in my life so remember she could have said no no here

00:40:31.980 she could have said i married an xmlb baseball player and you know after the the reason i

00:40:38.580 actually clipped this so after the the debate i said if i took an l in this debate anna's husband

00:40:44.740 took two he's the biggest loser of this debate and she goes online and she says oh pearl you know

00:40:52.700 she was a good sport but she attacked my husband and i'm like anna you have never paid attention 0.85

00:40:58.400 to what men want or care about that you don't even understand how much you're humiliating

00:41:04.200 your you're humiliating your your husband by describing him this way

00:41:09.360 and do you know how i came to that conclusion i was trying to read during this so i wasn't

00:41:16.980 really listening i was i when women nag to a certain point i tuned it out but like three guys 0.94

00:41:23.120 came up to me after the show and said why did she roast her own husband i'm like anna i didn't do

00:41:30.640 this to you i i did not would you marry a guy who is broke that's very no career and i mean i dated

00:41:40.940 a homeless guy no i did it but that's what they say right i almost said that there i almost said

00:41:50.660 it i know professional debaters know how to play the audience i know they do they do and

00:42:01.700 i mean they professional debaters in a way are just professional

00:42:04.900 naggers they just know how to nag like that's their you know 1.00

00:42:10.580 in debt that's very that's very nice anna would you so i'm going back answer the question would 0.92

00:42:23.660 you marry a broke guy in debt all right so we're going back to would you would you all right this

00:42:28.680 is the nagging this is the nagging again okay so what did i say go ahead and quote me because you 0.99

00:42:36.320 make shit up yeah and you just think like it's gonna stand now remember and i'm gonna show you 0.96

00:42:41.820 guys later look at the authority she's screaming this at me she's saying i make stuff up 1.00

00:42:47.860 this is such confidence such authority 0.98

00:42:57.360 and i'm gonna show you how she manipulated her stats it's such bullshit these people they don't 0.99

00:43:08.840 they don't care that's the thing i'm totally willing to be proven wrong but what drives me nuts 0.99

00:43:14.840 is

00:43:16.140 when they say this stuff with such confidence that i'll think that they're right and then after i'll

00:43:27.180 look into their stats and i'm like why would you even quote that but they won't they'll never

00:43:32.700 submit their stats ahead of time so i can look into it so it's like anyways yeah 0.96

00:43:38.460 you've never had a strong woman challenge your bullshit assertions so go ahead and tell me what 0.98

00:43:49.800 what have i complained about okay give me the quote the nag you said women's opinions are not 1.00

00:43:55.180 taken seriously women are 85 percent women are 85 percent of consumer spending we lead when it 0.99

00:44:02.600 comes to luxury brands men have more mortgage debt car loan debt personal credit card debt

00:44:09.040 right because they're expected they're expected to provide women make 80 percent of consumer 1.00

00:44:13.540 buying decisions again if feminine and men put women put their expenses on their husband's credit 0.92

00:44:23.620 card. Yeah. I mean, when it's really cared about equality, they would provide for the men. 0.90

00:44:32.520 Come on. All right. First of all, I know you've missed me, Mark. First of all, this study was

00:44:38.860 conducted by mostly men. And when men conduct anything, they talk about their finances because

00:44:44.380 men judge themselves by the size of their wallet toys, dare I say. So you put all your toys together

00:44:51.640 in a parking lot and it makes you happy if they were to ask other questions in this study about

00:44:56.120 spirituality about the other aspects of our lives that women would have taken over i mean first of 1.00

00:45:00.680 all a woman is her sexual prime at 35 things get much better for us hey i'm 35 this is good for me 0.98

00:45:06.760 all right mark what i mean all right go nuts because i know you're gonna go nuts it's not like 0.65

00:45:11.720 men are given advice that is not on morality it's not like there's a special morality just for men 0.95

00:45:17.960 when it comes to sex and a special morality for women the sexual morality that we're given not by 0.95

