Pearl - November 24, 2025


This Gen Z Woman Has NEVER Had A BF

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Length

7 minutes

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217.09

Word count

1,527

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Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In Gen Z, we are seeing an increase in women that have never had boyfriends at an older and older age, and today we are going to hear from a woman who claims she is 25 and has never had a boyfriend.

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00:00:00.000 And it might sound selfish, but also I think it's okay to be selfish when you're in your
00:00:03.260 young years and your twenties. Like what if I want to be able to do whatever I want to do?
00:00:07.120 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So in Gen Z women, we are seeing an increase 1.00
00:00:12.780 in women that have never had boyfriends at an older and older age. And today we are going to
00:00:18.160 hear from a woman who claims that she is 25 and has never had a boy and she is going to explain
00:00:24.660 it. So let's go here. I'm turning 25 next week and I've never had a boyfriend. And I feel like
00:00:29.340 with this british vogue article coming out i have a lot to say so often when i say i'm there
00:00:33.280 but the british vogue article is saying is having a boyfriend embarrassing so again we're gonna get
00:00:39.100 with her um she's a mid not an upper mid i'd put her at a low i'd say a solid mid young mid um 0.96
00:00:46.940 hoop earrings like she heavy makeup doesn't seem not like promiscuous so let's let's see her 1.00
00:00:53.780 explain it why and i get i think it's usually long-term situationships and women don't need 0.99
00:00:58.660 much attention because we get the validation from social media so we don't need it from like one man
00:01:02.900 as much sympathy card i get the how could no one ever dated you like oh my god like that's so that
00:01:09.460 sucks i bet she's gonna find a way to blame the men and say oh i don't want to date them which 1.00
00:01:13.380 is true to some extent uh there are tons of men i'm sure she's turning down however it doesn't 0.95
00:01:18.740 change the fact that the men she wants aren't picking her when really it's all about autonomy
00:01:23.460 and having a choice like i could have a boyfriend if i wanted no i'm not trying to be girl no that's
00:01:27.540 sure she's 25 like i mean when you're that age yeah go older and uglier they'll do it hockey but 1.00
00:01:34.180 like i have said no to multiple men in my life not to say i don't want one but on my totem pole
00:01:39.300 of things that are most important to me yeah gen z women rank men seventh in importance having a
00:01:45.380 boyfriend has always come last and some people may think this is untraditional actually a lot
00:01:49.460 of people in my close life look down upon me for this reason thinking when is she gonna find a
00:01:54.260 a boyfriend when is she gonna settle down for me like 35 i mean that's when all women do it's 1.00
00:02:00.500 always been i have the power to do whatever i want and letting go of that freedom is scary to me yeah
00:02:06.820 and that's and that's what i try to explain it's not necessarily that women are bad people 1.00
00:02:10.980 it's that we enjoy having the freedom to do whatever we want because as a person people crave
00:02:16.420 the like not being controlled people don't like living with like a thumb over their head not saying
00:02:21.540 men always do that but that's like the perception right and when you marry somebody there is a level
00:02:27.620 of freedom that both parties are generally giving up um anyways long story short so now she's gonna 0.81
00:02:37.140 she's gonna want to stay single and use her youth on herself and get into all the free parties all 1.00
00:02:41.940 the free events because there she's a certain level of attractiveness she's gonna get into a 1.00
00:02:46.100 lot of doors that she would have to turn down if she had a boyfriend and if it's the right person
00:02:49.940 in the right relationship you won't have to let go of that many freedoms but it's also about
00:02:54.020 compromise and like there are things you'd have to give up i can't just drop everything and leave
00:02:58.020 the country and it's like a time thing you know what if she wants to travel one weekend or spend 0.99
00:03:02.260 it with her friend relationships require a certain amount of time a week you're spending together
00:03:06.660 drop of a hat if i have someone else to consider and it might sound selfish but also i think it's
00:03:10.660 okay to be selfish when you're in your young years in your 20s like what if i want to be able to do
00:03:15.860 do whatever i want to do god forbid i don't think it's lame to have never had a boyfriend here and
00:03:21.380 and you know what i actually don't have a problem i don't think it makes me right as long as you
00:03:24.860 can pay for it but usually our independence somebody else has to pay for and it's usually
00:03:30.680 a simp the family um the friend zone someone else is paying for this independence because most women 1.00
00:03:37.760 are not independent i think i've met like maybe one or two women that aren't reliant on the men
00:03:42.520 in their life less of a person sometimes i've gotten gotten comments like what do you know
00:03:46.860 you've never been in a relationship babe don't look down upon me because i've never been in a
00:03:51.340 relationship because you know how many friendships that have lasted since the age of two for me
00:03:54.820 yeah but it's different and i'm sure she i'd ask her what's your longest situationship do you know
00:04:00.760 how many boys i have tried to date do you know how many times i've been burnt like i know a lot
00:04:05.980 and i think i got pumped and dumped she said because again sixes get ghosted the hardest
00:04:11.560 it i don't write the rules of the game i just tell you what they are um okay that's the part
00:04:17.120 that annoys me the most is people looking down upon me for never having experienced a real
00:04:22.540 boyfriend girlfriend relationship that doesn't mean that i don't know the green and red flags
00:04:26.580 to look for they're not mature at all and then i haven't seen at all so if you're anything like me
00:04:30.660 and i've never found love i also babes like i'm a hopeless romantic just because i haven't found
00:04:35.420 it doesn't mean to know and usually what happens is the hopeless romantics watch too many like
00:04:39.460 disney movies so they think you know they think love in this relationship a lot of trad cons kind
00:04:44.920 of like they paint it as this thing that's going to change so much uh but really it doesn't you're
00:04:50.380 the same person so if you're an unhappy person single you're going to be unhappy in a relationship
00:04:54.640 if you're a happy person single you'll be happy in a relationship um assuming it's like the right
00:04:59.640 one on it i just have to be ready for it and that's something i'm working for looking towards
00:05:04.360 there you guys seen this trend in gen z women um the younger ones uh pushing it off uh further and
00:05:10.600 further and further if you have put it in the comments um but yeah i just think there's a
00:05:15.240 really bad stigma around like oh my god even write a boyfriend what's wrong with you i i think the
00:05:19.000 stigma is going away i mean i think every year like i didn't feel like i matured as a person
00:05:26.200 until my mid to late 20s i think a lot of life decisions for me like delayed things and i think
00:05:35.160 gen z's it's gonna be even later where um you know gen z's not moving out of their parents
00:05:40.360 house they're not getting into real relationships um they're not getting houses neither are
00:05:46.920 millennials but i i would say young millennials and gen z i'm two months away from gen z i'm
00:05:52.520 i'm barely a millennial and um i i think our generation did not become adults um until late
00:06:00.840 like i think millennials kind of did it in their mid-30s early to mid-30s gen z i i think it's
00:06:06.200 going to be mid-30s um because i think every year marriage houses all the big stuff is just going
00:06:12.360 to keep getting pushed off with every generation i don't see any indication this trend's going to go
00:06:17.160 a different way like why does something why does something have to be wrong with me there doesn't
00:06:21.800 have to be anything wrong with me i don't know well because good products get bought so generally
00:06:26.680 speaking either your standards are too high or something's off you're crazy um and you can get
00:06:32.120 a cute guy like i i'd say she's cute enough to get a good guy so then they're going to be like 0.92
00:06:37.160 what's wrong in the inside um and you know there's stuff wrong with all of us uh but you know so it
00:06:44.120 just is what it is anyways guys can you let me know what you think in the comments have you seen
00:06:48.200 this trend of gen z women pushing off relationships and adulthood in general along with millennials 0.99
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