Pearl - These Moms Have Raised CRIMINALS

00:00:00.080 like that's utterly failing as a parent i mean we all take ellis in life so i'm not judging

00:00:05.040 what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we're reacting to another day of women 0.97

00:00:10.640 taking l's and today we'll watch women taking the biggest l ever which is raising a criminal 1.00

00:00:16.880 we all know what single mothers do best and that is to raise terrible members of society so let's 1.00

00:00:25.360 see hey i am on my way to the prison yeah and and the thing is um women love criminals so maybe 1.00

00:00:33.920 she'll fall in love with like a guard or something and all kinds of feelings i don't really can't

00:00:38.400 even describe them and i'm here i'm shaking what's your son do ma'am i don't know why i don't really

00:00:45.280 know i think it's just a flood of emotion i mean i can tell you why it's a big l like i'd be kind

00:00:50.240 kind of pissed too but i can't like put my finger on exactly what it is i'm feeling but i'm gonna

00:00:56.500 leave my phone my watch in the car i don't know i've never done yeah you're not supposed to put

00:01:02.780 it on tiktok though i think that's where you're going wrong we played board games and it played

00:01:07.740 board games the whole time what did your son do what's he in the slammer for the last person to

00:01:12.840 leave single mothers raise criminals domineering mothers overbearing mothers yeah 1.00

00:01:19.840 does that get easier i didn't cry the whole time

00:01:25.300 his hands were clean he's always a grease monkey working on cars and stuff i can't remember the

00:01:32.460 last time i saw his hands clean why is he in jail are you gonna are you not gonna give us the tea

00:01:39.540 you're gonna cry on camera but no tea it was about halfway through i was like buddy your hands are

00:01:44.060 clean he was like yeah i noticed it when i was at the reception center his hands were like all the

00:01:48.140 way black even though he's washed up does that get easier no i didn't cry the whole time all right

00:01:55.440 let's use next another mother it's here it's visit day for mace which is our oldest son

00:02:00.880 i am here this is what a little kid prison looks like uh oh man your kid's in juvie you must have

00:02:07.780 really messed him up you must have really messed him up he is 17 he'll be almost 18 by 10 he can 0.60

00:02:13.460 barely make it oh my god he gets out in october god willing um they give us you know every other

00:02:20.160 week for two hours sometimes every like six months i do a family visit where you can bring

00:02:25.500 like a sibling or something but it's usually just me that comes but yeah we're here and i'm pretty

00:02:30.820 excited to be able to see my baby i don't care how old he is or what he's going through he's my baby

00:02:35.680 it's a little bittersweet though it's like part of you is grieving that you're missing out on the

00:02:40.120 last part of his childhood but this is what life looks like right now so i'll talk to you in a

00:02:44.740 minute all right let's see who's next lots of women raising criminals i'm sitting here waiting 1.00

00:02:50.860 to go into a prison to visit my son nobody's telling me what their sons did it's just like

00:02:58.600 you know just wondering do these young kids realize what they are doing when they in the

00:03:06.560 streets and making these decisions that have these severe consequences. And when you do something

00:03:14.260 like go to prison, do you realize that you are imprisoning your families too? Now I have to go

00:03:22.060 get strip searched and go in here. And it's just irritating and sad because my son has been locked

00:03:31.860 up for over a year and this is my first time visiting him because i don't want to run up and

00:03:38.960 down the street to a prison yeah i mean this is an alb i don't know how you're putting it on the

00:03:43.180 internet i mean you shouldn't have raised a criminal you know i mean i think some kids are

00:03:47.800 just kind of born rotten but i think a lot of the time it's how they were raised you know just not

00:03:52.820 good parents i don't i don't want to see you behind bars i don't want to do the jail visits

00:03:59.720 the jail poses who wants to see that child like that but then you feel like you're not a good

00:04:05.140 mother you're not just you know a dad would say you know i must not have been a good father

00:04:10.040 you know they can kind of accept when they're bad at something women we we don't have that same 0.54

00:04:15.380 effect he's my only child but i want him to know the stress that he's putting on the family by

00:04:22.540 making these decisions because they have consequences and now these consequences are

00:04:28.360 affecting me his kids and it's just frustration because i really do i love my son my only child

00:04:36.560 my only child and it's very upsetting because his father was in prison for 29 years okay well

00:04:44.580 what did you think was gonna happen you have a kid with a criminal i come on that's the other

