Pearl - There Are Some Things NOT EVEN Jesus Could Fix

00:00:00.000 all right what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so today um i am going to be reacting to

00:00:05.720 if anyone tells you christian women's standards are attainable show them this but before i start

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00:00:30.720 it's to the point of starvation like let's i mean that's oh and today i'm just to give credit where

00:00:35.320 credit's due ep extra traded but you know what i mean like i'm used to eating three times a day

00:00:39.840 and i'm not i wouldn't even consider waiting overnight for the better thing and i think some

00:00:43.420 women may find themselves in that area i didn't think i'd have to be single in my 30s or i didn't 1.00

00:00:48.740 think i have to be single and go to my friend's wedding and wait so they're telling these girls

00:00:52.800 past the area of like no i'm really longing for this thing no but it is better to wait for 1.00

00:00:57.360 the better thing okay and just notice because this is a woman that's decently attractive and

00:01:01.760 a lot of guys would and so it's very insulting to the i don't know if he's he might be above

00:01:07.200 average but just in general a lot of men started as below average so they kind of identify with

00:01:11.760 that it's insulting to them because they're like you're still gonna make me have you when you're

00:01:16.560 older and uglier and fatter and more used really because the satiation of delay for the right thing

00:01:22.400 is going to serve you so much more than yeah but what is the right thing yeah yeah being faithful

00:01:29.020 in singleness discipline in the waiting yeah so they're talking about themselves up to this point

00:01:32.680 and then they just go straight into like you know hey you gotta wait for the best possible man

00:01:39.140 the problem is i know these this is bad a double reaction whatever we're gonna try it today

00:01:44.980 if it's insufferable let me know in the comments yeah christian girls again like i've like i've

00:01:50.740 said before. I know them. I'm friends with them. I have conversations with them. Not these two,

00:01:55.680 but the women that they're speaking to. If they're single in their 30s, they passed up dozens,

00:02:02.960 if not hundreds, of the exact men that they just described in this previous section.

00:02:08.860 The man that is godly, loves Jesus, all about him, would be a good husband.

00:02:15.920 they pass those guys up and now these girls are telling women to wait even longer pass up even 1.00

00:02:22.920 more guys because they're not getting to the root of the problem if these girls are still single 1.00

00:02:27.680 it is not that their spiritual standards are too low it's that they have a whole other set of 0.99

00:02:36.160 standards their earthly standards okay it's that they want to be fucked by chad and tyrone that's 0.99

00:02:41.620 it. I mean, women, the church tries to moralize biology and they try to shame women into marrying 1.00

00:02:48.600 men they're not attracted to. And sometimes it works and it's better for society. So they should 0.93

00:02:52.800 do that, but it's not going to change biology. And when you give women choice, we always act 1.00

00:02:57.460 in our biological imperative, always. And they're checking guys for that first. And then they check 1.00

00:03:03.140 for spiritual attributes like these, as I talked about. The guys that they've been skipping over

00:03:08.880 that whole time are exactly the men that they talk about and these women are encouraging women 0.60

00:03:14.480 to wait even longer so in the hopes that they will find a guy who is both you know who's got

00:03:21.300 all of the world ladies just at this point you don't like the godly men go go date chad and

00:03:26.360 tyrone you could probably get one their looks level not that not like you know a godly one

00:03:32.620 but you know the things i want that they're not talking about and he's got all the spiritual

00:03:36.860 stuff that they are talking about. That's what's going on in the minds of the women who are hearing

00:03:41.280 this. So they're encouraging these women to wait longer. Look, I've told this story before, but

00:03:45.700 there's one particular Christian woman I know who's now, I think she's 30 now, but I was talking

00:03:53.980 to her about this and she's like, yeah, I'm struggling to find a guy who meets my standards

00:04:00.480 for spirituality. And basically all these criteria that these gals are talking about, 0.95

00:04:05.880 Same thing. And she said, you know, I just, I can't find it, you know, because we were talking about why, why are you still single? And, you know, I was like, okay, when you date, the answer is because women don't like men that much. That's the answer. Women don't like men that much. That's it. And women say that and men don't believe us. But no, we don't like men that much. Just as what it is. You know, eat that all. 1.00

00:04:29.120 how often is it that you reject the guy versus he rejects you or you dump the guy versus he dumps