00:45:23.160 me not by you by god and natural law god's natural law and also you can see it through divine

00:45:29.000 revelation in the tradition of the church is a morality for both men and women married and

00:45:33.320 unmarried and its core is chastity which is virtue men are called to it and women are called to it 0.51

00:45:38.680 and when men aren't living virtue or women aren't living in virtue both of them can become

00:45:42.600 increasingly haywire we hurt each other then the war of the sexes commences so speaking against

00:45:48.680 porn is not just about men it's about men and women yeah i think that you will lose more people

00:45:55.320 than you help because no men want to be nagged by women um about what they should and shouldn't do

00:46:01.720 and as i've said before any woman that tells men what to do is a feminist because you are applying 1.00

00:46:07.240 that you have authority and you are so again all these women right they're pushing marriage saying 1.00

00:46:12.040 marriage is so good and yet then they nag and they tell men what to do and they don't understand 1.00

00:46:18.860 why men don't it's like a circle right it's like it just never ends and i don't think you are so i

00:46:25.860 think i would say we are subordinates well i think men and women are made equal in dignity before god

00:46:32.240 and they're both made in the image of god do you believe in the natural if i can ask you a question

00:46:39.140 do you believe in the natural order of the world i absolutely do what would be a hierarchy correct

00:46:50.100 it includes order and hierarchy yes i agree with that so again it just goes back to the same

00:46:55.940 question the war of the sexes i would say is women challenging men's authority and i would argue that

00:47:03.780 you are the same as a blue-haired feminist because by nagging and telling men what to do 1.00

00:47:12.980 you are doing the same thing you are implying that you are equal which is what feminism fought for 1.00

00:47:17.860 so anyways i will unmute you but i do want to i do want to show yeah because you see everyone's

00:47:24.900 like pearl pearl is so used to muting her guests i'm like yes because whenever it's in person

00:47:32.020 they just talk over me they just talk louder they talk over me and you'll notice this on panels

00:47:41.920 right i saw this panel with destiny and it was like destiny and like three other people 0.91

00:47:46.960 and destiny is obviously the dumbest one up there he's a streamer

00:47:51.560 crashing out and you can't hear this is always how it goes because 0.99

00:47:58.500 again smart people just tend to walk away they just are like well they're not going to listen

00:48:05.380 anyway let me go you know like i asked my dad if he wanted to go to this debate and he said i'd

00:48:11.560 rather do anything else my dad is the smartest person i've ever like met in my life you guys

00:48:18.240 have no idea you guys have no like but my dad's the type like he lets people do what they want

00:48:26.700 because he doesn't want to waste his time

00:48:28.220 so that you are also interrupting me so yeah pearl muting your guests is a very uh disrespectful 0.99

00:48:40.020 thing okay i'm gonna do it again yeah again you can you can nag these simps you can't nag me 0.94

00:48:48.160 all right i don't know how much she's muting me so i if she's just going to keep muting me there's 0.91

00:48:53.760 i don't know there's a point of being able to have a discussion okay so i don't know how much she's

00:48:58.160 she's joking about muting me constantly i don't know i don't see her muting so i don't know how

00:49:01.440 much she's doing it but it might make sense to not to have the conversation if she can't have

00:49:04.400 it in good faith it's a really bad conversation it's such gaslighting because i never i always

00:49:11.440 come in good faith it's these women that just talk over you but they don't this is the problem 1.00

00:49:16.400 women go through life not understanding how unlikable they are 1.00

00:49:22.640 unpleasant horrible to be around 1.00

00:49:28.880 yeah

00:49:33.840 the problem is here's the

00:49:36.560 am i muted or not you get to go on these you go on these shows and you do over and you're kind of

00:49:42.400 used to doing it so it's um again can you hear me right now signaling are you listening can you

00:49:49.680 hear me okay um if you if you continue to mute me i don't even know when you're muting me or not