00:04:49.900 thing about women that have kids with criminals like what do you what do you think the kid is 1.00

00:04:52.980 going to grow up to be he's got criminal genetics you know all my brothers are engineers my dad's

00:04:59.040 an engineer you know kind of apple doesn't fall far from the tree here and you were given the

00:05:03.620 tools not to make the same mistakes decisions well that's what happens when you have a kid

00:05:10.120 let me refresh this just got out of visitation i was there for seven and a half hours visiting

00:05:17.380 my son for my first day and seeing him in over almost two years. I cried when I saw him walk

00:05:25.100 through the door. He looked so good. He looked so healthy. He gained some weight. He looked

00:05:31.120 really, really good. I was able to give him a hug and a little kiss on the cheek. And we sat down

00:05:38.940 and we had vending machines that we could get snacks. I like how women, even when the son's 1.00

00:05:46.560 in prison they're still looking for snacks it's kind of like when you know what church is for

00:05:51.480 women they always have snacks drinks um you have to bring a bag of quarters and the the food is 0.99

00:05:57.660 kind of pricey so I went through 40 I wonder if that's a whole industry selling stuff to the

00:06:03.340 single moms visiting their sons in prison I bet that's a whole industry pretty quickly just the 1.00

00:06:07.940 two of us so but uh we were able to visit for quite a while um then we played you know played

00:06:15.080 some car games uno um played scrabble and then we put a puzzle together so that was about and we

00:06:22.440 did take a walk outside too and their little courtyard so it was a it was a good day it was

00:06:28.900 a good day um i'm gonna go back and see him again at 8 a.m and uh that'll be my last day before i

00:06:35.420 head back uh to the midwest um where i live you know flying home so i'm so glad that i just what

00:06:42.940 what is it what did your kid do ma'am does it say in the comments it's hard to deal with

00:06:47.620 good job okay we're saying good job mama for visiting your son and they got to come see him

00:06:53.480 and i'm not saying she shouldn't visit but we're gonna say good job like that's utterly failing

00:06:59.740 as a parent i mean we all take ellis in life so i'm not judging but that isn't it like i just

00:07:04.860 want to objectively say that's an l that is an l just good he looks really healthy he looks good

00:07:10.220 so anyway um i hope he he knows how much i love him and we had a lot of good laughs today it was

00:07:18.340 it was great it was so great to see him and um he he told me he admitted that he was nervous this

00:07:26.320 morning because he was afraid he didn't know what to talk about with me because he hasn't had any

00:07:31.560 real deep conversations with anybody for almost two years you know he can call me on the phone

00:07:37.560 uh he can call his family and friends on the phone but it's like a 10 minute phone conversation

00:07:42.660 that's cut off so to actually sit with his family member for you know seven and a half hours he was

00:07:49.040 just really worried but then i think he really eased up and really relaxed and realized that

00:07:54.180 that i'm that you know let's just see how the day goes see how the day goes so um anyway there's

00:08:02.180 cope he has 29 months left what did he do in 12 days i think so he's he's he's almost halfway

00:08:09.240 there um and what did he do and he'll be able to be released and i mean they're letting all

00:08:15.560 these criminals out nowadays what did he do get out of here uh so um now it helps me when i once

00:08:22.640 i get home i can you know have a better understanding where he's located and what what

00:08:28.100 he's doing and he he did he did uh tell me that he is safe there so he is safe he just makes sure

00:08:35.360 he doesn't owe anybody anything uh no food he doesn't borrow anything from anybody um he uh

00:08:42.380 always makes sure that he buys his own food and his own toiletries and he's got his system going

00:08:48.660 to where you know um they leave everyone leaves him alone so so uh it's good so anyway i don't

00:08:57.220 know if he was getting beat up in jail. Would you really tell your mom if you were getting

00:09:01.080 beat up in jail? Okay. Did you say what he did? Oh, I said yes. So it looks like she was a single

00:09:10.300 mom. Okay. Well, it looks like her other kid is doing all right. Well, all right. You know,

00:09:17.720 I wish you luck with your kid, but that is an L, you know, and sometimes you got to eat L. 0.79

00:09:21.900 So, you know, she's in good spirits. Let me know what you guys think in the comments. Do you know

00:09:26.140 anybody whose son or daughter has committed a crime, how long did they get in jail or prison?

00:09:31.280 Let me know in the comments, like the video, and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - March 05, 2026

These Moms Have Raised CRIMINALS

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