00:04:35.580 you she's like about 80 of the time it's me i i leave the guy i'm like okay why why do you leave

00:04:41.080 him because we don't like men that much that's it that's it she's like well he's those guys just

00:04:46.800 aren't on my level spiritually and so yeah that's that's just that seems to be the problem is i just

00:04:51.540 can't find guys who are at my level spiritually. So I told her, okay, we briefly went to the same

00:04:59.860 young adults group, like small group. I was in the guys group chat. These guys were incredibly

00:05:07.480 spiritual. They're constantly encouraging each other every day. They're picking each other up

00:05:12.260 and praying for each other. They're throwing Bible verses into the chat. They're talking about like,

00:05:16.580 hey, what, which events are we going to go to at the church and all of that? How are we going to

00:05:19.820 support? How are we going to help? How are we going to serve? Those guys, every one of them

00:05:24.020 was exactly the thing that she described. And she was right next to them in a life group.

00:05:30.580 And I know that several of them were interested in her. So I asked her, I was like, okay, but what

00:05:35.560 about that guys in that life group that we were in together? And she went, yeah, but.

00:05:40.700 So she's trying to fight her biology, just is what it is. Do you want to force women to marry 1.00

00:05:45.000 men they're not attracted to or not some people say yes some people say no i mean but then we're

00:05:50.480 not happy anyway we marry men we're attracted to and then they're too attractive and they cheat

00:05:54.780 it's just a circle we're never happy it's just these guys are you know okay that's why you're

00:06:01.380 single it's because you have two lists of stuff that you're looking for and you're only willing

00:06:05.380 to talk about one of them you have a a worldly attributes list and those guys did not meet it

00:06:12.020 But when people talk in public about it, or you ask these girls questions about it,

00:06:16.660 the first thing they bring up is the spiritualist and say the guys fall short there.

00:06:20.400 That's what's actually going on.

00:06:21.880 And that is happening in every Christian girl's mind when they hear this podcast. 0.71

00:06:25.920 They hear this podcast and they're not even thinking of it themselves.

00:06:30.840 Like this girl that I was having this conversation with, she was not thinking about that.

00:06:34.140 She was not consciously processing the idea that she had worldly standards for these men. 0.52

00:06:39.900 None of the Christian girls listening to this podcast are processing that consciously either. 0.97

00:06:44.900 That's just a subroutine that's running all the time. 0.98

00:06:48.660 Yeah, conservative churches. 1.00

00:06:51.320 These churches leave women meticulously single. 0.98

00:06:54.220 And the churches become so time consuming.

00:06:56.700 You don't have time for a guy.

00:06:57.980 I was involved in one of these churches when I was younger.

00:07:00.920 And it's a lot.

00:07:01.660 You go to Bible study twice a week.

00:07:04.220 And on top of that, there's a lot of events.

00:07:06.180 There's like small groups.

00:07:07.540 And I actually left and I went on this retreat.

00:07:10.300 I saw all the women were single and old and none of them had men.

00:07:15.600 And I remember sitting there and thinking, oh, hell no, I'm not doing this.

00:07:18.880 I left the surface unconsciously.

00:07:21.940 Once you press them and you start uncovering and asking questions, they will admit to it

00:07:26.700 eventually, like in that story.

00:07:28.740 But they're not conscious about it.

00:07:31.640 They're not thinking about it.

00:07:32.880 Again, white guys, they always do plausible deniability.

00:07:35.240 They're not thinking about it.

00:07:36.220 They know.

00:07:37.000 They know. 1.00

00:07:37.540 women know we're just full so when they hear this podcast the unconscious stuff 1.00

00:07:44.260 stays in place and they add this is a layer on top of that they add the spirituality on top of

00:07:50.420 the worldly stuff that they're unconsciously looking for and it keeps them single so this

00:07:54.980 is an encouragement to keep women single later and later and later into their lives don't think this 0.82

00:07:59.780 is a great idea i love that analogy actually of course you don't but women like to be single as

00:08:04.180 as long as possible because we hate men it just is what it is like after you're done eating like

00:08:08.580 a really bad meal you're like why did i just do that to myself and i feel like sometimes with

00:08:11.780 dates it's like why did i just talk to that guy for a couple weeks like yeah that was a total

00:08:15.820 he's a total waste of my time because he was kind of gross because he wasn't attractive

00:08:19.620 look the overwhelming majority of what makes a woman feel things about a man has to do with

00:08:27.400 attractiveness they're framing it as spirituality they're framing it as though it is a deep-seated

00:08:33.740 uh, Holy Spirit driven, godly protective instinct, right? This is the Holy Spirit speaking to you

00:08:41.220 all the time. Whatever your feelings are about the man, that is, that is God directing and guiding

00:08:45.260 and speaking to you. So you've got to listen to those feelings. That's how they're framing it.