00:49:54.560 i'm not going to be able to have a conversation with you i don't think you're acting in good

00:49:57.520 faith right now so i'm gonna i'm gonna have to end the stream with you if you're gonna continue to

00:50:01.680 to mute me yeah you can't stop me look it's either submit to the rules of the

00:50:17.000 show or don't okay well I'm always waiting for these like feminine women 1.00

00:50:21.740 to show me their submission and they just never can so so are you gonna

00:50:26.560 continue to mute me during our conversation or is it going to be a good thing if you over talk me

00:50:31.920 i will unmute you yeah okay i think i think we're gonna have to close out then because you need to

00:50:37.200 let your audience decide who's over talking who all right see you see and you see a live stream

00:50:42.320 running you think it's a good idea to start doing this well i didn't do this you started talking 0.98

00:50:46.880 me modern life dating just tipped five dollars hey violet shut up shut up violet shut up violet 1.00

00:50:54.960 Shut up, Violet. Shut up, Violet. Shut up, Violet. Shut up, Violet. Shut up, Violet. Shut up, Violet. Shut up. 1.00

00:51:00.500 Yeah, because I'm not interested in you constantly projecting the disrespect that you're doing onto me, acting like I'm doing it. 1.00

00:51:08.840 You started. The whole time, I'm just trying to go out. I'm trying to-

00:51:11.800 See, it's like a need to be right. What if he says you're right? Will she stop?

00:51:17.280 This is why men don't want to get married. This is worse. Imagine.

00:51:21.220 These women are worse than being poor. 1.00

00:51:24.100 I don't know. 0.99

00:51:24.860 You guys tell me.

00:51:26.260 You guys tell me.

00:51:29.400 Would you prefer poverty or that woman in your house every day? 1.00

00:51:37.580 Only children need to mute someone will call me a child because every day I wish there was a mute button in real life.

00:51:49.720 Why aren't I married? 0.97

00:51:50.880 Well, I'm ugly. 0.96

00:51:52.180 So. 0.92

00:51:54.100 Can't help chopped, you know.

00:51:58.140 You know, I just, ugly, annoying.

00:52:08.960 I'm back, my bad. 0.97

00:52:11.820 Ugly, annoying, I choke.

00:52:13.560 You know, it's just, on stage isn't the only thing I choke.

00:52:19.440 I'm sorry.

00:52:20.280 i'm so messed up

00:52:24.460 that's not the only place i

00:52:28.520 oh my god i gotta stop i gotta stop

00:52:35.680 okay i'm sorry i'm sorry

00:52:41.400 oh my god okay

00:52:48.220 have fun and you just sit here you're trying to go out and you're trying to go have fun

00:52:52.700 then go do that okay i told you i want to go out you want to go out go see quavo what the 0.99

00:53:01.780 oh my god that's what i'm saying you twist my word like what the fuck does that even mean 0.98

00:53:06.820 what do i have a crush on quavo are you not insecure what are you talking about you think 0.99

00:53:11.300 that's what i was thinking i don't it's just like degenerate and trashy like let me go see

00:53:15.760 way though like what brought up to go to quavo rap it's like girls listening to rap hey let's

00:53:22.460 just go have fun same thing as the problem earlier let's just go have fun and you want

00:53:27.820 to make this weird vibe all the time you're spiking your cortisol your cortisol is spiked

00:53:32.440 all the time and i'm chill i'm still with the second that you

00:53:36.020 i mean this is the type of nagging that drives men to suicide this is it

00:53:44.920 so they wonder they're like why don't men want to get married well

00:53:56.920 all right so i'm gonna do one more thing today i you know i'm kind of torn because i want to react

00:54:07.140 to more parts of the debate because there was so much stuff that if you listen carefully

