Pearl - December 28, 2025


They Regret Not Having Kids - NO EGGS!

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Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

202.57

Word count

1,615

Sentence count

19

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, I talk about the things I regret about not having kids, and why I don't think other women regret not having them. I also talk about my own regrets, and how I deal with them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah um you didn't want kids because you're fat and that's that's what it comes down to they want
00:00:04.080 to eat more than they want children so they don't want kids wow guys welcome to my reaction series
00:00:08.880 today we are doing a reaction series on women who regret not having kids do you know what i don't
00:00:15.360 think women i think maybe i'm too much of a pessimist i don't think women regret not having 1.00
00:00:20.800 kids um i think they regret not being able to be clouded from the kids you know um that's kind of
00:00:26.960 what i've seen i you know because usually the women that don't have kids just like they're at 1.00
00:00:31.600 that point they're so selfish that i i just don't think they generally can think of anyone else
00:00:36.560 right the one thing that i do regret about not having kids by this age at 35 and not to say
00:00:41.920 just because i don't have them to say something that benefits her but not the kids like putting
00:00:47.920 the kids in um charge of her like being lonely and stuff it doesn't mean i don't want my new i
00:00:55.840 do when the time is right it will happen i know for sure i'll be a great mother loving mother
00:00:59.520 festive mother my kids if you wanted to you would and that's you know because women that want 1.00
00:01:05.680 children really they'll make compromises on their mate choices in order to get the kids so they 0.97
00:01:10.640 usually just don't want them that bad be so cute i just can't wait to see them so cute love them
00:01:14.960 already does kind of suck thinking about like i'm like when my kid is 20 i might be like 60 possibly
00:01:20.720 i don't know i might be older might be younger give or take but right now i'm 35 and i'll never
00:01:25.600 have little age gap like me and my mom had like my mom had me at 20 so we're 20 years apart so i
00:01:32.180 can still kick it with her at 35 it's going to look different with my it's gonna be all old
00:01:37.140 everyone's gonna be old out it does scare me because in this day and age you know we're just
00:01:41.820 dropping like flies in our 50s and our 60s and it makes me think great gotta take care of yourself
00:01:47.340 because you're gonna be an older parent and i definitely want to see my kid you know graduate
00:01:51.640 high school go to college get married and i gotta take care of myself like yeah she's fat so she 1.00
00:01:59.880 doesn't want kids because if she wanted it she wouldn't be fat all right let's see the next one 1.00
00:02:04.200 one of the biggest regrets i have in life is not having children i spent a lot of my life saying
00:02:09.320 that i didn't think i really wanted kids but turns out i did and i think it would have been a good
00:02:14.600 mom to be honest having said that i am turning 40 this year and in you know yeah um you didn't
00:02:21.480 want kids because you're fat and that's that's what it comes down to they want to eat more than
00:02:25.080 they want children so they don't want kids order for me to move forward and focus on enjoying life
00:02:30.520 after i turned 40 i have to accept it and that's something i am working on it's one of those things
00:02:38.200 that is so huge to have not she's just too ugly to have done in your life and yet you can't change
00:02:46.200 it so i have to accept it and i have to find ways to just enjoy life and not spend too much time
00:02:54.200 focusing on the fact that that is not part of my life now of course i could just get as many cats
00:03:01.560 as possible and that is something i will work on because that is something i can control
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00:04:04.180 I'll see you there. Something that I've been thinking about more and more as a 34 year old
00:04:09.020 woman is how like certain things that I'm able to do biologically are coming to an end, specifically 1.00
00:04:14.900 like the ability to have children. And I've always been very like, I don't want kids. This is not for
00:04:19.680 me. I don't, I've never had that desire to be a mother or to have a family in that sense. But more
00:04:25.080 and more I'm thinking like, am I going to be looking back on my life as like a 45 or 50 year
00:04:29.320 i just want a woman to say this and not be overweight like she's still 20 30 pounds overweight 1.00
00:04:34.760 i just want one one old woman going like you should have done that and then even though you've 1.00
00:04:39.960 been staunch in your choice that doesn't mean that you won't change your mind it's one of those
00:04:43.400 things there's like okay and then what do you do then like or like what if i change what if i'm like
00:04:47.720 42 and i'm like i really want kids i guess you could just buy one just stir by children oh my god
00:04:56.280 so my nail tech just told me her biggest life regret and implied that I'm about to make the
00:05:02.160 same mistake because I'm child free so I'm at the nail salon and I'm chatting with her side note but
00:05:08.240 I've been trying to be better about talking to strangers and she's doing my nails and she looks
00:05:13.640 at my ring and she goes are you married and I say yeah for seven years and then of course the next
00:05:19.920 question is do you have any kids and i say no no kids she she doesn't want his kids like if we 1.00
00:05:27.040 understood our biology a little better in the way that we feel we could make better like life choices
00:05:32.880 um but we don't understand it so like if you if you're with a guy that long he you don't want his
00:05:39.760 kids you got to break it off move on he's like instantly surprised and she goes seven years no
00:05:44.720 kids why not and i realized i don't really know what to say um i am like i don't know i just don't
00:05:53.200 want them so then she launches into her story she was married no kids now divorced and she said that
00:06:02.240 she loved money too much which is why she didn't have kids and now she's stuck with money and no 1.00
00:06:08.080 one to love and again it's her making it everyone else's problem um there's no guarantee your kids 0.99
00:06:16.320 will love you and i i think it's a bad mindset for parents to like you don't know if your kids will
00:06:21.680 even like you when they're an adult so like you're not supposed to have kids to get anything out of
00:06:27.120 them i'm just sitting there like trying to pick out my nail polish the question got in my head
00:06:33.680 though and I was like wait a second what is my primary motivation for not wanting kids
00:06:39.820 is it money um so I go home and I ask my husband and he's like I think your primary motivation
00:06:49.600 is spontaneity you love our lifestyle you love that we can just go and do things and not have
00:06:55.160 to worry about anything except for like finding a dog sitter for our dog and yeah that's exactly it
00:07:03.840 so now I want to know like what is your primary motivation for not wanting kids and what do you
00:07:10.640 say to people when they like what does it say in the comments um I would kill to be lonely with
00:07:16.080 money I'm childless by choice I'm 57 married for 30 years I don't explain myself I just shrug
00:07:21.200 I mean, the real answer is they don't want to reproduce with average men.
00:07:25.120 They'd rather just use a beta for resources or use a beta for sperm and then divorce after. 1.00
00:07:32.500 I've never had the desire is more like dreaded the thought of being strapped with all that
00:07:35.620 responsibility.
00:07:36.780 And I think some women don't have kids and are happy with it. 1.00
00:07:39.400 I mean, it's just like it being, I don't know how you can't see the mothers today and not
00:07:44.400 think that some of them really shouldn't be parents, you know?
00:07:49.000 so anyways guys make sure you like the video subscribe to the channel bring
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