00:08:49.240 So if you don't feel it, if you feel the ick from the guy, you got to listen to that ick and you got

00:08:54.420 to, got to get away from this guy. The overwhelming majority of those feelings are just attraction.

00:08:59.740 height 90 percent yeah his status is attractiveness yeah how often do these guys do these gals go on

00:09:07.300 dates with guys that they're super attracted to and they feel those weird red flags those weird

00:09:14.760 i don't know about this guy kind of things i haven't seen that play out very often usually

00:09:21.280 if they're really attracted to a guy they feel really really good about him regardless of what

00:09:27.280 You know, the actual Christian guys at the church are looking at this guy going, why is she with him? 0.95

00:09:35.260 I'm all of the things that she said she wanted, and now she's going out with this absolute fart stain of a human? 0.99

00:09:43.520 What the heck is that? 0.90

00:09:44.540 But she feels great about that guy.

00:09:46.740 Yeah, because we lie, and we lie to everybody, including ourselves.

00:09:49.900 We're not honest about who we're attracted to.

00:09:52.560 Right, because he's attractive.

00:09:53.520 attractiveness is bleach on red flags that's such a good point that is so true that's exactly what

00:09:59.220 it is is yeah the attractiveness totally changes the way that she sees the guy's qualities

00:10:05.160 jeremiah 17 9 the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately sick who can understand it

00:10:11.280 exactly why are you ladies telling other women to follow their heart why are you telling these

00:10:18.560 ladies to follow the thing that will lie to them more than anything else but it's not lying that's 0.99

00:10:23.380 that's also a miss you know conception it's not lying because that's our biology so the race 0.81

00:10:28.600 survived you know this guy he's got blue eyes he's conventionally it's a good looking guy he he's

00:10:34.280 only here because the mothers reproduced with the best looking men that we could historically

00:10:39.080 until you had to force us not to mr fartstein is not trying to save her or to serve her

00:10:44.500 yeah that's a good point mr fartstein is very very confident fartstein bro has options he looks

00:10:53.220 good does he actually follow god no not really but he feels great to be around yeah it's a good point

00:11:01.620 i saw something other day and it says in order to have peace that surpasses understanding you 0.65

00:11:04.900 have to give up your need for understanding i was like shoot christian women just say things that

00:11:10.420 make no sense isn't that real like okay i want the peace that what in order to have peace that

00:11:16.500 surpasses understanding you need to give up the need for understanding so let's just devolve down

00:11:23.700 to the lowest common denominator of our emotions so we don't need to understand things we don't

00:11:28.580 need logic we don't need reason we don't need to look at what's on paper with a person no we need

00:11:33.700 to respect what feels right yeah this is terrible advice this has been a damaging experience it's

00:11:40.740 like being on a train and missing all the stops because they feel like it's not their stop yeah

00:11:44.740 i know google maps said that this was my stop and that i need to get off here but you know i just i

00:11:51.920 feel something you know in that uh in that's that stop that's right under bell town you know yeah

00:11:59.960 it's a great great great area just feels right i'm gonna stop there let's keep going red delta over

00:12:07.140 on um discord with that in mind why do we keep peddling the following your heart trope for

00:12:13.400 anything in reference to the uh jeremiah 17 9 right your heart is deceitful above all things

00:12:19.080 yeah why well because these women like we said earlier have no oversight there are no men in the 0.99

00:12:27.960 room yeah because men will put them with productive men and we'll just date criminals and losers and 0.99

00:12:34.500 the hottest guy available i mean we're they say men only want one thing women only want one thing

00:12:39.400 okay i am gonna end this here uh you know go check out his channel seems like interesting

00:12:46.360 dude uh ep extra okay um if you can like the video um subscribe to the channel and um i'll see you

00:12:53.240 you next time.

Pearl - September 21, 2026

There Are Some Things NOT EVEN Jesus Could Fix

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