00:54:12.960 she admitted to

00:54:14.500 but I think the more I do it

00:54:19.620 the more it seems like I'm coping

00:54:21.160 but I fully accepted

00:54:23.400 the outcome of the debate

00:54:24.700 I fully accepted

00:54:25.720 however I do think she proved a lot of my points

00:54:29.800 so

00:54:32.300 what do you guys think

00:54:35.500 is it bad

00:54:37.600 if I do more streams

00:54:40.040 talking about the

00:54:44.100 talking about the debate but like concepts you know like this one the nagging 0.66

00:54:52.700 so anyways all right so i'm gonna read some of the stats she talked about and how they were

00:55:03.640 deceptive all right so one of the things she talked about is how women are 47 of the workforce

00:55:09.320 now she did not cite a source even though she did come at me for not saying my sources

00:55:17.600 but it is accurate but she does leave out something I think is important and I would

00:55:23.040 say this is pretty deceptive 23 to 25 percent of the 45 47 percent are working part-time that

00:55:30.000 includes stay-at-home moms who might work between one to two days a week compared to 12 to 15 percent

00:55:36.460 of men women are about 60 to 70 percent of part-time workers so it's deceptive to throw out

00:55:42.860 the 47 percent number like it's something to boast about as if men and women have reached parity and 0.99

00:55:48.820 workforce contributions the other issue too is this includes like only fans like is sucking dick 0.89

00:55:57.540 the same thing as building a bridge you know the council of economic advisors women contributed a 1.00

00:56:10.140 substantial amount to economic growth since 1970 yes primarily because of wage suppression

00:56:16.160 increasingly from 1970 onward women have been pressured into post-secondary education 0.98

00:56:21.920 i mean i guess pressured it's kind of strong i should say women want to whore at college so 0.81

00:56:27.140 they choose to go and the workforce right out of high school flooding the labor market lowering

00:56:32.180 wages employers have to offer in order to find skilled and unskilled positions sure these

00:56:37.840 employers can reinvest the extra money they make at the expense of the decline of purchasing power

00:56:43.720 of the average person into further business ventures in the stock market growing GDP

00:56:48.200 but it is GDP growth at the expense of real wage and standard of living of the average person

00:56:54.400 it's why the cigar chomping patriarchal white male capitalists in the 1960s and 70s put up 1.00

00:57:01.640 no resistance to the idea of women entering the workforce it meant considerably more profit 1.00

00:57:06.540 meanwhile good luck buying a house or an average wage in 2025 women in the workforce wasn't really 1.00

00:57:12.080 a victory it was a capitalist one feminists became cheerleaders for an economic trend that 1.00

00:57:16.840 profited the exact same people in the exact same system they claim to hate and resist

00:57:22.540 um women are responsible for 40 of gdp and notice how this is lower than 47 and again 0.99

00:57:30.140 wage suppression is a hell of a thing um this includes only fans dental hygienists

00:57:34.900 and corporate girl bosses contributing to the gdp okay 1.00

00:57:38.620 um okay but the worst one and i just couldn't believe i just could not believe

00:57:46.580 I could not believe the confidence this was spewed at and I'm going to go through more this week

00:57:56.880 but I just do what I mean like if you're going to come at me I just expect your stuff to be

00:58:05.900 really good so she cites the 440 bucks a month and her source was a blog post investopedia

00:58:15.120 That was her source.

00:58:22.040 $200.

00:58:23.440 Thank you.

00:58:24.980 When the devil can be there himself, he will send a woman. 1.00

00:58:27.820 You found out.

00:58:28.740 I know.

00:58:29.540 I know.

00:58:29.980 They treat me like they treat men.

00:58:35.060 I just couldn't believe it.

00:58:37.320 All right.

00:58:38.060 Here's the problem with the $440 per month figure.

