Pearl - November 24, 2025This Gen Z Woman Has NEVER Had A BF
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In Gen Z, we are seeing an increase in women that have never had boyfriends at an older and older age, and today we are going to hear from a woman who claims she is 25 and has never had a boyfriend.
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And it might sound selfish, but also I think it's okay to be selfish when you're in your
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young years and your twenties. Like what if I want to be able to do whatever I want to do?
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What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So in Gen Z women, we are seeing an increase
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in women that have never had boyfriends at an older and older age. And today we are going to
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hear from a woman who claims that she is 25 and has never had a boy and she is going to explain
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it. So let's go here. I'm turning 25 next week and I've never had a boyfriend. And I feel like
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with this british vogue article coming out i have a lot to say so often when i say i'm there
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but the british vogue article is saying is having a boyfriend embarrassing so again we're gonna get
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with her um she's a mid not an upper mid i'd put her at a low i'd say a solid mid young mid um
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hoop earrings like she heavy makeup doesn't seem not like promiscuous so let's let's see her
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explain it why and i get i think it's usually long-term situationships and women don't need
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much attention because we get the validation from social media so we don't need it from like one man
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as much sympathy card i get the how could no one ever dated you like oh my god like that's so that
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sucks i bet she's gonna find a way to blame the men and say oh i don't want to date them which
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is true to some extent uh there are tons of men i'm sure she's turning down however it doesn't
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change the fact that the men she wants aren't picking her when really it's all about autonomy
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and having a choice like i could have a boyfriend if i wanted no i'm not trying to be girl no that's
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sure she's 25 like i mean when you're that age yeah go older and uglier they'll do it hockey but
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like i have said no to multiple men in my life not to say i don't want one but on my totem pole
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of things that are most important to me yeah gen z women rank men seventh in importance having a
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boyfriend has always come last and some people may think this is untraditional actually a lot
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of people in my close life look down upon me for this reason thinking when is she gonna find a
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a boyfriend when is she gonna settle down for me like 35 i mean that's when all women do it's
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always been i have the power to do whatever i want and letting go of that freedom is scary to me yeah
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and that's and that's what i try to explain it's not necessarily that women are bad people
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it's that we enjoy having the freedom to do whatever we want because as a person people crave
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the like not being controlled people don't like living with like a thumb over their head not saying
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men always do that but that's like the perception right and when you marry somebody there is a level
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of freedom that both parties are generally giving up um anyways long story short so now she's gonna
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she's gonna want to stay single and use her youth on herself and get into all the free parties all
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the free events because there she's a certain level of attractiveness she's gonna get into a
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lot of doors that she would have to turn down if she had a boyfriend and if it's the right person
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in the right relationship you won't have to let go of that many freedoms but it's also about
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compromise and like there are things you'd have to give up i can't just drop everything and leave
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the country and it's like a time thing you know what if she wants to travel one weekend or spend
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it with her friend relationships require a certain amount of time a week you're spending together
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drop of a hat if i have someone else to consider and it might sound selfish but also i think it's
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okay to be selfish when you're in your young years in your 20s like what if i want to be able to do
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do whatever i want to do god forbid i don't think it's lame to have never had a boyfriend here and
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and you know what i actually don't have a problem i don't think it makes me right as long as you
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can pay for it but usually our independence somebody else has to pay for and it's usually
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a simp the family um the friend zone someone else is paying for this independence because most women
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are not independent i think i've met like maybe one or two women that aren't reliant on the men
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in their life less of a person sometimes i've gotten gotten comments like what do you know
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you've never been in a relationship babe don't look down upon me because i've never been in a
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relationship because you know how many friendships that have lasted since the age of two for me
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yeah but it's different and i'm sure she i'd ask her what's your longest situationship do you know
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how many boys i have tried to date do you know how many times i've been burnt like i know a lot
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and i think i got pumped and dumped she said because again sixes get ghosted the hardest
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it i don't write the rules of the game i just tell you what they are um okay that's the part
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that annoys me the most is people looking down upon me for never having experienced a real
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boyfriend girlfriend relationship that doesn't mean that i don't know the green and red flags
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to look for they're not mature at all and then i haven't seen at all so if you're anything like me
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and i've never found love i also babes like i'm a hopeless romantic just because i haven't found
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it doesn't mean to know and usually what happens is the hopeless romantics watch too many like
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disney movies so they think you know they think love in this relationship a lot of trad cons kind
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of like they paint it as this thing that's going to change so much uh but really it doesn't you're
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the same person so if you're an unhappy person single you're going to be unhappy in a relationship
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if you're a happy person single you'll be happy in a relationship um assuming it's like the right
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one on it i just have to be ready for it and that's something i'm working for looking towards
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there you guys seen this trend in gen z women um the younger ones uh pushing it off uh further and
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further and further if you have put it in the comments um but yeah i just think there's a
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really bad stigma around like oh my god even write a boyfriend what's wrong with you i i think the
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stigma is going away i mean i think every year like i didn't feel like i matured as a person
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until my mid to late 20s i think a lot of life decisions for me like delayed things and i think
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gen z's it's gonna be even later where um you know gen z's not moving out of their parents
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house they're not getting into real relationships um they're not getting houses neither are
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millennials but i i would say young millennials and gen z i'm two months away from gen z i'm
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i'm barely a millennial and um i i think our generation did not become adults um until late
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like i think millennials kind of did it in their mid-30s early to mid-30s gen z i i think it's
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going to be mid-30s um because i think every year marriage houses all the big stuff is just going
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to keep getting pushed off with every generation i don't see any indication this trend's going to go
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a different way like why does something why does something have to be wrong with me there doesn't
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have to be anything wrong with me i don't know well because good products get bought so generally
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speaking either your standards are too high or something's off you're crazy um and you can get
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a cute guy like i i'd say she's cute enough to get a good guy so then they're going to be like
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what's wrong in the inside um and you know there's stuff wrong with all of us uh but you know so it
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just is what it is anyways guys can you let me know what you think in the comments have you seen
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this trend of gen z women pushing off relationships and adulthood in general along with millennials
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