00:58:44.120 The number doesn't include when the husband buys groceries, clothes, or pays the wife's

00:58:51.760 bills rather than sending her a cash payment. It does include husbands who are unable to pay 0.98

00:58:58.540 the court mandated amount because of unemployment or low wages. It doesn't include husbands who are

00:59:05.380 able to pay, unable to pay because they are incarcerated, sometimes for not paying child

00:59:11.520 support. It doesn't include child support payments that were not court mandated, but agreed upon in

00:59:17.720 private arbitration, the majority, which is the majority of custody agreements and are being paid

00:59:26.160 out. It doesn't include the husbands who refuse or evade child support because they feel the deal

00:59:32.040 is unfair. A paternity fraud, a one night stand where she lied, she was on the pill. 1.00

00:59:36.860 It averages the vast, vast mass of women who have one kid on the $441 per month with women who have multiple kids and get considerably more in-court mandated child support.

00:59:52.200 $441 a month is plenty in a low-income household to feed and clothe one kid in addition to whatever social support a woman may be getting for food, housing, electricity, and a plethora of other welfare. 1.00

01:00:06.860 The $441 per month figure is a sloppy number that is derived from the raw Census Bureau data that does not reflect the complexity of a variety of situations, which is why serious inquiry into the subject is done by simulated calculations, which conclude that the national average for child support payments is $721 per month, considerably more.

01:00:34.360 so like do you know what i mean i'm like why would you come at me when you're like

01:00:41.660 i would just expect your stuff to be clean but you don't see feminists quoting that figure it 1.00

01:00:50.660 also why varies widely by state for instance the average child support paid per month in

01:00:57.420 Massachusetts, according to more rigorous calculations, is $1,187. So no, women aren't 1.00

01:01:06.800 hard done in divorce court and plenty of men get financially raped and threatened in jail while

01:01:11.860 being reduced to spectators in their children's lives. Okay. Her next claim is only 60% of court

01:01:22.700 mandated child support is paid out and she took a low ball figure. It's more like 70%. And that 30% 0.99

01:01:29.520 includes the dads who pay for groceries, bills and bills rather than a cash payment. It includes

01:01:35.580 those men who refuse to pay because of a variety of reasons, paternity fraud, wife has hidden

01:01:41.900 sources of income off the books, or they barely knew the woman before she got pregnant. And it 0.97

01:01:47.200 includes the vast majority of poor F-ers who can barely afford food and shelter themselves, 1.00

01:01:53.200 much less scratch together hundreds of dollars in child support a month. Consider that the average

01:01:59.200 income for full-time workers is currently $63,000 per year. If we include U.S. adults who are

01:02:06.180 unemployed or part-time, that average drops to $50,000 per year. The crude average, Anna quotes,

01:02:14.000 amounts to $5,292 per year or 10% of the average adult income. And the actual national average

01:02:23.240 child support payment, $721 amounts to $8,652 per year or 17% of the average adult's income.

01:02:35.520 On top of which, you've got to pay rent and feed yourself. As a lefty, you'd think she would care 0.99

01:02:40.680 about the poor and the unfair and sometimes impossible financial demands the government

01:02:46.100 places upon them but she doesn't care because they're men basically 95 of custodial agreements

01:02:53.860 are made outside of the courtroom implies dads are getting effed over by a buy

01:02:58.240 implying that dad's getting effed over by a biased divorce court is a tiny minority and

01:03:05.120 barely worth mentioning. Firstly, she's slightly puffing up the numbers here. 90% of custodial

01:03:12.200 agreements are made outside the courtroom, not 95%. So we've already doubled the number. One in

01:03:18.400 10 divorces with children's custody battle goes to court and the wife gets sole custody 85 to 90%

01:03:25.580 of the time. But let's break down the remaining 90%. 49% are custody agreements made between

01:03:32.940 lawyers, mediators, where the husband surrenders full custody to the mother. This can be amicable,

01:03:38.980 but as standard procedure, the husband's divorce lawyer will advise him to agree with the

01:03:43.620 negotiation and avoid court, or is likely to lose custody anyway, in addition to a whole lot

01:03:50.840 more in terms of asset division, mandated child support, and possible alimony. Essentially,

01:03:57.060 the husband gets railroaded into surrendering custody because it is widely known that in a

01:04:04.680 biased divorce court, he is likely to lose and lose hard unless his wife is a high risk convicted

01:04:11.820 felon or meth addict or something dire. So despite her implications, no, settling outside of court

01:04:17.700 is not necessarily a sign that all is fair and well in custody agreements. Not when a biased

01:04:24.500 divorce court is cudgel with which a wife can threaten her husband. 0.92

01:04:36.640 16% are of custody agreements made out of court that see the father getting full custody of his

01:04:43.920 children, possibly because the mother is so blatantly and obviously unfit, something akin 0.97

01:04:50.280 to the examples given above. 22% are agreements made out of court either to have joint custody

01:04:56.360 or split custody. These can be amicable or like sole female custody, they can be surrenders made

01:05:02.660 by the husband because he has a lot more to lose. About 2.5% of agreements are those made out of

01:05:09.120 court with no formal designation of a custodial parent or joint or split custody without anything

01:05:16.440 on paper. The parents just figure out the shit for themselves. So the real number is 2.5% 0.99

01:05:22.340 has no court intervention. But you see, when they scream,

01:05:27.540 they scream these numbers at me. I never really know. It's like,

01:05:34.120 you know, it takes me a day to figure out what they're quoting. Anna tried to accuse Jimmy

01:05:42.560 door of some type of me too accusation allegedly you may have lost the battle but you won the war

01:05:47.120 i was wrong about you and i'm sorry thank you for supporting that look it is what it is right i don't

01:05:53.840 really have an ego in this what what's important to me is that the information is accurate and

01:06:00.240 i get really frustrated because these commentators want to be right so bad they don't care if it's

01:06:04.880 accurate and if you care about accuracy you not only look at the facts the data and the statistics

01:06:10.240 but you go interview people in the industries right and you're going to get a a very different

01:06:19.120 view when you interview people and i do this all the time i never stop working like i i went to

01:06:24.560 dog daycare and i'll ask the people at dog daycare like what percent of the people that come here

01:06:29.920 are women because i had to when i i don't put my dog in daycare all the time but i just um

01:06:34.720 when i when i travel right so that you know again that's what's important to me all right so no the

01:06:46.440 90 figure which anna says is 95 is not the gotcha she thinks it is in over half of cases the husband

01:06:52.700 may be agreeing to settle out of court because he knows that if he goes before a judge he's likely

01:06:57.560 to get effed over it is certainly well known in law circles that the husband does his damnedest

01:07:02.780 to avoid court. She then goes on to claim women get custody 40% of the time using a lowball figure 0.99

01:07:10.800 from a small sample taken from Wisconsin in 2008. Other data suggests full custody is up to 80% of

01:07:18.060 the time in which most data around 50% to 60% of the time, female full custody for all custody 1.00

01:07:25.960 agreements, not just those decided in court. It varies year by year, jurisdiction by jurisdiction

01:07:31.000 in custody battles in court. It's awarded to the mother 85% to 90% of the time.

01:07:36.940 40% of the time is shared custody. You have to cut that in half. In all agreements,

01:07:41.600 including out of court, it's 20% to 25%. 40% is BS. Her intern did the sloppy math from the

01:07:47.200 previous two figures. She implies shared custody is 50-50 when in fact it's 20% to 25% and it can

01:07:54.540 be 60, 40, 70, 30, 80, 20. It's not quite the ideal situation in the cases, she says. It's

01:08:01.320 interesting to know that they need to whitewash divorce statistics when most people acknowledge

01:08:06.280 divorce courts are biased. One more point on the in-court and out-of-court thing. If divorce courts 1.00

01:08:12.220 weren't prejudiced against men in favor of women, you'd likely see more than 10% escalated to court.

01:08:17.360 um so again this was this kind of choked me up because

01:08:22.040 do you know what i'm saying like she's quoting these numbers and they sound super off but

01:08:27.900 and you know she's screaming at me and i'm the type i want to look at you know i want to look

01:08:33.280 into them but i can't on a stage right because she refused to submit them ahead of time

01:08:37.820 do you know what i'm saying like so anyways it's it's just a little a little annoying a little

01:08:46.200 annoying. Um, okay.

01:08:58.620 Um,

01:09:16.200 oh here's the next one all right she claimed a massive study out of massachusetts looked at

01:09:22.440 24 000 divorces only eight percent of the cases did the men ask for custody to make it seem like

01:09:27.880 men don't give enough about their children and wouldn't want 50 50 custody even if offered 0.61

01:09:33.320 this is bs she gleaned from online misinformation rather than an actual study it's derived from the

01:09:39.640 the 1989 Report of Gender Bias Committee of Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court. It's nearly

01:09:47.200 40 years old with some controversy around it. The report did not look into 24,000 divorces,

01:09:53.020 not even close. It looked at the data from Middlesex Divorce Research Group, which in turn

01:09:58.320 examined 700 divorce cases, not 24,000. The inflated number comes from bullshit spewed in 0.97

01:10:04.060 online forums. Of the 700 cases, the MDRG found that only 8.3% of them did the man formally 0.97

01:10:12.500 request for sole legal custody. The 8.3% has been criticized for four decades. In those cases,

01:10:19.320 men specifically went for sole custody because they deemed the mother unfit to take care of the 0.96

01:10:24.940 kids. A further 14.5% of fathers requested joint custody, a total 22% where the father made the

01:10:33.120 specific formal request, already much larger than 8%, and they did not need to make a formal

01:10:38.760 request in all cases. On top of which, there's all the cases where fathers voluntarily surrendered

01:10:44.420 custody, either amicably or under duress, and in addition, large number of cases where the father

01:10:50.860 was awarded sole or joint custody, he did not need to formally put in a request. These cases where

01:10:55.820 sole and joint custody were awarded, but not requested, weren't counted in the 8% and the 14.5%

01:11:02.140 statistics. Modern criticism of the report also points to the low statistics that may have been

01:11:08.920 from a sense of futility, even putting in the request since judges are likely to rule in favor

01:11:13.980 of the mother. She presents this 8% figure as if only 8% give a shit about their children. Ergo, 0.99

01:11:19.320 they should be compelled to pay child support because they wouldn't take the 50-50 custody,

01:11:24.520 even if they were offered it. This was paternally false. It's just 8% who specifically put in the

01:11:30.520 request for sole custody. This seems intellectually dishonest. I note she deliberately omits the date

01:11:35.800 of the stat and is vague about the Massachusetts stores. She might be deliberately trying to

01:11:40.700 deceive the audience at this point since the 24,000 is bullshit and she distorts an out of 0.99

01:11:45.940 context 8%. Either that or she's just ignorant. Either way, the 8% statistic is from a 700 case 1.00

01:11:53.520 a sample size and has not been replicated since. Hence, they need to go back to 1989 to find it.

01:12:03.940 All right. She says women can't enter the workforce because they don't have a recent 1.00

01:12:11.620 job history. That's the next claim. Only 20 to 25% of married women with children and stay-at-home 1.00

01:12:17.180 moms um these days are stay-at-home moms these days 75 to 80 percent of moms do have recent job 0.99

01:12:23.980 history women need to face the consequences of their choices they can get married they can stay 0.99

01:12:28.460 home um okay etc so it's just do you know what's frustrating to me this always happens to me

01:12:37.820 it's why i hate debates it's um they say their sources so confidently and then i look into them

01:12:43.980 after. I look into them after. And there's always a catch. Always a catch. Um, all right, let's see.

01:12:58.300 um

01:13:08.140 i could go through the women getting fat in marriage but i think we all have eyes here 0.89

01:13:25.380 um she said that men get equally as fat um 0.98

01:13:29.440 you know there's conflicting studies on that i just have eyes i mean i see all the women getting 0.99

01:13:39.060 fat after um i could go through them if you guys are really interested but to me i just that's too

01:13:46.300 in the weeds.

01:14:15.320 Let's see.

01:14:15.920 Let's see.

01:14:16.200 Let's see. I think those are the ones I'm going to go through tonight. Anyway, so for the people

01:14:36.660 that actually care oh wait hold on i'm gonna we're we're in the works of making a website

01:14:49.560 and this website is gonna have every single stat i've ever quoted ever so when i do these debates 0.85

01:14:56.480 i can just say it's on my website because i'm just sick of this bullshit i you know they gotta 0.95

01:15:04.840 they gotta submit their sources ahead of time i cannot look into i cannot look into these claims 0.89

01:15:11.320 in the middle of a debate i can't i you know so in the future i'm gonna insist i tried to insist

01:15:19.800 um but i was trying to i said okay fine you know

01:15:23.080 but i i do think there's people on here that actually are curious what the numbers are so

01:15:35.680 it's coming um we're if any app developers we're accepting quotes now i'm hoping to make a decision

01:15:43.900 by the end of the month on our documentary editor and um app developer so if anybody's out there

01:15:51.560 that does that for a living um just pearly things at gmail.com or um doug at the audacity

01:15:59.800 network.com doug is the one i hope i might have just got something oh wait doug is the one who um

01:16:10.120 is gonna choose i i said i trust you doug

01:16:13.480 domestically someone asked

01:16:20.460 regarding to someone's asking me if i have a sales position

01:16:26.020 um not maybe soon but no not right now right now i just need an app developer

01:16:34.240 and i need a documentary editor and doug is the final decision maker on that

01:16:42.520 so um but you need to work fast i i some people are telling me they need like two weeks for a

01:16:50.240 quote i'm like uh you're just not going to be my part you're not that interested

01:16:53.820 um i don't think are women capable of being their own mental point of origin 0.99

01:17:00.720 yeah this is what i'm saying i'm like the debates need to have a fact checker panel because

01:17:07.960 the worst part of this whole thing was I had them all right there again. But I realized when I was

01:17:14.480 up there, I thought I was so smart. I'm like, I'll have all my facts right here. And then I realized

01:17:26.020 that I had so many, I had so many sources right there that I couldn't find any. Do you know what

01:17:35.660 I mean? I'm like, I was like, no, I didn't think about that. Did I write all the papers? So I'll

01:17:46.220 tell you, I'll tell you my process. I write my shows. I write my openings. I write my closings.

01:17:57.080 Sometimes Doug MPA will help me find stuff. I mean, he's done a few scripts for me.

01:18:02.300 um but i get the most intelligent like when it comes to fact checking

01:18:10.400 i'll look into stuff but i i certainly double check my work right i mean i get the best and

01:18:18.960 the brightest um like you know there's a lot of men that have been fired from academia

01:18:25.440 that like i mean they're really really intelligent but they they get blackballed in these industries

01:18:33.100 and they can show you how they manipulate the stats so yeah i mean i've i have a guy like that

01:18:39.660 on our team but i don't hide it all of these places do right so i'm more honest right i just

01:18:46.600 say, look, this is what it is. Yeah, I know. I know. I learned. Oh, trust me. I bruh. You

01:19:04.000 don't understand. I spent days researching this. So anyways, you know, what do you guys think?

01:19:28.220 Do you think I should just do a different topic moving forward? But there's so many clips that I

01:19:33.780 can just make monologues off of. Do I want to do surrogacy? No. No. I do need to drink more water.

01:19:51.280 I do.

01:20:01.880 Anyways.

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Pearl - January 16, 2026

The Type of Nagging That Drives Men To Suicide

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